tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17916123848311247332026-09-11T08:37:13.045+01:00We discuss matters that affect us and have a lil fun doing that. We do it all here; gossip,politics,entertainment and relationship mattaz!Onyinye Chukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12848071872059215717noreply@blogger.comBlogger32813tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791612384831124733.post-16499275314127375402019-04-26T09:58:00.000+01:002019-04-26T10:06:38.925+01:00<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLRLB4shugzmrI4G4nsEDsXjX3O42QkgRyRNClWjBtsRMniIUhU32xsvri4zaIduSjR6q4RbLMtBt5l8H90eDtL5Ivts0cO_mDDcDL32hrKFAjPHY6wuzEoIURt-sghQtpEaAAjTV1vAdE/s1600/4558058e95a47624a6bfb1e17a7ba75d.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="768" data-original-width="564" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLRLB4shugzmrI4G4nsEDsXjX3O42QkgRyRNClWjBtsRMniIUhU32xsvri4zaIduSjR6q4RbLMtBt5l8H90eDtL5Ivts0cO_mDDcDL32hrKFAjPHY6wuzEoIURt-sghQtpEaAAjTV1vAdE/s320/4558058e95a47624a6bfb1e17a7ba75d.jpg" width="235" /></a></div> <span id="goog_1042401616"></span><span id="goog_1042401617"></span>We know that in relationships and when faced with problems men tend to think with the logical left side of the brain, and women, with <br /> <a name='more'></a>the much more emotionalright side of the brain.<br /> <br /> <br /> I'm in a relationship fix right now. My head argues that he's matured enough age wise, he's got a good job, he's Nice -albeit a little boring and predictable - he's obviously ready to settle down and he's totally obsessed with me. The thing is, my heart says a big NO!&nbsp; There's no chemistry whatsoever ,there are no butterflies in my stomach, there's no thrill, he just doesn't... Do it for me. In essence, there is no tza tza tzu in the pit of my stomach. <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtkQjCQ3OUwBLC5JdzBM2vxF8NApjeZEagID1j47kjzHoQhHSP_tNkS7_EdsuwWadaTbHCBgDyeKG6k-RQVCNRwj-deYZhCXzXzl5IC_d08YTbQDBJFYncd0j8waKf4fj2kU2YOkkOkRJ8/s1600/0dea63ba8a08d69788845d12c7a9e347.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="474" data-original-width="474" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtkQjCQ3OUwBLC5JdzBM2vxF8NApjeZEagID1j47kjzHoQhHSP_tNkS7_EdsuwWadaTbHCBgDyeKG6k-RQVCNRwj-deYZhCXzXzl5IC_d08YTbQDBJFYncd0j8waKf4fj2kU2YOkkOkRJ8/s320/0dea63ba8a08d69788845d12c7a9e347.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <br /> What do I do? Do I heed my head or my heart?<br /> <br /> <br /></div> Onyinye Chukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12848071872059215717noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791612384831124733.post-89142344228063972222019-04-26T09:48:00.000+01:002019-04-26T10:03:49.322+01:00<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEht88if1PfPh5qyF13raqXZuwhSnX3SIYO3dq-2xYRgIhNgKjWz6QBI7i46ZAKv-ZBDzvkDor6hAfRxsOCuYXjmNnBsR9G6QjVF7iCC7i8jGPMeBJR46OrsvlObRgWDCC_9sHuINyCvqu_Q/s1600/IMG_20190426_094319_112.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="787" data-original-width="1080" height="233" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEht88if1PfPh5qyF13raqXZuwhSnX3SIYO3dq-2xYRgIhNgKjWz6QBI7i46ZAKv-ZBDzvkDor6hAfRxsOCuYXjmNnBsR9G6QjVF7iCC7i8jGPMeBJR46OrsvlObRgWDCC_9sHuINyCvqu_Q/s320/IMG_20190426_094319_112.JPG" width="320" /></a></div> I came across this write up and it rang so true, but almost impossible. In theory, we sprout sayings and relationship "do's" and "don'ts" <br /> <a name='more'></a>and how it's weak willed people who can't follow these simple rules.<br /> <br /> In reality, it's hard as hell to practice. Sometimes the heart wants what the heart wants, and telling yourself not to want him or her, is tantamount to telling the Earth not to rotate or revolve. Believe me, I've been there.<br /> <br /> However, there comes a time when your head says to your heart "enough is enough ", then and only then can you heed the last line.<br /> <br /> I need an Amen.&nbsp;</div> Onyinye Chukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12848071872059215717noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791612384831124733.post-49278073917903586242018-09-17T14:55:00.000+01:002018-09-17T14:55:13.996+01:00<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNZbsNwp45Ou8I-0dkD557_Irm_sIL0ZSXaPdDoK3NOfy5jSTjA7JS1tUnFRC0OF817Q-_b0jkIpxf0t6eRkevlsxzYdEpMJQCI5vLFUNxy-UidWVsJoXc2JVkHmxM2_ETAAV4LVPAdLB9/s1600/no+sea.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="224" data-original-width="225" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNZbsNwp45Ou8I-0dkD557_Irm_sIL0ZSXaPdDoK3NOfy5jSTjA7JS1tUnFRC0OF817Q-_b0jkIpxf0t6eRkevlsxzYdEpMJQCI5vLFUNxy-UidWVsJoXc2JVkHmxM2_ETAAV4LVPAdLB9/s1600/no+sea.jpg" /></a></div> Wow, where to start from. A lot has happened since the last time I posted anything here. Since then I have survived a life threatening event , my house almost burned down, near misses of accidents, financial loss, met new and wonderful friends , lost weight and gained it back, gotten a new niece, <br /> <a name='more'></a>been happy and sad,laughed and cried and whole lot of other things. most importantly, I have grown. In all of it, i give thanks to God.<br /> <br /> Anyway, I have decided that this is going to be my personal corner, the one place where I can just be, a sort of "Bridget Jones" diary if you will.<br /> <br /> I will also be uploading new books for the book lovers starting with a timeless, wisdom filled book titled "The Alchemist".</div> Onyinye Chukwuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12848071872059215717noreply@blogger.com1