Speak out to share your life time experiences

Speak out to share your life time experiences: Smile, Hope, Happiness and Iife

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 22 May 2013 17:00:00 +0000

Speak out to share your life time experiences: Smile, Hope, Happiness and Iife: 'Smile' : as said in the picture, is always understood in any language. So, the best way to treat people is with a smile :) ...

A trailer…

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 16:25:00 +0000

A trailer....by my friend: Amit Singh

21st August 2001, half past five in the evening, the sky was as black as trodden black road and looked vigorously wild and furious, the trees were shaking, and streets were wet, the dazzling drops of monsoon patting against the tin walls of bus stand, making it difficult to see far, and hear nothing but the deadly song of furiously shaking and dancing rainy drops of monsoon. All I could observe was the absence of traffic and with more conscious effort, few children jumping, shouting, hopping in and around the muddy monsoon puddles, Suddenly I saw a figure in pure white churidar salwar suite, and light blue duppata, she was uncared about the rain, her hair was soaked with the rainy water and she was completely wet, She was someone who turned out to be my life , my dream my inspiration and my motivation, who brought true pleasure to my senses, where meaning meant nothing, but the joy, purity and pleasure was all she defined was the best I could get explained from her, she was Anya Sharma.

She came closer to me and all I could see, deep blue eyes, her eyes revealed unresolved queries, and her tangled wet hair, which she was uncared of, waving due to blowing unchecked winds. The sadness was creeping on her face, I couldn’t make out whether she had tears in her eyes or not due to the rainy drops of monsoon waving around her face, All I knew that , something was seriously out of way. She looked into my eyes, and I moved closer to her, she embraced me gently and her blue eyes were constantly looking at me and trying to speak out , we could share nothing but silence, I could hear while she was breathing unconsciously, I could feel the warmth, but could make out nothing, then she kissed gently on my forehead, her lips touched like petals of red roses being adored by the crystal drops of monsoon, we looked each other in peace and hoping the time to get paralyzed and seize to advance, so that we could stay forever, till the world ends, and destiny writes it’s new script.

She grasped my hands more strongly as if something would fast slip into its grave. Before I could speak, her lips touched mine, and her eyes were closed hiding fear, unresolved queries and Anya ultimately. Her lips were touching, forcing gently towards me, and so was mine, and we grabbed, embraced each other more strongly than before feeling the intimate warmth, my heart was kicking, beating and pounding like the drummer beating it’s drum until it burst out due to the rampant energy. My lips moved to her neck and hands round her waist kissing passionately till the nature burst and whole world slips into deep somberness. She was getting warm, unconscious, holding me tightly and mourning. She suddenly pushed me away, but before I could move back she came to me tightly again and was kissing unaltered, and looking closely , curiously and instantly into my eyes and suddenly I could see tear rolling down her eyes.

Before I could say anything, she said in soft gentle voice” Fulfill your wish, live your dream and carry your

tradition, and get those glittering ranks on your shoulders, with the shining blue uniform.

Right! Your ultimate wish, get those! I wish I could see that, But I am sorry. I am terribly sorry. I wanted to say my ultimate wish includes you, but I was too late to say that, she ran as if something was haunting her. She disappeared in those heavy rains beating against the rough roads, making it difficult to find my way without her.

This is not the end of my story, because I believe that every end has it’s beginning, it ends for a new beginning, and it begins when I was not aware what love, passion, dream and tradition is meant for…, but when I realized it, it turned my life, and I found someone I would not like to miss it, even I miss all those.

Why not we? When they can...

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 14 Sep 2012 05:03:00 +0000

DISABILITY IS NOT A PROBLEM IF YOU HAVE CONFIDENCE

Swapna Augustine from Pothanicad, Kerala,was born without arms but paints with her toes.

Hats Off to Her Spirit !

Its My India !

courtesy :

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=473986115962383&set=a.143512619009736.24381.143161932378138&type=1&theater

The real India

A Mother just takes care and does all that she can, to her child even after losing her arms. Live always with a positive thought and keep hoping and trying until you win the race. When all these people can do all that they want, why not we? Just remember that God is always with you and more importantly you and your work to be done is in your hands. Try helping people around you and am sure you will feel a heart-full of happiness and will have a smile, feeling that you achieved something. Do work, so as to not hurt anyone and help or donate to those who require, with what you have....!

And see this pic, where a child is feeding her mother who has no arms.

Really touching.

Helping and donating has no limits. Its just that you see people smiling all around, with which even you will be smiling.

Please try and never lose the hope....!

Do watch and listen to the words of Nick Vujicic in "God Hears Your Cry" in below video:

A SALUTE TO THIS COUPLE..!!

Ahmad, 26 and his wife Fatima, 25 are disabled. The wife without feet and the husband without hands,

He eats by her hands and she walks by his feet....

Awesome...!!

This disabled couple proves that there is hope for the rest of us. He has no arms and she has no legs but what they are able to accomplish is remarkable. She takes care of him good and he’s able to do almost everything with his feet. Moreover, in their everyday life they do all the housework without any help from the others. They are an amazing couple.

Keep Smiling :)

Thank you.

Time

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Mon, 20 Aug 2012 12:54:00 +0000

TIME : Time when compared in life, can be categorized into two types by giving the names as Good and Bad times.

Good time is one, when we feel that life at that moment is very smooth, happy and well going with all that you need.

Whereas, Bad time is one, when we feel that our life is going in wrong direction with all unhappiness, ups and downs, which we never wanted in life to happen.

But, having that kind of thought will never let you live happily.

Let it be good or bad, but most of the time is in your hands, to make it worthy.

People change, love hurts, friends leave, things go wrong but just remember life doesn't stop for anybody....!!

Time passes by so quickly...change happens all around us everyday weather we like it or not. Enjoy the moment while you can, one day it will just be another memory....!!

Logic's and rules for happiness :

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/03/logics-and-rules-for-happiness.html

Below were the wonderful words by Nick Vujicic himself, who now is leading a happy and smiling life with all that he wanted...!

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/02/hope.html

Live with the policy : " I was smiling yesterday, I am smiling today and I will smile tomorrow simply because life is too short to cry for anything "

(: Thank you :)

Smile, Hope, Happiness and Iife

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Thu, 14 Jun 2012 16:25:00 +0000

'Smile' : as said in the picture, is always understood in any language.

So, the best way to treat people is with a smile :)

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/04/smile.html

Make people around you happy and smile.

Just try being as good as you can to them,

Which can let them have positive mind set and also for sure will take you into the world of SMILES.

HOPE : http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/02/hope.html

These are pictures of few more people, whom I can share with you..!

They are the one's who never lost the hope in their life. Let it be any situation, they take it positively and lead a happy life :), inspiring people.

Just one QUESTION........

"When those people who don't have a part(hand/leg) in their body, can live and lead a happy life without loosing hope. Why is it that, we, having everything in life still have the feeling of looser's ?"

(: Smile :)

Thank you :)

Live life A to Z

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Thu, 14 Jun 2012 15:30:00 +0000

Life Living Alphabet A to Z :: Be Positive :: Happy Life

A - Avoid Negative Sources, Thoughts, People.

B - Believe in Yourself.

C - Consider things from all angles.

D - Don't Give up or Give In.

E - Enjoy Life Today. Tomorrow may not come.

F - Family and Friends are Hidden Treasures. Gift of God to you.

G - Give more than you Planned to Give.

H - Hang on to your Dreams.

I - Ignore those who Discourage you.

J - Just Do it!

K - Keep doing no matter how hard it seems! It will become easier.

L - Love yourself First and Most.

M – Make it Happen.

N - Never Lie, Cheat or Steal. Always strike a fair deal.

O – Own up your Mistakes. That is the least you can do.

P – Practice makes you Perfect.

Q – Quitters Never Win and Winners never Quit.

R – Read, Study and Learn everything Important in your Life.

S – Stop Procrastinating.

T – Take Control of your Destiny.

U – Understand yourself better to understand others.

V - Visualize It!

W - Want it more than anything.

X – Xcellerate your efforts.

Y – You are Unique of God’s Creation. Nothing can Replace you.

Z – Zero in your target and Go for it.

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/02/hope.html

(click on the images to see them en-large)

Speak out and share your life time experiences

It might make at-least a few people get to know others problems and compare themselves with those situations in their life and find a better way to live happily and in-fact also by doing this we can give them suggestions and help them get over and start up a new life which leads everyone to a happy and wonderful life :)

If at all you'll have any suggestions or want to share something do mail me at : speakouttoshare@gmail.com

(: Thank you :)

Life is not a Problem to be solved, but a Reality to be Experienced

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Tue, 29 May 2012 08:30:00 +0000

See he is not Depending upon anyone.

Disability is not a matter if you have confidence and dedication.

Salute to him.

No matter how many coins you throw into a fountain or the number of fingers you crossed, if it's not meant to be, it simply won't Happen.

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/03/no-more-pain-please.html

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/04/smile.html

“Never worry about numbers.

Help one person at a time and always start with the person nearest you.”

- Mother Teresa.

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/03/happiness-to-be-earned.html

Finally........

Don't lose your Hope :)

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/02/hope.html

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/03/speak-out.html

Speak out and share your life time experiences

If at all you'll have any suggestions or want to share something do mail me at : speakouttoshare@gmail.com

(: Thank you :)

SHARE IT...WAKE up INDIA....!!

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Tue, 29 May 2012 07:58:00 +0000

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Passion towards their goals

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 04 May 2012 10:58:00 +0000

Born with a rare genetic disorder known as Sacral Agenesis, Rose had severely deformed legs with feet pointing in opposite directions. There was no feeling in the legs and, as a child, she was in danger of harming herself. When she was two years old her mother, after consulting with the doctors at the hospital, decided that the best course of action was to have the legs amputated. This insightful decision by her mother allowed Rose to lead a fairly normal childhood.

Rose grew up, with her mentally handicapped brother, in Pueblo, Colorado. Rose believes her parents made the right choice as she cannot imagine being confined to a wheelchair. She describes her physical condition in her own way "If you take a Barbie doll and remove it's legs, the region you are left with is what I have. I have all the female working organs, the only reason I sit shorter or more compact, as people say, is because I'm missing four sections of my spinal column".

Rose's great passion in life is cars. All things automotive, cars, trucks and V-8 engines have been a big part of her life since she started playing with her father's toolbox at the age of 3. When she was sixteen, her parents bought her a car. A used car which Rose and her father adapted with hand controls so that Rose was able to drive herself around. She is rebuilding a 1968 Mustang which she plans to race.

For years, the administrators at the local school forced Rose to wear artificial legs, they wanted her to look like everybody else. When she was in eighth grade she rebelled and refused to wear her prosthetic limbs, turning up for school on her skateboard. She wanted to be normal, and her normal is Rose who walks on her hands and has no legs. After meeting with her parents who were being very supportive, and realising that Rose was very stubborn, the school relented and allowed her to return, without her prosthetics.

In 1997 Rose met Dave Siggins who worked in an auto-parts store, they flirted over the phone and their relationship quickly blossomed, but it was going to put Rose's life in danger. When they decided to get married, Dave joked with her that she didn't have to worry about getting cold feet. Rose and Dave were married in 1999, it was her dream come true. It was a traditional white wedding and Dave, still joking, pointed out that the cake was bigger than she was. Rose and Dave lead a normal sex life, the only comment Dave has made are that the legs don't get in the way.

Two years into their relationship, Rose discovered that she was pregnant. Rose's pregnancy was extraordinary and ground-breaking, no-one with Sacral Agenesis had ever given birth. The only doctor who didn't advise Rose to have an abortion was Dr. Wilson who says "This couple have committed themselves to a pregnancy and she is, basically, laying her life on the line because nobody knows what this means, no-one has lived this experience before. With the first counselling with Rose and David I was very specific and told them that they have to know that if they move forward with this that she could die." The main concerns were with her lungs being compressed, as the baby was likely to grow up the way because of her short stature. The other concern was how she would tolerate a caesarean delivery, because the baby was lying transversely she would have to be opened across the top, a true 19th century caesarean delivery. Rose told her mum that if there were any complications and there was a choice between her life and the baby's, she should choose the baby.

Having given birth to a miracle baby, Rose was about to experience a terrible tragedy. Luke had just celebrated his second birthday when Rose's mother was diagnosed with terminal cancer. She held the family together, provided an emotional pillar, and organised the vital day-to-day running of the house. Her death had a disastrous effect on everyone around her. Rose's father had already had the onset of Alzheimer's and dementia so he, like her brother, didn't understand what was happening. It became apparent that Rose was next in line to run the family and do everything her mother had done. As well as looking after her son and husband, Rose now cares for her dad and brother. Rose's dad, James, has smoked all his life and now has to rely on a constant supply of oxygen. He is also suffering from schizophrenia and the onset of Alzheimer's.

Rose has great moral strength and a remarkable attitude she says "A lot of people with disabilities feel that life owes them something, and I was raised in a way that no, no-one owes you a dime. The world doesn't owe you anything, this is what you have and you use your resources and you get through life. My personal opinion is, get up and go for it, just do it."

Rose's story as a woman who has overcome bewildering obstacles and succeeded despite seemingly impossible odds is a real life example of the American dream. However, away from the limelight and behind a determined self-assurance there's another side to Rose. With the usual day-to-day problems and the added stress of Jimmy's erratic behaviour Rose is feeling the strain.

She takes refuge in the garage where she can oversee the installation of a new V-8 engine in her Mustang. At last after weeks of hard work Rose feels the Mustang is ready to hit the race track, which will be another life-long ambition achieved.

Incredibly, despite the risks involved, Rose has had a second baby

An Inspiration for all of us for their passion towards education.

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/04/smile.html

(: Just SMILE :)

Everyone know, that it is very difficult to have a fake smile....!

But try using it and make a difference in your life.

It also makes people around you know and feel the difference of smile.

Firstly begin with...,

Smiling to a person when they look at you, and for sure you will get back a smile.

And this makes or gives us a wonderful feeling.

In-fact this will sometimes make you have that smile the whole day.

You can stay happy and also people around you will know the meaning of happiness,

even if they are in problems.

Just have the thought of who doesn't have problems, rather than the feeling of no one else have problems as you have.

Make people think in that way. Everyone has problems in some or the other way or in any matter in day to day life..., but never loose the hope, stay happy smiling and see people around you smile.

Let them know they are not alone in anyway, or any problem they face.

Try solving them along with happiness, rather than with a dull and crying life.

Just remember...

Crying can make you feel a bit lighter in feelings of depression, but later continuing all over your life is of no use....it can never solve any problem in life.

Keep solving your problems and that too with a positive try/hope.

For sure you will succeed in having a wonderful life in the near future :)

Smile

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Mon, 16 Apr 2012 10:29:00 +0000

You are beautiful.

Don't forget these words.

It is one of the ways to have positiveness in your life.

(: Just SMILE :)

Remember FRIENDS.

Never listen to others words and come to a decision immediately.

Don't you dare decide, unless you see/hear it by yourself.

This is an other person like Nick Vujicic, who never left his hope.

Really Great, Awesome people.

Always have positive hopes.

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/02/hope.html

And try sharing those memories with others, so that when they read/listen, try to know about the people in the world having problems and overcoming them, finally getting out of it to reach the world of happiness and joy.

Do speak out.

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/03/speak-out.html

Speak out and share your life time experiences 

If at all you'll have any suggestions or want to share something do mail me up at : speakouttoshare@gmail.com

(: Thank you :)

No More Pain Please...

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Tue, 20 Mar 2012 19:37:00 +0000

Just understand this....

There are many ways in which you can live happily, instead of crying the whole life.

Life isn't permanent, live it with joy until you breath.

Life must go on.....

Follow the above mentioned words of the respected, great monk Dalai Lama, and you will not forget anything in your life....

"Help people but never hurt them"

See to it that...

The purpose of our life in one sense should be of living for joy and sake of others and then comes your turn.

And by this thought, I guess there would be no poor or rich or any-other thing which discriminates humans and creates problems in their lives.

Expecting things can sometimes make us feel happy, but many a times it does disappoint us...

So I would say its better not to have much expectations in your life.

Just feel the surprise.

Let it be sad or happy one.

But do take it in a positive sense.

This is the feeling which every human undergoes.....

In-fact, I guess there would be no person on this earth, without the two feelings which make us live

(Happy and Sad)

One small thing below which may make you smile :)

Take the burden in your life with a smile.

Do share your life.

Speak out to the world to share.

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/02/speak-out-to-share.html

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/03/speak-out.html

Thank you.

Love you all.

(: Keep smiling :)

Speak Out

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Mon, 19 Mar 2012 18:40:00 +0000

Hi friends....

Today I want to ask you'll whether anyone of you'll have ever tried writing about the person who is or was with you....?

I mean, just think once about that person, his name when comes to your mind, try explaining him in one single sentence or two.

Let him/her be your friend, family member, lover,teacher, just a known person through others or even an enemy.....!

Just write down his name and the words which come to your mind or think from the depth of your heart.

Write down.

For example, if you have a list of 500 friends in your facebook page or google+, write down each name and the line with which you can represent him/her.

Let it be good or bad, but at-least once in a lifetime i guess you would miss that person on some or the other day, of giving you some kind of experience in your life.

Never forget any person who came into your life.

It is not that you should keep remembering the persons who troubled you or made you sad. But, do think in a positive way, as if you were with them just to learn few things so as to face the next challenges coming up in your life in the near future.

Be yourself, love people around you as you want, treat them in a well manner so that they can live happily.

Let it be your parents to whom you were born or to the people always with/without you.

I truly say, I love my family and all my friends. Am nowhere without them.

Also, those people who just came into my life for a pinch of time of my whole life till now....just can't forget anyone, because every person did teach me one new lesson for sure.

And am sure that every human had or will have this experience.

Only thing is that we don't care much about them in a positive manner.

And also as I told, when you write down the lines representing the characters in your life...and when you get a person with a negative thought in your mind, do try writing at-least one positive thing he/she has, which you can never forget. When you do this you feel good in one sense about it.

Just read the below lines in the picture:

It is very true...

You cannot judge anyone's life unless you yourself have experienced the things happened in their life.

Just show them that you can support them if at all you can or at-least leave the matter. But, never start judging them or their life.

You cannot be judged by anyone unless he experiences the things you did and neither you can judge theirs.

Every life has its own story and the characters in it experience it in their own way.

I request you'll to try doing the things I mentioned till now and in other posts.

And do share your life with others

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/02/speak-out-to-share.html#links

If at all you can, do write down/speak out and share the story or life time experiences in and around you and mail it up to :

speakouttoshare@gmail.com

And I would surely post this in my blog and let people know.

Give them hope and happiness.

The picture on the left....

You can find this in members around you itself for sure. At-least one person of your circle in your life will have this kind of character.

Do support/help them.

Make them know. you are always with them in all hard times of life and give them the hope and joy of living, keeping people happy and thinking positively.

Speak out and share your life time experiences :)

Keep smiling :)

Thank you.

Logic's and rules for happiness

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Thu, 15 Mar 2012 17:32:00 +0000

Today's post ....

Just sharing with all kind of positive messages and quotes.
(Click on the images if they cant be seen clearly)

No matter what, try following the below logic's in your daily life.

You will know the difference of life which you lived until then and the life you are going to experience in the future after following these...

For sure you will find happiness :)

If not the above 7 logic's try remembering these below 5 rules for that joy of living.

For sure when you start following the last 2 rules specifically, then no one can beat your joy/happiness.

Live with a smile :)

GIVE MORE and EXPECT LESS

By doing this it is sure that in some cases you will be hurt or the others will be hurt.

But when it comes to the day or time when they get to know that you have told them a lie, it will be a day which can never be forgotten by anyone of you'll.

In-fact it hurts much more when they get to know you have told them a lie.

As said, just speak the truth, what so ever the situation be.

Though it hurts you or them, you can live happily from the next day.

Will never have that guilty feeling.

Make people smile and also you smile:)

This is a wonderful line, which has to followed and shared by everyone in this world.

Be positive think positive and you will live positive

Smile and share your smile.

Finally........

Do the best, you can and never leave your faith in god.

:) SMILE :)

Superstitious ….???

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sun, 11 Mar 2012 11:04:00 +0000

Well…today I want to share something with you’ll.

Superstition: A belief in supernatural causality: one event leads to the cause of another without any process in the physical world linking the two events.

How many of you are superstitious ….???

The majority of answers would be, no we are not that superstitious…, We are of modern type, 20^th century guys…!!

But I would have the correct answer for this…

Most of us, especially we Indians are very superstitious.

If not us, our family is for sure.

They make us get into it by relating things happening in and around our life.

If that is not the case, I would say we get superstitious even when any of our friend’s relates the things happening, either good or bad.

And today even I am one of them….

I always did avoid comparing things, either good or bad happening in my life…, that is, I never compared it with any such kind of religious or so called superstitious matters.

Because, I always felt that when you start comparing in that way, it is for sure your mind will get involved much in that matter of superstitions.

And when that happens, you will always get depressed whenever you get sad/bad results in your living life, which is not a good thing, for a happy life.

Having that kind of thought, I could not resist for a long time.

Oh god, I started believing this…!!

There are many such instances which happened in my life, which now I am comparing them to the superstitious things.

That mainly affected me because of my family and the things that happened in my life in the past years.
Always took things happening in my life for a good sake, but today I feel the difference of loosing many things and started comparing things with those religious or superstitious thing which were installed in my mind since my childhood from parents, friends…

One first thing is of the ‘cat’…

It was always told to me that whenever a cat crosses your path when u walking or going somewhere, it’s a very bad omen…this is one big shit which I never believed and also will not believe in the future.

They always asked me to turn and go back from other way or at-least , to move back some 7 to 10 steps(don’t remember exactly).

One more, such situation I faced and even now face is the sneezing of a member near you when you start moving out of your home or on some work.

They say, that it is not good, ask us to sit for a while drink water and then start off.

Other such things which I remember are as follow:

Never play with a scissor, or with the door al drop (bolt).. will get fights between members at home.

I would ask you one thing: What about the hair cutter or gardener or farmer who use scissor’s…Is it that they always fight ?

Similarly, exchanging salt between two people will get fights between those two.

Then how about those who do their business in salts (salt industry)…Do they fight always? If so how would the members work together?

Now- a- days, many are just believing about the feng shui…Keep some selected items like feng shui coin, toy etc, at home and you will have peace at home and will make you earn more and so on…

If that is the case why don’t every human, in-fact, poor people have it and get richer?

Recently I got to know an interesting one of such kind, which I feel is somewhat funny…

We have an Idol of lord Krishna at home and my mom got to listen that if lord has the flute in his hand, it’s that even statue of Radha must be beside him or, we must just remove the flute from his hand and just keep the idol. If not there won’t be peace at home.

Also one more interesting thing…..

We had a fish pond(aquarium) at home, just bought it as we loved to have fishes at home as pets...

And one fine day someone just said we should not have shark fishes at home (they lead the members at home to fight) and also aquariums is not good for some people at their homes…!

Things won’t happen in right way.

What about the fisheries and aquarium shops? Aren’t they happy?

Listening to all this, we just removed the aquarium from our house.

Now coming to religious matters…

I had always been to a Sai Baba temple on every Thursday since few years and things were fine.

Due to some reasons changed the temple which I used to visit regularly in between and also not that regular as before to the new temple, and at the same time things were not going good in life and the very next comparison done by one of friend and mom is that as you are not visiting that temple, thing are not good.

I would ask you once again, is it not that God is God anywhere? If that is not the case, why is that we have such kind of and these many temples all over the places where humans live.

One final thing I would share with you’ll today is about the most superstitious thing/religious matter which made me to start my belief about all the above mentioned points on superstitions.

Even if I don’t like or try avoiding…it is getting me involved so densely that I am not able to avoid it and the results coming out.

On some day last year, our family had a pooja (a religious ritual performed by Hindus), done at a temple. And don’t know, if it’s of luck or fate/destiny or unfortunately the power of pooja.

The same day two good things happened in my life, which made me and my family very happy. Also my friends who always loved me, felt very happy.

One thing is that, I got my passport, for which I had been waiting and roamed for about 6 months to get it and other great thing which made all of us very happy is that, I was selected for a campus interview at my college and finally got a job. It was one of the best/happiest things that happened in my life till date.

And as usual, my family just started comparing all that to the pooja we had got done that day in the morning.

It is not that I am against it.

I always felt that all things just happen, they have their own reasons, may be written in our fate or so as told by elders.

But, why to compare them with superstitious kind of things, which just get into your mind very soon, and even when you try to avoid them, you can’t. You just start following them

Now I am in such situation…but even now try saying to myself that’s not the way.

These are such kind of mind eaters or say settlers which once get into your mind, may never move out…!

They even start affecting people with you when you start saying them about the things told above. It’s the same thing which happened with few of my friends.

Now, I hope you all are not comparing things happened in your life…with such superstitions.

Please don’t, it will never give happiness as you wanted. In-fact will just make you ask questions to yourself…why you did that and why didn’t you do that, and so on…!

I just shared my experience, so as to let you all know the way things can affect you in your life.

Just be yourself, have your faith in God and do what makes you and people around you happy.

Help the needy and keep smiling :)

Thank you.

Happiness to be earned...!!

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 07 Mar 2012 18:52:00 +0000

Am sorry if this statement hurts anyone, but I am just sharing this so that, when people think and compare themselves as poor/rich, the best way to think positively is:

"Poor beg outside the temple. Where as the Rich beg inside the temple"...there is no difference...! So, its better to be happy with whatever you have...

If someone hurts you , betrays you, or breaks your heart...FORGIVE them, for they have helped you learn about trust...!!

You would never experience your life without them....let it be a good or bad experience, but in the end it surely taught you some important things in life....!!

As said in the above quote: Be sure that you do things to people around you...at-least to those who are in your circle or family and friends.

This will surely get a positive impact in your life...and also get lots of joy and smile on your face along with those around you :)

If not a big thing, do very small things which can make people around you smile and keep you in their memories forever. In other words you can occupy a part of their hearts.

I know pretty well, that we humans are too busy that we don't even care about our own family members sometimes, then where do we get time to see other people around us...???

This is one big question which I myself have it when I think of it.., also in my thoughts I always feel like doing the best which I can to see people happy.

Want to help when they are in need, and with all these I always do try helping at-least one in a hundred needy people.

Let it be a family member or a friend, I always feel the joy/happiness and smile which I see that on their face.

Do come forward to help or at-least share/explain the way you want to help the needy.

Tell your friends, who I guess are the best one's with whom we can share everything. May be they will come up with some help when you cant afford your time for it.

The above lines are very much true.

But there are many who always don't feel that love and care they give us. In-fact they feel that their friends are the best showers of love and care....ya in very few cases I would say that it might be true with family members not being good to them. But why don't they just find the difference, or reason why is that happening and try to change or explain themselves instead of hating them, which in turn will always spoil the relations more.

Do try and explain and get the happiness.

I would say :

"The best place where we always feel the care and happiness is at home, where the lovely family stays"

Without any good communication or love at home no one in this world can stay happy.

May be they come out of the house and smile out feeling free...with friends and others, but deep inside you are never happy.

Assure yourself to be happy from inside, and then you would always have a smiling face.

Only then you can make and keep people around you happy.

Do take care of things you decide and do in your life.

Freedom To Love Without Limits:

Freedom To Love Without Limits...your donations make it possible....!

These lines are from the video above...which gives a great meaning....do understand.

Do watch this video....

The person in the above video is the same Nick Vujicic about whom I already mentioned and posted about his life in previous posts.

Everything Happens For a Reason:

The above video is also one which can teach you and let you know that things in life are in such a way that, every small thing happening in your life has a reason...!! Do have faith in god and also yourself.

(: Keep Smiling :)

People Nowadays...!!

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Tue, 28 Feb 2012 19:49:00 +0000

People nowadays.....everyone is busy with their own life, and when they get to see something different they stare at it very enthusiastically, which is in-fact the human nature. But, according to me, it should not be of the situation that the people always just stare even at needful time.

I meant saying, that if at all it is of any requirement of help in some situations, it is the person's duty to do so.

Not the way as it is shown in the above picture...!!

The above picture clearly shows that people are very much interested in getting entertained(here, taking the picture/video) of the situation, in which a person is drowning and the other where a person is in a pool of blood who met with an accident.

That is no one is bothered of the surroundings....the things good or bad going around them.

People nowadays are happy only when they get the things of their need, which in some cases, it is of such situations that the other needy person is let to lose.

It is somewhat like, the ranking.....if a person gets first, others are below, which is wrong in case of human feelings.

Every man/women, in-fact every living thing needs two main things... food and place... to live. And we human's have a special feature of earning that in a perfect manner rather than animals which earn it in its own way by attacking/killing brutally, which is animals nature of living,

But when you compare today's people, they are no less than the so called animals.

They are earning in their own way to stay/live a happy life, may be of selfishness, jealousy and greed.

And that in-turn is making the life's of many other people or families to lead a sad/sorrow life.

But, in some cases there are people who also lend their lives/spend for the sake of people around them, whom they don't know, which will surely bring some kind of happiness to them.

That is, few people feel happiness in making/getting other people to feel that happiness with what ever they have. Nick Vujicic, is one of the perfect example of such persons, about whom i have informed in previous posts.

Also, it is not that I am asking every human to help each other, but ya help them when they are in need.

At-least be as a support of some kind to them, so that they never feel lonely and sad. Even you would get the same response if at all you get into such kind of situations.

And by doing this, you will feel the happiness from your heart.

Life is short.

Love the people.

Have a belief that everything in life happens for a reason.

Nobody said life would be easy, just go on with it making it happy, if not directly, at-least indirectly.

Help others...make them get to know this is not the end if such situations come in which they decide to leave their life.

If you cant make yourself happy, do make people around you, your family, friends...to lead that smiley life :)

Automatically, even you will get the joy of life.

The above 3 quotes are really awesome...!!

Do read them and start applying them in your life and see the difference.

Read the following and do compare the characters of people with such qualities in your life. And I am sure that many of them will match with the persons in your life:-

* When A Person Laughs 2 Much Even On Stupid Things, Be Sure That Person Is Sad Deep Inside.

* When A Person Sleeps Alot, Be Sure Dat Person Is Lonely.

* When A Person Talks Less, And If He Talks, He Talks Fast Then It Means That Person Keeps Secrets.

* When Someone Can't Cry Then That Person Is Weak.

* When Someone Eats In Abnormal Way Then That Person Is In Tension.

* When Someone Cry On Little Things Then It Means He Is Innocent & Soft Hearted.

* When Someone Gets Angry On Silly Or Small Things It Means He Is In Love.

So True, Try To See All These In Real Life, U Will Find All...

Feel your life to be happy, but dont compare it to become unhappy

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:17:00 +0000

Can anyone really live on Rs. 26 a day, the income of the officially poor in rural India?

Two youngsters tried it out.

(I have taken this story from a group named Internet Jockey - ij in facebook).

I just want everyone to read this and get to know the value of money and people, whether rich or poor, every human is different in his/her world of life(happy/sad).

Late last year, two young men decided to live a month of their lives on the income of an average poor Indian. One of them, Tushar, the son of a police officer in Haryana, studied at the University of Pennsylvania and worked for three years as an investment banker in the US and Singapore. The other, Matt, migrated as a teenager to the States with his parents, and studied in MIT. Both decided at different points to return to India, joined the UID Project in Bengaluru, came to share a flat, and became close friends.

The idea suddenly struck them one day. Both had returned to India in the vague hope that they could be of use to their country. But they knew the people of this land so little. Tushar suggested one evening — “Let us try to understand an ‘average Indian', by living on an ‘average income'.” His friend Matt was immediately captured by the idea. They began a journey which would change them forever.

To begin with, what was the average income of an Indian? They calculated that India's Mean National Income was Rs. 4,500 a month, or Rs. 150 a day. Globally people spend about a third of their incomes on rent. Excluding rent, they decided to spend Rs. 100 each a day. They realized that this did not make them poor, only average. Seventy-five per cent Indians live on less than this average.

The young men moved into the tiny apartment of their domestic help, much to her bemusement. What changed for them was that they spent a large part of their day planning and organizing their food. Eating out was out of the question; even dhabas were too expensive. Milk and yoghurt were expensive and therefore used sparingly, meat was out of bounds, as were processed food like bread. No ghee or butter, only a little refined oil. Both are passionate cooks with healthy appetites. They found soy nuggets a wonder food — affordable and high on proteins, and worked on many recipes. Parle G biscuits again were cheap: 25 paise for 27 calories! They innovated a dessert of fried banana on biscuits. It was their treat each day.

Restricted life

Living on Rs.100 made the circle of their life much smaller. They found that they could not afford to travel by bus more than five km in a day. If they needed to go further, they could only walk. They could afford electricity only five or six hours a day, therefore sparingly used lights and fans. They needed also to charge their mobiles and computers. One Lifebuoy soap cut into two. They passed by shops, gazing at things they could not buy. They could not afford the movies, and hoped they would not fall ill.
However, the bigger challenge remained. Could they live on Rs. 32, the official poverty line, which had become controversial after India's Planning Commission informed the Supreme Court that this was the poverty line for cities (for villages it was even lower, at Rs. 26 per person per day)?

Harrowing experience

For this, they decided to go to Matt's ancestral village Karucachal in Kerala, and live on Rs. 26. They ate parboiled rice, a tuber and banana and drank black tea: a balanced diet was impossible on the Rs. 18 a day which their briefly adopted ‘poverty' permitted. They found themselves thinking of food the whole day. They walked long distances, and saved money even on soap to wash their clothes. They could not afford communication, by mobile and internet. It would have been a disaster if they fell ill. For the two 26-year-olds, the experience of ‘official poverty' was harrowing.
Yet, when their experiment ended with Deepavali, they wrote to their friends: “Wish we could tell you that we are happy to have our ‘normal' lives back. Wish we could say that our sumptuous celebratory feast two nights ago was as satisfying as we had been hoping for throughout our experiment. It probably was one of the best meals we've ever had, packed with massive amounts of love from our hosts. However, each bite was a sad reminder of the harsh reality that there are 400 million people in our country for whom such a meal will remain a dream for quite some time. That we can move on to our comfortable life, but they remain in the battlefield of survival — a life of tough choices and tall constraints. A life where freedom means little and hunger is plenty...

Plenty of questions

It disturbs us to spend money on most of the things that we now consider excesses.

Do we really need that hair product or that branded cologne?

Is dining out at expensive restaurants necessary for a happy weekend?

At a larger level, do we deserve all the riches we have around us?

Is it just plain luck that we were born into circumstances that allowed us to build a life of comfort?

What makes the other half any less deserving of many of these material possessions, (which many of us consider essential) or, more importantly, tools for self-development (education) or self-preservation (healthcare)?

We don't know the answers to these questions. But we do know the feeling of guilt that is with us now. Guilt that is compounded by the love and generosity we got from people who live on the other side, despite their tough lives. We may have treated them as strangers all our lives, but they surely didn't treat us as that way...”
So what did these two friends learn from their brief encounter with poverty? That hunger can make you angry. That a food law which guarantees adequate nutrition to all is essential. That poverty does not allow you to realize even modest dreams. And above all — in Matt's words — that empathy is essential for democracy.

Feel your life to be happy,

but don't compare it to become unhappy.

LIVE YOUR LIFE AS YOU ARE

Never lose the HOPE

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Tue, 21 Feb 2012 15:04:00 +0000

Nick Vujicic - "Something More" Music Video

You will also surely get much more touched and motivated, after listening to this and watching this video about the song which represents his life, along with other people who have most of the things which he never had. And all of them finally watch each other and do change their minds and hereafter get over there problems and start a new happy life.

Sang by Nick Vujicic...himself, ALL FOR THE GLORY OF GOD!!! here it is... "Something More"...

Do listen and watch it.

The best and wonderful words by him in between at 3mins 40secs and 4mins 5secs, about his life which tell us not to lose hope….!

Also do watch the short film Butterfly Circus in which he acted. You can find it in youtube or click to watch.

This is one of the best short films, which you should watch and it is for sure that you will keep sharing and you would be his fan.

Just get MOTIVATED by his life.

Don't lose HOPE.

Everything Happens For a Reason

Am just sharing these video's in order to make you all get motivated in your personal life...!

If not totally, just try to change in such a way that... you, the people with you and also people around you lead a happy life ....!

Keep Smiling and Make people smile and when you see this, its for sure you yourself will feel very happy at the end.

Freedom To Love Without Limits...!

HOPE

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Thu, 16 Feb 2012 18:54:00 +0000

Today I want to tell/give you'll something, which I wanted to do, much time earlier, and finally got a chance....

And I would just say the word "HOPE"....

Imagine being born without arms. No arms to wrap around someone, no hands to experience touch, or to hold another hand with. Or what about being born without legs? Having no ability to dance, walk, run, or even stand. Now put these both scenarios together: no arms and no legs....

What would you do?

How would that effect your everyday life?

Such a life is being experienced by a simple man, in-fact a hero for every human after you get to know about his life.

The Best Ever Inspiring person about: Having Hope and Never loosing that Hope.

Nick Vujicic... Born in 1982 in Melbourne, Australia, without any medical explanation or warning, Nicholas Vujicic (pronounced Voy-a-chich) came into the world with neither arms nor legs. Having had an uneventful pregnancy and no family history to expect this condition, imagine the shock his parents felt when they saw their first born, brand new baby boy, only to find he was what the world would consider imperfect and abnormal. A limbless son was not what nurse Dushka Vujicic, and her husband Pastor Borris Vujicic had been expecting. How would their son live a normal happy life? What could he ever do or become when living with what the world would see as such a massive disability? Little did they know that this beautiful limbless baby would one day be someone who would inspire and motivate people from all walks of life, touching lives all over the world.

Throughout his childhood Nick dealt not only with the typical challenges of school and adolescence such as bullying and self-esteem issues; he also struggled with depression and loneliness as he questioned why he was different to all the other kids surrounding him; why he was the one born without arms and legs. He wondered what was the purpose behind his life, or if he even had a purpose. After a lot of frustration and feeling like the odd one out in school, at seven years of age Nick tried out some specially designed electronic arms and hands, in hopes that he would be more like the other kids. During the short trial period of the electronic arms, Nick realized that even with them, he was still unlike his peers at school, and they turned out to be much too heavy for Nick to operate, effecting his general mobility quite significantly.

As Nick grew up he learned to deal with his disability and started to be able to do more and more things on his own. He adapted to his situation and found ways to accomplish tasks that most people could only do by using their limbs, such as cleaning teeth, brushing hair, typing on a computer, swimming, playing sports, and much more. As time went by Nick began to embrace his situation and achieve greater things. In grade seven Nick was elected captain of his school and worked with the student council on various fund-raising events for local charities and disability campaigns.

According to Nick, the victory over his struggles throughout his journey, as well as his passion for life can be credited to his faith, his family, his friends and the many people he's encountered during his life who have encouraged him along the way.

After school Nick went on with further study and obtained a double bachelor degree majoring in accounting and financial planning. By the age of 19, Nick had started to fulfill his dream of encouraging others by sharing his story through motivational speaking. He found the purpose of his existence, and also the purpose in his circumstance. Nick wholeheartedly believes that there is a purpose in each of the struggles we encounter in our lives and that our attitude towards those struggles that can be the single most effective factor in overcoming them.

In 2005, Nick was nominated for the "Young Australian of the Year" Award, which is a large honor in Australia. The award honors a young person for their excellence and service to their local community and the nation, as well as their own personal accomplishments. Nominations for this award are only given to truly inspirational people.

Now at 27 years old, this limbless young man has accomplished more than most people even twice his age. Nick recently made the massive move from Brisbane, Australia to California, USA, where he is the president of an international non-profit organization, and also has his own motivational speaking company; Attitude Is Altitude. Since his first motivational speaking engagement back when he was 19, Nick has traveled around the world, sharing his story with millions of people, speaking to a range of different groups such as students, teachers, youth, business men and women, entrepreneurs, and church congregations of all sizes. He has also told his story and been interviewed on various televised programs worldwide. However, Nick's speaking engagements have gone beyond purely motivational speaking, he has had the opportunity to speak with several leaders, including the vice president of Kenya. This year alone Nick is set to speak in over 20 countries.

People ask Nick, "How can you smile?" Then they realize there's got to be something more to life than meets the eye if a guy without arms and legs is living a fuller life.

Nick shares with his audiences the importance of vision and dreaming big. Using his own experiences in worldwide outreach as examples, he challenges others to examine their perspective and look beyond their circumstances. He shares his view of ceasing to see obstacles as problems, but instead begin to see them as opportunities to grow and reach out to others. He stresses the importance of how attitude can be the most powerful tool we have at our disposal and illustrates how the choices we make can have a profound effect on our lives and the lives of those around us. Nick shows through his own life that the major keys in fulfilling our biggest dreams are persistence and choosing to embrace failure as a learning experience, rather than allowing the guilt and fear of failure to paralyze us.

How does Nick Vujicic feel about his disability now? He accepts it, embraces it and oftentimes pokes fun at his own circumstance as he shows off his many tricks. He meets challenges with his special blend of humor, perseverance and faith always encouraging those around him to examine their perspective as they develop and define their vision. Using those new definitions he challenges each person he meets to make changes in their lives so that they can begin the path to fulfilling their biggest dreams. Through his amazing ability to connect with people from all walks of life and his incredible sense of humor he captivates children, teens and adults alike, Nick is a true inspirational and motivational speaker.

I would like to ask you'll to watch his video's...

and also few other vedio's which you can find below this post...

Do watch it and hope you all were touched by it and also make yourself have a never ending hope in your life, just think positive.

Do share it after you read and go through this :)

Many links which can tell more about him...

http://www.inspiring-quotes-and-stories.com/nick-vujicic.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1196755/The-astonishing-story-man-born-arms-legs--world-famous-swimmer-surfer-footballer.html

http://www.lifewithoutlimbs.org/

Also, today this Motivational speaker Nick Vujicic is married..! Got recently married on February 12, 2012,

Born without limbs, he has overcome adversities and made the most out of his life.

....Never give up in life....

He is not the only person who is leading such life, but he is the one who is helping many people get motivated in many ways to lead a happy life.

Speak Out to Share

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 10 Feb 2012 09:16:00 +0000

LIFE : "A characteristic that distinguishes objects that have signaling and self-sustaining processes (i.e., living organisms) from those that do not, either because such functions have ceased (death), or else because they lack such functions and are classified as inanimate" ---This is a scientific definition.

Want to know more in detail: - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Life

But when asked about life...Every Man/Woman,have their own answers varying in many different ways compared to one-another.

One says his life sucks and other says this is the best life.

The only difference I can tell is that both are in common in everything, except for that their feelings are different.....In this case "Rich / Poor".

But you as a human, once just think of it and instead of comparing your life with words like rich, poor, high, low, etc. ; see where you stand first, then yourself in front of the people all around you,the world.

After deciding this, you do compare to people or persons who are below you. In other words, if your rich compare with poor and if u are poor compare yourself with much poorer person, and then one fine day you yourself will find that your life is much better and in-fact a very happy leading life.

In philosophy and religion, the conception of life and its nature varies. Both offer interpretations as to how life relates to existence and consciousness, and both touch on many related issues, including life stance, purpose, conception of a god or gods, a soul or an afterlife.

Death is the permanent termination of all vital functions or life processes in an organism or cell...

In our simple language, he/she is dead. It is in common that every person dies on some or the other day, and it is for sure that he/she will never or can never take anything in material....

But, the only thing happens is :

"He/She will leave all the memories and good/bad things done"

That is, the person dead is only remembered for his/her ever lasting memories, he/she left.

So, Just think, everyone is common..."The Beginning and the End are in common"

Why don't you just live and make the people live happy all around you ?

In fact by doing this, you yourself will lead a happy and joyful life.

SPEAK OUT

I am going to start a website regarding this, I want to make people write down their life stories and make them to share it with people all over the world and let others know how and in what way every kind of person has his/her problems in life and compare themselves with their life and find a better way to live happily and in-fact also give them suggestions and help them get over and start up a new life which leads everyone to a happy and wonderful life :)

If at all you'll have any suggestions or want to share something do mail me up at : speakouttoshare@gmail.com