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How to Choose a Pre-Designed Business Card Template Design that Works with your Blog Brand

2013-05-21T14:33:00.000-07:00

As you build your blog brand, and business, a well designed business card keeps your offline identity consistent with your online persona. The right business card will convey who you are in just a few seconds; while a quality business card will represent your blog as a serious business, and the card design will showcase your ability to keep your branding consistent.

For those of you that work with a graphic designer this is fairly easy to do. But, for the rest of us, we can personalize pre-designed business card templates. Companies like Minted.com have more than one hundred card designs available for every design taste and business.

But, how do you pick a card that conveys your business while keeping consistent with your branding?

It isn't hard if you use the same five steps that I took to find my pre-designed business card template that best matched my blog brand:

Pick a design element from your blog, ideally your header logo, that you want to incorporate in your business card. Find a card that has the same or a similar element, and feel of your blog.
Choose a font that is similar in color and style as your blog copy for your business card contact information.
Choose a font that is similar in color and style as your blog header for your name (or blog name).
Pick a second design element from your blog that you want to incorporate on a smaller scale in your business card, or on the backside of your business card.
Pick a second color to use as a "highlighter," or dash of color.

After your narrow down your business card selections to one design, layout your information and print a screen to "match" the card design, and color, with your blog."

Now that I have narrowed down my Minted.com business card this this design (Stem Striate), I am still a little up-in-the-air on the color I should pick.

What do you think?

This blog post is part of a Minted product review campaign on behalf of Southern California Lady Bloggers / #sclb.

Although I will receive complimentary business cards in exchange for this blog post, the opinions and ideas expressed here are my own. #sclb / @minted

We are Powerful, We are Strong, We are Beautiful

2013-05-16T08:30:00.000-07:00

I was born into an athletic family. My father excelled in track and field, soccer and even bicycling in his later years. My siblings were all stars in every sport they joined, whether football, baseball, volleyball and even swimming.

Then there was me.

I was never athletic, and I'm definitely not graceful. "Clumsy" is a word that is widely used to describe my ill attempts at running, swimming and any sort of organized sport.

I had literally given-up on sports, athletics in general, until I discovered yoga.

Yoga was my first step in entering a world that was, until then, foreign to me. Day in, and day out, I was inspired, driven and motivated to be part of a world where a room full of strangers encouraged me to do my best.

That was 15 years ago.

Fast forward to now.

With everyone's busy schedule, including my own, encouragement and even connecting with strangers in a yoga studio, let alone a gym or bike path, seems to happen less often.

As much as we motivate ourselves, there is nothing like the friendly encouragement another woman can have in our life.

Until now.

Under Armour, the leading performance brand, unveiled it's new "What's Beautiful" digital experience and competition. The "What's Beautiful" campaign is a community and a competition that will redefine who the female athlete is - US!

By joining the "What's Beautiful" digital experience, you will receive motivation from hundreds, possibly thousands of women, that are going through the same thing you are right now: Working towards a healthier version of ourselves.

After nine weeks, Under Armour will nominate ten finalists based on the strength, drive and determination showcased in their stories and original submissions to be featured in the "What's Beautiful" homepage and mobile app. Three winners will be selected at the end of the campaign!

The winners will be awarded a one-year "sponsorship" deal with Under Armour, transforming their lives with access to special events, training with UA celebrity trainers, gear for one year, nutrionist consultation and support, plus being included in the Under Armour women's marketing efforts!

For more information on the What’s Beautiful digital experience, visit whatsbeautiful.ua.com or follow Under Armour Women at http://www.facebook.com/underarmourwomen or @UAWomen. To view exclusive videos, check out the http://www.youtube.com/underarmour page.

Join me, join US, in this campaign whether solo, or with your friends (team), to complete our fitness goals: whether it's training for a marathon, or swimming more laps than ever before, together we can do it!

I promise that you will be motivated and inspired with the amazing women that are part of this campaign.

Together we will conquer our goals!

This blog post is part of a paid "Fitfluential" Under Armour "What's Beautiful" blogging program.

The opinions and ideas expressed are my own. #IWill #WhatsBeautiful #FitFluential

Five Concealers Every Woman Needs

2013-05-15T08:30:00.000-07:00

God was good to me: I inherited the "good skin" genes from my parents. But, as much as I love and gush over my wrinkle-free skin, God forgot to give me clear skin.

Yes my loves, my skin has blemishes, sun discolorations and uneven skin patches. And, of course, the occasional zit or two (yes, they still happen after 40!).

Oh well. We can't have it all in life!

Thankfully for you, I am a bit vain.

I will go out of my way to cover or lessen the impact of a zit, or the dark circles under my eyes.

In that quest, I have tried well over one hundred concealers: from white concealers and green concealers; both in liquid and cream. From drugstore brands to high-end designer pots.

Some concealers wear well in the summer time, some last longer in the winter months. Some are great for mature skin, others are light enough for younger skin.

For this particular roundup of my favorite concealers, I am going to share what works well with my skin - year round; which in turn, will probably work well with women in their 30s, light to medium olive skin, combination skin with slight sensitivities, like myself.

Let's start at the top:

Image courtesy of Sephora

Uneven Eyelids
Having olive skin has its perks: your skin tends to have depth. But with that perk comes a little problem: your eyelids tend to be two different colors, sometimes a bit darker than your brow line.

To even-out this pesky issue, whether you wear eyeshadow or simply want to look "flawless," my go-to eyelid concealer is Benefit's Lemonade.

This heavy correcting cream helps mask uneven skin tones, discoloration and and hide redness...all with a tiny bit applied with your finger.

Lemon aid can be worn alone or under makeup, and can be purchased directly from Benefit.com.

Image courtesy of Walmart

Dark Under Eye Circles
If you are reading this blog post, there's a high possibility that you are always on the computer, on your smart phone or working late.

If that's the case, then more than likely you have dark circles under your eyes.

Other than sleeping more (unlikely it will happen), or getting rid of your techie tools (impossible), the only solution is to cover-up that pesky darkness under your eyes.

My go-to miracle worker? Milani's Secret Cover Concealer Stick in white. Not only does it have great natural coverage, it also has oil-free ingredients to help sooth the skin to prevent that cakey look that other concealers have.

Milani can be purchased at most major drugstores. Visit Milani.com to find a retailer near you.

Image courtesy of CVS

Dark Spots
As much as I hate to admit it, I'm old. With age comes those darn pesky sunspots or dark patches in the hollow of your cheeks.

Using too much concealer and your skin looks like a wet piece of paper, not enough and the spots seem over exaggerated.

Using Nuances Front and Center Concealer and Brightener does the complete opposite: the "stick" is creamy and blends-in your imperfections. Adding a touch of the liquid brightener enhances your skin tone. Brilliant!

Nuance by Salma Hayek is available exclusively at CVS. Visit CVS.com to find a store near you or to order online.

Image courtesy of Neutrogena

Skin Breakouts
Unfortunately, I still get the occasional zit. Using make-up or concealer to coverup the zit makes it worse. So, I figured I would get the big guns and use a concealer that will not only coverup the ugly bump, but also help heal it.

The best? Neutrogena's Skin Clearing Blemish Concealer. I use the concealer both under makeup and over my sunscreen. It not only soothes the skin irritation, it also helps heal my skin much quicker (than using makeup alone).

Neutrogrena is available nationwide both at your local drugstore and chain stores, or you can order directly at Neutrogena.com.

Image courtesy of Barney's

Brighten
I've raved about Yves Saint Laurents Touche Eclat before as an under eye concealer, but where it really takes the prize is as an all around skin brightener.

Use it at the highest part of your cheekbone to give the illusion of a higher cheekbone, add it to the tip of your nose to make it slightly thinner, or even at the base of your chin to give your face luminosity.

This award-winning, must-have, take anywhere highlighter can be used over or under makeup.

Buy Yves Saint Laurent at Barneys.com.

I hope that these tips help you find the perfect concealer for your needs!

Please let me know if you picked-up any of these concealers by commenting below or Tweeting with me.

Stay beautiful,

Three Summer Wardrobe Basics Every Career Closet Needs

2013-05-14T09:30:00.000-07:00

I know, I know, calling anything "basic" will pretty much make most women turn their nose up in the air. While adding "basic" before "wardrobe" will make most (so called) fashionistas squirm in their seats.

But, if you have a job (as-in-you-actually-receive-a-paycheck), whether you work from home or in an office, you need a career wardrobe.

Why? Because you want to look polished, pulled-together and professional. You want your work to speak for you, not be "spoken about" because of the inappropriate clothing you wear because "it's too hot."

So whether you are a seasoned professional, or navigating your way in your first job out of college, it's never too early, or too late, to get started on building your career wardrobe.

I promise that although you will hate me for the first ten minutes after reading this post, you will thank me later.

Heritage Fit Blended Double-Weave Bootcut Pant from Talbots

Pants
But not just any pair of pants. Every working woman needs classic slack. Classic means that the style or cut will be as appropriate today as it will be in a year or two (if not longer).

When making a selection, opt for a well-made, tailored pair that you can dress-up with a nice jacket, or down when you wear a snazzy summer top. Start with the colors that will never go out of style: black, navy, white or tan.

If you are a larger sized woman, or have a slight belly, I highly suggest that you opt for a flat front slack with a slight drop waste (like the one pictured above).

INSIDER TIP: Purchase your slacks at a store that has a tailor in-house to shorten, or lengthen, the hems and "fit" your waist.

Refined denim suit jacket from Lane Bryant

Jacket
During the summer most offices and workplaces allow for a more casual attire. As a huge fan of denim, I couldn't be happier to find a fitted denim suit jacket.

A classic with a twist, you will find yourself wearing a jacket like this in both a more relaxed work environment, or for casual Friday's at a more formal work setting.

Personally, I pair denim and suit jackets on the weekends with both dresses and skirts!

INSIDER TIP: Make sure that a jacket is lined.

Michael Kors Wrap Dress available at Macy's

The Dress
No summer wardrobe is complete without a easy to dress-up and dress-down summer dress.

Call me boring, but I like to stick to a tried and true silhouette that will work for most (if not all women): an a-line wrap dress.

To have a little more fun with the summer season, pick brighter colors or a fun pattern. If the color or pattern of your dress is a bit too bold for your office environment, tone it down by wearing a jacket and a classic pair of pumps.

If you opt for a classic color or pattern, add some fun and oversized costume jewelry to add a touch of summer.

INSIDER TIP: Choose a cap sleeve, short sleeve or long sleeve; never sleeveless.

Now that I shared my top three summer wardrobe basics for your career closet, I would love to read how you will style these items. Share your photos or style tips with me on Twitter.

Happy shopping!

Save your Face During the Summer with Face Wipes

2013-05-13T17:47:00.001-07:00

Image courtesy of Style Craze India

Although we are smack in the middle of spring, it feels like summer in certain parts of the Western US (especially in Los Angeles where I live!).

The heat, whether humid or dry, wrecks havoc on our skin; especially our face.

For those of us that have to wear make-up daily and retouch with powder throughout the day, this will ring true: by the end of eight hours our face is not only tired, it needs a little refreshing.

Unfortunately, if you have sensitive skin, washing your face after work can sometimes cause redness or dryness. Even during the heat of the spring (or summer!).

That is why face wipes are a must-have and a major part of any skincare routine.

From a quick refresher before you jump in your car to head home, to an afternoon check-in with your skin before you start on dinner, face wipes are not a luxury. They are a necessity for todays busy woman.

But, before you run out and buy the first face wipe you come across, take a moment to read about my top three and why I recommend them for women with mature skin (like me!):

Image Courtesy of Unilever

Simple
I first tried Simple face wipes when Klout gifted me with a pack last summer. And, just like the brand name implies, these facial wipes are simple: no fuss no muss. (no pun intended)

The facial wipes smell clean, while the wipe itself is large and smooth. The wipe has just enough cleaning ingredients to clean a full days worth of make-up.

Because they don't contain alcohol, oil or dyes, they don't dry-out my skin. Contact wearers will also be happy to learn that it's safe for sensitive eyes and contact lens wearers!

Visit simpleskincare.com to learn where to purchase their face wipes.

Image courtesy of Yes to Carrots

Yes to Cucumbers Facial Towelettes
Do you want to do something good for the environment while wiping off your make-up? Then using the Yes to Cucumber facial towelettes will do just that.

Not only does the scent remind you of a spa (anything that smells like cucumbers does for me!), these beauties are 98% natural and biodegradable!

The ingredients help exfoliate your skin, they also remove your days worth of make-up without over-drying your skin.

Visit yestocarrots.com to learn more about these face wipes.

Image courtesy of GNC

Blum Naturals Daily Towelettes
These towelettes are not only baby-fine smooth to the touch, they are also infused with natural and organic ingredients to gently rehydrate your skin without leaving behind an oily feeling.

An added bonus is that these towelettes have chamomile flower extract, which helps sooth itchy, flakey and dry skin.

Visit BlumNaturals.com to learn more about their skin-specific line of skin towelettes.

Image courtesy of Auto News

I hope these suggestions help you navigate the beauty aisle and pick the right face wipe for your skincare needs.

I would love to hear from those of you that were inspired to started a new "refresh your face" routine after work, and finished off your evening on a high note - and with great skin of course!

Are you Ready to Go Blackberry?

2013-05-01T06:30:00.000-07:00

Someone was nice enough to sponsor my honest opinion...

Even the packaging is beautiful for the new
Blackberry Z10

Before Smartphone’s ruled our lives, there was Blackberry.

Although Blackberry was the first in the market to upgrade our mobile life, the snappy phone company has stayed a few steps back.

Until now…

In 2012 word started getting around that Blackberry would be launching it’s first Blackberry 10 powered Smartphone; and Verizon was kind enough to send me the Z10 to try out for this review.

What’s the Z10?

The Z10 is the next generation Blackberry Smartphone, and comes jam-packed with a few awesome tech updates:

- 1280 x 768 4.2-inch display

- WiFi, 4G and 4.0 Bluetooth capabilities

- 2GB of RAM and 16GB of internal storage, with microSDXC support for additional storage

- 8 megapixel camera for still images and 1080p video

- 720p front-facing video

- Removable battery with 10 hours of talk time (or about 6 hours of regular use)

An Ode to Blackberry

I’ve had Blackberry’s before – from the Curve to the Bold - and I’ve always been a fan. First because of the trademark Blackberry keyboard, but mostly because I received immediate alerts to emails. I kept going back to Blackberry because it worked, it was secure, and was perfect for work.

And now YOU CAN WIN – check this program out!!

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All you have to do is tell us why you must have it using #DameELBBZ10 and you will be automatically entered to win the grand prize WITH FREE SERVICE that includes Share Everything Plan con Mexico!!

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Are you ready to go Blackberry?

This blog post is part of a paid "Online Mom Media" blogging program. The opinions and ideas expressed here are my own. #VZWAmigos / #DameELBBZ10

How to Prevent Stress

2013-04-22T09:30:00.000-07:00

What Causes Stress in Your Life?

Think of a movie scene where a seemingly cool-calm-and-collected woman leaps into oncoming traffic to hail a cab? Then imagine yourself trying to do the same thing.

Not pretty, right?

Unfortunately, stressful situations like this happen every day. Whether it's hailing a cab, driving through rush hour traffic, or simply dealing with every day life, stress happens - and it stinks!

Not only does stress give you dolores de cabeza (headaches), it has also been known to cause mal olor (sweat). To make matters worse, stress sweat smells the worst because it comes from a different gland - causing more bacteria and odor.

Fortunately for you, and me, our friends at Secret asked me to share a few tips on how to handle el estres...which made me really think about what has helped me deal with the stress of life, my career and marriage.

Respira.
Breath. There's something that happens when we simply stop what we are doing and focus on our breath. Slow in, slow out. Do it for at least a minute. Longer if you can. You will realize that your heart rate slows down and you feel calmer when you return to your normal breathing.

Camina.
How many times have you answered your phone or read an email at work, only to throw your arms in the air with utter frustration? It seems easy to just sit down and simply analyze that email or that phone call. But instead of doing that, walk for a few minutes - even just five - to clear your head. You will you come back to your desk more relaxed because of those lovely endorphins that are now running through your body.

Escribe.
If you are reading this blog post, know that you have helped me relieve a bit of my stress. This is why: Writing helps us deal with stress. Whether it's using a pen to journal, or your keyboard to type a blog post, acknowledging my writing, quotes and stories has helped me deal with some God-awful situations...and if you are a blogger reading this blog post, you can probably relate.

Come y Bebe.
It's probably not uncommon for most of us to rush home to cook dinner for our hubby (and kids if you have them), only to realize that we barely had a cup of coffee in the morning, let alone lunch. How horrible is that?! I'm personally the biggest culprit in this ugly situation. It's hard to have a clear head, when you are stressed and hungry!

It's not uncommon for me to run to the grocery store to pick something up to cook for dinner. But, God forbid I have to raise my arms to choose something from the top shelf. Do you know why? Because I stink and I can smell it.

It's not a I've been working out stink, it's the stress stink - which we all know smells horible.

Smelling myself causes me to stress-out a little more because I think that everyone can smell me! Which brings me to my last tip...

Previene.
If you know you are going to have a hard day, or you're prone to being in stressful situations, it's probably best to use Secret Clinical Strength deodorant from the get-go. Not only does this deodorant give you four times the protection from stress sweat, you can be confident when you use it because it's doctor recommended.

At least in this regard, you can stress less because you will smell fresh!

I wish I could tell you that stress would go away, and that you will magically learn to deal with everything in a calmer way - but the truth is, life will happen.

I hope that these simple tips help you in some way when life throws you curveballs - please let me know if you do use any one of these tips, or feel free to share a couple of your own in the comments section below.

This blog post is part of a paid SocialMoms and Secret blogging program. The opinions and ideas expressed here are my own. To read more on this topic, click here / #secretestres.

Follow Secret on Twitter @secretdeodorant and Tumblr. LikeSecret on Facebook to learn more about stress sweat.

Add a Little Color to Your Life

2013-04-18T09:30:00.000-07:00

It's no surprise that all of us, at least in the US, are walking around with a veil of sadness.

So, to add a little happy to our otherwise down evening, my hubby took me for a quick drive to get, what else, something sweet.

Hawaiian shaved ice was perfect - not only did we feel like kids carrying a large snow cone in the middle of West LA - we also did a little reminiscing about our Kauai Honeymoon.

How's that for adding a little sweetness, and color, to our otherwise sad day?

Here's to hoping you to can add a little color to your life to brighten your day!

Top Five Conference Must-Haves for Women + Giveaway

2013-04-17T06:30:00.000-07:00

Tis' the season to get your conference cap on, and jet set from LA to Miami, New York to Chicago, and everywhere in between...all in the interest of growing your blogging business.

First step is probably the easiest in this whole process: choosing which conference to attend. The hard part is: choosing what to take on your trip.

From seasoned travelers, to new bloggers, we are not alone! From choosing how to pack, to what to pack, traveling to a conference can be a major chore.

The good news is, it doesn't have to be!

To help my fellow bloggers make this process painless, following are my top five conference must-haves:

1. Suitcase.
Seems obvious, right? Travel requires a suitcase. But this is where my vast traveling experience helps: choose light and expandable. A few ounces makes a world of difference! You also want to take a suitcase that will expand a couple of inches (if not more), to pack the "things" you will bring back from your conference.

2. Two business card cases.
I credit my mentor for this trick: I always travel with two business card cases. Fill both cases with your business cards, and add your new contact cards in the back of each case when you meet someone new. Keep one card case in your suit pocket, the second in your purse/Laptop case (more to that in my next point). Empty both cases into Ziplock bags at the end of each day (see point #4).

3. Suit jacket with outside pockets
This has been my absolute lifesaver! Sometime you don't have time to fiddle in your purse for your card case, but you do have a few seconds to dip your hand in your right pocket and pull it out! Just remember: nothing looks sloppier than digging through your bags for a business card!

4. Ziplock Bags
How many times have you lost a pamphlet or business card because it fell in between paperwork? If you are like me, this has happened more than once! Do I have a solution for you! Pack quart-size, gallon-size and sandwich-size Ziplock bags when you travel. Use one Ziplock for pamphlets or brochures, a second for postcard-sized materials, and use the smallest bags to organize your business cards and zip drives. Empty your card cases at the end of each conference day into each Ziplock to save yourself time, and headaches, when you get home.

5. Comfortable and stylish shoes
No where does it state that a woman must walk around wearing uncomfortable shoes, or worse: flip-flops at a conference. Actually, I have probably read more about the unnecessary casualness of business conferences. What to do? Wear shoes that offer comfort without compromising style.

I have worn Verias (see above) to three different conferences, and walked around NYC while wearing them. Each time I wear the Verias I receive compliments without having to come home to blistered feet!

Earthies also sent me a pair of Earth Tamarisk's to wear at my next conference! I plan on styling the Tamarisks with a skirt and patterned tights for a fun twist.

But this is where it gets better: Earthies wants me to share the love with my readers - because no one needs to have a painful conference experience!

Enter to win your very own pair of Earthies, of your choice, to wear at your next conference. Who knows, I might see you at the #LALLBLOG13 Lifestyle Blogger Conference wearing your brand new pair of Earthies!

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Good luck ladies, and have fun at your next conference!

Let me Tell you a Secret

2013-04-03T06:43:00.000-07:00

My office in 2009

Let me tell you a secret that I've held on to for two years...

Promise you won't tell?

Well...I gave-up my full-time office, full-time, staff, and full-time everything in 2011. Ya' didn't know it, right?

Don't worry - you aren't the only one that didn't know this little gem.

Truth be told, I felt kinda funny about it...rather, I felt like a big time looser.

Here I am, a newlywed, laying in bed with zero energy and the paralyzing fear that I may have lupus.

The timing couldn't be better: a couple of my work contracts were ending and my office lease was up for renewal.

My career, something I had worked so hard to build, was pushing me to change. I could no longer maintain a 60-80 work week or travel half of the month.

Money aside, in that quest I got sick. Very.

I felt as if my world was crumbling around me. But I couldn't tell anyone...other than few close friends and my family.

I will never forget the day I gave notice to the building management where I leased my office. It was bittersweet. I had reached the goal I set myself to do: Have an office in a hi-rise building with full-time staff, working with Fortune 500 clients...and I was giving it up.

To work from home. On a smaller scale.

Even with that major change and a weak body, my brain and creativity never faltered. I had several conversations about the evolution of PR, the growth of social media, and the influence of bloggers with my staff and colleagues.

My staff, downsized to a couple of loyal and eager professionals, held meetings at my dining room, while I was in bed. My husband, still working a night shift, was accustomed to strategy sessions being held late at night - the only time I had energy.

In transition, I kept a couple of large clients and a couple of small clients, found a co-working office space where I could still hold meetings, and when I had more energy, work with my team. It was during this time that I had several conversations with bloggers, colleagues and friends to start a Latina Lifestyle Blogger Group.

You know the rest...

It wasn't always easy. I battled additional health issues, but most importantly, a debilitating fear that I would fail.

I was doubtful in every step I took because my road, my career, my life, had taken a different road...and when I was almost ready to give-up because I felt I had walls built all around me, I won the Count Me In Urban Rebound program...my life would never be the same.

Damn it for "a-ha" moments. 'Cuz I got a few in the nine months I went through the coaching portion of the program.

It was then that I figured out that it wasn't awful that I transitioned in my career. Actually, it was quite good that I did.

It also isn't horrible to want to spend more time with your husband and family, and less time traveling or in a corporate job.

I wasn't failing, I wasn't loosing everything I built, but I was too scared to see the obvious: My business and my personal life were evolving.

Which takes me back to my pseudo-corporate office...in my home. It wasn't working.

I won't go into the details, but trust me when I tell you, it wasn't working.

Then one day I woke-up and realized that people are fighting to have the opportunity to telecommute while I am dreading having to walk the 25 feet, the distance it takes to walk from my bedroom to my home office.

How stupid was I?

I then looked around my home office and realized that if I wanted things to continue to evolve and go down the new path I was building for myself, I needed my space to change. Pronto!

And, it did.

I started with a desk lamp...a lamp that not only lit-up my space, but also brightened my soul! I then threw away any reminders of corporate space, and added touches and colors that inspire me.

Yes, it's pink, it's French, it's shabby chic...and it's all me!

God, it feels good to move on!

Here's to transitions, evolutions and reinventing oneself!

A Daily Dose of Motivation

2013-04-01T09:30:00.000-07:00

Sometimes we are thrown curve balls, and sometimes we are hit with a basketball straight in the nose.

Life happens.

How we deal with these life situations will help us rise from whatever "funk" we are in.

But...How do we do it?

For me, it takes more than just self-talk to reignite my soul...I need to hear (or read) words of encouragement from others to get re-inspired.

From positive affirmations, to reading a short passage, to a simple quote "search," how others have dealt with life seems to always help me.

These are just a few words from the Major of Newark, New Jersey that inspired me. I hope they inspire you as well.

When they criticize you, love them for teaching you humility.

When they heap scorn upon you, love them for helping you discover your resiliency.

When they doubt you, love them for giving your dreams greater courage.

When they point out your faults, love them for their accuracy.

When they wound you, love them for showing you your capacity to forgive.

When they try to stop you, love them for making your resolve even stronger.

When they cast you into darkness, love them for helping you discover your inextinguishable light.

And when you stand victorious, when your love has conquered the impossible challenge, invite them to stand with you so they too can see that love is invincible.

Thank you Cory Booker for your amazing words of wisdom!

Hate me on Social Media

2013-03-27T12:58:00.000-07:00

Maybe it's the full moon, quite possibly it's PMS, but more than likely it's my old lady wisdom that sometimes gives me clarity in the most absurd situations.

Like a social media expert blogging about being nice...when he's the biggest douche-bag EVER.

~Insert immature barfing gesture~

So here's the story, a few years back I joined a professional online group. This is wa-ay before the dawn of Facebook, and the obvious MySpace backlash.

I met some of the people in the group, others only via social media, and a few became (and are still) dear friends. Some created a larger than life persona and career, others left their career, while many of us simply evolved.

But in my evolution one thing became constant: my manners.

Yes, I am the person that walks into a room smiling and greeting everyone I know - whether or not I like them. I am also the person that introduces everyone. Because, well, your network is your net worth, and why not spread the wealth?

So, any who, going back to my original point, as I shared earlier, some of the folks in that group became mega successful. Like, really, mega successful.

Good for them, right?

If memory serves me right, the five people closest to you will influence your life the most. So why not be influenced by folks that have reached their dream? Better yet, why not introduce those folks to your network? Sharing is caring, right?

Well, that was my intention when I met one of those mega successful group members at a conference. I walked up to him and introduced myself.

This is what I received: blank stare.

While I smiled, held out my hand, and (tried to) remind him how we knew each-other, I received...Nothing.

Not a smile. Not a hello. Not a "oh, wow, great to finally meet you in person."

Nothing.

Mind you, I had spoken to him on the phone, exchanged a few emails, and have (virtually) known him for quite some time. Years, actually.

I was embarrassed. Really embarrassed.

Especially since I was with a colleague who had heard my constant praises of this man and how he built himself-up.

I moved on, the conference ended, and I figured I would follow-up via email and tell him "how great it was to finally meet him, if only for a few minutes."

Nothing. Not a response or any type of acknowledgment.

Fast forward to a year (or two later), we run into each-other again.

It's Deja Vu all over again.

Again, I follow-up with an email and tell him "how great it is to run into him TWICE."

Nothing.

By this point, I figured out he's either rude or has early stage Alzheimer's...why else would he not acknowledge meeting someone?

Truth is, he's really an opportunistic jerk that decides to write a series (not one, not two, but several) blog posts about - get this - being nice.

Yes my friends, the rudest man known to man is now focused on being nice.

I wouldn't be surprised if he suddenly becomes an inspirational speaker and inspires others to be nice.

~insert immature eye-rolls~

So this is my take on it:

I don't care if you are a jerk on social media, but to be a jerk in real life and then write about being nice is hypocritical.

If you are going to be a jerk, own it. Make it your MO, your reason for being, the jelly to your peanut butter.

I promise to still greet you and follow-up after our meeting. Because, I am nice...and that "is" my MO.

The Healthy in KFC Kids Meals

2013-03-25T11:52:00.001-07:00

As I normally do each weekend, I stay away from social media - unless it's Instagram or the occasional Facebook update.

So imagine my surprise when I found out that an entire weekend was spent on KFC Kids Meals and a very heated debate on whether or not they were actually healthy.

~Insert side glance~

This discussion happens a lot: Whether food is healthy - or not. Should it be fed to your kids (nieces, nephews, God-kids, etc.), or not. Should it be sold - or not. Should big brands label their foods - or not.

And on, and on, and on...

Just last week I was sharing my (very strong) anti-fast food opinion. It didn't go well. I didn't expect it to.

That was it.

I didn't scream "uncle" and claim I was being bullied because I was the minority in that discussion. I didn't call my friends to email those that (in private) "hated on" my opinion. I spoke (rather, wrote) my opinion, the facts, left it to those that had time to read it, and possibly learn from my opposing opinion.

I also shared, quite frankly I might add, that a bloggers association with a fast food company (or other companies for that matter), will be judged.

Yes. It. Will.

Yes. They. Will.

Grow up.

If you have a brand affinity, even when you are the minority, LEARN THE FACTS and SPEAK-UP.

Stand-up for what you believe in and debate (notice I didn't use the word "fight") intelligently.

Bloggers that are not prepared to debate an opposing opinion (about their brand affiliation) should not work with said brand. If the brand doesn't provide bloggers with key messages and a social media guide when they hire them, bloggers should walk away.

Period.

The reality is, for any situation there's usually two guilty parties, if not more. In this case, KFC also has "esplaining" to do.

Number one: Why would KFC NOT tell their blogger ambassadors what words to use, or not, when describing their menu?

It seems obvious to me, but "healthy" should never be used when describing anything fried, or man-produced.

Number two: Why would KFC stay out of it and let bloggers, that obviously had no idea how to debate and respond, brawl on Twitter?

I get it - 140 characters won't get an entire message across. BUT, it could be used to simply say: "We hear your concerns and apologize for "healthy" used to describe our lower-calories meals for children."

Number three: KFC could then close-up this debacle with a press release and a personal message on their Facebook page.

Why has this not been done?

Truth be told, there will always be people that love fast food (I am guilty of craving KFC's cole slaw), and there will always be people that will be against eating (and feeding others) fast food.

Now what?

With the growth of social media, a strategic crisis communications plan and blogger guidelines should be created before another (preventable) online debacle happens.

Prevent - answer - solution --- > remember that?

But most importantly, brands, and agencies, should hire people that get it.

That goes for both Social Media Strategists and Bloggers.

Lucky me. I just happen to know a few.

~wink, wink~

The Great Gatsby Comes to the Big Screen

2013-03-13T06:00:00.000-07:00

My anticipation began building once I received word that my favorite book of all time was being (re-) adapted for the big screen by the uniquely imaginative mind of writer/producer/director Baz Luhrmann ("Moulin Rouge")!

Being the creative and colorful genius that he is, I am sure that Baz' adaptation will be wildly different than the original movie, who had the collaboration of Francis Ford Coppola as screen writer and both actors Robert Redford and Mia Farrow in the staring roles.

Baz, as he is known to do, will surely create his own distinctive visual interpretation of the classic story, bringing the period to life in a way that has never been seen before, in a film starring Leonardo DiCaprio as Jay Gatsby, Tobey Maguire as Nick Carraway and Isla Fisher as Daisy Buchanan.

For those unfamiliar with this classic American novel, “The Great Gatsby” follows would-be writer Nick Carraway as he leaves the Midwest and comes to New York City in the spring of 1922, an era of loosening morals, glittering jazz and bootleg kings. Chasing his own American Dream, Nick lands next door to a mysterious, party-giving millionaire, Jay Gatsby, and across the bay from his cousin, Daisy, and her philandering, blue-blooded husband, Tom Buchanan. It is thus that Nick is drawn into the captivating world of the super-rich, their illusions, loves and deceits. within and without the world he inhabits, he pens a tale of impossible love, incorruptible dreams and high-octane tragedy, and holds a mirror to our own modern times and struggles.

Relatable "drama" in the raging 20's complete with period costumes?! Count me in!

The film will be distributed in 3D and 2D by Warner Bros. Pictures, a Warner Bros. Entertainment Company, and in select territories by Village Roadshow Pictures in May, 2013.

Learn more about the movie and see the trailer here.

See you at the movies!

Reshaping my Body with a Work-Out Pod

2013-03-12T23:20:00.004-07:00

The entrance to Iobella (see me in the window?)

As you all know, I've had many challenges with my weight due to my underactive Thyroid and a few other health issues that transpired from 2011 to 2012.

Go figure.

My healthy body and size pretty much increased inch-by-inch, while my clothes got tighter and tighter within a few months.

Those close to me knew it wasn't due to my midnight snacks (I don't like to eat late; and I have a problem eating, let alone snacking). To the rest of the world I was simply fat.

Unfortunately, I had to wait for my doctors to OK a fitness routine other than walking. So with caution, new medication, and a few words of advice, I was given the chance to start over this January.

But, as excited as I was to get back to working out, I couldn't figure out what I wanted to do. From private trainers, to yoga classes, I've pretty much done it all.

This time, I wanted my workouts to be different, yet easy to start. I also wanted my workouts to be challenging and results driven. Most importantly, wherever I ended up, I knew that it had to have clean and luxe appointments (showers and the like) because I am a snob. AND, I had to meet with a nutritionist to keep me on track.

Imagine my headache when I tried to look for all of the above. Sure, I could have found a gym, joined a spa, and then meet with a nutritionist. But, I would be spending a lot of time driving around, not to mention the expense of it all.

Then I get a call from a dear friend who reminds me that she opened a women-only body-shaping fitness center in Santa Monica. So, with trepidation, I made my first appointment at Iobella.

This is my body analysis with (inch-loss) goals -
That's A LOT of inches!

This is not your moms gym.
The Iobella basic system has two parts: a personalized exercise routine done inside a 98 degree temperature-controlled pod (to accelerate muscle tone and the detox process) and a triple-oxygen treatment in a “personal spa cabin” that hydrates skin and eases tension.

However, before you do anything, you strip down to your skivvies and have your body measured (inch by inch), in the most complete and (almost) scientific-method I have ever seen (let alone gone through). Once your body measurements and weight are written onto an intake chart, they are then entered into the Iobella computer system. The system then spits out a form telling you what you "look like" from the inside out, and what you can look like after going through the Iobella system. It goes without saying that because each body is different, each assessment and workout will be different.

The whole process is pretty fantastic and gets you motivated to start working out. (Actually, I think that's the hook right there: knowing what the possibilities are).

Step one, the pod workout.
Being a bit claustrophobic, the pod scared me a bit - until I got inside. It's not bad. The heat made me sweat, but it also helped my flexibility and ability to move. Remember, I haven't worked out in more than a year!

The workout seemed simple until I got started. I did everything from your basic crunches, to pulls, to arm lifts, and a series of other movements done in 15 reps (to start). The best way to describe the exercises is to compare them to a fusion of yoga, kinesthetics and Pilate's. But then add the heat, and imagine the intensity. It's pretty amazing.

After my huffing and puffing (which my trainer was kind enough to simply call breathing), I took a nice, long shower. I was then promptly escorted to an oxygen chamber. Literally.

This is me after my first work-out.
I am sweaty and out of shape!

Step two, the oxygen chamber.
Again, I am in a pod, down to my skivvies, with cucumber eye pads, and headphones playing spa music while oxygen flows throughout my body. I think I fell asleep. Actually, I know I did.

Pretty skin be darn, the (real) upside was taking a 15-minute nap. Pure luxury.

Step three, the nutrionist.
The first time I went to Iobella (I have since been 8 times), I met with a nutrionist.

She was patient, listened, didn't question what I told her and understood my predisposed weight (issues) because of my thyroid problems.

Not only did she provide me with on-the-spot suggestions, she also followed-up (by email) with a list of snacks and menu options. I have since seen her a second time, and she's followed-up twice.

How's that for personal service?!

Why I love Iobella.
The whole system is pretty darn amazing, if I can say so myself. Not only do I get challenged every time I go (because the workouts are personalized and updated as I go through the system), I am excited to spend time in a place that is good for me. Not just physically, but also mentally.

It goes without saying, that each time I go to Iobella I am inspired to make better choices because the results are immediate: 5 pounds and 3.5 inches lost in seven sessions (2 weeks + 1 day)...and this is just the beginning!

My hubby and me on 9/30/2010 - At our Wedding Rehearsal.
I was a size 14...only to loose more weight, be a size 12 (juniors) after we got married and before I got sick.

Iobella is Motivating Me.
Iobella is supporting my fitness goals by sponsoring my sessions leading up-to the Lifestyle Blogger Conference. During that event -in front of my peers, friends and colleagues- I will publicly share how much weight and inches I have lost since starting the Iobella system.

But, you don't have to wait until the end of April to find out what my results are. Follow me on Twitter, Instagram and Foursquare to receive up-to-the-minute updates and photos during my Iobella journey.

Sharing the Iobella Love.
Iobella has also agreed to provide a few goodies to give away during the conference, and a very special offer to all of my readers: call to make your very body analysis appointment and purchase a Classic Series, and receive three Thermal Jade Massages with Infrared technology (valued at $250!) as a gift! Just make sure to mention my name (or Latina Lifestyle Bloggers) when you make the appointment by calling (310) 529-2078. You can also visit the Iobella website for more information, or stop by to make your appointment:

Iobella
507 Wilshire Blvd.
Santa Monica, CA, 90403

The Room Sushi Bar opens in Westwood

2013-03-11T01:23:00.002-07:00

This quote welcomes you to The Room Sushi Bar

My heart broke when Ratata, the quaint French restaurant that was the host to my wedding rehearsal dinner, closed suddenly. Soon after it's closure a simple sign obstructed the once lace adorned windows: "The Room Sushi Bar...Opening Soon."

After a couple of months of eagerly anticipating the sushi bar that would fill a treasured space, my hubby and I were given the opportunity to preview The Room Sushi Bar.

We forgot the space was once occupied by vintage artwork and wrought-iron garden furniture as soon as we walked into The Room Sushi Bar. The Sushi bar owners have done an incredible job of updating the space with modern, yet comfortable, furniture, dim lighting, and a large sushi bar area.

The sushi bar area, with my hubby sitting to the right of the photo

The dining area

The restaurant space is small enough to enjoy an intimate dinner, yet large enough to not feel claustrophobic because of the large windows that face the boulevard.

Dinner (and I expect lunch), was meticulous in it's details, yet timed perfectly. We never felt a sense of rush, nor did we feel anxious with the sushi Chef's timing.

Spicy Edamame

Starting with Spicy Edamame, which wasn't your typical steamed green pods with a bit of spicy salt, we knew that The Room Sushi Bar was not your typical sushi joint. The edamame was, yes steamed, but also cooked with jalapeno peppers and a light garlic sauce. Every pod was spiced perfectly with the flavors of the garlic, jalapeno and maybe a bit of soy sauce. The combination was absolutely divine as each flavor danced on our palates.

House Salad

I then asked for a salad recommendation. The waitress, which happens to be one of the four owners, came back with their House Salad. It was a simple green salad that was anything "but" when you added their house dressing: a delightful citrus blend with ginger and carrots. A must have.

Albacore Sashimi

Chef Newton then followed with Fresh Albacore Sashimi (or white tuna). The fish was literally swimming a few hours earlier - or so it tasted. It was incredibly fresh and flavored perfectly, again, with of the chefs special oil sauce, and topped with crispy onions and green onions.

Beef Sashimi

The third plate that followed what Beef Sashimi, not to be mistaken for carpacio. By this point we figured out that each dish was going to have a special oil-based sauce that was full of flavor but never oily. Could it be that The Room Sushi Bar figured out a way of creating different flavor notes within a dish without overbearing the main ingredient? We think so.

The Room Special Roll

Our first roll, was the Room Special. It was memorable in soo many ways. Not just by it's artistic beauty, but because of all the flavors that complimented one another. From the spicy blue crab, to the salmon; from the tuna to the shrimp. We tasted every single ingredient in each bite. Simply memorable.

The BSC Roll

We ended our tasting with a second roll, my hubby's favorite, the BSC Roll: baked scalloped on top of California roll. It was good, but not my favorite of the evening.

The Sexy Lady Roll

The Dark Knight Roll

The Submarine Roll

Promising to come back soon, possibly even tomorrow (the first official open day), Chef Newton suggested the following rolls: The Sexy Lady, The Dark Night and the Submarine Rolls. Personally, I can't wait to try the Fried Calamari, Octopus Salad and Spicy Tuna Bowl.

Every dish we tasted was flavorful but never overbearing. There was never a need to clean our palate with ginger or add soy sauce to anything we ordered. We were obviously happy with our dinner and ended the evening with an average (mid-range sushi) tab of $60 including (non-alcoholic) drinks and tip. (This with the new diner discount of 30% off their listed prices)

NOTE: Alcoholic beverages are not served and outside beverages are not allowed to be brought-in.

The Room Sushi Bar
1884 Westwood Blvd, (Cross street: Missouri Ave.)
West Los Angeles, CA 90025
(310) 474-0462

Reservations: Not accepted

Hours:
Monday-Thursday: 11 a.m. - 10 p.m.
Friday-Saturday: 11 a.m. - 10:30 p.m.
Sunday: 12:30 p.m. - 9:30 p.m.

Parking: Street Metered Parking or free parking in the lot behind the restaurant

Price: Expect to spend an average of $15-20 per person for lunch including drink, tax and 20% tip. Rolls, sashimi and sushi range in price starting at $5 to $19 +.

Please let me know if you stop by The Room Sushi Bar...and if you do, let the management know that "Ana Lydia the blogger" sent you for 15% off your lunch or dinner when you pay by credit card. (All diners receive 30% off their lunch or dinner when they pay with cash).

Enjoy!

Outlast, Stay Fabulous 3 in 1 Foundation Review

2013-03-08T23:03:00.000-08:00

Women have a routine when getting ready for their day: From washing their face, followed with their skincare regime, sunscreen, base, foundation, concealer and finishing powder.

Some women, like myself, get tired of the bottles and save (all) these steps for a special occasion.

But now we don't have to!

Covergirl came to our rescue with the creation of their Outlast, Stay Fabulous 3 in 1 Foundation!

Not only does it put three of every woman's must have beauty needs in a one bottle - primer, concealer and foundation - it also ad's a broad spectrum SPF 20 for safe measure.

What did I think about Outlast Stay Fabulous 3 in 1 Foundation?

I have worn Outlast Stay Fabulous 3 in 1 Foundation, every day from the moment I sampled it at the Cover Girl #StayFabulous Blogger Event. (and trust me, for a makeup snob like myself, this is no small feat!)

Not only is the foundation easy to apply, the wearability and feel of Outlast Stay Fabulous 3 in 1 Foundation is easily a step-above most department store brands - with a smaller sticker price!

What kind of coverage does Outlast Stay Fabulous 3 in 1 Foundation have?

Outlast Stay Fabulous 3 in 1 Foundation, is a little heavier and has more coverage than BB creams. So for those of you that prefer sheer foundation coverage, I recommend using a sponge (instead of a brush or your fingers) when applying.

Who can wear Outlast Stay Fabulous 3 in 1 Foundation?

For someone with oily or combination skin, you can easily wear this foundation without a need to retouch or blot for at least five hours.

Mature ladies, don't fret: Outlast Stay Fabulous 3 in 1 Foundation doesn't sink into our lines like other foundations tend to do).

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So...now that I saved you 15 minutes with your beauty routine, I hope you come on by again to give my blog a read or two.

Have a beautiful day ladies!

I was invited to try and take home samples of Covergirl's 3 in 1 Stay Fabulous Foundation at a Blogger Event as part of my membership with The Latina Lifestyle Bloggers Collective / #LLBLOG. I received no other form of compensation. My review is my honest opinion and photos are my own. #llblog #stayfabulous

Adult Uses for Diaper Rash Cream

2013-03-07T16:37:00.004-08:00

When I was offered the opportunity to "try" Pasta de Lassar Skin Protectant & Diaper Rash Cream, I giggled inside because I didn't think I would have any use for diaper rash cream.

But now that I have used it for two months, I have found that this amazing miracle cream is a must have for any woman - whether or not you have a baby at home!

For starters, those of use with sensitive skin can rejoice!

Pasta de Lassar has no added fragrances or perfumes, which helps prevent any additional irritation. Plus, it's 45-year zinc-oxide formulation assures us that Pasta de Lassar has helped millions of baby bums, and now it will help our grown-up skin too!

From simple scrapes, to skin irritations, Pasta de Lassar has literally hundreds of uses for adults, and children!

But since I don't have children, these are just a few examples of how I used this skin protectant.

Scrapes and Burns

I'm a bit clumsy - even in the kitchen. So what to do with all those kitchen burns and knife scrapes? Apply Pasta de Lassar to scrapes and burns to heal your skin quicker and with less scaring.

Sun Sensitivity

As the photo shows, my skin gets horribly irritated with the sun - even with sunscreen. What I have noticed is that my skin doesn't blister (like the picture shows) when I use Pasta de Lasar before I apply sunscreen and when I reapply before I go to bed.

Skin Bumps and Ingrowns

Like most Westside women I am addicted to waxing. The downside is the constant irritation, bumps, and ingrowns. But once I started using Pasta de Lassar in the areas in which I waxed (ahem-ahem), I noticed less ingrowns, and the irritation was gone.

Pimples

I have a bad habit: I pop my pimples. (so sue me) Unfortunately, the redness that follows my quick solution to a white head or pimple, is a horrible red mark on my face that no amount of make-up can cover-up. Actually, make-up will usually irritate my pimples! The solution? Use a tiny bit of Pasta de Lasar to sooth the redness, wait a few minutes, then apply your normal skin-care regime before you put on your make-up. Then presto - no more redness!

Another upside of Pasta de Lasar is that a little goes a long way! As I shared earlier, I started using Pasta de Lassar in January and I still have half a tube left! Plus you can buy a tube for less than $10 at any one of these local retailers.

I hope that you incorporate Pasta de Lassar into your beauty kit at home, and I would love to read how you used it.

Have a beautiful day ladies,

I received a tube of Pasta de Lasar and financial compensation for this review. But as always, my review is my honest opinion and photos are my own. #llblog

Ditching My Displaced Sympathy

2013-03-06T18:18:00.001-08:00

It's no secret that I have a soft spot for young women (and men) starting out in their career. Mainly because I made a commitment to my mentor that I would always help those striving to move ahead in life.

The "high" that I get after hearing that my words of encouragement or sage advice helped someone, propel me to continue on this path to push the next generation of young professionals.

Just today I received a call from a young woman that is known to call me when she needs to vent.

Vent about the economy.
Vent about the lack of opportunities.
Vent about her temporary job or her recent lay-out.
Vent.

Candice (name has been changed to protect her identity), is in her (late) 20's, has a college-degree, interned while at college and has worked at various (entertainment, digital, PR) companies to perform odd-end-jobs.

But, she has yet to find her passion.

When I first met her I was sympathetic because she was young and starting out. When the economy affected her gaps between employment, I understood because many people were going through the same predicament. When her parents stopped paying her rent I understood why she moved back home. When she quit a low-paying consultant job, I understood why her friend would persuade her to find something permanent - and that pays more.

But now, close to three years later, Candice is still in the same boat as she was the first time I met her. She roams from job to job. She refuses to make less than $15 an hour and expects a permanent, full-time, "employee" position.

During our call today I offered my time to look at her resume - which she didn't have ready. Then I invited her to a conference that could potentially open doors for her - free of charge - she was too busy.

Too busy.

Candice doesn't have a job. She lives at home and spends her time doing the LA thing with her friends.

Her well-intentioned parents (which I've never met), dote her with the latest gadgets, supporting her latest hobby, and pay for a car she can't pay herself.

But yet, she calls me on occasion to vent.

As her mentor I listen, encourage, and celebrate any bit of success in the hopes that she will open her wings, fly her coup, and make something out of her life.

Unfortunately, for whatever reason, today her rants hit my inner core once I finally figured out what I was too deaf to hear before: She's the result of spoiled parenting and a the entitled generation.

This bothered me. It really did.

It bothered me, because while she is lunching with her buddies, I'm slaving over a presentation to secure a new contract.

It bothered me, because while I rather stay home and watch TV, I leave the comfort of my home to network and build a business.

It bothered me, because she is the cause of her own demise.

It bothered me, because I invested in her and believed that she could do it.

I believed in her.

It bothered me that I had sympathy towards a person that only deserved a few minutes of my day. No more, no less. But I didn't see it. I only felt worn, tired, and discouraged in her. That phone call sucked every last bit of energy I had today.

No more.

Taking the advice of a friend, I am ditching my displaced sympathy.

Because as much as I want to believe that everyone has a path to success, not everyone will follow that path.

My sympathy, empathy, words of encouragement, and sage advice are valuable. It's no longer a free-for-all.

So here's my last words for Candice's everywhere:

Listen to your mentors (and folks that have been there) and take action

-even- when you don't like what you hear.

As much as your friends tell you,

you can not build your future when sitting on your computer or having fun all day.

Yes, life is hard. Being a grown-up is hard.

Some of your friends aren't going to like you when you make these changes.

And that's OK - because you will meet new people and make new friends.

Remember to do the *yucky stuff* first, and I promise that you:

you will *build* free time that will allow you to have more fun than ever before

when your time is right.

The world is your oyster - make it shine!

Steve Jobs Inspiration

2013-03-06T06:00:00.000-08:00

This is dedicated to those of us that will change the world.

The world is our oyster, don't forget that!

Recycling is a Beautiful Thing

2013-03-05T12:50:00.000-08:00

We all know that drinking water is good for you, especially for your skin. So it goes without saying that many of us don't leave our home without a bottle of water.

Unfortunately, drinking bottled water may actually be bad for our environment.

How so? You might be asking yourself.

Sadly only about 30% of those PET plastic bottles get recycled!

30%?!

The rest end-up in landfills!

Recycling Facts

Thankfully, we have the power to make a difference by making small changes that will help our environment.

These are a few things that I personally do to support recycling:

Carry a paper bag in the trunk of my car where I place the empty plastic bottles I consume when I am out. When I get home I empty my bag into the recycle bin. Simple!
I use my office recycle bin. Seems simple enough, until you realize that many of us don't recycle because it's not convenient or near our desk. Take that short walk or place a recycling bin next to your trash can.
Support companies that use recycled materials by buying their products. One great example of a company that gets it is Arrowhead which sells drinking water in a ReBorn Bottle. This new bottle made from 50% recycled plastic – material that can be recycled again and again, so there is no end to its usefulness!
Repurpose before buying new. How many times have you been ready to throw-out something that was perfectly OK because you got tired of it? What if I told you that you could make a couple of simple changes to renew that "thing" while saving money? That is exactly my thought process that I go through before I throw-out anything useful. Be it a piece of furniture or clothing. (p.s. I have saved THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS!)
Get inspired! See, and buy, products that are made from materials that we normally throw in the trash. How can you not recycle when a plastic bottle (or two) can be used to create beautiful things?!

Jewelry made with recycled plastic bottles

I invite you to learn more about recycling, by watching “Recycling Is A Beautiful Thing.” I promise that watching this video will inspire you with the beauty of recycling.

And, of course, come back and tell me how you stay beautiful by recycling.

I am a member of the Linqia Blogger Community. This campaign has been compensated by Linqia and Arrowhead. All opinions are my own.

"JUANES Loud and Unplugged" Tour

2013-02-27T06:00:00.000-08:00

You saw him at the Grammys, while I saw Juanes in an up-close and intimate concert courtesy of Metro PCS!

Together with a dear friend, and students from the After-School All-Stars, we were part of the unique opportunity to see Juanes tune-up prior to the private concert that we were fortunate to attend.

Thankfully, you don't have to wait for a private concert to see Juanes!

Juanes
Grammy Award-winning Colombian Artist

Angelinos are invited to attend his "JUANES Loud and Unplugged" concert on Saturday, May 25,2013 at the Nokia Theater, L.A live. Tickets are now on sale!

If you are located elsewhere, follow these pages to stay updated on the Juanes "Loud and Unplugged" tour and to participate in future concert ticket giveaways.

Juanes.net– tour dates
Juanes Facebook
Juanes Twitter

Aeglivelatino Facebook

Aeglivelatino Twitter

I am a member of the Latina Lifestyle Bloggers Collective. I received two complimentary tickets to the Juanes "Loud & Unplugged" private concert, and Post Sound-Check at El Rey Theatre by MetroPCS and ZTE. All opinions and photos my own, #loudandunpluggedtour #llblog #aeglatino

The Success Indicator on my Desktop

2013-02-20T06:00:00.000-08:00

I found this gem a few months ago and saved it on my computer desktop as a guide of "what not to do."

This sign could have (easily) become one of a million other things that cluttered my computer. I could have (even) forgotten about it.

But I didn't.

Who knew that something so simple could, and would, keep me in check.

My biggest challenge: having a sense a gratitude even when the world seems to be crashing around me.

I hope this sign inspires you as much as it has inspired me.

Here's to your success!

How I fell in Love

2013-02-14T17:04:00.000-08:00

I didn't want to write a blog post to share how I fell in love, because truthfully, it's happened more than once in my life: To my fourth-grade crush in white board pants, to my neighbor in Mexico, to the South American soccer player, and to Chatito - the love of my life.

Each time I fell in love it was hard, it was tummy-churning, different, but never life-altering. Eventually I met the man that would become my hubby...and experienced fireworks on my lips the first time we kissed.

Through our daily bickering, life circumstances, and everything else around us, I forget, we forget, that we can still create a firework display with a simple kiss. We forget that it was inevitable that we meet and eventually marry.

But then I saw this animated video, and reminisced about the odd list of circumstances led me to inevitably meeting my hubby: The one man that I happily committed to loving for the rest of my life; even though I (had previously) promised myself that I would never get married.

Two years later...

Hubby and me celebrating our two-year anniversary in Hotel del Coronado

So when you are ready to give-up on love, remember, that when things are meant to be, they will be....in their own time.

Here's to hope and love...

Happy Valentine's Day,

How to be a Friend on Valentines Day

2013-02-13T06:00:00.000-08:00

I was going back-and-forth on what to write for Valentines Day.

I didn't want to write a new version of what everyone else is writing about:
What to buy your mate to show him (or her) how much they are loved...
What to Wear...
And, my absolute favorite blog post (insert sarcastic grimace here):
How to survive Valentines Day when you are single.

Truth be told, single or not, I have never felt alone on Valentines Day. But I am sure this is not the case for everyone.

The older I got, the clearer it became that those that feel alone during Valentines Day are really lonely spirits. But in a much, much deeper sense.

You see, having a significant other, a mate, a husband, a wife, a spouse, a boyfriend, will do very little to fill the void that makes anyone feel lonely.

I have learned that the only way you can fully enjoy Valentines Day is to understand the deeper meaning of being fulfilled: By becoming a friend to you.

Yes, you read that right: become your friend.

Honestly, it's probably one of the hardest exercises you will ever do! But the work you do, the space you create, the self-appreciation, and your self-love will make you stronger.

When you enjoy your company and love yourself without the noise of "life" or anyone else, will you not feel empty, alone, and basically, lonely.

Here's to finding your best friend today, and appreciating him (or her) always.

Happy Valentines Day!