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Cherie Carter-Scott's 10 Rules For Being Human

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Thu, 21 Oct 2010 18:42:00 +0000

1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it's yours to keep for the entire period.
2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called, "life."
3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial, error, and experimentation. The "failed" experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiments that ultimately "work."
4. Lessons are repeated until they are learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can go on to the next lesson.
5. Learning lessons does not end. There's no part of life that doesn't contain its lessons. If you're alive, that means there are still lessons to be learned.
6. "There" is no better a place than "here." When your "there" has become a "here", you will simply obtain another "there" that will again look better than "here."
7. Other people are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.
8. What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.
9. Your answers lie within you. The answers to life's questions lie within you. All you need to do is look, listen, and trust.
10. You will forget all this.

Are You Open to Abundance

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Thu, 09 Sep 2010 18:03:00 +0000

The following is an exercise by Chhatpar. It reflects exactly what we do in our Manifestation Wheel workshops. You'll read my comments in bold on how to incorporate EFT into this process to assure your success.

Are you open to abundance?
Vandana Chhatpar

Are you open to abundance? That's an interesting question. Most of us would say a resounding YES! However, to step into abundance you have to get your head in alignment with your heart. Most of us have no idea what that really means. We've lived our lives with a battle going on within. A battle between our heads telling us what we "should" do versus our hearts telling us the truth.

Here are five steps to align your head with your heart and create a life of abundance.

1. Give yourself permission to receive:
Most of us don't do this very well. We've been ingrained with a belief that says to receive is selfish. But it's not. Receiving creates an opening to give of yourself. If your cup is empty, there is nothing left to give to anyone else. (Tap through this resistance and the cultural beliefs about being selfish that you carry)
2. Release any beliefs that say you're not worthy of receiving:
This is an interesting one and key to abundance. So many of us carry around subconscious labels and beliefs that tell us we are bad. It is due to this self-judgment that we shut down to receiving the abundance we crave. As you let go of your "badness" and see who you are and what you bring to the table of life, you see that you are of value and open up to abundance.(For starters tap on any feelings you have about deserving. Go back to the origins of this belief too and tap)

3. Get to know the real you:
The question here is, "Do you know who you are?" Most of us don't. We've lived our lives conforming, trying to survive. We have no idea what we believe or what our hearts desire. But when you peel away negative mental programming and false beliefs, you see your truth. This truth is how God created YOU! (This person is there waiting for you to release anything you've heard along your life's path that suggested that you couldn't/shouldn't/can't. Tap through those voices)
4. Say YES! to your heart:
As you get to know who you are and what you believe, you open up to abundance. But get this; you've got to say YES! to you. We get stuck with this because humans are pack animals. We want to be a part of the group. But it's in this survival mode that we separate from God. It's when we say YES! to who we are and give ourselves PERMISSION to stand in this truth that we create a connection to God and take a giant step into abundance. (Tap through fears of following your own path)
5. Surrender to God:
Your heart tells you the truth. Your heart is God speaking to you. Most of us look outside of ourselves asking for guidance, but don't know how to receive it. Your heart is God's greatest messenger of all! When you surrender to the messages in your heart that guide you each day, you surrender to God. You align your head with your heart and create a life of abundance. (This piece used to be the most challenging for me. Give up? Surrender? Are you joking? Keep at it, work harder, that's the way to achieve your dreams! That kind of strategy is exhausting. Tap through fears that it won't happen. That's how I did it. Turns out impatience for having anything materialize into fruition is fear too!)
So my question to you once again is, "Are you open to abundance?" Are you standing in your truth, saying YES! to your heart? If you are, congratulations! If you feel you're not open to receiving the kind of life your heart is guiding you to, then I invite you to look at your limiting beliefs to see how you shut down to abundance. It's time to say YES! to you!

There's the formula! Visit our Manifestation Wheel page to find out more about how we mix quantum science, Law of Attraction, EFT, and the Native American Medicine Wheel to give you a road map to getting what you desire out of life. http://www.tapyourpower.net/mw.html

8 Ways to Prosperity

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Sun, 08 Aug 2010 17:49:00 +0000

8 Ways to Prosperity from the folks a the Eternal Chapel. I have also included how to use EFT with these steps to activate your prosperity at a much deeper level making is that much faster and easier.

1. Forgive yourself and others for any financial trespasses
If you are gripped by the past or still upset by financial indiscretions, you are not allowing yourself to move forward. A great deal of this is about boundaries. Have you consciously decided what kinds of financial behaviors you are wiling to accept from yourself and others? How far you are willing to go for someone and how far you are willing to let someone go for you, financially-speaking? The harder it is to create a boundary, the more important it is to create it.
(The only way I know how to do these effectively is through EFT)

2. Take Extreme Physical Care of yourself. If you're not well cared for, your ability to prosper suffers. Are you getting enough exercise, sleep and healthy foods into your week? (If you feel you don't deserve to do this then tap)
How about making a conscious effort to eat foods that are not only yummy but best of all have what I consider to be, "medicinal effects"? (You can call me "Flax Seed Queen" now.. I finally admitted that as much as I want to, I just don't have the time to get to the gym or yoga studio on a consistent basis and needed to come up with something that suits my lifestyle. Enter "Sneaky Fitness", a great program for busy people created by Berrnadette Penotti. No matter where I am, I can always manage to sneak in 10-30 min of some simple aerobic and core strengthening exercises that elevate my heart and lenghthen my body.

Do you know the brain scientist, Jill Bolte Taylor - the one who wrote "A Stroke of Insight" and not only lived to share the process of her stroke and her recovery with us, but to tell us that "living in the right brain" or "Nirvana" as she puts it, is only moments away for all of us? She credits sleep as one of the most important reasons her body was able to recover from her stroke. I know that when I don't feel my best, it impacts by moods and energy levels which impacts my ability to maintain the standard I need to sustain wealthy thoughts and actions.We've got to respect the wisdom of our body; it never lies.

3. Understand that Money has no power (only the power that you give it)

The source of your supply comes from within. You are your re-Source. Until this very basic principle is learned and accepted life will give you plenty of opportunities to master this. The greater your sense of consciousness the bigger the receptacle into which money will flow towards and from you. (The more you release the painful past the more you will feel the nature flow)

4. Research your future
Put real numbers to everything you want in your life, even if the money hasn't shown up yet. Get your "dream life" out of your thinking mind. Stir your pots. For example, if you dream about buying real estate find out just what your dream house costs. Consult with real estate agencies; find out what kind of mortgage you would get, how much down payment you need, what it would cost to run it....
The more specific and directed you are towards growing and maintaining your wealth, the faster you will receive it. By doing this, you show yourself that you are serious. Money loves clarity. (This where techniques like the Ultimate Truth Statement and affirmations combined with EFT can be put to good use)

5. Keep a Spending Diary in order to understand your Triggers.
(I know, I know. You've heard me say this a lot - but have you tried it : )? A few days after you track everything you buy, go through the list of items bought and ask:

1. Does this have the same value today that I thought it would when I purchased it?
2. What mood was I in when I bought this? 3. Have I used this yet?

This exercise has helped a lot of my clients learn about some of their financial triggers and helps you learn to be proactive, not reactive.
(Does this exercise put the fear of God in you? Tap on the fear of getting a clear financial picture)

6. Track your Time, Energy and Money
Many sabotaging behaviors that prevent us from prospering come from unawareness of how we spend our Time + Energy (see last newsletter article here). Try tracking all your activities from the moment you wake up to the moment your head hits the pillow. Then ask yourself these questions about every activity; 1. How much time did this take? 2. How much energy did it require of me and what was the quality of energy I received in the doing of it? 3. How much did it cost or did I make? 4. On a scale from 1-5, was it worth the Time, Energy and Money spent and/or made? I have said time and time again (no pun intended) that fogginess of how we use our time and energy is a huge culprit re: thriving your wealthy self. I've noticed how successful entrepreneurs whom I admire respect Time; they show up on time, they deliver on time, they stick to the agreed to amount of time. This is so huge I've invited Organizing Guru Julie Morgenstern to join me on "Conscious W ealth" (www.HayHouseRadio.com) as we talk about decluttering our lives in order to have enough time to create wealth (and remember it's a call in show, so we would love to answer your questions!). Money allows us to do what we want with our time and energy. (Again, tap on fears that prevent you from looking and tracking. Remember that procrastination is always fear)

7. Understand that everything, every situation, is temporary.
Whether you have more than or less than enough money to cover your needs and desires right now, your financial situation is temporary. Money, like your breath, needs to flow in AND out. (If you feel differently then tap on those feelings and trace back to the earliest memories you have of that feeling. Connect the dots and keep tapping)

8. Keep in touch with your money.

Show up for your money. Stealing a line from Tom Cruise in Jerry McGuire, "Help it help you". Visit with it consistently. Financial Expert Galia Gaichon recommends we set aside 15 minutes/week - that's all! I have incorporated that into my lifestyle now and find it ends up saving me time in addition to staying close to my financial pulse.

Relationships and Money

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 16:55:00 +0000

There are 3 types of money managing styles that couples use. I have seen couples have struggles in all 3 types. Let's explore the issues related to each one.

1. Traditional/Conservative: In this model, the male (or male energy partner makes the big decisions around money. It's not that they don't take advice from their partner but when the rubber hits the road, the male will make the final decision. I am also not talking about what type of milk to buy - these are questions about investments, and major life/job decisions.

As generation after generation of women have entered the work place, this model seems to be dying out. There are times over the course of a relationship when these traditional roles are re-established, for example when a woman decides to become a stay-at-home-mother. The problem that arises from this model is that it feels very disempowering to the one left out of the decision making. He/she feels a lack of control over their lives. The major breadwinner might exert power over the other person simply because they feel that since they earned the money, they should be able to do what they please with it. This dynamic rarely works and tapping along with some clear communication can bring back a sense of balance and equality in the relationship. In the case of a stay at home mother I always recommend that the husband pay her an equitable salary for her duties as cook, nurse, cab driver, nanny, etc. The mom can then make decisions on her own about her finances and feel much more secure and appreciated.

2. Modern: This is the model I see most often in my own generation and younger. Both people share in the decision making and collectively make choices about spending and saving. This works well and should be the goal of most couples. The problem arises when one makes more than the other and that partner feels they should have the majority of the say. Also, time is a factor since both parties must commit a certain amount of time to discussing finances at least every few weeks. Power struggles can still come up and this is when EFT is most helpful

3. Autonomous: This is the model I see couples using in second marriages or when signifant assests existed prior to their union. Here both parties run their finances completely or mostly independent of one another. The biggest struggle here is that many times one partner will feel that they don't feel trusted by the other person. This is especially true for prenuptual aggreements. My best advice is to tap on feelings of fear regarding entering into this relationship and root out the underlying trust issues. When one person makes a significant amount of money or has brought a family business or inheritance into the relationship, then it is not unreasonable for discussions and agreements to be made in advance of marriage. I have never seen such an arrangement with someone of great fame for example where the other person didn't have to give up certain aspects of his/her old life and that is also worth something monetarily speaking.

Communication, trust, and resolving past issues of betrayal/conflict around money are paramount in creating a mutually beneficial financial partnership with your significant other.

Valetines Special Interview Now Available for Download

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 18:59:00 +0000

Listen or download the podcast http://www.blogtalkradio.com/eft_world_magazine
Enjoy!

EFT and Sex Webcast

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 04:26:00 +0000

Just finished taping EFT and Sex Webcast for Living Energy Secrets program. It's available for 48 hours free. Enjoy! http://www.livingenergysecrets.com/frank

Pushing Your Abundance Away!

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 19:07:00 +0000

Here is a quote from one of the teachers of abundance I follow

" When you find yourself critical of the way anyone has attracted or is
using money, you are pushing money away from yourself. But when you
realize that what others do with money has nothing to do with you, and
that your primary work is to think and speak and do what feels good to
you"

Just recently I began playing an online abundance game with some friends.The investment is minimal and the return is phenomenal. I am so excited when I see what is happening every day with the little seed I planted and it raises my vibration. As a result my practice continues to grow, my products are selling well, and money is flowing to me from many areas.

I began to talk to people about what I was doing and invited some to participate. I especially wanted to help those that really need it in this economic climate. The reactions I got have been so interesting that it's been a game in and of itself to see if I can predict who will say what.

Here are some examples of responses:

1. "That's all fine but what is the intention behind making all this money" What she was saying was that unless you have a valid, hi-spirited intention behind making the money it's tainted. My intention is to make money and continue to open up all channels known and unknown for my wealth and prosperity. Pure and simple. I've said this before but I'll say it again, money is not inherently good or evil. You are responsible for how you use it and the more judgements you have on it and how others are making it the more you limit yourself and your attraction factor.

2. "I am not interested in making lots of money right now" Oh my G-d! I wanted to scream be careful what you put out there into the Universe will you.

3. "It seems too good to be true. Surely it's a scam" This is one that I hear the most often. Ask yourself a moment what message you are vibrating when you say that- money can't flow easily to me, money has to be attained by the sweat of my labor and hard work. I am guilty of having that one until just recently. This was my one big remaining barrier to overwhelming success and wealth. I tapped on it and released it and this venture among others feels like evidence that I finally did shift it.

What are your beliefs around wealth? Do you believe that money can come out of thin air? That is can indeed grow on trees. How many times a day are you judging wealth people, wealth corporations, organizations, etc? Or are your blocks just the opposite? Do you think you can sit on your couch all day and that you'll win the ClearingHouse Sweepstakes some day. The key with all of this is to achieve a viable balance where on one hand you are "acting/doing" enough for your conscious mind to believe you are going to succeed while you allow enough magic to allow for all possibilities of wealth creating to manifest easily, joyfully, and with grace.

S-X and Intimacy Course Now Ready!

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 02:53:00 +0000

Are 6 months of work it's finally here. First video is yours for the asking. Enjoy!

Alina and Dr. Craig

Toxic Relationships!

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 00:45:00 +0000

I work with many people that feel that like victims in a relationship. Many feel trapped as a result. By building up their appreciation for themselves they can achieve a real sense of deserving and can then go on to live happier and more peacefully whether they decide to stay or leave. This is a great video clip which explains why it is so detrimental to remain a victim. The video presenter does have a bias for keeping couples together where as my goal is to remove all the toxicity, self-doubt, fear, anger, and sadness and then discover if there is love left or not. Enjoy!

Sexual Healing 101

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 14:12:00 +0000

There are 4 types of sexual dysfunction: sexual pain disorders, orgasmic disorders, sexual arousal disorders, and sexual desire disorders. Luckily EFT can heal most of these quickly and easily. What these conditions have in common is the bodies physical manifestation to a trauma(s) from the past or "rectifying" a painful situation in the present. I have seen unresolved childhood sexual abuse show up as excessive menstrual bleeding and pain, vaginal atrophy, endometriosis, migraines, fibroids, weight issues, infertility, backaches, etc.

Something I see regularly in my partice is sexual arousal dysfunction stemming from the emotional rollercoaster ride of a couple who is having difficulty getting pregnant. Just try to maintain a sexually heightened state during IVF, sperm counts, basal temp. gauging and sterile clinical analysis of the "problem" There are times when doctors see a drop in libido due to fluctuating hormones such as after a baby is born or during menopause but as an energy psychology practitioner I want to investigate what caused the dip in the first place. Could it be that the pressures of adding a new member of the family or the fear of entering cronehood be the real culprits?

The little blue pill might help with creating blood flow to cause an erection but it actually does nothing for desire. The largest most powerful sexual organ is between the ears not between your legs! Figuring out why you subconscious don't really want to make love to your partner is the first step in permanent healing of any problem in the bedroom.

Let's admit that we want great sex. One recent study showed that the vast majority of adults rated their sex lives as the most important indicator of whether they were happy with their lives as a whole so get to it and clear any baggage that stands in the way of having an outrageous sex life!

The link above will take you to the 90 min radio interview I did with my partner on this topic. Enjoy!

EFT and S-E-X with Alina and Dr. Craig

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 00:29:00 +0000

Women and Men in Bed

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 19:56:00 +0000

More on the topic of male-female energy in bed. Women have the ability to use both sides of their brain at once. The way our brains are wired we can not only feel emotions but we can use the language centers in our heads simultaneously. Men can't!

It would stand to reason then that men have a more challenging time connecting their two heads and their heart. Most men learned sex alone in the privacy of their own rooms with nothing more than a book, video, or magazine to get them aroused. No one was there saying, "I love you. I adore you. You fill my heart with joy." One interesting side note is that I have worked with serveral premature ejaculators who had the same traumatic memory of being walked-in on by mom or someone else. The feeling of "gotta hurry it up now or someone might catch you" was buried in their psyches.

Most women, who are naturally predisposed to connecting with others on an emotional level, see sex as a natural outcome of love. The rush of hormones that happen during sex makes a woman more chemically bonded to a man she has slept with and that is why for most a break up can be akin to an addictive withdrawal. Ouch!

Just recently I was teaching a MateMagic class when this topic came up. In all the clients I have seen and all the stories (nothing shocks me anymore) involving sexuality not once have I heard the following,"Gee, I wish I had jumped into bed faster with that guy!" however I do routinely heard,"Why did I let it get physical so early on?"

Tapping through your inability to wait to sleep with someone can really be helpful. Sit with the question of, "Why wouldn't I want to wait?" For most it's fear. Fear that the other person might not wait, that they'll think I am a prude, that they'll stop trying,etc. Your real mate is going to wait no matter how long.

A woman can be patient as well with the man she choses as her partner when it comes to his lack of heart-penis connection. Understanding that he was originally wired differently and gently guiding him by expressing your feelings can allow him the possiblity to be able to do the same. Read some David Deida together is also a good place to start his education.

The Sky Is Falling, The Sky Is Falling!

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 20:47:00 +0000

Is this Wall Street trader really using EFT? He should be and so should you! I have heard all kinds of stories of doom and gloom in the last few weeks from places that I normally wouldn't expect that kind of hyperbole. While many buck up and hunker down I have plenty of clients, friends, and acquaintances that are doing better than ever. One common thread amongst those that are really doing great is that they are following their bliss however that might look.

If indeed there is such a thing as a paradigm shift happening that will culminate in something radically different in 2010 then why not take a chance now and begin to lay the foundation to transition to work that feeds you energetically as this will certainly lead to your material needs being taken care of as well. Always wanted to paint? What are you waiting for? Always wanted to sit down and write the great American novel? Do it!

It's my belief that we each have an instrument to play in the great universal orchestra and that concert halls galore will open easily and effortlessly when you get clear about your intention and move confidently in the direction of your dreams all the while clearing those beliefs that stop you such as artists always struggle with money (really? I know plenty that are quite successful) or that's okay for other people are more (educated, street savvy, fill in the blank ) than me. For each example that you get there is someone who has proven your limitations wrong. A few minutes on the Internet will demonstrate otherwise.

For those that have already worked on self-imposed short comings and fear-based blocks using EFT I want to share another little tool that I have my abundance clients use - this little prayer by John Randolph Price. Say it while tapping every morning and see what shows up in your 3-D consensus reality. Enjoy!

I. God is lavish, unfailing Abundance, the rich omnipresent substance of the Universe. This all-providing Source of infinite prosperity is individualized as me -- the Reality of me.

2. I lift up my mind and heart to be aware, to understand, and to know that the Divine Presence I AM is the Source and Substance of all my good.

3. I am conscious of my Inner Presence as my lavish Abundance. I am conscious of the constant activity of infinite Prosperity. Therefore my consciousness is filled with the Light of Truth.

4. Through my consciousness of my God-Self, the Soul within, as my Source, I draw into my thinking and feeling nature the very substance of Spirit. This substance is my supply, thus my consciousness of the Presence of God within me is my supply.

5. Money is not my supply. No person, place or condition is my supply. My awareness, understanding and knowledge of the all-providing activity of the Divine within me is my supply. My consciousness of this Truth is unlimited, therefore, my supply is unlimited.

6. My inner supply instantly and constantly takes on form and experience according to my needs and desires, and as the Principle of Supply in action, it is impossible for me to have any needs or unfulfilled desires.

7. The Divine Consciousness that I am is forever expanding its true nature of Abundance. This is its responsibility, not mine. My only responsibility is to be aware of this Truth. Therefore, I am totally confident in letting go and letting God appear as the abundant all sufficiency in my life and affairs.

8. My consciousness of the Spirit within me as my unlimited Source is the Divine Power to restore the past, to make all things new, to lift me up to the High Road of abundant prosperity. This awareness, understanding and knowledge of Spirit appears as every visible form and experience that I could possibly desire.

9. When I am aware of the God-Self within me as my total fulfillment, I am totally fulfilled. I am now aware of this Truth. I have found the secret of life, and I relax in the knowledge that the Activity of Divine Abundance is eternally operating in my life. I simply have to be aware of the flow, the radiation, of that Creative Energy, which is continuously, easily and effortlessly pouring forth from my Divine Consciousness. I am now aware. I am now in the flow.

10. I keep my mind and thoughts off “this world” and I place my entire focus on God within as the only Cause of my prosperity. I acknowledge the Inner Presence as the only activity in my financial affairs, as the substance of all things visible. I place my faith in the Principle of Abundance in action within me.

Fun Science Sex Facts

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 21:43:00 +0000

There is more research on the topic of sex than ever and the results are quite illuminating!

Your blood pressure goes down and stays down before a stressful event if you have sex up to one week before the event.

Scientists for decades have debated why women have orgasms- only a few known species of female animals do. So say that it's because after a woman orgasms she is less likely to stand up thus not working against gravity in the semen's attempt to make it to the egg. Others say it has to do with the forceful muscle female contractions at the time of orgasm that actually draws up the semen further in towards the egg. Either way it's all about our genetic drive to procreate.

Sperm can actually make you happy, ladies! Semen is made up not only of proteins, enzymes, amino acids, cholesterol, sperm, and sugars but also a whole host of hormones. These hormones are a powerful cocktail of prolactin, estradiol, oxytocin, opioids, and testosterone which all have been shown to effect our joy factor! Without the resistance of a condom or female prophalatic all these hormones reach your bloodstream in a couple of hours and can cause you to experience feelings of emotional well-being.

Taking antidepressants isn't good for your love life. Drugs like Prozac, Zoloft, Paxil, and Lexapro are SSRIs which work by lessening impulsive behavior making you think you are more in control. Here's the problem - isn't crazy out-of-control emotional states seem feel like falling in love to you? The truth is that if you are on these drugs you are not as likely to send out signals to others and not see the subtle signs of attraction yourself. They have also been shown to inhibit your ability to orgasm or cause loss of libido. My tip: do a little EFT instead to get over your depression and get your love groove back on!

Warm feet, warm genitalia? In a study on orgasm done in the Netherlands men and women took turns placing their heads in a scanner (to observe brain functions) while their partners tried to bring them to climax. Less than half were able to. Researchers discovered that when they gave the subjects socks to wear during the experiment they immediately reached better results- over 80% reached orgasm!

These little gems are just a small sample of tasty tidbits in the fabulous book by Jean Pincott titled Do Gentlemen Really Prefer Blondes? Bodies, Behavior, and Brains- The Science Behind Sex, Love, and Attraction.

Money Makes the World Go 'Round

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 20:05:00 +0000

So, you say you want to attract more money/abundance? You've already read the books, studied Law Of Attraction, tinkered with visualizations, and even started saying daily affirmations but nothing has really shifted. What's going on? How about checking out what illusion you are giving your power away to?

The minute that you blame the blasted economy, your ex, your divorce settlement, your lack of training/credentials, your (over)qualifications, your current place of employment, your parent's lack of an inheritance for you, your stock portfolio, etc is the moment you restrict the flow of wealth.

Understand that on a quantum level all those things are part of the grand illusion which you created known as "your life". All of it can be changed by you at any time. I repeat, you can change this. If you continue to give your power away to those particular pieces of your collective hallucination by focusing on them, hating them, ignore them on the conscious level but feeling their presence just below the surface, or talking about them often enough, then they'll continue to drain your finances and your energy.

Your 3D consensus reality consists of what your beliefs are, plus your expectations, with a spattering of the fuel of energetic vibrations we call emotions. One of my favorite ways of clearing these money blocks is to first come up with your list of perpetrators. "My life would be fine if ...." is one way to get some insight here. Ask yourself how you feeeeeeel about these different situations and then envision the power that you have been feeding them over the years come back into your body. Supercharge the exercise by tapping the entire time and really feel all that energy come rushing in as it enters your body.

It's all YOU and only you, so bless it as an errant child run amok and welcome it home to grow up so it can fuel your next manifestation- one that serves you better and propels you to the life you really want to be living.

Selfish In Bed?

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 19:34:00 +0000

My partner and I are teaching a workshop this spring entitled Selfishness Is Not A Dirty Word. It's meant to evoke strong feelings and we have had a few eyebrows raised when we've mentioned it to our friends. The idea that we'll be playing around with is that you can't possibly give to others if your own cup isn't overflowing. Sure, you see examples of self-effacing, self-sacrificing all the time but how well are these individuals really doing on physical, emotional, and spiritual level? If the folks that show up in my practice are any indication then the answer is not well.

Want to push the envelope even further with this idea that SELFISH is good for you? Then talk about being selfish in bed! Self-pleasuring is a form of self love. If you have resisted engaging with your body, exploring it thoroughly, and enjoying it by loving it fully yourself then some part of you may very well be holding back when having sex with a partner.

Self-pleasuring isn't the only way to be selfish in bed. What about asking for what you want? Are you reluctant? Are you afraid of what your partner might think of you if you did? Are you scared that you'd really enjoy it and turn into some kind of freak? Are you worried that you will be rejected out and out? All these fears can be addressed with EFT in a simple and elegant fashion giving you complete freedom and unbridled joy in lovemaking.

If you feel bad about "deviant" behaviors what you need to do is explore the origins of these with an experienced practitioner. I have seen everything from internet porno addiction to attraction to minors and they are all related to significant emotional experiences in childhood that once cleared and healed will usually take care of the errant behaviors and compulsions.

So go ahead, give yourself permission and watch as your reality complies in crafting you magical mystical truly human-connected adventures.

Nietzsche and the Entity

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 16:11:00 +0000

I belong to many interesting forums. This message came from a "channeled entity" who posts on one of them. I thought it was rather interesting and thought-provoking although I don't agree 100%.

FRIEDRICH NIETZSCHE, according to me, is one of the greatest seers of the Western world; his eyes really go penetrating to the very root of a problem. But because others could not see it -- their eyes were not so penetrating, nor was their intelligence so sharp -- the man lived alone, abandoned, isolated, unloved, unrespected.He says in one of his statements that MAN HAS BEEN TAUGHT BY RELIGIONS TO CONDEMN SEX, TO RENOUNCE SEX.

Religion has not been able to manage it; and man has tried hard but has failed, because it is so deeply rooted in his biology -- it constitutes his whole body. He is born out of sex -- how he can get rid of it except by committing suicide? So man has tried, and religions have helped him to get rid of it -- thousands of disciplines and strategies have been used. The total result is that sex is there, but poisoned.

That word poisoned is a tremendous insight. Religions have not been able to take it away, but they have been certainly successful in poisoning it. And the same is the situation about other things: RELIGIONS ARE CONDEMNING YOUR LIVING IN COMFORT. Now a man who is living in comfort and luxury cannot become a terrorist. Religions have condemned riches, praised poverty. NOW A MAN WHO IS RICH CANNOT BE A TERRORIST. Only the "blessed ones" who are poor can be terrorists -- because they have nothing to lose, and they are boiling up against the whole of society because others have things they don't have. Religions have been trying to console them.But then came COMMUNISM -- a materialist religion -- which provoked people and said to them that, "Your old religions are all opium to the people, and it is not because of your evil actions in this life or in the past lives that you are suffering poverty.

It is because of the evil exploitation of the bourgeois, the super-rich, that you are suffering."The last sentence in Karl Marx's Communist Manifesto is: Proletariats of the whole world unite; you have nothing to lose and you have the whole world to gain. "You are already poor, hungry, naked -- so what you can lose? Your death will not make you more miserable than your life is making you. So why not take a chance and destroy those people who have taken everything away from you. And take those things back, distribute them."What religions have somehow been consoling people with -- although it was wrong and it was cunning and it was a lie, but it kept people in a state of being half asleep -- communism suddenly made them aware of.

That means THIS WORLD IS NOW NEVER GOING TO BE PEACEFUL IF WE DON'T WITHDRAW ALL THE ROTTEN IDEAS THAT HAVE BEEN IMPLANTED IN MAN.The first are the religions -- their values should be removed so that man can smile again, can laugh again, can rejoice again, can be natural again. Second, WHAT COMMUNISM IS SAYING HAS TO BE PUT CLEARLY BEFORE THE PEOPLE -- THAT IT IS PSYCHOLOGICALLY WRONG. You are falling from one trap into another.NO TWO MEN ARE EQUAL; hence the ideal of equality is nonsense. And if you decide to be equal then you have to accept a dictatorship of the proletariat. That means you have to lose your freedom. First the church took away your freedom, then God took away your freedom. NOW COMMUNISM REPLACES YOUR CHURCH, AND IT WILL TAKE AWAY YOUR FREEDOM. And without freedom you cannot rejoice. You live in fear, not in joy.If we can clean the basement of the human mind's unconscious... and that's what my work is... It can be cleaned away.

THE TERRORISM IS NOT IN THE BOMBS IN YOUR HANDS; THE TERRORISM IS IN YOUR UNCONSCIOUS. Otherwise, this state of affairs is going to grow more bitter. And it seems all kinds of blind people have bombs in their hands and are throwing them at random.The third world war would have released people for ten or fifteen years. But the third world war cannot happen because if it happens it won't relieve people, it will only destroy people. So individual violence will increase -- it is increasing. And all your governments and all your religions will go on perpetuating the old strategies without understanding the new situation.

The new situation is that EVERY HUMAN BEING needs to go through therapies, needs to understand his unconscious intentions, NEEDS TO GO THROUGH MEDITATIONS so that he can calm down, become cool -- and look towards the world with a new perspective of silence.

OSHO

One Hot Night

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 23:09:00 +0000

You haven't been on the hot and heavy side of your marriage or partnership and in fact, if truth be told, it's been way too long to be considered "just a dry spell", now what do you do? Take the advice of the authors of Getting to I Do and just relax and engage the senses. Here's how it's done. Set aside 2 hours and turn off all cell phones, beepers, and other distracting electronics. Tell your mate that you will be merely enjoying each other's company. Ask the male energy prominent partner to bring finger food. The female energy prominent partner will set the mood by running and preparing a bath, turn on soft instrumental music, light candles, and gather lotions/oils. IMPORTANT instructions- no talking! First take a bath and enjoy your food then climb out and give each other a massage. At the end of the two hours separate and each take a journal and notice what came up for you.
This last bit is where you can use EFT. Here as some examples of what might come up:
"Even though I felt incredibly vulnerable,....."
"Even though I was sad that my partner seemed more interested in the food and bath than in looking into my eyes, ..."
"Even though I felt angry that he was rushing through my massage,..."

Look for the hidden messages in your irritations and complaints above. Are they reflective of bigger issues in your marriage? In my professional experience it always is! The people that say that their partner was rushed in massaging their body are the ones that say that their partners really pay them too little attention in general. The ones that say things like, "The bath was nice but I really didn't like all that silence and having my partner stare at me" are the ones that feel naked and exposed in relationship and would rather not be really seen for who they are for fear of rejection.

All of this of course can lead to more material to tap on to get the crap out of the way and re-establish intimacy, trust, and finally sexual union.

Female-Male Energy

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Wed, 12 Nov 2008 04:24:00 +0000

Do you like to be on top or on the bottom? Are you the one pushing agendas in the relationship or are you the follower? Have you taken care of the finances in your household since the day you got married? All of these questions lead to the exploration of who holds the female and the male energy in a sexual partnership.

Carl Jung was the first in modern history to begin to decipher the dynamics inherent in women (anima) and men (animus) and we haven't stopped trying to get away from being pigeonholed ever since.

Many of today's relationship experts continue to base their work on the what can be called the polarity and how the different energies affect the quality of a loving partnership. David Deida says we can tell which is which by asking ourselves the provocative question I began this entry with. I actually prefer this question posed by Sandra Harmon author of Getting to I Do: would you like to be respected for your ideas or cherished for your feelings? Many modern day women would scoff at the notion of not having both but being both at all times can definitely contribute to marital discord as I have seen in my practice.

The bottom line is that it doesn't really matter who takes out the garbage and who cleans it's all in the way that you feel about it. If you take issue with the roles you are playing then change the audition for a different one. Getting beyond the fear of bringing it up, the fear of rejection if it doesn't suit the other person, the fear that you'll somehow seem powerless if you ask for what you want are all directions to take in your EFT rounds.

"ET, I feel completely unappreciated for what I contribute, I deeply and completely..."

"ET, I feel like my mother when I am the one cooking every meal day and and day out..."

"ET, I feel burdened by being the sole breadwinner, ..."

Clearing the emotional baggage that you carry into the conversations that need to be had around your feeling lack of appreciation can not only allow you to make a better case because you are emotionally neutral but you can actually change your reality.

In my EFT classes I often tell my students that my ex would drive me up the way each and every time he was late. He was time optimistic in the extreme and it drove me crazy. He was even late for our wedding! I began to tap on anger each and every time it happened and lo and behold he stopped being late after 17 years of the same behavior. You see what you expect to see and you most certainly attract what you pay attention to and are in vibrational harmony with.

It's Raining Men!

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 20:42:00 +0000

I am so tired of hearing from women of a certain age that there are no available men. Just as often is the cry that there are men out there but they are all flawed. I have witnessed over and over again the opposite from my clients who work through their fears and limiting beliefs. One way to begin the process of calling in a partner is to work on yourself. The moment my clients heal old wounds and begin to experience self-love men appear as if by magic. Here are some tapping phrases to get you started.
ET the last time I feel in love my heart was broken, I deeply and completely accept myself
ET I carry this limiting belief that there are no men out there, I forgive for buying into it
ET I know that I will only attract losers, I love myself anyway.
Head- I am afraid of falling in love
3rd Eye- Afraid of falling in love
Eyebrow- Because of what happened the last time
Side of eye- I don't want that to happen again
Under eye- So I'll keep myself shut off from experiencing it again
Under nose- Afraid of love
Chin Point- I am afraid of opening my heart
Collarbone- Scared to love again
Under arm- I am open to the possibility that I can release this fear
Head- This time may be different
3rd eye- I won't know until I try
Eyebrow- I might just love myself for awhile
Side of eye- I am open to loving myself fully for a time
Under eye- I choose to focus my attention on falling in love with myself right now
Under nose- And simply seeing what shows up
Chin- I choose to find out what I like about myself
Collarbone- and seeing what shows up
Under arm- When I let go of the need for a partner and fully love myself
Head- I am in alignment with allowing the Universe to provide me with the best possible outcome in relationship and in my entire life.

What's Really Wrong?

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Mon, 25 Feb 2008 18:10:00 +0000

According to studies conducted at the University of Michigan there are 7 main reasons for a less than satisfying sex life.
1. Drugs. Things that you are taking to alter your mood can actually cause sexually side effects. Interesting to note here is that sex has been proven to flood the brain with mood altering hormones perhaps making it unnecessary to have take these substances in the first place.
2. Depression. Untreated depression, Dr. Pamela Rockwell says, can lead to many sexual difficulties. “People can experience lack of pleasure, lack of desire and lack of ability to perform,” she says.
3. Alcohol. Yup, the old myth that alcohol can get you in the mood has been put to rest here. Although it can remove inhibitions, alcohol has a direct affect on performance.
4. Stress. “Stress often has effects on our sex lives. When we are consumed with time management, working, raising children and providing for our families, we often don’t leave a lot of time for ourselves,” Rockwell notes. “What happens is the libido goes down, and the ability to accept and give pleasure decreases. People who suffer from unsatisfying sex lives may not even realize that it could be caused by stress.”
5. Pregnancy. Myth I've been able to help my clients dispel. You can turn this one around and make it one of the best sexually connected times in your partnership
6. Menopause. Again, I have experienced shifts in my clients drive and satisfaction when the underlying fears of aging, self-worth, etc are released.
7. Poor body image and self esteem. OH BOY! This is the one that I see consistently. Love your body, love yourself, and the watch out for the fireworks in the bedroom.

Looking over this list I am struck by just how easy it would be for everyone with any of these issues to apply EFT to improve their sex lives. But then again as Gary would say, "Everything is a tappable issue"

Currency

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Sat, 23 Feb 2008 17:14:00 +0000

The image of money as currency is one I've always liked; money is a flow of energy nothing more nothing less. In order to access this never ending river of abundance one needs a container. Is your container the size of a teaspoon or a football stadium? If you haven't clearly stated your intended financial goals then your container is a sieve which will scatter all your efforts. Write that list of goals, start your vision board (see a sample of my video vision boards in the video bar section of this blog), dream about the things/containers of your abundance.
Want to supercharge that list and hear where your resistance is? Read your list or look at your vision board while tapping. Make sure you pay attention to the tailenders (limiting self-talk) and turn those into set-up phrases. Here are some examples to get you started.
"Even though I know that I will never be able to buy the house of my dreams, I accept myself with this limiting belief"
"Even though some part of me doesn't believe that I deserve that new car, I am open to the possibility that I do."
"Even though I'm scared that if I made all this money my family would be jealous and hate me, I choose to realize that my wealth might actually help them in some way I can't even begin to fathom."

Manifestation Magic

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Sat, 23 Feb 2008 00:51:00 +0000

Have you ever thought of the words you use in the throes of ecstasy? People often use the long a sound as in aaaahhhhhh. According to Wayne Dyer and others it's no secret that this is the same sound as in the names we have given our deities- God, Buddha, Krishna, Shiva, Gaia, etc.
The connection between the sacred masculine and feminine is called procreation for a reason. When you procreate use alchemical properties to change energy into matter and create or manifest a baby or anything else for that matter. It's the whole Di Vinci Code concept of the union of heaven (masculine) and earth (feminine) meeting to form something new.
A dear friend of mine who was associated with the famous P.E.A.R Lab (Princeton’s Electric Propulsion and Plasma Dynamics Laboratory aka quantum physics research team) sited many experiments where a random numbers generator found that women and men are very different energetically. Men are the weaker of the two sexes but have laser like precision while women are much more powerful yet they are considered more scattered in directing their subtle energy. Put the two together and watch out. Those of you that have felt the intensity of an hour long orgasm know what I'm talking about.
What would it be like to have sex mean more than physical pleasure? What if you used it to heal everything from your finances to your migraines? Try it and see by stating the intention of your bedroom romp and letting yourself become a sex magician.

Lower or Higher Worlds

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Tue, 19 Feb 2008 14:26:00 +0000

Sex and money are just congealed energy as Joseph Campbell said -I actually think he just said this about money- and to see it that way is to be liberated. Neither sex nor money can make you happy and you can elevate each by how you use them. You can choose to make sex a spiritual expression of love by ridding yourself of all barriers (conscious or otherwise) to really connect with your lover and your higher self. Money can be made holy by the way you choose to spend it. It all comes down to the choices you make after you've sufficiently cleared away the judgements, fears, and self-limiting beliefs.

"Even though I having all these limiting beliefs about money and sex, I deeply and completely love and accept myself"
"Even though I was taught that money and sex are evil, I choose to open myself up to the possibility that they are merely a gauge for my connection to my higher self"
"Even though I can't fully let myself go when it comes to abundance and sexuality, I forgive myself"

Sex and Money

noreply@blogger.com (Alina) — Tue, 19 Feb 2008 14:23:00 +0000

What’s up with the plethora of books on our sexless culture now flooding the market? With titles such as The Sexless Marriage, Beyond Viagra, Rekindling Desire, Reclaiming Intimacy could it be true that this sex in the media saturated generation has no libido? The Emperor really doesn't have any clothes!
Sex, like money, is a clear indicator of where we are vibrationally. As the world’s most perfect tuning forks, human beings are creators of their reality consciously or not. For those who have been deliberately shaping their lives the question then is, ” Why aren't you making more money or having fantastic soul(ful) sex?”
Could it be that you don't believe you deserve to live a life of outrageous pleasure?