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Fabulous Foreplay: What Women Wish Men Knew about Foreplay

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Wed, 12 Jan 2011 08:27:00 +0000

I am so excited to have author Cynthia Gentry on Better Sex Radio this Wednesday at 11 a.m. Pacific. Cynthia is the author of "What Women Really Want In Bed" and I am very excited to interview her about her book. I just LOVED her chapter on foreplay and am going to "steal" a few excerpts from her book for you here to give you a little taste of what we will be talking about on Better Sex Radio. (Tune in at 11 a.m. at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/BlissRadio

"If you love sending your woman into a state of crazy desire before you do the deed" then this book is for you. Sure, everyone loves a quick ONCE IN AWHILE. There is a place and a time for a quickie. And I love this quote from her book, too. "Every interaction is foreplay" and that quote is credited to someone named Chole.

Foreplay for women is NOT optional. Remember, for women, it's often going to take our brain about 10 - 15 minutes to get in the moment. We just don't CLICK OVER like men seem to be able to. We are not quite as visually stimulated as men are. Just seeing a penis or his nipples does not instantly get us going like flashing a nipple or showing a little butt cleavage can do for a man.

I love this quote from Cynthia's book: " You gotta warm up the pan before you put the meat in." "Sure, you could slap your sausage in a cold skillet, but the cooking process is going to take a lot longer." And, if we don't get our foreplay, then to women it feels like the act is really just more for the male partner. Foreplay and sex are not separate to us. It's a part of the whole process. And, most women do not ORGASM without the foreplay.

I always like to coach men that if they want to see a VERY dirty, naughty lover in their bed... warm her up with some forepaly. Men always say they want "vacation" sex or they want their wife to act like they do when they are on vacation. My guess is that on vacation, there is some mood setting and lots of foreplay. You can't get a wild porn star in your bed unless you INVEST the time and energy into the "before" play.

Foreplay cannot be rushed? And, what in the heck is the hurry? It's like traveling with men. They are always in such a hurry to get to the final destination instead of pulling over to see all of the historical landmarks, fruit stands and the special vista spots. SLOW DOWN. It's about the journey. Stop to see the views and enjoy all of the landmarks!

Most women, when asked, say they would like 20 minutes of foreplay. 10 minutes is the very minimum. So, as Cynthia's books says - "Dont Rush The Foreplay." "Foreplay is as vital to women as control of the televistion remote is for guys." When Cynthia and her team interviewed women about foreplay they said over and over again "Longer is better", "slow down, take your time", "it's impossible to spend too much time on foreplay" and on and on.

Set the mood, slow down, enjoy the seduction, light a candle, give compliments, make her feel safe and turned on enough to be that PORN STAR you want in your bed. "We want the romance, but we also want some raunchy sex" according to "Heather, 25, Executive Assistant.

I am very excited to talk with Cynthia tomorrow. I hope you will tune in!

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noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Tue, 29 Dec 2009 20:56:00 +0000

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9 Things Women Wish Men Knew Blog

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 20:29:00 +0000

9 Things Women Wish Men Knew
Sep 8th, 2009 by Chrystal Bougon , Sex Expert

Better Sex Radio is doing a full show this Wednesday about all of the things women wish every man knew. Most of these topics and ideas came in from our customers and listeners. Thank you all for emailing us your topics for us to discuss this week on the radio!

Better Sex Radio

#1 We have a spot on our body that is our “cryptonite” and it’s at the back of our neck, underneath our ears and when we can hear you breathing excitedly or when you nibble lightly on our neck, we turn into a big bowl of LUSTY VIXEN jello. We are all yours when you spoon with us and nibble on that area.
#2 When we ask if we look fat in something, we are hoping you might give a compliment of some kind. If you don’t want to answer the question, compliment us on some other feature. (Do tell us if the outfit is just really hideous and embarassing. If it’s not, just tell us sincerely we look beautiful.)
#3 No, we do not want to give you a b.j. during the football game unless you want to go down on us while we are watching The Shopping Channel.
#4 We have been convinced by the media that we are inadequate, too fat, too skinny, too ugly, etc. We need to hear what you think of us. We need to hear you think we are hot. We need to hear this every other day!
#5 Front to back ONLY ever! Our va jay jay is very sensitive and a complicated place. Please keep your fingers clean, nails cut short, and never ever go back to front.
#6 Our nipples are not radio dials. Please massage our breasts gently and start off slow with the nipple nibbling so we can warm up to some more intense nibbling. We NEVER enjoy the MOTORBOAT action on our bewbies.
#7 We love porn, too. Stop hiding your stash so well .. it just forces us to search in all of your special hiding places when we want to borrow it. And, no, even though we have teeny tiny breasts it does not offend us that all of your porn starts with the words “Juggs.” We know you like variety.
#8 We LOVE to recieve oral sex, too. PERIOD. END OF STORY. No, we don’t want to 69. We want to just relax and recieve and just get lost in it like you do. 69 occasionally, but let’s just take turns like lesbians do. Did you know when surveyed, girl/girl couples have the highest sexual satisfaction. They know what they are doing!
#9 Sex toys do not replace you, they enhance you. Stop being jealous of something that can only help you.

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Blissfully,
Chrystal Bougon, Sex Expert & Pleasure Coach
Tel: 408-826-9087

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Can you be Sexy at any size? Hell yes!

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Thu, 28 May 2009 01:02:00 +0000

Can you be FAT & SEXY? Hell YES! Confidence is SEXY at any size.

A friend of mine (who is NOT fat) wrote this fabulous blog that "Sexy Comes in All Sizes"http://aspirelifecoaching.org/blog/2009/05/sexy-comes-in-all-sizes/Susan is an amazing woman, life coach and all around inspirational woman. Her blog reminded me of when I owned an Adult Store where we sold lingerie. I noticed two things when I would help women try on lingerie.

First of all, thin women are SO HARD on themselves and have so much negative SELF TALK around their bodies. Being a PLUS SIZED woman myself, I always thought it was so strange that they were so hard on themselves when they had obviously hit that "media goal" of being a size 6.When larger women would come into our store, they were way more "in reality" about where they were and how they looked and were focused on finding a style of lingerie that flattered their bodies.

They had this attitude of "oh well, I want to surprise my lover and I am a size 18" and were just more matter of fact about it while we searched for the perfect piece of lingerie for their ample bosom or ample bottom - or both.It also reminded me how very petite women and very thin women sometimes have as much or more difficulty finding cute clothes or lingerie as their plus sized or tall sisters have. It's the same PROBLEM just different ends of the spectrum.She also reminded me how strongly I feel about this issue. My business is all about helping women and couples to have BETTER SEX.

I do that via my Online Romance Store http://www.BlissConnection.com/ and our Home Pleasure Parties www.BlissPartiesInc.com . We also have a radio show called "Everyone Wants to Have Better Sex" at www.WSRadio.com/BetterSexRadio .I am sharing my reply to Susan Liddy's Blog about "Sexy Comes in All Size"Thanks for creating a dialogue about this, Susan. I talk to so many women week after week who are putting their sex lives and other fun stuff on hold until they are that perfect size. LADIES - Sieze The Day!

All you have is today. You may not be on this planet tomorrow. Enjoy exactly what you have and exactly who you are NOW. You should not put the really really fun stuff on hold until you lose those last 10 lbs...you could be working on those last 10 lbs the rest of your life. WHY WAIT?
And, guess what? Some men PREFER saggy breasts, big butts, or a little pooch around the tummy. Granted, some men are into toned and sculpted - but my point is that if there are equal amount of men that love BIG HUGE breasts as there are men who love ITTY BITTY breasts, that that would hold true on body size preferences, too. (If you don't believe me, google all of the pay sites out there dedicated to ENORMOUS BREASTS and the pay sites dedicated to the ITTY BITTY TITTY COMMITTEE. There are thousands and thousands of both kinds.)

Confidence is what REALLY turns people on and just OWN IT ladies. Own who you are right now and enjoy life and all the pleasures that your body can bring - size 2 or size 22!
Can you tell I feel strongly about this issue? I am a size 22 and I am here to ENJOY who I am now at this very moment - not who the media tells me I should be. Of course, this has been a life long battle for me as I have been overweight since about the 4th grade. Sometimes I get wrapped up in the way the magazines depict women and celebrities, but then I remind myself I AM SEXY and I deserve to love and be loved just like anyone else!I believe all women (all people) are sexy in their own way and we just need to realize all of our beauty and potential.

When we do that, then we will all HAVE BETTER SEX! Let go of your body image hangups and just let yourself enjoy every thing you can - even if you are SUPER SKINNY or SUPER FAT. Like I said above, Sieze the Day ladies!

Happy Memorial Day Weekend!

Blissfully, ChrystalChief Toy Officer & Pleasure Coachhttp://www.blissconnection.com/Tel: 866-200-9475Email: Chrystal@BlissPartiesInc.com
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Let’s talk: Comment (8) Blog
Posted by newageknight Fri May 22, 2009 1:49pm PDT
I'm glad that women are starting to realize that they don't need to be super skinny because frankly it's getting annoying. I knew a girl in high school who was absolutely gorgeous inside and out but she felt she needed to lose weight. The girl was just under 6 feet tall and couldn't have weighed more than like 120-130 pounds. It was a little saddening.
If the woman likes herself, guys will notice and it'll be really hard for her to keep guys away (I've got another friend who's in that situation).Report Abuse

Posted by farra Fri May 22, 2009 2:18pm PDT
everyone can be sexy you just have to take care of yourself and be healthyReport Abuse

Posted by Chrystal B Fri May 22, 2009 2:30pm PDT
I agree. Take good care of yourself, pay attention to your hygiene and what you wear - walk when the sun is shining and smile. LOVE yourself like the other comment says..... when you love yourself then someone can actully love you back.Report Abuse

Posted by marimaya Fri May 22, 2009 2:35pm PDT
I am sooooo happy to read this post. As a wedding & lifestyle photographer (www.marianamaya.com) I capture many sized women. 99.5% of the time when they see their pictures they comment on how happy, sexy & in love they look. Every now and then I do get a comment of "ugh I'm fat" to which I ask .."what does your boyfriend/husband/kids/ family/ friends think of your pictures?" and I watch as a big smile speads across their face as they reply "Oh they love them"
Regardless of your size you should always try to be happy with who you are, and realize you are loved for the person you are and not your looks. After all looks fade.
Mariana MayaReport Abuse

Posted by Chrystal B Fri May 22, 2009 9:02pm PDT
Mariana, thanks so much for the post. You are fabulous and super talented .... be sure to check out Mariana's portfolit at http://www.MariyanaMaya.comReport Abuse

Posted by 88Gypsy Sat May 23, 2009 10:07am PDT
You are so right on with this post!
In retrospect, I spent my 20’s beating up on myself for not looking ‘right’(I was a size 8) In my 30’s I became unhealthily obsessed with looking ‘perfect’ - enter the eating disorder - and down to a size 4.
Now I’m 40-ish, beat the eating disorder and looking back, thinking: God how I WISH I could have the body now that I had then. You know, back then when I was complaining about it.
Now back to a size 8 - and things aren’t quite as firm as they used to be and you know what? That’s just fine. My legs propel me through marathons, and are in training to bounce a grandchild on them. They’re good legs. My breast nourished children. They’re good breasts. My belly carried those kids and hid their crying faces against it to sheild them from the world for a moment. It’s a good belly. My round behind proudly proclaims my middle-eastern heritage (and thank you Kim Kardashian for making that ‘vogue) It’s a good butt.
I am not model thin. But I am strong, healthy and energetic. And what’s sexier than that?
Peace,
GypsyReport Abuse

Posted by Chrystal B Sat May 23, 2009 12:14pm PDT
88Gypsy - what a fabulous post. Strong, healthy, energetic and CONFIDENT. That is sexy. Get down with your bad ass round middle easter booty. I am sure you are extremely sexy and fab! :)Report Abuse

Posted by Life Coach Susan 2 hours 1 minute ago
Hi Chrystal!
I'm so excited that I inspired your blog post.
The more women we get on the "bandwagon"
the better it is for everyone.
Our media plays a HUGE role in our body image
"distortions". Seize the day! YES! And, take back
your right to love your body AS IS!
Woot!
-Susan

5 Tips for Making a Blow Job More Efficient

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Tue, 19 May 2009 17:10:00 +0000

5 Ways to Make a B.J. More Efficient

Ok, I know - men NEVER want to hear the words "B.J. and efficient" together in once sentence.
But, honestly guys, we know some of you NEVER get one. So, these tips are for those women who just HATE to give the B.J. and rarely or even NEVER give one.

We do Pleasure Parties all over the Bay Area and I have personally facilitated about 850 pleasure parties myself. When we are in the comfort of our customers homes and we finish up our presentation, we allow the hostesses friends to come into the bedroom where we have our store set up and shop one person at a time. Believe me, once we close that door and we are 1 on 1 with our customers, we hear it ALL.We hear from women who do not give B.J.'s because they do not like the way the penis and "schweaty balls" smell or taste. We hear from women who are worried about "swallowing."

We hear women complain that it takes too long and their jaw gets tired. We hear it ALL!So, here are our "5 Tips for Making a B.J." more efficient. Gentlemen, I am pretty sure that if it came down to NO B.J. or an efficient one, you would choose the efficient kind, right?

1. Start the B.J. off early in the day by texting or emailing him that you are going to give him one that day. PRIME the PUMP so to speak, ladies. The more anticipation you can build the more exciited he is going to be that night.

2. If you REALLY do not like the way the penis smells, get him in the shower first or even shower with him. Now, I realize if you have small kids that this isn't a possiblity really, so send him in there to make everything nice and clean. More priming of the pump. (You can also put some Kama Sutra Honey Dust and dust his testicles and penis with it to make it smell better and taste better.)

3. For those of you who are REALLY skittish about ejaculate, you can also use a flavored condom and give a "strawberry" or "coconut" B.J. The flavored condoms taste good. I know you are thinking how GROSS condoms taste and normally that is true. But, the flavored condoms are designed specifically for oral sex.

4. Using a small, light vibrator on the testicles or under the testicles can also help to make the B.J. very efficient. You can incorporate a smallish vibrator and apply light pressure to the testicles while you go down on him and it can make very quick work of the B.J. One example is a small toy like the Silver Bullet vibe or even a vibrating Penis Ring like the sensuous love ring. I feel like giving someone oral sex is the highest compliment you can possibly pay someone. Putting someone's genitals in your mouth is saying "I really really like you ALOT." However, we all know that when we give him oral he is doing everything he can to PROLONG how long your mouth is on his penis. Who can blame him, right? However, when we have things to do, kids to check on, laundry to fold, mail to open, etc, we do not want to be down there ALL DAY. So, buy a small toy like the Silver Bullet and see if you can use it lightly on his testicles when you go down on him.!

5. Lastly, the "He" Spot can be massaged gently to make a B.J. very efficient, but we realize this is not for everyone. Massaging the "He" spot requires one finger inside of the anus and well, some people are just not going to EVER do that. (And, some men will NEVER even let you consider doing that.) But, when we talk to men at our Co-Ed Pleasure Parties, we hear them say all the time that having a "He" spot orgasm is very euphoric and it takes them back to their first orgasm when they were 12 or 13 years old.

Again, we are not recommending an Efficient ----- for everyone. This is really meant for the couples who rarely partake in this actiivty and for women who are extremely leary of giving oral sex to their husband or boyfriend. We hope it helps.

Have more questions? Call in to our radio show Wednesday, May 20th at 11 a.m. Pacific 888-327-0061 and ask your questions about oral sex, anal sex, g spot orgasms, the "he" spot orgasm and anything else that you would like answered.

You can hear our "Everyone Wants to Have Better Sex" radio show as we stream live here at http://www.WSRadio.com/BetterSexRadio at 11am to 12pm every Wednesday....this is our Award Winning Radio Show. Learn more about our Radio Award on our blog at http://www.Bliss-Radio.comEnjoy!

Blissfully, Chrystalhttp://www.BlissConnection.com
Tel: 408-826-9087Email: Chrystal@BlissPartiesInc.com

10 items 50% off in time for Memorial Day

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Fri, 15 May 2009 05:45:00 +0000

We are having a BIG SALE just in time for some Bliss fireworks for your own Memorial Day Weekend!

10 Items 50% Off - You Must CLICK on these links to get the prices. No coupon required!

1. Tickle His Pickle - Your Hands On Guide by Sadie Allison On sale for $15

2. The Low Down on Going Down - learn how to give HER better oral On Sale for $12

3. S*x Swing / Love Swing $40 off $105 on sale & Free Shipping

4. Butterfly or Papillon Vibe for WomenOn sale for $14 (Some of the proceeds for this toy goes to Living With Breast Cancer. org.)

5. Jack Rabbit $25 Off on Sale for $50 instead of $75. (Free shipping since its more then $25.) This one is waterproof so you can take it in the shower, too.

6. Purring Thruster Panther Marked down to $85 from $135 (Free shipping and this is one of the "rabbit style" toys that thrust! )

7. Pocket Rocket Vibrator for Couples - Original Pocket Rocket on sale for $23 (This is a great price for this CLASSIC stimulator...and Howard Stern's favorite)

8. Love this G Spot Toy - Orchid G This toy can be a little loud as it is made with hard plastic...but it's so easy to clean and very intense for G, A or Clitoral stim.

9. The Big Man's Pump - don't want the guys to feel left out. This pump is on sale for $30 marked down from $60. Free shipping on this one, too.

10. Making Love Edible Massage Oil - Tastes fabulous, not sticky, subtly flavored so not too over powering. Vanilla and Kiwi Pineapple are very nice. On sale for $10

and one extra for good measure...not 50% off but marked down....

11. Kama Sutra Milk Chocolate Body Frosting - Marked down to $10 from $18 Remember to add a SILVER BULLET to your purchase! Only .01 penny.

Also, if you can share my FREE SILVER BULLET mission with your friends, network, newsletter, blog or on Facebook, here is a link of me talking about it on
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It's my mission to help women stop faking it and just have an orga*m. The bullet is pretty much a guaranteed orga*m and works really well when you incorporate it into couples play, too.

Stop Faking it and Just Have an Orgasm

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Mon, 04 May 2009 02:55:00 +0000

Ladies, STOP FAKING IT and JUST HAVE ONE!

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Our Founder's Bio: Chrystal Bougon I am the owner and founder of http://www.blissconnection.com/ and have been doing Pleasure Parties all over the San Jose and San Francisco Bay Area since January 2002. I have talked to thousands and thousands of women and couples about how difficult it can sometimes be for women to have an orgasm. I call myself a Sexpert and a Pleasure Coach and love coaching women to start out with a SMALL sex toy like the Silver Bullet first and that owning and using a SILVER BULLET will change their lives for the better.It is very empowering for women to learn that their orgasm is THEIR OWN responsibility and it can happen VERY EASILY. It's not your partners job to give you an orgasm. It's your job to have an orgasm. Ladies, seriously, when you put this small vibrator on your clitoris it's pretty much a guaranteed orgasm. REALLY savvy men are not threatened at all by a vibrator. In fact, super smart men know that sex toys are their best friend! Incorporating a small vibrator like thebullet into your love making can make it SO MUCH better and SO MUCH MORE satisfying for both of you. It's pretty much a guaranteed orgasm, ladies. (Feel a theme here?)

I have been in the Sex Toy Industry for over 6 years and I worked in the Corporate world in Silicon Valley for 15 years. I also have tried pretty much every sex toy known to man and own every sex toy you can possibly own. And, even I can find a way to incorporate a Silver Bullet into my fun - this toy is perfect for beginners and advanced lovers, too.I hope you will take us up on our FREE BULLET. I am on a mission.

Now that Oprah and Barbara Walters are talking about sex toys on day time t.v., I think the world is ready for a FREE SILVER bullet. Every girl should own, two!

Enjoy! Blissfully, Chrystal

You can hear me STREAMING LIVE every Wednesday at 11am Pacific on Better Sex Radio at www.WSRadio.com/BetterSexRadio to learn how to incorporate sex toys into your love life. You can also download our Better Sex podcasts from www.ITunes.comFollow us on Twitter @ BlissConnectionTel: 408-826-9087 Toll Free: 866-200-9475
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Spin on our Stripper Pole for Charity

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 07:29:00 +0000

Spin on our stripper pole for charity (www.NAMI.org) March 26th

Dear Chrystal,

The DIVAS are having a party this Thursday, March 26th. It's called Spring Fling. We will have a FREE Pole Dancing demo and a FREE Belly Dancing demo.

Since the pole will be set up, we thought we would offer you a chance to spin on the pole and learn a move from "Rose" our Pole Dancing Diva. If you make a cash donation to NAMI.org that night (and sign a waiver) you can try a spin or lift on the pole. Bring your own camera and take some pics of you on the pole! ($10 cash donation suggested.)

Buy your ticket to our Spring Fling Cocktail Party & Shopping Faire now for $45. $50 at the door. BUY NOW.

** Each Diva will have 3 minutes on the pole.

SPRING FLING: Shopping, Calypso Music, Belly Dancing, Pole Dancing & Networking
Treat yourself and your BFF to a super sassy girls' night out in Sunnyvale
this Thursday.

This Thursday's DIVA event is going to be so much fun! The buffet is catered by Faz and it will be a delicious Mediterannean buffet. You also get one free "Diva Drop" or other cocktail/glass of wine with your $45 ticket. We will have 22 vendors and YES, Bliss will have lots of TOYS, Eros, Coochy Shave Cream, Stripper Poles, Rabbits, Dolphins and other goodies for sale at the party. We are having a RAFFLE to benefit www.NAMI.org. NAMI is our favorite charity!

Some of you who have been part of my Bliss Community for a looooong time know that I lost my sister "Thumper" almost two years ago. My sister was Bipolar with some other mental health issues. www.NAMI.org was an amazing resource to my family and to me and I love helping them out whenever we can. Mental Health disorders get so little funding and so little respect. NAMI helps countless families and people who suffer from diseases like Schizophrenia, Bipolar disorder, addiction and depression.

So join us this Thursday night at the Sunnyvale Shearton. We will have LOTS of great shopping and most of the vendors will have some sort of special for those in attendance, Calypso Music from www.LemoLive.com, a Sexy Shoe Fashion Show from www.JewelSexpression.com, bra fittings from the bra lady Maggie Roberge, clothing, financial planning, a personal stylist, massage, make up from Mary Kay, jewelry, trendy eyewear, anitques, luxury limousines, Pole Dancing Parties, Girls' Night Out Parties, a Willow Glen Day Spa, raffle prizes, lots of connecting and networking. (But the networking is voluntary so if you do not own our own business you can skip the networking) But we can guaranteed a good time this Thursday night. BUY YOUR TIX here for $45 or $50 at the door.

FORWARD TO A DIVA

You can read more about our Spring Fling Cocktail Party on our party website here:
http://www.BlissPartiesInc.com/Spring_Fling_March_26th.html

Hope to see you DIVAS Thursday night.

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Forward to a DIVA!
We are booking our Bliss Chocolate Fondue Pleasure Parties for April and May now. Perfect for bachelorette parties, bridal showers, book clubs, spa openings, divorce parties, Moms' Groups, Girls' Night Out, Birthday Parties and everything in between. For more information about our Bliss Pleasure Parties, check out our website here: BlissPartiesInc.com

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Listen to our show this week, Wednesday, March 25th at 11am as we stream live on www.WSRadio.com/BetterSexRadio

Blissfully, Chrystal Tel: 408-826-9087 Email: Chrystal@BlissPartiesInc.com

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Sincerely,
Chrystal Bougon, Toy Divahttp://www.BlissConnection.com408-826-9087

When do you introduce your new lover to your sex toys?

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 05:03:00 +0000

http://survey.constantcontact.com/poll/a07e2h98xx1fs2q5uq1/start.html

We want to know....we will share the results NEXT WEEK! How soon do you introduce your favorite sex toy to your new lover? Do you bust it out on your first "intimate" date or do you wait 6 months? You can take the poll anonymously but we wan to know....are you a LOVE ME LOVE MY toy girl or do you only use your toys alone?

TAKE BLISS POLL ANONYMOUSLY NOW. CLICK HERE to vote. Vote only once please.

Our Next Bliss Poll - we want to know if it's EVER ok for your new partner to share a toy that he already owned when you first met him. Or does he have to throw out his "old toys" and start fresh with you? Can you use your "old toys" with your new boyfriend? We will send that one out next time!

We want to hear from all of you. If you have any special comments about either poll, please email me at Chrystal@BlissPartiesInc.com and I will share your commentary anonymously, too.
Please share our information with your friends. If you know someone celebrating a SPECIAL birthday, bridal shower, bachelorette party, SALON or SPA opening, divorce party, book club, bunko group or other special occasion, please share our Bliss Parties and BlissConnection.com website with your friends and family. We thank you from the bottom of our heart! We rely on word of mouth and referrals from our Bliss community.

http://survey.constantcontact.com/poll/a07e2h98xx1fs2q5uq1/start.html

FREE FONDUE & Pleasure Party by BlissConnection.com

Host a Bliss Home Party and we will bring the chocolate fondue & fondue pot! You keep the fondue pot! Read more below.

Dear Chrystal,

Hey, are you on Twitter? Yes? Well so are we! Follow us on Twitter @BlissConnection.

CHOCOLATE FONDUE PLEASURE PARTY

We have an exciting new Pleasure Party promotion. If you host a Bliss Pleasure Party on a Monday, Tuesday or Wednesday night we will bring the chocolate fondue and the chocolate fondue pot. If your party sales reach $400 - YOU KEEP THE FONDUE POT!

More info about this promotion here on our party website: BlissPartiesInc.com

We pride ourselves in facilitating VERY SASSY and educational Pleasure Parties all over the Bay Area. We bring our traveling ROMANCE store to you so you and your friends get your purchases THAT NIGHT! No waiting for your pleasure products at our pleasure parties. Give us a call to get on our Bliss Calendar now!

Tel: 408-826-9087

Sincerely,

Chrystal Bougon, Toy Diva
1702 Meridian Ave, Box 139
San Jose, California 95125
www.BlissConnection.com
408-826-9087

Small Business Trade Show - Viva La Diva Spring Fling

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 06:14:00 +0000

Join us as we celebrate SPRING and the New Business it brings! If you've never been to a Viva La Diva party before, our networking and vendor faires are always First-Class and like no other. Our events mix a little Sexy with a little Sassy, a little Cocktail with a little Nibble, and a little Business with a whole lot of Fun! Buy your ticket to our SPRING FLING cocktail party, vendor faire and speed networking event: http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/55826Your $45 ticket includes a delicious buffet catered by the renowned Faz Restaurant, complimentary cocktail or beverage, Calypso music from www.LemoLive.com, live belly dancing, and a chance to meet EVERYBODY in our Speed Networking Session. We are also featuring a Sexy Shoe Fashion Show and Pole Dancing Demo from http://www.jewelsexpression.com/.

Your hosts from Viva La Diva :http://www.BlissConnection.comhttp://www.DivaliciousProductions.comhttp://www.JewelSexpression.comhttp://www.LoneStarTransportation.comProceeds from our special Raffle will benefit www.NAMI.org, the National Association on Mental Illness. Your $45 ticket includes all of this PLUS shopping and a fabulous evening out with your girlfriends.Buy your tickets here: http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/55826This event is being held at the Sheraton in Sunnyvale in the ballroom adjacent to the Faz Restaurant and Bar.

Tickets are non refundable. They are transferrable to another person, so feel free to replace yourself if you cannot attend. Interested in being a VENDOR at our event?Hi, We are Viva La Diva, a sublime partnership between the following companies:
http://www.blissconnection.com/ (online romance products and pleasure parties)
http://www.jewelsexpression.com/ (home pole parties and sensual dance parties)
http://www.lonestartransportation.com/ (luxury limousines and transportation) Call us if you would like a table: 408-826-9087

We host two or three Networking Vendor Faires every year and we have one coming up called SPRING FLING by VIVA LA DIVA. For this event, our vendor tables are available for $250. With that price, you do get a 6' draped table and 3 tickets to the event. The tickets are $45 each and that means you can recover $135 of our table costs.

$250 table includes the following:
3 tickets to the event (You can sell them for $45 each and keep the money if you sell the tickets. It is designed to defer the cost of the vendor table.) You are allowed one helper/assistant. Two free buffets with your vendor table. (For you and your helper. Mediterranean food.) 1 Free Cocktail/beer or wine. (For you or your helper. There will be a cash bar.) We will have WIFI for those of you who need internet access to take payments or to display something to your customers. There will be a Take Home booklet/flyer with each of the vendors and sponsors mentioned in the take home booklet. (Your URL, Tel, Name)

1 Pre Event meeting with all of the vendors and networking at that meeting. This event will include Calypso music from http://www.lemolive.com/ A free belly dancing demonstration from our friend Janet Stewart A free pole dancing demo Speed Networking for vendors and guests Mediterranean buffet from Faz restaurant there at the Sheraton Cash bar and one free cocktail for each paid guest and each vendor table. The event is 6 - 9pm. There will be a stage and a microphone. Raffle opportunity for our VENDORS and PAID SPONSORS All money raised from the Raffle are going to http://www.nami.org/

http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/55826

Description of our cocktail party and vendor faire:
Join us as we celebrate SPRING and the New Business it brings! If you've never been to a Viva La Diva party before, our networking and vendor faires are always First-Class and like no other. Our events mix a little Sexy with a little Sassy, a little Cocktail with a little Nibble, and a little Business with a whole lot of Fun!
Your $45 ticket includes a delicious Mediterranean buffet catered by the renowned Faz Restaurant, complimentary cocktail or beverage, Calypso music from http://www.lemolive.com/, live belly dancing, and a chance to meet EVERYBODY in our Speed Networking Session. We are also featuring a Sexy Shoe Fashion Show and Pole Dancing Demo from http://www.jewelsexpression.com/.
Proceeds from our special Raffle will benefit http://www.nami.org/, the National Association on Mental Illness. Your $45 ticket includes all of this PLUS shopping and a fabulous evening out with your girlfriends. This event is being held at the Sheraton in Sunnyvale in the ballroom adjacent to the Faz Restaurant and Bar. NOTE: No one under 21 years old will be admitted. Notes Tickets are non refundable. They are transferrable to another person, so feel free to replace yourself if you cannot attend.

Blissconnection.com: Spa discount, Free Samples of Hands Free Erotica

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 07:31:00 +0000

BlissConnection.com Post Valentine's Day Newsletter!

Happy February! Valentine's Day is behind us (yaaaaa) and now here come all of the Bay Area brides. We are ready for your bachelorette party and bridal showers! Give us a call and we would love to get you on our calendar now for your upcoming weddings and other fun parties.

And, if you need a good wedding planner, I have a recommendation for you! That link is a link to my friend Liz's website and blog. She is a Bay Area wedding planner extraordinairre. For more info about our Bliss Pleasure Parties in the Bay Area, check out our pleasure party website at BlissPartiesInc.com and you can read all about the FREE goodies and the great time we promise your Bride to Be! You can also read our customer reviews on YELP and YAHOO.

Check out my friend Jana Rayne's website where she sells HANDS FREE erotica. She has FREE samples of the erotica on the site that you can listen to, too. A WOMANS GOODNIGHT She will be on our Better Sex Radio show this week! Her site is gorgeous and very female friendly. Tune in to www.WSRadio.com/BetterSexRadio and you can here Jana and me discussing erotica and her fabulous HANDS FREE erotica...from MILD to WILD! Tune in at 11am PST and listen LIVE Wednesday or listen to our podcast beginning Friday the 20th.

We are also interviewing Ilse from http://www.tuntienterprises.com/ about her very unique, high quality TOY BOXES that lock and have a light inside them. Ilse and I met via Biznik.com and now we are selling her gorgeous adult toy boxes on our website here: TOY BOX by TUNTI . Tune in to hear all about Ilse's tips for hiding and storing your valuable investment properly.

Blissfully, Chrystal email: BlissConnection@Gmail.com

You can also book your party from our HOME PAGE. http://www.blisspartiesinc.com/

(Read about our $10 referral program below)

KAMA SUTRA 40th ANNIVERSARY

Kama Sutra 40th Anniversary Gift Box - 40 YEARS! Help us celebrate Kama Sutra's 40th Anniversary with this special commemorative gift box. All your bedside favorites are tucked within this beautiful new handcrafted antique replica box. ***This is a limited edition for 2009 only. This Kama Sutra bedside box includes a baby honey dust, feather, lube, warming oil and edible massage cream inside this gorgeous keepsake box where you can hide your sensual goodies. As always, when you spend $25 or more on our site, we pay the shipping!

Click Here to Buy this gorgeous Kama Sutra Bedside Box!

Bliss Discount at Embody Wellness Spa in Mountain View

Free Aromatherapy Steam Towel Treatment to any Massage orComplimentary Hand or Eye Treatment with a Facial at Embody Wellness Spa through August 31. Embody http://www.embodyspa.com/ also offers Waxing, Teeth Whiteningand Yoga Classes. Call 650 938-8100 and mention Bliss toget your free Facial or Massage complement. Embody was recently voted BEST DAY SPA in Silicon Valley! Thank you to Embody for offering these fun PERKS to our Bliss community.http://www.embodyspa.com/ or email them at Info@embodyspa.com and be sure to mention BLISS!

Fun with "Dick & Jane" on Better Sex Radio Each week on Better Sex Radio, we will have a segment at the end of the show called "Fun with Dick & Jane." Dick and Jane are a 40 something married couple who are essentially TOY virgins. Each week they are trying some new products and giving our Better Sex Radio listeners their honest feedback on the toys and other sensual products. Tune in and hear what "Dick & Jane" have to say about one of our popular Party toys - the Aqua EZ Bend vibrator as pictured here.

This waterproof toy is priced well and it is very BENDY...you can even bend your rabbit so it has that lovely G SPOT hook. Takes TWO AA batteries and is watrproof. Interested in your own AQUA EZ BEND? Click here to buy your own waterproof rabbit. LIsten as we STREAM LIVE 2/18 at 11am on www.WSRadio.com/BetterSexRadio or listen to our podcast beginning on 2/20 and hear what "Dick & Jane" have to say about the two toys they are reviewing this week. Have some questions for Better Sex Radio? Email us at Radio@BlissPartiesInc.com or give us a call live on the air at 888-327-0061.

Thank you for your referrals and for forwarding our emails to your friends, family and network. If you forward our email to one of your friends at their email, we will pay you $10 towards your next purchase when they sign up for our newsletter and coupons. For this to work, they have to sign up with the same email that you forwarded to so we can SEND you your $10 coupon code. We appreciate your business and your telling your friends about us! We rely on word of mouth and your kind words and reviews. Especially given the economy, we all RELY on word of mouth as we all want to get the most value for our investment right now.

XOXO, Chrystal

Sincerely,
Chrystal Bougon, Toy Diva

http://www.blissconnection.com/

Tel: 408-826-9087

Stripper Pole Buying Tips from BlissConnection.com

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Tue, 17 Feb 2009 20:27:00 +0000

There are lots of stripper poles designed for your home which are called Portable Stripper Poles. There are a few things you should know before you buy a Stripper Pole and I have outlined some tips for you here. My most important piece of advice is to MEASURE your cieling befor you buy your home stripper pole. And, even though they are called PORTABLE STRIPPER POLES...what the manufacturere means is that you can put it up and take it down quickly. But, if you want to do inversions and really give it a work out, you should install the HARDWARE in your cieling or floor.

Tips from www.BlissConnection.com on buying your own Home Stripper Pole

1. Most ceilings seem to be about 8' tall (or 96 inches). Of course, if you live in an apartment or a condo or if your house is older, you should measure. Also, sometimes more expensive or luxury homes seem to have 9' cielings, but again, MEASURE before you buy a Portable Stripper Pole.The pole that has the most "wiggle" room for various ceiling heights is the TLC Portable Private Dancer Pole. This pole will work with a cieling anywhere from 7'4" up to 9'2" tall. This pole can be used with or without the hardware required for the ceiling. If you do not want to install the bolt in your ceiling, you can just use it with the compression. (Wedged tightly between the floor and the cieling.) However, we STRONGLY recommend you install the bolt in the ceiling so you do not hurt yourself.

More details about the Private Dancer Pole:
Spice up your love life or spice up your workout!This portable stripper pole from TLC is super easy to install and to takeback down when you have visitors!Private Dancer Pole Kit, Pink • Adjustable: minimum height: 7’ 4” (2.2 m) maximum height: 9’ 2” (2.7 m) • Rubber non-slip pads protect floor and ceiling • For use on hardwood floor or carpet • Heavy duty steel for longevity • Kit includes: erotic dance instructional DVD, black feather boa, black lace garter, fake money • Installation instructions included, can be used with or without screws • 7’ 4” to 9’ 2” x 2" (2.2 m to 2.7 m x 5 cm)

2. If you really plan to give your pole a work out and you want to hang upside down from it, the strongest and most strudy pole seems to be the My Sexy Stripper Pole from Sweet Lust. Again, this pole has a bolt or nipple style attachment for the ceiling. It's very easy to put up and take back down, but you do hae to install the bolt in the ceiling to give it the strenght and stability to allow you to spin and hang upside down on it. (You should be under 200lbs with all of the poles.) You can view the INSTALLTION INSTRUCTIONS FOR THE MY SEXY POLE on our shopping site at: MY SEXY POLEThis pole only works with ceilings 7'5" to 8'5" high.

I should mention that all of these poles work best with the type of ceilngs that have NO texture. (Meaning the popcorn texture does not work well as it can create a flat sop on your ceiling if you put it up and take it down often.)The My Sexy Pole is by far our best selling stripper pole and it is very simple to install and very simple to put up and take town - just in case you have company or your Mother In Law is coming over for dinner.

More Details about the My Sexy Stripper Pole for your home:

Sweet LustTM wants to spice up your home life! My Sexy Little PoleTM is strong, safe, durable. You can swing, spin and hang upside down. My Sexy Little Pole is appropriate for beginner through the advanced pole dancer who wants to have a pole at home! This pole is REMOVABLE and you only need 1 screw in the ceiling to make this pole sturdy and stable. Works with ceilings 7'5" to 8'5".

Start spinning, swinging and putting routines together! My Sexy Little PoleTM and accompanying instructional booklet and DVD give you detailed practical advice, tips, techniques and routines to start you Pole Dancing - for both exercise and exotic entertainment at home! Link for Easy to Install Stripper Pole Instructions:http://sweetlusthk.com/downloads/Sexy%20Pole%20Instructions%204-10-07.pdf

3. Carmen Electra has a very cool pole now, too. It works with a ceiling 7'2" to 8'6" tall. Here are some details about the Carmen Electra Stripper Pole:

Easily removable and goes up and down in 5-minutes
Includes a step-by-step Assembly DVD
Three finely-wrought, slot-together pole sections featuring smooth joins and a chrome finish for a pro-level, pole-dancing experience
Extendable top section for ceilings from 2.2m (7’2’’) to 2.6m (8’6’’) in height
Fully removable and portable
Includes a handy Carry & Storage Bag
Features an extendable top section for high ceilings.
View the Pole Video on the manufacturers site: http://www.electrapole.com/action.phpWe sell the Carmen Electra Pole for $160 and we pay the ground shipping so shipping is free to the lower 48 states.

There is only tax applied if it's shipping into California. You can also use our coupon code SAVE10 for 10% off.

Also, if you would like to hear our radio show where we talked about how to buy a Stripper Pole, you can listen to our podcast about how to buy the right pole for your home on Better Sex Radio. Just log on to www.WSRadio.com/BetterSexRadio

There are other poles, too, that we don't sell. For example, if you want a stage with your pole, you have to pay upwards of $400 and buy one of the Platinum Stage Poles. Lil Mynx also offers a beautiful pole - but I suggest you buy their poles direct from them. It's important you email them or call them and let them know exacly where you plan to use it and exactly what height you want your pole. They can even custom cut a pole for you. The Platinum Stages poles and the Lil Mynx poles are not as easy to put up and take down, but they will allow for a very rigorous workout and are more like professional poles for a gym, pole dancing studio or for a gentelman's club.

If you have additional questions, give us a call at 408-600-8371 or toll free at 866-200-9475 and we can help you find the right stripper pole for you. (You can call it a FITNESS POLE, too!)

Blissfully,Chrystal Bougon

Chief Toy Diva

http://www.blissconnection.com/

Email: Info@BlissPartiesInc.com

G-SPOT Toy: Rock Chick on Better Sex Radio

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Tue, 10 Feb 2009 08:42:00 +0000

Have you always wanted to know about the mysterious G-Spot and the G-SPot toys like the Rock Chick? This Wednesday at 11am Pacific, yours truly will be interviewing Leslie from Rock-Chick.com all about this innovative G-Spot Sex Toy. You can even call in with your questions for Leslie as I interview her and she discusses the G-Spot Toy and the other toys they make for the "He Spot." (Prostate massage!)

For a preview of this product, you can see it on our online store www.BlissConnection.comhttp://www.blissconnection.com/shop.cfm/Sex-Toys/G-Spot-Toys/RockChick/

The Award winning Rock-Chick is designed to provide combined clitoral and G spot stimulation The flexible curve of Rock-Chick allows the hooked shaft to be inserted into the vagina Once the shaft is inserted, rest the head section holding the bullet vibe over the clitoral area. When positioned a gentle rocking motion from the palm of your hand is all that is required. Hands Free Orgasms! Once you get used to the unique movement of Rock-Chick, try Rocking your body against it. Some like to lay back and Rock while others like to sit up and Rock on the edge!

(If you want to buy this product, you can use the code RADIO for a 15% discount and we always pay the shipping.)Check out the Rock Chick website, too:http://www.rock-chick.com/

We will also interview Julie from http://www.jewelsexpression.com/ Julie will be on the show to discuss the Art of Sensual Dance and teach you a few lap dancing tricks, too. Julie and BlissConnection.com also offer in home Pole Dancing lessons when you purchase a Stripper Pole from our online store http://www.blissconnection.com/

To listen to our interview streaming live this Wednesday, you can log on to www.WSRadio.com/BetterSexRadio and listen live.

You can also hear our show archives on www.WSRadio.com/BetterSexRadio .

Call into the show and ask Leslie your questions all about the G-Spot and their products.You can call us at 888-327-0061 or email us at Radio@BlissPartiesInc.com, too.

Blissfully, Chrystal

www.BlissConnection.comTel: 866-200-9475

Email: BlissConnection@gmail.com

Everybody Wants to Have Better Sex, right?

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 04:46:00 +0000

BlissConnection.com is proud to present "Everybody Wants to Have Better Sex" our new Better Sex Radio program on http://www.WSRadio.com/BetterSexRadio

We will be talking about HOW TO use sex toys to improve your sex life. Our show will be every Wednesday from 11am to 12pm and can be heard live or via Podcast from iTunes.com and on our radio website: www.WSRadio.com/BetterSexRadio For those of you who have been to our pleasure parties, you know we pride ourselves in educating and entertaining our party guests about sex toys, romance products and how to incorporate them into your sex life. We are taking that same concept to our new radio show.

Want to know more about our Pleasure Parties in the San Jose and San Francisco Bay Area, go to http://www.BlissPartiesInc.com/ We would love for this to be interactive and we hope to get lots of topics, questions and ideas for our one hour a week, so if you can think of any questions or topics you would like us to cover, please email us at Radio@BlissPartiesInc.com. I promise to change your name to protect your innocence.... ha ha!

Our first show on Feb. 4th will have the creators of the Original Pearl Rabbit and I will be interviewing her about how this BEAUTIFUL toy was invented in 1984; why they all have faces; why the toys are always named after animals; and how Vibratex.com got it placed on that famous episode of "Sex & The City!" So tune in LIVE or tune into the podcast and hear the skinny on the Rabbit. In their honor, I will be offering the rabbit 15% through Feb. 7th. Use the code RadioE for your 15% off. We always pay the shipping on purchases over $25.

Enjoy and as always, thank you for all of your support. I treasure all of your referrals and thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing our online store and our pleasure parties with your friends and network.

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Original Rabbit Pearl by VibratexThis is the "Original Rabbit" and you may know it from "Sex & The City" .... one of the best toys ever invented! This toy will give you clitoral stimulation and penetration, too. It's also made in Japan with Honda motor parts and will last and last like the Energizer Bunny! (sorry we cannot put toys pics in our emails) The rabbit is made with food grade vinyl so it is also SUPER safe and lasts a very very long time.

Click on the link below to see the actual rabbit toy.

http://www.blissconnection.com/shop.cfm/Sex-Toys/Sex-Toys-for-Her-Bliss/PearlRab/ Our Price: $98.00

Use code RadioE for 15% offList Price: $83.30S & H: $ FREE SHIPPING Click Here to Buy Your Original Rabbit Pearl

Nea by Lelo.comThe LELO edge manifests itself most clearly in five aspects: aesthetics, ergonomics, function, quality and packaging. The black LELO NEA is a discreet pleasure object, full of toe-curling promise.

Pretty, well made, ergonomically correct and rechargeable! http://www.blissconnection.com/shop.cfm/Sex-Toys/Best-Selling-Sex-Toys/LeloNea/ Our Price: $85.00 Use code RadioE for 15% offList Price: $72.25S & H: $ FREE SHIPPING

Click here to buy the Nea

5 Elements for an Intimate Relationship from Dr. Cadell, Loveologist

Friendship
Friendship means being able to say anything to your partner because you have that ease of "best buddies." Best friends never take advantage of each other; they are there to help one another. Any good partnership includes the same love you have for a best friend.
Trust
You cannot truly be connected to someone you cannot trust. That warm, mellow feeling we experience when we trust each other is a large part of true love. Peace-of-mind in a relationship is vital to its stamina. And trust, like anything worthwhile, is something we earn over time, gradually.
Respect
When it comes to love, if you respect your partner just the way he or she is when you first meet without wanting them to change, then that's a good sign that love can prevail. Whether respect can grow and blossom will determine the depth of your love.
Passion
That all-consuming feeling of pure lust, euphoric, overwhelming, distracting, beautiful thing we call passion can be spontaneous or it can come on gradually too. Keep passion alive by kissing everyday to keep the juices flowing, recreating passionate memories and trying new and exciting activities together.
Communication
Communication is like that magic spice that brings out the flavor of all the other ingredients. Not only does good communication enrich your partnership, it takes a big chunk out of everyday stress. Compliment your partner every day with physical and appreciative compliments; let him or her know that they are making a difference to your life and share your wants and needs because nobody can read your mind, not even the one you love!

Thank you to Dr. Ava Cadell for her 5 Tips from her book "12 Steps to Ever Lasting Love"Email: DrAva@DrAvaCadell.com http://www.DrAvaCadell.com/From Dr. Cadell's book, "12 Steps to Ever Lasting Love"

See you on the radio! Remember, email us at Radio@BlissPartiesInc.com if you would like to contribute a question or a topic to a future show! Sincerely, Chrystal Bougon, Toy Diva1702 Meridian Ave, Box 139San Jose, California 95125http://www.BlissConnection.com/

408-826-9087

How can the Clitoris Still be Such a Mystery in 2009?

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 23:55:00 +0000

Free gifts for Valentine's Day from BlissConnection.com (our tasteful online romance store)!

Fried Green Tomatoes

Do you remember that famous scene? Not the one where Katie Bates exacts revenge on the young people who took her parking place by ramming her car into them and shouting "face it, I am older with much better insurance!"

I am talking about the scene where they were at a home party and they were all given a hand mirror to investigate their "lady parts." Some of the women wouldn't even look at their own va-jay-jays!

Recently, I met two women in their 40's who were just not sure if they knew exactly where their cl*toris was. To me, it seems crazy in this age of GOOGLE and so much information about sex, that mature women are still so unsure about their own anatomy.

Just goes to show you how mysterious our anatomy is and how it's still a constant source of concern for women (and men). I even had one woman ask if she could show me where she thought it was and would I just take a peek? I graciously allowed her to show it to me - not in my typical party offerings - but she was so sweet and so innocent and so concerned. Turns out she knew EXACTLY where it was! (No, this is not a new service we are offering. It just happens on occasion.)

Now, imagine how mysterious it is for our male partners! Ladies, this is my message here. Your pleasure and your orgasm is your responsibility. Help him out by telling him exactly what you need and don't be afraid. They really really want to know. They REALLY want to do it right and want you to give them feedback.

Take a page from their playbook...find it yourself daily! Practice makes perfect. The better you are at finding it and giving yourself an orgasm, the easier it will be for you to have an orgasm with him and alone.

Remeber, your cl*toris only has one purpose - to bring you pleasure. USE IT! I am including some links to some of my all time favorite clitoral stimulators. 98% of women have 95% of their orgasms from clitoral stimulation. These work great alone or in conjunction with intercourse.

Blissfully, Chrystal

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To WAX or not to WAX

Wow! I finally got brave enough to try having the whole kit and kaboodle waxed!

Yes, for the record...OUCH! But oh so worth it, dahling.

And, if you want to try it out I HIGHLY recommend Jessica from Vitality Skin Care on Lincoln Ave in Willow Glen. In fact, if you mention BLISS Jessica will give you $10 off your next wax. Vitality is at 1019 Lincoln Ave, San Jose, CA 95125.

Jessica is the best and will put you at ease even in the most compromising of positions. She's a master at the Brazilian and her studio is SUPER clean and very relaxing.

I included a picture of the coochy shave cream because it is a RASH FREE all over body shave cream and also works well in between waxing appointments. It's one of our all time best sellers and I am pretty sure always will be. It's guaranteed so if you shave with it and still have a rash or bumps, you can return it for a full refund.

Our Price: $18 for the large bottleList Price: $ 11 for the small bottleCOOCHY SHAVE CREAM LINK HERE
Bliss1702 Meridian Ave, Box 139San Jose, California 95125408-826-9087
Email: info@blisspartiesinc.com

This is a link to my ALL TIME favorite vibe ever!
I am not allowed to put images of toys into my emails so here is the link to the product on my shopping site:

5 Speed Bullet .
It's only $37 and we always pay the shipping on purchases over $25

You can also read an article I wrote called 13 Ways to Use the Silver Bullet.
This article applies to this bullet vibe, too. It's just that this bullet PULSES and ESCALATES. YUMMY!

FREE OFFERS

Use one of these codes when you shop online. Use FREEBB for a Free Silver Bullet with $45 purchase or more.

Or, use FREECH for a Free Chocolate Body Paint with your $45 purchase.

Really stocking up for Valentine's day? Use the code FREEH2 when you spend $90 and get a FREE 2 oz Honey Dust and FREE Silver Bullet.

Offer Expires: Expiration Feb. 10th. (Order by the 10th to get your delivery in time for Valentine's Day.)
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Top 10 Best Sex Toys Ever! (In my humble opinion.)

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 18:41:00 +0000

Because I own and ONLINE Sex Toy store and we also have a Home Party Division - I get asked alot which toys are my favorites. Well, I have TWO VERY BEST FAVORITES but I will share with you my TOP 10 favorite toys ever.

(There is a link to my shopping site under each toy, so if you click on the link it will take you directly to my very tasteful online store. If you do not want to click over, just scroll down to the reason I LOVE number 1 and number 2 SO VERY much!)Be sure to use the SHINE coupon code SHINE8 for 10% off your purchase and FREE SHIPPING. (Well, we always pay the shipping on purchases over $25!)

Have some questions about any of our products? Feel free to call us toll free at 866-200-9475 or locally at 408-826-9087 or email us at Info@BlissPartiesInc.com and we will be happy to answer your questions for you.

So, here are my TOP 10 Favorite Sex Toys ever and some details below:

1. 5X Space Explorer Pulsating Silver Bullet (Love love love this toy!)

2. Vibratex Pearl Thunder (It looks scary, but honestly only about 3" of insertion so nice size.)

3. Diving Dolphin (Great vibrating ----- ring for couples toy.)

4. Hitachi Magic Wand (Every Self Respecting Lesbian owns one and that's a good sign!)

5. Rabbit Habit byVibratex (Oprah magazine called this one the Rolls Royce of Sex Toys in 2006)

6. Slender Sensations

7. Two Fingers & 1 Thumb (Great Two Fingers for the "Come Hither")

8. Sensuous Love Ring (Another fun couples toy.)

9. Waterproof Bullet (Fully submersible vibrating bullet. No more humping the jets in the hot tub.)

10. G & A Spot Penthouse Vibe (We love this reliable toy for G spot, clitoral and prostate massage.)

My all time favorite toy is the 5X Pulsating Bullet and I love it because of the intensity and the fact that it has 5 speeds. Speed 1 I refer to as the "tease" speed. It won't quite get you there, but it will get you close! Speed 2, by far my favorite, has a nice rhythm to it and may remind you of something! This toy is perfect size for clitoral stimulation and small enough that your partner can still penetrate you as you have it positioned carefully on top of your clitoris.

The Pearl Thunder is my second favorite toy and it is a beautifully crafted toy by Vibratex. It gives you about 3" of insertion - thick, girthy insertion and a gorgeous clitoral stimulator that has a more direct vibration then it's sister the Rabbit Pearl. This toy also has a new style of "pearls" then we've been used to with the Rabbit Pearl and the Rabbit Habit. The pearls on the Pearl Thunder do not tumble. They stay together and spin around all at one time giving me a 3rd style of stimulation that I really enjoy.

This is a favorite amongst all of my party consultants.My favorite vibrating cock ring style toy is the Diving Dolphin and I like it because you get two very nice quality silver bullets and a nice sturdy jelly cock ring. I also enjoy the fact that it has two controllers which means you can turn the clitoral stimulator on high and the testicle stimulator on low. It's a super fun toy if you like to be on top. Not so fun if he's on top, though, ladies. So don't buy this one unless you enjoy that position. Fun toy for couples and when you're not in the mood for the ring, you each get your own VERY STRONG and VERY reliable silver bullets.

To check out more of our products, you can view them on http://www.blissconnection.com/ and if you want to learn more about the Silver Bullet and the Pearl Rabbit style toys, check out our party website at http://www.blisspartiesinc.com/

Blissfully,

Chrystal Bougon

Chief Toy Officer & Pleasure Coach

http://www.BlissConnection.com

Tel: 866-200-9475
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Luxury Sex Toys Still Selling Very Very Well Despite the Recession

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 06:55:00 +0000

Luxury Sex Toys still Selling Very Very Well Despite Recession! http://www.blissconnection.com/

LUST OBJECTIFIED: I love these words together . Something very yummy and decadent about those two words. That is the motto for the company, Lelo, that makes these unbelieveably beautiful toys. They are all rechargeable - one even plugs into your USB port on your computer to charge it back up! Now you have even more of a rationalization for owning a super luxurious toy! There are three of our very beautiful and artful products below...and they are all super tasteful and discreet, too.

Even though Larry Flynt is asking for a bail out and the recession is in the news every hour on the hour, the luxury sex toys are still selling very very well! For starters, their quality is beyond GREAT. Finally some of the manufacturers are putting some R & D and some Quality Control into the manufacturing process. It's about time! For years, the only great quality toys were the one's made by Vibratex - like the Original Rabbit Pearl and the Rabbit Habit. Now we have choices!

Many of theses new toys are also rechargeable so they are also environmentally friendly! Finally. One of these toys evens plugs discreetly into your USB port! Finally some innovation in the Sex Toy industry. The Lelo Mia is nice and discreet. Plug it into your laptop and no one has to know!

The very beautiful and artful Lelo Nea is sculpted to fit very comfortably in your hand and designed to fit right over you pubic bone with a nice angle for precise clitoral stimulation! HELLO Nea!

The We-Vibe is designed to be worn while you make love! The We-Vibe fits women anatomically and is so slender and conforming that a penis or dildo can easily fit into the vagina along with the We-Vibe. It has the power of a large vibe but is small enough to fit into a women’s contours and deliver stimulation directly to the Clitoris and G-Spot. The We-Vibe has no wires or straps to get in the way or ruin the mood. Leave your We-Vibe plugged in and charging so it will always be ready when you are.

Check out all of these lovely luxury sex toys and more on our online store :http://www.blissconnection.com/ and browse our very tasteful online romance store. We are also offering a FREE Kama Sutra Body Chocolate when you use the code FREECH when you check out and we also always pay the shipping charges on purchases over $25. So, time to stock up and change up your bedroom and add some super sexy and gorgeous luxury sex toys into your "dirty drawer."

Lelo Mia PurpleThe Mia by Lelo is an amazing, discreet little vibe that conveniently charges itself through the USB port on your computer. Our Price: $52.00S & H: Free MORE INFO

Lel o Nea Black The black LELO NEAis a discreet pleasure object, full of toe-curling promise, with a unique porcelain-like finish decorated with a floral motifOur Price: $85.00S & H: Free MORE INFO

We-Vibe The We-Vibe's innovative design allows for both external and internal stimulation for women engaging in both solo and partner play.Our Price: $130S & H: FREE MORE INFO There are many more luxury and rechargeable toys out there. If you have a favorite toy that we should know about, send us a blog comment here or email us at info@blisspartiesinc.com and share with us your favorite Green Sex Toy or Luxury Sex Toy.Blissfully,Chrystal Bougonhttp://www.blissconnection.com/Discount Code: FREECH for a Free Kama Sutra Chocolate Body Frosting

January 2009 BlissConnection.com Newsletter

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 06:46:00 +0000

Jan 2009
www.BlissConnection.com Newsletter & Coupons
In This Issue
Valentine's Day
New Toys
Valentine's Day Parties
Can you believe it's almost Valentine's Day? This is one of our busiest months of the year for Pleasure Parties. Be sure to call us ASAP and get on our calendar for your special Bliss Party.

You can also go directly onto our wbsite and book you party online: www.BlissPartiesInc.com

Tel: 408-8267-9087

Check out our new VALENTINE'S DAY BAG OF LOVE:

Dear Chrystal,
Happy New Year to our fabulous Bliss community! Happy 2009 to you - 2009 can only get better, right?

I hope you all had a fabulous New Year's Eve and New Year's Day and you all made some "Sex-olutions" to be sure to have a sexier 2009. (Read my blog about some "naughty" ideas for your New Year!)

Remember, great (safe) sex is great for your cardiovascular system, your confidence and for your skin!

Isn't our new Miracle Massager gorgeous! Every girl should have her own pretty "back" massager. This is an example of some of the new products we have added to our shopping site and to our Bliss pleasure parties.

Blissfully,

Chrystal Bougon, Toy Divawww.BlissConnection.com408-826-9087

Dancer Poles for Home
We all know how big the STRIPPER POLE DANCE phenomeonon is. Now there are three very affordable poles you can install at home for your own work out.

Our poles are easy to set up and simple to take back down. They are designed to be mobile and portable. If you want to do inversions and really give it a work out, you will need to install the bolt in the cieling to make sure you do not hurt yourself.

The My Sexy Pole, The Private Dancer Pole and the Carmen Electra Pole are all designed to allow you to swing on them, hang upside down and really work out on your own home pole.

To see all of our poles, click here: Stripper Poles

All of these poles work with cielings that are anywhere from 7'5" to 9'2". Please measure before you buy! (If you watch Brooke Hogan on VH-1, Rock of Love, or the Housewives of Atlanta you have seen these stripper pole in action!) Can you tell I like really bad, cheesy t.v.?

You can use the code SAVE10 for 10% off and FREE Shipping.
New Products for 2009
We are not allowed to put images of sex toys in our newsletter, so instead here are some links to some of the NEW products we have added to our ONLINE store.

SexerCise Ball - Is it a pilates ball or is it a sex toy?

Are you a good lover? New game

Pink Love Machine (this one is $620!)

Lighted Toy Box for Locking up your toys from Tunti

Lust: A Game for Couples

We are always adding to our store, so check back often.

Stay tuned for our new Radio Show launching in February called "Everybody Wants to Have Better Sex"...we will be counting on you to come up with some great questions about ALL THINGS related to sex and call in for some fun on air discussions!

Happy New Year and thank you for all of your support.

Blissfully, Chrystal

www.BlissConnection.com1702 Meridian Ave, Box 139San Jose, California 95125408-826-9087

New Year's "Sex"olutions. Naughty Ideas to Spice up your New Year's Eve.

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 06:50:00 +0000

Ready to sex up your New Year's Eve? Ring in your New Year's Eve with a little "vo dee yo doh doh" and make 2009 one to remember! Suprise your "baby" this New Year with one or two of our naughty ideas to bring in the new year NAUGHTY!

Naughty New Year's Ideas from BlissConnection.com

1. SEXY is all about attitude, right! Everyone's attracted to confidence and nothing is sexier then a woman how knows she's a lusty goddess. Make yourself feel sexy by splurging on a cute pair of panties or a new sexy pair of shoes that make you feel fabulous. Knowing you have something sexy on underneath your New Year's Eve cocktail dress will make you radiate "I'm HOT!"

If you're feeling extra daring, try our Wireless Vibrating Panties made by the Berman Institute. When you're at the party and each have a cocktail in your hand, give your date the remote control and be sure to stand near the speakers so no one hears your panties humming. The remote control works within a 12' range! You can also give your date a little peek of what's underneath your cocktail dress and let him see your sexy fishnet thigh highs.

2. If you're staying in this New Year's Eve, why not order a few things online and ship them to your date's office or home to build up the tension for a day or two before New Year's Eve. Try some edible massage oils or some Kama Sutra Body Frosting. Send him an email or a text message to detail how you plan to eat the vanilla edible massage oil or the chocolate frosting from his nether regions! Lots of anticipation will make it all so much sweeter. You may even be able to stay up after the ball drops in NYC.

3. If you're married and it feels like you've been married FOREVER, how about a new adult game to increase the intimacy and the sensual seduction on New Year's Eve. There are games that are more like dares; one that is like a naughty version of twister for your sheets; strip chocolate; erotic dice; and one called LUST! All of them are fun and can bring lots of lusty passion to your New Year's Eve party at home. And if you're in a new relationship, how about our new "Are you a Good Lover Game."

4. Are you on the EXTRA SPICY side of things and looking for something more advanced or slightly kinky? You could tie up your New Year's date and refer to our book, "Bondage on a Budget" by Alison Tyler, to find some items around your home to tease, tempt and sweetly torture your lover. Some of our favorite suggestions from this fun book are: tongs from the kitchen; rubber spatula; rolling pin; pastry brush; dishwashing gloves; dog leash; duct tape; turkey baster and the kitchen timer, too! Need some affordable restraints that he can't wiggle out of without some sweet begging? Here is our Beginners Bondage - 4 restraints and a very nice velvet lined blindfold. Or for the grrrls, we also love the very Sexy pink Bondage Tape that can be used so strategically and looks beautiful, too.

5. Maybe you are ready to demonstrate your new Pole Dancing moves and you want to really heat up your home party. Set up a stripper pole and watch everyone flock to it. Even the guys will end up on your stripper pole. The poles do require some bolts in the cieling if you are going to swing upside down, do inversions and give it a real work out so be sure to order early so you can get it installed before the party. We have three versions of the stripper poles and they are all priced pretty much the same - in the $160 - $170 range.

The TLC Private Dancer Pole will work with cielings up to 9'2" tall!

The Carmen Electra Pole is very portable and designed to go up and come down quickly.

The My Sexy Pole is SUPER sturdy once the bolts are installed and will work with

cielings up to 8'5" tall.

If you're in the Bay Area, we can also recommend our friends at http://www.jewelsexpression.com/ who also offer Home Pole Dancing Lessons! Give Julie a

call book your own home party Pole Dance lesson.

6. And for all of you "lifestylers" throwing those extra devlish parties we also carry the Topco Love Swing and the Spinning Swing - take gravity out of the equation and swing away! Our price on the Sex Swing is $140 and at BlissConnection.com we always pay the ground shipping on all purchases over $25.

Add some of your own ideas to our Naughty New Year's Eve Blog and maybe your New Year's Even "Sex-olutions" will inspire others to bring in 2009 with a bang! (Sorry, I had to!)

Blissfully,

Chrystal Bougon
Chief Toy Officer & Romance Coach
http://www.blissconnection.com/
Tel: 866-200-9475

Sexy Stocking Stuffers from www.BlissConnection.com

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 22:20:00 +0000

Sexy Stocking Stuffers from BlissConnection.com

http://www.blissconnection.com/

Do you and your sweetie have a special Christmas Eve tradition that involves a little spiked egg nog and some extra naughty mistletoe? If not, this is the year to create a new tradition. Everybody sing with me...." I saw Momma Kissing Santa Clause!"This is a little inspiration for you and your Secret Santa. I am also including a coupon code for a FREE Kama Sutra Chocolate Body Frosting with your $60 purchase. If you make a purchase on our website before Dec. 19th, you can use the code YahooC when you check out and you will get some yummy chocolate body frosting for you and your Sexy Santa.

Chocolate Body Frosting from the Kama Sutra company actually tastes like milk chocolate! It's the consistency of cake frosting and comes with a paint brush, too, but in my opinion it's much more fun to apply with your fingers. To purchase, click here: Kama Sutra Body Paint

Maybe your Holiday Honey has been a VERY good boy this year and you really want to make him feel special. How about some Blow Job Vouchers or some Happy Penis? Both gifts are under $10 and a few of these will be some of his favorite Christmas presents this year! Or just check our our "toys for men" link and maybe you will find something that suits your guy.

To give you a little inspiration, here are a few pics of some fun Naughty Stocking Stuffers for your Secret Santa! How about a sassy little Sexy Santa dress or red velvet booty shorts and top to really make him feel special?

Check out our seductive holiday dresses here and really heat up your Christmas morning. You can make yourself his present when you saunter in with one of these little outfits on! The dress on the left is also available in Plus Sizes for our Curvy Customers.

Ladies, if you have a wish list for some goodies that you would like for your own stocking, why don't you email your boyfriend or husband your WISH LIST and a link to our website http://www.BlissConnection.com/ and the coupon code YahooC and your sweetie will get our special Yahoo Shine deal - free shipping and a free Kama Sutra Chocolate Body Frosting on purchases over $60.

You can also call us if you have any questions about our online sex toy store or any of our products at 866-200-9475. Happy Holidays!

Blissfully, Chrystal
Chief Toy Officer & Pleasure Coach
http://www.blissconnection.com/
http://www.facebook.com/pages/San-Jose-CA/BlissConnectioncom/49914886797?ref=s

Hilarious Chardonnay Joke I had to Share!

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 21:11:00 +0000

My good friend Kathy, whom I met at a Pleasure Party in Los Gatos sent me this hilarious joke and I had to share it with all of you! I also decided to include a pic of one of my favorite el cheapo chardonnays! Enjoy! Thanks Kathy.
IMPORTANT HEALTH ADVICE FOR WOMEN

Do you have feelings of inadequacy?
Do you suffer from shyness?
Do you sometimes wish you were more assertive?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, ask your
doctor or pharmacist about Chardonnay.

Chardonnay is the safe, natural way to feel better and more
confident about yourself and your actions. Chardonnay can help ease you out
of your shyness and let you tell the world that you're ready and willing to
do just about anything.

You will notice the benefits of Chardonnay almost
immediately and with a regimen of regular doses you can overcome any obstacles
that prevent you from living the life you want to live.
Shyness and awkwardness will be a thing of the past and you
will discover many talents you never knew you had. Stop hiding and start
living, with Chardonnay.

Chardonnay may not be right for everyone. Women who are
pregnant or nursing should not use Chardonnay. However, women who wouldn't
mind nursing or becoming pregnant are encouraged to try it.
Side effects may include dizziness, nausea, vomiting,
incarceration, erotic lustfulness, loss of motor control, loss of clothing, loss
of money, loss of virginity, delusions of grandeur, table dancing, headache,
dehydration, dry mouth, and a desire to sing Karaoke and play all-night
rounds of Strip Poker, Truth Or Dare, and Naked Twister.

WARNINGS: -
* The consumption of Chardonnay may make you think you are
whispering when you are not.
* The consumption of Chardonnay may cause you to tell your
friends over and over again that you love them.
* The consumption of Chardonnay may cause you to think you
can sing.
* The consumption of Chardonnay may lead you to believe
that ex-lovers are really dying for you to telephone them at four in the
morning.
* The consumption of Chardonnay may make you think you can
logically converse with members of the opposite sex without spitting.
* The consumption of Chardonnay may create the illusion
that you are tougher, smarter, faster and better looking than most people.

Now Just Imagine What You Could Achieve With a Good Dry
Red!!!

Is that SO TRUE or what? Happy Holidays!

Blissfully, Chrystal
http://www.blissconnection.,com/
http://www.blisspartiesinc.com/
Tel: 408-826-9087
email: Chrystal@BlissPartiesInc.com

Stripper Poles are Not Just For Strippers Anymore

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 06:35:00 +0000

Have a hard to buy for BFF? Need a special Christmas gift for your boss? How about something unique for your Mom? We continue to be amazed by how popular the Portable Stripper Poles have become! We sell them to your Mother In Law, your Bank Manager, your hairdresser and everyone else you can imagine....maybe even your Nonna or your Great Grandma! (Very discreetly, of course. We don't kiss and tell.)

We noticed about 5 years ago that the Stripper Pole Dance and Exercise classes became very very popular here in San Jose. (http://www.SedusaStudios.com/ is our local gorgeous Erotic Dance Studio and the owner has the most beautiful sexy pole dancing studio with 9 poles installed.) There is so much to learn about all of the Portable Stripper Poles on the market. We suggest you do some measuring before you buy your pole. Also, ask yourself how you plan to use your stripper pole before you buy one.

Hopefully you will find this blog helpful when you are trying to decide which portable pole you want to buy.

Ok, so here are some STRIPPER POLE BUYING TIPS and the poles that will work with your ceiling:

1. Most ceilings seem to be about 8' tall (or 96 inches). Of course, if you live in an apartment or a condo or if your house is older, you should measure. Also, sometimes more expensive or luxury homes seem to have 9' cielings, but again, MEASURE before you buy a Portable Stripper Pole. The pole that has the most "wiggle" room for various ceiling heights is the TLC Portable Private Dancer Pole. This pole will work with a cieling anywhere from 7'4" up to 9'2" tall. This pole can be used with or without the hardware required for the ceiling. If you do not want to install the bolt in your ceiling, you can just use it with the compression. (Wedged tightly between the floor and the cieling.) However, we STRONGLY recommend you install the bolt in the ceiling so you do not hurt yourself.

2. If you really plan to give your pole a work out and you want to hang upside down from it, the strongest and most strudy pole seems to be the My Sexy Stripper Pole from Sweet Lust. Again, this pole has a bolt or nipple style attachment for the ceiling. It's very easy to put up and take back down, but you do hae to install the bolt in the ceiling to give it the strenght and stability to allow you to spin and hang upside down on it. (You should be under 200lbs with all of the poles.)

You can view the INSTALLTION INSTRUCTIONS FOR THE MY SEXY POLE on our shopping site at: MY SEXY POLE This pole only works with ceilings 7'5" to 8'5" high. I should mention that all of these poles work best with the type of ceilngs that have NO texture. (Meaning the popcorn texture does not work well as it can create a flat sop on your ceiling if you put it up and take it down often.)The My Sexy Pole is by far our best selling stripper pole and it is very simple to install and very simple to put up and take town - just in case you have company or your Mother In Law is coming over for dinner.

3. Carmen Electra has a very cool pole now, too. It works with a ceiling 7'2" to 8'6" tall. Here are some details from the manufacturer:

Below are some other features of this new stripper pole:

Easily removable and goes up and down in 5-minutes
Includes a step-by-step Assembly DVD
Three finely-wrought, slot-together pole sections featuring smooth joins and a chrome finish for a pro-level, pole-dancing experience
Extendable top section for ceilings from 2.2m (7’2’’) to 2.6m (8’6’’) in height
Fully removable and portable
Includes a handy Carry & Storage Bag
Features an extendable top section for high ceilings.

View the Pole Video on the manufacturers site: http://www.electrapole.com/action.php

We sell the Carmen Electra Pole for $145 and we pay the ground shipping so shipping is free to the lower 48 states. There is only tax applied if it's shipping into California. You can also use our coupon code YAHOOP when you check out and you will recieve 10% off your purchase which bring the pole to $130.50.

We do have some other poles on our website and they are either VERY expensive or VERY inexpensive. We sell the other Peekaboo pole but it ONLY works with compression. That means it's really designed for poses and light spinning, but no hanging or really swinging from that pole. But, it's $80 so it's affordable and sexy, just not something you can really give a work out.

If you are looking for a way to do your strip exercises or use it for a real core workout, this pole will not work for that.There are other poles, too. For example, if you want a stage with your pole, you have to pay upwards of $400 and buy one of the Platinum Stage Poles. Lil Mynx also offers a beautiful pole - but I suggest you buy their poles direct from them. It's important you email them or call them and let them know exacly where you plan to use it and exactly what height you want your pole. They can even custom cut a pole for you. The Platinum Stages poles and the Lil Mynx poles are not as easy to put up and take down, but they will allow for a very rigorous workout and are more like professional poles for a gym, pole dancing studio or for a gentelman's club.

If you have additional questions, give us a call at 408-600-8371 or toll free at 866-200-9475 and we can help you find the right stripper pole for you. (You can call it a FITNESS POLE, too!)

Blissfully,Chrystal Bougon

Chief Toy Diva

http://www.blissconnection.com/

Tel: 408-600-8371

Oprah's 10 Second Kiss Idea

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 05:04:00 +0000

Oprah had Dr. Berman on her show today and they did a whole entire hour about women's orgasms and sexual dysfunction! I WAS SO INSPIRED I watched it twice and was so excited to write this newsletter and blog in case you did not see the episode! I love and respect Oprah, but I am not normally an Oprah zealot like some of you. Today I am convert! She and Dr. Berman did alot to help alot of women out there.

(This is a link to toy "O" Magazine called the Rolls Royce of Sex Toys about 2 years ago. It's called the Rabbit Habit and it's made in Japan with Honda Motor Parts! Use the code SAVE10 for 10% off of this rabbit. RABBIT HABIT )

They followed a couple through Sex Therapy and this amazingly brave couple allowed themselves to be recorded while they were in therapy talking through their issues. (They are married 19 years and having very little sex. It's amazing how common this is amongst long term couples.)

They gave a few tips I will share in this newsletter, too! All the credit goes to Oprah and Dr. Berman, though. I am just repeating it here!

Oprah and Dr. Berman discussed our anatomy and explained to women that we do not pee from our clitoris. (I thought only men still thought this. One word people - GOOGLE!) They explained that our clitoris was designed to ONLY give us pleasure and has no other functionality. They also explained my favorite piece of trivia- women have 8,000 nerve endings in our clitoris. Men only have 4,000 in their entire penis. WE GET DOUBLE the NERVE ENDINGS!

They gave women permission to try a vibrator and disussed how peri-menopause starts in our late 30's and 40's and can help to diminish a woman's libido. They gave an explanation to the "domination" fantasy alot of women have (like 60% of women fantasize about surrendering) and why so many of us have that fantasy. They talked about what happens to the testosterone leveles and how to have G SPOT orgasm! See my FAVE G SPOT TOY HERE

They covered alot in this one hour and I hope there will be a follow up to the episode. They echoed something I have said about 1,000,000 times to women who are shy about vibrators - IT WILL CHNGE YOUR LIFE if you have never had one. (Start small with Silver Bullet. It's $15 and nice and discreet and very un-assuming.) Sometimes, especially after menopause, it can help you rediscover that your mojo is still alive and well! Sometimes it just takes one fun session to get it all going again. The woman on the Oprah episode was proof of that! Read my article on "13 Ways to Use the Silver Bullet."

Did you see the episode? I would love to get your feedback and tell me which parts of the episode resonated with you.

10 Second Kiss Exercise from Oprah and Dr. Berman

If you have read my blog in the past, you know I am big fan of the kiss. Your lips are the closest erogenous zone to your brain. We all know it ALL starts in the brain. This is especially true for women. We need the REV UP and we have the most difficulty shutting off the "monkey running round in our brain."

Oprah and Dr. Berman suggest you try kissing your partner 10 seconds a day and don't make it always end in sex...but that would be nice! LOL. Just try it. See how much more connected you feel. See what it does for your sex drive. Your husband or boyfriend will be amazed by how much more responsive your body is when they kiss you for 10 seconds or more. Kissing helps women to SHUT OFF the "to do list" and become present. It also helps women to lubricate and helps to fill our clitoris with blood - which is the ONLY way we can have an orgasm.

One of my stock suggestions to women who are afraid of trying a Rabbit or other sex toy is to try MAKING OUT with your partner while they use the toy with you. You are holding each other, your lips are locked and your partner has the vibe in their hand. It makes you feel connected even when using a "device." YUM! Here's my #1 Favorite Vibe Ever!

Does the G-Spot Really Exist?

YES! It exists. I love the word Dr. Berman used to describe the G-Spot orgasm - she called the G Spot orgasm (which is inside the Vagina) in conjunction with the clitoral orgasm a "blended" orgasm. DELISH!

Your G Spot is about 2 to 3 inches inside of your vagina on the belly button wall of the vagina. She described the "Come Hither" technique and how it makes some women squeamish because it gives you a sensation of having to pee. (Just empty your bladder before looking for your g-spot and you will be just fine!) She suggests what I suggest and that is you should find your own g-spot first and then teach your partner how to find it. After you get comforable with that, you can move to a toy like my favorite G-spot toy.

Dr. Berman said that many women describe their g-spot feeling much like the tip of their nose. I have heard other women use the words "wet walnut" with spongy ridges. See if you can find yours tonight!

I love that Oprah shred so much frank discussion about sex, pleasure, sex toys and sexual dysfunction today. If anyone can get the word out and give women permission to experiment with sex toys it's OPRAH!

Ladies - remember - your clitoris has NO OTHER PURPOSE except to give you an orgasm. There is not other purpose or functionality. Your maker (whomever he or she is) designed this piece of anatomy to give you an orgasm. USE IT! It's great for your stress level, great for your cardio vascular system and will make everything else so much more tolerable!

Blissfully,

Chrystal, The Toy Diva

http://www.blissconnection.com/

Recession Proof your Romantic Life

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 04:56:00 +0000

This blog is going to be an experiment in "A Little Help from my Friends" theory. I am going to give you some ideas here about how to keep your romantic life (a polite way to say sex life) alive while the financial news brings us all down.

I am going to give you some ideas here based on my own personal ideas and some fun ideas from our customers. One of the best things about doing Pleasure Parties is learning from our customers at our parties so I am also going so share some ideas I have learned from them!

I am also going to share this with my friends who own their own businesses and ask them to comment on my blog and link to their websites and make you special offers to help all of us keep our Romantic Life interesting even as all of our retirments shrink and we watch our portfolios go down down down.

So, let's see how many ideas we can come up with that are either FREE or very affordable.

Let's start with DATE NIGHT. No, it's not spontaneous but who cares. It ends in sex (or atleast spooning) and that's what matters here. When we are super busy with work, kids, family and bills sometimes we need to put a date night on our calendar. We schedule time for play dates for our kids so why not with our partners, too? Date night does not have to be expensive. Some of my customers go out for a quick dinner while the babysitter watches the kids and puts the kids to bed. Then, they drive home, pay the babysitter and then go back out to the car in the garage (bring the baby monitor if you have to) and have a hot make out session and LOUD SEX in the backseat of their car in the garage without fear of waking up the kids. Brings back memories of high school and it's new and different and a nice change of pace.

Don't forget about your backyard! For those of us who love outdoor sex, the backyard is a perfect and AFFORDABLE place to have fun. Now that it gets dark so much earlier, it's safe to sneak a quickie in the backyard. Put your kids jungle gym or the hot tub to good use! Bring some blankets out to the backyard and pretend you're at the drive in or at the park and enjoy. Being naked outdoors will heighten all of your senses and feel super naughty even though you're in the sanctuary of your own home. (Just ask any of my customers who have had sex on their balcony, in a hotel room with the curtains open or at the beach under a sleeping bag! You know who you are!) Don't forget the EROS lubricant if you're going to get busy in the jacuzzi. Keeps everything lubricated even under water.

How about dusting off some of those toys you have stored away in the bankers box in your closet? I know you are all guilty of buying toys, lotions and potions that you never even use! I hate to hear that. Pull the box down, dust them off, clean the toys with a baby wipe and have some fun. Or go check out a local adult store and that may remind you of some of the products you still have at home sitting in the drawer. Just do some window shopping and take a look at all of the latest and greatest. Or how about sitting down at the computer together and browse my online store at http://www.blissconnection.com/ and browse it together. That is FREE and may lead to some fun. Sometimes all we need is a little inspiration.

Slip a note into your partners purse, wallet, briefcase or jacket pocket. Just make a slight suggestion and a promise of more fun to come later....something like "meet me in the bedroom at 9pm" is all you really need to say. Or maybe make a promise of something more explicit, but honestly, just a general suggestion can go a long ways to giving both of your imaginations a work out. Anticipation is sometimes as good as the act itself, right?

Do you know how to send a text message? Send your partner a naughty text message or maybe a little picture with a hint of cleavage or a pic of your newest lingerie on the hanger. :) Excite your partner visually and see what happens. Or send a naughty email invitation to your partner. Just be sure to keep the text message, picture message or the email on the clean side as you never know where it could end up. Never send anything you wouldn't want the whole world to see.

Many of you know I am a big proponent of the saying "Flattery will get you everywhere." Flattery is VERY CHEAP and very easy to give out. Just make sure it's sincere! Notice the things you love about your partner and rememeber to say them out loud. Notice what he is wearing, notice when he smells good, notice her new hair color, notice his eyebrows, notice his strong hands, thank her when she cleans the kitchen, thank her sincerely when she folds your laundry. Thanking someone and giving someone a sincere compliment can create a sense of well being and can inspire confidence in your partner. It's FREE, it helps your relationship, and it builds good will. When you feel appreciated it creates some"grace" for the future when you forget to thank them or flatter them. Good feelings and good will create a peaceful atmosphere which leads to more sex and intimacy and better feelings all around.

How about a ride in the car? It worked in the 50's and that created a BABY BOOM! Well, ok, there were other reasons for the baby boom - but remember parking? Drive somewhere and park the car and see what happens. It only costs you a little petrol and a little time. You will be surprised how hot in can be and will bring back great memories, too. Go to MAKE OUT point and make out with your partner. Kissing always creates good will.

Ok, so here is where the "little help from my friends" comes in. I am going to ask my friends that own businesses to comment with any BLISS specials they would like to give away to help you RECESSION PROOF your romantic life by offering you discounts.

I ran into my friend Jenny this weekend at my friend Erika's wedding and she is the owner of http://www.ayomalifespa.com/ and she has extended an offer to all of my customers who come to the spa at the Hotel Valencia. Mention Bliss and get 25% off any services they offer at their gorgeous spa! http://www.ayomalifespa.com/ Call or email Jenny there and book your appointment right away and start reducing your stress, save some money and relax. Let's stress leads to great romance! Go as a couple and each get a treatment. Imagine the fun you will have when you get home.

Ok, let's hear about some more RECESSION BUSTERS!

Blissfully, Chrystal http://www.blissconnection.com/

Naughty Cocktail Recipes for your Bliss Pleasure Party

noreply@blogger.com (Curvy Girl Lingerie in San Jose) — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 03:37:00 +0000

Well, some people call alcohol social lubrication. I like that term alot.

Here are some of the naughty cocktail recipes we suggest for our Bliss Pleasure Parties.
We know that our customers sometimes like to have a cocktail or two at our Bliss
parties, so here are some fun recipes you can also build a theme around. Just keep
in mind that too much booze really ruins a party. Make sure your friends aren't
drinking too much and please remind everyone to assign a designated driver or
make your Bliss party a slumber party.

Knock You Naked Margarita
12 oz frozen limeade
12 oz of 7 up
12 oz of tequila
12 oz Corona
Mix together and serve like a martini or cosmo. I like the salted rims, but then
I prefer margaritas with salt.
Thank you to my hostess Yvonne in the 95124

Citron My Face
12 oz Vodka (Citron Vodka)
18 oz Sprite
12 oz Sweet & Sour Mixer
6-8 oz Cranberry Juice
Mix all together and serve!

Get Lei’d
3/4 oz Raspberry Pucker liqueur1 oz Vodka6 oz Pineapple juice1 splash Cranberry juice
Pink Panty Dropper Punch1 750ml bottle of vodka (a fifth)3 oz Lemon juice or 1 can of lemonade concentrate9 oz jar of maraschino cherries2 L SpritePour it all, including the juice from the cherry jar into a punch bowl and serve. Wear a belt.

Hawaiian Screw*
2 oz Vodka* Orange juice* Pineapple juiceMixing instructions:pour over ice in regular glass. Add pineapple and orange juice to taste. Sort of like a regular screwdriver except with a tropical twist!

Coochy
2 parts light rum1 part triple sec2 parts pineapple juiceblend, serve in exotic glass with a (what else) cherry

Pink Panty Droppers
Ice cubes1/2 oz Rum (Bacardi)1/2 oz Vodka (Absolut)1/2 oz Gin (Tanqueray)1/4 oz Triple sec1 splash Cranberry juice1 splash Pineapple juiceMixing instructions:Shake drink in a regular shaker. Garnish with a cherry

Kumoniwannalaya
Ingredients:2 oz Gin1/2 oz Triple sec

Fuzzy Hoo Ha Punch
2 firm ripe peaches or a bag of frozen peaches
½ cup peach schnappes
1/3 cup superfine granulated sugar
3 Cups of chilled rose wine (750 ml bottle)
2 cups chilled sparkling water
Stir together the peaches, schnappes, and suger in a large
Pitcher until sugar is dissolved an let stand 1 hour.
Stir in wine, sparkling water and maybe a little ice.
Frozen peaches can work as ice. You can use fresh
Peaches when they are in season.
T.Y. to my Hostess Vannesa in the 95118

Schlong Island Iced Tea
1 part vodka1 part tequila1 part rum
1 part gin1 part triple sec1 1/2 parts sweet and sour mix
1 splash Coca-Cola®
Mix ingredients together over ice in a glass. Pour into a shaker and give one brisk shake. Pour back into the glass and make sure there is a touch of fizz at the top. Garnish with lemon.

BETTER THAN SEX CHOCOLATE CAKE:
1 (18 1/2 oz.) pkg. German chocolate cake mix1 c. semi-sweet chocolate chips1/2 (14 oz.) can sweetened condensed milk1/2 jar caramel sauce 12 oz. carton frozen whipped topping, thawed 3 Heath bars, crushed
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease and flour 9x13x2 inch pan. Prepare cake mix as directed on package; pour into prepared pan. After 10 minutes of baking, sprinkle with chocolate chips. Continue baking until cake is done
While cake is still hot, poke holes in it with handle of wooden spoon. Pour sweetened condensed milk over cake; let cool.
Top with caramel sauce, then whipped topping.
Sprinkle with candy bars. 12 to 16 servings