** Chronicles of Vanity by Tara Cabullo

In Shangri La, there's Beauty Bliss

2012-02-20T08:51:00.002+08:00

Because the Rustan's Cosmetics and Toiletries Division is currently under renovation and Estee Lauder Group of Companies love its valued customers very much, there's a pop up store at 3F Shangri La Plaza until March!

All your favorite brands have now become accessible {I really should drop by soon} plus all the freebies for each brand. There was a photo booth yesterday, too but I'd been cooped up at home working --- did you go?

Happy rainy Monday!
xx

Tara's Office Survival Kit

2012-02-17T08:00:00.000+08:00

... and no, this is not my most awaited article about the kind of officemates you should avoid. {Hehe.}

I can only presume the women who read my blog to be women like me --- the ones who choose structure over free time, the ones who are in the concrete jungles of Manila --- career women in their own rights. Most days, the office can be our refuge, a safe place where our dreams of taking over all sorts of industries happen. Most days, it is a sanctuary where we feel very useful {I am guilty of this!}. But sometimes, it can be quite the room with bare walls, with harsh airconditioning and traces of birthday celeb handa and the radiation of monitors.

Frankly, I like sitting in front of my computer --- I can do this all day most days. I do sit cross legged, though and I am detached from the world through my iPod. I used to think that being behind a monitor can do nothing to dry skin out, or make me feel ugly but it does. And so that is what my survival kit is for:

Clean and Clear Oil Control Film. This item has appeared on this blog so many times simply because I don't think I can ever live without one. Aside from its original function of clearing oil, its grapefruit scent wakes me up during meetings that are useless {What? Some can be!} and energizes me through afternoons that makes me want to nap.
Green Cross 40% Isopropyl Alcohol with Moisturizers. I recently switched my alcohol of choice from Biogenic {because it smells good} to this, because it smells way better. Every day, when I arrive at my desk, I wipe everything in my space with this and my day starts well.
Garnier Eye Roll. I don't know if it's just me but most days in the middle of the day, I feel the area around my eyes tighten and when I roll this onto them, it feels better and I am a happy girl. Why?
Versace Bright Crystal EDT. I alternate this with Elizabeth Arden's Red Door as the scent I spritz on before every meeting. I make it a habit to walk into air sprayed with this before proceeding to meet anyone. I'd feel naked without a trail of scent.
Crabtree and Evelyn's La Source Hand Therapy. They say that age is evident in one's hand. I do not want mine to show my real age. I'd like to believe I'm still 16 :D
Celeteque Hydrating Moisturizing Mist. Any office's air conditioning can wreak havoc on our skin, especially if we're there for eight hours or so. If I apply moisturizer, I'd have to go through the whole nine yards, I spray this onto my face and I can feel my face thanking me for it.
Watson's Leave In Conditioner. I use this mostly for its scent. You know when you're a corporate person and you enter all sorts of celebrations and milestones and the scent of food just sort of sticks to your hair? I abhor that --- so I spritz this onto my hair and it smells fresh and is alive again.

Do you have an office survival kit, too? What's in it?
xx

Hair Bliss with Dove Shampoo

2012-02-16T08:00:00.000+08:00

I am only grateful that I did receive this lovely package from Dove Haircare some weeks ago:

I have the driest hair ever --- dry to the point that it's frizzy when un-cared for and can get itchy if it brushes onto my shoulders and I am forced to tie everything into a bun and risk looking like a joyless principal. It's so dry it's brittle and crunchy and falls off because it's so weak. I know. :s

It's no secret really. I've been raving constantly about Dove Haircare--- and not because they're free but to be honest, hell to the effing yeah, that, too! But what I love most about it is that it actually works and it's super mabango! Today in the elevator, a guy friend smelled my hair for five seconds and it would've been offensive if he wasn't a friend.

Plus --- I get to wear my hair down more often :D

Heh x. My weird face but what I was trying to take a photo of was really hair in all its bouncy curly glory.

What I Love about this new product:

It's moisturizing. I don't know about any other variant but when it said intense, it was pretty intense. To be able to condition my hair means it had to be more than the average and had to be thick, too. I don't have split ends but boy, did this cure the dry strands.
LESS HAIRFALL. I was shedding hair like I was sick it wasn't funny anymore. It gradually decreased after day 2 and now, it's like I don't even have hairfall anymore. Then again, I'm using the conditioner, too, alternated with another AMAZING product but that's for another story. After bombarding my hair with all the moisture that I could get, I therefore conclude that dryness is the culprit to hair fall. I'm never skipping deep conditioning again.
The shimmers. It doesn't really do anything but it's too cute for words!

It smells really good. Ask the friend from the elevator ride. Plus it stays on the whole day. I went to yoga and spent the day doing intense poses {I DID A HAND STAND!!!} and sweating like a girl and before I went to shower, I smelled my hair and it smelled like I just got out of one.
Reasonably priced. I have no fear of running out of this product because every 180 mL bottle from the Dove Shampoo range is just at Php 110. From a Marketer's point of view, this is going to give a lot of shampoos a run for its money because of its competitiveness. Goodbye drugstore brand shampoo! I am a loyal Dove user now.
Wide range. The thing with mass market brands is that they tend to be centered on normal types of hair. And the thing with me is that I'm a pretty niche market with super extremely treated hair. My shampoo might be found oily for others so I don't usually find suitable products for my curls. I am very happy with Dove's Intense Repair variant.
No dandruff for me.

And with that I'm blissed out with my shampoo. What about you?

Have you tried the Dove shampoo / hair products? I hope you're loving them as much I am!
xx

The Dragon Tattoo Keeps Haunting Me

2012-02-15T14:22:00.001+08:00

I ~~couldn't~~ wouldn't shut up about it.

Sometime in 2010, I received a set of the Millennium series, a trilogy by Stieg Larsson which took the world by storm. I had intended well to spend a good time in bed reading everything but well --- life happened and here I am, halfway onto the first book and reeling from the movie, or I hope the first installment of yet another Fincher classic.

It was almost as if I was in the haywires of David Fincher's mind.

There isn't much to say --- expounding on the plot is pretty useless because it was a movie with such intense twist I was a bit holding my breath. I, who has ADD at cinemas, was transfixed and engaged the entire 2 hours and 45 minutes that the movie was running. The last movie I'd been like this at all was Inception.

Admittedly, this is not for the faint of heart. TGWIDT is a crime-suspense thriller, the chills of which are reminiscent of Silence of the Lambs. You know the kind of suspense that you get from quiet killing intent? It did not help that Powerplant Cinemas' surround cinemas had great audio, I was so afraid that terror was running up and down my spine. In some of the sequences, I found myself having had to breathe a calming series of breaths.

Notable for her performance was Erica Albright from The Social Network, playing Lisbeth Salander --- is Oscar nominee Rooney Mara. Her portrayal of the frail, computer hacking bisexual Salander was excruciatingly well you'd think the part was written for her. From her various interviews all over America, I found out that it took her 2 and a half months to finish auditioning for the part, they even make her drink alcohol sometimes as Salander seems to be "strung out" most of the time.

With a knack for tapping into anyone's computer, Salander was the toughest researcher in Sweden --- and together with Mikael Blomvkist, they crack open a 40 year mystery.

In her signature black grunge outfits, Salander can make anyone scramble in terror.

But it being a movie I saw on Valentine's Day, I distinctly remember that Lisbeth Salander, in her grunge wear, swearing shirt, hacking genius, can also fall in love.

I can totally understand why this movie is not showing anymore on Philippine cinemas ---- it can be quite graphic and gruesome and disturbing. But if you do ever chance upon a DVD when it gets released, do watch a movie that's engaging and thrilling and captivating.

And since I've extracted this entry out of my mind and hands, maybe I can now proceed to shut up.

Oh and did you know David Fincher directed Madonna's Vogue video?

Wala lang, masabi ko lang si Madonna.

Happiness

2012-02-14T08:00:00.000+08:00

Oh, the things we learn from kids.

The thing with being an adult is that our idea of happiness gets more complicated. We know we'll be happy if we get that promotion, if we finally purchase that dream house, when we finally send the kids to the best school we know, when we pay off all our debts, when we finally go through that perfect wedding.

It never really ends. I could ask myself what would make me happy this instant and honestly: I don't know. I'm not sad but I've stopped caring so much about what makes me happy and just decided to go with the flow {that is of course, for now}.

Last Thursday, I had a little moment and realized how much kids, Charles Schulz and Charlie Brown can teach us about happiness.

Happiness is finding a pencil.
Pizza with sausage.
Telling the time.
Happiness is learning to whistle.
Tying your shoe for the very first time.

Happiness is playing the drum in your own school band.
And happiness is walking hand in hand.
Happiness is two kinds of ice cream.
Knowing a secret.
Climbing a tree.
Happiness is five different crayons.
Catching a firefly.
Setting him free.

Happiness is being alone every now and then.
And happiness is coming home again.
Happiness is morning and evening,
Daytime and night time too.
For happiness is anyone and anything at all
That’s loved by you.

Happiness is having a sister.
Sharing a sandwich.
Getting along.
Happiness is singing together when day is through,
And happiness is those who sing with you.
Happiness is morning and evening,
Daytime and nighttime too.
For happiness is anyone and anything at all
That’s loved by you.

And just in case you want a live performance of this show, I do believe it's still running at the Carlos Romulo auditorium in RCBC Plaza. I have never laughed so much in my life <3 I love you Lucy van Pelt!

Happiness is slinking away to bed after this entry <3

Here's my LUVIN, MDNA.

2012-02-06T19:10:00.000+08:00

There has never been an artist that has made me scream, get goosebumps, scream again, smile sheepishly, dance, clap all at the same time other than Madonna. I was less than 10 years old when I saw a video of her concert in Italy and I knew right there and then I'm going to love her and watch every show she would be in. All of the songs in her concerts have all been mini-concerts on its own. My favorite has always been this:

Madonna's La Isla Bonita | Drowned World Tour

I still get the chills up to now. And this was in 2001. Who doesn't want to learn flamenco after that?

All my life, I'd been purchasing Madonna biographies and a Madonna biography is a no-fail gift to me any occasion. At this time, I have about five of those now, all different authors. My copy of M is for Madonna, remain to be the most battered of all though.

Of course, it was only natural that I have palpitated, screamed and made an utter fan girl of myself when I finally savored each moment of this {blurry yet I was clapping like I was there} video.

Madonna, Nicki Minaj,Cee Lo and MIA at the Superbowl 46 half time.

Oh. My. God.

Love you forever, Madonna. I can't wait to watch you LIVE.

Lovely Mornings

2012-02-06T08:00:00.000+08:00

One of the biggest changes this year has heralded for me was my transition from being a nocturnal being to a morning person. Anybody who's known me for the past five years would know I am alive and ultra-creative at night when the world sleeps.

Nowadays, I find myself sleepy so early even if at exciting places such as this --- we were waiting for Mamma Mia to start at CCP.

I don't know if its a hankering for change that brought it on but suddenly, I have become a morning person. It's been more than a month since I've been waking up regularly on or before 6 AM, even 4 AM sometimes, which is not funny come 4 PM in the afternoon. While I am loving this new found facet of my persona, I miss being able to come up with numerous projects at night, tinkering with design and codes and generally just being the happy-go-lucky girl I used to be when I slept late. Being a morning person made me very structured and organized and by the book. I am not quite sure how much I like this change.

One thing I like about it though is that I get to pay attention more on my morning skincare. I used to give more time to applying more makeup ---- because I had to cover a lot of imperfections. Ever since I have sort of gotten a cleaner slate, I have devoted ample time to making sure my skin is prepared for a day of being exposed to vehicular smoke, to air conditioning and to stress.

I'm pretty sure that every girl changes her skincare routine every now and then so I'm going to show you what I am currently using --- until further notice. One day, I'll probably discover a new line and would be mixing and matching things:

But for now, here is my Morning Skincare, February 2012 Edition:

Pond's Clear Balance Smooth Pores Facial Wash with Glacial Clay. I wash my face every morning with this. It's a bit reminiscent of an old Pond's variant but smells less manly. It's a bit sticky, too, which I'd chalk up to the clay. The best thing about is that my face feels squeaky clean after, no breakouts so far {been using this for two months now} and non-drying.
Celeteque Acne Solutions Oil Control Toner. I was never a Celeteque user until I discovered their Dermoscience line which is works for me well. This is about my second bottle {the first one being the Hydrating variant} and it's effective in removing oil in the morning. Sometimes, it mortifies me how a the cotton pad looks a bit bronze/brown after wiping my face with this. But then that only means that excess oil and dirt is removed from the pores.
Acne Clearing Solutions by House of Obagi. This is one of the two heroes I love from HOO. When I had my chemical peel last year, Dr. Stephen Lacson advised me to apply this every morning. I had been doing precisely that ever since and I can't remember sporting a pimple ever since. True story.
Pond's Gold Radiance Serum. This little bottle is my 'for good measure' tool. Since I work inside an air-conditioned building most days, I feel that my skin is going to be all dried up come 2 PM. Since it's in serum form, the moisture is easier to absorb and is an added layer of softness and quenching power to last through the day.
Pond's White Beauty Pinkish White Day Cream. To seal off the serum, I use this little Pond's day cream, which I think is a creamier version of its day cream released last year. I love using this, to be honest, because of its fluffy consistency, soft smell, so girly. It is in fact, I think the brand in 'experience' format. I love its gentle moisturizing capabilities and I'd recommend this to anyone with normal moisturizing needs.
House of Obagi Obagi C Sunblock SPF 30. Not oily, no white cast, easily absorbed by the skin and completely serves its purpose of protecting the skin from the sun's harsh rays. This is the perfect sunblock, if not its price tag {at Php3K++} but who said quality came cheap?

So there! There's my a little longer-than-normal morning skincare routine, reason why I need two hours before I can leave home at 8:30 AM. That and I allot a bit of time for my mini-concert in front of my vanity dresser every single morning.

Happy Monday, my lovely readers!
xx

Things I Love Sundays: Sundays

2012-02-05T18:21:00.001+08:00

To be honest, the subtitle of this post is an inspiration from a fellow blogger's post on Saturdays, who in turn was inspired from someone's post on Sundays.

It's a Sunday, and I love how I woke up only to feel sleepy again. I went back to bed --- something I don't get the luxury of doing most days. Foregoing snoozing the alarm has been a thing of the past and every weekend, I vow to give in to this.

"Toss the numbers game, young vs. old! It’s about vitality & life force. You can be 25 & have zero energy & passion, or 45 & possess & put forth a dynamic, vital spirit, & engage in activities that follow suit. Don’t be a prisoner to your mind — that’s where fear & doubt live. Don’t wait for this or that to happen to live your life. Do it now… Make a plan then get off your ass & live!”

- Eden Grimaldi

Meditation and having my breath as the only thing I am thinking about. Yoga practice. If everyone in the world practiced yoga, the world would be a much better place. Yugoslavian food --- who knew there was such a thing? Unannounced meetings = Surprisingly productive. Doodling and reading. Friends and more laughing.

Mamma Mia. Thank you for the music, ABBA!

Sunsets. Quality coffee. Impromptu outfits. Bumping into blogger friends {hello, Fran!} Sparkly things. Carrie Bradshaw's style. 35 Lessons from Warren Buffett.

Lana del Rey on the cover of Vogue UK. The best career advice. BlogStar wisdom.

Champagne and French Fries at midnight go together like the stars and the moon.

“Create a platform for other people to succeed.” – BurdaStyle

Business cards are as important as your blog if you care about how you look.

When you fall out of love with something, so do your readers.

Walls by Gallery Direct is a game changer.

Gabby Blair reminds me of Grace Kelly mixed with Kathryn Graham.

Most people read blogs 8am-10am, noon, 3pm.

Megan Reardon from Not Martha is made of magic.

“Blogging’s not about making money even though it is.” — Meg Keene

Heather Armstrong is not a lesbian but I fell for her.

Taking an advertiser that’s not a good match dilutes your brand. It’s not worth it!

Wilson Art is made of sugar and spice and all things nice.

People who snatch gift bags and run do not make their parents proud.

”If I cram my life with things I love, then there is no room for things I don’t love.” — Gretchen Rubin

Victoria Smith rocks the world; very quietly, very effectively.

When reaching out for collaborations, make it easy to say yes.

Your blog is not a game show! Be choosy with your giveaways!

From blog to book: a book is the most expensive business card ever.

Mara Koefed’s essence should be bottled and sprinkled liberally.

The Grand America feels like home.

Laura Mayes is the yin and the yang.

Evernote, people, Evernote. Make it yours today and you’ll own tomorrow.

Flood Street is the hot new FB app you need to know about to grow your FB world.

Susan Petersen from Freshly Picked can do it all.

Pilar Gruzman and Deborah Needleman hold talents we but dream about.

Photobooths are the new party balloon.

Path is the new ~~Facebook~~, ~~Pinterest~~, ~~Instragram~~, thing

Melanie Biehle from Inward Facing Girl is made of sunshine and light.

Pinterest’s Ben Silbermann is Steve Jobs-ish without the mean bits.

Laurie Smithwick understands design like I understand it’s important to breathe.

“If it looks good but doesn’t feel good, that will start to show.” — Maggie Mason

Erin Loechner is the one to watch.

“Stop talking about it and go do it.” — Liz Stanley

“I want to be known for the things that I make, not for the things that I say.” — Ben Silbermann

Stay classy.

“Technology is a good servant but a bad master.” — Gretchen Rubin.

When Jordan Ferney decided to devote herself to good, original content, her traffic grew 42% in one month.

“There is enough out there for all of us. Do your best and do it with integrity and your work will shine.” – Joslyn Taylor

Hair fixers --- because my hair has been quite dull these past few weeks --- and no one likes unhealthy hair.

We all know how moisturizing Dove soap is. Dove Haircare will presumably take the Manila market by storm. As for me, I can't wait to try these out. A friend already texted me this works for her, I hope it does the same for me, too.

Y'all know I've been blabbing about this all week :D Review coming up soon!

The power of scents. Have I ever told you that I cannot do anything properly if I don't like the scent I'm smelling? It doesn't have to be unpleasant --- sometimes, I am discombobulated by plain dry air, it's weird.

There's a burning Body Shop scented oil behind my PC most days and this lavender candle {among many others} at my desk.

MDNA by Madonna. I'm tingling with excitement that her May 2012 concert will push through. Plus, what to do tomorrow as she performs at Super Bowl?

Full days. Just as Gretchen Rubin said, if you fill your days with things you love, there's no more room for the ones you don't.

Sometimes, I can't find the time to write anymore --- and things just happen and at night, I just kind of collapse into my bed. Not complaining though :D

Having laughs about having parallel lives with Pinoy romcom characters {Phoebe!}. Especially this one:

Chick Literature. I have forgotten how delightful it is to just rest the mind and read fluffy chick lit in favor of career, or self-help books or business tomes that I had just stayed in bed all week with this:

Thank you for letting me adapt this, T! Which reminds me, I'm in my last 20 pages, so goodbye for now. I do wish anyone who's reading this a very nice week ahead and that you fulfill everything that your heart desires <3

What are you loving this Sunday?

Hot Young Designers Launches its New Collection

2012-02-02T18:48:00.001+08:00

Hot Young Designers Marketing Company (HYD) designers launch their second collection for Fashion Face Off 2011. The first collection made by the designers for HYD was launched last October 2011. They were quite a hit at the Global Pinoy Bazaar, St. James Bazaar and at the Rockwell Moonlit Bazaar.

This January 25, the designers are launching their second collection. This quarter’s collection caters to young professionals, who value work life balance. They desire to have an ensembles that they can wear from day to night.

Klart’s Collection
Inspired by the New York City lights, the line showcases Spring 2012’s trend on glitz and glamour with flashy pieces that consists primarily of all party dresses bedecked with glitter, sequins, and metallics. The silhouettes include fit-and-flare sleeveless mini-dresses, slim-fitting party dresses with open slit sleeves, and sleeveless dresses with a v-shaped neckline and cascading ruffles. All dresses were built around contrast materials such as crepe, and chiffon, creating a sheer feminine texture throughout the collection. Party the night away with Klart Lim's "Hello, Sexy!" Collection!

Bailey’s Collection
Bailey’s second collection is inspired by the fashionable people who chill on the different beaches. La Playa de Moda, or “The Beach of Fashion” has different fabulous swimwear and cover-ups, as well as dresses one can wear while lounging at the different resorts. These dresses can be worn too outside of the beach while chilling with your friends. One would definitely be a glamorous and fabulous fashionista when wearing any of these pieces from Bailey’s La Playa de Moda collection.

Renan’s Collection
My collection is called Mama Carine. Irreverently chic! I drew my inspiration for this collection from Carine Roitfeld, former editor-in-chief of French Vogue. That tousled hair and dark smoky-eyes, she is one of the most powerful women in the whole of “fashiondom”. She evokes power and authority. She’s unapologetically subversive with her usually sex-induced ideas. Influential, dominant and highly-significant for most designers, eternal muse of Tom Ford, and for my second collection for Hot Young Designers, she is my woman- clad in my fetish-inspired multi-buckled corset belts; zip-up miniskirts; body-hugging stretch dresses…this collection is power dressing with lots of female charm.

Marc’s Collection
For my 2nd Collection, I was inspired by my friends from the Fashion Institute if the Philippines. Since I knew that New Year was coming, I thought of using colors and prints for my collection. I was never really a “color” fanatic. I was inspired by Mikee Andrei and Paris Bagasao's use of color, and I was inspired by the movie "Fatal Attraction", a 1987 American Thriller starring Glenn Close. I was so inspired by her character that I made my own story. Pink and Violet are the main colors in my collection - colors that I never imagined using.

Jackie’s Collection
“The Unusual Marauder" by Jackie Maronilla Abueg puts emphasis on minimalist feministic ideals. Her design philosophy of simple and effortless brings out a subdued glow to those caught with any ensemble. By playing with materials that would usually suit trousers, Jackie's collection this quarter decides to go unconventional and transform them into practical, effortless and chic apparel. Jackie believes that her designs should bring out the essence of a woman, this second collection "The Unusual Marauder" focuses on defying the typical image of what a woman should be and how a woman should dress. It's about time that these unusual marauders are set on the loose!

The second quarter shoot was fun and amazing as it was a collaborative effort different brands. We would like to thank Bugsy’s, The Grove by Rockwell and The Bulb Studios for providing the venue. We would like to thank HD Make Up Studio and Academy for providing the hair and make up for some of our shoots. We would also like to thank Evita Peroni Philippines and Officine for providing accessories and shoes for the shoot.

We have a surprise for our buyers! To start the New Year right, we will be raffling off 5 HYD pieces from the 5 designers for all those who have purchased from January 25 to February 25.
Check out these new collections that keep getting grander! Visit http:hotyoungdesigners.com and create your account. Enjoy shopping and submit to us a photo of yourself in your new HYD attire! You might win a gift pack from Pond’s Philippines.

The designers will also be present to sell their collections at the Friday Fashion Fever on February 3, 2012 (Friday). This exclusive bazaar will be at Studio SnR, 3rd Floor Millenium Plaza Building, Meralco Avenue (building of Office Warehouse and Brothers Burger).

What I Need: Hair Heroes

2012-01-31T10:16:00.001+08:00

Most days, my battle includes something within me. A part of me. My hair.

Every now and then, I'd have to have my hair trimmed because I have it permed, it gets frizzy all the time and a curly blogger friend {hello, Kira!} can attest to how crazy I can become discussing the details of having to tame hair. While I have a stash of curl-friendly products, my dry, brittle and often buhaghag hair {if I don't put anything to it} depresses me sometimes.

Now, the thing with following beauty blogger friends on Twitter is that you're privy to their conversations wherein they enable each other {not you directly but you get drawn in!}. As you might have guessed, I am a collateral non-damage in the tweet conversation of the Beautynomist and Brigitte.

And so here I am, after Snoe Beauty's tweet about online shopping, which I saw while having breakfast, and on my iPad, I ran to my laptop and happily purchased this little miracle to resurrect a rather frizzy crown of non-glory.

Moroccan Liquid Gold. Interesting. For Php 499, it sure does work for everyone on my Twitter feed.

Let's see. My order should be with me in the next few days.

Your hair is your crowning glory.

Lavish your hair with Snoe’s Revolutionary 5-in-one Intense Argan Oil Moroccan Liquid Gold. This cleansing conditioner replaces shampoo, conditioner, deep conditioner, de-tangler, leave-on conditioner, and even shaving cream. For all hair types, 5-in-one is formulated to add moisture without weighing hair down. It effectively cleanses & hydrates hair without stripping or robbing it of its natural nutrients and oils. It has astonishing healing, conditioning, and anti-aging properties to keep your hair nourished and revitalized, to keep you looking beautiful.

I'll be updating you the soonest!

Image from the Snoe Beauty website.

Career Woman Diaries: The Red Door

2012-01-30T08:00:00.000+08:00

What's your message?

In the highly-recommended book I raved about, called Women, Work and the Art of Savoir Faire, I distinctly remember my favorite author, Mireille Guiliano, discuss how one's choice of scent affects how people perceive one in the workplace.

In business, the scent of a strong perfume can mean disaster at a job interview or a dinner party with fine wine and food. All you really need is a light fresh scent for the warm months and a spicy or musky one for the cold months. My mother's perfume is my perfume, Chanel No. 5, the celebrated jasmine and rose infused fragrance chosen by Coco Chanel in 1921.

"Two drops of Chanel No. 5 is what I wear to sleep," says the sexiest kitten of all time, Marilyn Monroe.

That of course, is another kind of message a scent conveys.

Most days, I convey to the world that I am a free-spirited girl. On casual days, my scent of choice is The Body Shop's White Musk, a casual, just-stepped-out-of-the-shower scent that I like, and alternately, Versace's Bright Crystal. On days that I need a citrusy, youthful vibe to communicate a rather young endeavor, I wear my signature scent, Sarah Jessica Parker's NYC. A rather more youthful scent I like using, especially when I'm wearing summer colors, is Acqua Colonia in Royal Riesling.

For a day where I would have to swallow my pride, face people of higher positions, people of executive wisdom and days I would not like to be seen juvenile, I choose Elizabeth Arden's Red Door.

Here's the thing: There was that day that I have completely forgotten to spritz on perfume. On my way out of the car, I checked the backseats and found the box of Elizabeth Arden's Red Door lying. I spritzed it on, threw it in my bag and just within the first hour of walking around the office for inter-department functions, a female senior colleague stopped to sniff {yes, she really stood close and smelled me} and asked what it was that I was wearing. I answered Red Door and more women came to smell me and we further launched into a full-on discussion about life, hankering for alone time {as for me, I have enough, thankyouverymuch}, and decision-making. While I've loved that I was always been everyone's daughter/little sister, I want to be seen as an equal when it comes to the workplace.

What better scent of course, than a scent that is used by women who mean business, women who are seduced by their passions of creating, of communicating to the world, of driving sales and numbers up, or at least of the same composition. Red Door is pretty much in a nutshell, your musky and woody scent, with the following for its composition:

Top notes – Lily of the Valley, Freesia, Wild Violets

Mid notes – Red Rose, Moroccan Orange Flower, Jasmine, Ylang

Base notes – Oakmoss, Sandalwood, Honey

The women I look up to in business have always had that signature scent. I cannot always identify which perfume they are wearing but it always smelled as if everything they say are no nonsense, wise, strong, ambitious, steering, driven, calculated and brilliant. Most of all, brilliant.

Admittedly, the Red Door smells far from a woman who's in her twenties --- but in the workplace, in the boardroom, or in business, there would certainly be days when a woman who smells like baby cologne is that last thing you want to be. Have I mentioned that the dry down is just divine?

Your perfume is your message.

After all, one has to exit spectacular.
*Red Door is available at Rustan's.

What's your business-y perfume?
xx

Things I Love Sundays: Laughter-Filled Weeks

2012-01-29T18:18:00.002+08:00

Don't you just love friends and colleagues who make you laugh always?

I'm lucky to be surrounded by the funniest people. For this week's Things I Love Sundays post, I wasn't sure to put --- I mean, my life is basically work whizzing me by through the days. I thought to myself, "I'm just going to say how busy I am la di dad and what is new with that?" Most days, I'm careening through a long list and ever since January kicked in, I've been diligently been sleeping three hours earlier than I used to, which means I wake up really early, sometimes as early as 4 AM.

I'm officially turned into a lola.

But a yogini lola nonetheless :P

But one fact was reverberating throughout the week: I was laughing a lot. As if I wasn't already a big belly laugh-er {people tell me I have a ~~signature~~ loud laugh}, my week has been bursting with guffaws that make your jaw hurt and words that get lost in between.

Gotta love this life.

Speaking of yoga, I love it that I was able to practice this week. And eat like a kargador after.

This probably the most accurate reading / prediction about who I am --- EVER.

Charismatic and intuitive, you are a friendly Scorpio with a winning smile and powerful emotions. Although usually a forceful character with a dynamic personality, you are kind and generous and at times, surprisingly modest. You need to overcome a tendency to be fixed and learn to let go of your controlled emotions. Ambitious and dramatic, with sensitivity and quick responses, you have the potential for outstanding creative achievement. Sociable and an expert at personal contact, your charm and your shrewd judgment of character can help you in all situations.

With the combination of your leadership abilities and emotional sensitivity, you will naturally rise to positions of power. Possessing charm and advanced social skills, you are likely to succeed in people-related activity. Your communication skills may draw you toward occupations such as teacher, lecturer, writer or salesperson. Your ability to make useful contacts can help you in business, especially combined with your ability to commercialize your talents. Alternatively, your natural dramatic sense can help you succeed in politics, the entertainment world, or the arts.

The best thing about it? I have no idea where it came from. It was just a photocopied paper on my desk, from my boss' friend's book.

Goofing around in the office, lots of major LOL moments :D

My current seatmate at work.

Receiving an award from the country's premiere advertising award-giving body, PANA.

At the Dusit Thani Hotel last Friday night.

Oprah's February issue. Each issue is pure magic and awesomeness.

Some items that caught my rather short attention span:

This Spiegel blazer above would definitely cheer up dreary grays and blacks!

And this dress from Anthropologie would work with maybe an orange blazer.

According to my fortune cookie. I'm not too sure about that.

How adorable are these Sephora brushes?

Of course why this is funny is for obviously inside joke reason. Thanks, T, for the picture!

One of my most favorite actresses ever, Drew Barrymore is February's My Best Life. I've always loved her and I've always loved the fact that all of her romantic movies use Spandau Ballet's True. If you notice the yellow skirt in the pictures in the beginning of this post, it's all because I had been reading this page from O Magazine and was inspired.

The upcoming Cranberries Concert on April 10. 90s kids, raise your hands in the air!

Hanging out with friends and knowing you're not just drinking buddies {because you don't drink so much now!}. Sartorial inspirations, brekkies, writing on tablets, a multitude of handwritten fonts, getting better at Photoshop. Playing with babies, this article on Shelly Lazarus, not giving in to Temple Run, Ferris Bueller's Day Off. Jaw that hurts from too much laughing.

What are you loving today?

Nanny Rose Sticks and Pulls Queen Bee

2012-01-26T09:46:00.000+08:00

Leave it to me to buy a product based entirely on packaging.

The thing with being a typophile {person inclined towards font types}, is that I tend to get swayed with my judgment based solely on how a package is presented. Blame it on the marketer in me, or the girl with sometimes-low EQ, especially on pampering things, my mind kind of shuts down on all things pretty.

The recycled box, the twine, the font. This thing looks like it's being sold on Etsy.

It was a typical BGC afternoon --- that means an afternoon where the rest of the world, the rest of the Manila workforce are in full swing and it's kind of dead quiet where we are. Lovely as it is, the quiet can come discomforting sometimes and I am always drawn to walk outside and explore, hence chancing upon the newly-opened Watson's on Forbestown.

As a celebration for being reunited with the retail-driven world, I ended up shopping for toiletry necessities and carting this DIY wax from Nanny Rose as well. Truth be told, I didn't need a DIY waxing kit because I've found my solution with Veet waxing strips and most of the time, I go to Strip, Ministry of Waxing anyway.

But like I said, I was a slave of adorable packaging and if I ever meet the designer of the box, I'd like to know what font it was that was used for the word 'Queen Bee.' And thankfully for me, the product wasn't a complete waste of money --- in fact, I loved how it works for me!

What I Loved About It:

Economical at I think Php 100 - ish. See, I don't even remember. The box includes a pot of wax, two wooden spatulas and three katsa-ish cloth strips.
Needs only about 10 seconds to heat. Unlike an old product I've been using, Nanny Rose's wax was easier to scoop out and spread onto the legs. A little word of caution though, the first time I used this, I mistakenly took longer than 10 seconds and burned my skin. :s
I think this can be used cold as well but I am clueless at how one does that plus I've always liked hot wax better.
This is the first honey wax I've ever tried -- the one I've been using some decades ago from Sally Hansen is white and much, much stickier. I think I like honey better.
I don't know if it's the honey that makes it less painful but for some reason, when I pulled the cloth that came with it, it didn't seem so harsh, as opposed to when I wax my legs using Veet Strips.
Given that the roots are pulled off when waxing, hair takes longer to grow!

What I Don't Like:

Actually, I like the idea of DIY and on weekends when I pay so much attention to everything I can do to pamper myself, I like having to heat wax. Though on days that I have no time and is in a rush, it's not really advisable because like me, you might burn yourself.
Cloth strip does not remove all the hair in one pull though I don't think there's a product that does that.
If you're not a fan of DIY, this ain't for you. It takes effort and practice to perform a waxing job perfectly.

Directions for Use:

Heat the wax about 10-15 seconds depending on your microwave setting. Make sure it's the lowest.
Prep your skin with baby powder to make applying wax easier.
Spread wax towards the direction of the growth and even out. Flatten the cloth strip onto the skin.
Close your eyes and pull.
You may have to repeat the steps above to obtain best results. It really {also} depends on how hairy you are :D In my case, I'm only mildly hairy in the legs.

Would I recommend this? Only if you're the DIY-kind, if you like hot wax and wouldn't splurge on waxing jobs. Like I said, practice makes perfect. Goodluck!

Have you tried Nanny Rose?
xx

*Nanny Rose, I believe, is exclusively distributed by Watson's.

Get White Results

2012-01-25T08:00:00.001+08:00

Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, and despite being considered light-skinned, some parts of your body are just really --- well, darker than the others.

In my case, I am conscious and insecure with my knees and elbows.

I don't know about normal girls but I have to work very hard to keep my elbows and knees not looking like I've scraped them from playing in the streets. I guess being clumsy has always made me bump my knees on all sorts of edges, that I always have bruises and scratches on my legs. While I diligently scrub them and moisturize every chance I get, they still sometimes come out dark when a camera's settings are too low-lighted or when it's dark.

It must not be so.

The launch of White Result by Tupperware Brands gave us the experience of exfoliating instantly, right before our eyes. I was seated beside Liz while we lunched the deliciously fabulous salads and entrees provided by the wonderful people of Cav at Bonifacio High Street. She explained and demonstrated how easily White Result Exfoliating Gel removes dead skin {because I was late}.

We were treated shortly to a facial at The Spa where we made chika on the latest showbiz happenings. Yes, story of our lives :D

The White Result Line

While I did not experience any redness nor irritation, I didn't use it as much on my face. I've had the exfoliating gel and astringent for more than a month now and I've been using them on my knees. Yes, my knees! And they're incredible!

It was one day that I was sent a picture and I saw that my knees in that photo looked slightly darker than my legs. I panicked and grabbed the first bottle I could reach for and it happened to be White Result. For some odd reason, the astringent worked well with my knees {can't believe I'm saying this} and like we've been saying during the launch, we didn't know our skin could be so dirty. Even when we rubbed the gel onto the backs of our hands, dirt would come off and we would react sadly at how dirty our skin were, despite not appearing so. Ah, indeed the importance of exfoliation. Lesson learned. After this exercise, I have learned to exfoliate everything else, not just my face.

To date, I'm still using the White Result gel and astringent on my knees and elbows and I plan to buy a lot so I can exfoliate my entire body {is that safe? I think so!}. If I remember right, the White Result gel is about Php 425. Fairly reasonable to me! :)

Included in my daily routine are the White Result Exfoliating Gel and White Result Astringent.

Do you exfoliate non-facial parts, too?
xx

Tupperware Brands is the authorized distributor of White Result. For your questions and inquiries on how to purchase or be a dealer, call the hotline number (632) 867-2222.

The List: Redux

2012-01-24T08:00:00.000+08:00

Maybe a little more than a year isn't enough.

It's funny how this list I made back in 2010 still has effects in my life now. Months after I hit 26, I had been meaning to make an entry summing up the goals I've accomplished and the ones I haven't --- should I want to pursue them still, should I make an entirely new list or forget about it all PLUS the lessons I learned through it all. People still come up to me and ask me about it, some are inspired, some gloat that I never finished it. Oh well.

Then I realized that spontaneous as we are, a well-lived life is like a business case, too. At the end of the day, one needs to achieve the desired result {shoutout to my friend J, who gives his tailor a slide with the title Desired Result}. As I am on a new year kick and that I can't believe that I'm getting all fuzzy and hopeful and getting that clean-slate vibe, I am revamping the list into a five year plan.

2012, and the years to follow will keep getting better.

The Desired Result: Getting the Life I Have Always Wanted, aka My Best Life

What gives, you ask? While I'd been tweeting and blogging about new hopes, and being refreshed, the truth is, I'd been missing my go-get-'em self. I no longer wake up thinking I would want to go to Europe for a holiday and jolting from the bed to dance or feeling that urge to wrap my legs around a pole {while I have done this already, last month I had so wanted to complete an entire routine}. Temperance, while good, can diminish an entire box of passions, kind of like surgery --- where other nerves get hit and become useless {Yes, I watch too much Grey's Anatomy.} Most days, while I am completely functional and responsible and straightlaced, probably the most straightlaced I have ever been in my entire life, I've lost the drive to act upon my instinct, my gut feel because they always get me into trouble. My solar plexus has taken a back seat and I am not sure if it's capable of wanting anything else in the future. Yes, one can count my high emotional quotient, too.

So maybe, there was a reason why I wasn't able to finish that list --- so I can have more years of following a well-crafted plan. I can have a few more years to live the life I've envisioned I will live as a kid before I enter a possibly, slightly-different phase of my life, maybe {referring to my thirties}. Surely, the temperance will remain, for the benefits of going through it is unabashedly worth it. I just need to remind myself to live.

Image by: Garance Dore

And live, I shall.

So the list comes back again, presenting the things I haven't done yet, and then some.These things I'll have to be done by the day I turn 30. You can view the original link to see which ones I've crossed already :)

1. Go to New York City, and see a broadway show, amongst many, many things. STATUS: I am doing the first step to doing this dream in a few short days and my toes are all curling in excitement and I need all the well-wishes I need for this. TIA! When I tried my luck the last time, I can distinctly remember not having this utmost, almost feverish passion as I have now. And being a believer of the universe and its powers, I know that one will get something, anything, if one wants it that bad. And I want it, THIS bad.

4. Cook a five-course meal and eat with someone I love. I have never produced a five-course meal for anyone in my entire life and it would be a great honor to be able to do this for my parents, before I turn 26. First step to undertake: Read recipes, go to the market, PRACTICE.
STATUS: I still have not cooked anything. Still have not set foot in the market and still yet to touch our stove.

STATUS 2: All I did was clean the stove and not use it for cooking, dammit.

8. Learn Spanish. I have two reasons for having this on the list. a) Spanish, IMO, will always be the hottest, sexiest language in my own little world, caliente. And b) My native language, Filipino, is a distant cousin of this so it should be hella easier than say, French.

9. Learn how to swim properly. Over the weekend, after a hazy Saturday night of partying in Manila's newest happening club, I suddenly, extremely spontaneously, found myself in the deepest nooks of Coron, Palawan, staring at the clear waters and wishing I could swim well without my life vest. It was such a numbing, sinking, animal of a feeling I wish I never feel again.

STATUS: Can swim but can't properly tread.

10. Live in a foreign city. I really wonder why this comes in #11 for this is all I've been dreaming of since, well, since the beginning of the year. And life, like you wouldn't expect it, has been throwing me all the opportunities I can get. It's just the chicken in me who wouldn't budge. Yet. Take a leap of faith, and breathe. And rely on faith, and faith alone. You ever read about how people dropped everything for a new life, a new man, a new job etc. without so much as a plan or right amount of money to get by? I want to be just like them.

17. Party hard in Ibiza, Spain. Lie topless in Rio de Janeiro or go walking and weeding in the streets of Amsterdam. Euro-trashing, anyone? Most people want to visit Europe {okay, Brazil ain't Europe} because of the lovely architectural sights and that includes me! But when I visit Europe or Brazil, which should be in the next 1 1/2 years, I want to do something definitive of their crazy lifestyle.

STATUS: So I sort of told my cousin I'm coming to her wedding in Amsterdam this year with no concept of how I'll be able to afford that and the many vacations I will take. Like I always say, the Universe will provide <3

18. Commit.

21. Take photographs of my travels with a real Polaroid camera and pin them on a wall or give them to someone. The thrill of not knowing how your photo will turn out {much like how it is with vintage SLRs, I had one and sold it dirt cheap, stupid move it was} is an insane high for me. Now, the problem is finding a nice Polaroid camera to do this. For the moment, I am getting my pola-fix with my Poladroid program and Hipstamatic on Apple iPhone.

I want my life to be a big celebration.

22. Go Skydiving. There are places that exist all around us, so easy to be in but so hard to get the courage to try. When I went scuba diving, I realized that while it was all so easy {discipline, not skill is key}, I had this little bit of experimental I-wanna-try everything spirit awakened in me. And so what is the most logical step after scuba? Skydive, what else? Oh and bungee jump, too.

Free Fallin'.
Source.

24. Do the tango, preferably with someone as dashing as Col. Slade of Scent of a Woman. When I first watched this movie, back in the 90s on a VHS player, I was taken aback by the arresting charm and dancing prowess {more like grace} of my still-crush Al Pacino. When I get married, my first couple's dance will be to the tune of the song Por Una Cabeza, all because of this. But I want my first tango to be with a stranger :)

If there was a scene I have imagined myself so many times to be in, this is it.

Scent of a Woman, 1992

25. Learn how to play a musical instrument. There is only a handful of instruments I would have the patience to learn {I gotta be realistic for this project, it ain't a wishlist}and they are incredibly expensivo. But it just pains me to be not able to join jamming sessions as they happen. The last time it happened, I couldn't even play the kahon decently. So before I turn 26, I want to be able to learn to play at least one instrument, choose from the drums or the violin, and be able to join impromptu jamming sessions as they happen.

28. Go skinny dipping. And yes, I am totally aware that Mother, you are reading this. Have always been insecure with my body though it's not like I would be parading in the sun buck naked. My idea of skinny dipping is of course jumping into the seashore, running, dipping and going back to my clothes. In the night. No daytime skinny dipping for me lest my mother kill me for going naked in public. If I do, I will never tell. xoxo

29. My bachelorette house and a new car. It's about time. Just because I don't need it doesn't mean I shouldn't.

30. Pursue Yoga. Not to sound rather preachy nor ambitious but I do have been thinking a LOT about engaging regularly in yoga. I have heard multitudes of benefits from this practice and from the looks of these benefits {zen and fitness, among many others}, I think I am going to be a huge fan. Susan Jeffers said, "Feel the fear but do it anyway." I am scared of committing to something {in fact I don't commit to a lot *cry} but if I don't do this now, there might never be a better time. On the other hand, maybe this goal should be rephrased to keeping fitness as a lifestyle and not just when I need to fit into my size 0 dresses. There.

STATUS: While I've been active in pursuing all sorts of yoga, I don't want to cross this off yet because I want to continue doing it and I want this list to be a reminder of My Before Yoga days. What a long way my practice have come!

Wow, that's still a LOT! Looking at the things I've yet to accomplish are scaring me so much now I am thisclose to ducking inside the comfort of my comforter and stay there all day. But one time, I have read somewhere that your dreams should scare you because if they don't, they aren't big enough. I have about four years to work my butt off and earn money so I can achieve some of the expensive things I have to achieve. On the other hand, some of the things are just a matter of instilling discipline into my life, learning something new, and becoming the person I've always wanted to be. I can do this.

Most Days, Healthy Skin in 5 minutes

2012-01-23T08:00:00.000+08:00

Most days, all I'm really aiming for are none of the contoured cheekbones {as I have a siopao-ish face}, a well winged eye or smoothly blended eyeshadows --- just healthy skin. With the barrage of projects I've knowingly dived in, my make up life have taken a back seat, however still allowing a little window to look effortlessly minimalistic {I hope!}.

Most days, this is my look. I always want to look healthy even on days when I know I'd be stuck behind my laptop typing away stories, dealing with rows upon rows in Excel, doing Algebra, editing sound and video bytes or developing strategy upon strategy and maybe saving the world. After all, no one should look dowdy or sullen even at the office. Do I hear an amen?

Face:

Benefit Porefessional PRO Balm

Maybelling Angelfit Concealer

Avon Healthy BB Cream in Light {I love this!}

shu uemura translucent powder

MAC Brow Set in Girl Boy

Physician's Formula Classic Eyelight

Maybelling Liquid Eyeliner

Maybelline Cat Eyes Mascara

Benefit Blush in Bella Bamba

L'oreal Moisture Lipstick in Nude Pink

You think my skin is healthy enough? :)

I'd been getting compliments on how my skin is behaving lately so I guess my slightly minimalistic skin care regimen deserves a post soon.

Oh and here's a close up of the products I used:

Benefit Porefessional PRO Balm {does wonders in making pores appear smaller}, my HG BB cream at the moment, Avon Healthy BB Cream and the 3D blush, Benefit's Bella Bamba.

Benefit's Bella Bamba has super tiny shimmers that make it 3D but not sparkly in a tacky way. Love <3

Physician's Formula in Classic Eyelight. This is an eye-saver --- useful for when I want to put something on my lids but too lazy to do the blending and all. These are available on Tamera Online.

What's your healthy look?
Also, Kung Hei Fat Choi!

Pin+Spire = Win an iTouch!

2012-01-22T23:58:00.001+08:00

There's something about visual boards that makes one gravitate towards realization of these images. I remember re-blogging mostly travel photos for my Tumblr account and they have come into fruition. Sometimes, the board serves as my digital scrapbook where images, quotes, lines, videos and songs that inspire me {or make my blood boil or something} go.

Enter Pinspire, from the words Pin+Inspire. The thought of pinning things on a virtual corkboard makes my toes tingle in excitement!

And so, in celebration with this new visual cork board designed to inspire the artist and the dreamer in all of us, Pinspire.com is giving away 1 iTouch for the most popular board and iPod Shuffles to succeeding popular boards!

The better thing about Pinspire is that there is a category for your pins so it'll be easier for you to sort through your visuals when the time comes that you need to go back and be inspired! You can group your pins in categories such as:

Fashion
Technology
Art and Design

How to win:

Sign up through this link. You can use your Facebook or Twitter account.
Pin at least one original image and the rest can be just re-pins.
Leave the link to your board via the Comments section.

Example: http://www.pinspire.com/board/show/221920
Deadline of entries are on February 25!
Winners will be chosen from all the entries collected from all participating blogs through popularity and creativity, judged by number of pins, board followers, and likes.

What I normally do is have my boards on standby --- so I can pin images, links, or anything at all that catches my fancy! If you're like me who posts things on a ~~daily~~ hourly basis, you just might walk away with a brand new iTouch or iPod Shuffle!

So go, start pinning, inspiring and post your board's link here. I'll be waiting!

xx

Things I Love Sundays: The Little Things

2012-01-22T19:39:00.000+08:00

You have a brain in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose.

- Dr. Seuss

It's been three weeks into the new year and if there's one thing I have learned so far is that you can pick yourself up from wherever it is that's driving you to misery, you can feel fine, and you'd feel your worst --- but you always have a choice.

Labo.

Anyway, can I just say how much I've missed writing TILS posts? I HAVE MISSED IT SO! I have taken it to writing down on my planner all the things I've been thankful for, as I thank God for them and it's overwhelming how they've taken over the pages of the week. Like that cliche, if we count our blessings, we'll never feel poor. If we take note of the things that we are blessed with rather than the things that aren't in our life, it feels infinitely happier. I promise :)

Milk Tea in the afternoons -- they go so well with chitchats with girlfriends over really funny things {like true things}. C & T. Coming to work and having breakfast. Vanilla-flavored brewed coffee. Chef Tony's mocha popcorn {thank you, Achie W}. Girly iMessaging with my girls and squealing inside. Cheese rolls with Shen and talking about crushes like we were in high school.

I've only been reading the free back issues of Oprah Magazine and already, I feel like a better person after. It is with this Miranda July article that I finally gave in to the $20 investment for one year :D If you have an iPad, the O Magazine has free back issues, and I swear that their mission in life is to inspire through every page.

Tara vs. Excel and Tara Wins! Pink Nouveau. Excitement over Chinese New Year events. Gossip Girl's End of the Affair episode. Carpools. Pink-themed parties. If Meredith Grey's therapy is looking at newborns, mine is looking at wedding blogs:

*drool*

And the hair. I want that hair.

Photos from Grey Likes Weddings.

Handwritten cards. Always.

Thank you for the nice card, Jewelmer, and for the fantastic gift {not in photo}! It's always a pleasure working with you :)

Elizabeth Arden's Prevage and Red Door and a stack of books adopted from my friend, T {thank youuuuu}

plus my Steve Jobs' bio from Chai <3

De-cluttering for the new year <3 Someone asked me to post a photo of the books I'm reading currently, plus what my bedside table looks like. I figured I'd hit two birds in one stone with this picture:

{Click to embiggen}

Long weekends to lounge, recharge, retreat, refresh and restart.

Happy Chinese new year, new week and new and best life ever!

The Year of the Water Dragon

2012-01-19T20:58:00.002+08:00

While I thoroughly enjoyed 2011, the year of the Rabbit {here's a bit of recap}, I seriously cannot wait for The Year of the Dragon. I have only heard from Chinese friends that it's going to be really lucky for us born in the year of Ox but searching for my own horoscope, as a Scorpio this time, and they seem so much better than last year's, which was mostly lukewarm predictions. I loved 2011 but I am so ready to move on {in fact, I just might have!}. I really, really think The Year of the Dragon and I are going to be working out well!

Scorpios are born from October 24th to November 21st. This year, spectacular changes would come in Scorpion’s way. You will be with great energy and with a positive mindset. To live up an enjoyable year, you will need to depend on your unbounded energy to fully taste the pleasures of life. You are a highly persuasive person who can easily captivate other people with your words and actions. You are also a very passionate individual leading you to attain success in everything you do and plan. In fact, you are in possession of a strength that could overcome any challenges that are seen as insufferable by people around you. So, make sure your admirable qualities will guide you in facing this horoscope 2012 New Year. Expect changes to happen during the first two months of the Scorpio horoscope 2012 New Year on the work front. Your career will be in an upward direction. This will be one of the numerous good news that you will be experiencing in this New Year. Your hard work will offer you gains in the long term. This situation will also make you feel relieved and comfortable. Get ready to welcome a promotion that you have been waiting for quite some time. This is the promotion you have worked for so diligently. Also, you can expect a pay increase during this time. In the middle part of the year, you will still be experiencing good benefits from work although a little bit subdued. But do not worry because this will just be a time for you to get ready for better and more worthy things that will come in your career. Remember to take some time to acquire new skills and knowledge that will help you broaden your career path.

- Source

And true enough, the career part is working well for me *insert big grin here.* Down to every letter.

Speaking of career, the Chinese New Year has always been a milestone for me. 2008's CNY was my first event four years ago, in the company that I work for currently. I remember having had to cover the event the company hosted in the middle of the plaza in Binondo, I remember being completely overwhelmed but thankful. I can't believe I was once a clueless 22 year old girl! :D

In 2009, I wasn't so much of a reporter --- but I did wear one of those gold cheongsams and rode the company float. With the then-president, too!

That's my messy table, right there.

I can't recognize myself, actually :D LOL, the things I did for work.

One of my favorite activities during the 2010 Chinese New Year would have to be the balloon-flying thing, though. We were to write our financial resolutions and I thank the heavens for making me better where I am now than I've ever been <3

And this year, well, I don't know what my part will be --- but I've never felt so happy and excited and feeling like it's going to be my best year so far. Can't wait for you, Year of the Dragon!

The town will be yellow once again <3 Can't wait.

The First Weekend of 2012: Moalboal, Cebu

2012-01-16T08:00:00.000+08:00

And just like that, the first two weeks of January are over.

I haven't been blogging much and while normally, I'd feel some sort of warning that I haven't sat to type away thoughts, this time, reader {hello, Senya! Thank you!} had to point it out to me. I still feel like a different person: have been bland-er than ever, but still as busy and maybe even more and temperance {a goal I have wished to attain in the beginning of the year} doesn't feel like temperance now. It feels normal. This is of course, another story.

A Moment of Silence and Goal-setting

Sometime ago, somewhere, I read that Bill Gates sets off somewhere far, alone, to figure out what he needs and wants to do for the year. I had the same thing in mind with the trip, with the difference that I wasn't alone.

Before 2011 ended, I had randomly booked a trip to Cebu {also because one of my bestest and oldest friends, Chai, is in town and we needed to get away}. It was scheduled for the first weekend of the year. I had no plans in mind, no itinerary and no goals for the end of the trip. When I booked the trip, I wanted to get a fresh rush of blood to the veins, a new perspective, to let the waves of the shore wash away the past and return a brand new person.

The Trip in Pictures

The flight to Cebu via PAL, which was great, except for the high air traffic. :s

I used to be not so much into boat rides until it changed my life.

I felt like I've been cooped up and sedentary, so the first thing I did {under the sun, too} was launch into the bow pose.

Bikini and surf shorts: Roxy

I never get tired of snorkeling, too.

My favorite sundress, from my mom <3

Club Serena's Pool

First order of the day: Brunch at Club Serena

Bikini: Soak Swimwear

Coverup: Details {also seen here}

Flip flops: Roxy

Beach bag: Roxy

Sunglasses: Marc Jacobs

Tara's Beach Essentials: Sunnies, a good book {was reading Samantha Sotto's Before Ever After the entire trip and it was an amazing read, I sobbed my eyes out on the plane ride back}, a camera, an iPod and a beach buddy.

Barefoot White Beach Resort's Honeymoon Suite, is where we stayed.

{Thanks for the recommendation, Mac!}

I woke up to this and I felt things were just right where they are. It's perfect.

Low tide!

Our ride for the trip coming from the city, rough road lang :D. Thank you, Ate Hani!

It ain't a trip to Cebu without feasting on Casa Verde's steaks, tenderloin tips and ribs <3

One week to go before Sinulog, at least when we were at the city. Viva Pit Senyor!

And of course, a trip to Cebu means seeing Cebu-based friends.

Here in this photo with Kaith.

The calmness of waters, waking up to the sound of waves, a lot of introspection, in the comfort and company of people who love you, eating amazing food, no signal and lots of goal-setting, a plane ride --- I must say I have kicked off the year right.

Thank You for making this happen.

How was your first 2012 weekends?

*Photos by me and Chai

A Different View

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In the movie Dead Poets' Society, John Keating {played by Robin Williams} tells his Poetry students to walk over the teacher's desk to see the world from another perspective. Soon enough, all his students were traipsing through his desk and around. "Sometimes, you need to see things from a different perspective," says Keating. A slight change in height, in position or direction shows a varying point of view.

I remembered this particular scene when my yoga teacher rationalized the headstand pose. "Your heart will be pumping new blood into your veins, and you will see the world differently. Just like in life, sometimes, to see the answers, you need to look at life from a different perspective."

And then I understood. I originally thought it was just an exercise on who can lift themselves well.

I'm standing across my former self. It's been a while since I've seen things differently and for the first time, I was not afraid to be on this side. All it took was climbing some tables, an attempt at a headstand, shoulder stands, a different perspective.

Needless to say, I am sticking with my yoga place, no matter how hard it is to come to it. And will work on that headstand, too. Funny what a yoga session can do.

xx

God knows we're worth it.

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It's out. It's finally out.

This is perfection. xx

PS: Toca's voice is haunting me like crazy.

2012, I Like You Already

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On the first of January, I prayed. I prayed that prayer from a book my mom gave me, called The Prayer of Jabez. On a rainy day sometime last 2011, I was cooped up at home reading it since the power was out. It is such a powerful prayer, I am literally empowered every time I start my day with it. I tend to get scared, too --- don't get me wrong, but that's the reason for the 'hold my hand' part. Yesterday, I gave two friends a copy each, hoping that praying it will bless them everyday, too. Today, I'm sharing you the lines that have been helping me soldier through days that seem crazy or boring or empty. Most of all the empty days.

Oh that You would bless me indeed, and enlarge my territory, and that Your hand might be with me, and that You would keep me from evil, that it may not grieve me!

And true enough, my first workweek is proving to be an exercise in enlarging territories, a lot of handholding but ultimately, a proof that faith will really get one through and emerge with a huge smile :D

Here's a snap of my to do list for the week {which keeps adding on by the minute} but no one is complaining! =)

PS: I mistakenly ordered a BDJ planner via Cash Cash Pinoy and its taking too long {delivery starts January 11}. I hope they declared that in the fine print, ugh. But oh well.

How has your 2012 been so far?
xx

Start the Year in Beauty

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One of my favorite brands, all the more Marketing-wise, is giving away Php7,000 worth of VMV Skincare Goodies! The best thing is, all you need to do is like their Facebook page. That's not a bad way to start the year, yes?

Seriously lemming over the bronzer {and that bag!} so I'm joining!

Adieu, 2011!

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I know it's already the second day of 2012 but here I am making a yearender post when the year has obviously ended. This blog has been and will always be a documentation of my successes, joys, and some minor annoyances, the lessons I've picked up and the wisdom I've hopefully acquired through. I hope you join me in that journey as I review the year that was.

It's funny, the magic of the new year, as it is in my case can change how I'd been feeling in the last week of December. On January 1st, I woke up feeling like a different person albeit the lessons of 2011 jutting out like a brightly-colored post it.

Because as I still am a bit incoherent to put together a seamless and structured yearender post, I'm following Lyn's template here and will answer some questions to recap what has transpired. Let me know if you do, too :)

1. What did you do in 2011 that you'd never done before? Braved crazy waves at the surfing capital of the Philippines and was able to stand up.

2. Did you keep your new years' resolutions, and will you make more for next year? In the eve of 2011, I mandated myself to live a happier, more passionate life. I sure did that, but that's not to say everything was peachy keen because happiness called for a heartbreak here and there, a skinned knee and nights you ~~won't want to~~ can't remember. For this year, I have written down goals {rather than resolutions} and they fall under one overarching theme: The Year of My Best Life {as inspired by Oprah}.

3. Did anyone close to you die? No one close but my paternal grandmother died this year.

4.Did anyone close to you give birth? None.

5. What would you like to have in 2012 that you lacked in 2011? Groundbreaking experiences. The thrill of indulging in something you've never done before is high-inducing.

6.What date from 2011 will remain etched upon your memory, and why? July 18, 2011. I've never cried so much.

7. What was your biggest achievement of the year? Standing up.

8. Did you suffer illness or injury? In February, I was in the hospital for one week.

9. What was the best thing you bought? An iPad 2. I don't think it's a thing everyone really likes but I do find myself smiling everytime I use it, most probably because I read Oprah Magazine through it and I watch Grey's Anatomy {what a late bloomer, I know} through it.

10. Whose behavior merited celebration? None that I can think of now.

11. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed? I'd say things related to current events in the Philippines but then this post will never end.

12. Where did most of your money go? Traveling, gifts, investments and myself {ergo, shopping}.

13. What did you get really, really, really excited about? Toronto. More than traveling somewhere far, I was to meet with my parents then, whom I haven't seen for year.

14. What song will always remind you of 2011? Beautiful Girl by INXS.

15. Compared to this time last year, are you:

Happier or sadder? Somewhere in the middle.
Richer or poorer? Richer.

16. What do you wish you'd done more of? Stop and smell the flowers...

17. What do you wish you'd done less of? Freefalling.

18. How will you be spending Christmas? I spent it with my baby cousins with them pouncing on me thinking I'm a mattress.

19. Did you fall in love in 2011? Yes. With life. #showbiz #meynteyn

20. What was your favorite TV program? Definitely Suits.

21. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year? Hate is a feeling I ~~am incapable of~~ avoid.

22. What was the best book you read? Delivering Happiness by Tony Hsieh. My copy is lost and I don't know who has it but I don't mind because out there, someone is learning the lessons I've learned and that book is going to change someone's life.

23. What was your greatest musical discovery? Not really a discovery but a reminder, I guess: Mandy Moore's Extraordinary.

24. What did you want and got? To spend time with my parents, which I got to do :) Thankfully.

25. What was your fave film of this year? Easy --- Crazy, Stupid, Love.

26. What did you do on your birthday? Was a recluse, completely un-contactable and gave in to techie retail therapy.

27. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2011? Streamlined, classic with pops of color.

28.What kept you sane? The thought that the world is bigger than what I think it is.

29. Which celebrity figure you fancy the most? Chris Evans, Patrick Adams, and the wardrobe of Serena Van Der Woodsen.

30. Who was the best new person you met? Just one would be an injustice so I won't answer this anymore.

31. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2011? Trust is earned and not given away every day and to everyone. Naivete sure was a convenient trait but it burned me in more ways than one. Am not burning bridges but it was tough to be trusting everyone. Not anymore!

Any yearender posts? Share?

Love, Sparkles and more love!
Happy 2012!
xx