IslandGirlMick

Self Care can be rather broad brush stroke, eh?

2019-09-06T13:00:00.002-07:00

I'm terrible about Self Care. I took a bath last weekend, I used a bath bomb. Of course it was a SCENTSY Bath Bomb, just saying.

Today, I just made a hair appointment. I haven't had one since my birthday and my hair is at that unbearable length.

I just ordered deodorant. How big of a deal is this?! Well I have struggled with skin reactions to all kinds of natural deodorants lately and I just went back to my favorite. I left because I didn't want to pay the price for it ... well, there is something to be said about hand crafted, all natural products. I look forward to visiting their store one day. I was surprised to see they have better packaging now, and I'm excited to get the new products I ordered.

I'm excited for reduced packaging! Earl Grey is amazing

**I'm not an affiliate, I get nothing from sharing this link, other than knowing I'm sharing with you a quality product that works for me when nothing else does.**

I am calling these three my BIG accomplishments in self care for myself. I cater to my family, my job, my volunteering, and leave myself empty. Not today! I'm going to be grateful I finally accomplished two major tasks that I just haven't been able to get to. =) And maybe now people will be willing to stand next to me.

The Helper 💜

2019-08-31T10:27:00.004-07:00

I am actively working on asking for help when I need it. I have always felt like it was a massive blow to my ego to ask for help. To the point that when I finally DO ask for help, sometimes it’s too late. I want to be better about this. My health depends on it. My shingles aren’t visible or excruciating, but I still get frequent “zaps”. Like this morning. I spent the last week scrambling to do a lot for a LOT of people (totally worth it too!) but I pay for it physically. So! For myself, I will continue to focus on allowing others to fulfill their circle of giving and receiving.

Athletic Booster Club President, wait what?

2019-08-30T09:24:00.000-07:00

Last year was K3's first year in high school. He's a stellar athlete, so I decided to help out with the Athletic Booster Club. Fast forward, to the end of the school year and all the Board Members are leaving. I'm told, "You know more than anyone else coming in, so you should be President!"

Wait, what?

It hasn't been an easy summer, let alone start to the school year.

Screw keeping it together, it's a mess in the first place. I don't know how it's all going to come out but all we can do is try! Luckily, I have another M on the Board, the only other one who didn't have to resign.

Volunteers, you're needed. We can't do this without you. <3

Would you ever? My take on those silly 5k's with COLOR

2019-08-20T13:18:00.000-07:00

THIS IS AN OLD POST FROM 2013 THAT WAS NEVER PUBLISHED:

Our Family:
Rickey, Will, Dave, Lili, Micki

Saturday 10/26/13, our family and Scentsy Family Team did the Run Or Dye 5k that was held in our area. It was the first time we have ever done a 5k together, family or team.

It was cold, and registration on site started at 7am. We had picked up our race packets the night before and of course, my daughter wanted a tutu. A PINK one of course.

#GilroyStrong My story

2019-08-20T13:11:00.005-07:00

This is my second stint living in Gilroy. This is the first time in maybe 30 years that I attended the Garlic Festival.

Originally, I had a gathering scheduled for Saturday at my home for a local group and to go to the Garlic Festival on Sunday. Our local group decided to postpone which made attending the Colbie Callait concert possible, so we took the opportunity. We decided to Lyft down Wren to the levee trail. Walked through the gates, security, metal detectors with our hats and cooling towels. We made it across the park and found our spot to enjoy the concert. After, we got ice cream, pesto and shrimp scampi ... I was at complete peace with garlic. As the fest was winding down for the day, my accommodating husband agreed to walk home with me. We talked as we walked block after block, enjoying the breeze.

On Sunday at 2pm I get the call from Kid#3 ready to be picked up from his shift volunteering for the day at the Gfest. I park in a weird spot on Santa Theresa as he makes his way across the parking area up by CHS. We get home, gather K#5 and K#2 and head to Santa Cruz for the rest of the day.

We were sitting at DeLaveaga Park, catching the last bits of cell signal before disappearing into the Santa Cruz Mountains. The reports were coming in about the shooting at the Garlic Festival. My husband was back in Gilroy, I reached out to him before heading out of reach.

When we returned to cell signal my phone was going crazy. Texts, messages, voicemails, posts, it was overwhelming. I told K2 to post a generic post on FB and write a quick text that says we are all ok and send to everyone who reached out. That night when we got home, the sound of helicopters was deafening. We had errands, a life to continue to live, with this huge cloud of fear, uncertainty and violent death looming over our little town.

"WHO CARES ABOUT GILROY." I would say. Making a statement because no one should be taking the time to answer. That's how I convinced myself that I was always safe here.

Why would anyone target our town fundraiser?

That night, I didn't sleep. I couldn't. We slept with every window closed in the house. I kept checking on the kids. The sounds of helicopters was so loud I could feel it. The next day, it was hard to do anything. It feels like a blur and I only remember attending the vigil that night. I was so upset at the national media circus. The amount of noise they create is exasperating. We are a small town. Give us some space.

When I got home that night I looked at the large piece of metallic sticker sheeting I was given by a local sign company. I decided to make GilroyStrong decals out of it strictly for donations to the Gilroy Foundation. That helped to drown out the sound of the circling helicopters on the second night. We attended another vigil held downtown Thursday that week, downtown. Now, almost a month later, the "GILROY STRONG" banner still hangs across Monterey.

The City of Gilroy is still restoring Christmas Hill Park. Typically the park goes through a rehab after the Gfest anyway, but this one is a lot more involved. I drove by this morning and security is still sitting at the top of the Miller mound. The corners are still decorated with signs, flowers and animals for the young lives lost. Our town loves you, and we send you peace. <3

There is so much more pain that trickles through a community when a tragedy like this happens. The best way I have been able to cope is by being with others. Mostly, I've been pushing myself to attend events where I don't know anyone. I was able to attend the Ohlone Elder's Blessing on August 10th. It was powerful and incredible. It's amazing this community that has come together to heal. K5 and I signed up for CPR Certification, and spent most of our day learning what was TV and what to do in a real situation.

Next, I'm looking to join the local chapter of the Mothers Demand Action. One step at a time.

Daily Message 11.20.13

2013-11-20T10:51:00.002-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve."

— Napoleon Hill: Early pioneer of personal-success literature;
one of the great writers on success

"You can always find the sun within yourself if you will only search."
-Maxwell Maltz: American cosmetic surgeon and author of Psycho-Cybernetics

"When your desires are strong enough, you will appear to possess superhuman powers to achieve."

— Napoleon Hill: Early pioneer of personal-success literature;
one of the great writers on success

Abraham-Hicks Publications

There's an expression in the physical environment that you use to entertain each other. (it doesn't serve you very well) that says, "I worry that I'll go down to the dock, and that my ship will have already come and gone. I'll miss my boat."

And we say, another boat, another boat, another boat. You have no idea how many boats are coming to your dock. It's a steady stream, and it doesn't matter how many of them you've missed. The only thing that matters is what are you doing right now in your vibration? And you can tell what you're doing right now in your vibration by the way you feel.

---Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Los Angeles, CA on August 4, 2001

You will always, almost always, most of you, choose negative emotion over no emotion. Because emotion indicates desire. It's exciting!

---Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Silver Springs, MD on April 11, 1999
Our Love,

Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Tut: A Note from the Universe

I vote for funny, easy, and breezy. For smiles, giggles, and winks. Serendipities, happenchance, and surprises. Friends, strangers, and admirers. Pink, purple, and green. And crazy, sexy, cool.

This morning.

Or tomorrow morning, if you read this late.

But that's just me.

It's already started,
The Universe

Always "ask" for a lot! K?

Inner Whispers with Veronica

A New Message From VERONICA

A Simple Process

"Some manifest into physical reality to bring balance to themselves and to others. Often a healer will be zealous in their desire to give as much energy as possible to those who desperately need it.

This full giving can, however, deplete the healer, hindering the ability to help others as they would like.

In physical reality, everything that exists does so based on an exchange of energy. This occurs right down to the molecules and atoms that create the substance of the linear. As a giver gives, it is important that they also allow themselves to receive.

Leaving yourself out of the queue can have difficult consequences, especially if you are zealous in your desire to give.

Allow others the opportunity to give back. It helps their own internal process as well, allowing them to feel that ebb and flow of energy.

Remember the process: Ebb and Flow.

It was the way it was designed, thus creating a more Utopian participation.

Give, receive, give, receive.

A simple process really."

-VERONICA

Daily Message 11.14.13

2013-11-14T08:43:00.000-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"The most important thing in communication is
hearing what isn't said."

— Peter F. Drucker: Austrian-born American management consultant, educator, and author

"Do not wait: the time will never be 'just right'.
Start where you stand, and work whatever tools you may have at your command and better tools will be found as you go along."

— Napoleon Hill: Early pioneer of personal-success literature;
one of the great writers on success

Abraham-Hicks Publications

A decision is the focusing of the Energy of desire, and the decision point happens when the desire is powerful enough.

---Abraham
Excerpted from the workshop in Silver Spring, MD on April 19, 1997

There is a big mix out there, and there's lots of different things going on, and there is not one way that was intended to be the right way. Just like there's not one color or one flower or one vegetable or one fingerprint. There is not one that is to be the right one over all others. The variety is what fosters the creativity. And so you say, "Okay, I accept that there's lots of variety, but I don't like to eat cucumbers." Don't eat cucumbers. But don't ask them to be eliminated and don't condemn those who eat them. Don't stand on corners waving signs trying to outlaw the things that you don't like. Don't ruin your life by pushing against. Instead, say, "I choose this instead. This does please me.

---Abraham
Excerpted from the workshop in Rye, NY on October 12, 1997

Someone asked us recently, "Is there any limitation to the body's ability to heal?" And we said, "None, other than the belief that you hold." And he said, "Then why aren't people growing new limbs?" And we said, "Because no one believes that they can."

---Abraham
Excerpted from the workshop in San Rafael, CA on February 27, 1999

Our Love,

Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Tut: A Note from the Universe

Nothing is worth your unhappiness, not because the awful and ugly don't happen, but because there's always more of the really good stuff.

Always,
The Universe

Let every season run its course and every tide ebb and flow, but think not, dear Micki , that you have no choice of where your wandering mind can go...

Inner Whispers with Veronica

A New Message From VERONICA

These Three Elements Are Available To All

"As you start the day, keep the concept of no limits in your heart.

It is easy to accept boundaries while physical. The reality is rooted in defining what surrounds you in a dense way.

Why not consider how your soul feels instead of accepting yet another limited moment?

It is important to remember that your reality is your design.

We realize that many will speak loudly that circumstances of negativity attack them every day. A distortion evolves causing the moment to be difficult or impossible.

Do not forget that in your soul, there is a perspective of boundless creativity. Perhaps awake this moment to the probabilities that those current physical limits can be altered.

Know that ultimately it is all your choice. Attempt to think and feel from your energy. If it has been compromised, reach deep within to find the flicker of hopeful energy that can change it.

No mater how deeply you are embedded in difficulty, there is always hope for change.

Decide to do it.

Often it requires courage, perseverance, and a connection to the divine. These three elements are available to all.

If you choose to argue, it is your choice. However, if you use that energy to participate in healing yourself, there is already progress towards something different.

Lift the limits from your life.

You can achieve this."

-VERONICA

Superhero - from The FlipSide

2013-11-05T07:17:00.001-08:00

Have you seen the YouTube video yet? It really struck a chord with me ...

Last month I went on my yearly business trip to New Orleans. There is truly something to be said about Southern Hospitality. (And the food is AMAZING!) People are courteous, polite, friendly without having to be friends. Living in California, it seems most "strangers" aren't interested in any of those qualities. And I'm not sure why. Don't we realize we are all made of the same things? We breathe the same air and love our families all in the same community?

What struck me the most with this is that he went out dressed as a transient, and it was the only way people would truly interact with him. What I see, is a lonely man, who does his own social experiment to feed his need to be connected.

What do YOU do to feed YOUR need? We, by nature, are social creatures. Next time you pass someone in the aisle at the grocery store, say hello and smile. Passing someone on the staircase whose arms are full? Why not offer to help? Small gestures can make someone feel noticed when they feel like the world ignores them.

Just ... say, "Hi!" =)

Daily Message 10.28.13

2013-10-28T08:56:00.000-07:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"The major reason for setting a goal is for

what it makes of you to accomplish it. What it makes of you

will always be the far greater value than what you get."

— Jim Rohn: American entrepreneur

"Thinking is a habit, and like any other habit, it can be changed;

it just takes effort and repetition."

—John Eliot: professor

"No one lights a lamp in order to hide it behind the door:

the purpose of light is to create more light,

to open people's eyes, to reveal the marvels around."

—Paulo Coelho: Brazilian lyricist and novelist

Abraham-Hicks Publications

Get so fixated on what you want, that you drown out any vibration or reverberation that has anything to do with what you do not want.
---Abraham
Excerpted from the workshop in Boston, MA on October 2, 2004

See this world as a free world, and see everyone in it as trying through their individual experiences to find their way back to that calling, back to that Source Energy. And even though there are billions of them going about it in a way that is different than you would choose, there's no right or wrong way. In other words, bless them all, and get on with the only thing you have any power about, which is opening or closing your vortex to your natural state of Well-Being.
--Abraham
Excerpted from the workshop in San Francisco, CA on February 28, 2004

Inspiration comes forth from within. It's what the light burning within you is about, as opposed to motivation, which is doing it because if you don't do it, there will be negative repercussions. Motivation is making myself do something that I don't really want to do. Inspiration is having the clear picture of what I am wanting — and letting Universal forces come into play to get the outcome.
---Abraham
Excerpted from the workshop in Spokane, WA on July 7, 1999

Our Love,

Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Tut: A Note from the Universe

Usually, the best way to find the yellow brick road of your life is to start out on the dusty, dirt one.

And then let yourself become so preoccupied in making the best of it, having fun, and challenging yourself that you actually stop paying attention to the path.

Until, one day, not so long from now, with a new best friend, wearing cool clothes, feeling awesome, a teeny tiny bit taller, fresh from a WOW vacation, looking for the path you just left, you'll notice that it's 24 carats... baby.

And you'll wonder for a long, long time, sipping on some exotic fruit drink, when the transformation actually took place...

Tripping,
The Universe

Also wondering, as everyone always does, "Whatever did I do to deserve so much, so fast...?"

Inner Whispers with Veronica

A New Message From VERONICA

The Choice

"For every rose there are a few thorns. The pricking of the linear finger often teaches much more than the fragrance of the rose.

So be willing to accept the difficult. It is often necessary to appreciate the abundance that can occur during the process.

Perhaps moving forward while experiencing the thorn is the better choice. Deciding to use the pain as an excuse to be stagnant will hinder the soulful progression that is desired.

Remember that physical pain is fleeting. The soul responds to the difficulty, allowing one's energy to be healed and joyful. The choice lies in how one responds to the difficulty. Being a victim, or being an eternal soul that rises above it.

Take hold of the ability to rise above. Choose to be positive when surrounded by negativity. You are a creator of reality. Choose to be the special energy who does it differently. Choose not to agree with the general consensus that all is terrible. Choose to find the spark of energy that can turn it all around.

Attempt to not blind yourself to the probability .

You are a creator.

Embrace it.

Every time you do, a ripple of love moves through your reality to change it.... for the better."

I WANT!!! The All-New 2014 Mitsubishi Outlander

2013-10-14T13:01:00.001-07:00

Manifest Manifest MAKE IT TRUE!

I have been looking at the Mitsubishi Outlander for quite some time. And for those of you who know my car, it's DEFINITELY time. While I love my car, it's time to release her and start again with someone new ... =) LOL

I love that this model seats 7! I have enough room for my family and still more for my Scentsy Family Business! I was thinking about leasing but I have never done that before. Anyone have an opinion when it comes to leasing? Usually I just buy a car outright but it's time for my first NEW CAR being as though I have never had one ... AND if I lease, my Scentsy Family business could easily make my payments! WOW!

What do you think of the Mitsubishi Outlander? What color do you think looks best?

California's Great America - I'm a Season Pass holder!

2013-08-13T17:05:00.004-07:00

Before your next trip to California’s Great America, take a few minutes to read below. If you would like me to add more info on different rides, comment below!

Buy your season pass online! Click here to go to Great America's Website!

(All pictures were taken from the Great America Website.)

From the Great America Website ...

Gold Striker:

If the line is out the front gate, WAIT FOR ANOTHER TIME. You’ll be in line for about an hour to get on the ride if you start the line at the front gate. It is THE BEST THRILL RIDE in the entire park. The speed is amazing and while we only waited in line about 45 mins, it was WELL WORTH IT for the avid Roller Coast Enthusiast.

Xtreme Skyflyer:

Looks like fun, but it’s an extra charge within the park. You get strapped in and pulled HIGH up in the air. You pull the cord to drop … I have seen them around the country but honestly, I would rather jump out of an airplane!

Flight Deck:

This ride used to be Top Gun back when the park was Paramount’s Great America. Since this one is an older ride, it still has some of the “décor” like TV’s positioned to keep you entertained during your wait in line. However, none of them worked. The ride is exhilarating regardless. If you’re really tall or kinda short, this coaster locks in your body bc it’s a stand up, no floor ride. Guys, make sure you remember that and “adjust” accordingly as you get to “ride” a bicycle seat …

Firefall:

VOLCANOOOOO! This one was a lot of fun! It takes you over the water upside down.

The Grizzly:

<BUZZER!!!> No more. After riding the Gold Striker, The Grizzly is definitely a reminder of the 80’s … It was definitely AWESOME in it’s day … but those days are OVER.

Demon:

No thanks. I’m good now. I won’t be riding again unless I need a really gnarly headache and possible bruises on my temples.

Loggers Run: Seriously? It’s awesome. It’s fun, it’s simple, lines aren’t usually too long and when it’s hot it’s PERFECT. It’s an absolute classic.

Rue le Dodge:

Who doesn’t love silly fun in bumper cars?

Celebration Swings:

I can't help myself. Whenever I see swings, I want to swing. Case CLOSED.

Delta Flier/Eagle's Flight:

When your feet are tired, and you still have to walk the entire length of the park to meet someone, or just LEAVE for the day, the Delta Flier/Eagle's Flight is perfect. I love the look from above and having the chance to people watch like I'm some kind of Eagle myself. SQUAWK SQUAWK people!

H.M.B. Endeavor:

So my eldest son was BEGGING AND BEGGING to go on this ride. So I did. Reluctantly. It hangs upside down for a good 8 seconds. And what do you hear? Change, phones, sunglasses ... falling out of peoples pockets, off their heads and honestly, I find that pretty amusing. What wasn't amusing? Trying to get out from under the bar that holds you in and straightening my spine after being held down so hard I could hardly breathe by the end. Yeah, that's one for the history books kids. Mom is NEVER riding this one again.

Fast Lane … Worth the extra $40?

If you’re going to go on a weekend, YES. Even just for the Gold Striker alone. SOOOO WORTH IT. I have had to watch too many Fast Laner’s get on the rides in front of me that the jealously factor was in high gear. It makes sense for so many people. But I would just rather go on a week night.

Daily Message 8/13/13 - I'm baaaaaaaaaack!

2013-08-13T11:26:00.001-07:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"Happiness is not something ready made.
It comes from your own actions."

-Dalai Lama: Tibetan spiritual leader

Abraham-Hicks Publications

Physical pain is just an extension of emotion. It's all the same thing. There are two emotions. One feels good and one feels bad. Which means, you're connected to your Energy Stream or you're not allowing your Energy Stream.
---Abraham
Excerpted from the workshop in Phoenix, AZ on April 5, 1998
Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Message from Inner Whispers

Today Is The Day

"Today, why not stand still in silence for a moment and listen to the pulse of your soul?

Today, why not speak your truth without fear of how it is received?

Today, step forward and include your linear participation in your soul's progress.

Today, why not become more active in your soul intentions instead of settling for linear costumes?

Today is the moment you truly reside in. It is an opportunity to express yourself with pure honesty. A moment to color your perceptions with the clarity of the old soul you are becoming.

Often in the linear, one becomes lost in all the dramas, costumes, and props, while forgetting the true intentions of why they have arrived.

This moment needs joy. This day will blossom with the intention of joy. The awareness of all that is possible with clear thought should be continuously tucked within one's heart.

The linear experience was meant to be fulfilling, while allowing the dense experience to fortify one's spirit.

Glean as much knowledge and experience as you can. Embrace the day, becoming one with the vivid experience of the current moment.

Today, be one with our soul. Today, realize your potential and live it. Do not allow others to rob you of the awareness of your potential.

It is your gift... your life, your opportunity to be more.

Yes it is difficult to embrace all of this. Attempt every day to do so. Do not give up. Be the person you aspire to be.

Use all the experiences good and bad to achieve this.

Today is the day."

IslandGirlScents: 8 Keys to Recruiting

2013-04-13T22:22:00.002-07:00

I wrote up this quick guide to get you started. Thanks for reading!

1. How were you recruited?

What was it that ultimately made you just have to sign up? How do you connect with the business? Draw from those thoughts and feelings because that is what is true and real for you. People will connect with you differently than if you were just giving a speech or reading from a booklet.

2. Create a Recruiting Packet to keep on you at all times.

You never know when the perfect opportunity will arise. I usually have 3 of these packed and ready to go.

Join Brochure
Recruiting DVD
Compensation Plan
"My Story" (my rack card is explained later)
Current Hostess flier(s)
Current Catalogs
Shooting Star Kit Info
Wax Sample

3. Three brands (Scentsy Fragrance, Velata and Grace Adele) means three different opportunities.

The ability to recruit for any of the three brands gives you a larger group of people who will be interested in joining your team. Not everyone will join all three brands, or even the same brands as their Sponsor. The beauty of our team is we are represent all brands and your new recruit has access to any and all of us!

4. Find Success stories.

There are plenty of stories within our team and out there in cyber-land. Some consultants have changed their entire lives and those of their family with their Scentsy Family business. This is why I include the Discover Scentsy DVD in my packets. I connected immediately with the stories told on the DVD. And let's all admit it, Heidi and her ability to emit her honesty and gratitude, well she's not only stunning but she made me feel like I wanted to be a part of that success. I want that for myself and to be connected to good people.

5. "My Story": This is an important part of your business.

Customers can purchase from any consultant they want to. They choose YOU because of YOU. They want to connect with you. To know they are helping someone grow their business or take care of their family! Share the reason why you joined the team. I created a Rack Card on VistaPrint talking about why I started my own direct selling business. They are glossy on one side and matte on the other and made of a nice card stock. I pair these with Join Brochures and I keep 5 in my purse so I always have something on me to be able to talk about the business at any time.

6. Changing Lives is a phrase our team uses regularly.

Sometimes when people ask me what I do, I say, "I change lives for a living." Think about the words you use when talking about your business. Are they "life changing" words or are they words that "turn you off?" Think carefully about the words you use on any marketing. Do you want to be a "life changer" or a "mentor" or would you rather be a "whiner" or a "negative Nelly?" The words you use about your business shape the opinion others will have about it. I love that the work I do changes lives. Don't you?

7. When you talk about your business, are you paying attention to how you're feeling inside at the moment?

If you're not in the right space mentally, emotionally, physically, table the conversation. Get yourself into the right mood. Do what it takes! Music, a power nap, meditation, a break ... Whatever. Just pay attention to how you're feeling, deal with it and get right back out there. You are in charge of how you feel and what you put out into the world. Sometimes, it's just best to hand the Join Brochure and a copy of your story, then check in later or the next day.

8. Plant seeds ... Then check your crops!

I have heard that it takes contacting a potential recruit eight times before they sign on. This is your chance to really make sure this person is a good fit for your existing team because you will all be working together. Sometimes the seeds bloom, some you will decide not to water. Remember to keep asking, keep checking in. If you don't ask, you won't know.

My kids are my biggest supporters!

Read my story!
Join my Team!
https://mickidawal.scentsy.us

Daily Message 1.29.13-I'm back from Jury Duty!

2013-01-29T16:20:00.001-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"If you talk to a man in a language he understands,
that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his language, that goes to his heart."

— Nelson Mandela: South African anti-apartheid activist and politician

Abraham-Hicks Publications

"But, what if what I want and what you want are in conflict? If I want rain, and you've just cut your alfalfa…how does that work?" If you will focus upon the essence of what you want (which is a magnificent new crop) and the other will focus upon the essence of what they want (which is a successful alfalfa harvest, or whatever)… and if either one of you doesn't get too involved in the details of how you think you want your desire to play out, then both of you can be satisfied. The Universe has the facility to orchestrate circumstances and events to accommodate everyone.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Albuquerque, NM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2004 # 700

You have the ability to pivot under any and all conditions. But most of you are habitual in nature, and your patterns are so well entrenched that at times the fastest path to the joy you seek is for you to take your pivot as you sleep. By reaching for good-feeling thoughts before you go to sleep and then experiencing the benefit of the quiet mind that occurs while you sleep—and then upon awakening, immediately turning to good-feeling thoughts—you can accomplish the ultimate Pivoting experience.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness" # 699

When people ask us how long does it take for something to manifest, we say, "It takes as long as it takes you to release the resistance. Could be 30 years, could be 40 years, could be 50 years, could be a week. Could be tomorrow afternoon."
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Cleveland, OH on Tuesday, July 11th, 2000 # 698

From the Nonphysical, you created you, and now from the physical, you continue to create — and we are nothing if we are not flow-ers of Energy. We must have objects of attention, that are ringing our bells, in order to feel the fullness of who we are — flowing through us — for the continuation of All-That-Is. That is what puts the eternalness in eternity.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Silver Spring, MD on Saturday, April 19th, 1997 # 697

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Daily Feng Shui Tip from Astrology.com

If one of your New Year resolutions was to incorporate small but significant changes in your daily routine in order to embrace better health and a happier frame of mind, then this next tip's for you. Stand up at least once an hour and stretch. This exercise is especially important if you spend a great deal of time sitting, as research has recently shown that sitting for long stretches can shave four years off your life. Get up once an hour and reach your arms over your head and then bend over and try to touch your toes. Breathe deeply. Live longer.

Daily Dream Decoder from Astrology.com

Juggling

Most of us go through seasons of life that create the feeling of juggling-having responsibility for more objects than we can reasonably handle.

If you successfully juggle alone, or for no particular reason, this may reflect the desire or feeling that you actually are controlling numerous facets of your life. Often, we are juggling publicly and being judged for our success in doing so. In these juggling dreams, the audience is key. Perhaps the audience consists of people to whom you should be delegating tasks or from whom you feel unreasonable expectations.

Who is watching you juggle, and what is your relationship with them in waking life?

How well are you juggling, and how does the audience react?

A New Message from Inner Whispers

Appreciate the Freedom

"This day is brand new. This moment is fresh and clean. The future is a blank canvas that is ready for you to create.

Life is filled with twists and turns that often derail the best of souls.

Resolve in this moment to continue your journey by honoring the gifts you have been given.

If you have fallen off the path, decide to reestablish the connection that fills your heart with gladness.

It is never too late to realize your soul's intent and purpose. Do not let "time" fool you into a state of despair. You have the ability to reunite.

The question is how?

By embracing all your experiences (yes, even the bad ones), you strengthen your self for the journey. This time with a better outcome.

Appreciate the difficult times, for they often set you back in the correct direction with your life.

Appreciate what you have set in motion, while taking your mind, heart, and soul to the next level of participation.

Appreciate the day in the moment. Dwelling in the past makes it difficult to create your future.

If you have pushed the boulder uphill without struggle, appreciate your own tenacity.

If you have pushed the boulder uphill and still have not succeeded, examine the worth of the bolder (not your own).

Sometimes it's better to let go, allowing the bolder to roll back down the hill to find a better connection. This releases you to travel up the hill with ease.

Fill your moments with expectations, for when you reach the top of the hill, there is unlimited opportunity. You may find the bolder really wasn't necessary at all, and that the important moment was your sense of freedom.

Appreciate the freedom."

Daily Message 1.21.13

2013-01-21T09:59:00.001-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"People often say motivation doesn't last. Neither does bathing — that's why we recommend it daily."

— Zig Ziglar: Motivational author and speaker

"The 80/20 principle - that 80 percent of result flow
from just 20 percent of the causes - is the one
true principle of highly effective people."

— Richard Koch: Former management consultant,
entrepreneur, and author

"It's really important that you feel good. Because this feeling good is what goes out as a signal into the universe and starts to attract more of itself to you. So the more you can feel good, the more you will attract the things that help you feel good and that will keep bringing you up higher and higher."

— Joe Vitale: Motivational author and speaker

Abraham-Hicks Publications

If you intend to be of assistance, your eye is not upon the trouble but upon the assistance, and that is quite different. When you are looking for a solution, you are feeling positive emotion— but when you are looking at a problem, you are feeling negative emotion.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from "The Law of Attraction, The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham" # 678

We cannot focus upon the weaknesses of one another and evoke strengths. You cannot focus upon the things that you think they are doing wrong, and evoke things that will make you feel better. You've got to beat the drum that makes you feel good when you beat it. And when you do, you'll be a strong signal of influence that will help them to reconnect with who they are.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Washington, DC on Saturday, October 16th, 2004 # 677

You intended to come forth into the physical realm of contrast to define what is wanted. To connect with the energy that creates worlds, and to flow it toward your objects of attention. Not because the objects of attention are important, but because the act of flowing is essential to life.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Lincroft, NJ on Tuesday, October 15th, 1996 # 676

When you find yourself critical of the way anyone has attracted or is using money, you are pushing money away from yourself. But when you realize that what others do with money has nothing to do with you, and that your primary work is to think and speak and do what feels good to you, then you will be in alignment not only about the subject of money, but about every important subject in your physical experience.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness" # 679

The more in vibrational sync you are with who you really are, then the more you are allowing only those things that you're wanting, and the less resistance there is. And the less resistance there is, then the less delay between the idea of the thought and the receiving of it.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Tallahassee, FL on Saturday, December 1st, 2001 # 680

People will say, "Well, I have to work on my goals," or, "I have to work on my visualization." And we want you to think more about holding the vision because it is pleasurable to hold the vision, not because you're trying to make the vision work in order to get to some place that you're not now standing. "How much should I work?" We would say, work in the sense of joyously moving forward
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in North Los Angeles, CA on Monday, August 13th, 2001 # 681

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Daily Feng Shui Tip from Astrology.com

Today's 'National Popcorn Day' celebrates one of the healthiest snack foods on earth. Actually corn, popped or not, has long played a pivotal role in the religious ceremonies of Central and North America cultures. The Mayan Civilization and the Native American Navajo believed that the first humans were actually created from corn. The Mayans, Incans, Aztecs and every almost every Native American Indian not only ate corn but also incorporated it into almost all of their religious rites. Blue corn is often considered to be the most sacred of all colored corn and is still the favored corn offering of all. And then there is this ritual from the Ozarks that has survived the ages intact. This tradition says that if you suffer from frequent bouts of hiccups then you should name three kernels of corn for three friends and put them into a container of water. Then, whenever you have an attack, hold this vessel above your head and the hiccups will disappear. Now you may find this advice hard to swallow but I am personally certain that it works.

Daily Dream Decoder from Astrology.com

Candles

Candles often reveal a sense of mystery, romance, or supernatural guidance regarding the setting in which they appear. The candle can also be a symbol of providence or security as it may illuminate circumstances. If the candle has an unusually large flame, the fire may be the central image.

Do the candles have a ceremonial feel to them? If so, other aspects of the dream may be requiring reverence.

Is someone else holding a candle or candles? Often a symbolic gesture by a dream character-such as holding a candle-will indicate that they are there to lead you.

Gold

Gold is the universal symbol of purity and wealth. The acquisition of gold may be a display of power or wealth. The source of the acquisition as a conquest, gift, or discovery is important.

Equally important is the sacred element that comes into play. How is the gold used and what kind of wealth or power does it represent in the dream? It may be that you get a golden helmet, similar to Don Quixote's. This is an archetypal form of sacred power for completing a mission or hero quest.

Did you find, lose, give, or receive an article that is made out of gold?

Did the object make you feel better or worse?

Home

A lot of things can happen to your home in a dream. It can be built or purchased, destroyed by the weather or war, or conquered or overrun by invaders. Most dreams about homes occur when there is transition, instability, or significant growth occurring in waking life.

A home overrun is often reflective of instability in the dreamer's relationship to the world. Feeling overwhelmed is not unusual. However, if overwhelmed is the chronic condition of your life, then being overrun by a particular sort of person or animal may reflect the source of waking anxiety.

The home destroyed may come with geographic relocation, financial pressures, death, or divorce. In these dreams, the home is being pulled apart or somehow losing its ability to provide safe haven. If this dream is occurring in your life, it is worth looking at what influences are stressing your life and the effect they are having on your waking life.

A home built is an expansive view of what is happening in your life. Perhaps you are feeling an upswing in your job or financial base that will allow you to acquire additional opportunities. Perhaps a relationship is or will be changing from dating to nesting. In any case, the home-building dream should be considered a positive one.

Because homes are often a symbol of feminine influence or the womb, interpretive questions arise logically from transitions. Are you or your partner pregnant and needing a nest for the expected progeny? Do you feel a need to involve yourself in a significant relationship with another? Do you feel rootless or too set in your ways?

A New Message from Inner Whispers

To Safely Guard The Beauty of a Relationship...

"Connection in physical reality is a beautiful endeavor. A relationship experienced within the boundaries of the solid environment is like no other. Many seek endlessly the opportunity to connect, while others seek to maintain it.

In our observation, we find that the ability to stay connected is more difficult than finding it.

How then, does one nurture a good connection in the physical environment?

It is important to realize that it is the exchange of energy that tops the list.

Communication leads the way to safely guard the beauty of a relationship.

In a world where listening and talking can become a competition of who speaks the loudest, the idea of listening with awareness may be neglected.

Two energies must be willing to actually listen to each other. By this we also speak, that an exchanging in the confines of listening means being still for a moment to allow the other energy to actually mingle with yours.

In doing so, there is opportunity to examine not only the words, but the emotion and intensity that accompanies them.

An instant retort or reply is not always necessary in a conversation. Engaging in such tactics disables the ability to process the information with awareness.

Being aware is the ability to truly hear and process TWO versions of any conversation or conflict.

So slow down. Eliminate the competitive environment of who is right or wrong. If you seek solution, be aware and listen. Compromise is available by processing what you listen to, and that needs to be accomplished with awareness.

If there is value in the relationship, it is worth listening to the voices within it.

Listen with awareness."

Daily Message 1.04.12

2013-01-04T14:31:00.000-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals."

— Zig Ziglar: Motivational author and speaker

"We all walk in the dark and each of us must learn
to turn on his or her own light."

— Earl Nightingale: Motivational author and speaker

Abraham-Hicks Publications

If all of you, when you went home today, found your homes had blown away, you would be happier in the days and weeks and months to follow than if you went home and everything was normal — because it causes more focus of desire. There is all this fresh stuff pouring through you. It's like opening spaces to new allowance. If every remnant of success was gone from you — still you stand as the culmination of all that you've learned. And we don't mean learned in the sense that now you know how to do it again. We mean you have been the creation that has been in the process of being created, and here you stand as this clearer, more focused wanter and allower than you've ever been before. Which means, you can take your next breath of desire and step into your next place of allowing, and all that you ever had, and ten times more, can be in your experience immediately — when you accept that you are the asker and the receiver, and the letter-in of all of that.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in North Los Angeles, CA on Monday, August 13th, 2001 # 674

Before you can live anything, in what you are calling physical manifestation—you have to have conjured it in vibrational form. You have to have imagined it before it can become a reality. Everything that you are living here in this physical body, you have imagined the essence of it before you are living it.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Virginia Beach, VA on Tuesday, May 7th, 2002 # 675

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Daily Feng Shui Tip from Astrology.com

Forget Christmas and those four calling birds, on the fourth day of the New Year Feng Shui says that a magically delicious meal should be cooked and the kitchen gods acknowledged. This tradition advises that there is a kitchen god in every home that can substantially add to the flavor and happiness of every occupant of every home. One of the kitchen gods that I acknowledge on this special day is Zhou Chun. On the fourth day of every New Year I write his name in red ink on red paper and affix that above my oven. He's a pretty swell dining companion and always brings the best hostess gifts. Just you wait and see.

Daily Dream Decoder from Astrology.com

Horned Animals

The horned animal may represent a male power figure in your life, or, if the horn is nonsensical, it may be a displacement of another person's power (or your perception of unearned power that is being wielded by another). The goal is to discern your feelings about the animal and whether you see any relationship between the animal and individuals in your waking life.

If the horned animal is a nonsense creation, such as a horned dog, it may indicate sexual tension in a relationship. Do you feel as though someone close to you has mixed motives for being in a relationship with you? Another scenario is feeling threatened by another's power to impale you.

You may sense this as being a sort of sexual-penetration anxiety, but the general indication of power and intimidation is more satisfactory.

Daily Message 1.02.13 HAPPY NEW YEAR!

2013-01-02T08:06:00.001-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"If you do what you've always done,
you'll get what you've always gotten."

— Tony Robbins: American motivational speaker and author

"Business schools make a fortune forcing their students to take in a HUGE amount of information. The majority of it is theoretical. The majority of that is useless."

— Josh Kaufman: is an author, learning expert and business advisor

"Create a definite plan for carrying out your desire and begin at once, whether you ready or not,
to put this plan into action."

— Napoleon Hill: Author and pioneer of the personal development genre

"By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail."

— Benjamin Franklin: One of the Founding Fathers of the United States

"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up.
The most certain way to succeed is
always to try just one more time."

— Thomas A. Edison: American inventor and businessman

Abraham-Hicks Publications

By choosing better-feeling thoughts and by speaking more of what you do want and less of what you do not want, you will gently tune yourself to the vibrational frequency of your Broader Perspective. To see your world through the eyes of Source is truly the most spectacular view of life, for from that vibrational vantage point, you are in alignment with—and therefore in the process of attracting—only what you would consider to be the very best of your world.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness" # 659

When people thought the world was flat, it wasn't that their thinking was distorted, (The data that they were collecting gave them that information.) it was that they were not broadsighted enough to step back far enough to see the big picture. And that's what we see with so many of you: You are so close to the reality that you are creating, that you sometimes can't see the bigger picture.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in San Francisco, CA on Saturday, July 24th, 2004 # 660

There is not a stream of badness and a stream of goodness, or sickness or wellness. There is only a Stream of Well-being. The question that you're wanting to ask yourself is, "In this moment, am I letting it in or not? Am I allowing it or am I not?"
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Cleveland, OH on Tuesday, July 11th, 2000 # 661

You are meant to live an expansive, exhilarating, good-feeling experience. It was your plan when you made the decision to become focused in your physical body in this time-space reality. You were born knowing that you are a powerful Being; that you are good; that you are the creator of your experience, and that the Law of Attraction (the essence of that which is like unto itself, is drawn) is the basis of the Universe, and you knew it would serve you well. And so it has.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness" # 671

No one experiences freedom until they stop pushing against others. The only thing that binds you is the pushing against that which is unwanted. And so, if a religion could just be excited about what it is, or a person within a religion could just speak with appreciation about what it is, without justifying what it is by pushing against everything else, then each religion, in all of its difference, could be just exactly what you're reaching for.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Boca Raton, FL on Saturday, December 8th, 2001 # 670

By paying attention to the way you feel, and then choosing thoughts that feel the very best, you are managing your own vibration, which means you are controlling your own point of attraction — which means you are creating your own reality. It's such a wonderful thing to realize that you can create your own reality without sticking your nose in everybody else's, and that the less attention you give to everybody else's reality, the purer your vibration is going to be — and the more you are going to be pleased with what comes to you.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Boca Raton, FL on Saturday, December 8th, 2001 # 669

If your dominant intent is to feel joy while you are doing the work, your triad of intentions—freedom, growth and joy—will come quickly and easily into alignment. See your "career" as one of creating a joyful life experience. You are not a creator of things or a regurgitator of what someone else has created or a gatherer of stuff. You are a creator, and the subject of your creation is your joyful life experience. That is your mission. That is your quest. That is why you are here.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness" # 668

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Daily Feng Shui Tip from Astrology.com

In many traditions, wishes and resolutions are always made on the New Year, and as usual, Feng Shui puts a decidedly different spin on becoming a resolutionary soldier. This philosophy instructs that you should write your New Year resolution on a piece of paper and then place it inside an envelope. This envelope must be red in order to activate your desires and bring your dreams to life. Then you simply burn the envelope and the contents inside, as this is believed to complete the empowering action steps that this tradition says will soon make your wish come true.

Daily Dream Decoder from Astrology.com

Baby / Child

As an object in dreams, a baby or child represents something that requires great care and attention. The meaning is at issue regarding whether it is your original responsibility or one that has been passed off on you by someone else. These dreams may also have wish-fulfillment content for women who are in their childbearing years.

For men, the dreams may be anxiety-related, especially if you are sexually active without wanting to experience the consequences of fathering a child.

Rats

Rats are almost universally despised in the modern world. Their reputation as disease-laden scavengers seems to precede them wherever they go. Some people own rats as pets and will, of course, perceive them differently.

For most people, dreams of rats reveal concerns of becoming destitute scavengers themselves-friendless and outcast. Another potential scenario is that the dreamer feels his or her social security is being gnawed away. In contrast to theft, when all is quickly and dramatically taken, the rats gradually erode their environment.

In your waking life, do you view rats as potential pets or potential predators?

In your dream, are the rats a serious threat to your health or possessions, or are they merely an uncomfortable presence?

Orchestra

The complexity and beauty of the orchestra is almost universally appreciated. Even among those who do not like classical music, it is accepted that the orchestra is a very sophisticated musical machine. Dreams of being in the orchestra may reflect the feeling that you are in a place of either harmony, or profound disharmony, in relation to the world. There may be a facet of your life in which you are feeling a tremendous amount of performance anxiety. If the orchestra has a familiar conductor (a co-worker or boss, a family member, an acquaintance, etc.), the relationship between you and the conductor may reveal the area of anxiety.

If you are attending the orchestra, there may be romantic underpinnings involved, based on your companion in the dream. There may also be a sense of wanting respite from the daily grind of the waking world through music.

An additional interpretation is that the dream i s a wish-fulfillment based on the lessons you took as a child and the inability to perform publicly as an adult.

Blood

Blood in dreams is rarely a well-received image, unless it is connected with an anger object. The blood of another in this case may reflect seeing oneself as ultimately victorious. Most times, blood represents depletion, injury, or death. This depletion may be physical, or it may reflect the loss of other essential resources, including emotional or financial assets.

Blood can have a kind of direct meaning as life source. In this regard, blood may be seen as a metaphor for becoming one with another person-this type of feeling is conjured from our exposure to Native American blood brother images.

Blood also may serve as a sacrificial metaphor-as in the sacrificial lamb or other animal. It also may have occult implications for persons involved with such practices.

Draining, drinking, or drawing and/or writing with blood are practices of this nature. Many genres of cult literature often include this type of reference. Whose blood are you seeing in your dream? Can you discern who caused the bleeding? Is the presence of blood accompanied by a feeling of threat?

Paralysis

One of the most troubling dream events, and startling physical side-effects of REM, is paralysis. Large muscle groups often become paralyzed during a dream, presumably to prevent injury to the dreamer in case the dreamer's instincts would cause a physical reaction to dreaming visuals. It can be troubling if the dreamer becomes aware of his body in a paralyzed state without being aware of the fact that the mind is still in a dream state. Suddenly stripped of every physical capacity for defense, the dreamer can experience great panic or victimization in the dream. This scenario is a troubling version of the lucid dream. Instead of mind awareness and body control, the dreamer has body awareness and no mind control. Hundreds of years ago, this phenomenon was observed and named having a witch on your back. The idea was that an unfriendly spirit within the dream had pinned you to your bed. Indeed, it is not uncommon to have a sense of spiritual oppression in a dream that includes paralysis.

A New Message From INNER WHISPERS

Forgive and Release

"Often through life there is a tendency to carry the vibrational baggage of past moments. It is the intention to go through the baggage to remove things no longer necessary to the journey. However, this often is not the case.

Past indiscretions, arguments, decisions, etc., can often fill your perspective so fully that it becomes difficult to be in the present moment.

Being in a physical life was meant to have movement. Standing still amongst the debris of the past is not using the opportunity to its fullest.

No one has had a completely drama free existence. It is condition of the linear to create opportunity through the dramas. The important aspect is to process the moment, and forgive and release the negative remnants.

While sometimes it may be easier to forgive others, it is most difficult to forgive yourself.

Perhaps today, take a few moments to examine that huge trunk of undesirable moments and leave them behind once and for all.

To truly learn your life lessons, you also have to be willing to let go of your opinions. Nothing is served by stubbornly clinging to a negative perspective. Decide to embrace, forgive, and release.

Making progress in your evolution also means deciding you are worth your own redemption.

The self is always the hardest, but ultimately the most fulfilling to redeem.

Leave the baggage behind... today... this moment. There is nothing there that is needed.

Your vision of yourself will improve, thus making the journey easier.

And...

It is all about the journey.

Keep moving. There is so much more to experience."

Daily Message 12.18.12

2012-12-18T13:12:00.001-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"In economics the majority is always wrong."

— John Kenneth Galbraith: was a Canadian-American economist

Abraham-Hicks Publications

You are always molding yourselves into a better feeling place. And you will never get it done. It will never be completely finished. It will never be absolutely right. You will always have some dominant thoughts that are not a vibrational match to the newfound desire. But that is always what your work is. And it's time for you to just begin relaxing about it, and not make it a personal issue of your own valor, or your own value, or your own integrity. In other words, it's just, how many times have I thought this thought?
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in San Rafael, CA on Friday, March 9th, 2001 # 658

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Daily Feng Shui Tip from Astrology.com

On 'National Roast Suckling Pig Day' let's look at how Feng Shui says that a pig can bring fabulous fortunes and lots of luck to our own lives. Ironically, according to this philosophy, the pig symbolizes sufficient food, prosperity, safety and fertility. Therefore it is also believed that if you display a small statue or an image of a pig (the fatter the better!) in the 'Wealth' area of your main floor, you'll soon enough activate and magnetize fat stacks, too.

Daily Dream Decoder from Astrology.com

Airplane

Being a passenger in a plane

This dream can be mundane or remarkable, since some people are ambivalent toward flying while many others hold an irrational fear of flying. In America, it is a well- known fact among football fans that announcer John Madden never flies-he travels around the country by bus. Many people share his aversion, even those who dream of flying. In this case, it is an attempt by one part of the psyche to quell perceived irrationality in another part.

Dreams about flying as a passenger may hold a great sense of adventure for the dreamer. This can be due to the journey, the speed, or the destinations available through air travel.

Also, it may be due to potential dangers, such as hijacking, which the dreamer may heroically overcome.

Piloting a plane

Dreams about flying in a plane as the pilot vary tremendously. Is the dreamer a competent person either in sleep or waking? This may indicate a sense of control over circumstances.

Does the plane crash? This may reveal a sense of inadequacy or incompetence.

Who are the passengers on the plane? This may reveal who you feel responsible for in life, with your flight skills revealing your sense of how well you are fulfilling those responsibilities. If you are piloting the plane, are you competent to do so or are you overwhelmed by the responsibility?

Do the other passengers accept, ignore, disdain your presence?

A New Message From VERONICA

See Them

"In physical life it is very easy to become lost in one's own thoughts and perceptions. Most of you have an awareness of how important connection to others may be. Some allow the distance they feel to become how the define themselves. Your culture calls them by many names.

Most of them are not very flattering. We suggest expanding your vision to include those who may be withdrawing from connection. Often it begins in childhood by not being capable of interacting with others due to internal feelings of self deprecation. Unfortunately, these individuals lack the tools to step forward on their own. Given the isolation long enough, they create a universe in their psyche that is outside the cultural consciousness.

Attempt to reach out to those who would do so. See Them!

Realize the loneliness that feeds the uncomfortable thoughts they may be having. It is the separation from soulful energy of themselves and others that ultimately leads them down a path of negativity.

In the eternal, all energy flows easily. In the linear, it can be difficult in the best of circumstances.

Alter your own energy to truly see all those who feel invisible.

Perhaps a path can be aligned.

Perhaps a connection can be formed.

Perhaps a participation can soothe their wounds.

Perhaps they can be led to those who help them cope.

Connection with others, even those who do not meet your external criteria, can change the world.

It is those who are not seen that simmer in isolation, acting out internally, until it explodes upon society.

It can be remedied.

See Them!"

Daily Message 12.17.12

2012-12-17T10:10:00.002-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"Rather go to bed without dinner than to rise in debt."

—Benjamin Franklin: Founding Father of the United States

Abraham-Hicks Publications

Appreciation and love, and alignment to that which is Source, is the ultimate "giving back," so to speak, for in your pain or struggle, you have nothing to give back. What you are living is always an exact replication of your vibrational patterns of thought. Nothing could be more fair than life as you are living it, for as you are thinking, you are vibrating, and as you are vibrating, you are attracting—and so you are always getting back the essence of what you are giving.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness" # 656

Find thoughts that feel good, because it is inevitable that you are going to always be moving toward something. So why not be moving toward something that is pleasing? You can't cease to vibrate, and Law of Attraction will not stop responding to the vibration that you are offering. So, expansion is inevitable. You provide it, whether you know you do, or not. The only question is, what is the standard of joy that you are demanding for yourself? From your Nonphysical perspective, it's a high, high standard.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Seattle, WA on Saturday, July 2nd, 2005 # 657

Inspiration comes forth from within. It's what the light burning within you is about, as opposed to motivation, which is doing it because if you don't do it, there will be negative repercussions. Motivation is making myself do something that I don't really want to do. Inspiration is having the clear picture of what I am wanting — and letting Universal forces come into play to get the outcome.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Spokane, WA on Wednesday, July 7th, 1999 # 655

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Daily Feng Shui Tip from Astrology.com

On 'Wright Brothers Day' you might think that I would advise putting an image of an airplane in the 'Fame' area of your main floor or office if you want reputation and rewards to take flight. But I am more inspired to share another kind of airplane Shui today. Feng Shui says that using color, sound and scent can greatly influence the environment you're in, even if it's at thirty thousand feet. The next time you're traveling by plane be sure to take along something soothing and green (a small pillow or a scarf) as well as something that is music to your ears. Keep a few cotton balls drizzled with chamomile oil in a plastic baggie and sniff it whenever the need arises. Lavender acts as an antiviral and antibacterial while the chamomile calms. Up, up and Feng Shui!

Daily Dream Decoder from Astrology.com

Money

Money can be lost, gained, or spent in dreaming. Dreams about money are often really about power, control, and competency. Consequently, the larger perspective of who is interacting with you around money and what your role in the transaction is are important features of the dream.

Many people who dream about money are controlled by it-the desire for it, the lack of it, or the inability to control themselves with it. This last category is seen most clearly in money dreams experienced by people who re drowning in debt.

If you gain money in a dream, note from whom and under what circumstances. This may be a dream about blessing. The gain of money in this instance is more a gain of emotional power and renewal through a completed relationship that no longer depletes the soul.

You may see yourself as having great wealth to dole out to others. This is often a symbol of needing to convey blessing onto others. The true need is rarely financial, but a need to help others.

Losing money for no apparent reason is the picture of being unable to control oneself. The lack of control may actually be in the area of money, but it may also be the inability to restrain oneself from over-committing resources emotionally or otherwise.

In your waking life, how do you perceive and value money? In some families, money is an object taken for granted, in others it is a powerful symbol of control, influence, or status. Whether or not you have money problems, money dreams could reveal feelings about your relationship with power.

Moving Through the Challenges of Life
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By Gregg Braden

Sometimes the events of life seem to push us to the very edge of who we believe we are. Sometimes we may even feel as though life has pushed us right over the edge. Many people describe this as a feeling of being tested, as though life is testing something within them. While that certainly may be possible, I'd like to offer another perspective. We live in a world where we've been conditioned to believe that our achievements in life may be measured. And in those measurements we're either successful or we've failed. The belief that life tests us falls right in line with that either/or kind of thinking and allows us to succeed and fail many, many times in our lives.

What if the challenges of life are not tests at all? What if our greatest challenges are simply opportunities to demonstrate our mastery of a particular skill or relationship? In an opportunity, it is impossible to fail, or to succeed, for that matter. In an opportunity, all that we can do is to meet our challenge and become the best people that we can be in the presence of that challenge. To meet our challenge while honoring our personal principles of integrity and trust and in those around us.

So an opportunity from this perspective can feel very different from a test that we can pass or fail. There's a mirror that shows us our greatest levels of personal mastery by presenting us with our deepest experience of personal fear. When we find ourselves in such a fear, the ancients called our experience "the dark night of the soul." And this mirror is a mirror that helps us to understand the mystery of the dark night of the soul and how it plays out in our lives.

Referencing from the lost gospel of Thomas, we're reminded, "That all are born and must walk in the two spirits that the one has created in humankind, spirit of light and spirit of darkness." A second part of this quote goes on to say that "if you bring forth that which you have within you, it will save you. If, however, you do not bring forth that which you have within you, it can destroy you." And this is a reference to the power that lives within us, the power that must be expressed in some way in our lives.

If we reach into the deepest access of who we are and what we have available to us as people, it will carry us through what we see as the darkest experiences of our lives. And if we choose to retreat from that and we shy away from finding those portions of ourselves, many people have found in very direct ways that it destroys us, it destroys our trust and our ability to move forward in the process of life. This parable suggests that we each harbor within us a power, a force, if you will, that seeks to be shared and expressed. That's a power that cannot be denied. To allow this force to be expressed is a life-affirming experience. And to stifle this power and deny its expression can be life-denying.

So what is this mysterious power? How does it show up in our lives? Well, through the story that follows we'll answer those questions, and in doing so, we'll lay the foundation this mirror of the dark night of our soul.

I had a client, as well as a friend, who is an engineer whom I worked with. We'll call him Charles, although that's not his real name. And Charles described his experience of working very long hours in a corporate environment, and he became very, very good at what he was doing. He was an engineer, a software developer. He knew his craft very well. He moved through the ranks within the corporation, and soon he found himself on the road showing others what it is that he had learned and developed. He found himself at tradeshows and conferences all over the world. He saw his family very little during this time. And what he began to find was that he actually knew the people that he worked with and the people that he traveled with better than he knew his own family. He spent long travel hours with them, they had meals together, and they talked about the events unfolding in the world around them.

And it wasn't long before the inevitable happened, and he believed that he was in love with a female co-worker who was traveling the circuit and attending the conferences with him. And in this belief, he left his family, he left his home, he left his friends, and he was able to get a transfer in the same career to the city where this woman lived. Everything looked like it was really good in Charles' life.

Not long after that, however, something began to happen, and everything began to unravel. And this is when I had my conversation with Charles. I hadn't seen him for a while. We met and I asked him how things were going, and the story that he shared—after he had given everything away that he loved and held dear, after he had given away his family, his home, his friends, and a career, to move to a city with this woman and the new love of his life, and everything seemed just right—was that he came home one day and the woman simply said to him, "This is not what I thought it would be," and she left him. He was absolutely devastated.

He began to perform poorly in his job, and it wasn't long after that, within just a couple of weeks, that he had a pink slip, and he was without a job, and consequently without family, without friends, and without a relationship. And this is the point where Charles called me and he said, "What just happened in my life? Everything looked so good and now it looks so bad." This is the red flag that comes up in our life and it seems that everything looks like it's absolutely perfect, we've found balance in our lives and that balance is what promises that we will have the opportunity to demonstrate our mastery and what that balance is saying. But for Charles, he just entered what the ancients called the dark night of the soul.

In the dark night of the soul, we find ourselves in the position where we lose the things that we hold onto the tightest, the things that we cling to for fear of losing them. Our fear of losing them is the promise that we will find ourselves without them at some point in our lives. The distinction I'm making here and the key to this story and this mirror is to cherish what life has given us by appreciating those things without clinging onto them for fear of losing them. And whether we're talking about financial security or our relationships to others, our husbands, wives, children, our job security, or our health, the principle is the same. I'm going to repeat this, the key is to find a way to appreciate and cherish the blessings that life has given to us without clinging onto them for fear of losing them.

The flip side of the kind of loss that Charles described—and I'm sure that we've all had experiences similar to this in our lives where we lost the things that we hold most dear—the flip side of this is that nature has a built-in safety mechanism; it's a valve if you will, that promises we will never be given more hurt or more pain or more disappointment or loss in our lives than we can deal with at any given moment in time.

We know this through the words of every mother on the planet. Very simply in a single sentence, we've all heard, "God will never put more on your plate than you can handle." And I believe that is what this portion of the mirror is saying to us.

Kahlil Gibran, in his book The Prophet, simply said to us that "No man can reveal to you that which already lies half asleep in the dawning of your knowledge." I invite you to think about that statement. "No man can reveal to you that which already lies half asleep in the dawning of your knowledge."

I believe in this statement. Kahlil Gibran is speaking to us about this power in our lives. He's saying that whatever happens in our life, nobody can give us the tools to find our way through the great challenges of life because they're already there. No one can teach us something that we already know.

There is something very interesting I find when I'm discussing nature's balance with live audiences. Everyone says he or she is seeking balance in life, but the truth is, in absolute balance, absolutely nothing happens. In absolute balance, there is no imbalance to trigger the system and move it forward. In balance, there is no movement. It is the striving toward balance that drives us forward in life.

So when we see this in mathematical equations, for example, there are mathematics that can be brilliantly, beautifully represented on the screen of a computer, as powerful patterns and symbols that are the result of the mathematic equation. And what we find is that when those patterns find their perfect balance, that is the signal for the pattern to begin to evolve and move on once again.

And in the same way it appears that that's what happens in our lives. When we find ourselves in what we believe is that perfect balance, when everything looks as if it is just right, just where we want it, just as we had placed it, that appears to be the signal to nature that says, "Bring it on." Bring on the change because the balance has signaled the opportunity for change to come into our lives once again.

Many people find that when they go through a dark night of the soul, the first one is the most difficult. I know we've all experienced at some point in our lives a moment where we lost the things that we held most dear. The encouraging element of this mirror is the confidence that comes from surviving that first dark night of the soul; the confidence is immense. I know people who doubted their ability to come out of the other side of a tremendous challenge of health and a condition that may take their lives, or something devastatingly similar to that. And when they do, the confidence that is instilled within them is immeasurable. And I know some people who've actually said, "You know, I've survived my first dark night of the soul; I'm ready for the next ones. Bring them on." And they no longer fear those dark nights of the soul.

So the mirror of our dark night of the soul, the mirror shows us what we truly value in this world and leads us to understand that the deep appreciation for what we cherish is the way to continue experiencing it in our lives.

So I'll ask you to look into your life at the things that you cherish and you hold most dear, your children, your family, your career, your health, whatever it is in your life, and ask yourself how you would feel if for some reason these things were to suddenly disappear from your life. Your answer to this is the signpost pointing to where your next dark night of the soul may come from.

At the same time, however, it's also your personal guide to how you may honor the things that you cherish by appreciating them with gratitude rather than clinging to them for fear of losing them. By doing so, you've also honored the wisdom of this mirror. And without ever having to experience the loss and the suffering of the dark night of the soul, the mirror serves you and leads you to the last and what is perhaps the most subtle mirror of all, the mirror of self-acceptance.

Daily Message 12.14.12

2012-12-14T14:42:00.002-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"Risk comes from not knowing what you're doing."

— Warren Buffett: Investor, billionaire, and philanthropist

Abraham-Hicks Publications

When the contrast gets greater, the desire gets greater too, and that's what miracles are from. A miracle is nothing more than a terrible situation that has caused strong desire and then somehow an alignment of Energy with the desire. Every day life creativity, that's all that it is.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Chicago, IL on Sunday, November 2nd, 1997 # 644

Let others vibrate as they vibrate and want the best for them. Never mind how they're flowing to you. You concentrate on how you're flowing. Because one who is connected to the Energy Stream is more powerful, more influential than a million who are not.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Portland, OR on Tuesday, June 10th, 1997 # 645

When you understand that you are a Vibrational Being, first and foremost—and that your dominant intention becomes that of tuning your Vibrational frequency to that of the Source within you—you will provide the perfect basis for the cells of your physical body to thrive. But if you are approaching your physical body from the usual physical standpoint, noticing symptoms and analyzing your physical condition, you will emit Vibrational resistance that hinders your well-being. In other words, your Vibrational response to your current condition makes it difficult to overcome any unwanted physical condition.
When you are able to find 15 minutes in every day to relax and tune to the frequency of your Source, during that time of meditation, all resistance and hindrance will cease, allowing the cells of your body the opportunity to return to their natural state of Well-Being. And your improved Vibrational state will then begin to spread through larger segments of your day.
At the root of your physical condition is the condition of your cells. At the root of the physical condition of your cells is a Vibrational pattern. At the root of that Vibrational pattern is alignment with the Well-Being of the Source within you.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the Getting into the Vortex Guided Meditation CD and User Guide # 646

The standard of success in life isn't the things. It isn't the money or the stuff — it is absolutely the amount of joy you feel.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Lincroft, NJ on Tuesday, October 15th, 1996 # 647

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Daily Feng Shui Tip from Astrology.com

We can kill two energies with one image while engaging today's 'National Salesperson Day' and 'Monkey Day.' Even though the monkey is one of the twelve animals represented in the Chinese zodiac, a combination of the monkey and the elephant can help you achieve the highest ranking that anyone in your profession can aspire to, whether you're in sales or not. Placing an image or a statue of a monkey sitting on an elephant's back on or around your desk attracts opportunities to find the stability and security of an important position in your profession. And this image promises that you'll stay there too! With the monkey signifying the 'Duke,' or the highest-ranking lord among the five ranking lords in ancient Chinese legend, and the elephant bringing the blessings of strength, sagacity and prudence, the combination of these two potent friends also promises power, authority and success in all you do. In this case, I guess it really does make sense that monkey see and then monkey d o -- for you!

Daily Dream Decoder from Astrology.com

Injury

Becoming incapacitated by injury during a dream is fairly common, especially if you perceive yourself as operating out of a power deficit in waking life. Many times, people feel as though advantages lie outside themselves or with others, and see themselves as handicapped.

The cause of the injury (means and inflictor) tells a lot about the significance of the injury as a dream symbol. If the wound is self inflicted or accidental, there may be a sense in which you are tripping yourself up by engaging in self-defeating behaviors. If the wound is inflicted by someone else and is intentional and malicious, others may be preventing you from reaching your potential. Of course the wound, its care, and the consequences from it also mean much. If you continue dreaming after the wound occurs, what are you unable to do that is normally classified as an essential activity?

Are you able to repel the attacker and treat the wound successfully?

Nagging

One of the reasons we respond so strongly to dream content is because it often is an exclamation point rather than a period. Dream statements exist in the superlative as often as not. This is especially true of the interpersonal relationships-some are revealed as the best; others as the worst. Over time, no interpersonal event is more draining than the nag.

Who is nagging you and why? Some dreams include the nagger as a caricature of nagging, and the droning eventually becomes funny. Other dreams create a symbolic avoidance of a person because of a fear of nagging. The final version of the nag is the forward, ongoing sapping of your emotional strength through the dream story.

There may be a facet of your waking life where you have chosen denial as your modus operandi. Nagging dreams may be a specific attempt to draw you back into dealing with it.

More often, the dream is about a person that you are taking too seriously or not seriously enough. The interpretation depends on your waking relationship to the individual, the content of the nagging as it reflects actual waking priorities, and your honesty in the relationship.

Are you meeting the expectations of others responsibly or do you feel inherently inadequate?

Are others directly criticizing your inadequacy at certain levels?

Wolf

The wolf is often a symbol of loneliness or predator behavior in dreams. If you dream of a wolf, you are probably in a situation where you lack friendship or companionship.

Another scenario may be that you feel others are preying on you, or you are preying upon others for personal gain. Does the wolf appear close up and snarling, or do you notice it far off at bay?

Story

If you see yourself as hearing or acting in a story, you probably have the feeling that others are controlling your life and making choices for you. While the narrator of the story is probably unknown to you, he or she represents the person controlling your life. If you feel that you are the narrator watching yourself in a story, this may indicate uncertainty about the choices you are currently making in your life. You are wanting to test them without consequence before acting on them in waking reality.

A New Message From Inner Whispers

Think Through The Experience

"In physical reality the immediate need to create often overrides the value of the lesson.

If you find yourself experiencing lack or the tightness in the ability to create, it is important to consider that it may be a component of a much larger scenario.

Confusion sets in when one strives with what they perceive as gusto to create a linear event or thing.

They have followed all the rules and guidelines: The clearing of what they perceive as clutter, visualization, keeping their thoughts aligned, and still no pay-off for what they believe they need and desire.

It is in these moments that one should examine that what they may perceive as denial, as a stroke of great luck.

What one wishes in the linear may not line up with what they really desire as a soul: The miss-step in creating in what they believe they want, actually creating a vortex of energy that will surpass their wildest dreams.

So, believe my dear ones that everything you experience in the linear is part of a huge puzzle of your soul's journey.

Do not lament the perceived immediate outcomes. A higher purpose always prevails. Whatever is occurring is a part of a flow of energy that will lead you to the destination your higher self has designed.

Think through the experience and be patient. The best things in life are not always presented in pretty packages. Often the best comes from a difficulty.

Be open to seeing the whole opportunity.

It may give you the hope needed to create heaven."

Daily Message 12.3.12

2012-12-03T14:31:00.001-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"If you want to succeed in business in any capacity - employee, manager, or owner - you must have a solid, comprehensive understanding of what business principles actually are and how they actually work."

— Josh Kaufman: is an author, learning expert and business advisor

"Invest three percent of your income in yourself
(self-development) in order to guarantee your future."

— Brian Tracy: is a self-help author and motivational speaker

Abraham-Hicks Publications

If you had one goal, and that was to feel good, you would never again need to hear another word from anyone. You would live successfully and happily and in a way of fulfilling your life's purpose ever after.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Napa, CA on Thursday, February 27th, 1997 # 639

You did not say, "Let's go forth into this physical experience and take all the ideas that exist and whittle them down to just a few good ideas that we can all agree on and peacefully cohabitate." Instead you said, "Let's go forth and take the ideas that exist and expand them to more. Let's let the contrast be more so that the desires can be more, so that the Energy will have more avenues to which to flow."
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Philadelphia, PA on Tuesday, April 14th, 1998 # 638

Two statements that will serve you very well. The first is: There will always be war. There will always be those who aggravate within others a sense of trouble in order to promote the solution that they already have their mind made up about. And so you're never going to come into agreement as a mass consciousness that this is "the way." There will always be disagreements; therefore, there will always be turmoil; there will always be war.
The other statement, that is our favorite is: Well-Being will always abound, so the dominant experience of the majority of people will always be one of Well-Being. So you can decide, at any point in time, in what part of this you want to play. You can use anything as your excuse to align with Well-being, or you can use anything as your excuse to not align. The thing that we think is at the heart of this discussion is my own personal power. We think that's what you are, sort of, struggling for and reaching for.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in San Francisco, CA on Saturday, March 8th, 2003 # 640

The greatest destruction that takes place upon your planet, and the greatest sadness that is brought about as a result of it, are your man-made, man-induced wars. And yet, when we feel into the vibration of the masses that are involved (not just the leaders, but the masses that are involved) within the conflict, it is a satisfying adventure. Wars are created because they are satisfying something within large numbers of people—or it would not be.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Phoenix, AZ on Saturday, March 23rd, 2002 # 643

Through our daily process of focusing upon your breathing, you will progressively breathe your resistance away, causing a gradual shift in your Vibrational point of attraction. And then, you will begin to feel a strong resonance with the words that we have been speaking to you. When that occurs, the Vibration of your physical body and that of the Source within you will be at the same Vibrational frequency; and when that occurs, your physical body will benefit.
In the same way that a complete understanding of electricity is unnecessary in order to flip the switch and receive the benefit of it, you do not need to understand the complex inner workings of your physical body. You only need to understand the simple process by which you allow your intelligent cells to do their work.
As you find and practice resonance with the Vibration of the Source within you, communication between the cells of your body flourishes, as does your entire physical body. And it all begins with the simple focusing upon your breathing to “flip the switch” of absolute physical well-being.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the Getting into the Vortex Guided Meditation CD and User Guide # 642

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Daily Feng Shui Tip from Astrology.com

Since a jolly guy in a red suit will soon land on your roof, today we should observe 'National Roof Over Your Head Day.' Feng Shui has many cures that involve using the roof of your house, such as shining a light over the top of it from behind if you're trying to sell it. But here's the roof tip I like best: Feng Shui says that having your home or office building wedged between two taller structures could energetically compromise the space inside. In order to alleviate any negativity, you should put a spotlight on the top of your roof and face it towards the heavens. Pointing a light skyward is believed to add energetic height and then allow for healthy circulation of Chi. And you thought rooftops were just Santa's landing pad.

Daily Dream Decoder from Astrology.com

Pregnancy

Pregnancy has two points of entry into our dream lives. The first is dreaming of oneself as being pregnant. The second is that you actually become pregnant in waking life and that trigger event creates this particular dream content.

In dreams, anyone can get pregnant. It is not an experience that is limited by gender or age. Generally, it is a herald of creativity, virility, or wealth. However, there are numerous underlying themes that need additional interpretation.

If you are a younger woman who dreams of getting pregnant, but has no waking intention of doing so, it is likely that you are working through an archetypal transition into a new self-awareness. One of Jung's archetypes is the archetype of parenting or preserving the species. To see oneself engaged in such activity is to grow from being a child to identifying more prominently with adults.

If you are sexually active, but without the intention for pregnancy, your dreams of pregnancy may occur in harmony with your monthly cycle. In these dreams, there may be a certain amount of what-if anxiety that needs resolution.

A man who dreams of being pregnant himself is often in a situation where his virility or creative participation in the world is in question. This occurs most among men who see themselves as less creative than they would like to be. The dream serves as a form of compensation to illuminate the more creative facets of their personality. Men who are pregnant do not give birth exclusively to children, but a wide range of objects that somehow support their mission in the world.

Becoming pregnant in waking life can conjure a huge variety of dream events. These range from the violent to the hilarious and almost everything in between. Since pregnancy conjures a wide variety of feelings in waking life, from euphoria to tremendous anxiety, this is not too surprising.

Other dreams that are prevalent during pregnancy include dreams of marital infidelity, death of the partner, chronic health problems, birth defects in the child, losing the pregnancy through accident or miscarriage, having twins or multiples, and dreams of heightened fertility where additional conceptions and gestations occur frequently or despite prevention.

Infidelity and death of the partner dreams often are played out in response to feelings of insecurity do to appearance changes or changes in sexual relationships during pregnancy. Dreams of chronic health problems and birth defects represent negative wish-fulfillment anxiety on the part of the woman.

Dreams of multiple-order birth and repeated gestation are the most complex dreams. Often times, pregnancy is overwhelming at some level for the woman. These feelings most often stem from fear to adequately mother. The onslaught of pregnancies may be a visual representation of this anxiety.

Guns

Dreaming about guns and interpreting these dreams depends greatly on your attitude about guns. There are many people who are comfortable with the life-and-death power of guns and use them recreationally. Whether the dreamer is a recreational target-shooter or hunter, guns may not have much significance apart from what is being shot at or who is hunting with you.

However, for others who are more awed by the gun's power to cause death, the gun is a taboo symbol. Dreaming about guns from this context reveals a sense of being deeply threatened by the environment of the dream or persons in the dream. The gun may represent a nearly desperate need to reassert personal control in the situation or to find personal power in relationship to others.

Flowers

Flowers are a universal symbol of beauty. To discern a particular meaning, the color of the flowers may be as significant as the flowers themselves. This is especially true for flowers of unusual or nonsensical colors such as green roses. In a dream it would not be surprising to get green roses from a dear friend. This would happen if you are dating your friend's heartthrob in waking life or you sense jealousy from them concerning your romantic attachments.

Consequently you may have acquired knowledge about flower meanings that your subconscious is now accessing to illustrate a point. This can be especially true if you are given flowers by or are giving flowers to another.

Do particular flowers have special memories for you due to childhood, the death of a loved one, or a prom date or wedding?

Here are some common reference points for particular flowers:

Lilac -- Poison, Illness, Death
Daisy -- Indecision about feelings, giver illustrates issue of concern
Orchid -- Sexuality and sensuality
Rose -- Poison White = purity, Black = death
Lily -- Renewal, springtime, ressurection
Narcissus -- Self-love, personal reflection

Tidal Wave

Dreams of impending disaster generally indicate that the dreamer is feeling out of control. In the case of the tidal wave, this out-of-control feeling is often combined with the need to make a fresh start.

A 16-year-old boy reports dreaming: I am running, trying to get away from a tidal wave before it crashes over me. Finally, I realize it is hopeless. I turn around and let the full impact of the wave crash over me. Remarkably I stand up in spite of the wave's power. When I turn back to the direction I was running, everything -- my house, my parents, my car -- it's all gone.

This youth presented numerous complaints at the outset of counseling, all of which revolved around home life and the absence of his father. Upon further inquiry, the youth admitted that he was a drug abuser with sexual identity problems. He desperately wanted a second chance, feeling as though he had undermined his own life.

Often to dream of a catastrophic event is to wish for a catharsis in real life. See Armageddon

Masks

Dreaming of wearing a mask is often a dream of how you want others to see you. A twist on this theme is that you may be afraid others are perceiving you without knowing the real you. It may be that the mask attaches and removes from your face, depending on whose company you are in. Also, others may be conspicuously placing the mask on you to give you an identity that you are uncomfortable assuming. Or, they are wearing the mask themselves to deceive, frighten, or amuse you.

If you are wearing a mask, who is in your presence and what is the mask like? Ask the same questions if others have the mask.

Daily Message 11.27.12

2012-11-27T08:11:00.002-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"Those people who develop the ability to continuously acquire new and better forms of knowledge that they can apply to their work and to their lives will be the movers and shakers in our society for the indefinite future."

— Brian Tracy: is a self-help author and motivational speaker

"Many an optimist has become rich
by buying out a pessimist."

—Robert G. Allen: investment advisor and author

Abraham-Hicks Publications

As you imagine and visualize and verbalize your new story, in time you will believe the new story, and when that happens, the evidence will flow swiftly into your experience. A belief is only a thought you continue to think; and when your beliefs match your desires, then your desires must become your reality.
There is no physical body, no matter what the conditions, that cannot achieve an improved condition. Nothing else in your experience responds as quickly as your own physical body to your patterns of thought.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness" # 637

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Daily Feng Shui Tip from Astrology.com

Here's a seasonal tip that's perfect for late autumn. Hanging a bunch dried corn stalks on your front door during the Thanksgiving holiday is believed to bring a prosperous and wealthy year to come! Simple as that!

Daily Dream Decoder from Astrology.com

Loss of Sensory Ability or Motor Ability

Images also include Blindness, Deafness.

Usually, this is a very symbolic event in a dream.

A 34-year-old man reports: I dream of being in a situation where I need to act resourcefully to help a stranger avoid danger. Suddenly, I go blind for no apparent reason! It is very frustrating.

Becoming suddenly impaired in this way is different than being injured in a physical accident. The lights just seem to go out without explanation. With a dream like this, it is questionable whether or not the dreamer feels competent to fulfill his duties in waking life. However, this can also refer to his reluctance to accept the challenge of the hero self.

Seeing oneself as a hero is kind of daunting, and the fact that it is your dream doesn't mean that you will necessarily and easily assume that role. Suddenly, the awareness of caring for those to whom you have no obligation is quickened. It's a hassle. Man y of us can barely fulfill responsibilities to the people around us in ordinary situations.

Another scenario for loss of a sensory ability is to exchange it for something or someone else. The old saying, I'd give my eye teeth for ... articulates the human willingness to exchange one ability or attribute for something else of value. There are many times when our minds use the principle of exchange to help us verify the relative worth of relationships or objects.

There can also be a distinct martyr image attached to this kind of loss. This is especially true when the dream includes loss of ability through some potentially painful means. The loss may be seen as an exchange for something that was gained during the dream or in waking life.

A New Message From VERONICA

If You Desire Change

(Giving and Receiving)

"Everything that creates reality is based on an ebb and flow of energy. If one were to look upon the smallest molecule of life, one would see this exchange taking place.

It stands to reason if you are interested in conscious creating of reality, that this would be the formula to go about it.

We have talked to many who wish to create abundance of some sort in their personal reality. To do this, one needs to be able to give energy abundantly as well. To hope for a windfall of opportunity, one needs to remain aware of their own situations. To receive anything one needs to be committed to the awareness of their own giving. Otherwise, an unbalance is created and the process becomes stagnant.

If you desire change in a certain process, be the change that jump starts it.

Decide that if something is not working, be the energy that says we need to do something different. In linear reality, the repetition of energy often gives off a sense of well being. Actually, more movement and change is better, often resulting in more favorable environments to receive.

Be constantly aware of your energy. If you are desiring a certain outcome, look to yourself first to see what you are not giving. Remove the block and redetermine your ability to give energy. It just might allow the balance of energy to return so that you can receive.

Ebb and Flow.

It is the basis of creating reality."

Daily Message 11.26.12

2012-11-26T16:10:00.001-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"Purpose creates an opportunity for value creation. Passion follows purpose. Passion creates energy, money is attracted to energy."

— Garrett Gunderson: is a financial advocate author

"The empires of the future are
the empires of the mind."

— Winston Churchill: was a British politician and
statesman during World War II

Abraham-Hicks Publications

Your joy factor will remain constant as you are continually refining your ideas of what you want, and that's why it is so important for you to get everybody else out of the equation. They've got their own game going on; they don't understand your game. Give them a break; stop asking them what they think. Start paying attention to how you feel. Joy will be yours immediately, and everything else that you have ever thought would make you happy, will start flowing, seemingly effortlessly, into your experience.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Asheville, NC on Saturday, October 25th, 2003 # 629

"Could I think too little about my desire, for it to manifest?" Actually, no, because as the contrast launches the desire, and then you do not offer any opposing thought, then you're letting it in, and it will manifest. Many of our physical friends really believe that they must find a desire and then hold tenaciously to it. And we say, you do not need to do that. Let the variety of your life keep balance in your life. You just concentrate more on holding yourself in the good-feeling place where you're letting it in.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Boston, MA on Saturday, October 7th, 2000 # 627

What we would do for yourself — for your next physical experience (and you can do this). . . We would begin, right now, by infusing this physical time/space reality with as much understanding of the Law of Attraction as you can, so that you add to this vortex of knowing. That makes it more likely that — as you and others participate within it — you will have easy access to this understanding that all is well.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Los Angeles, CA on Sunday, January 31st, 1999 # 630

All those statistics that you are gathering about your own experiences and about others are only about how somebody has flowed Energy. It isn't about any hard fast reality.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Detroit, MI on Saturday, July 8th, 2000 # 631

You don't have to go where you don't want to be to get where you want to be. You can go from where you are to where you want to be.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Napa, CA on Friday, February 28th, 1997 # 636

Achieve, first, the vibrational essence of your desire—and then, through the crack of least resistance the manifestation will be delivered... work on the essence of the feeling of freedom; work on the essence of the feeling of empowerment— work on the essence of the feeling of Well-Being... And how do you do that? You can imagine it already having happened and pretend what it will feel like when it is that way. Or, you can look for things in your life that are already like that and beat the drum of that until they play a higher percentage of time in the vibrational signal that you are emanating.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in North Los Angeles, CA on Saturday, March 6th, 2004 # 635

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Daily Feng Shui Tip from Astrology.com

Being that today is 'Cyber Monday,' I think it's time for another money-attracting tip in case you get all caught up in the financial frenzy. If you're looking to up your income or get a bit of year-end bonus, then ignite your 'Fame' or 'Recognition and Rewards' arena. When properly assessed this space promises to bring sweet just desserts that will boost your bottom line as well. To activate the 'Fame' area, Feng Shui says place nine red candles there and light them for a few minutes once a day for nine consecutive days, all the while envisioning your own recognition and reward. On the ninth day allow the candles to burn completely out before expecting your bank balance to heat and head up!.

Daily Dream Decoder from Astrology.com

Anima / Animus

These are terms that Jung created to describe the opposite-gender self that lives within each of us.

The anima is the feminine component dwelling inside a male's unconscious mind. The animus is the masculine component dwelling inside a female's unconscious mind.

In dreams, this opposite-gender self can be a helper or an antagonist. These dream figures can appear as translations of persons we meet with whom we have a tremendous sense of romantic love or platonic camaraderie. One of Jung's interpreters held that the anima/animus character was only understandable to those who have known true love.

However, our opposite-gender selves may reveal to us negativity in ourselves or negativity we perceive in dealings with the opposite sex. It is important to note that sometimes, when you dream about a person of the opposite sex, they may be representing your own inner self. Carefully consider all person s of the opposite sex in your dreams as a possible appearance of your own anima / animus.

What do these strangers teach you about how you view the opposite sex-do you fear, lust for, or despise these strangers for any apparent reason?

Plants

Plants are often not a specific item of dream interpretation because most of the time they function simply as background scenery. The exception to this rule is when a particular type of plant is identified in the dream.

Plants that are significant are those that have historic importance in literature or your personal experience. For example, you may dream of visiting a friend who is sitting in a thicket of hemlock. Obviously, this plant is significant because of the implications of hemlock and suicide in ancient lore.

Other plants that may be significant are those that remind you of a childhood memory, a particular place, or a particular person. In those cases, identifying the relationship of your current circumstances with your memories is important.

Elephant

In the Zulu culture, the elephant is the symbol for wisdom, patriarchy, and sacred relationships (similar to the bear or eagle in Native American culture). It is important to notice that geographically different cultures find symbols within their own contexts to convey universal themes of human concern.

Also, most western cultures revere the elephant as powerful and possessing a strong memory. Because of our common acknowledgment that elephants have powerful memories, to dream of an elephant may be an association with the act of memory-this may point to something forgotten in your life.

Leopard

Spotted animals are interesting symbols because of their nonconformity to a uniform color. Often we may see people as spotted or as leopards if we suspect them of shiftiness or insincerity.

To see a leopard mauling a kill, especially if it makes eye contact with you, likely means that you have been dealing with someone who you do not trust, and that you should take stock of recent dealings with that person and others like them.

Infestation

Being overrun, even by a desirable commodity, is an undesirable experience. Even good things can get carried away. Many times, we feel as though our lives our out of control. In dreams, having an infestation of a particular person, object, insect, or animal may be a pictorial representation of feeling overwhelmed.

If the infestation comes from a positive event, it may be a warning from your subconscious that other necessary obligations are being neglected due to your consumption by a singular activity. If the infestation is a categorically negative image, such as rats or mosquitoes, it may be that your life is getting severely undermined. Is the infestation happening in your home, car, or other intimate place?

Are there any others present?

Crying

Weeping in dreams is not at all unusual. This is often because of the emotional power carried by the images and persons you are encountering. Weeping in the dream is generally separate from actual physical tears forming. It is more often that weepy feeling you get in your heart when a particularly moving scene is played out before you. The best advice is always to go with the dream. Emotional releases and revelations can have a very cleaning effect on the psyche and should be embraced whenever possible. However, you should try to determine the trigger event that caused the emotion.

Did someone else make you cry directly?

Were you crying for a particular reason, or was it for a general emotional release?

Did the tears make you feel ultimately better or worse?

Hawk

Hawks are interesting dream figures. They aren't quite eagles, but they definitely rank above the crows. Like the eagle, hawks are common symbols in many cultures.

Native American dreams revere the hawk and eagle the way the Greeks revere Zeus and Hermes. The hawk is the warrior-visionary while the eagle is the sacred wisdom and power.

To dream of hawks is to see oneself as engaged in, but outwitting, opponents through the ability to perceive more completely. It may also be a dream of providing adequately through skillful acquisition or insightful maneuvering.

Do you see yourself as soaring with the hawks or pecking with the pigeons in waking life? This may be wish-fulfillment or concern over the direction your life is heading.

Walls

In psychoanalytic technique, walls are generally held to be a symbol of the male personality, with a focus on power. This thinking seems to stem from the impressions a young child would have of dominant male power in the home (which is a fortress surrounded by walls and dominated by the patriarch). In dreams, many people encounter walls as a random barrier and/or a projection of power.

In your dream, do you come upon a wall in your travels, or do you find yourself immediately surrounded by walls?

Do you try to scale the wall, find its end, or simply ignore it?

A New Message From VERONICA

Healing

"Never underestimate the power of connection with your spiritual abilities.

If you feel the call to heal, it is important that you allow that energy to flow.

It is a time of change. The laying on of hands and its ability to make a difference for others is a real ability within.

Denying or questioning the reality of it only delays the overall alignment that is needed.

There are many gifted healers upon the earth at this time. Most feel the denseness of physical reality, which often makes them doubt the trueness of their abilities. In times of struggle, these very healers incarnated to be that avenue of assistance. It is important to push past the doubt so that others may benefit.

Whether it's emotional, physical, mental, or spiritual healing that is required, spirit will support the gifts within you.

Each day breathe deeply in appreciation and go forth to others who would need you.

Bringing balance to a distorted reality is a challenge. However, there are many incarnate, so allow your energy to bond. In that unison, more than just a single energy will be balanced. Perhaps a whole segment of a linear congested world will feel the effects as well.

Be encouraged to align with your abilities. The reality is in great need of your energy. Give of it freely so that your vibration can lift the linear to where it needs to be.

Again, be who you are.

If you are a healer...

Be the healer without any doubt."

Daily Message 11.16.12

2012-11-16T15:11:00.001-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"Be a yardstick of quality. Some people aren't used to an environment where excellence is expected."

— Steve Jobs: was an American inventor and businessman

Abraham-Hicks Publications

Thought that is projected, now thinks. So it's not possible to separate the thinker from the thought, because the thinker thinks a thought, and then the thought thinks and becomes a thinker, and then the thought, that was a thought that is now a thinker, thinks another thought, which becomes a thinker, also. And so, there is a constant summoning of Life Force. Now, a thought that is thought longer becomes Thought Form. A thought that is thought upon by many, becomes Thought Form. A thought that is thought upon by many, in a very clear undiluted fashion, as from Nonphysical Perspective where there is no resistance, becomes physical matter. That's why the physical universe is a by-product of the Nonphysical attention or focus. So, the Nonphysical Energy that created this physical mass from the Energy of the Universe, the mass itself, now becomes a thought that is thinking, that is attracting the Energy.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Los Angeles, CA, on Sunday, August 2nd, 1998 # 623

Anything that brings you to a decision will be answered. The stronger the decision is, the faster it's answered. So if you're in a situation where it seems life or death, and the desire is strong, it is answered now, because it must be answered now to be answered at all.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in San Diego, CA on Saturday, July 25th, 1998 # 624

It doesn't really matter what religion anybody believes. If their life is working (and there are many different approaches to life that are working very well) then why not let them believe whatever they want to believe? It's all working in the way that it is supposed to be. There are religions that you wouldn't want anything to do with, that are perfect mechanisms for the people who are involved in them. And therefore, they are a very good thing.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Asheville, NC on Sunday, April 25th, 2004 # 625

There is no risk for you out here on the leading edge, ever. And when you come to understand the true nature of Well-being in which you have come forth—then you can relax and begin to enjoy this magnificent adventure which is your creative life experience. We are not here to guide the specifics of that which you choose. You get to choose that, and you can't get it wrong. We are here to assist you—only to assist you—in finding vibrational harmony with your desire; knowing that when you find vibrational harmony with your desire, you are, in this moment, a joyful Being. And that is our dominant wish for you.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Kansas City, MO on Saturday, June 1st, 2002 # 626

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Daily Feng Shui Tip from Astrology.com

Celebrate all the energy that Teddy, Yogi and any other bear brings to you during today's 'Have a Party With Your Bear Day.' You guys should especially honor them since Feng Shui says bears and males share a lot in common. In fact, this philosophy states that placing an image, statue or picture of a bear in the 'Helpful People' area of your main floor can energetically support your status as the family's male breadwinner. Feng Shui also advices that before traveling for any length of time you should leave a small statue of a bear in one of your home's windows, as this placement offers safety from burglary or theft. Either way, having a bear around will bring you strength and protection in many other ways.

Daily Dream Decoder from Astrology.com

"Marble (stone figurines, buildings, hallways)"

Marble in architecture is the premiere ostentatious element. Often, marble is reserved for dwellings of authority and power (government, big business, stately mansions, etc.). If you are fortunate enough to occupy the building, it may be that you are feeling a special allegiance with power structures. If you are occupying a corporate or government building, it may be a representation of power that you feel in daily living. The people who come to visit you in these structures are central to understand the meaning of the dream. If you are living in a marble mansion, you may be on the verge of a successful business venture.

If you are visiting these places, note the feeling they arouse in you.

Cross or Crucifix

This powerful religious symbol often carries with it either comfort, judgment, healing, pain, or a desire for protection. Obviously, how the object enters the dream and what effect it has on the dream plot is very important.

The symbol can have either great attraction to the dreamer or revulsion and avoidance. To avoid the cross may indicate either judgment, shame, ambivalence about traditional values, or a memory-dodging consciousness. This memory-dodging is a defense mechanism to prevent looking all the way into the implications of choices or experiences tied to religious symbols in your life.

On the positive side, the cross can feel very redemptive or provide a sense of security. Many religious icons operate as a positive taboo for us. Just as dark taboos are symbols, practices, or icons we do not mess with out of fear, certain positive symbols carry positive taboo power. We are secure because of the power of the symbol. Christians who encounter the cross in dreaming may experience a sense of inner healing, renewal, or reconciliation in the dream.

Who is with you when you encounter the cross and what are the activities immediately prior to or subsequent from the cross experience? These questions may give clues as to whether the cross is an internal healing symbol or external one for broader reconciliation.

Spiritual Icons

Dreaming of spiritual or religious icons often reflects either power or unity. We want to feel united with the universe, and icons are a good way to symbolize that identification. Other times, you may dream of being in a situation where supernatural power is required to resolve the conflict. In this case, icons serve as the vehicle or symbol of that power.

There are countless icon images available to all humans. The ones you find in your dreams will relate to your experience in life. (Some examples are: the crucifix, the full moon, the Star of David, Stonehenge, and the Buddha.)

Are your experiences with icons tied to sacred or supernatural events that you prescribe to in waking life?

Are the icons revered or disdained by others in your dream? How do you feel about it?

Anger

Who are you angry at? Why are you angry? What is the outcome of your anger in your dream? Being angry in a dream often represents an emotion we want to have in waking and will not allow ourselves to experience. This reflects the fact that anger can be destructive and sometimes ends up being treated as a taboo in our personality. The fact that it comes out in dreams may be attributed to the id.

People who dream of being angry often have difficulty expressing the emotion constructively in waking life. Anger is a reaction to a perceived threat. As such, anger reflects our feeling that we are being denied what is ours by necessity or by right.

Dreams that contain anger may often serve as an insightful beacon into our waking relationships. Sometimes, you may find yourself dreaming of being angry at someone who never angers you in waking life. This may simply be an indication that they are not perfect; a sort of check that reminds you that they are human.

Birds

If you have ever seen the movie The Birds by Alfred Hitchcock, you will understand at once that birds receive mixed reviews in the human saga. Birds have often been perceived as troublemakers and omens of bad tidings throughout history. To have the birds of the air pick the flesh off your bones was an awesome sign of judgment in the ancient Near East.

Ravens, crows, and vultures could share in this task. However, the gift of flight has retained a sense of majesty for birds as a genus, and certain birds in particular. Note that the phrase Soaring on eagles' wings has been a sign of hope for twenty-five centuries.

The visual acuity of many birds (i.e. the eyes of a hawk) also conveys positive perceptions, while ravens and owls are also stereotyped as vessels of wisdom in myth and literature. The ability of some birds to speak places them in a special category as far as non-human creatures a re concerned. Some people may be characterized as bird-like in your dreams. If you speak with birds in your dreams, you probably have some communication issues to consider. This is true even when the birds do not speak in reply. As with other animals, the bird and its underlying image in your experience are crucial to discerning the meaning of your dream.

In addition, persons whom you characterize as being particularly wise, predatory, or visionary may be represented to you in a bird form-not necessarily as a bird with that person's head or face, but more as a metaphorical appearance.

From The Secret Daily Teachings

Use the power of the Universe by intending before every car trip that the traffic will flow effortlessly, that you will be relaxed and happy, and that you will arrive in perfect time.

Happy driving.

May the joy be with you,

Rhonda Byrne
The Secret... bringing joy to billions

Daily Message 11.12.12

2012-11-12T11:43:00.002-08:00

Motivational Quote of the Day from Nightingale.com

"Learning to listen is the most valuable thing you can do."

— Roger Love: is one of the world's leading authorities on voice

"We are all salesman: We sell someone on marrying us, paying us, loving us, listening to us."

— Garrett Gunderson: is a financial advocate author

Abraham-Hicks Publications

There is nothing for you to go back and live over, or fix, or feel regret about now. Every part of your life has unfolded just right. And so —now — knowing all that you know from where you now stand, now what do you want? The answers are now coming forth to you. Go forth in joy, and get on with it.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Virginia Beach, VA on Saturday, April 12th, 1997 # 622

What-is has no bearing on what is coming unless you are continually regurgitating the story of what is. By thinking and speaking more of how you really want your life to be, you allow what you are currently living to be the jumping-off place for so much more. But if you speak predominantly of what-is, then you still jump off —but you jump off into more of the same.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness" # 621

Every thought that you think is vibrating at a very personal frequency . . . and by the powerful Law of Attraction (the essence of that which is like unto itself, is drawn), that thought is now attracting another thought that is its Vibrational Match. And now, those combined thoughts are vibrating at a frequency that is higher than the thought that came before; and they will now, by the Law of Attraction, attract another and another and another, until eventually the thoughts will be powerful enough to attract a "real life" situation or manifestation.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness" # 620

That All-That-Isness that is responding to your vibration is that which you call God.
--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Lincroft, NJ on Tuesday, October 15th, 1996 # 619

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Daily Feng Shui Tip from Astrology.com

It's 'Chicken Soup for the Soul Day' so let's serve a bowl of therapy for the body and spirit. This soup is the traditional 'go to' when nursing the common cold, but it's also a protective food that can ward off the evil eye. Legend speculates that chicken soup can protect from negative energies created by angry, irrational people. In fact, even mainstream medical science supports its protective benefits. Chicken soup contains several nutrients that stimulate and strengthen the immune system while cleansing your aura, especially if you've been exposed to someone else's negativity. Eating protein-rich foods like chicken, fish, eggs and dairy can help one feel more grounded and balanced and better connected to our bodies and to the earth around us. So the next time you settle in with a good book, why not have a big bowl of self-nurturing to go with it? But if soup just doesn't cut it when dealing with negative people, then this recipe might. Write the offending person's name in green ink on white paper. Fold that paper in four and put it in a glass, lidded jar. Pour enough honey over the paper to cover it and then tightly seal the jar. Place a small white candle either atop or immediately alongside the jar and then each day for nine days straight light the candle while sending healing and forgiveness to that person. On the ninth day allow the candle to burn completely out while disposing of the sealed jar anywhere outside your living space. Sweet and sour, just like Chinese chicken soup for the soul!

Daily Dream Decoder from Astrology.com

Boundaries

Although we rarely dream of boundaries per se, we often encounter uncrossable fences, immovable gates, and other non-traversable obstacles. A Freudian approach would be to discern what might be gained by overcoming the barrier and then attempting to associate that gain with a taboo event. If you have any helpers to get you over, through, or under your obstacle, they may be co-conspirators in the violation-or, your joint conquest of the obstacle may be the taboo in itself.

Depending on whether the taboo is anger, sex, or another violation, you may need to look closely at your feelings about what is on the other side of the fence, across the river, or whatever the obstacle is.

It can be an eerie feeling to encounter a boundary where either you feel unable to go past or your dream companions keep reminding you that nobody goes over there. It may be that the perceived threat or inability to cross th e boundary is the central message of the dream.

Perhaps you see yourself as needing to move through a transition into a new self-awareness. In this case, the boundary may reveal what is hindering you. This is especially true if you are traveling too heavily to cross a river, or have companions who will not cross with you. If you have dream companions helping you with whatever boundary you face, it may be worth heeding their dream advice. Often times, we feel that a fence must be crossed when in fact the protection they provide is important.

While boundaries may feel constricting at times, the psychological pain of attempting to cross every boundary in life can cause great problems that could have been avoided by knowing when to stop.

Divorce

Divorce is an excessive commodity now days. A first grader recently said, My parents haven't gotten their divorce yet. Unfortunately, divorce has translated from a social taboo to a rite of passage.

Often, it symbolizes anxiety concerning insincere commitment from a partner or underlying resentment toward a partner. It may be represented by other significant persons in your life going through the divorce as a displacement of your anxiety over the matter.

Do you have relationships that are very tiring or emotionally draining? Perhaps you are wanting to get someone out of your life, but lack the diplomacy skills to address the situation.

Do you feel excluded from or cut off by past friends over a current disagreement?

"Gods: Greek, Roman etc."

Various gods such as these figures often represent idealized desires, obstacles, powers, or relationships. The presence of the god figure often comes as a superlative. Some examples of this include: Thor as the most strength, Zeus as the most wisdom, and Eros as the greatest sexual desire. We may either encounter these figures directly or feel ourselves as persons occupying their bodies or adopting their attributes.

These experiences show us important features of ourselves as agents of action in the world. We are confronted by these superlatives and are either thwarted by them or become more self-aware in who we need to be in the circumstances and relationships of life. If you are a student of mythology, it may be useful to investigate your dreams for themes of power, problem-solving, and self-awareness.

Computer

The computer has become a symbol of access to knowledge and power. It also has become a ball and chain. The good thing is, we can work anywhere thanks to Internet connections and laptop computers. The bad thing is, we can work anywhere thanks to internet connections and laptop computers.

You are either on the verge of excelling at work, or you probably need to quit working such long hours. Was the computer simply background furniture in your dream, or did it play an integral part? Was the computer more powerful than you are used to, or was it causing you problems?