Crossdressing Tips

Natural Makeup Tips For Pink Lips

2012-03-01T09:30:00.000-08:00

Natural Makeup Tips For Pink Lips
1. To get softer lips, you need to brush lips with old soft bristled toothbrush. This helps in removing the dry and gentle skin .

2. Massage lips with a teaspoon of honey and rose paste will make the lips pink naturally.

3. While getting a facial, apply the lips with cotton soaked in carrot or beetroot juice. This adds colour . (Note: For red lips mix carrot juice with beetroot juice).

4. Do not discard the orange peel, use it to cleanse the skin to remove the dark skin tone and prevent it from happening over and over. This is one of the best home remedies for darkening of lips.

5. For everyday use, mix saffron with ghee and apply whenever the lips go dry. Saffron brightens skin and ghee lubricates to make the lips pink, soft and gentle. A personally tried natural makeup works very well.

6. Massaging lips with ice cubes, soothes the skin and keeps it fresh and also maintains water balance.

And finally there is no such thing better than pink. Ooooooo I love the below shoes. What do you girls say ;) ?

10 Tips to Ensure Safety at Work

2012-02-25T23:35:00.001-08:00

Pay attention
Don’t play around with your cell phone or indulge into other activities like searching your handbag, walking with your head bowed down etc. while walking alone anywhere, anytime. Be aware of whatever is happening around you.
Keep looking back while climbing up the stairs or walking on a road. Notice the people, and maintain distance from the ones who look skeptical.

Places to avoid
Avoid isolated streets and places with negligible light, especially in the late hours even if you are in a car.
Ask your brother, father, husband or a male friend to drop you till the bus stop or to your workplace. The chances of an attack reduce if a woman is accompanied by a male companion.

What not to wear
Try not to wear sparkling jewellery and revealing outfits. They attract the robbers and molesters. Even if you are going out for an office party and want to look hot, remember that revealing clothes are not a necessity.

Ensure Car safety
Make it a habit to lock the car doors when you get inside the car. Avoid leaving your handbag and other valuables in the car to avoid attracting robbers.

The Parking Lot
While approaching your car in the parking lot, keep a check on your surroundings. Make sure that things are normal and there is nothing suspicious in or around your vehicle. Check the passenger and the back seat of the car.
Don’t hesitate to ask a guard to accompany you till your car in the parking area if you see a van or a big car parked next to yours. Ask for help in case you feel uncomfortable.

Self Defence
In case of an assault, hit the attacker hard in his groin. He will end up on his knees and you can quickly run away.
Use your eyes to involve the assaulter. Sense the opportunity and get away.
Learn self defence techniques such as karate or taekwondo so as to protect yourself in case of a mishap. Go to the gym. Do meditation. Be physically and mentally strong.   
Keep in mind that the assailants don’t want to mess with women who can fight back. They always target the weak. 

Use the Spray 
Carry a mint/pepper spray with you. Keep one in your car too. In case of a misfortune, make full use of it. It seriously works.  
The Handbag Advice Almost every woman is spotted carrying a handbag these days. While in a public place or transport, hold your handbag tight. Hang it on your shoulders or roll the strings around your wrist. It enhances the grip. If you are carrying a wallet, put it underneath your arms. 

Emergency Contacts
Keep the contact number of either the police or any other person you trust (could be anyone from your family, friends or workplace) on speed dial or the top in the list of the last dialed numbers. This way you will not have to search the phonebook in case of urgency. 

Other Tips

It is advisable to use an elevator instead of stairs when you’re alone, especially in the night.
Use your car or house keys as a weapon.
If you travel by your office cab, ensure that the driver has let out all his important details to the organization. Try to travel with your colleagues in the cab. Avoid going alone.
In case you find the driver drunk or drugged, avoid traveling. Get back to your office, file a complaint against him and call up someone you know to pick you up.
Warnings and signals are always given out before an impending danger. Pay attention and be wise enough to track them down and save yourself from any such adversity. Fight Back. Don’t give up.

Quick And Easy Tips For Party Makeup

2012-02-20T10:41:00.000-08:00

Heading out to a party but find yourself pressed for time to visit the salon? Worried that you won’t be able to make an impression on your outing considering the fact that you have very little time on your hands to get dressed for the same?

Well, not to worry! For here are somesimple, quick, easy and extremely effective tips that can make you look like a diva in no time at all. Follow these makeup and style tips to look dashing wherever you go without necessarily spending hours in a salon beforehand.

Easy Tips For Party Makeup

Makeup Helps

Considering the fact that you are headed out to a party, you would most probably need to opt for some makeup tricks that can hide your flaws and make you look gorgeous throughout the night. Here are some tips to help you with that.

The Blush

The top of the cheekbones are where you need to concentrate in order to get a quick, sexy look. By sweeping the blush and highlighter high upwards, you can make the look even more dazzling.

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This makeup trick would enable you to sport radiant looking cheekbones throughout the night.

Eyeliners

Nights are when you need to make your eyes stand out. And the best way to do that is to make them look as bright as possible (within the limit of course). This can be achieved by opting for colored eyeliners instead of the usual black, brown or blue ones.

Opt for liners that can accentuate the dress you wear but don’t end up looking hideous. For example, subtle colors like emerald green or velvety purple are good choices for a night time party.

Another trick to make your eyes look fantastic would be to opt for a winged look for eyeliners. Accordingly, after applying a thin coating of eye liner around the rims, you can choose to leave them winged (not touching each other) at the outer corners. This would give off a classic and yet chic look within minutes.

Pouty Lips

No matter what anyone says about pouty lips being a thing of the past; the trend would continue to hog the limelight for many more years to come.

And the best way to get pouty lips instantly is to match the color of your lipstick with your lip liner to enhance the pout. You can also try out complementing colors to show off your sexy pout in a more stylish manner.

Accessorizing

A fashion ensemble would surely go unnoticed if you don’t team it up withappropriate accessories. This goes for makeup and hairdos as well.

Hairstyling Tips

If you are in a rush, opt for a simple hairdo you can make interesting by adding on some jeweled hair pins, charms or pendants.

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Simple hairdos like braids can be made more attractive by decking them with stones, flirty hair pins or even leather extensions etc. If you opt to wear a ponytail to the party, try to decorate with feather extensions and plumes for added appeal.

Jewelry

Bold is in! And the best way to let everyone know that you have decided to embrace the look is by making an instant impression with some bold, statement accessories. These include chunky chains, large earrings, chic necklaces, and funky bracelets and watches. However, make sure that the accessories you opt for blend in with the outfit you plan to wear rather than appearing out of place and rather jarring in an otherwise simple ensemble.

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Essential Makeover Tips For Everyday Clothes

2012-02-20T10:38:00.000-08:00

Don’t feel like looking at yourself in the mirror of late? Find yourself to be slipping into a monotonous fashion style that does nothing to enhance your looks and persona?

Then here are some vital tips on fashion sense and makeup that would help you get that dream makeover overnight!

Identify the Curves in your Body

One of the biggest fashion mistakes committed by many women today ismistaking their body size and frames; and opting for dresses that either don’t fit them at all or project their bodies in very bad light.

Learning to identify your prime assets is important. However, you would also need to identify the not so pleasant areas in your body that need to be camouflaged at all costs in order to avoid unwanted attention to these areas. And the only way to do that is to recognizing the basic curves present in your body and change your fashion sense accordingly.

Identifying the Hour Glass Figure

Of course, the coveted hour glass figure is very hard to achieve, and only a very few women are blessed with this body shape naturally. If you are one of those individuals blessed with a gorgeous hour glass figure, then you have the right to know that almost any kind of dress would work well for you.

You don’t need to worry about faux passes, wardrobe malfunctions or fashion disasters. So experiment all you want with dresses you have never tried on before until you zero in on the one that complements you best.

Identifying the Apple Shape

If you are blessed with an apple shaped body which essentially means that your shoulders are pretty broad and your torso is quite short.

The apple shaped body would not look flattering in layered chiffon tops with V-necks that tend to give off the impression of a longer upper body. An individual with an apple shaped body would also look well if he/she chooses to wear tops or dresses with Bohemian sleeves. You can also opt for wide cut jeans and trousers that are tailored to match your body shape.

What to Avoid

The worst way to flaunt an already full body is to squeeze it into a figure hugging dress that would make your body stand out unflatteringly in several places. Stay away from tight fitted jeans, trousers, or skirts, and knitted clothes.

Identifying the Pear Shape

Have extremely wide hips? Then you should understand the importance of distracting unwanted attention from them. And this you can do by opting for wrap dresses, long tops, A-line skirts, wide legged pants or tailor made straight pants; all of which would make your hips look narrow and petite.

What to Avoid

Stay away from dresses that seem to widen up below the waist. And so clothes like figure hugging pants, coats and any other ensemble with side pockets are strict ‘no-no’s.

Identifying the Banana Shape

Of course, like the hour glass, the banana shaped body would looks awesome in almost any kind of dress. But then again, you need to make sure you get the style right in order to flaunt those seemingly invisible curves.

So opt for chiffon and balloon dresses that help to show your curves in a subtle, feminine way. Shorts and slim trousers would look quite flattering on your legs. And if you team them up with a monochromatic look (possibly with a little vertical piping effect in between), you would no doubt look downright gorgeous.

Go for dresses with pleats and gathers; and opt for pointy shoes beneath those slim trousers to give off a neat, polished and extremely stylish look.

Crossdressers 5'2 and below

2012-02-17T12:05:00.000-08:00

Wow the cartoon is straight out of the book 'How to lie with statistics' visual propaganda illustrations - the tallest model is the only one with a proportional adult head and who is apparently tall enough to wear a dress and strut her stuff. (Would be fun to put head number 1 on model number 9).

What the cartoon actually does is illustrate it's about proportionality (amazingly, shorter models tend to have heads in proportion...), style and overall look.

Arguing from history/previous cultures is always dodgy; we're talking about now. It would also be interesting to know what proportion of models here (or modelling jobs) are catwalk-type requiring a minimum height.

At the moment, I'm getting ready for a couple of retro-themed shoots, and amongst the props are magazines from the 1900s-1930s full of diminuitive models. Historically, there was more of a crossover between acting and modelling - the actresses modelling for perfume, cigarettes etc.

This is Veronica Lake from 70 years ago. She was 4' 11"

Similarly with 5' 2" Eva Longoria:

I'm not a fashion/catwalk photographer. My images can end up in magazines, on book covers, CD albums.... etc. Clients like the images or they don't. Never been asked for a tape measure.

This is a 5' 1" model. Trust me, she is perfectly proportioned and quite a few taller models wish they looked like her.

How to Become More Masculine when Feminine

2012-02-12T18:09:00.000-08:00

Becoming more masculine, women or men, can take some ingenuity, but it can be done, whether you want to transition or just like playing with gender!

1. Look at yourself in a full length mirror. (You don't have to be naked to do this.) Think about your body. Figure out what aspects of your body need to be played up or down in order to pass. Some helpful hints include:
2. For fuller chested folks who want to pass, very loose shirts help, as does a tank top. A lot of folks wear those these days. It gives you a good contour, and is much more comfortable than wearing Ace Bandages. If you're smaller chested, jerseys and hoodies are excellent clothing choices!
3. Hair: hair is really a cultural matter. Some folks recommend a short business cut, but look through some magazines first and try to pick a cut that matches your face. Be careful, a haircut too short can emphasize feminine features instead of play them down!
4. Clothes: Simple colors, nothing too flashy. Solids are good. Don't try to match your clothing too much, unless it's business wear. Sometimes passing is helped by simply taking advantage of women's naturally low expectations for men's fashion sense.
5. Watches: Get a men's watch, but try them on first! You don't want a large men's watch, it will draw more attention to the fact that your wrist is small, which makes folks look at the rest of you more carefully. Plus, really big watches look tacky.
6. Start shaving: It's easier to pass if you appear completely clean-shaven.
7. Mannerisms: Don't think too much about these, because when you're passing as a man, you still need to be you! Only include the really important ones.
8. Bathrooms: The first time you go into a men's room, do not wrinkle your nose in disgust at how filthy it is. Walk in confidently, not looking at anyone else, and head right into a stall. Just sit down and do your thing. Don't worry, plenty of guys who were born that way are what's called "piss-shy" and always use stalls. It's no big deal. If you have to wait for a stall, men do not chat while they wait like women do.
9. Sidewalks: Women move out of men's way on the sidewalks. Go to a high traffic area and watch people. Men walk forward, head up, and women move out of their way. You want to learn this anyway, because as you get better at passing, women react like you're targeting them if you try to step out of their way. If you and a woman end up bumping into each other because she can't read you, stop and say "excuse me, miss" and keep going. No apologies or long-winded discussions.
10. Manners: Learn the old fashioned ones. Hold open doors for women, let them get off/on elevators, busses, etc first. Brush up on all the old school guy things that guys used to do and do them. If a woman is uncertain about your gender, these kind of things are "cultural flags" of maleness that will convince her. Plus, you get a few smiles out of the whole thing. And that's nice. One of the bummers about passing full time is that women stop being nice to you. So enjoy the positive attention when it's there.
11. Don't let work or school slide. Just because you're acting manly doesn't mean act dumb. Act as intelligent as you are, no more no less.
12. You're not going to learn all the subtle rules of social interaction as a male right away, so when women doubt your gender presentation, take advantage of sexism. Some women seem threatened by a really talkative, emotional, responsive kind of guy. Society has taught them that talkative men want something, usually of a sexual nature. If they start to wonder about you (you'll know by the looks on their faces when it happens), simply smile big, say something like "girlfriend, please" or any other stereotypically gay phrase appropriate to the moment, and for good measure, throw in the limp wrist or swish a bit when you walk away. See, American society has programmed people to think of gay men as being very much like women, so when you do this, women know "where to put you" and will relax around you almost immediately. Your personal safety has to be taken into account before you decide to do this.
13. Your room or house says alot adout who you are. Men don't have Hello-Kitty wallpaper, rugs, bedding ext. So get rid of this stuff any way you can, donate it, give it to a young relative, or just sell is and make a few bucks. Now that the girly stuff is out, start decorating, try to make it look like you didn't put alot of effert into it. Camo is always an option.
14. Don't worry about others' opinions- what other people think of you is not anything to be extremely concerned about. Many people may assume that constantly worrying over others' opinions on themselves and trying to make everyone like them more is the key to seeming superior, but it is not. Many times, both girls and guys will mistakenly act nonchalant about school and work and seem like they are too bored to truly care about the tasks they need to complete in every day life. Truthfully, you must make sure that if this is a negative trait in your character, which will be explained in steps later on, try your hardest to eliminate it from your mind frame. Acting this way gives off the image of low intelligence, or detesting school work and work in general. To others, it makes them often feel that you, or others who do this, are stuck-up, snobby, uncaring about academics and work, or all three. You do not want that image.

Courtesy: http://www.wikihow.com/Become-More-Masculine-when-Feminine

11 One-Ingredient DIY Face Masks

2012-02-12T17:47:00.000-08:00

So here, we’re making healthy skin even easier for you–with one-ingredient, all-natural, DIY facials with common supplies you can easily find right out of your refrigerator shelf or kitchen cabinet.

If you want pretty and healthy skin, don’t skimp on the bare-bone basics. Be sure to always drink lots of water and wear sunscreen moisturizer.

1. Honey. Use a cloth damp with warm water and pat skin to open pores. Smear honey onto skin and leave on for 15 to 30 minutes. Rinse off with warm water, and pat skin dry with cloth damp with cold water to close pores.

2. Raw egg yolk. Spread on face and neck and leave on skin for 30 minutes. Rinse with cool water.

3. Raw egg white. Beat egg white until frothy and spread on face. Wait until it dries and rinse off with warm water.

4. Grapes. Cut one grape in half and rub lightly all over face.

5. Banana. Mash one overripe banana and spread onto face. Rinse off after 15 to 30 minutes with warm water.

6. Plain yogurt. Apply on face after cleansing and leave on for 15 – 20 minutes.

7. Apple cider vinegar. Dilute apple cider vinegar with two parts water and apply over face with a cotton ball as a toner after washing face every day and every night.

8. Olive oil. Dab on lips at bedtime if chapped or leave on face overnight.

9. Avocado. Mash avocado, leave on skin for ten minutes.

10. Baking soda. Use as exfoliant for face by adding to your regular cleanser.

11. Milk. Seriously? Yes, seriously. Swab on face with cotton ball, leave on until your skin feels tight. Rinse off with warm water. Your skin will feel super-soft afterwards.

Read more: http://www.care2.com/greenliving/11-one-ingredient-diy-face-masks-for-perfect-skin.html#ixzz1mDnM5HI5

12 Super Simple DIY Beauty Tips

2012-02-07T18:45:00.000-08:00

Best kept beauty secrets that pass the test of time? Everyone hates being told, “I told you so,” and most women also hate thinking their mother was right. However, on stepping upon the threshold of thirty, and with my South Asian mother now in her early sixties, I can’t help but notice that on a good day, she looks not more than maybe only five or ten years older.

And with each wrinkle, thinned out skin or spot I notice, I hear her quite literally echoing voice telling me “I told you so.” So what was it exactly that she used to always harp on about while growing up?

Quite simply: endless beauty tips that at that time seemed to have been carved on stone tablets alongside Moses’ Ten Commandments. But these then-thought-of-as-primitive beauty routines now seem charming and simple in an age where we’re constantly fed a barrage of beauty ads and overly photo-shopped images of perfection.

In my own desperate attempt to look great, I have ventured down every possible winding road that ultimately lead me nowhere, pick-pocketing my hard earned dollars with daylight robbery rates and empty promises of youth and beauty. I finally decided to throw in the towel and revert to the “old ways” of doing things…

1. For smooth skin, crush four uncoated aspirins and mix 1 cup distilled water and 1/4 cup apple cider vinegar. Use this 2-3 times a day for incredibly smooth skin and as an alternative to washing your face in the morning.

2. Once a week, use a natural honey face mask for softer skin and cleansed pores. Honey is a natural anti-bacterial and the best type to use is a raw honey, which usually has a sugary texture and doesn’t drip like processed honey.

3. If you have sensitive acne-prone skin, stay away from rich spicy foods, which only irritate and inflame your system.

4. Sleep. Staying up too late or not getting enough sleep wreaks havoc on your skin, causing it to look dull, tired, and likely leading to breakouts.

5. Use patchouli oil to quickly get rid of acne. Mix ten drops of this strong smelling oil with ten ounces of almond oil as a nightly moisturizer and anti-wrinkle treatment.

6. For soft hair, massage your head with rich coconut oil once a week, working it into your hair. Leave it in there for about three hours prior to washing it out with shampoo. Use just a dab of conditioner at the ends.

7. For shiny hair, mix one egg with a mashed up banana and apply it as a thick paste to your hair. Leave it on for 10-30 minutes, depending on your hair texture. Then, wash it out as usual and use conditioner only at the ends.

8. For natural hair dye, use henna and add in a bit of lemon to the paste. Leave it in your hair for about thirty minutes to one hair for a natural reddish/auburn tint.

9. To eliminate build up, rinse your hair with one cup of apple cider vinegar, followed by a minimal use of shampoo.

10. Washing your hair with boiled rice water is also a great alternative for shiny hair.

11. Use a mixture of pure olive oil with 1/2 parts sea salt as an in-shower body scrub. This combo completely eliminates the need for lotion and is great for winter weather.

12. Make sure you get in some sort of physical activity. Our mothers and grandmothers stayed in shape with simple stretches, and not grueling hours at the gym. Try reaping the benefits of yoga as a way to maintain your girlish figure.

Most Beautiful Gorgeous Make Overs

2012-02-07T17:24:00.001-08:00

Look radiant with these simple tips

2012-01-30T21:30:00.000-08:00

Are you constantly looking tired? We tell you how to look radiant and perky even after missing on your beauty sleep

Almost all of us are victims to a lack of sleep. In fact, there is nothing worse than starting your day looking tired and sleep-deprived. Pale sallow skin, dry and dull complexion, puffy and dark under-eye circles, can reveal your level of fatigue. We tell you how to get your face looking bright and beautiful.

Aqua effect :
The best way to get your skin looking fresh as a daisy is by splashing cold water on your face. The cold temperature helps by constricting blood vessels and making your skin look smoother. Splash some water first thing you wake-up to feel fresh and alive.

Bye bye dryness :
While you are sleeping, your skin tends to get dehydrated. Using a good moisturiser can help plump up the skin cells. All the signs of dry skin, such as lines which make you look older will reduce with the use of a moisturising cream.

Kitchen remedies:
If you are still looking pale and sallow, try using a combination of milk and ice cubes. Dip a napkin in the mixture and then place on your face for a few minutes. This will help to instantly brighten your skin, the Cleopatra way.

Reduce puffiness:
While most of us opt for eye creams in the night before sleeping, using one in the morning can help. Choose one which contains peptides and caffeine. Keep your cream in the fridge the night before and use it in the morning. The gel-based formula (opt for a water-based one) can help get rid of the puffy look.

Go slow on make-up:
If you haven't slept much the night before, it's best to go easy on the make-up. While you do want to cover up the tell-tale signs of sleepiness, you don't want to look like a caked-up monster. Go slow on heavy foundation or powder. Try a tinted moisturiser with SPF protection instead and use a light coat of concealer.

Eye openers:
They say the eyes are our windows to the world. No greater reason to ensure that they look their brightest best. Use an eyelash curler to open up your eyes and then apply a light coat of mascara. It will do wonders for your overall look.

Add some colour:
Get rid of the sallowness from your face by using some pink or peach coloured cream blush. This will instantly transform your complexion and take away the attention from your under-eye. Creamy formulas work better than powder blushes as they blend well and can add just a pinch of natural - looking colour.

Mane magic:
While you may not have time to wash your hair everyday, adding some leave-in conditioner or serum can tame your mane in no time. If you have some minutes to spare, try blowdrying the top layer, otherwise just lightly wet your locks and apply product and scrunch.

Night care:
How well you take care of your skin the previous night can make a difference as well. Ensure that you use a good cleanser to remove all the make-up, dirt and grime stuck to your face.

Diet worthy:
Cutting back on salt and alcohol can do wonders for your skin. Alcohol dehydrates the body and causes those bags around your eyes. Drink plenty of water to clean out your system.

Pillow talk:
Use a satin pillow as it smoothes dry, frizzy hair and doesn't cause friction with the skin when sleeping.

Give your Feet some Beauty Treats

2012-01-23T18:45:00.000-08:00

Give your Feet some Beauty Treats

Simple beauty tips to take care of your feet with extra love.
Although all women want to look their best most of the time with various beauty tips to enhance their beauty. In the middle of a lot of effort and skin care advice, we have forgotten, especially on our beautiful feet that are a true reflection of the overall appearance of a woman to take.

If we ignore our beautiful feet for a longer period, they become dry abrasive paper, become horny and unattractive. Although the effort, the beauty tips of your feet can be smooth and well again, but you can definitely get you the look of your beautiful roses feet by placing them with tender and loving advice additional skin care.

The feet are soft and beautiful desire of every woman, like the feet smooth and comfortable to the touch always adds a special touch to a woman’s persona. When to show you, your feet nice shoes and sandals were interesting, you can do this with our beauty tips beneficial for one or two times per week.

When it comes to beauty tips, the feet come to the lowest priority because they are easily hidden under your shoes, socks and slippers, but with our simple tips and great skin care, you can confidently wear open sandals. Here the beauty tips in stages, through which you are able to enjoy the sweetness of your feet beautiful.

The most important of all skin care tips for achieving beautiful feet is a soothing and relaxing foot bath on a regular basis, or at least twice a week. To spoil your beautiful feet, the feet in warm water in a small foot bath for 5-10 minutes and then add some to wash moisturizing body wash or quality of the feet with a small handful of Epsom salts.

Our skin care tips recommend that you use a good scrub your skin soften dry, scaly. If you do not just scrub, scrub a house with our beauty tips by adding 2 tablespoons of olive oil and 2 tablespoons white sugar can make. Rest your feet on the edge of the bath and foot massage rub into your beautiful feet, especially on the heels of hardening of the skin.
To get rid of the remaining slightly dry skin, our beauty tips you should clean a pumice stone on your feet and rinse your beautiful feet with warm water and rinse off with a soft towel.
Apply a moisturizing lotion on its feet thick, add a nice touch too sweet. In addition, our beauty tips using lotions have as a normal part of your shower to make your message more flexible beautiful feet.

What to Do When Your Bra Straps Hurt Your Shoulders

2012-01-21T09:43:00.000-08:00

Wish there were something to eliminate painful bra strap pressure, telltale red marks, and/or annoying strap drop? Well, now there is! Finally, there’s Hollywood Strap-Ease - relief from over-stressed load limits and an end to strap slippage, thanks to the newest addition to the Bodacious Breast Collection. This pair of no-slip, super-flexible silicone cushions rest comfortably atop your shoulders, with your bra straps handily under clothing and out of sight. These hand-washable, reusable Hollywood Strap-Ease cushions feel like a second skin. Such a perfect solution to a universal problem, you’ll wonder how you ever lived without them! Hollywood Strap-Ease= comfort and confidence everyday.

Your bra should make you feel and look great. If you experience shoulder pain caused by irritating straps digging into your skin, there are remedies you can and should try. A painful bra can be an indication that you are wearing an incorrectly sized bra, which after a period of time can negatively affect your posture, give you painful neck and headaches, and improperly support your breasts--not to mention the irritating shoulder pain.

Loosen the Straps
- The first thing to do when any piece of clothing hurts you is to loosen it. You may have longer shoulders than average women who wear your size bra, so if you did not adjust the straps after purchasing, you may need to do so. Too short of straps will cause the bra to pinch down on your shoulders and up under you breasts. Slide the straps loose by at least an inch and experiment for a few hours with how it feels. If the straps give you pain, you may need a different bra.

If you know that you are wearing the exact size for your figure (fitted by a bra specialist; most lingerie and department stores offer complimentary bra experts to aide you, so take advantage) and the straps still hurt your shoulders, consider purchasing a bra strap cushion. The cushions are discreet soft foam pads that slip over your straps to create a bumper between you and the strap. They come in a variety of colors, shapes and sizes and are relatively inexpensive accessories, ranging from $6.00 to $15.00.
You should be able to purchase bra strap cushions at most department stores or wherever lingerie is sold. There are also many online boutiques that make finding the right sized and priced cushion easy. A few top boutiques include laurensilva.com and yourbraaccessories.com.

If the shoulder pain continues, you may need to try a different size or style of bra. You will need to try going up a size in your bra even if you believe it is the right size. The right bra should both lift and make you feel comfortable in all places, including the shoulders.
Buying a bra with wider straps also might solve the problem. For larger cup sizes, thicker straps allow for the support to be distributed along a greater area of the shoulder, thus relieving painful pressure points.
Variant styles also may aide in relieving your shoulder discomfort. Bras are made in a plethora of shapes and styles. Experiment with finding the right style for your body. Various styles include halter, racerback and even strapless bras. Though for those with larger cup sizes, strapless bras are not recommended for daily wear due to lack of support. Consider purchasing multiple styles and rotating from day to day to allow your shoulders to recover from each day's pressure point.

I Don’t Care if My Exposed Bra Straps Look Skanky

2012-01-21T09:36:00.000-08:00

It is hot out there, ladies. How hot is it? It's so hot I saw a chicken lay a fried egg! It's so hot the birds are using potholders to grab the worms! It's so hot, when you pull a potato out of the ground, it's already baked! Ba-DUM-bum! Okay, really bad jokes aside, it's hot, and when it's this hot, it's time to break out the tank tops. No matter how much you may hate your underarm flab, there comes a point when you have to go sleeveless ... we may be cooler, but then we face the bra strap conundrum.

Do you let your bra straps show?

Sure, there are tanks that have thicker straps, so it may not be a huge issue, but these days, those skinny little straps are in. What do you do? I admit, I let mine show. Granted, my bras have smaller straps because, well, I don't have much in the northern region to hold up, so the bras that have the thicker straps aren't needed. Actually I could get away with no bra, but, well, that's a topic for another post.

Say you don't want to let your bra straps show -- what do you do with those cute tops with skinny straps? I know, we can grab a strapless bra, but, ummm, has anyone found a strapless bra that is comfortable and doesn't totally inch downward, so you have to hike it up every three minutes? If you have, please pass on that Holy Grail info of underwear, as strapless bras and this mama at the park just don't mix.

I've seen those bras with the clear plastic straps, but when you wear those, you aren't fooling anyone -- we still see your straps. They are there, still showing.

So, I am left with letting my straps show. I try to keep them together and match my bra and tops accordingly so as not to wear a black bra under a white tank. I'm not the only one, I know. Have the wardrobe goddesses given a silent nod to this practice ... or is it still kinda skanky to do this?

Do you let your bra straps show?

Tall Crossdressers Boots: Style Dos and Don'ts

2012-01-19T17:11:00.000-08:00

Tall crossdresser's Boots: Style Dos and Don'ts

Not every boot works on every body. Tall crossdresser who are leary about purchasing boots need to keep the three P's in mind: purpose, pairings and price.
Purpose: Do you want boots you can wear out on the town? A pair for work? A casual pair for running errands? Boots come in a variety of styles and colors, so think about how you want to use your boots before making a quick purchase.
Pairings: What do you want to wear your boots with? Pants? Skirts? Leggings? Your answer will impact your choice.
Price: You can either invest in boots that will last years, or spend less on trendy boots that you'll wear for a season.
Once you've thought through your options, shop with confidence while keeping just a few dos and don'ts in mind.

Tall crossdresser Boots: Do Pair Ankle Boots with a Flowing Dress

Pairing ankle boots with a dress or skirt can be hard to pull off. Choose boots in a nude or neutral color and pair them with a knee-length flowing dress or skirt. Finish off the look by wearing a statement belt to highlight your waist.
Note: Wearing ankle boots with pants can be hard for tall crossdresser to do, especially if you have a hard time finding pants with long enough inseams. Steer away from ankle boots when wearing pants or jeans.

Tall crossdresser Boots: Don't Wear Bright Ankle Boots

Bright colored or patent ankle boots can be tough to pull off, especially when paired with the wrong outfit. If you want to wear striking ankle boots, pair them with dresses or skirts without patterns or embellishments - your boots will give your outfit the extra "pop" you're looking for.

Tall crossdresser Boots: Do Wear Sleek Over-the-Knee Boots
If you want to wear over-the-knee boots that reach sky-high, choose a pair that follows the curve of your body. Pair them with leggings or skinny pants and a tunic top to complete the look.

Tall crossdresser Boots: Don't Let Your Boots Overpower You

You want your boots, especially over-the-knee boots, to enhance your outfit as an accessory, not overpower your wardrobe. Always bypass items that look too big, bright or bulky.

Tall crossdresser Boots: Do Buy Black Knee Boots

If you can only afford one pair of boots, purchase a pair of lightweight, black, knee-high boots. They're the perfect boot for tall crossdresser because you can easily tuck leggings or skinny pants into them without worrying about them coming untucked. They also work overtime: pair them with a pencil skirt, a girly dress or even jeans.

Tall crossdresser Boots: Don't Overpower Cute Boots

If you have cute boots that you want to show off, don't overaccessorize the rest of your outfit. Keep your style clean and simple, allowing the attention to fall to your feet.

Tall crossdresser Boots: Do Wear Cowboy Boots

You can absolutely wear low-heeled cowboy boots, but you have to do it carefully. To avoid looking too-cowgirl, choose a neutral color that doesn't scream "rodeo." Most cowboy boots are calf-height, which can draw attention to the widest part of your lower leg. Look for a taller boot to give your legs a leaner look.

Tall crossdresser Boots: Don't Buy Bulky, Gaping Boots

If you're going to allow the top of the boot to show, you don't want it to gape around your calf. This bulky look just adds mass to your leg, making it look larger. By finding boots that hug your leg, you'll maintain a long, lean look.

Everything You Need To Know About Anything

2012-01-18T02:41:00.000-08:00

Learning how to xdress convincingly and be a confident cross dresser is something that comes with both time and practice but as I have already learnt the methods that work successfuly for me I would like to share my proven practices that will only help you on your cross dressing path to happiness and a new ability to totally pass as a convincing xdresser.

Learning how to crossdress convincingly and be a confident cross dresser is something that comes with both time and practice but as I have already learnt the methods that work successfully for me I would like to share my proven practices that will only help you on your cross dressing path to happiness and a new ability to totally pass as a convincing xdresser.

There is much written about cross dressing however much of it is unproven and mostly work of non-fiction so it is my pleasure to talk about techniques that will help you pass as a female which in turn will give you the confidence to feel much happier within yourself and have a more enjoyable experience in the outside world rather than being closeted behind closed doors. However, I must say that for my early years as as a xdresser I was inhibited and worried about what other people might say or think about me, however looking back, I really wish I hadn’t worried as my past 15 years experience has shown me that my early feelings of being scared and concerned about other people not accepting me where proven to be all in my head.

In fact the most important hurdle to overcome when cross dressing is to feel comfortable in your own skin and to keep you head held high with confidence that will only add to your ability to pass easily as a female.

Getting a pair of silicone breast forms or enhancers will greatly improve your upper body shape, but like in my early days a pair of socks or balloons filled with gel can be a temporary solution. However, x dresser breast forms are not much easier to obtain and are far cheaper than a few years ago.

Moving on, now we have the first and most important confidence lesson out of the way, we need to look at clothes, shoes, makeup and cosmetics, voice techniques and female quirks. If you want be a convincing x dresser then choosing clothes that both suit your shape and height is very important in making you appear more feminine. Shoes, although hard to get in large sizes, can make you feet look more petite and also help you to walk in a more feminine way plus make you feel extremely sexy – caution do not be tempted to buy shoes in smaller sizes as you will regret it after 10 minutes of wearing them.

Hair is also a major factor in passing convincingly as a woman and although wigs can be extremely realistic, especially a few companies that I have dealt with in the past, with many great wigs available and many of them are almost indistinguishable to real hair in fact the best ones are made from human hair. You may wish to grow your hair and try getting it to a more unisex style for both gender roles. However, if you are working towards becoming full time cross dresser or even transsexual then your hair should be growing and styled towards a permanent feminine style. A good hair style will make your face look more feminine and hide many masculine facial imperfections or broad facial features.

Being a xdresser can be lots of fun, xdress, and you should learn what to avoid and how to make the best of yourself when heading out to become the girl of your dreams.

7 Crossdressing Secrets to a Long Lasting Shave

2012-01-15T04:34:00.000-08:00

7 Crossdressing Secrets to a Long Lasting Shave

Crossdressers and transsexuals face many challenges, but perhaps none as frustrating as the battle of the beard. Shaving is fast and easy, but can lead to razor burn and ingrown hairs, not to mention the frustration of seeing a beard shadow after only a few hours.

While there is nothing you can do to stop your beard from growing (aside from painful electrolysis), it is possible for any crossdresser or transsexual have a soft, smooth, feminine face.

Here are seven secrets to getting the smoothest, longest lasting shave possible:

1. Avoid shaving first thing in the morning. Most people wake up with slightly puffy skin in the morning. You'll get a closer shave if you wait 20-30 minutes for the skin to tighten, exposing more of the hair shaft.

2. Prep your skin. Take a shower or wrap a hot, moist towel around your face and neck for several minutes before shaving to soften your beard and open up the hair follicles.

3. Always exfoliate. Use a washcloth or an exfoliating scrub on your face to eliminate dead skin cells and raise hair stubs for a closer shave.

4. Use a regrowth slowing shaving cream. For a long lasting shave, use a shaving cream, such as Aveeno's Positively Smooth Shave Gel, designed to slow hair regrowth. Avoid shaving creams containing menthol, as they can dry out the skin.

5. Select a great razor. A great shave depends upon a great razor. Most crossdressers agree that the Gillette Sensor Excel is the ultimate tool for the job.

6. Don't use a dull blade. Never use the same blade more than two or three times since dull blades can lead to razor burn and ingrown hairs. As a matter of fact, I suggest using a fresh blade every time you go en femme.

7. Do a two step shave. A great pre-femme shave should be done in two steps: first, shave in the direction of hair growth. Then lather again, this time shaving against the grain for an even closer cut. Be sure to use small, gentle strokes to avoid irritation.

4 Natural Beauty Tips

2012-01-12T04:31:00.000-08:00

Crossdreseers all over the world spend millions of dollars on gels, creams, powders, and lotions all in the attempt to maintain or enhance their skin and beauty. Beauty is a universal theme that has been around since the beginning of time and all civilizations have had a natural beauty tip or two. Modern western cultures have taken the idea of beauty to extreme by resorting to plastic surgery, liposuction, injections, and other medically invasive treatments to gain a sense of enhanced beauty. There is no need to spend thousands dollars or resort to surgery, our 4 top natural beauty tips are freely available in this article for everyone.

First, natural beauty tip is to drink enough water every day. Drinking eight to ten glasses of water will solve many problems that you may be purchasing creams for. Drinking enough water will hydrate your skin and rid your body of the toxins and chemicals that are damaging your skin and hair. Flush the toxins out and hydrate your body with at least eight glasses and your beauty regime will improve greatly.

The second natural beauty tip is to eat fruits and vegetables daily. Fruits and vegetables contain the vitamins and minerals our body needs. When out bodies are fueled with the necessary vitamins and minerals many skin and hair problems disappear. Also, many fruits and vegetables such as carrot, oranges, cucumbers, and apples are known to be good rejuvenators for skin, hair, and nails.

Regular exercise is the third natural beauty tip that everyone should know. Regular exercise pumps oxygen to our cells, which in conjunction with water, helps to rid our bodies of those nasty toxins. Exercise does not need to be hours in the gym a walk around the block on a consistent basis will do wonders for your skin and body. Exercise also helps our bodies become more adept at digesting food which will allow the vitamin and minerals from the fruits and vegetables be absorbed into our bodies easier. Regular exercise also helps increase your energy level and sometimes can lift your mood. When you are happy and awake, you can look younger and feel younger. Isn't that what all the beauty products people buy are for? To create a younger you!

Finally and most importantly, do not discount the power of a positive attitude toward your beauty regime as well. Happy people are considered more beautiful in western society and having a positive attitude is the fourth natural beauty tip. Having a good attitude has been proven to lengthen your life span and boost your immune system, when we feel good we look good as well.

Natural beauty tips are really everywhere. There is no need to resort to a thousand dollar an ounce cream to achieve the same results you can get from eating right and exercise. Beauty really starts from within and following our 4 natural beauty tips can save you money.

Courtecy: She's Style

10 Types of Men To Stay away from.

2012-01-05T20:15:00.000-08:00

Currently on the market? Good for you, girl! But make sure you read this post before rushing into a new relationship. Here are ten types of man that are not likely to make you happy, and from my point of view, it’s better to stay away from them as soon as they show one of these patterns.

1. Born complainers …

Nothing will ever be good enough for this man, you’ll always be too loud, too stupid, too happy…..Avoid him like you would the plague, you’ll never be good enough for him and he’ll just kill your self esteem.

2. ‘Damaged’ men …

… Who don’t want to be fixed. On your first date he’ll announce that he is not over his broken heart. On your tenth, you’ll realise that he isn’t just broken hearted; he enjoys it, and has made a solemn pact to never let anybody in again. His armour is so thick that you’ll never get through, so don’t waste your time trying.

3. Guys that love sports more then you …

Most guys will put a sport first at some point, but you know that he’ll be there for you if you need him. Guys who love sports too much, however, won’t care if the house is on fire or the babies crying, he’ll just want another beer and some “peace” to watch the match.

4. Men who analyse you …

He thinks he’s Freud, and analyses your every move, from the flavour of crisp you choose to what you watch on TV. He’ll sit with a smug smile, convinced that by labelling you he’ll be keeping you hooked. Soon he’ll be trying to “fix” you with his weird theories….bin him now.

5. Pretty-Pretty boys …

They will just leave you feeling ugly while he spends his time fixing his hair and acting more beautiful and delicate then you. Find a more masculine man, and leave him preening himself

6. Mr. Im-Better-Then-Everyone …

He won’t do you any favours either. He’ll never smile, or be happy for you, and if you spend long enough with him you’ll start to despise the human race too. Leave him to feel smugly better than anyone, and go meet someone amazing.

7. Paranoid men …

Something gave them the green eyed monster, and it’s just never gone away. He’ll presume your cheating, hate anything that makes you look good and constantly accuse you of flirting with others. He won’t be happy until he’s the only person in your life, so bail now.

8. Men who just haven’t grown up …

These men refuse to get a job, blame everyone else for their laziness and unhappiness, and are constantly outraged that they are not respected. If he hasn’t grown up by now, chances are he’ll never take any responsibility, so stay well clear.

9. Cheaters …

Obviously, it doesn’t matter who this guy has waiting for him at home, if he sees somebody he likes, he’ll seduce them. Save yourself the heartache and live by the old saying, “Once a cheater, always a cheater”, because if it wasn’t true, wouldn’t somebody have proved it wrong by now?

10. Cruel men …

The kind of man who gets off from the power of refusing to take you somewhere, or spend money on you, or any type of power at all. He won’t get better, and it’s not because he loves you. Walk away, as fast as you can

How to Not Get Caught Looking at Porn/Crossdress Porn

2012-01-04T18:53:00.001-08:00

A few easy steps to not getting caught looking at porn.

Steps

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Minors or anyone viewing porn that is illegal in their community, city, state, or country may face legal issues and confiscations by authorities if they even look at anything related to pornography. Set the monitor or flat screen so that it is only visible to you, and is not easily seen by passers-by. Laptops are the best because you can move your laptop so only you can see it and you can close the lid so only can you see it. A better approach is to press Alt + F4 simultaneously. Never use porn on your desktop background.

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In concert with #1, position yourself so that approaching people can be seen first by you, giving you a chance to act.
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Use remote desktop to access your home system; browse porn from the web browser on your home system. This will avoid detection by proxy servers and hence, system administrators.
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Always have other windows open (on bottom taskbar) to switch to easily. Change the porn window's size to half-screen or so. Open another program and maximize it. Then open the porn window above the full-screen program. Simply click outside the porn window to completely cover it.
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In extension to the above, Alt+Tab (On Windows/Linux) or Apple+Tab (On Mac OS X) will immediately shift to the last application window you viewed (not only is swapping to a different window a handy tool; it usually works instantaneously, even when your machine is running slowly).
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Only have one browser window of porn open at a time (so you don't inadvertently switch to another porn site!)
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Move your task bar to the left or right (by clicking and dragging) of the screen so that nobody can see the site that you are looking at. Or open up lots of windows so the person could only see a number on the taskbar.
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Keep your mouse on the X-button, and when someone comes, you can close the window with a quick click. Be sure to remember the site name for after that person leaves.
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In extension to the above, ALT + F4 on Windows systems will close the Internet browser if it is the active screen. (Check this before relying on it. Some browsers, like FireFox and more recent editions of Internet Explorer which have tabs prompt for confirmation if you want to close multiple tabs, spoiling the quick exit if you want to make it).
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Windows key + D will minimize all your Windows. This is a quick trick - but, it won't help much if your taskbar is on the bottom because other people can see what Windows you are viewing.
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Get Opera, Google Chrome, a recent version of Firefox, Safari or Internet Explorer 8. Opera has a private tab option (right click on the tab bar, choose "New Private Tab"). Chrome has an Incognito window that does not record searches you perform, nor web-pages you visit from within the incognito window. Firefox has a similar feature called "Private Browsing" [Invoked with Ctrl+Shitf+P on Windows]. Internet Explorer 8 has the same as this, but called 'InPrivate Browsing' Next go tohttp://www.macromedia.com/support/documentation/en/flashplayer/help/settings_manager07.htmland kill the history embedded in your flash history. Safari also has a feature of private browsing in the "Safari" tab in the menu bar.
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On Mac OS X you can also go to system preferences and change it so that if you move your mouse to one of the screens corners, the computer will instantly sleep or go to the screensaver. this is best when you are not allowed to use the computer at all.
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Keep in mind that if you view porn via a flash viewer, the flash content folder will still keep a list of sites you've visited. It is located at C:\Documents and Settings\USERNAME\Application Data\Macromedia\Flash Player\#SharedObjects\RANDOMNUMBERS This should be deleted manually.

EditTools

If you're serious about not getting caught consider using software that performs a quick mute and/or hide. As explained above, if your surfing porn at work use a remote desktop tool. I like LogMeIn (logmein.com) for remote desktop and the Atlantis Privacy Filter (atlantisprivacy.com) for quick hiding, quick muting.

If other people use your computer, browser history and downloaded files might be a problem. The above relates some useful tips; however, now you need some tools.
You need Firefox Portable and 7zip, both free and excellent tools. If you don't know where to get them, google it, but be sure to download from a safe site.
If you prefer to use ordinary browsers. You should consider using CCleaner (freeware from www.piriform.com). You can set it to erase securely (I suggest use Gutman with 35 passes) all of your browsing history. It can also erase thumbnail caches and temporary files from other programs.
It goes without saying that, if you surf porn, you MUST have antivirus protection.
Similarly, a firewall is crucial as well.
Firefox Portable extracts to a directory specified by you, and all information is contained in said directory. Create a directory somewhere out of the way, and place this folder inside it. For this guide, we'll assume you put it in "C:\Program Files\YourName". The full path to your browser should be "C:\Program Files\YourName\Firefox Portable\FirefoxPortable.exe".
Now, go into the directory and run the FirefoxPortable.exe file. This is your browser.
Place another folder alongside Firefox Portable..."C:\Program Files\YourName\Folder2". This is for whatever "documents" you decide to save to your hard drive.
Install 7zip, an open-source file compression utility. You could just use Window's native file compression utility, but even if you password-protect it, people can still open it and see file names. (note: 7zip may also have a portable version; I don't know. Also, there are many other such utilities you can use for this purpose.)
If you installed 7zip, right-click on the "YourName" folder, go to 7zip --> add to archive. You can password-protect the folder and choose from many other options (leave them alone if you don't know what they do).
Delete the original "YourName" folder. To restore it, you must right-click "YourName.7z", and go to 7zip --> Extract Files.
You can also place the "YourName" folder on an external flash/thumb drive, or (possibly) on your iPod!
Keep in mind that NO method is foolproof...short of reformatting your hard drive and then burning it. Deleted files on your hard drive can be restored unless they've been overwritten by another file.
If using Google's browser, Google Chrome, there is an "Inspect Element" feature. This allows you to edit the page and have the changes appear in the browser. Access this mode (right-click > Inspect Element) then scroll all the way up and find the <title> tags. Then, change the contents to something clean. You will have to do this on every page.
There are some browser extensions that hide your tabs immediately and replace them with something else with the click of a button. (Google it)
A foolproof method for not getting caught is not to look at porn to begin with! If One is afraid of getting caught then one knows instinctively that there is something wrong with looking!
Most browsers have tabs. Make a tab with innocent things on like research for example and then before somebody looks at your computer switch to the innocent tab. If you can, have another window to switch to so that people cannot read your open tabs.

EditTips

Don't look back if someone is passing by, because they will become suspicious. You are less likely to get caught if you don't look back.
Have two Internet browsers open, one with the porn, one with the "Clear private data" screen up, so if someone comes you can simply press X and then "Clear private Data"
Try to look like you are doing an assignment or research for class. Open up Notepad and pretend you are taking notes for an report, etc.
Visit porn sites by selecting them from a search engine. This will prevent their addresses from showing up in the search history. (The search will still be indexed in the history entry for search engines like Google).
Keep your legs crossed.
Save good porn to a portable thumb drive to have when you are extremely horny and in a better position to enjoy it.
To avoid malicious software installing itself onto your computer, only visit reputable pornsites. Typing in www.[random naughty word].com is generally a bad idea. A 'reputable' website is one you hear recommended by a fellow internet user [youpornmobile].
Keep the window closed to cut off room ventilation; when confronted as to why you may look flushed and sweaty, you can shift the blame to the room's heat. Open the window to confirm this.
Clear your cache often, so nobody will see the sites you've been on.
If you know someone is going to look at your computer, make sure you delete the history, cookies, cache and everything else off your computer. It will make it look like you have not been looking at porn at all. Even though you did. Also remember to clear c:/windows/temp on Windows 9x.
Wear a sweater or some loose pants in case someone asks you to do something that requires standing up.
Instead of adding sites to your favorites list, create a free website or blog and list the urls of the porn sites on there. If you decide to go with a favorites list (for convenience), then rename them with innocent-looking names.
If you use Linux (with GNOME, KDE or similar desktop environments), you can open a porn web-site on a workspace and something else on another workspace. You can easily switch between workspaces by pressing Ctrl+Alt+Left/Right arrow or by using a visual tool like Workspace Switcher for GNOME.
The best browser to do this in is Mozilla Firefox. You can change the settings so it does not save any history except for the last seven or so places you've been. There is also an easy macro that can delete that history (crl+shift+delete). Change the settings before you try to use this though. There are many extensions that'll help to such as the ghostfox extension.
Try looking at porn into a video sharing site like metacafe or Google video.
On Windows OS, right click the taskbar and the bottom and click Properties. Then click "Auto Hide Taskbar". This will hide the task bar so no one can view the buttons showing what is open.
If you have to leave your computer for a short while, lock it, using "Windows Key + L" that way no one can access your computer without the password, and they will be unable to snoop in your history.
Headphones can be helpful in making sure that others don't hear sound from videos, but be sure to keep at least one ear clear to so that you can hear someone approaching.
If your computer goes through a router (instead of being directly wired to the modem), the URLs of the websites you access will show up in the logs. This cannot be cleared without the admin password, nor can it be circumvented by simply using a search engine (since your browser still must connect to the server to download the images). Use an anonymous proxy (Google it) to bypass this.
And you know many porn sites have Ads and open windows.The best way is to use "FireFox" Once you've installed it,Install a "Pop-up" Blocker and then while watching porn At the left side there's a option called"Remove all the Ads"Click on that the Ads will not open
Always watch porn when no one's around.

EditWarnings

It is common for system administrators to monitor web browsing, and it is easy to automate notifications for attempting to access inappropriate content (take it from a system administrator).
Even if you delete your cache and files that may cause potential embarrassment, it is still possible to recover all files that have been 'permanently' deleted. However, this requires an advance knowledge of technology, and the resources required are rarely available to anyone other than certain police departments.
Burying your Porn folder deep within other folders may, realistically speaking, not be enough. A simple search for folders with large file sizes will find them out. Apart from putting them in password protected locations of your account, the best thing you can do is call it something like 'DLL resources' and tuck it away in one of your Program Files.
Don't have a reflective window or mirror behind you.

Courtesy: http://www.wikihow.com/Not-Get-Caught-Looking-at-Porn

7 StepsTo Become The Greatest Crossdress Friend

2011-12-30T00:48:00.000-08:00

It’s not necessary that every time boys have to prove their perfection in a relation, if you want your boyfriend to be the best, you too will have to stand equal to him.

There are certain things through which you can prove a perfect girl friend. So just check these tips out and see if you are already following them and if not then imply them soon!

1. Involve with the things what he likes to do and make him feel comfortable like hanging out with him and his buddies.

2. If you have just started dating him then never buy clothes for him, this shows that you don’t like his dressing style.

3. Send him a message regarding your last date and make him feel special.

4. Forget your earring or some delicate thing at his place which reminds him of you and your things every time.

5. Too much attachment outdoors or ‘Publically display of Affection’ is not at all good. It may let him and others feel uncomfortable.

6. Spend time in making home made things and carry them with you while visiting his home so that his mom feels that her son is special for you.

7. Give him equal respect and value his suggestions. It would be better if you can make him feel his worth in your life.

Foods That Improve Your Looks of Crossdressers

2011-12-26T07:43:00.000-08:00

Spinach keeps the whites of your eyes clear.Iron, found in eggs, helps with hair-loss prevention.[*]Try adding grapeseed oil to a salad; it improves your skin (with vitamin E).
"Eggs are high in iron, which can help prevent hair loss (wish someone had told me that when I was younger)."

Rather than shelling out for that ultra-hydrating anti-aging exfoliator, reach for the fridge instead. You can affect the way you look by what you eat. Adding a few varied ingredients to your diet is easy, practical and an inexpensive way to improve your looks (brightening your eyes, preventing hair loss and clearing up your skin). Check out our guide to the foods that can turn you into someone’s attractive dinner date

Spinach
Popeye’s favorite won’t necessarily make your muscles bulge like the pipe-smoking Pipsqueak (although they do make them more efficient), but spinach is rich in the carotenoids lutein and zeaxanthin that are great for keeping the whites of your eyes clear -- a particular benefit if you happen to be a frequent flier on the Vegas red eye. Spinach is great in salads and curries, among other things. The iron-rich green is a perfect accompaniment to steak. Fry or broil a steak to your liking and cook some spinach in a pan with no water, squeezing off any excess after a couple of minutes. Remove from the heat and mix in some heavy cream and crumbled blue cheese. Season and serve, sitting your steaks on top of the spinach so the juices drizzle through.

Eggs
These ever-ready sources of energy often make the quickest and easiest late-night dinners -- eggs over-easy on buttered toast or stuffed into a bagel are the go-to choices for a satisfying snack. Eggs are high in iron, which can help prevent hair loss (wish someone had told me that when I was younger) and are also high in sulfur (the “bad egg” smell we associate with stink bombs in school), which helps keep your hair soft and smooth.
A Fiorentina pizza combines the powers of both the spinach and the eggs. If you don’t order takeout, grab a pre-made pizza base and spread on some tomato sauce (not ketchup, you at the back). Again, pre-made is fine, but try and find one without additives. Slap on loads of baby spinach and make a little nest in the middle. Crack in an egg, grate over loads of Parmesan and season with plenty of black pepper; bake on high for 10 minutes till the pizza is golden and the egg yolk is still runny.

Bananas

A banana is a bit of a freaky eat in that it keeps your skin nice and elastic. Try this little experiment: Grab a few people of differing ages and gently (!) pinch the skin on the back of their wrists. Pull it up and release. The quicker it goes back, the more elastic it is. Things like smoking cigarettes do loads of damage to the elasticity in your birthday suit, and the potassium in bananas can help with this, as bananas are foods that can improve your looks.
You can’t get better than a classic banana split done posh. Halve your banana, scoop in some vanilla bean and good-quality chocolate ice cream, pour over 70% chocolate sauce, add salted butterscotch sauce, and scatter over chopped hazelnuts and sour cherries. This is the stuff that dreams are made of. If you’re on a health kick, go for a healthy option. Halve the banana, spoon over some thick natural yogurt, drizzle over honey, and add the nuts and cherries along with some granola for extra crunch.

Red cabbage
The more common white’s bright-purple cousin is packed with sulfur and iodine; these both help with the cleansing of your insides. Keeping your insides running smoothly and healthily is incredibly important for ridding your body of toxins, which can effect things like your skin. If you suffer from acne, maintaining a healthy inside is as important -- if not more so -- than any product you can use on your skin. Fight the battle both ways. Red cabbage is great pickled and is dead easy to consume. Take half a red cabbage and finely shred it into strips.
In a pan, boil together four parts water, two parts white-wine vinegar and one part sugar with a few allspice berries and a bay leaf. Allow to cool and pour over the shredded cabbage. Add a sliced chili or two if you like. Seal and store in the refrigerator. This is mind-numbingly good on a pulled pork sandwich, a burger or a dog.

Beets

Our purple pals (or yellow, rainbow or even pink) are a strong ally in the fight to keeping up our appearances. Beetroot contains betaine, which is a bioactive agent that helps with the breakdown of fats. Their juice also contains a form of chlorine that aids digestion by doing the same thing. Now, beet juice might not be the most appealing thing, but you should still be able to get a fair whack of beet goodness from eating them in their natural state.
Consider adding a tablespoon or two of beetroot juice to your salad. If you haven’t eaten beets before, there is a remarkable side effect, but we’ll leave you to discover that on your own.

Grapeseed oil
This newly fashionable oil is bright golden, perfect for drizzling over salads or on Italian bread. It's used in cosmetics now as a skin softener but it is also rich in vitamin E, which reduces the appearance of wrinkles. That might sound like an advert for an expensive skin cream, but you can pick up a bottle of this stuff for around $10 in health food stores. Use it as you would olive oil. It has a decent smoke point, which means it great for frying, or stick it in salad dressings and marinades. Griddle some bread on a barbecue or under a broiler; pour over some grapeseed oil, a drizzle of good balsamic and sea salt flakes; it's the perfect start to a meal.

Turkey
You might overlook your nails, but a sexy woman at the bar won’t. Girls look at stuff like nails, teeth, hair and how clean your ears are; they want to know you’re looking after yourself. So, don’t overlook the importance of nail health. The good news: It’s dead easy. Make sure a) you’re getting enough water in your diet and b) you’re getting enough protein. That’s not carte blanche to eat steaks for the rest of the week and nothing else. As you’ve guessed from reading this, a varied diet full of lots of fruit and vegetables, particularly the brightly colored ones, is integral to maintaining those boyish good looks. A turkey soup would be a great starting point as you’ll be taking in liquids as well. Try a Thai-style fiery Tom Yum with shredded turkey. The chilies will leave you buzzing from the endorphins, too.

Guava
A last addition to our list of foods that improve your looks are guavas. Guavas are high in antioxidants to counteract the free radicals that cause skin damage and will leave you looking prematurely old. You actually don’t even need to eat it if you aren’t a fan. Just squish the flesh into submission and rub it on your skin -- but wash it off before you head out on the town. They’re also rich in vitamin C, containing five times as much as the humble orange. To top it off, they have a whole host of other health benefits. The best way to eat these bad boys is either in a fruit salad or straight up with a good squeeze of fresh lime juice.

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Outing tips for Crossdressers

2011-12-18T18:19:00.000-08:00

Couple of outing tips which I thought should share with other gals when I did a
late night outing months back. Though I drafted the mail I somehow missed
sending it out, so here it is now.
Some disclaimers: This may be sounding silly for experienced/frequent outing
cd’s. Many of the tips available in net about how to go out dressed without
being caught etc, In spite of reading them and having some knowledge on them
when I personally went out for the first time it was hard overcoming some of my
male instincts. Also some of these may not qualify as tips but just the blunders
I realized after going out which you gals can avoid. So its worth going through
all these once again.

All of these may come naturally if you frequently go out and ignore all these
tips over a period of time, so to that extent this is just a starters guide.
These are not taken from anywhere, just my observations and not in any specific
order of importance.
1.       Talk, and keep talking as much if you are with company- keeping quite
is not a gals nature unless there is something seriously wrong, but I don’t know
how to manage this when we do not have convincing voice or where others can
easily hear us.
2.       Be bubbly and not serious- keep smiling- not difficult one, but still
needs a reason and one should carry it well and not look silly.
3.       Relaxed and tension free face- without our knowledge we get in to this
mode especially if we are going out for the first time- avoid this and be
relaxed as much as possible.
4.       Walk slowly- I cant believe my self- no matter how much ever I wanted
to walk slowly it was hard to do with smaller steps!!
5.       Don’t jump steps- be delicate. I was almost about to do this monkey act
if I had not observed other guy who was staring at me J and suddenly I realized
that I am girl and not supposed to do all this.
6.       If you need to tender cash/change, don’t reach to your usual valet at
back pocket (if on jeans). I almost did this at a petrol bunk, but girls always
keep their coins and cash in a hand bag.

7.       Same thing applies for mobile also for extra feminine experience.
8.       Also don’t reach for shirt pocket!! You know you have something
different in that position J
9.       Don’t pick nose or other dirty acts which you might do unhesitantly in
male mode J
10.   Don’t do any heavy duty/heoric acts like lifting heavy objects etc,.
11.   Sit in cross legged position- I dint experience any notable troubles with
this, however worth mentioning.
12. Can avoid unnecessary eye contacts with others

People with more experience going out in day light/ early evening, who had
encountered many other situation can add many points to this list. My experience
is very limited and restricted to certain situation as I had not interacted much
with people on outing.

Courtecy: Unknown source on Internet

Most Expensive Jewelry Of The World!!

2011-12-13T18:41:00.000-08:00

Diamond Necklaces

$5 million
Diamonds are not only the girl’s best friend. They are also an economical man’s worst enemy! It is no secret that diamonds and diamond necklaces as well as diamond jewelry are costly. The ordinary you and I might wish to have a necklace with small, cheap diamonds just to tell others we have diamond necklaces as well, but well, otherwise, the more exotic diamond necklaces with large stones or many stones are simply not for average folks.
How about a diamond necklace that has a pear shaped diamond, about 75 carats? The necklace looks simply stunning with the diamond in it, and it costs only about US $5 million. There is also a diamond ring that is quite cheap – about $1 million. A beautiful diamond necklace, by Stefano Canturi, costs only about &750,000 – $1 million.

The Blue Diamond

$7.98 million
It is the ultimate diamond in the rough. And if you have to ask how much it costs, you can’t afford it. A rare
and flawless blue diamond has set a record as the most expensive precious jewel of its kind ever sold. The gem, which is 6.04 carats and sparkles with an unusual blue hue, is almost as breathtaking as the
price it fetched at a Sotheby’s auction in Hong Kong.

Diamond of Hope

$180,000
Cartier wanted a lot of money,” says Washington Post Columnist Sarah Booth Conroy, “and Evalyn was hesitant. So Cartier added, ‘Well, we’ve fixed it up now with a wonderful setting and you’ll like it.
Why don’t you keep it for a few days?’ And so she put it on her dresser and she looked at it and she looked at it…” “For hours that jewel stared at me,” remembers Evalyn in her autobiography, “and at some time during the night I began to really want the thing. Then I put the chain around my neck and hooked my life to its destiny for good or evil.”
The deal closes at $180,000; Cartier’s elaborate sales pitch has worked. The Hope diamond is the largest and most perfect blue diamond in existence, but for the young and impetuous heiress, its fascinating past is the hot selling point. “Besides that,” says Conroy, “she thought things that were unlucky for everybody else would be lucky for her, because she was an exception

Chopard Blue Diamond Ring

$16.26 million
Blue diamonds are among the rarest of naturally colored gems. That’s why this oval-shaped diamond ring, with triangular-shaped diamond shoulders and a pave-set diamond band in 18-carat white gold, will set you back about $1.7 million per carat. A pricey and unique alternative to the typical engagement

Heart of the Kingdom Ruby

$14 million
This 40.63-carat, heart-shaped Burma ruby, mounted on a 155-carat diamond necklace, claims top spot in the British jeweler’s collection. Got a débutante in your family? The diamond necklace can be transformed into a tiara. The stone is accompanied by two independent Swiss laboratory reports that verify its rarity.

Diamond Drop Earring by Harry Winston

$8.5 Million Earrings
Harry Winston is the ‘jeweler to the stars’ and you can find him, where else, at the House of Winston at 371 N. Rodeo Drive, Beverly Hills, California. Every year Harry Winston lends out hundreds of millions of dollars worth of jewelry to the stars so they can look good at the Oscars. For 2006 the House of Winston created a pair of ‘Extraordinary Diamond Drop Earrings’ consisting of two pear-shaped diamonds in a platinum setting totaling 60.1 carats of wallet emptying glitter. If you’re interested in buying the world’s most expensive earrings be prepared to shell out a cool $8.5 million USD

Magnificent Diamond and Emerald Necklace

$3 million-plus
A virtual cascade of white and green, this Magnificent Diamond and Emerald Necklace from Chopard’s “Haute Joaillerie” collection will keep all eyes on your sweetheart, whatever the occasion. There are 191-carats worth of Columbia’s most beautiful emeralds on there, completely set by 16 carats of rose-cut and drop-shaped diamonds. Though officially “price upon request,” you should figure on spending $3 million-plus.

Regal Pear Shape Diamond Pendant

$2.5 million
Showstopper or credit-limit topper? Either way, Tiffany’s Majestic Diamond Necklace will be center stagShowstopper or credit-limit topper? Either way, Tiffany’s Majestic Diamond Necklace will be center stage wherever it’s displayed. With a fluid design that lies softly on the neck–and really, what other way is there?–this glittering choker evokes breathtaking glamour, with a 41.4-carat, pear-shaped diamond accompanied by a multitude of round and pear-shaped diamonds. Each stone is top-of-the-crust in color and clarity, of course, as is the pretty blue box it comes in

Emerald coktail Ring

$2.14 million
Luxury watch and jewelry manufacturer Chopard’s collection includes many high-priced pieces. But this bold ****tail ring–with half-moon diamond shoulders holding up a 33.02-carat solitaire emerald on a pave-set diamond and platinum band–outshines its rivals.

Novo Yellow Diamond Ring

$1.35 million
Of all the pieces one might find inside that famous blue box, this 25.27-carat novo yellow diamond ring set in platinum and yellow gold is priciest. Its beauty and its cost make soon-to-be-engaged girls swoon, and their beaus shudder. Can’t make it to the New York City location? Tiffany’s efficient online catalog makes ordering from home easy.

Diamond Engagement Rings

Engagement rings are traditionally known as a symbol of love and proposing. When a man asks a woman for her hand in marriage and in life, this ring is offered. Tradtionally, any ring is usable because the ring itself is a continuous loop symbolizing eternity. But as victims of society, now every man is pressured to use the most expensive piece he can afford, typically a diamond ring. The general rule of thumb is two to three month’s salary to show his dedication and sincerity.
Diamond rings became a tradition when the first one was given by Archduke Maximilian of Austria to Mary of Burgundy in 1477. Now it’s become a widely practiced ritual by nearly every culture in the world. More than 250 tons of earth is mined before a single 1 carat gem quality diamond is uncovered. The best quality diamonds are usually set into platinum bands for people who perfer the best of the best.

Weight loss without exercise for crossdresers

2011-12-07T18:38:00.001-08:00

Hi friends

I found this article from net surfing
hope u'll enjoy reading it

Here, 25-year-old student Rohit Daga shares how he dropped 16 kilos in three months flat:

I always hated exercising, so when I gained some weight in college I considered trying an alternate way of losing weight.

I am 5' 8" tall and weighed 71 kgs at that point of time. Though it did not embarrass me, the "feel good" factor was just not there with that kind of weight.

So, I set out to drop the excess baggage. I do not like carbonated drinks, so soft drinks were the first to be removed from the consumption list. Then I stopped eating sweets, chocolates, cakes, butter, cheese and potatoes (and everything made from potatoes like chips and vadas).

I drastically cut down my sugar consumption; it just added too many calories. In addition to these measures, I would drink lots of water. I found that drinking about eight litres of water a day could do wonders for your body. Besides, it is a good way of detoxifying your system.

I love fruits; and so increased the amount of fruits and vegetables I consumed. Papaya, cucumber, tomatoes, onions and carrots became an important part of my daily diet.

In the evenings, I would usually get very hungry and I'd order junk food. That is something I targeted. I started to eat a cucumber and a tomato in the evenings; they have a lot of water and satisfy your hunger as well. I stopped eating while watching TV. What I realised was that when I eat while watching TV, I tend to eat more than was necessary. So I just cut it out altogether.

My daily diet was as follows:

Breakfast: Cornflakes and hot milk (300 ml) or 1 plate of idli (two pieces) or a small plate of papaya
Lunch: Two rotis, cooked vegetable, one onion and half a cup of curds
Evening: One glass of sweet lime or orange juice (without sugar), one cucumber (medium sized) and one tomato (medium sized)
Dinner: Two rotis and cooked vegetables
Late night snack: One carrot (medium sized)

Apart from this, I made sure I was not seated for more than 30 minutes at a stretch. I would just take a walk for two minutes or drink some water, which helped me keep burning more calories. I also stopped using lifts and escalators. Instead, I started using the stairs, which also really helped.

Over a three-month period, I lost 16 kilos and went from weighing 71 kg to 55 kg. So, although I didn't need to lose a lot of weight, the method obviously produced results.

Many people will recommend various methods for how to lose weight. However, you need to adopt a weight-loss plan that suits your personality. If you hate exercising, there is no point trying to do it against your wishes, you will just not enjoy it.

I did not like butter or colas, so I could cut it out of my diet without any regrets. I love ice cream though, and did not give it up. I just rationed it to once a fortnight. During this 3-month period, I enjoyed what I ate and was also happy doing it. I also did not spend any additional time on exercise, but managed to lose the weight.

So, make sure your plan is in-sync with your personality and something that keeps you happy.

Source: http://www.lazydesis.com/beauty-health/10066-weight-loss-without-exercise.html#ixzz1fuHWbA3V

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