A walk to remember

My 1st post on 2012..LOL!

2012-01-06T12:43:00.002+02:00

It's been a long time i didn't update anything. Even Christmas, i'm just too lazy to blog and also i'm too busy, i don't have enough free time. I don't know why but i got this little feeling of "blogger getting a lil boring", maybe i just don't like to write about what had happened in my life, i guess i don't really fancy on stalking stuff, it's like everyone gonna read the stuff i'm going to tell about my self or what happened. A good stalker, is fine by me. But the busybody type the one who will spread bull**** about you and twist lot crap around, that's what i tried to avoid. But anyhow, nothing much i'm gonna write here, just to post something to enlighten my blog up since it's very quite since last year i guess. So what's up people, what's your new year resolution?? I will tell mine for the next post, whenever i'm free and have the mood LOL. Cya!

Okay.. coconut man.... moon heads.... and pea. Are you ready?!!

2011-12-25T14:47:00.002+02:00

It's Christmas but i'm working, on this holiday, business is getting better or should i say FULL HOUSE :D and tomorrow, my new baby gonna meet me soon, thanks to my dear hubby, it's my Christmas gift :D

But anyways, Just like what my facebook status said:

It's not about how big is your gift or how much money you spend on this glorious day but spending your day with family / loves one that count. Merry Christmas everyone!

Dear Girls, never let any guy treat you like crap

2011-10-28T21:40:00.011+02:00

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So here my new post, i have lot story to tell all of you especially me and my mum born on this special month, we're October baby :-) All the post is still queuing on my draft anyway, was thinking should i post or not since i try to reduce my personal picture publish on public. I don't want my blog full of the spider web, i did plan to delete my blog and facebook since i have no time to manage both and i wanted to reduce the social network life, it's like as time pass by and i'm getting older and mature, i feel like to expose your self too much on public is too insecure. Feel like stalker is reading your life or even save your picture. Disable right click? LOL even me can save your picture without right click. If you know how to coding stuff, you'll get what i mean. People who doesn't know coding, know too. If they didn't live in the cave or something lol. See i told ya i always run from my main topic. But before i start, i want you my reader to know that i can't update my blog often since i'm very busy with work and stuff. Thanks God for everything! I'm so happy than ever. So let's go back to the main topic.

I love to "blog walking" during my free, and i'll never missed to read anything from any random girls who cried and hurt by their significant other. Okay yes you love him but if he treat you like a dog, why you wanna stay with him? Well some girls will answer, defend "that's how love is, to endure, bla bla" or "i love him so much, he's the one". Trust me, now it's fine but when it comes to commitment, which is marriage life, it even worst. A guy who hurt his love one especially treat her like crap, didn't even appreciate her, it's totally zero happiness or completely loser guy. How can you guarantee he will be a good father to your children someday, after he obviously treat you like a crap? There's lot good man out there, never persuade your self by saying you're ugly, no one want you. So what? The guy who love you for how you look, what you are is obviously don't deserve someone like you. Real man love you for who you are. And will not change any single thing of you because he love you, who you are. Well if he change you into better, that's good. But if he try to change you to look like a cheap prostitute, you know what to do, run. A guy who tell you "oh baby i wish you look just like her" or "why can't you be like her? so sexy" Yeah loser, bye-bye adios! So long ****! You girls don't need someone like that. It's not even worth to keep or love someone like that, it's better to love your puppy or cat. LOL well that's my opinion to encourage some girls who maybe need one. I hope this will help. I don't mind anyway if you need my other advice, sharing is caring alright? okay that's all for this topic, i'll post more soon if i have mood or any new idea. <3

When insomnia and bored visiting you... wait what? Life routine part I

2011-10-03T00:33:00.011+02:00

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Okay the topic for today is totally random and i just wanna share some of my life routine, if you don't mind. You can stop reading. now. Jk ;D Well anyway everytime i have nothing to do / free-time, for the next day, i'll stay up at night... until morning. Well sometime i can feel deep inside me, i have blood connection with Edward cullen, maybe that's why this habit it is hard to resist. LOL. So when insomnia attack, some of you people might think what are the solution. Well there's some solution i would like to share with my reader. This is based on my own experience which is always work (if you let it work) depend on you actually.

1) Drink warm milk

2)Clear everything whats on your mind. such as your love life, problem, financial problem, business problem, family problem, etc. any kind of problem. Leave it. Don't over think about it. It's your sleep time, it's time to let your mind at ease. Relax.

3)Make sure your bedroom is in good temperature. I recommend it cold. Don't you feel it's very relaxing and comfy if it's raining or cold? On your air conditioner, but if you don't have any, never sleep @ refrigerator ;P

4) you can count the sheep too haha..

5) massage your head, body, leg, make it relax... tips use lavender scent, it always work for me.

6) avoid drinking/eating something sweet/caffeine

Well i have many solution but i think 5 is enough or else, all the crappy idea will come out too. ;) And if all the solution above can't help you, even other solution can't help you, never take sleeping pills. I never take sleeping pills. Well actually i don't even like to eat any kind of pills. I got reason for that anyway. It's better stay awake or force your self to sleep. There's lot stuff you can do if you stay awake too. (If you have a plan for the next morning i recommend you to force your self to sleep) Well if i choose to stay awake, other than finishing my work, i'll watch movies, reading books, play games or just go online. Like today, i can't sleep at all. So i just do some work, if stress comes up, i just go relaxing myself by playing games and also watching korean. LOL. It's funny thou because just now, i'm watching new episode of my korean drama alone at the living room and crying. I'm not someone easy to cry but today episode really make me a little emotional. The only thing i can say is "why you have to die whyyy....wae....wae jugeoya hae!!waeeee!!!LOL!! Luckily i have nothing to do but staying at my apartment and finishing some work. Well yesterday (Sunday) i was out with my brother and hubby. For some purpose and then heading to the mall, shopping some of my personal item stock. Nothing much to say because yesterday i didn't sleep for 24hour LOL. That's why it's better avoid myself from driving or you'll never see this post. Avoid spending time outside for long period too. So i guess today post is all about insomnia. I hope this tips would help you. I might share again next time if i have any new solution/tips :D It's 7:08am, it's breakfast time. Have to cook and prepare my breakfast. Never skip breakfast people, it's the most important meal of the day. Will come up with a new post again soon. Good day people <3

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Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love

2011-09-26T19:52:00.008+02:00

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As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will.

You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend

or maybe even fall in love with them,

and you'll cry because time is flying by.

So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely,

and love like you've never been hurt.

Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs,

no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest,

tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off,

speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up,

stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts.

Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love

and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.

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Just a short Quote that maybe can inspire anyone out there or maybe giving a little

hope or faith or maybe to encourage you through life and love. We always have been heart broken. I do. Once.

But that doesn't mean we should give up, because everything happen for a reason, and trust me, when you have something that better, greatest, you'll smile and thinking back at the past how funny it is to cry for something that not worth at all. But remember too, it didn't make you lose anything but it make you grow stronger. So next time you can see which one is bad and which one is not, which one is black and which one is white. You can make the difference. Never giving up, never let anyone who break your heart destroy your soul, they can break your heart but not you. Trust me, because i'm happier than ever. That's why i never look back. If you have someone who love you more than anything, who sacrifice and never want you to be someone else, hold on to it. Real love come once in a lifetime. Never let it go. :) :) :)

-Achael-

Stop Animal Abuse In Malaysia : Online Petition

2011-09-18T19:50:00.002+02:00

Hello to all my reader / visitor / awesome follower, it would be very kind of you for joining this petition and it would be awesome if you share this through facebook / blogger / tumblr / twitter or any social network, it's not that hard or you wont lose anything by saving poor animals. I save stray cat and now she's all grown up and more fat than me. I against the community who love to abuse this innocent creature. Please join! Spread it, thanks!

Stop Animal Abuse In Malaysia : Online Petition:

Animal abuse is increasingly rampant in Malaysia, with senseless abuses and killings by local councils and cold-blooded people. We must act NOW, and act FAST.Let's play a role in stopping animal abuse and cruelty! We aim to collect 100,000 signatures ASAP and present it to our Prime Minister.Please sign the joint online petition by leading Malaysian animal welfare NGOs, and show how much you care about the animals. Spread the word to your friends too.Together, we can make a difference.Sign Petition Now:http://StopAnimalAbuse.PetFinder.my/

レッツスタディ！Nihongo 001 (Pronunciation)

2011-09-16T10:55:00.009+02:00

Okay for the 1st post for "Let's Study Japanese"

Yes maybe some of you depend on Google translator but trust me it's not 100% correct, sometime you may found out that, it translate very wrong and funny at the same time. Thanks to my sensei (teacher), even sometime when she approach me and talk to me in Japanese, i keep replying her in English mix with japanese. LOL. I learn Japanese language since 2007 but i keep forgetting. That's why sensei always advice me "oboete kudasai!!" It's mean "please memorize" LOL. It's not that hard anyway but it's hard to practice if no one can speak japanese with you. So, even thou i didn't master this language 100% yet, there's no wrong to share some knowledge right? So i will go 1-by-1 step, from basic to the MAX max max~~(echo)

❤English to Japanese❤

Lesson 1

Pronunciation:

There are five vowels: a, i, u, e, o, all of which have both short and long sounds, as noted below. The vowels, with different consonants, make up new sounds. The consonants c, l, q, v and x do not appear, although ch (as in church) does. The vowels are pronounced as follows:

ā approximately as in father

a same sound but shorter

e approximately as in bed

ē same sound but longer

ii approximately as in ee in meet

i same sound but shorter

ō approximately as in tone

o approximately as in solo

ū approximately as in root

u approximately as oo in wood

The consonants have virtually the same sounds as in English, except that g is always hard (as in get) and r is a sound between the English r and l. Double consonants, as in jetto (jet, plane), irasshaimase (welcome, please come in) and suitchi (switch) must be pronounced as such, just as in English bookkeeper and penknife. Each syllable in a Japanese word should be pronounced distinctly, although in fairly rapid speech i and u are often elided, so that desu (am, is, are) sound like dess, deshita (was, were) like desh'ta, and arimasuka ( is there, are there) like arimas'ka. The accent in Japanese is slight and almost monotonous. However, the pitch rise and fall within phrase and sentence is recognized e.g., háshi (chopsticks) and hashí (bridge), kákí (oyster) and kakí is your kaki lah leg ;p I'm just kidding, kakí mean persimmon :)

レッツスタディ！

Hello peeps~ Como estas?

2011-09-14T16:48:00.006+02:00

So as you can see, this will be my 1st post of my blog.

I accidentally delete all my post,from 2008-present. Okay fine, i intentionally deletes all my post because i admit that i'm very lazy to choose which one i should keep and which one i should get rid off. The "accident" part; which is making me sad and cried my heart out by saying "oh nehi nehi por que por que!!!?" (oh please..) , choosing "all" and press "delete all", without thinking 5 second or could be less than that, i delete everything include some articles that i think the most hits on my blog such as politics and some health / social issue. That's bad. Not forget to mention, i even delete all the link. Yes ALL OF IT. (Exchanges links) I can't even remember any of you, well there's too many links and i guess i need your link again. If you're one of them, let me know. Well if you're not one of them but interested in exchanges link, you're welcome to share. Well one of the reason; i decided to delete all (well it suppose to be "some") my post is because i just don't like some of my noob post which is contained with nothing but blabbering and nothing but nonsense post (are you serious?) Well i'm just saying that i don't want to keep any old post (since 2008? wth?) So this is a new chapter eh? i don't really like to mention about the past. Maybe that one of the reason. Some post also contained about some retard drama queen (college full of drama) so tell me what's the good reason for staying on my precious blog? (okay fine, not that precious) awesome blog eheh... ;D Other than that, we are preventing our-self from stalker (with very serious expression) I'm Serious. LOL nah, i'm just kidding. You wanna prevent stalker? Delete your blog, delete your twitter, facebook etc. Or make them private, piss them off ;D But i love my stalker (stalker what i really mean here someone who knows me and hunger with my life-story. They have this very bad intention inside such as hatred, jealousy or anything evil that you can't imagine. REALLY) I think i should quit watching any serial killer movies that can easily effect on my emotion. NVM. But yeah, that kind of stalker, the only way the only solution is to delete all your social network or just make all of it private. Don't get me wrong, the one who just come here to read with good intention or maybe just enjoy reading my blog, i call you as my anonymous reader. In a good way. Oh good, while i'm blogging this, my cat suddenly jump on my face. Lucky you're fluffy like a cotton candy. Okay back to the story, if you're my follower, well that's not consider as a stalker or anonymous to me. It called "loyal reader" (Applause) I should make awards for them, especially my most loyal reader (tsk tsk...) Well nothing much i can story about at this moment. Yes i know my blog layout plain--white and very simple. I like it. I've been busy this lately, there's so much thing to do. So that's why i keep on delaying all my fun stuff such as.. blogging (tee-hee!) So, since this is my new post (New chap for 2011.. even thou new year 2011 is so last 8-9 months ago) I decided to blog different style and stuff, well don't know how to explain it here, just wait and you'll see, see the changes by your self. I'll try to blog often during my free time. (:

❤ ❤ ❤

Word of the day:

(Japanese-English)

Mago　ま　ご　＝　Ｇｒａｎｄｃｈｉｌｄ

Edit / Add-up: Thanks God i have backup, all the exchanges links are safe. (:

Backstabber people [Part 2]

2010-10-26T03:33:00.000+02:00

Since i receive lot click from my previous post about back stabber,

so i think it's better share to all my reader about

this topic. It maybe

might help people out there.

So topic for today is

"BACKSTABBER"

More worst if that person is your own best friend.

"back staber" this person is by far the most dangerous person

because they smile in your face but when your back is turned they

become your worst enemy.

This person has nothing to offer you but pain, misery,

and possibly death. Be smart know who is for you

so if you want happiness in your life you will start to pay

close attention to people you keep close to you because

those are the ones that can cause havoc on your life.

They might say they're your 'best friends' ,

Your very close friend like sister.

but the moment your back is turned,

they lie about you to others. They tell

nothing but lies to other about you.

They keep on condemn you and worst is

they spread BS about you

so that the other will hate you and ignore you.

No one wants to be hurt in this way,

but how do deal with them?. Perhaps the following tips can help.

a) All backstabbers share a common denominator;

they all want something from you.

Whether it is money, homework, a house to trash, your computer,

your style, practically anything, varies from person to person.

(eg: jealousy)

b)Be aware of your surroundings.

If you have a bad feeling about somebody, listen to your instincts.

Not listen to what other saying. It is better judge from your own than from other

people because it will end up that this person who give you information might

actually the one who is stabbing you. So beware.

c) Pay attention to red flags.

If somebody betrays you, don't trust that person again without extensive consideration.
If the other person doesn't have friends of his or her own, there may be a reason. Perhaps other people know something that you don't.
If someone is mean to you one minute and nice to you the next, there is definitely something wrong.
If someone is too aggressive or tries too hard to sell you on something, he or she is likely setting you up.
Trust your real friends. They're here to help you.
Notice the other person's work ethic. If he or she is lazy and irresponsible, stay away from the person as far as anything that requires hard work goes. If you work hard, he or she will use you in a heartbeat!

d) Notice how he treats things you care about.

For instance if you really care that your room is clean,

and after you've explained this to him he still comes over,

throws his backpack on the ground, takes his shoes off in the middle of the

room and so on; this means he doesn't really care about you.

e) Try to detect from an early stage what the backstabber

is interested in sucking from you

f) If the backstabber persists in pestering you, either

ignore him or tell him dispassionately that you do not want to do

(insert activity here). Be polite, but extremely firm. If they detect a weakness

in your firmness, they will try as hard as they can to puncture it.

*TIPS*

Get away from these people as soon as possible and convince others not to associate with them. Just say that 'they aren't the best person to hang out with.' Take care if you choose to do that.
Don't hesitate to ask questions. If somebody seems shady in any perspective, ask them about it but pay close attention to their answers. More often than not, they will try to pull one over you.
There is a difference between friends and acquaintances. This means that even though he might be fun to talk at in classroom or at lunch, he might not be the kind of person you would like to hang out with after school.
Don't rely on the backstabber for anything; even the tiniest of things. In this way, you will avoid situations where you owe him/her a favor. This technique takes patience, practice and goes completely against your better nature. The backstabber will get the hint and move on the next sucker/victim.
Also do not tell them any secret that you want kept hidden, as they will tell it to another one of their "friends" the moment it will gain them something.
Treat him/her like you would any other snake. Be polite when in his/her area but keep to the path, and maintain your distance.
Make sure not to reduce to his level by saying untrue and bad things about him behind his back (this is a huge no-no!) as it will only spur him to action against you.
Try to avoid revenge. This will create more problems. But if you simply have to get even, remember that the best revenge in this case would be hanging out with your best friends right in front of their face.

*WARNINGS*

Never let the backstabber know that he/she has gotten to you.
Do not underestimate his power. Try not to offend or hurt him, but be merely polite and refuse him anything he asks that you are not willing to give.
Do not get angry when he backstabs you. Realize from the start it will happen eventually. Don't form any deep relationship with him. He'll suck you dry.
And don't confront him, just smile knowingly and take action to prevent further damage.
Be careful when you talk to backstabbers, they might be recording you.
Don't talk to the backstabbers friends, they could be spies.

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hope this will help you out reader.

Anyway don't worry much about them.

Because believe in karma,

what goes around always comes around.

Trust me, because i experience this and

that person having their miserable life.

People around might not understand how does it feel,

if "sorry" can solve the problem,

why the police department still exist?

Yeah by the way, the person who back stab me didn't come

forward and ask forgiveness but for the second chance

this person try to put havoc again, try to separate

me and my love one.

I will not do anything about that but keep silence

and just watch how suffer and miserable that person life would be

because i know God always fair.

It's funny the people around that time believe that person

and some of them boycott us, what ever.

We will remember that.

But guess what, now we know who is

our real friends are.

And who is not.

So next back stabber, i will not shut up,

i just stab you twice or more.

-done-

a story about backstabber / liar [Part 1]

2010-04-02T08:56:00.000+02:00

here some short story for my reader:

You walk down the crowded college hallway with your best friend, talking and laughing and planning for the fun weekend ahead of you. You part ways, each heading for your own class. As you walk, you remember all the fun times you had together. Besties from day one.

After class, you walk down the hall and notice your best friend talking to a group of girls, a group of girls you never really connected with.

"Yea, she thinks we're hanging out this weekend. I didn't want to say no. I'm too nice to do that," she said. The girls laugh. "She's so pathetic anyways. All she does is complain. Whatever ... I'll tell her something came up. Didn't want to hang out with her anyway."

What happened to the best friend you thought you had? The one you spent every weekend with at the mall. The friend you gossiped with. The friend you cried with when your boyfriend dumped you. After all these years, why would she do something like this?

Welcome to high school. Some say they're the best years of our lives; some say they're the worst.

No one wants to have bad experiences in high school, but how can it be helped? You're starting to look at colleges, and grades are becoming important so you can get to the college you want to get to. As if homework isn't enough, you have to deal with all the drama that goes around, boyfriends, schoolwork, family issues - but no one expects to have a backstabbing best friend. It's the last thing on your mind. But unfortunately it happens.

High school changes people. Girls can feel intimidated by friends and guys. Drugs and alcohol play an important role in being "cool." And even though you know you're doing the right thing ... you get punished.

So how do you deal with those backstabbing friends? Well, to start with, if they're backstabbing you, they're not your friends. I know you may not want to believe that. You've been friends since forever - best friends for life! No one wants to lose that. But if they're doing this to you obviously their views have changed.

But before dumping a friend, talk to her. Confront her. If she denies it, then is she really worth the trouble? If she can't be honest with you, then she doesn't care about your friendship anymore. She could be intimidated by other girls, but if she can't see where you're coming from, then it's not worth it. There's a saying: "Some people enter your life for a season." I know there's more to that quote, but you get the idea. Maybe it's time to move on. When one door closes, another one opens. Just think about all the other doors opening. You may be losing one friend, but you might gain another, someone closer and better.

Don't let it get you down. Keep your head up and think positive. Someone else will enter your life and make you realize why it didn't work out with her. You'll find someone who will accept you for who you are, no matter what other girls say.

But what if she doesn't stop? Sure, you moved on. You stopped talking to her. You realized she isn't worth the trouble. But she's still there. Except this time she's looking for revenge. You stopped hanging out with her, and now she feels a need to continue to use you for her enjoyment. She pretends to be your friend like nothing happened. What do you do?

If this is happening in the first place, why would you even try to talk to her about it? You already did before, and she denied it. Don't waste your breath. Continue to ignore her. Do not try to start a fight with her. If anything, let her start the fight. At least then you can honestly say, "She started it," and I'm pretty sure you won't get in as much trouble as she will.

The important thing is not to let it show that you're bothered by it. It will make you seem vulnerable and she may continue to do things to you. Things could get worse. Like I said, no one wants bad high school memories. High school should be fun and a good experience that you should learn from. It shouldn't be spoiled by high school drama and backstabbing friends.

Reading this, you're probably thinking, "This sounds like something my mother would say." And I'm pretty sure if you told her about your problems, she would say something very similar. Namely, to ignore the backstabbers. And you would most likely give her the "You don't understand!" excuse. But in reality, she does. She's been through the same problems as you. She was a teenager once too, you know. It may have been 25 years ago, but the problems are generally the same. So maybe now it's time to start listening to Mom's advice. She does know what she's talking about, and all she wants is for you to have a happy life. Thanks, Mom!

but what should we do if the person who stab us is the group of people you never really connected with? what should i do if the person who stab me / talk false stuff about me is the girls i never really connected with?

here i learn a lesson. lot lesson actually.

i do not need to force people to like me.

i do not need to beg people to be my bestie.

i do not need to be friendly just to avoid hurting them.

i do not need to smile back.

i do not need any friendship.

it is just hurt after you love and care about them and in the end they pay you ****.

think nicely people. i know some of my hater / the group of people who like to gossip about me / talk bad stuff / spreading lies about me or my dear-- out there reading my blog, i have no comment and i don’t want to force you to love me, or begging you to be my friend.

i will not dying and crawl to you to ask you what’s wrong and convince you that all that stuff is wrong and you just misunderstand me.

it’s not big deal anyway.

because i’m not lke you.

i won’t put my level like you.

i’m not fake, i'm not mean or rude, i just being real.

i’m not brag or just having a big talk

because if things are not right between us, i will directly tell you that

even thou it will cause you hate me and cut your wrist,

i’m not the person who hypocrite / drama queen.

well not my problem if you stick with the group of people who talk bad with me,it’s up to you.

here i wanna tell you

i have nothing to do with you so i’m sorry if i’m not friendly with you whenever you see me in college.

thank you :)