sexuality

Female Ejaculation - How to Gush, Squirt and Get Wet

2012-02-12T19:26:00.002-08:00

Female ejaculation, is it real or perhaps just a golden shower? I have asked many men, of all ages, if they have had a partner who ejaculates when she orgasms? I have discovered that more men in their 20's are likely to say yes and mature males in their 40's are least likely to have experienced female ejaculation with their partner. Mostly guys will say that they have only seen female ejaculation when they have watched a porn film.

There is a lot of controversy about female ejaculation, however female ejaculation is real and with practice every women can experience intense and emotional all-body orgasm with ejaculation.

Does a female have the sexual anatomy to ejaculate?

At human conception and up to eight weeks gestation, all human foetal development, male and female, begin life with female genital characteristics. At eight weeks gestation the male foetus, Y chromosome activates and begins to produce its own male hormones and male genital characteristics. Only then does the physical development of the male and female foetus change.

This means that the tissue that awakens at eight weeks gestation into the male prostate gland, is already present in the female foetus. Does it now make sense that the female anatomy has a prostate gland also? Female ejaculation is not urine. FE is actually near the exact chemical makeup as prostatic fluid; minus the sperm. The female prostate is also known as the female g-spot.

Every woman can ejaculate, small or large quantities and open to FE at her own pace. It is recommended that adult females learn to ejaculate on their own at first. Once a woman has successfully ejaculated by herself, then she will have more success ejaculating with a partner. Here are some reasons why a woman may have difficulty learning to ejaculate.

(a) A Strong PC Muscle. A women cannot ejaculate if she has weak PC muscles. The PC muscle is a long muscle that supports the pelvic floor between the pubic bone and the coccyx. A loose vagina is not a sign that a woman has slept around, it just means that her PC muscles are weak from lack of exercise. Successful female ejaculation will not be achieved until her PC muscles are tightened and strengthened. If her vagina feels loose during intercourse, that's a sure sign that she needs to do PC muscle exercises.

(b) Her attitude towards ejaculation. Letting go and allowing the body to ejaculate is very difficult for most women to master. A woman will have a hard time ejaculating if she is afraid she is going to urinate on her partner or if she is unsure whether her partner may enjoy the experience.

(c) Deep-seated sexual issues. Awakening the G-spot can bring up all kinds of emotional issues for a woman. It is not uncommon for a woman to shut down abruptly once she begins learning to open to female ejaculation. Past negative messages and sexual assault can close down a woman's capacity to express emotions, love and intimacy, therefore making it hard for her to allow her body to open up, surrender and trust sexually.

It can take some practice, to learn how to tease and arouse the female prostate and vagina to awaken the female body to the experience of vaginal orgasms that are accompanied by female ejaculation. G-spot and vaginal orgasms aren't nearly as common as clitoral orgasms, so it may take patience to find and connect with the G-Spot.

Slow foreplay is best to allow the female body to relax into a slow and teasing build up. Ladies, breathe slowly and deeply and give your body permission to succumb to pleasure. Some clitoral stimulation is okay; however the major focus should be on stimulating and awakening the female g-spot. Practice makes perfect, be kind to yourself if your G-Spot is slow to awaken to pleasure and remember every women's body awakens to female ejaculation and more pleasure at its own pace. Female G-spot stimulation and ejaculation can be an exciting new pleasurable experience, for any woman, who would like to experience a whole new level of pleasure for herself and her lover.

Blow Her Mind - How to Give a Girl the Best Sex Ever

2012-02-12T19:25:00.001-08:00

Whether you're looking to please a woman just for one night or to keep her coming back for more, certain techniques prevail every time. In order to give a girl mind-blowing sex, you need to bring your A-game. Here's a few ways you can give her the best ever:

1. Talk to Her

Women like to have very sense stimulated, not just their private area. Whisper dirty things to her about what you want to do to her and how you want to do it to her. Tell her how sexy she is. Women want to feel desired while their in the middle of the act. Not only will this create more passion for her, but you'll also reap the benefit of a sultry, seductive, confident woman.

2. Spots to Stimulate

A majority of women can't have an orgasm from sex alone. In fact, nearly three fourth of women never orgasm from sex alone. To make sure you're stimulating her in a way she'll enjoy, make sure you provide her with some form of clitoral stimulation. This may mean using your tongue to make her climate before you penetrate her or using your fingers to rub her clit while you two are in the midst of making love. Don't forget about toys. Whoever told you a girl's best friend was diamonds lied, because a girl's best friend is a vibrator! You may also want to try grinding up against her pelvic regions to stimulate her clitorally using your public region.

3. Smell Masculine

Let me reiterate, women long for you to arouse every one of her senses including her sense of smell. You had better smell amazing, because a hint of foul body odor can really take her from wanting to do the deed with you to being completely out of the mood to even want to touch you.

4. Find Her G-Spot

Besides her clit, her g-spot is the next best spot to hit to bring her to ecstasy. This pleasure zone is located about 2 inches from her vaginal opening, on the side closest to her stomach. Repeatedly insert your penis inside of her and make sure you hit this spot each time. Make sure you give her some variety and change up the speed and force.

5. Change Positions

Every time you sex her, don't do it in the same position. Doggy-style allows for the best manual stimulation of her clit, while letting her on top gives her the opportunity to receive the most amount of clitoral stimulation from sex alone. If you choose to be on top, which many women feel most comfortable with because she doesn't feel like she is doing all the work, then make sure you line your pelvic region with her clit and grind your hips in a circular motion. If you choose to try to penetrate her to bring her to orgasm, then you must make sure you are hitting her g-spot. If you hit her g-spot in just the right manner, you'll be able to give her the best sex she has ever had. In fact, you must just bring her to shake and quiver uncontrollably for a while.

6. Ask Her

Don't be afraid to ask her what gets her off. Not everyone woman is the same, so in some instances, you may give a woman the "big-O" multiple times from one maneuver, while another may not find it so pleasing. She would much rather guide you on how to satisfy her sexually, than to fake an orgasm to make you feel better or roll over feeling dissatisfied and longing for more. She will thank you for the effort you put into blowing her mind.

Great Sex - Here Are 7 Ways To Make The 'Doggy-Style' Position A Whole Lot More Sexually Satisfying

2012-02-12T19:24:00.000-08:00

If you're a guy and you like giving your woman GREAT SEX, you'll like this article.

The reason I say that is because we are going to take a look at 7 ways to take the already awesome 'doggy-style' position and make it even more SEXUALLY SATISFYING for you and your woman.

So read on and use one of all of these sex tips the very next time you 'get it on' with her...

1. Do It Stood Up Or Kneeling

You can take your woman from behind whilst you are both stood up or whilst you are both kneeling. Having both options is great because it gives you variety and variety stops things getting boring in the bedroom.

2. Touch Her Anus

As you are doing your woman 'doggy-style' -- use your thumb to gently stimulate her anus. This will drive her wild (especially if you do it when she is very close to having an orgasm).

3. Grab Her Hair

One of the big reasons why women love the doggy-style position is because it makes her feel like her man is totally in control. Another reason is because there's something NAUGHTY about it.

Well, you can make your woman feel like you are in even more control and make the 'doggy' position even naughtier by grabbing her hair in your hand.

4. Make Her Rest Her Head On The Bed

This sex tip makes the doggy-style position even more exciting for your woman. It makes it more DIRTY. And it makes her feel totally vulnerable to you.

All you do is get her to put her head on the bed (instead of her holding herself up on her arms). This position (with her bottom higher than her head) will make her very sexually excited.

5. Talk Dirty

The 'doggy-style' sex position is even better if you add in a good helping of dirty talk.

Good dirty talk will make the whole experience more sexually pleasurable for your woman and will help you to push her 'over the edge' and make her have an orgasm.

6. Give Her Anal Sex

If you want to take everything to the next level and make things really naughty -- try having ANAL SEX in the doggy-style position. This is about as dirty as it gets.

7. Give Her Vaginal Orgasms

Of course, if you want to make the experience 100% rewarding for your woman, you need to give her vaginal orgasms as you do her from behind. You should be aware that this is much easier to do if you can already give your woman vaginal orgasms with fingering techniques.

Sexually Attract Women - Entice Women With These 3 Tips

2011-11-29T07:37:00.000-08:00

The biggest difference between guys who are just friends with women and guys that women want to sleep with and date, is that the ones they want to sleep with know how to make them feel sexually attracted. Attraction happens on many different levels and some of it will only lead to that platonic kind of attraction that two friends have for each other. Unfortunately for most men, this is the kind of attraction that they are good at making a woman feel. So, way more often than not, they are seen as being just friend material and nothing more than that.

If you want to be able to entice a woman into your bedroom, then you need to be seen as more than just her friend. Most women have a pretty clear rule about not sleeping with guys who are friends, so if you want to get her to sleep with you, a friend is not what you need to be. You need to be her man of interest, the guy she secretly can't wait to be alone with. The guy she wants to rip the clothes off of. Now, you can be that guy, but you have to know what makes her feel that way.

Here are 3 tips to entice a woman into your bedroom that should make her feel a lot of sexual attraction towards you:

1) Flirt with her without it being too corny.

The corny kind of flirting will make her laugh and make her smile and probably even make her want to hang out with you. But, it is not going to make her feel desire or passion or any of the things that she needs to feel if she is going to want to go to bed with you. To do that, your flirting has to be more sexual in nature.

2) Don't be afraid to touch her.

When you are really trying to get a woman to feel sexually attracted to you, you are going to have to incorporate some physical touching between you and her. And as the man, you are pretty much expected to be the leader in this area. So, don't be afraid to touch her, though you don't want to grope her.

3) Use push/pull to create massive sexual tension with her.

This is a time tested seduction technique that really gets a woman all worked up and takes things to another level. When enough push/pull is employed, not only will she feel an amazing amount of sexual tension, she might just start being the aggressor and that's pretty cool, don't you think?

Sex in Islam: What Is And Isn't Strictly Forbidden

2011-11-29T07:36:00.000-08:00

Many people have the belief that sex in the Islam religion is extremely restrictive. The truth is that in most areas, Islam's view of sex is not that different from other religions such as Christianity. Even though the consequences for disobeying Allah's laws in regards to sex, tend to be more severe than some religions, the law itself is quite compatible.

Sex Inside And Outside Of Marriage

In the Islam religion sex inside of the marriage between husband and wife is strongly encouraged first for purposes of procreation and second for companionship and the enjoyment of both parties male and female. It is believed that a healthy intimate relationship between husband and wife makes for a happier and more solid marriage and keeps both the husband and wife from committing adultery which is against Islamic law.

However, the issue of oral sex in marriage is highly debated with some theologians suggesting that it is acceptable if both parties agree and others stating that it is not. This is an issue that there seems no clear direction on but, those who want to remain faithful to the Islamic religion more often than not err on the side of caution.

So too is sex outside of marriage whether that sex is an adulterous affair, between a man and woman, or same sex partners. Any sex outside the marriage bed is strictly forbidden and seen as sin by both the man and the woman. In cases of rape the woman is to be held blameless and the sin falls entirely on the man.

Birth Control

When it comes to the use of modern day birth control most of those of the Islamic faith allow the use of birth control. Especially in cases where the couple already has children and adding more children to the family may result in the couple being unable to care for their children. While birth control is not encouraged it is not usually strictly forbidden.

Abortion

Abortion on the other hand is a more tricky issue when it comes to Islamic beliefs. In general, abortion is seen as taking a human life and is forbidden however, there may be exceptions made if carrying the pregnancy to term may jeopardize the mother's life. In other cases abortion has been deemed acceptable in cases where there may be congenital defects that may result in the demise of the child, or even in cases of incest or rape. However, there really is no clear cut allowance for abortion under Islamic law leaving this open to interpretation.

Islamic religion has a very healthy outlook for the most part on sexual relationships between husband and wife and pretty much follows the same pattern as most other religions on other sexual issues. What makes this religion seem so restrictive when it comes to such issues is the punishments that are assigned for transgressions of Islamic law. And that is why, the Islam religion is seen as so forbidding and foreboding when it comes to matters of sex. Not their actual beliefs.

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2011-11-13T09:04:00.000-08:00

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I’m going to seduce all the men: Shweta Bhardwaj

2011-11-07T04:21:00.000-08:00

Actress Shweta Bhardwaj spoke about sizzle and sexuality in a heart-to-heart with us.

She has those smouldering, hot looks, which can make a caveman of many a dapper-dressed dandy! And the best part is that Shweta Bhardwaj is mighty aware of her inherent oomph factor, which yields immense power over the opposite sex. The gal, who made a debut in the film industry with Mission Istanbul, opposite Vivek Oberoi, has some big projects in her kitty. Her latest offering, co-starring Suniel Shetty and Govinda, may not have done wonders at the BO, but Shweta's seductive conwoman looks have been appreciated. To this, she says: "I'm going to seduce all the men out there!" With this, the tone is set for an interesting tete-a-tete...

Analingus - Best Tips To Consider Sexual Rimming

2011-11-02T09:03:00.000-07:00

Just the thought of analplay for some may bring an instant reaction of 'ick' or 'ewh' especially if you're one of the many women who's first encounter with analingus has been by way of a rogue finger prodding your rear without prior consent. Yet done properly between two loving partners analingus can bring you a multitude of wonderful sensations and is also an excellent primer to rectal sex.

If you have not heard of analplay being described as analingus, you may be more familiar with the terms 'sexual rimming', 'tossing the salad' or 'licking arse'. Such crude terms are enough to send any nice lady running with her tail squeezed firmly between her legs, but if you are curious and open to new adventures, analingus with the right loving partner can turn from being an unpleasant shock to a very warm and welcome surprise.

Simply, your anus is lined with many delicate nerve endings and when these are stimulated by the tickle of a tantalizing tongue the result can be quite heavenly. The trick to enjoying these new sensations is to love your bum, get over any inhibitions and embrace sexual rimming as an incredibly sensual and intimate act between lovers. It's the total acceptance of each other's bodies with no part being off limits that can strengthen bonds and heighten the sense of eroticism.

Speaking of eroticism, another reason analplay feels so deeply sensual is because the pelvic floor muscles lie just below the surface of the anal area. If you squeeze them now you will notice how your anus slightly contracts, and it's these muscles that compress during orgasm. Analplay including the insertion of sex toys rouses the pelvic floor muscles and intensifies all erotic sensations.

Is Analingus Safe?

Like all forms of sex, precaution does need to be taken when experimenting with analplay. First thing first, you must get clean before sexual rimming. Ensure you both go to the toilet beforehand and then have a shower together. Use warm soapy water to thoroughly clean your anus and you can even insert a soapy finger slightly inside.

It's important to note that despite all your best efforts at cleaning, there can be times when fecal matter clings on to the anus and skin around it. Although fecal matter is actually stored in the colon and only passes through the rectum when it's ready to be released all the way out of the body, traces can sometimes remain in the rectum, anal canal and anus after defecation, although these can be washed out.

Don't get yourself too much in a tizz about this possibility and don't get too carried away with your cleaning. You can actually damage or tear the soft tissues of skin on your anus if you use too much force. Instead use baby wipes, which are excellent for the gentle cleaning of all skin folds and you also get the added bonus of their pleasant smell.

If this still completely puts you off, you could consider using a Dental Dam which is like a condom for your bum. It acts as a latex barrier between the anus and mouth and while it might not seem very sexy, it will protect you from bacteria and viruses such as HPV, HIV and Hepatitis.

Talk to your partner beforehand, decide if you are going to be the giver or receiver. Using a dental dam might just be the piece of confidence you need to get you on your way to sexual rimming.

How To Give Anal Rimming

When learning how to give anal rimming, or any form of rectal sex, it doesn't have to be anything you don't want it to be. The simple caressing, stroking and gentle pressing of a finger around and in the opening of the anus is analinugs enough for some people. Or it's the gentle flicker of a delicate tongue on the nerve packed area of your anus that is simply bliss for others. Analplay definitely does not have to be about penetration. However if you keen to move on to anal sex, then analingus is essential to prepare your body for penetration.

Like other forms of oral sex, take your time, relax and gradually seduce your partner by massaging their inner thighs or the backs of their legs. Gradually start to lick these areas and use your fingernails to rub around the outside of the bum. Blow on the anus and then apply gentle pressure rubbing around the rim.

The greatest satisfaction comes from tender kisses, loving licks and variations of tongue movements circling in and around igniting all those wonderfully delicate nerve endings.

If your partner permits, you can use both hands to spread the anus wide and then point your tongue and insert it in and out. If you are using your finger, be careful of your nails as any rough edges can nick the delicate skin.

Analplay Positions

If you're totally new to analplay, positions such as doggy, or bending over may feel too vulnerable and too exposed to begin with. If you are on the receiving end you could start with regular cunnilingus, then as your body becomes more aroused it can be a natural progression for your partner to lick slowly further south. Just be mindful to prevent any bacterial infection that once he hits your bum with his tongue he cannot go back up to your vagina.

Sideways 69 is a good position to start out with. Regular 69 can be a bit tricky for you to get in to a comfortable and accessible position that you can both enjoy, but if you both turn side on, you can massage, lick and suck to your mutual delight.

When you are ready and feel completely comfortable with exposure should you try any of the following positions:

Doggy

Doggy is where the receiver assumes the doggy position kneeling down and the giver kneels behind gently spreads each butt check to reveal the anus.

Standing Bent Over

This one is self explanatory, however you can modify it by the receiver bending over the edge of a bed or chair to maximize comfort for both parties.

Legs Up

In this position the receiver lays on their back with their legs open and bent, knees drawn up to their chest. The giver lays on their stomach in front. This position can be made more comfortable with the receiver laying on the edge of the bed and the giver keeling in front.

Women Who Don't Like Sex

2011-11-02T09:01:00.000-07:00

There are many reasons behind relationship breakups but the most common have to be sex or lack of it. Many men up and leave because they have found a new playmate. The woman has been shattered as she gave into his every sexual demand and yet he left the relationship for someone else! The nasty fact is, he got bored and moved on, often leaving behind a wife and children.

But often the fault lay fair and square at the woman's feet. Was that fair and just? Sometimes yes.

There are many women who don't like sex. Most will tolerate it for the sake of peace but there are many who have banished the man from the bedroom often making excuses like, he snores to loud or I can't get any sleep because he takes up all the bed or I can't sleep as he is so restless!

Now reality is that many of these women would only be too happy for their man to find someone else and leave but there are many who anguish over their problem and they keep their fingers (and legs) crossed hoping that the husband will stay.

They hope that love will conquer. I personally know of men who have accepted their lot and stayed but most of these men are bitter and can be quite resentful so there is constant tension in the house. There are many reasons why women reject sex.

Childhood abuse must be at the top of the list. Many women suffer sexual abuse from an early age and carry that suffering and dislike for any sexual encounter all their lives. Trouble often is that they have never discussed this issue or sort help. Shame really as sex can be enjoyable. Unfortunately the issue was not sorted before entering into the relationship.

Childbirth comes in close as many women don't get back their sexual desires after having children especially if they have had a few children in a short space of time or a hard labor. Too scary for many.

A lot of women have been bought up by frigid mothers who have brainwashed their daughters against sex.

All women like to feel sensual but some just feel uncomfortable feeling sexual so chances are they will not even try to look or feel sexual because that will send unwanted signals to their partners. It is sad when people cannot get enjoyment or fun out of sex.

For you women who would like to change or renew your interest why not reach out to people who can help you get over your lack of interest issues.

Go out and get some sexy underwear. Get to like yourself again. Look up the net for books to read. Try meditation. Get in touch with your inner senses. There are plenty of ways to be desired but you must first find the desire to be desired.

How Many Wives Would Like to Hotwife?

2011-11-02T08:58:00.000-07:00

Since infidelity is the last big taboo, how many wives would like to hotwife? And it seems like a reasonable thing to ask since even though it's a very common male fantasy, it seems women are turned off by the whole idea (but the truth will surprise you). So...

How many wives would like to hotwife?

The truth is... very few... and lots and lots.

The reason for this apparent contradiction is the question isn't a very good one to ask.

Why?

Because the whole concept of "hotwiving" and the nature of a hotwife is badly misunderstood. See, to uninformed people it seems no different from traditional infidelity at best, and a shabby, sordid sex-kink that makes her a slut at worst.

But the reality is hotwiving can be the ultimate expression of love and affection between two self-aware and self-confident adults who are at ease with their sexuality and have a solid and loving relationship.

And the biggest problem men have in getting their wives to embrace the hotwife lifestyle is usually one of communication. You see, a typical scenario you'll read on blogs and forums dedicated to the lifestyle is where the man simply says, "I'd like you to sleep with other men" and his wife says, "OK" and off they go.

Sadly, real life isn't like that, and most wives would probably freak if you came out with a line like that, because of the thoughts such a crass and blunt approach would put into her head. For example typical thoughts might be:

    He doesn't find me attractive any more.
    He wants an excuse to sleep with other women
    He's lost his marbles!

And so on.

BUT if you approach it in the right way, then you're going to discover a surprising truth... and that is women are just as sexual as men and many of them will gladly embrace the hotwife lifestyle if you present it to them in the right way.

The biggest mistake men make in doing this usually is simply telling them they're going to have great sex. Two problems there are:

    Sex for most women is as much about feelings as it is about physicality. Meaning, she'll need to know it's going to improve, add to or spice up YOUR relationship, because it's not likely she wants a relationship with another man. The emotional fix she gets from sex has got to be there, though, so it's got to come from YOU and not her lover (I'm not talking about polyamory here).
    Telling her isn't enough... you've got to show her. Meaning, you've got to start showing her the benefits to your relationship before she sleeps with someone else, by talking 'as if' it were happening and showing her how you'd behave in that scenario.

And while this seems quite simple, no one ever said it was easy. You both have a lot of emotional conditioning to get over before you embark upon this, and getting it wrong can have catastrophic repercussions. You MUST give it a lot of thought and choose your sources of information carefully. Don't read the hype and unrealistic blogs and forums and imagine that's how things really are -- for some, perhaps.

Prostate Massage - Stimulating the Male G Spot

2011-11-02T08:54:00.000-07:00

Several men are unaware of their body's 'actual' reaction to intimacy. Yes, you might get shocked to know this mate, that you too have a G spot just like the females. And this male G spot is your prostate gland. The prostate gland holds the capacity to give mind shaking orgasms and as well as stimulating it will prevent you from future diseases related to prostate. The awareness of the prostate is being created world wide amongst the males by running certain bio-medical and health campaigns in which the significance of the prostate gland, its stimulation and relevant benefits are ruminated over.

The men are now curious to know more about this gland, its functioning and its stimulation. Well, the prostate gland is an essential part of the male reproductive system which is responsible for the semen production. The fluid is released while getting penile orgasms but some of it is retained inside which is feasible to milk out to ensure the perfect prostate health. This is done through the prostate massage and when the process is going on, men get extra sensational tickles and orgasms which are highly intense and long-lasting than the traditional penile orgasms.

The prostate gland is a small ball of tissues and is about a walnut size. It is located in between the bladder and the rectum - surrounding the urethra. The approach to this sacred male spot is only through the anus which might be unimaginable for a few number of males, but relax, the process of the prostate massage is designed in such a way that you won't be feeling any discomfort, nasty feeling while carrying the process if you take care of some necessary proactive technical precautions, and the complete sound knowledge on how to carry it.

You would likely be feeling the G spot at about 2 to 3 centimeters inside your opening. Though this value differs from man to man but you don't need to worry about it as the process remains the same so you need to master the process of prostate massaging rather than to know its location distance. Do not get panicked, stay calm and confident, and you will surely get to the maximum stage of orgasmic activity which you won't forget. Practicing the prostate massage frequently will not only give you ultimate pleasure, but this would also act as a safe guard against anticipated prostate relevant diseases.

Eat Your Way to Hot Sex

2011-11-02T08:52:00.000-07:00

When you mix the two words, "eat" and "sex", I bet you thought I was referring to oral sex. Well, these tidbits should help you reach this point, but first things first. Getting her in the mood.

We all want our special someone to be in the mood for sex. The fact is, humans generally are not always in the mood. We have children, jobs, everyday life stresses that keep us in another stratosphere far, far away from the blissfulness we yearn for. When the time for peace and quiet arrives, we can be so tightly stressed, that we can't relax enough to switch gears and fling ourselves into sensual oblivion.

What to do when you're ready, and she's not? This particular angle is something you can use to ease her day, and get her started on the right foot for the next day. Men, get your cooking mitts on and stoke up the oven (in the kitchen that is). If you're creative enough to dress up a nice plate setting with candles, that's wonderful. If not, then be sure your food is tasty enough for her consumption, or you will nursing blueberries in your pants. Keep in mind, all of this should be consumed in moderation, as some may actually result in the opposite of what you are trying to achieve.

RELAX, with red wine and its soothing luscious color. No more than 2 glasses please! You're wanting to relax her in preparation for hot sex, not knock her unconscious. This will prep her to fully enjoy the rest of what is to come.

Serve her any number of entrée's from filet mignon, oysters, shrimp. A side of asparagus would fit just fine into this hot mix since asparagus is also an aphrodisiac! What is super nice, is for you to cut her meat for her and feed her (the first bite only) so you can watch her expression as she savors your feast. Take note that she may start to let out some sensual moans at this point.

The next course to serve is dessert and perhaps a smidgen of coffee, especially if you over-served the red wine. Have a bowl of fruit consisting of figs, strawberries, and pineapple already cut and prepared, along with some melted chocolate. We all know chocolate by itself is an aphrodisiac. But to dip strawberries (also known as fruit nipples), into chocolate and sensually feed them to her, is sure to have her hand sliding up your leg. Let her feed you too! It's just as sensual for her as it is for you. Sweet figs and pineapple round out the selection. You can even prepare fruit chunks on a skewer and have her pull them off with her tongue!

So you see, sex doesn't always start in the bedroom. Hot sex can start right in the kitchen, and in some cases, take place on the kitchen floor... or counter top. Bona petit!

The Women Out There

2011-11-02T08:49:00.000-07:00

Often the saddest situation you will possibly notice in a club is the lights turned on at closing time. That's the moment you realize that although you've been bankrolling her martinis since midnight, she won't be heading home with you. And why should she? You're a stranger, and all this is only a game. Once the neon's flicker on, the fantasy ends.

"Guys are possessed by the fantasy of the pick up," It is in their heads that these pubs and clubs are "heaving with nameless women who are dying to have sex with just about most any man that is self-assured enough to speak to them." The reality is that under 6 percent of girls admit to having had sexual intercourse with their male partners within a couple of days or less of hooking up with them, and fewer than 20 % of men and women claim they first met their latest sexual partner in a bar. Perhaps it is the nasty preconception of night life: A recent survey of over a thousand women by, a market studies organization, reveals that virtually 25 percent of females would be embarrassed to confess that she met a lover in a bar.

So why does the alcohol drenched pick-up scene exist? Besides the obvious reasons (tequila, whisky, vodka), there is a unexpected one as well: inexperience. Males are new to this 21st century form of the boy meets girl game. In the early 70's, the typical age for marriage was twenty three for males and 21 for ladies. Today it's twenty eight and twenty six. "It used to be that people believed they'd in some way missed out if they did not have a spouse by the time they graduated college or university," "Today, people think they need to establish themselves economically first." The postponement of "I do" implies many men will be on their own in their twenties, a trend which populates the club scene and empties the church aisles.

The actual world of dating is tough on men. The danger and burden of rejection is nearly always on them, simply because men initiate about 80 % of interactions. And therefore the competition is challenging for men in their 20s and thirties: With every one hundred single women there is typically 113 single males, based on the U.S. Census Bureau. And these males just are not doing the job. The Pew Analysis Center discovered that about half of young singles claimed going on just 1 date during the 3 months prior to its study, and fifty five percent of single people who had been searching for love said it had been hard to meet people.

However the situation does not have to be this gloomy. In fact, there's no better moment to be single than during economic uncertainty. A recent eHarmony study discovered that a quarter of single women claim that financial pressure has increased their need for a romantic relationship. Compare this with the 61 percent of males that say money concerns are causing anxiety in their love lives. Consider it this way: Far more women are available, and they are primed for connecting. But men are hoping to meet them with $15 martinis and will be going home on their own and penniless.

Talk Your Way to a More Passionate Relationship

2011-11-02T08:47:00.000-07:00

Chances are, you and your significant other can discuss just about any topic-work, money, your dreams, failures--you name it. But what about sex? Many of us, women in particular, blush at the thought of revealing sexual likes and dislikes to our partners. Yet, studies show that those who feel comfortable engaging in pillow talk not only enjoy better sex lives, but happier relationships.

What tends to trip us up when it comes to pillow talk? Fear of how our partners will react for one thing. Other reasons that sex is a taboo subject in many relationships include fear of being criticized and fear of hurting each other's feelings. Yet chances are, your partner would love your openness, not to mention that intimate talk can add excitement and really spice up your love life. Here's how to overcome bashfulness in bed:

* Share simple facts. Let it slip to your partner, for example, that you prefer to make love with the lights on, or that you like making love better in the morning. Then ask what his or her preferences are. Or, after watching a romantic movie together, bring up what you thought were some of the sexiest parts. Sometimes the simplest conversations can spark passion.

* Reminisce. Thinking back to-and talking about-the early days when your lovemaking was always passionate is another way to ease into pillow talk. Bring up when you first fell in love, and discuss what initially attracted you to each other. Steer the conversation to the passionate times you used to share, and in no time, you could be reliving those times.

* Calling him/her by name. Partners love to hear the sound of their name, especially during lovemaking, because it makes them feel special.

* Use flattery. Compliments are the ultimate aphrodisiac because they boost sexual confidence. So, don't hesitate to let him know just how much you adore the way he kisses, or tell her that the way she smells is a total turn-on.

* Describe what you're dong. Narrating your lovemaking-what you're doing and how good it all feels-adds an extra dimension of sharing...and passion.

* Avoid put-downs. Be careful never to use criticism or sarcasm, shame, or blame as pillow talk. Negative pillow talk can be more harmful to your relationship than no pillow talk at all, because it destroys trust and bonding. Kept positive, however, pillow talk can be downright intoxicating. Tell your significant other how sexy and exciting they are, and chances are they will be!

How to Turn a Girl On Perfectly

2011-11-02T08:43:00.000-07:00

No two people are alike and much more so with girls. Each girl responds and reacts to the same situation, differently. That's why even if you have already dated several girls in your lifetime you can never truly anticipate another girl's reactions to your particular action. However, there are universal rules when it comes to turning a girl on, with minimal twists and quirks to each individual girl. These universal rules to follow though are more than enough to guide boys in how to turn on a girl. As a matter of fact, girls are harder to please than boys. Boys are visual creatures and can get easily excited by what they see and what they think they're seeing. On the other hand, you would have wished girls can be more like current switches which you can easily turn on and off. Girls are harder to turn on generally, however once you have kindled the fire within them, expect the emblem to burn on longer than most men. So, how would turn on a girl?

Good personal hygiene. - No typical girl would feel stimulated with someone who smells like a rotting food. A boy is not required to be bathed in the most expensive cologne there is to turn a girl on, however, a musk that spells masculine and crisp clean would entice girls to their sides. In intimate situations, it would be good advice to smell clean up and down there too. You would not want to be caught up in an embarrassing situation if the girl suddenly wants to kiss you or give u head and stops because she can't bear the smell, wouldn't you?

Clean hands and feet - there are a lot of girls who would look at a man's hands, fingernails and toenails first before settling on other physical aspect of the person. Only a handful of girls would want to be caught in physical contact with a hunky guy who sports dirty, uncut nails. Why? Your hands bespoke of what kind of hygiene you're practicing and generally express what kind of person are you. Besides, no self-respecting girl would want to be infected when her guy will finger her with such unkempt hands.

Be in sync with her emotional being - girls are emotional creatures. That's why they have to be comfortable first with someone before they ever give you the headway to be familiar with them. If she feels comfortable with you, you can start feeding her ego. No girls would be attracted to a boy who disregards her being. If you make her feel pretty, desired and feel important, and if she returns your actions, chances are you are being given the chance to be closer to her. The more she is relaxed and comfortable with you, feels that you value and appreciates her for who she is, the more she will open up to you to a more intimate level.

Creating the right ambiance - oftentimes, the mood can be kindled with the right ambiance. Placing the girl in the right ambiance will arouse her and make her feel good about herself and you. She would be more susceptible to your "switching on" with lesser effort on your part, given the right ambiance. Soft, romantic music in the background, serene surroundings, pleasing environment; it all adds up to playing up her arousal

Anal Sex Can Be Painful - 3 Tips to Make Sure Anal Sex NEVER Hurts

2011-11-02T05:12:00.000-07:00

Anal sex is the last sexual taboo. For many people anal sex is disgusting and dirty, but for others it is a normal part of the way two people can have diversity in their sexual experiences.

Anal intercourse has been practiced since ancient times - in fact it is sometimes referred to as Greek sex because anal was so popular in ancient Greece. In fact, "normal" vaginal intercourse was - according to legend - only employed as a means of having babies! Backdoor action was indeed the preferred way.

Of course, the man doing the penetrating of his partner's anus is in an enviable position. The degree of pain he may experience due to tightness of the sphincter is nothing compared to the potential amount of pain the receiver might feel. After all, we are talking about an erect penis going inside a small hole (the anus).

So, here are the three things you must do to ensure that the man or woman receiver does not feel unnecessary discomfort.

1. Prepare the Anus Properly

Before simply ramming the penis into the anus, some prep work is essential. And the main ingredient here is lubrication - and plenty of it! What you choose as a lubricant is up to you. But whatever you do - never go in dry, and never rely on spit to be sufficient. It might work in pornographic movies, but it will fail in real life.

Some people recommend water-based lubes. These are great because they are easier to get off. But for a really good lubricant that guarantees ease of entry and thrusting you cannot go past Vaseline. You can also get lubes with mild numbing agents to make the act less painful, and are well worth a try.

The receiver can also do the following to make for a more pleasant experience:

has a bowel motion at least half an hour prior to anal sex
has an enema if she/he cannot bear the thought of any fecal matter making an appearance

2. Take Your Time

Do not rush into anal sex. Even with the best preparation in the world, treating the receiver roughly - at least in the initial stages - can induce some very painful sensations, and may even cause them to pull out of the deal altogether. You must be gentle, and ease your way in. If the giver has a big penis, then this is even more important. Once the penis is comfortably inside the rectum, gentle motions can begin, leading up to more vigorous thrusting. If things get a little tight, add more lubricant.

3. Have a Thorough Wash Afterwards

When your anal sex is finished, it is very important that both the giver and receiver wash their penis and anus respectively. Pain from anal sex can come later via infections, so a good clean up with antiseptic soap is essential.

Note: Use of a condom may depend on whether you are in a long-term relationship or not. It can also be a matter of personal preference among established couples for reasons of aesthetics.

Savita Bhabhi: The Hottest Bhabhi in Town

2011-11-02T05:04:00.000-07:00

Savita Bhabhi is an expression of the irony of being an Indian. An Indian caught between modernity, free speech and individual expression as against cohesive living, collective decision-making and basic decency in family life.

There is no denying the fact that lust is a legitimate emotion. The youth (and the old sheepishly) will vouch for it. But the other truth is that any sexually graphic description is an extremely difficult situation in family life.

Caught between this is a government, as it gets rubbished by the liberal class for advocating archaic Victorian values and by the right-wing for not finishing off this so-called "demon of impurity" completely.

This middle class angst gave birth to a porn comic series called SAVITA BHABHI that was an immediate hit with all, boys, young men, middle aged men and the old (secretly even women). Only the government was extremely uncomfortable with such open display of lust and promptly had it banned.

The result: what was available as SavitaBhabi.com underwent a cosmetic change and reappeared in another avatar online.

Who is Savita Bhabhi?

Savita Bhabhi is an expression of desire by a wild, young Indian imagination. She is a dig at the hypocrisy-ridden middle class that will salivate behind a veil of sindoor, mangalsutra, yards of cloth syndrome.

Savita Bhabhi is in many ways an expression of repressed Indian womanhood. She is our regular Indian woman, whose fate gets decided by her family the moment she comes off age. She is bundled off with a kind-of decent but boring guy.

The only difference is that she is simply too voluptuous... and somewhere finds her husband's company boring and dull.

Savita Bhabhi is the ultimate boy fantasy: a buxom beauty with ample cleavage, perfectly curvaceous figure, a slim waist and what's amazing is the way all her assets keep showing even when she is fully clad. Her chiffon sarees would put Bollywood heroines in rain-dance sequence to shame.

Savita Bhabhi is a nice person but is fully aware of her charms (...assets actually). Teenage boys drool over her. She knows it and shows off!

Censorship on the comic series was demanded when a Bangalore student sent a sexually explicit text message to his teacher. That's when government got cracking. The government was also concerned when one of the episodes showed Savita Bhabhi with an elderly person having an uncanny resemblance with super star Amitabh Bachchan...

But the lady resurfaced... this time in flesh and blood. But in whole new avatar. This was no helpless but sexy neighbourhood bhabhi. This Savita was sassy and playful. She is smart and witty. What's best is she has a solution to the teething problems that plague the country and the world today.

    Be it Kashmir...
    CWG....
    Student suicide due to stress
    Sharad Pawar, Lalit Modi
    American Recession
    Commonwealth Disasters
    Shoe throwing

Sex In A New Relationship

2011-11-01T04:50:00.000-07:00

Sex in a new relationship has always been a topic of discussion between my friends and I, and believe me, when I tell you, that I have heard plenty of things that men have said also. The emotional high of new relationships, often times, leads to sex before the relationship can handle that type of emotional involvement. Let's face it, sex usually means commitment for a relationship to most women, and most men just don't think about it that way, or aren't thinking at all.

Sex in a new relationship should be avoided in most cases. Society has taught us it's okay for men to have sex whenever they want, but if a women acts like that, well, there are a few names for that. A women in a new relationship has to be the strong one, when it comes to sex. If they give in to soon, they may never see or hear from the man again. It makes them look desperate, and worst of all, like one of those names, I don't care to mention.

If a women wants a long lasting relationship, they have to make a man work for it. If a women gives in to sex in a new relationship, they appear to be easy and disrespect creeps in. The man may start showing up late night just to crawl in bed with her. Won't take her out, be seen with her, or spend any quality time with her, other than the time spent having sex, of course. The only time they come around will be for sex and that isn't a relationship that is going to last.

Sex in a new relationship can happen when there is mutual respect for each other. Strong, long lasting relationships aren't built on sex. They are built on respect for each other and of course good old fashioned love. Respect and love walk, hand in hand, and if you lose respect, love soon fades away with it and the relationship is lost.

I have heard people say, "Well the feelings were just too strong", or, "It just happened". We, as a society are being taught to throw caution to the wind, be spontaneous and not to be held accountable for our actions. Sex is all over the television, Internet and even in slogans. There is even a movie out about being sex friends, that is horrendous to me. We have to hold ourselves accountable for our actions, respect ourselves by showing restraint to do the right thing. Stopping to think about the consequences of our actions is imperative when it comes to sex in a new relationship.

If you want a strong lasting relationship that is built on trust and mutual respect then you have to respect yourself first. More often times, than not, you should restrain from giving in to the heat of the moment. Real passion comes when the relationship has reached a level of commitment that allows you the freedom to lose yourself in your partner.

Effective Dating Tips for Men

2011-11-01T04:47:00.000-07:00

Obviously, dating ideas for guys are all over the place these days. But the truth is that numerous guys are still zero in the sex and love department. You have most likely read these kinds of dating suggestions for guys before: go where the single females are, speak to them, use their name in conversations, smile, treat her like a lady and others.

Okay, all those things are good but why aren't they helpful for you? If you're wondering about this, then you're not alone. The run-of-the-mill seduction instruction is not enough if your goal is to date gorgeous girls as soon as possible. Listed below are some of the simplest dating tips I can offer you.

Three Effective Dating Tips for Men

Dating Sites

If you have not yet created an internet dating bio because you think online dating is cliche it's time to get over that sort of prejudice. All the bad rep that dating websites had in the past are gone with many people believing that they can find love online. At present, everyone's signing up for dating websites and building their network of potential dates.

This means you ought to at least look at this dating opportunity. On these sites, you can also get tips meant to help men who want to succeed in internet dating.

Improve Your Way of Life

One of the simplest dating tips is not often mentioned because it is thought of as [common] sense. But the truth is that lifestyle plays a massive role in your dating success. You have to turn into the guy who can make girls want him.

Every guy wants to know how to attract beautiful ladies or how to have a girlfriend. Sometimes, "I am who I am" doesn't work as well as "I want to create a better version of myself". Women are trying to find men who're happy and fulfilled in their career, or look after their health and who have a sensible quantity of economic security.

So take a look at your life, think carefully about what sort of a lady you want to pull towards you, and be honest about what kind of a guy you've got to become to get what you want.

As a final point...

Self-Worth is Everything

Do beautiful ladies intimidate you? Do you think only average girls would fall in love with somebody like you? When a lady rejects you, do you feel upset? If you think this way, then you might be seeing yourself as lesser in worth compared to the women you want to date and other men.

In case I haven't been clear, putting a low value on yourself is murder to your self-worth and sense of self-assurance. Not believing in yourself kills your dating life before it even begins.

Put value in yourself although you have a great deal of issues with your self confidence. If you let pessimism rule your belief, you will feel more tense about approaching women.

If you just put these tips into practice, you'll get what you really want, which is to date girls. These alone will bring you results if you are persistent and determined.

Social Circle Dating

2011-11-01T04:44:00.000-07:00

A lot of men automatically think of clubs and bars when they think of meeting women. That's where they're supposed to pick up strangers with clever lines, interesting stories, funny games and proven routines...

There's no shortage of material on these subjects: ebooks, videos, seminars, workshops and "in-field" hands-on training. The students of mainstream dating education somehow got the idea that in order to get laid, get a girlfriend or develop a long-term relationship, you have to be good at picking up strangers.

The problem is, picking up women is not for everyone and it simply may not be the best for you personally.
Theoretically, it is possible for everyone to become good at night game... if you stick to it long enough... But learning to play the "night game", just like learning anything else (such as learning a foreign language or learning to play the guitar), is easier for some men than for the others. Not everyone learns it at the same speed with the same effort. And not everyone can stay in the game long enough to master it.

Due to various reasons such as age, looks, character, cultural background, social environment, not everyone would last long enough to master it. The learning curve is just too steep for some men even though they would like to "persevere". That's why the abandon rate is also high while only a handful of men benefited from night game significantly.

Most people date a friend of a friend, an acquaintance of a family member, an associate of a co-worker, a contact of a classmate... or someone they've met during a social activity, a fund-raising event, a conference...

The undeniable fact is that most women date men through social interactions and not through bars and clubs. Some high-quality women never go to bars and clubs so the only way to meet them is through social circles.

In fact, the power of social circle dating is so frequently underestimated. If you're not satisfied with your dating life, you should probably look into it.

However, larger social circles don't automatically equate getting laid more often. There are plenty of men who seem to know everyone else but still don't have girlfriends.

You also have to know how social dynamics work, namely how to build larger social circles, how to meet women in them, the dos and don'ts of dating in social circles, and so on.

What Does a Man Feel During an Affair

2011-11-01T04:41:00.000-07:00

The husband of a female coworker was caught having an affair. The news spread around the office like wild fire for several days. One day I over heard some coworkers talking about the affair. They described all of the torrid details that they had wrenched out of the victim. Surprisingly, the question that dominated their discussion was, "What does a man feel while having an affair?" That question stayed with me for the rest of the day.

What does a man fell while having an affair? The question can not be answered in a standard or logical way. Since every man is different and every relationship is different, the reasons than men enter into affairs are different, There can be no one answer. The answer of how a man fell while having an affair must be based on the circumstances around that affair, The answer lies between the cheater and the one being cheated on.

Presidential candidate Ross Perot made a statement that perfectly fits this topic, "A fed dog don't hunt." I have found that 90% of the men I have met that had an affair, or are having an affair, are doing so because something is missing in their present relationship. The reasons range from lack of love in the marriage to physical wants and needs. The common factor with all affairs is that something is missing in the relationship and the affair is filling that need.

There are two things that you must realize about affairs. First, that someone in the relationship is not feeling totally fulfilled. Second, is the realization that you may never know what is not being fulfilled. For both men and women those unfulfilled needs can rage from the loss of love in a relationship to not liking the hair style of your partner. There is no standard rule as to why people have affairs. It does not have to make sense.

Because there is no standard reason for having an affair, there are no standard feelings of a man while having an affair. A man will feel whatever he's out to feel. Remember, that every man makes a conscious decision to enter into an affair. His reasoning for making that decision can vary. He may just be an opportunist or be in a bad relationship. The mistake is to try to make these decisions part of a playbook that can be analyzed and predicted. Take it from a man, they can't. Stop trying to make sense out of it.

I would like women to know that your partner probably may never tell you their secret desires and needs. He may be ashamed, scared to ask, or know that you will just say no. That's why the dog out hunting. The decision to have an affair rests with the person who decided to have one. I does not rest with you. There are many options that might have been employed to avoid having an affair, but your partner decided not to use them.

Communicating After An Affair

2011-11-01T04:36:00.000-07:00

Married life after infidelity is just like stepping into a different world. All the physical and emotional connections the both of you spent years building up are destroyed. The thought you can never trust your spouse again fill you with dread.

Although your spouse had an affair, you want to do whatever is necessary to work through it. You have no wish to go back to the old days. Instead you want to build a much better marriage.

This starts with good communication. To get through an affair will mean rebuilding the lines of communication. You must get this done or else there's no reason to continue the marriage.

1. Get rid of The Secret World

Make a strong effort to bring down any and all walls and start sharing with your husband. Whenever you get a call take it in front of him instead of going into another room. Begin talking about the particulars of your day or perhaps what tasks you're working on. Be sure that it isn't only about household activities. Share a good laugh, do a little gossiping or have a discussion about your personal dreams.

Ask your spouse questions about what's happening in their lives however stay away from making it sound like some kind of cross examination. The last thing you want to do is push your mate into running back behind their wall. You're asking because you genuinely care and not because you are snooping.

2. Steady But Sure

One minute you and your spouse have a discussion about spending time together and actually do it. The very next time you cancel out. Then sometime later you decide to do it. That's just not going to cut it.

Your husband had an affair so the priority must be rebuilding following that extramarital relationship. Being inconsistent suggests neither of you is really taking the rebuilding seriously. Be inconsistent means it's going to take way longer to restore the marital relationship. If you and your mate are serious then act like it. Find the time to do it right and follow through on a regular basis.

3. Mutual Respect

That's a difficult thing to digest considering your spouse carrying on an extramarital relationship. But if they're communicating with you give out respect. Keep an eye on your physical language. Provide them with every indication that you are paying attention. Your spouse did wrong however exhibiting respect can certainly make him feel much better in regards to you as well as the long term of the marriage. It can provide him with motivation to try even harder to repair the damage after infidelity.

Surviving An Affair - 3 Stages To Recovery

2011-11-01T04:33:00.000-07:00

Surviving an affair can seem like an insurmountable problem, especially when you've just found out that the one you love is a cheater and maybe even worse!

You are devastated and no one ever taught you how to deal with the infidelity of a spouse. There is no marriage manual handed out at the altar and even if there was, it wouldn't cover surviving an affair.

So what do you do now? There are 3 stages or phases you will need to work through to recover from and survive the hurt and pain of infidelity.

The good news is that you can survive an affair and you can be happy again!

Stage 1: Dealing With Your Pain Comes First

You can't start the healing process or even the forgiving process until you first deal with the pain and trauma that you are experiencing.

You must take care of yourself first or you won't be able to take care of anything or anyone else. that you may need to.

Surviving an affair will require you to confront and handle all of the negative thoughts and emotions, issues of trust, images of your spouse with someone else, and any self doubts.

Stage 2: Communication And Healing Together

After you have dealt with yourself first, you must come together and effectively communicate with your spouse. You must be able to discuss all the issues that concern you in order to move on to healing.

You may have a lot of anger and your spouse may feel very self conscious about what they have done, but you must communicate to feel some sense of trust that you are both committed to surviving an affair and to saving and rebuilding the relationship.

Stage 3: Relationship Reconstruction and Solidification

Once your communications become positive instead of angry outbursts and accusations, you will be ready to start reconstruction and solidifying your marriage or relationship.

Your goal is to clean the slate and recreate a stronger relationship with clear cut and well defined rules of conduct.

Next generation drones

2011-10-31T01:46:00.000-07:00

The maiden flight of a revolutionary drone aircraft that can stay in the air for four days at 65,000 feet is just days away.

The Phantom Eye, made by Boeing's secretive Phantom Works division, is powered by hydrogen and is designed to carry out surveillance and reconnaissance missions while remaining at high altitude. It will produce only water as a by-product.

Its inaugural flight will take place at Edwards Air Force Base in California and is expected to last between four and eight hours.

The maiden flight of a revolutionary drone aircraft that can stay in the air for four days at 65,000 feet is just days away.

The Phantom Eye, made by Boeing's secretive Phantom Works division, is powered by hydrogen and is designed to carry out surveillance and reconnaissance missions while remaining at high altitude. It will produce only water as a by-product.

Its inaugural flight will take place at Edwards Air Force Base in California and is expected to last between four and eight hours.

'It is a perfect example of turning an idea into a reality. It defines our rapid prototyping efforts and will demonstrate the art-of-the-possible when it comes to persistent intelligence, surveillance and reconnaissance.

'The capabilities inherent in Phantom Eye's design will offer game-changing opportunities for our military, civil and commercial customers.'

'It is a perfect example of turning an idea into a reality. It defines our rapid prototyping efforts and will demonstrate the art-of-the-possible when it comes to persistent intelligence, surveillance and reconnaissance.

'The capabilities inherent in Phantom Eye's design will offer game-changing opportunities for our military, civil and commercial customers.'

Girlfriend demanding

2011-10-31T01:45:00.000-07:00

Had his girlfriend been less demanding, Mohammad Shahzad (21) would still have his job and his reputation intact. Before he dumped his conscience, the young medical sales executive had tried to wean the woman off her Goa fancy with a flattering tattoo, a mark of his devotion for her birthday.

But when that didn't please her, he pocketed his firm's funds, told the police he had been robbed, and took her off on a long seaside holiday to Goa. Shahzad had faked the robbery in August, just four months into his job. "He claimed he was robbed by three men near the Panchkuian Road railway overbridge.

We investigated and found his call record did not tally with his story. We caught him when he tried to sell his expensive mobile, which he originally claimed was taken away by the robbers," said DCP (south) Chhaya Sharma. While sources said Shahzad had made off with a large amount - the company's collection from his area -the police have so far recovered Rs 20,600 from him.

"On August 22, Shahzad, called the police control room and reported that three men on a bike had stopped him on Panchkuian Road and snatched the sales money that he had collected from a client in Connaught Place and was taking to his office in Karol Bagh. He claimed he was held at knifepoint while the men snatched the money and his mobile phone," said Sharma.

The police had registered a case on his complaint at Mandir Marg police station. Chief investigator of the case, inspector Anil Sharma, said Shahzad's lie was nailed last Monday when they were tipped off about a man trying to sell an expensive mobile phone at Chandan Holla in Fatehpur Beri. It was Sahzad. The police picked him up on suspicion, and during interrogation he confessed the whole plot.

The police said Shahzad and his girlfriend had returned to the city just four days ago, and he had resigned from his position immediately after that. "He thought that the truth would not come to light if he sold his mobile phone to a stranger. He was carrying Rs 5,500 at the time he was caught with the expensive handset," said the DCP. Shahzad had faked the robbery in August, just four months into his job. He claimed he was robbed by three men near Panchkuian Road. His phone records didn't tally though.