<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3894109908054674649</id><updated>2010-12-05T16:45:30.736-08:00</updated><title type='text'>story</title><subtitle type='html'>stories of all kinds</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>filmazia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970536024756217387</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>9</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3894109908054674649.post-2842677485740734597</id><published>2010-12-05T16:35:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-05T16:35:30.678-08:00</updated><title type='text'>An Unforgettable First Kiss</title><content type='html'>&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" id="table14"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td colspan="2"&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td colspan="2"&gt;      &lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #9966ff; font-family: Bookman Old Style; font-size: x-small;"&gt;      Unknown&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td width="76%"&gt;      &lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana; font-size: x-small;"&gt;My very       first kiss... yes, I remember it well. She had been visiting       my family this Sunday afternoon into the early evening. It       was in the middle of winter and being in a northern state,       it was very cold. Time finally came for her to return to her       family a couple of blocks away from where I lived.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I helped her on with her coat and she and I stepped through       the door onto an uncovered porch. The window in the door was       all steamed up from the heat within so no one could see us       outside except as a blur. When we stepped outside, we found       that is was pouring down snow in very large flakes and       starting to gather on the ground.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As we were standing there watching the snow, we turned       toward each other, no words had been spoken, as if the snow       had taken away our ability to talk. We looked into each       other's eyes and still without saying a word, we stepped       toward each other, we embraced and then our lips met; soft,       warm, moist a totally sensual moment, but being so young, we       had only the vaguest idea what sensual was. Our lips stayed       together a long time, the snow falling in these huge drops       around us and on us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally we parted and we both knew that THE THING had       finally happened for both of us. Our First Kiss.       Unforgettable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3894109908054674649-2842677485740734597?l=sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/feeds/2842677485740734597/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/unforgettable-first-kiss.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/2842677485740734597'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/2842677485740734597'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/unforgettable-first-kiss.html' title='An Unforgettable First Kiss'/><author><name>filmazia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970536024756217387</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11618703350603570846'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3894109908054674649.post-9140035236350185437</id><published>2010-12-05T16:34:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-05T16:34:19.096-08:00</updated><title type='text'>The Story Of Life</title><content type='html'>&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" id="table14"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td colspan="2"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td colspan="2"&gt;      &lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td colspan="2"&gt;      &lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td colspan="2"&gt;      &lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #9966ff; font-family: Bookman Old Style; font-size: small;"&gt;by&amp;nbsp;Unknown&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td width="76%"&gt;      &lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;Sometimes       people come into your life and you know right away that they       were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach       you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who       you want to become. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You never know who these people may be...possibly your       roommate, neighbor, coworker, long lost friend, or even a       complete stranger, but when you lock eyes with them, you       know at that very moment they will affect your life in some       profound way.&lt;br /&gt;And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible,       painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find       that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never       realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Everything happens for a reason. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness,       injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer       stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without       these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like       a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would       be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The people you meet who affect your life, and the success       and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and       who you become. Even the bad experiences can be learned       from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and       important ones. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart,       forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and       the importance of being cautious when you open your heart.      &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not       only because they love you, but because in a way, they are       teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to       things. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Make every day count. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Appreciate every moment and take from those moments       everything that you possibly can for you may never be able       to experience it again. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and       actually listen. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights       high. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hold your head up because you have every right to. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in       yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, it will be       hard for others to believe in you. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own       life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.      &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most importantly!!!&lt;br /&gt;if you LOVE someone tell him or her, for you never know what       tomorrow may have in store. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And learn a lesson in life each day that you live.&lt;br /&gt;THAT’S THE STORY OF LIFE &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;      &lt;td width="24%"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td width="76%"&gt;      &lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="10" src="http://www.touchinglovestories.com/images/spacer.gif" width="1" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3894109908054674649-9140035236350185437?l=sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/feeds/9140035236350185437/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/story-of-life.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/9140035236350185437'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/9140035236350185437'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/story-of-life.html' title='The Story Of Life'/><author><name>filmazia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970536024756217387</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11618703350603570846'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3894109908054674649.post-8127874723478300900</id><published>2010-12-05T16:27:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-05T16:27:20.409-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Chain Of Love</title><content type='html'>&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" id="table14"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td colspan="2"&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td colspan="2"&gt;      &lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #9966ff; font-family: Bookman Old Style; font-size: small;"&gt;by&amp;nbsp;Unknown&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td width="76%"&gt;      &lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He was driving home one evening, on a two-lane country road.       Work, in this small mid-western community, was almost as       slow as his beat-up Pontiac. But he never quit looking. Ever       since the Levis factory closed, he'd been unemployed, and       with winter raging on, the chill had finally hit home. It       was a lonely road. Not very many people had a reason to be       on it, unless they were leaving. Most of his friends had       already left. They had families to feed and dreams to       fulfill. But he stayed on. After all, this was where he       buried his mother and father. He was born here and knew the       country. He could go down this road blind, and tell you what       was on either side, and with his headlights not working,       that came in handy. It was starting to get dark and light       snow flurries were coming down. He'd better get a move on.       You know, he almost didn't see the old lady, stranded on the       side of the road. But even in the dim light of day, he could       see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her       Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when       he approached her. Even with the smile on his face, she was       worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so.       Was he going to hurt her? He didn't look safe, he looked       poor and hungry. He could see that she was frightened,       standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was       that chill that only fear can put in you. He said, "I'm here       to help you m'am. Why don't you wait in the car where it's       warm. By the way, my name is Joe." Well, all she had was a       flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough Joe       crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack,       skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to       change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt.       As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down her       window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was       from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She       couldn't thank him enough for coming to her aid. Joe just       smiled as he closed her trunk. &lt;/span&gt;      &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She asked him how much she owed him. Any amount would have       been alright with her. She had already imagined all the       awful things that could have happened had he not stopped.       Joe never thought twice about the money. This was not a job       to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows       there were plenty who had given him a hand in the past. He       had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to       him to act any other way. He told her that if she really       wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who       needed help, she could give that person the assistance that       they needed, and Joe added "...and think of me". &lt;/span&gt;      &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had       been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he       headed for home, disappearing into the twilight. A few miles       down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab       a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the       last leg of her trip home. It was a dingy looking       restaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The whole scene       was unfamiliar to her. The cash register was like the       telephone of an out of work actor, it didn't ring much. Her       waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet       hair. She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet       for the whole day couldn't erase. The lady noticed that the       waitress was nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let       the strain and aches change her attitude. The old lady       wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to       a stranger. Then she remembered Joe. After the lady finished       her meal, and the waitress went to get her change from a       hundred dollar bill, the lady slipped right out the door.       She was gone by the time the waitress came back. She       wondered where the lady could be, then she noticed something       written on a napkin. There were tears in her eyes, when she       read what the lady wrote. It said, "You don't owe me a       thing, I've been there too. Someone once helped me out, the       way I'm helping you. If you really want to pay me back,       here's what you do. Don't let the chain of love end with       you." Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill,       and people to serve, but the waitress made it through       another day. That night when she got home from work and       climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what       the lady had written. How could she have known how much she       and her husband needed it? With the baby due next month, it       was going to be hard. She knew how worried her husband was,       and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss       and whispered soft and low, "Everything's gonna be alright,       I love you Joe." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;      &lt;td width="24%"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td width="76%"&gt;      &lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="10" src="http://www.touchinglovestories.com/images/spacer.gif" width="1" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3894109908054674649-8127874723478300900?l=sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/feeds/8127874723478300900/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/chain-of-love.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/8127874723478300900'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/8127874723478300900'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/chain-of-love.html' title='Chain Of Love'/><author><name>filmazia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970536024756217387</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11618703350603570846'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3894109908054674649.post-86272713916224736</id><published>2010-12-05T16:25:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-05T16:25:53.418-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Let Me Love You</title><content type='html'>&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" id="table14"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td colspan="2"&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #9966ff; font-family: Bookman Old Style;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td colspan="2"&gt;      &lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #9966ff; font-family: Bookman Old Style; font-size: small;"&gt;by       &lt;/span&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #9966ff; font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;Unknown&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td width="76%"&gt;      &lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once upon a time, there was once a guy who was very much in       love with this girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces       of paper cranes as a gift to his girl. Although, at that       time he was just a small executive in his company, his       future doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy       together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to       Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she       cannot visualize any future for the both of them, so let's       go their own ways there and then... heartbroken, the guy       agreed. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and       night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out       of himself. Finally with all these hard work and with the       help of friends, this guy had set up his own company...&lt;br /&gt;"You never fail until you stop trying." he always told       himself. "I must make it in life!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly       couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some       destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still       drenched. It didn't take him long to realize those were his       ex-girlfriend's parents. With a heart in getting back at       them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to       spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he       wasn't the same anymore. He had his own company, car, condo,       etc. He had made it in life!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before the guy can realize, the couple was walking towards a       cemetery, and he got out of his car and followed them...and       he saw his ex-girlfriend, a photograph of her smiling       sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone... and he saw his       precious paper cranes in a bottle placed beside her tomb.       Her parents saw him. He walked over and asked them why this       had happened. They explained, she did not leave for France       at all. She was stricken ill with cancer. In her heart, she       had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not       want her illness to be his obstacle ... therefore she had       chosen to leave him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She had wanted her parents to put his paper cranes beside       her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her       again he can take some of those back with him. The guy just       wept ...the worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right       beside them but knowing you can't have them and will never       see them again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3894109908054674649-86272713916224736?l=sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/feeds/86272713916224736/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/let-me-love-you.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/86272713916224736'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/86272713916224736'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/let-me-love-you.html' title='Let Me Love You'/><author><name>filmazia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970536024756217387</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11618703350603570846'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3894109908054674649.post-7009517592182906760</id><published>2010-12-05T16:24:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-05T16:24:05.767-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Who Do You Love</title><content type='html'>&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" id="table14"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td colspan="2"&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;b&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #9966ff; font-family: Bookman Old Style; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td colspan="2"&gt;      &lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #9966ff; font-family: Bookman Old Style; font-size: x-small;"&gt;by       &lt;/span&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #9966ff; font-family: Verdana; font-size: x-small;"&gt;Unknown&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td width="76%"&gt;      &lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana; font-size: x-small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;John Blanchard stood up from the bench, straightened his       Army uniform, and studied the crowd of people making their       way through Grand Central Station. He looked for the girl       whose heart he knew, but whose face he didn't, the girl with       the rose. His interest in her had begun thirteen months       before in a Florida library. Taking a book off the shelf he       found himself intrigued, not with the words of the book, but       with the notes penciled in the margin. The soft handwriting       reflected a thoughtful soul and insightful mind. &lt;br /&gt;In front of the book, he discovered the previous owner's       name, Miss Hollis Maynell. With time and effort he located       her address. She lived in New York City. He wrote her a       letter introducing himself and inviting her to correspond.       The next day he was shipped overseas for service in World       War II &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;During the next year and one-month the two grew to know each       other through the mail. Each letter was a seed falling on a       fertile heart. A Romance was budding. Blanchard requested a       photograph, but she refused. She felt that if he really       cared, it wouldn't matter what she looked like. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When the day finally came for him to return from Europe,       they scheduled their first meeting - 7:00 pm at Grand       Central Station in New York. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"You'll recognize me, " she wrote, "by the red rose I'll be       wearing on my lapel." So at 7:00 he was in the station       looking for a girl whose heart he loved, but whose face he'd       never seen. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'll let Mr. Blanchard tell you what happened: A young women       was coming toward me, her figure long and slim. Her blonde       hair lay back in curls from her delicate ears; her eyes were       blue as flowers. Her lips and chin had a gentle firmness,       and in her pale green suit she was like springtime come       alive. I started toward her, entirely forgetting to notice       that she was not wearing a rose. As I moved, a small,       provocative smile curved her lips. "Going my way, sailor?"       she murmured. Almost uncontrollably I made one step closer       to her, and then I saw Hollis Maynell. She was standing       almost directly behind the girl. A women well past 40, she       had graying hair tucked under a worn hat. She was more than       plump, her thick-ankled feet thrust into low-heeled shoes.       The girl in the green suit was walking quickly away. I felt       as though I split in two, so keen was my desire to follow       her, and yet so deep was my longing for the women whose       spirit had truly companioned me and upheld my own. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And there she stood. Her pale, plump face was gentle and       sensible, her gray eyes had a warm and kindly twinkle. I did       not hesitate. My fingers gripped the small worn blue leather       copy of the book that was something precious, something       perhaps even better than love, a friendship for which I had       been and must ever be grateful. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I squared my shoulders and saluted and held out the book to       the women, even though while I spoke I felt choked by the       bitterness of my disappointment. "I'm Lieutenant John       Blanchard, and you must be Miss Maynell. I am so glad you       could meet me; may I take you to dinner?" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The women's face broadened into a tolerant smile. "I don't       know what this is about, son," she answered, "but the young       lady in the green suit who just went by, she begged me to       wear this rose on my coat. And she said if you were to ask       me out to dinner, I should go and tell you that she is       waiting for you in the big restaurant across the street. She       said it was some kind of test!" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's not difficult to understand and admire Miss Maynell's       wisdom. The true nature of a heart is seen in it's response       to the unattractive. "Tell me whom you love," Houssaye       wrote, "And I will tell you who you are." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3894109908054674649-7009517592182906760?l=sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/feeds/7009517592182906760/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/who-do-you-love.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/7009517592182906760'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/7009517592182906760'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/who-do-you-love.html' title='Who Do You Love'/><author><name>filmazia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970536024756217387</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11618703350603570846'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3894109908054674649.post-3023446542393902036</id><published>2010-12-05T16:22:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-05T16:22:28.987-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Honey</title><content type='html'>&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" id="table14"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td colspan="2"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td colspan="2"&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td colspan="2"&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td colspan="2"&gt;      &lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #9966ff; font-family: Bookman Old Style; font-size: x-small;"&gt;by       &lt;/span&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #9966ff; font-family: Verdana; font-size: x-small;"&gt;Vicky &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;     &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;      &lt;td width="76%"&gt;      &lt;div align="left"&gt;      &lt;span style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana; font-size: x-small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My name is Sarah and my best friend is called Honey and she       is a Guinea Pig. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One day I was at school and we had to take in our pets for       Show and tell. I got really excited about showing everyone       Honey as she was a gold honey colour and was very friendly.       It was my turn to go up so I got Honey out of the box and       started to speak: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Hello class this is my guinea pig it is 4 years old which       is quite old for a guinea pig and her name is Honey. She Is       my best friend cause she never gets angry with me and always       listens she never gives me an answer but that doesn't       matter. I love her. Thank you very much." My school teacher       was taking pictures of us with our pets so I stood and       smiled with Honey and I felt proud to be standing in front       of every one. Usually I hate talking in front of the class       but having my best friend cuddling up to me made it all       better. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I then put Honey back in the box and then sat down to watch       the other kids. At dinner time I took Honey to the front of       the school to wait for mum to come and get her. I kissed       Honey goodbye and then I walked into school. The rest of the       day went fast and when the bell went for the end of school I       raced home to go and see Honey. When I got there I knocked       really loud but there was no answer so I went to Pauline's       next door and when I got there she looked sad but I thought       I better not ask what was wrong as something really       upsetting could have happened. But I asked her: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Pauline do you know where my mum is?" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Yes she has gone shopping come in and wait for her." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"If you don't mind can I first go and check on Honey?" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"No you best stay here so I know where you are, go and       switch on the TV." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Ok." It was about an hour before mum got back when she did       I said: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Mum hurry up." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Dear first I need to speak to you. I have been.." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Yeah up town great now hurry up." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"No dear I went to the vets." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Why what's wrong with champagne the rabbit?" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Nothing it's Honey he died of old age." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"No not honey no this is a lie it can't be true." By this       time my eyes were filling up with tears. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Mum if you don't mind I need to be alone can I go for a       walk?" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Yes but be careful and don't go further than the shop." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"OK and mum one more thing have you got honey?" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Yes." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Well can I take her with me she will keep me safe I am only       going to the field over there?" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Ok." I ran over to the field and then ran right in to the       middle and leapt down and started to cry. I felt like my       heart had been broken in two. Honey was in a box so I slowly       opened it to have a look at her. She looked so quiet and       sad. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Oh Honey come back please you're my best friend I can't       survive with out you. How will I ever be able to say goodbye       you have been the best friend any one could have ever wished       for. Please Honey the world won't be as happy with out you       on it." I lay there crying and looking up into the blue sky       hoping Honey would be in Heaven. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The next day I was dreading school but I put on a brave face       and when I got there my close friend Helen was waiting for       me &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Hi What's up with you?" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Nothing." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"OH yeah." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"OK Honey died last night." I felt tears running down my       face so Helen came and gave me a hug. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"It is alright me and you can be best friends." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"No you can't ever replace Honey I hate you." I screamed at       her. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At break time I went to the toilets. I was in the cubicle       when Helen and a few of my other friends came in and they       were saying: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"She went bonkers on me I can't believe it. It's only a       guinea pig for heaven sake." They were all being horrible       and I felt about 2 cm tall. I missed Honey if she was here I       would be able to tell her this and then when I had finished       she would look up at me in those big deep lovely eyes. I       walked out of the toilet cubicle Helen stared at me and then       she said: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"I am sorry I didn't know you were there." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Yeah it figures. I am sorry too." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"What for?" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"That you are the most horrible girl and I was your friend       now bye." I then went to see in a corner of the playground       all on my own until a girl came and started to talk to me:      &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Hi Sarah." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Hi Katie." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"I heard that Honey died it was a gorgeous guinea pig my       rabbit just died last night too." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"How are you coping." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"So so." I then told her that I would meet her after school       and we could walk home together. Me and Katie became really       close and we were best friends but we knew that we weren't       best best friends cause they were our pets Honey and       Nibbles. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3894109908054674649-3023446542393902036?l=sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/feeds/3023446542393902036/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/honey.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/3023446542393902036'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/3023446542393902036'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/honey.html' title='Honey'/><author><name>filmazia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970536024756217387</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11618703350603570846'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3894109908054674649.post-655689878390340424</id><published>2010-12-05T16:11:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-05T16:11:01.094-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Forever and Always</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;                                 &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;by M &amp;amp; D&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;Well,                this all started off in Summer School this past summer (you know                how they say you can meet people in the strangest and most unexpected                place) so anyway... It was about the second week and I was in class                and he walked in. It was this handsome, attractive young man and                I was infatuated about him. so, I could do nothing but stare at                him that day. And then, what could have been more amazing, and nervously                coincidental at the same time, he sat next to me (not much of a                big deal, but at the time it was, trust me) so, I saw the way he                looked at me when I asked him to pass me a book. Little did I know,                this was the way he would always look at me. Two day later, we had                to evacuate the building and that is the first time I had the chance                to talk to him. So, every single day, I wouldn't take an eye off                him. I was too busy being toungue-twisted, sweaty, and clammy to                have an unervous conversation with him. In the class, we would have                movie day every friday. and when a certain part of the movie would                come (ex: kissing, intimacy, etc.) and we would look at each other                in a really strange but hilarious way. Sometimes, we occasionally                laugh about it and continue watching the movie, but every day we                would walk out the door and I would just look at him and want to                put my arm around him, hold his hand and kiss him. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;When                we arrived in the mornings, he would wait for me only to have to                separate when we get to our particular sides of the hallway. every                day it would be like this. It was my birthday party and I was giving                out invites and I gave him an invite. He couldn't make it but, we                started talking on the phone a lot after that. and everyday I grew                even more nervous around him and became so unsure about him. but,                over time I knew that eventually I would have to say something in                length.) I wondered about a lot: If he liked me back, If he even                wanted anything to do with me, or, if he even had a girlfriend.                &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;One                day, our teacher was at the back of the classroom, and she was giving                a lecture and remember, he is sitting directly next to me, so, I                felt like I was being watched, so, all of a sudden, I looked over                at him, and he happened to be staring at me. At first I was in denial                and thought he was looking out the window but, it was me he was                taking a glimpse at. So, I was kind of stunned and went home wondering.                The next friday happened to be the last day and we had to go back                to finish finals and I was waiting on him (this day I decided to                confess to him that I liked him and I actually wrote two poems to                let out clues and also planned to kiss him but that backfired on                me) so, he came out from finishing his finals and me, him. and one                of my friends decided to talk a walk all the way around the school.                It came time for my friend to go home, and that left me and Darold.                and I moved closer to him and talked to him some more. It was time                for him to go and I gave him the poems I wrote and told him "after                you get done reading them, throw them away". &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;We                went home that same night and talked on the phone. I had asked him                what and who did he think I was referring to in both poems. Darold                had no Idea it was him. Then, I told him I liked him and that I                was In love with him. Clutching on to my pillow, waiting for a response                from him, I was even more excited when he told me he felt the same                way about me and that his heart always went out to me. The next                day, we had gotten together. So far we have been together for almost                four months and its been beautiful. to everyone that has true feelings                for anyone, my advice to them is that they should tell them because                you'll never know how they feel unless you say something. He has                become a part of me and my heart has always went out to him too.                Behind those graciously good looks is faith, kindness, intellegence,                and honesty and I wouldn't trade the world for hi&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3894109908054674649-655689878390340424?l=sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/feeds/655689878390340424/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/forever-and-always.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/655689878390340424'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/655689878390340424'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/forever-and-always.html' title='Forever and Always'/><author><name>filmazia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970536024756217387</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11618703350603570846'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3894109908054674649.post-5444030382386356307</id><published>2010-12-05T16:06:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-05T16:06:08.106-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Soul Mates</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;                                 &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;by J and L&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;I                had a dream of finding my one life long friend, my partner, my soul                mate who would be there for me in my time of need and who could                delight, thrill and entertain me in a unique way. In addition to                conversation on a deep level and an understanding of my little idiosyncrasies                and irritations that in turn strengthened our bond and sincere connection                with each other.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;I                never realised that in my search to find her, I would one Sunday                afternoon oblivious that this would actually be the day I meet my                soul mate. There she was standing across the crowd, eyes engrossed                on me not moving, blinking. Just a mysterious stare from across                the room. My heart racing realising in fact that it was me she were                fixated on. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;Slowly                and carefully moving across the room towards her trying not to make                it obvious but still intent on meeting her with my now purpose…                Wanting to open with – “Will you marry me?” –                How did I know yet, not even knowing her name? How did I know she                was the one? How did I know? I somehow just did as if sent by some                mysterious force to be in the same place at the same time on the                same day… Someone had been picking up on my subconscious messages                into the universe to find my life long friend and soul mate. That                someone sent me there for her that Sunday. Someone sent her there                for me. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;                The minute I learnt her name and had her number I txt her with the                words… “Louisa Grow Old With Me” as if being written                down would strengthen the message wanting to be conveyed. We had                so much fun that evening, that seemed to go on forever. We danced,                we hugged, we kissed, we spoke, we laughed, but most of all - we                knew…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;A                few days passed and we got in contact once again. Our bond just                grew and grew and continued to get stronger day by day. After a                few months I asked her to join me in a trip back home to meet my                parents, to which she was more than delighted to accept. On our                return we moved in together and things just seemed so right! Louisa                had now become the face on the woman in my dreams I had always dreamed                of finding. She is loving, generous, adorable and most of all, my                best friend! We are planning to get engaged this year and to be                married soon after.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;I                won’t spend my life waiting for an angel to descend, searching                for a rainbow with out an end, gazing at the stars up in the sky                wondering of love will pass me by… now that I have found you                I will call off the search.. You are the tiger burning bright deep                in the forest of my night. You sleep by the silent cooling streams                in the darkness of my dreams, all of my life I never knew you were                the dream I would see coming true. I was the one who looked so hard,                I could not see, and now I could never live with out the love you                give to me. I lived like a wild and lonely soul, lost in a dream                beyond control. You are the one who brought me home. From now until                forever... S'agapo my Girl..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span class="style2"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #666666; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3894109908054674649-5444030382386356307?l=sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/feeds/5444030382386356307/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/soul-mates.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/5444030382386356307'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/5444030382386356307'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/soul-mates.html' title='Soul Mates'/><author><name>filmazia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970536024756217387</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11618703350603570846'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3894109908054674649.post-6326961080584922806</id><published>2010-12-05T16:03:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-05T16:03:12.093-08:00</updated><title type='text'>29 Years Ago</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;                                 &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;by&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; j-l&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;29  years ago…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;A  little boy sits on the edge of my  mother’s green tweed couch, his eyes  exploring the length of the fishing rod in  his hands.&amp;nbsp; His fisted hand  circles…in  make-believe of reeling…pulling in an imaginary fish.&amp;nbsp;  Meanwhile, he tips an ear toward his father’s conversation, as  fishing  questions and answers are exchanged.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;On  the other side of that fishing  conversation is my father – detailing  the steps necessary to casting the line,  controlling the slack, hooking  a fish, and removing the fish from the  hook.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;The  little boy’s eyes remain wide.&amp;nbsp; His sideways attention focuses on the   information his father gathers.&amp;nbsp; His  hands move with quiet wonderment –  reeling, feeling, and dreaming with his new  pole.&amp;nbsp; Well, it’s new to  him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;My  father is handing over one of his  fishing poles for the sake of a young  boy who has the desire to fish.&amp;nbsp; The boy’s father is learning, so that  he can  teach his son.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;From the kitchen, I secretly peer around  the living room wall at this six year old kid.&amp;nbsp;  I think, &lt;i&gt;so different than the  others I know&lt;/i&gt;.&amp;nbsp;  He’s quiet.&amp;nbsp; He hangs on his father’s every word.&amp;nbsp; He’s determined, in  his own six-year-old  way, to successfully reel in the big one.&amp;nbsp;  He  must live in a home much like mine.&amp;nbsp;  He seems to be like me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;4  years later…&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;I  find myself in a strange but warmly  welcoming home, with its own smell  of roasting meat and apple pie.&amp;nbsp; It is the home of the boy who’d been at  my  house for a fishing pole.&amp;nbsp; I only know  this because my father  refreshes my memory.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;I  haven’t seen the boy since he’s been to  my house for the pole.&amp;nbsp; Even  forgot his  face until I see it again.&amp;nbsp; It’s  different now.&amp;nbsp; Older,  less quiet.&amp;nbsp; In his own home, he’s comfortable, more  talkative.&amp;nbsp; He  eats dinner with gusto,  like he belongs there.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;Today, I am the quiet, listening one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After dinner, I find myself in the seat of  a pickup truck.&amp;nbsp; Also in  the truck are  the boy, his sister, and his mother.&amp;nbsp; As  his mother  bends the truck along country roads on the way back from the market,  my  comfort level builds and we chatter as children do…about hilarious   happenings in our own neighborhoods.&amp;nbsp;  About our pets.&amp;nbsp; About our   favorite doughnut and ice cream flavors.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;Then…the  conversation shifts.&amp;nbsp; The boy suddenly decides that I’m  stupid.&amp;nbsp; That  my stories are  stupid.&amp;nbsp; That I’m really not worth his  breath.&amp;nbsp; The  ride is completed in  silence, save the droning of country music and his  mother’s occasional attempt  at heightening our spirits.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;On my  way back home, my mom says that how  little boys act when they don’t  know how to express themselves.&amp;nbsp; I decide that his stories were pretty   stupid, too.&amp;nbsp; But can’t seem to forget  them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;10  years later…&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;My  work in the office of a construction  company delivers me right into the  middle of male conversations.&amp;nbsp; Talk of women, beer, and pending jobs  flow  freely through my adjoining office, and I have little sense of my  own  space.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;Additionally,  that space is invaded by a  man...daily.&amp;nbsp; Pleasing to the eye, his   presence detracts from my attention to my job – annoys me into noticing  his  advances, and prompts me agree that &lt;i&gt;yes,  I would be at the company Christmas party that night&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;At  the party, dozens of people separate me  from the man.&amp;nbsp; But those people  might as  well be transparent, because he’s all I see.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;His  wide shoulders are rounded with easiness, his speech flowing  with  comfort as he stands surrounded by his peers.&amp;nbsp; His laughter is physical,  with a bend at the waist and a slap on  his knee.&amp;nbsp; He wipes his hand  across his  forehead and down over his right eye, a gesture that seems  to wipe away  laughter in preparation for the next joke.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;When  he approaches me, it is with a lanky  gate, like that of a youthful  Marlboro Man.&amp;nbsp;  The noisy dining hall seems to fall silent.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;His  blond and brown curls peek around tiny,  perfect ears and grasp the  edges of smooth cheekbones.&amp;nbsp; His brown eyes are dark, like the mud under   a shade tree the day after rain.&amp;nbsp; His  mouth is small with plump rosy  lips.&amp;nbsp;  His rounded chin juts northward, as if wanting to touch his  manly,  adequate nose.&amp;nbsp; He is packaged in  smooth, tanned skin, the  color of the desert at sunset.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;His  height and build should belong to a  professional athlete, but are  rather evident of his manual labor.&amp;nbsp; His lengthy arms lead to calloused,  crooked  digits topped with wide, flat fingernails.&amp;nbsp;  His knuckles are  broad.&amp;nbsp; His  hands are rough, yet sweet.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;3  years later…&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;That  wishing fisher boy, that  insult-delivering 10-year-old, that  curly-haired, genuine, good hearted man is  now my husband.&amp;nbsp; We hadn’t  recognized  each other at work, or at the Christmas party, or even  during our first  official date.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;It  wasn’t until our parents pointed out  that we had met, years before,  that we finally connected the faces of today to  the faces of yesterday.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;I  still peek at him in secret  amazement.&amp;nbsp; He still listens to my  stories  (but without the insults).&amp;nbsp; He  still invades my space, but only  because I’ve extended a lifelong invitation  for him to do so.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;The biggest change?&amp;nbsp; He’s no longer fishing.&amp;nbsp;  He’s caught the one he wants…and I’ve been reeled in…without a fight.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3894109908054674649-6326961080584922806?l=sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/feeds/6326961080584922806/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/29-years-ago.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/6326961080584922806'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3894109908054674649/posts/default/6326961080584922806'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sotiesofsoties.blogspot.com/2010/12/29-years-ago.html' title='29 Years Ago'/><author><name>filmazia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970536024756217387</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11618703350603570846'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>