Relationship Advice

Relationship Stories

webbdeedee@ymail.com (webbdeedee3) — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 19:03:00 +0000

The first story i want to tell you about is about Tammy. Now tammy is married and has 2 children Tanika 19 and Tara 6. Now Tanika still lives at home with her mom and of course she has a boyfriend well anyways they have been dating for sometime now he comes to the house and if she is not there he is allowed to wait dude even has a key, well sometimes Tammy is home and little did everybody know she and her daughters boyfriend have been sleeping together. So one day Tanika comes home and finds that her mom is wearing an engagement ring on her finger and tells her she hasn't met her new man well fiance now. Her mother says you will meet him tonight and that exactly what happens well tammy calls me and tell me to come over which i did. Now mind you I new she was seeing someone but i didn't know who he was. Later on as we start to eat in walks tanikas boyfriend and he walks straight to tammy and gives her a hug bypasses tanika and i see the look in tanikas eyes. He then says tanika has your mom told you yet and she says i know it cant be what i think you are trying to say and i say wow it looks that way girl how can you do this. So now that we know whats going on tanika runs up stairs and tammy runs after her she slams the door in tammys face. After being upstairs for what seemed like forever tanika runs out her room all i hear is tammy scream next thing i know tanika shoots her boyfriend in the chest and i am standing still shocked. As he lay there tanika starts to cry i call the police and tammy is holding him screaming its going to be OK. A while later the ambulance came and took him to the hospital where he lived. But here is the catch he ended getting back with TANIKA!!!!!!! crazy I know but tammy tells me now that was her biggest mistake what do you think?

Cheating?

webbdeedee@ymail.com (webbdeedee3) — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 18:26:00 +0000

I know there are many of us who have thought about it once or twice but who has actually done it?

My best friend of 4 years just told me how she cheated on her boyfriend and get this she is pregnant by the other dude!!! So i ask her what she is going to do of course keep it but the story gets better the guy who she is pregnant for is MARRIED! That's going to be a big shock for his wife considering his wife is also pregnant.

No in my relationship we have had our ups and downs as well. He doesn't answer the phone or doesn't call me back that day or even the day after. When we finally talk I ask if he is cheating and he gets so mad. The way I see it is you don't want me to assume you are cheating so i just ask. Am i right? A lot of people would say he may be lying and true that is a possibility but what is a good relationship if you don't have trust?

Another solution is if your mate is cheating and you suspect they are would you cheat on them just because that is the thought in your head? I mean if your girlfriend or boy friend is treating you like crap then break up with them or cheat on :) just playing but it is a thought.

An ladies we know we are quick to assume a lot. Maybe in these instances we should sit our mates down and have a good discussion with them and make up dinner afterwords. Cheating is not the best route to go but it sure can be beneficial when you need it to be.

webbdeedee@ymail.com (webbdeedee3) — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 05:13:00 +0000

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Is the fire still burning?

webbdeedee@ymail.com (webbdeedee3) — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 03:19:00 +0000

Lets face it, there are so many of us in relationships now a days and we are thinking to ourselves if its really what we want. Am I happy, are we just in it for the sex or maybe just the kids. Have you ever wondered when you find yourself arguing with your spouse or significant other after the fight you walk outside and start to think about a previous relationship you had and it just makes you want to run back to it. I have had this happen to me time and time again.

Now I know what your thinking if that's all it takes is one little argument for me to run away then it wasn't meant to be. I don't think this to be true in fact I take it as a challenge and so should you. This is the time when you get out a pen and paper or simply make a mental note on the pros and cons or each relationship. Of course you want to stay with whoever has the most pros.

Often times I have made the list and the pros point to my partner but I am still so unhappy and find myself with the occasional wondering eye. Going to the grocery store and being asked for my number, how many of you in unhappy relationships give your number out. How many go on dates. These can be key signs your relationship is in trouble. The key is to figure out if you want to make it work or not. As mad as I get and swear I am so unhappy I know many of you will be able to relate when I say this, When I am mad I say its over, you make me sick , I'm so tired of trying and arguing and the list goes on.

Once I have walked away and cooled off I cant see myself with anyone else so does that mean we should work it out even though the relationship us unhappy? Go on the date and test the waters just keep it friendly. How many of you would admit your relationship?