Stories of Jayashni

72.0 Shall We Reveal All That We Thought? Or Do You Have A Filter To Remove The Shits?

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Sat, 04 Jul 2020 04:26:00 +0000

What do you think about revealing everything you think of? What will happen? Let's say there is no gate to approve your thoughts, and you are telling your thoughts. I think some do have two approval levels. What do you think about this topic? I think, if I did so, then I can have many enemies. Lol... How about you?

Don't you think that you did it before? Though you cannot remember, you did it. When? Think about your childhood. When you were a kid, did not you tell what you thought? But nobody cares about it, because you were a kid. So, it was not an issue for anybody. Therefore, it was one instance. Can you remember such an incident that happened in your childhood? I think it would be an interesting one to share.

When I was a kid, I did it many times. Though it was not a problem, I think all those situations made my parents embarrassed. Most of the time, it happened to my mother. The first incident that comes to mind is a granny who lived in our neighborhood. At that time, we were having a bath in the river. She also was there. As a granny, she gave lots of instructions to us regarding suitable times for a bath, how should we have a bath as kids, etc... So, she pointed out some points for me too. However, I could not listen to her instructions anymore, and I asked her to mind her business without look after us. Furthermore, I pointed out that it is not her duty. When she heard it, she was shocked, and could not speak a single word for a few minutes. After a while, she laughed and said, "ok... sure".

Some of them in the river laughed for my response. They enjoyed that discussion. It made me happy. But my mother did not like that response. At that point, she pointed out that it is not a good thing. When we returned home, she advised me a lot. However, I did not feel sad about that granny. I did not regret my response. Later on, I met her on the road when we were going to visit our granny. Then she reminded my response, and at that time, I felt shy. It was a big shame. So, from time to time, I met her. She did not forget to remind it every time we met. She did not forget to show her wide smile too. However, each time was an embarrassing moment for me.

Regarding the elders, I think it happens to most of the drunk people. I think their actual inner feelings come up to some extent. That higher approval gate is closed when they are talking. That is why the others are enjoying their discussions. If you can listen to them to analyze this point, then you can identify the actual human. However, you may have to listen to their various topics including, politics, love, family, job matters, etc... to observe it. The things they have hidden in the topmost layer of the mind are coming out. It is enjoyable to see that process. One day there was a gathering, and the organizers arranged all the stuff to eat and drink. One couple came to the party, and those two were in their old ages. So, when the gent was completed a few glasses, her wife wanted to stop it. Therefore, from time to time, she went to him and asked him to stop. Every time, he asked her to leave saying, "get out bitch".

He had a pleasant and gentleman's appearance. So, if somebody did not see that situation, then he will have a good image of him. However, that point is not sufficient to make a decision, and sometimes he may be quarreled with his wife in the morning before coming to the party. However, what I wanted to point out is the closure of that gate. So, that is a situation where the people do not think about the accuracy or compatibility of their thoughts before expressing as words. Therefore, I think the closure of that gate in the drunk people's minds is unpleasant. Lol... So, be careful when you are talking if you are drunk. There was one of our office colleagues. He was very silent when he was drunk. I think he has learned lots of lessons. Lol...

The other instance is born when you are angry. It is a familiar thing for me. Lol... Think about the things you said when you were angry. Recently, I saw a quote, and it says, if you want to regret later, then speak when you are angry. I think it is a good statement. It is true. I don't think that I should give any examples to prove this point. You may have enough incidents. However, apart from the closure of that gate, the required thoughts are not born in this situation. So, it messed up your entire thinking pattern. Therefore, when you are speaking in an angry moment, a few things happen. The first is, you are not rechecking the thoughts before expressing as words. The other thing is, the mind generates only shit, and required thoughts don't come to your mind. So, all shit comes out without the approval. The gate is open. What a marvelous situation, right? Lol...

I think it happens for lovers too. That gate is overwhelmed by the warmth of love. If you can rewind a past conversation you had, then you can rethink whether you can implement the things you said at that time. Is it practical to do now? Though it does not have a bad face like the previous situation, I think it breaks the promises you made. So, guys, keep in mind to approve your thoughts before releasing them as words.

However, even with the approval also, you should keen on your words before sharing with anybody. Recently, I saw a FB video. In that video, there is a conversation with two ladies, and one person is recording it secretly without informing the other lady. The person who is recording does not talk much except Yeah, No, Hmmm, etc... So, she embarrassed her by releasing it to the internet. Though it is a bit different thing than this topic, I wanted to add it as it may be useful for you all to know these situations.

71.0 Remain Angry, & Lose The Peace. The Fire of Anger Sends Its Smoke to the Mind.

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Fri, 05 Jun 2020 09:00:00 +0000

All of us are humans. Homo Sapiens. Can this species get angry with others? I know. It is bad. But let's see it as a topic. We will discuss this. Anger! Anger Management! Getting Angry! etc... In the very first paragraph, I would like to question you. How about your status? Do you get angry often? Or seldom? Are you showing it to others, or are you keeping it with you by shutting up your mouth? Come to this open forum, and let's talk about it. You are invited!

In my childhood, I cannot remember a day when I got angry. In that era, my mother was the person who got angry because of us. Sometimes she could not control her anger. But we did not get angry with her though we felt sad once she punished us. Those days my sister was the key reason for me to get angry. But those cannot point as remarkable feelings because it vanished within a few minutes.

Because of that reason, my father asked both of us to behave well. Every morning he advised us as so before leaving home for his job. However, we kept his promise when he was returning home. At the end of the day, we finished our fights, arguments, punishments, and we were working on our painting stuff. Both of us laid down on the floor and painted all our arts and picture books. Therefore, there was a peaceful environment. So, always he came home and said "Hey, it seems to be you two are good girls today." When he gives compliments to us, we did not forget to not to look at our mother. Lol...

Most of the day, at the end of every fight, my mother said that she has a severe headache because of our endless crazy things and fights. For such every pain, she used pain killers to get rid of it. Therefore, "Headache" was the most common illness, we heard at the end of the day. It was a part of our procedure.

School time went well. We did not have pressure for anything except exams. However, it did not go with stress, and I could manage the exam situations without any conflicts on my mind. But when moving to the last two years of school was a bit different. The exam pressure was at the maximum level, and staying in a boarding place also a key reason for that change, I guess. I could say that this time was the beginning of this topic. So, because of this status, I was angry with some of my friends. Though I cannot remember the exact reason, it happened for a silly thing. It was the situation.

However, it did not bring up to higher studies. It was another joyful era if there were no exams. So, nothing was there to get angry. Those days one of our lecturers said that "you cannot have a joyful time like this when you move for your career. Working with people is the challenge than your work". She said as so when she was angry with us because of a disciplinary problem of the students. Though it was in my mind because of the way she told us and her facial expressions, I did not care about it as usual.

I could say that the job era was the worst period. I know I gained experience and learned a lot. But the status of the mind that needs to be kept in without anger/hatred was the thing I could not manage. There were billions of things to get angry. As she said, people were the main reason and challenge. Some juniors did not work, and some of them had less efficiently. Some seniors gave all the benefits to the team members they like. There were certain conditions for being with them, and it is another topic to discuss. Some people had attitude issues. Some people are unfair. So, the working environment was filled up with reasons for getting angry.

So, without control or management, it overwhelmed my mind. I can remember there was a small computer tool that allows hitting the screen using a hammer. For each click, you can see fake cracks on your screen. So, they named it as a tool for anger management. After many clicks, you can see a weird screen that has many cracks. You cannot see any of your desktop icons, documents, or any other program until you exit from that program. However, it was a good tool to forget the anger and focus on something else.

Counting from 10 to 1 is a well-known technique that everybody knows. But those days, it did not work for me, and I could say that tool was a good one up to some extent. With all the cracks of the screen, I could see the ugliness of my mind. Those cracks showed the spoiled status of the mind. So, it was a good tool. The other most important thing is when you are angry, it removed all the other thoughts, and anger is the only thing that you can see. So, those cracks of that tool also revealed the same. You can see only cracks on the screen. Therefore, it was a good comparison to think about anger.

I never got a benefit from anger, and I hope it is similar to you too. It destroyed the peace of mind, and I hope it is similar to you too. It destroyed our appearance, and that is why our grannies used to say, "don't get angry. You will be ugly". It damages our inner body. The way how it happens is another topic. As an example, I can point out my mother's headache that she had after getting angry for a couple of years. Sometimes, I too have a pain in my forehead area when being with angry feelings for a certain time.

You know about this situation with your different experiences. So, that is why Lord Buddha preached these Dhamma as a universal truth. It does not depend on our religion or nationality. When I was discussing my situation with one of my friends, then she shared these Dhamma sermons with me. I listened to it to find out a good solution. If you have the interest to know more, then you also can listen to these sermons. (You can search the sermons via Maha Sinha Nadaya Ven Thiththagalle Anandasiri Thero). Acceptance or rejection is your choice. But you can listen to it. Good things are the things that hard to do. Anger management also the same! But it is a must for this rare human life. Anger! It is ugly...

“You will not be punished for your anger; you will be punished by your anger” (Reference: Internet)

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70.0 We Are The Species Who Cooks. The Others Do Not. So, Cooking Makes Us Truly Human.

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Wed, 13 May 2020 08:52:00 +0000

I could not add this point to the previous article Cooking... that discussed spices. It is the value of our spices. A few decades ago, my mother prepared all the spices at home. She prepared curry powder by putting many ingredients. There was a nice smell when she was preparing it. Without seeing her and going to the kitchen, we knew the task that she was working on because of that smell. Later on, we bought curry powder because of my mother's bad health condition. Recently, I prepared it for an alms-giving and I felt the difference of a homemade one. Though it did not give that much smell like my mother's curry powder, it gave a nice taste.

The ingredients are not merely for the taste, and some of them are medicine. Coriander is the main ingredient used for curry powder. So, unknowingly and without a bitter taste, we use that medicine for every meal. So, if we prepare even for one curry with it, then it is a medicine. Recently, my father read an article about these spices and got to know that leaves of coriander also a good spice to put. So, now he wants to plant coriander. Now he is working on it. He he he...

When moving to our food process discussion, we already discussed the first steps. Though you think that now it is time to eat, you are wrong. What is the preparation method is the next thing? You should decide, how do you prepare it. You can fry. You can prepare it with coconut milk. You can put more chili powder and less coconut milk. The choice is up to you. NO... It's not up to you. You should think of many conditions. The preferences of others are the key point. So, according to your priority schedule, you can do it. The next thing is, you should think about whether the curries are matched with each other. As an example, you cannot fry all the curries. You should fry one and you should prepare another one with more coconut milk.

However, coconut milk is a key ingredient for Sri Lankan food. It is a mandatory item for a meal. It is also a medicine. It helps to remove Poison in your body. That is why we let drink coconut milk to patients infected with poison.

In our food course, coconut milk is like a sub meal. Its preparation takes an additional effort. You cannot take coconut milk for a few minutes. You should scrape coconut first, and then you should squeeze the scraped coconut. Most of the other family members do this task for their mother/wife/sister, etc... as a help. It is a big help though it is one task in this food preparation process. One of my friends said that he does it for his wife every morning, and it is a big headache for him. When they go to the wife's home, her parents are the ones who give coconuts for their consumption. So, he said that recently, he refused it because he is the one who has to do it. Now, it is the gent's key home chore during the lockdown period due to the COVID19 situation. Lol...

There was another friend and she has three kids. She does all the home chores without a supporter. However, her husband is the one who scrapes coconut and that is the only help he did. One day both were angry and there was a fight. She said that she hit him using equipment in the kitchen without thinking about the loss. Meantime, she emphasized the heavy tasks she has to do during the entire day. At that time her husband complained about the coconut matter, and he said that he cannot scrape coconut every morning. Lol...

Therefore, now you know, coconut milk is an important thing in this food preparation process. Though there are coconut milk powder packets to buy, still, it is not the preference of most of the Sri Lankans as per my knowledge. The main reason is the artificial things that use to keep it for a certain time. So, still, most of them are going through this difficult procedure.

When it comes to cooking the prepared stuff, still, most of the Sri Lankans use wood and gas. Wood is the main thing for poor people. So, finding out wood and arrange it in a suitable way to put into the hearth is another job. Therefore, the people who are using wood hearths are doing a difficult job. That flame goes with carbon, and they have to deal with carbon when cooking and washing the pans.

A few years back, there was a murder, and a son killed his mother. I think it is done because that mother asked him to stop his love affair. That boy was under 18. So, it happened, unfortunately. That incident shocked many, and still, I can remember a poem published in a Facebook post. It mentioned the pain that bears up by a mother to grow a son. In one verse, it says "Did you kill your mother who cooks for you by bearing up the heat of the hearth". Later on, that son said that he felt unbearable sorrow when he was seeing the dining table.

Sometimes I think why should we put this much effort into the food preparation when people in other countries prepare their meals with less effort. If food preparation is the only thing, then we can allocate that time. The more time we take for cooking is the drawback we have. But everything has both drawbacks and benefits. I think Sri Lankans have their endemic food quality, varieties, and culture as benefits.

The other thing is important for everyone irrespective of their religion or nationality. Do you think that you can gain merits via your meal? Yes. It is possible. You can avoid wasting food. You can donate a bit to somebody or an animal. Apart from all, you can think about the impermanence of the feeling you have when you taste the food. That is the great merit out of all. Now can you feel the taste of breakfast you had? Or lost it? It disappeared. That is impermanence. What will happen to the tasty food when it goes to your stomach?

Before you go to sleep, can you imagine an inner image of your stomach by thinking about the food you had from the morning? It will look like a garbage bag. What do you think when you are disposing of it in the next morning? Those are the digested food you had on the previous day. So, guys, finally, that is the truth about food. It is the great truth preached by Lord Buddha.

Therefore, when your mother/wife/sister, etc.… prepares a tasty meal, do appreciate them. But don’t get stuck to that taste. If she cannot cook it well for you, then don’t blame her. Think about the process she followed up to bring it to the dining table. Think about the actual food process that is happening from the mouth to the toilet.

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69.0 Cooking Is All About People. Love Is One Of Grannies' Spices!

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Mon, 04 May 2020 03:03:00 +0000

Hey! What's going on? I hope you are enjoying your time by staying at home. I think we won't get another similar time to this period during this life. I saw a Facebook post, and it says that such pandemic situations happen every 100 years. So, guys, don’t worry. This is the only crisis we have to face during our lifetime. It is our wish. Though I wanted to write something else, this was the start. I hope you like it.

Today, we will talk about cooking memories. I think it is the best topic, and you all can enjoy it. Because all of us have fun and horrible cooking experience. I hope most of you all are having homemade stuff these days as nobody has any other choices. So, cooking is one of our main jobs. These days it is one of my main jobs due to the absence of home supporters.

I'm pointing out this view according to my knowledge. So, please correct me if I'm wrong. I think we Sri Lankans have a lengthy process for meal preparation. Most of us prepare two meals to cover the daily consumption. Some of them prepare breakfast and lunch at once and prepare a separate meal for dinner. We don't prepare food for a few days or a week. So, I think "cooking" is a job that requires considerable time per day. If we take our meals, then it consists of two to three curries. Most of the time it goes with two vegetables, and dhal, fish, or meat curry.

I hope if I describe to you the tasks we are doing, then you will identify that it has a procedure or process. So, when you are having Sri Lankan food, then you will remember the effort and may give more value to it. Just a thought... Lol...

So, selecting suitable vegetables to cook is the first thing. Though it seems nothing, it is a big thing that every mother/wife/daughter/sister, etc... has to think about by thinking of family members' preferences. Sometimes, it is impossible to select. Sometimes, you may have to give priority to specific family members by ignoring others. You may have to tell them "eat if you can and starve if you cannot". But you cannot ignore the same person every time. Lol... So, you should have something like a priority list for a week. Then you can consider the food preference of each family member at least once per week. Therefore, it is the first important decision.

When moving to the next, then our chef should think about the spices and oil portion that needs to be put into the curries. Though it also seems an easy task, believe me. It is NOT. If you think like that, then it is wrong. As an example, if I consider the situation of my family, my father does not like oily and salty curries. He wants chilies. But my preference is the opposite choice. When it comes to my sister's family, they don't put salt and chilly at all. So, we cannot eat their meals, and they cannot eat our meals. It is impossible. So, both parties stopped sharing food.

When my granny was living with us, the problem was in "Red" status. Lol... Because of her age, she could not feel the taste of food. According to my knowledge, we cannot feel the full taste of food after 70 years. It reduces to 50%. At that time, she was in her 90. So, she never satisfied with the combinations of spices we put into the curries. Those days she lived in my father's elder brother's home. As she made food complaints, one day our uncle asked her to put salt, chilies, spices, tamarind, turmeric, and all according to her wish. The funniest thing was, on that day she ate very little. But she was very silent.

Earlier we fed up with her complaints, and we worried about our cooking skills. But one day, one of our aunts arranged lunch for all family members. She was a cookery expert, and nobody can point out mistakes. So, on that day also our granny came up with many complaints and suggestions. On that day I decided to stop worrying about her complaints. Lol... Those days she used to say "cook well, and serve tasty food to others to gain merits". Apart from the spices, the time we spent in the kitchen was another measuring factor she used for her decisions. If we take a little time, then she said that the curries have not steamed well. There is a famous chef in Sri Lanka called "Pabilis Silva". So, we told her that even Pabilis Silva's skills are not enough to prepare food for her. Lol...

There are many memories of my granny and cookery. Those two have linked to each other as a needle and thread. As she did not like our meal preparations, our uncle asked her to use spices, salt, and all as per her wish. Along with that permission, she wanted to prepare her tea too. She said that she can do it well without other's support. One day when I was coming from the office, I saw that she was in the kitchen by preparing tea. As she spent more time, I wanted to see her and went to the kitchen.

When I was going there, I saw a cup of Tea with pink color. It amazed me and at that moment I thought that my cousin sister had brought a strawberry flavor powder for tea. It was my thought. So, I checked over there to find it, and then I saw the chilly bottle on the table. My thought was correct. She had put chilly to her tea. It was a mistake. Those days her eyesight was not good. When I was telling it to her, she said that it is a coffee bottle. If I did not come on time, then she could nicely have a cup of chili flavored tea.

So, this is all about one step of that food preparation process. You may feel wonderful when I'm telling you the rest. I'm sure even you never thought about it before. We can discuss the cookery wars in the next articles. Stay safe... Take care, buddies.

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68.0 People In The Workplace. The Hidden Crowd!

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Mon, 20 Apr 2020 10:17:00 +0000

When looking back the past few weeks, I understood that most of the people do not like to read or watch any more about Corona. Corona, Corona… What is this? I think it increases that pressure when living with it. When does shit over? However, when you are getting angry with this situation, please remember that this is a result of human actions. Okay..? I too believe that it's good to focus our mind on different productive things in this stage without thinking about it in unnecessary fear. So, I believe the time and effort you put here to read this article is a productive thing for your lives. Lol...

After the previous article that was written about a balanced mind, I don't expect to write any more about this global pandemic after this analysis. So, today I'm moving back to reveal another stage of jobs I did. It's all about the people I dealt with though they were not my coworkers. But they helped us to do our job in various ways. This is a lovely gift for all of them. I know none of them won't read my article. It is not the purpose either. I don't expect them to read. But you, the one who reads this can think more about them than earlier. I believe that this will help to have a new view of them. You will look at them in a different and nice way.

As I said in the post, A lovely gift for IT guys..., that work exposure changed me. I could say that it happened for both good and bad sides. Later on, I’ll explain what are those bad sides? Please be patient… When I was leaving my home to join with that job, I could not manage my stuff without the support of others. Somehow, I wanted somebody for my support. So, the very first month was a horrible one for me. From beginning to the end of the day consisted of challenges apart from the work stuff. Among all, washing clothes was a big headache, and I used to bring my dirty clothes home and bring them back after washing when I was coming from my home.

When thinking about it now, I know how silly it was. Lol... So, I carried a huge bag on Fridays and Mondays for this purpose. Meantime, I was like an employee of a courier service company. When my parents asked me to give seasonal fruits kind of things to my uncle, then that bag was full of all those stuff. One day I brought some mangoes from home.

We had to keep our bags in the outside and sometimes I forgot to bring it back when leaving the office. So, on that day, my bag was filled with washed clothes and mangoes. I kept it on a Monday, and I forgot to take it on Tuesday also. So, when it comes to Wednesday, I could feel the smell of mangoes and security guys also questioned about it from me. The same thing happened a few times. Therefore, those security guys used to remind me about the things I brought when I'm leaving the office. Lol...

When remembering them, I have a nice memory of them. All of us were kind to each other. They were the people who greet us when we were entering and leaving the office. So, it was nice to have a small chat with them in these two moments. Some of them gave gossip tips and I think they let us come up with more details. So, there was a good relationship among some of our colleagues and them with regard to the sharing of gossip information. Lol... There was one lady and we knew that weakness. As we could not bring the stuff to our cubicle areas, we passed some foodstuff to our cubicles while letting her talk with one of our friends. Though it was a small cunning work done for a few food packs, it burnt a few liters of our blood. One of our colleagues said that it's totally fine because we did it for a pregnant lady. However, we were a greedy gang when she was eating that special food. Lol...

Apart from them, the team who brought tea and snacks for us did a great job. They were very friendly to us. I remember the way they served Tea as per the different requirements of us. Some of our colleagues wanted to have tea or coffee with a little sugar and some of them wanted plain tea in the morning and coffee in the evening.

Some of them wanted to have sugarless tea. Sometimes our ladies and girls changed their requirements very often. Lol... Those days I was late to go to the office on Mondays as I was coming from my home. As there was a flexible hour’s schedule, it was not a problem. So, morning tea time was over when I was going there on Monday. But they were kind enough to give my tea irrespective of their schedule.

One day I met a Tea uncle in another office. There were a few friends who worked with me in an ex-office. So, it was a nice meeting with that uncle and our gang. It was an innocent get together where we shared and reminded our joyful memories. At that time also, he asked whether I would like to have a Tea.

The people who did the cleaning service is the other crowd. If I could not put a note about them, then it is lacking. Some of them were friendly to us. The time we used the washroom was the time they used to reveal their life journeys. Most of them were filled with many difficulties.

There was one lady and she was old. She had her grandchildren too. When I was looking at her, always I thought that she is not physically strong enough to do cleaning stuff. She said that she is leaving home around 5 am to come to our office. So, it was not an easy job for her. However, she did not worry about her job or physical conditions. She came every day and did her job well. When our team gives a small gift to her at the year-end, she was so happy. Apart from her, there was one young gent and one of his kids had a tumor in the brain. For surgeries and medicine, our office crowd helped him a lot with his expenses. There was another lady and she was a bit tough. She blamed the people who did not keep the washroom clean. She used to say “now we are cleaning the others bladdy shits because of the bad karma we did in our past. In the next ego, you will do our job”. However, nobody talked against her though we had to hear that curse when she was working on our floor. I was happy about our reactions as we could see her inner war.

The others were the drivers who gave transport to us when we were working till night. That office arranged cabs for us to go home. They were very disciplined people, and I think nobody made a complaint about them. Some of them thought we have a wonderful and happening job life. I think it's because of the chit chats we had with transport buddies. Lol... Some of them understood our real situation. They knew how hard time we had with such a work schedule. So, they instructed us to keep our health. There was one mature person and he always asked us not to use cold water for shower after working till late at night.

Regarding the coworkers, I could say that I'm lucky to have a few lifetime friends. Apart from them, I had a professional relationship with others. As everybody was not good for me, I was not good for everyone too. As I had a blacklist, I was in some other's blacklists too. As you know it cannot be avoided. So, looking back past, it was a wonderful journey to rewind. Some incidents gave good lessons for life. Still, there are some improvements to consider. But I hope that awareness directs me to the best path.

I think this is a bit long article when comparing to previous posts. I can write many things. Though there are many things to talk about "People at the workplace", I don't think that it is useful for you all. Here, I'm revealing this side of people because of one purpose that I have mentioned at the beginning.

The other important thing is, my career journey did not go with the other's favorations. It is all about hard-working, enormous effort, and courage. Apart from the financial benefits that I'm gaining today, that is the most rewarded thing I can share with you as a person who dealt according to the conscience.

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67.0 Don’t Let Anything Crash The Peace Of Your Mind. The Guidance To Protect! Stay Safe...

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Fri, 27 Mar 2020 03:23:00 +0000

I've been continuing the posts about my amazing (horrible) career journey. But I wanted to come up with this topic because of the bad situation that we are currently facing. You all know that. COVID-19! CORONA! I think it is a suitable topic to discuss as there are many points to share with you all. For the moment all of you know how to avoid it and what are the actions you need to take.

How to wash your hands? How to use Sanitizers? How to maintain social distance, etc…? But do you think about the status of your mind? Are you aware of your thoughts? Is it a mess now? If so, why? I think that is one of the most important things in this situation that we should take care of. It is important to think about your Mind!

How do we prepare our minds to face any situation? However, it is not a skill that you can develop instantly. But still, we are not late. I think we all should start practicing it from this moment onwards. I'm not telling you that I'm a genius. But I'm happy for my mind even though I'm also practicing its skill. At least, I know when a bad thought comes to my mind. I think anger is the main thing. But with this awareness, you can turn it into merits too. That is the benefit.

However, this Dhamma belongs to the universal truth called Buddhism. It does not depend on your nationality or religion, as it is a universal truth. So, if you wish to think about it further, then you can visit many Dhamma preaching. I learned that valuable truth via the sermons of Ven Thiththagalle Anandasiri Thero. You can search it via "Maha Sinha Nadaya, Ven Thiththagalle Anandasiri Thero". So, it is an additional point. One day you will understand that your bad thoughts are your enemy, and it is the only war that you need to defeat.

As you know, the imbalance between the expectation and the actual current situation is the reason for many mental diseases. We give many names such as stress, anxiety, depression, etc... Those are certain situations that happen according to the amount of that gap. As an example, think about a moment that you get angry with somebody.

I also had such many situations. Even at this moment also I cannot get rid of it fully. But the way I think about it and face it is the difference I made. So, according to that example, we are getting angry because of that gap. What happens if we can avoid that gap? It is called acceptance. If you can accept the current situation, then there is no gap between your expectations and the current actual situation.

You should try to start with little things. Try to accept the current behaviors of your family members and tell them the correct way by removing that gap in your mind. What is the gap I’m talking about? The gap between the expectation and the actual situation. If you cannot keep them on the correct track, then you change the style of your thinking pattern. Can you change your attitudes or qualities as per your wish? Though you want to do, can you change yourself easily? No, right? You can change your appearance as per your wish. But is it easy to change your inner thoughts? No. It is not. So, if you cannot change yourself, then how can you change others? Thinking in that way is one method.

The other thing is, you know that all of us have different thinking patterns, appearances, behaviors, qualities, and all have done according to a previous schedule. We were the ones who prepared that plan and schedule in our previous lives in this never-ending cycle of births and rebirths. So, all of us are working accordingly and now we are preparing the schedules of our next lives via our current actions. Therefore, do you believe that you can change someone's schedule? Yes. You can. But up to some extent. So, always think about the peaceful status of your mind. Don't let anybody or anything to crash it.

You might think that how do these points help on this topic. You know that we cannot face an exam, function, wedding, or anything without preparation. The people who are at the top of a particular field have come to those levels via their sacrifices and relevant practices. You can become the genius of something according to the things you have practiced most.

So, the mind is also like that. It behaves according to our thinking pattern. Therefore, the situation that we are facing now also not a one we expected. It is not our expectation. But it is the current situation. So, that is why I wanted to discuss a bit about that mental gap via the previous paragraph. I added this point to avoid your feeling if you feel it is not required for this topic.

If you can analyze the statistics of deaths in previous years due to diseases, then you will identify one thing. It is the sickness. It is one common thing that every being has to face along with their birth. So, birth, sickness, and death are common to every one of us.

It does not depend on anything. You will be a rich person. But you will be helpless like a beggar in front of death when you got to know that you don't have medicines to buy. So, we should aware of these truths well and we should develop our minds accordingly. As humans, our mind is the great gift we received to perceive this truth. If you can face any horrible situation without worrying, then you are a great hero.

So, all of us will start removing anger and cravings from our minds. We try to keep it pure without spoiling it. To do that I believe acceptance is the best practice. Take care of yourself and others. Do whatever that requires to get rid of this matter. Adhere to the guidance of health experts. Don't break the medical and disciplinary rules to show that you are not afraid of your death. Please don't be an idiot. Meanwhile, be conscious of your thoughts. Treat your mind well, and take care of it. There is a way to end all this cycle. But for the moment, we should face this situation as humans who have developed mindsets. Be Relax! May Triple Gems Bless You! Stay Safe! Take Care!

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66.0 A Lovely Gift For IT Guys. Oh Sorry... IT Professionals! The Start Of A Fantastic Career Journey. Lol...

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Tue, 17 Mar 2020 08:19:00 +0000

With the completion of my higher studies, I wanted to move to my desired field. Though there were related opportunities, I wanted to start my career as a Software Developer. It was my dream. So, I was waiting for that opportunity by ignoring some other vacancies. Though I completed projects with coding for my studies, the employers were looking for employees with some more experiences.

Though my friends said that it is a tough and stressful job for a girl, I wanted that career path. They pointed out the struggle that their development team is putting on to convince me. But you know. I wanted that path. So, one of our senior colleagues asked me to develop a small project as the credentials to show, and I did it for an inventory control system. It was an addition to the coded projects I did for higher studies. So, it was the beginning I expected, and I was ready to accept my dream path even for any payment.

I could keep the first step in my career path as a Trainee VB.Net Programmer. After an induction program, they assigned us to teams under seniors. I started working on commercial projects, and it was a great feeling for me. However, it was not like the inventory system I developed by myself, and there were many coding rules to adopt. However, I could not continue that job for more than one year, and I moved to another place. It was a small organization, and there were very few employees. We met clients, gathered business requirements, develop the system, and test the system before handing over it to the clients.

So, it was the job of an all-rounder. However, job retention was very less, and most of the employees resigned after a few months. The rest of the team had to get the responsibility of their pending work. When I had to face it, I had to fix the issues that clients have communicated without studying the system’s code even. It was a horrible problem for all of us. Sometimes, it is not possible at all when it comes to fixing something that developed with a mess-up code without best practices.

So, in such a situation, our management asked me to visit the client's place and fix all the problems. She also came with me. When we moved there, there was a group of people to communicate their issues. So, now I'm going to touch someone's pending work to fix the problem. They served tea and snacks. They also sat with me to check the status of the issues. From time to time they asked the status of the issues. Though I wanted to tell them that "shut up... I'm not a machine, and this is not like a product that you can buy from a shop", I kindly requested more time to fix the issues. Meantime, they did not forget to discuss new requirements and root causes for the problems too. “I’m bearing up their burden, men……”. Lol... So, it was uncomfortable like hell, and I could not focus on the trouble.

After facing similar issues, I understood its difficulty and thought to change my career field. One of my colleagues also changed the career track, and it was the end for her too. In that company, there was one colleague, and he used to keep the phone receiver away when someone was communicating their system issues. As it is not a good thing to do, we asked him to listen to them. But he did not like to hear even their voice because of the tension they gave at the client's places. It was such an experience. So, I could say that it was the end of one of my dreams. Lol...

Software Testing! It was my destiny. Who knows? If I knew that, then I would start my career as a Tester without struggling as a developer. As it has been dragging for over 12 years, there are many memories. I could join a workplace I loved the most, and joining with them was my second career dream. Lol... I can remember the way I felt sad when I missed the first opportunity. But, later on, I could fulfill my dream. Therefore, the first day was an enjoyable moment like nothing. I enjoyed it a lot with other newcomers who had the same craziness. Some of them are still working at that company. I think they are their fixed assets. Lol...

We joyfully completed the induction programs also and moved to work. I could say that it was another chapter of my life. The life had stuck with "Testing". But the friends and that culture were some motivation factors. So, the workload was not a problem for a couple of years, and "work till the late night was not a problem at all. Lol...

Though it was an enjoyable time, that schedule was not bearable for all the time. Some colleagues could have free time after finishing one project. But it was only five days for me for the entire five years. When I was working for European projects, I had to work for their time zones too. When the systems are going live, our heartbeats were started increasing a couple of days before the live day. If there was a major issue that we could not find out after going live, then it was the end of the job. One incident could spoil all the good jobs done. So, nobody wanted to get that black mark for their software modules. So, it was a stressful situation. Some of our colleagues went to religious places before go-live and asked for support because of this situation. Though it made us laugh for days, they did as so because of the afraid they had to face such situations.

Therefore, that job and the modules were attached to our personal lives. I think that's why some of our fellows were taking the support of religious places also. They took the project's issues as their problems. Most of our colleagues took their responsibility and they put the maximum effort. I think, that culture created such a bond between employee and job. Most of the colleagues did not check the time when they were working on their tasks. They wanted to finish it somehow and do the needful. I could say that work exposure could change our normal lifestyle.

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65.0 Jobs! Are You A Successful Employee? All The Best...

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Wed, 04 Mar 2020 08:36:00 +0000

Jobs!

What do you know about jobs?
What don't you know about jobs?
Are you a successful employee at your company?
Are you fed up with your job?
Do you like your office colleagues?
Are they jealousy about you?
Do your colleagues let you go up on your career ladder?
Can you manage your colleagues without hurting their feelings?
Did they take your blames personally?
Are you working in the field you expected?
Does the salary is enough for you?
Have you requested more?
Did you remind your next promotion to them?
How was the last performance appraisal meeting?
Can you handle the workload within the deadline?
Is it a reasonable one?
Do you need more resources?
Don't they want to hire anymore?
Can you manage the workload of two people as a genius?
Can you resolve any critical matter with minimum supervision?
Have you checked any more opportunities this week?
How about your last interview? Can you go through it?
Are you passing your maximum stress level?
What will happen on next morning?

Huh... Lol... When I'm starting this topic, these are some questions that came to mind by typing that word J….O….B….S! However, some of the questions that I have mentioned above are no longer available on my plate? Instead of those, there are new things? As I was a 9 - 6 employee, those were some firing questions I had before, and I think that most of you also face these matters if you are stuck in someone's office as such an employee. However, by proving Lord Buddha's Dhamma; "If you love 100 things, then you have 100 pains". Basically, if you love something, then it brings you pain. It is a universal truth, and the job has also belonged to this rule, as we have to love it. It is the income method of us. So, it is a thing that gives us the pain too.

The time I spent as a job seeker was hectic. It was an interview era. In that era, I wanted to find a job near our home town. As IT job opportunities are limited to Colombo, I could not find my desired job. So, I started my career as an IT lecturer. Though the designation was given as a Lecturer, I got a small payment.

However, I started it for my career exposure. I had to conduct lectures in the classrooms by helping them in the labs as an instructor too. So, it was not an easy job. I could say that the owners took the energy of young girls by allocating the maximum workload. There were many girls, and all had that tight schedule. However, it was a fun era, and sometimes we had to face for the incidents that we did as students in the past. When I was writing something on the board, some started laughing. When I was looking at them, they hid their laughter hardly. One day a boy came up with a question, and I did not know the answer.

So, I gave an answer that can support the question. As he did not satisfy the answer, I asked him to remind it in the next week. So, I thought to find out the answer when I'm going to the next class. However, I forgot about it and had to face the same situation in the next class. But that guy followed up and asked again. I can remember how did I embarrass. That gang also wanted to defeat the teacher, and it happened. Still, I can remember the winning smile had on his face when I was embarrassed. Lol...

When we were studying for the Advance level exam, I also did the same for a person who conducted a group class. On that day, we gave a difficult Math question to him, and he could not resolve it soon. When he was taking the time, I can remember how did he get sweat when we were happily watching that moment. However, he could do it by taking the time, even though I could not manage this situation at all. So, I think this incident was a return for me. It is a Karmically return. Lol…

However, that era was a nice time as I did not stick to a computer only. I could involve different types of people. My colleagues and students had different personalities. So, it was a new experience for me. It was not like involving with a bunch of friends. It was a different thing. One day our management informed us that some seniors who were working in the government sector want to do the computer course. They said that they wanted some sessions in the lab. Not the theory sessions.

So, they allocated me and another colleague for this job. So, we arranged special materials according to their requirements. When they came, again, they reminded their requirement. Some of them asked about our qualifications. Some felt shy to learn from us, as we look like their children. So, they pointed out many reasons for the requirement of that computer course.

As usual, we introduced the contents of the course. When we were doing it some of them did not look at us even, and they did not care about the things we said. So, it was an uncomfortable situation for us too. Because of their behavior, we could not teach the things and ask questions to verify their understanding as we did for others. So, we assumed that they got the point. He he he....

Therefore, the sessions we conducted at the lab were horrible. Some of them could not manage the computer mouse even, though they gave big talks before. So, it made them embarrassed like nothing. However, some caught up the things well and went forward. That gang did not like to listen to their colleagues also. They thought that it was not good for their image. However, they came for a few weeks and stopped suddenly. It was a great relief for us too. Lol...

So, guys, this is one page of my career, and there are many to tell. I think I can write a few posts regarding this topic. Wait... I will come up with some remarkable memories. You can enjoy it and learn!

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64.0 We Are Dealing With Feelings Of All…It Is Not A Business Negotiation

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 10:28:00 +0000

When getting back to the second part of this topic, I was confused, and don't know where to start. As you know, this is a horrible topic. Lol... However, I would like to reveal all the crazy stuff with you. You also can share your thoughts, feedback, experiences, or anything if you enjoyed the post. So, as we discussed in the first part, the first meetings that arranged at the home were uncomfortable events. But there was no excuse. It was a mandatory thing to arrange those meetings at home and had to go in front of them by wearing another uncomfortable stuff.

As this mission was launched at our home and my uncle's home, they visited me according to the nearest location they lived. I can remember that some of them were discouraged from visiting for many girls in various places in our country. I think they could arrange trips on the same journey. At least they could have some snaps if that did not work. Lol... So, some parents wanted to start the second step "getting to know each other" before arranging this visit ritual. If it worked only, they planned to visit the girl. That was their plan.

However, it was not the decision of all. But gradually our parents adhered to some flexible arrangements. I think it was enough for them as the arrangements are done at the home required some sort of preparation. So, in such a situation the meetings arranged at places like Pizza hut, Macdonalds, etc.. Most of the time one of my cousin sisters joined with me to meet them. These meetings did not have much pressure. They did not come with family members and all the relatives. It was a great relief. As my cousin sister was there, we could start our conversation in a friendly and informal way. However, it was an uncomfortable situation as both the parties are strangers to each other. I can remember one guy was sweating and he could not manage the conversation. So, when I felt that they were in an uncomfortable situation, I used to think about my appearance, behavior, clothes, hair, and all at that moment. Lol... So, it was an additional thinking process.

Sometimes, all of my cousins joined me when one of them knew the boy. In such cases, all of us went out for lunch or dinner with that guy. They did not forget to appreciate me though it made me embarrassed. Still, I can remember the way they looked at me when I was behaving in an inappropriate way that could reduce his interest. Lol... Some cases did not work at all. It was just a meeting. But some cases could keep the second step after going through the first meet up well.

I think most of the cases went wrong due to miscommunication. Some guys did not have enough free time to talk, and sometimes it happened from my end. It was not possible to have a long chat during office hours, and those days office hours also ended up in the night. Sometimes, I could not check whether they had their breakfast, lunch, and dinner before having my meal. Sometimes, I forgot and sometimes I felt kind of artificial feeling. I could do it as a tradition or a rule to win them. But it did not come through me as an honest feeling to care about them.

Sometimes, I forgot to inform the late hour works. They wanted a very attaching lifestyle that cannot be lived in real life. I think sometimes such a lifestyle can be handled before the marriage. But I didn't think that it is possible to keep the same level after the marriage. Then each one would start to see the difference. There was such a marriage proposal, and sometimes I scheduled the messages. I sent a message before sleep, and schedule my "Good morning" message. Lol...

On the other hand, some guys did not want such caring and they wanted their freedom. It was enough to have one call per day and such a caring routine disturbed them. So, it was not possible at all to contact them in the day time for anything. I did not want to follow such guys at all due to my ego. So, none of us won, but the ego did. Lol... However, I appreciate such guys, as they show their real qualities from the beginning.

The main issue I had in these marriage proposals is the nature of artificial feelings. Sometimes, some guys felt love, kindness, caring, and all within a few days, and I was not ready to accept. I did not think that it is possible and still, I believe that it is something that needs to be developed with time, and qualities of each. Some of them pointed out the limited time they had for selecting a partner when I was questioning the reasons for such abnormal occurrences. Some people had a queue of girls and they checked one person for certain days and go to the next one. Some guys did it parallelly. Lol...

Apart from all, some guys did all for the marriage proposals as obedient children of their parents. Though they had a love affair with another girl, they did not reveal it to their parents and did whatever their parents wanted to marriage proposals. They visited girls with their parents. They just did it as a drama by running their real love affair. There was such a couple at one of my previous offices. However, I don't understand why they were wasting time and money for many. But they were like that. I let you think even though various answers came to my mind.

However, I think this partner searching process is a pathetic area of our society. I don't know about this situation in other countries. If you check the marriage proposals published in a newspaper, then you can clearly understand it. You will see how do the young lives are oscillating among the different hopes and expectations that they think as requirements for their marriage lives.

I could not forget some incidents of this topic. I would like to prominent my parent's hopes and sacrifices. One day my father prepared dinner for me when I was coming back home from Colombo. He did that for me, as my mother was not well. On that day he prepared many, including noodle to celebrate the confirmation of one marriage proposal. It is just a confirmation made by both sides, and my father was happy about that boy's handsome look. So, he prepared that meal for me from his best abilities. When it is on the table, I got a little from that noodle bowl. I thought it was a jack curry. It has so steamed and could not identify it. Lol...

On another day, he prepared some cutlets. He had to do all because of my mother's situation. At that time, that guy and his parents visited my uncle's home. That location was near to them. So, I asked my father to stay at home as he had to travel. But he came, and he brought the cutlets he prepared for their tea time. Those were dark black and it gave a bitter taste. I felt so sad about my father.

He made all those sacrifices because of us. So, it is not only my father. If you think a bit you will identify some points that you can highlight. The marriage proposal thing is not a business to exchange two humans. In this matter, we all are dealing with the feelings of each other including parents.

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63.0 The Reasons... Why You Are Still An Amateur At Marriage Proposals?

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Fri, 07 Feb 2020 11:16:00 +0000

As you know, I have a pending list of topics to write as Blog posts. This topic is one of them. When I was preparing that list, this was at the top as I have many things to share with you all. But when I look at it before starting a new post, I did not want to take it. However, today I'm taking that topic and I would like to see your responses. Lol... If you are seeking an arranged marriage, then you would also have such memories. Sometimes I won't be able to finish this by one article. Will see...

The Main Reason for that delay was I felt a bit shy to reveal the incidents of this topic though most of them are fun. But I think that such a reveal can help someone who is working on this matter. Apart from that, I think such a reveal will help me to reduce the view of "I". Though we think that there is a person in our body, that is not the truth. We should be able to think all about these as doctrines that cannot be controlled as per our wish. I know that you will have different views regarding my point.

However, I'm sharing this according to the Dhamma of Lord Buddha. It is not my invention. It is a Universal Truth. If you think that you have an ego, then think whether you can control your inhale and exhale as per your wish, if you are the owner of this body. So, this truth exists with us and we should perceive it within us via the practice. There should be such a thinking pattern. If you can reveal the mistakes, and silly things you did, then it will help you to reduce the view of "I”. Therefore, I think this reveal helps me to be in that correct track. Think… You will agree with me. However, you can ignore this paragraph and enjoy the rest if you do not agree with that point.

As I did not find a suitable Partner by myself, my parents decided to fulfill their responsibility. Before that, they asked whether I have someone or not. Those days, they used to check my diary. So, once they were asking about this many times, I wrote my diary accordingly to prove my response. Lol... So, they started that mission. It’s a mission. Lol... Lol... You can read This Post as a background on this topic.

The Secret Mission! However, they launched their mission secretly. I don't know why? Lol... Though they published a marriage proposal advertisement in the newspaper, they did not tell it to me. Later on, I got to know about that. I saw a piece of paper hidden under the mattress of my mother's bed. I saw that it was about the details of girls/women who were seeking for partners. So, when I was going through a few Advertisements, I saw my one. Lol... Though I cannot remember the content now, I remembered that it made me laugh. So, it was the very first step of their mission. I think they had many hopes. Hmm...

That Dream... Lol! So, it was the beginning of a damn era that critically highlighted the importance of a Marriage. Our friends and some of my cousins also started their new journeys. Therefore, it was a kind of Romantic era where we had many weddings while we were seeking for our opportunity. So, wedding times also benefited to some of my friends. But you know. At that time, I thought that it was not my time. Still, I'm thinking as so. Lol... However, it was kind of a dreamy hope that we had before seeing the marriage lives of friends, and siblings. Lol...

So, though there were many opportunities for me to find out a good fellow, my parents had to continue their mission. Therefore, they published marriage proposals in newspapers. They checked suitable proposals in the Newspaper, and so on. Meantime, they gave my details to some matrimonial organizations and people. Therefore, every weekend, I had to go through their selections and give feedback. Among them, we selected one and my parents decided to contact them.

The First Meeting! After the initial discussion by parents, everything arranged to schedule the first meeting at our home. So, there were many preparations. They prepared various foodstuffs, and I also had to prepare a suitable attire for their visit. It was the most annoying thing as I had to wear a saree as per our traditions. So, once they came, my parents welcomed them and had a small discussion. Then it was my time, and they asked me to meet them. It was the most nervous moment I had in my life. I could not Smile even. It took some time to be a normal human. Once all done, they went, and my parents were happy about him.

But you know it was not my choice. Lol... Therefore, I kindly gave my feedback when my parents were asking for my feedback. As they kept hopes, it was not their expectation. So, they felt sad. I can remember that my father went to sleep after my response, and I got to know that it made him sad. What to do, guys?

After that, they arranged many similar meetings. I also faced them like a tired dummy. Lol... However, as I could not spend my weekends peacefully, and later on, it became a Headache. Sometimes the way they were questioning or the way they have looked at me also were some reasons for the rejections. Apart from my decisions, some guys did not respond once they left. Such situations made me happy as it did not a reason for me to get my parents' blame. I respected their Decision. Lol...

My Plan! So, after a few months, I wanted to get rid of these proposals’ thing. Therefore, I started a programming course at the weekend. I requested a small break from my parents and I promised to get back to that matter after finishing that course. Lol... It was a big relief for me. If you know the arrangements and all then, you can understand my situation.

Time went fast, and my parents started their Job again once the requested time was over with that course. Meantime, I got a job as well. So, as I stayed in my uncle's home to go to the office, my parents launched their mission on weekdays also at their home too. Therefore, meetings were scheduled at our homes and my uncles' home. So, it was a Horrible Era where I had to manage my nervous feelings in front of strangers. I think it happened to them also as I was a stranger to them. So, most of the time, both did not smile friendly even. Lol...

Family Visits! Some guys came with their whole family including parents, siblings, friends, aunts, uncles, and kids. So, such visits look like small gatherings. Lol... Once they came, the entire crowd started to ask questions and some silly things made me angry. In such cases, I gave my response without thinking twice. However, those were very uncomfortable situations, though those are fun memories now. I don't know why did they bring their entire family? Lol...

However, some fellows got friendly with my sisters and cousins. They did not talk to me much and spoke with them like long time Friends. Lol... The same situation happened to one of my cousin sisters as well. One guy came to visit her with his parents, and at that time I had to continue the conversation with him as he did not talk with my cousin's sister well. Luckily, both of us were IT professional. Therefore, we had some points to discuss in that uncomfortable conversation.

As a common issue that happens to IT guys, he also had dark circles around his eyes. Those were like the eyes of a drunk person. It looks like he did not have enough sleep, and it was my thought. Appearance and his unfriendly behavior were the main reasons for my sisters' rejection. Lol… If both parties could understand that all are strangers to each other, then I think things would change.

However, we could share good impressions with each other in a few meetings, and such situations put the second step. Getting to know each other! Lol...

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62.0 Best Bath Tips You Will Read This Year. How To Enjoy Your Bath Time?

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Fri, 24 Jan 2020 09:03:00 +0000

Hobbies! Today, I wanted to bring an article about one of my hobbies. I hope that you also have similar experiences that you can compare with my story. Please don't forget to share it with us if you have a fun bath than us. Sometimes this will be your hobby too. I know most of the people enjoy their bath time if they do not have a hurry for another schedule. If we can go out to have a bath with a few friends, then it will arrange a great get together.

In one of my posts, I wrote how did I bath when I was a kid. If you wish to read more about it, you can go through this article. Childhood is a mesmerizing memory, and that Bath Time was a valuable addition to that memory. As we did not have a tight schedule, we had enough time to enjoy our bath when I was a kid. I think my parents also had a good time and it was like a leisure time them too. There was no rush to move to another work by finishing the bath as soon as possible. If there were such a thing to hurry, then it was our meal. I can remember that my mother asked me to finish the bath soon to have lunch. However, she made that request after letting me enjoy my bath time for hours. So, it was a reasonable request.

River Bath! It was a river bath, and I was lucky to go there very often. As we moved to another location, I had to change it, and I never went to a river when we were living there. It was a city. So, that time passed with my primary education. Though I had a good bath time on the river, I never complained about the new water level that comes through a small tap line or shower. However, there was a bathtub in that bathroom, and sometimes I sank in that tub for hours when my parents were not at home. Lol... They thought that it was not good for the health of this creature who had a bath in the river for hours. It was like that.

From that era onwards, it was one of the main Water resources that I had to have a bath. After a few years, again, we had to change our location due to the father's job transfer. It was not an urban area, and we lived in a rented house. There were no facilities like the previous place. Water did not supply to the doorstep. So, it took a certain time for us to adapt to it.

The well was the main water resource for us. We used a separate well to take drinking water, and there were marvelous water resources to have a bath. One well located in a paddy field, and I loved that place. It was a small well located in a green area. It is a nice scenery to imagine today.

Nature! We could take water easily. It required less effort as the water level came to the top. Even a small child could take water and have a bath. It was not a crowded place as well. My father did not come to that place as he used to have a bath at night. So, I went there with my mother and sister. When time allowed, we three went there. It was a memorable place because of a few reasons. One thing is its location. I loved that well which situated in a green area. The other thing is there was clean and cool water because of "Kumbuk" trees exist near the paddy field. The other thing is still, I can remember how did my mother wash my wound once we went to that well. It was a remarkable wound and it is another story. That Wound Story. So, I cannot forget that bath time. Still, I can remember the fresh air that comes through the paddy field when I was bathing cool water.

Once we moved to our own house, we did not want to go outside to have a bath. But we love to go to the river and well to have a bath. However, when I was moving to the school grades that have key Examinations, we cut down the things that we have done leisurely. We worked by looking at the clock. It was in the face. So, this bath time also such a key thing that I had to cut down, and gradually the bath gets restricted to the bathroom. Later on, I felt lazy to go to the river or the well if there was no friend or cousin.

Priority! However, still, I could not cut down the time that I wanted to have a bath. Though it is a problem to others, still, I need a portion of the time I used in the river and the well in that paddy field. Though I had a rush to go to the office when I was a 9-5 employee, I gave priority to my bath time. So, when I had some sort of illness, bath time was the key reason that they pointed out. Lol... When I was sharing the bathroom with my cousin's sister, I waked up in the early morning to have a bath. Or else she did not have enough time for her preparation.

A few years back, one of my cousin's sister migrated to another country. She said that they have to use a small-time for a shower. She said that if I went there, then those people will send me back to my country because of the time I required for a shower. Lol... So, I would like you to invite you to my country to have an unlimited bath if you have not visited Sri Lanka yet. You can go to the sea, a river, or the well to enjoy your bath time. If you went through my article, definitely you will remember me too.

Go Green! As well as we should think about our environment as a part of our body. We are a part of this nature. So, if we destroy it, it means that we are destroying ourselves. We should let our children also have a nice time as we had. They also should be nature lovers to protect this earth. So, if you see a water tap that does not close properly, don't think twice to do your part though it is not your home. If you are the one who is leaving the office at the end, then make sure that you switch off the lights, fans, etc... before you leave. I know that it does not add an extra charge for your bill. You don’t need to worry about other's bills. But that should be the thinking pattern. We are a part of this universe. So, we should think globally to Protect our environment.

Don't forget to enjoy your bath time, guys!

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61.0 Want To Have A More Appealing Facial Expressions? Read This! Mesmerizing Examples Of Facial Expressions.

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Wed, 15 Jan 2020 10:56:00 +0000

What do you think about your Facial Expressions? Can you hide it when you want to do so? Or do you express your real expressions as it is though it is not pleasant to others? You can decide at the end of this topic. Till then, I will share some of my experiences. Sometimes, you may think that this is not an important thing to discuss. But I wanted to bring this to you. I think this is an important thing to consider according to my view.

Can you read the Facial Expressions of your family members at least? Do you ignore the facial expression of your office colleague once you feel that it brings you some disadvantages? Do you want some more facts to verify your observation to approve the things that you identified via Facial Expressions? Or do you accept someone's facial expressions as it is without any other facts? Sometimes, you may have your answers. Some of you may think about your answers. Read my stuff, and it will help you to think broadly and come to a decision.

If I tell you about myself, some of my friends have told me that they cannot read my Facial Expressions. Once they told me that, I felt so happy. Lol... Then I thought that I can hide the facial expressions that I do not want to show it to others. One day when I was working at a previous workplace, I was so tired, and on that day, I worked till around 9 p.m. So, it was enough for the day. I got this response from one of my friends there when I could not laugh for a joke shared by one of our colleagues. Though the others laughed a lot, I could not laugh with Expressions. So, it was a laugh without an expression. Then it was another joke for them. It was their next topic. Lol... I think tiredness was the main problem.

I forgot to share this thing with you before moving to that incident. In the school era, as you know, we had a joyful time. We lived with Laughter. We could not hide it for any serious reason. Even the punishment time gave joy to us if we did not get a slap from a teacher or principal. When it comes to slap, it was a different story. In that era, I could say that we laughed at everything. We were like mad creatures. So, when we were trying to identify a solution to this problem, one of my friends asked to think about a sad incident to avoid laughter. It was a good solution, and it worked up to some extent.

However, there were some situations where we could not manage it. In such a case, one of our teachers blamed me for something saying "I can see the laughter in your eyes though you did not laugh". She was correct. At that time, I was trying to avoid my laughter when she was blaming me. But she was clever to see it via my eyes. Once she told that, I laughed as usual, and it increased her anger. Lol...

Those days she did not like me and there was a valid reason for her to do so. One day I called her "Aunt" instead of "Madam". Though I did not do it intentionally, it made me laugh at the end, and I said "Sorry" by keeping that smile. So, I think it would be like a slap to her. After that, I said sorry for a few times in serious mode. But it did not work well. I think she kept the first facial expressions on her mind. So, she had many reasons for me to blame, and I think she was the one who could read my Facial Expressions well on those days. Lol...

So, when it comes to others, I have observed the Facial Expressions of people. It is fun to see the difference between their words and expressions. But some situations made me sad. Sometimes it is a pain to identify the real face. But it depends on few facts like friendship, relationship, etc..

You may feel sad once you identify the person as a bad one, who you believed. You may feel happy once you identify the person as a bad one, who you suspected. So, it depends. I hope you can understand what I'm telling you. Think about your thoughts when you see the sorrow on the face of someone who loves you after hearing good news about you.

However, I have never communicated it to them, and I did it for my information only. I did not share my observations with others, except very few incidents. Most of the time, I think we ignore this observation if we feel that we may have disadvantages after letting them know about that. I can remember how did some of our seniors ask us to stay till late for work, though they can see the pain and tiredness from our faces. I think that the above reason was the thing for them to act so. I know. It is true up to some extent. If somebody can act well, then he/she will show you Fake Expressions to get your sympathy. So, it needs to decide very carefully.

When thinking about such incidents happened in the workplace, there are many to reveal. But I do think that nobody can take benefits from them. However, I felt happy about this subject and the job as we can show our facial expressions as it is, though it is pleasant or not. Certain jobs do not allow the employees to show their actual status as it is. So, we are lucky guys. Most of the people cannot see our face even. They are also lucky, I think. Lol...

So, this incident happened to a waiter in a five-star hotel. It was a Sunday, and at that time there were fewer employees. So, she had to carry on the work on behalf of other colleagues as well. I could see the anger and tiredness on her face. She got a huge effort to hide it from customers. The other person also a waiter and he was also a team member. When I was working on my observation job, he could identify it. When he was pouring tea into my cup, his Face talks many sorrows. But he turned it back to a Smile and wished me a good day once he noticed my observation. I think that they are some people who work for us by giving a pleasant service by forgetting their personal worries. But you cannot have the same experience at every place, though you are a customer.

If you would like to read more on this you can go through this article as well. Have You Ever Observed The Meaning of Someones' Smile?

60.0 If You Don't Love Them Now, You'll Hate Yourself Later. A Million Lessons About Parent's Love You Need To Know Before You Die.

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Thu, 02 Jan 2020 08:12:00 +0000

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First of all, I would like to wish you a Happy New Year 2020!

I wish this new year brings you success, joy, love, and peace. Though we need the success of everything, I believe the development of good thoughts in our mind is the most important thing that we all should do as humans. We may arrange parties; we may wear new clothes to welcome the new year. But, how many of us wanted to clean our spirits by removing bad qualities we have. In this new year dawn, I thought to improve the spiritual side of life.

Apart from that, I thought not to discuss the bad side of people, though they filled up with many bad qualities. I know it is not an easy effort. But we should try at least to gain the benefits of humanity. Apart from that, some developments are required for my career. I hope you all have many hopes and plans for this new year. I wish you a happy new year again!

In this new year dawn, I would like to bring you some important memories I have about a parent's love. Sometimes, you may be a parent now. Though you are either a parent or child, I hope this article will be a sensitive one for you all. Sometimes, it will bring joy as well as tears for your eye. You will think about the lovely memories you have.

Some parents are showing love to their children. But some of them do not do that. Though their hearts filled with lots of love, they do not show it to their children. My parents are a hybrid version of these two. Lol... My mother does not show it and my father is the one who shows it to us. So, in certain cases we thought that our mother did not love us. He he he... But later on, I thought that it was a wrong thought. At that time, she was in the hospital for heart surgery. At that time, I just have moved to my higher studies after school education. So, she had to stay there for a few weeks. It was a hard time for me, my father and my sister. We were afraid of her surgery. Time to time all of us went to visit her. Once done, she was taken to the hospital ward. But she could not talk well because of the pain.

On that day I went to visit her alone. It was evening time. Though I went there by bus, I did not know the place to take a bus to come back. So, when I was asking about the route from one of my uncles, she was listening to it. Then she asked that uncle to drop me to the bus halt without letting me go alone. She took an effort to communicate it and she repeated the same a few times. It made me sad. Though I asked her to stop talking, it was not her pain. She worried about the problem I had at that time. When I was telling this to one of my friends, she could not talk, and tears came to her eye.

If I tell you about my father, he was the one who did everything for my success. He was our shadow. He was with us for everything. When my mother was doing all the home stuff without giving to us, my father provided guidance and financial support. If he earned one penny, it was for his children, us. He did not spend money on himself. He was the one who prepared a lot for our journey of success. He planned for it than us.

When I was starting my own thing as a career, he had many plans. He wanted to allocate a separate space from the new house that we are building now. When I was telling him that I do not require such a space for my work, I got to know that he allocated that space by imagining a higher success level in my career. It brought a smile to me. But he was serious.

In the early era of my career, I had to go for many interviews to find out a suitable job. When I was going for job interviews, he came with me for each interview. Sometimes, he waited for five to six hours in the vehicle. But he did not worry about it though I asked him to don’t wait. When I was going on a school trip I stayed in a boarding house at that time. We were planning to leave in the early morning. Before we leave, he came to drop me to school and brought lunch as well. To prepare it, I think my mother should wake up around 3.00 a.m. It was their sacrifice for their children. Though there were no more than 100 meters to school from the boarding place, he wanted to make sure it as a safe journey.

They were happy with our achievements. They encouraged us when there were failures. They had good points to encourage us, and they never blamed for the failures. I can remember the happiness in my father's eyes when I was using a laptop for my work. I could see a proud father. However, it changed soon, as I stuck to it for my job work and studies. Lol...

I saw many proud parents during my lifetime. I saw their proudness in the success of their children. One day I went to a shop to buy some stuff, and we know that family well. It was a small business a few years back, and they developed it gradually with their effort. When it was a small business, the father of that family managed the cashier and his wife issued the goods to the customers. They have a few kids, and we could see them once we went there.

When I was going there after that development, I saw that his daughter was managing the cashier role. Her parents stayed at the shop by helping her. That girl did her job well, and her parents happily worked with her. It was a happy unit. They arranged a nice table and chair for her to do her work. It was a modern cashier room. I also felt happy for them. At that time, I thought about the happiness that parents have for her daughter. It was a memorable scenery. At that time, I remembered how my parents arranged a nice table and chair for my studies after taking good grades for all the subjects for one school term examination.

Recently I saw how parents celebrate the success of their children who passed the Advance level examination well. Some students explained the parent's effort for their success. One student said that his father skipped some meals, and gave to him. He starved for his son. That was their effort. I think nobody could listen to that talk without tears, and it was a sensitive story.

I think such a sacrifice can be done by parents only. None of them in this world exists to light up the children's life path by protecting them. They are the one who was removing barriers of our paths. I have read a story about their love. In that story, they gave a tree as an example. That tree gives food and shelter to their kids. Time to time it offers leaves and wood as medicine and other support. Once it decayed, it lets the human to sell the wood by cutting that tree after offering food and shelter. It was the final help. It was a really good example of a parent's love. They give till their last blood drop to their children.

59.0 Why You Need An Alarm? Fighting For Alarm: The Samurai Way

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Tue, 24 Dec 2019 12:04:00 +0000

First of all, I wanted to say Sorry...I could not work on my blog for the last couple of weeks due to busy schedule. When I was looking at the views per day also, I saw a difference. But I did not have a good time to work on a new article for you all. I could allocate time. But there should be a relax mind to come up with a good article. I was not in that status, and finally, I could not write a good article for about two weeks. So, this would be the last article for this year 2019. As today is the 24th of December, now you may don't have a good time to read this article due to a busy festival schedule. But you can read it later. I hope that you all will come back to my blog and read the latest.

I wanted to bring some memories of something that you hate, but you cannot avoid it in your life. I know that you wanted to throw it away for millions of times. But you did not do it yet. Same here. I also wanted to break and throw it away out of my window. But still, it is with me. By looking at the topic above, you know about this terrible and supportive guy. Lol... Most probably you may also have many stories to share as all of us cannot wake up in the morning without the support of an alarm.

I would like to start my alarm story from the very beginning. My mother was my alarm when I was a child. As you all know the very first alarm ringing sound is low and it gets increased gradually to the next levels if we could not react to it. But my mother did not have this setting and her sound consists of high volume from the very beginning. I could say that it is a scream and she always thought that she could not wake us up with a morning greeting. She was right. When she asked us to wake up in the neutral volume, she had to come to our room for three to four times. Finally, she scolded us and it was our morning greeting. Lol...

Sometimes we begged for a few minutes. But it was not possible with this alarm. It reminded us of our to-do list also. However, this was pressure for the alarm too. One day she did not remind me continuously and let us wake up at any time. I think on that day it was enough for her. So, we also slept peacefully without trouble. But I did not go to school on that day. Lol… So, it was a memorable day for me in my school era.

Sometimes my father came to wake up us when my mother could not handle the situation anymore. He was different and he did not scold us. Instead of that, he gave warnings. However, it was a powerful strategy, and we could not ignore his warnings. After moving to that boarding house for Advance level exams, I missed my parents. They could not phone me in the morning as we did not use mobile phones in those days. If they need to contact me, they had to call the landline of the boarding owner. So, they did not need to trouble her in the morning.

However, it was not a big deal in the morning as the other's sound was a reason for me to wake up. Nobody could sleep once they wake up and after switching on lights in the room. So, I did not need the support of an alarm because of that crowd.

But all of us used an alarm clock to wake up early morning for our studies. Each individual had separate alarms to wake up at different times. Some of them studied till midnight and some of them wake up in the early morning. However, morning alarms were the most annoying and craziest things for us. It annoyed each other. Sometimes two to three alarms rang at once. The most amazing thing was everybody wakes up except the owner of the alarm.

Therefore, that alarm switched off by itself automatically after snoozing for a few times. Such situations made us crazy and we blamed each other. We asked them to throw the alarm away if they could not wake up or switch it off. So, we threatened some of our friends. But sometimes it happened to me also. My alarm clock was annoying other's sleep. Therefore, nobody could maintain promises, and everything controlled by our sleep.

As we did not have mobile phones in those days, we used different clocks for alarms. Among them, one of our friends had a clock, and it had an antique look. It was a big clock than the other's clocks. It was an old-fashioned clock and nobody know how to manage it except our friend. Though we criticized that look, our friend did not change that clock. It was with her till we left the place. She kept it in her bed. Once we blamed her once she could not switch off it on time, she kept it in her hand to switch off quickly. Lol...

One day we heard that alarm clock's sound, and as usual, it rang a few times. It kept snoozing and ringing without the interaction of our friend. As there's no stop I got angry and I wanted to throw it away. I wanted to slap my friend as well. So, I switched on the room's light. What did I see? I could not believe my eyes. My friend was sitting on the bed by removing some parts of the clock. Her eyes were not fully opened.

Though I speak to her, she did not respond to me and she removed the parts of the clock. But it rings continuously. Once I saw this fun thing, I could not stop my laugh. Again, I spoke to my friend. Then she said that she cannot find the button to switch off. Lol... So, she removed all the buttons to switch off the alarm. Though we thought that she would buy a new one, she used the same alarm by fixing things again. So, we gave a nickname to her and it was 'Elamaya'.

Now most of us don't need a separate clock for our alarm as we can get that job via our phones. I'm using energetic songs, music as my alarm tone to enjoy it and hear it. Recently, I saw a Facebook post shared by one of my friends. It says that an alarm tone is background music for the dream she sees. Lol...

58.0 Shhhh... Listen! Do You Hear The Sound Of A Cunning Fox? The Cunning Fox Mystery.

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Wed, 04 Dec 2019 11:21:00 +0000

I wanted to cover this topic with two articles. But it did not work. Still, I have some incidents to share with you all. Life Lessons! I hope you also would like to read such experiences. Sometimes it would be a lesson for you. If you can gain a good thing via my articles, it achieves one of my main goals. I know you also have much to share as a member of this society. If you can share your ideas, then it will be a help for most of us. So, as I mentioned in the previous article, you all can be contributors to this topic.

Honestly, if I took the past incidents, I could say that my father's recognition was correct. He could identify the people in one instance. But it took some time for me to identify. When something happened only, I could identify their real face that has seen by my father before. He he he... My father pointed out the bad points of some of my friends by looking at a small action they did. But as usual, I did not have enough reasons to suspect them. I had enough reasons to convince the points that have pointed out as bad things by my father. In such a case, a few friends came for lunch at our home.

Lunch Time! On that day, I prepared a small lunch for all of them, and our home supporter was not available on that day. So, it was a tiring day. So, after finishing the lunch stuff, one of my friends did not clean the plate that she had lunch. In the normal routine, we don't let the visitors do such tasks and it is not our expectation.

So, it was my point, when my father was pointing out it as a bad of her. Furthermore, he said that if she is a good friend who has a long-term friendship history, then she is not a visitor anymore. As well as he said that, she did not think about the effort I put alone for their lunch. He said that it was a good incident to identify such people and deal with them accordingly. But I ignored his decision by thinking about the long-term friendship I had with her. Friends! Lol...

Tough Decisions! In this incident also, my father pointed out some cunning behavior of one of my friends. She was also a school friend, and sometimes she was like a family friend. He always suspected her talks and vocabulary. She unnecessarily appreciates small things.

So, most of those appreciations made me happy. She appreciated every little thing without pointing out a single mistake. Sometimes she said "wow... It is nice" for some things that I have not to see any good. In such cases, I thought that she was lying. At that time, I thought that she did not want to hurt me. But I did not identify it as a dishonest quality.

Later on, I could identify her reality. Even though we were there when she wanted help, she supported our troubles via her nice talks only. Lol... In these two cases, the number of years that we all can maintain the friendship was my key reason to accept them as good people. It was a precondition I kept on my mind when I was working with them. Therefore, I had my excuses to forgive them though I saw the points mentioned by my father. And I did not want to hurt myself by accepting their bad. I think those were the two key reasons that I could not accept their badness though there was some sort of identification. If you have similar experiences, you know the complexity of balancing emotions you have with your friends and the reality that pointed out by your brain. Brain or Heart?

What is the Best Decision? Don't set up pre-defined decisions for friendships or anything. Everything will be changed. If you have such predefined decisions, then your brain starts making decisions accordingly by covering the truth. As well as try to accept the situation in the present moment.

Don't depend on various factors. In my case, I depended on the friendship, the number of years of friendship, my feelings, etc.. Sometimes, their present behavior will hurt you once you accepted the current causes as it is without covering it by such facts. But, if you use the same strategy that you had to deal with them, then it will make you sad one day. It will happen either today or after some time. So, it is better to accept the present and keep such people in the necessary places in your life. Lifetime Friends? Are they exist on our planet?

So, those were some observations that happened among the friends' community. Toxic Coworkers! This also a good incident that I could happily share with you. In this case, my decision was more than 100% correct. On that day, we all had a session in a meeting room in our workplace. There were about twenty to twenty-five people. A few newcomers also were there.

It was boring like nothing and dragged hours and hours. As there was a small number of participants, we all had to concentrate on that session. So, it was the main pain. If I could check my social media stuff, then it would not be a headache. All of us were waiting for its finish. But it did not happen at the scheduled time. Boring Chores... Hah hah ha...

Washroom Prank! At our table, there was a new joiner also and he said that he wanted to go to the washroom. But he did not come back for the session. We could not contact him as we did not have his contact details. So, he nicely went out. At that time, he did not forget to keep his pen and the paper on the table to convince us of his return that never happen. Lol… So, when I was leaving the room finally, I thought about that strategy. He gave a separate image to us also. Therefore, I thought that he should be a cunning person. Luckily, I did not forget to keep it on my mind when dealing with him. It was the correct decision. Finally, it was correct, guys!!!

Apart from his cunning behavior, I think he taught a lesson as well. He pointed out that we need to make some kind of sacrifice if we want to get rid of some trouble. So, in this case, he forgets about his pen and papers. But I decided that action as a cunning thing and not an intelligent one. He was a Cunning Fox.

He did not have a reason to say lie to us as he knew that all of us were waiting to go. Therefore, giving a different view about him for the colleagues who were going to work with him for a couple of years was the mistake he did as a cunning guy. If you were that fellow, how do you manage that situation by keeping your good image with co-workers? When I was asked that question for myself, I did not have a need to go out till it finished. I wanted to participate till the end though it was boring. Lol... Lol... But what is your answer? What is Your Decision?

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57.0 Stories You Didn't Know About Fake Nice People. How To Handle Every Fake People Challenge With Ease Using These Tips.

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Wed, 27 Nov 2019 09:50:00 +0000

I hope the previous post helps you to Identify Fake People up to some extent. As I'm not a genius on this subject, you all can be the contributors to these articles. Then I also can improve my skills and take the correct decisions. Finally, all of our views help somebody to Identify Toxic and Fake People. They will know the way that they need to deal with them. So, this is a service, friends!

Before moving into jobs, I forgot one incident. It happened when I was doing my higher studies. It was the start of my higher studies, and it was a Computer Course arranged for beginners. Just after finishing the Advanced Levels examination, I wanted to join that computer course. So, it was an exciting course, and I did not have a Computer at home even. I went with my mother for the course registration. On the very first day of the course, I went with my father. At that time, there was a young boy to manage the student's stuff. He was a Handsome Boy and had an innocent look.

So, when I was coming back home, I said about his innocence look to my father. But he had a different view. He said that he looked like a Cunning Fox and he has the appearance of a thief. I could not believe his view, and I did not agree with him. I argued with him and pointed out my view. I asked him to tell me the reasons for his decision.

Then my father pointed out that the way he looked at him was not a genuine one. Furthermore, my father said that he does not have confidence in his talks. Those two were the main things for my father's decision. But he was alright for me. I did not accept the points told by my father. I did not see any bad appearance in his handsome look. Lol... I think that appearance blinded me. Hah hah hah...

When we were going to computer labs, we got to know that he was a lab instructor. He was not a strict person like others and sometimes I did not hear the things he said. He spoke very softly. As the others were strict with students, he was the favorite one of most of us. It was a three-month Computer Course and he stayed during that time period. When some of the instructors left that place for High Paying Jobs, he stayed there for our course time period. It was a pleasure for us. We wanted to see him during our course duration. He was the Motivation for us to go to that class. Lol...

After finishing our course, all of us had to leave that place and I planned to go to the next level of the course. But it was not available in that location. My friends had some other plans. So, it was the end of one joyful time. One day, I got to know that our certifications are ready. After a few days, I went with a few friends to collect the certificate. At that time, we did not see that guy and we thought that he left for High Paying Job.

When we were meeting a new friend it was our first question." Hey, where is that guy? Did you see him?". In such a situation, one of our friends said that he was fired from the job. He had stolen some computers in the lab. It was Shocking News for all of us. I could not believe that incident also. I could not see the faces of some of my friends, and those were not good to see even after hearing about that bad news. However, it was the truth.

Appearance & Reality! At least I did not see any bad. On the very first day, my father could observe good signs. But I could not find out any clue though I had these observations in my mind. I don't know why? This time I think the nice appearance and some Soft Skills misled me. That appearance could cover his bad qualities. Luckily, he had a gentleman look with a handsome body. I think it was the case for all of us. Even my friends also did not tell any bad about him. All of us were in the same boat. Lol...

Decision Making Process! Therefore, I believe nobody can come to a decision by looking at the outer appearance. Sometimes you may think that he/she should be a nice person if they have a nice appearance. Sometimes you may think that he/she should be a bad person if they don't have an attractive appearance. Sometimes the decision you took by looking at the appearance will be correct too. But definitely, you should think about the behavior. Basically, you should think about the functionality behind that physical body. There are nice cars that have not worked. As well as there will be moderate look cars that have fast speed. Nothing can be judged by appearance.

Fear Of Change! The other thing is everything is getting changed. The person who measured by others as "good", will not be a good person anymore after a few years. The person who measured by others as "bad", will not be a bad person anymore after a few years. Sometimes maybe within the next few seconds. Therefore, we cannot depend on our predefined decisions or current decisions. Everything will be changed with time.

Blindness! So, once you decided a person as a good fellow, don't depend on that thought forever. It does not let you see his/her bad side and you will act as blind when you are dealing with them. Finally, they will end up their chapters in your life by giving surprises.

Become A Better Person! As well as once you decided a person as a bad fellow, don't depend on that thought forever. He/She has enough facts and reasons to be a good person in this universe. If you cannot see in that way, they do not have a chance to be a better person. My final thought is you should be awake at every moment. Every moment gets changed and you or I cannot measure the speed of the changes. It happens in every moment.

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56.0 Master The Style Of Identifying Toxic People With These 9 Signs.

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Thu, 21 Nov 2019 03:39:00 +0000

Sometimes this topic might give you a different impression if you read my other blog posts. But I wanted to share this with you all. I think that this will be a useful thing for most of us. Identify People! What do you think? Are you a genius on this subject? Though I'm going to share my experience and observations with you, I'm also not a genius on this subject. But I believe a few things I observed during my lifetime. I hope it would help you to think about your measurements before coming into decisions. It is the main purpose of this article.

From the very beginning of my life, I would like to observe people. When I'm participating in a function and when traveling by bus, I just thought about the qualities of people by considering a few things. I'm not talking about people I know. I'm talking about the observations I did for the people who I don't know and met before. Because of this behavior, some of my fellows thought that I was in another world, though I have been with them. Lol… What to do? It is one of my hobbies.

I did not give attention to many. I observed about one/two people at one time. So, most of the time my attention paid for very calm people, noisy people, and active people. First, I thought that what kind of reasons would make them act as so. My grandfather always used to remind us that "Empty Pots Are Shaking." It was the key advice he gave when we were children. Therefore, it was a predefined decision in my mind. So, when there was a noisy person, I knew that he/she was an empty pot. That advice helped me to Read People.

Do you believe your first impression of someone? Sometimes it won't work for all. But I believe my first impression. I have many examples and I'm sharing key incidents with you to prove that decision. However, it does not mean that I reject that person after the observation I got via the first impression. But I keep it as his/her background and make the negotiations with them accordingly. However, I want to emphasize you to not to make decisions according to my views. But giving a try won't harmful to anybody. When you are identifying a new person, there is no inbuilt relationship with each other. So, definitely, you can give a try.

What is your first impression? What does make you come to that decision? Do you know any other matching characters for your new person? What are the benefits/bad luck you have taken because of them? If you made a mistake(s) in your life because of them, how do you want to deal with this person? If you made a mistake because of your bad, how are you going to deal with this new person without losing him/her? Try to answer these questions by having a small chat with yourself along with that first observation. I believe you can analyze your decision accordingly to identify his/her background.

After that, I match that person with another I knew and tried to compare the qualities he/she has. Therefore, when I was looking at him/her self-there was a guy/gal I knew behind that person. All the time it is not a correct comparison. But I believe matching somebody you know, is a key fact that helps you to Identify People you don't know. However, I'm not asking you to do so. But, if you haven't tried it, it is better to give a try and analyze your decision. Then you can identify the accuracy of your decision.

However, it takes time to identify the accuracy of your decision. It takes time. But this kind of analysis avoids risks. You won't take a risky step in your life until that time, as you have a background-level of decision about him/her. You know the place that you need to keep that person. I believe it is enough in the initial stage.

If I am moving to my key incidents, all people were my co-workers. Our workplace is such a challenging place that lets us do work with people we did not know before. So, it is very important to go through that quick check-up before starting your journey with them. So, it was my second job opportunity and at that time she was there when I was joining with them.

She was in the reception area when I was meeting her. She did not give me a friendly welcome, though I also joined for a similar position. In that workplace, we were multi-tasks workers. We taught students in the lectures, supported them in the computer labs, managed their class fees, etc... We did the lecturing and management both. So, that girl also in the reception area to manage some stuff though he was a lecturer at that institute.

First Impression! Why could not she give a friendly smile even? It was my first inner question. She did not give eye contact as well. I thought that she was talking to someone else. So, within the first few minutes, I thought that "she should have something to hide". However, that thought did not keep for the entire day and she was friendly with me after the lunch hour.

So, after a couple of weeks, all of us were good friends. That era was a nice time we had in my career. Therefore, I thought that my decision was wrong and I thought that I had a wrong impression about such a lovely friend. As she was there before us, her contributions to management tasks a lot and we involved with those tasks when she was not there.

One day, one of our seniors came and instructed me to manage the stuff she did. As she was not there, I did not have a doubt. Though we were thinking about her, she did not come for the entire week. We could not contact her. After another few days, we got to know that the management fired her from the job. Because she stole money that received from students. It was shocking news for all. Nobody believed that by comparing her appearance and behaviors. But it was the truth, and it was the time that reminded my first impression.

Did she try to hide something? Yes. She had much to hide and play that role for a long time. I also involved money acceptance when she was not there. But luckily, I kept logs separately without mentioning in the main logbook. It was her advice and once she came, she cumulated all with fraud logs. However, that separate logbook saved me from fraud.

So, that situation matched with my first decision. But the mistake I did here was I did not keep that decision as her background and work accordingly with her. After a couple of days, I gave up that thought. Therefore, I never had a suspicious eye on her. So, it was easy for her to continue her tasks without worrying about us. That is why she was friendly with us. I have much to explain, guys. Wait! I don't want to summarize these incidents. I'll explain in a detail view.

I will help you to remove Toxic, Fake and Difficult People as Smart People. Don't you feel that you are reading a book about Sherlock Holmes? No. Right...? Lol...

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55.0 Warning! Stop Wasting Food! We Can End Hunger.

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Tue, 12 Nov 2019 09:48:00 +0000

How To Save Money! It was another big deal I had on our journeys. Though I mentioned as "I" in here, it was a common issue for most of us. When we were leaving our country, we decided not to exchange all the money we have. We plan to exchange the rest of the money whenever we need it. We thought that it would be a good practice in financial management. So, we allocated a certain amount for shopping and food expenses. As per the discussions we had before, we strictly decided not to go beyond the allocated thresholds. Therefore, as per our ground rules, I exchanged some portion of the rupee amount into the dollars.

Once we reached there, I planned to exchange the rest of the dollars according to my needs. However, I kept some amount in rupees as well. I wanted to keep some rupee amount. Lol... On the very first day, everybody was very keen on their expenses. All of us had good discipline. So, we thought twice before having a meal as well. Always we did not forget to compare it with our Rupee value by converting the price of everything.

However, I could say that our currency conversion job did not have a long life. We thought that we would go back to our country to buy goods as per our desired money value. So, from the second day onwards, we started to eat things we loved, and buy whatever we wanted. Once we went to one shopping complex, we could not think about what to buy. According to the availability of varieties, it was not easy to make a decision. So, we decided to visit a few shopping complexes to check the goods with prices and identify our needs. We identified our needs after that analysis. Lol...

However, before we went there, one of our friends contacted us to check our status. He lived in that country. So, he asked us to visit an area before buying goods from those Shopping Malls. That place was like "Pettah" in Sri Lanka. As per his advice, we all decided to go there first on the next day. Once we went there, we got to know that there are also many varieties of goods. There were lots of shops.

The prices were almost the same as the goods in those shopping complexes. The main advantage was there were "Sales.. !" And they agreed in price negotiations. So, it was an ideal place for us. Lol... As we now had an idea about the availability of the goods in the shopping complexes, we decided to buy some goods from these shops, and complete the shopping the next day by visiting shopping complexes.

Therefore, went to a few shops and analyzed the price. We could observe that there were some small price gaps in the shops here. Sometimes we have seen that they communicated different prices for us and other customers. As we visited many shops, as usual, we could identify some shops that have quality goods. But we did not agree with the price they told. We bargained up to the maximum. Lol...

So, when we were working on our bargaining and buying process, one shop owner asked about our country. As that bargaining power was a shame to our country, I told the name of another country. Sorry... <Country>... Somehow, we could cover most of our shopping needs via that shopping area thanking them.

Sometimes, we could not identify the shops we already visited as we covered lots of shops for a very short time. Therefore, some of my cousins look like their regular customers. The other thing is they revisited the shop even after identifying it as a visited one. That was a major issue for others, as all of us had to wait for each one. Huh... It was a pain that kills the shopping thrill. Sometimes, we got angry with them. Still, they had many things to visit and buy. It was an exceptional case. I think we did not bring shame to our motherland as we hid its name. Instead of that, we told them that "we are from <country>". Sorry... Sorry... If you are living in that country, you will kill me. I know.

In one instance, I could not identify the sales girl in a shop. There were a few customers, and I asked the price of shoes from a lady and she was not a salesgirl. So, she got angry with me and said: “asked someone”. Her face got reddish and it was a big shame for her. As it happened to many customers, including me in our country, I did not think that it was a big issue. I also did not feel shame when it happened to me. However, I quickly left the shop. Lol... There were nice phone cases that I could not buy.

Finally, I bought many items from that place, and a reasonable portion of money gone away. So, I exchanged my remaining dollars and thought to do the next round of shopping in the shopping complexes. When we were moving there, we got to know that most of us have spent money. It was our last day of the journey, and the next day was our departure day. So, we decided to buy small things from here, and keep another portion to buy something from our Sri Lanka duty-free. God's Plan For Your Money!

As there was much stuff that we could not afford, all of us felt sad. We watched and came with our weeping hearts. As we could not manage our expenses on the other days, we had to do window shopping in that complex. So, we could not buy at least 50% of the stuff we planned, before going to that shopping area.

One of our cousin sisters blamed our government, pointing out the low value of our currency. It made all of us laugh, though her argument was the correct one. She released her pressure in that way. I think it would be a relief for her. At least she had a valid reason to leave that Shopping Mall without a few bags. Lol...

On the last day, most of them were fed up because of that matter. Therefore, only me and one of my cousins wanted to visit a bird park. So, we went there, and others did not come. Even though we wanted to take professional photographs with birds, money did not allow us. Our poor financial management did not allow us. If we had a proper plan, we could cover all without any worry. So, we did not eat an extra thing except a drink, even though we wanted to eat something. When the others were enjoying the birds' visit with snacks, we had a soft drink.

During my entire lifetime, it was the day, that I could not eat anything when I wanted to eat something. Lol... So, we wished everybody in the world get rid of starving. I remembered the faces of some beggars who met in our country. Their unhealthy and tired look gave me another tension at that moment, and at that time, I could truly feel the value of food.

Therefore, Don't Waste Food. Adhere with Zero Waste Lifestyle. When you are worrying about your meal, many people cannot afford that meal even. All of us should respect food. We should donate to others who cannot afford food. If you can fill that poverty gap on a small scale, it also would be a merit to you all. Therefore, do not let anybody you know to starve, friends. Please help them!

Sometimes, a beggar will ask for money to eat something, and you will feel that he/she is lying. Sometimes, it will be a lie. I know. But, please don't ignore that request. It is an investment for your ego. It was a great lesson I learned.

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54.0 Houdini's Guide To Ride Craziest Theme Park Rides! Does Someone Die On A Roller Coaster Ride?

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Fri, 01 Nov 2019 10:23:00 +0000

The tours we went out of the country were amazing as most of our cousins were there. Though the food was a problem for most of us, we could manage it with other things like games we played in the theme parks, the places we visited, and the fun photos we have taken. All those were new experiences for us. However, those days we did not take selfies. I think there was no Selfie trend at that time. If we go there now then we would take thousands of selfies. When revisiting the photos, we have taken, there was no single selfie even. So, I could say that it was not a selfie era.

If we wanted to capture all of us, we asked somebody to take our photo. I think we missed some valuable photos of the fun games we played, because of this reason. Sometimes it would of risk also. We did not care about the place we were in when taking photos. You might hear some stories about death that happened because of the selfies captured in people's unconscious mode. If it was available at that time, then I think we would also have such a life threat. Lol…

The games we played in a few theme parks are memorable. We enjoyed ourselves a lot. Some games were available as default games in our tour package. Therefore, we wanted to play all without missing anything. There was a map, and we followed from the beginning to make sure that we all played all the games. So, some indoor games arranged as the very first games. It was an Indoor Roller Coaster! We wanted to use that as it goes around the inside of the park, though it mainly arranged for the kids.

We wanted to find out the food courts and other places by going that roller coaster. We wanted to go by an exact roller coaster once we got down, after going by that slow one. So, we checked for real roller coasters without following the order of the games as well. Once we go out, we saw a big roller coaster. But nobody was there to play. Once we asked them, they said that they do not have enough people to arrange it. So, we decided to check later after lunch. The unavailability of necessary arrangements was disappointed us. We thought that what is the bladdy badness all these people have. That was our discussion.

So, we moved to another Roller Coaster, and it did not have a weird look. All seats have arranged for a duel. I sat with one of my cousin sisters, and I knew that I sat there. That is only. Even I could not imagine the path that the roller coaster went. I felt that somebody threw me away. So, I tightly closed my eyes and screamed: "I Cannttttt". Lol... One of our brothers screamed, "It is enoughhhhh". He also kept on saying it until he got down.

I could hear the other's sound as well, and it was like a scary sound coming from hell. All were screaming like nothing. Finally, I got the opportunity to get down, and it was a great relief for me. It was like escaping from death. Lol... So, once we saw our faces of each other, we felt happy, and we could not stop our laugh. After that run, we did not want to go by a similar roller coaster. We did not want to feel that scary feeling again. Therefore, we gave up the first thing that we wanted to go. Luckily, we could not go there. I think we won't do any game if we have gone by that Roller Coaster. Lol... However, it arranged for a reasonable gang, and when we were passing it, we heard their screaming sound. We felt sad for them.

Though we did not want to go with any more roller coasters, we could not keep that thought for a long time. We saw the way the others enjoying similar games. They were also screaming, though I mentioned enjoying. Lol... There was one game and it was "Space shot". It looks like a rocket. The seats arranged outside of that rocket. So, once somebody sits on that seat, there was no anything to cover them except the seat belt. Dragging to the top and dropping back to the bottom was the game.

So, it did not look like a scary game, when we were looking at it. All of us thought that everything is fine including speed and height. One of our cousin sisters said that the people who played that game is screaming for fun. She said that there's nothing to afraid.

After that analysis, we all wanted to go there. There was a notice board saying that it was not a good game for people who has blood pressure, heart problems, and pregnant mothers. As none of us belong to any category, we decided to play it. Lol... So, as we knew, they asked us to sit and adjust our belts. After that, they communicated and instructed to refrain from jumps/ movements. So, once all the gang was ready, we dragged to the top of the rocket.

Then one of the sisters said that "hey, we can see everywhere in Theme Park now. Pretty coolll…" But I could hear only her yelling voice when it was dragging us to the bottom. She could not say anything though she wanted to have a small chat. Lol...

I also was in a bad situation, and I thought that I go crazy. Even though we thought that there was no high speed from the outside, it was not the truth. The scary thing was, our back did not keep on the seat when dragging to the bottom. I thought that something had gone wrong for me though seat belts and everything was fine. I was so sad about my situation, and I thought that I would fall and die soon. It would be a Roller Coaster Death. Lol…

Once we came out, all of us discussed that experience. Everyone could not keep their buttocks on the seats. So, they thought that there was an issue in their seats too. Everyone remembered their mother except me. I felt sad about the decision that made me play that game. It was my feeling. Lol...

However, later on, it was an amazing thing for us to remember and enjoy. So, the entire day was filled with that scary feeling. Once I went to sleep, unconsciously, I tightly hugged my bed. I felt that I was falling from somewhere. Lol...

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53.0 How To Control Hunger As A Vegetarian? A Vege Story!

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Fri, 25 Oct 2019 11:40:00 +0000

How To Get Visa? Ohh No! It was not easy to prepare the necessary documents for Visa approval. For the very first pilgrimage tour, I had a temporary certification. Therefore, I had to prepare the documents, including my passport. As that country requires a Visa, I had to take a letter from my office. There were many rules associated with the Visa application, and it was not an easy task.

It required the approval of many, though it has scheduled for four days including two weekdays. Some of my cousins wondered after hearing about the approval process. For them, the approval of their immediate supervisor was enough and they did not take time to prepare that letter. But as usual, my case was different and I had to follow up on it for a couple of days. Sometimes I thought that I would not be able to go there. So, it was an additional pressure apart from the work schedule.

Meantime, I arranged a traveling bag to put my stuff. I think I had to spend a half-day to do that job. I went with my cousin's sister to buy that and one of my friends asked me to check the quality properly. She could not use the bag for more than two days after buying from such a shop. So, I wanted to have the Best Travel Bag.

Apart from that, I arranged suitable clothes for the journey. It was not a hassle as I decided to wear what I had because I almost kept a reasonable amount of the main expenses. I could say that there were about three weeks of preparation time. However, I was glad about the journey. All of us thought about the places that we can travel once we went there. So, it was a pleasure for all of us.

Except for a few including my sister, most of the cousins joined the tour. The union of all of us was another thing that made us happy. So, we were counting the days for our journey. A few days before the journey, I packed all my stuff in the bag and made sure that I bought everything. During this period, I added and removed some stuff. Lol... So, it was another job. As it is required to print the name and address on the bag, still I can remember the way I did that. I took a few copies of the details to use if required and pasted one there. But when I was looking at the others, the font size was big. It is bigger than the others, and it was a shame for me. After dragging it to a few places itself, tapes pasted on the corners get removed. So, it had a funny look. Sometimes it made me angry as I had to paste it a couple of times. Lol...

After many preparations and checking, finally, we got into the plane. Traveling By Plane! Lol... So, our guys who had the corner seats near the window felt happy like nothing. So, the others planned to take that seat when returning. We discussed to exchange our seats also to get that opportunity. Hah hah ha... I don't know what do you think about our gang. Lol...

Once we reached there, a person came from our hotel as arranged, and he picked us from the airport. Most of our guys said that we could have a city tour when going from the airport to the hotel. First few minutes, we saw the beauty of that area once we got into that vehicle. But after a few minutes, all of us fell asleep. One of our cousin brothers told us everybody slept well except him.

The hotel provided breakfast only with that package. If required, we should order lunch and dinner separately. But we forgot to do that, and we had to go out for dinner. No one brought biscuits even. So, all of us went out and searched for a good restaurant to have dinner. After checking for a few places, we realized that the price is high in most of the food courts. Therefore, we checked the known brands like "Pizza Hut", "Burger King", etc... However, those places located a bit far, and we did not go there. We did not use a taxi even, as it was the first day we came, and we could not get relevant information from the hotel or our travel guide.

As I was vegetarian, the others also had to search for a Vegetarian Diet. All of the others were non-veg. I think it was an additional burden for them under that condition. Therefore, I asked them to have food, saying that I can manage dinner with a small thing. However, it did not work, and we thought not to consider the price. So, it was our first dinner experience, and once we returned, we checked for the restaurants that have all food varieties.

Then we identified some Indian restaurants and most of us liked to have Indian food. So, all of us decide to go to one Indian restaurant for dinner. As we planned, we went there to have some spicy food as it was our food type. Though I could have full Veg meals for breakfast and lunch, those were not much spicy. Even though there was some spicy food, there was a different taste because of the sauce they put. I think it was their own thing.

Because of these reasons, we were waiting for our dinner. Once I checked their menu, I was so happy, my dear friends. They had all kinds of Veg food I loved to have. Therefore, they resolved my problem. Thanks, Indians... However, one of my cousins wanted to have something with prawn curry, and it did not mention on the menu. Therefore, one of my brothers asked one guy to come and explained what he wants. But he did not get that and just looked at us.

So, our brother explained the prawn with its unique features. Suddenly, that guy said that "oh you are talking about prawns?" in Sinhalese. Lol… It made all of us laugh. He was a Sri Lankan and we could not identify him as most of the Asians have a similar look. Then it took a little time to manage our laugh. However, we felt happy about his Meetup. He also did not recognize us as Sri Lankans. He was a nice guy for us and he said that he came there recently. After that, we had dinner from that restaurant for the next couple of days also. However, he had Foreigner Reactions. Lol...

Once we discussed that situation later, we got to know that anybody hasn't identified him as a Sri Lankan. But later on, we saw unique Sri Lankan features and behaviors from him. I don't know what kind of blindness it was. Lol...

For the entire journey, we had that sauce a lot with our meals. That taste reduced the need for food also. Sometimes, I bought small snacks to have after the main meals to cover the rest. Most of the restaurants did not have Veg food. So, when I was asking about Veg food, it brought a smile to them. So, sometimes I checked the available food items and thought twice before asking for them. Lol...

Finally, we reached the destination of our tour. All of us wanted to have a good meal. So, we asked one of our relative aunts to prepare something spicy. As soon as I returned, having that meal was my first task. Lol...

However, we should control our greed irrespective of Veg or Non-Veg. If you can have your meal, without attaching it or hating it, then you are adhering to universal truth. You can enjoy the food without going to these two extremes. It will help you to end up the life circle (Sansaaraya).

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52.0 Our Bodies Are Beautiful With Skin. But It Is A Walking Trash Bag. Secrets Revealed.

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Fri, 18 Oct 2019 08:09:00 +0000

Though I wanted to write about some memorable incidents related to tours I went just after the blog posts of Trips, it did not work for an unknown reason. Several other topics came to mind, and I worked on them. I was in a hurry to complete those topics first, though I had unforgettable stories. Sometimes I cannot understand the way that my mind is working on. Sometimes it is like opening twenty to thirty browser tabs and waiting for loading those pages. I don’t know. How about you? I hope you all have peaceful minds than mine. Isn’t it? Power Of The Mind!

As you know, I wanted to monetize this blog by applying advertisements in the free spaces here. Now, you can see some of them in the footer and right side of the page. I hope it does not disturb you. However, I need a considerable amount of traffic to get effective advertisements, and for the moment it is not enough. I wanted to give up this job when thinking about traffic matters. But I did not do that and still work on my blog. I'm thinking about good topics that I can work on. I hope one day I will have enough readers.

I would kindly request you to share my blog with others if you enjoy the post. I think I put my maximum effort to generate a quality outcome. However, you are the one who knows it well, irrespective of my effort.

Positive Feedback! I received feedback from my lovely readers via the comments. Some friends gave positive feedback regarding the content and user-friendliness of the site. Some of them mentioned a few issues regarding the page. They could not see the uploaded images. If there is such an issue, clearing the cache is the best thing to do, if it did not work by refreshing the page. Some friends thanked me. I hope they enjoyed the post. Some of them went through my posts, after the recommendation of their parents and colleagues. Once they told me that, it made me proud.

Every time once I got such feedback, I thought to deliver a quality post that useful for others. If you went through my last few posts, those mentioned the real adventurous type incidents I faced when using Taxies. I hope sharing that information would help someone. Sometimes you would think that what is the purpose of sharing these things with us. So, I wanted to avoid that thought.

Therefore, I'm trying my best to provide something useful. Apart from that type of feedback, some friends gave some suggestions. As they asked, I mentioned some of my social media links on the "Contact" page. One friend asked me to upload some videos. That was the thing that I could not make. Sorry... Though I thought it was a good suggestion, I did not do that yet. But you may have to hear my voice. Lol... If you would like to point out your views regarding that video thing, please do tell me.

A friend asked me to change the topics. Earlier it went as "Trips -Part 01", "Trips -Part 02", etc... Furthermore, that friend asked me to analyze the topics in sites like "Yahoo". So, I'm providing this review by summarizing your feedback, to get more responses and suggestions from you. I can improve my blog by implementing your views. Here, I would like to thank my all friends who read, comment and share my posts.

Holy Land Pilgrimage! Apart from that review, here I wanted to point out some memories regarding the tours we went out of the country. The first tour was a pilgrimage, and it took twelve days as I remembered. That tour, I went with one of my friends and her mother. There were about forty people in our team. As it was the very first journey, I went out of the country, there was a lot of preparation. As well as it was an exciting journey for me and my friend. I could say that we were waiting for that day. Apart from my friend and her mother, the rest of the crowd was unknown people. We three did not know anyone. But after one day all of them were friendly with us.

Among the crowd, there was a granny who was in her eighties. She came alone, and her children spent money on her pilgrimage. She had the confidence to go on a journey with unknown people. On the very first day, she wanted to find out a suitable companion for her. Therefore, she talked to everyone. Everyone helped her to walk and complete her journey by providing their attention. She was the granny of everyone. As this was a pilgrimage, there were no fun memories, and I could say that it was an uncomfortable tour. As it was scheduled for twelve days, the organizing team arranged all the necessary places to visit within that time.

Toilet Trouble! Therefore, all of us had to wake up early in the morning like 3-4 a.m. to complete long-distance journeys. We traveled by bus, and some journeys took the entire day. So, those were tired journeys with the hot climate, and it was not convenient for some elders. The main issue we all ladies had was the toilets. Sometimes, we found out a toilet after informing our needs to others.

But it took a long time to find out a toilet, and those places also not in good condition to use. Once we were waiting in the toilet queue, we could not reach there even because of the bad smell. At that time, we were helpless, and I could not think why people do not have any ethics and behaviors as human beings. So, one aunt understood the problem we faced and she asked me to bear up the bad smell and go there.

The Human Body! She asked us to think about the reality of our human body. Once we threw our excrements, now it has gone. But we cannot bear up its smell even. So, how about the condition of inner things that we have not yet thrown. Therefore, the human body is like a walking garbage bag.

That was her instruction and it helped us to use that toilet. Lol... After that, most of our ladies also used to go out as males. Because of this issue, most of the people's toilet was the outside that consists of some shrubs. So, there were pigs too, and they used to eat the excrements of humans. If you are a pork lover, think about their stomachs and eating habits now before taken them for your meals. Lol...

However, it did not work for me, and I could say that many suffered a lot because of that problem. As a solution, I did not drink water daytime and had water in the night. Some of the other ladies also followed up the same procedure as a solution. However, it was not an easy thing to do because of the hot climate.

Our organizing team did not let us have meals from outside to avoid stomach aches. There were two chefs to prepare our meals. So, it went well. However, some of them could not resist having food from outside. So, they had to suffer, and they could not visit some ancient places. I bought some medicine for headaches, stomachaches, and wounds. So, some of them told me that those medicines worked for them. However, that granny went well without any issue luckily. She was healthy during the entire journey.

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51.0 Charlie Sheen's Guide To Step By Step Makeup! It Can Give You Either Hot Or Devil Look. Lol...

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Sat, 12 Oct 2019 10:10:00 +0000

As ladies, we care about our beauty a lot. Therefore, I believe we are facing lots of incidents when we were trying to improve it. There will be miracles after applying some makeup. Sometimes, it will ruin your look too. Sometimes, people won't recognize you. Lol... Likewise, you may have heard various incidents of others. Sometimes, you may have fun stories in your mind. I believe that you may have some stories that you have not shared with others yet. I belong to a few categories here. It ruined my look. Others took a certain time to recognize me. I have not shared any of the incidents with others as those embarrassed me. How can I reveal, friends? Makeup Routine! Lol...

The very first memory regarding the make-up was amazing. We were preparing for a wedding. It was the first time that all of us were planning to wear a saree too. So, me, my sister, and cousins also wanted to apply make-up for that wedding. To get all the things done, we got the support of an aunt who had a salon. All of us liked to consult her, as all of us suffered from the pimple's patches. So, we wanted to hide them via the creams and other stuff. I think my face has the worst case than the others.

So, that aunt came to our home, and there was a queue for us. That queue consists of me, my sister, cousins, my mother, and some relative aunts. My mother and other relatives’ aunts wanted to have a hairstyle. They did not want to apply any makeup. Therefore, the time required for each was different according to their needs. So, when it came to my chance, she thoroughly observed my skin and patches. She said that light make-up would not hide the patches.

As it was my first time, I did not want to have a weird look with heavy makeup. However, she considered my needs too and did her job. I thought that I would have an attractive look after applying makeup. But it was not and I could hide my patches up to some extent. Once she did, she said that her daughter does not require to apply any makeup to improve her beauty. Furthermore, she said that she also liked her daughter's natural beauty. I thought "OKAY....".

Makeup Artist! For another wedding, we consulted another professional, and he was a male. He was famous among the community, and he studied from a well-recognized person in the beauty industry. So, most of the people in his area wanted to consult him for their support.

As it was one of my cousins' weddings, all of us planned to take his support to celebrate her big day. There were two days of celebrations, and we thought not to go for someone except him. He was a very friendly person, and because of that personality, he could win the customers. So, our people also get friendly with him after a few minutes. He was the "Guru" for all the beauty problems.

Apart from the bride, he was caring about bridesmaids and flower girls. So, his attention focused on the entire crowd. He was the one who prepared sarees and frocks of the wedding gang. Therefore, I could say that the entire crowd had to visit him regularly. Though I did not belong to that team, I also went with them for their support. So, he wanted to dress me too on that day.

Once he looked at each of us, he pointed out the improvements and appreciated the natural beauty of each. It was hair, skin, or smile. Those days my sister was very thin. So, he said that there should be enough muscles in the stomach to get a better look from the saree. As well as, he said that he might have to apply a lot of stuff to cover her pimples' patches. He worried a lot. It was a Makeup Tutorial.

Finally, her big day arrived, and all of us were excited as it was the very first wedding of our cousins. We were waiting for that moment happily. As he promised, he dressed me also, and I did not want to think about other's support. I could say that he put his maximum effort to do his job well. As all of us got his support, there were many similarities among our cousins when looking at the make-up given for hair, eye, and lipsticks.

We observed that similarity when we were looking at the photos. For both days, my hairstyle had a big bump, and it was similar to the hairstyle of bridesmaid. It was a big hair bump, and it could increase my height from a few inches. Lol...

Melt Makeup! Apart from the two big days, there was another day to bring her to the groom's home. It was the tradition. As it was a small function arranged at a home, we thought to do make-ups by ourselves without his support. So, all of our relatives ready to go there. As per our beauty plans, we bought a set of make-up items to do it by ourselves.

As we saw the way they have dressed up, we thought that we could make it by ourselves. By following up on the professionals' procedures, we applied creams, lotions, and powders to increase the facial color and hide patches. It went well, I guess.

However, it took lots of effort to complete the Eye Makeup. I could not apply black ink properly in the eyeliner. It went inside the eye, and I had to wash the eye. After washing I had to apply cream and lotions again. The second term also did not work, and mascara applied in the eyeliner came out. I had a devil look. Lol... Finally, it ended up with red eyes.

Though I thought it was an easy job just by looking at the way those professionals did, it was not. As there was no enough time to contact someone and take their support, somehow, I had to manage it. So, we went to the function with that makeup. But nobody comments on my makeup. My cousins also said that "it's fine". So, I thought that my effort is not a waste, and I was happy.

So, that day was over after having lunch and enjoying it. The time came to say goodbye to my cousin sister. Though it was not a sad moment for any of us, I could not avoid my tears once I saw the emotional situation among my cousin sister and her parents. There were a few girls from the groom's side, and they were also friendly with us. So, they saw that I was crying, and they also could not hide their tears. I think it was like a tears link.

Though nobody did feel sad, I think most of us could not bear up the tears in others' eyes. That was the case. After a few seconds, they started to laugh by looking at me. For a moment, I could not understand the reason. But I knew the reason once I saw black on my facial tissues. It made me laugh even though it embarrassed me. Finally, my look was the end of that sad moment. Lol...

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50.0 No Wonder She Said "No"! Learn How To Sharing Information With People. It Is Private & Confidential. Be Careful!

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Thu, 03 Oct 2019 11:36:00 +0000

Modes Of Transport! During the twelve years of office journey, Taxi was the main transportation. Therefore, there are many memories to share with you all. I believe that Taxi drivers are nice guys to have a chat. But there is also a risk when sharing your information with a stranger. Because of these two reasons, I wanted to reply back politely without making trouble when they were asking some questions.

But it is not possible to share some details with them as I felt that it was not their business. But you know. It is not possible to act as a deaf or dumb person. Therefore, I could say that 50% of the given information was wrong when they were asking about personal information. Sometimes, they also revealed their personal details, though I did not ask any.

One day, a guy asked that "are you working in that jewelry shop?". As that shop located near to my office, I gave its location when I was ordering the Taxi. As it was a famous shop, it was easy for anyone to find. So, as it was easy to go through the "Yes Flow", I just said "Yes". After that, there were many sub-questions related to jewelry. I could not manage the answers as I did not know much about pricing and all. Therefore, I said that I could not share those as it breaches their rules. After that response, there was silence among us. Lol...

Family Friendly Chats! Sometimes, they also revealed their personal details, though I did not ask any. You won't believe that most of them revealed the difficulties they have to run life with their families. Their current income was not sufficient for them to run a family with a few children. Basically, they could not think about savings or investment after expending for food and main stuff.

Most of them blamed the government because of the higher cost of living. So, most of the time "Politics" and "Economy" raised as sub-topics after the main topics. Sometimes, they questioned my transport expenses as they knew that it took a reasonable amount to go by Taxi. One guy said that "half of your salary would take for Taxies if you are using a Taxi for daily transportation".

In such a situation, I said that I'm randomly using a Taxi and other days I'm going by bus though it was not the truth. I think such responses consoled their mind after feeling that the majority of society does not have a sufficient income like them. I loved that kind of discussion, as it does not require to share some personal things. Therefore, I could get down from the vehicle without lying to them.

Some of them told their family problems. They said that their children are not willing for education, and thought that their effort is a waste. In such a situation, I did not respond to them though I had some opinions to share. One person told me that he is coming from the hospital, and said that he went to visit his sibling. He told me that after finishing a phone call. Additionally, he said that he lied to his wife as she does not like to keep the relationships with his family. As he could not forget his family, he said that he helped them without informing his wife. However, I did not respond to him in that case also.

How To Look Good? One day I met another guy, and he was a pleasant person. So, after a small chat about traffic, economy, weather, etc... he suddenly asked "miss, can you guess my age?". Though he looks like mid-forties, I could not tell it to him because of the way he behaved and his outfits. That stuff revealed a look of a guy in his twenties. So, I was in trouble, and I said "about thirty" after he requested again. Luckily, it was correct, and he revealed his tips and good practices to keep a good look. Lol...

However, after most of the discussions, I got to know that most of them are intelligent people. Some of the very young guys were matured than their age. Their decisions and reasons for those were unbelievable. Sometimes, I felt that I did not have such an intelligence level at that age. I was a silly idiot who did not think about such an analysis even. I did not want to think about even the topic they discussed deeply.

Bad Habits! One day was a bad day for my entire Taxi journey. I could say that it is a black mark for "Taxi". He was a matured person. According to my bad habit, on that day, his Taxi was my office transport. The way he started his discussion was not suspicious. He said that a few people arrested by police as they kept some offensive stuff related to videos.

I just responded, "Ohh really?". Believe me. That was it. After that, he came up with many bad stories and explanations by suggesting some options for me also. I could not think what is going on and for a moment I could not think about my next steps. On that day, I decided to stop my bad habit and order a taxi without stopping whatever going on the road.

Though I did not report this incident, I got to know the color and the number of the vehicle as he passed me slowly a few days after that incident. Those days, his view was the most unpleasant thing for me to see in the morning.

After a couple of weeks, I saw a Three-wheeler that stuck a greeting label in large font. As you know most of the three-wheelers decorated with lights and stickers. Though it is a common thing, the size of the font was the suspicious thing for me. It was the greeting, and it increases my doubt thoughts. I just thought that the person who is driving this vehicle should be an exceptional case. I wanted to look at the driver.

My observation was correct and he was that silly man. My father always said that the person who is doing the wrong has a big noise to cover the stuff. I think that person also tried to cheat innocent people via that logic. However, that silly thing made me laugh. Lol...

It is easy for us to go by Taxi comfortably. But you should think about the Taxi that you are hiring before getting into the vehicle. That is why I did not recommend my bad "Taxi practice" for you all in a previous post. A delay makes you and others uncomfortable. But I don't think that it would not harm your life unless it is not a need for an ambulance.

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49.0 What Ancient Greeks Knew About Taxi! That You Still Don't. It is An Identified Flying Object. Lol...

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Tue, 24 Sep 2019 13:27:00 +0000

Secrets Exposed! As there are memorable experiences with Taxies, I thought to share some "Taxi" incidents with you. Most of the stories were nice to remember. It is nice to remember some incidents, and I can remember that I have shared such details with my friends and family members.

Out of those many fun things, there were a few bad memories too. Sometimes, you also can learn something via the bad memories I had. I think this would help you to think about Taxi journeys more carefully while enjoying most of the incidents.

However, though there were many different memories and incidents, I used "Taxi" for my office tours. I went to the office by a Three-wheeler and used the same transport method to return home. If there are any office meetings, I used to go there with a mini Taxi car. So, I faced for various experiences, when I was going to and fro by a three-wheeler. There are lots of memories regarding the three-wheel journey. I would like to start with an incident which happened when I was going to the office.

Time Management! As I had to bring my laptop every day, I did not go by bus. It was the main reason for me to avoid buses. Apart from that, I could reach the office shortly by a three-wheeler. Most of the time, I did not have enough time to go by bus. I had to manage my journey within twenty to thirty minutes. Therefore, most of the times I could not call a cab service, wait and go.

So, I just went to the road and stopped a three-wheeler that is running for a hire. That was the most suitable quick and effective mechanism for my lazy lifestyle. However, I'm not recommending that method for you guys and you can see why is that by reading the next few paragraphs.

Therefore, I could not use one three-wheeler for office transport. Though my parents also asked me to use a three-wheeler that I know, I could not do that as I could not leave the home at a particular time. It was not possible with that three-wheel driver as he had some other fixed hires with his clients. Therefore, I went with him once he was available. Because of these bad habits, I did not select the particular driver and I just went by any taxi three-wheeler which was passing me.

One day, I was in a super hurry, and I asked a driver to stop the three-wheeler by giving a hand signal when he was passing me. At that time, I was waiting to cross the road. So, he could identify that I was late to work. But he did not ask anything, and I also did not ask him to reduce the speed. But his observation was correct. I think the way I stopped the vehicle would make him come to that decision. I think he has good Decision Making Skills. Lol...

Therefore, he put his maximum effort to go quickly. He put maximum speed he can put in his vehicle and drove fast. He had a zig-zag driving style when he was trying to avoid some vehicles. He did not forget to blame some drivers. He disappointed with their driving skills. However, the others also would blame this guy, as he was also a careless driver.

However, his behavior was not a joke to me anymore. There was a railway crossing. A few seconds before closing the railway gates, he passed the railway crossing immediately saying "we would have to wait for five to ten minutes if I could not go before closing the gate".

Boost Confidence! I think it was a big victory as a driver. It increased his confidence level though it was a crazy nut thing. He laughed weirdly. I did not have any words to say and I also just agreed with him like a dummy. But it digested my entire breakfast, and I thought that it was my last office journey. Lol... I just imagine the other drivers' reaction to his foolish action. I know, they would blame this guy with harsh words definitely. Luckily, I could not hear anything as others have stopped their vehicles by obeying the rules.

Finally, we reached our destination. He said "See, Madam. I could bring you to the office on time. You are lucky to have drivers like us. You won't come here shortly with another driver except me. Hah hah ha....". I think it was a good start for him though I started my day with an adventure. Lol... As he thought that he did a good job, he wanted to take the office transport job for the entire week. So, he asked my time schedule for next weekdays saying "Miss, I can pick you from the same location at the same time if you wish". I said that I'm coming by bus on other days".

Bad Habit! Another day, I came with another three-wheeler taxi as usual according to my bad habit. Here, I would like to highlight this as a bad habit as I don't want to recommend it via my article because of particular reasons. Later on, you will understand.

So, as usual, I got on to the vehicle and provided the route details with some short cuts. He was also happy with the route as it was a short cut that does not show in the default map. It was a route that is going through a private road. Though a few boards were stating that it was a private road, many drivers used it as a short cut. I also breached the rules to go to the office quickly.

He was listening to songs when I was getting on to the vehicle also. It was like a musical show. So, in mid of this sound, he talked with me with his maximum high pitch voice. As that sound was a disturbance to his topic, I thought that he stopped his musical miscellany. But it did not happen. Therefore, I politely asked him to reduce the sounds.

He laughed and told me that "I was a bus driver, miss. That is why I need to listen to songs with high volume. That high sound volume gave me joy and energy". He reduced the volume a bit for the sake of the request. It was an annoying noise for me, and all the singers were weeping for their lost love. I don't know how does that guy energized with such songs. Sometimes, other breakups would make him happy. Crazy... Lol...

48.0 Do Eyebrows Sometimes Make You Feel Stupid? No More Mistakes With Eyebrows.

noreply@blogger.com (Stories of Jayashni) — Tue, 17 Sep 2019 11:43:00 +0000

The very first time I went to a salon for a facial cleanup for one of my friend's wedding. At that time, there were no pimple issues or patches on my face. However, there was a beauty procedure for both the bride and her friends. I was her bride's maid, and that preparation time was an enjoyable time for our gang. It was a new experience. Clean Up Is Fun!

We helped her to arrange some stuff like cakes and cards. Apart from all, the dressings and beauty stuff managed via one salon. So, our bride got various instructions for beauty improvements. Meanwhile, she pointed out some of our beauty issues as well, and it impressed us to think about our beauty.

At that time, I have not shaped my eyebrows though my friends and cousins also threaded their eyebrows nicely. Though they asked me to do that, I gave up as it was a painful thing. So, it was the main request of the salon owner. She wanted to shape it. However, finally, I agreed with her for the sake of my friend's wedding. So, she threaded one eyebrow very slowly, and it was a painful thing at its first time. Therefore, I did not let her go for the next one after completing one eyebrow.

Trim Eyebrows! Though my friends blamed me, I requested some time gap. However, she was kind enough to consider my request, and I had a weird look with the original eyebrow and shaped eyebrow. Lol... However, the final look made me happy. Everyone said that it lighted up my face. I also thought that I would do that early to have that look. Actually, that new look could give me a new year's dawn feel. Hah hah ha...

After that, I used to thread my eyebrows once it has grown up. As I thought that it was not neat to keep a grew eyebrows, it was a very essential beauty thing to do for me. I think it is growing like a jungle after shaping it one time. Then you cannot get rid of that job, and it would be a mandatory beauty task to do. So, once I went to that salon for eyebrows threading, all the time that lady asked about upper lips. She wanted to thread those as well, though I have not much-grown hair on upper lips. However, I could reject her suggestion kindly.

One day when I was waiting for my appointment, one girl came for eyebrows threading. She wanted to thread both eyebrows and upper lip area. She was fine when threading eyebrows. Perfect Eyebrows! But tears were coming out like a water tap when she was threading her upper lip area. I thought that why did she bear up that much of pain, even for her beauty. As well as she did not have hairy upper lips. I think sometimes our mind wants some unnecessary expectations. There was one of my friends who had hairy upper lips like a boy. As she had very fair skin, it highlighted well. However, she also did not want to thread it. She kept it as it is those days.

I think the shape of eyebrows could change the look of your face up to some extent. I had to believe that once I went to another salon for threading. As it was a famous salon in our area, I did not have any doubts about their service. So, I went there to shape my eyebrows. The only advice I'm giving to salon guys was 'don't make it too thin. I don't like that artificial look. So, I just wanted to keep the shape by removing the additional. So, she agreed with me. She was not like others. She had a procedure.

The salon I went to other days did not take much time for threading, and it was a quick job for her. Sometimes she was careless. She did not apply any cream prior to threading. So, most of the times I applied a lot of cream in the eyebrow area before going to that salon. But here, it was different. I could say that she cared a lot. First, she cleaned the eyebrow area using a mild cologne. Then she applied a cream and massaged gently. As she was taking time again, I remembered my request 'don't make it too thin. She agreed again, saying 'sure. I will only remove the additional.

How To Fill In Eyebrows? Lol... Finally, she started threading. Not like the other salon owner, she used a tweezer instead of thread. Meantime she answered some phone calls from other customer appointments. I did not feel angry or anything about her phone calls. But I worried about my eyebrows. Can she concentrate on my work while hanging on with her friends? That was the only worry, I had on my mind at that time.

Apart from phone calls, she went to the counter to get the payments of other customers who finished. So, I had an idle time from time to time. To cover all those tasks, she got more than fifteen minutes, I think. Finally, she said that the job was over by giving a hand mirror to me. Furthermore, she said that she just removed the additional without making it too thin. Once I looked at, I got to know the weird status of eyebrows.

However, it was late to say something or scold her as it was already done. After that, for any emergency, I did not change the salon I went to threading. One time I stayed for more than six months with the grown eyebrows once that salon's lady went for training overseas. I waited for her. Apart from me, many friends I knew waited for her without going to other salons if there were no emergency requirements like hair coloring.

At that time, I thought that the quality of the service is good enough to keep the customer base. Customer Returns! Actually, her customer retention was very high. So, once she came, it was not easy to make an appointment. I had to wait for another few days. But I did not select another salon because of that bad experience. Lol…

Groom Eyebrows! One day when I was waiting for a bus at the bus stand, I saw a boy who had a nice face. I observed something different on his face, and I thought that what could be the thing that gave that kind of attraction. So, after looking at his face for two to three times, I noticed his eyebrows. He could shape it by keeping his gent's personality too. That was the main point I observed.

Finally, he noticed my observation. When I was looking at him again, he raised his eyebrows a few times. I think he acknowledged that he had threaded eyebrows. It made both of us laugh though we did not know each other. It was a Monday morning, and I was on the way to the office from home. I think that "Monday issue was the main reason for that weird behavior. Lol...