"GODS DREAMS FOR ME"

Linger in His Embrace ~ I Am, Who I Am

2012-02-23T14:30:00.000-10:00

It brought so many memories of my past with Jesus. Bonnie's topic of 'What Attracts You to Jesus' had me thinking through so much since last week. The one part of Him that is constant is the first thing that ever really drew me to His heart...

I can be who I am with Him. Crazy, messed up, frustrated, sometimes jealous and envious. He works it all out with me. The amount I can love, the time I can give, the hope, joy, and faith in me, is all enough for Him.

Linger in His embrace. I love to linger here with Him. I don't have to measure up to anyone else. He embraces me right here and allows me space to become. No dressing up. No fancy words. No make-up...lol. It's so restful here.

Some History:

High School was a world of pressure. To fit in. Dressing, acting, doing, all as only acceptable to the peers. The talents and skills had to excel in order to be admired. One wrong move and you become despised. One day everyone could totally like you and the next, ignored. I lose breath just thinking about it. I did have many good times and friends too.

Motherhood was a world of the latest parenting magazine tips. How many home cooked meals versus take out. Who's children are best behaved. You could be exhausted, but don't dare look it. The mom who was on top of it all, level-headed, and pleasant despite it all wore the halo. When I found my niche, the comfort in my own skin let me be the mom they truly needed.

When I became a Christian, I thought that was all over. I was wrong. First, let me say that I was just exposed to my own experience. It doesn't mean every Christian or church is this way. My experience combined all of high school and motherhood in one. You not only had to have it altogether, but you had to serve tirelessly to be right in their eyes. I finally gave it all up and did my best for Him with what I already had.

Let's Move on: Moving through the ugly, let's just talk beautiful truth.

Jesus never asked us to be perfect or expect perfection of others ~ His love completes me and perfects me as I love others where they are, from where I am.

Nor, does he ask us to exhaust ourselves ~ He himself often rested well to refresh for the next time of serving. He invites us to real rest in His company.

He never said we should work hard to become like Him ~ He wants to be who He is in and through us via the unique gifts, skills, and personality He's instilled in us.

Jesus' unconditional love for me is what attracted me to Him. He welcomed me to be who I was. He continues to welcome me to be who I am right where I'm at. I'm constantly drawn to be with Him knowing this. My imperfections, failures, wrong words, never changes how much He loves me.

Soul Refreshment:

Galatians 6:14-16 ~
For my part, I am going to boast about nothing but the Cross of our Master, Jesus Christ. Because of that Cross, I have been crucified in relation to the world, set free from the stifling atmosphere of pleasing others and fitting into the little patterns that they dictate.

Can't you see the central issue in all this? It is not what you and I do—submit to circumcision, reject circumcision. It is what God is doing, and he is creating something totally new, a free life! All who walk by this standard are the true Israel of God—his chosen people. Peace and mercy on them!

Your turn, my turn:

I invite you to a time of lingering with Him just as you are. In the good, bad, in-between of all you are. I'll be doing the same.

He welcomes and accepts us best right here...and...You'll find yourself more drawn to be with Him because He does.

How I Upset Our Family Rhythm and Found Gentleness and Grace

2012-02-20T09:42:00.003-10:00

It wasn't just about a having one bad day. This was more to do with having too many off days. I was beginning to mistreat the ones closest to me. I didn't like who I was becoming. The day-to-day seemed so insignificant. I lost the motivation to live out my everyday dreams and bigger dreams....

Today I'm guest posting at Sisters In Bloom. I'm so blessed to invite you there to read on about losing my God-rhythm and still somehow finding a path He paved from the upset to gentleness and grace. It's a continuous process for me.

See you all there. You're invited over too guys. God Bless You

In God's Love, Jeri

Photos and a Guest Post

2012-02-17T17:43:00.002-10:00

Valentine's Day, my first time babysitting Ezie, and being with people I love. It's been an amazing week.

Top left: Sneaking one in. Top Right: What a pair. They're amazed by each other.
Bottom left: My Diva's...much love. Bottom right: Her Valentine's gift for him.

Monday, 2/20/12 ~

I'll be guest posting over at Sisters in Bloom. I'll have a lead in post from here. I'm so excited.

Guys, please don't hesitate to head on over and read in. I fess up on a time I messed up with David. But, ah grace.

With You in Mind ~

Have a blessed weekend and may it be filled with whatever you're needing in rest, fun, adventure, or __________(you fill in that blank).

As always make time for unwrapping little joys and discovering small wonders He's gifted to us. Then go ahead and linger in them.

With His Help ~ Vulnerable

2012-02-16T12:34:00.001-10:00

The whole family --
God's grace alone makes us a whole and complete family - love, joy, and wonder for sure.
Here is where I'm safe to be just who and how I truly am.

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I struggle with how vulnerable I should allow myself to be. Too many past experiences of betrayal, defamation, dare I say it - backstabbing. Harsh words for me to write here today. I'd rather write about beauty, joys, and wonders. You know what? Even in that past I've found just those three things among a few other sweet treasures.

What's the cost when we stand bare in the wide open space of community? What comes after we take a brave step to share a part of our soul? What words will be spoken when we share our hopes and dreams?

The hope is almost always to be welcomed, accepted, understood, and supported. In all of this we long to be loved unconditionally.

Reality takes it toll with sticks, stones, and sometimes cruelty. Guess what? It also surprises with gifts of cheers for keeping on. It soothes and comforts with the unwrapping of consolation and shared tears. It nourishes when it surrounds us with the beauty of those who accept, love, and support us. The best part is when our imperfections are welcomed. What a treasure to find them.

God is my reality. So of whom shall I be afraid. Yet, I am. Then again, God is my reality. So, with his help we can stand in the wide open, yet not alone. Community surrounds us. Even if with only one other person, there we stand together. There's nothing we can't do when we have that and being vulnerable isn't as scary. An amazing treasure that He is with us too. Woohoo!

The first step is to know who we are. Let God show us who we really are and let go of who everyone else says we are or should be. Next, let God show us "how" we are to be. Not influenced by comparison, but motivated by His gifts, talents, and skills in us. Then, live out who we are and how we are to be out of love for Jesus. Let go of the people pleasing and applause. God has a circle of chosen lives to surround us and love us in all our vulnerability. Of course, we then give it all to others allowing them to be safely vulnerable as well.

With His Help:
~ May we surround ourselves with ones who's company makes us feel fuller
when we leave.
~ May we be who we truly are to find the one's who accept us right where
we're at.
~ May the beauty and wonder of that kind of love be our motivation for
vulnerability. Even as we overcome the fear to be so.
~ My we never fail to give freely what is given to us .

My current season has me desiring a steady flow of encouragement and tenderness. What are you needing in your season?

Soul Food:

Psalm 18:16-19 ~
But me he caught—reached all the way from sky to sea; he pulled me out Of that ocean of hate, that enemy chaos, the void in which I was drowning. They hit me when I was down, but God stuck by me. He stood me up on a wide-open field; I stood there saved—surprised to be loved!

Ecclesiastes 4:12 ~

Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

Psalm 119:41-48 ~

Let your love, God, shape my life

with salvation, exactly as you promised;

Then I'll be able to stand up to mockery

because I trusted your Word.

Don't ever deprive me of truth, not ever—

your commandments are what I depend on.

Oh, I'll guard with my life what you've revealed to me,

guard it now, guard it ever;

   And I'll stride freely through wide open spaces
      as I look for your truth and your wisdom;
   Then I'll tell the world what I find,
      speak out boldly in public, unembarrassed.
   I cherish your commandments—oh, how I love them!—
      relishing every fragment of your counsel.

A Valentine's Day for All

2012-02-14T16:52:00.000-10:00

A favorite memory of mine as a single parent is of the boys and I going out to a fancy restaurant for Valentine's Day. They learned to open the door and pull out my chair for me along with those "eating out" manners. They looked so handsome all dressed up and using their knives like little men. I just loved it.

Another memory is us single friends going out together on Valentine's Day. We would act the fools and have a blast. Of course, the indulgent dessert was the "ooh and ah" of our evening. We had the best fun.

This will be our 17th Valentine's Day. David and I talk about how it used to be just a romantic holiday. But both coming from singles to married with children, we now see that love is given and received in so many different ways. Love comes in so many different forms.

Strangers, singles, friends, families, and marriages show the diversity of love freely given.

Today, I pray that the love Jesus has for you become more real deep in your soul and spirit. May his love root deeply in your heart so you will know every moment - You are truly loved just for who you are and right where you are at.

God Bless and have an amazing Valentine's Day. I had a blast writing this to you on the spur of the moment. Always in my heart and prayers -- Yes, you are.

From our hearts to yours:

Ephesians 3:17-19 ~

And I ask him that with both feet planted firmly on love, you'll be able to take in with all followers of Jesus the extravagant dimensions of Christ's love. Reach out and experience the breadth!
Test its length!
Plumb the depths!
Rise to the heights!
Live full lives, full in the fullness of God.

A Gift from Ann at A Holy Experience: Counting joys in February. I hope to link each month for you all.

Week in Photos ~ BFF's and Sunset

2012-02-10T15:04:00.000-10:00

I'm so happy to take a break in my day and have time to share a quick peek into our lives. It's been awhile since our last week in photos. We've been "lingering" which has made for letting go of a few things in our schedules. We may not be able to every week, but as we're able I will be happy to share a few moments in our week.

My fave photo this week ~ BFF's on a sunset walk. We stopped to rest and saw that golden gift in the sky. I just had to capture the calm warmth it brought. Smiles all the way home.

Have a wonderful weekend. May you find time to linger in who and what fills you up.

Notes To the Ones...

2012-02-09T14:09:00.000-10:00

To the ones who teach me love in belonging in the way you accept me into your lives.

I should have no longer been received by you as our ties were seemingly severed. Yet, you continued to call me family. You light up when I walk in. Your smile, from ear to ear, hugely and definitely love. You hug like you haven't seen me in a long time, every time.

Your heart unwrapped the depth and wideness of how God wants us to belong. You teach me to make space in my heart for others who were not my family either and they became so. Wouldn't you know they brought more love with them.

To the ones who teach me love in forgiveness and helped set me free from that prison of bitterness.

I didn't deserve that you would set me free of all I said to hurt you. All I did that put fear in your heart. How you felt unprotected, alone, and rejected by who I used to be. Your heart of forgiveness and reconciliation restores me. You unwrap love in God's grace and mercy in me and through me.

You teach me to forgive and even understand that reconciliation may not always be possible. But, I thank God for us it is. I'm learning to give forgiveness freely and often.

To the ones who teach me to soar through your selfless life-words.

You write to encourage me in my interests and dreams. Your spoken words inspire me to stay true to who God has made me.

I often compare myself, my God gifts and God dreams to others. You gently tell me what you see in me. You remind me that all I do is uniquely tailored by God. You tenderly keep me grounded on my adventures.

You revel in the small and big wonders I discover. You celebrate in the simple and amazing joys I find. You unwrap the true meaning of being God's masterpiece by your transparency and solid counsel.

To you who let me be imperfect in my frustrations, chaos, and in the "not-so-awesome" choices I might make.

You set me free from pressure and expectations that are not from God. Instead, you unwrap the beauty of who He is in and through my struggles, challenges, downfalls, and outright sin.

You have unwrapped love in Jesus as my Redeemer, Savior, Friend, and lover of my soul...Just as I am.

All of you have given me the gift becoming. All of you allow me to process and progress at my own pace. All of you give and teach me true love.

To the ones who are strangers in my everyday. You smile or nod. You might even say hello. You hold open the store doors for me. You pick up the napkin I dropped. You genuinely compliment me on my family, self, or an item you like. You write to tell me wonderful things and yet I have never met you. I watch you help someone else you don't know. I see you let another go ahead of you.

You unwrap the mystery of love in how we don't know each other and yet you reach out and fill my heart in the everyday. I learn to share that kind of love with others because of you.

Soul Food:

Ephesians 3:16-19 ~

I ask him to strengthen you by his Spirit—

not a brute strength but a glorious inner strength—

that Christ will live in you as you open the door and invite him in.

And I ask him that with both feet planted firmly on love,

you'll be able to take in with all followers of Jesus

the extravagant dimensions of Christ's love.

Reach out and experience the breadth! Test its length!

Plumb the depths! Rise to the heights!

Live full lives, full in the fullness of God.

1 John 4:16-18 ~

And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.

This is how love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment: In this world we are like Jesus.

There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

With You in Mind:

~ May you find ways to unwrap love by the example of others in your lives.
~ May you discover love in unique ways.

Quiet Places - Empty Spaces

2012-02-07T13:54:00.001-10:00

Quiet places are so healing. To just sit without distraction or occupation. The peace and calm somehow bring a rest and refreshing. A hike, a back deck, a long easy walk, or even the couch when no one's home. So silent.

Empty spaces create wanting. It long to be filled with something, anything. The hunger for fulfillment lives here. That can be a wonderful thing when filled with the right things for each of us. If not, it can be chaos and heartache. I've known that pain. Sometimes it revisits me.

Oh, when I enter my quiet place with God and bring Him my downcast, unfulfilled, and dark "nothingness", He speaks life into me. Jesus fills my empty spaces with ideas, dreams, and creativity. He satisfies me with His unconditional love. He shines beauty, wonder, and unspeakable joys that illuminate my emptiness. I love to linger here with Him.

With You in Mind:
~ And your quiet places? Where do you go? Will you go there and linger with Him? Stay for awhile.

~ Your empty spaces? What do you fill it with? Who do you fill it with?

~ Can I pray for your empty spaces this week? It would be such a privilege to do so.

~ As always I hope you know that I pray for you who quietly visit too.

Our Prayer Request:
Will you pray for David and myself? We are both hungering for building time together. Life happened, good things too! So good, that we realize we've missed out on almost two months of our own time. Thank you so much for doing so.

Soul Refreshment:
Ezekiel 36:36 ~ The nations around you that are still in existence will realize that I, God, rebuild ruins and replant empty waste places. I, God, said so, and I'll do it.

Untethered and Disconnected

2012-02-02T14:00:00.000-10:00

Life doesn't happen perfectly and I'm a completely imperfect woman.

God's gift of community helps me celebrate the joys in life and gets me through the crazy, low, and hopeless days. They get me through the many chaotic days I might not get to talk about.

What disconnected me:

There are many circumstances that cause isolation and loneliness. For myself it was illness. One day in 2006 my health went awry. It forced me to live indoors and isolated 4 months.

To make my long story, a little shorter we’ll skip all the illness part and talk about the dreams and friendships God brought.

I never realized how busy it kept David and I. In the following year I found I had become untethered from my friendships. It wasn’t anyone’s fault. For a few months we tried to get together, text, email, whatever we could. The fact was our lives had changed long before. Our children had become adults. New goals and dreams were in place.

New community:

I’d never thought about my family as my primary community. The first person I reconnected with was David. We started enjoying each other. We turned off the television.

We talked about anything -- silly, funny, whatever, important, dreams.

We played together -- table games, with our dog.

We rested together -- prayed, read, slow walks ( I could only walk toddler pace then)
Planned together -- now parents of adult children, we could plan a new future.

It started with a new friend:

Annette is my hairdresser/hairstylist. We always chit-chatted before I got sick. But, once I was able to visit her again, it all changed. Got brought a new friend. We started talking about our lives, our struggles, our joys and dreams. We prayed together. Shared God together. All because I shared about what God was doing through my illness.

She calls me her second Mom. I have a friend and daughter. She encourages my dreams and cheers me on. She loves me enough to tell me when I'm out of place too. I love that about her. She's amazing.

New neighbors moved in on both sides of us. Those two women would become a huge support and sweet friends. One of them has since moved away. As my health improved I could play outside with the kids and be a kid myself.

Fast forward:

I rediscovered my camera and began to see my world through God’s eyes, His lens. It was amazing. I truly healed physically through this new love. The creating makes my heart beat a little faster.

Our family came together again in November 2010. Times at our home, family meals together, going out together, hanging out and my favorite is that we can really talk about things. Real life issues. The ones who never hugged before are now reformed huggers. We can argue, disagree, and still have love.

I rediscovered my young girl dream. Writing. I’d forgotten. God didn’t. I’d always written songs. Then God added to it. He remembered and gifted it to me two years ago. Writing life-words in finding simple joys and discovering small wonders in my everyday to share with all.

Tethered and connected to family and you:

Family was my undiscovered wonder of community. I see them different now. I’d taken them for granted. I’ve found community online too. If I hadn’t gotten sick. If I hadn’t found my family again and let truly let them in, I would never have been brave enough to adventure knowing all of you. I would’ve never picked up my camera, pen, and laptop.

Wonderful quiet ones who slip in and visit, you are community too.

Soul Refreshment:

Jeremiah 31:22 ~
God will create a new thing in this land: A transformed woman will embrace the transforming God!”

Psalm 16: 3 ~
And these God-chosen lives all around -- what splendid friends they make!

Jeremiah 30:19-20 ~
Thanksgivings will pour out of the windows;
   laughter will spill through the doors.
Things will get better and better.
   Depression days are over.
They'll thrive, they'll flourish.
   The days of contempt will be over.

A prayer for you/us:

Lord, I pray that any who feels untethered and disconnected will find acceptance and belonging in you. I believe you will bring the best people for them, into their lives. Ones who will encourage and uplift. Ones who will love unconditionally and truthfully.

I pray you take all our preconceived notions of community and relationships and replace them with your truth of connecting and belonging. Take away all untrue fantasies of what it should be like. Let us be who we really are, right where we’re at and bring the ones who will love us because of it. In Jesus Name, Amen.

The FaithJammers are sharing thoughts on
"Community" today. Come on over.

An idea for getting to know more people.
We're hosting in Honolulu.

Let's Get 'Er Done...and fast!

2012-01-31T10:00:00.000-10:00

My fave slippers to help me slow on our walks

It's morning! Eyes pop open. Jump out of bed. Get ready quick!

Move! Move! Move! Next...

Downstairs. Breakfast. Dishes. Work. Quick break.

Move! Move! Move! Next...

Can anyone relate? Out of breath yet?

I'm a recovering "let's get 'er done and fast" girl. I was always focusing a few steps ahead.

It's been 7 years now and I'm still going through the process of slow-flow. Every year gets more calm and peaceful. I love it! Less of a marathon and more like a jog. I can actually have a conversation and fully breathe.

Everything I did in chores, activities, and even down time all had a clock and stopwatch. My dreams had a "rush" stamped on them too. I had to stuff as much as I could into not just one day, but each hour. Crazy!

You know what I've found and am still becoming aware of? Rushing through life makes me an unhappy grouch. It makes me unpleasant to be around. I set a terribly uneasy tone in my own home. No one can relax.

I've been down with a bad cold the last two weeks. A forced slow-flow. The past two days I've felt better. Wouldn't you know it? I wanted to dive right back into everything.

This morning, I stopped myself. Walked back over to the bed and prayed. "Lord, I need to linger in the slow. Show me how."

Here's how it all went after that:

Wake up slowly
Get out of bed slowly
Move slowly and softly
Reach for _________ gently
Open the closet gently
Get dressed slowly, calmly
Walk slow, gentle steps
Brush slowly and gently
Look in the mirror and smile softly
Smooth the bedspread slowly, gently

Lingering in the slow and gentle softened me. I felt so relaxed. I became mindful of the morning light and sounds. I intently set the pace for our home. My day was completely productive without the rush and push.

This is what opens me up to the joys and wonders God breaths into my everyday -- Lingering with Him in the slow-flow.

Soul Refreshment

Psalm 23:3 ~ True to your word, you let me catch my breath (refresh me)
and send me in the right direction.

Isaiah 52:12 ~ But you don't have to be in a hurry.
You're not running from anybody!

Your turn

Are you a "let's get 'er done and fast" person?

In progress like me?

Have you learned to slow-flow?

I'd love to read about it.

If you've quietly slipped in, you're invited to ponder the "rush and slow-flow" and find where you're at.

Dabee and Yaya Adventures Begin

2012-01-26T15:37:00.000-10:00

I remember David and I lying in bed one night thinking of what we'd like our grandchild to call us.

David's a funny guy so he went along the lines of a few nicknames he gives himself. Dabeed, Dabeedoo, and more. He cut that short and it became Dabee. I had Reid look up Hispanic terms for grandmother. Somewhere in there we found that Yaya was slang for grandma. It totally matched the playfulness in me.

I told everyone I could the story. When he's old enough to talk people will ask him, "Where are you going today?" and he'll answer, "I'm going to Dabee and Yaya's house." Sounds fun right?! When he's in college it won't sound so bad either. I can just hear his "man" voice saying it.

The grandparent adventure was a surprise. We hadn't planned ahead for that one, but we talked about getting our health in order and lives in order so we'd be healthy for our grandkids. Thank goodness, I'm well enough to really enjoy our grandson and have fun. This one truly helps me linger in each moment of the adventure.

We planned for the adventure of empty nesting. We heard so many stories of people not looking forward to it and becoming depressed. So, we planned for it. When each of the boys turned 17, we got ourselves ready for them becoming independent. Not to say it was easy watching our first son fly, but it did help to have plans for what we would do when they went off on their own. Like traveling, saving, and living different dreams. Parenting adult children is a blessing and challenge. So worth the bonding.

In this season of our lives, I find the adventure is in the planning. It may not be so for everyone or for every season. But, here we are in this season where it is true for us. Not every plan was able to work. But making those plans together was absolute fun! We discover more of ourselves, each other and how it's all changing now. This journey is hard sometimes, gets weary too, but what an adventure!

My apologies if this is all over the place - the whole clan is sick this week. But, I had to even take up this adventure and write anyway.

Soul Refreshment:

Proverbs 19:21
We humans keep brainstorming options and plans, but God's purpose prevails.

Thank you for reading my ramblings.

Thank you also to those of you who quietly visited.

You all bless my life.

Today's One Word is Adventure.

Check out more Faith Jammers voicing it here.

Fooled by Annoyance

2012-01-24T17:56:00.001-10:00

I don't how, but I let myself go there. I usually pick my battles. All of a sudden, I found myself not only easily annoyed, but letting everyone around me know it. More than that, I let 'em have it too! I'm not proud it at all. My evil twin sure did feel good at the time though.

Day 1: I yell extremely loud at David in front of our younger son. I wasn't even sorry.

Day 2: I lost it at David in front of our older son, daughter-in-law, and grandson. This time, I was a little sorry. How so? I apologized with a "but" attached to it. The half apology. I'm so embarrassed at myself right now.

Day 3-6: Anyone and everyone who annoyed me got the rolling eyes, ahem, and a view of the back of my head.

Day 7: This is where it all began to change. I finally fell apart and asked aloud, "What's wrong with me?" and "Why am I acting like this?".

I realized I was still recovering from exhaustion, coming down with a bad sinus/maybe cold, and giving away time I didn't have. That is no excuse. I should've rested, said no to begin with and had my down-time.

Day 8: I finally sat still, said no to a few gatherings and lingered in the quiet. I let God collect me off the floor, walls and ceiling. What a horrible mess. I felt so ugly. Being with Him brought rest. I could feel Him begin to redeem and restore.

Day 9: I got this verse on my flip calendar for Soul Refreshment: Proverbs 12:16 ~ Fools show their annoyance at once, but the prudent overlook an insult.

Aha! An answer. I had given in to self. That's what happens when I forget my best is with Jesus and jump on the self-reliance cycle. Self loves to be irrational, stressed out, irritated, and yes, easily annoyed.

Day 10: Doing better, still annoyed here or there, but seeing the better in the ones I love. The joy and wonder is a little more easily found than Day 1. I missed being here so much. In the grace, gratitude, joy, and love.

Rats! Fooled by annoyance.

Have you ever been fooled by annoyance?

How did you get back to gratitude, grace, and joy?

If you've quietly slipped in thank you for visiting. I pray you find more of Jesus here today and take Him with you.

Week In Photos ~ Slowing Down

2012-01-20T13:14:00.001-10:00

The past two weeks David has taken up his Christmas gift and has been making memories with his new camera. I keep forgetting to upload the photos he's taken for me. Anybody else do that too? So for this week, I want to share two that stand out and make me smile such a huge smile that my heart overflows.

God bless You all and have an amazing weekend.

Seek out time for refreshing and find little joys to fuel your road ahead.

He notices us now. He watches what we do and listens when we talk.

Take notice, watch, and listen.
You might be surprised by a few small wonders.

I love watching David capture memories.
His expression as he takes it in and then "clicks".

This weekend, truly see and take in what and who is around you.
Linger in it all.
Let it and them fill your heart.

Encouragement:

The everyday can be so chaotic, at times painful, and almost seem "not worth it".
The everyday is also filled with so much goodness for us to receive.
Remember to look up and let Him open you to the little joys and small wonders He surrounds you with - His gifts to you and me.

Soul Refreshment:

Genesis 13:14 ~ "Open your eyes, look around. Look north, south, east, and west.

Colossians 3:1 ~

Look up, and be alert to what is going on around Christ—that's where the action is. See things from his perspective.

Share any thoughts you like in the comments and thank you for spending time with me today.

If you've quietly slipped in, remember you are always welcome here.

A Little Joy in the Downpour

2012-01-18T22:28:00.001-10:00

Over the past few months the little joys have been multiplying. Is there such a word as poly-joy? If there is it would completely describe it for me. It has also been pouring challenges and trials. I've run out fingers to count them on. Heck, I don't even have enough hands to count them on.

Those little joys are my fuel to continue living out loud. I know I have to watch for them.

Hope and some fun:
A little joy, a little rain, a little more joy. This has been the pattern. I think I'm about ready to die! Then, God graciously sends in the joy patrol.

Can you just see it? There I lie on the stretcher after nearly drowning in the flood of challenges. The little joy paramedic yelling "clear" as another one uses those joy paddles to zap the chaos and get my heart beating again. Ha, ha, ha. A few days of rest and prayer restores new creative energy. I'm headed in the direction of my dreams once again. All smiles.

Encouragement:
Don't sell yourself short. Don't count yourself out. The road to your dreams is rough more often than smooth. Keep steadily at it without being too hard on yourself If all you can do is one thing in the direction of your priceless dream, do that one thing. The dream is His gift instilled in you. Go live it. You are definitely worth it. Now, smile.

How can I pray for you in this area today?
Feel free to leave a comment below...or message us on our facebook page in a private message or email us at godsdreamsforme@gmail.com.

If you've quietly slipped in to slip out, I'll still be praying for God's clear direction in every step you take toward your dream(s). Also, that He fill you with joy in the process.

Soul Refreshment:

Mark 6:31 ~ Jesus said, "Come off by yourselves; let's take a break and get a little rest."

2 Timothy 1:7 ~ God doesn't want us to be shy with His gifts, but bold and loving and sensible.

Insecure and Empty ~ Secure and Full

2012-01-17T09:44:00.001-10:00

That morning I read through Psalm 23 in my message bible. I reminded myself to be awake to the life words on the page and found myself lingering with Him, with Jesus.

I read verses 1-2 and prayer flowed spontaneously. "But Jesus, I feel like I need so much. I feel so empty. How do I get to where I don't need a thing?" Verse 4 tugged at my heart and again, "I don't feel secure. When the challenges come I'm a wreck. As soon as the trial hits I freak!"

Well, by then I'd had enough. I sat there feeling hopeless and a failure in being a woman, wife, and mom. A ton weighted me down and shutting down was my first defense. I didn't realize though that I had made one awesome decision that morning. I had chosen to linger with Jesus in it. The next few minutes would refresh my soul.

My eyes fell on these words in verse 5, "You revive my drooping head". I felt my heart jump. I realized I wasn't looking up when I felt empty. I hadn't set my eyes on His gift of security and safety. No wonder! I took another look and slowly waded through all of Psalm 23. Before, I knew it I was soaking in strength. He truly was reviving me.

He was calling me to linger in His truth of protection, provision and love. He wanted me to remain in Him until I caught my breath. I saw that He wouldn't leave me guessing on what to do. Verse 4 promised He would "send me in the right direction" when I felt insecure and empty.

Let's just say since it's still a continuous adventure. But, life is an ongoing process and it's okay as long as I keep on. There are many times I want to be the problem solver and find "stuff" to fill my empty. In those times, I can trust that He'll remind me to look up in prayer and to look into His life words.

He never fails to take me from insecure and empty to secure, safe, and full.

Do you relate to that fearful insecurity and unsatisfied emptiness?

Will you let Him take you to security, safety, and a full life?

Will you let Him take you often?

We'll live in this process together.

Whether you've quietly slipped in to slip out or join in the commenting conversation ~ we're so glad to have you share in our everyday.

Soul Food:

Lamentations 3:28-30 ~

When life is heavy and hard to take,
go off by yourself. Enter the silence.
Bow in prayer. Don't as questions:
Wait for hope to appear.
Don't run from trouble. Take it full-face.
The "worst" is never the worst.

Becoming a Lingerer

2012-01-11T13:37:00.000-10:00

I printed this out to encourage my becoming a lingerer. My first quote ever!

The days are full of being with family. I love them and these times together.

The days are also full of being with me and seeing who I am -- easily stressed, quickly exhausted and yet perseverant. In my perseverance I see I'll live each day in spite of the low and hard times.

Now I see why God's word for me is timely and important ~

Linger. Find the small joys. Discover the small wonders. Linger in them with Him. He's taking me from a pause to actually stopping, lingering. I love the becoming.

I find the little joys and discover small wonders everyday. But, I don't linger in them. I forget to linger in my everyday with Jesus. Linger not just in the moment, but the fullness and beauty of it. Linger with Him in that beauty and in my challenges.

Oh, it's already been such a crazy adventure ~

Me yelling when the stress comes and then the extreme opposite of "leave me alone, I'm exhausted now." Then getting my second wind and running with it - the answer - until again I'm exhausted.

I sat with God and asked about this wonderful word "linger" and He showed me that photo ~

The one I've shared before. I felt these words refresh my soul ~ "In the slow, deep, breaths of lingering are wonders for discovering and joys for lasting memories." Ah. Lightbulb. It's not the quantity of joys and wonders. It's the lingering in them that makes it soul food, spirit manna. Yes. To linger with Him...such a privileged rest.

This year, I'll be sharing much as I become a lingerer, His lingerer ~

I will look forward to hearing from you on this topic as well.

Feel free to share your one word in the comments.

If you wrote about it, be sure to include a link to that specific post so others can be encouraged.

If you have a photo that describes your one word come over to our facebook page and share it.

One Word encouraged by Bonnie at

Photo to describe my one word inspired by Mary at

A Quick Hello and Happy New Year

2012-01-09T16:03:00.000-10:00

Wow. The time flew by. It doesn't quite seem like we took off all of 17 days. At the same time, there were many days when I missed being here with you all -- sharing joys, wonders, and pauses. My visits to some of your facebook and blog homes during the holidays filled my heart.

This week takes our family into new routines and lots of household "stuff -- decorating, rearranging, and de-cluttering. Not necessarily in that order. I also get to start recipe book testings and nutrition articles once again - my work is delicious. My personal self is a freak and looks forward to regular exercise routines. I know, I know. I just love it though.

Here's wishing you a Happy New Year filled with blessings of adventures, wonders, and more joys.

Soul Refreshment and our prayer:

^{2 Thessalonians 2:15-17 ~}So, friends, take a firm stand, feet on the ground and head high. Keep a tight grip on what you were taught,

whether in personal conversation or by our letter.

May Jesus himself and God our Father,

who reached out in love and surprised you with gifts of unending help and confidence,

put a fresh heart in you, invigorate your work, enliven your speech.

How did you all say goodbye to 2011 and hello to 2012?
What does this second week of January hold for you?

Can't wait to read about it.

Just so you know, not one single plan we made turned out during the holidays. It was crazy how it all worked out anyway.

We got all dressed up just to say goodbye to 2012. We stayed in and had a relaxing time together.

Toasting in 2012. I love that we toasted first, paused, and then took this photo.

Outside on New Year's night.

Coming soon -

2012 words post with accompanying photo and quote (hint--I've already used the photo here. It says it all.)

Links to other sites with great projects going on.

Our Week In Photos ~ Merry Christmas Everyone

2011-12-23T17:21:00.002-10:00

A quick note for you: We'll be on holiday until January 9th! Pausing, refreshing, and family.

Although away from our blog home, we will be on facebook here and here, randomly. Do come and visit us there for our little happenings.

On our hearts today...

It may be a wonderful time of year or a difficult time of year for you. Our little family is in both places.

We have been on amazing adventures. We have had enormous challenges to face. Right now as I write to you, we are both grateful and interceding. We are excited for all God is doing and exhausted in the midst of the battle.

No matter where we are, the ones who are stronger lift the ones who are weak. It's a continuous cycle of love.

No matter what we're going through, the dreams still come true and the healing still progresses. God continues to breathe grace on us strengthening us to look for the little joys...discover the small wonders. His constant reminder is to pause and slow.

A wonderful woman's insightful words to me..."God's is saying for you to follow the joy, Jeri. Just follow the joy."

And so we embark on the adventurous journey of trusting God --

believing His best is for us
trusting His promises are true
knowing He desires to give us every good thing...even in the battle
walking beside His still waters, together
resting in His lush green pastures, together.

Our little family we'll be better than okay. We have the highest connection possible...Jesus.

You all, are our blessings too. If we had your photos, we'd have a collage of all of you too. We have you in our hearts. The words you've shared were not wasted. Your quiet visits lift us. Thank You.

Merry Christmas to you all. Our prayer is, "Lord, your grace in every area of our lives...healing, relationships, connections, and the everyday. Amen."

It's very difficult, but we know that...

{With His help} we'll find the little joys and discover the small wonders

in our everyday

in each other

and all around us...

to get us through.

Soul Refreshment:

Romans 12:1 ~

God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering.

Mary, Her Adult Son, and Me

2011-12-22T00:14:00.002-10:00

This holiday season has me reflecting often.

I’ve reminisced on those who are no longer with me. I've thought about the times spent together that have filled my heart for what I’m living out today. I’ve recalled holidays past with those I’ll be seeing in the next few weeks.

The memories standing out the most are of our adult sons. It’s probably related to having a new grandson and daughter(in-law). I can’t say for sure. Since October, I’ve seen our sons as little again.

I wonder if Mary saw Jesus “little” as she watched Him move into his adulthood.

I wonder if she worried as he worked and ministered.

The boys could be watching a game on television and start cheering and fist pumping and I’ll see them playing termite football. Even flashback to those flag football days.

It makes me smile.

I just sit back and take it all in. Now they have Ezie watch with them. He’s only 5 months old and being molded.

I wonder if something Jesus would do sparked a memory in Mary of his little hands reaching up to her for a hug or comfort.

Today, Reid and I had a moment to crack up at his long hair getting stuck in the Vornado. Not to worry, it was out faster than it wound in. We both laughed so hard that we hugged at the same time.

Later in the day, Shilo stopped by after work. We talked a little, ate a snack, and then he watched college ball and relaxed with Shadow on the couch. I thanked him for forgiving me enough to allow me a part in His life.

I gave him a tight hug.

All by God's grace.

I wonder if Jesus went back to visit Mary, His mother, just because.

I wonder if they laughed so hard they hugged spontaneously.

I wonder what they talked about.

I wonder what her heart felt.

There are times I feel so helpless as the boys, now men, go through their seasons, and my role is to just be here for them. Sometimes all I can do is listen, pray with them, pray for them, and do nothing else. I also realize my words may not bring comfort or relief as they grow through it all.

I wonder if Mary felt the same.

I wonder if she also was as proud as I am of all they do to press through and find their own way.

I wonder if she smiled, just like me, as she pondered “these things” of her adult son.

Your turn ~ Let's sit for awhile and talk...

Do you relate to Mary as mother of an adult child? What do you wonder?

You may be parent to little ones, pre-teens, or teens. Do you ever wonder of their adulthood?

And you who have slipped in so quietly, thank you once again for visiting.

I pray your time of pondering blesses you.

Bonnie has us pondering on which character we connect with

in the Christmas story.

Wanted to let you all know:
I'll be taking two weeks off for pausing, refreshing, and family.

Join me tomorrow for my last post of 2011. The whole family chipped in.

Simple Joys and Small Wonders - Meaningful Gifts

2011-12-20T15:59:00.002-10:00

How does one cultivate mindfulness and gratitude for the present moment and the people in it? I don't think there is just one specific answer to that. We can all contribute to how we've overlooked and/or taken notice.

There is so much going on in one day it sometimes takes everything we've got to slow down...slow flow... slow the mind... slow the body...slow the breathing.

Slow, and be here in this moment.

Letting go of the work and creating.

Singing my grandson to sleep.

Lingering in the sounds he makes as he drifts off.

Texture and love stamp courtesy of Kim Klassen's 12 Days of Textures - so beautiful for creating memories.
You can mouseover/scroll over and see the transformation that saved this memory for me.

Oh, to be mindful of our condition so we can let go...how?

Let go of the tension, crowded thinking, over-colored schedules.
Let go so we can ooh and ah.
Let go enough to enjoy the kids shouting with joy because you've walked in the door.
Let go and let the dog lick our faces off. After a few minutes, you can take 5 and wash up.

In those 5 minutes we can ponder the simple joys that just occurred. Let it warm us.

Allow the grace of that moment to overwhelm.

So gratitude overflows.

I'm finding that it's not a one time thing and then all is well. It's daily awareness. It'll be up and down. Yet, it's worth noticing the simple joys and small wonders. It's a gift we can give to ourselves. There will be "those days". The gift is completely worth it.

The simple joys and small wonders in our everyday will overshadow the "not-so-hot" times. Because we can carry it with us wherever we go. We can carry the beautiful people attached to those joys and wonders where ever we go.

Something in our everyday may just turn into a lasting memory we might otherwise overlook.

How do you slow down to really see and take it all in?

A few wonderful ladies have received simple joys and small wonders through different kinds of meaningful gifts. They were part of a giveaway we hosted over the weekend. Each comment had me going "aw" and smiling.

I'd like to share them with you:

The Gift from a child ~
Angie: I teach. So end of term in December often brings Christmas gifts from the children...So the gift I remember best is one I received from one of the children yesterday.

Jack loves school - so much so that he was sad on the last day of term. He didn't want to stop coming every day and wrote in his card (lovingly handmade) to me: 'I like school and you might know it!' With the card came a little present: beautifully wrapped, with a delicate wire gift tag, it contained a pretty little bracelet in my favourite turquoise. He had chosen, wrapped and presented it entirely on his own. He is nine years old. With that gift, I feel he gave me a little of himself. That's too special for words.

The Gift that says I know you well ~
Lisa: The last gift I received was a week ago from my daughter who works in landscaping. She brought me a beautiful amaryllis for my birthday. It means a lot to me because plants are now a common bond between us, and she knew that I would love this.

The "since you couldn't be there" gift ~
Jennifer: My brother recently went to NYC with his college's drama club. He knows how much I love snow globes and how jealous (or Godly longing, shall we say) I was that he was seeing NYC at Christmas time. So being the sweet brother that he is he brought me a beautiful snow globe with a NYC scene. :) Of course I love it!

The gift of connecting ~
Katie: It isn't a physical tangible gift I can hold. The gift I treasure in my heart, community in which to share my tears tonight at our Blue Christmas.

The gift of forgiveness and acceptance ~
Brad: I was given a great blessing by my exwife and her awesome husband "Great Man"!. What you guys did for my family was very thoughtful and kind. Thank you for all you have done. It has opened many doors. Jesus lives in your hearts and I'm thankful for that. God Bless you both.

We're so glad you spent this time with us here. We are grateful for you and pray God's blessings of all kinds into your lives.

If you've quietly slipped in we're glad you did. It was wonderful to have you visit.

I'm so happy to connect with Emily

on this last day of unwrapping December.

Head on over for a visit.

Our Week In Photos ~ How We Connect

2011-12-16T13:14:00.001-10:00

And now we head into our time off-the-grid, but first...

How We Connect

There are so many ways we connect with each other. Lisa-Jo has prompted our 5 minutes of unedited writing with a word close to my heart -- connected.

Friends - coffee time, phone calls, emails.
Neighbors - hellos, friendly waves, quick catching up at the mailbox.
Family - they are most dear to me. My highest priority next to God. I crave time with them in any way shape or form...

Connecting with Mele and Ezie

So, you can only imagine that after 9 days of not seeing them (when we usually see each other all the time) I was ecstatic to see...

I had to hug her and then hug him and then...well, just so excited!

She's always thinking of us and making sure we have time with Ezie. Shilo and I had been under the weather so the visits were postponed. Of course, Shadow was excited and beside himself.

Ezie is getting so big and at the stage of recognizing, reaching, and grabbing. Mele's informed me that he laughs now! What a great holidays it's going to be with a baby laughing in the house.

Soul Refreshment

Jeremiah 30:19 ~

Thanksgivings will pour out of the windows;

laughter will spill through the doors.

Connecting with David and plans for connecting with the kids

David and I have been connecting over decorations this year. We're excited to have Mele and Ezie in our lives and wanna be as festive as we can. The boys will see familiar and new. It's all coming together nicely. The message of Jesus all over the house now.

Connecting here and there

A new of connecting for me is through facebook, twitter, other social networks, and linking up together at other blog homes.

Connecting here with all of you.

Today, these words here are inspired by Lisa-Jo's 5-Minuted Friday prompt where I'll be connecting in link-up.

I close with these photos for camera phone Friday link-up and connecting with Dawn over at her place.

A time of lunch, play, rest, getting out and coming home to decorations.

It keeps getting better.

1-2) Lunch with David 3) David measuring to hang decor 4) Testing lights 5-7) Snuggle, play, and nap with Shadow 8) Couldn't believe I found this at the discount book store. 9-12) Outdoor lights/decor almost done. 13) Reid checking it all out before he leaves 14) David & Shadow hanging on the porch amongst the lights 15) lighting the nativity candles 16) Our Santa band - now a least 13 years old.

Have a wonderful weekend everyone.

I pray -

blessings on you in finding rest,

recognizing little joys in each day,

discovering small wonders in the people who surround you,

and that you live life fully.

Do you have a favorite way of connecting? Hang out for a little while and share about it.

If you've quietly slipped in, we want you to know we're so glad you came by today.

Connect at Lisa Jo's place

Connect at Dawn's place

Gifts that Encourage (Dayspring Review/Giveaway)

2011-12-14T21:57:00.000-10:00

Update: and the winner is....Jennifer Adams of

This is the Story of a Girl. Picked by random generator.

Thank you for participating ladies.

We've been unwrapping Jesus all month long with Bonnie over at her amazing blog home. Unwrapping the heart of Christmas. Unwrapping the miracle of Jesus' birth. Some writings unwrap the pain this time of year holds for many and the hope of connecting in and through that pain ... onto healing.

Today we're unwrapping the tangible and the material. These also point us to Jesus and keep our minds on things above. Gifts with meaning and messages to keep us mindful and conscious. Gifts that encourage us to reflect and ponder. Especially when the days aren't as bright or cheerful. Gifts that comfort and realign.

A Few Days Ago:
David got online at the Dayspring store and put in his black Friday order. I watched him and he was having some kind of fun there. The box arrived the other day and He had an awesome surprise in it for me. I had been wanting the bird cage card holder. It just so happened to be on sale at the time. Right on time. He bought for himself to decorate, the nativity trio light holder.

Yesterday:
My product for review arrived. One of the things I love to do is recall the Names of Jesus that speak strength back into me when I'm drained or speak joy into me when I want to celebrate. Dayspring's Names of Jesus - Wooden Letter Block will be doing that for me this season. I've already set it out and slowly turned it to look at each name -- Immanuel, Jesus, Messiah, and Saviour. I love that each name has a verse attached to it.

Just What I Wanted:
The extra touch is the little gifts the tucked into that shipment. I couldn't believe it. I was just telling David that I wanted to buy these particular mugs for us and there it was! I had to step back. Shilo had stopped by and was here when I opened the boxes. He had a smile on his face that celebrated with me. It's from the Love Came Down Collection -- which is Dayspring's 2011 Christmas theme. It's the Names of Jesus latte mug which is perfect for me... and the Love Came Down Christian Mug perfect for David!

Today:
We want to share a $20 giveaway for you to spend at Dayspring's online store. All you have to do is leave a comment below and/or on our facebook page about a gift you received that holds special meaning for you...even you bought it for yourself.

The entire Love Came Down Collection is on sale right now. Have fun shopping all those gifts with a message. You'll leave their store completely uplifted. If you like, you can order through my Dayspring website as well. I just became a consultant last night. Thank you in advance.

Deadline:
Giveaway will run until Sunday, December 19th, 12a.m. and the winner will be announced on Monday, December 20th.

There are Days When...

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There are days when our hearts are so full of joy
we just have to burst out in celebration.

There are also days when we are so tired and drained

it takes everything we've got to even whisper a prayer.

There are days when the love is filled to overflowing

and we can't help but share the outpour.

There are even days when we think we can't take the "one more thing" and getting out of bed
is the toughest task in the world.

There are days when His grace grips our soul
and sends our spirits soaring in humble gratitude.

There are also days when we can't even piece the thoughts together and no words come.

Then, there are days that roll around again.
Because of all we've done...

to stay close to His heart,
to trust His promises,
believing that the hope we have will manifest an answer...

And then it does.

And once again...

Our hearts fill with joy.

The love overflows.

His grace grips our hearts and we fall to our knees

-- humbled and oh, so grateful.

Today, like every day, He hears our hearts.

He hears every spoken and unspoken word, thought, and feeling.

Today, He identifies with us right where we are.

That's why He came. That's why God's love came down ...Jesus.

Soul Refreshment

2 Corinthians 1:3-5 ~
He comes alongside us when we go through hard times,
and before we know it,
he brings us alongside someone else
who is going through hard times
so that we can be there for that person
just as God was there for us.

I'm so happy to connect with Emily

and the wonderful people at her place today.

Color: Our Week In Photos

2011-12-09T13:26:00.001-10:00

Here's wishing you a wonderful weekend with hopes of rest, little joys, and small wonders. We hope you enjoy our week in photos. There are a few November camera phone pics at the end as we took the Thanksgiving holiday off.

Thank you for being here. See you next week.

And if you've silently slipped in just to read, we want you to know we truly appreciate your quiet company.

Here we go....

Colors have a way of changing moods. The way it brightens my day or feeds my soul rest. Fall colors and deep winter colors are my eye candy.

How certain shades inspire creativity

How about the colors of baking...mmm

Some colors give you permission to relax and just be

There are even colors that feed the soul

How is it that colors can even encourage play?

Colors of the heart as he tries to surprise and decorate

Those colors that reflect you and memories of the season

What are the colors that reflect you, your soul, the season your heart is in?

I've linked up with Lisa-Jo

for 5 minutes of unedited writing

Today's topic: Color

And for camera phone fun with Dawn....

We did a lot of hangin' out after Thanksgiving:

1) David & I waiting for our massages - Thank You Reid
2) First Holiday photo of the season
3) Matching cups at breakfast
4) Having fun with fashion

Who doesn't love good food? ;-)

1) Breakfast before decorating
2) latte and granola mix with almond butter
3) I love the foam
4) Mele's scone recipe - we made mini's
and of course it's vegan!

How I Pictured It ~ Resting in His Light

2011-12-08T06:00:00.000-10:00

Soul Refreshment:

Isaiah 9:2 ~ The people who walked in darkness
have seen a great light.

For those who lived in a land of deep shadows—
light! sunbursts of light!

We've quietly begun to decorate. Well, David did most of the work hanging all those lights out front. Indoors, I've started to set out the candles. This year it's cranberry scented candles.

Lights and candles are my favorite decorations. There's something about the glow and warmth. So calming. It gets me thinking on how Jesus brought light to so many dark places in my heart and in my life.

I always pictured the manger scene to be warm, serene, sweet and .... perfect. I had a preconceived notion about the decor and aura.

But, I'm sure baby Jesus cried. I'm certain His parents, Mary and Joseph, tried to soothe him. I don't doubt that the animals made their normal sounds and did their normal "business". I can't help but wonder if the hay was even fresh or the stable cleaned out when they arrived. It seemed to be a crazy-busy time of year. I bet there wasn't much light in that stable or cave either.

Still, in the busyness, Jesus was born. That precious little baby our promise of hope. Hope to bring light to our darkness. Darkness of loss, mistreatment, divorce, loneliness, abandonment, sickness...

Still, over the animal noises, the wise men worshipped "The One" who arrived with hope. Hope for healing and a better future. Hope for wholeness. Hope for love.

Still more, even in the foul smell and mess, the most beautiful gift and greatest miracle of all was given. The beauty of His making "all things" right. The miracle of Him making "us" right.

In the darkness of that stable/cave, his birth shone brightly. The smiles on the faces of Mary, Joseph, and the wise men lit up the place. The angels singing to the shepherds lit up the field. That one lone star shined so bright it lit the way to hope for three men. It lights the way for each of us, even me.

When we let Jesus into our busy, messy, smelly, imperfect hearts - He makes miracles happen. It's His specialty --To slow flow and un-rush us, so we make memories of the everyday moments. To become the fragrance that fills our lives and we spread as we let him lead us in our day-to-day. To have our imperfect hearts made perfect by one selfless act.

All required of us is to simply say...

"Yes, Jesus. I believe you give this gift to me and I receive it."

"Let him in to the mire and muck of our world. For only if we let him in can he pull us out." ~ Max Lucado

So thankful Bonnie has us thinking on these things this December

The quote comes from Max Lucado's book

(we're reading this right now)