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Captain's Adventure in Shanghai #6

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Tue, 08 May 2012 14:57:11 PDT

On April 6-8th, Captain went to spend his long weekend holiday in Beijing all by himself.
Initially, he bought roundway ticket via eLong. It had cost him CNY1390 (Ticket price CNY1010 and Taxes CNY380). And then he departured from Hongqiao Airport at 13.00 on April 6th. The China Eastern Airlines MU5111 flight almost took him two hours to Capitol Airport. Until evening he searched for a hotel to stay and personally bought a new digital camera.

Drum Temple near Captain's hotel

Captain was on two days Beijing Tour Package from China Tour. He chose Coach Tour (join small group bus tour) for amount of 400CNY. The bus picked him up on his hotel every morning, and brought him back there after the tour ended. On Saturday he went to Great Wall and Ming Tomb, on Sunday he visited Forbidden City, Summer Palace, and Temple of Heaven. Most pictures are still on his camera, he hasn't uploaded it yet.

So the trip has finally over. At Sunday, April 8th 8.30 PM, his Air China CA1589 flight departured from Capital Airport and arrived at Hongqiao Airport two hours later. He took a full day rest on Monday, before went back to work on Tuesday. Here is Captain's little souvenir from Great Wall, dedicated for me :P

Only enlightened people can read its hidden messages :-)

Cherrybelle Controversy

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Mon, 07 May 2012 01:43:55 PDT

Cherrybelle's last performance with Devi and Wenda

This post is dedicated to my BFF, U9.

One day U9 texted me her disappointment of recent uproar related to Cherrybelle, one of the most notorious girlband group in Indonesia after the second Hallyu wave hit the country. Cherrybelle had just celebrated their first anniversary (they’re debuted on February 27th, 2011) by releasing their first biopic movie “Love is U”. Then a controversy broke out, after their management held a press conference on April 12th announcing two personnels, Devi (age 24) and Wenda (age 22), was kicked out. It turned the whole table for us, as we lost our respect and fondness toward Cherrybelle.

By the way, we’re not sure whether we can call ourselves as Twibi (Cherrybelle’s fandom), because we haven’t bought any CDs of them. We just like them better than other girlbands in Indonesia. Particularly, I like them because of their cute and down-to-earth image. I have seen their rigorous practices. I have to admit that they’re very discipline, yet still cheerful and high-spirited doing all of their routines. Their songs are good too, aimed at general audience, hence the lyrics is suitable for kids to early adulthood. Many other girlbands in Indonesia are only sell sexy images and cheap lyrics, not even memorable. But Cherrybelle is different. I started to like them after I saw their first anniversary concert on TV.

Back to our dismay, we just couldn’t belive what the producers said about the reason they fired Devi and Wenda, just because they’re older than the rest and didn’t fit in Cherrybelle’s concept anymore. The other girls were informed about this decision two days before the press conference! Fyi, according to the producers Dino Raturandang dan Teguh Sanjaya, Cherrybelle was meticulously prepared not only as a girlband, but also as a brand. Three concepts of Cherrybelle are: 1) fun and teen girl; 2) singing and dance skill; and 3) good looking with aura star. Hence, Devi as the oldest, and Wenda, were considered too mature as member. Of course, the other members: Cherly (the leader), Angel, Ryn, Christy, Felly, Anisa, and Gigi (the youngest) were sad, but there’s nothing they could do about it. I don’t blame the members for what happened to them, though. They’re solely the agency’s product, or brand, so called. Their way of thinking and behavior is shaped by the trainers and agency.

Upon hearing this, I screamed out loud on my mind. How could they just tell us that now? We thought their formation will be last forever. Maybe we hoped too high, U9 even compared them them to SNSD, who said will stayed together until they’re all grandmas. But how dare they released “Best Friend Forever” song, if they’re all replaceable and only temporary? It’s like an act of treachery! They should’ve been honest to us since the beginning, openly warned Twibis that they’re not fixed, only temporary, depends on management decisions. They’re talking about a concept? Then why two members with the most ability to sing and dance is thrown out, not the others who can’t either sing or dance, like Ryn and Felly? Better yet, why don’t they fully adopted Morning Musume or After School concept’s of admission-graduation member, so we won’t be shocked with its ever fluctuating line-up? It makes sense more than the lame “mature enough as a woman” reason. And here’s the kick: next year, Angel, Anisa, Christy, and Felly will be 22 years old. So, will they be kicked out just like Wenda now? Time will answer. I can’t wait to see what will happened to them. If the management won’t fire them, it means they’re all just a bunch of hypocrites. Quoting U9 words to them, “BFF my ass!”

Captain's First Gig: 2012 Sykes Annual Party

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:09:43 PDT

I was gonna immerse this post with the previous one under the weekends subtitle, but due to the great length it already has, I made up my mind. So these are some screencaps I made from Captain's band performance video from Sykes Annual Party. In this band there were two Indonesian (Captain held drum and his friend held guitar), a Filipino vocalist and a Chinese Vocalist, (which was very handsome, I must say), and the keyboardist, bassist, and other guitar player were also from Shanghai. First they played Limb Bizkit song with their masks on, and then the vocalist introduce all members by opening their mask (I couldn't hold a laugh seeing Captain's grin), followed by Linkin Park's song, and then a pantomime artist joined the stage, masking the real singer behind the stage sang a Chinese song. I was quite surprise with the idea, the artist himself was funny. He even brought a little girl up on stage! I could tell from the audience response that they're having fun. Good job, Captain and friends!

Look at that smile.. I feel like I'm a proud mom watching her son's school play
XD

Oh my, the Chinese vocalist is so handsome >.<

Captain's Adventure in Shanghai #5

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 09:51:35 PDT

I'm back! Really loooong time since the last time I've updated this blog. Well, apparently Captain couldn't write anything by himself, so here I go, start typing again. I just realized, almost one and a half years Captain has resided in Shanghai, but how come I never posted any maps? All I have posted was just tourism objects he's visited, and some cooks he made. Thus now I'll try to dig deeper on his everyday's life.

-Home-
First week he arrived in Shanghai, he stayed in a hotel. Then he stayed in a house, sharing with a friend from Indonesia. The next year, he moved out and chose a flat/studio to live in. Usually he paid the rent for 6 month ahead. Don't ask me how much it costs, because I'm bad at math :P But I know for sure, his last place is only 10 minutes to office by walking, got a mini fridge, AC/heater, cubicle shower bathroom (with hot water and its wall made from transparent glass, love it), TV cable, desk, a window to see city's view. Too bad it has no balcony tho, it'll be awesome. His previous home was a bit further from office. Both of his places have wifi connection. Actually, I could post pictures of his rooms, but I'm afraid that'll breach his privacy, so I'll just post the door and map of his homes :P

His apartment's hallway

Blue pin is his apartment now, purple pin is
his office

Captain's old apartment is the purple pin

Wenshui Train Station, Captain
has to walk first to get a train

-Weekdays-
Captain wakes up at 8 AM, getting ready for work and then leaves. Work starts at 9 AM. Usually he'll be home by 5 PM. Sometimes he prepares his own breakfast and packs for lunch. But he can also buy lunch from nearby moslem food, korean food, or other restaurants. If he's running out of time to work, or hindered by hard rain, he could use taxi or motorcycle. He used to have a bicycle, and rode it during his first years, but since a thief stole its pad (and his pad only!), he just lost any urge to ride it again. Here is some pictures of his workplace, transportation, and restaurants where he usually go for lunch.

Captain's desk in Sykes, he works as TSE in Hawlett-Packard,
Shanghai, China

This cubicle reminds me of a scene in movie Wanted

Captain used this bicycle to go to work, until a thief stole its seat

Rainy days, better use taxi

Inside the taxi

-Foods and shopping-

Captain's favorite shopping place is RT Mart, but in case of quick shopping he can just go to mini market stores right below his apartment. He doesn't shop much, only eggs, milks, some vegetables, international prepaid phone cards to call me (rare occasion), and toiletries. Even I have to force him to buy a lotion! The weather can gets very cold there, so I'm worried he'll get blisters or dry skin. These are some pictures of foods and shops. Too bad he never write down the food names.

I think this is a mini market :P

Lunch

Another lunch

If Captain needs to shop for groceries, he'll
go to the purple one, RT Mart

RT Mart from outside

Inside the RT Mart

This is fried rice and satay from Bali Bistro, an
Indonesian restaurant

His typical food for dinner

Street food stalls in a traditional moslem market near Huxi Mosque

Captain often goes to Huxi Mosque to do Friday prayer

Captain doesn't know this food's name

Big feast with Captain's friends after band practice

I don't know what it is, but it looks delicious

Moslem food restaurant is the purple pin,
blue pin is his office

Moslem food

Fancy restaurants in Shanghai are always
full during New Year's Eve

Another food feast

-Weekends-

What does Captain do on weekends? Besides sometimes taking extra hour for work, he has band practice usually on Saturday. So far he had performed twice, on Sykes Annual Party (as drummer, played Limb Bizkit, Linkin Park, and a Chinese song) and Rooftop Cafe (as guitarist, playing Indonesian accoustic songs). Other days, he'll just do the laundry, clean the house, or hang out with friends. Here are some of the pictures.

Captain's band practice

Captain's second gig, on Rooftop Cafe

Rooftop Cafe at evening

Crowds start to fill in

Captain is making a phone call with me

Captain on a red plaid shirt

And.. showtime!

My 23rd Birthday and Why We Love Men

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 06:18:57 PDT

From this year onward, my age will start running faster than my birthday.

That's right, I was born on March 22nd. Every year, I'm aging with carefree mind. As long as it's not 22 yet, I consider myself young. I don't even count it. All I could remember was having several food treats with my classmates in schools, my family in US threw a party for my 18th birthday, and since college everything just went vivid. I had written a post 'Turning 21 on 21st Century' on 2010 here, but I forgot to make such post titled 'Finally 22 on 22' last year. As silly as it may sounds, but I really should've written it, because it was the equilibrium point of my age.

I know most people are having the same situation. Their age will eventually surpassed their birth date, since the latest day on our calendar is 31, unless they are called by God to go to heaven early. Therefore, I should've thanked God for all the blessings I receive, that I'm still fortunate enough to live healthy, and surrounded by good people. Thank you so much, God, for everything. From now on, I will embrace my life and be thankful.

Now, I reached age 23. At this age, I have so many goals already. Year 2012 is supposed to be my year. Everything seems perfect based on the Chinese astrology calendar (apparently Water Dragon is a good friend with my shio, Snake). This year is also my last year in college, thus I have to wear those graduation cap and robe before it's too late. And what usually my fellow Indonesians do after having their bachelor degree? Of course get a full-time job. Some others will take a year or so travelling around the world, some others will tie a knot with their significant other. So basically, many great plans and important decisions will be made this year. I hope God would help me make them come true.

Six years ago, I had no idea what will I become today. And maybe the same thing applies to me six years from now, maybe a totally different spot I'd imagine. Still, I need to appreciate people who love me for whoever I am. They're truly sincere in helping my life. They are my parents, my sister (it's a rare occasion for her to call me, eventhough it's only a short time), my family, my friends (Unin made a birthday post about me on her blog, and this year Lulu did the same on her blog; Wilya sent me an early birthday present last year --22 days in advance-- and this year she did the same thing, but only two days early), and my Captain (he bought me a special birthday cake, and called from Shanghai for one hour). Also I got many congratulatory messages from some friends in facebook, despite me having my birth date deleted from facebook profile, to reveal who my real friends are (and avoiding wall clutters). On evening, I made spaghetti for my family, and my friends who were accidentaly present at my house: Lulu and Fath.

I posted a note in facebook that I think might be suitable for my life's reflection. It's from my favourite author, Paulo Coelho. And also I copied this from his blog, SOME of its collections ring a bell to me, makes me smile upon reading it. Can you see yourself on this, Captain? This is how I mostly see you from my eyes.

"Why We Love Men"

A Facebook friend sent me an email with some of the lines below. I did some research with other friends and compiled a full list. Please feel free to add more items.

We love men because..

Because they write poems, songs, and books in our honor.

Because they never understand us, but they never give up.

Because they can see beauty in women when women have long ceased to see any beauty in themselves.

Because they come from little boys.

Because they can churn out long, intricate, Machiavellian, or incredibly complex mathematics and physics equations, but they can be comparably clueless when it comes to women.

Because they are incredible lovers and never rest until we’re happy.

Because they elevate sports to religion.

Because they’re never afraid of the dark.

Because they don’t care how they look or if they age.

Because they persevere in making and repairing things beyond their abilities, with the naïve self-assurance of the teenage boy who knew everything.

Because they never wear or dream of wearing high heels.

Because they’re always ready for sex, and they can never fake orgasms, even if they wanted to.

Because they’re like pomegranates: lots of inedible parts, but the juicy seeds are incredibly tasty and succulent and usually exceed your expectations.

Because they’re afraid to go bald.

Because you always know what they think and they always mean what they say.

Because they love machines, tools, and implements with the same ferocity women love jewelry.
Because they go to great lengths to hide, unsuccessfully, that they are frail and human.

Because they either speak too much or not at all to that end.

Because they always finish the food on their plate.

Because they are brave in front of insects and mice.

Because a well-spoken four-year old girl can reduce them to silence, and a beautiful 25-year old can reduce them to slobbering idiots.

Because they want to be either omnivorous or ascetic, warriors or lovers, artists or generals, but nothing in-between.

Because for them there’s no such thing as too much adrenaline.
Because when all is said and done, they can’t live without us, no matter how hard they try.

Because they’re truly as simple as they claim to be.

Because they love extremes and when they go to extremes, we’re there to catch them.
Because they are tender they when they cry, and how seldom they do it.
Because what they lack in talk, they tend to make up for in action.

Because they make excellent companions when driving through rough neighborhoods or walking past dark alleys.

Because they really love their moms, and they remind us of our dads.

Because they never care what their horoscope, their mother-in-law, nor the neighbors say.

Because they don’t lie about their age, their weight, or their clothing size.

Because they have an uncanny ability to look deeply into our eyes and connect with our heart, even when we don’t want them to.

Because when we say “I love you” they ask for an explanation.

Source

Captain's Adventure in Shanghai #4

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Mon, 27 Feb 2012 11:06:51 PST

So on December 11th, Captain and his friends visited Lion Grove Garden and Jade Buddha Temple in Shanghai. They ride metro train, had a meal there, and enjoyed the sightseeing amidst -1 Celcius degree temperature.

That's my hat and gloves that I gave him <3

Captain brought me present, our shio medallions

This Christmas break, Captain and his friends visited Nanjing. We'll update you with the pictures as soon as he arrived ^^ Happy Holiday!

Captain, A Musician

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Sun, 25 Dec 2011 04:20:11 PST

I always have a thing for musician, since I was in high school. If my middle school was an era of boyband-boom (say Backstreet Boys and Westlife), then on my high school, I was introduced to Japanese music by my close friends. At that time, L'Arc ~ en ~ Ciel was my craze. It's also around the time when bands are rising in Indonesia. Many school festivals are showing indie bands and major bands. Meanwhile, radio also playing many songs from bands. So I think these things triggered me to always prefer a musician than an athlete, actor, or any other specialties.

Captain has been playing instruments since he was in middle school. Usually he's a guitarist, but he could also play drums and bass. He played in school bands and college bands. In fact, at the beginning of our relationship when I barely knew him, he gave me one of his demo tape. Too bad until now I've never seen him playing live on stage. I only knew he was in two bands named Robin Hood and Puppet Strings, often played in my campus on Sunday morning and my school once, and had done a tribute stage for Muse in Java Cafe. Unfortunately, he's bad at keeping archives of them. If I met him 3 years earlier, I am sure I will keep a good record of his career.

Maybe I've fallen for Captain for the same reason. Or maybe, he knew how to use it as his charm too well. I don't know, but there's also a possibility that he was attracted to me because I like music, right? It's God mystery.

When he got his bachelor degree, he decided to give up on music career to pursue another career path. He'd just keep music as the only thing that makes him sane. When he needs serenity, he'll go back to music. It's like his hometown, running on his blood, laying on his heart. This went on until he finished his master study. And then, when he's working in Sykes Shanghai, an opportunity to playing in a band again finally knocked on his door.

He'll be playing with his co-workers team for Sykes Annual Year-End Party. Because they are short of players, he's in charge of guitar, drums and vocal itself. I don't really understand how come he becomes the vocalist, LOL. And he's offered a guitarist position in a band which will play top 40 songs genre in cafe. These couple weeks he's been practicing with his bands every Saturday. I hope he'll deliver a good performance. Can't wait to see how it goes, I'm glad he's back to his passion again.

Practicing with his co-workers from Sykes

I asked him to do a cover, and he did. One of my favorite songs, Hinder - Lips of an Angel.
Thank you Captain! Please make more cover songs ^^

My Trip to Solo

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Sun, 25 Dec 2011 01:32:50 PST

I have been to Solo three times. First, I went there with Lulu - Fath - Luki on May 2009. We had fun that time, and the photos can be found on my facebook. Two years later, I had to visit Solo again, to attend my aunt's master graduation, on its one of the best universities there: Universitas Sebelas Maret. So I asked Fath company on my first visit there, and then one week later I went there by myself. Quite a heart-thumping experience haha..

I noticed that the roads in Solo are much bigger than in Jogja, hence the traffic was more comfortable there, as no intense traffic jam. Maybe the same with Jogja's traffic a decade ago. And the UNS building itself I found was more user-friendly for people with special needs than my own university. I saw they have their own public buses on campus and more green areas. It also accommodates students need for praying no matter what their religions are. It amazes me how they could build mosques, church, and temple on campus, meanwhile my campus only have mosques, I guess.

Here are some of the pics taken in the trip.

Departed from Lempuyangan Station

UNS Entrance Gate

UNS Auditorium Building

UNS Postgraduate Program Building

The sign shows direction to mosque, temple, and church
in UNS

Solobalapan Station Parking Lot

Solobalapan Station Lobby

Inside the Solobalapan Station

Bale Manganti Executive Lounge

My aunt's family picture after the master graduation ceremony

The flower I bought for my aunt, with help from Fath
to bargain it :P I hope on my graduation day
I'll get many flowers :D

Railshop Papercraft

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Sat, 24 Dec 2011 11:49:12 PST

Hi, I'm back again. Many things occupied my mind lately, it's just getting bigger and bigger along the days. So I have to post it quickly now.

I heard about paper craft since couple years ago, but I never make or even touch it for once. Until finally, on the day of my aunt's master graduation ceremony, I waited my train in executive lounge on Solobalapan Railway Station, and I saw these cute paper craft souvenirs. They are staffs characters on train. I was thinking, how could I never bother to try make one? It deserved a chance. So I bought it home, and assembled them by myself. I was proud of it although seemed a bit maladroit, haha..

Well at least I have something to show and tell my kids someday.

Indonesian Twin Couples

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Sat, 24 Dec 2011 12:01:01 PST

Some people say if a couple look-alike, it means they are destined to be together. So the more they look like twins, the higher chance they are a real soul mates. Therefore, as a keen celebs observer, I think these couples look so similar to each other.

1. Zaskia Sungkar - Irwansyah

2. Ibas Yudhoyono - Aliya Rajasa

3. Dewi Rezer - Marcellino Lefrandt

4. Ussy Sulistiowati - Andhika Pratama

5. Ayu Dian - Ananda Omesh

So what do you think? Any other suggestions? By the way, a friend of mine once seriously thought Captain was my brother when he picked me up in my part time job, because she said we seemed look-alike :P

Happy Birthday, Captain!

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 05:17:39 PST

Dear Captain,

Thank you for your support all this time.
I hope God still let me be with you through good and bad times for many decades ahead,
until God sets us apart..
I hope you can reach all your dreams, always in a good health, and become a better man each day.
I hope your true sincerity, kindness, and goodness in your heart
will spark toward everyone around us.
And for those who don't see it, that's their own loss.
I pray you will be surrounded by good people,1
never lose faith,
and keep strong in wherever you are.
I love you Captain.

This is your surprise birthday gift, Captain!
I bought it during my trip to Surabaya, in House of Sampoerna,
the producer of your ex-favorite cigarette :P
If you wanna know what's inside,
come to Indonesia and see it yourself!
I'll keep it safe until we meet again :)

My Trip to Surabaya

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 05:31:33 PST

On November 17-19, I joined my college student newspaper club trip to Surabaya, East Java. I went ecstatic as that was my first time. You know, I haven't been to other cities beside Kuningan as my hometown, Solo with Spinpop gang, and Jakarta on a very brief meeting with Captain. So I asked Lulu to sit with me and the journey began!

After 8-hours drive, our bus arrived in Al Akbar National Mosque by 5.30 AM

It has a 99 meter tower, but we didn't get a chance to come inside because it's not open yet

So cute: Male "Sura" and female "Baya"

More info click here

Next stop was.. House of Sampoerna!

Unfortunately we're only allowed to take photographs on 1st floor.
On 2nd floor there're souvenirs, merchandise, and we could see
the real Sampoerna labors doing their work

So many cool stuffs were restored in this Sampoerna's founder
first factory

There's no way we'd leave Surabaya without
stepped in the biggest mall first: Tunjungan Plaza
More info

Traffic view as seen from the pedestrian bridge

We had lunch break in City Hall area

City Hall

Simpang Post Office

And finally, our main destination: Jawa Pos office in Graha Pena

At evening before we went back to Yogyakarta, we had dinner in Bungkul Park. It's a complete park with playground area, skateboarding area, water fountain, food stalls, and even a sacred cemetery.
And then in the middle of our trip back home, we stopped in a restaurant named Putra Jawa Timur. Me and Lulu bought some foods as souvenirs there. I went home by myself, rode a bus and walked. There are two things I haven't done that I really wanted to do though: riding city tour bus from House of Sampoerna and shopping in Cakcuk. Wish I could visit Surabaya again :)

Captain's Adventure in Shanghai #3

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 02:27:49 PST

Captain once again melted my heart.
When I'm in the middle of KKN program, I made some boys from my KKN neighborhood got a chance to sing live in a local radio program. During that broadcast time, Captain sent a message to the announcer, asked some questions about the group, and.. this is the most important part.. gave greeting to me! He mentioned my name and even called me pretty *blushed* So the whole city heard his love to me, LOL.

I found a song which we can relate to our relationship hehe..
Orange Caramel - Shanghai Romance

And guess what.. Captain can cook better than me! Well someday I'll surpass his skill, that's for sure. But at least I can count on him LOL.. Right now I'll show you some pictures of various meals he made by his own hands for lunch and dinner. They look tasty! Captain, I adore you :-*

The Aftermath

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 01:51:03 PST

Eighteen days after my Dad’s 48th birthday, and just two days after I bought my first smartphone with my own savings, Dad got a major stroke attack. It was Saturday evening, October 1st 2011, a day which no one had ever thought something bad will happen. He was at school in Kuningan, sticking midterm exam number onto student’s chairs, while at the same time Mom, who just arrived in Yogyakarta 12 hours before to start a catering project, were with me at home. I got a phone call from unknown number, at first i was gong to ignore it like usual, but somehow I decided to pick it up anyway.

It was from Dad’s colleague, trying to reach Mom’s cellphone but she didn’t answer it. He told me Dad was rushed to nearby hospital after lost consciousness. In emergency room, doctor said it was stroke because of hemorrhage (leakage of blood) on Dad’s right brain area. Dad has a long history of blood hypertension, but it was the first time stroke ever happened to him. I immediately called Mom and gave the phone to her. I told Grandma, who was busy cooking, and couldn’t stop myself from shaking. My knees went soft as I bursted tears. During my whole life, I experienced myself how it felt to have a family member stricken to bed because of stroke.

That Saturday night, me and Mom ordered a travel back to Kuningan. During our travel to Sekar Kamulyan Hospital in Cigugur, Kuningan, I couldn't stop imagining what would my life be after this. I knew how my life felt different from others after 17 years living in a house full of grandparents (which grandpa also had stroke for 27 years), aunts, uncles, and a new cousin since I came back from US. I honestly always wanna break free from this house. And now I'm afraid my favorite Dad would change. Mom's thought was also full of many things.

Twelve hours after the stroke attack, Dad
slept like a baby. This condition lasted for two days.

The first time I saw Dad on his bed in room 8, I really wanna cry right there. But I've been told before not to shed tears, or even show any sad expression in front of him, so I held my tears tight, walked into him, and kissed him on forehead. I smiled and acted as if nothing happened even though oxygen tubes were all over his head and he couldn't even open his eyes for more than 3 seconds. Praise the God, Dad didn't lose his memory. But he couldn't move his left arm and legs. For nearly a week there, Dad was constantly sleeping, snoring, and barely awoke only during meal times. That condition triggered my sister to cry once in front of him as soon as she arrived from Depok, she stared at me with her bloodshot eyes so I dragged her out of room.

Mom slept on the couch, Dad slept on bed beside her, while
me and my sister slept on the floor.

It was a a hard time for all of us. Our heart shields were eventually broken on each own time. Mom was having the hardest time, of course. She tried to project what would the best option for the worst situation, how it would affect her children, and she's alone with all that. She tried her best not to cry in front of everyone, but when Dad slept all the time she couldn't hold it at last. Thank God there were so many good-hearted people surrounding Dad. They helped us by checking every days and nights, even stayed at hospital to take care of Dad although they were also busy with school mid-term exam. I could feel their empathy directed to us because we're all women with no men to help.

On Sunday, Dad needed to be taken to a laboratory in Cirebon for CT-scan. Mom and I accompanied our half-asleep Dad to Klinik Mitra Cirebon. It was the first time in my life riding an ambulance with siren on. The test result came out Monday, it showed a large area in which Dad's brain was affected by hemorrhage. But because Mom lost her patience with doctor's slow response there, she wanted to move Dad to a bigger, better hospital in Cirebon. This was also under influence from Dad's colleagues who wanted Dad got no impending treatment.

Hospital garden

Mom and Dad in HCU room

So on Monday, we pushed Dad's check out to Cirebon. This was not an easy task either, because the previous hospital was giving confusing administration requirements. Finally at afternoon we arrived to Mitra Plumbon Hospital by tremendous help from Dad's friends. It was a big and sophisticated hospital with gorgeous garden. Dad was taken to HCU room for two days while there's only me, Mom, and my sister left there. We could only see him inside HCU twice a day, each for 2 hours. We must wear a hygienic robe and enter the room in pair only. We slept on the lobby's floor. It felt as if we're waiting in an airport during flight transit.

HCU lobby

The thing made me sad was, watching Dad being defenseless, unconscious, and opened his red eyes for a very short moment. Whenever it was the visit time, we always optimized it. During those times waiting for it, we just ate or slept in the hall with many other patients' families. In HCU among other patients, Dad was the only one requested extra blanket and no catheter. He said to us he was cold. And also in that room I saw many electronic tools I watched only in TV dramas.

Meal time

Mom and Dad's sweet moments

Thank God, Dad was in better health condition each day. After 2 days, he was moved to a deluxe room number 110. But he complained his head was hurt really bad so that we had to always gave him hot cloth for his forehead. For a week after that, we all took care of Dad. We all slept on the narrow floor. Mom was battling with her dilemma, to agree with Doctor's suggestion and take a brain surgery for Dad, or agree with Dad's siblings opinion who wanted to give Dad alternative treatment in Garut. Me and my sister resided with Doctor's words because we couldn't stand watching Dad in pain like that. But Mom was afraid to take the risk, which may lead to death. In support of Dad's family and my grandmother, finally Mom chose to take Dad to Garut. At that time, me and my sister felt angry, frustrate, hate, and sad because we thought we have no voice to do anything. We wanted Dad to be healed immediately, and we were horrified with the possibility Dad's hemorrhage worsened on the road.

Practice time

In the end, I just had to deal with their decision. My sister had to go back to Depok so I was their only company alongside my uncle. But my depression were lifted a bit when I saw how lovingly Mom took care of Dad, and my heart once again could smile when I saw Dad's willingness to get better. In Garut, we stayed at my aunt's house. There's also my sick grandma, so it's like a small hospital, funny. During the alternative treatment, Dad hated reflexology massage and its herbal medicine, it's so bitter. But me and Mom kept pushing him. Many people and relatives also visited us. It's so nice of them, everybody loved Dad.

During this time, I remembered there's one time I disappointed at Dad. I told you I was afraid Dad would change into a strange person because he's the man I love the most in my family, and I didn't want him to be like my grandpa. So there's a time when Dad was not the one I knew. He changed, and I didn't like it. I was hurt by his attitude, so sad. I want my old Dad back, the most loving and funny man on earth. I was scared I'd losing him. After 1 day I stayed away from him and Mom, finally he didn't upset me anymore, I was glad.

Everyday, Mom would accompany
Dad when he goes
to school and come back home.

Every evening, Dad and Mom feed the fish in Dad's pond

Slowly, Dad could talk and walk with a cane through various therapy. Mom was very joyful. Now it's only the left hand that's still in pain, no more headache. Dad went to school everyday but left early around 10 AM and still dismissed from any teaching duties up until now. I really wish Dad won't suffer a silent stroke, because those who have suffered a major stroke are at risk of having silent strokes. Therefore, Mom keep an eagle eye to what Dad eats everyday, to make sure his blood tension stay at normal level. Last time he went to medical check up, Doctor said everything is normal.

I would thank God for the blessing to our family, and everybody who pray and help for Dad's healing.

I love you, Dad and Mom!

Random Thought

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Wed, 29 Jun 2011 09:20:14 PDT

Captain said he'll be back in 5 minutes after he bought drinks downstairs.
Well, apparently not.
It's been almost 2 hours, yet he hasn't back.
"Hun wait a sec, k :)" is all he'd said.
Grrr... where is he, really??

Anyway, I remembered once he said that I'm reminiscent of his two favorite actresses. The reason why he loves these ladies is because --as quoted-- they have striking features, albeit similar to mine. Granted, I'm not arguing about the objectivity of this matter here, hence it's a pure personal preference. But still, I can't stop wondering at which part I look similar to these gorgeous women on earth? Therefore, I chose not-too-pretty pictures, hoping that I can reduce the real gap here :P

Shu Qi

We watched Shu Qi together in "The Transporter", she starred alongside Jason Statham (We agreed he's a very cool actor). He said something about her lips resemble mine LOL. I like Shu Qi though, she actually has greater potential beyond her charming, pouty-lipped smile and killer body. I really want to see her in "My Wife is A Gangster 3", it must be awesome! She's also very hardworking, if you see her packed career list.

Still from The Transporter (2002)

Even her no-makeup face is pretty


Maybe this pic is the closest look to mine? :P

Amanda Seyfried

Captain said her milky skin reminds him of me. But let's face it, she's drop-dead gorgeous, one of the most beautiful women on earth. There's nooo way I can imitate her LOL. First time I saw her in "Mean Girls", "Letter to Juliet", then Captain and I both watched her in "Dear John". I think her best feature is the electrifying big eyes; red, sexy lips; and stunning hair. Oh, and her tremendous level of hotness! She's also very down-to-earth, which makes her even more likable. Too bad she called romance off with Ryan Philippe, I think they're so cute together :(

She looks best in red

Girl-next-door type

The only pic I found with her wearing glasses :P

Finally Captain is back.
He went to a further burger shop because the closest one has closed.
I just realized, we've been separated by oceans for 9 months now, almost reached the longest record we had during my stay in US, which was 11 months. No wonder sometimes I'm afraid losing my memory of him. Sometimes I can't recall who is this man in front of me LOL. Captain, get back soon, I need memory recharge! XD

That's all for today, folks! So much for random thought :)

Captain's Adventure in Shanghai #2

noreply@blogger.com (Captain) — Tue, 28 Jun 2011 04:43:12 PDT

Barack Obama


Yao Ming


Jet Li

Hello there!

Can't believe it's been nearly 4 months since my last post. Pardon me, my dear readers, for giving up on writing once again, thanks to these hectic schedules. Really, it's unintended! But fyi, it's hard indeed to keep on posting while I'm the only one who can post, since Captain can't open our blog from Shanghai (all blogspots and social network sites are blocked by government there). I need feedback, albeit just one comment or so, but there's none. No wonder if I felt like no one is reading this blog, hence I ignored this blog for a while. Therefore, comes a great surprise to me, when my friend from campus (Beth, respectively) abruptly asked for Captain's blog updates. And she even complimented it as 'unyu'! What a delightful response I got :) So, from nowadays, I'll start filling up Captain's empty spaces again. Aye Captain!

Should we get started on Captain's story?

First, he finally got a taste on being a crime victim in foreign land. A shameless pickpocket stole his Blackberry when he's going out for lunch. About 5 minutes before he realized the phone was gone, he still texted me, asked where I was. Then, voila! The phone has disappeared :(

For many weeks after that, we had trouble communicating. I forgot the time precisely, maybe he already had internet set up in his apartment, I don't know. But still, it means we can only talk at night. While in teh afternoon I can't text him and he either. This situation is proved to be prone to conflict, because once again, communication is the most important thing in a relationship :P So I decided to go to his cellular provider office, make a new copy of his SIM card, and then shipped it along with some sweaters, scarf, gloves, knit hat, food seasoning, and T-shirts to his place. After that, our channel were back to normal.

Second, he finally had a taste of doing Jumaah prayer in local mosque there. Albeit it took 2-4 hours to reach that place, he could manage to arrive on time. He said the praying custom and tradition is different there (of course). But he enjoyed it after all. And who knows, maybe on Ramadhan he could visit another mosque which is bigger and more notorious.

Third, have I mentioned about snow in the earlier post? When the first snow hit Shanghai, he texted me, who was on my friend's house doing group assignment, and he said he's so happy to see snow. The next couple days he uploaded several snow pictures onto his facebook. I'm glad he could see snow. It's a marvelous feeling to touch it :)

Now, apparently, his family is trying to do the same thing as I did before, shipping some food to his place. Because summer season is approaching, probably it's better not to send winter clothes :P Maybe he'll needs glasses, hats, flip-flops,.. oh well he could buy all that stuff by himself, he doesn't need anything :P Except Indonesian food, of course, that he's craving the most all the time. Poor Captain, living in a land where no one cooks using sweet soy sauce :D Be strong, Captain! You'll pass it through!

He keeps saying he'd go back home as soon as possible, because he misses Indonesia, but I doubt he'll come back that easily as he says. I know man's pride could be the only thread that he's cling onto right now, and I can't complain about that. I just wish the best for Captain! Please be happy and healthy :)

Heart Present

noreply@blogger.com (Teruterubozu) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:13:26 PDT

On February 14th (you know what day was that), I decided to bake Captain a cake. Using a heart-shaped brass that I bought last year to prepare Captain a cake for his visit in my parent's house (unfortunately I forgot to use it at that time), and Farah Quinn's recipe on my mom's notebook, finally the cake is baked! It has two layers with blueberry jam in the middle, decorated with pink whipped cream (the cream was kinda too watery so my decoration was missed in some places).

Sorry Captain you can't taste this delicious cake, but at least I showed you the pictures hehehehe.. When you're here, I don't mind to bake you this cake every single day, as long as you are the one who buy all the ingredients hehehe.. I think this one tastes better than chocolate cookies I also made for him on 2008 New Year's Eve. Well, all of them are delicious LOL. Eat well and take care for your health in Shanghai, Captain :)

Oh, NO!

noreply@blogger.com (Teruterubozu) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:13:49 PDT

Bad news is coming in the end of this year. Deserted alone in Shanghai with no knowledge whatsoever about any English-speaking doctors nearby, the very last thing Captain wish to get is being sick. Unfortunately, Captain got very ill these 3 days, because of chickenpox. It's a terrible one, and it makes me really worried since I can't do anything from here. Hopefully he'll be healthy soon and no more sickness forever :( Please pray for his condition everyone, thanks!

Captain's Adventure in Shanghai #1

noreply@blogger.com (Teruterubozu) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:18:36 PDT

Ouch.. this place is so full of dust. Almost 4 months since my last post. Blame it all to my previous slow-connection internet provider and all of class assignments during this semester LOL.. But, it doesn't mean my hectic schedule is over. Let's say... I'm procrastinating instead :P

Anyway, on October I mentioned the news that Captain is going to be a Shanghaiist. Well this is the update now.

He arrived in Shanghai on October 15, 2010. He also made a short trip back to Jakarta several weeks later to make a working visa. And since he's finished the whole training required before entering the workforce, now he is in Hawlett-Packard Shanghai Company, handling technical support as liaison between customer service and on-site engineer.

He stayed in Jinjiang Inn Hotel (Shanghai Shibei Industrial Park) for a week during orientation period, and then moved to an apartment in Shibei area with a room mate from Indonesia as well. I was envious as their apartment has some sophisticated facilities (well maybe not so great in Shanghai's standards of life, but it is for us in Indonesia) such as dishwasher, intercom, washing and dryer machine, etc. Too bad their kitchen was almost empty since nobody can cook meals, only noodles, rice, & fried shrimps (and maybe boiled eggs LOL).

The weather is always freezing cold, no wonder since it's winter now. On December 15, 2010 (why does it's always date 15?) finally Captain felt his first snow ever! He's totally happy and excited, I'm so glad to hear that. He should prepare snow-shoveling by now :P I wish I could make him a handmade knitting sweater, but oh well.. it'll be much faster if he just go straight to a shop and buy it hahaha..

At the end of October 2010, Captain went to Shanghai World Expo and attended Indonesian Pavillion which won Bronze World Expo Award from Creative Display, included in 10 most favourite pavillion, and its Restaurant "Enak!" was also dubbed as the 4th most favourite dining place during the event. Here are some pictures from Shanghai World Expo, his workplace, and scenery during rainy season. Hope you enjoy it! I miss you Captain, take care :)

Captain is Going to Shanghai!

noreply@blogger.com (Ontin) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:36:23 PDT

After some adventures in Bali and Lombok last May-June, another exciting news is coming from Captain. Earlier this month, he accepted an overseas job offer in Sykes Shanghai. That means less than 3 weeks before he leaves this country and start new life as a Shanghaiist.

This decision wasn't made so simple though, it took several days for him to consider. There are many concerns that worried him, such as housing, food, language, accommodation, live expenses, and of course public toilets. And I could only help him a little by searching any experiences through travel sites and blogs. The company also gave him a very tight and strict schedule to follow, so in meantime he's very busy gathering all the requirements.

This decision had some major impacts on me too. I was anxious the whole time, couldn't stop thinking about how he's gonna survive or spend the day there. When I cheered him up trying to give some encouragements, he'd think that I'm intentionally want him to leave, as if I'm glad he's away. False idea, definitely. In contrary, when it made me held up my feelings for his leaving, he went upset mainly because he thought I was indifference. How come he even think of such idea, that I don't care at all? Anything that I do was just wrong, hahaha...

Anyway, I expect Captain to always do the best and enjoy his adventures there. Not every people get this opportunity and this one perhaps can fix his boredom living in Jakarta. If it is good for his career advancement, why not? Stay tuned for more update :) Captain, fighting!!!

Youth Exchange and Study Program (YES)

noreply@blogger.com (Teruterubozu) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:28:54 PDT

                    Arus globalisasi yang semakin deras meningkatkan interaksi antarbudaya. Proses membanjirnya informasi yang membuat batasan-batasan suatu negara semakin menyusut ini mendorong komunikasi manusia yang memiliki beragam budaya. Featherston (dalam Lee : 1996) mengatakan bahwa globalisasi menembus batas-batas budaya melalui jangkauan luas perjalanan udara, semakin luasnya komunikasi, dan meningkatnya turis ke berbagai negara [1]. Kedatangan orang asing ke berbagai negara tidak hanya sekadar untuk berwisata, ada berbagai tujuan lain seperti untuk bekerja, menempuh pendidikan, menjalin hubungan diplomatik, atau pertukaran pelajar dan mahasiswa. Salah satu program pertukaran pelajar yang diikuti oleh pelajar Indonesia adalah Youth Exchange and Study (YES).

Program YES yang dirintis pada bulan Oktober 2002 ini memiliki sebuah misi khusus. Pasca tragedi World Trade Center pada 11 September 2001, muncul stigma negatif yang diarahkan pada negara-negara muslim dan penduduknya oleh dunia Barat. Hal ini tak dapat dipungkiri juga sebagai imbas dari lemahnya upaya diplomasi publik selama bertahun-tahun. The Educational and Culture Affairs Bureau of the US Department of State dan komunitas pertukaran di Amerika Serikat pun menyadari pentingnya pertukaran pelajar sebagai sebuah komponen utama dari pembaharuan komitmen untuk menjembatani pemahaman internasional, khususnya antara penduduk Amerika dengan penduduk di negara-negara mayoritas muslim.

Setelah proposal program YES disetujui pada tahun 2003, tiap tahunnya US Department of State memberikan beasiswa penuh kepada pelajar-pelajar SMA terpilih (usia 15-17 tahun dari negara-negara yang memiliki populasi muslim signifikan) untuk menjalani satu tahun pendidikan di Amerika Serikat. Dalam menjalankan program YES, pemerintah Amerika Serikat bekerja sama dengan berbagai organisasi pertukaran pelajar seperti AFS Intercultural Program USA, PAX Academic Exchange, AIFS Foundation Academic Year in America, ACES (American Cultural Exchange Service), dan CIEE.

Program ini dianggap penting untuk mengembangkan komunikasi antara penduduk Amerika Serikat dan negara partner, khususnya dalam hal menjalin pemahaman dan sikap saling menghargai. Pelajar tersebut akan hidup bersama keluarga angkat, bersekolah di SMA setempat, terlibat dalam aktivitas untuk mempelajari nilai-nilai masyarakat Amerika Serikat, mencapai kemampuan kepemimpinan, dan membantu memperkenalkan negara dan budaya asal mereka kepada penduduk Amerika Serikat.

Lebih dari 3480 pelajar tercatat telah berpartisipasi dalam program YES sejak tahun 2003. Selama tahun akademik 2009-2010, sekitar 1000 pelajar akan mengikuti program dari Afghanistan, Albania, Bahrain, Bangladesh, Bosnia & Herzegovina, Brunei, Bulgaria, Mesir, Ethiopia, Gaza, Ghana, Kosovo, India, Indonesia, Irak, Israel (Komunitas Arab), Yordania, Kenya, Kuwait, Lebanon, Macedonia, Malaysia, Mali, Moroko, Mozambik, Nigeria, Oman, Pakistan, Filipina, Qatar, Saudi Arabia, Senegal, Suriname, Tanzania, Thailand, Tunisia, Turkey, Tepi Barat, dan Yaman.

Di Indonesia sendiri, proses seleksi program YES dilakukan oleh Yayasan Bina Antarbudaya (YBA) sebagai partner resmi AFS Internasional. Tiap tahunnya digelar seleksi di 15 chapter seluruh Indonesia. Program YES termasuk pilihan yang paling banyak diminati peserta seleksi karena beasiswa penuh dan fasilitas yang ditawarkan oleh pemerintah Amerika Serikat. Tak heran bila Indonesia menjadi negara asal peserta program YES terbanyak bila dibandingkan dengan negara-negara lainnya. Peluang yang dimiliki siswa-siswi Indonesia untuk turut ambil bagian di dalamnya pun sangat besar mengingat Indonesia adalah negara dengan mayoritas penduduk muslim terbesar di dunia.

[1] Masnur Muslich. 2007. Bahasa Indonesia: Peluang dan Tantangan pada Era Globalisasi. Diunduh dari laman http://muslich-m.blogspot.com/2007/04/bahasa-indonesia-peluang-dan-tantangan.html

www.yesprograms.org.

One Day on a Crossroad

noreply@blogger.com (Teruterubozu) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:29:26 PDT

This just came up into my mind recently. It's one of most memorable moments with Captain in Jogja.

That afternoon, we were riding motorcycle and stopped at a red traffic light. Being the first vehicles to stop there, we had more time to look around and enjoy the traffic. We caught a rare sight at the same time. Right on our left side, there's a poor, crippled man sitting on the sidewalk and sold newspapers. Apparently he also had difficulties in speaking, he couldn't talk so he'd just made some noises while offering the papers.

I felt so sorry for that guy but I didn't do anything else but pitying him because we're waiting for the green lamp. I could see the other pedestrians and drivers were watching him as well. But that empathy seemed meant a lot more to Captain, as he startled us by jumping out of motorcycle at the drop of a hat. He left me (who was still sat on the bike) parked the bike in the middle of traffic jam under red light, walked across the street, and gave the guy some money. Everyone else just stared at him and the guy which refused to take the money only and resisted to give Captain the papers. I knew Captain didn't need the papers, he just wanted to give the guy some money. But he took it after all, and went back to the bike. Short time later the green light showed and we all just went away.

At that time, I felt like Captain is a hero because he immediately put action into his empathy, unlike me and other people who could just only watching in silent and feel sorry at heart. Even though I also admit that in some aspects, he could just talk only :D.

Captain's Master Degree Graduation Ceremony

noreply@blogger.com (Teruterubozu) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:30:42 PDT

On June 12th, 2010 Captain had a Master Degree Graduation Ceremony in JCC Plenary Hall, Jakarta. He's on 2nd batch of Wisuda 42 Binus University and he was graduated as the 5th person called in front of Academic Senate. He sat on the 1st row, so he often got caught on video camera screened above the balcony. He's wearing white, long-sleeve shirt covered by black cloak, a black bow tie, black trousers, a pair of brown leather shoes, and of course a black graduation cap.

Me, his Dad, sister, and niece were sitting patiently on the "A" balcony while we were watching the whole ceremony. We saw how enthusiast he was during countless photo sessions with his friends, we witnessed his nervous agitation reflects on cold face expression, and especially me noticed he moved his feet during the whole ceremony and timidly threw the cap to the air after his other friends do the same thing. It's awesome and funny at the same time :)

After the ceremony, we rushed to Cenderawasih Room for photo studio session among with hundreds of other graduates families. We waited for a long time before finally got called and taken the pictures. As for Captain, he found some difficulties (or perhaps he did intentionally) to smile on camera. His face was so straight, serious, and cold that drove the photographer frustrated (and maybe insane) because normally the graduates will show cheerful and expressive emotions. Well they just don't know him :P

After that, we went outside for family dinner in Jatinegara. It was raining and cold, but we had a pleasant dinner. Then we went home and Captain took me to my sister's dormitory. There are some mental notes I took before sleep that day:

1. I should've bought flowers for him before entered the hall, I want to be the flower girl :D And if I could buy him flowers, I will choose lavender, daisy, and sunflower because he's supposed to be refreshing, simple, but radiant :)

2. As soon as he saw me, he said my dress was awful and joked by asking me to go back home. And I was like "What the heck?? I spent almost a month to get this dress done, and on my way here by a cab my right shoes got broken, so I can barely walk straight, and now I am here in the middle of so many strangers just to see you yet you asked me to leave?" That sayings only happened in my mind, of course :P

3. I didn't bring any bag or purse so I can't change my clothes. When we arrived at the restaurant, I was embarassed by my inappropriate dress (because my dress was too formal to go inside a market restaurant). But I have to get out of the car anyway in order to get some food. And when I started to walk, he said "Want to go to wedding party?" I let my jaw open because I can't believe he mocked me like that. If only he's in my position..

4. His family was so funny that I can't help smiling hearing all of their laughters. When Captain and his Dad were taken pictures together, I couldn't stop bursting my laugh. They really looked alike! Even the hold-smile-tightly expression, made them much more sweeter! Too bad those pictures are only available after July 5-7, so this time I'll just post other version of them together.

Anyway, congratulation again for your success in attaining Master Degree of Information System Management, dear Captain! Hope you will have a great and promising career ahead :*

Captain's Adventure in Bali #2

noreply@blogger.com (Teruterubozu) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:32:08 PDT

Yep, while Captain right now is sleeping in Lombok Island after 4-hours sea boat, I'll share some other pictures of his last trip. Tomorrow hopefully we'll get new pictures of Senggigi Beach in Lombok Island, yiey! I found some of these pictures are hilarious like couple of last ones, or even terrifying and full of semiotic codes (perhaps). Are you agree with me?

Captain's Adventure in Bali #1

noreply@blogger.com (Teruterubozu) — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:33:08 PDT

Whaa.. I know maybe it's kinda confusing, but those are some of Captain's pictures while he's on a business trip in Bali. Although we can't argue about the sophisticated scenery of Goddess Island, but in fact Captain couldn't wait to come back home soon :D (Like the old proverb: "Home Sweet Home") I just wanna make sure he saves some souvenirs for me and Spinpop LOL

During his first days in Bali, he found some difficulties to get proper meal (he's too sensitive with one particular common food there :)) and to get travel + accommodation. I bet by the time he's home, his muscles will get even bigger OR he will lost so much weight, since he goes anywhere mostly by foot XD Keep spirit up, Captain!! Maybe it's good for your health, all is well!! :P

He said that it took more than 5-10 minutes just to cross a street in Bali. He also found mostly Balinese are strict with their culture and religion. But a thing to be noted is, he could feel the same feeling I had 4 year ago in US, when he became the minority, a small dot in a wide patch. So when it comes to meet people with the same background as he is, happiness seems so real. Even strangers felt like brothers. It's so delightful to have something in common, especially when you are different from others.

Hopefully when Captain goes back home, he will always remember about this experience and be more grateful with everything he has got in life, because we don't know what we got 'till it's gone