夢想你的夢想；到你想到的地方；做你想做的自己吧！因為你只能活一次！

尋回

2013-04-25T10:26:00.002-07:00

偶意關掉手機
拿著地圖
迷路 • 卻又再找到了

一個人..哼著歌..騎著腳踏車
一步一步走在陌生的道路上
我想起了...
..丹麥的生活....
..澳洲的天空...
..歐洲的流浪 ....
沿路所遇見的每一個人...

迷失 • 卻又再找到了
感激 • 我還是那個自己

反思

2012-12-16T01:45:00.001-08:00

「此時此刻在地球上，約有兩萬個人適合當你的人生伴侶，就看你先遇到哪一個，如果在第二個理想伴侶出現之前，你已經跟前一個人發展出相知相惜、互相信賴的深層關係，那後者就會變成你的好朋友」

若你此刻已有一位長久相伴的伴侶，不要再隨便三心二意地猶疑了，我們往往不易察覺感情中的一個陷阱，就是「近親生慢侮」，也就是經濟學中的鐵律「邊際效益遞減法則」，跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木與忽視，而新鮮的「際遇」總是那麼動人可愛。

在感情對待中，難免有摩擦與無心的傷害，而且論得罪自己的次數累加起來最多的人，當然是跟我們在一起最久、最親近的人；而新歡呢，又還沒開始有得罪你的機會，再加上他的刻意討好，所以新歡怎麼看怎麼可愛，舊愛怎麼看怎麼討厭。

但別忘了，新歡身上總是有不確定的未知數，舊愛身上就是有難得的熟悉感、確定感、信賴感。千萬不要隨便在偶然的「際遇」中迷失了自己，錯放了幸福溫暖的手。所以蕭伯納的話，是要提醒情人不要太鑽牛角尖於尋覓那唯一，應該把精神用在學會經營幸福的能力上，同時也提醒我們「溺水三千，只取一瓢飲」。

若有幸遇到了難得的伴侶，就不要再三心二意了，因為我們永遠不知道一生何時會遇到兩萬個其中的幾個，所以要知福惜福、活在當下。

Into the Wild

2012-05-02T08:16:00.001-07:00

Some people feel like they don't deserve love. They walk away quietly into empty spaces, trying to close the gaps of the past.
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Distances brings us closer

2011-12-10T01:24:00.001-08:00

Written on 20th Nov 2011

Half year ago, went to Adelaide for the cadet pilot training !
Back to HK yesterday!

Gained a lot throughout the half year !! Not only my technical knowledge but lots of personal growth ! Nothing can actually compared with it ! I have no regret spending the time there !Although the training didn't come the way I expected and the intensive training wasn't easy at all, I treasured every minutes striving for the best with everyone in DA13 !

Leaving may sound a tough decision , It was what I used to think as well . Yes, its a tough decision to make, but its also a good move for myself, I reckon. The pilot training sharpen my personality a lot and make me more ready to face any challenges ahead ....

Will probably still fly the way I enjoy it .... but may not fly commercially .....anyway..its yet to make any solid plan ..

Everyone in DA13 , I know it may come as a shock to you all as well , esp. my housemate and neighbour,but, distance will just brings us closer, isn't it ? Have fun and all the best from me !

And dreams will never end ..

Flying

2011-09-17T23:14:00.001-07:00

Having been flying for a while, many ups and downs
and I start to love it bit by bit and i start to appreciate the beauty of flying more and more
Today! I tell myself ! I have to be a good pilot ! I will treat my flying more seriously and professionally !

一年前

2011-08-15T07:08:00.000-07:00

Found this was written in my facebook one year ago ..

在陌生的城市裡，

每個人的內心深處都同樣渴望被了解..

.卻每個人都不自覺的偽裝起來…..

其實人…要相信內心的感覺…

可以假設人的好,

不可以假設人的壞…

真心待人..

躺開心胸的去欣賞每個人,

每種文化,

每道風景…

更會發現世界很大很美..

My first Love

2011-08-12T22:27:00.000-07:00

Having been in Australia to about 3 months ...

No matter where I go , I still compared it with every bits and pieces of Denmark , Copenhagen ...

THen , I discover how much I love this tiny little city ...

I did regret somehow of not spending enough time to appreciate every little bit of it ..

But it may be the regretness that make it even more beautiful ...

I will defintely go back there ...

For its bread..

For its people ..

For its air...

For its grass...

For the bicycle ..

For all the memories...

For the beauty ....

For everything .. deep down in my heart ...

I just love it too much !

笑中有淚

2011-07-18T05:01:00.000-07:00

我　要多得自己　更加多謝你
你將我磨成利器　戀愛路有幸捱不死
競技場上當嬉戲　今天講來彷彿一世紀

早已　記不起自己　有否憎恨你
至少今天再站起　從前在快樂時以苦調味
在過山車裡上天落地　經歷就當福氣

＊當我無情無恨望過去　還是笑中有淚
抓緊愛侶只靠寬容不靠淚水
無奈要被你拋棄後　先瞭解我是誰
如若那天我大多幾歲　＊

這一刻也許　還是一雙好愛侶
不錯　過得到自己　便可體諒你
也許都因我自卑　攜同著壓力陪你趕場地
渡過了春光再幻想明媚　當日是我逼你

Repeat ＊

什麼都去追　明白到無需因你會分手過慮
誰亦可以沒誰　離合全為了大家高興
到今天也許　還是一雙好愛侶
如果將來能得到和誰　其實多得這過去

So True

2011-07-05T18:15:00.000-07:00

多少人在說，

我會等你，等你回心轉意的那一天；
我會等你，等你願意和我在一起的那一天；
我會等你，等你離開那個人來到我身邊的那一天；
我會等你，等你……然而人們可曾知道，世上的愛情，沒有幾份真的經得起等待！

這個世界上最殘忍的一句話，不是對不起，也不是我恨你，而是，我們再也回不去。就是這樣再簡單不過的一句話，生生的將兩個原本親密的人隔為疏離。沒有經曆過的人，永遠都不會明白，那是怎樣的一種切膚之痛。

最寶貴的東西不是你擁有的物質，而是陪伴在你身邊的人。不能強迫別人來愛自己，只能努力讓自己成為值得愛的人，其餘的事情則靠緣分。

Dragonair cadet pilot programme selection 3- second stage interview

2011-06-10T18:30:00.000-07:00

Finally have Internet connection for this entry.

The second stage interview of dragonair cadet pilot programme consisted of a number of sections.
1) ICAO English Test, which test your general English level, not aviation-related at all , as far as I remembered. You can practise by watching more BBC programme from wherever sources, try to find out more information about the areas they are assessing, e.g. structure, grammar and etc.

2) Medical Check, nothing to worry about. Once again, no matter how many degree of short-sighted you are, it is NOT a problem. Just use a clear and correct lens for the eye test ! ( good to be a new one to make sure it does correct your eye-sight to 20/20 or 22/22 I forgot ...) you will be fine. But of course, lazy eye, color blindness is not acceptable and no lasik surgery ..

3) Technical Interview. Study as much as you can, Both single engine aircraft and jet , particular airbus fleet that KA is having.

4) Personality Test, no worries.

5) Social Lunch, just social and talk and enjoy a nice lunch.

6) Group Exercise, not-aviation related in my case, just simple group tasks to test you teamwork and whether you are comfortably working with others in a group, not really that stressful and in my case, 5 out of 6 in my group pass through this stage to the flight grading.

Good Luck and add oil guys and girls! Its a test of your preparation and your passion! Do as many research as you can and tell them you are the one !

Dragonair Cadet Pilot Selection 2 ( first interview)

2011-04-18T10:05:00.000-07:00

Well , I finally get the largest sponsorship/ scholarship I have ever had in my life !! Thanks dragonair ! You are just too great to make our dream come true .. I am going to work very hard in the sky for the coming year to realize my dream ...and will come back as a professional pilot !

Just tidy up my room and discovered a lot of papers, notes and stuffs related to aviation / cadet pilot/ ICAO english and etc .. They mark all the efforts i made this half year ! Sucess belongs to those who fight till the end ! Good Luck dreamers !

由於很多人都對 selection process 有很大的 Conern , 我會盡力的解答 ...and I will start with the first interview here ...

First Interview

Well ...It is solely a HR interview ...no technical stuffs.. just HR personnel , no pilot sitting the interview.Just prepare your best !

Study all typically HR questions and study your CV very well ...
they probably will pick some Qs related to ur background ..etc..
Most importantly , be very sure why you want to be a pilot !!

I think they want confident, passonated individual to operate their planes.
To me,this interview is for them to confirm u have the right personality on board. They can tell if u are making up stories .. so be honest ... be confident and leave them a good impression .. thats bascially wt it is about.

Be relaxed ! Good luck and Leave no regret !

在乎

2011-04-03T10:06:00.001-07:00

在乎

這是一種拿不起、放不下的心態，

它的反面不是放棄，而是天馬行空，自由自在，

一個人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風景，聽陌生的歌，然後在某個不經意的瞬間你會發現，原本你費盡心機要忘記的事，就這樣忘了。Sometimes we have to walk alone, listen to a brand new song, keep walking and walking. Soon you will discover that the thing, the person you ever tried hard to forget is already being forgotten.

Clark

2011-02-17T20:55:00.000-08:00

11 年 2 月10 - 15 日

發現很多遊記都沒有完成.. 但.... 隋心吧 ( 其實因為太惰)

The first timt to step on the land of the philippines ..

To me ,it is a land of

happiness

smiling face

friendly people

and

sunshine !

Met a lot of interesting people in this trips .. never thought of having acompany before ! This trip will not be that great without them ! I am really blessed ...

Clark 16th philippines international Hot Air Ballon Fest +

omni aviation

Day 1 : 天氣不似預期 , 但信心和感覺也回來了....

Day 2 : not enough sleep, feeling dizzy after 50mins ... yet .. performance was good , i can tell improvement myself

Day 3: Vomit
Day 4: Stepping out of the bottom neck , relaxed and getting better
Day 5: Really enjoy and confirm than I love it so so much !!

是次旅遊調整了心情 ..為月底的FG作了很好的準備...

Let picture speck for themselves

I will surely miss everything in the Phillippines ...

備戰

2011-02-09T01:50:00.000-08:00

Leave no regret !!!!

[and you will do just fine in Adelaide, you have everything that KA are looking for in a pilot, so just relax ok

i want you to go in there and already know this is your job and nobody is going to take it from you.

you will be a star I can tell.]

.....u know how motivating this is !! thanks !! I am really blessed ..

.......................................................

清境 ( 一 )

2011-01-26T02:47:00.000-08:00

12月17日清境

看着木星，半年後再身處台灣…是次是去了南投的清境..

這是海拔很高的地方，看的是一片雲海..很美的 “天星” ，有置身於希臘小島一樣的美…

開始工作了，難得…靜靜吸一口空氣 …

急忙的又選了台灣這片土地…是命運的推使?? 是又一個的偶然?? 我不知道 …

只知道每一次都無悔….每一次都獲得很多很多…..

每一次旅行都讓我想起從前，深深的印在心田的種種回憶 ..讓我反省從前是多麼的不成熟…二年前的今天是 Denmark first term final exam 的前一個晚上...我想起了丹麥的冬天...那一年的聖誕節...回憶很實在....要放下的只是執着....當有一天我懂得愛...也許我能夠 ..我也期盼着那一天...

民宿以”星星”為主題，我們的 “火星” 睡房..關上燈，漫天星星... 流星.. 還有火星...伴我進入夢鄉.... 民宿爸爸說木星不是星星...是恆星..因為它是反射太陽的光，自己不會發光... 星星卻是自己閃閃發亮，...照耀天際...也正正是我喜歡它的原因...還有的就是它見證着一段又一段歷史..不對...它本身已經是歷史的一部份...看着人在時代巨輪中的逆轉...

Little Swiss 小瑞士花園..親身感受比遠看很不同 ....樂在其中...聖誕氣氛有像 Tivoli 的 christmas ... 雲海也很像 Italy 的天空之城...但這次心境開朗了很多...

民宿...一切的經歷跟上一次很不同，不管多留戀上一次的美好，今後一切也有其獨特之處....

.............................................................................................

2個不同的天氣 ...

2 個不同的心境..

2 個不同的組合..

又一次難忘的旅程..

我發現我漸漸做到了...

那怕置身何處..我覺得現在我...已在最高處..

Cap-10

2011-01-15T23:00:00.001-08:00

"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself."
Our fear is real. Our emotion is real. Our perception is real. Is the threat real?

Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear -- not absence of fear.

In my life - Beatles

2011-01-14T08:55:00.001-08:00

There are places I remember

All my life though some have changed

Some forever not for better

Some have gone and some remain

All these places had their moments

With lovers and friends I still can recall

Some are dead and some are living

In my life I've loved them all

But of all these friends and lovers

There is no one compares with you

And these memories lose their meaning

When I think of love as something new

Though I know I'll never lose affection

For people and things that went before

I know I'll often stop and think about them

In my life I love you more

Though I know I'll never lose affection

For people and things that went before

I know I'll often stop and think about them

In my life I love you more

In my life I love you more

Battle

2011-01-03T02:04:00.001-08:00

Leave no regret !
First time ever!

2010

2010-12-31T21:45:00.000-08:00

2010

Very special year for me ...
Year for tears .. for regrets ...
Year for meeting new friends... exploring new lifestyle..
Year for reflection ...
Year for striving my dream ...
Year for chasing peace and happiness
Year for learning how to love others...

I am sure .... the year ahead will be fruitment and great ... as always : )
Hope dream comes true ~
and I had a great start this year with warmth and peacefulness inside my heart :)
.. really wanna hug everyone arround XD ~~
Happy 2011 ..

Tuesdays with Morrie

2010-12-01T07:48:00.000-08:00

The third time I read this book...

the first time I finish it...

the first time I have the wisdom and experience to digest it ...

I am blessed to have review it at this very moment of my life ..

looking back the 23 years ...

with tears and smiles ..

dont just read it and share it, feel it and apply it ...

星座 ~ Quite true .. for me

2010-11-26T10:12:00.000-08:00

黃道宮位置：約在牡羊座27度-金牛座4度

季節：仲春
元素：火、土
主宰行星：火星、金星
象征符號：公羊、公牛
理解事物的方式：直覺、感官

　　牡羊金牛結合了牡羊和金牛兩個星座的特質，它可比擬成七歲大的孩童，以及北半球春季中段時期，而這也正是大自然最美麗、最有力量的時間。因此，牡羊金牛代表著「力量」。初春帶給一般人的印象雖然有如田園生活般悠閑，但在這個時期的節日，無論是較原始的文化、基督教的復活節，或是猶太教的越節，都有血祭的儀式。春天時，山上融化的雪匯聚成洶涌的水流，甘霖普降，新生命紛紛自泥土中冒出來尋求光和空氣。人類的孩童到了七歲時，也開始換新牙，男孩和女孩開始分別認同父親和母親﹔在這個時期，他們開始感受并運用新的力量，獨立自主的能力也逐漸萌芽。

       這一周可以說充份顯現出牡羊金牛充滿力量的特質，不但擁有牡羊特有的直來直往和頑固，同時也表露出土象金牛實際、容忍的一面﹔也因此，他們身上穩定的金牛特質，恰好能和牡羊的沖勁互相調和。　

      在這六天出生的人，最大的特征就是熱中權力的追求，而且也知道如何在追求目標的同時，不引起別人的反感和敵對。他們是天生的說服家，總能輕易說服別人同意他們的想法和作法。而且，只要最后能夠達到目的，他們通常不在乎要耗費多久的時間。更重要的是，他們對時機的掌握十分敏銳，總是知道何時該行動，何時該停手。

       牡羊金牛的人，常給別人安靜、自信的第一印象，也很懂得觀察和等待。這一型的人不屑于浪費時間向別人証明自己，而喜歡好整以暇地在旁邊觀察事情的發展，靜待適合出擊的時機來臨。因此，他們既是可敬的對手，也會是能干的伙伴。這些人工作的方式十分專業，跟他們共事的人必須了解牡羊金牛的人通常會將工作擺第一，而把維持雙方的關系擺在后面。

      跟牡羊金牛的人相處時，通常可以從他們的干練中獲益良多。比方說，他們不但深知金錢的價值，也知道要如何賺取金錢。不過，他們努力的目的通常不是為了在工作中獲得穩定的金錢收入，以便自由花用﹔而只是認為不應該在金錢上依賴別人。沒辦法，他們就是很難接受配偶、家人或朋友給予的經濟或其它方面的援助。為了不失去自由，他們總是盡快尋求經濟的獨立。其實，如果他們能敞開心胸，接納別人的關愛和好意，將使他們的個人成長往前邁進一大步。

      牡羊金牛的人私下都希望能放棄現實社會中的你爭我奪，以追求自己的夢想、歡樂，甚至是追求另外一個人，或者是懶散度日。不過，這樣的理想狀態大多無法維持很久，但對他們而言，這確實是現實生活中紓解壓力的妙方。牡羊金牛的人若能每隔一段時間就放松自己，例如透過睡眠、度假、沉思、按摩或游樂，重新凝聚力量再出發，通常都能有不錯的表現。

      在人際關系方面，牡羊金牛在與別人交往時，總有辦法讓人注意到他們的存在。他們可能會犯下驚人的大錯，也可能創造非凡的成就，總之，不會是那種無足輕重的無名小卒。而且，他們的立場極為堅定，對自己的目標也毫不懷疑。他們寧可自己做決定，也不愿被人牽著鼻子走。這不只是在工作上，在感情路上，他們也是如此，一旦看上了某人，便會全力追求。不過，這并不表示他們的判斷和選擇都很正確。他們會因為做了正確的選擇而洋洋得意，可是一旦判斷錯誤時卻會死不認錯，因此常使自己身陷其中，痛苦得無法自拔。而之所以會有這樣的反應，并非全然為了信守承諾，主要是因為他們不愿承認失敗。事實上，牡羊金牛的人都不擅于處理失敗。

      出生在這一周的人，都自認為很慷慨大方，可是事實上，他們只有在對自己有利的情況下才會付出，而且還常會拿回已付出的情感和物品。這倒不是說他們很善變或動機不好，而是當他們發現自己的付出未得到應有的感激，或對方不值得如此的時候，才會這樣。然而，結果卻是牡羊金牛的人雖然付出很多，卻常常還是讓對方沒有安全感﹔要不然就是會造成付出和接受者雙方很深的相互依賴，以至于日后難以改變。

      牡羊金牛的人應該學習放棄部份掌控的力量，改用分享、合作和接納的方式與人共處，這樣他們才能有真正成長的機會。心地溫暖、愿意付出的朋友和伴侶，以及洋溢著愛的家庭，對他們的發展非常重要。

      對牡羊金牛的人影響最大的，莫過于愛的力量了！不論是性愛，或是浪漫、柏拉圖式的愛情，甚至是宗教的博愛力量，都能溫柔地打動他們。雖然牡羊金牛的人很可能因一時高興而追求或遺棄他們所愛的人，但大部份的時候，他們還是會和一個特定的人維持穩定的愛情關系。當他們愿意為某人無條件地付出時，通常也都會愛得轟轟烈烈，這大概是他們所能達到最無私、忘我的境界吧！

優點：穩重可靠、有權勢、慷慨大方

缺點：遲純、唯利是圖、懶惰

建議：避免去控制別人。學習后退一步，讓事情順其自然地發生。你可能會忍不住，想親自動手做某件事，但還是應該學習放手給別人，讓他們用自己的方式去完成，就算偶爾會犯點小錯，也是正常的。此外，也應該多多留意你周圍親朋好友的感受。

情侶：處女座二　處女天秤座　天秤座二　天秤天蠍座天蠍座二　天蠍座三　魔羯座三　水瓶座三

夫妻：金牛雙子座　雙子巨蟹座　巨蟹座三　獅子座二水瓶座一

朋友：雙魚牡羊座　牡羊座一　牡羊座三　牡羊金牛座　金牛座三　雙子座二　巨蟹座二　天秤座一　天秤座三　天蠍座一　天蠍座三　天蠍射手座　魔羯座二　水瓶雙魚座雙魚座一

家人：金牛座一　金牛座二　巨蟹獅子座　射手魔羯座雙魚座二

同事：牡羊座二　雙子座一　巨蟹座一　獅子座三處女座一　處女座三　射手座一　魔羯水瓶座

For one more day

2010-11-26T09:18:00.000-08:00

"Going back to something is harder than you think"

" if you have one good friend in life, count yourself lucky"

~ after 4 years I bought it ..

安排

2010-11-26T04:54:00.000-08:00

人的一生，都有一些說不出的秘密，挽不回的遺憾，觸不到的夢想和忘不了的愛...

我就是怎也忘不了那個"朋友"

最近不斷的感觸...
也在命運的驅使下...不斷的去觸及一些一直放在心上的地方..
沒有很克意的去記住，相信她沒有可能記得曾告訢過我...
那些地方卻一一出現在我的眼前..

無論如何 ...

我相信有一些事，自有它的安排...

Elizabeth Gilbert

2010-11-22T22:44:00.000-08:00

"There is so much about my fate that I cannot control, but ....... I can decide how I spend my time, whom I interact with, whom I share my life and energy with....... I can choose how I'm going to regard unfortunate circumstances in my life-whether I will see them as curses or opportunities. I can choose the tone of voice in which I speak to others. And most of all, I can choose my thoughts."

Best one I watched recently , which striked a chord with my heart....

But Don't just read it, learn it, share it and apply it ..........