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The endless discussions I have in my head and the numerous arguments between my head, heart and penhttp://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)Blogger115125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-7962807575906295998Fri, 22 Jan 2016 09:00:00 +00002016-01-22T10:00:06.461+01:00ClosureHealingLessonsLoveMoving OnRelationships Good morning my lovelies!!!! Thank God it's Friday, so I can rest my weary bones and catch up on my series. How did your week go? Sometime in July last year, I got dumped like a sack of rotten tomatoes, and before you go "awwww" , note that this was over a text message o. I felt like an emotional candy bag; every emotion you wanted, I was ready to dish out. I would go from depressed http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2016/01/closure.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-8518978849564179809Mon, 18 Jan 2016 14:27:00 +00002016-01-18T15:28:29.166+01:00LessonsLove Good afternoon my lovelies! Welcome to the new week.... How's Monday treating you? My Monday is terrible (thanks for asking).... So much accumulated work from my long weekend..... So last week, after my last post, I dropped a question asking you guys to tell me a few lessons you've learnt over time; lessons you learnt late and probably wished you knew earlier. I also promised to get my http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2016/01/love-lessons.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-1185857545763859582Mon, 11 Jan 2016 12:28:00 +00002016-01-11T13:28:19.136+01:00 Hallos my lovely lovelies!!!! How was your weekend? I hope y’all had fun, went out and did all the owambe things o…. I spent the weekend in bed with my darling laptop and my assistant boyfriend, the notepad. Welcome to the second week of the year, like play like play the year has started to fly again o. So if you haven’t started working on achieving the goals you have set for the yearhttp://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2016/01/sisterhood-blah-blah-blah.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-2825385593701068211Fri, 08 Jan 2016 11:15:00 +00002016-01-08T12:15:09.130+01:002016goalsHappy new yearresolutions Happy new year my lovelies! I hope it’s not too late to say that? Abeg it’s not! Welcome to 2016, our year of divine favor, amazing results, establishments and all the goodies we’ve asked God for. I like to say I’m not the “New Year; New Me” kinda girl, I’m more of the “resolution making” kinda girl (Esther! That sounds confusing though) Okay, this is it! Every time I pen a to-do list http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2016/01/with-love-2016.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-327571973302983881Thu, 17 Dec 2015 18:02:00 +00002015-12-17T19:02:09.242+01:00 Hallos my lovelies.......... It's been forever since I came in here and I know I have a lot of catching up to deal with, but I trust Moby and Duru won't spare me any details so there' really nothing to be scared of, I guess. So I stayed away because I didn't want to get used to strip blogging, in fact I didn't want to start it in the first place and I had so much going on and there's no way I http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/12/im-back.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-7038299312855290783Tue, 30 Jun 2015 14:53:00 +00002015-06-30T15:53:23.853+01:00FictionFiction MondaysShon EzeTDDG Continued from here Thanks to all who have kept faith with this story, this is the concluding part of the first season, we do hope that you have enjoyed the story. We hope to be back soon.  Of course you can see him for as long as you want. Just stop crying and let’s go to the hospital. Why are you being nice to me? I thought you hated me. Well, maybe cos I’m a nice person http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/06/fiction-tddg-13.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-2944288005689356146Mon, 22 Jun 2015 09:31:00 +00002015-06-22T10:31:43.838+01:00speechWelcome   GUESS WHO'S COMING BACK HOME Hello my lovely lovelies...... feels like forever since i did this but amma keep doing it anyways*whew*.... This is no epistle though; this is just my "I'm back" address..... So thank you to all of you my loves who kept refreshing this page even when you were not sure anything was going to be here..... thanks for the calls, messages to check up on me..... http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/06/i-think-im-back.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-4821886075408837907Thu, 30 Apr 2015 22:37:00 +00002015-04-30T23:37:12.540+01:0015-for-15challengedear diarymy woman tales Woman@Down.com Ladies and gentlemen of the blogger fam, the prodigal sister is here again. I can't say I'm back cos I know I'm still in hibernation, so lemme just play catch up while I'm here. Dear Diary, 9:00am on Friday, the 23rd, my calendar and reminder begin to buzz. I look at my screen and I realise it's my schedule for my #DearDiarySeries. "Oh shit! I whisper to myself. I http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/04/15-for-15-challenge-my-woman-tales-4.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)27tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-8221912521753796627Mon, 30 Mar 2015 05:00:00 +00002015-03-30T07:43:17.673+01:00FictionFiction MondaysShon EzeTDDG Continued from here As we drove to the hospital, I said a million prayers that only consisted of the words, Lord keep my daddy alive for me. I couldn’t imagine life without Pops, at least not now. Who would I run to on the days when I need a break from reality? Who would tease me incessantly about any and everything? Who would walk me down the aisle and give out my hand in marriage? No one! http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/03/fiction-tddg-12.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-1860069684132867389Sat, 28 Mar 2015 14:00:00 +00002015-03-28T15:00:25.024+01:0015-for-15challengedear diarymy woman tales Hallos my lovelies.... it's my third entry in the 15-fo-15 challenge..... I had a bad dream that Janyl Benyl kicked me out of the challenge and Duru was gloating... so I jumped out of bed and decided to put my enemies to shame..... How have y'all been? I hope you're out voting if you're in Nigeria; if you're not, I hope you're enjoying your Saturday. WOMAN@SINGLE.COM   So, http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/03/the-15-for-15-challenge-my-woman-tales-3.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-8729773708633485937Mon, 16 Mar 2015 06:47:00 +00002015-03-16T07:47:40.889+01:00FictionFiction MondaysShon EzeTDDG Continued from Here “Hello Pops.” I said into the phone “Oh my darling daughter… I can’t remember the last time we spoke. I don’t see you anymore these days. What has happened? Who’s the young man that has taken you away from me?” He teased “Pops you’re just too dramatic. How have you been?” “I’ve been good. You know I’m an advanced man now, so I’ve been taking it easy, and http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/03/fiction-tddg-11.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-6123772253379445681Thu, 12 Mar 2015 10:05:00 +00002015-03-12T11:05:33.965+01:00Proposals Hallos my lovely lovelies......  Thank God it's Friday Sorry o, I'm just practicing against tomorrow..... How has your week been so far, I hope bombastic...... This morning on my way to work, I tuned in to Top Radio, 90.9 FM for the Tosyn Bucknor road show and it was their love section today. A lady had sent a message in saying her boyfriend's mum just proposed to her and she was http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/03/will-you-marry.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-1930936523310937535Tue, 10 Mar 2015 16:14:00 +00002015-03-10T17:14:08.577+01:00 Hey my lovelies..... It seems like I start or end every post with an apology these days shey??? I'm very very very (make that very x100) sorry I ran off again even when I promised I wouldn't do it again. P.S: This May be my shortest post in the history of blogging but considering the fact that I sneaked out of work to post this, you just have to forgive me. The purpose of today's post is to say http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/03/thank-you.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-9077969987293162833Tue, 03 Mar 2015 09:07:00 +00002015-03-03T10:07:48.662+01:00AbuseSelf abuseSeries Tuesday Continued from Here Hallos my lovelies...... How is your week been so far, I hope it's been going fine cos mine has..... Today, we'll be continuing Series Tuesday with our discussion on ABUSE....... Today's focus will be on self abuse...... So sit tight, learn and enjoy  SELF ABUSE Self Abuse is defined as the intentional direct injury of one's own body with or without us http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/03/series-discussion-abuse-2.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-6258004842424156425Mon, 02 Mar 2015 05:30:00 +00002015-03-02T07:09:54.153+01:00FictionFiction MondaysShon EzeTDDG Continued from here 1 Year Later “Good morning boo. You look so beautiful when you sleep, you should sleep more often.”Chike said as he kissed my nose. “Good morning to you too.. I said and hit his head… So you’re saying I’m not beautiful when I’m awake abi?” I replied “No joor! You’re probably one of the most beautiful people I know. I’m just saying you should sleep more http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/03/fiction-tddg-10.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-5181917288541604260Fri, 27 Feb 2015 15:30:00 +00002015-02-28T02:02:38.086+01:00BirthdayWishlist Hello my lovelies..... The only spoons of granulated sugar in my ijebu garri..... the better days called weekends are on us...... THANK GOD IT'S FREAKING FRIDAY...... I'm uber excited today for no reason whatsoever.... So mi loves how did your week go? I hope it was less stressful than mine o Anyroads, a lil bird just whispered into my ears this morning that my birthday is next week Friday..http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/02/the-wishlist.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-5122331139906167381Thu, 26 Feb 2015 05:31:00 +00002015-02-26T06:31:00.445+01:00FictionFiction MondaysShon EzeTDDG Continued from here 4 years earlier… “I’ll have 3 shots of tequila please. Thank you.” I said to the bartender as I pushed my bag aside to begin drowning myself in alcohol. “Ma’am, you don’t have to pay. The gentleman on that table over there has asked that everything you order for be charged to his account.” He replied and pointed to a guy sitting two tables away. “Oh http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/02/fiction-tddg-9.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-7594242156995620566Tue, 17 Feb 2015 06:00:00 +00002015-02-17T13:56:32.972+01:00AbuseRelationshipsSeries Tuesday I promised y’all that I would only write what I know or I’m conscious of, and I’m pretty sure I’ve kept that promise well enough. Well, for Series Tuesday we’re launching a discussion series on ABUSE because it’s the most discussed issue and yet it still remains a hazard. Abuse is something majority of us do not give second thoughts to, probably cos they haven’t been victims, or because http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/02/series-discussion-abuse.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-5798949589579714348Mon, 16 Feb 2015 06:00:00 +00002015-02-16T07:50:08.272+01:00FictionFiction MondaysShon EzeTDDG Continued from here The sun sipping through the curtains brought me back to life, I searched the bedside table for my phones or wristwatch, which ever I saw first, I stumbled on my wristwatch first and it was 11am. I wanted to jump up but I couldn’t, I felt like I slept for days. Walter was facing me. “Good morning, sunshine!” Walter said in an awesome baritone voice, with cocaine http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/02/fiction-tddg-8.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-7654002252863778228Sat, 14 Feb 2015 13:19:00 +00002015-02-14T14:19:33.396+01:0015-for-15challengemy woman tales Turn up it's the second entry in the J.B inspired 15-for-15 challenge..... My Woman Tales2 .aka. My Dear Diary series..... So sit tight, read, comment, share and enjoy..... My current situation Woman@nodates.com Dear Diary, it's Feb the 14th again, one of my least favorite days of the year...... I have been trying to keep my "bitterness" in check and not drop this rant but I can't help http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/02/the-15-for-15-challenge-my-woman-tales-2.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-117843593017368265Fri, 13 Feb 2015 17:08:00 +00002015-02-13T18:10:12.661+01:00CharityDumpsHope4LyfeFoundationInspirationalSufferingThe Dustbin Estate Last week, we had a brief discussion on the Dustbin Estate, Ajegunle [click here if you missed it] and I told y'all that The Hope 4 Lyfe Foundation would be visiting there on the 7th, and we did.  See ehn, in this life eh I have seen things but not once did I imagine what I saw on Saturday.... this dustbin estate is actually a dustbin in all its essence.... they said thehttp://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/02/the-dustbin-estate-ajegunle.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-347936867198203998Thu, 05 Feb 2015 15:15:00 +00002015-02-13T18:10:47.477+01:00Bloggers FeatureGuest postSelf therapy Good morning lovelies...... I'm so sorry I've been AWOL I promise it's for good cause... I've been out making money for us o that's why...... Today's guest blogger is my fellow petite lady, and I just learnt her name is Omowunmi (I likey)...... her post today is a sort of self therapy..... so sit, read, learn, comment, share and most importantly ENJOY. Let’s try this as a group therapy scenehttp://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/02/guest-post-talking-to-me.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-4986063468245013219Mon, 02 Feb 2015 09:02:00 +00002015-02-02T10:02:14.102+01:00FictionFiction MondaysShon EzeTDDG Continued from here “Hi Walter, thank you for offering but I can pay my bills.” OMG! What was he doing around here? I turned to the waitress, “My dear, let me go to the bank across and use their atm, I’ll be right back.” “You could save yourself the stress and use my card.” he said again. “I’m sure I spoke English when I said I can pay my bills myself, or do I have to repeat thathttp://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/02/fiction-tddg-7.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-5870097341225166728Mon, 02 Feb 2015 08:47:00 +00002015-02-02T10:10:59.188+01:00DumpsHope4LyfeFoundationInspirationalThe Dustbin Estate Good morning my lovelies..... this morning we're talking about Charity and helping people out...... Our focus today is THE DUSTBIN ESTATE. As the name denotes, THE DUSTBIN ESTATE is a community in Ajegunle, Ajeromi-Ifelodun Local Government Area, Lagos where the inhabitants build their houses with planks on these dumps. They have only 3 toilets in the entire community and they're not the http://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/02/hope-4-lyfe-foundation.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1799494036033151776.post-770081142710851299Wed, 28 Jan 2015 14:03:00 +00002015-02-02T10:14:17.050+01:00Adverts WednesdayCakesSalesValentineYetbum Global Concept Ltd Elections have been fixed for February 14th… you’re thinking of the best way to celebrate Valentine with The One you love the most, without going out and putting either of you in harm’s way…… Well, worry no more!!! YetBum Global Concept Ltd just deduced a way out!!!!! How about you both stay in and get loved up with CAKES n CHOPZ…… and at lower rates than usual???? YetBum Globalhttp://thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2015/01/adverts-valentine-sales.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Anonymous)11