Find Your Match

The Art of Seduction

noreply@blogger.com (Joey) — Wed, 03 Oct 2007 18:15:00 +0000

With the way my other posts were progressing, this one talking about how to seduce your crush just seemed natural. I would say that the most important aspect of trying to seduce someone you are interested in is how you seduced them or how you set the mood because as we all know, this can make or break the future happenings between you and your crush.

First of all, if you are crushing on someone, you need to find out their particular interests, hobbies and what they do for fun. A good way to do this is by asking someone you know to be your crush's friend, someone who knows a lot about them. This is a key step because not everyone is into the same thing. A romantic dinner and movie might work for someone and not others.

Secondly, I would say choose neutral territory. This should be somewhere that both of you are comfortable and some place that, if need be, you can make a quick exit. Oh, another key point is that you should try to dress appealing to the other person. This is a step where your crush's friend could come in really handy. Different people are into different things. Do not assume that the less clothes the better. You do not want to go overboard and have the person you are crushing on to think that all you think about is sex or something like that. That in and of itself could cause enough tension for everything to fall apart.

Lastly, I would say be yourself. Before you approach the person, look in the mirror and say "I'm smart, intelligent, and I have got what it takes to get whomever I want. I am all that and more and he or she would be lucky to have me." It might sound silly, but many people find confidence incredibly sexy. Be careful not to be too cocky though because that is a no go and total turn off, at least in my book.

Places to Meet New People Online

noreply@blogger.com (Joey) — Sat, 29 Sep 2007 21:24:00 +0000

For those of you are into online dating, I highly recommend match.com. I absolutely love it! The people I have met on match.com have been absolutely wonderful. I cannot say enough about it. It has everything you could ever hope to find and more. When you Join Match.com you get the following:

*Free photo tool kit
*Dating and relationship advice from the one and only Dr. Phil
*Free six month guarantee: If you do not find someone special in 6 months, it's free!
*Community personals: Unlike that other dating site, it does not matter what you are into whether it be Christian, Jewish, Asian, Black, Latino, or Gay dating, match.com has it all for you.

With over 15 million singles worldwide from 240 countries and 60,000 joining match.com everyday, you are sure to find the one for you. Match.com successfully matched 500,000 couples last year alone. For less than a single date, you can have all this and more. Will you be match 500,001? Join Match.com today! I am sure you will love it as much as I do. You can't lose!

Places to Meet New People

noreply@blogger.com (Joey) — Sat, 29 Sep 2007 20:41:00 +0000

The following is a list of 25 places to meet and and exciting people. They are in no particular order. I firmly believe that to find a lasting relationship, it is a really good idea to make a friend before a lover.

1) The gym: You get seen by lots of people and get healthy at the same time.
2) Take a class: Taking a class in something that interest you can be fun, and you will learn a lot. You will also be around people with similar interest, which is a major ice breaker.
3) Museums: Going to museums can be fun, and you can meet a lot of cultured people there. I think meeting new people who get you to think outside the box or see the world in a different perspective is really cool.
4) Sporting events: When you go to sporting events that peek your interests, even if you do not meet someone cool, you are at least guaranteed a night of fun, which is a lot better than sitting at home on your couch with nothing to do.
5) Have a party: Having a party is a good way to meet people, especially if you tell each of your friends to invite someone that they think you might hit it off with. If you have really good friends, they should know what you are into and know what you like and have all that good stuff.
6) Join a book club: Reading is fun all on its own, but when you join a club, sharing your thoughts and feelings is a good way to get to know people on a deeper level.
7) Dog Parks: Going to dog parks is a good way to meet new people, especially if you go when it is less crowded. If someone takes good care of his or her pet, imagine what he or she can do for you. :)
8) Travel: If you have the money, traveling is a great way to meet to new people, cultures, languages and just everything. It will teach you to be more appreciative of the things you have. You will see the world in a whole new light.
9) Speed Dating: Speed dating is a good way to meet new people, and because of the limited time, it makes your time more valuable with the person, so you can kind of cut to the chase. The best part of it though is that if you do not like someone, there is no pressure.

What I got from this is that you can meet new people everywhere in a lot of different places, but to go for quality of quantity, I think it is a really good idea to meet people at places you like go. It is a space that both you and the other person will naturally feel comfortable in, and you will already have things to talk about and shared interests.

Welcome

noreply@blogger.com (Joey) — Thu, 27 Sep 2007 12:02:00 +0000

Hi. My name is Joey. I would like to be the first to welcome you to my newly-created blog, Find Your Match! I decided to create this blog because the realization hit me that the older I get, no matter how successful I am, there is one constant missing from my life--love, something will all one day search for. I thought that creating a blog would be a easy way to share our experiences and receive dating and relationship advice. Here, you will find a wide range on topics on everything from basic dating techniques to guides for men, women, and teens and much more. You will also find weekly polls/surveys, be able to comment on any post you like, be able to contact me directly for any advice, comments or suggestions and subscribe to my reader, which automatically lets you know when my blog is updated. Thanks for stopping by, and I look forward to our journey together.

Joey