Book of my thoughts

Looking Ahead......

2009-03-01T22:57:00.003+05:30

The cases are packed,
The bags strapped tight
Today is the day,
Tonight-the night.

A sudden speed thrills,
An uncanny breeze blows
I watch time fly by
Ah! The days of yore…

I sense a new vibe, even
Though I tread the same way
The furtive death of the past
Has given birth to a new day.

Unknown whispers call out
Piercing through the din
After all, an era has to end
For another to begin...

A conversation with God - 2

2009-02-24T00:25:00.006+05:30

Me: I don’t know what to do now?

God: that’s good, first realization of a true warrior is ‘not knowing’

Me: why am I crying, it’s embarrassing

God: emotions are good; they are natural like passing weather

Me: why it happens to me every time, what do you do when you cannot do what is so important to you

God: because I know you are a warrior, everything has a purpose son, even if you are in bad condition and its up to you to find out

Me: what should I do?

God: you should continue to do what you love doing, that’s what your purpose in life is

Me: After all this failures how do you expect me to continue?

God: A warrior doesn’t give up what he loves; he finds the love in what he does

Me: look at me, and my life is in total chaos

God: the chaos is the true learning; life is all about choice you can choose to be a victim or anything else you wish to be

Me: Should i just ignore what has happened to me?

God: A warrior acts only fool reacts

Me: what if I can’t make it?

God: that’s the future, throw it out, and don’t waste time on assumptions

Me: where should I start?

God: there’s no starting or stopping only doing

Me: this is what I always had been doing, see where has it lead me to, I have nothing that I wanted

God: that’s the tragedy of whole mankind, you suffer when you don’t get what you want, but even if you get it, you still suffer because you cannot hold on to it for ever

Me: So this means when I follow my dreams I am destined to suffer.

God: do what you love doing you will never suffer

Me: that is what I love doing, following my dreams no matter what

God: than accept it that what you are following you may or may not get it

Me: but that is what I want, that is the purpose of my life and I can’t afford to lose it

God: you call this purpose of your life, leaving in constant fear of not reaching somewhere, leaving in constant fear that you might lose something

Me: than what should be the purpose of this life

God: Purpose of this life is to do what you love doing, live each moment give hundred percent in whatever you do, every moment is precious, and everything has a purpose

Me: than is dreaming wrong?

God: no it isn’t but judging yourself on basis of that dream is wrong, a dream is just a destination, when you reach there you would have nothing to do;
When you run after your dreams, you never know what you going to find there, you would be happy while you chasing your dreams, eventually you would realize that although I have reached my destination I am not satisfied, I am not happy

Always remember, its journey that brings happiness not the destination

Life is a journey, dreams are just milestones, if you miss one you would find another but if you do what you love doing, no matter if you reach your destination or not, you will make that journey called ‘life’ fruitful and you would always be happy

So get up, cheer up and just do what you love doing you would always be happy

(inspired by movie 'peacefull warrior')
For Part 1 CLick here

Foolish Flower.....

2009-02-18T13:22:00.012+05:30

Fresh and bright, unknown to pain
Bloomed one flower, behind the country lane.
With petals of gold and spots of red
It was the prettiest thing on the flower bed.

It had old friends, who had seen it grow
Who were there to care and who loved it so.
Wind swayed the leaves and butterflies played around
A big tree bestowed shade, birds had a pleasant sound.

One fine day it was in full bloom, it admired itself all smiles
"My beauty is so eternal, no one can compare for miles.
The birds sing for me, I am a gem, the tree believes
The butterflies are full of awe, and my crowning glory, the leaves."

Other flowers whispered to it, it pretended not to hear
It didnt even nod at the little girl, who admiringly came near.
It threw its weight around, and insulted the wind so strong
It said the leaves had withered, it scorned the birds' song.

Being friends, they endured, till they could take it no more
They went to Mother Nature, and their troubles began to pour.
She smiled to herself and said "The foolish thing is too proud
I will end its bloom too soon, a lesson quite clear and loud."

The next morning it awoke, all set for another beautiful day
But something was wrong, it thought, its petals could no more sway.
The colours seemed dull, the gold and red so light
It couldnt lift its head up, the sun seemed much too bright.

The big tree said "You've dried up flower, ended has your bloom time Nothing is forever foolish one, remember these words of mine.
Beauty is a vision, which doesn't reach the soul
What matters is character, and values which make one whole.

The butterflies will still play, the leaves will still sway
The birds' sing already, and spring is on its way.
If you desire undying love, show us what you are worth
Dont live in illusions of beauty, accept defeat with mirth."

The flower hung its head in shame, it had realized its mistake
It observed the joyous flowers, and slowly accepted its fate.

LoVe- A destiny's ploy

2009-02-14T06:13:00.013+05:30

Today, I tried to do something I wasn’t able to do for a quite some time….write. It seems that my being lost for awhile disabled my heart and my hands as well, from doing the things I love. I tried several times but I never got it in me to come up with a composition that at least would make sense. Until today when someone important to me gave me a reason for me to wake up today on valentine’s day and share to my friends a story close to my heart

“lets just leave it to our fate, if destiny wants us together we would be”. That’s what he said to the girl who became special to him. “I already have and I hope that our fate would be kind this time, let’s hope this is not the end of everything”

It’s not been long since he has watched a certain person walk away from his life, leaving him bleeding all alone. He still remembers that moment when sky came crashing down on him. He still doesn’t know what wrong he did but something did went wrong. With each passing day without her in his life he remembered the things that they used to do and those times they spent together flashed back, that made it harder for him to breathe.

After the day she walked away he was like a newly born not knowing who he is, what he will do and where he will go. For times they were together, he lived in the world of his beloved. He learned to live a new life by completely changing himself, but it wasn’t easy. He had many friends but still he was so lonely. He once told himself ““I don’t know myself anymore. I don’t know how to smile, I don’t know what makes me happy, and I don’t remember what I love to do…it’s as if I lost my identity.” He used to stay alone and cry his heart out.

He had to be strong. Days turned into weeks. Weeks turned into months. He bravely tried to face each day where no one understands what he is going through. Once his friend told him, “No one has the right to condemn you on how you repair your heart because no one knows how much you’re hurting.” He slowly learned how to smile and be with people but deep inside he is this numb creation that refused to feel anything. He once again started hanging out with his friends, he learned how to speak and relish the moment. It was one such outing when this girl came into his life but he was too busy to notice. He didn’t know that it was destiny knocking at his door trying to show him the beginning of his new journey.

She became a good friend to him, she was able to teach her a lot of things and bring back his old self one day at a time without him noticing it. He began to laugh again and that glow that all people who were close to him missed so much, that glow that would show people how happy he was without even telling them gradually came back.

One day, he told her, “I thought it was impossible for me to forget her, I thought I will never understand. I thought I will never be able to forgive. I thought that the pain will never go away. But now I understand that some things will never work if it is not meant to happen. There will be really some promises that will be broken in this life and that is the sad fact that we all have to accept. I have forgiven her for walking away because I know that just like me she also tried to make it work. I know she loved me the best way she could. And now that I have learned to understand and forgive, I can no longer feel the pain anymore.”

He took her hand and smiled at her, “I won’t have been able to do this if it wasn’t you, you brought me back my life, and you were there when no one else noticed me. You were there when I had nothing. You held my hand and never let go throughout this journey. I never thought that there would be someone on this earth who is brave enough to walk with me going to my past where she wasn’t even a part of just to help me heal. You brought back that hope that I had long lost and today my heart is complete when I have you loving and caring for me, I love you ”

Destiny once again has brought him to the same stage, once again its up to destiny to decide their fate. He is afraid that history might repeat itself again leaving him bleeding all alone or may be god will smile upon him showering him with rains of love and they will be together forever……….

(time will tell what fate has in store for them all we can do for now is to hope and pray that fate will be kind to the both of them this time. Fate will lead them to where they are destined to be....

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY :))))))

Once lived a Boy........

2009-02-07T01:46:00.002+05:30

once lived a boy

happy in his own li'l world

the world of love & care

flowers of purity bloomed where

he was humble and sweet

unaware of the creatures like shrewd

the world couldnt see his gay

and left him alone in a bay

he was deprived of his possessions

One by one lost many relations

they crushed him under their foot

his innocence was tried to uproot

he tried to move ahead

but everytime was pushed back & back

he couldnt stand unshaken

when to the inferno, he was taken

he was shattered again & again

his prosperity is now unable to regain

his dreams were all shattered

his existence didnt matter

one day hell a lot he cried

when his prayers were sent back unreplied

damn the people he said to himself

I will live for myself not for anyone,

his wounds have now become scar

and he is no more sweet but SOUR !!!

Nothing's Wrong

2009-02-03T02:34:00.005+05:30

Every time the same question..

And each time round the same answer..

My friends ask me "what’s it now?"

And i say" Nothings wrong"..

Every time I feel a little down..

Every time I have a fall.

Every time a friend tries to pry..

I just say "Nothings wrong"..

As each dream fades away..

As night comes down on this day..

Why does this heart weigh down with pain..

I ask n answer "Nothings wrong"..

Till how long will I try to hide..

Emotions boiling deep inside..

And keep on smiling as I say..

"Everything is fine, Nothings Wrong"..

Everything is fine, still there's something wrong, i don't know what...Somethings missing inspite of i having everything, i don't know what made me write this peom but i was asking this question to myself and answer i got was 'cheer up nothing's wrong'..may be you would ask the same question after reading this....i don't know may be 'nothings wrong'

SNAFU

2009-01-30T04:03:00.008+05:30

SNAFU (Situation Normal All Fucked Up), this is my current condition.
Yes its exam time, last exam of my MBA and probably my life, i guess enough of studies lolzz. I know i have to study, just few hours to go for exams but who cares. These exams are different because there's no pressure at all, everyone is enjoying, we are awake till late nights because we want to have fun together. oh god its really hilarious to study together especially this semester. now this is what happened through out the day.

Tuhin (yest night): hey chintu we will get up tomorrow early, will study business ethics than mergers what say
chintan: what ever you say yar, but its already 5 in the morning
Tuhin: no problem, i will wake you up at 9
Chintan: oh ya my brand management professor has called me at 10, ok wake me up at 9

In the morning alarm rings,
Tuhin: oh who the F**k is calling this early
Chintan: its alarm idiot
Tuhin: oh is it 9, k get up yar
CHintan: just 5 mins bro, we had just slept, your alarm watch is crap
Tuhin: ok after 5 mins

Chintan's phone rings
Navven: hey jack ass where are you, that professor is shouting you were to meet him at 10
Chintan: its still 9, let me sleep
Naveen: idiot its two in the afternoon
Chintan: ok.................... WHAT THE f***K, hey tuhin idiot A** hole, why didn't you wake me up
tuhin: oh god we had to study ethics when will we do it now
Chintan: hell with your ethics, i am going to get F in my project report F***ker

In the evening at raju's paratha
Naveen: even i got up at 1, you guys are too much you were going to wake me up
Chintan: will you shut up, that professor scolded my ass out
Tuhin: we have even not started studying, will go to the room directly after this and start studying
Naveen: ok, 'yar eek aur paratha le aa'

6 in the evening
Chintan: hey i am getting bored
Tuhin: we just started f***ker
Chintan: i don't know, lets go to temple, will get freshen up and will do some buttering too
Naveen: i am in, hey come on bro it will take only half and hour
Tuhin: ok fine, i don't know why i am listening to you two

At temple 7 in the evening
Chintan: yar when we have come so far lets have at least one beer, it will improve our efficiency
Tuhin: no ways, there is so much to study...................................but one beer is fine
Naveen: 'sharabi saale'
9 in night
Tuhin: you told one we have drank 3 each idiot
Naveen: he is already in trans
Chintan: lets go to room i want to sleep

11 in the night
naveen: you two are still sleeping, we are having exams tomorrow f***kers
Chintan: hey you know i saw a dream
Naveen: what
Chintan: we three got E in ethics paper
Tuhin: Ass hole if we do as you say we are definitely on track for that
Chintan: whatever, i am sleeping you two study

At 4 in the morning
now i have got up and seriously i am on track of my first ever E, wow i am excited. i have a whole book to study and i am busy writing this lolzz, well who cares. as usual will have to find some one to teach me everything so i am off to gtalk to find people who can perform this humble act of making me read :) This is what i guess is SNAFU syndrome.

(P.S: please do wish me luck, thats what i am relying on and yes don't mind if i am late to comment on your blogs, i am busy with my soo called EXAMS ;) )

Farewell :((

2009-01-25T03:31:00.018+05:30

"Batch of 2009 be there at football ground at 7:30 for your last dance at IBS'In the morning i read this poster which was of our farewell party and i was very annoyed. why do this people have to use word 'last'. i always hate this word, last dance, last days, last party, last dinner.

I know they are technically not wrong, but still why to remind us every ti me that we won't be together after few days. i am sounding bit irrational and may be i want to run from the fact that the amazing two years that i have spent in IBS are coming to an end.

we enjoyed a lot in our farewell party but when i am back to my room it makes me nostalgic and i feel sad that i will have to part away from my friends here. the end was so far but now it seems so near. why do all good things have to come to an end. its not the first time i am going through such f eelings. it was the same when i was leaving my school, when i left my colony friends to explore my future away from my home town, in graduation when i had to part away from my freaky 14....

it is difficult for me, because for me my friends are part of my life. hey my all cute friends here at IBS i may have not shown my feelings but i love you all and will miss you all especially my D gang
Naveen, tuhin, shyam, ninad, dheeraj, viral, amit, rishabh, sandy, salil, rishabh, himanshu and bhargav. my booze gang Tuhin, uday, jay, maninder. and my lovely friends eeshita, neha,kritika, enika, rashmi, priyanka, arti, chavvi, belinda and many more whom i would have forgotten to mention but still you all will always remain in my heart

Some sweet memories that were captured on cam

Well there are loads of them, space does n't permits.
cheers to our friendship, may it remains till eternity....

It’s now that we halt and realize,

That friends are more than Hi’s and byes,

We made our friends a part of self,

So in getting apart we need some help

End of college life is nearing,

And I know we are all fearing,

What’s going to happen next year?

When we are no longer near

Never again thru the campus we shall walk,

Never again in the free time shall we talk,

It’s all over, we r leaving everything here,

The end was so far, but now it seems so near

Faces of life

2009-01-22T04:11:00.007+05:30

Today i observed three very different faces of life, I passed by a man and his son, a toddler was held safely in his father's arms. His face was filled with pure joy and wonder, as he looked beyond the roads witnessing amazing things in his brand new world. It is the beginning of a beginning, and a smile turned up on my face with the power and sweetness of this simple thought.

one of my batch mate was sitting on a rock and was gazing into the distance. He looked sad and forlorn, as the breeze blew by and made the leaves flutter on the tree next to him, in this lonely scene. I was reminded of other days in the past when sadness and hopelessness were my only companions. I said a silent prayer for him, and profound thanks, to God, for me.

An old woman leaned on a fence post, looking into some other time. She doesn't seem either happy or sad, just gazed into the past, or maybe the future. I wonder what her ageing, but still lovely eyes have seen, in the time that she has spent in this world. Where has she been? What amazing things has she witnessed? A lifetime lays hidden behind her eyes. A feeling of timeless peace flew through me and all fear of what the future might bring drained away. I thanked her with my thoughts, and moved on.

Today i have learnt that there is something positive in any human being or things surrounding you, you just need eyes to see that
There are no moments when nothing is happening, so live and cherish each and every moment of your life

Mysterious Girls.. part 3

2009-01-16T18:43:00.004+05:30

5 questions you need to be very careful if your girl friend asks you, because if you get them wrong you would definitely have tough time pleasing your upset girl friend. Here you go…..

1. Do you love me?
Now the best answer to the question would be ‘YES’, it will be great if you can put it in a bit romantic way ‘Of course sweetheart’

Dare not answer:
• Say yes straight away if you pause even for a while you are gone
• Would it make you feel better if I say yes
• Can you define what exactly do you mean by “love”
• ‘does it matter’

2. What are you thinking about?
The ideal answer would me ‘was thinking about you sweetheart, how loving and caring you are, how beautiful you are, how much lucky I am that you came into my life'

Well I know the answer above will most of the time won’t bear any resemblance to true answer which will be
• Cricket
• Politics
• You look awful in this dress
• Oh wow that girl is really sexy
• Why I have to sit here and keep listening to your crap every time

3. Do I look fat?

The most apt answer would be “ofcourse not sweety” and then the most common response will be ‘don’t lie’ but stick to your initial answer if you want to save your day

Dare not answers
• Fat compared to whom
• Do you want me to tell truth?
• Yes but you still look beautiful
• Why you have to ask this question everyday (dare not say this even if she asks you at every hour)
• Oh sorry what did you say? I was thinking about something else

4. Do you think she is prettier than me?

In any circumstances the answer should be ‘of course not’ even if its Angelina Jolie walking on the ramp

Dare not answers
• Yes but you have a loving and caring heart
• She is not pretty but yes thinner than you
• Yes she is but you were more prettier the first time I met you
• Not prettier but hot and sexy
• Oh sorry what did you say? I was thinking about something else

5. What would you do if I died

What ever you answer you will have a follow up discussion for an hour

For example:
Girl :’will you have another girl friend’
Boy: ‘no sweetheart’
Girl: ‘why you don’t like having girl friend?’
Boy: ’ya I do but I love you’
Girl : ‘but after I am not there you should have another one’
Boy: ‘ok as you wish’

You would see her face shrink

Girl: ‘will you really have another girl in your life’
Boy : ‘you only suggested it I refused initially’
Girl : ‘but you were refusing just to keep my heart, weren’t you’
Boy: ‘no it’s not that’
Girl : ‘don’t lie’
Boy: ‘why on this earth we are discussing this, why at all you thinking of dying’
Girl : ‘don’t change the topic, see I always knew you were not happy with me’
Boy: ‘when did I say that?’ ……………………………….

And this continues for hours, it ends up you trying to please upset girl friend amazingly with no fault of yours

A conversation with GOD

2009-01-11T01:50:00.001+05:30

“How can be this YOUR world, there is so much of pain around, is this what YOU intended when you created this world”

‘Son it’s your world and it’s very beautiful, I never want anyone to be in pain, it’s not ME who has created this pain it’s your actions and your thoughts’

‘How can YOU say that ALMIGHTY, look at that poor man at the end of the street, he has nothing to wear nothing to eat, are his sufferings his own creations? ‘

‘No it’s not his own creation but I didn’t send anyone rich or poor, it’s you who have created this inequality, for me all human beings are equal, I want everyone happy”

“Then why don’t YOU help that man, he’s YOUR son too, why he has to suffer?’

“ I have given every one of you life than its up to you to live it or waste it, it’s your deeds that will bring you happiness or suffering, that man has to help himself by his deeds I am always there to support him”

‘where are you GOD, I can just see sadness and pain around, where can I find YOU in this world”

“I am everywhere son’

‘Where, in religious place?’

‘no son in every human being who does some good to inspire you, who support you when you are down, who makes you smile when you are sad, in love, in friendship, in every positive source of energy in this world you will find me there, even in your own self’

“But if YOU are present everywhere, why does life has to be so harsh, tell me some way I can live this life happily in spite of sorrows around’

‘look son life isn’t all sunshine and rainbow, there will be gloomy days, no matter how strong you are no one will hit you as hard as life, it will bit you to your knees and keep you their permanently if you allow it to, life is not about how hard you hit, but how much you can take that hit and keep moving forward, if you want to be successful and happy accept the fact that life’s not that easy and be strong and keep moving forward no matter what’

‘I am not that courageous GOD’

‘Courage my son doesn’t always roars, sometimes it’s just a quiet voice from within that says “i will try again tomorrow”

Healing wounds

2009-01-06T03:11:00.002+05:30

I used to think life was all about being happy,
I used to think life was all about a smile.
But that day I knew that it was not true
and you realize this only when you are blue

In life came a point when I wanted to cry
And then came a point when I wanted to die.
But death was not my alley;
and life felt like an empty valley.

Yet there was light
Yet there was hope,
which taught me how to cope.
With time the wounds did heal
And soon the pain, I didn’t feel
I believe a new dawn will always rise
and happiness surely comes in disguise

I cant say goodbye

2008-12-15T00:54:00.001+05:30

I wish to say goodbye
To that image of your face
Which pops up in my dreams
Every now and then...
I wish it would disappear
With a blink of my eyes
But I find myself praying
For just one more sight.

I wish to say goodbye
To the sound of your voice
Which echoes in my ears
Each time I am alone...
I know I shouldnt listen
And not be falsely led on
But I find myself straining
For just one more word.

I wish to say goodbye
To the sight of your smile
Which stares back at me
From my reflection in the mirror...
It reminds me of your existence
Painfully still in my soul
But blinking tears away
I wish for one more smile.

I wish to say goodbye
To the feel of your hands
Which linger on mine
Just like they once did...
Keeping illusions alive
I realize is so foolish
But I still keep hoping
For just one more touch.

I have tried in vain
For days now
I am clueless as to when
I will finally say goodbye...
It seems to me
These sensations of yours,
Will live on in me
Till the day I die.

Precious MeMoRieS

2008-12-13T01:40:00.002+05:30

She had been shopping with her Mom in Big bazaar. She was very small filled with innocence. It was pouring outside. Raindrops were erupting out of the sky like thousands of millions of bubbles that pierced the earth and burst upon impact with the human body.
We all stood there just inside the door of big bazaar waiting, some patiently, others irritated, because nature messed up their hurried day. I am always mesmerized by rainfall. I get lost in the sound and sight of the heavens washing away the dirt and dust of the world. Memories of running, splashing as carefree as a child come pouring in as a welcome reprieve from the worries of my day. Oh to be young again........

Suddenly we heard her sweet voice which broke my hypnotic trance. "Mom, let's run through the rain," "What?" Mom asked. "Let's run through the rain!" she repeated.
"No sweety We'll wait until it slows down a bit. We will get soaked if we do so"
"No, we won't, Mom, remember what you said this morning," the young girl said as she tugged at her mom's arm.
"Don't you remember? When you were talking to Daddy about his cancer, you said, "If God can get us through this, He can get us through anything!"

Her Mom paused and thought for a moment about what she would say.
"Honey, you are absolutely right, let's run through the rain. If God lets us get wet, well maybe we just needed washing."

Then off they ran.

We all stood watching, smiling and laughing as they darted past the cars and puddles. They held their shopping bags over their heads just in case, they got soaked. They were followed by a few who screamed and laughed like children all the way to their cars.
I want to believe that somewhere down the road in life, this Mom will find herself reflecting back on moments they spent together, they will always share that precious moment, when they ran through the rain believing that God would get them through

Yes, I ran. I got wet. I too needed washing. Circumstances or people can take away your material possessions, they can take away your money, and they may even take away your health. But no one can ever take away your precious memories. So, don't forget to make time and take the opportunities to make memories every day!

Invisible MasK

2008-12-07T23:02:00.005+05:30

The different masks,today we wear,
our true self it is we declare.
To each person,we have a mask so unique,
its all like a game-hide and seek.
Our thoughts have always been hidden,
is speaking our hearts forbidden??

Always trying to please and impress everyone,
A life so insecure has begun.
Living a life,fake and superficial,
Its no way going to be beneficial.
Its like a drama,its like a play,
Different masks for a different day.

When one mask is removed,
another mask is approved.
Constantly changing and hiding behind a veil,
Our worthy identity we always conceal.
The fear of rejection has crept in our mind,
people's judgement has made us blind.

Pretending has become a second nature,
and our real self is always in capture.
Let us throw away our masks,
I know, this may be a difficult task.
But....we have to show what we are,
and respect people for who they are!
Remember....I am what I am!!
for what people think....i care a damn!!

Mysterious GirLs- part 2

2008-12-06T16:51:00.004+05:30

,A couple goes on vacation to a fishing resort. The husband likes to fish at the crack of dawn, the wife likes to read.

One morning the husband returns after several hours of fishing and decides to take a nap.

Although not familiar with the lake, the wife decides to take the boat out and get some sun.

She motors out a short distance, anchors, and continues to read her book.

Along comes a game warden in his boat.

He pulls up alongside the woman and says,"Good morning ma'am. What are
you doing?"

"Reading a book," she replies. (thinking, isn't it obvious.)

"You're in a restricted fishing area," he informs her.

"I'm sorry officer, but I'm not fishing, I'm reading"

"Yes but you have all the equipment. For all I know you could start at any moment. I'll have to take you in and write you up."

"If you do that, I'll have to charge you with sexual assault," says the woman.

"But I haven't even touched you," says the game warden.

"That's true, but you have all the equipment. For all I know you can start at any moment."

"Have a nice day ma'am, " and he left..........

MORAL: Never argue with a woman who reads, its likely she can also think. lolzz

Note: Read this somewhere just representing it as much as i can remember

Mysteriuos GirLs- part 1

2008-12-04T00:42:00.011+05:30

Talking with girlfriends can be sometimes really tricky, because your girlfriend will always want that you should understand the implied meaning behind what ever they say..i still dont understand why cant they say it on our face itself instead of going round and round. from my experience with girls and some articles i have read i have observed nine such words which you should be very carefull when your girlfriend use or for that matter any of your friend whos a girl use it have a look, i am waiting for your interesting replies on this girls especially..

Nine words women use...

1.) Fine : This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

2.) Five Minutes : If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to reach her if shes waiting and you are late.

3.) Nothing : This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

4.) Go Ahead : This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

5.) Loud Sigh : This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to 3 for the meaning of nothing.)

6.) That's Okay : This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7.) Thanks : A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome.

8.) Whatever : Is a women's way of saying F*** YOU!

9.) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to 3

F.R.I.E.N.D.S……. 4EVER

2008-11-26T05:14:00.001+05:30

Well freakies my graduation gang. We had rocking four years, enjoyed each and every moment of it. I had written this poem when after four years we were about to part away it was really emotional than. but today i cherish each and every memory spent with them. I am sure this poem will make you nostalgic about your close friends who are not there with you today

Moving from school to a professional course,

Thought life would be sad and need some force,
Little did I expect my awaited freaky gang,
To make my 4 years simply rock with a bang…

Very uncertain and short was the first year,
As lot of efforts were needed to get our group near,
Creating a freaky 14 was not done with so much ease,
It took some serious efforts, believe me please…

Most amazing were second n third year,
Found one new wonder of world here,
Vidyanagar is the name of that divine creation,
Had lot of fun and 4 years were like a vacation…

Telling each other that we liked someone,
Giving nicknames to each n every one,
All those were part of the fun and blast,
Looking back now it seems so far, like our past…

Final year drenched us in the work load,
We had begun our journey on the professional road,
Admissions seemed like the sole aim for many,
As everyone are going to slog to get each penny...

Me to Hyderabad some abroad,
Simply memories we have right now to store,
Whole lot will slog each day to earn money,
Few will think that this kind of a life is funny

Simply guess 2-3 years from now,
Some will get married some engaged somehow,
X-boyfriends and x- crushes will be history,
Searching their traces will become a mystery

Together we faced all the test,
All those heart breaks were simply the best,
That was a part of so called teenage,
Getting to this level of life is hence a prestige

It’s now that we halt and realize,
That friends are more than Hi’s and byes,
We made our friends a part of self,
So in getting apart we need some help

End of college life is nearing,
And I know we are all fearing,
What’s going to happen next year?
When we are no longer near

Never again thru the campus we shall walk,
Never again in the free time shall we talk,

It’s all over, we r leaving everything here,

The end was so far, but now it seems so near

Thief in us!!!!!

2008-11-25T04:01:00.001+05:30

When i was small some elders use to ask me ,"Son what you want to become when you grow up". i had different answers at different stages of my life. Early childhood i wanted to be an artist a poet. Than as i grew a bit older i wanted to be a cricketer. That was one dream i was very passionate about and i worked a lot for it too. But than some where down the line i realised my true dream based on my ability that i wanted to be a businessman, a businessman of a stature that no one had ever imagined. I alway dreamt big to a point of being unrealistic to certain people, but i belive if its realistic its not a dream. to achieve that unrealistic dream one has to make realistic goals. But today as i write this that dream is modified a bit. Its not only about big money and power any more its about making a difference and impacting lives in a positive way.

i am glad that i have already started working towards that dream whole heartedly, not only this but i am happy that whatever life i have lived till now i followed my dreams and also will always be grateful to the people close to me, my parents, close friends who have always supported also in my craziest of action.

However, i have seen and experienced that, there is a "thief" which goes around stealing our dreams and robbing us of the necessary mental state to attain our goals.

Sometimes, the thief will come as a parent, a relative, a friend or a co-worker, but the greatest thief is, so many times, just ourselves.

We find ourselves just about reaching the pinnacle, and this "small" voice inside says, "You'll never make it." "You can't possibly do this." "Very few have ever done this successfully." And on and on the "small" voice predicts some kind of failure. Failure, though, is exactly how dreams are realized. It is one of the most important tools we have, because it teaches us invaluable lessons. And, when we learn these lessons well, we are poised and ready for success, which is probably just around the corner.

My parents alway use to tell me from the childhood "You are smart enough, good-looking enough, strong enough, and worthy of reaching the stars. The human spirit is indomitable. If you can conceive it, and your heart can believe it, you can achieve it."

I believe that we should live our dreams. Imagine yourself in the life you dream of living. Then in your heart, believe it will happen for you. Some dreams may fail but i believe dreams should be so mighty that its worthy even to lose. So, be true to your dream, and don't let anyone steal it from you -- especially yourself. You can do anything your heart desires, so don't give up or give in. Let the dream in you live

Alive I was alive i am!!!!!!

2008-11-24T05:28:00.002+05:30

I’ll never walk with you,

You might leave n walk ahead.
As a statue can’t I stand either,
I’ll move, alone I was, alone I’m…

Though dark does this way may seem,
You might want ‘us’ to lit the lantern,
But,
I’ll never walk with you again,
You might burn me and walk ahead.
As ash can’t I rest either,
I’ll reincarnate,
Alive I was, Alive I’m

They say it’s all about walking together,
In love, along the beach, in the bliss.
Then why am I walking alone ?
In insecurities, along the pain, in the dust…
A river of tears I carry mended in lies
Some bleeding dreams dance in my flaxen eyes.

Though entangled in web this way may seem,
You may want ‘us’ to ax the mushy greens.
But,
I’ll never walk with you again,
You might incise me and walk ahead.
As a beef can’t I bleed either,
I’ll re-join
One I was, One I am…

I have learnt

2008-11-23T01:06:00.000+05:30

I've learnt - That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learnt - That sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides
even when I don't want to.

I've learnt - That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I've learnt - That sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.

I've learnt - That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I've learnt - That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learnt - That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I've learnt - That there are many ways of falling and staying in love.

I've learnt - That no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves get farther in life.

I've learnt - That no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar
you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.

I've learnt - That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I've learnt - That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I've learnt - That writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.

I've learnt - That the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us.

I've learnt - That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learnt- That the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.

I've learnt- That although the word "love" can have many different meanings,
it loses value when overly used.

I've learnt - That it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.

just a thought

2008-07-30T12:52:00.000+05:30

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away they were meant to be there...to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but you lock eyes with them and you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair, but in reflection of you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never would realize your potential, strength, will power, or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, love, and lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all acure to test limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to know where safe and comfortable but dull and otterly pointless.

The people you meet affect your life. The successes and the downfalls that you experience can create whom you are and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart to.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make everything count. Appreciate everything you possibly can, for you may never experience it again.

Talk to people whom you have never talked to before and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have ever right to. Tell yourself you're a great individual and believe in yourself, no on else will believe in you. Create your own life and then go out and live it.