HOPE FOR ALL

THERE IS STILL A STEP MORE

2016-02-11T13:26:00.002-08:00

Who told that you are making a last there? You have a long way to go before you reach the end. Things might seem like its not going any more but here me now There is still a step you have to take; and it may be the most decisive step of your journey. Let me tell you this the step you take depends on who you make the step with. I want to tell you today if you make this decisive step with Jesus Christ you are bound to make a difference. The step will be different from all other steps and you will be filled with confidence and the out put will be great. Take a step with JESUS CHRIST today.
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TRUST THIS WORDS

2015-11-26T10:53:00.000-08:00

There is always a principal main gentleman in the helm of the factor major you carry out as well as are about to carry out. It doesn't matter precisely how little you think that will factor you do will be nevertheless imagine me it is a solution to a problem the planet will be facing. An individual just need to believe in yourself and also support your flame and also take that will factor towards the conclusion. Always be in the fore the front and turn into normally the one being seen at the conclusion. You may want to generate any book, play any track or even color any portrait nevertheless you are feeling poor and also careful to try and do it. Imagine me may be the book the world should read will be compiled by you will be your portray the world should observe and also spend on will be painted by a person; do not be lazy, my partner and i state do not be lazy aftermath and also go back to your attracting mother board. This purpose you need to enjoy will be little and also simple. And bear in mind although you'll find quantities of persons around the earth, we all hold the chance for generating each of our voices heard. It can be still left for individuals to be able to converse out there. Within up to you need to converse out there there needs to be the key gentleman driving the complete display which gentleman will be nobody more nevertheless JESUS CHRIST he alone provides the loudest style in the surface of the earth. Whenever he addresses other style in the earth, around the earth, beneath the earth and also about the earth remain noiseless. The one thing you should do is always to enjoy your current component and also let him or her carry out others for you personally. The component is always to take your activity that's needed is. This might be to write down that will book play that will track and in some cases to be able to color that will portrait. Their component will be that may help you converse aloud. Due to the fact he's your loudest sound style your projects and also activity will surely function as very best. I am speaking via experience. He or she addresses to me divorce lawyers atlanta action and also activity my partner and i take. He has verbal for many and it is nevertheless communicating for many. Imagine me a person wont be a great exemption. He or she far too

THE MAIN MAN

2015-11-06T13:25:00.005-08:00

There is always a main main man at the helm of every thing big that you do or are about to do. No matter how small you think that thing you are doing is but believe me it is a solution to a problem the world is facing. You just need to believe in yourself and uphold the flame and take that thing to the end. Be at the fore front and be the one to be seen at the end. You may want to write a book, sing a song or even paint a portrait but you are feeling weak and weary to do it. Believe me may be the book the whole world would want to read will be written by you may be the painting the whole world will want to see and pay for will be painted by you; don't be lazy, i say don't be lazy wake and go back to the drawing board. The role you have to play is small and simple. And remember though there are billions of individuals on the earth, we all have the possibility of making our voices heard. It is left for us to speak out. In as much as you have to speak out there has to be the main man behind the whole show and that man is nobody else but JESUS CHRIST he alone has the loudest voice on the surface of the earth. When he speaks all the other voice in the earth, on the earth, under the earth and around the earth stay silent. The only thing you have to do is to play your part and let him do the rest for you. Your part is to take the action that is required. This may be to write that book sing that song and even to paint that portrait. His part is to help you speak out loud. Because he has the loudest sounding voice your work and action will definitely be the best. I am talking from experience. He speaks for me in every step and action i take. He has spoken for many and is still speaking for many. Believe me you wont be an exception. He too will speak for you and whether you like it or not your work will be heard through his voice. Just rely on JESUS CHRIST and let him speak for you. If he speaks for you and that action is not heard keep giving him the chance and you will see. For it is always said the patient dog eats the fattest bone. Just be patient when you want him to speak for you and you will not regret doing something like that. he remains the main man in the show and will for ever be the main man in the show .

STOP ADDICTIONS

2015-10-17T12:17:00.001-07:00

Addictions are things we do that we dont realy like doing them but we do them to get some temporal pleasures. below are a list of things that will help you stop some of the addictions that you are suffering from.
SMOKING
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BE POSITIVE

2015-10-17T11:54:00.002-07:00

Many people are held captive today by some sitiuations because they refuse to think, act, live, and do positive things. They are limited to a scope which is not too good for them and their families. Some people grew up in a humble home not too wealthy and so they too believe that they are going to be poor as well. If you are one of such; i tell you be positive. May be you came from a home that every child has been a sicklin, may be you too were always sick and this has made you to believe that you too will give birth to children who are sicklin and they will waste your money. I tell you now be positive. I am telling you this from an experience i have had. I grew up in a very romote and local town in the armpit of africa. Everybody around me was either very poor very sick or very dirty and always looking shabby. This persisted for some time up till the point where i refused to belong to that category; i change my mindset and developed a very positive mind set. I became very positive. Due to that decission i took some years back, today i am diistinct among the many; i am clean, always in good health and i can say i am clearly a difference because i can speak english, give teaching and counsel to many people now. I have many people who are looking up to me now for advice help and much more. My friend, whatever you are doing from now you can use that to be a reccord setter. You can choose to be positive, change your mindset and start setting reccords that many will struggle to break. If you are becoming weary and defeated because of a reccord some one created and you see it imposible to break; i say no. Change your mind set and start beign positive. To efficiently do this you need help from articles like this and you need the supreme beign; that is the one and only; T.JESUS CHRIST He is all you need to break that reccord that is tormenting you in the mind, he is all you need to set that reccord that will cause others after you to work. Believe me JESUS CHRIST is all you need. put him in your life all you start beign positve. Iand many others are a proof of this truth.

TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE

2015-10-12T09:06:00.000-07:00

Most at times we tend to feel that living alone and doing what you feel is correct alone is what that matters much in life. hear me now TWO ARE FAR BETTER THAN ONE. Try to find somebody who will join you so you have a tag team, to work on; and go on with that particular thing you are doing. You may feel that this applies to those who are still single or those who have nothing to do with others; hear me now even if you are married you still need somebody to get council from; you still need somebody who you can tag with and do something which will take you to the next level of your lives like husband and wife. You may be single and you already have all you need for your life. hear me now you need somebody to tag with. Somebody who will complement you in just every thing you do. Let me tell you now; whether you are single, a family or even an institution you need somebody to tag and cling to. On your own you cannot do it all; but believe me when you tag with somebody even the hardest thing to do become very easy to do. I know somebody reading this is saying to his or her self humans are very UNRELIABLE that's true we humans have a nature that makes us very unreliable. We are natural and that's what makes us the people we are. We are so dynamic that it is hard to predict and even when; we are know it is hard to really trust what we know due to one reason or the other. I want to introduce you to somebody who is not only reliable but very RELIABLE. He never fails, he is never late, he is all doing and doing all what you ask from him. This is the man you have to tag with in all you do. He is called JESUS CHRIST. He is the ruler and owner of the world so if you tag with him you know your family life business and friends are well secured. he is always ready to tag with us for life; so it is now your choice to tag with him. Join him and the two of you will be greater than one. Make the wise decision and tag with JESUS CHRIST. He is never failing and has never failed. You will not be the first person he fails.

YOU ARE BETTER

2015-09-24T11:06:00.000-07:00

Who says that where you are is the best you can be or become? whoever told you that or who ever made you to believe that where you are is the best you can achieve is merely deceiving you. You can go and do far much better than what and who you are now. You just need to believe that true you ca do far better than what you are now; believe that you can go to a higher and far better level compared to what and who you are now. trust that one and only one person can take you to that level. he is going to take you to that level a no cost. that person is the almighty JESUS CHRIST. This man can hold your hand and take you to your best position in life. may be you think that having a car and a house which you own now is the best position for you. or the fact that you eat and have the daily needs; and even that which you save. don't be contented with where you are have the desire to be better than that which you are now because that is Gods desire for you. my friend may be situations are hitting and tying you down. or may be there is something you are expecting and it is not coming. this cause you to be weighed out as days pass. am telling you now that those are all tricks by the enemy to make you feel that that is the best level you can attain my friend that is not true. There is your true level ahead of you. just cling to God and he will with the help of his son JESUS CHRIST take you to that place where your imagination is showing you. that place where you dream of and the place where you will be celebrated. my friend believe me you are better. you are better.

TAKE THE STEP

2015-09-21T09:52:00.001-07:00

Many people have stayed where they are and are doing what they are doing because they have refused to take that first and most important step. Nothing is easy; but when done brings great fulfillment and joy. What is that thing in your mind that you are planning to stop or planing to do. Are you planing to start a fabulous and well paying business or to write a book or even to stop that bad habit that you are doing presently. what ever it is just take that step which will enable you do it. I am talking as somebody who was once caught up in this same dragnet. I used to drink and smoke and it made it impossible for me to take care of my needs and that of my siblings i would waste all the money i get on drinking and smoking. today i do it no more. Somebody might say i just stopped it because i was not addicted to; it but believe me it was part of my life if i didn't smoke or drink then i felt like dying the next moment. what made it easy for me to stop it was the fact that i took the first step. this step was hard for me to take but i finally stooped it. on my own accord; i could not do it but i met this man who transformed my life. HE took me from the dust and made me a hero. today i am a counselor who help people who suffer from similar things which i had gone through. my friend this man is JESUS CHRIST he made my life a new and believe me he can do the same for you. he can help you take that first step and go with you till the very end without stopping. May be its a project you want to start and you are scared of taking that first step trust me he will see you to the end if you take that step with him. JESUS CHRIST is ready to see you through it. May be it is an addiction you are trying to stop and its like it just cant go; believe me JESUS CHRIST is ready to help you take that first step which will get you out of that situation. He loves you so much just open up to him and he will help you out. Don't be contented with your present level. what God has is plan for you is far bigger than this present level in which you are. May be He planned that you are going to have a fleet of cars yet you are contented with the single car you have. he is ready to help you go to your next level. a level far greater and far bigger than what and where you are now. Just cling to JESUS CHRIST and he will see you out and help you take that first step that will take you to the next level of your life.

YOU CAN MAKE THE DIFERRENCE

2015-09-16T11:47:00.000-07:00

Many people have talents and gifts and potentials loaded deep in them. Many give those potentials to be used but many let those potentials to lie dormant in them. We are each created in our own way and God has filled us with different potentials gifts and talents. All we need to do is to activate that gift or that potential or that talent; the are meant to be expressed and made known to the world. You are the way you are and doing the things you are doing because you don't know you are far much better than that. a prince does not mingle with commoners because he knows that he is far above the level of the commoners. If you know that you are bigger and greater than what you are now you will change the way you carry your self around; you will change the kind of things you do and above all your personality will change. You reading this know that you are not a product of biological mistake; you are wonderfully and beautifully made by God for a unique reason. There are no two same people like you; you the only one with the character physique and moral. Dont let the enemy give you reasons to do what is wrong for money fame or what ever condition he may put. It is not late to stop what you are doing. it is not late to change, just make up your mind now for Gods future for you is the best. Jesus Christ is the only way the truth and the life he loves you your life and your soul. do not be deceived time is short and time is gone. make the healthy decision today and have the rest of your life in contentment and enjoyment. Jesus Christ is real answer his call and all shall be well with you.

love

2015-09-05T10:40:00.000-07:00

Love is a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal affection ("I love my mother") to pleasure ("I loved that meal"). It can refer to an emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment It can also be a virtue representing humankindness,compasion, and affection—"the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another"It may also describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one's self or animals
Non-Western traditions have also distinguished variants or sybiosis of this state This diversity of uses and meanings combined with the complexity of the feelings involved makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, compared to other emotional states.
Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.
Love may be understood as a function to keep human beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of these species.
believe me today Jesus christ is the real LOVE. If you are douting who to love try him.

AN OPEN LETTER TO YOU

2015-09-02T10:08:00.001-07:00

Life is full of many different types of people who bring about many different circumstances. Some make us to be very happy, some make us to be sad and some add value to our life.
This is an open letter to you. In whatever way you are now just know that it is for a reason. may be you expected love, care and somany other pleasures but got nothing in return. may be you got a break up that took away your HOPE.
Hear me now all hope is not lost there is still too much you can do. Any sitiuation we find our selves in as long as we live is a spring board for another level. It all depends on the way you see it. If you see it as a way to "give up" and loose HOPE then you will definitely give up. Here me now i had a relationship i was into and it was like the day it endS i will die, but like every thing that is not for you it will definetly go no matter how hard you try to keep it. I was left in my own house all alone. I felt like i should take my life but i didnt; i saw it as a spring board for me to go to my next level. Gradually i overcame it and i fannaly met the best person who was meant for me.
You reading this leter know that all is not over know that there is much for you to do; wheather you are rolling in millions or wailing in poverty just know that you can get out and move to a more better level. All those who are cellebrated today are celebrated because they accepted to make the difference. you too should stand out and get your name to the anals of history.
"NEVER GIVE UP"

Anxiety To Be An Overcomer

2015-08-13T07:58:00.000-07:00

Every one of us has some good days and some bad days. Not one day is exactly the same as the last except for some rather usual routines. But, for example, one never knows what they will be confronted with on their way to work, at work, or when they arrive home. If you are in a relationship of any kind where someone lives with you be that a spouse, friend, co-habitation, children or elderly parents, there will always be something that you will need to do with.

Every Life Bears Issues
As we go through each of these days, some of our past issues will never be dealt with completely - there will be issues unresolved, or problems yet to be resolved. And, with each of these followers of life, there may be mounting levels of stress and anxiety compounded by new things to deal with.

What We All Can Use
There may be times when everything seems to pile up all at once and all demanding specific and dedicated action - but action where we know we cannot deliver with the same level of awareness, or energy. These are times, when we all need to take a little time out - like a time out for misbehaving children, we need a time out. So, what do you do to accomplish a time out that is effective and re-energizing?

Cause me to hear thy loving kindness in the morning; for in thee do I trust: cause me to know the way wherein I should walk; for I lift up my soul unto thee.
Psalm 143:8

Take This Special Time
Sometimes, we just never seem to take the time we need and one of these times we should is to spend time alone with our prayers - to spend time with God and speak to him about our issues, troubles and ask for guidance, strength and the energy to move forward with our lives. We need to spend time with our God and thus denying Satan any foothold within our spirit.

Life can become complicated, too busy and where our time just seems to get eaten away with an assorted number of demands. But, if we do not recognize that we have been given 24 hours to do with as we need, surely some of this time can be devoted to re-energizing our spirit by a few hours within the company of our God.

It Only Requires A Little Time
You can overcome your anxiety if you allow yourself just a few hours of time to allow your spirit to be bolstered, to cleanse your soul, to openly talk about issues or difficulties without feeling that you cannot be totally honest. Give yourself an immediate anxiety fix - and add this sanctity into your life daily.

Passages from the Bible serve to enhance our vision of just what the Lord brings to us all. It is this kind of knowledge that allows us to take that special break away from all the normal happenings of the day and sit and speak with a God that sees all, hears all and give all

The Friend Recipe

2015-08-13T07:53:00.002-07:00

What is to ba a friend. what defines a friend for you? I am sure that you may have your own friends and therefore your own definition of what makes a friend. How many definitions are there?

Common Traits
One definition is that a friend is someone who you enjoy because of his or her common traits similar to your own. These traits mean that you can find common ground to talk about or share as in a certain type of hobby or sport or reading club.

Workplace Friends
There are also those people we call friends at our place of work. These are colleagues that we like to talk to during our breaks, or socialize during work hours with a little friendly banter, or those we prefer to go to lunch with. These kinds of friends we very seldom see out of the workplace except during office or company functions.

Vacation Friends
Then, there are friends who you may have met on a vaccation where you ended up spending considerable time with doing various activities whether that was at a resort, or on board a cruise ship. These are the kind of friends that you promised to stay in touch with after the vacation was over, and may have received a couple of emails or phone calls from you. But, these are the type of friends that are soon forgotten as we go about our life being involved more with the other type of friends spoken about previously.

No Matter What
Then, there is a friend and a companion who is always there for you no matter where you are, who you are, or what happens in your life. These happenings can be the most severe there is to confront and deal with but this friend and total companion never forsakes you, never leaves when times are really tough, or casts you off to go it alone. This friend you will find in Jesus - a friend and companion who always is there no matter the time or circumstance. This is a friend you can speak to openly and honestly. A friend who gives you relief through faith; a friend who forgives graciously without prejudice. When earthly friends may be tested or leave you or are unwilling or unable to respond to your concerns, God is there with you forever.

There Is More To Gain
In the end, there is more to gain by being a friend and having a good friend than not having or being one yourself. To be a friend to someone who is also one to you is a very flowing two-way street. The street can only work when the lights are green both ways.

Do Dreams Count

2015-08-13T07:39:00.000-07:00

Dreams. No doubt we've all had them from time to time in our lives. Did you fulfill your dream? If not, why not? Did you start on your way to fulfilling a dream only to be derailed by letting other life's events get in the way? Did you make some initial first steps only to find roadblocks in your way that convinced you to give up? Or, if you fulfilled some aspects of your dream, did you find that you had limited success, and, therefore gave in to a negative view that you weren't meant to succeed?

Several years ago, I had a dream about inventing a board game that would change my life's fortunes. Along with a partner, who also had a similar dream, those dreams were turned into goals that were translated to action steps. After many long hours and many revisions, a board game was developed. Then came issues of financing. Not to be defeated by this obstacle, a plan was developed and carried out that saw shares being offered, all sold to a group of supporters, and a real live company created. Then, came marketing strategies, T.V. appearances, newspaper articles, trade show attendance, weekend promotional appearances, magazine advertising, and spot radio commercials.

It was an exciting time. The one time dream seemed to take off with sales starting to accumulate, a potential sale to a large and established game board company, and inroads to large chain stores. Then, it happened. Introduced to the board game market came one of the biggest hits never seen before. In short, their sales blew us out of the water, our distributor failed to pay us, and the business, once dreamed of, came to a screeching halt.

To make a long story short, the company was dissolved having dashed our dreams, and those of our shareholders. How devastating after all the hours of work, the hours of marketing, promotion, not to mention the loss of our own financial investment. It wasn't meant to be. The same old job, the same old daily grind loomed larger than ever. Is that the end of the story? Well, it was for one of the game developers; the negative emotions, "it never was meant to be" thoughts dominated any future dreams of a different life. This person returned to the daily grind of a nine to five job always cynical, always jealous of those who had succeeded.

But, did it mean being unsuccessful to me? I didn't succeed to the level I wanted or desired, but, to me, at the very least I lived my dream by turning it into a reality. If I had never turned my dream into goals and then to action, I would have always wondered - what if. Was it then a failure? No, it wasn't. Was it the flaming success I'd hoped for - no. But, there were valuable lessons to be learned. After all, how many successful business people, inventors, authors, artists, etc. had immediate success in their first attempt? Probably none. Failure is our greatest teacher as long as the experience is viewed as lessons, and those lessons are internalized to provide fruits for greater achievements later.

It may take a few more attempts, or many attempts but success is only achieved once dreams are put into action, where failure becomes the launching pad for smarter choices, or better action plans in future endeavors. Will success come on the next adventure, or the next one after that, or will it take many more? Who is to say? The important point here is that success only comes by turning dreams into reality and realizing that obstacles are only stepping-stones to final success. For those who are wondering about my own eventual success, I'll tell you this. After many attempts, many failures, many lessons, and many false starts, success arrived but only through believing in what I've said earlier. Learn valuable lessons from failure; turn dreams into action plans, and don't let a dream only be that - a dream!

The Biggest Package

2015-08-13T07:37:00.001-07:00

It is always interesting and revealing to observe human behavior and some behavior seems to be true to form more often than not. In the past years, we have always held a Christmas gift exchange at out house with at least ten of our family. Each year, we all buy gifts wrapped in Christmas paper. When everyone is sitting around a circle, all the gifts are piled in the middle of the floor.

People choose a number from a bowl that tells him or her when they can take their turn to choose any gift. The person with the number one can choose any gift and thereafter, each person takes his or her turn. Before they choose a gift, they have the option of taking the gift from the former person. At the end when all numbers have taken or chosen a gift, the person-holding number one can then take a gift away from any other person.

What is always interesting is watching each person as they choose a gift. What happens next usually happens more often than not. The biggest gift always gets chosen first. It is never the smallest gift, nor is it the fanciest gift-wrapping. What does this tell us about most human behavior?

Is the biggest always the best or worth the most? Is it that we think that something small is not worth as much or cannot live up to our expectations?

Human beings, in fact, come in all sorts of packaging and sizes where some are bigger, some smaller; some dressed eloquently, some dressed poorly. Behind every human trapping though lie unforeseen characteristics, talents, desires, hurts and pains and dreams.

"Stop thinking in terms of limitations and start thinking in terms of possibilities."
Terry Josephson

Some of what we so often do is to under evaluate the potential of people who do not fit within our preconceived definition of what is normal or what we view as matching our expectations. It is similar to evaluating the choice of a gift where are previous experiences, desires, or wants far exceeding our current capacity to see beyond what is visually obvious.

The preconceptions that have formed our view of life can be limiting to the point where we are guilty of prejudging everyone we should happen to meet whether in a work situation or in our own personal lives.

The real challenge for all of us is to expand our own capacities to see beyond what our previous prejudices allow us to see. This means that we need to open our minds to the fullness of each person; their opinions, their attributes; their potential. There is much to learn from each person we meet through life. There is also the opportunity to learn, to give, to share, to help, to inform. After all, we grow as people the more we destroy our current narrow views, and give ourselves permission to be challenged, to be wrong, to be humble, to accept that differences are neither bad nor good.

POEMS OF HOPE

2015-08-07T10:47:00.002-07:00

A DAY WIIL COME
A day will come in every life,
When appreciation is rendered.
And this should be taken seriously,
And given with love and tender.

Anyone who deserves appreciation,
Must have done something great.
So share with them the way you feel,
And always treat them right.

But keep in mind that appreciation,
Should be given again and again.
If you truly appreciate,
You'll remind them how great they've been.

Do something special to thank the ones,
Who've made a difference to you.
But don't forget to thank them again,
For everything they do.

JULIE HEBER

YOUR SMILE

Your smile lights my way through life,
And keeps me warm inside.
It reminds me that people are good,
Especially when their snide.

Your smile helps me though each day,
Knowing I'll soon see if again.
It even makes me want to smile,
Even when I'm in pain.

Your smile can take my moods away,
And help me to see it another way.
It reminds me not too take things so hard,
And so seriously every day.

Your smile I am so very thankful,
And of course for you as well.
You always know just what to say,
And never let me dwell.

So thank you so much for all your smiles,
And for loving me each day.
Life can be very tough but thankfully,
I've got you to help shine my way.

JULIE HEBERT

SELF-ESTEEM

2015-08-07T10:40:00.001-07:00

Self esteem is an important trait of a human being that has been under looked leading to the destruction of many people. many people have big problems dealing with this trait. there are basically two types of self esteem. The Low self esteem and High self esteem.
what is self esteem?
In sociology and psychology, self-esteem reflects a person's overall subjective emotional evaluation of his or her own worth. It is a judgment of oneself as well as an attitude toward the self. Self-esteem encompasses beliefs (for example, "I am competent", "I am worthy") and emotions such as triumph, despair, pride, and shame.Smith and Mackie (2007) defined it by saying "The self-concept is what we think about the self; self-esteem, is the positive or negative evaluations of the self, as in how we feel about it."Self-esteem is attractive as a social psychological construct because researchers have conceptualized it as an influential predictor of certain outcomes, such as academic achievement, happiness, satisfaction in marriage and relationships,and criminal behavior. Self-esteem can apply specifically to a particular dimension (for example, "I believe I am a good singer and feel happy about that") or a global extent (for example, "I believe I am a bad person, and feel bad about myself in general"). Psychologists usually regard self-esteem as an enduring personality characteristic ("trait" self-esteem), though normal, short-term variations ("state" self-esteem) also exist. Synonyms or near-synonyms of self-esteem include: self-worth, self-regard, self-respect,and self-integrity.
LOW SELF ESTEEM:
Low self-esteem can result from various factors, including genetic factors, physical appearance or weight, mental health issues, socioeconomic status, peer pressure or bullying.
Children growing up in a misogynistic environment can suffer low self-esteem, but more research is needed.
A person with low self-esteem may show some of the following characteristics:

Heavy self-criticism and dissatisfaction.
Hypersensitivity to criticism with resentment against critics and feelings of being attacked^.
Chronic indecision and an exaggerated fear of mistakes.
Excessive will to please and unwillingness to displease any petitioner.
Perfectionism, which can lead to frustration when perfection is not achieved.
Neurotic guilt, dwelling on or exaggerating the magnitude of past mistakes.
Floating hostility and general defensiveness and irritability without any proximate cause.
Pessimism and a general negative outlook.
Envy, invidiousness, or general resentment.
Sees temporary setbacks as permanent, intolerable conditions.

Individuals with low self-esteem tend to be critical of themselves. Some depend on the approval and praise of others when evaluating self-worth. Others may measure their likability in terms of successes: others will accept them if they succeed but will not if they fail.

The three states

This classification proposed by Martin Ross distinguishes three states of self-esteem compared to the "feats" (triumphs, honors, virtues) and the "anti-feats" (defeats, embarrassment, shame, etc.) of the individuals.

Shattered

The individual does not regard themselves as valuable or lovable. They may be overwhelmed by defeat, or shame, or see themselves as such, and they name their "anti-feat". For example, if they consider that being over a certain age is an anti-feat, they define themselves with the name of their anti-feat, and say, "I am old". They pity themselves. They insult themselves. They feel sorry. They may become paralyzed by their sadness.

Vulnerable

The individual has a positive self-image. However, their self-esteem is also vulnerable to the perceived risk of an imminent anti-feat (such as defeat, embarrassment, shame, discredit), consequently they are often nervous and regularly use defense mechanisms. A typical protection mechanism of those with a Vulnerable Self-Esteem may consist in avoiding decision-making. Although such individuals may outwardly exhibit great self-confidence, the underlying reality may be just the opposite: the apparent self-confidence is indicative of their heightened fear of anti-feats and the fragility of their self-esteem. They may also try to blame others to protect their self-image from situations which would threaten it. They may employ defense mechanisms, including attempting to lose at games and other competitions in order to protect their self-image by publicly dissociating themselves from a 'need to win', and asserting an independence from social acceptance which they may deeply desire. In this deep fear of being unaccepted by an individuals peers, they make poor life choices by making risky choices.

Strong

People with strong self-esteem have a positive self-image and enough strength so that anti-feats do not subdue their self-esteem. They have less fear of failure. These individuals appear humble, cheerful, and this shows a certain strength not to boast about feats and not to be afraid of anti-feats. They are capable of fighting with all their might to achieve their goals because, if things go wrong, their self-esteem will not be affected. They can acknowledge their own mistakes precisely because their self-image is strong, and this acknowledgment will not impair or affect their self-image. They live with less fear of losing social prestige, and with more happiness and general well-being. However, no type of self-esteem is indestructible, and due to certain situations or circumstances in life, one can fall from this level into any other state of self-esteem.

Contingent vs. non-contingent

A distinction is made between contingent (or conditional) and non-contingent (or unconditional) self-esteem.
Contingent self-esteem is derived from external sources, such as (a) what others say, (b) one's success or failure, (c) one's competence, or (d) relationship-contingent self-esteem.
Therefore, contingent self-esteem is marked by instability, unreliability, and vulnerability. Persons lacking a non-contingent self-esteem are "predisposed to an incessant pursuit of self-value." However, because the pursuit of contingent self-esteem is based on receiving approval, it is doomed to fail. No one receives constant approval and disapproval often evokes depression. Furthermore, fear of disapproval inhibits activities in which failure is possible.
Non-contingent self-esteem is described as true, stable, and solid. It springs from a belief that one is "acceptable period, acceptable before life itself, ontologically acceptable". Belief that one is "ontologically acceptable" is to believe that one's acceptability is "the way things be without contingency". In this belief, as expounded by theologian Paul Tillich, acceptability is not based on a person's virtue. It is an acceptance given "in spite of our guilt, not because we have no guilt".
Psychiatrist Thomas A Harris drew on theologian Paul Tillich for his classic I'm OK – You're OK that addresses non-contingent self-esteem. Harris translated Tillich's "acceptable" by the vernacular "OK", a term that means "acceptable".The Christian message, said Harris, is not "YOU CAN BE OK, IF", It is "YOU ARE ACCEPTED, unconditionally".
A secure non-contingent self-esteem springs from the belief that one is ontologically acceptable and accepted.
High Self Esteem
People with a healthy level of self-esteem:

Firmly believe in certain values and principles, and are ready to defend them even when finding opposition, feeling secure enough to modify them in light of experience.
Are able to act according to what they think to be the best choice, trusting their own judgment, and not feeling guilty when others do not like their choice.
Do not lose time worrying excessively about what happened in the past, nor about what could happen in the future. They learn from the past and plan for the future, but live in the present intensely.
Fully trust in their capacity to solve problems, not hesitating after failures and difficulties. They ask others for help when they need it^.
Consider themselves equal in dignity to others, rather than inferior or superior, while accepting differences in certain talents, personal prestige or financial standing.
Understand how they are an interesting and valuable person for others, at least for those with whom they have a friendship.
Resist manipulation, collaborate with others only if it seems appropriate and convenient.
Admit and accept different internal feelings and drives, either positive or negative, revealing those drives to others only when they choose.
Are able to enjoy a great variety of activities^.
Are sensitive to feelings and needs of others; respect generally accepted social rules, and claim no right or desire to prosper at others' expense.
Can work toward finding solutions and voice discontent without belittling themselves or others when challenges arise.

Secure vs. defensive

A person can have a high self-esteem and hold it confidently where they do not need reassurance from others to maintain their positive self view, whereas others with defensive, high self-esteem may still report positive self-evaluations on the Rosenberg Scale, as all high self-esteem individuals do; however, their positive self-views are fragile and vulnerable to criticism. Defensive high self-esteem individuals internalize subconscious self-doubts and insecurities, causing them to react very negatively to any criticism they may receive. There is a need for constant positive feedback from others for these individuals to maintain their feelings of self-worth. The necessity of repeated praise can be associated with boastful, arrogant behavior or sometimes even aggressive and hostile feelings toward anyone who questions the individual's self-worth, an example of threatened egotism.

Implicit, explicit, narcissism and threatened egotism

Implicit self-esteem refers to a person's disposition to evaluate themselves positively or negatively in a spontaneous, automatic, or unconscious manner. It contrasts with explicit self-esteem, which entails more conscious and reflective self-evaluation. Both explicit self-esteem and implicit self-esteem are subtypes of self-esteem proper.
Narcissism is a disposition people may have that represents an excessive love for one's self. It is characterized by an inflated view of self-worth. Individuals who score high on Narcissism measures, Robert Raskin's 40 Item True or False Test, would likely select true to such statements as "If I ruled the world, it would be a much better place." There is only a moderate correlation between narcissism and self-esteem; that is to say that an individual can have high self-esteem but low narcissism or can be a conceited, obnoxious person and score high self-esteem and high narcissism.
Threatened egotism is characterized as a response to criticism that threatens the ego of narcissists; they often react in a hostile and aggressive manner.
(article created with some data from wikipedia)

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