<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492</id><updated>2024-10-07T06:01:45.935+01:00</updated><category term="http://www.banjoore.blogspot.com/"/><category term="mentor"/><category term="personal development"/><category term="success"/><title type='text'>Banjo ORE...my adrenalin journals!</title><subtitle type='html'>Leadership. Motivation. Entrepreneurship. Relationship. Finance. Innovation. Reality. Life Anecdotes. Personal Development. FAITH&#xa;here you will find strength, encouragement,positive adrenaline,direction, wisdom and useful entertainment.&#xa;You will be built, equipped and strengthened in your destiny walk.&#xa;visit often ,letz talk about stuff, Welcome...&#xa;       </subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default?redirect=false'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25&amp;redirect=false'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03597166256922845829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>161</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492.post-5195941357904137332</id><published>2017-06-20T17:06:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2017-06-20T17:18:35.779+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Who Should Be &quot;A&quot; Leader&#39;s Favourite ?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style=&quot;margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; padding: 5px;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigp4Gi5-A19qC6EqVY7FoEGUVlaHdb8vzgTGwbBYGqVSnRaJT-VbmO4rRQmIUiWHv5OG_8G7KJnm9zBH_Z157PkeLz3v_O0qGHWDu9QI54txWXE0-GHh9kDo_g3wB2lDG-NL82TciSljfo/&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigp4Gi5-A19qC6EqVY7FoEGUVlaHdb8vzgTGwbBYGqVSnRaJT-VbmO4rRQmIUiWHv5OG_8G7KJnm9zBH_Z157PkeLz3v_O0qGHWDu9QI54txWXE0-GHh9kDo_g3wB2lDG-NL82TciSljfo/ cursor: pointer;&quot; height=&quot;166&quot; width=&quot;200&quot; style=&quot;border: 1px solid; border-radius: 2px;padding: 5px;&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Hello Good People,&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;It is not a good idea for a leader to spend his time pursuing people who don&#39;t yield results or just slow down the ship. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;20% of people are responsible for 100% of fruitful result in most organisation hence the 20% are Favourites..&lt;br&gt;
&amp;#160; &lt;br&gt;
The 80% who are redundant are Humans, loved and celebrated but can never be Productive Favourites&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;A Leaders Favourite are the KEYMEN in there sector in any organisation.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;One Lawyer refused to dismiss a very rude and naughty staff cos he said the Staff brings in most of the Customers hence the &quot;Money&quot; to the organisation.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Jesus had favorites&lt;br&gt;
They were fishermen and not Billionaires,&lt;br&gt;
He had the 120&lt;br&gt;
The 70&lt;br&gt;
The 12&lt;br&gt;
The 3&lt;br&gt;
The 1&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;He changed this world wit His favourite 12 people ( one of them actually sold Him off too )&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;So, AS LEADERS SPEND MORE TIME WITH THOSE WHO DO 100% of the work and encourage the other fellows.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;The Work Space is not an EMOTIONAL space hence as Leaders we tend to FOCUS on the TASK &amp;amp; GOALS and TRAIN PLUS ENCOURAGE THOSE WHO ARE READY TO WORK &amp;amp; BE PRODUCTIVE.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;The other COMPLACENT ones are appreciated but&lt;br&gt;
If we went by Scriptures and wanted to avoid what happened to Moses to happen to us ( the complacents bad mouthed him and nearly.sent him to hell ) we would deploy wisdom...&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Exodus 18 shows some being made Captains and others remained followers ( NO EMOTIONS )&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;HENCE,&amp;#160; ! &lt;br&gt;
My Favourite(s) should be those...&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;or would you rather my favourites to be Joseph of Arimathea or Zacheaus ?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;What do you think ? &lt;br&gt;
#BanjoOre&lt;/p&gt;
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Was having a conversation with a protegee and we hit &quot;a spot&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
about relationship compatibility and people looking good together ( physical wise ) and am like..&lt;br /&gt;
What does it mean to &quot; Look Good Together ? &quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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Anyway, I can&#39;t speak for others but this is how I &quot;Chose my Wife &quot; &amp;nbsp;call me old school, bizarre, a christian / secular contraption or wharreffaaaaa ! Lolll&lt;br /&gt;
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Pls Read and kindly drop your Comments ( Guys tell us how you chose your wife please )&lt;br /&gt;
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&quot;Dig In....&lt;br /&gt;
Was deliberate wiv wat I saw....&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
1. Committedly Born Again&lt;br /&gt;
2. We were veryyyy Chatty ( gist for hours )&lt;br /&gt;
3. She understands Vision and had one ( I tot she heard and stole my vision sef cos it sounded lyk mine, )&lt;br /&gt;
4. Loved her demeanour&lt;br /&gt;
5. Fresh and no B.O&lt;br /&gt;
6. Big sized mammary Glands from what I &quot;SAW&#39; lol ( what I wanted pls )&lt;br /&gt;
6. Small waist line&lt;br /&gt;
7. Enticing Backside&lt;br /&gt;
8. Petit in Nature ( not short ooOo ) Graced to meet that in the package. ( lyk Smith &amp;amp; Jada )&lt;br /&gt;
8. Great family background / pedigree&lt;br /&gt;
9. Healthy and we had compatible health&lt;br /&gt;
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++++Pls Note the above did not happen in a month took time&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;( tink ova 2 years. )&lt;br /&gt;
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*****so why wouldn&#39;t I want to marry her.&lt;br /&gt;
Everything checked out d more we related and courted.&lt;br /&gt;
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If I had discovered a Big Flaw when we courted or were friends, I would have backed out with Wisdom.&lt;br /&gt;
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Ofcos she didn&#39;t have everything I wanted but the major ones she had was enough for her to qualify to be my wife...&lt;br /&gt;
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What didn&#39;t she have ? Lol ( you set ehnnn )&lt;br /&gt;
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1. singing &amp;nbsp;voice ( tot I couldn&#39;t marry a woman lyk dat. )&lt;br /&gt;
2. No swaggered cat walk ( well, its not in d Bible either )&lt;br /&gt;
3. She didn&#39;t have a great Job that could sustain my ministry then ( lol ) you know us Guys na.. &amp;nbsp;But, its not Biblical either&lt;br /&gt;
4. She wasn&#39;t the pancake makeup type just fresh faced natural sister ( well, all that has changed )&lt;br /&gt;
5. She was grammatically sound and all that but her accent &quot;WAS&quot; a King James Englished &quot;Academic One&quot;... Nothing Tush ( all now different )&lt;br /&gt;
6. E don do you now loooolll...&lt;br /&gt;
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So.... That&#39;s how I CHOSE my Wife and Went on to marry her OOooooooo.&lt;br /&gt;
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Was is it that easy and simple like that ? Lol&lt;br /&gt;
Am sorry for you..&lt;br /&gt;
You bet it was NOT THAT SIMPLE ( DO GREAT THINGS COME ON A PLATTER OF GOLD ? )&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
My Wife&#39;s Reverend Pastor shakeeeeee me and my faith OOooo, hummmm.&lt;br /&gt;
But all Glory be to Jesus.&lt;br /&gt;
All don make sense now..&lt;br /&gt;
Wisdom , Grace, Favour, Counsel etc... Has helped us&lt;br /&gt;
#12yrs oooOONNN &amp;nbsp;Praise God.&lt;br /&gt;
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so sister, Oya ARRANGE well in Christ, &amp;nbsp;Character &amp;amp; Competence make correct brother come find you...&lt;br /&gt;
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Brother, A Javelin awaits you if you don&#39;t know &quot;what time is it&quot; aspa &quot;sourcing&quot; for the right woman and &quot;hearing&#39; God on the matter.&lt;br /&gt;
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Please drop your comment !&lt;br /&gt;
Cheers.&lt;br /&gt;
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______As.a.Leadership Enthusiast &amp;amp; Protagonist , Leadership is so very important.and URGENTLY needed in our.world today.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
A very good spirit filled Christian can be a very bad.leader.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Most people never really.get to.the.LEADERSHIP phase.of thier.life, they had.rather believed.a.lie.about.the fact.that.they.are.followers.for.life since:-&lt;br /&gt;
1. they are.not.pastors&lt;br /&gt;
2. dont have cash ( millionare or.something )&lt;br /&gt;
3. few.people.recognise.or.know.them&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
etc.....&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
but tbis.is.far from.the.truth.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
...being a Pastor, Apostle, Evangelist, Teacher or.Prpphet.does not.make.anyone.a.Leader ( well.maybe a.spiritual.leader of some sort.leading other Christians )&lt;br /&gt;
...but.such.leadership.does.not.go higher.than the ceiling.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Most.Leaders.in MOST Churches.might be named.such.maybe &#39;cos.their.are no.better.alternatives?&lt;br /&gt;
or MOST IMPORTANTLY.because.they.are AVAILABLE.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Globally RELEVANT LEADERS have all.gone beyond.being.&quot;AVAILABLE&quot; and have asked themselves questions&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&quot;Where.am.I.being needed.mostly ? &quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&quot;What.Solutions should I be.bringing.to.the team ? &quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&quot;AM I DOING ENOUGH ? &quot;&lt;br /&gt;
etc....&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Leadership is MORE than remaining within the CONFINES of availability, comfortability &amp;amp; being recognised...&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
LEADERSHIP is RESPONSIBILITY&lt;br /&gt;
Leadership is having INITIATIVE&lt;br /&gt;
LEADERSHIP is Accountability&lt;br /&gt;
Leadership is ACHIEVING..&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Leaders build people up&lt;br /&gt;
LEADERS EQUIP&lt;br /&gt;
LEADERS STRENGTHEN&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Leaders should be Godly&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Leaders:&lt;br /&gt;
Multiply&lt;br /&gt;
MENTOR&lt;br /&gt;
are Momentum cReators&lt;br /&gt;
Mobilise&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
and most.certainly Leaders MODEL what they are teaching&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
The.WORLD needs more Leaders&lt;br /&gt;
be the hero&lt;br /&gt;
their is &quot;one &quot; in you&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Lead where you are.&lt;br /&gt;
©BanjoOre&lt;br /&gt;
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...... NOPE !, am not talking about &quot;internal things&quot; &lt;br/&gt;
 &lt;br/&gt;
but...&amp;nbsp; How should we look like? &quot;facade&quot;&amp;nbsp; ( if u like.that.word )&lt;br/&gt;
what should.we.project ?&lt;br/&gt;
what.do you want to see ? &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;How do you.measure.the &quot;humility&quot; of someone&lt;br/&gt;
as against their beautiful attire / bespoke looks ?&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Must a person look poor &amp;amp; scrubby to be judged &quot;humble&quot;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;If a &quot;Pastor&quot; grew up in diplomatic circles &amp;amp;&amp;nbsp; a well &quot;manicured&quot;&lt;br/&gt;
&quot;Tush&quot;.&amp;amp; well buttered up neighbourhood...&lt;br/&gt;
is he.now.supposed.to.&quot;TONE&quot; down all this &amp;amp; adopt &lt;br/&gt;
a.&quot;paupered&quot;.or.even agraRIAN lifestyle because.of.what.&quot;PEOPLE SAY&quot;&lt;br/&gt;
or.will.say ?&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;If we all conform to.the.whims &amp;amp; caPRICES of a few..&lt;br/&gt;
and remain &quot;underdogs&quot; that we.did not grow up as !!&lt;br/&gt;
DOES THAT NOT.LOOK &amp;amp; SOUND LIKE A.PLOY ?&lt;br/&gt;
of.some.sort. &lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;What.exactly am.I.saying?&lt;br/&gt;
defending &quot;Us&quot;.. lol&lt;br/&gt;
neverRRRRR&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Just Communicating my thoughts on this...&lt;br/&gt;
( I actually.have read.other.people&#39;s opinions on.social media )&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;ma bad @spellingIshs &amp;amp; punctuation pls.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/feeds/7548146088423529218/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2016/10/how-should-pastors-look-like.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/7548146088423529218'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/7548146088423529218'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2016/10/how-should-pastors-look-like.html' title='How SHOULD &quot;Pastors&quot; look like ?'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03597166256922845829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492.post-8485261074607108368</id><published>2016-04-20T10:40:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2019-09-11T11:17:17.320+01:00</updated><title type='text'>&quot;HOLD IT&quot; just before you say &quot; I DO &quot;</title><content type='html'>&lt;html&gt;
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  &lt;br&gt; Dont start your life by making yourself a 2nd class citizen in your home... 
  &lt;br&gt; Dont &amp;nbsp;MARRY someone you will struggle so hard to please in the union, 
  &lt;br&gt; dnt even agree to court such people. 
  &lt;br&gt; 
  &lt;br&gt; Why ? 
  &lt;br&gt; --------------- 
  &lt;br&gt; Compatibility Issues are GREAT ISSUES in Marriage 
  &lt;br&gt; Religious 
  &lt;br&gt; Doctrinal 
  &lt;br&gt; Culture 
  &lt;br&gt; Social 
  &lt;br&gt; Environmental 
  &lt;br&gt; and other seemingly light &quot;no big.deal issues &quot; 
  &lt;br&gt; 
  &lt;br&gt; Compatibility means : Someone you can easily interact and align with etc... 
  &lt;br&gt; Hence, dis is a big deal issue cos you gonn live together for the rest of your life... 
  &lt;br&gt; 
  &lt;br&gt; No POINT running helter skelter in MARRIAGE to handle what you should have seen in courtship 
  &lt;br&gt; 
  &lt;br&gt; SO.... 
  &lt;br&gt; my dear, 
  &lt;br&gt; wipe that ice-cream away from your lips 
  &lt;br&gt; let that your dimple fade off for a while 
  &lt;br&gt; Pull yourelf to.a.Conference.table &amp;nbsp;and DISCUSS OBJECTIVELY before you &quot;merge&quot; your companies lol. ( merge your life ) 
  &lt;br&gt; 
  &lt;br&gt; Ask : 
  &lt;br&gt; ---------- 
  &lt;br&gt; Can we do this? 
  &lt;br&gt; are we gonna remain friends for ever ? 
  &lt;br&gt; what are we going to be doing in the marriage ? 
  &lt;br&gt; whats your Vision sir? 
  &lt;br&gt; what will you be doing when I marry you sis ? 
  &lt;br&gt; 
  &lt;br&gt; Possible Response: 
  &lt;br&gt; --------------------------------- 
  &lt;br&gt; I wont always be this slim Oooooo 
  &lt;br&gt; Am thinking of starting a Farm project and exiting my Oil &amp;amp; Gas Job so CashFlow is going to change Ooooo sis, are you still on board ? etc.... 
  &lt;br&gt; 
  &lt;br&gt; Conclusion : 
  &lt;br&gt; ---------------------- 
  &lt;br&gt; Don&#39;t let Marriage open your eyes to some realities 
  &lt;br&gt; what you see and hear around you about.Marriages.are TRUE ( not fiction ) 
  &lt;br&gt; 
  &lt;br&gt; Might not all be strawberries &amp;amp; breakfast in bed Oooooo, 
  &lt;br&gt; So, before you say &quot;I Do &quot; 
  &lt;br&gt; 
  &lt;br&gt; &quot;have that Conference Table TALK &quot; 
  &lt;br&gt; You are the.CEO.of your life under God 
  &lt;br&gt; You.have.the.RIGHT.to get &quot;Answers&quot; before you get into a Life &quot;Partnership &quot; with.somebody you just few years back... 
  &lt;br&gt; 
  &lt;br&gt; Talk, talk and talk about.it.. 
  &lt;br&gt; #ClarityIsNeeded 
  &lt;br&gt; 
  &lt;br&gt; Love was never ever blind... 
  &lt;br&gt; cheers 
  &lt;br&gt; Snippets from my Book#BanjoOre. 
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Choosing you was #INTENTIONAL&lt;br/&gt;
and I have never looked back,&lt;br/&gt;
There aint no &quot;had I known&quot;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;You are the exact #DEFINATION&lt;br/&gt;
of an &quot;helpmate&quot; / Life-Partner&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Happy 10th Wedding Anniversary Yinka Ajiboye&lt;br/&gt;
Lets &lt;br/&gt;
Know More&lt;br/&gt;
Be More&lt;br/&gt;
and keep doing more.&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;I Love You dearlyyyyyyyyyyyy&lt;br/&gt;
Mwarhhhhhhhhhhhhh&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;#YinkaOre&lt;br/&gt;
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float: right; padding: 5px;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicTkl2mZ0ScbPXDb5MMCfuyxhrrz-FppRivrQPXKupKHtGnGITFp227hcAPxKRuw0n-xjVcsoPIAIBrpocTEYFYaCILNF2Au6ppYXTdKFpVzxrdej6-xTrTnMJGBmbz8LSnk23UioYd3j-/&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicTkl2mZ0ScbPXDb5MMCfuyxhrrz-FppRivrQPXKupKHtGnGITFp227hcAPxKRuw0n-xjVcsoPIAIBrpocTEYFYaCILNF2Au6ppYXTdKFpVzxrdej6-xTrTnMJGBmbz8LSnk23UioYd3j-/ cursor: pointer;&quot; width=&quot;320px&quot; style=&quot;border: 1px solid; border-radius: 2px;padding: 5px; max-width: 320px &quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogaway-section&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;Hi, bIN a while guys &amp;amp; I know it...&lt;br/&gt;
I am getting bored of blogging even tough I still love writing a looooottttt.&lt;br/&gt;
So, very soon am gonn get into Video bloging ( Its like saying in minutes what I ought to write about )&lt;br/&gt;
Why?&lt;br/&gt;
well, Why Not ?&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Today&#39;s Menu&lt;br/&gt;
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Well, I have been &quot;Speaking&quot; actively for about 15yrs. so I tot to share a little of what I have learnt...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;So, the Tips !!&lt;br/&gt;
dive in...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;&quot; 1. Ask yourself&amp;nbsp; &quot;WHAT EXACTLY DO I WANT PEOPLE TO (GET) TAKE AWAY FROM MY SPEECH ? pre-determine this. &lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;2. CUT YOUR INTRODUCTION TO THREE MINUTES.... ( cos, your audience aint got no time )&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;3. DIVE INTO THE MENU IMMEDIATELY ( don&#39;t loose their attention)&lt;br/&gt;
SAY SOMETHING to make them wanna.make Eye Contact with you: then, Fire the first thoughts and REPEAT. REPEAT and kip REPEATING the Power Speeches / Phrases and all&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;4. Certainly LAND &amp;amp; FINISH WELL ( cut ramblings and STILL FOCUS on MAJOR MESSAGE )&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;&quot;GRACEFULLY TELL THEM WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO GO &amp;amp; DO &quot;&lt;br/&gt;
and dont forget to end Gloriously ( leave the exact taste you.wanna.leave in the mouth of your audience that will provoke the right actions hence justify your speech )&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/feeds/8367106521472849251/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/08/four-4-power-tips-you-need-as-speaker.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/8367106521472849251'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/8367106521472849251'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/08/four-4-power-tips-you-need-as-speaker.html' title='Four (4) Power Tips you NEED as a &quot;SPEAKER&quot;'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03597166256922845829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492.post-4194705664886188761</id><published>2015-07-31T15:12:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2015-07-31T15:12:18.552+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Showing Love is NOT a WEAKNESS</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center; padding: 5px;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwcVKDYYBDvyXaW-YskrVr-xTrZXkruJxVC02-VfWL2UVNRSgBiewB26bFaCarFd8C8cjwlUVvAkyRp6hgKj2203q8YWiix8RmngXlIc4xMrklREp-bIMe2uFo1TpqfxM0pMWsuejuUU-r/&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwcVKDYYBDvyXaW-YskrVr-xTrZXkruJxVC02-VfWL2UVNRSgBiewB26bFaCarFd8C8cjwlUVvAkyRp6hgKj2203q8YWiix8RmngXlIc4xMrklREp-bIMe2uFo1TpqfxM0pMWsuejuUU-r/ cursor: pointer;&quot; width=&quot;320px&quot; style=&quot;border: 1px solid; border-radius: 2px;padding: 5px; max-width: 320px &quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogaway-section&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/feeds/4194705664886188761/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/07/showing-love-is-not-weakness.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/4194705664886188761'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/4194705664886188761'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/07/showing-love-is-not-weakness.html' title='Showing Love is NOT a WEAKNESS'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03597166256922845829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492.post-7888173272300653410</id><published>2015-07-30T22:11:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2015-07-30T22:11:29.357+01:00</updated><title type='text'>LEADERSHIP</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; padding: 5px;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLtYuh9mV1qfkkPcBMkDiwsnBkLkau__H7Gatm2qOKd_PatbDLH-SZ4LLoUUjUm9am_Oej-zGgM2dvirZYYP1RTQZ5vMeucUMgGxiqQ8KTzIl6xdXJoqSaLIIYVUw8bTcqveNvcBGYymyQ/&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLtYuh9mV1qfkkPcBMkDiwsnBkLkau__H7Gatm2qOKd_PatbDLH-SZ4LLoUUjUm9am_Oej-zGgM2dvirZYYP1RTQZ5vMeucUMgGxiqQ8KTzIl6xdXJoqSaLIIYVUw8bTcqveNvcBGYymyQ/ cursor: pointer;&quot; width=&quot;320px&quot; style=&quot;border: 1px solid; border-radius: 2px;padding: 5px; max-width: 320px &quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogaway-section&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;Howdie bloggie, bin a while...&lt;br/&gt;
be back shortly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/feeds/7888173272300653410/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/07/leadership.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/7888173272300653410'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/7888173272300653410'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/07/leadership.html' title='LEADERSHIP'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03597166256922845829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492.post-1608606503415289049</id><published>2015-06-22T23:30:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2015-06-22T23:52:53.802+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Happy Birthday, Mamarazeeeee, Something is About to Happen !!!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; padding: 5px;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhO5s0FHfhpiV48qeSNrjGbsRuRzBqhh7ZTopiTw193uQfrkjzt_Wy5F0Ha_24xt215NFwWoTXOimMb8jtfUfu4_w20_RT8hY1CS_Q9SIIwqB3gWjpumzsGs6OxN8zrQV_OU9A0M6tu7YvU/&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhO5s0FHfhpiV48qeSNrjGbsRuRzBqhh7ZTopiTw193uQfrkjzt_Wy5F0Ha_24xt215NFwWoTXOimMb8jtfUfu4_w20_RT8hY1CS_Q9SIIwqB3gWjpumzsGs6OxN8zrQV_OU9A0M6tu7YvU/ cursor: pointer;&quot; width=&quot;400px&quot; style=&quot;border: 1px solid; border-radius: 2px;padding: 5px; max-width: 400px &quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogaway-section&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;You are unique&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br/&gt;
classique&lt;br/&gt;
fantastic&lt;br/&gt;
and never a dullardstic&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Special in your way&lt;br/&gt;
hence your creator is&lt;br/&gt;
Greatly to be praised&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Priceless&lt;br/&gt;
and no doubt full of Graces&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Have a Wonderful Birthday&lt;br/&gt;
and this Your NEW YEAR&lt;br/&gt;
is gonna be loaded...&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;I hear a sound of pleasant rains&lt;br/&gt;
on your behalf&lt;br/&gt;
So, Prepare to Enlarge your barns&lt;br/&gt;
expand your coast&lt;br/&gt;
&#39;cos Something is About to Happeennnnnn.....&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Love you baby girl&lt;br/&gt;
Happy Birthday big beautiful Model sister of mine.&lt;br/&gt;
Mwarrrhhhhhhh !!!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/feeds/1608606503415289049/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/06/happy-birthday-mamarazeeeee-something.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/1608606503415289049'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/1608606503415289049'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/06/happy-birthday-mamarazeeeee-something.html' title='Happy Birthday, Mamarazeeeee, Something is About to Happen !!!'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03597166256922845829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492.post-6325594282449106584</id><published>2015-06-22T23:09:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2015-06-22T23:09:35.622+01:00</updated><title type='text'>#CONNECT   #STAYINFORMED  #SHARE</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center; padding: 5px;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjI_n0upeTWkp8Tjx9LZzEZyKS05QeiC2ssH9t1IcB2RK5WXF4sR2GIftAw_2lWUqhpc1stK6cnKJQwRZcApNPJNo0gDOA70jYnpELybv7OOAWpoAFT6rfd_xDPiG32XH6IRdSwkkPwvIuz/&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjI_n0upeTWkp8Tjx9LZzEZyKS05QeiC2ssH9t1IcB2RK5WXF4sR2GIftAw_2lWUqhpc1stK6cnKJQwRZcApNPJNo0gDOA70jYnpELybv7OOAWpoAFT6rfd_xDPiG32XH6IRdSwkkPwvIuz/ cursor: pointer;&quot; width=&quot;320px&quot; style=&quot;border: 1px solid; border-radius: 2px;padding: 5px; max-width: 320px &quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogaway-section&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/feeds/6325594282449106584/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/06/connect-stayinformed-share.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/6325594282449106584'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/6325594282449106584'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/06/connect-stayinformed-share.html' title='#CONNECT   #STAYINFORMED  #SHARE'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03597166256922845829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492.post-6155880837582480547</id><published>2015-06-08T14:31:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2015-06-08T14:35:44.962+01:00</updated><title type='text'>STRICTLY FOR PRACTICING CHRISTIANS **Of Homosexuals,Lesbians, Transgenders etc...</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; padding: 5px;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqPofsdqoUno39EqrpYlbJUeVI5JkIeYXprH7BiLQna-30LX3J23eQpIm48YmOaNUIQnZbP448OPzzW_QssZcoq_ouwc77FfcCY5fddQFAgaS8wlR-FcZDXPQEA98yT6ayyn6nmuSUT1no/&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqPofsdqoUno39EqrpYlbJUeVI5JkIeYXprH7BiLQna-30LX3J23eQpIm48YmOaNUIQnZbP448OPzzW_QssZcoq_ouwc77FfcCY5fddQFAgaS8wlR-FcZDXPQEA98yT6ayyn6nmuSUT1no/ cursor: pointer;&quot; width=&quot;400px&quot; style=&quot;border: 1px solid; border-radius: 2px;padding: 5px; max-width: 400px &quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogaway-section&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;How does it help&lt;br/&gt;
how do we help&lt;br/&gt;
when &quot;Christians&quot; abuse &amp;amp; crucify homosexuals/ lesbians &amp;amp; transgenders?&lt;br/&gt;
especially ( in public.&amp;amp; on social media)&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Maybe if we do that in our discipleship class or something it might be okay !!&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;but publicly? How have we helped? &lt;br/&gt;
are we not adding fuel to the raging inferno?&lt;br/&gt;
has our CRITICSMS birthed / showed the love of Jesus? &lt;br/&gt;
Am just wondering?&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Are we mad at them or their sins?&amp;nbsp; &lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;dont we all know or have as friends, uncles, relatives etc...&lt;br/&gt;
people who&lt;br/&gt;
rape&lt;br/&gt;
beat up wifey?&lt;br/&gt;
incest&lt;br/&gt;
marry 9 year olds&lt;br/&gt;
drink to stupor&lt;br/&gt;
embezzle public funds&lt;br/&gt;
sleep with anything in skirts&lt;br/&gt;
rituals&amp;#160; etc etc.....&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Are we saying &quot;ONE SIN&quot; is greater than the.other &amp;amp; the other sins.should be &quot;Excused&quot; ?&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Have we even &quot;Prayed&quot; for any of this people?&lt;br/&gt;
am not exactly innocent myself&lt;br/&gt;
but am #JustThinkingAloud.&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;#WWJD&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Lets Magnify &amp;amp; stress the &quot;The Love of Jesus Christ&quot; moreeeeeee&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/feeds/6155880837582480547/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/06/strictly-for-practicing-christians-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/6155880837582480547'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/6155880837582480547'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/06/strictly-for-practicing-christians-of.html' title='STRICTLY FOR PRACTICING CHRISTIANS **Of Homosexuals,Lesbians, Transgenders etc...'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03597166256922845829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492.post-7085459424393413577</id><published>2015-04-10T10:24:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2015-04-10T10:24:25.715+01:00</updated><title type='text'>True Love has Got Nothing to Do with Hips !!!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; padding: 5px;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6iTmdTOXXc-J6II5F8zC-8vWaOclr_qDirU7EB8_05NmjMNN9X_O8wPo6TY6USqGWpJmLxx0myoKz-NyCq3LaJUS6kOMFg8SGHEkUTJkMhZZo6mJ_M4Iia3RNWzlpYqP4dn4eWRK6Xemj/&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6iTmdTOXXc-J6II5F8zC-8vWaOclr_qDirU7EB8_05NmjMNN9X_O8wPo6TY6USqGWpJmLxx0myoKz-NyCq3LaJUS6kOMFg8SGHEkUTJkMhZZo6mJ_M4Iia3RNWzlpYqP4dn4eWRK6Xemj/ cursor: pointer;&quot; width=&quot;320px&quot; style=&quot;border: 1px solid; border-radius: 2px;padding: 5px; max-width: 320px &quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogaway-section&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;If a man keeeeeppppssssss&amp;nbsp; EXPLAINing why he loves &amp;amp; wants to marry you, &lt;br/&gt;
all he is trying to say is that:&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;As a result of some things he has seen in you &amp;amp; the qualities you have (that he sees) he wants to get down with you for ever...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;but you &amp;amp; I know that TRUE LOVE has NO REASON, Its UNCONDITIONAL&lt;br/&gt;
&amp;amp; has NO STRINGS ATTACHED.&lt;br/&gt;
True Love has got nothing to do with hips, lips, fingertips &amp;amp; high cheek bones etc...&lt;br/&gt;
that TRUE LOVE is AGAPE (agapao) &amp;amp; ONLY GOD has the capacity to give that...&lt;br/&gt;
&quot;for God so loved the world&quot;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;In a NUTSHELL...&lt;br/&gt;
A Spouse, who LOVES YOU MORE IN-SPITE of your MISTAKES, Misdeeds &amp;amp; weakness has tapped &amp;amp; living in Agape (TRUE GODLY LOVE)&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;...Love covereth a multitude of wrongs, abi?&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;So, cut your spouse some slack &amp;amp; be Gracious,&amp;nbsp; after-all didn&#39;t you receive FORGIVENESS too.&lt;br/&gt;
----------------------------------****------------------------------------&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;To the UNMARRIED...&lt;br/&gt;
pls take it slow &amp;amp; get to know, &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Since we know human frailty is unable to give 100% fresh &amp;amp; true love like God who gave His son,&lt;br/&gt;
lets all learn to be Patient with our Spouses / Fiancee-Fiance&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;NB: ...make it easier for people to love you more !!!&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/feeds/7085459424393413577/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/04/true-love-has-got-nothing-to-do-with.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/7085459424393413577'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/7085459424393413577'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/04/true-love-has-got-nothing-to-do-with.html' title='True Love has Got Nothing to Do with Hips !!!'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03597166256922845829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492.post-4384811311979710212</id><published>2015-03-30T02:14:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2015-03-30T02:19:13.882+01:00</updated><title type='text'>God is not a &quot;Cheat&quot;, He is a REWARDER !!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; padding: 5px;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiuyn657JuM16tca21mk9AKjO3fvB1gaZBsmGGHKO14akOuf-m4nVMdfKBxlfuKbdu_TisIV0UqbIU3aijH6dEq9Z56dts802dahE-2cu68gXKUf-3jqHjzNzy7BQmvU2Uc7W59KN62WuEc/&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiuyn657JuM16tca21mk9AKjO3fvB1gaZBsmGGHKO14akOuf-m4nVMdfKBxlfuKbdu_TisIV0UqbIU3aijH6dEq9Z56dts802dahE-2cu68gXKUf-3jqHjzNzy7BQmvU2Uc7W59KN62WuEc/ cursor: pointer;&quot; width=&quot;560px&quot; style=&quot;border: 1px solid; border-radius: 2px;padding: 5px; max-width: 560px &quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogaway-section&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;God REWARDS those who who seek HIM&lt;br/&gt;
God is a REWARDER&lt;br/&gt;
He does not MANIPULATE neither is HE UNrighteous.&lt;br/&gt;
God is JUST.&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;He is FAITHULLY JUST &amp;amp; LOYAL to us&lt;br/&gt;
ESPECIALLY THOSE who are RIGHTEOUS.&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;God favors those who SEEK HIM with their HEART &amp;amp; MIND.&lt;br/&gt;
EVEN though HE is INVINCIBLE&lt;br/&gt;
HE HEARS the THOUGHTS &amp;amp; Orchestrations of OUR heart&lt;br/&gt;
&amp;amp; &lt;br/&gt;
HE&amp;#160; REWARDS ACCORDINGLY.&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;God REWARDS those who SEEK HIM, WAIT ON HIM &amp;amp; THOSE WHO TRUST HIM.&lt;br/&gt;
God is not a CHEAT...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;He is a REWARDER...&lt;br/&gt;
He will REWARD you ACCORDINGLY !!!&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;God is not a fool&lt;br/&gt;
He looks down to see those who TRULY SEEK HIM.&lt;br/&gt;
He will keep in PEACE those whose HEARTS are STAYED ON HIM.&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;God is a REWARDER...&lt;br/&gt;
HE REWARDS those who DELIGHTS in HIM&lt;br/&gt;
those who WORSHIP (Adore) HIM&lt;br/&gt;
Not Complainers, Murmurers etc...&lt;br/&gt;
WORSHIPERS&lt;br/&gt;
God CHASERS.&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;#GodIsARewarder&lt;br/&gt;
#BeCheeringlyExpectant&lt;br/&gt;
&amp;#169;banjoORE&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/feeds/4384811311979710212/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/03/god-is-not-cheat-he-is-rewarder.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/4384811311979710212'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/4384811311979710212'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/03/god-is-not-cheat-he-is-rewarder.html' title='God is not a &quot;Cheat&quot;, He is a REWARDER !!'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03597166256922845829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492.post-7848162590298216146</id><published>2015-03-30T01:05:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2015-03-30T01:28:16.355+01:00</updated><title type='text'>10 SIGNS YOUR WOULD -BE -SPOUSE &quot;maybe&quot;... #DYSFUNCTIONAL ?!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; padding: 5px;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1c9FeKTkDCRnJainORsE8I0CLZYc8Ztbgx7lC8PgIVHsBtQ-N-qXiMKH0ZbDqDGehVqjmfyvNiFPlICL-4hv0cVWvMgKbENWoY_h-_4FQqnUnm356TFzOmGyOBzfn4RuKuZzAYCL_0CSd/&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1c9FeKTkDCRnJainORsE8I0CLZYc8Ztbgx7lC8PgIVHsBtQ-N-qXiMKH0ZbDqDGehVqjmfyvNiFPlICL-4hv0cVWvMgKbENWoY_h-_4FQqnUnm356TFzOmGyOBzfn4RuKuZzAYCL_0CSd/ cursor: pointer;&quot; width=&quot;400px&quot; style=&quot;border: 1px solid; border-radius: 2px;padding: 5px; max-width: 400px &quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogaway-section&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Dig right in..&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;1. &amp;#160;Your mum comes over from your country home to say hello to you in the city for a few days &amp;amp; she promptly sits on your lap right after greeting your mum ( she fails the familiar cue test to excuse son &amp;amp; mum )&lt;br/&gt;
where should she go? how about the porch, verandah, kitchen or take a walk ?&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;2. She comes to say hi after church on sunday, cooks, do the dishes &amp;amp; leaves out your sister &amp;amp; her friend&#39;s plate. ( they also came on a visit)&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;3. She insists on taking some of your calls ( particularly the numbers that are not stored on your device )&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;4. She scrolls through your Facebook friend&#39;s list &amp;amp; even helps you&lt;br/&gt;
unfriend &amp;amp; block a few pretty damsels. &lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;5. She gets to your house, complains around, tidy up for you, do some laundry, visits the grocery store etc... and does more fussing..&lt;br/&gt;
brother, wahalaaaa (problems) you,ve gat to watch that Eve&#39;s daughter.&lt;br/&gt;
besides, I thought a lady is not supposed to do laundry, cooking etc... for the guy when are both not married ?&lt;br/&gt;
what if he has a washing machine? ahh, did you think I meant hand laundrying before? so, some sis wash jeans &amp;amp; dirty boXKers&quot; with their hands before?&lt;br/&gt;
woooo, love is trully blind folded !&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;6. She already asking you if you gonna give her &quot;cunnilingus&quot; when you both get married.... Oh boy !!! &amp;#160;pray you are up to that task ( thought she is a virgin) or technical one. She should definitely not be active sexually before marriage.&lt;br/&gt;
Ohhh, if both of you are then its another different story entirely.&lt;br/&gt;
(this post is to enlighten my bros out there, hence... )&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Guys you getting my drift...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;7. She directly demands for sex from you &amp;amp; chides you when you are like&lt;br/&gt;
&quot;but, we are not supposed to now&quot; &lt;br/&gt;
watch it brother...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;8. She already owes a lot of debt and this debts could have been avoided.&lt;br/&gt;
Am talking about money she borrowed to go spend vacation in Dubai whilst you are trying to raise some money to register your business name.. lol chaiiiii . see me see wahala.&lt;br/&gt;
you don enter one chance Oooo&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;9. She insists you both see her pastor somewhere in the mountainous regions of the South-West where they &quot;PRESCRIBED&quot; a 40 days dry fasting for you both as you prepare towards your wedding.&lt;br/&gt;
You are not allowed to shake, see each other alone unless the pastor is there or even take a major step without finding out from her spiritualist.&lt;br/&gt;
Sir, Sir , hmmmm &amp;#160; Sirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....&lt;br/&gt;
ee ba esee yin so roooo (communicate with your proverbial legs with which you entered the relationship.&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;10. She thinks facebook is demonic !!!&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;stay tuned for more !!!&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Now, pls dont get me wrong.&lt;br/&gt;
Am not saying you should not marry your fiancee if she has the above qualities or more than few of them. Am just pulling you by the collar as a friend to get a 2nd and many other 2nd opinions just before you say &quot;I DO&quot;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Cheerio cheers with perry winkles on it !!!&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;&amp;#174;BanjoOre&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/feeds/7848162590298216146/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/03/10-signs-your-would-be-spouse-maybe.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/7848162590298216146'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/7848162590298216146'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/03/10-signs-your-would-be-spouse-maybe.html' title='10 SIGNS YOUR WOULD -BE -SPOUSE &quot;maybe&quot;... #DYSFUNCTIONAL ?!'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03597166256922845829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492.post-5629799339598077992</id><published>2015-02-21T03:07:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2015-02-21T03:26:52.705+01:00</updated><title type='text'>KUDOS TO OUR SOLDIERS...</title><content type='html'>&lt;div dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;
KUDOS TO OUR SOLDIERS...&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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You are in the war front&lt;br /&gt;
fighting &amp;amp; defending us.&lt;br /&gt;
While we sit here running commentaries&lt;br /&gt;
on social media &amp;amp; on print / electronic media.&lt;/div&gt;
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We even argue &amp;amp; measure how effective you are&lt;br /&gt;
while some of you get wounded or even die every day.&lt;br /&gt;
Brave Men/Women, weldone &amp;amp; Kudos to you.&lt;/div&gt;
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Kudos!&amp;nbsp; Kudos!!&amp;nbsp; Kudos!!!&lt;/div&gt;
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Kudos Soldiers&lt;br /&gt;
thank you for Defending&lt;br /&gt;
The Nation.&lt;/div&gt;
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Kudos &amp;amp; may the ones who lost their lives defending this Nation&lt;br /&gt;
Rest in Peace, Amen.&lt;/div&gt;
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Kudos !!!.&lt;/div&gt;
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</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/feeds/5629799339598077992/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/02/udos-to-our-soldiers.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/5629799339598077992'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/5629799339598077992'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/02/udos-to-our-soldiers.html' title='KUDOS TO OUR SOLDIERS...'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03597166256922845829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkwYMm_bANf3dNBgbw1HfuBxbgkfPpRH5WdR7jVihOtQPMgUnN5MtDSCdcvU1HuI-_HRWC83eMPWpVf6cZUymGmRLVbNku4dUx3FJzbsrVIeS3Yl-GxIiUsM8PiO8V0PrQqSbiu26NV0r1/s72-c/JWHE.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492.post-1590920621661518378</id><published>2015-02-10T03:53:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2015-02-10T03:53:48.099+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Winners dont TRULY  Quit !!!</title><content type='html'>&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;People who win &amp;amp; keeps winning&lt;br&gt;
those who become successful &amp;amp; keeps getting better&lt;br&gt;
are PEOPLE who have learnt to do things inspite of the fears they had&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;They tucked away their emotions,&lt;br&gt;
rolled off bad memories&lt;br&gt;
stood tall in the face of adversaries&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;They didn&#39;t gat the time to raise pity-party&lt;br&gt;
they did what they could do &amp;amp; very well too (where.they.are)&lt;br&gt;
they are not approval addicts&lt;br&gt;
they have perfected the ART of Learning &amp;amp; Unlearning&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Winners (successful people ) are surfers whose arms were bitten off by sharks (but they still took their surf boards &amp;amp; returned to the tumultuous sea).&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;They see themselves winning every time&lt;br&gt;
they... come to your turf &amp;amp; even attempt to SNATCH a win when you are not prepared&lt;br&gt;
They are Team Players&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Winners are like the Germans who went to Brazil &amp;amp; dubbed them 10-0.(lol)&lt;br&gt;
not minding if their people cried or not.&lt;br&gt;
Successful people will step on your toes &amp;amp; tell you &quot;Sorry&quot; later ( lol )&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;People who succeed see OPPORTUNITIES &amp;amp; not EXCUSES&lt;br&gt;
they ask &quot;Why NOT &quot; &amp;amp; not&amp;#160; why..&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;How many successful people do you know who hasnt gat some or all of these qualities?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Find that REASON to be a Winner (success) &lt;br&gt;
Alwayyyyysss&lt;br&gt;
&amp;#174;BanjoORE&lt;/p&gt;
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hence that RING should remind &quot;us&quot; that when we said&amp;nbsp; &quot;I DO &quot; we also said &quot;YES to sex &quot; &amp;amp; of course YES to assisting in the kitchen ( ***yukkk, abi ? )&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;So, inspite of all the sermonising we should ask the question again &amp;amp; again...&lt;br&gt;
Question : Why do men like sex ?&lt;br&gt;
Answer&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; : Men were made &amp;amp; created to have the stronger desire for sex ( God put the desire in us, we did not invent it ourselves )&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;However control of this beautiful gift from God is of a very important essence to us as men. Control shows we are considerate, matured &amp;amp; Godlike ( talk is cheap abi? )&lt;br&gt;
seriously control is important.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Will Marriage cure the frequency of Sexual Arousement or libido in men?&lt;br&gt;
Sadly NO, it will not but it CAN HELP .&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Today is not the day for a long discourse on this but...&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Its important as humans ( God-fearing ) to create &amp;amp; put SPIRITUAL / moral FENCE (gate) against the wasteful &amp;amp; sinful use of our Sexual plus Emotional drive in a way that makes God happy hence creating the needed balance in our matrimonial homes.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;NB: A word for the man whose wife hates sex, well if you were a teacher or lecturer &amp;amp; you have students who have problems in mathematics :&lt;br&gt;
how do you help them over come the mathematics problem ?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;You don&#39;t teach an Adult anything by abusing them physically or emotionally, you take your time &amp;amp; show them the importance of the course (sex ) and take time to passionately teach them with several tutorials where possible... &lt;br&gt;
**Trust God will grant you more wisdom &amp;amp; strategy on this..&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Enjoy...&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;I
 am not a Christian and don’t plan to be except of cause God destines 
that I am one, of cause this is not the reason n why I am writing this 
my story to you or who ever will read it from your blog.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;I
 am from a polygamous family and my dad married 3 wives who sincerely 
tried to leave in peace and understanding even when my daddy died.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;Daddy
 was a very quite and honest individual as his friends said and as the 
society saw him. He managed to build a large six [6] bed-roomed bungalow
 house before he died, each wife took one room each with my Daddy 
occupying the big large room close to the family parlor and the other 
two rooms were boys and Girls room as the case maybe.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraph&quot; style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;My
 daddy died when I just entered my year one in a federal university in 
the Northern part of Nigeria [I am 23 yrs old and in 200 level in the 
faculty of sciences]&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;I was never
 trained in any trade or passion because we were always Inside the 
house. [Female children] but unfortunately he had facilitated by 
betrothal to the son of his childhood friend and everyone in the town 
where we live know that I am espoused to Ahmed Gobiri [not real name] 
who I do not like at all. He is 12 years older than I am , he does not 
show any signs of wanting to leave the town where he lives &lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;and to crown it all &lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;he
 so loves to chew Kola nut which has stained all his teeth [he actually 
is a fine tall man] but I detest marrying him, But ironically he has 
supported my large family dedicatedly because ever since daddy dies 
feeding and other things have been very difficult for us [13 children in
 all and 3 wives] I happen to be the first child as my Mum is the first 
Wife.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;The
 Issue here is that I hardly go home as a result of the hardship at home
 but even send money home once in a while as a student, it will be safe 
to say I am currently going out with three men and I have had sex with 
two of them and in constant romance with my university boyfriend.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;They are:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;My espoused would be husband&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;mso-list: Ignore;&quot;&gt;2.&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; font-size: 7pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; line-height: normal;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;My&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Very Good benefactor who gives me money regularly for my studies and up keep&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;mso-list: Ignore;&quot;&gt;3.&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; font-size: 7pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; line-height: normal;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;My campus Boyfriend [400 levels] who I have come to know the meaning of love with.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;I
 have of course not told my campus boyfriend that I will marry him as he
 is aware of my money bag friend who gives me money [for school fees, 
upkeep and send some home] and he will of course know I spend the 
weekend wit him once in a while but he still finds it so easy to be my 
friend and be everywhere with me on campus.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;My
 Betrothed husband in my town only calls and hardly sends me money but 
he never cease to buy me native cloths, veils and look in on my extended
 family etc…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;so
 do I live my betrothed would be husband and damn the consequences of 
doing that [you dare not go against your parents, family, religion and 
culture where I am from] but I do not love him or any of his ways&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;I
 am fond of my money bag who is married but is so sympathetic to my 
situations and gladly pay all my bills [if he was not married and from 
my place it would have been easy to marry him]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;
&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;My
 campus boyfriend is my Joy, he is from the west and has taught me how 
to browse, socialize, relate and know what romantic love is. He is a 
Christian.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;b style=&quot;mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;So why write all this?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;
 Well who knows someone might have something to say that will help 
concerning my case seeing that I don’t have very close friends and have 
never had good counselors hence my taking advantage of this forum. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;&quot;&gt;I
 wish I can have one just one male friend and please God as He expect me to
 be but this are the situations am contending with... any advice will be
 appreciated. &lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; (my name is my name )&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Uhh.. dear Mr. President&lt;br&gt;
Whas happenin?&lt;br&gt;
I&#39;m writin you because, s**t is still real f**ked up in my neighborhood&lt;br&gt;
Pretty much the same way, right around the time when you got elected&lt;br&gt;
Ain&#39;t nothin changed&lt;br&gt;
All the promises you made, before you got elected..&lt;br&gt;
.. they ain&#39;t came true&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;[2Pac]&lt;br&gt;
Tell me what to do, these ni**az actin up in the hood&lt;br&gt;
Send mo&#39; troops, dear Mr. President&lt;br&gt;
(Me and my homies is wonderin what&#39;s goin on.. holla!)&lt;br&gt;
Tell me what to do, these ni**az actin up in the hood&lt;br&gt;
Send mo&#39; troops..&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Why should I lie, when I can dramatize?&lt;br&gt;
ni**az fell victim to my lyrics, now traumatized&lt;br&gt;
Simply by spittin I&#39;ve been blessed given riches, enemies suspicious&lt;br&gt;
cause I&#39;m seldom in the company of bi**hes&lt;br&gt;
Plus the concepts I depict, so visual, that you can kiss&lt;br&gt;
each and every trick or bi**h, inside the s**t I kick&lt;br&gt;
My heaviest verse&#39;ll move a mountain&lt;br&gt;
Casualties in ma*s amounts, brothers keep countin&lt;br&gt;
f**k the friendships, I ride alone&lt;br&gt;
Destination Death Row, finally found a home&lt;br&gt;
Plus all my homies wanna die, call it euthanasia&lt;br&gt;
Dear Lord, look how sick this ghetto made us, sincerely&lt;br&gt;
yours I&#39;m a thug, the product of a broken home&lt;br&gt;
Everybody&#39;s doped up, ni**a what you smokin on?&lt;br&gt;
Figure if we high they can train us&lt;br&gt;
but then America f**ked up and blamed up&lt;br&gt;
I guess it&#39;s cause we black that we targets&lt;br&gt;
My only fear is God, I spit that hard s**t&lt;br&gt;
In case you don&#39;t know, I let my pump go&lt;br&gt;
Get ?ride for M&#39;Thulu? like I ride for Geronimo&lt;br&gt;
Down to die, for everything I represent&lt;br&gt;
Meant every word, in my letter to the President&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Dear Mr. President, tell me what to do&lt;br&gt;
These ni**az actin up in the hood, send mo&#39; troops&lt;br&gt;
(What should I do?)&lt;br&gt;
Dear Mr. President, tell me what to do&lt;br&gt;
These ni**az actin up in the hood, send mo&#39; troops&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;#Words &amp;amp; lyrics by the Late Tupac Shakur&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;pls see the rest of the lyrics here:&lt;br&gt;
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/2pac/lettertothepresident.html&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;&lt;font size=&quot;2&quot;&gt;fb.com/banjoore&lt;/font&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/feeds/7822494123926490482/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/01/letter-to-president.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/7822494123926490482'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2679304968357205492/posts/default/7822494123926490482'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://banjoore.blogspot.com/2015/01/letter-to-president.html' title='&quot;LETTER TO THE PRESIDENT&quot;'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03597166256922845829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679304968357205492.post-8906098315559617159</id><published>2015-01-27T17:51:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2015-01-27T17:51:19.402+01:00</updated><title type='text'>@ Different Kinds Of People</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; padding: 5px;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2XBujylSwoFBV4VpPnH4vf4-9L9YWfZmYDmstyxA8nj3wVJPVkb50DRcNCeIgYWXXDEDZ5s4d7cvUNfMZhCGG10nEr2NPWJASK9hGqFGBdl_ElR9F8wojhvJxUmDJm6m8yWHDZBRLtnCG/&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2XBujylSwoFBV4VpPnH4vf4-9L9YWfZmYDmstyxA8nj3wVJPVkb50DRcNCeIgYWXXDEDZ5s4d7cvUNfMZhCGG10nEr2NPWJASK9hGqFGBdl_ElR9F8wojhvJxUmDJm6m8yWHDZBRLtnCG/ cursor: pointer;&quot; width=&quot;200px&quot; style=&quot;border: 1px solid; border-radius: 2px;padding: 5px; max-width: 200px &quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;&lt;br&gt;
the self opinionated: form opinions based on what they see, hear &amp;amp; how they feel &amp;amp; stick to their opinions doing all they can to make it air-tight (regardless of the eventual true state of things )&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;the conformers : goes with the most popular trends &amp;amp; just belong for what ever reasons they see is &quot;okay&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;the extremists : says &amp;amp; do things entirely different from what everybody has said or is saying. they can go too far from the norm.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;the easy-goins : take life easy &amp;amp; just watch stuff from the distance , in the end they just do what sets them in a comfy zone (sometimes @ a peril )&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;the religious : they just do whatever has been prophesied or what they thought is in the book of revelations or book of the religious elders.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;the opportunists : they look around &amp;amp; just harness the &quot;stories&quot; / realities for financial or positional leverage (fame &amp;amp; recognition)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;the analysts : they explain all the school of thoughts, opinions &amp;amp; actions of other people leaving things more murkier than ever.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;the confusionist : not interested in procedures, structures or parleys. they are basically commissioned to disrupt proactive proceedings &amp;amp; set progress aground (for financial &amp;amp; competitive reasons etc... )&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;the confused : they just don&#39;t know what is going on because there are so many versions &amp;amp; school of thoughts out there. ( they sit tight &amp;amp; mostly don&#39;t do anything )&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;the umpires : they see themselves as all knowing, and believe things wont settle until their opinions has been heard.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;by no means an exhaustive list.&lt;br&gt;
&amp;#174;Banjo Ore&lt;br&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;which comes first?&lt;br&gt;
1. Acomplishing a Goal or&lt;br&gt;
2. Becoming a person of strong character ?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;NB: The Grace to accomplish comes from the strength &amp;amp; wisdom we have GAINED / developed from &amp;#8234;#&amp;#8206;BECOMING&amp;#8236; who we should/ought to be. &lt;br&gt;
We should consider our motives too.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;So, the safest GOAL to set is the &amp;#8234;#&amp;#8206;GROWTH&amp;#8236; goal,&lt;br&gt;
GROW first...&lt;br&gt;
INVEST in YOU&lt;br&gt;
yourself&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;It doesn&#39;t hurt to remain on the shelf for a while (in a sector) or generally speaking.&lt;br&gt;
unless you wanna &amp;#8234;#&amp;#8206;BURN&amp;#8236; out before you start ?&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;fb.com/banjoore&lt;/p&gt;
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So, welcome to.2015 !!!&lt;br&gt;
YIPPEEEEEEE.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Oh when is it not a great time to celebrate ?&lt;br&gt;
Life is Good&lt;br&gt;
God is GREAT&lt;br&gt;
and we are much more grateful for His LOVE ova us.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Any ideas about how the NEW YEAR should proceed?&lt;br&gt;
well, &lt;br&gt;
sure&lt;br&gt;
soon&lt;br&gt;
will post lots...&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;but right now, got to get me started and in proper solid momentum too.&lt;br&gt;
Stay tuned&lt;br&gt;
and see you soon !!!&lt;/p&gt;
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