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Creative Parenting

2012-01-14T10:07:00.002-05:00

Let's talk about how to spend quality moments with your children today which will become golden moments tomorrow!

And you don't have to 'find the time' or spend a dime!

www.motivationmarathon.com

I'm on Sunday, 1-15-12 @ 1:00pm EST. Join me for tips, tools and strategies to make the most of the time you spend with your kids. These are nuggets you will be able to work right in to your everyday life!

And you will want to check out what my colleagues are sharing to help you live a Happy YOU Year!

There are tons of free gifts, and registration is FREE, too!

If you can't listen live, you can listen to the downloads later.

I hope to 'see' you there~

MotivationMarathon.com

;-Deb

Fun Snow Idea!

2012-01-05T10:48:00.000-05:00

In my corner of the world (Western Pennsylvania), this far into the season, we've typically been buried in so much snow that we are tired of it by now. We usually suffer from 'Cabin Fever' November through March, and some of my best nuggets of advice for parents have been about finding creative ways to recover from that.

This year, however, winter has been unrecognizably warm and mild. It's January; we just had our first semi-significant snowfall, and if the traffic reports are any indication, I'm afraid that we are losing our grip (pun intended) on winter 'know-how.'

I'm not only afraid that we are 'slipping' (yep, intended) on our ability to drive well on snow and ice; I'm afraid that we might forget how to simply have fun with it! Now, if you follow my posts regularly, you know that I not only share my tips on creative parenting, I look to the kids of the world for creative ideas on ways to interact with them. They do lead us well if we are paying attention!

With that said, I've learned from my kids that it really doesn't take much to have fun. We adults typically make things way more difficult than they need to be. As a result, one of my favorite pieces of advice for parents is to 'Lighten up!' Act like a kid ... enjoy the simple things with your kids. You will not only have fun in the moment, you'll build memories that will be cherished for a lifetime!

Now, in my opinion, THAT is parenting at its best! And so, I am passing along this link I just came across; it's one of the most fabulous, and simple ideas to take advantage of a new snowfall. Click this link to LEARN HOW TO MAKE SNOW ICE CREAM! ... Yep, you read that right!

If you've got snow outside your door, don't dread it ... go collect some. Put it in your freezer, and make ice cream when the kids get home from school today!

Woot-woot! Hey, the snow has to be white, but the memories will be golden!

By the way, if you don't have snow outside your door, I know where you can get some! ... Or, you can grab some white paper and scissors to cut out some snowflakes to decorate your windows and pretend ... Let your imagination soar, and ask your child to tell you a story about what s/he would be doing right now in the snow. Take turns giving input in the story; don't forget to grab paper and pen, you will want to read this in ten years! ... Now that's gold!

;-Deb

Relieve Holiday Stress With a Giggle

2011-12-11T15:51:00.001-05:00

No matter how busy your days might be this holiday season, do yourself a favor and spend 10 minutes talking with a child before bedtime. If you don't have any kids, visit a neighbor, call a grandchild, niece, nephew, or cousin ... just chat with them and feel the honest love.

Ask them simple questions like, "What was your favorite part of today?" And listen, really listen to their response; it will help you realize what is important, and it will make them feel special because you cared enough to ask.

If you really want to enjoy the call, find something silly to say that will make them giggle ... a child's laughter is truly the the most soothing music the soul could ever hope for.

This really is a simple way to help relieve some holiday stress and put the emphasis back in the right place.

It's all about connecting ... most kids are easy to connect with, and the rewards are beautiful~

I hope you share many giggly moments this season,

;-Deb

On The Road ...

2011-06-20T09:56:00.001-04:00

But wanted to pass along this fabulous info about the importance of self-esteem in our children.

When I return home, I'll be prepping to head back on the road again, this time my youngest will be joining me for some fabulous one-on-one time on a working vacation. We're headed to Chautauqua Institution ~ on beautiful and peaceful Chautauqua Lake ~ in upstate NY where I will be teaching again this summer.

I hope to see you somewhere in one of my workshops or at one of my book signings during my travels~

Until then, remember ... "It's never wrong to write!"
;-Deb

Memorial Day ~ Not Just a 3-Day Weekend

2011-05-29T11:53:00.000-04:00

The word 'memorial' is defined on dictionary.com as follows:

"Something designed to preserve the memory of a person, event, etc., as a monument or a holiday."

And so, on this 'holiday' weekend, I offer this tribute to preserve those memories:

An Absolute Salute

We enjoy the freedom for which you serve
With a three-day weekend that YOU deserve

With picnics and parties in parks and backyards
While you continue to bravely stand guard

It hardly seems fair, though it stands true
We enjoy freedom which was earned by you

'Thank you' certainly isn't enough, yet it's all we have to give
In return for your service for the life we get to live

Though our thanks are merely words, they are filled with adulation
And heart-felt gratitude from our collective nation

We honor you and pray for your safe return
With grateful hearts and ardent concern

Wishing there was something we could do
To better show our appreciation of you

Until the day that we find a way
To properly thank you, we'll humbly pray

For a peaceful retreat, and the war to end
And your safe return home to family and friends

And to the soldiers you have stood beside
Who died for our country with bravery and pride

We bow our heads with a huge heavy heart
And hope, with empathy, to impart

Upon the loved ones they've left behind
In their selfless effort to better mankind

Our intention to forever honor and embrace
The biggest sacrifice which you face

Every day, every night
You will forever bear this plight

But you bear it not alone, you see
You are forever in our company

Though we may not now each others' face
We honor you and yours with love and grace

Please know that on this holiday, one thing is absolute
It is you, and your loved ones, who WE proudly salute

~With sincere gratitude ...
Debbie Mancini-Wilson
xo

Helping Kids Deal With Trauma

2011-05-26T10:18:00.015-04:00

My heart and prayers are with everyone who is affected by recent tragedies.

When something unexpected hits, we are often thrown into automatic pilot. Although that can be the best way to forge through trauma, and dig our heels in so that we can move forward, it can also hinder other important abilities.

Auto-pilot can have a tendency to impede feelings as it overrides emotions and gives us the tunnel vision necessary to muscle through tough times. However, our feelings and intuitive nature are critical ~ especially when children are involved ~ intuition really should not be ignored.

Our most important role is nurturing and nourishing our children. As difficult as it can be to step outside our role of 'handling' things, sometimes we must simply slow down enough to pay attention. That's when we see signs that can direct us to the path we must follow in order to lead our children to a peaceful place.

Parents, mentors, please make the time to pay attention ... here's a link I recently came across that looks like a great resource. I hope it helps you see signs and make a difference:

(Sorry, I just couldn't get this link to go 'live' but it works if you copy & paste.)

http://www.facebook.com/kidlutions?sk=wall#!/notes/kidlutions-solutions-for-kids/hope-helping-kids-in-the-aftermath-of-a-tornado/10150197563616889

XO
;-Deb

Creative Parenting ~ Motivation Marathon

2011-05-04T10:41:00.002-04:00

You are invited to this FREE Motivation Marathon on Saturday, 11-June-11. As one of the 8 panelists, I am honored and excited to bring you some of the most comprehensive self-help tips and techniques in one place!

My topic is Creative Parenting; my goal is to help bring a balance to your professional life and your personal life. We will discuss how to accomplish some of the most important components of parenting using fun, effective exercises that can be integrated into your everyday life!

You don't have to 'find' the time or spend a dime to build a better relationship with your kids! My proven techniques will help you live more authentically and happier while helping you pass the same techniques along to your children. Isn't that what parenting should be?

Now, let's project out several years from today ... Don't you want to look back upon these days with fond memories as you watch your kids live a successful and fulfilled life? And you smile as you reflect because you know that things turned out this way because of your desire and ability to design authentic paths through open communication and mutual respect with your kids.

Join us for the first annual Motivation Marathon and learn how to design and pave that path while putting the fun back in parenting.

Speaking of fun ... here is a fun little acronym I use to describe parenting from my perspective ... and hopefully through the eyes of my kids when they look back at me:

Proud
And
Respectful
Encouraging
Never judgmental
Trusting

That's about all any of us can hope for, yes?

;-Deb

Easter Egg Hunt for Kids With A Fun Twist

2011-04-12T13:35:00.006-04:00

CREATIVE PARENTING ~ VIDEO CLIP

Imagine …

It’s Easter morning, the egg hunt is over. What’s that noise? It’s certainly not the normal sugar-induced-race-around-the-house-finger-painting-the-walls-with-chocolate-stained-fingers noise that typically follows the traditional egg hunt.

No, this year it’s the sound of quiet giggles. You inch your way closer to their bedroom door and hear … friendly bartering for tickets? You shake your head to clear the obvious static and lean in a little closer … Surely they are fighting because one of them ate all of his favorite peanut butter chocolate nuggets and ‘conveniently’ forgot that the green basket belongs to his brother as he ‘innocently’ helped himself to a another.

You brush off the fleeting thought that perhaps your hearing is failing already as you adjust your Mommy Antenna to hear more clearly. There, now you can hear, the sounds of … yes, that IS quiet giggling and friendly bartering!

Panic sets in! Who stole your kids and replaced them with what sounds like gentle, joyful, well-behaved negotiators?

Pouncing through the door, you see them sitting on the bed with piles of little strips of paper on their laps, offering to swap a ‘stay up late’ ticket for a ‘trip to the ice cream stand after dinner’ ticket. Ahh ~ you smile, pat yourself on the back and head downstairs to reward yourself with a celebratory cup of tea as you remember your stroke of genius.

This year, you decided to do an Egg Hunt With a ~Twist~

Here are the easy steps you followed:

You gathered 3 simple things ~ well, 4 if you count the hot cup of fresh-brewed tea to sip on while you worked:

1. Inexpensive plastic (pull-apart) eggs in various colors
2. Small strips of paper to make ‘prize’ tickets
3. A list of ‘prizes’ to write on those strips/tickets

A few suggestions:

"I get to choose family entertainment this weekend”

"I get to pick what’s for dinner tomorrow night”

"I get to stay up 15 minutes late tonight”
(of course all with a disclosure ‘can only be used with parental consent’)

You also threw in a few dollar bills and coins

Then you followed these simple instructions:

You separated eggs into color groups to make it fair for different age groups

For instance:

Older kids can only cash in red, yellow and green

Younger kids can only cash in blue, pink and purple

You then assembled prizes in equal amounts for each age group

Putting the same amount of each ‘prize’ tickets and cash in both color groups so that each group has an equal amount of the same prizes

For a large age difference, you decided to hide the older kids’ eggs in higher places to keep it simple

This way, if older kids snag some of the younger group’s eggs, you’ll know by the colors, and you can throw back anything from their basket that is not in their color group.

Done! Wow! … That was just too easy!

All that remained was to hide the eggs before the cousins got there on Easter morning. You sipped your cup of still-warm tea knowing already that this was going to be your favorite Easter ever!

What you didn’t know yet was that it would quickly become your kids’ favorite, too. This egg hunt will have them begging every Easter for ‘tickets’ instead of candy as they will LOVE ‘cashing them in’ throughout the year!

Bonus factor:

You never dreamed that these tickets would become such hot commodities in your house or that they also proved to be a fabulous lesson in economics. Your kids will quickly learn value by trading certain tickets for those more precious to them; they will cherish and keep them in well-designed hiding spots waiting to be ‘spent’ very wisely throughout the year. In fact, you’ll soon consider putting expiration dates on them when you learn that your kids are hoarding them from year to year!

Smile factor:

Fast-forward about 15 years into the future … when your 20 year old son, home from college on spring break, pulls a crumpled piece of paper from his pocket after dinner and smiles a warm, knowing smile while he hands it to you before clearing the dishes from the table. Yes … he’s finally clearing the dishes without being poked and prodded! But refocus for a moment here, please! … You curiously unfold the paper to discover a 15 year old ‘stay up late’ ticket he just found ‘hidden’ under a loose piece of carpet in the corner of his closet!

Well played! Enjoy the memories, and this moment, while sipping your after-dinner tea. Now, wipe that tear, Mom … Oh, and Happy Easter, genius!

;-Deb

P.S. You can catch a glimpse of me demonstrating this on a CBS morning show here.

How to Make The Most of The Time You Spend With Your Kids

2011-03-28T15:45:00.000-04:00

The next time someone tells you to go fly a kite, know that they must love you! ...

Otherwise, they'd be more likely to tell you to schedule a time to do something of 'quality' with your kid.

Okay, perhaps that was a wee bit tainted with intolerance; however, I respectfully ask that you hear me out. I seriously think that most of us try too hard to do what really does come naturally ... if only we'd just stop trying.

Most parents ask me to help them make the most of the time they spend with their kids. There truly seems to be a chase for some magical way to manufacture some mysterious thing called 'quality time' with our kids.

Actually, there is one magical key to unlock the 'quality time' door ... Now brace yourself here, I'll say this as delicately as possible.

I've got lots of suggestions; however, my #1 simplest-sure-fire-way-to-good-old-fashioned-quality-time is, (drum-roll, please...) “Lighten up!”

Yep, that's it! ... Lighten the heck up! Often times we make more of a project out of parenting than we should. Yes, there are times when we must put on our game face and address something in an authoritative way. However, is it always necessary to be in charge and in control with our kids?

Now, I’m not talking about life altering situations, I’m talking about planning your normal day or outing. Most of us are scheduled from the time we wake up until the time our weary bodies hit the mattress 16 or so hours later! And our kids’ lives are just as scheduled!

When was the last time your kid played a ‘pick-up’ game at a local ball field? Oh, wait … even the ball field is ‘scheduled’ these days, right? It seems that everyone and everything is 'managed' today. Chances are that your kid’s friends don’t just stop by with a bat over their shoulder asking if Josh can come out and play. They’ve showed up at a designated time for a SCHEDULED play date.

Most of the scheduling our kids are subjected to is because the adults involved (either supervising or transporting the kids) are so very busy that everything must be arranged and fit in to our schedules. As a result, most kids (and adults) today don’t know much about leisurely hanging out in a comfortable fashion. There just doesn’t seem to be much room for simply being 'leisurely' ... and that is just tragic to me!

In fact, the word leisurely has even gotten sort of clumsy to say; you'll see what I mean if you go back to the previous two sentences and reread them. Are we even losing the ability to merely say the word?! Suddenly, the word 'tragic' is not strong enough! ... We are in a state of emergency ... albeit a leisurely one.

Therefore, I propose that you just take one day to try my #1 rule, and simply LIGHTEN UP! … Lighten up your schedule, lighten up your attitude, and I’m going to bet that you will lighten up your heart.

If you are like me, you will need at least a sketch of an outline so that you are not completely shooting from the hip and sitting around the family room asking, “Well, what do you want to do today?” Chances are that the only answer you’ll get besides shrugged shoulders is, “Dunno, what do YOU want to do?” Thus, it’s good to start with a few ideas and adjust as you go along, but it is important to keep in mind that you plan to adjust as you go along.

Remember that the goal here is NOT to stick to a schedule. With that said, begin by each preparing a list of possible things to do, then go grab a breakfast smoothie and have at it! It might be nice just to set out on foot with a note pad and a camera in hand; when you see something interesting, stop and take a picture then make some notes to document your questions and comments. This might just take you right back home to your computer, or to a park bench with your laptop researching something you two just HAVE to find out about.

It might also bore you to tears of laughter! And when you dry your eyes, you might decide to head to the zoo, museum, or a local farm to pet the animals! Either way, notice that you are actually spending time together … cherish it, and journal about it so that you can enjoy it again later, when you set aside more ‘nothing’ time and no one is around to spend it with.

The memories are almost as much fun as the experience, and if I were you, I’d scoop up as many opportunities as you can to create those memories. These times don’t last forever, but they certainly can live on…

I wish you lots of ‘nothing’ time this week~
;-Deb

Tsunami Effect on Our Children

2011-03-15T11:28:00.011-04:00

Do you find yourself looking at things with more intensity after watching the devastation in Japan following the Tsunami? It truly leaves me filled with my own earthquake of emotions to process. Can we ever really know the feelings of those who survived? Is there a way we can help, I mean REALLY get in there and help, while still maintaining our lives and taking care of our own businesses and families? And the unthinkable question of how we would feel if such an atrocity hit closer to home.

As a writer, many words come to my mind in times like these; however, the one I find myself repeating is, 'unimaginable.' That just about sums it up for me; however, it is so very real to our brothers and sisters in a far-away land. If nothing else, such horror does bring us a little closer, and although that is a good thing, it gives pause to the question, "Why does it take something so horrific to bring people closer together?"

With that said ~ or asked ~ today's blog post delivers ways for us to get a little closer now. Since I primarily deal with families, parents and children, I focus here on ways to help the kids in your life deal with their emotions after something so devastating.

Let's face it, the media is great at supplying immediate ~ and very graphic ~ details of current events. If we adults are left with a barrage of questions after watching the news unfold, what must our children be thinking and feeling? And better yet, how on earth do we broach the subject and get our children talking openly about their feelings?

Well, below is a quick laser tip that might help you find out how a child in your life feels about this latest tsunami. You might find that your child has processed things well enough already. You might learn that your child is a little stressed about things, and you now have tools to help them process their lingering emotions. Or, it might be evident that it's best to get your child to a professional who can help at a deeper level.

Some might also find that their child has a real interest in helping the survivors, and this is a great time to put together a plan that you can do together ... whether it's collecting clothes to send over, or you matching their allowance money to donate, or, or, or ... the possibilities are endless. The beauty is that you now know, and you now have tools with which to build greater character in your child.

LASER TIP:
• In a casual and familiar atmosphere (when you typically spend quality time with your child) begin an acrostic word exercise by writing the word tsunami vertically on a piece of paper ~ as shown in the example below. Then, also as shown below, ask your child to write (or if too young to write, ask them to say out loud and you write) a word or two that begins with each letter of the word:
o Terrifying
o Scared
o Unsure
o Not safe
o Awful
o Many died
o I’m worried

• Now, ask them to elaborate on that word by turning it into a sentence. You can ask them to explain what, in particular, is terrifying about the tsunami. Then work down the rest of the letters in the word:
o Terrifying waves and water everywhere.
o Scared that it could happen to us.
o Unsure of what happens to children who can’t find their parents.
o Not safe to stay in their home anymore.
o Awful to think about it happening again.
o Many died and many kids lost their parents.
o I’m worried that we might not be safe.

• At this point, you should have plenty of information about what your child is thinking and feeling. You can begin dialogue by going through each line and discussing things that might help ease their mind. If your child wants to do something to help, put together a plan together ... this is quality time at its very BEST!

Finally, if you see a pattern which indicates that it might be necessary to seek professional help, do so quickly, and make certain to bring along your acrostic word exercise. This is a great tool to help the therapist/counselor help your child more effectively.

It is my hope that this simple activity will prove to be a way for you to get inside your child's head and heart. Once we know what they are thinking, we are better equipped to help them if needed. I also like to pass along other websites and tools that I come across which I think might be helpful ... and so click here for another helpful article you might want to read.

As always, feel free to leave a comment here, or email me at harmonypublications@hotmail.com if you have a question, something to share, or a topic you'd like me to address here.

;-Deb
"It's never wrong to write!"

Happy Birthday Dr. Seuss

2011-03-01T00:55:00.000-05:00

Perhaps it's because I'm eternally stuck in fourth grade ... but I LOVE Dr. Seuss! This week is one of my favorite weeks because the celebration of his birthday on the 2nd of March brings people, big and small together in a carefree way.

His work is ... well, not WORK at all. His words are play, everything he wrote screams, "PLAY!"

I guess it's that whimsical, fun, dare-you-to-find-something-serious-here sort of way that he approached every story, every poem, heck ... practically every word he ever published!

And so, with respect to the master himself, in honor of his life, and in acknowledgment of his accomplishments, I hope you snuggle up with some little someone special this week as we celebrate Read Across America. I will be celebrating with countless students as I begin another busy week, but first I leave you with my own Seuss-inspired words of play:

Would you set aside some time
To read or write a special rhyme?

This would be the perfect week
To write the words you might not speak.

Some say writing is like baring your soul
I guess I'm a bare-naked writing fool!

I hope you like my words, I do
That's why I share them here with you.

It is my hope that they bring you glee
And make you want to share with me.

So, leave a note, in rhyme or not
For me, it would just hit the spot

To know that I've inspired you
To celebrate the master, too!

You see, I have no cat
Sitting within my hat

But there's one thing I must say
That on this very special day

My hat is tipped in reverent praise
At every word, in every phrase

To which Dr. Seuss crafted oh, so well
Please, go and read, and write and tell

Tell every child you see today
That they should write their own heart's way!

For that would make the master proud
Now, write and share, and read aloud

Ahh! Tapping keyboards and drinking eyes
The sights and the sounds of growing wise!

I remain in awe~
;-Deb

How you can turn the Steeler’s trip to the Super Bowl into creative family-time in your home!

2011-02-04T14:35:00.005-05:00

Here are some FUN AND EDUCATIONAL IDEAS that incorporate Steeler history facts into your Family Super Bowl!…

The object of this game is to score as many points as possible by answering the game questions as well as the extra point kick. The person with the most points wins.

* You can design your own questions, or go use this list of Q&A’s I've designed for you. Choose as many or as few questions as you feel appropriate. You’ll want to keep the degree of difficulty fair so that every family member has a fair chance.

* Perhaps you can vote whether or not everyone is allowed to research answers (computer).

* Decide on the winning prize: most correct answers

-gets to choose game day snacks

-receives a 'Family Champion' Steeler jersey (with family name on it)

-is relieved from chores that week

-or, or, or…. You decide!!!!!!!!!!!

Scoring is similar to football; the main-drive question is worth 6 points, there is an extra point kick question if the main-drive question is answered correctly, and some have a 2 point conversion question.

1. How many Super Bowls have the Steelers won?

a. Answer for 6 point TD: 6

b. For an extra point kick:

i. How many Super Bowls have the Steelers played in? 7

2. What was the original name of the Steelers?

a. Answer for 6 point TD: The Pittsburgh Pirates

b. For an extra point kick:

i. What year did Mr. Rooney change the name to The Steelers? 1940

3. What are the diamond shapes on the Steelers Logo called?

a. Answer for 6 point TD: Hypocycloids

b. For an extra point kick:

i. What do their colors represent?

The 3 materials used to produce steel:

· Yellow: coal

· Orange: ore

· Blue: steel scraps

4. Who made the Immaculate Reception?

a. Answer for 6 point TD: Franco Harris

b. For an extra point kick:

i. What year? 1972

c. For optional 2 point conversion, answer year and (1 point ea):

i. Who did they beat in that game? Oakland Raiders

5. Who invented the Terrible Towel?

a. Answer for 6 point TD: Myron Cope

b. For an extra point kick:

i. What was one of Myron’s famous sayings? Yoi! Double Yoi! Triple Yoi! Okel Dokel! Hum-Hah!

c. For optional 2 point conversion, give another of Myron’s quotes (1 point each).

6. Was Art Rooney, founder of the Steelers, ever elected in the Football Hall of Fame?

a. Answer for 6 point TD: Yes

b. For an extra point kick:

i. What year? 1964

7. Who’s the most dedicated fan in your family? (this one is a ‘gimme’ so everyone can score)

a. Answer for 6 point TD: Mine; we are all fans, but the craziest is a tie between my 2 nephews (Joe and Mike).

b. For an extra point kick:

i. Why? Joe lives in MD, has season tix and drives in for every game. Mike and his wife Ashley played the NFL Song as the bridal party entered the reception waving Terrible Towels at their wedding during the Steeler’s trek to the Super Bowl XL (40) in February ’06.

Now, add up the scores, and see who won! If there’s a tie, you’ve obviously go some pretty dedicated fans, and you might have to resort to a speed-answer round where the one who answers the bonus question first wins in overtime!

Got Cabin Fever? …

2011-01-15T10:41:00.012-05:00

You’re in good company! Let’s get right to some ways to work around it, yes?

The goal here is to make it fun AND productive … AND to build special bonding memories with your kids.

AND, if we make it easy to plan and execute, well … that’s just genius! So, get your genius on, and let’s build some golden memories while we wait for the snow to melt.

Keep in mind that the prep time can be as fun and valuable as the actual project, so pay special attention to those moments … great conversations can happen while doing the little things. That’s a great way to get to know what’s in your kid’s head and heart in a casual way … without them knowing it.

Why not build special moments with your kids while making birthday cards for friends and family members whose birthdays are coming up? This is the perfect way to combine fun and productivity; you are about to embark on a project that will make you proud now, and it will make your heart smile for the rest of forever!

Here’s a simple way to make that happen:

• You will need:
-Your birthday calendar and address book
-Paper: various colors and textures are great, but plain paper works just as well, and you can spice it up yourselves by getting creative together!
-Pens, crayons, markers, even paint (depending on child’s age … finger paints work well for younger kids)
-Stickers, glitter, feathers, decorative scraps of just about anything
-Glue, scissors, tape, etc.
-Envelopes and stamps
-Imagination

• Make a list of the upcoming birthdays; decide on whose card you will work on, then begin by folding your paper and writing their name vertically down the left side on front of the card. Use each letter of their name to write a word, sentence or poem about them. Remember that poems do not have to rhyme.

• Write your birthday wishes on the inside of the card and decorate it with the fun items you gathered (above).

• Sign and date your card and put it in an envelope. Address it, stamp it (unless you are using Forever stamps, you might want to hold off on the postage :).

• Now you just file your cards away until it’s time to mail them! I use an accordion style folder with months labeled on the tabs to keep ours organized.

If you don’t have the time to do cards for the entire year, you can chunk this project down and do it quarterly, monthly, or whatever makes the best use of time for you and your family. My guess is that if you spread it out and schedule periodic times, it will become time that you and your kids will look forward to with great anticipation!

One of the great things about this project is that it can be adapted to fit any age!

Now, go create some special moments, save money on cards, and give the gift that just keeps on giving ~ smiles, love and memories for a lifetime!

;-Deb
"It's never wrong to write!"

Get Creative With Your Kids For The Holidays

2010-12-07T12:12:00.005-05:00

Light up your kid's eyes and warm your friends' & family's hearts with thoughtful, useful gifts made with love~

I'll bet your kids would rather roll up their sleeves, have fun, get dirty and creative with you instead of going shopping at the mall for gifts this year! It's certainly worth a try!!!

Below are three ideas for homemade gifts that will not only be fun for you and your kids to make, your friends and family members will appreciate them more than most store-bought gifts!

The really great 'hidden' secret to making these is that you are spending quality bonding time with your kids and creating priceless golden memories of a lifetime! The ‘prep’ work and follow-up plans can be as fun as actually making them…
And, they are NOT your typical handmade gifts … these will truly be enjoyed!

Are you ready to roll up your sleeves? I am giving a brief overview here to keep things simple; if you would like more details or specific recipes/instructions, please email me at harmonypublications@hotmail.com and I will be happy to share them with you!

1. Meal-in-a-jar: (The busy folks on your gift list can relax; you’ve got dinner covered!)
a. Potato & Onion Soup
b. Cornbread Muffins
c. Salad Dressing
i. The ingredients are simple and few. Simply mix specified amounts of each dry ingredient and place in jars with home-made labels ‘from our family to yours.’

2. A Cup of Cocoa: (A quiet moment to warm a friend amid the hustle-bustle!)
a. Mug
b. Measure out powdered hot chocolate mix in small plastic bag and add a few mini marshmallows
c. Tie bag with holiday ribbon and stuff it into the mug
d. Make homemade ‘To’ and ‘From’ tags and tie to mug handle

3. Tea-light Candle Holders: (Light up someone’s holiday with love!)
a. Save tin cans. Make design templates to stick on can. Mom or Dad hammers holes around the designs then removes templates from cans. Kids spray-paint cans in festive colors then sign and date the bottoms of cans. Place small candle in and watch the light shine through the holes.

I can say from experience that the folks on your gift list will LOVE these ... ALMOST as much as you do!

Remember, these weeks of holiday preparation hold just as much fun for you to enjoy as the actual holiday does!

It is my wish that you find joy in the simplest moments ... they are really practice for the bigger moments to come!

Now, go build some great memories~

;-Deb

My 'Thank You' Gift to You

2010-12-01T07:17:00.026-05:00

I am grateful that you are a part of 'Color My World' and I appreciate that you want to learn more about creative self-expression, living authentically, and improving relationships.

With that said, I am offering a free gift to thank you for being a part of my world. I know that as someone interested in living true to yourself, you will enjoy this gift, but I don't want you to keep it all to yourself! It is meant to be shared.

Here is what I mean ...

My gift is a 2-part audio download which is valued at $19.99. I invited a colleague of mine, Dr. Nancy Mramor (drmramor.com), a renowned psychologist, to join me in some free-creative playtime which I recorded for you. In the audio file, I demonstrate 4 solid ways for you to incorporate creative self-expression into your everyday life, and not only is this audio download free to you, the tips that I demonstrate cost you nothing ... so, you don't have to 'find' the time or spend a dime!

You will learn ways to nurture your creativity, and get the whole family involved while you are doing chores, driving to soccer, preparing dinner, etc. Now, car-time and chore-time go by quicker, you'll have more fun, and here's the priceless part ... it's a great way to get to know what is in your kid's head and heart!

Oh, yeah ... you will also be creating golden memories of a lifetime!

These invaluable Tips 'n Tools are so successful that you may never have to purchase a board game again!

Also, here is another way this gift can be shared ... If you have friends/fans you think would appreciate my Tips 'n Tools, please pass this link (FREE GIFT) along to them with a personal note from you letting them know that as my friend, you are sharing in the spirit of giving. They'll love you for it, and I'd love to meet anyone who is a fellow friend/fan of yours! ... Now we are also sharing the love!

Here's how to get your gift ... and again, it is totally free ~ you don't even have to pay shipping/handling or tax! ...

First of all, make certain that you already 'Follow' me on this Blog ... then drop me an email at harmonypublications@hotmail.com letting me know your email address so that I can send you your free gift. If you don't already 'Follow' this Blog, follow the quick two-step process below:

1. Just sign up for this blog by scrolling down the page and hitting the 'Follow' button under my photo where it says 'Friends and Followers' ...
2. Then email me at harmonypublications@hotmail.com to let me know your email address so that I can send you your free gift.

That's it ... it's that simple! You are now on your way to creative authenticity ~ just in time to create some amazing holiday memories with your friends and family!

Welcome, and enjoy~

;-Deb
"It's never wrong to write!"

Giving Thanks~

2010-11-24T10:44:00.006-05:00

Don't you just LOVE this time of year? The fact that there is a special holiday dedicated to the act of being thankful is indicative of how important gratitude truly is. Although I keep a gratitude journal, and am mindful to maintain it every day, there is something even more humbling about building an entire day around it, and doing so with people that I treasure is extraordinarily special.

It is my hope that you, too, are surrounded by a bounty of beauty, along with a grateful heart.

Now, you KNOW that I've got to get creative here ... and that I also have to share a way for you to get creative with your family this Thanksgiving. However, I know that you are busy, so I will keep this post brief and get right to it:

This link is my special gift to you [click here] ... It leads you to a fun way to get your kids involved in helping set your Thanksgiving table this year. While you are busy putting the finishing touches on dinner, your kids can color these fun place mats and personalize them with names and festive messages for each person at your table ... Make certain that you select the 'landscape' print option ... and use fun colored paper to match your other decorations!

Thank you for being a part of my life!

Bon Appetite~

;-Deb

Creativity and Sports

2010-09-23T18:46:00.007-04:00

Creativity is important in every aspect of our lives. We simply have to know HOW to tap into it and WHERE to apply it in order to maximize our results. The one question I had never thought of caught me by surprise recently when a morning show TV host asked me WHY we should want to tap into our creativity. “Hmm,” I thought …. “Is she kidding?” Nope … she was serious, and she brought up a great point from a perspective which I had never acknowledged.

We all know I’m a ‘right brainer.’ I involve some level of creativity to everything I do. You could say I ‘stand out from the norm.’ As a result, it never crossed my mind that someone would be puzzled by the thought of applying creativity to their daily life.

My lovely host gave an example of an accountant who is ‘formula-oriented’ and might wonder WHY they would want to look at things differently. For them, two plus two always equals four. My immediate on-camera response was, “Sure, but so does three plus one!” Why would anyone want to limit their thinking when alternatives can broaden our horizons and lead to fun stuff? Although invaluable in certain situations, a laser-focus can really hinder us.

You see, I like to make everything fun … hey, it’s one of the perks of being eternally stuck in fourth grade and writing for children! However, I use it in almost every aspect of my life. Yes, it gets me in trouble sometimes (harmless trouble) but those moments are outweighed by the joy it interjects into my life.

For example, my anchor book, “Color My World” is a huge success. We made it to the Best-Seller list within 18 months, and my book tour was an awesome experience. However, while I was on the road doing book signings, workshops, radio and TV shows around the country, I was approached by several parents who said that they learned so much while they were watching me work with their kids.

Before I knew it, I was doing corporate workshops and seminars for adults. Now, I could have ignored those leads because “I work with children; I write children’s books; my products are not geared toward adults.” However, my audience told me what they wanted, I designed programs specifically for adults, and now I’m enjoying the fruits of a different labor. If I had written off the opportunity because I was laser-focused on my main mission I would be missing the rewards I’m currently reaping.

So how does this apply to kids and sports? Well, first I feel it is important to remember that we should be enjoying the things we do with our kids … even if it is an intense and serious issue to them … in fact, I should say ESPECIALLY if it is an intense and serious issue to them! Isn’t it our job to help our kids enjoy life while they figure out where they want to go and how to get there?

With that said, whether your kids are playing sports for the fun and social aspects or if they are aiming to be the world’s next Olympic star, we’ve got to teach them to enjoy the journey. That journey includes surprises along the way … those alternate routes can be just as rewarding as the original journey, if not more so.

How do we transfer that to our kid’s sport training? Don't over think the situation. Go with our gut, and be compassionate. This is not brain surgery, but the key is to get a good blend of intellect (technical information) and emotion (experience and compassion). Once we have a fair balance between the ‘nuts-n-bolts’ angle and the personal side, the rest should fall into place.

Think about how you might help a new recruit tackle something at your office. You’d most likely share the research and analytical information with them, and probably feel inspired to take them under your wing and help them succeed. So often we approach co-workers with more patience and compassion than we extend to our family members. Try talking to your child as though they were a young recruit at work.

While offering technical advice, give some positive input and try to see the situation through their eyes. They want to learn from you, but more importantly, they want your support and acceptance as well. I’ll bet your kid is no different than that new office recruit.

Helping our kids learn to play a sport can be difficult … or it can be easy. We simply have to make the choice upfront.

Choosing to make it easy is … well, easy. Often times the question we must ask ourselves is, “Do we want drama or results?” Chances are that we are going to get the drama no matter. After all, we are dealing with our kids, right? Well, the good news is that we can direct the drama to work in our favor in the form of positive energy instead of draining negative drama if we focus on results.

First, we have to identify the forms of drama; there is good drama and bad drama. Focusing on what is wrong will obviously lead to bad negative energy and will most often result in more of what is wrong, beginning the downward spiral to tantrums, fights, and perhaps dropping out of the sport altogether.

Focusing on what is going well typically leads to a more willing participant and better results which begin the climb to the top. Sometimes ‘the top’ can mean the best of the best, and sometimes it can simply mean the best that your child can be. Either way, it harnesses the energy, delivers more fun and becomes more productive for you, your child, and ultimately the team.

This sets the tone for many of life’s ensuing endeavors on and off the field. Isn’t that what kids’ sports are all about? I believe the goal is to prepare them for life as well as a potential career in sports.

Here are examples of negative and positive approaches:

A negative approach can be as innocent as telling your son or daughter that s/he is standing in the ‘wrong’ position. While a more positive approach which uses the same amount of time and energy can have a much better end result. This could be something as simple as showing them the ‘right’ position in which they should be standing. Suddenly, instead of criticizing and turning the situation into a negative battle, you are focused on the positive side, the solution.

Think about when your child first learned to walk. As their little legs clamored across the room and your heart sank at the thought of watching them fall onto the corner of the coffee table. A natural response might have been to yell, “Don’t fall!” However, those ‘innocent’ and well-intended words merely put the idea of falling into their head and the next thing you saw unravel was the scene you had played out in your head and wanted to avoid.

Now, since we have the ability to recreate that scene in an instant replay, we’ll choose your words more carefully. Instead of planting a negative thought, you tell your child, “Be careful!” Chances are, the kid’s mind will take that command seriously and the scene will play out safely. Of course, those wobbly, newly-discovered legs still are not graceful, but they’re more likely to successfully carry your child safely to the other side of the room!

It is the same in sport training. Positive reinforcement goes further and more smoothly. Just keep in mind that practice is not limited to the sport or the child … it is also important for parents to practice. Practice how to reframe your thoughts and directions in a more positive way, and chances are, you will see more positive results.

On that note … remember the positive reinforcement after the swing, hit or miss. “Good hit, great swing, nice try, fun game!” A little goes a long way.

Just like employees, our kids crave the simplest acknowledgment. That is truly a reward in and of itself which can propel them to their next great move! Look, it doesn’t happen often for us, but doesn’t it feel good to creatively outsmart your kid?!

;-Deb

Setting Homework Standards

2010-09-09T16:59:00.005-04:00

Today I’m sharing some creative tips on how to set the homework tone for the rest of the school year, now … BEFORE it becomes a problem.

School is back in session. Most parents I talk to are happy about that except for one thing … they seem to dread homework almost as much as their kids!

When you hear the word 'HOMEWORK' does scary-movie-music play in your head? ... If so, listen-up~

OK, here’s the deal … homework time does NOT have to feel like tax time!

There are a few things you can do to nip this in the bud … I’m going to cut right to the chase here …

I’ve got ONE SECRET WEAPON that works for almost anything when dealing with our kids:

Let them share in the decision-making process.

Here’s how:

Give them some control, let them know that their opinion matters and that you trust their judgment.
• Of course, we typically have to steer them toward the right decision, but they don’t have to know that.
• You might also want to be prepared to negotiate a little because you KNOW they will have their own ideas … although this might be frustrating, it really shows good independent thinking skills, and if you are prepared for it, you can still maintain control.
• You really enter the ‘danger zone’ when you are not prepared!

Here are 3 things that will help make this school year run a little smoother:
1. Decide on homework time TOGETHER
2. Choose a homework spot TOGETHER
3. Gather tools to help make homework successful TOGETHER

Notice that one key element there … TOGETHER!

• Instead of demanding that homework be done at a specific time, talk it over with your son or daughter and get their input … give 2 or 3 choices:
o Right after school, right before dinner, right before bed

• Perhaps you can also give them 2 or 3 places from which to choose:
o In bedroom, at kitchen table, on family room floor

• Talk out the pluses and minuses of each … together

• Gather tools to make it easier:
o Laptop, lap-desk, pens/pencils, erasers, protractor, calculator, clip-on book-light, snack(!) … doesn’t food make everything better?

• Talk about how it trains their brain to get into ‘homework mode’ so that they understand the importance of consistency.

• This might also be a good time to discuss the importance of certain ‘brain foods’ and how they help the thinking process: Foods high in Omega 3; certain veggies like cauliflower and broccoli, nuts and seeds, raspberries…

These tips made a huge difference in my son's attitude toward homework time, and as a result, made a more peaceful time for all of us!

Believe me, a little planning can truly be the difference between success and failure this year! ... for everyone in your home~

Ahh! ... Isn't that better?
;-Deb

Transitioning kids from summer fun to a school year structure does not have to be difficult!

2010-09-02T15:06:00.009-04:00

With the anticipation of a new school year comes the rites of passage that go along with stepping up a grade, or walking into a new class or school, or perhaps even starting school for the first time ever. So often, we focus on the ceremony of shopping for a new wardrobe, backpack, binders and markers, but we forget that we should spend some time acclimating our kids' minds for the classroom environment.

This doesn't mean we should hold mock school sessions at home for a month prior to the first day of school; we can ease their minds into 'school mode' without them even realizing it. You simply have to prepare a little and before you know it, you'll be slipping lessons into your everyday functions and passing them off as mere fun! Isn't it a delicious thought to be able to fool your kids into learning something? Well, it might be way easier than you thought possible.

The three most important things to remember are:

1. Make it fun!
2. Make it Fun!!
3. Make it FUN!!!

The fourth thing … dab their baby toe in first ... ease them back in ~ and yes, MAKE IT FUN!

Below are some quirky yet entertaining brain exercises for every age group.

Young kids:

* A trip to the ice cream stand(!) … or their favorite restaurant! … Woo-Hoo! … hold on, there is one caveat: everyone must only use their non-dominant hand (if you are right-handed, you must eat with your left hand and vice-versa).

* Folks at your neighboring tables might think you are nuts; however, those with kids will thank you when you explain what you are doing.

*Benefit: This is a great exercise to engage both sides of the brain to get them working together.

Tweens:

* Of course, most tweens will also enjoy a trip to the ice cream stand or their favorite restaurant to eat with their non-dominant hand. However, we might need something a bit more challenging at this age level.

* If that is the case, play some fun word games with them to get their brain juices flowing. For instance, have them try to say their name backwards, then have them spell it backwards. Still using their name as the template for brain engaging fun, challenge them to hold an entire conversation over dinner while beginning every sentence with a word that begins with the first letter of their first name. For example, Debbie must try to begin every sentence with a word that starts with the letter ‘D’ … Do you understand what I mean? Did you try it yet? Don’t knock it till you try it. Difficult, huh?

* Benefit: Nurtures creativity and independent thinking skills.

Teens/Young Adults:

* This one might take a little homework on your part; however, like most activities involving our kids, the older they are, the more involved it typically becomes. Focus on something that your child is really into … music, reading, sports, etc. Research the newest/latest happenings which revolve around that particular subject and start asking them questions about it. For instance, if your kid loves baseball, identify his/her favorite players, ask them to recite their stats (RBI’s, ERA’s, number of home-runs) for the current season; if they are not a rookie, how do their current stats measure up to last season? What is their team’s current record; wins, losses, ties, and placement in the league. Quiz them on these stats. Same for music; pick a favorite singer or band, and their newest album; name all the songs on the CD; which were hits? Do they know their placement on the charts?

*Benefit: Gently wakes up the sleepy-summer brain, and gets your kid thinking again.

These might seem like rather ‘mindless’ exercises; however, the goal is to get creative juices flowing to encourage their own individual learning styles. There is no better way to do that than to appeal to them with something that lights up their eyes, and to do so in a comfortable environment. Remember, you’ve got to keep their head in the game, or it won’t do any good.

Although there are many benefits to each of the examples above, the byproduct is that you will be spending top-quality time with your child. Keep in mind that free creative playtime is a great way to learn what is in your kid’s head and heart, no matter how old they are! ... BONUS!

;-Deb

Tips for Teachers

2010-08-17T11:02:00.011-04:00

It’s that time of year again~

• You’ve got your syllabus prepared
• Your lesson planner is rockin’
• You even have most of your tools and props ready
• Yay!

If you are looking for some ideas, you’re in good company. Some 'Color My World' followers have asked me for tips to help teachers facilitate a good comfort level and set the perfect tone for the rest of the school year.

You know, my Mom always had the best little Italian sayings; some of them did not transfer well in English. However, there is one that I believe would have the same impact in any language. In fact, it applies well in this situation … but in reverse.

Here’s what I mean:

Whenever something was amiss, whether it was a business situation or a family matter, my Mom would ask who was in charge. She’d tell me to look at the person at the top of the chain-of-command and I’d probably find the problem because people usually take their lead from that person, and if something was wrong in the middle or at the bottom, something was typically wrong at the top.

She would say, “A fish stinks from the head down.” That’s pretty insightful; it illustrates the point well, and I find it to be true a lot. However, I still prefer to paint prettier pictures. The problem is that none of the 'pretty' scenarios I’ve come up with get the point across as well as the stinky fish.

Which brings about a more popular saying, “If it ain’t broke …” Well, I won’t try to fix my Mom’s brilliant little ditty, but this is how I believe it also holds true in reverse. If things are going smoothly in the middle and at the tail end, someone at the top is setting that tone as well.

We’ve all seen the signs posted in a lot of homes that read, ‘If Momma’s not happy, no one’s happy!’ Well, the same seems to hold true in the classroom; the teacher sets the tone for this ‘family.’

With that said, it is important to be well-rested and prepared so that you are able to then prep your students for a smooth year ahead.

A great way to set the tone is to make each student feel welcomed and important while getting acquainted.

Here is an idea that might help:

•Once you have your student roster, take some time to research their first names.
•Using large index cards or construction paper, write each student’s name and its definition on a card.
•Remember to also make a card for your name.
•Place a Post-it over the name on each card so that only the definition shows.
•When class is in session, make a game out of guessing who matches the description on each card by randomly passing out cards and making certain that no one gets the one with their own name on it.
•Give each student a chance to read the card in their hand while the rest of the class guesses who it is.
•This is not just a good way to learn everyone's name; it also gives a glimpse of each personality right up front. For instance, my name ‘Deborah’ means Queen Bee. I’m not so certain that was a good fit in grade school since I was rather shy; however, later in my life, I’d have to say that I proudly accept that description. I’m in charge of my life; I know what I want, I know how to get things done, and I appreciate the fact that I am well respected for what I do.
•By the way, these name cards can also be used as name plates for the fronts of the desks.
•And at the end of the school year, you can use them again to compare how the definitions fit or changed with each personality since the beginning of the year.

Hey, are we talking about the end of the school year already?! ... Time flies when we are happy~

Here’s to a happy Classroom!

;-Deb

Parental 911 ~ Summer’s End is Near

2010-08-02T11:14:00.005-04:00

Are You Still Trying to Find Ways to Make This Summer Memorable?

Well ...

It’s NOT too late to have the BEST summer EVER with your kids! …

In today's issue, I'm sharing tips that fit into what’s left of your summer schedule and BUDGET …

The key here is to SCHEDULE the time together; put it on your calendar as if you had to be at the airport hopping on a plane for a quick vacation.

Keep in mind that the goal is to make it a summer to remember, so let’s build some fabulous memories.

The best way to do that is by beginning with something that your kid loves. What lights up their eyes?

Here are 10 EASY tips to get you started:

Music

Check out local Concerts in the Park (typically free_
Or, how about setting up snacks/drinks in your backyard, along with your laptop on a blanket. Everyone in the family gets to choose a music video or two to watch TOGETHER

Have you been to the museum lately
Or, how about packing a picnic, stop at the library and check out some art books, then heading to the park to share your bounty together

Animals

Zoo/Aquarium, Aviary, visit local farms/petting zoos; for older kids, try horseback riding
Or, how about volunteering some time TOGETHER at an animal shelter

Sports

Plenty of major league games left this season, try just visiting the ballparks, or drive to a Sports Hall of Fame
Or, how about stopping by some local little league games to support neighborhood ‘stars’ … even if you don’t know them

Movies

Movies in the Park typically run through the month of August
Or, how about doing your own movie fest 3 nights in a row at a local drive-in … everyone participates in making the plans (choosing movies, popping popcorn, packing drinks, etc.)

Cars/Motorcycles/Races

Check out local speedways to enjoy inexpensive entertainment
Or, how about racing each other … bumper cars

Getting Dirty

Off road racing … rent a 4 wheeler if you don't own one, and see how dirty you can get it
Or, how about a spontaneous walk in the rain

History

History Center or Museums
Or, how about researching your family tree TOGETHER

Mind Exercises

Science Center
Or, how about fun online mind games … Braingym.com, ZiggityZoom, colormyworld.info, my blog gives LOTS of tips, tools, ideas and exercises

Ask Your Kid

You might be surprised at the fabulous ideas they have ... if you just ask and listen
Chances are, they simply want to spend time together ~ building memories!

Get the Heck out of the Way!

2010-07-29T08:31:00.006-04:00

As adults, we truly do try our best to help our kids move down the 'right' path, yes?

Well, I've got great news for you ~ sometimes we don't have to try so stinkin' hard!

That's right, I'm giving you permission to NOT work so hard at it!

Sometimes, the best thing we can possibly do for our kids is to get the heck out of their way!

Watch this short (about a minute and a half) video to see what I mean:

"Child's Creativity"

Now, relax and go color something YOUR way!

;-D

Are You Having Fun Yet? ...

2010-07-19T09:45:00.020-04:00

Now that summer is in full swing, inspiration is all around us! And so, I believe this is the perfect time to use our summer excitement to catapult our creativity... Need a gentle nudge?

Here's a great way to get the creative juices flowing:

Whether you've been away this summer, or have been having fun at home, choose your favorite moment so far, and write a poem about it. Remember that there is still plenty of summer left to create more magical moments! Perhaps you can use that anticipation to write a poem about an upcoming event ... Also keep in mind the fact that poems do NOT have to rhyme.

You know that I LOVE it when you share your poems and stories with me.

With that in mind, I wrote this poem that I'm sharing with you about my recent trip to Oglebay:

My favorite Oglebay Moment …

There’s too many to choose!
I can’t pick just one … I refuse!

So, I wrote this poem to give you a feel
Of a heaven on earth that is oh, so real:

Quiet mornings were spent on the balcony
While birds performed a symphony.

Flowers and trees were in full bloom
Then we returned to a peaceful room.

My ‘work’ was doing workshops with budding poets,
They LOVE ‘Color My World’ don’t you know it?

What an opportunity to teach and share wit,
And I’m grateful for the chance to relax a bit.

We enjoyed soothing massages in their tranquil spa,
Oglebay certainly has something for all!

While I worked, my hubby took a Segway tour.
He had a blast, that’s for sure!

We dined on sumptuous meals with a panoramic view.
And witnessed two beautiful weddings, too.

After a vigorous workout in the gym,
We relaxed in the sauna, then off for a swim.

We walked along nature trails and around the pond,
It’s as though Mother Nature waved her wand.

There were mountains in the distance and a cozy lake,
No better place for a well-deserved break.

Off in the distance, we heard a golfer cry “Fore!”
On our way to the museum and to do shopping galore.

With all that we did, there’s way more left undone,
So, we’re returning soon to scoop up more Oglebay fun!

Meanwhile, I end this poem with a question, though;
There is one thing I’ve got to know …

The director of every fun-filled fiesta
Never seems to get a siesta!

Anne is there, working night and day,
And her enthusiasm doesn’t ever sway.

It’s obvious that her goal is to ensure a good time
But Anne, you’ve GOT to rest sometime!

It seems that you never get to sleep.
When is it YOUR turn to count sheep?

You are certainly the most gracious hostess
Who delivers the absolute mostess!

Your guests are filled with appreciation,
Because you exceed the highest expectation.

So, Anne, my hat is off to you,
For the heart-felt job that you do!

I hope my friends and fans get a chance to visit Oglebay sometime soon! Meanwhile, thanks for being part of 'Color My World' and remember to click on over to my website for more fun and inspiration!

As always, whatever you do, do it creatively and authentically ...

Enjoy the magic~
;-Deb

This Might Seem Like a No-Brainer... BUT...

2010-07-12T10:20:00.011-04:00

Yep, that's a big ol' BUT ... buuuut, bear with me here.

Isn't it typically the things that are right under our noses which go unnoticed or taken for granted? I'm thinking ... YES!
Today's Laser Tip is one of those~

One word: Crosswords

Seriously, doing crossword puzzles together with your kids is a great way to:
~keep their brain (and yours) sharp
~build a strong vocabulary (no matter what age)
~spend time together
~build memories
~have fun!

I remember many special moments doing crossword puzzles with my kids, snuggled under a blanket on the couch or in front of a fire in the winter. Other times when we were on vacation and my husband was driving, I'd be doing a crossword puzzle in the front passenger seat, and I'd call out a clue to our sons in the back seat. Often times, it was a collaborated effort to get the right answer; however, some of the 'wrong' answers would spur opportunities for a 'side' lesson.

In addition to filling in the answers on the puzzle, we'd take turns spelling the words and using them in a sentence. This is especially beneficial when there are various age groups participating. Crosswords are generally easy to keep age-appropriate since there is typically a mix of short words and big words.

To make it more fun, you can make 'rules' that the sentence can only pertain to a particular subject or scenario. For instance, all sentences must somehow relate to a zoo. If a clue to a particular puzzle is: Six-letter word for 'a place to learn.' And the answer is 'school,' someone must spell the word 'school' and use it in a sentence pertaining to the zoo. Teens might say something along the lines of, "The last week of school was like a zoo because there was not much structure in our schedule." Younger kids might say, "I'd rather go to the zoo than go to school!"

Either way, there is a hidden bonus here ... insight to what your kid is thinking and feeling. The first sentence might clue you in to the fact that your older child is beginning to prefer structure, even though they might resist it from you at home. And, although it might not be a surprise that your younger child would rather do something more fun than school, it presents you with an opportunity to broach the subject in a gentle manner.

VOILA! Time spent with your kids, future memories, sharpened vocabulary skills, and built-in lessons ... Oh yeah, and you had ... um ... what's a three-letter word for enjoyment? ...

Remember, for more creative ways to have fun with your kids, check out my free interactive website and watch segments of my NBC and CBS morning show appearances on my YouTube Channel. Also, stop by your local book store and pick up a copy of my Best-Selling interactive book for kids of all ages, 'Color My World.'

As always, I LOVE it when you share your creative successes with me ... here or by email: harmonypublications@hotmail.com.

And, I appreciate it when you pass my information along to your friends!

Until next time,
Enjoy the magic~
;-Deb

Going Somewhere?

2010-07-08T09:50:00.006-04:00

My goal here is to provide you with quick, easy-to-apply Tips 'n Tools to nurture creativity and get to know your kids better.

Today's Laser Tip:

Whether you are in your car for 10 minutes headed to a ballgame, or 10 hours on a family vacation, here is a fun tip that you can do together ... everyone can enjoy it at their own level:

Spot a billboard with people in it; name each person in the billboard, and build a story around them.
Example: Take turns going around to each person in the car. On the first round, identify each person in the billboard and what they do for a living or for fun. Next round, say where they just came from. Where are they going? Is one of them a stay at home parent? What conversation would they be having now? ... Etc.....
One billboard can last a long time, or you can start anew with a different billboard.
See how long you can keep it going~

Oh, and please post your stories here so that the rest of us can enjoy them, too!

Until next time, have the BEST summer ~ EVER! ... Creatively, of course~

;-Deb