<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="no"?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><rss xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" version="2.0"><channel><title>Mother and Child</title><description>A mom of 3's blog about raising children. With kids ages 4-13, this site has my stories as well as helpful tips and hints I come across. Hopefully you will find this blog helpful! :)</description><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</managingEditor><pubDate>Mon, 7 Oct 2024 02:10:31 -0400</pubDate><generator>Blogger http://www.blogger.com</generator><openSearch:totalResults xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/">19</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/">1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/">25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/</link><language>en-us</language><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:keywords>ADHD,Child,ADHD,Raising,a,child,with,ADHD,Families,and,ADHD,About,ADHD,Knowing,ADHD,ADHD,and,kids,Symptoms,of,ADHD,Types,of,ADHD</itunes:keywords><itunes:summary>This site is about Child ADHD and the information I find through researching ADHD along with my stories and share with others .</itunes:summary><itunes:subtitle>This site is about Child ADHD and the information I find through researching ADHD along with my stories and share with others .</itunes:subtitle><itunes:owner><itunes:email>noreply@blogger.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><item><title>School Started..Empty Your Pockets!</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/09/school-startedempty-your-pockets.html</link><category>back to school</category><category>school cost</category><category>school events</category><category>school is expensive</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2012 13:41:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-4741267644057401518</guid><description>&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;It's the beginning of the school year and if you have more than one child it can become very expensive!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2SIXlCLXPLn0HHWO1FmflmMz7FUkdlkUirJfITzOLwOCpMkUuRf6eCgmjNJDqO34zsIdcPUqQeNrSKfaxuoQmo8DJKuKkr0cn0EU8nixRfdK6yUfIDpHErM9_j16PAKjLxOrQZzG06sg/s1600/school+cost.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2SIXlCLXPLn0HHWO1FmflmMz7FUkdlkUirJfITzOLwOCpMkUuRf6eCgmjNJDqO34zsIdcPUqQeNrSKfaxuoQmo8DJKuKkr0cn0EU8nixRfdK6yUfIDpHErM9_j16PAKjLxOrQZzG06sg/s1600/school+cost.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;We are still in our first month of school, we have regular school and our youngest is in Pre-K, and already have so much going on in both!! The best part is that it ALL costs money!!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;We started with picture day and yes, my daughter in Pre-K had picture day. They should be coming in soon. So, there goes $100 for pictures! You have to make sure you get enough for all the family you know ;).&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Next, we got the fundraisers! Kaylee, in Pre-K, even has a fundraiser!! She is selling coupon books for $25 each, and Dillon is selling magazine subscriptions for the middle school which average $20-$25. So, of course we have to buy from each, then starts the phone calls and visits to the family, friends and neighbors.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWdgvPi9C0yUVHc7p84zf8TbGN91Lo86gAu1wpaOdGXJ3IBOIaqEvJGZQdOaj6c24zn2xD0LM8T3HuRRjGHuk8ddBpUg2F6K8V4H_ivoMwA6gtFX6PEsE15FoQAHPivMq_nFOyav8RYZY/s1600/school+shopping.jpg" pic="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWdgvPi9C0yUVHc7p84zf8TbGN91Lo86gAu1wpaOdGXJ3IBOIaqEvJGZQdOaj6c24zn2xD0LM8T3HuRRjGHuk8ddBpUg2F6K8V4H_ivoMwA6gtFX6PEsE15FoQAHPivMq_nFOyav8RYZY/s1600/school+shopping.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Now, today we have Bike Day at my daughters Preschool where she took in her bike and helmet to ride with her school. She was so excited and well she already has a bike, so this is a free one! Also today though, the middle school is having a carnival and so Dill woke up with his hands out...LOL. I do have to say though, I drove past and was actually jealous!! That fair looked so fun I wanted to go!! We never had those when I was little!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Anyways, all these events had me thinking about how much the start of school really costs! I mean, this is &lt;i&gt;after&lt;/i&gt; the school clothes shopping, new shoes, book bags, binders and school supply shopping! No wonder we parents like the summer so much too!!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Have a great school year!! The time seems to go by faster and faster so cherish every minute of it!! &lt;/span&gt;</description><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2SIXlCLXPLn0HHWO1FmflmMz7FUkdlkUirJfITzOLwOCpMkUuRf6eCgmjNJDqO34zsIdcPUqQeNrSKfaxuoQmo8DJKuKkr0cn0EU8nixRfdK6yUfIDpHErM9_j16PAKjLxOrQZzG06sg/s72-c/school+cost.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Welcoming My Little Niece~Aliyah!!</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/08/welcoming-my-little-niecealiyah.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Tue, 28 Aug 2012 16:43:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-8880382782136059536</guid><description>&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;This morning I got the kids off to school and right after I got back from taking Kaylee to Pre-K I received a phone call from my mom telling me that I was going to be an aunt again today. My brother's girlfriend went into labor this morning and was now at 8cm dilated.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"&gt;Welcome to the family Aliyah&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;So, my mom, little brother and I headed up to the hospital to welcome her (they were having a girl). When we got there we started talking about labor and having my kids...she wasn't handling the labor pains very well so we were talking about how I handled it or how my mom did. Anyways, I started remembering how amazing pregnancy was for me. I mean there was some miserable moments, of course lol, but just having a life you helped create growing inside of you....it's just amazing!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;And then I thought about the labors I went through, and though I handled them well they were no picnic either, but that feeling that I hot right when they placed each baby on my belly. I remember crying happy tears with each baby and the joy, happiness and amazement that came over me. It was like a rush of emotions but a wonderful feeling. I may not be explaining it well, however it made me miss when my babies were babies. They grow up so fast!!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"&gt;Aliyah born 8-28-12 7lb 1oz 19" long&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Anyways, after all the waiting and reminiscing my brother, Bill, came out and tol us we just had a 7lb 1oz and 19in long baby girl named Aliyah. I was so excited to go and see her and they told us we had to wait an hour before we could go in!! I was sooo mad!! But, when I finally got to see her I was so happy. She on the other hand wasn't quite so happy, she was trying to eat her little fingers. I think she was hungry so after her bath they decided to top her off with a little bottle.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;She was so tiny with a head full of hair!! It was so cute. And so I have to say that I am pleased to welcome my adorable new baby niece Aliyah to our family! Aliyah got her first bath while I was there and boy did she hate that! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;I missed holding a little baby. I mean Dill's taller than me, Kiera is coming real close to my size and Kaylee is going on 5! Babies are just so cute and tiny and I love teaching them everything! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;These feelings are making me think maybe we should try for a fourth, maybe another boy to make it even lol. But, we'll see......&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdZ830LriMQu9Qv1FPZSOw1EiuI0D_dPn38oxWF2xof3D5iOQ-VYeWbf0rGv6jlTstHCZQP5KTwOG4m-eZUF7sHd304-Z1_8JbZiOtAz6F0MC_yTDlkxOVJV2bvnfLud_dRbmtgXy63xY/s72-c/IMAG0101.JPG" width="72"/><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total></item><item><title>Budget Friendly Best Wet Dog Foods for your pet</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/08/budget-friendly-best-wet-dog-foods-for.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Mon, 20 Aug 2012 23:02:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-8652189788818599502</guid><description>&lt;br /&gt;
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When searching for the best wet dog food on a budget several factors come into play: price, availability, and of course, &lt;u&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.cesar.com/live-the-life/care-and-wellness/the-healthy-scoop-on-wet-food.aspx"&gt;delicious meal selections&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/u&gt;!
  While your first instinct is to run to the local grocery store to pick
 up dinner for the dogs, there are some more affordable alternatives 
that can feed your pups on a budget.&lt;br /&gt;
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Wholesale
 clubs are one stop shops for all things family, but can also be a great
 place to find budget friendly wet dog food. Most wholesale clubs carry 
several brands of dog food in variety packs, offering your dog the 
chance to experience several different meat types and flavors at one 
budget friendly price.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=7709901746436595139" name="_GoBack"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;If
 wholesale clubs aren’t your thing, chain pet stores usually carry 
several types of wet dog food at a more budget friendly price then what 
you will find at your local grocer. Most pet stores also offer rewards 
cards, allowing you to accumulate points, and receive coupons and 
discounts on your most purchased items. Many smaller ‘mom and pop’ type 
pet stores also offer the same benefits, but may have a more limited 
food selection.  &lt;/div&gt;
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As with most things 
these days, you can also order wet dog food from the comfort of your own
 home! Many stores have their own shopping sites, some with free 
shipping! If your preferred store doesn’t have a site, search for the 
brand and you will find several other sites you can order from.  
Shopping online save on time, gas, and most importantly - money! With 
some quick searching, you can easily find dozens of coupon codes and 
manufacturers coupons that can be entered in at checkout for your 
favorite wet dog food brands.&lt;/div&gt;
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No 
matter which method you choose, feeding Fido doesn’t have to break the 
bank when there are so many delicious and affordable options!  &lt;/div&gt;
</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>School's Already Starting!!</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/08/schools-already-starting.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Mon, 20 Aug 2012 23:00:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-27039037936185692</guid><description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;
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&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"&gt;Kiera and Wolfie&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Today is my oldest daughter's first day of school! My Princess Kiera has just started 5th grade and I know she will do great!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Kiera is our little smarty pants, she is always on the honor roll and never wants to miss a day just to get the attendance award! LOL She has always been very dedicated to her school work as well as everything else she does. Kiera always wants to succeed at what she does and we are so proud of all the hard work she does to make sure she has done her best.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;I don't think any mother could ask for a better daughter. She's kind, thoughtful, an excellent sister and helper too. I am so proud to have such a wonderful daughter :) This post is to wish my babygirl a fantastic start to a new school year!! We all love you Kiera!! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;</description><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinn0z8er8_BPNt3MIiGVSWtcOXYomTufbypcektth3nAT2r7igagvXPiDlyBzGu089MJGajuW4lQJPU309_ZoJO2gJvaCQNP-wrSK1K7Nn4tl7iA0dHw3ZvdfllmUYbh4qnTPR4cENVSo/s72-c/kiera+and+wolfie.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Swimming Lessons</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/08/swimming-lessons.html</link><category>our little swimmer</category><category>Swimming lessons</category><category>Toddler swimming</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Mon, 20 Aug 2012 16:45:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-4456743796880874153</guid><description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;
&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgyaDOWBez6EU_sJML6OG8WfZPOS_qQITZVehfYv531MKJkwpuI8FWuoNYt1Ru9etfRx4qrc6sDiiRgErqlwGDuQq1aERiH0gFb-UE5P4G4f1LrmF9ewhkpd3gft-9EMqFUbNjA8JUhOY/s1600/Kalee+and+Amber.jpg" pic="1" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="228" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgyaDOWBez6EU_sJML6OG8WfZPOS_qQITZVehfYv531MKJkwpuI8FWuoNYt1Ru9etfRx4qrc6sDiiRgErqlwGDuQq1aERiH0gFb-UE5P4G4f1LrmF9ewhkpd3gft-9EMqFUbNjA8JUhOY/s320/Kalee+and+Amber.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;
&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"&gt;Kaylee &lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;My littlest daughter, Kaylee has had two sets of swimming lessons now. Which we thank my husband Nathans' grandfather for finding and signing her up for them :)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;She went through the YMCA in our area both times and she has done a wonderful job!! We are so very proud of her for going from being scared to go in without her floaties to not ever wanting to wear them! I couldn't believe the confidence that the lessons gave her, it was truly a fun and exciting experience for Nathan and I as much as it was for Kay, and she was the one taking the lessons. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Her first set of lessons was indoors at our YMCA and were in the spring time. They taught her things I didn't even think of like what to do when you hear thunder or see lightening and what to do if they would see someone in the water in trouble. They made the kids aware of their strengths as well as their weaknesses too which I thought was great. What i mean is they taught them that they are strong enough to help someone in need in the water but not quite strong enough to help them themselves, and that what they needed to do to help is to get an adult, things like that. To be honest, when I thought about the lessons it didn't even cross my mind they were going to teach them these things.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Her second classes were more recently this summer and were held at our local outdoor community pool before hours. These lessons were more of a hands on swimming experience and she did wonderful!! I definitely recommend to get your toddler swimming lessons if you are able to. It was great for her and she is like a little fish, she loves the water!!!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Anyways, again we are so proud of her!! way to go Kaykay!!! :)&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;</description><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgyaDOWBez6EU_sJML6OG8WfZPOS_qQITZVehfYv531MKJkwpuI8FWuoNYt1Ru9etfRx4qrc6sDiiRgErqlwGDuQq1aERiH0gFb-UE5P4G4f1LrmF9ewhkpd3gft-9EMqFUbNjA8JUhOY/s72-c/Kalee+and+Amber.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Kids Are SO Different Now a Days!!</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/08/kids-are-so-different-now-days.html</link><category>children and technology</category><category>kids and video games</category><category>kids these days</category><category>kids today</category><category>Lazy kids</category><category>technology and kids</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Mon, 20 Aug 2012 16:28:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-8436843492443471075</guid><description>&lt;a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkEsdlhU8LZpQKD2yC_elfvebgF1drL8yiwoRpz2xHFO4-Po4vylv7nE1Hogo0IiFbZlopfCzZEXhBxtnXGDcziLlcW9-Jpa9Dyxp6CzWrGh63gkPJZt_mubt38ZYNyScehhMvDkWSuvw/s1600/adhdtalents.jpg" pic="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="149" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkEsdlhU8LZpQKD2yC_elfvebgF1drL8yiwoRpz2xHFO4-Po4vylv7nE1Hogo0IiFbZlopfCzZEXhBxtnXGDcziLlcW9-Jpa9Dyxp6CzWrGh63gkPJZt_mubt38ZYNyScehhMvDkWSuvw/s200/adhdtalents.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;It's almost like lately I started to realize that kids are getting so expensive now, more than I can remember we'll being. I think it's because technology wasn't like it is now back then. It's like they don't want to go out and get exercise and just play anymore. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;I mean I was really thinking about this, I'll start with cell phones, I didn't have a cell phone until I turned 18 and got my own whereas these days it's not normal for kids as young as 10 to not have a cell phone and to boot, they can't &lt;i&gt;just&lt;/i&gt; have &lt;i&gt;any&lt;/i&gt; cell phone now, it has to be a touch screen smart phone!!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2KX9E_ZeWtzNoXri75LOX5moKFSIglKbQ0lRL7HuEukDzFQ9YMdKoSoamOG8a8jIJLhrqJYABgCRA0LnlC3J66JDjGcOmVRRBpTxcFwLpX5sKEz-efGTUq04cMIMIdPSOu5ni-m_RBlk/s1600/games.jpg" pic="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="131" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2KX9E_ZeWtzNoXri75LOX5moKFSIglKbQ0lRL7HuEukDzFQ9YMdKoSoamOG8a8jIJLhrqJYABgCRA0LnlC3J66JDjGcOmVRRBpTxcFwLpX5sKEz-efGTUq04cMIMIdPSOu5ni-m_RBlk/s200/games.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Next, I am moving onto video games, back when I was a kids we started with an atari, then we ended up with Nintendo's and Super Nintendo's or Sega's and we only had one system! If we were lucky we had a handheld Gameboy too lol. Now my kids have a wii, PS3, DSi, and PSP!!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQNT5M-g2eOsbooWTcW5sCrmpFkiN5TiiNDxakuDn4_4vT7BYfJZB0Muy4HyVqPbJkHaWCXi03nUuTOc_jYDrxt87D4VrqteLCexCEs1mmVwFI-ihs7WqtAo_-fDjU4rZaaO1iVEF0o08/s1600/technology.jpg" pic="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQNT5M-g2eOsbooWTcW5sCrmpFkiN5TiiNDxakuDn4_4vT7BYfJZB0Muy4HyVqPbJkHaWCXi03nUuTOc_jYDrxt87D4VrqteLCexCEs1mmVwFI-ihs7WqtAo_-fDjU4rZaaO1iVEF0o08/s1600/technology.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Then computers..we didn't have a computer at all growing up. In fact I didn't get my own desktop until I was 19 or 20 whereas now kids have laptop's ipads or tablets, ipods and all other types of computer devices that work and run better than my first desktop did and you can hold them in the palm of your hand!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Now, my reason for this post is because my husband Nathan and I were talking about when we were kids how we were ALWAYS outside playing ball, games, in the creek or woods. We never wanted to be inside if we didn't have to unless it was winter and&amp;nbsp; still we wanted to play in the snow!! My kids pretty much have to be forced to go outside and play!! I know it just seems unnatural right!?.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMU7iLxCv4NZqpKNKBNLJGmgdtMctUWEADH16-NEJVW5ujqvT5tSKOthUetPKlB6rBkjAf1PkVYZ7gOjXIFRejvO-d30xfrw6R9d_1yAe7_2VAugL9fv8OKuo7ZXUHhrj4kfP6ii7PfWk/s1600/adhdtalents8.jpg" pic="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="134" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMU7iLxCv4NZqpKNKBNLJGmgdtMctUWEADH16-NEJVW5ujqvT5tSKOthUetPKlB6rBkjAf1PkVYZ7gOjXIFRejvO-d30xfrw6R9d_1yAe7_2VAugL9fv8OKuo7ZXUHhrj4kfP6ii7PfWk/s200/adhdtalents8.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;So, I guess right now my question would be...Is this technology helping today's children or hurting them? I understand that the world now IS technology and that it is important for the children to know, understand and be able to use this technology for their future. It just seems to me that my kids, and I have talked to other mom's who have the same issue, are just unmotivated and lazy compared to what we were as children. All they want to do is go on Facebook, text their friends, talk on the phone and play some sort of video game.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;It's funny too because I swear they text, Facebook and talk on the phone with their friends more than they actually see them!! My husband started every once in a while this summer saying to our kids, "You have 1/2 hour to do whatever you want inside with your gadgets and then you HAVE to go outside and play! Find something fun to do like kickball". We even just built a new shed and it's two stories so that the kids have the entire top story for their own little clubhouse to hangout and play in, all summer they've been in it four times, two of which we were in there with them!! LOL&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;On the other hand, I do have to say that I myself enjoy the new technology too. I play the PS3 and I also am able to run my wonderful blogs from my&amp;nbsp; laptop too so it's not that I don;t like or believe in the new technology. It's just that I wonder if we spoil our children too much with it at too early of an age.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;I am sure there are many of you who have an opinion on this sun=subject and I just want&amp;nbsp; you all to feel free to comment and give us your experience or opinion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;</description><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkEsdlhU8LZpQKD2yC_elfvebgF1drL8yiwoRpz2xHFO4-Po4vylv7nE1Hogo0IiFbZlopfCzZEXhBxtnXGDcziLlcW9-Jpa9Dyxp6CzWrGh63gkPJZt_mubt38ZYNyScehhMvDkWSuvw/s72-c/adhdtalents.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">2</thr:total></item><item><title>IVF Success Rates</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/08/ivf-success-rates.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Thu, 9 Aug 2012 23:03:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-3568865674109165153</guid><description>&lt;br /&gt;
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When considering In Vitro Fertilization, IVF, the most important factor they consider are the IVF donor success rates.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/div&gt;
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According to the Society for Assisted Reproductive Technology, or &lt;a href="http://www.sart.org/SART_Success_Rates/"&gt;SART&lt;/a&gt;,
 IVF “Of all infertility treatments available IVF offers the highest 
chance of success per cycle.” This is great news for women considering 
infertility options!  &lt;/div&gt;
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IVF donor 
success rates vary but can range between 30-67% depending on a variety 
of factors. Some factors include reason for infertility, the lab you use
 for treatment, the type of egg you choose (donor or own) and age.&lt;br /&gt;
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Age
 of the egg recipient seems to have a strong influence on the IVF donor 
success rates. The younger you are, the better odds you have for a 
successful IVF live birth – but women can receive treatment until age 
50. (&lt;a href="http://www.myeggbank.com/"&gt;View detailed success rates&lt;/a&gt;)
 Using donor eggs, as opposed to your own frozen eggs, provide for a 
higher success rate – closer to the 67%. Whether frozen or fresh eggs 
are used, donor eggs seem to have higher success rates.  &lt;/div&gt;
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The
 number of eggs transferred during IVF can also impact success rates. 
There is a fine line here though, as the more eggs you transfer does not
 increase the odds automatically for IVF success. In fact, after the 
recipient reached 35 years old the increased eggs does not increase the 
odds of success, but does increase the odds of giving birth to multiple 
children!&lt;/div&gt;
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Where you have your IVF 
done, can also be a factor in your IVF success.  Some clinics are more 
experienced and have better success rates than others, be sure to 
research the clinic you choose before committing to one.  &lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=7709901746436595139" name="_GoBack" style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;IVF
 has been around since 1978 and has made great strides in technology 
since then! Success rates are higher than ever, but there are still some
 factors to consider before choosing IVF as your infertility treatment. 
After you and your doctor have discussed some of the above listed 
success factors, you can then discuss your treatment plan and your 
individual success rate.&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total></item><item><title>Keeping a Family Split Civil</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/06/keeping-family-split-civil.html</link><category>child custody</category><category>Divorce</category><category>Divorce with Kids</category><category>Families split up</category><category>Family break up</category><category>Kids and Divorce</category><category>Split Family</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Wed, 20 Jun 2012 11:43:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-5696284315264358678</guid><description>&lt;a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6Gg5oXugKvYmS6uJrUIjOTmiOAUs1TWwLuVdOBHrOKYzawXgG365WJjhALLr32d91iDsKevCO5yngobaTB2OQaTpzcvjwlbYoKcoHUkqWFOEwM1UXfZguelrTmuHlaDkKLgcEp7Q8hf0/s1600/051.JPG" pic="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6Gg5oXugKvYmS6uJrUIjOTmiOAUs1TWwLuVdOBHrOKYzawXgG365WJjhALLr32d91iDsKevCO5yngobaTB2OQaTpzcvjwlbYoKcoHUkqWFOEwM1UXfZguelrTmuHlaDkKLgcEp7Q8hf0/s320/051.JPG" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;As a mother of three I am really close to my kids. They are my life and I am sure if you are a reader of this blog you have children too. Well, what you may not know is that my two oldest children are to my ex.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;Ending a relationship when there are kids involved is one of the hardest things I ever had to do. But, when I weighed the pros and cons, it was in their best interest. You see the kids saw us fighting constantly and that's not a good for them to see. I didn't want them growing up seeing that and thinking that it's a normal relationship. I mean of course we all know that all couples fight sometimes and that's OK, normal and even healthy. But, there is a point where the fights are too often, inappropriate and aggressive and it's not healthy for the couple, let alone the children.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;So, when you get the point where enough is enough where do we go from there? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a name='more'&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;There are those out there that can make it work great without arguments, fights and court battles, honestly though they are not as common as they once were. In my experience I have noticed that it seems to work best if both parents remain single, which isn't quite fair to them. If there becomes a step parent though, it seems to escalate the situation and make the fights more often and makes more issues.Though, I too am married to my husband who is a "step parent", my point is that 2 parents is tough enough. If you do remarry you need to remember who the parents are and make sure that&amp;nbsp; it stays that way and you too are conversing and making the decisions together. There are times when a step parent will come in and not like that your ex is still involved with your life and will try to change that. But, that's for another time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGiO8tWXgyJZJV1rQzRGEOteyTvYGv05BTi1k_C-khMfUz9NcWc9wVPVv9HrHnL7AM725ObR54zNYMXyGMaUI2ILzAjxtuhX12eY8-qF52k1VjniSk5bRcZMOLxED_j4-3EWHAFjE20nc/s1600/130.JPG" pic="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGiO8tWXgyJZJV1rQzRGEOteyTvYGv05BTi1k_C-khMfUz9NcWc9wVPVv9HrHnL7AM725ObR54zNYMXyGMaUI2ILzAjxtuhX12eY8-qF52k1VjniSk5bRcZMOLxED_j4-3EWHAFjE20nc/s320/130.JPG" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;I am writing this to tell you though because I have been through a lot of unnecessary nonsense with my break up and my children went through a lot of stress and heartache that they didn't deserve. So, if you are going through a break up please try to keep it as civil as absolutely possible. You always need to remember that the only reason your in contact anymore is because of/for the kids and make sure that you keep it that way. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;The children are the most important thing. You may have different opinions and can disagree about things but, though it's very hard sometimes, try to remember that you are both their parents and you worked together raising the kids before the break up and can work together now too.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;Make sure they know nothing that has happened between the two of you is their fault and remind them often that you both love them very much. Kids often will blame themselves and so you want them to not feel that way and to be happy. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;Here's some tips to help make things as easy as possible:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;i&gt;Try to set up and keep a schedule&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/u&gt;- I know this can be hard and that things come up, but try to set up a schedule for the kids between the two of you that is fair and works for you. This is easiest if you both live in the same school district and can be very difficult when you live in different areas. You can even have it notarized and even submit it as a court order if this makes you feel more secure.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
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&lt;a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKg-1LWyLiJIWwC0GCQWcpnxdo70Ar_wSlsWfNM7YSp4AkyfO8jER14-GxUHYIDKi7-zuYX6WxAOjch51Wv5BITpjUiihEeMBZYk_phW79PX2aWNT8ni6lRtFzc2hpEhsCvy-zl79O6u4/s1600/008.JPG" pic="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKg-1LWyLiJIWwC0GCQWcpnxdo70Ar_wSlsWfNM7YSp4AkyfO8jER14-GxUHYIDKi7-zuYX6WxAOjch51Wv5BITpjUiihEeMBZYk_phW79PX2aWNT8ni6lRtFzc2hpEhsCvy-zl79O6u4/s200/008.JPG" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;i&gt;Make a meeting spot&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/u&gt;- Find a place that is convenient for you both to meet and try to keep that as the normal meeting spot to exchange the kids. Try to make it a place that is between your homes so your are traveling about the same and this can prevent an argument about gas or time. I suggest meeting at a gas station on store nearby. One thing this helps is from you going to each others&amp;nbsp; homes and nit picking and keeps the meeting time short and sweet to prevent a possible fight from happening, also it is in public which puts you both on your best behavior ;).&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;i&gt;Summer vacation&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/u&gt;- Set up your summer vacation time with the kids, usually it is split up as half the summer with one parent and half with the other. But, if you live close to each other you can even keep your regular schedule going if that works for you. If you both want to take the kids on vacation during the summer, set it up ahead of time and agree on times so as soon as possible to make it part of your schedule for the summer. If you split the summer ask that you make your vacation within your scheduled time. If not, don't be stubborn, you have all summer so try to work with each other on your times and keep to them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;ul&gt;&lt;a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh26z93n5jWpL9ZuEVqZhuFFMiWZeRvBiT9dKD4wGSGB9F2zehfj0Zzx4q_xghj2DhL4ayvF-SCj-rPum3etdYnNV2QBcag4sNAYHN-9EKf0cCKZAptuYfOFAPYTJsYqHbC7H_Wk9LRsCo/s1600/114.JPG" pic="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh26z93n5jWpL9ZuEVqZhuFFMiWZeRvBiT9dKD4wGSGB9F2zehfj0Zzx4q_xghj2DhL4ayvF-SCj-rPum3etdYnNV2QBcag4sNAYHN-9EKf0cCKZAptuYfOFAPYTJsYqHbC7H_Wk9LRsCo/s200/114.JPG" width="150" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;i&gt;Keep it about the children&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/u&gt;- Make sure that when you are talking to your ex you keep the conversation about the child(ren) and not about the break up or who's fault it was. Stick to talking about what is going on with the kid(s), the schedule etc. this way it keeps the conversations civil.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;i&gt;Stay Civil&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/u&gt;- One of the most important things you can do in a split family is to keep it civil and not fight around the children. You don't want to have the kids see or hear you fight, even on the phone the kids can hear you from another room especially if your screaming at each other which does happen, believe me, I've been there. So, if you feel that you are getting upset or the the conversation is getting heated get off the phone or leave so you can calm down and talk about it later.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;For more help with parenting with an ex you can check out this cool book &lt;a href="http://www.complexfamily.com/clickbank/eBook-1?hop=superhouse" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"&gt;Parenting with the Ex factor&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;It's a book to help with parenting successfully with even the most difficult ex. You can download it now by clicking &lt;a href="http://www.complexfamily.com/clickbank/eBook-1?hop=superhouse" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;</description><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6Gg5oXugKvYmS6uJrUIjOTmiOAUs1TWwLuVdOBHrOKYzawXgG365WJjhALLr32d91iDsKevCO5yngobaTB2OQaTpzcvjwlbYoKcoHUkqWFOEwM1UXfZguelrTmuHlaDkKLgcEp7Q8hf0/s72-c/051.JPG" width="72"/><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>What Age should My Child See A Dentist?</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/06/what-age-should-my-child-see-dentist.html</link><category>baby's teeth</category><category>Child's First dentist visit</category><category>dentist visit</category><category>Healthy Teeth</category><category>kids oral hygiene</category><category>toddler oral hygiene</category><category>Toddler Teeth</category><category>toddlers and dentist</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Tue, 12 Jun 2012 13:23:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-6788200698655161995</guid><description>&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Helvetica Neue&amp;quot;,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;Many parents don't really know when your supposed to take your child to his/her first dentist appointment. There are a lot of parents who fail to take their child to the dentist for the first time until they are between 4-5 yrs old.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"&gt;My daughter, Kaylee (4yrs old)&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Helvetica Neue&amp;quot;,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;As parents I am sure we can all agree that one of the most important things we can teach our children is good health and in order to be healthy, you have to have good oral hygiene habits. This includes taking good care of your teeth. Making sure that your child brushes his/her teeth at least twice daily is a great way to teach good oral hygiene, but when should we take them to the dentist?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiPC8YHuQ08UZGW97Y7OFJL91LYRyQRv2_Ms5AVEwOPxoutwPETYZIiScHxSzbv7mMuCy1YwleBQq0QtPAZFJR08zLjaehzunJS0vNwytkNrxTnEetkze7kwVcAV4ZXuAnQeVm9KsSMucs/s1600/dentist.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiPC8YHuQ08UZGW97Y7OFJL91LYRyQRv2_Ms5AVEwOPxoutwPETYZIiScHxSzbv7mMuCy1YwleBQq0QtPAZFJR08zLjaehzunJS0vNwytkNrxTnEetkze7kwVcAV4ZXuAnQeVm9KsSMucs/s1600/dentist.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Helvetica Neue&amp;quot;,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;Well the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that you take your child for their first dental visit and cleaning at 1 year of age (12 months). I know this may sound young, however your child has all his/her baby teeth usually by this time. Also, this is a stage where dentists are able to find and diagnose any issues or potential problems. Up to this age your child's pediatrician will usually check his/her teeth at visits to check for any noticeable issues, but this is not as thorough as a dentist can do and the pediatrician may not see a potential or existing problem that a dentist would.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Helvetica Neue&amp;quot;,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;You want to start your child's dentists visits and cleanings at an early age so they can grow comfortable with seeing the dentist. There are many children who become scared of the dentist and so if your toddler starts at an early age he/she will be comfortable with going to the dentist and will be more at ease with their dental visits. Most dentists recommend parents to start taking your toddler to the dentist regularly (every 6 months) at the age of 2 years.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Helvetica Neue&amp;quot;,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;You may be thinking, why would a child need to see a dentist at such an early age? This is surprising to many new parents and thought of as really early, the toddler has barely gotten his/her teeth. But, did you know that in the US more than 1 in 4 children has a cavity by age 4! National studies show that cavities in preschool age children is increasing and that many children are getting cavities as early as 2yrs old.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Helvetica Neue&amp;quot;,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;Also, please don't let your toddler brush his/her teeth every time by themselves, they don't do it thoroughly. It is so cute when my daughter Kaylee brushes her teeth, but she usually misses A LOT! So, I have her brush them and then mom goes over them just to check and make sure she got them all. This gives her a sense of independence and the satisfaction that she brushed her teeth like a big girl and me the satisfaction that her teeth are brushed and clean right. I don't know about you, but my Kaylee is 4 and she wants to do EVERYTHING by herself, so this little routine really helps! :)&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Helvetica Neue&amp;quot;,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;So, make sure you have your toddler brushing his/her teeth at &lt;i&gt;least&lt;/i&gt; twice daily and flossing the same. Also, remember to check their teeth regularly yourself and set up your child's first dentist appointment at 1yr and start your regular visits and cleanings at 2. Keeping our children happy and healthy starts with good oral hygiene which is just as important as eating healthy!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Helvetica Neue&amp;quot;,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;When was your child's first dentist visit? Comment and let us know!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVz8_Q10jDp1sNWa1nrellF7TeOan_wf9WDMACZHZHRL00RUHx27pgxr3IkDCfvCrW1Z2mC2AtxSrKWwXd8zEwtyjkNr8RCHP1n6DWhTB8R6PQB7CAW2rRmj9Y5Yo6G5WOXq_-uNKNLac/s72-c/SUNP0615.JPG" width="72"/><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">7</thr:total></item><item><title>Preteens</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/05/preteens.html</link><category>parenting a preteen</category><category>puberty. dealing with your child dating</category><category>stress of preteen</category><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Sat, 19 May 2012 15:39:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-1320405932049430438</guid><description>&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;So, I have some "Preteens" in my house and have noticed that they sure do change quickly from the cute little munchkin to a mini adult! My son's voice seemed to change overnight along with his attitude. It's as though he went from girls having "cooties" to being "in love" with every girl he dates, which by the way only lasts a week or two!! haha It's like they go from being just happy go lucky to being so dramatic all the time. Of course it doesn't help that my son has ADHD too!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;It is remarkable what a persons hormones can do! Just how much they can affect and change your emotions, thoughts and even your actions. It's hard to remember when I went through this, but I know when I was pregnant my hormones would go crazy!! I would be happy one minute and crying the next some days. I guess it's a lot like puberty in a way. these kids are growing up so fast and are changing so quick, I can't blame them for not knowing how to react to things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;During the transformation through puberty, our preteens are lost. Any little thing that happens is like the end of the world and can devastate him/her at the time. But, we parents also have to remember that they are still kids and it will pass quickly. In fact, my son has been going through these ups and downs for the past week because of a break up with his girlfriend. it is pretty interesting actually. One minute he is so upset and it's the end of the world because he is so "in love" with her and the next he's talking about how he's thinking about dating this other girl.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;I just take a step back, breathe and remember that he is just as lost with this as I am at times and we will get through it one step at a time. All we can do as parents is deal with the situation at hand and be there for them. :) If you have a preteen or teen and are going through this as well, feel free to comment and share your story. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Child ADHD- Raising a Child with ADHD: Happy Mothers Day!</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/05/child-adhd-raising-child-with-adhd.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 20:53:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-2374554326803500710</guid><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgl9Y9_vjZUgs88N4VnXKsj5x4VgArjDicJ6A8h-M2-6_XMjTX4UIOHt-mh2F6revGkoH1qoHp0wOg8SIDSGnCZQS03g74NrskzfNsz5PrAGFRq2mad2-41fjxWTgJdKf8aW_dp98fRHQc/s1600/mothersday8.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgl9Y9_vjZUgs88N4VnXKsj5x4VgArjDicJ6A8h-M2-6_XMjTX4UIOHt-mh2F6revGkoH1qoHp0wOg8SIDSGnCZQS03g74NrskzfNsz5PrAGFRq2mad2-41fjxWTgJdKf8aW_dp98fRHQc/s1600/mothersday8.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="color: #4c1130; font-family: &amp;quot;Helvetica Neue&amp;quot;,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://childadhdinfo.blogspot.com/2012/05/happy-mothers-day.html?spref=bl"&gt;Child ADHD- Raising a Child with ADHD: Happy Mothers Day!&lt;/a&gt;: Being a Mother is the greatest gift in the world!! it is also the toughest job in the world!   Being a Mom means restless nights with...&lt;/div&gt;</description><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgl9Y9_vjZUgs88N4VnXKsj5x4VgArjDicJ6A8h-M2-6_XMjTX4UIOHt-mh2F6revGkoH1qoHp0wOg8SIDSGnCZQS03g74NrskzfNsz5PrAGFRq2mad2-41fjxWTgJdKf8aW_dp98fRHQc/s72-c/mothersday8.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>It's the weekend!!</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/04/its-weekend.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Sat, 14 Apr 2012 21:25:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-1231179959206056421</guid><description>&lt;div style="color: #783f04; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;
I love my kids to death, but I am so glad it is the weekend. I don't have to worry as much about things like homework, sports, field trips, meetings etc. It's nice to just sit at home and hang out with my family without all the stress of bills and school. I was hoping to do something fun this weekend especially today since the weather was finally nice, but of course they are calling for rain :(&amp;nbsp; So, instead we have stayed inside played some video games and watched some movies. Yes, i like video games. I am one of those weird mom that like them haha. It gives me some quality time with my 13 yr old son If it keeps raining tomorrow I think I'm gonna play some board games with the fam. But, hopefully it's nice out and we can go for a walk or go to the park. I love the weekends, there's so many fun possibilities!!I hope you all are enjoying your weekend as well :)&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;~S Overly&lt;/span&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Spoiled by Grandparents!!</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/04/spoiled-by-grandparents.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 11:52:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-9056124670747913217</guid><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #4c1130;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Helvetica Neue&amp;quot;,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;My youngest daughter, Kaylee (pictured), is 4 years old. Every time she comes home form Nana and Pappy's house she is a "brat"!! Everything is "Pappy let me" or "Pappy said I can". It has gotten to the point where I hate it when she goes to spend the night because I know she's going to act like this for a day or two when she gets home. However, she doesn't give her preschool a problem!! This is my husbands parents i am talking about by the way, and it's not really Nana it's pretty much Pappy. Now that she is getting older and knows that "Pappy is to give her everything", she knows and understands that she is spoiled by him. At this point it is even frustrating for him because now if he tries to tell her No she knows if she throws a fit that he will feel bad or it will bother him enough that he'll give into her.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #4c1130;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Helvetica Neue&amp;quot;,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;She just came home yesterday from time with her grandparents and is already is yelling and acting like she knows she is not to act here at home. I don't want to keep her from him, but I need to do something to stop all this spoiling! It is completely out of control! We need to make a list of the boundaries we have here at home and tell him he needs to implement these boundaries when she is with him, like it or not. Hopefully I can figure this out!! Wish me luck!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #4c1130;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Helvetica Neue&amp;quot;,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;~S Overly&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;</description><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUbB3CCa6I4UX0rGYjLlLsowpilqJgZ-_frT8wIWjvbD8uwamygvhdnIJYfgyMRJrsk3eNSvts__Wq4zTefNbaRQzcrocKvT24zt0ENlO9upu8E2ZUgo-twUeiuU7yVTMk16Uka9L3mn4/s72-c/Picture0018.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Poor Dill</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/03/poor-dill.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Sat, 31 Mar 2012 08:25:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-2940360282568416978</guid><description>&lt;span style="color: #660000; font-family: &amp;quot;Trebuchet MS&amp;quot;,sans-serif;"&gt;Dillon
 is going to his fathers house in Ohio today for a visit. I'm not 
looking forward to the 7 hour drive there and back, but, Dill doesn't 
want to go at all. He had asked to call his dad last night and asked him
 if he could just stay home, and of course his dad said no. Dillon has 
been upset since then, I feel so bad and wish I could make him feel 
better. I have been trying to tell him a the positives of going there 
(seeing his half sisters, playing the Xbox 360 he has there etc.) it 
just doesn't seem to matter&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a name='more'&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: #660000; font-family: &amp;quot;Trebuchet MS&amp;quot;,sans-serif;"&gt;. He had told my husband Nathan last evening 
that he is going to refuse to get out of the car when we get there. The 
nice thing is that we have Skype and I told him we can see each other 
anytime (if they let him on)! It was hard for me as a mother to see&amp;nbsp; my 
children go through the split up of their father and I, but, it's even 
harder that he feels this way. I try to remind him that his dad loves 
him and he always says "I know he loves me and I love him, he's my dad. I
 just don't like him or the things he does". He told me it's not really 
his dad even, it's his stepmother there, she has caused a lot of 
problems with the kids, and tries to cause issues with my relationship 
with both of my children and Dill is old enough that he sees these 
things. No matter how I feel, I try not to speak ill of their father or 
his household in front of the kids, I feel it is their decisions to make
 on how they feel and Dillon is mad that his dad lets his wife do the 
things she does and even participates sometimes. Anyways, I hope all 
goes well today, I will post when I get back with an update. Anyone 
going through something like this, please feel free to comment with your
 tactics and suggestions or just your story. I have also posted this on my other site about him check it out at &lt;a href="http://www.childadhdinfo.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Child ADHD.&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #660000;"&gt;~S Overly&lt;/span&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Little Sponges</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/03/little-sponges.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2012 17:56:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-6535980696869235870</guid><description>&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;Lots of parents send their child to preschool before starting kindergarten. My own daughter is currently enrolled and attending one and I think it is wonderful!&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;If your child goes to a preschool or stays home with you during the day, know that a family's role in your child's life is still the most tutorial.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a name='more'&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt; School is a major part of a learning, yes, but they look up to you the most. Whether&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;you realize it or not your toddler watches and listens to everything you do and say. It's like the saying, they are sponges. I have also noticed with my daughter, that she looks up to her older brother and sister very very much. She will say and copy anything they do because she wants to be just like them. My oldest likes to sneak and watch Family Guy, well I found out that when he was watching it at times his baby sister was playing in his room. She went around saying some weird things, luckily nothing bad just odd. When I asked her where she heard it she openly said "On Family Guy". lol I just wanted to share this with you all, I guess learn from my mistake. I now watch when she is in his room what is on the TV and have explained that she is never watch it. So, I'm sure you've heard you should watch what you say in front of your toddler, just remember to watch what the older siblings are doing and saying in front of them too.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #20124d;"&gt;~S. Overly &lt;/span&gt;</description><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqlBSLKv_-WG1AZNqYLVGFl3Aiu5dks_U1ZIgK5c2q_CLBaD1rzJ5dS2Y8qk2N5Ax4ZJNamqupuLOIk0Noga_sdqHJORF9Bgigz6it1LVzzFjmaTgOmW_rG_SKz2rEbKfNKFwYn3bD6ww/s72-c/P1010088.JPG" width="72"/><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>ADHD Info Help</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/03/adhd-info-help.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2012 12:30:00 -0400</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-2013953344196418294</guid><description>If you would like to learn more than just what I find out check out this &lt;a href="http://c9abfh0higinwms3t2et4m0m47.hop.clickbank.net/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"&gt;ADHD Ebook&lt;/a&gt;. You can purchase this &lt;a href="http://c9abfh0higinwms3t2et4m0m47.hop.clickbank.net/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"&gt;Ebook&lt;/a&gt; and learn all you can to help yourself, child, relative or friend better understand what they are going through, why and what can be done to help!</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Kaylee Issues!!</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2012/02/well-kaylee-is-now-4-she-just-turned-4.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Tue, 7 Feb 2012 10:47:00 -0500</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-4266080220241547913</guid><description>&lt;span style="background-color: #9fc5e8;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #660000;"&gt;Well, Kaylee is now 4!! She just turned 4 on January 25th! However, as much as my husband and I fight with her she thinks she is supposed to get what she wants when she wants and doesn't want to listen. It seems like everything is a fight with her. We have started a time out on her bed when she isn't listening. She gets a warning first! I have been looking around online for something to help us out with this issue! It all started when we stayed at my in-laws for a little bit before we bought our place. "Pappy" would never let her cry and would give her anything she wanted even if we told her no already. So, i feel like this made her not respect us the way she should.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="background-color: #9fc5e8;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #660000;"&gt;However, she goes to preschool and does great there! She listens and they say she is such a joy to have! I have 2 older children and have never had this problem! I can only think that at home it's in the back of her mind that "Pappy would let me do it" so maybe she thinks it doesn't matter what we say.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="background-color: #9fc5e8;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #660000;"&gt;I really hope there are others out there that have this issue with their children! Like I said, I have been looking for something out there, even a book to help with this, if you are a parent with the same problem look at my links at the top of the page, they might help and I will post another regarding this particularly if I can find it! Have a great day!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="background-color: #9fc5e8;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #660000;"&gt;~S Overly &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>Toddler Alert!!</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2011/11/toddler-alert.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Fri, 11 Nov 2011 13:46:00 -0500</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-3241061700711146334</guid><description>&lt;span style="background-color: #cfe2f3;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: blue;"&gt;Hey everyone!!&amp;nbsp; It is getting to be a struggle every day with my youngest daughter.&amp;nbsp; Kaylee is almost four and it seems like she hasn't grown out of those "Terrible twos".&amp;nbsp; In fact if anything it has gotten worse since she was two!&amp;nbsp; Anytime she is told "No" she will start crying and yelling until she gets something to make her happy.&amp;nbsp; I have been trying "time outs" but, it is still a daily fight with her about all different things from what she wearing, or wants to eat, to trying to take what her siblings have.&amp;nbsp; So, I don't know if this is a stressful and frustrating situation that you may have to, but if it is, I have looked and found an Ebook that is designed to help you get your toddler to listen better&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: #cfe2f3;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: blue;"&gt;!!&amp;nbsp; So for anyone interested please check it out&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: blue;"&gt; &lt;a href="http://0c632h7nlpoa0iog5lyzrjmev8.hop.clickbank.net/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"&gt;"Getting Your Toddler to Listen"&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="background-color: #cfe2f3;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: blue;"&gt;~S Overly &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item><item><title>A Little About Mother and Child</title><link>http://motherandchil.blogspot.com/2011/11/little-about-mother-and-child.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (S Bronson-Overly)</author><pubDate>Fri, 11 Nov 2011 13:30:00 -0500</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7709901746436595139.post-2066808678132838585</guid><description>&lt;div style="background-color: white; color: purple;"&gt;
&lt;span style="background-color: purple;"&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: #cccccc;"&gt;I am a proud wife and mother.&amp;nbsp; I have a wonderful husband Nathan, and three beautiful children.&amp;nbsp; My oldest is my son, Dillon, who is 12. Then my daughter Kiera, who is 10, and my littlest is Kaylee, she's&amp;nbsp; 4.&amp;nbsp; I &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: #cccccc;"&gt;thank God every day for blessing me with such a wonderful family.&amp;nbsp; I have created this blog to talk about families and raising children, the ups and downs, in hopes that others will find this blog and find help with any troubles they are having , or just the peace of mind to know that others have the same ups and downs with their children too. :)&amp;nbsp; I hope you will find my blog helpful. Thank you for viewing .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="background-color: #cccccc;"&gt;~S Overly &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></item></channel></rss>