Child Education

WHEN YOUR CHILD PASS IN EXAM

2012-08-22T23:08:00.001-07:00

That’s a very important moment for the parents when their child already passed the exam. Parents have to take very important decisions on this stage. For better understanding, our “Child Education Program Experts” decided to share a very interesting dialogue with a father who did not take right decisions on the success of his child and as a result the child never passed any further exam. Oh my God!!!. That’s terrible.

Child Education Team:- Sir, why are you sad?

Father:- Yes, I am. It’s because my child failed again.

Child Education Team:- How? Come on Sir, don’t joke. We remember, 2 years ago your child was on top position in the exam of entire province.

Father:- Yes you are right but I am not joking my dear.

Child Education Team:- That’s very sad to hear.

Father:- Yes. It is.

Child Education Team:- Have you tried to understand reasons?

Father:- Yes I tried a lot but in vain.

Child Education Team:- Well, can you tell us, in which class your child won top position?

Father:- 5^th Class and then “FULL STOP”

Child Education Team:- Sir, there are plenty of reasons why your child is being failure after getting top position in a tough competition.

Father:- Really? Please let me know. I am worried a lot about it.

Child Education Team:- Sir, You are only responsible for this result.

Father:- It’s wrong!. Who wants his child to be failed?

Child Education Team:- Off course! No father wants. Now, listen the reasons why a child sudden move from right tracks to the wrong one:-

1. When a child got good position, parents do congratulation but never discuss a future study plan for their child.

2. After good result, usually parents become relaxed that they don’t have to worry anymore because their child is already intelligent.

3. Parents don’t advise their Child to not be relaxed for further studies.

4. Parents don’t tell child that how difficult is to hold top position in second exam!!!!!.

5. Education is much difficult for those who take it easy and don’t spend time for it. Actually such children become over confident, which is disaster for their future.

Father:- Yes. You are right my friend.

Child Education Team:- We hope you understand now. Goodbye.

Father:- Thanks for this favour. Goodbye.

“WHEN YOUR CHILD FAIL IN EXAM”

2012-08-18T13:06:00.001-07:00

That’s a terrible moment for parents because after invested a lot of money, attention and the most important is “TIME” they got very bad result. This is the time for parent to control themselves and should not be so aggressive because its a matter of your “CHILD’S FUTURE”. As I am belonging to Pakistan, I have been viewed a lot of related incidents. Recently, the son of my friend failed in Secondary Exam (9^th Class). If we talk about the profession of my friend (M. Ibraham), he is a part of general labor in a private sector. When he saw the result of his son, he got aggressive and started beating his son. My friend was very angry; the reason is, his son wasted his lot of hard work.

The Child Education Team visited him yesterday night. There was a dialogue we like to share:-

Child Education Team:- Assalam-u-Alaikum (Islamic way to say hello)

Ibrahim:- W/Salaam

Child Education Team:- We are very sorry to hear about the result of your son.

Ibrahim:- Yes. It is.

Child Education Team:- Do you know the reason?

Ibrahim:- No. I provided all necessary facilities to my son, even sometimes I had not money for food but I took borrowed for his schooling fee.

Child Education Team:- Your son should care about it.

Ibrahim:- Well. He passed the previous exam with 70% marks.

Child Education Team:- Then what happened this time?

Ibrahim:- Don’t know.

Child Education Team:- Can you tell us the facilities you provided to him?

Ibrahim:- Cell phone, Computer with Internet, Bike, good daily pocket money & whatever he desires! because he is my only son. I have lot of expectations but I don’t know why he doesn’t careL.

Child Education Team:- How much you earn?

Ibrahim:- Rs.300/- daily.

Child Education Team:- In short budget, how you manage these facilities?

Ibrahim:- I do overtime.

Child Education Team:- Now listen, this is the moment to take right decisions. Don’t let your son alone, because he is facing lot of embarrassment and might do something bad.

Ibrahim:- I decided already that he will work with my factory because I can’t bear more lose of money.

Child Education Team:- Wow!!! Good. Then he will earn Rs.300 per day also. Friend, don’t do this!. We assure you that he will study with more care but in this matter your role will be very important.

Ibrahim:- What role now?

Child Education Team:- Find out the reasons why he failed.

Ibrahim:- I can’t, you know I am not educated.

Child Education Team:- Ok. Listen with care, First of all, stop his friendship with those friends who failed also because accompany does matter. Secondly, Don’t let him go the same School because their teachers are not responsible. They should have informed you that your son is not taking interest in studies. The third thing is get him admission where the teacher submits weekly report to parent.

Ibrahim:- I don’t know any School doing this.

Child Education Team:- Ok. We will find out a School in this Week. All you have to do is to treat your son with love and don’t lose your patience. Tell your son to learn from his mistakes. Don’t beat him. If possible, bring him somewhere where he likes. So his mind will be fresh again to continue his study.

Ibrahim:- Thanks a lot. If your team won’t visit me then I might take really bad decisions. I don’t want my son to do the same work as I do. Because I know it’s not a respected profession.

Child Education Team:- Inshallah (Islamic way to tell “Allah will do”)

Ibrahim:- Allah Hafiz (Islamic way to say goodbye)

GAMBIT MOVES BY PARENTS

2012-08-17T11:50:00.001-07:00

Child Education Program Team strongly recommends that at least Father should be a Chess player. Chess builds up the ability to feel high threads. There is a huge task for parents in the matter of Child’s Education. Parents should not think that their child is regularly going to school so that’s enough. Not at all. There are few GAMBIT MOVES BY PARENTS which they should play:-

Parents should set up a task for their child that if he/she passed with the requisite grade then there is a gift pending for him/her. In this way the child starts studying with more heart because of that gift!.

Alert from high thread means, if parents are smoker, then they should not smoke in front of their child, because in the absence of parents, the child might copy them.

Parents should provide sufficient funds to their child so they won’t ask from others.

The mind of child is like a Chess-Board. Parents have to understand the position that where his child is standing and which moves can lead him a bad future and which can brighter. Not only this example, there are a bundle of examples which prove that at least father should be a Chess-Player so he can play GAMBIT MOVES! for his child.

LET YOUR CHILD TO CHOOSE DESIRED STUDIES

2012-08-15T13:10:00.002-07:00

There is a major fault of parents that they put their personal wishes on their child. For example, mother wants her child to be a “Doctor” but child wants to be a “Photographer”. Ops!..that’s wrong. If such happens, child stops taking interest in studies because he/she has dreamed already to be a “Photographer” not a “Doctor”. So “LET YOUR CHILD TO CHOOSE DESIRED STUDIES” so they could continue with more passion. Parents should treat their child like very frank friends. Friends that child can share everything what’s in his mind. According to the research of our experts, the main reason of why education is lack here in Pakistan, it is due to the parents are not aware with their responsibilities as well as the rights of their child. Mr. Naeem Ullah, Senior Member of Child Education Program visited a city named Gujranwala and had discussion with a father who was beating his son. The dialogue is very interested that Child Education Program Team decided to share with our readers.

Mr.Naeem Ullah: Hey…Stop beating him.

Father: Why? Who are you?

Mr.Naeem Ullah: I said stop beating him, why are you doing this?

Father: He doesn’t obey me!

Mr.Naeem Ullah: Really? That’s bad. Please let me talk to your son. I am from Child Education Team.

Father: OK.

Mr.Naeem Ullah: What’s your name my son?

Boy: Ashraf, Sir.

Mr.Naeem Ullah: Why you don’t obey your father? See, how much he is worried about you. Can you realize his efforts for you?

Boy: Sir, I always obey my father. My father asking me to study “Law” but I am interested in “Multimedia Technologies”. I have plenty of research on it but my father doesn’t follow it. He doesn’t know the benefits of Multimedia Technologies.

Mr.Naeem Ullah: Oh yes. Multimedia Technologies is one of the best profession and peoples are much interested for it.

Boy: My father wants me to be a lawyer so I could earn much money, I assured my father many times that I can earn more money in the field of “Multimedia” but because my father have no knowledge about it that’s why he doesn’t like this studies.

Mr.Naeem Ullah: Ok My Son. Let me talk to your father. O Man, why you are putting your personal wishes on him. He is doing well and the profession he likes is very good.

Father: Hey Mr. put your advice into your pocket, I know what’s better. You want my son to be a jobless person? If he studies law then he will have many judicial cases and lot of income.

Mr.Naeem Ullah: Do you know what is “MULTIMEDIAL TECHNOLGIES”?

Father: I don’t need to know.

Mr.Naeem Ullah: Then how can you compare it with a jobless future?

Father: I said I don’t need to know about it. I just know that lawyer is a perfect profession for my son.

Mr.Naeem Ullah: You are making him doubled mind. He can’t be a lawyer if he doesn’t want and if you insist him a lot then he might appear in the exam of law but in fact his heart won’t be with him. Suppose, he becomes a lawyer but he won’t be a genius in his profession because he doesn’t want.

Father: I will beat him a lot again and again. You don’t have to worry. You can leave from here. Thank you.

Mr.Naeem Ullah: You only know father-rights not children-rights. Goodbye. Web Directories

ARRANGE TRIP TWICE A MONTH

2012-08-14T13:09:00.000-07:00

Daily schooling and then home, next day again the same routine. “Oh God”. Naturally by doing same thing is not interesting anymore. If parents don’t change the routine of their child then it will affect the progress of child’s mind. Everyone knows that a business needs a proper attention and look after. So, it’s the same with Child. Parents have to follow up the same rule. Parents should manage time and arrange family trips minimum twice a month. If parents do the same, then the next question is which place they should go twice a month? Because after one month there will be an issue for selecting the proper place for trip. First of all, parents have to find out the historical places in their city, best museum, bigger Zoo, Beach and parks etc. Parents should have to read out about the place they are going for trip. Because if child ask the question about the place then parents have to answer. In this way “the power to ask” of child will increase a lot. “Personal observation is better than reading just in books!”. If there is something important to share that could increase the knowledge of your child then parents have to share with the child even he/she does not ask!. Family trip having lot of benefits but the major benefit is child get chance to change the environment and refresh his/her mind. After the trip the child will be very fresh and much exited to share trip memories to their class-fellows.

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LET YOUR CHILD TO PARTICIPATE IN COMPETITIONS

2012-08-13T11:21:00.000-07:00

After schooling there are a lot of methods that how to increase the level of thinking and self-confidence of your child. The one of the greatest way is “LET YOUR CHILD TO PARTICIPATE IN DIFFERENT COMPETITIONS’. Suppose, if your child shows interest in Football/Cricket or Chess or whatever sports, just let him participate in different tournaments. Don’t bother your child about whatever the result will be. Parents can be helpful for their child on both conditions whether child wins or lose. Suppose, if he/she lose, then understand your child how to learn from our mistakes!!!. And if your child wins then try your best to understand him/her that how to keep it up winning track!!!. According to our expert team this is a greatest way to increase the self-confidence of your child.

Hope you like this. Next article will be “ARRANGE TRIPS TWICE A MONTH”

BE FRIEND OF YOUR CHILD

2012-08-11T23:31:00.000-07:00

Everyone needs friend but it’s not sure that all friends are good. Some friends are bad and some are very good like real brothers!. Parents should monitor the friends of their child. If a friend having bad habits, the bad habits can be transferred into your child because they are friends. They spend time together. In this case parents should be alert and as they find out such friend, they should play their role. Never stop your child to make friends. Psychological a child having more friends, his/her attitude will be very friendly and polite and if you stop your child from making new friends, then this stopping can be a FULL STOP on his/her mind’s progress. They will feel hesitate always. So, if your child is boy, then the father should play his role as a friend and being friends he will teach child with good things and if your child is girl, then the mother of child should play her role so the mind’s progress of your child keep growing.

Next article will be:-

“TELL YOUR CHILD TO PARTICIPATE COMPETITIONS”

BUILDING MIND OF YOUR CHILD

2012-08-10T11:20:00.001-07:00

BUILDING MIND OF YOUR CHILD.

Building mind of Child is very important issue. As Child started school, parents have to monitor. They have to watch the interests of child. We strongly recommend that parents should not stop their child from the things they want to do. If parents stop their child to do anything they don’t want then the natural abilities of child never grow. Child used to feel limited what should not be. The mind of child never feels independent. Every time he/she wants to do anything, they sudden remember that may be their parents won’t like this whether they are going to do good or bad. This act of parents makes their child a psychological patient. In short the child feels fear in every work. Such Child doesn’t have decision power which is a major fault in the process of building your child’s mind. Let your child play what he/she wants to. So, the confidence of your child could be higher.

Coming Soon “BE FRIEND OF YOUR CHILD”

SCHOOLING SELECTION

2012-08-09T12:06:00.002-07:00

I hope you liked the previous article on Neighbour Environment and I hope again that my readers will like this article also. Our Child Education Team done a lot of research!!!!.

SCHOOLING SELECTION

Most parents usually got confused in the matter of selection of a good school for their beloved child. Its because there are a lot of schools in every area/town/city. So, its very hard to choose a better school anyway. Our experts made some visits of schools and got a lot of information which is necessary for all parents who has a very younger child. Our experts doing work a lot to gather basic knowledge regarding Child Education.

EXPERT’S OPINION REGARDING SCHOOLING!!!

When the child 4-years old the parents should get him admission in a school. But in the case of selecting a school, parents should understand that this is an important matter and may be this relates to the future of Child. The following points are very important to understand:-

Parents should visit maximum 4 to 5 schools, these schools should be near from their house so the transportation won’t problem.
Don’t’ go on the reputations of schools, personally visit and know their way to educate children.
Try to find out parents of those students who are already studying in those schools.
Talk those parents and ask the progress of their children, don’t forget to ask them if they are convinced from the school.
If you convinced from 2 schools then choose who has better playing area.
Make sure the school you are going to select has “Chess” education also.

The next article “Building Your Child’s Mind” will be published sooner J.

NEIGHBOUR ENVIRONMENT

2012-08-07T03:24:00.003-07:00

Hello Readers, hope you enjoyed my previous article and today you will also J

NEIGHBOUR ENVIRONMENT

After the home environment parents have to manage the neighbour environment for Child. Because as Child grow, he/she starts learn a lot may be double than before. The reason is his/her mind is growing up and has more ability to understand things. This age we are talking is before schooling. Child usually goes outside from home because there already the same aged kids. Parents should understand that this age is very sensitive for Child, because Child don’t understand what he/she going to hold, may be electric wires, hot water, fridge, iron etc and also don’t know its damage. Parents should allow Child to play with clean children’s because you know dirty kids have lot of viruses which will be caused of some strong diseases like tuberculosis etc. The most important things are in this age the child can’t protect him/her self from the major accidents. For example if you let your child play without monitoring, your child might hit some thing in eyes so the mistake of parents will be remembered all life. This child not only hit something in eyes but can jump from chair or table and his/her bones might be broken. So such kind of instructions especially parents should always remember when their child is very younger.

The next article “Schooling Selection” will be published sooner J.

CHILD EDUCATION

2012-08-05T13:30:00.004-07:00

Child education is most important matter for parents. There are few important points which every parent should understand and follow-up for the successful education for their Child. Every point has been deeply analyzed. This article makes itself different than others because we worked a lot for the pointing out the major mistakes/faults by parents for the educating their Child. Here we start from the zero level:-

· HOUSE ENVIRONMENT

The parent’s responsibility starts from the time of Child’s birth. A Child is like a blank paper where parent can write anything what they want but some parents due to lack of education don’t know how to start educating Child. From the very early age, Child starts learning from the environment of house, for example, if parents use to abusing each other or use bad attitude in front of Child, then the Child will might have bad attitude. Parents should create an environment from which Child learns a lot of good things. Like, if parents are educated they will use nice wording to each other, they do respect or they do sensible things etc, the child will learn from parents attitude in the early age.

A DIALOGUE WITH UN-EDUCATED PARENTS

Me and my friends as well as we were doing work on Child Education Program, we decided to visit a city (Sheikhupura, Pakistan) for survey. We went to a village and started our work. We met a family. That family had 7 kids. The father of those kids was a farmer and the mother just a house wife. First of all we asked the father about his qualification, he said he is un-educated as well as his wife also. There was a dialogue started which are as under:-

Child Education Team:- Why you decided to have 7 kids?

Farmer:- That’s what God wanted. We just tried.

Child Education Team:-Have you planned for their education?

Farmer:- Well. lets see what God wants.

Child Education Team:-Do you understand that your Children are old enough for schooling?

Farmer:- I don’t think so.

Child Education Team:-But your elder Child is already 12 years old!

Farmer:- Then? They are my children, I know what to do.

Child Education Team:-How much you earn from agricultural business?

Farmer:- Its enough for me and my family’s feeding.

Child Education Team:-Look there, your 3 kids are nude and dirty.

Farmer:- They are enjoying their life. Don’t worry.

Child Education Team:- Don’t you want your children get higher education?

Farmer:- No need.

Child Education Team:-do you know you are doing bad with your children?

Farmer:- How?

Child Education Team:- You should teach manners to them and if they are old enough, you should arrange for their schooling so they will know the real purpose of their life.

Farmer:- We can’t do anything. Whatever happened its due to God’s approval.

Child Education Team:-Do you know you are destroying the life of your kids?... its better you did not have them so their life’s won’t destroyed by you.

Farmer:- No. I don’t. I give them food 2x a day. How can I destroy their life?

Child Education Team:-According to your mind, your responsibility is only food?

Farmer:- What else?

Child Education Team:- Oh.. Man, aside of food, you have to arrange for their education, so they could be

Farmer:- Don't bother me. You can go from here.

Child Education Team:-OK...

Dear Readers, i hope you have read the dialogue with an un-educated father, who only knows how to make kids but don't know how to educate them. He even don't know the basic needs. He has narrow minded which is really bad for his children.Here we can understand that how important is educated parents for their kids. Suppose, if parents are not educated but at least they should try their level best to show their childs that they are educated. They can copy educated parents just to put a good impression to their kids. The next point will be published soon..