First Contact with The Child Within

We need a child within us who loves us fully.

2017-02-04T21:13:00.000+00:00

We really need a child within us who loves us fully. We need a child within who understand us fully. We need a child within who can adequately translate the needs behind our cries…and our coughs…and our silences.We need our child within who is now open to learn all they can learn from us, and we need to learn all this from our relationship with our re-birthed child within.We need parents who recognise that once they’ve brought me into the world they must devote their lives to me, body and soul. We need parents who realise that all their purposes in existing must be performed in light of how it can help us grow, help us mature, and help us thrive.

We need parents who have spent years in preparation for our creation – years before the sperm and the egg that created me ever met. We need parents who devoted their lives to the betterment of themselves in mind, body, and spirit. We need parents who entered the deepest and darkest depths of themselves and resolved the most painful traumas of their own past. We need parents who no longer live awash in the wounds foisted on them by their own parents. We need parents who have become fully enlightened and no longer store hidden parts of their ravaged selves in their unconscious.

We need parents who no longer wish for their own parents to rescue them, and secretly expect me, their future offspring, to pick up the torch where their own parents left off. We need parents who can instead devote the whole summation of their beings toward the betterment of us.

We need parents who have had me so that they can give, and not take, from me. We need parents who had children out of no other motive than their desire to give back to the earth. We need the kind of parents who realise fully just how inherently selfish having children is. We need the kind of parents who would normally never have children…

We need parents who don’t lie to us – or to themselves. We need parents who can be straight with us. We need parents who can be straight with each other, and have no hidden agendas for us. We need parents who don’t use us as a pawn in their relationship games with others, and most especially each other.

We need parents who can let us be who We are – and not brag about me. We need parents who do not see me as an extension of themselves, and thus do not say “thank you” when someone compliments our beauty. We need parents who instead say, “yes, you’re right,” and don’t secretly feel self-gratified by my wondrous self.

We need parents who do not live in fear of their own deaths. We need parents who live in the moment, because they have integrated the truths of their past.

We need parents who are youthful in spirit and healthy in body, and who will not abandon us to death before We are ready to stand on our own as an autonomous adult.

We need parents who raise us in a safe and comfortable and enriching environment – not in the midst of a civil war or a starvation-torn land or a silent room with a television.

We need parents who, if we are a boy or a girl, wouldn’t dare circumcise our genital organs. We need parents who devote themselves to our health. We need parents who don’t drink alcohol or take drugs or take unnecessary medications. We need parents who are sober at all levels of their being. We need parents who would never physically hurt us, for any reason.

We need parents who love children, and can easily relate to them – and don’t instead force us to relate to them. We need parents who let us grow at our own pace, and let us be a kid when We need to be a kid. We need parents who don’t expect adult responsibility of us before we become an adult.

We need parents who marvel at the preciousness of our existence and realise that we are the epitome of our unbounded spirit. We need parents who laugh because they feel the joy in our life. We need parents who know how to have honest fun, and want to include us in it.

We need parents who have resolved their addictions. We need parents who are not avoiding the true light of day by being addicted to me. We need parents who do not project their blocked past onto us, but instead see me for exactly for who We are. We need parents who do not expect me to love them. We need parents who know the difference between love and need. We need parents who are experts on self-nurturance, and by extension know how to nurture us.

We need parents who are emotional adults through and through – and we need two of these parents. And I need these two parents to also love each other. We need these two parents to be fully in accord with their holy role as the warden of our growth. We need two parents who are both willing to go to all lengths to give their best for us. We need two parents who are both willing to die for us.

We need parents who can progressively let us go as we progressively mature. We need parents who can follow our lead and listen to our revisions of the plan. We need parents who do not go into withdrawal when We don’t love them.

We need parents who let me get angry when they make errors or do inappropriate things with us – and We need parents who change their behaviour so they stop making these errors. We need parents who do not punish us for our honest and healthy reactions, and love us anyway.

We need parents who understand the meaning of healthy human sexuality. We need parents who will in no way use us to meet their own unresolved sexual or love needs. We need parents who will shield us from as much of the hellish impurity of the world as they are humanly able to do. We need parents who are willing to sacrifice all their own personal comforts to create a nourishing environment for us.

We need parents who take no credit when the work is done.

We needed parents who would have been our role models.

We need a child within who can adequately translate the needs behind our cries…and our coughs…and our silences.

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Our Child within becomes a Recovery Revolution For Creativity, Intuition and True Self-identity

2016-01-07T13:50:00.000+00:00

In each of us, there is a child within. Our child within is perfect and undamaged. We have all had times of difficulty as children and many of us have experienced childhood problems of disrespect in our lives. look back one hundred years, at that time people then believed in all sorts of things we know now are false. One hundred years hence people will look back and conclude the same about us; that’s why we have to shed some old and inadequate fixations we consider genuine. You are suffering because of them.

We are much more complex than we have been taught to accept. Yet when we have uncovered the proper blueprint we will see ourselves as more easily understood, and understanding our life is what leads us to be and accomplish all those things we need to recover. There is a natural path to recover as much happiness, creativity, achievement and ways of “knowing” as we are presently capable of.

Our approach to life has become tortuous and unnecessarily so. Many aspects of our true nature are disregarded and even buried, which may be our biggest problems.

Our Child within is about the kind of child that may be roaming around on the floor next to our feet exploring its expanding new world. Yet it is also about the child that is unquestionably within you. This child probably stopped exploring years ago, for it is has been wrongly cribbed in and covered over by the oppressive insistence on a limited version of what and who you really are and can be.

Our Child within is the one we want to rescue in the very young and the one we want to resurrect in ourselves.

Our Child within becomes a Recovery Revolution For Creativity, Intuition and True Self-identity is not about imposing, or layering over some old notion of reality; it is essentially re-learning and then revealing the true and very different essence of our intrinsic nature. In the twenty first century we no longer know who and what we really are, for we have forgotten what we are born with.

Traditionally we have been taught that we become human by way of “socialisation,” which as you know is defined as beginning in infancy with the modification of an individual’s behaviour, the adoption of performance patterns of the surrounding culture. But in truth that is only how we become inhabitants of the immediate society not how we individually become human.

There is an unseen but astonishing rhythm to the pattern of inner human growth that we all go through. We mistakenly view human growth by considering its pattern of development as a kind of obvious continuum, an unbroken line from infancy through puberty and beyond. Yet, it is not a seamless continuum but a series of dissimilar stages with stops and starts, lurches and even pullbacks and reversals, all in a series of clear-cut, distinct periods of time. And much of this is unseen. Our job is to uncover this hidden inner world of the child within!

We are wired to survive; which means we seek to avoid pain instead of choosing to feel good.

2015-11-06T14:32:00.001+00:00

We are wired to survive; which means we seek to avoid pain instead of choosing to feel good. It's this hard wiring that keeps us alive but it also holds us back from living our Recovery.

Re-capturing our Child Within.

2015-10-26T00:42:00.000+00:00

We've spent so much time trying to fit in, bending ourself out of shape in order to belong.... We've been like a chameleon for such a long time, changing to suit our environment....Now We are not sure who we are!.... Somewhere in all the pretending, role-playing and adjusting of our behaviour in order to be liked.. We've lost ourself.... When we sit quietly and peer into our inner world We don't always like what we see.... We have become something, someone else.... We've traded away our heart and our mind in the mistaken belief we would be accepted, loved and included.... In truth We've lost who we are.... What the world now sees is a mirage.... we have lost our clarity, our original innocence, virtue and even our purpose.... We have attached ourself to the lives of others, believing our own life not to be worthy.... for the first time, we can see that this is not true... we are indeed whole.... It's time to stop changing and adapting in order to fit in.... As we look more closely we can see the child that we once were... still resides deep in our constructed self, occupying a unique place in our mind.... It's the part of us that knows real strength lives in kindness and compassion.... It's the part of us that doesn't need to pretend.... The child we once were is untainted.... It's the part of us that isn't corruptible, that isn't afraid to be itself.... Why should we hide the kind, perfect nature of our child?.... Why should we hide that beautiful innocence, that wide-eyed wonder that the child within us brings into our life?.... We are tired of believing that being an adult means denying our nature and spirit and becoming something else the world finds more acceptable.... We now allow our lightheartedness, humour and the eternal curiosity of our mind not afraid to grow to come to the fore.... We step willingly into the mental pose of our child hidden within.... From this vantage point we see ourself and the world differently.... This is a kinder, softer place.... we can feel more patience and compassion when we connect with this part of us.... We enjoy the gentle strength of our intuitive voice.... It brings with it more reason and compassion.... We meditate to spend more time in this place.... Our child Within has so much to teach us and we have so much to learn.... We are ready and willing to grow....And we do.... Connecting with our child within enables us to become more balanced, recovered and whole.... Going forward we walk hand-in-hand with our child within ....We will no longer neglect our child within for we have learned to come home to ourselves....

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Contacting the child within is a process of diverting one's scattered forces into one powerful channel

2015-10-09T13:03:00.001+01:00

Contacting the child within is a process of diverting one's scattered forces into one powerful channel to the centre of your being.

One of the main reasons why we see so many people unhappy when we start studying with them

2015-10-09T12:49:00.001+01:00

One of the main reasons why we see so many people unhappy when we start studying with them is because they are so focused on the reasons and causes of their problem, the pathology.

And while it’s all well and good to know where our problem came from, and very important to know where our problem came from, if you only stay focused on that (the pathology), we will not recover.

To recover, in any way – medically, mentally, physically, emotionally – we’ve got to have an ideal outcome or scenario or destination that we are heading towards.

This isn’t to say that we should become SO fixed on an outcome that we are inflexible and rigid – on the contrary! we can believe in our life-flow. But, if all we do is spend time focusing on what the problem is, we leave no room open for the solution.

This isn’t as easy as “being positive”. We would not be so naive as to say that a positive attitude is enough to make you feel better or heal – especially from extreme illness. However, what I am saying is that without an enquiring positive and optimistic outlook, the possibility of healing and recovering is almost 0%.

When we focus only on the problem – we get MORE of the problem. And it becomes not only the story of our life, but also our IDENTITY. And when our identify – as in - who you are is now the problem, the likelihood of recovery reduces significantly.

If we wish to recover, if we wish to live an extraordinary life, if we wish for miracles and to be able to SEE solutions – we must go looking for them. This means that we become aware of the pathology, understand the pathology and then set our minds on to an outcome of recovery, rather than on the pain of the problem.

This is not a prescription for a recovery bypass of our pain. We must feel our pain fully in order for it to be grieved. We cannot will our pain away or just wish for life to get better.

The body responds to what your mind feeds it. Healing is a medical process, an emotional process, a physical process. Our attempts at healing can only be started if we return to our source our child within.

Anyone who has come back from massive failure or had a recovery in his or her life operated this way.

Returning to our childhood.

Can you? I’m curious.

The essence of loving kindness is being able to offer happiness.

2015-09-22T09:07:00.001+01:00

The essence of loving kindness is being able to offer happiness. You can be the sunshine for another person. You can’t offer happiness until you have it for yourself. So build a home inside by accepting yourself and learning to love and heal yourself. Learn how to practice mindfulness in such a way that you can create moments of happiness and joy for your own nourishment. Then you have something to offer the other person. If you have enough understanding and love, then every moment — whether it’s spent making breakfast, driving the car, watering the garden, or doing anything else in your day — can be a moment of joy.

If our parents didn’t love and understand each other

2015-09-22T09:03:00.001+01:00

If our parents didn’t love and understand each other, how are we to know what love looks like? … The most precious inheritance that parents can give their children is their own happiness. Our parents may be able to leave us money, houses, and land, but they may not be happy people. If we have happy parents, we have received the richest inheritance of all.

This is why you check your email many times a day!

2015-09-22T08:58:00.001+01:00

Sometimes we feel empty; we feel a vacuum, a great lack of something. We don’t know the cause; it’s very vague, but that feeling of being empty inside is very strong. We expect and hope for something much better so we’ll feel less alone, less empty. The desire to understand ourselves and to understand life is a deep thirst. There’s also the deep thirst to be loved and to love. We are ready to love and be loved. It’s very natural. But because we feel empty, we try to find an object of our love. Sometimes we haven’t had the time to understand ourselves, yet we’ve already found the object of our love. When we realise that all our hopes and expectations of course can’t be fulfilled by that person, we continue to feel empty. You want to find something, but you don’t know what to search for. In everyone there’s a continuous desire and expectation; deep inside, you still expect something better to happen. That is why you check your email many times a day!

Distracting ourselves from our suffering.

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Often, we get crushes on others not because we truly love and understand them, but to distract ourselves from our suffering. When we learn to love and understand ourselves and have true compassion for ourselves, then we can truly love and understand another person.

Understanding is love’s other name.

2015-09-22T08:51:00.000+01:00

Understanding someone’s suffering is the best gift you can give another person. Understanding is love’s other name. If you don’t understand, you can’t love.

We accept others as they are, and then they have a chance to transform.

2015-09-22T08:48:00.001+01:00

If you pour a handful of salt into a cup of water, the water becomes undrinkable. But if you pour the salt into a river, people can continue to draw the water to cook, wash, and drink. The river is immense, and it has the capacity to receive, embrace, and transform. When our hearts are small, our understanding and compassion are limited, and we suffer. We can’t accept or tolerate others and their shortcomings, and we demand that they change. But when our hearts expand, these same things don’t make us suffer anymore. We have a lot of understanding and compassion and can embrace others. We accept others as they are, and then they have a chance to transform.

Our Child Within is contact in progress

2015-09-22T08:31:00.002+01:00

Our Child Within is contact in progress that we mistakenly think we have finished The Child Within you are right now is none transient, not fleeting and stable as all the personalities you’re ever been. The one constant in our lives is our child within.

The authentic self is the Child Within made visible.

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The authentic self is the Child Within made visible.

The process of meeting our child within requires courage.

2015-09-15T22:21:00.000+01:00

The process of meeting our child within requires courage. It requires strength. It requires faith that you will be taken care of after you pull off your bandaid.

When you do this process, it will make you feel lighter. You will have more room in your life for what you really want and need. It will speed up your ability to create the life that you want. And you will experience less anxiety and stress.

It’s a scary process, but well worth doing.

Meeting The Child Within: Don’t hide behind email, texts, phone calls or social media.

2015-09-15T22:17:00.000+01:00

Meeting The Child Within: Don’t hide behind email, texts, phone calls or social media. Unless it would bring you danger – have the courage, respect and honour to meet in person with the person or people you need to talk to.

It can be scary to change - but boy oh boy is it worth it to shed our masks and show us our Child hidden Within.

2015-09-15T22:12:00.003+01:00

It's scary to change. Change requires courage. And the reality is - you don't need to be fixed, what your child within is looking for is to be revealed. Life is about stepping more and more into who you really are and knowing that life will support who you really are.

It can be scary to change - but boy oh boy is it worth it to shed our masks and show us our Child hidden Within.

It's scary to put our real self our child within out there.

2015-09-15T22:07:00.001+01:00

It's scary to put our real self our child within out there.

When we are growing up, generally - we are not rewarded for being our true selves and learn to keep our child within hidden. So we learn how to adapt. We learn about how we "should" be and end up putting on masks to hide our child within.

The strategies we learn to hide at a young age are carried over into adulthood and eventually the strategies we use to hide produce so much pain - that we must change.

Our child within often has a complex disrespect history may be easily triggered or “set off” and is more likely to react very intensely.

2015-09-03T10:36:00.000+01:00

Our child within often has a complex disrespect history may be easily triggered or “set off” and is more likely to react very intensely. Our child within will struggle with self-regulation (i.e., knowing how to calm down) and will lack impulse control or the ability to think through consequences before acting.

As a result, our complexly disrespected child within will behave in ways that appear unpredictable, oppositional, volatile, and extreme. Our child within who feels powerless or who grew up fearing an abusive authority figure may react defensively and aggressively in response to perceived blame or attack, or alternately, may at times be over-controlled, rigid, and unusually compliant with adults.

If our child within dissociates often, this will also affect our behaviour. We will seem “spacey”, detached, distant, or out of touch with reality. disrespected child within is more likely to engage in high-risk behaviours, self-harm, unsafe sexual practices, and excessive risk-taking such as operating a vehicle at high speeds. We often engage in illegal activities, such as alcohol and substance use, assaulting others, stealing, running away, and/or prostitution, thereby making it more likely that they will enter the justice system.

Our Child Within who has experienced disrespect often have difficulty identifying, expressing, and managing emotions, and have limited voice for feeling states.

2015-09-03T10:22:00.001+01:00

Our Child Within who has experienced disrespect often have difficulty identifying, expressing, and managing emotions, and have limited voice for feeling states. We internalise and/or externalise stress reactions and as a result experience significant depression, anxiety, or anger. Our emotional responses become unpredictable or explosive. Our child hidden within may react to a reminder of a traumatic event with trembling, anger, sadness, or avoidance. We who have a complex history, reminders of various traumatic events may be everywhere in our environment. We react often, react powerfully, and have difficulty calming down when upset. Since the triggers are often of an interpersonal nature, even mildly stressful interactions with others may serve as trigger reminders and result in intense emotional responses. Having learned that the world is a dangerous place where even loved ones can’t be trusted to protect you,our child within are vigilant and guarded in our interactions with others and are likely to perceive all situations as stressful or dangerous. While this defensive posture is protective when we are under attack, it becomes problematic in situations that do not warrant such intense reactions. Alternately, many of us also learn to “tune out” (emotional numbing) to threats in their environment, making them vulnerable to re-victimisation.

Difficulty managing emotions is pervasive and occurs in the absence of relationships as well. Having never learned how to calm ourselves down once we are upset, many of us become easily overwhelmed. We become so frustrated that we give up on even small tasks that present a challenge. We who have experienced early and intense events also have an increased likelihood of being fearful all the time and in many situations. We are more likely to experience depression .

When we listen, child within speaks. When we obeys our inner voice, our child acts. This is meditation.

2015-08-31T11:43:00.000+01:00

These are a few simple suggestions for people who are willing to make an experiment with themselves.

You can discover for yourself the most important and practical thing any human being can ever learn-how to be in touch with your child within. All that is needed is the willingness to try it honestly. Every person who has done this consistently and sincerely has found that it really works. Before you begin, look over these fundamental points. They are true and are based on the experience of thousands of people.

1. Our child within is alive, always has been and always will be.

2. Child within is perfect knows everything.

3. Child within can do anything.

4. Child within can be everywhere - all at the same time. (These are the important differences between child within and us manufactured human beings).

5. The child within is invisible-we can’t see or touch our child. But our child is here, is with you now, is beside you, surrounds you, fills the room or the whole place where you are now, is in you now, in your heart.

6. Child cares very much for you, is interested in you, has a plan for your life, has an answer for every need and problem you face.

7. Our Child Within will tell you all that you need to know, will not always tell you all that you want to know.

8. Child will help you do anything that it asks you to do.

9. Anyone can be in touch with our child within, anywhere and at any time, if the conditions are obeyed. These are the conditions: - To be quiet and still - To listen - To be honest about every thought that comes - To test the thoughts to be sure that they come from our child within - To obey So, with these basic elements as a background, here are specific suggestions on how to listen to our child within:

1. Take Time Find some place and time where you can be alone, quiet and undisturbed. Most people have found that the early morning is the best time. Have with you some paper and pen or pencil.

2. Relax Sit in a comfortable position. Consciously relax all your muscles. Be loose. There is no hurry. There needs to be no strain during these minutes. our child cannot get through to us if we are tense and anxious about later responsibilities. 3. Tune In Open your heart to your child within. Either silently or aloud, just say to your child in a natural way that you would like to find a plan for your life-you want an answer to the problem or situation that you are facing just now. Be definite and specific in your request.

4. Listen Just be still, quiet, relaxed and open. Let your mind go “loose.” Let your child within do the talking. Thoughts, ideas, and impressions will begin to come into your mind and heart. Be alert and aware and open to every one.

5. Write! Here is the important key to the whole process. Write down everything that comes into your mind. Everything. Writing is simply a means of recording so that you can remember later. Don’t sort out or edit your thoughts at this point. Don’t say to yourself: This thought isn’t important; This is just an ordinary thought; This can’t be guidance; This isn’t nice; This can’t be from my child; This is just me thinking…., etc. Write down everything that passes through your mind: Names of people; Things to do; Things to say; Things that are wrong and need to be made right. Write down everything: Good thoughts - bad thoughts; Comfortable thoughts - uncomfortable thoughts; thoughts of thoughts; Sensible thoughts - “crazy” thoughts. Be honest! Write down everything! A thought comes quickly, and it escapes even more quickly unless it is captured and put down.

6. Test When the flow of thoughts slows down, stop. Take a good look at what you have written. Not every thought we have comes from our child. So we need to test our thoughts. Here is where the written record helps us to be able to look at them. a) Are these thoughts completely honest, pure, unselfish and loving? b) Are these thoughts in line with our child within c) Are these thoughts in line with our understanding

7. Check When in doubt and when it is important, what does another person who is communicating with a child within think about this thought or action? More light comes in through two windows than one. Someone else who also wants the child withins plan for our lives may help us to see more clearly. Talk over together what you have written. Many people do this. They tell each other what guidance has come. This is the secret of unity. There are always three sides to every question-your side, my side, and the right side. Guidance shows us which is the right side-not who is right, but what is right.

8. Obey Carry out the thoughts that have come. You will only be sure of guidance as you go through it. A rudder will not guide a boat until the boat is moving. As you obey, very often the results will convince you that you are on the right track.

9. Blocks? What if I don’t seem to get any definite thoughts? Guidance is as freely available as the air we breathe. If I am not receiving thoughts when I listen, the fault is not our child within. Usually it is because there is something I will not do: - something wrong in my life that I will not face and make right; - a habit or indulgence I will not give up. - a person I will not forgive; - a wrong relationship in my life I will not give up; - a restitution I will not make; - something my intuitive voice has already told me to do that I will not obey. Check these points and be honest. Then try listening again.

10. Mistakes Supposing I make a mistake and do something of my intuitive voice that isn’t right? Of course we make mistakes? We are humans with many faults. However, our child within will always honour our sincerity. will work around and through every honest mistake we make, will help us make it right. But remember this! Sometimes when we do obey our child within, someone else may not like it or agree with it. So when there is opposition, it doesn’t always mean you have made a mistake. It can mean that the other person doesn’t want to know or to do what is right. Supposing I fail to do something that I have been told and the opportunity to do it passes? There is only one thing to do. Put it right with God. Tell Him you’re sorry. Ask Him to forgive you, then accept His forgiveness and begin again. Our child within is not an impersonal computer, understanding us far better than we do.

11. Results? We never know what swimming is like until we get down into the water and try. We will never know what it is like until we sincerely try it. Every person who has tried this honestly finds a wisdom, not their own, comes into their minds and that a Power greater than human power begins to operate in their lives. It is an endless adventure. There is a way of life, for everyone, everywhere. Anyone can be in touch with their child within, anywhere, anytime, if we fulfil the conditions of contact. When we listen, child within speaks. When we obeys our inner voice, our child acts. This is meditation. Our Child withins plan for this world goes forward through the lives of ordinary people who are willing to listen to their intuitive voice.

These are a few simple suggestions for Stagers who are willing to have an experimental experience with themselves.

2015-08-29T10:25:00.001+01:00

These are a few simple suggestions for Stagers who are willing to have an experimental experience with themselves.

You can discover for yourself the most important and practical thing any human being can ever learn-how to be in touch with your child within.

All that is needed is the willingness to try it honestly. Every person who has done this consistently and sincerely has found that it really works. Before you begin, look over these fundamental points. They are true and are based on the experience of thousands of people.

1. Our child within is alive, always has been and always will be.

2. Child within is perfect knows everything.

3. Child within can do anything.

4. Child within can be everywhere - all at the same time. (These are the important differences between child within and us manufactured human beings).

6. Child cares very much for you, is interested in you, has a plan for your life, has an answer for every need and problem you face.

7. Our Child Within will tell you all that you need to know, will not always tell you all that you want to know.

8. Child will help you do anything that it asks you to do.

9. Anyone can be in touch with our child within, anywhere and at any time, if the conditions are obeyed.

These are the conditions: - To be quiet and still - To listen - To be honest about every thought that comes - To test the thoughts to be sure that they come from our child within - To obey So, with these basic elements as a background, here are specific suggestions on how to listen to our child within:

1. Take Time Find some place and time where you can be alone, quiet and undisturbed. Most people have found that the early morning is the best time. Have with you some paper and pen or pencil.

11. Results? We never know what swimming is like until we get down into the water and try. We will never know what it is like until we sincerely try it. Every person who has tried this honestly finds a wisdom, not of their own, comes into their minds and that a Powerful perfect child greater than human power begins to operate in their lives. It is an endless adventure. There is a way of life, for everyone, everywhere. Anyone can be in touch with their child within, anywhere, anytime, if we fulfil the conditions of contact. When we listen, our child within speaks. When we obeys our inner voice, our child acts. This is our meditation. Our Child withins plans for this world goes forward through the lives of ordinary people who are willing to listen to their intuitive voice.

The definition of child abuse for our child within is simple:

2015-08-25T09:55:00.001+01:00

The definition of child abuse for our child within is simple: whenever the spirit of the child is disrespected the child is abused. Abuse of the spirit of the child can take many forms, from the overt forms of child abuse that conventional society is able to accept – such as overt sexual abuse, physical violence and the extremes of neglect – to whole realms of abuse that fall below society’s radar and are considered normal and healthy forms of friendship and parenting. Our Child Within still retains the needs of childhood, and where we fail to meet these needs – whether society notices or cares or even bats an eye – our child within once more ends up abused.

The Child Within has been trying for centuries to convince us they are, like the rest of us, sensing, feeling, thinking human beings.

2015-08-13T09:54:00.002+01:00

The Child Within has been trying for centuries to convince us they are, like the rest of us, sensing, feeling, thinking human beings. Struggling against thousands of years of ignorant supposition that newborns are partly human, sub-human, or not-yet human, the vast majority of babies arrive in hospitals today, greeted by medical specialists who are still skeptical as to whether they can actually see, feel pain, learn, and remember what happens to them. Physicians, immersed in protocol, employ painful procedures, confident no permanent impression, certainly no lasting damage, will result from the manner in which babies are received into this world.

First Contact with The Child Within

We need a child within us who loves us fully.

We need a child within who can adequately translate the needs behind our cries…and our coughs…and our silences.

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