woman

Different role and patriarchal society

2011-09-12T03:48:00.000-07:00

We all knew that a woman has to play different role in her life.first herself is only a girl then daughter .then comes different role in her life .To live a womans life is not easy .A woman is the great sacrificer.while she is the daughter she has to remain under her family control .that time also she can not share every thing with them.from early childhood she starts to controls her feelings ,wishes in the name of family honor and respects .in such condition to she keeps smile and think about every ones wishes and happiness.So she does while being in the role of daughter in law.She has to be more conscious in this role .
As we knew our country has patriarchal society .The main decision is always taken by main person of the house and that main person is never a woman .Even if there where no one elder than her that time also the decision is taken not by her. sons takes try to make decisions .In most of the cases they even do not think necessary to ask with them what they think.
All the rules Myth was created by men.they keep themselves superior than women in such myths and story.but the myths is not always true in every case.I read some one great writer had written that if a chance is given to women to write again the history of society .then the woman alter all myths and create another Mythes where woman is being superior than men.

Status of woman in Nepal

2011-09-12T03:23:00.000-07:00

Nepal is not developed country it is developing country so the condition of Nepal is still not good. Many reasons have equally important for this . Political system is becoming worse day by day so the same with economic condition. Not only this two there where such so many problems like this .among them one also is the conditon of women in our country .Only in some cities women gets good education and achieving success in different fields .but if we see rural villages in most of villages both men and women have very poor condition .between them the condition of women are more worse .they get no good enviroment .people are still superstitious there .few men get opertunity to attaint schools .most women are uneducated they do get chance to go to school.they always busy in agriculture and family members keeps them in house hold works .If a woman does good work then the credit goes to the husbannot the woman .
Goverment should brings programs to improve such condition other wise a country never improves its condition .It is said that woman and man are the wheels of one carriage .Both have equal importance to run that .still when it is not impliments in practice .a country always remains back.

No suitable situation

2011-09-12T02:58:00.000-07:00

Every time whenever she pass through mass she has to become mindly conscious about herself because anything can be happen with her ,there is no security for her.eg ther were sitting some guyes may be four or five smoke smell is coming from there mouth .They were talking rubbish and non sense things .they hav no works only teasing girls passing from front of them.Some one coming one said then they stops their talking and start to stare .when that come in front of them they whisper and tell so rough thing which is really too hard to listen for anybody who have their self respects. that who is passing from there is non other than a simple young girl .From that day she lost her confident whenever she has to pass from such mass .she even have problem to share her problem with her family .her family can stops her from going out side .
tolerance is not good thing if it is not good .but for a girl it becomes to difficult not to tolrant that .In micro buses markets ,schools .colleges every where a girl has to face such problems.
Boys have to understands girls problems .They have to stops teasing .If any groups of girls tease them then only they may can understands how much it suffer when we are teased by some body .
Further it is difficut to fight with every person who teases.there is no place where we women can complaints .I wish there where some rules for it.

Woman as a perfect person.

2011-09-12T02:32:00.000-07:00

Yes a woman is a perfect .And if there is any field which is far from her reach than that day is not too far when a woman reach there .She is perfect in her all role .Not only as a daughter ,wife ,mother grandmother ,daughter in law ,but also as a citizen of country she honestly does her duty .Now a days women are getting respects for her honestly , punctuality ,work etc.
though still there are lots of men who see girls with low eyes .They never missed a event to tease a girl .Those who does so, should be punished.Not only see look for herself but gives her lots of time to other. In-spite of her busy life she still build her own position in the society.
Being a perfect person a girl has to maintain silents in most of public embracemant .
Any way a woman never feels frustration in doing her all duties .She is progressing in every fields. women participant in army too is growing ,business ,world politics ,art, culture and so many other areas women put her hand and achieving success .She is the lovable person in all characters .

As mother

2011-09-11T04:28:00.000-07:00

'Mother' wow what a beautiful word .In Nepali 'Ama' -so sweet ,and atmiyata this word has.This word brings smile on every face ,and heartily feels pleasant.Mother is a 'god figure ' .cod shree Krishana ,which is believed as the birth of god Bishnu ,also wanted to take birth again and again only to get mother .Just think how was the life without mother .If we used to born without mother then ,can our life would be like this as it now .Mother not only just gives birth to the baby,she takes care of child lovingly .A child can not speak but a mother automatically knew what a child needs .Animals ,birds have also their parents .Still among them also mother who give birth to her children is more conscious about them .To be a mother is to give birth to a new nature .it is not a simple thing.A mother has to care and give full time ans suffers lot during her pregnancy.It is said that while a mother is going to give birth to her child then that time she she has been struggling between life and death .But when she has her child then she forgets all pity and pain which she bears .Other family members love child after born but a mother starts to love her child when the child she or he is in her womb .so we can not measure a mother loves . A mother is most respectable person in the wold.

Social worker

2011-09-11T04:08:00.000-07:00

Woman within her other duties plays also the role of social worker. She can wet in every field or role perfectly.She makes trust for herself in others heart and complete her responsibilities .She never remains behind.We have examples of great women who serves their lives for the sake of society and its improvement .eg- Florence Nightangle .She is the god for those who were severly wounded during world war.At that time there was efficiency of nurses and helper ,doctors .She remains unmarried to serve her life for those who have no one to care .she without sleeping participate to cute patient ,wounded men .Mother Terissa is another greater figure,who also remain unmarried and serve her life to the poor children .Likewise Manjushree for her it is said that she is like Gautam Buddha figure.She reforms the condition of Kadhmandu and makes it valley .Anuradha poudel is also another figure of social reformer.We have such so many other figures of women who are the great statue of society ,and give unforgettable participants in the reformation of society.

Broadhearted

2011-09-11T03:43:00.000-07:00

Now a days it is think that to work for somebody without wages is to lose self respect .So no one wants to work or sell his/her work freely .In this self centered world woman is the only person who sacrifies her important time,part of life for the sake of her relatives,family, she without any doubt , difficulty serves her family ,she loves her family members .She is the great figure for her dears .She wakes up early in the morning when no one are waking . Cleans house and does other works with smile on face. Serve breakfast and then began making launch.In this way a woman's life runs cycle way .But she never does complaints on this .In offices workers get at least one day's holiday but a woman never gets holiday from her her house works.
In Nepali villages a Nepali woman condition is more worse than city.In villages or remote area a woman has to work in any difficult situation but her works ,difficulties she faced are never counts.Her work is not a work in the eyes of others.Only the work which give good income is respected a woman who never complaints and help each member with smile on face.

woman as a writer

2011-09-11T03:01:00.000-07:00

To be a good writer needs good creative power.Writing is the strongest medium to convey own message to the public If a person say something that can be easily forget but if that is written then we can see that again and recover our memory of remembrance .In Nepali society woman writers are still growing slowly .But in the countries lice British,America,etc woman writers have been well established .eg George Eliot ,Bronte sisters,Charlotte,Emily and Ann were the British novel writers of victorian time among them Jane Austen was the great figure .Virgina Woolf ,Mary Wollstonecraft ,Simon De Beauvoir ,Elaine Showalter ,were the great writers and critics, whose writing and criticism brought drastic change in human mind especially in the mind of women they leave or give a different look towards women .They are still recognized and their writings are still well known.
writing something is not easy work.Though it started by man not woman,but there lies reasons on this.In earlier society there was no right for woman to get education .They only taught to look after house family and many other reasons.
As time passes they started to fight for their rights.Though there are many men who write for woman but they in true sense cant reveal the true picture of woman and their feelings.

woman as a young thinker

2011-09-09T04:32:00.000-07:00

When a girl grown up and becomes young.She has her own desires and wishes .This is the period when she thinks about her ambitions and aims .what she has to do in future ? And works for fulfilled those desires in future. Some families stops her creative power by dominating or imposing house works on her shoulder .She has to work in house because parents thinks that their daughter will be some one's daughter in law in future and she will have to perform house works .So they limits her in kitchen or domestic works by which she could not think about her better future and has to stop her school .Though a woman looks physically weak but mentally she strong.the world is running towards success not in through the only one part of the society but more more participants of women include here. When a woman knows something she tries to share that knowledge with every one. But this is the real time when her mind forcess,excites her to think not only for herself,family but for nation too.

woman fisrt as a girl

2011-09-09T04:13:00.000-07:00

when a mother gives birth to a child and if it turns to be a girl then what?.........some parents,family really heartly become happy and some feels sad on this.though the population of girls are more than boys on our country . not only in our country but all over the world . But still a girl has very very important role in all fields of the life and society .A girl has more tolerance ability then a boy. We can observe such things in our families and society .Some girls live their lives as it is . But some want drastic change in their life .And for that they fight ,struggle .
Like every creature she has her heart. In that small heart she keeps her many unexpressed desire in the hope that may all of desire becomes true.Dreams might be fulfill or may not be. Men never expressed her charming desire in their world.Most of men tries to pretend to understand women but they cant because still they have the heart of a man.
girl is the first role of a woman .In this role she simply lives her life and her mind is bounded by her family environment .Some get good education equality and some have ti tolerate many problems .Any way a woman is only a girl first then only she has other roles outwardly.

2011-09-09T03:43:00.001-07:00