<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/" xmlns:blogger="http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0" version="2.0"><channel><atom:id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6005651953506347433</atom:id><lastBuildDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2020 07:51:14 +0000</lastBuildDate><category>alabama</category><category>attorney</category><category>birmingham</category><category>family law</category><category>mediator</category><category>practice</category><title>Family Matters Alabama  </title><description>Informing Alabama families and professionals about options and alternatives for settling disputes and resolving conflict while maintaining personal values and the integrity of the family. ELDER MEDIATION DIVORCE MEDIATION&#xa;</description><link>http://familymattersalabama.blogspot.com/</link><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (Christie Lyman Dowling)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>5</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6005651953506347433.post-2352889013236887021</guid><pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2014 21:37:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2014-12-02T15:02:44.829-08:00</atom:updated><title>After the turkey, the greenery, and the sweets....</title><atom:summary type="text">They say you can never come home again. Once you&#39;ve moved away from your childhood home, gone out on your own, you are a new person and you see your family and hometown through different eyes. And yet, especially at the holidays or during stressful life events, you find yourself acting and reacting exactly like your 10 year old self. Your brother&#39;s back handed compliments can trigger your long </atom:summary><link>http://familymattersalabama.blogspot.com/2014/12/after-turkey-greenery-and-sweets.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Christie Lyman Dowling)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6005651953506347433.post-883602284770900744</guid><pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 15:16:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-26T14:03:23.523-07:00</atom:updated><title>Families in Alabama: By the Numbers</title><atom:summary type="text">The Alabama Department of Public Health has released a summary of Vital Statistics for 2010.
The oldest person to marry in 2010 was 92; the youngest just 13. 
The oldest person to divorce was 104; the youngest just 16.
The greatest number of previous divorces for anyone divorcing in 2010 was 10.
The shortest marriage in Alabama in 2010 was just 13 days. 
The longest marriage to be ended in 2010 </atom:summary><link>http://familymattersalabama.blogspot.com/2011/10/families-in-alabama-by-numbers.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Christie Lyman Dowling)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6005651953506347433.post-6316578256646148459</guid><pubDate>Tue, 04 Jan 2011 21:45:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-01-13T07:51:05.744-08:00</atom:updated><title>You don&#39;t need a divorce lawyer....</title><atom:summary type="text">Not right away, anyway. Before my colleagues at the Birmingham family bar come beating down my door, let me explain.  Mediate before you litigate. Negotiate before you go for the kneecaps.  Consider the non-monetary costs to you, your spouse, your children, your career and your relationships with friends and family of a litigated divorce.

I am not suggesting that you sign any binding agreement </atom:summary><link>http://familymattersalabama.blogspot.com/2011/01/you-dont-need-divorce-lawyer.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Christie Lyman Dowling)</author><thr:total>7</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6005651953506347433.post-3377579824834340438</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 Oct 2010 21:41:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-10-01T14:41:22.103-07:00</atom:updated><title>Parents Aging, Squabbling Adult Siblings Need Elder Mediation, Conflict Resolution - AARP Bulletin</title><atom:summary type="text">Mediation Can Help. Its not your mothers family mediation, Or is it? 

Parents Aging, Squabbling Adult Siblings Need Elder Mediation, Conflict Resolution - AARP Bulletin</atom:summary><link>http://familymattersalabama.blogspot.com/2010/10/parents-aging-squabbling-adult-siblings.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Christie Lyman Dowling)</author><thr:total>1</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6005651953506347433.post-1311768034296005404</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Sep 2010 15:35:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-09-25T09:53:44.500-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">alabama</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">attorney</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">birmingham</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">family law</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">mediator</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">practice</category><title>OPENING MY DOOR</title><atom:summary type="text">Dear Friends and Colleagues,I am so excited to share this announcement with you! I have opened my own family law firm in Birmingham (English Village just up the road from the Zoo and just over the mountain from Highland Park.) I am focusing on mediation of divorce disputes and collaborative resolution for clients.
As most of you know, I practiced law for six years at Balch &amp; Bingham here in </atom:summary><link>http://familymattersalabama.blogspot.com/2010/09/open-door.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Christie Lyman Dowling)</author><thr:total>4</thr:total></item></channel></rss>