<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874</id><updated>2024-09-01T06:28:23.943-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The gospel according to vinny...</title><subtitle type='html'>Random musings, philosophy and snarky observations on topics ranging from career to parenting advice |&#xa;&#xa;You need not agree, but the opinions expressed here are my own and not necessarily those of any employer/client/friend past or present</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>25</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-2108768692719581534</id><published>2016-06-09T20:40:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2016-06-09T20:40:02.689-07:00</updated><title type='text'>When Life Gives YOU Lemons...</title><content type='html'>Stop! Skip the lemonade and instead spring for a bottle of good bourbon or wine. &amp;nbsp;You can set the lemons aside in case you ever need them for a garnish...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/2108768692719581534/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2016/06/when-life-gives-you-lemons.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/2108768692719581534'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/2108768692719581534'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2016/06/when-life-gives-you-lemons.html' title='When Life Gives YOU Lemons...'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-2090414381475636346</id><published>2016-04-09T07:59:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2016-04-09T07:59:34.553-07:00</updated><title type='text'>If a picture&#39;s worth a thousand words, what is that compromising &#39;selfie&#39; saying about you?</title><content type='html'>Everyone you&#39;ve ever met has interviewed you, or at least done a preliminary evaluation of you, and now...maybe so have people whom you&#39;ve never met! Like it or not, plenty of them are prepared to make decisions about who they think you are, and without the benefit of face-to-face interaction, based solely on your social media footprint.&lt;br /&gt;
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It used to be that we relied on paparazzi and purchased publications to see photos of people we recognized (usually celebrities) doing questionable things or caught in questionable situations. Now, we just log into any number of free accounts to see what people we recognize (usually NOT celebrities) are having for breakfast or how they spent their evenings, weekends or vacations; either in text or photos or both, if you add a caption to your photos.&lt;br /&gt;
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That&#39;s the new way of life thanks largely to social media and its networking power. What isn&#39;t new is that you still never get a second chance to make a good first impression. So before you ask why your employees are staring at you, or hit &#39;send&#39; on that resume submission for that perfect job, or approach your current supervisor/employer for a promotion, first ask yourself if there is anything on your Facebook, Google+, Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter, Snapchat, etc. pages that could be misinterpreted or misconstrued and potentially cost you personal credibility , an interview, a job offer or a promotion.&lt;br /&gt;
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The power of these social networking sites can definitely work for you but, as with most things, they also have an equal and potentially negative affect. Your friends and family are looking at your profile but, so are your employees, co-workers, maybe your boss as well as prospective employers. There&#39;s absolutely nothing wrong, in my opinion, about sharing photos or experiences you&#39;ve had with the appropriate audience, but do set your privacy filters accordingly.&lt;br /&gt;
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The humor points you may lose with your &#39;friends&#39; and family, by exercising good judgement and NOT posting that photo to the whole world, or by having that un-expressed 140 character limit thought, may help promote, advance and enhance your personal brand.&lt;br /&gt;
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We&#39;re considerably past 1984 but I assure you people are definitely watching how you go about claiming your 15 minutes...vinny&lt;br /&gt;
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The opinions expressed above are exclusively my own, and are in no way representative of any employer past or present</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/2090414381475636346/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2016/04/if-pictures-worth-thousand-words-what.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/2090414381475636346'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/2090414381475636346'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2016/04/if-pictures-worth-thousand-words-what.html' title='If a picture&#39;s worth a thousand words, what is that compromising &#39;selfie&#39; saying about you?'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-455406430909457403</id><published>2013-03-20T00:32:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2013-03-20T00:32:06.876-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Now that you&#39;ve graduated, please DO color outside the lines...</title><content type='html'>Not likely something you heard from any of your educators at any stage of your academic development (unless maybe it was an art instructor) and still not something encouraged by all employers. but let&#39;s examine why it&#39;s relevant to your professional pursuits.&lt;br /&gt;
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A recent article based on a study of preschoolers and pedagogy, and I&#39;m paraphrasing loosely, has it that kids today have far more formal education starting much earlier than at any other time in history but with a lesser ability to problem-solve and learn new things unless directly being taught by someone through specific instruction. The article was in favor of removing the idea of curriculum and structure for preschoolers and giving kids the chance to experience the world and learn instead through play and interaction with other kids.&amp;nbsp; Those silly underachievers! ;)&amp;nbsp; Seriously though, the gist is we&#39;re &lt;i&gt;more&lt;/i&gt; educated &amp;nbsp;than at any other time in history, but not necessarily &amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;better&lt;/i&gt; educated; especially if you find value in perspectives other than those offered by professors/educators and textbooks. &lt;br /&gt;
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No, I&#39;m not suggesting skipping high school and college or even kindergarten!&amp;nbsp; I&#39;m suggesting trying new things and exploring new approaches that interest you even if they don&#39;t come easy or aren&#39;t necessarily convenient. &amp;nbsp;I&#39;m suggesting embracing life as a learning opportunity. &amp;nbsp;I&#39;m saying, don&#39;t wait to be taught something new. &amp;nbsp;Reach out, stretch out if necessary, and learn something new if for no other reason than that it isn&#39;t something you already know!&lt;br /&gt;
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Plenty of crossword puzzle finishers on this planet already. &amp;nbsp;Do yourself, mayhap your career, a favor and be the person with enough confidence in their problem-solving to actually &lt;i&gt;start&lt;/i&gt; one...vinny&lt;br /&gt;
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</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/455406430909457403/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2013/03/now-that-youve-graduated-please-do.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/455406430909457403'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/455406430909457403'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2013/03/now-that-youve-graduated-please-do.html' title='Now that you&#39;ve graduated, please DO color outside the lines...'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-1912671126047379939</id><published>2013-03-20T00:13:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2013-03-20T00:13:11.819-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Which one are you?</title><content type='html'>I had an awesome candidate interviewing for a position, and they spec&#39;d out on almost every technical detail imaginable. &amp;nbsp;I made sure that they were appropriately prepared: knew the name/title of the interviewer, had the job description, understood the position responsibilities and was monitoring interview feedback along the way. &amp;nbsp;All signs were positive...right up until I spoke with the hiring manager. &amp;nbsp;That might have even been positive if she had been able to answer her own, not my, question. &lt;br /&gt;
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The candidate presented very well, sounded knowledgeable on all fronts, had a solid career trajectory, reputable employers, good tenure, etc. &amp;nbsp;So what went wrong you ask? &amp;nbsp;It came down to a lot of &#39;we&#39;,&lt;br /&gt;
&#39;us&#39;, and &#39;our&#39; terms when asked to describe &#39;his&#39; individual contribution(s). &lt;br /&gt;
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I know, it conveys a sense of collaboration and being part of a team. &amp;nbsp;What wasn&#39;t made clear to this particular hiring manager is what &#39;they&#39; specifically did as part of said team. &amp;nbsp;In my hiring manager&#39;s words, &quot;Everything about this candidate tech&#39;s out but I&#39;m just not certain if they&#39;re a good team player or just a player on a good team. &amp;nbsp;The first I definitely need; the second...I have plenty of those already.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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Do plug yourself into the equation and demonstrate through the use of words like &#39;we&#39;, &#39;us&#39; and &#39;our&#39; your team-player-ness, &amp;nbsp;but don&#39;t forget to share what your specific contributions are/were or you may leave a prospecive employer asking the same question...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/1912671126047379939/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2013/03/which-one-are-you.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/1912671126047379939'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/1912671126047379939'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2013/03/which-one-are-you.html' title='Which one are you?'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-1118724212320198042</id><published>2013-02-21T11:08:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2013-02-21T11:08:57.873-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Being Eligible for Re-hire isn&#39;t the same as being Re-hired!</title><content type='html'>I recently heard &amp;nbsp;a colleague say this on their way to a new engagement, &quot;I&#39;m leaving on good terms and I&#39;m eligible for re-hire&quot;. &amp;nbsp;As kindly as I knew how I suggested that being eligible to return doesn&#39;t a) guarantee that you&#39;ll be welcomed back because, and this is just a maybe, b) people might not be excited about what you consider to be &#39;good terms&#39;. &lt;br /&gt;
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A mentor of mine would phrase it this way, &quot;what is, just is&quot; meaning there isn&#39;t a lot you can do once you&#39;ve driven the stake. &amp;nbsp;People (which is what your past, current and future employers/co-workers are) have opinions and you may not know how all/any of them may affect you until you try to return, and even then you may not know! What if you didn&#39;t actually do anything wrong during your tenure that would make you ineligible for re-hire, but because of &#39;who&#39; you are, these same people weren&#39;t necessarily sad to see you go? What if they were initially sad but then afterward found that feeling replaced with anxiety or annoyance over a less than seamless transition? &amp;nbsp;Did you leave a mess in your haste to exit, did you exercise PTO to offset the notice you gave them, will those left behind be able to pick up where you left off? &amp;nbsp;These are questions you should try to get in front of! &lt;br /&gt;
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Here are some basic suggestions that may help:&lt;br /&gt;
1) Give ample notice even if you assume you&#39;ll be &#39;walked out&#39;&lt;br /&gt;
2) Create a transition plan for offloading your current workload including status updates&lt;br /&gt;
3) Draft a formal resignation letter expressing your appreciation for the people you worked with and the opportunities you were given&lt;br /&gt;
4) Don&#39;t look like you&#39;re dying to get out of there&lt;br /&gt;
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Nope, none of these 4 things will guarantee a smooth road back but you&#39;ll at least know, and so will they, that you did what you could to remove some of the inconvenience associated with your leaving...vinny&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/1118724212320198042/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2013/02/being-eligible-for-re-hire-isnt-same-as.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/1118724212320198042'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/1118724212320198042'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2013/02/being-eligible-for-re-hire-isnt-same-as.html' title='Being Eligible for Re-hire isn&#39;t the same as being Re-hired!'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-6332501379752084125</id><published>2011-11-16T11:57:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-11-16T13:51:45.254-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Leaving &quot;I&quot; out of your interview is like leaving your name off of your resume!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;Candidates have gotten so used to positioning themselves as good &#39;team&#39; players that oftentimes, during an interview, they forget to include the all-important word &lt;b&gt;&#39;I&#39;&lt;/b&gt;.&amp;nbsp; &quot;...so, tell me about your most recent project and describe for me some of the obstacles.&amp;nbsp; What was the scope, what were the deliverables and what was the actual vs. anticipated outcome?&quot;&amp;nbsp; Questions like these are clearly geared toward learning about YOU and while it&#39;s important to convey that you&#39;re an excellent team player, you shouldn&#39;t shy away from describing your individual contribution(s). Maybe this,&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #660000;&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;Interesting question Ms/Mr hiring authority. When I was with ABC company we faced a similar set of challenges/milestones/obstacles and the team and I collaborated in such a way that I was able to implement/sell/transform/deliver...&quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;or something along those lines.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;From my chair this answer sounds way better than blurting, &quot;I&#39;m a solid individual contributor and an excellent team player where we worked on blah, blah, blah and were responsible and/or recognized as a team for blah....&quot;&amp;nbsp; Absolutely nothing wrong with describing team performance as long as you include the specifics of what you did so as to convey a sense of your impact/contributions.&amp;nbsp; To further demonstrate the importance of focusing on the &lt;b&gt;&#39;I&#39;&lt;/b&gt; as a good team player, I&#39;ll borrow the words of flight attendants during pre-flight when they suggest to, &quot;first put the oxygen mask on yourself and then help those around you&quot;.&amp;nbsp; Years ago I was asked to define a good team player and I still maintain that what I believed then is true today and that the best team player is usually the strongest individual contributor(s) willing to work with other people toward a common objective.&amp;nbsp; Respectfully, if you aren&#39;t good at what you do and can&#39;t deliver results for yourself, how can you expect or be expected to deliver more than that for the team, any team?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;Just a reminder as I wrap up this post; the interview is &lt;b&gt;YOUR&lt;/b&gt; opportunity to sell yourself, so go ahead and ring your own bell a bit.&amp;nbsp; Obviously the goal here is to offer the interviewer reasons to hire YOU, not the team, so definitely share your accomplishments in a confident manner leaving your ego at the door.&amp;nbsp; Confidence is an asset, arrogance is usually deemed a liability, so confidently include what you did, the impact it had on the team/project/company, why it was significant, and what you learned from it that makes you an added value to future teams.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;In closing, I was consulting with a hiring manager who was reviewing his interview notes on a candidate he&#39;d recently interviewed but, when I asked him for his final assessment, he seemed uncertain.&amp;nbsp; I probed to see if I could figure out what his hesitation was and wound up with this pearl,&amp;nbsp; &quot;...after an hour I still don&#39;t quite understand what this person&#39;s involvement was on any of their most recent projects even though they were all delivered successfully, on time and under budget.&quot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; What I did understand involved a whole lot of &lt;i&gt;we, us,&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;the team&lt;/i&gt;, which leaves me to wonder whether they&#39;re a good team player or just a player on a good team.&amp;nbsp; I don&#39;t have a spot on my team for the latter&quot;...vinny&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/6332501379752084125/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2011/11/leaving-i-out-of-your-interview-is-like.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/6332501379752084125'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/6332501379752084125'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2011/11/leaving-i-out-of-your-interview-is-like.html' title='Leaving &quot;I&quot; out of your interview is like leaving your name off of your resume!'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-5154838853133624498</id><published>2011-10-18T23:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-24T16:00:43.500-07:00</updated><title type='text'>De-mystifying the in-person interview</title><content type='html'>Occasionally, I&#39;ll talk to a candidate that does so well on the phone portion of the interviews that it&#39;s tempting to just schedule the face-to-face without any additional counseling because, c&#39;mon, they got past me and &amp;nbsp;a technical interviewer, they should be ready. &amp;nbsp;Erring on the side of caution though, my approach has always been to figure out what the candidate needs to be comfortable and prepared for the meeting and then...I just give it to them! &amp;nbsp;Title, personality style, hot buttons, etc., I mean, what are we afraid of, that the interview will go so well that we&#39;ll have to put together that ratty new-hire paperwork and schedule a slot in new-employee orientation? :)&lt;br /&gt;
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Years ago a colleague of mine chided me for what he considered my &#39;prepping&#39; of a candidate and reminded me that as a corporate recruiter, my job was to &#39;interview&#39; candidates not to prep them. &amp;nbsp;I thought about what he said and considered that I might be offering too much in what I was providing, but my closing ratios suggested otherwise. &amp;nbsp;I wasn&#39;t teaching my candidates to write algorithms or choose the appropriate data structure. &amp;nbsp;What I was doing was helping them navigate the interview process, so that what they were demonstrating, during the course of the interview, was their ability to do the job vs trying to figure out the magic answer to the tricky interview questions they were being asked.&lt;br /&gt;
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I&#39;ll let you in on a little secret, if you rocked the phone portions of any interview, a lot of the grilling has already been done and what the company is looking to determine by having you in is how you present yourself and whether the team likes you. &amp;nbsp;Yes, it could be that they didn&#39;t fully vet you technically or intellectually but clearly, a lot of it&#39;s to determine if you fit.&lt;br /&gt;
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Anyone that&#39;s read my previous stuff will recognize this suggestion: &lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #660000;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;don&#39;t treat the interview as an interrogation or even an interview but instead plug yourself into the equation and pretend it&#39;s your first day on the job. &amp;nbsp;You&#39;ve been consulting by phone and now&#39;s your chance to meet the rest of the team and show them why you&#39;re the smart hire.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &amp;nbsp;I caution everyone, as much as anyone will listen, to be &#39;themselves&#39; and will inevitably hear, &amp;nbsp;&quot;but what if I don&#39;t get the offer?&quot; The hard truth may be that it probably wasn&#39;t a great fit if they don&#39;t want to hire you for being&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;but let&#39;s come at this from a different angle. &amp;nbsp; What if instead of focusing solely on selling yourself you devoted some of your focus to learning more about the styles and preferences of the people you&#39;re hoping will soon be co-workers? &amp;nbsp;How might you mutually benefit by understanding and connecting your styles? &lt;br /&gt;
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My oldest by a minute says to me, &quot;the kids at my new school don&#39;t like me!&quot; I ask him why and he says, &quot;they don&#39;t like to run around and play Sonic (don&#39;t worry that you don&#39;t get the reference). &quot;What do they like to play?&quot; I ask. &amp;nbsp;&quot;Football, soccer, tag, etc.&quot; he offers. &amp;nbsp;Me to him, &quot;Not liking the game or style of game isn&#39;t the same as not liking the person. Did you ever think about playing the game they want to play until they get to know you better, and then maybe they&#39;ll like you so much they&#39;ll play whatever you choose? &amp;nbsp;In the meantime, the worst that can happen is you&#39;ll learn a lot of new games and a lot more about the people you&#39;re playing with while you&#39;re playing with them.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/5154838853133624498/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2011/10/de-mystifying-in-person-interview.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/5154838853133624498'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/5154838853133624498'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2011/10/de-mystifying-in-person-interview.html' title='De-mystifying the in-person interview'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-2450484561478122375</id><published>2011-10-18T00:21:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-18T00:21:43.896-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Life Keeps Score and FYI,  not everyone gets a trophy...</title><content type='html'>My oldest by a minute was working with his mother on a first grade project the other evening that for a week allows him to be the &quot;Superstar&quot; of his classroom.&amp;nbsp; Pretty heady stuff when you&#39;re not quite 7 but also very telling when you&#39;re a parent listening to your child describe who they think they are.&lt;br /&gt;
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&quot;Post your picture and tell us your favorite, food/color/fun thing to do and please share with us 3 supercool facts about you that we don&#39;t already know, etc.&quot;&amp;nbsp; In my mind I had all of these blanks filled in for him and he started down that track but then he did something incredibly honest and at my wife&#39;s encouragement, he told us who he really is.&lt;br /&gt;
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When&#39;s the last time you tried that, the being completely honest part, without fear of recrimination or negative judgement of some sort?&amp;nbsp; Wow, right?!&lt;br /&gt;
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Turns out one of the earth shattering things I learned is that he doesn&#39;t consider himself an athlete because he really doesn&#39;t like win/lose games even though he admits he thinks he&#39;s &quot;pretty fast&quot;.&amp;nbsp; T-ball...the league didn&#39;t keep score and everyone played.&amp;nbsp; Soccer...nope, no goal keepers and no scores kept by this league either.&amp;nbsp; Cross Country?&amp;nbsp; Bunch a kids running for the finish line but everyone&#39;s a winner for having participated with a ribbon to prove it.&amp;nbsp; Is it really that he doesn&#39;t like competition?&amp;nbsp; I&#39;ll go with &lt;i&gt;yes&lt;/i&gt; and explain.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
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Winners are aggressive and have attitude.&amp;nbsp; They&#39;re always showing off how physically superior/educated/talented they are and drawing all sorts of attention. They aren&#39;t good sports and make others feel bad for losing.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
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I&#39;m not going to say that all of these statements are false but I&#39;m going to put some spin on it because I think being aggressive can be a good trait and that a positive attitude is still an attitude.&amp;nbsp; I believe that giving others something to shoot for with respect to improving performance, physical or mental isn&#39;t necessarily a bad thing and that how you feel about losing has more to do with you than the person who won.&lt;br /&gt;
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Weird that we stand out there with our coffees on Saturday morning cheering on  every kid regardless of which side they&#39;re on in whichever seasonal, non-competitive activity yet all the kids on all the teams know who can hit and who can&#39;t; who scored goals and how many; and who the first kid across the finish line was, oh...and so do the parents.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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Why are we so afraid to admit that we &lt;i&gt;do&lt;/i&gt; keep score and that winning really &lt;i&gt;does&lt;/i&gt; feel better than losing?! Why are we teaching our children that competition is bad, and that winning isn&#39;t to be enjoyed unless everyone wins?&amp;nbsp; Me being as honest as a 6 year old?&amp;nbsp; Losing sucks and I don&#39;t care how many losers you surround yourself with.&amp;nbsp; If you&#39;ve ever been part of a layoff or fired you know what I mean and no amount of &quot;it wasn&#39;t my fault&quot; will make you feel better or pay the mortgage.&lt;br /&gt;
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How does promoting a &quot;there&#39;s not one winner, we&#39;re all winners&quot; mentality better the world they&#39;re going to inherit?&amp;nbsp; How will this set them up to succeed if there&#39;s no definition of what success is?&amp;nbsp; We should be teaching future generations how to win graciously and how to set and then exceed their own expectations so as to define success instead of how to be good losers.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Life isn&#39;t fair and fair isn&#39;t always equal but I assure you, regardless of the endeavor, someone is keeping score and your employer is one of them.&lt;br /&gt;
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As for the ribbon he&lt;i&gt; won&lt;/i&gt; for showing up?&amp;nbsp; It&amp;nbsp; meant so much that I found it later the next day on the backseat floor of the car..vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/2450484561478122375/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2011/10/life-keeps-score-and-fyi-not-everyone.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/2450484561478122375'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/2450484561478122375'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2011/10/life-keeps-score-and-fyi-not-everyone.html' title='Life Keeps Score and FYI,  not everyone gets a trophy...'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-6484883113525059142</id><published>2011-02-13T23:10:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-02-18T00:08:45.553-08:00</updated><title type='text'>to Play or Not</title><content type='html'>My boys were super excited about&amp;nbsp;going to&amp;nbsp;their first&amp;nbsp;Little League&amp;nbsp;training clinic and unbeknownst to either my wife or me, they didn&#39;t separate the groups by&amp;nbsp;age or skill levels.&amp;nbsp; After 45 minutes or so of throwing, catching, batting, etc., with kids who&#39;d been playing much longer I saw my younger son, enthusiasm&amp;nbsp;gone,&amp;nbsp;standing and crying in a sea of young boys who were all running around him and tossing a ball.&amp;nbsp; When my wife reached him he said through his snuffles&amp;nbsp;that this was all very &#39;confusing&#39; and he just wanted to sit out.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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Sound or feel&amp;nbsp;familiar?&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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New interview/employment opportunity presents itself, you&#39;re all excited&amp;nbsp;and then after matching skills and abilities with those who&#39;ve been there longer or competing against those who seem to want it as much as you do (seriously hoping you made it more than 45 minutes) it seems &lt;em&gt;crazy&lt;/em&gt; overwhelming, too challenging&amp;nbsp;or too &#39;confusing&#39; and you feel like you need a good cry.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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My wife and another mom tried comforting my son, encouraging him to get back in and play with the other boys but he wasn&#39;t having any of it and had decided to watch from the side.&amp;nbsp; I took my son&amp;nbsp;a little ways away to&amp;nbsp;talk&amp;nbsp;and after a minute he went running back into the melee with the other boys and after a couple&amp;nbsp;more minutes was laughing again.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;My wife and the other&amp;nbsp;mom wanted to know how I was able to get him to change his mind. &lt;br /&gt;
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Confusion is scary and life can be intimidating at any age, but scary usually doesn&#39;t hurt and the world likely won&#39;t hug it out for you.&amp;nbsp; &quot;Do you want to do this and, if so, how badly?&amp;nbsp; You can get back in the game, learn some new things,&amp;nbsp;meet some new people&amp;nbsp;and have some fun, or we can go sit in the car until it&#39;s over.&amp;nbsp;Watching from the side isn&#39;t an option&quot;...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/6484883113525059142/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2011/02/to-play-or-not.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/6484883113525059142'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/6484883113525059142'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2011/02/to-play-or-not.html' title='to Play or Not'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-1913988131496850501</id><published>2010-08-18T22:54:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-08-18T22:54:17.059-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Don&#39;t just get through it, get into it!</title><content type='html'>I went to a birthday party recently for a 5 year old and it was at 2:30 in the afternoon at a bowling alley on a gorgeous sunny Sunday in August...in Seattle!&amp;nbsp; The wrongness of this appointment transcends so many levels, but surely if you&#39;ve lived in Seattle for more than one summer you&#39;ll understand most of my angst.&amp;nbsp; I&#39;d already made up my mind that we had a hard stop after an hour, even though the party was scheduled to last until 4:30.&amp;nbsp; In my head I had my &quot;to-do&quot; list (both personal and professional) and in order to hit those milestones and wring the last little bit of enjoyment out of my  weekend (reiterating the sunny and warm part)...&lt;br /&gt;
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Any of this sound familiar?&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
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I was so busy checking things off of my list that I&#39;d inadvertently decided I wasn&#39;t going to enjoy spending time with other parents (who probably felt the same as I did) or get a couple of hours of enjoyment watching my kids having a good time with other kids.&amp;nbsp; I caught myself getting all spun-up on the drive to the bowling alley and quickly decided that for my part, that would be a suck way to spend two hours of my life.&amp;nbsp; With less difficulty than I&amp;nbsp; had imagined I committed to engaging with other parents, enjoying my wife and kids and PRESTO!, we were there for the duration, had a good time and were still able to do what I wanted afterward.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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Fast forward and now it&#39;s Monday.&amp;nbsp; I&#39;m looking around and I see people scurrying around their offices looking as busy with their &quot;lists&quot; as I felt at the bowling alley the day before with mine. &quot;Have to; Got to; must finish by EOD or else&quot; are all lead-ins I heard throughout the day.&amp;nbsp; Curiously absent were, &quot;Want to; Get to; can&#39;t wait to finish and show my client&quot; etc.&amp;nbsp; It dawned on me that a lot of us are confusing activity with productivity.&amp;nbsp; As my wife will occasionally ask, &quot;is your journey satisfying, or are you just arriving at your destination?&quot;&amp;nbsp; Do you spend your energy rushing through your list of daily chores such that you feel tired but unsatisfied at the end of the day? Are you so focused on getting to the next thing on your list that you fail to appreciate the quality required of &lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;you&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt; and necessary for the task at hand?&amp;nbsp; Do you ever imagine that any of the world&#39;s great successes in business, art or science subscribed to that model?&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
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I know, a lot of questions.&amp;nbsp; At the risk of going all Zen with my suggestion, maybe take an extra moment to focus on doing &lt;i&gt;well&lt;/i&gt; &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;anything&lt;/i&gt; &lt;i&gt;you&#39;re doing&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; (month-end reports, job hunting, sales calls, code reviews, being a parent at a bowling-birthday-party-for-kids, etc) and hold yourself accountable.&amp;nbsp; I&#39;m suggesting you really plug yourself into the equation.&amp;nbsp; Get completely into it as opposed to just getting through it and then, whether at work, play or some destination in between, occasionally ask yourself, &quot; is this journey satisfying?&quot;&amp;nbsp; vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/1913988131496850501/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/08/dont-just-get-through-it-get-into-it.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/1913988131496850501'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/1913988131496850501'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/08/dont-just-get-through-it-get-into-it.html' title='Don&#39;t just get through it, get into it!'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-8588577564959069504</id><published>2010-08-16T23:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-08-17T01:07:10.729-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Your degree is BS in what?</title><content type='html'>So you made the choice to spend a lot of money and commit years of your life toward getting a degree?&amp;nbsp; Good, now get your money&#39;s worth and be prepared to discuss and demonstrate some of the specifics of what you learned with the people interviewing you. That or prepare to be passed over.&lt;br /&gt;
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Used to be not everyone had the time, money or inclination to go to college after completing high school and in those times just having a degree would elevate and set you apart from others competing for the same job. Things started changing in the 80&#39;s and then the 90&#39;s came with a huge push in all things technical and financial.&amp;nbsp; Industry screamed for a more educated talent pool, immigration caps were raised, government offered more student loans, schools started offering more degreed programs; all combining to create an economic landscape that today is bursting with new college grads and MBA&#39;s that are having a hard time finding jobs.&amp;nbsp; &quot;Why is that?&quot; you ask. &lt;br /&gt;
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I submit that the difficulty for more than a few is because they&#39;re having a hard time explaining what they learned, why they learned it and more importantly, how both will positively impact their prospective employer.&amp;nbsp; Nobody cares if you were in the top 3% of your class if you can&#39;t answer a basic question in your chosen field of study, or worse, are offended by being asked a 101 question that &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt; don&#39;t deem pertinent to the job.&amp;nbsp; (By the way, do expect to be asked &lt;i&gt;how many were in the class&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;what criteria determined the percentages&lt;/i&gt; if you choose to go this route.)&lt;br /&gt;
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If your degree is in education, computer science, accounting, or whatever, be prepared to have an intelligent, repeat,&lt;b&gt; intelligent &lt;/b&gt;conversation about why you chose your field, what you learned that changed your life, and how making that choice can positively change other lives.&amp;nbsp; Can you talk about the theories of Freud and Jung, or what&#39;s really included in COGS so your month end reports are accurate?&amp;nbsp; Do you really believe Fibonacci is important and why would you use the big O notation in the analysis of an algorithm?&lt;br /&gt;
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Almost anyone can obtain a degree today by paying tuition, showing up, passing the tests and meeting the minimum graduation qualifications; none of which is necessarily a guarantee of higher intelligence, just additional education.&amp;nbsp; Proof of education won&#39;t set you apart in today&#39;s job market, proof of intelligence will set you apart in any job market.&lt;br /&gt;
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No degree?&amp;nbsp; I&#39;ll be talking about how to leap that hurdle in an upcoming post.&lt;br /&gt;
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Feel free to follow me, use the &#39;share&#39; toolbar below to send to a friend, recommend, comment and/or send me mail by going to www.otbcoaching.com...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/8588577564959069504/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/08/your-degree-is-bs-in-what.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/8588577564959069504'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/8588577564959069504'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/08/your-degree-is-bs-in-what.html' title='Your degree is BS in what?'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-1886226708607314241</id><published>2010-07-29T23:13:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-29T23:13:48.132-07:00</updated><title type='text'>If you want to drive your career development you&#39;ll need to take the wheel...</title><content type='html'>Got the job, like the job, good at the job...NICE!&amp;nbsp; Now sit tight, don&#39;t do anything goofy and wait for your annual review.&amp;nbsp; Oh yeah, and hope it&#39;s good.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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Years I&#39;m hearing and seeing people using exactly this  &quot;go along to get along&quot; formula only to be grossly disappointed (or worse) once their reviews are done.&lt;br /&gt;
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Does your boss have performance expectations of you and if so, do you know what they are?&amp;nbsp; Do you have any performance expectations of yourself and if so, does your boss know what they are?&amp;nbsp; Are you above, behind or on track to satisfy all of the above expectations (aka, objectives, milestones, goals, commitments) and once achieved where will that leave you in the pack?&amp;nbsp; Do you meet with her/him on a regular basis to track &lt;i&gt;performance to date&lt;/i&gt; and determine what may have changed up or down and the commensurate impact these up&#39;s and down&#39;s will have on your career trajectory?&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
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These are just some of the questions you should have answers for to determine what your contribution is and how it will stack up against your contemporaries.&lt;br /&gt;
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&quot;My boss has canceled the last few 1:1&#39;s because of scheduling conflicts but if there was a problem I&#39;d have heard about it.&quot;&amp;nbsp; Unacceptable is my reply to that.&amp;nbsp; You may be doing just enough to not be a pain point, wind up on a performance improvement plan or get fired but significantly less than those getting the top raises and promotions.&amp;nbsp; NEWS FLASH:&amp;nbsp; Your boss doesn&#39;t have the same personal investment in your career as you do, nor should s/he! This isn&#39;t about promoting paranoia, this is about taking control of your professional development and creating &lt;i&gt;mutual, agreed-upon goals&lt;/i&gt; so that you can manage toward achieving and exceeding those goals. &lt;br /&gt;
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In these uncertain times it&#39;s good to have a job, but are you guilty of being so busy trying to keep your job that you&#39;re not doing your job?&amp;nbsp; If so don&#39;t expect a great review...vinny &lt;br /&gt;
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See me at www.otbcoaching.com if you want to talk</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/1886226708607314241/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/07/if-you-want-to-drive-your-career.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/1886226708607314241'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/1886226708607314241'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/07/if-you-want-to-drive-your-career.html' title='If you want to drive your career development you&#39;ll need to take the wheel...'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-811140954287565769</id><published>2010-07-13T23:49:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-13T23:51:04.622-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Connect the Dots</title><content type='html'>&quot;What do you really &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; to do?&quot;, I&#39;ll ask my coaching clients, and the response is almost as pre-programmed as the &quot;just looking&quot; most of us mutter to a retail sales person when asked, &quot;&lt;i&gt;how&lt;/i&gt; &lt;i&gt;are you&lt;/i&gt;?&quot;&amp;nbsp; The usual reply is something along the lines of, &quot;Well I&#39;m really good at&lt;i&gt; x, y &lt;/i&gt;and&lt;i&gt; z&lt;/i&gt;.&quot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Not what I asked but while we&#39;re on the subject, who told you that you are really good at &lt;i&gt;x, y &lt;/i&gt;and&lt;i&gt; z&lt;/i&gt;?&amp;nbsp; Yourself, your boss, your brother, your spouse?&amp;nbsp; Think on it and I&#39;ll come back to this in a bit.&lt;br /&gt;
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Try asking a child (that hasn&#39;t yet succumbed to parental/societal pressure) what they &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; to do, and they&#39;ll likely have several answers in the time it takes you to blink.&amp;nbsp; &quot;Go swimming, ride bikes, eat chocolate, play with dolls/dinosaurs, etc&quot; are just some of the replies I&#39;ve heard from kids.&amp;nbsp; Interestingly enough, they seem to do all of them well.&amp;nbsp; I believe it&#39;s because they pour their time and energy into doing them well so that they can enjoy them more!&amp;nbsp; Our self esteem likely started out as high before we learned to argue for our limitations and then started doing what we thought we were &lt;i&gt;supposed &lt;/i&gt;to do.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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Before someone told you this is &quot;what you do well&quot; or &quot;this is what you &lt;i&gt;should&lt;/i&gt; do&quot;, what is it you enjoyed doing?&amp;nbsp; Was it reading books or doing research? Do you groove on helping others solve complicated problems?&amp;nbsp; Is it&amp;nbsp; math, music, building, breaking or growing things that motivates you?&amp;nbsp; Doesn&#39;t matter but I suggest creating a list to see what they are as a means of seeing who you are.&lt;br /&gt;
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Now that we have a list of things we like to do let&#39;s get back to what you&#39;re good at doing; the list you already have in the front of your brain.&amp;nbsp; Have you figured out how you learned you were good at them?&amp;nbsp; Don&#39;t sweat it if you don&#39;t know, but can you draw lines between what you like and what you do well?&amp;nbsp; In this sense, can you&lt;i&gt; connect the dots&lt;/i&gt; in such a way that you create a visual of how your next career move might look?&amp;nbsp; If not, I encourage you to give a more honest look at your two lists to see what you might add or subtract to help complete your picture.&lt;br /&gt;
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I&#39;ll leave you with this to consider.&amp;nbsp; Are you &lt;i&gt;really&lt;/i&gt; good at the&lt;i&gt; x, y&lt;/i&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt; &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;and&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt; &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;i&gt;z&lt;/i&gt; things on your list or did you simply out-perform others who cared less about them than you do?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Imagine taking the things you&#39;re really good at and re-purposing them for doing things that you truly enjoy so that you enjoy the time you spend doing them more...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/811140954287565769/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/07/connect-dots.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/811140954287565769'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/811140954287565769'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/07/connect-dots.html' title='Connect the Dots'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-6737506476093088320</id><published>2010-07-06T23:51:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-06T23:54:11.823-07:00</updated><title type='text'>What will the people you worked with REALLY say about you?</title><content type='html'>&quot;...it&#39;s all good and besides, my reason for termination wasn&#39;t performance-related, they even said so.&quot;&amp;nbsp; Or maybe this, &quot;...they can&#39;t say anything bad about me because that&#39;s defamation.&amp;nbsp; All they can legally do is confirm my title and dates of employment.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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Well, in my experience very rarely are things &quot;all good&quot; and that absolutely applies to employment reference checks.&amp;nbsp; As for the second statement,&amp;nbsp; depending on the laws of the state in which you are/were employed, your previous employer may safely be able to say&lt;b&gt; anything&lt;/b&gt; about you that is&lt;i&gt; true &lt;/i&gt;as long as it meets the following criteria:   &lt;br /&gt;
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While many companies, especially those with  structured HR departments, will refrain from giving detailed  reference checks opting instead for Employment Verification, that may not prevent Steve in Marketing (at your prospective employer) from calling his friend Janice in Marketing (at your former  employer) to see what she &quot;thinks&quot; about you and if she knows &lt;i&gt;why&lt;/i&gt; you&#39;re available.&amp;nbsp; Social Media/Networking is so pervasive it&#39;s only realistic to assume that people will leverage their social networks for professional purposes too.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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Now try answering my original question, &quot;What will the PEOPLE you worked with &lt;i&gt;REALLY&lt;/i&gt; say about you?&quot; Don&#39;t know or don&#39;t like but want to change, see me at &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.otbcoaching.com/&quot;&gt;www.otbcoaching.com&lt;/a&gt; and we can talk. &lt;br /&gt;
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BTW and just so you know, people in HR usually don&#39;t even bring up the phrase &quot;performance-related&quot; unless on some level it was...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/6737506476093088320/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/07/what-will-people-you-worked-with-really.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/6737506476093088320'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/6737506476093088320'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/07/what-will-people-you-worked-with-really.html' title='What will the people you worked with REALLY say about you?'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-4819935252694639693</id><published>2010-07-01T22:17:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-01T23:30:43.917-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Take a deep breath and count to whatever it takes...</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class=&quot;goog-spellcheck-word&quot; style=&quot;-moz-background-clip: border; -moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; -moz-background-origin: padding; background: rgb(243, 243, 243) none repeat scroll 0% 0%;&quot;&gt;Years ago I&lt;/span&gt; was trying to get a client of mine to interview an excellent candidate of mine for her open position, but she said she was fairly certain she already had the role filled with someone she was meeting the next day at 10am.&lt;br /&gt;
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The following morning she called me at around 10:30 asking if my candidate was still available and I answered, &quot;yes, but what happened to the candidate you met with at 10?&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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She explained that she&#39;d been running about 15 minutes late due to a traffic snarl on her way in and then went on to share the details of her commuting adventure.&amp;nbsp; Seems that in an attempt to be on time she&#39;d inadvertently cut off another driver with an abrupt lane change.&amp;nbsp; Realizing her gaffe, she instantly waved her apology to the other motorist; appreciating that it wasn&#39;t enough yet not knowing what else she could possibly do.&lt;br /&gt;
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The other driver sped up beside her making inappropriate hand gestures while honking, then pulled in front of her and intentionally slowed down before ultimately speeding away.&lt;br /&gt;
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Shaken but mostly irritated by the way her morning was starting, and the fact that she was running late for an interview, she parked her car and ran into her office building for her appointment.&lt;br /&gt;
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Both hiring manager and candidate were surprised that they&#39;d already met on the road, but not that the interview was over...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/4819935252694639693/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/07/take-deep-breath-and-count-to-whatever.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/4819935252694639693'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/4819935252694639693'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/07/take-deep-breath-and-count-to-whatever.html' title='Take a deep breath and count to whatever it takes...'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-371523112947980903</id><published>2010-07-01T00:40:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-01T00:40:21.842-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The best answer to the question may be Yours!</title><content type='html'>We used to joke that if you put two hiring authorities in a room, regardless of industry or discipline, you could get three opinions on almost any topic.&amp;nbsp; Doesn&#39;t matter what the question is, the important thing is that individuals will have an opinion as to what answers are right.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
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Correct is good and what most interviewers expect, but breaking down a problem and detailing your approach to solving each individual part is even better.&amp;nbsp; In this vein do not skip past what you might consider to be the &lt;b&gt;101&lt;/b&gt; parts of the question/answer, because it&#39;s conceivable that that is exactly what they expect you to do.&amp;nbsp; Forgetting or omitting fundamentals is not being clever and will say a lot about the value you place on what you&#39;ve learned.&amp;nbsp; I&#39;ve had candidates who understood and could articulate the fundamentals still give incorrect answers, but be rewarded with job offers anyway because they were able to combine what they &lt;i&gt;knew&lt;/i&gt; with either an unconventional or bold or creative approach to solving the problem.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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Out in the world the other day, I&#39;m riding an elevator around lunch-time and four tech types are heatedly discussing a computer science question that one of them had just posed to a job candidate during an interview.&amp;nbsp; While he was passionately explaining&lt;i&gt; his&lt;/i&gt; optimal answer, the others were busy tearing his solution apart and offering what they described as more elegant alternatives and effective work-arounds.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
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All of them worked for the same company (same badges), each had an opinion, no two were alike, yet all of them got hired...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/371523112947980903/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/07/best-answer-to-question-may-be-yours.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/371523112947980903'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/371523112947980903'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/07/best-answer-to-question-may-be-yours.html' title='The best answer to the question may be Yours!'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-2019740618519974592</id><published>2010-06-28T20:53:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-28T20:53:13.775-07:00</updated><title type='text'>JOB SEEKERS BEWARE of these 3 little letters...ATS</title><content type='html'>The letters stand for &lt;i&gt;Applicant Tracking System&lt;/i&gt; and companies build/buy them to record candidates applying for jobs.&amp;nbsp; Depending on how feature-rich the ATS is, it&#39;s possible for it to store millions of candidate records/resumes over many years, including phone screen and interview notes, time-stamping each submittal for each job at said company.&amp;nbsp; Why should you care and why am I still talking about it? Well,&amp;nbsp; if an internal recruiter sees a candidate applying for multiple jobs spanning multiple disciplines over a short period of time, and you haven&#39;t been promoted, changed companies or added educational credentials to your resume, how seriously do you expect to be taken?&amp;nbsp; &quot;But I have a broad range of interests and skills,&quot; you say.&amp;nbsp; Great!!&amp;nbsp; Pick the top 2 jobs (max 3, if they are similar) that you&#39;re&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt; most&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt; qualified for, apply for them explaining why you are qualified and interested, and then safely assume that unless something about your skill set changes substantially, you&#39;re done for awhile.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
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I don&#39;t mean for this to sound discouraging but mass-&lt;i&gt;submitting (flooding, jamming, spamming&lt;/i&gt;, etc) won&#39;t help your cause.&amp;nbsp; At best the person reviewing resumes will overlook the fact that you&#39;ve applied to every job opening they have and give you the call if you&#39;re resume suggests you are the absolute PERFECT person for the role.&amp;nbsp; At worst, they may move past the PERFECT resume and&amp;nbsp; jump to the conclusion that the human capital attached to it isn&#39;t specialized enough or lacks in decisiveness and self-awareness.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
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My encouragement is to apply &lt;i&gt;only&lt;/i&gt; to positions that map to both your professional qualifications and your interests, remembering that throwing &lt;i&gt;anything&lt;/i&gt; &#39;at the fence and hoping it sticks&#39; smells  desperate.&amp;nbsp; Play to your strengths...vinny&lt;br /&gt;
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&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/2019740618519974592/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/job-seekers-beware-of-these-3-little.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/2019740618519974592'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/2019740618519974592'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/job-seekers-beware-of-these-3-little.html' title='JOB SEEKERS BEWARE of these 3 little letters...ATS'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-8730023053491359670</id><published>2010-06-15T22:49:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-15T22:49:09.555-07:00</updated><title type='text'>One or Two Page resume?  Depends...</title><content type='html'>This question has been kicked around for as long as I&#39;ve been looking at resumes and I&#39;ll be candid, if you don&#39;t have something compelling on your resume to share with a prospective employer it really doesn&#39;t matter.&lt;br /&gt;
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If you&#39;re a recent grad and have no industry experience one page should do and even that might be challenging to fill unless you have a list of special projects. Don&#39;t be afraid of two if you have enough professional breadth and depth but in both cases, you have between 10 and 30 seconds to get the reader interested.&amp;nbsp; If you lose them you&#39;ll likely also lose any opportunity with the company.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
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What are you currently doing, how will it benefit your next employer, what relevant tools/technologies were involved, who have you worked for, in what capacity and how long were the engagements?&amp;nbsp; These and education are what they&#39;re really interested in seeing.&amp;nbsp; With respect to education, my suggestion is within a year of graduation, (BS/BA, MS, MBA, PhD) list it near the top of your resume and after you&#39;ve been out a year move it to the bottom.&lt;br /&gt;
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As for formatting stick with chronological over functional because functional makes it harder to connect the dots and see what you did, when and where.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
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Start with your name and contact information, add a few modest career &#39;highlight&#39; bullets to give a sense of your achievements (do go easy on the fluff), follow with company names, employment dates, titles you held and a brief one-paragraph description of what you actually did during your time there including any significant contributions, tools and/or technologies used.&amp;nbsp; This is the &#39;meat&#39; of your resume and what most hiring authorities are focused on, so make sure it accurately reflects your work and accomplishments.&amp;nbsp; Sure, some people are into pedigrees and big name shops but even satisfying those won&#39;t get you the nod if the work you did or the tools/processes you used aren&#39;t transferable. &lt;br /&gt;
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When you&#39;re finished do NOT forget to proof read it, checking your grammar, spelling and punctuation.&amp;nbsp; Spell check won&#39;t catch &#39;to&#39; and &#39;you&#39; even though you mean &#39;too&#39; and &#39;your&#39; but the person reading your resume probably will...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/8730023053491359670/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/one-or-two-page-resume-depends.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/8730023053491359670'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/8730023053491359670'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/one-or-two-page-resume-depends.html' title='One or Two Page resume?  Depends...'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-6074060940215307012</id><published>2010-06-14T23:10:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-15T00:01:01.466-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Why would you hire You?</title><content type='html'>&quot;I&#39;ve improved year-over-year revenues by 120%&quot; or &quot;the processes I put into place enabled the company to realize performance gains of...blah, blah, blah.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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I don&#39;t want to sound critical or diminish the accomplishments you&#39;ve had, but what if anything does this mean to me as your future employer?&amp;nbsp; While past successes can be deemed predictors of future performance, please make a point of demonstrating how these accomplishments will apply specifically to me. More simply, if you were interviewing You, would your answers compel you toward giving &lt;i&gt;yourself&lt;/i&gt; a &#39;hire&#39; vote or just leave you with additional questions?&lt;br /&gt;
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I encourage my coaching clients to think in terms I call &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;differentiators&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;.&amp;nbsp; I&#39;m not talking about buzz words that can be found on your resume but real-world examples describing how you&#39;ve addressed similar situations and turned them into &#39;wins&#39;. &lt;br /&gt;
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I worked recently with a senior executive and in her words, not unlike your math teacher in school, &quot;you need to show your work&quot; for me to understand what it is you do and how that relates to what I need done.&lt;br /&gt;
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Clearly, before you can do that you need to do your homework and understand what your prospective employer does, what the role they need filled &lt;i&gt;does&lt;/i&gt; and then be able to succinctly explain why hiring you is the solution they&#39;re seeking to do it &lt;i&gt;better&lt;/i&gt;.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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I touched on this briefly in an earlier post but to recap, mentally switch chairs with the interviewer and ask yourself, &quot;if I were interviewing Me what answer(s) would I need to hear?&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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Do be prepared for some text book questions depending on the discipline (Project Management, Computer Science, Accounting, etc...), but beyond that they&#39;re probably more interested in hearing &lt;i&gt;why&lt;/i&gt; you believe yourself to be the best candidate.&amp;nbsp; Answers that illustrate your unique and individual offerings with respect to logic and problem-solving will give a future employer an idea of &lt;i&gt;how&lt;/i&gt; you use the skill set you&#39;ve acquired.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;interesting that you ask that Ms/Mr hiring authority. When I was with ABC company we were faced with a similar set of challenges and I was able to leverage the existing resources and knowledge base to create an effective solution...&quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;Use your own verbiage, plug in the relative data points to build your story and now you&#39;ve given a prospective employer a short essay as opposed to a multiple-choice answer in defining you and &lt;i&gt;what&lt;/i&gt; you do.&lt;br /&gt;
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Respectfully, don&#39;t expect to be singled out in a good way if you show up to the party bringing the same chips and dip that everyone else does...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/6074060940215307012/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-would-you-hire-you.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/6074060940215307012'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/6074060940215307012'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-would-you-hire-you.html' title='Why would you hire You?'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-4999772514902830785</id><published>2010-06-10T22:34:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-10T22:34:42.218-07:00</updated><title type='text'>9243...</title><content type='html'>Is how many M&amp;amp;M&#39;s I had in a jar in my office (don&#39;t ask how I know that ;).&amp;nbsp; As a problem-solving exercise for PM&#39;s and Software Engineers, I&#39;d ask job seekers (in this case RainMan) the obvious question, to which he replied, &quot;9243&quot;... yep, just like that.&amp;nbsp; No preamble, no qualifying questions regarding volume measures, whether I&#39;d hidden a golf ball inside, nothing at all.&amp;nbsp; I was amazed and impressed at the fact that he knew the answer (frankly still am even though I was disappointed he didn&#39;t suggest it  was &quot;three minutes to Wapner.&quot;) ...right up until I asked him&lt;i&gt; how &lt;/i&gt;he got it.&lt;br /&gt;
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&quot;I don&#39;t know&quot;, is what he said.&lt;br /&gt;
&quot;What do you mean you &#39;don&#39;t know&#39;?&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&quot;It&#39;s &#39;right&#39; though, isn&#39;t it?&quot; he countered&lt;br /&gt;
&quot;Yes, the answer is 9243, but how did you know?&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&quot;Doesn&#39;t matter, just as long as I&#39;m correct&quot; was how he left it.&lt;br /&gt;
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Do you want to work with someone like this or are you someone like this?&lt;br /&gt;
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Working with someone like this is akin to getting in a car with a driver willing to take you to NYC, knows that it is your destination but doesn&#39;t have a map, doesn&#39;t ask any questions and can&#39;t give you any specifics on&amp;nbsp; how they&#39;re getting you there from where you are.&lt;br /&gt;
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Do yourself and everyone you interview with a favor by&lt;i&gt; &lt;/i&gt;asking good qualifying questions and then&lt;i&gt; talking through&lt;/i&gt; your solutions.&amp;nbsp; It speaks to effective communication, will give them an idea of how you process information and how you&#39;ll work in a collaborative environment ...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/4999772514902830785/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/9243.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/4999772514902830785'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/4999772514902830785'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/9243.html' title='9243...'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-9164177630779361182</id><published>2010-06-10T21:28:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-10T21:28:03.485-07:00</updated><title type='text'>&quot;right answer, right solution...same thing...&quot;</title><content type='html'>Actually heard this from a candidate I was prepping for a Microsoft interview.&amp;nbsp; I nicknamed him 9243 or Rain Man but I&#39;ll get back to that later.&amp;nbsp; I asked if he actually believed that a &#39;right&#39; answer and a &#39;right&#39; solution were the same and he answered...&quot;yes&quot;.&amp;nbsp; At that point I asked him how many ways he could drive to work from his house and he offered &quot;four&quot; as his answer.&amp;nbsp; Then I asked him which way was right and he looked at me like I had twelve heads.&lt;br /&gt;
&quot;They&#39;re all right&quot; he said.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
&quot;How can that be?&quot; I asked.&amp;nbsp; &quot;How can you have more than one right answer?&quot;&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
He looked at me and started his sentence with, &quot;because it depends...&quot; at which point I stopped him.&lt;br /&gt;
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The &#39;depends&#39; is what separates the correct answer from the correct solution.&amp;nbsp; The solution can be comprised of multiple &#39;right&#39; answers to counter the &#39;depends&#39; part, and what kind of value-add might you be to an organization if your solution has answers&lt;i&gt; more &lt;/i&gt;correct than what a hiring manager is expecting?&lt;br /&gt;
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If you only have &lt;i&gt;a &lt;/i&gt;correct answer and a &#39;depends&#39; happens (budgets get slashed, functional spec&#39;s get re-written, teams get whacked...) your &#39;right&#39; answer isn&#39;t &#39;right&#39; any longer, but I&#39;m guessing you get my point.&lt;br /&gt;
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I&#39;ll share the 9243 reference in a later post...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/9164177630779361182/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/right-answer-right-solutionsame-thing.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/9164177630779361182'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/9164177630779361182'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/right-answer-right-solutionsame-thing.html' title='&quot;right answer, right solution...same thing...&quot;'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-7103406593152032671</id><published>2010-06-10T00:15:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-10T00:54:17.816-07:00</updated><title type='text'>&quot;If you just get me the interview I&#39;ll get the job!&quot;</title><content type='html'>As a recruiter I actually stopped counting the number of times I&#39;ve heard this from job seekers and while I applaud their confidence, it&#39;s usually not a true statement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How can someone possibly know this for certain if they don&#39;t know the people interviewing them, the specific competencies being measured, the caliber of the other candidates competing for the same position or what kinds of questions they will be asked?  You can&#39;t.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don&#39;t suggest being pessimistic, I actually encourage going in with confidence since you probably wouldn&#39;t be getting an in-person interview if someone at some level didn&#39;t think you capable of doing the job.  In a dozen years of coaching job seekers I&#39;ve found a little nugget of truth I&#39;ll share and that most job candidates have never heard before...hiring managers want to &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;hire, &lt;/span&gt;most just don&#39;t like interviewing.  Go in focused on demonstrating your ability to do the job during the course of the interview and you&#39;ll likely be the one coming out of it with the offer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don&#39;t think of it as an interview, interrogation or inquisition although it may feel like all three. Instead, pretend it&#39;s your first day on the job as a consultant meeting with a hiring team on how to help them solve their problem.  Clearly they have problems or they wouldn&#39;t need to hire you, so be sure to ask good qualifying questions before offering up answers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#39;ll end this post with a question.  What answers would you give during an interview if the hiring team was paying you for them?  vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/7103406593152032671/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/if-you-just-get-me-interview-ill-get.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/7103406593152032671'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/7103406593152032671'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/if-you-just-get-me-interview-ill-get.html' title='&quot;If you just get me the interview I&#39;ll get the job!&quot;'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-8588992253578662586</id><published>2010-06-09T23:11:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2013-05-07T12:12:30.523-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Everyone you&#39;ve ever met has interviewed you...</title><content type='html'>Now so are people whom you&#39;ve never met! &lt;br /&gt;
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That&#39;s the new way of life thanks largely to social networking and the whole 2.0 wave.  What isn&#39;t new is that you still never get a second chance to make a good first impression.  So before you hit &#39;send&#39; on that resume submission for that &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;perfect&lt;/span&gt; job, first ask yourself if there is anything on your Facebook, Google+, LinkedIn, Twitter, etc. pages that could be misinterpreted or misconstrued and potentially cost you an interview or job offer. &lt;br /&gt;
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The power of these social networking sites can definitely work for you but, as with most things, can have an equal and opposite effect. Your friends and family are looking at your profile but so are prospective employers.  The humor points you lose with your buddies by having that &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;un&lt;/span&gt;-expressed thought or not posting the compromising photo of you and your friends may help advance your career. &lt;br /&gt;
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We&#39;re considerably past 1984 but I assure you people are definitely watching how you go about claiming your 15 minutes...vinny</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/8588992253578662586/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/everyone-youve-ever-met-has-interviewed.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/8588992253578662586'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/8588992253578662586'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/06/everyone-youve-ever-met-has-interviewed.html' title='Everyone you&#39;ve ever met has interviewed you...'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-9091308257596548929</id><published>2010-04-26T20:03:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-26T20:16:33.164-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Are you as relevant as you should be?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:trebuchet ms;&quot;&gt;I read a recent post that talked about how  ageism was being widely practiced and that the percentage of over 40&#39;s  was the target.  The participants went on to discuss how at recurring networking  events the age of attendees visibly under age 40 was minuscule, and  this seemed to support their position. While I&#39;m sure age discrimination  is occurring in many places across the country, I also propose that the  relevance people feel they have might actually be on the wane.  &quot;We  have all these valuable skills&quot; I hear people say; but are these skills  really prized by the new leaders of companies today?    Are you giving your employer the skills they want/need or are you giving them what  you think they need?  Much like professional sports, no matter how many  championship titles you&#39;ve helped your team win, regardless of how many  Superbowl rings you have in your possession, as soon as someone that can  deliver more for less, and for longer, is available, they&#39;ll likely  take your starting spot.  I submit that as a work-force we&#39;re becoming  victims more of consumerism than ageism.  To support this theory with a  fairly commonplace example, it can be more cost effective in many cases  to replace an average-performing piece of equipment with something that  is newer, faster, and with more bells and whistles (not to mention more  memory) than to spend the money upgrading what you have for potentially  zero ROI.   Not coincidentally we&#39;re either becoming (or have become)  the &quot;older&quot; people we used to talk about replacing, and the only way to  avoid being categorized as obsolete and expendable is to be as current  and relevant (redundancy intended) as the people who want your job.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I  don&#39;t mean to drone on about relevance, but how relevant are you?  Take  for example the 20-something CEO of Facebook; 15 years ago he  would have been a gross anomaly, but the leaders that were his age in  the dot-com days are now in their mid to late 30&#39;s and for them  networking doesn&#39;t necessarily mean spending an hour or more (plus  travel time) to be somewhere in-person for the sake of networking.  IM  chat, Email, text messaging, social networking sites, Second life, smart  phones, iPads...these are the venues for the new networking meetings  taking place and, with the technically saavy, they can all be occurring  simultaneously! I&#39;ll occasionally hear derisive comments regarding this  multi-tasking, labeling it instead as A.D.D., an obvious lack of focus,  or something similar, but these are the skills that current leadership  seems more likely to purchase and promote, so my encouragement is STOP  labeling and START LISTENING to what your employer/client is telling you  is important to them, even if they&#39;re not telling you directly!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#39;m  not suggesting you give up on what you do well or that you try to be  other than who you are but, on a regular basis, you should at the very  least be asking yourself if you&#39;re connected to what you employer wants  or if instead you&#39;re offering what you want them to have or feel they  need.  If it&#39;s the latter...you run the risk of failing the relevance  test.  To personalize this further, if you purchased something expensive  and it had all the features you needed at the time, but then the time  came you no longer needed all these options (wanting other or different  options) and could find them in a newer model for less than the cost of  an upgrade, what would you choose to do? ...vinny&lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/9091308257596548929/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/04/are-you-as-relevant-as-you-should-be.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/9091308257596548929'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/9091308257596548929'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/04/are-you-as-relevant-as-you-should-be.html' title='Are you as relevant as you should be?'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567439491240715874.post-2169517243185304286</id><published>2010-04-26T18:58:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-14T23:54:37.289-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Light at the End of the Tunnel...it&#39;s HERE!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: trebuchet ms;&quot;&gt;I wrote this in March of 2009 but wanted to re-post for those of you who may have missed it:&lt;br /&gt;
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So if you&#39;re one of the recently unemployed,  are you out there pounding the pavement, scouring the job boards, maybe  spending way too much time on Facebook and at pity-party lunches while  simultaneously trying to figure out where your next mortgage  payment will come from?  Give yourself permission to&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;...STOP!&lt;/span&gt;   Having been both a Corporate and Agency recruiter for a dozen years and  having prepped, coached and counseled hundreds of job seekers through the dot-carnage, I believe good will  ultimately come from this mess too.  Companies doing business will  continue to hire new employees, just maybe not at the rate to which we  grew accustomed, and the World probably isn&#39;t coming to an end any day  soon...if it is, unemployment should be the least of your worries.   Leverage your network of personal and professional contacts, put pride  aside and let everyone you know that you&#39;re actively looking for your  next engagement.  Try not to look or sound desperate, regardless of how  you may actually be feeling because, well, because you know how that  will be received.  Chances are good that you were &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;good&lt;/span&gt; at what you were doing, else you  wouldn&#39;t have been hired in the first place, so keep your optimism  alive and open your eyes &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;wide&lt;/span&gt;  to what may be around you.  (oh, but if you weren&#39;t good at your last  job, start thinking about why that was and then take steps to either  make changes or choose a different path!)  Ask people close to you what  they see as being your strengths and I repeat, keep your optimism alive!   The hardest question for most people to answer (in any economy) is,  &quot;what do I want to do?&quot;  You might start by listing things you have a  passion for doing and &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;then&lt;/span&gt;  listing the the things you&#39;re good at doing (e.g. listening, writing,  building, coaching, training, working with children, writing software  applications, etc.).  Can you connect the dots?  When you&#39;re passionate  about what you do, you simply do it better, regardless of how difficult  or easy it may be.  People will frequently confuse what they&#39;ve done for  years with what they&#39;re &quot;good at doing&quot;, and that may not actually be  the case.  Find your passion and pull out all the stops to see where  that may take you.  Clearly there&#39;s never been a better time than now to  do this exercise and understand that you have all of the power  necessary to change your own life.  There is no &quot;silver bullet&quot; solution  to the problems we face and neither magic nor the government is likely  to deliver us from where we are, but know that &lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;YOU&lt;/span&gt; can be the &quot;silver bullet&quot; as well as the magician  capable of delivering yourself from where you are to  the &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;where&lt;/span&gt; you want to  be...vinny&lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/feeds/2169517243185304286/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/04/light-at-end-of-tunnelits-there.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/2169517243185304286'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4567439491240715874/posts/default/2169517243185304286'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://vinnymorris.blogspot.com/2010/04/light-at-end-of-tunnelits-there.html' title='Light at the End of the Tunnel...it&#39;s HERE!'/><author><name>vinny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08075809703047453344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6xAOj8QpEf_r0clfRRAHc9MAGqx1S-X7O51ZOf9tg5cO4aG84ZZ_jh3c7KMOp5DDtngzdyLK1nQ2jiGDMRbIDmUDpV_58DNLqeG0oHfJcySf56I6DMyWJ_QvZWWv3294/s220/headshot.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>