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This Foto just runined my day

2014-01-23T12:16:00.003+01:00

Here is Ambassador Dalhatu Sarki Tafida, a man so blessed he’s been in public service for 45 years now. He’s served in all governments since President Shehu Shagari:
- He was a Commissioner for Health for 4 years and Minister of Health for 5 years.
- He was a Senator for 8 years
- Nigeria’s High Commissioner (Ambassador) to UK for about 6 years now.There’s nothing wrong with respecting people younger than your age, especially those who God has elevated to positions of leadership. But kneeling down?

2face Idibia Builds N250m Night Club In Lagos

2014-01-16T16:05:00.002+01:00

Following the success of his ‘Rumours Night club’ in Ikeja, music star, 2face Idibia has expanded by launching another Rumours Nite Club around Mile 2, FESTAC Town, Lagos.

Dailypost has gathered that the African Queen crooner spent about N250 Million on the 1000 guest capacity club which opened its doors in the New Year to fun seekers.

The multi-millionaire property belonged to ex-Super Eagles striker, Victor Agali, before it was purchased and converted into a night club.

On why he delved into the club business, the CEO of Hypertek Records and Entertainment, 2face told PUNCH that “I am not only an artiste, I’m also an entrepreneur.”

He further revealed his plans to have the “Rumours Night club” in major cities in Nigeria and in Africa.

”I want to make the night club a model like Jay-z’s Club 40/40. I want to have my clubs in major cities in Nigeria and one in South Africa, Europe and the US.” He said

Twitter wars- Jim Iyke comes out for AY

2014-01-16T15:55:00.002+01:00

I'm sure you must have seen or heard about the hilarious video comedian AY made with his fellow comedian Helen Paul on Jim Iyke getting delivered at Synagogue.

Although, AY did that just to promote his Easter comedy show coming. Well, too bad Jim Iyke didn't take the joke lightly as he went on twitter to show his displeasure towards the skit..

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LOL- Condom falls out of Pator's Bible

2014-01-16T15:53:00.002+01:00

A pastor was fighting for his life in early june last year after he was beaten into a coma when condoms fell out of his bible during a preaching session in lagos bus. The pastor boarded a bus in apapa and started preaching to the passengers, uttering statements such as, " if you wear trousers you ll go 2 hell, the devil invented makeup! Weavon on your heard is 4rm d marine kingdom! If you ve premarital sex you ll burn in hell and ur skin ll peel off" later as he was praying nd laying hands on passengers, two durex condoms fell out of his bible. The angry men in d bus who had been feeling guilty due to the pastor's preaching against fornication suddenly pounced on him. As dey were beating him he started shouting " I also preach safe sex! I also preach safe sex! Safe sex is good!" The police had 2 be called to d scene to save the pastor's life. The pastor was arrested and d condoms retained as evidence.
This write up is not meant to judge who was right or wrong

Meet Kim Kadashian's look alike

2014-01-16T15:53:00.000+01:00

Kim Kardashian (left) and Hannah SImone (right)

Introducing Kim Kardashian’s look-alike, Hannah Simone. Kardashian and Simone look so alike that bthey could pass for sisters.

They are both 33-years-old and both have a flair for fashion.

Simone is a Canadian television hostess, actress, and former fashion model.

Hannah Simone (left) and Kim Kardashian (right)

Simone is considered to be the smarter version of Kardashian. She received a BA in International Relations and Political Science from University of British Columbia. In 2004, she received a BA in Radio and Television Arts from Ryerson University.

Kim Kardashian (left) and Hannah Simone (right)

Pathetic- Tukur Resigns

2014-01-15T16:23:00.002+01:00

Embattled National Chairman of the Peoples Democratic Party, Alhaji Bamanga Tukur, has resigned, THE PUNCH learnt.
A senior member of the divided National Working Committee of the party, who spoke with our correspondent in Abuja on Wednesday, said President Goodluck Jonathan will inform the meeting of the National Caucus of the party tonight in Abuja about the development.
With the resignation, Tukur has escaped being suspended from the party by the members of the NWC if he had refused to resign.
Tukur was to be suspended by about eight members of the NWC, while the National Executive Committee of the party would ratify his suspension on Thursday.
Meanwhile, the wife of the President, Mrs. Patience Jonathan is said to be scheming to install Tukur’s successor.
The First Lady is said to be rooting for the appointment of the Minister of Transport, Sen. Idris Umar.
However, the governors are resisting the move.

Mikel Obi Declares That He Can Never Marry His Russian Mistress

2014-01-15T16:00:00.000+01:00

When Mikel Obi shared intimate pictures of himself & his new girlfriend on his personal instagram page, many assumed after years of searching he had found the one in Russian, Olga Diyachenko.

But after seeing his reply to a fan who questioned him about dating a white girl when there are so many black women he could choose from, I am left wondering if Mikel is even serious about this chick…

A fan @mimi6uk said

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Mikel abi u no c ur black sisters out der to date, u come here to show world ur white b****? black stars n complex, always feeling white woman is better…dats y deese white people dont hve respect for u black guys in abroad cos dey know they’ve made u to dislike ur own, gross!

Please ignore the fan’s typos…LOL

To which Mikel (@officialmikelcfc) responded

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Sister take it easy, it only a photo no marriage yet, trust me

Please what does trust me mean?! I’m sorry Mikel I love you boo, but saying that is disrespectful to your girlfriend, even if you have no permanent plans for her don’t put her on blast publicly like that, especially when you already claimed her by posting pictures of you both looking loved up!

But I guess this means there’s still hope for all you ladies who were left heartbroken by the news of Mikel & Olga dating…LOL

See more screenshots of the debate between Mikel & his fans about race & black men choosing white women over black sistas when they become wealthy!

Angry Afrocandy Posts Photos Of Her Breasts After Fans Call Her Old

2014-01-15T15:56:00.001+01:00

Has she gone too far this time around? She bared her "oranges" because her critics said she was an old woman. Read what she said and the full picture after the break

Here's her caption: "b4 you call AfroCandy Old pls compare these babies with yours and your mama's own. Old women dont look like this". Do you agree with her?

B Joshua speaks up on Controverial Anti-gay bill

2014-01-15T15:51:00.002+01:00

As news of the controversial law banning same-sex marriage continues to make headlines worldwide after it was signed into law by President Goodluck Jonathan, the renowned spiritual head of the Synagogue church in Lagos, Prophet TB Joshua has spoken out on the contentious issue.

“Judge not, so that you will not be judged,” Joshua began, citing Matthew 7:1 for Scriptural backing. “We should talk to people to be saved and not to die. I mean, we should talk salvation, not condemnation. The Bible is my standard.”

Through a new initiative on his ministries official Facebook page, with almost 900,000 fans, in which the cleric responds to people’s questions in an interactive session, he addressed the much debated question on same-sex marriage.

TB Joshua added: “If my parents were one, I would not have been given birth to,” he proceeded poignantly. “Those that are asking this question, (note that) if your parents were one, you would not have been given birth to. You that are reading me – if your parents were one, you would not be reading this today. God bless the reader and the hearer.”

His message is clear; being gay is not something we should encourage but we should not condemn any one.

I used witchcraft against the whites during Apartheid’ – President Jacob Zuma

2014-01-12T17:20:00.000+01:00

South Africa’s president Jacob Zuma has told how he used witchcraft against white people.
Speaking in his native Zulu at a pre-election rally in the country’s rural north, he told voters: “I used to practise witchcraft around here, bewitching the Boers during apartheid.”

President Jacob Zuma at a campaign rally (Photo Credit: Citizen.co.za)

He promised the crowd in a village in Mpumalanga province that if his African National Congress party was re-elected with more than 90 per cent of the vote, he would come back to slaughter cows in celebration.
Mr Zuma, who was a commander of the ANC’s armed wing under apartheid, also claimed his party would run South Africa “for ever”.
The ANC is predicted to win this year’s election with around 60 per cent of the vote, but is forecast to lose a great deal of popular support.

Jacob Zuma and wife at their traditional marriage ceremony

INSANE LAWSUIT -- Man Says She Begged Him for Naked Pics

2014-01-12T17:19:00.000+01:00

Jennifer Lopez has been dragged into what looks like the craziest catfish debacle of all time -- a man just sued the singer, claiming she duped him into sending her naked photos in the mail ... but it appears a rando 53-year-old woman is secretly behind everything.

Rodrigo Ruiz filed the $10,000 suit against Lopez in L.A., claiming she sent him a letter out of the blue in 2008, demanding he reply with naked photos ... as well as his demo CDs.

He claims the letters led him to believe he had a chance at a music career -- and even a romantic relationship with Lopez, but she never followed through and he eventually gave up hope. Ruiz says he was so depressed he sought out professional help.

Ruiz sent us a few of the 3-line letters he received from "Lopez" and they're obviously bogus ... the first reads, "I just wanted to let you know that I do remember you and that I am interested in you. I have plans on leaving my husband. But I can't say much right now so that's it for now. Send me pictures of you both with clothes and without clothes."

Here's the second -- "This is Jennifer Lopez writing to you again and just to let you know that I got your packages, music, and demos. And just to let you know you need to send me pictures of you with and without clothes."

The third is the best -- "This is Jennifer Lopez and as you can tell its been a while since I last wrote and as you can see I have a new boyfriend which means your in for the long haul and you have to put up with the fact that I am f**king him and sucking his d**k."

In addition to the lawsuit, Ruiz filed a police report claiming sexual harassment.

Ruiz still believes Lopez sent these letters to him, but records show the P.O. box he replied to is owned by a 53-year-old L.A. woman.

We called her to ask about the lawsuit and everything else, and she nervously concocted a lame explanation about operating a Jennifer Lopez fan mail exchange ... and hung up on us.

A rep for J.Lo tells TMZ, "this is a small claims matter that appears to be a desperate attempt for notoriety. Ms Lopez has never seen or met the plaintiff, nor has she ever communicated with him. We believe this matter should be summarily dismissed."

Catfishing someone via snail mail. Never thought we'd see the day.

Read more: http://www.tmz.com#ixzz2qCYr9mcm

Rivers Senator lieing in a critical situation after being shot

2014-01-12T17:10:00.000+01:00

The Senator representing Rivers Central Senatorial district, Magnus Abe has been hit by a rubber bullet shot by officers of the Rivers State police command.
This was confirmed by his Personal Assistant and Information Officer, Honour Siranwo.
Senator Abe had led members of Save Rivers Movement, to a venue where they were to hold an inauguration and thanksgiving programme for the Obio-Akpor Chapter of the group.
Governor Rotimi Amaechi was expected at the event before the incident occurred.
In his reaction, Chief of Staff, Government House Port Harcourt, Tony Okocha said the police wants to militarize the state.
Okocha said the Save Rivers Movement had applied to the state police command.
According to him, the Supervising Minister of Education, Nyesom Wike, orchestrated the attack. He also alleged that he bribed the Police Commissioner in the state, Joseph Mbu to carry out the attack.
According to report, the police shot sporadically and released tear gas to disperse the crowd.
In the meantime, Senator Abe is lying critically in the hospital.

Expatriate resigns in protest of unpaid wages of Nigerian staff

2014-01-11T15:49:00.000+01:00

A Base Maintenance Manager at Caverton Helicopters, Mr. Surendra Bhagwandass yesterday resigned over non-payment of salaries and unfair treatment of Nigerian workers in the company.
The company, which has contracts with companies like SHELL, TOTAL among others was accused of not paying the salaries of its Nigerian workers last month (December 2013).
Bhagwandass who tendered his resignation letter through an email to the management of Caverton said that he became frustrated knowing that the expatriates workers were being taken care of while their Nigerian counterparts were not only poorly paid but their salaries delayed and described the development as unfair.
“Shame on you guys. I heard from the people I work with that they are not paid for the festive season. This is a security breach as I now feel uncomfortable to travel and work, while you guys have a merry time.
“Please have heart as these people have families, while you all enjoy the best; being with your families. You all (set) break the record as the only company in the world who do not pay your workers. Shame on you guys,”he expatriate stated in the email.
Some of the Nigerain workers at Caverton Helicopters said it was painful to know that expatriate staff were paid in dollars but the Nigerian workers who put in more effort on the job were paid less.
They also said, that while they are not given accommodation or security escorts, expatriates enjoyed such benefits.
“They are paid in dollars, we in Naira but we work more than them. Several staff have been attacked because they leave their houses around 4 am. There is no security for us. But they enjoy everything in our country,” the staff said.
He further accused Caverton Helicopters of failing to take good care of its staff even after promising oil companies that it would do so before signing contracts with them.
The Personal Assistant to the Managing Director of Caverton Helicopters, Mrs. Doyin Elegbe denied the allegations.

Meet Six year old who earns 8000 bucks a week

2014-01-11T15:38:00.000+01:00

The youngest child on the new Disney sitcom "Girl Meets World" makes WAY more money than you ... $8,000 a week to be exact ... and he's only 6 years old.

According to the minor contract for August Maturo -- who plays the youngest son of Cory and Topanga on the show -- the child actor is set to earn $8,000 per episode (one a week) for the first season of the show.

If the show is approved for additional seasons, he's set to earn even more -- up to $9,261 per episode by Season 4. Pretty sweet.

It obviously pays to be one of the main characters ... we got the minor contract for another kid on the show (who plays the daughter's love interest) and he's only set to make about $4,800 an episode.

Only.

Read more: http://www.tmz.com/2014/01/10/girl-meets-world-august-maturo-salary-8000/#ixzz2q6JJnKcv

Meet Mikel Obi's GF (Photos)

2014-01-11T11:56:00.001+01:00

Ilkay Gundogan would brighten not just Manchester United, but the Premier League as a whole

2014-01-11T11:54:00.001+01:00

If you told me before the season that I would get to watch both Mesut Ozil and Ilkay Gundogan in the Premier League this year, I’d probably try my hardest to give whoever made that happen a big ol’ hug.
Having seen what beautiful things Ozil has brought to the English game at the Emirates, the prospect of both being on my television come February 1 is salivating.
Manchester United, having been linked heavily with a bid for Gundogan, will have to try very hard to pry him from the clutches of a Borussia Dortmund side already reeling from the thought of losing Robert Lewandowski this summer. It’s not a long shot, but it’s close.
However, should David Moyes pony up a successful £24 million ($39.6 million) offer, and convince Gundogan to risk his Champions League playing time (think green, that usually helps), the German could very well save their season – and the manager’s job.
The 23-year-old is currently missing long-term from Dortmund’s lineup, having made just one appearances this year due to a spinal injury.
But when healthy, Gundogan is an absolute workhorse. His style isn’t exactly as “sexy” as Ozil’s, but having completed a position change from a No. 10 to a holding midfielder, he possesses the best qualities of both roles melded into one player – what is known as a “complete midfielder.”

Ilkay would be just what the doctor ordered at Manchester United, should David Moyes choose to pursue the German.

It’s a style of player that fits beautifully into the rigors of the Premier League. Technical yet physically weak players are eaten alive (see: Ruiz, Bryan) but Gundogan possesses the seizing abilities of a holding midfielder while still proving dangerous in both build-up and attack.
The German international had an 87% pass completion during the 2012/2013 Bundesliga season – not stellar until you notice Dortmund play a style that relies on an incisive yet risky passing attack.
He also paired the following statistics together last year: an outstanding 80% tackle completion percentage (51/64) and a 64% take-on success rate (58/90). He can dispossess and dribble.
With Manchester United’s midfield currently featuring such yawn-inspiring players such as Tom Cleverley, Michael Carrick, and 40-year-old Ryan Giggs, the middle of the pitch at Old Trafford could use some life.
That’s what David Moyes thought he was doing bringing Marouane Fellaini with him from Everton, but Fellaini’s been both injured and underwhelming, proving his passing abilities to be sub par when thrust into the bright lights.
Gundogan’s playmaking abilities would light up Old Trafford, and feed Wayne Rooney and Robin van Persie (given he’s on the pitch and not in the physio’s room) the service they’ve so lacked this season.
Rooney should be lauded by United fans, having singlehandedly created nearly every sliver of United’s attack – nine goals and 11 assists (61% of their goals this season!). Pair the two playmakers, and watch Manchester United soar up the table.
If it happens, consider yourselves lucky to be graced with the ability to watch the beautiful playmaking skills of two different yet equally tantalizing players.

I had Surgery to change my eye colour but was left temporarily blind

2014-01-11T11:49:00.000+01:00

A student, Shenise Farrell from London was left temporarily blind after surgery to change the colour of her eyes.

Shenise Farrell travelled to Panama, in Central America, for the unregulated procedure to change her eye colour from dark brown to light brown.
She spent £8,000 on the operation but it went wrong and she was almost left permanently blind.

Ms Farrell decided in 2009 that she wanted to change the colour of her eyes and so she began researching surgical options.
Despite her family’s horror, she travelled to Panama to have a procedure which involved implanting coloured discs – like a contact lenses – into her eyes.
According to Ms Farrell 'I was so determined to get the surgery nothing rang alarm bells for me - nothing obvious.'
When Ms Farrell arrived at the clinic in Panama, she was told that she could not have the light brown implants as they were out of stock.
As a result, the surgeon informed her that she would be given blue implants instead. Despite this not being her original intention, she decided to go ahead with the operation.
Ms Farrell says that during the procedure she screamed and the surgeon told her not to scream as it 'could cause things to go wrong'.
To her huge shock, at the end of the 20 minute procedure, Ms Farrell realised she couldn’t see properly.
She says it was as though she was looking underwater but the surgeon told her not to worry and that for some patients it took up to two weeks for vision to return to normal.
However, by the time Ms Farrell returned to London her sight had deteriorated further. She went to Charing Cross Hospital where she was unable even to read the biggest letter on the optician’s chart.
Doctors at the hospital had never seen anything like it so were temporarily at a loss as to how to help her.
Eventually, it was decided that the implants had to be removed. Ms Farrell risked permanent blindness to go under the knife again.
This time, surgeons made an incision in her corneas to allow them to remove the implants.
Ms Farrell said: ‘When I woke up I saw black. I panicked. I thought if my vision goes, my life will be over.'
However, the blackness she saw was only caused by the bandaged surgeons had placed over her eyes.
When these were removed, she was able to see again but her vision was blurry. It took two to three months for her vision to return to normal.
She said: 'Now that my eyes are back to normal, my eyes are brown but it doesn’t matter what shade of brown it is. The main thing is that I can see.'

Obasanjo Leaves PDP

2014-01-11T11:47:00.000+01:00

President Olusegun Obasanjo has fired another letter, this time, to the National Chairman of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), Alhaji Bamanga Tukur, in which he gave a notice of his withdrawal from the activities of the party. Obasanjo also sent a copy of the letter to President Goodluck Jonathan as National Leader of the party. A copy of the letter was obtained by the Saturday Tribune. Read the letter after the break

The former president, in the letter, said he was withdrawing from all activities of the party because the PDP had been negating the principles of morality, decency and discipline in its decisions, especially as they affect the South West where he comes from. The letter, dated January 7, 2014, according to a source at the national secretariat of the party, was received in the office of Tukur on Wednesday, 8 January, 2014. It is believed that President Jonathan also got his own copy on Thursday.

Obasanjo accused the party leadership of imposing someone (names witheld), who he described as a criminal wanted abroad, on the party as its South West zonal leader and proceeded to add that he was forwarding with the letter, “recent documents” on the alleged activities of the person. Efforts to get copies of the “recent documents” by Saturday Tribune from both the PDP national secretariat as well as from Obasanjo’s side were, however, not successful but a source at PDP’s national secretariat confirmed that the letter came with attachments. He did not give further details.

A meeting of South West leaders of the party, it was gathered, will hold in Ibadan, Oyo State, today and may also come up with far-reaching decisions on the future of the party in the zone.

PDP governors give fresh conditions for peace
PEOPLES Democratic Party (PDP) governors have given fresh conditions for peace to return to the party and for the chairman, Alhaji Bamanga Tukur, to remain in office. Part of the conditions, according to information gathered by the Saturday Tribune, is for President Goodluck Jonathan to prevail on Tukur to return the structures of the party to them in their respective states as well as make them the leaders. Only after this would they agree to resume adequate funding of the party at all levels as well as its national secretariat.

Part of Tukur’s ‘sins’ is his alleged incessant interference in the affairs of the state chapters, which is said to have led to the setting up of caretaker committees for some of the chapters. The situation did not go down well with the governors, who saw the action as erosion of their powers as leaders in their respective states. The new development, sources close to the governors said, followed the intervention of some respected leaders of the party who reportedly counseled them on the implications of removing Tukur now that the 2015 general elections are around the corner.

Saturday Tribune, however, learnt that the development had created a sharp division among the governors, as some of them are still insisting that the embattled chairman must go as earlier demanded, for them continue to be relevant in the scheme of things in the party ahead of the 2015 elections. The likes of the governors of Jigawa and Niger states, who were members of the aggrieved G7 Governors before five of them defected to the All Progressives Congress (APC), and some others are said to have insisted that for genuine peace to return to the PDP and for the party to maintain its supremacy come 2015 elections, there must be a complete change of leadership.

However, one of the aides to Alhaji Tukur revealed that the cause of friction between Tukur and the governors was his insistence that the party must be returned to the grassroots, and that the constitution of the party must be followed to the letter to allow for due process in election of candidates for party or elective offices, rather than the old order of imposition of candidates by state governors without due process.

Soyinka's Daughter laid to rest

2014-01-11T11:43:00.002+01:00

Justin Bieber might be Charged with minor felony

2014-01-11T11:28:00.002+01:00

Justin Bieber will be charged with a felony -- if L.A. County Sheriff's detectives have their way.

Law enforcement sources tell TMZ ... 2 detectives met with the owner of the house that Bieber egged Thursday night. We're told the detectives are indignant and believe this is their best chance to nail the Biebs because they have both video of the incident and physical evidence.

And there's urgency to the investigation ... we're told the detectives told the homeowner they need repair estimates by Monday.

Our sources say detectives are confident the estimates will raise the stakes to a felony. In California, if the damage is greater than $400 it becomes FELONY vandalism. We're told the homeowner's damage could be in the 10s of thousands of dollars because the very expensive Venetian plaster on the outside of the house has to be redone, and very expensive doors and other items were either damaged or ruined.

As for why the Sheriff's detectives want to hold Bieber accountable ... they feel he's made a mockery of the legal system by breaking the law numerous times ... the problem has been there was never enough evidence to prosecute him. But there is now.

The D.A. should get the case next week.

Read more: http://www.tmz.com#ixzz2q5IMsY6i

Whitney Houston's Daughter marries Brother

2014-01-11T11:24:00.000+01:00

Bobbi Kristina Brown confirms she and Nick Gordon have transitioned ... from "adopted" brother and sister to husband and wife -- but Whitney Houston's daughter says they got permission from grandma first.

BK and Gordon were doing the newlywed strut in Atlanta Friday ... when a photog asked about their recent nuptials.

The couple was tight lipped on details -- except to hint about a big upcoming ceremony -- but they added ... Cissy Houston OK'd the marriage before they did the deed.

And then they made out. Gross

Read more: http://www.tmz.com#ixzz2q5HNQeXI

Signs she is just playing hard to get

2014-01-11T11:20:00.002+01:00

So you found a girl who really gets your attention. But one thing that you notice is that she seems kind of out of it, like she doesn’t really want your attention. Or does she? Let’s face it: Attractive women get a lot of attention and are approached all the time by men. They are often far too subtle and indirect — or just plain confusing — when revealing their romantic interest; therefore, they need quick, easy ways to figure out if you’re either a self-confident guy who can see through their games or just another wuss that easily gives up at the first sign of resistance.
For a woman, playing hard to get is a game that is meant to drive men crazy yet keep them coming back for more. The trouble comes when guys don’t know if a woman is playing hard to get or is just genuinely not interested in interacting with them. So with that in mind, here are 4 signs she’s playing hard to get.

1. She tests you to see how long you’ll chase her

You’ve gotten her number, but when you dial her digits, all you get is her answering machine. A couple of days pass, you call her again and she happens to answer the phone, apologizing for not having called you earlier because she was busy. She always has a full schedule (or pretends that she does). So what’s the real reason why didn’t she call you when she had the chance? It may be because she wants to be pursued, but doesn’t want to look too available.
If you call a woman to set up a date with her, she may tell you that she is busy that particular night, to call her next week when her schedule is not as hectic. Doing this shows she’s interested in going out with you, but containing her eagerness. She may even agree to go out with you on a certain night and then at the last minute, calls and cancels to reschedule. Although this is a risky move on her part, she may be checking to see how you will take the bad news and if you are still really interested in going out with her.

2. She flirts like crazy, then stops
A woman who is playing hard to get will seemingly want to know everything about you i.e., quiz you about your family, your background, and your tastes in things like food, music and movies, then abruptly change the subject by moving the conversation elsewhere. More than likely, what she’s doing is trying to catalog your interests so that she can slowly bond with you when she’s ready.

3. She talks about other guys you don’t know
Another sign a woman is playing hard to get is when she brings up co-workers from work or male friends and makes light conversations on how cute or funny they are in order to ignite a little jealously and make you work harder for her attention.
4. She teases you, then pulls away
If she smiles when you check her out, plays with her hair, leans toward you while talking and briefly stares into your eyes with passion to build up tension, then suddenly breaks away when you move in for the kiss or some neck action, she may well be playing hard to get and trying to see how hard you’ll really work for her affection.
Playing hard to get is part of the dating game, not to mention the part that makes it fun; however, if she has your number, but is busy all the time and continuously makes no attempt to keep the window of possibility open with you, she’s not playing hard to get–she’s just not interested in you.

13 year old commits Suicide in Akure

2014-01-11T11:17:00.001+01:00

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A 13-year-old boy has reportedly committed suicide in his parent’s home in Akure, Ondo state.
He was found dangling in his room by his step mother Rukayat Osisi at about 10 a.m. on wednesday January 8th 2014.
The police is investigating the death of the boy.
Vanguard reports:

A 13 year old primary five pupil, Awal Osisi has committed suicide in Akure, the Ondo state capital.

But the police in the state is working at some puzzles surrounding the alleged death of the boy just as his step mother is being detained.

Saturday Vanguard gathered that the boy committed suicide in his parents’ house located at High School area of Akure.

Awal was allegedly found in his parents’ room hanging by the door on Wednesday by using a belt to hang himself.

His step mother Mrs Rukayat Osisi reportedly raised alarm at about 10.00am when she discovered the dangling body of the boy in the room.

Rukayat a petty trader, claimed that she found the body of Awal in the room having committed suicide.

However, the police in the state is suspecting foul play, wondering why the step mother brought down the alleged dangling body of the boy before informing the police.

The woman was said to have gone to the ‘A’ Division at about 1.35 pm to report that her step-son was found dead in the room after killing himself.

Rukayat said she discovered the body of the boy in the room after he hanged himself with a belt tied to the handle of the door. She said she had to remove the corpse of the deceased and take it to the State specialist hospital in Akure before reporting the incident at the police station.

However, reports gathered from the community showed that Awal has always been a victim of victimisation, oppression and child abuse by his father and the step- mother since his mother divorced the father some years ago.

Saturday Vanguard learnt that the step-mother together with the father has always been maltreating the boy and sending him on difficult errands.

It was learnt that the father works outside Akure and comes to Akure every weekend.

The father, it was gathered seized the boy’s school uniform and books following a report from the wife that the deceased misbehaved while the father was away in his station.

young Muslim Man sets self ablaze over refusal of parents to allow him marry his christian lover

2014-01-11T11:12:00.001+01:00

TARABA – A 21-year-old muslim man burnt himself to death in Taraba’s capital city of Jalingo on Friday January 10th 2014.
Mansur Tanko took his life following a disagreement with his father Tanko Mijinyawa who disapproved of him marrying a Christian girl named Blessing.
According to an eyewitness, Alhaji Jibrin Bala, Tanko approached his father to seek permission to marry Blessing but his father kicked against the union saying it was a wrong choice. His father advised him to marry another girl but Tanko said he couldn’t survive without Blessing.
Tanko immediately went to a corner of the compound and poured petrol all over his body and set himself ablaze, the eyewitness added.
He said: “When we suddenly saw fire, everybody ran toward the corner of the compound, only to see Tanko burning. The father and other people in the compound tried to rescue Tanko from the fire, but failed as the flame was much and we could not move near.”
Tanko’s father, Mijinyawa, tried to rescue him but all efforts were unsuccessful. He is currently receiving treatment at the Federal Medical Centre, Jalingo, for injuries sustained in the process.
The Taraba Police Public Relations Officer, Mr Joseph Kwaji, confirmed the incident and said the Jalingo Division of the police has commenced investigation into the matter.

MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN BED

2014-01-11T10:42:00.004+01:00

Mistake 1. Thinking She is Having Orgasms When She Isn’t
You may think that your lover is having multiple orgasms (or even AN orgasm) when she is not. She may make a bunch of noises, get really wet, and even TELL YOU she is cumming. But is she really? Grab a Cosmopolitan sometime and look at how many articles and comments on faking orgasms. I’m not saying that YOUR GIRL is faking orgasms EVERY TIME but… chances are there have been a few episodes of love making where she was CRAVING something other than what you were doing.
When this happens women just want it to be over and encourage you to cum. It doesn’t mean you are awful in bed; just that being a mind-blowing lover EVERY TIME takes some specialized knowledge. If you are giving your girl orgasms (and absolutely 100% sure of it) then congratulations! You’re one of the few guys who is ACTUALLY pleasing a woman REALLY WELL. But if you’re not, it is crucial that you learn how…
Mistake #2) Not Giving Her a Variety of Sexual Experiences
A lot of guys who are new to sex – or are used to having sex with the same woman – tend to forget that women want different KINDS of sexual EXPERIENCES. You might think that changing positions a few times and varying the speed of your thrusting is a different type of sex. But it is not. Women thrive on emotions. Sometimes they want to be taken, sometimes they want it hard, and sometimes they want to make love. If you are NOT talking during sex and creating a strong emotional experience for her she CAN’T be totally fulfilled. Women want strong emotional experiences in bed.
Let’s look at an example.
Women love bad boys because of the emotions that a bad boy inspires in them. It is why when women cheat it is often with a “bad boy.” However, you don’t need to be bad boy to create bad boy emotions within her in the bedroom. Just be a bad boy yourself by spanking her, talking dirty, and giving it to her good!
Women also love very suave, romantic types. Think of the cheesy paperback romance novels or current tv shows (Nip Tuck) they read with that long-haired douchebag on a horse (aka Fabio) on the cover.
Now, I’m not saying you should grow long hair, huge man boobs, and start riding a horse… but what you can do is mix up your lovemaking with some romantic sessions in which you are telling your girl how beautiful she is to you and how much you love her.
Get it?
The skinny is this:
You NEED to give your lover a variety of sexual experiences… and you can give them all to her YOURSELF… but you have to mix it up!
Mistake #3) Forgetting To Be A MAN
Ask any 100 women off of the street and 99 of them will tell you that they want a man that TAKES CONTROL. That said, she wants YOU to call the shots! Yes you read that right. Your girl DOES want you to take control in the bedroom, to flip her around and do her doggystyle without asking, and to do what YOU want!
Women are programmed to respond to strong, authoritative, confident men. It signifies that you are a protector, a leader, and a suitable mate. Sure, it’s ok to ask her if she is enjoying something… but this is mostly reserved to specific technique when you are “going down”. Save the talk about actual positions she liked for AFTER you are done.
Now don’t get me wrong – you are not making her a slave here but rather leading with authority and masculine strength. Once you start doing this you will be able to do many things with her in the bedroom that she earlier would not do. Many guys often think she is just uptight and her not being sexual if she doesn’t want to do something… when in reality she just needs you to be a man and guide her with your strength. You’ll be amazed at just how powerfully she responds!
Mistake #4) Thinking Sex Isn’t That Important To Her
If you want to know how much women LOVE sex… just think about how loudly they scream in the bedroom when they are getting it good! You won’t ever hear a guy screaming like that! You might THINK that your sex drive is much higher than your girls because YOU are usually the one initiating sex with her. But…
As hard as it is to swallow, recognize that if your girl doesn’t want to have sex it is NOT because she doesn’t want to. Unfortunately, it’s probably because you just aren’t getting her off. Fortunately this is an easy fix, and in a moment we’ll talk about how to do it…
Mistake #5) Being Silent/Emotionless in Bed
You may think that it is “cheesy” or “creepy” to talk romantically or dirty in bed. (you may think its weird to talk at all in bed) However, women HATE silent, mechanical sex. Why? Let’s hit this again my friend: Women THRIVE one emotion. Dirty talk or romantic talk are EXCELLENT at giving your girl STRONG EMOTIONS in bed.
And strong emotions = STRONG ORGASMS.
Never think that it is solely your physical parts or motions you are making that get your girl off. The most POWERFUL FEMALE ORGASMS are triggered by her mind, not by her physical body. Unlock her mind through dirty talk, romantic talk, and emotional talk WHILE having sex and your girl will experience the strongest orgasms of her life.

Mistake #6) Trading Dinners/Flowers/etc To Get Sex From Her
Many men mistakenly think that women aren’t interested in sex (we already discussed how this is incorrect thinking) and that they have to “trade something” with their girl for sex. This is why you see so many guys trying to have sex with their girl by first taking her out to a nice dinner or buying her gifts. While doing nice things for your girl is awesome, it should NEVER be with the intention of GETTING SEX. When you have to trade something to get sex from your girl realize that this is PROOF that you are not good enough in bed. It is proof that she does not like sex with you since in order to DO IT you have to give her something in exchange.
When you are sexually satisfying your girl you will not have to trade ANYTHING for sex but your girl will often sponateously text you sexy messages, buy YOU a small gift, or begin initiating sex constantly. Just wait and see!
Mistake #7) Not Giving Her Enough “Foreplay”
If you still think of “foreplay” as the activity before sex you need a quick mindset adjustment to change how much time you spend on foreplay. Here’s a hint: Women consider foreplay as PART of the sex. NOT as a separate thing!
Here’s why:
While a man is not capable of having a foreplay orgasm AND another orgasm right away when he penetrates his girl, WOMEN CAN! Imagine if you could have orgasms during foreplay AND never lose your erection even the slightest and keep having orgasms as you penetrated your girl. You’d want to spend A LOT of time in foreplay too, right?
Well your girl CAN have foreplay orgasms AND penetration orgasms so she DOES want to spend a lot of time in foreplay. As she should!
As a rule of thumb, spend at least the same amount of time on foreplay as penetration and you can always spend EVEN MORE time in foreplay. You can never get her too turned on and it will only make the penetration better when you are finally inside of her.
Mistake #8) Not Lasting Long Enough
This mistake is well known and very simple, but no list of mistakes in the bedroom would be complete without it. But while all guys know they need to last long… they don’t necessarily know HOW LONG that is! Well, after talking to hundreds of women about the subject, I’ve discovered that if you can last at least 10 minutes, most women will be plenty happy with that.
Sure, they might be even happier if you are up for a “round 2″ after a break in the action… but if you can last for 10 minutes in the first round, then trust me, you are fine!
Mistake #9) Mistaking Her Moody-ness For NORMAL Behavior
It’s no secret that women are a LOT moodier than us men. But if you’re in a relationship with a woman and she seems to keep getting more and more moody over time… this is often because she isn’t getting what she needs in the bedroom.
FACT.
As we talked about before… while women aren’t usually as sexually aggressive as men, they do love and NEED sex just as much!
But here’s the thing… if you’re not giving her orgasms… then sex does her no good! Can you imagine jerking off but you could NEVER orgasm? You’d begin to enjoy it less and less each time. Eventually you’d get so frustrated by the inabiliity to “finish” that it was just easier to avoid it COMPLETELY!
Sooo…
If you can’t give her orgasms why WOULD she want to have sex with you?
The answer:
She won’t.
If your girl is not wanting to have sex with you as much as you want then this is EXACTLY what has happened for her. In the beggining, she may have tolerated sex because she was really into you. Now that you have been together for a long time and sex isn’t satisfying for her it is more fulfilling to get herself off when you’re not around. This leads to only having sex with you on special occasions… or when she feels obligated (like if a guy bought her a fancy dinner or some sort of gift.)
If you recognize any of these signs it’s time to step up your sex game NOW before the sex drought gets even worse.
And when you do, you’ll discover that when you are completely rocking her world in bed, not only is she in a better mood on a day-to-day basis… but SHE’LL start initiating sex with YOU!
A close friend of mine who is some what of a love-making expert himself told me something that I didnt’ believe at the time… but I now KNOW to be 100% true: IF YOU ARE GIVING HER THE BEST OF HER LIFE SHE WON’T CARE IF YOU ARE HOMELESS LIVING IN A CARDBOARD BOX… AS LONG AS YOU CAN HAVE SEX IN IT!
When I heard this I thought he was totally full of it… but as my own lovemaking skills improved and then I heard about the success other guys were having, I realized this is completely true. Women are biologically “made” to be child bearers and select the highest value man to have a child with. Don’t you think that the ability to give amazing sex is one of the highest values a man can have?
Especially since so few men actually are REALLY GOOD.
If your girlfriend or wife is often starting arguments, not wanting sex, or acting “distant” in some way it is time to stop blaming her. Re-examine your sexual ability because the real culprit is inadequate sexual pleasure.
Mistake #10) Not Getting Help
Top performers in any aspect of life realize that MASTERY is a journey not a destination. Top athletes don’t all-of-a-sudden stop practicing. Millionaire business men don’t suddenly neglect their businesses and expect it to keep shuttling cash into their pockets. And guess what… sex is no different.
To be an amazing lover you can’t ever be blinded by sexual arrogance. Never think that you know EVERYTHING. You may know A LOT but there are ALWAYS new tricks or tips to get you to the next level