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MOVING DATE CHANGE!

2021-02-28T22:37:00.001-06:00

Due to a personal family medical emergency, the new blog will not be functional on March 1, 2021. Please check in for updates on the MOVE Date! Thank you for your understanding!

Anita

We are moving our Jewelry Chat to our new Website launching March 1, 2021!

2021-02-20T18:31:00.000-06:00

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We have included some blog posts from our past site that have been the most popular and we will be adding new blog posts going forward.

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WHAT'S HOT IN JEWELRY RIGHT NOW!

2019-07-23T18:27:00.000-05:00

Everything Zodiac!

Birthstone jewelry is incredibly popular when looking for unique ways to express one’s birth month. But did you know there are unique zodiac gemstones too?

Each zodiac sign is paired with a complementary gemstone to help reveal its wearers’ hidden powers.

These zodiac sign gemstones may be the same or different than the birthstones by the month that you may be more accustomed to seeing.

Why not try something new and invest in jewelry that is unique to your zodiac sign?

Zodiac gemstones will help you align your body and mind and bring you peace and harmony, while showing off you own personal sense of style!

Aries - Bloodstone

Taurus - Sapphire

Gemini - Agate

Cancer - Emerald

Leo - Onyx

Virgo - Carnelian

Libra - Chrysolite

Scorpio - Beryl

Sagittarius - Topaz

Capricorn - Ruby

Aquarius - Garnet

Pisces - Amethyst

You will find our handmade Zodiac Birthstones in a Bottle, as well as standard by the month Birthstones in a Bottle in our Etsy Store. We also produce simple etched Zodiac sign charms and pendants for custom order. All our stones are guaranteed to be authentic, natural and ethically sourced. Recycled metals are used in all our pieces.

What Does July Fourth Mean to You?

2019-06-24T20:56:00.002-05:00

lt seems like only yesterday we were observing Memorial Day, a time to remember our fallen heroes and thank all those who serve our wonderful country to keep us safe.

July 4th is only a little over a week away! We celebrate American Independence Day on the Fourth of July every year. We think of July 4, 1776, as a day that represents the Declaration of Independence and the birth of the United States of America.

For many Americans that means spending time with family, firing up the grill and lighting up the sky with fireworks. For others it means reflecting on our Nation’s history, remembering time served in our military, or thinking of loved ones who are currently serving.

Independence Day means many things to people. Like so many holidays the real meaning has become blurred. Unfortunately in these tumultuous times, many do not have the freedom to speak what they feel or to be treated equally and fairly, to be shown respect and to expect that others will act responsibly. Liberty and Justice for All does not necessarily exist.

It’s time to reclaim our Values, stand up and fight for them!

This year, why not reflect on what Independence Day really means to you besides fireworks, grilling, beaching and shopping the sales!

Happy Fourth!

Happy 2019! Happy Awakening!

2019-05-28T07:00:00.000-05:00

I'm so happy it's 2019! Are you?

Which leads to my discussion topic:

Awakening - an act or moment of becoming suddenly aware of something.

Many people described an awakening experience as the most significant moment of their lives, reporting a major change in their perspective on life, and in their values. In 2017 The Journal of Transpersonal Psychology study of 90 awakening experiences, the most significant after-effect was a greater sense of trust, confidence, and optimism.

After the ups and downs of 2017 and 2018, in business, politically, emotionally and spiritually, I have definitely experienced an "awakening" and I welcome this after-effect!

Maybe you are asking yourself why I selected this topic for my current blog. At the end of 2018, it suddenly became crystal clear to me that I have not been accountable for giving my business my utmost dedication and respect, largely because of a lack of trust in the process, a lack of confidence in myself and increased pessimism about my success. I recently attended a Jewelry Brand Makeover Bootcamp by Flourish and Thrive Academy and Tracy Matthews, the co-founder, shared a lot of information about building your brand that customers love, gaining consistent sales and serious buzz. This made me realize that I had not made as much effort to do those things as I should have done and it was time to have Clarity about myself and my intention and create more demand for my designs, while maintaining free time for myself.

As a result of this "awakening" I've decided to share with my followers my journey to understanding my reason for running a jewelry design business and what I wanted to create long term.

My journey began in 1997, when I took my first jewelry making lesson and I knew instantly that I wanted to make jewelry, forever. That led to more professional jewelry study, participation in craft shows, owning a jewelry gallery and bead shop, and eventually, selling my jewelry online. During that time I got caught up in the chaos, not having a really clear plan. I made a lot of mistakes, over-purchased materials and inventory I never used, took advice from the wrong people and worked way too much for too little. I also tried to sell to everyone. My business grew, but I was burned out, unhappy and not making as much jewelry that I liked to make, spending too much time watching the bottom line and not enough time enjoying my life. So, I closed my store and began making jewelry in my home studio, selling in local shops and online, thinking that was the answer to my unhappiness.

In 2018, I recognized that my vision had been lost along the way. It was not enough to have revenue goals, I needed to focus on my core values and the platform of my brand. I needed to stop selling to everyone and focus on the clients that are the cornerstone of my brand. That was the beginning of the "awakening" process.

Attending the workshop helped me to clarify my branding and intentions: I began to rethink my business and everything changed. I now know who I am, what I do and why I do it.

My brand:

"I design treasured and inspiring statement jewelry for stylish women and men who prefer artisan made jewelry over mass manufactured pieces. Inspired by meaningful moments and wonders of our natural world, my work celebrates nature and embraces the personality of my clients. My works are made of lasting and beautiful materials, precious metals mixed with gemstones to create a raw and refined harmony. Nature influences who I am, how I see the world and how I run my business, including the use of recycled metals and responsible suppliers. I believe that jewelry is much more than simple adornment, it is essential for our connection to the natural beauty around us which is part of our humanity."

I am now more optimistic, have more confidence in myself and trust that my business will continue to thrive and flourish, allowing me to make a good living and still have time for myself and my family. I have also established a goal to donate 5% of my net profit to environmental organizations in an effort to do my part to improve the world we live in. For information about these endeavors you can read my Charitable Giving page in my Etsy store.

If you are a jewelry maker or entrepreneur who needs clarity about your branding or you feel overwhelmed, have hit a wall or have lost confidence in yourself reach out for help!

Check out the sources I've provided links for in this blog, other online and local sources, and don't give up!

By the way, I chose to write this now because I celebrate my 70th Birthday today! It's never too late to "awaken". Peace, love and buy jewelry!

Anita

Links: After Effects of Awakening

Ethical Making and Sourcing - Why is it Important?

2019-05-22T08:30:00.000-05:00

Ethical Making

Ethical making is more than just a ‘feel good’ thing to do. Growing numbers of companies and public bodies are addressing the negative impacts of global industries and consumers are increasingly interested in the ethical standing of products.

An ethical jewelry business involves responsible sourcing of materials, responsible studio practices and transparent branding that communicates our commitment to ethical making.

If the story behind a piece of jewelry includes the unfair treatment of communities and environmental destruction, the symbolic value of the piece can be tarnished.

Sourcing materials responsibly will help limit the harmful effects of mining industries, including:

Environmental degradation through water pollution, harm to aquatic life, and damage to landscapes and ecosystems;
Human rights violations on mining sites and in mining communities;
Use of child and forced labour;
Health and safety risks such as poisoning from unsafe handling of toxins, over-exhaustion from strenuous work, and injury caused by accidents and;
Prevalence of violence in mining communities related to the trade of conflict minerals.

Metal Sourcing

As a key actor in the supply chain, we choose to source traceable and responsibly mined precious metals. There are three accepted options for responsibly sourced precious metals, these are Fairtrade metals, Fairmined metals, or 100% recycled metals.

Gold, silver and platinum, precious metals commonly used in the jewellery and electronic industries, are mined around the world. After they are extracted from rough ore and processed, they are sold through trading bodies as metal bullion. Metal refiners turn metal bullion into products such as sheet or wire, and then sell these materials to industry bodies.

Metal mining occurs in both large and small-scale mines, each with different conditions, methods and access routes to the international market. There is artisanal small-scale mining (ASM) and large-scale mining (LSM) or ‘industrial/corporate’ mining.

Fairtrade and Fairmined are the two major accreditation schemes that bring precious metals from artisanal small-scale mines to market. They support artisanal small-scale miners by certifying that they employ responsible mining practices in compliance with their respective standards, and by conducting regular audits to ensure those standards are maintained.

Fairtrade and Fairmined metals can be traced to their source and makers and consumers can trust that they have been mined by people who have been treated and paid fairly.

Because of the nature of the metal trade, most precious metals have already been recycled to some degree. However, you can choose to source 100% post-consumer recycled metals which are made of second generation recycled content and may also be tracked to show this. Some suppliers will have a certification for their recycled metal content such as a Recycled Content Certification from Scientific Certification Systems.

We only work with suppliers offering Recycled Metals who have Certifications in place.

Gemstone Sourcing

Responsibly sourcing diamonds and gemstones presents different challenges to responsible metal sourcing, but it is achievable.

Stone supply chains are more complicated than metals as there are fewer established certification systems in place. There are some accreditation schemes for diamonds, but currently none for gemstones.

Stones are mined all over the world from countries with different political climates, workers’ rights and trade laws. The nature of the stone trade and the fact that many stones are extremely old, make them difficult to trace back to the mine of origin.

It is not uncommon for stones to be mined in one country, and cut and polished in another, which may have different working standards, making it even more difficult to trace the stone from mine to market.

There is no formal third-party assurance to back up claims made by gemstone suppliers, which means that purchasing responsibly sourced gemstones requires developing an open dialogue with gemstone suppliers.

There are three main options for responsibly sourced stones. These are:

stones that have been tracked and ideally certified with a known mine origin and verified standards;
recycled/reclaimed/vintage stones and;
lab created stones.

DIAMONDS

Our main supplier sources the majority of its diamonds directly from sources that manufacture rough diamonds from Canada, South Africa, Russia, Botswana and Namibia.

No Conflict Diamonds

They are committed to selling diamonds ethically and with integrity, giving us confidence in the diamonds we purchase. We believe it is completely unacceptable to tolerate conflict diamonds and/or human suffering in any way and we fully support the Kimberley Process. Our supplier offers this commitment to us. In turn, it can act as ourr commitment to our customers. All rough and polished diamonds sold by our suppliercomply with the Kimberley Process. The Kimberley Process ensures that rough diamonds are:
Exported and imported with a government validated Kimberly Process certificate stating the diamonds are conflict-free.
Transported between signatory countries in a sealed and tamper-proof container.
Sold with a statement from the seller (known as a warranty) on all invoices guaranteeing that the diamonds being sold are conflict-free.

Synthetic Screening Policy

When we buy diamonds from our supplier, we can buy with confidence. Our supplier does not tolerate undisclosed synthetic diamonds in its inventory. In July 2014, they acquired the De Beers Automatic Melee Screening Device (AMS), which screens all diamonds 1.4mm+ for synthetics in accordance with De Beers’ protocols. They require all their loose diamond and diamond set jewelry suppliers to warrant that they are not supplying them with synthetics. For additional security, they further stipulate that their vendors screen all diamonds from .20+ carats for synthetics.

Diamond Manufacturers and Importers Association of America

Our supplier is a proud member of the DMIA.

Established in 1931, the mission of DMIA is to promote the highest standards of ethics, integrity and professionalism in the American marketplace. The DMIA, remains at the forefront in addressing domestic and world diamond industry issues, acts as a representative for the American diamond industry together with other industry organizations, governmental bodies, and the diamond consuming public.

The DMIA is dedicated to advancing and ensuring consumer confidence in diamonds and diamond jewelry.

Canadian Diamond Code of Conduct

The Code establishes a minimum standard based on records and a chain of warranties required to validate a Canadian diamond claim. Retailers who abide by the Code demonstrate to consumers their commitment to ensure authenticity of Canadian diamond claims. The Code allows Canadian diamonds to be traced from the Canadian mine to the diamond jewellery retailer, providing consumers a method to authenticate Canadian diamonds sold by a Code member.

GEMSTONES

Our supplier continues to adhere to strict protocols in regards to the sourcing of gemstones. As a natural resource, gemstones can be found almost anywhere and are exchanged too frequently to keep an absolute accurate account of their exact origin.

However, they engage in several practices to ensure the integrity of the stones they purchase. For example: Experts from both our supplier's US and Bangkok offices frequently visit their suppliers/cutters in order to make certain socially responsible practices are being followed in those locations.

All of their suppliers have provided written verification stating their compliance with the US Patriot Act.

Studio Practices

Ethical making goes beyond how raw materials are sourced. When measuring the ethics of our practice, it is also important to consider our entire making process and how our work space functions. We make every effort to address the following issues.

Chemical alternatives
Greener options for print and packaging
Greener consumption and resource use
Using resources maximizing metal reclamation

If you are passionate about improving the lives of workers who have been exploited and the well being of the environment, consider ethically made jewelry.

excerpts for this blog were taken from: http://www.ethicalmaking.org/consumers/

Pantone Color of the Year!

2019-05-14T10:00:00.000-05:00

Although it may seem more pink in nature, Pantone describes Living Coral as “an animated, life-affirming shade of orange, with golden undertones.

Chatam Created Champagne Sapphire

This engaging hue captures the playfulness, optimism and joyful pursuits embodied in nature.

Pink Coral

Great for Spring and Summer Wear! Let me make you a custom jewelry piece with a special Living Coral Stone!

Call me at 251-929-3620!

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Do you know what you are buying?

2019-05-09T13:00:00.000-05:00

Customers have asked me so many times about metal differences in jewelry. You want to know if what you are buying is worth the price, will last a lifetime or have to be discarded in a few years, and if it is REAL, meaning quality metal and stones.So here we go. This is breakdown of metals used in jewelry and what you can expect.

Precious Metal Categories

Platinum - long revered for its quality and used frequently in high end wedding jewelry. It is a dense, malleable, ductile, highly unreactive, precious, gray-white transition metal. Its name is derived from the Spanish term platina, which is literally translated into "little silver".[3][4]Platinum is one of the least reactive metals. It has remarkable resistance to corrosion, even at high temperatures, and is therefore considered a noble metal. Consequently, platinum is often found chemically uncombined as native platinum. Because it occurs naturally in the alluvial sands of various rivers, it was first used by pre-Columbian South American natives to produce artifacts. Its resistance to wear and tarnish is well suited to use in fine jewelry.

24K Gold - Not generally used for jewelry as it is too soft.24k gold is also called pure gold or 100 per cent gold. This means that all 24 parts in the gold are all pure gold without traces of any other metals. It is known to be 99.9 per cent pure and takes on a distinct bright yellow color. There is no higher form of gold than 24K and you must be aware of this before you go to a dealer who might tell you that they’re selling you 25K or 26K gold. Since this is the purest form of gold, it is naturally more expensive than 22K or 18K gold. However, this type of gold is lesser in density as compared to gold of a lower karatage which makes it soft and pliable. Hence, it is not suited for regular forms of jewelry.

22K Gold - Used in granulation techniques (see Etruscan Jewelry) and when a bright gold is wanted.22K gold jewelry implies that 22 parts of the jewelry amounts to gold and the balance 2 parts are some other metals. This kind of gold is commonly used in jewelry making. In 22K gold, of the 100 per cent, only 91.67 per cent is pure gold. The other 8.33 per cent comprises metals like silver, zinc, nickel and other alloys. It is this addition of metals that make the texture of gold harder thereby making the jewelry durable. However, you must know that although this can be used to make plain gold jewelry, 22K gold isn’t preferable for diamonds and heavily studded jewelry. To obtain price per ounce, multiply the 24K gold spot price by 91.67%.

18K Gold - Typically the European Standard for Gold Jewelry.18K gold is 75 per cent gold mixed with 25 per cent of other metals like copper or silver etc. Usually studded jewelry and other diamond jewelry is made in 18K gold. This kind of gold is less expensive compared to 24K and 22K. This one has a slightly dull gold colour. Recognizing 18K jewelry is rather simple – you will see the item stamped with 18K, 18Kt, 18k or a variation similar to these. At times, 18K gold is marked by 750, 0.75 or a stamp similar to these in order to symbolize that the jewelry contains 75 per cent gold. To obtain price per ounce, multiple the 24K gold spot price by 75%.

14K Gold - The American standard for most engagement and wedding rings.14K gold contains 58.5% gold and is the perfect compromise for a gold metal: It is still quite durable and will not easily tarnish. It also has a nice yellow gold color and in fact you won’t be able to distinguish 14K and 18K yellow gold just by looking at it. 14K gold is a premium gold and is still comparably cheap. Especially compared to 18K gold. The difference in durability between 14K and 18K gold is noticeable. It will usually take much longer for an 14K gold ring to show visible marks of wear and tear compared to an 18K gold ring. It is the best choice for anyone looking for the best balance in durability, price and look. To obtain the price per ounce, multiply the 24K gold spot price by 58.5%

10K Gold - Economical and strong for jewelry, however less desirable.The first striking thing about 10K gold is the fact that it contains more alloy than gold. It contains 41.7% gold and 58.3% alloy. One advantage of 10K gold compared to 14K gold is that it is cheaper. 10K gold may actually be considered discount gold.10K gold looks slightly more pale than 14K gold but usually you won’t be able to see the difference with your bare eyes.10K gold will also tarnish more quickly than 14K or 18K gold but with regular care this should not be too much of an issue. To obtain the price per ounce, multiply the 24K gold spot price by 41.7%.

White Gold - An alternative choice in color - available in same Karating as Yellow Gold.
The main difference between yellow gold and white gold is that white gold is an alloy of gold and a white metal such as palladium, manganese, or nickel. Like yellow gold, white gold’s purity is defined in karats. White gold rings often contain nickel, which provides the strength needed for a durable setting that lasts. The nickel alloy may be problematic to those with skin allergies. If you are allergic, it is best to ask about the alloy, and request white gold made with something other than nickel.

Rose Gold - Becoming more popular, particularly for people who want a romantic look.
Rose gold is a gold and copper alloy that is sometimes referred to as red gold or pink gold. As it was popular in Russia at the turn of the nineteenth century, was once commonly referred to as Russian Gold, although the term is rarely heard these days. Like yellow gold and white gold, rose gold is a very popular choice for rings. Though it is seen less often, it is gaining popularity, particularly among people who want their wedding and engagement rings to have a unique, romantic look. Rose gold works well in all types of settings but is particularly appealing in vintage-inspired engagement rings and wedding rings. It can be combined with white or yellow gold to create a unique multi-colored setting that appeals to the wearer’s artistic side. Durability is another consideration to keep in mind when comparing rose gold vs. yellow gold vs. white gold. Incredibly, this softly romantic colored gold is the strongest of the three, as copper is very sturdy and the resulting alloy is tougher than yellow or white gold. On the downside, copper can cause allergic reactions in some individuals, and is not considered to be a hypo-allergenic metal. If shopping for someone with very sensitive skin, yellow gold may be your best choice.

Fine Silver - Very soft and malleable - not used for rings but okay for pendants/earrings

Fine silver, sometimes stamped .999, is at least 99.9% pure silver, which means it is softer and more malleable than sterling. It also tends to take longer to tarnish.

Sterling Silver - Extensively used for jewelry, Tarnishes.

Sterling silver, sometimes stamped .925, is an alloy of at least 92.5% silver, and (usually) copper. It is a soft, easy to work with metal, which can be antiqued to a dark black or polished to a bright shine.

Argentium Silver - Harder, Less tarnish, great for all jewelry

Argentium® sterling silver is a tarnish-resistant variety of sterling that consists of 1.2% germanium, 6.3% copper and 92.5% silver. For the end user, Argentium's main attraction is its tarnish-resistance which requires much less maintenance than traditional sterling silvers. For metal workers, Argentium offers additional benefits. It does not develop firescale, which both saves artisans time and makes it environmentally friendlier than traditional sterling. Argentium can be made nearly twice as hard as standard annealed sterling silver by a simple heat treatment, and it is laser weldable. These properties allow for expanded design possibilities.

Filled Metal Categories

Silver Fill - Used in a lot of costume jewelry.

Silver fill is made by using heat and pressure to apply a layer of .925 sterling or .999 finer silver to a base of less costly metal. This produces a surface of sterling silver or fine silver that is hundreds of times thicker than a silver plating. There are no industry standards yet for silver fill.

Vermeil - Gold Colored- Used in costume jewelry.

Vermeil, pronounced "vehr-MAY," is a plating of karat gold over sterling silver.

Gold Fill - Used in costume jewelry
Gold fill (also called gold overlay) is made by using heat and pressure to apply a layer of karat gold to a base of less costly metal. This produces a surface with karat gold. The minimum layer of karat gold must equal at least 1/20 of the total weight of the item.
Gold-filled tubing and wire are usually seamless, so only gold touches the body. Gold-filled sheets of base metal, used to make other findings, can be either single clad (gold on visible side only) or double clad (gold on both sides and sometimes the edge). Seamless and double clad gold-filled items are less likely to discolor, since the base metal is sealed inside the gold. However, the layer of gold on a single clad 1/20 gold-filled item is as thick (and the same total weight) as the two layers of gold on a double clad 1/20 gold-filled item. Use care when buffing gold-filled items, to avoid removing the gold layer.

The surface layer of karat gold on gold-filled items is usually 10kt, 12kt or 14kt . To know the thickness of the layer, look for a fraction, such as 1/10 or 1/20. It will be 1/20 unless otherwise stamped. Examples:

1/10 10kt GF: 1/10 of the total weight must be 10kt gold.
1/20 12kt GF: 1/20 of the total weight must be 12kt gold

Platings - a fine layer of precious metal over base metal - used for inexpensive costume jewelry
A plating is a thin deposit of metal that is electro-chemically or otherwise applied to the surface of a different metal base. Other materials, like plastic, can also be plated. Many plated items are plated with copper first, then the final color. The following are some platings available to you:

White Plating White plate is the "silver" color most often see on costume jewelry and base-metal findings. White-plated components are generally grayer, but also more durable, than silver-plated components. They generally do not tarnish. The plating is typically an imitation rhodium made of copper, tin, zinc, and/or nickel.

Silver Plating Silver plate is a thin surface layer of actual silver. It nicely matches the color of sterling silver; it doesn't quite match our white findings. Like sterling silver, silver plate can tarnish. For this reason, it's frequently lacquered to prevent tarnish (until the lacquer wears off).

Antique Silver Plating Antiqued silver plate is a thin surface layer of silver that has been darkened to provide a "distressed" (oxidized) appearance.

Antique Pewter Plating Antiqued pewter plate is a pewter-colored plating that has been darkened to provide a "distressed" (oxidized) appearance. Some antiqued pewter beads and findings are matte, while others are shiny.

Yellow Plating Yellow plate is a gold-colored plating that is slightly brassier than gold plate, and is sometimes longer lasting. Yellow finishes go best with raw brass.

Gold Plating Gold plate is a very thin deposit of actual gold (about 1/1,000 - 1/1,000,000 of an inch). The color matches 14kt gold. Heavy gold electroplate might be 2 or 3/1000s of an inch thick (this can also be written as 2 or 3 mils). Many gold-plated items have a white nickel plate under the final gold plate. Warning: hand lotion will accelerate tarnish on gold plated components, and can result in a black color within days of handling.

Antique Gold Plating Antiqued gold plate is a very thin surface layer of actual gold (about 1/1,000 - 1/1,000,000 of an inch) that has been darkened to provide a "distressed" (oxidized) appearance. Warning: hand lotion will accelerate tarnish on gold plated components, and can result in a black color within days of handling.

Antique Brass Plating Antiqued brass components typically have a brass or zinc base with a brass plating. The crevices of antiqued brass beads, charms and findings are darkened to give them a "distressed" (oxidized) appearance.

Copper Plating Copper plate is a bright, shiny copper plating. Because the metal underneath the plating is usually a harder metal than copper, copper-plated components tend to be more durable than solid copper parts.

Antique Copper Plating Antiqued copper plate is a copper plating that has been darkened to provide a "distressed" (oxidized) appearance.

Gunmetal Plating Gunmetal plating varies in color from gun blue to matte dark gray to shiny black metal. It often consists of black nickel plated over brass, but we also carry gunmetal components that meet the EU Nickel Directive. It's also possible to find gunmetal coated Czech glass beads.

What's the Difference between Gold Plate and Gold Fill?

Gold fill is 50 to 100,000 times thicker than regular gold plating, and about 17 to 25,000 times thicker than heavy gold electroplate. Similarly, silver fill is 100's of times thicker than a silver plating.

What are Base Metals?

Base metal is a catch-all term in the jewelry industry for metals used in costume jewelry. In metal working, base metal is any metal that is not one of the noble or precious metals. In costume jewelry, base metals are often plated with a very thin layer of gold, silver, nickel, rhodium or other metal on the surface of the bead, finding, chain or other component.

Common base metals include:

Brass is an alloy of copper, zinc and sometimes other metals. It is typically 70% copper and 30% zinc. Our red brass wire is 90% copper, and 10% zinc, which gives it a slightly warmer color. Raw (unplated) brass components are usually the same color as yellow (plated) findings, although they will vary in color and may also work with gold plate. Their surfaces may be imperfect and their finish may change with age.

Anti-tarnish brass (a proprietary alloy) looks very close to the color of 14kt gold. Another name for it is tarnish-resistant brass.

Copper is an element that's bright reddish-orange in color. Over time, it will darken and gain a patina, sometimes with a greenish hue. Copper can also discolor skin, most commonly when it is worn snugly like a finger ring or tight-fitting bracelet. Copper is a soft metal, which makes it great for wire wrapping. Because of copper's softness, solid copper components are less durable than copper-plated beads and findings.

Nickel silver is sometimes also called German silver. It is a base-metal alloy of nickel, copper and zinc. While nickel is silver in color, it does not contain any sterling silver. Nickel silver wire is 65% copper, 18% nickel, and 17% zinc. The relatively inexpensive cost of nickel silver compared with sterling makes it an attractive option for jewelry components. Just be aware that some people are allergic to nickel.

Niobium is highly resistant to corrosion and other reactions, and is used in medical implants. Niobium jewelry findings come in several anodized colors. Anodizing is a way to color metal by dipping it into an electrically charged "bath" that creates bright colors without plating or painting the surface. The colors don't flake or chip like plated or painted surfaces can. The main drawback of anodized niobium is that it doesn't match basic silver and gold colors. On the upside, niobium is an inert element, with no nickel, lead, or other additives, most people with metal allergies can safely wear niobium.

Pewter includes any of the numerous silver-gray alloys of tin with various amounts of antimony and copper. TierraCast products are made with a lead-free pewter called Britannia pewter, which consists of tin, antimony, and copper. Most TierraCast Britannia pewter beads and jewelry findings have a surface finish ( plating) of a different color over the pewter base. Other base-metal items marked "antiqued pewter" may be brass or zinc with an antiqued pewter plating. In nearly all cases, these zinc or brass alloys meet lead-free criteria.

Steel is a blanket term for a wide variety of iron-based alloys that are very tough and hard.

Cold-rolled steel is shaped when the metal is below its recrystallization temperature (usually room temperature). The metal is literally pressed between rollers in a mill to flatten and thin the steel. This cold processing method work hardens the metal and strengthens it up to 20% more than hot processing. It also creates a very smooth surface with a uniform finish. It allows for the creation of small products with great strength.

AFNOR XC45 steel is a specific type of cold-rolled steel, and is a combination of XC45 and XC75 (AFNOR) steel — also known as 1045 steel and AISI 1078 steel, respectively. The alloy is a carbon steel with no nickel added, meaning it meets the strict standard of the EU Nickel Directive. Jewelry findings made of AFNOR XC45 steel include superior-quality French barrette backs and shoe clips.

Stainless steel (a.k.a. corrosion-resistant steel) is a generic name for any steel alloy with a minimum of 11.5 wt% chromium. Common types or grades include 440, 304L, 316L and 904A. In all types of stainless steel, the chromium creates a very thin chromium-oxide layer on the surface of the metal which prevents it from rusting.

The advantage of stainless steels over plated steels is that, if scratched or damaged, the stainless steel 'self-repairs' as a new chromium-oxide layer is formed. In plated steels, scratches in the plating can lead to corrosion of the steel underneath. In general, the higher percentage of chromium, the stronger the corrosion resistance of the steel. Other metals are added to the alloy to give the steel other properties, such as strength and malleability. Nickel is added to strengthen the protective oxide layer.

Stainless steel findings are slightly more gray than white findings, but the difference is barely noticeable, especially on finished jewelry. Stainless steels do not match sterling or silver plate well.

304 stainless steel is the most popular grade of stainless steel. It is 18-20% chromium, 8-10.5% nickel, 0.08% carbon, plus iron and the trace elements listed above. It is commonly used in the food industry (sinks, coffee urns, dairy storage and hauling, beer/brewing, citrus and fruit juice handling, etc). The same corrosion and stain resistance that make it great for food handling, also make it popular for jewelry.

304L stainless steel is almost the same as 304, but has a lower carbon content (0.03%), and may contain a slightly higher amount of nickel (8-12%). This alloy has increased weldability and resistance to corrosion (great for men's jewelry).

430 stainless steel contains less than 0.75% nickel, and some forms of 430 stainless steel meet the EU nickel directive (less than .05% nickel ion migration). 430 stainless steel has good corrosion resistance compared to non-stainless steel, but not as good as the 304 and 316 alloys. This makes it less popular for jewelry than you would expect from its low nickel content.

Surgical stainless steel is a specific type of stainless steel which, while wearable by the majority of the population, does contain a small amount of nickel (to which some people are allergic), usually 8% in jewelry.

316 and 316L surgical stainless steel contain 2-3% molybdenum for even greater resistance to harsh corrosives (both industrial, and in the body). 316L is a low carbon version of 316, with extra corrosion resistance, and is frequently used for stainless steel watches and marine applications. Like most other stainless steel, it contains 8-10.5% nickel, making it unsuitable for people with nickel allergies.

Titanium is a very strong metal that's resistant to corrosion. Because of this, it's frequently used in medical implants, and it's an excellent choice for people with nickel allergies. Our titanium ear wires and earring posts are Grade 1 ASTM F67, which is unalloyed commercially pure titanium, and meets the EU Nickel Directive.

"White metal" and "pot metal" are terms for tin-based alloys used in low temperature casting of base-metal jewelry components. White metal is the "silver" color that you most often see on costume jewelry and base-metal findings. White metal castings are usually three-dimensional rather than flat and are often plated. The exact composition of white metal varies, because each casting foundry and shop uses its own proprietary formula.

Print this sheet and keep it handy when shopping for jewelry. Don't forget to call Anita ROKS by Analece, 251-929-3620, for all your Jewelry needs or shop online in my store! Hope this was helpful and answered many of your questions about metals! Peace, Anita

Cinco de Mayo - May 5, 2019

2019-05-03T14:04:00.000-05:00

Cinco de Mayo is annually observed on May 5. It celebrates the defeat of the French army during the Battle of Puebla (Batalla de Puebla) in Mexico on May 5, 1862. It is not to be confused with Mexico's Independence Day.

What Do People Do?

Cinco de Mayo is seen as a day to celebrate the culture, achievements and experiences of people with a Mexican background, who live in the United States. There is a large commercial element to the day, with businesses promoting Mexican services and goods, particularly food, drinks and music. Other aspects of the day center around traditional symbols of Mexican life, such as the Virgin de Guadalupe, and Mexican-Americans who have achieved fame, fortune and influence in the United States.

One of the largest Cinco de Mayo celebrations are in cities such as Los Angeles, San Jose, San Francisco, San Antonio, Sacramento, Phoenix, Albuquerque, Denver and El Paso in the USA's south-western regions. In these cities, a large proportion of the population has Mexican origins. Many people hang up banners and school districts organize lessons and special events to educate their pupils about the culture of Americans of Mexican descent. In some areas, particularly in Pubelo de Los Angeles, celebrations of regional Mexican music and dancing are held.

Recommended Things to Do on Cinco de Mayo

Eat some REAL Mexican Cheese

Consume Tortillas All Day Long (Doesn't matter if Flour or Corn)

Taste the Difference between Tequila and Mezcal (You may want to wait until evening for this!)

Drink a Cocktail that is popular in Mexico (Not a Margarita) such as Paloma, Mezcalita or a Chavela (if you are recovering from a hangover)

Put on a Selena album, some festive clothing and of course lots of my jewelry and dance, dance dance!

Jarabe Tapatío, (Mexican Hat Dance), La Conquista, Matlachines or even the Chicken Dance is fine!

Whatever you do to celebrate, Have Fun!

and thank a Mexican for the opportunity to PARTY!

Mother's Day - The perfect holiday for personalized gifts!

2019-04-18T09:00:00.000-05:00

Mothers Day is just around the corner and I'm sure you are wondering what you should get her this year! Flowers are trite, candy is fattening and quite frankly, you are frustrated trying to think of a gift that has meaning, is affordable for you, and is different!

This quote, published in Southern Living Magazine is a good inspiration!

I think we will all agree that mothers are heroes! They tirelessly work to make our lives better, sometimes to their own detriment. Why not give her a symbolic nod to her achievements? A badge she can wear every day to remind her that you recognize her efforts and love?

Personalization is key!

Some of the most popular and trending items in the jewelry category are birthstone pieces and necklaces containing multiple names.

Stacking bangle bracelets allow for layering and endless individualized combinations. They can be set with multiple stones representing the birthstones of children, or feature charms with children's initials, and even their fingerprints. For inspirational bangles, they can be stamped with statements like "My Hero", "Amazing Mom", "Courageous", "Faithful", "Star" or your favorite phrase!

And the best part of it all? You can do this within your budget! Item's range from $25 and up, and will be customized to your specifications! You can choose from Sterling Silver, Gold Filled or Gold, depending on your budget.

Celebrate your Mom's individuality and strength! Her friends will all be envious! And, she will feel very special!

Contact Me today if you would like more information about personalizing a jewelry gift for your Mom. But hurry! It takes a little time to make these special gifts!

251-929-3620

or see me at M&F Casuals, 380 Fairhope Avenue, Fairhope, Alabama 36532 on April 23, 2019 from 9:00 am - 4:00 pm during my annual spring/summer trunk show!

For all those Mothers out there, Have a Happy Mother's Day!

Easter and Passover Season

2019-04-12T08:00:00.000-05:00

(source: TeapartyTribune.com)

A Time for Renewal and Thanks!

Our nation has been in turmoil for several years and the political climate is at its worst in decades!

During this season of resurrection and celebration of freedom from bondage, let us commit to renew our faith and celebrate our diversity! We are all children of a higher being, and it's time that we remember to treat one another as we would want to be treated by others.

It is our wish that you will have a Peaceful, Happy and Loving Holiday Season, and that you will remember to help those that are not as fortunate as we are! Peace and Love is our Motto!

Thank you for being our customer!

Spring Has Sprung! Have you started your spring cleaning?

2019-03-22T17:58:00.001-05:00

Jewelry, like clothing, houses and yards should be cleaned regularly. We tend to neglect cleaning our jewelry on a regular basis, and sometimes we don’t clean it at all!

Why not start a routine jewelry cleaning schedule, beginning in the Spring?

Think of your jewelry like clothing: No two pieces are alike, and they all come with a unique set of cleaning guidelines. That means some of your jewelry can be cleaned at home, while others might require the attention of a professional.

Gold and sterling silver can be cleaned at home, but more delicate metals, like platinum, can sustain small scratches more easily than its other metal counterparts. While many enjoy the unique matte look, if you prefer to maintain your piece’s lustrous appearance, a professional re-polish is best.

In general, jewelry made of precious metals set with diamonds, sapphires and rubies is safe to clean yourself with most commercial jewelry cleaners, and I personally prefer the eco-friendly, natural, biodegradable types. If you cannot find this type of cleaner, contact me and I can provide it to you. You can also clean this type of jewelry with a mild soap and warm water.

How to clean your jewelry at home:

First, gather your jewelry and separate it based on costume base metal jewelry (most inexpensive), solid precious metal jewelry (silver, gold with no stones), and fine jewelry, solid precious metal jewelry with gemstones ( diamonds, colored gemstones)., and jewelry with pearls or opals.

Before you start cleaning, inspect each piece for broken parts, loose stones, rough metal or missing stones. Put these items aside.

1)
Starting cleaning with your costume jewelry. Take any antique costume jewelry to a professional and don't attempt to clean it at home. It is far too delicate!. Add Dawn blue dish washing detergent to a bowl of warm water large enough to allow complete immersion of your jewelry. Add your jewelry and allow it to soak for approximately five minutes. Remove each jewelry item separately and inspect for cleanliness. If there is caked on dirt or make-up present, brush the area with a soft toothbrush dipped in the Dawn/water solution. Rinse with warm water and dry with a soft cloth. Leave on a fresh dry cloth to continue drying. Many costume pieces have glued in stones so you should never use vinegar, ammonia, acetone or chemical cleaners for this type of jewelry, or scrub vigorously as you may loosen the stones. If you are cleaning discolored brass jewelry, you may use a soft jewelry cleaning cloth and test an area on the back of the piece to see if you can remove the discoloration without damage. Proceed with caution or take the piece to a professional for help.

2)
For Silver and Gold jewelry with no stones, there are several safe methods used for cleaning. If the metal has a darkened background ( called a patina) avoid using a ultrasonic cleaner or chemical cleaners as they may affect the oxidized finish. You may clean high polished Silver and Gold without patina with a ultrasonic cleaner or a chemical or natural cleaner designed for cleaning jewelry. As an alternative you can use a paste of baking soda and water applied with a very soft toothbrush. Rinse well with warm water and dry with a soft towel, then leave the item on a fresh towel to finish drying.

3)
Silver and Gold Fine Jewelry with stones. I do not put jewelry with precious stones in an ultrasonic cleaner even though many jewelers use these cleaners. The vibration can loosen the stones and some stones are sensitive to heat! For everyday cleaning, you can use baking soda and water with a soft toothbrush, brushing gently. Do not use standard chemical based jewelry cleaner unless it was purchased from a jeweler and recommended for use with stones. The best option is to take your pieces to a jeweler, like me, for a professional cleaning and a check for loose prongs, loose stones etc. White gold is usually plated with rhodium to whiten the color and protect the metal. Over time this plating may wear and the metal will start to look slightly yellow. To freshen the white gold, take the piece to a professional jewelry for re-plating and your jewelry will look fresh and new!

4)
Jewelry with pearls, opals, turquoise, coral and platinum metal should be cleaned professionally by a jeweler to avoid damage. These stones are very soft and can be damaged easily. Platinum is easily scratched. Antique jewelry can be tricky to clean and if it features a closed back it should not be moistened. Pearls can be cleaned by soaking in a warm bath of mild soap and water, and placed on a soft cloth to dry. Then wipe carefully with a lint free cloth. Pearls, opals, coral and turquoise should never be placed in an ultrasonic cleaner!

Damaged items should be repaired before worn again!

I will be happy to repair your broken or damaged jewelry, whether it is costume or fine jewelry. Costume jewelry can sometimes be more costly to repair than its monetary value but if it is a favorite piece it may be worth it. Often it is a simple repair, such as replacing a jump ring or clasp or re-gluing a stone.

Knotted pearl strands should be restrung every three years or when string is dirty or pearls are slipping over knits.

Damaged prongs are an open invitation to lost stones. You should have your fine jewelry inspected every six months for prong damage and wear and tear. Dirt and grease on your jewelry can dull the stones, taking away their beauty, and cause wear and tear on the prongs. It can also cause irritation to your skin.

Don’t just throw your damaged jewelry in a drawer, bring it to me for a fresh new start! That’s what Spring Cleaning is all about, isn’t it?

Dirt and Damage Prevention

Daily wear and tear dulls your jewelry, and when you subject it to soap residue and perfume or skin lotions it adds to the potential damage.

Remove your jewelry before bathing, swimming or active sports. Salt, chlorine, dirt and skin oils are not good for your jewelry. Apply perfume or lotion before adding your jewelry to minimize contact with chemicals which can damage soft stones and pearls and even metals. DO NOT get leather jewelry wet!

Avoid storing your jewelry in direct sunlight or heat. You can still display most of your jewelry in those small trinket receptacles or on jewelry displays, but be aware that it will necessitate frequent cleaning to keep your jewelry fresh and dirt free. Always clean the receptacle to eliminate build up of dust.

Certain colored gems can be more sensitive to sunlight, like emeralds and tanzanite, for example. Other color-treated gems can also be more sensitive to prolonged direct sunlight, so if you are not sure if the gem is color-treated, do not leave it in the direct sun.

For easy storage and less cleaning, consider keeping your jewelry in a box with individually lined compartments to keep your chains from tangling and your jewels from rubbing against or scratching each other. I recommend acid free boxes to prevent oxidation. As an alternative, you can put silver pieces in sealed acid free plastic bags, and include a small piece of sidewalk chalk or a charcoal strip (available through jeweler supply stores).

Jewelry boxes, jewelry bags or open trays should have separated areas for rings, earrings and soft bracelets. Hanging your necklaces will keep them from getting tangled. For cuff bracelets, stand them in a plastic tray with compartments enclosed with an acid free plastic bag.

I hope these tips are helpful!

My final bit of advice: Get in the habit of cleaning your jewelry at least every six months, and use 1st day of spring and 1st day of fall as dates for a reminder. Put it on your calendar and stick to the schedule. If you jewelry needs attention in between those times, don't put it off! You could lose a valuable stone or damage a piece more!

Happy Spring Cleaning Everybody!

Anita

Merry Christmas! Happy Chanukah, Happy Kwaanza & More

2017-12-07T12:58:00.001-06:00

Southern Snow! About the best we can do here!

A big thank you for all your support throughout the year. Look for new announcements and products plus redesigned website in 2018.

And, don't forget about jewelry repair services offered on costume to fine jewelry! Quick turn around on restringing, Repair, sizing, resetting and redesign services!

We are your full service jeweler! Shop at Etsy.com/shop/anitaroks, use coupon code FAVORITE for extra discount! Still shipping for Christmas delivery!

AHH! Springtime will be here soon!

2017-01-28T11:47:00.000-06:00

Our spring fashion colors are related to the great outdoors!

According to Leatrice Eiserman, Executive Director of the Pantone Color Institute, "Reminiscent of the hues that surround us in nature, our Spring 2017 Fashion Color Report evokes a spectrum of emotion and feeling. From the warmth of sunny days with PANTONE 13-0755 Primrose Yellow to the invigorating feeling of breathing fresh mountain air with PANTONE 18-0107 Kale and desire to escape to pristine waters with PANTONE 14-4620 Island Paradise, designers applied color in playful, yet thoughtful and precise combinations to fully capture the promises, hope and transformation that we yearn for each Spring."

As jewelry designers, it is important that we pay attention to these top fashion colors, in order to coordinate our fashion jewelry to complement this theme.

If you are shopping for jewelry, or making jewelry yourself, select bright colorful stones that compliment your clothing and accent your outfits. Add natural features to your jewelry, such as feathers, leaves, seed pods, sticks, flowers, trees, birds that are fabricated in metal, Depict the sea in your design themes, with waves, beach elements, birds, beach glass and pottery shards. Add some color with resin, enameling or alcohol inks.

We are moving away from the petite jewelry, back to statement jewelry, so do not be afraid of larger pieces, layered necklaces, big earrings and bracelets. Single long theme based earrings are in style, as well as asymmetric earrings.

Leather is still a major component in men's jewelry and more casual women's jewelry. Stamped designs in leather or metal overlays are popular, with lettering content and etching.

Enjoy shopping for new spring jewelry, or making it yourself! I'll be rolling out new spring designs in the next few weeks. Watch for them on Etsy and in M&F Casuals.

Wishing you a mixture of Vitality, Relaxation, and Enjoyment of the Great Outdoors!

Happy Spring!

Happy Holidays

2016-12-25T12:09:00.000-06:00

Merry Christmas, Happy Chanukah, Happy Kwanza, Peace, Love, and Joy!

Thank you for your support! Many times we are working so hard to gain new customers and business that we forget to thank the ones whom have supported us throughout the years. Without you, my business would not be here. You have brought me joy, friendship and love!

May you have a happy and prosperous New Year, and most of all, PEACE!

Anita Park-Rosenbaum

2016-05-12T15:05:00.001-05:00

The following is an article from Andy Andrews which I believe can be helpful to everyone! I just had to share it! It applies to personal and your business relationships.

May 12th, 2016

The Big Misunderstanding About Forgiveness (And What It’s REALLY Costing Us)

As adults in our society today, why do so many of us carry regret?

We’ve done so many things we wish we hadn’t done.

We’ve had so many intentions we didn’t fulfill, promises we didn’t keep, goals we never reached.

Many of us are usually more disappointed in ourselves than we’ve ever been with anyone else—even those who may have wronged us.

But do any of us ever stop and actually think…

Why?

What I mean is…

What’s the point of holding onto feelings like these?

Do they serve a purpose? Do they somehow help us?

Instinctively, we know the answer is no.

Holding on to pain, anger, or resentment—whether it’s directed at other people or yourself—serves no purpose.

Not for your spouse, your children, your employees, your clients, your coworkers, or yourself.

Too often, though, we focus only on the internal cost associated with pain, anger, and resentment. It’s easy to see why. After all, we’re the ones in pain.

But in addition to the internal cost, there’s an external cost we largely overlook.

The External Cost of the Pain, Anger, and Resentment We Hold Inside

Just like dogs can sense fear in people, people sense bitterness in other people.

They don’t always know what they’re sensing, but I’ll tell you this:

They don’t do business with it.
They don’t stay married to it.
They don’t invite it to dinner again.

People avoid those in whom they sense bitterness. So if you’re wondering why you can’t seem to get ahead at work, or why your partner is unhappy, or why you can’t attract more clients—or any type of opportunity—perhaps you should examine what you’re carrying around inside.

The 2 Options You Have for Dealing with Negative Emotions

There are two choices for dealing with the emotions that lead to bitterness and the external consequences we just discussed.

1. The Traditional Route: Anger Management

You’ve likely heard of anger management. The American justice system has made a fortune for someone by promoting the concept. Quite often, people are actually sentenced by our courts to attend an Anger Management course.

Effective? Not long term. Ridiculous? It depends upon what one wants.

If a person wants to “manage” their anger and learn how to keep rage and resentment bottled up inside them forever…anger management seems designed to do exactly that.

However, if your goal is to get rid of the anger all together, then there is an alternative…

2. The Solution That Actually Works

What if, instead of “learning to live with” negative emotions, we learned to let go of them altogether?

Forget Anger Management. You want Anger Resolution! Why manage it when you can get rid of it?

“How?” you ask.

It boils down to one word: forgiveness.

Forgiveness is THE RESET BUTTON for your mind and heart. And you can press it any time and as many times as you need. Know this: Forgiveness is a decision—not an emotion. Most of us have treated it like an emotion for most of our lives, which is why thoseFEELINGS seem to drag us around like a dog on a leash.

Remember Psychology 101? There we learned that emotions follow decisions. Yes, it may require us to make the decision again. We might have to make the decision six or seven times. Perhaps even seven time seventy times…but sooner rather than later, our emotions follow our decisions. That’s one more reason to make good ones!

It’s easy to understand how forgiveness can pay dividends in your personal life, but it’s a bit more difficult for most of us to grasp the value it holds in our professional lives. Allow me to explain it simply…

A lack of forgiveness is costing you money. It’s costing you opportunities. It is preventing sales. A lack of forgiveness makes it easy to pass you over for a promotion.

A lack of forgiveness cripples your ability to roll with the punches and keep moving forward toward the best possible result. Instead of freeing you to build the future of your choosing, a lack of forgiveness traps you in the past.

As The Designated Noticer for major corporations, I have seen a lack of forgiveness poison entire companies. I have seen it chain corporations to destructive cultures and horrendous workplace environments. All without anyone ever realizing that a lack of forgiveness was the root of most of their problems.

And the worst part, of course, was that even if they had identified the issue, they probably wouldn’t have realized how simple this one is to fix. But then, most people don’t…

See, for a long time I thought forgiveness was like a knighthood. It was something I would bestow upon some lucky person who begged me for it. Preferably on their knees. Tears would have been considered a plus.

Curiously, however, after researching the topic for almost thirty years, I still cannot find a single expert or book (including the Bible) to tell me that for one person to forgive another person, the person being forgiven has to ask for it, deserve it, or even be aware that they are being forgiven!

The 3 Things You Need to Remember About Forgiveness

Forgiveness is about you. Trust is about them.

Forgiveness is about the past. Trust is about the future. Do we forgive somebody who steals from us? Yes. Do we continue to do business with him? No.

Forgiveness, as I stated earlier, is a decision, not an emotion. You can decide to forgive someone while still feeling angry or hurt by their actions. The decision leads the emotions—not the other way around. To paraphrase the psychologist William James, you will not sing because you are happy; you will become happy because you decided to start singing and kept singing even though, for a time, you did not feel like it.

While you may already be formulating a mile-long list of people you wish to forgive (whether or not they have asked for forgiveness, deserve it, or are even aware of it), the most important person you need to forgive first is yourself.

If you don’t, your effectiveness as a spouse, parent, friend, or leader will suffer. The key to moving toward your desired future is forgiveness. Specifically, this forgiveness of yourself.

Let me show you how.

Below is an excerpt from my book The Seven Decisions:

We now have the opportunity to begin anew, to drop the heavy weight of guilt resting upon our shoulders. Month after month, year after year, we’ve added to the load, and it’s about to crush us. All the things we said we were going to do but didn’t, the promises we made and didn’t keep, the things we shouldn’t have done but did anyway have piled up, and it’s just too much for one person to bear. The guilt has turned into resentment, the resentment has turned into anger, and the anger, in its various forms, is taking over our lives.

For many of us, our greatest enemies have been ourselves. Every mistake, every miscalculation, every stumble we make is replayed in our minds. Every broken promise, every day wasted, every goal not reached has energized the disgust we feel about our predicament. This dismay develops into a paralyzing grip. When we disappoint ourselves, it sets in motion a continual cycle of disappointment. It’s true. It is impossible to fight an enemy living in our heads.

Forgive yourself. Begin anew. The simple act of forgiving yourself will change your life! You will be positioned to become the person you want to be when you finally ditch the weight of guilt and shame you’ve been piling on for years. Forgive yourself. Your family’s not mad at you. Your friends aren’t mad at you. I’m not mad at you. God’s not mad at you. You don’t need to be mad at you either. Let it go. Forgive yourself and begin again.

From this day forward, your history needs to stop controlling your destiny. Your life has just begun! Your forgiveness is valuable only when you give it away. By the simple act of forgiveness, you can release the demons of your past and create a new beginning for yourself.

Forgive the people who don’t ask for it. Forgive yourself. From now on, your act of forgiveness will free you from unproductive thoughts. Your bitterness, resentment, and anger will be gone. It’s time to begin again.

“I will greet each day with a forgiving spirit.”

If you want to take this a step further, I invite you to write yourself a letter of forgiveness and appreciation. The purpose of this letter is to free yourself from whatever you’ve been harboring inside. Commit to releasing something that you don’t need to hold on to any longer.

Here is an example from The Seven Decisions to guide you:

Dear [your name],

I’ve missed you. It has been too long since I’ve seen the fun, happy person I know you to be. So now I want to ask for your forgiveness about something.

You will remember, it was five years ago . . . [describe the event].

In closing, I want to acknowledge that you are one of the most special people in the world. These are the things that I appreciate about you . . . [list them].

Thank you for magical moments that you create for so many. The ripples that you create by the way you live reach many more than you could ever know . . . [list them].

Love, [your name]

If you are in a leadership position and find this exercise beneficial, I encourage you to share it with your team. Let them experience the power of forgiveness and watch how it will dramatically improve your work environment, morale, and success.

Winter is Just Around the Corner and the Holidays are Here!

2015-11-24T10:00:00.000-06:00

2015-2016 Winter Fashion

Some of our fall colors will be sticking around this winter!

We will be adding the silvery grays and charcoals as well as moving into the pastels as spring approaches.

So what to do about jewelry for those bold beautiful colors?

Bold jewelry of course. Big swingy pieces, that hang midway between breasts and waist are perfect compliments to the bold brazen designs in the fabrics. Bright gold toned and copper or black jewelry, as well as colorful beaded jewelry will stand out against these patterns.

Moving on to the grays, tone it down with some simpler contemporary pieces in bright silvers and blacks with small gold accents. Pieces can be long and swingy or shorter to accent necklines like in the picture on the top right of a model with a deep v neck dress. For a sophisticated look, stick to clean classic lines or textured pieces with patina to enhance the design. Also textured chains in silver and gold work well with these colors.

And for those of us in south, our favorite fleur de lis patterns are finally very trendy! So boast those fleur de lis necklaces, bracelets and rings!

HOLIDAY COLORS!

Patterns abound in gold, silver, taupe, black, charcoal, soft blue. The perfect time to add that simple necklace in gold or silver or bi-metal.

Clothing Patterns and Designs from Pattern Curator

Pinterest Picks for Holiday 2015-2016

The Holiday Season will be predominated by bright colors, specifically Red and Green. Go all out and wear sparkly jewelry to match, or brightly colored beaded designs.

Happy Shopping and Making. Don't forget to check out our Etsy stores for your favorite jewelry!

It's Fall Ya'll

2015-10-08T09:30:00.002-05:00

In the deep south we look forward to what we refer to as "fall", which is actually 75 to 85 degree weather rather that the 90 to 110 degree weather of late summer. You'll even see people sporting their fall fashion attire right after Labor Day in order to try and rush the cooler weather.

So here we are, ready to make our fall color predictions and talk about all things jewelry!

Pantone's fall colors are absolutely beautiful and make us feel renewed. Take a look at these gorgeous colors and try to buy or design your jewelry to compliment them:

Copper and bronze jewelry work well with Oak Buff, Cadmium Orange, Marsala, Dried Herb.

Silver and Gold are great with Cashmere Rose, Marsala, Amethyst, Biscay Bay, Stormy Weather, Reflecting Pond and Desert Sage.

For beaded pieces, take a look at your color wheel and try to find complimentary colors to highlight your clothing.

Think out of the box and use a mix of two light and one dark color from the above shades to make a piece that will work well with any of the colors.

Trending jewelry styles are varied, and range from very simple tiny pendants and bar necklaces to flashy bold colored jewelry. Sun, moon, and stars themes abound, and you will still see a lot of chevron themes and tribal jewelry. Take advantage of these trends and make your jewelry uniquely yours.

Happy Jewelry Making or Buying! Check out my Etsy Store for Great Fall Designs!

Summertime Motivation

2015-07-11T16:06:00.000-05:00

Summer is my favorite time of the year. I love the heat, the sun, the beach and outdoor living and activities. It is hard to stay motivated to work during the summer, when I can loll by the pool, play at the beach with the kids or take a road trip with my favorite traveling companion, my hubby.

Perhaps you have the same problem, so here are some tips to keep you on track with home projects, jewelry making, or other important tasks that cannot wait:

1) Get out a calendar and list all your appointments for doctors, out of town trips, or social activities.
2)Make a list of your projects, whether work or personal on individual pieces of paper, such as post it notes or torn strips of paper.
3) Prioritize your list: For example, take the first two items and compare them, determining which one is most important. Place the priority item in pile A, and the least important is pile B. Then take the item placed in pile A and compare it to the next item from your original slips. Determine the priority and place it in pile A, and the other in pile B. Repeat this until you have gone through all the original slips. You should have one item in pile A at this point. and the remainder in Pile B. Compare that item to the remaining items in pile B, just as you did before. You should then have your priority item in pile A. Put the other items aside and concentrate on the priority item.
4)Determine the amount of time you need to complete the project chosen.
5)Determine how much time per week you wish to spend on projects. This should be a reasonable amount of days to complete all the projects you have listed.
6)Look at your calendar and schedule the time you need to complete that project. If it requires more than one day, then schedule consecutive days to complete it if possible. If not, choose the first available days.
7)Try not to schedule yourself for every day of the week. You need a break and if you are scheduling too much of your time, you cannot be spontaneous or enjoy your summer! You will subsequently fail to follow through.
8)Treat your schedule as if it is a regular job, with regular hours and do not deviate unless there is an emergency or higher priority item that comes up. (This does not include going to the pool, the beach, getting your hair and nails done, or going to the bar). Just sayin.........
9)Once you have completed the first project, treat yourself! Take that beach day, ride your bike, or whatever makes you happy.
10)Now, back to work....Grab those items you put in pile B and repeat the process described in item 3 through 9.

You should keep in mind that you must schedule your projects for the number of days per week you have chosen in item 5 in order to complete all the projects on time.

I use this technique for my jewelry making project schedule and it keeps me on track. Summer is a slow jewelry selling season so it makes sense to make my jewelry during these slow months so I'm not pressed during my prime season to get new inventory made, and I don't get behind on custom orders and repairs.

Hope you are having a great summer! Don't forget to stop by M&F Casuals for a visit!

Red or Black?

2014-12-03T23:05:00.001-06:00

Red or Black? by analecedesign featuring a fit and flare dress

Fit and flare dress
$20 - newlook.com

Qupid summer shoes
$22 - beyondtherack.com

Bobbi brown cosmetic
neimanmarcus.com

Thanksgiving Thoughts from SelfGrowth.com- Good Stuff!

2014-11-16T21:29:00.000-06:00

Before you gather with friends and family, remember Mother Teresa's words "Before you speak, it is necessary for you to listen, for God speaks in the silence of the heart . . . " ... and give what you give with your heart, for we are all in the Home for the Dying.

Pause for a moment ... and then go forward in love.

From Mother Teresa:

People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self- centered;
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of having selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.
What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness, others may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.
The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
Do it anywyay.
Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you've got anyway.
You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God;
It never was between you and them . . . anyway.

Have a blessed Thanksgiving.

Matte About You

2014-10-30T22:06:00.001-05:00

Matte About You by analecedesign featuring a metal wall plaque

Lanvin golden ring
bergdorfgoodman.com

Goti silver charms jewelry
lindelepalais.com

By Philippe long pendant necklace
lastcall.com

Jules Smith charm bracelet
neimanmarcus.com

Vintage coin jewelry
angelcourt.com

Pave earrings
sophiescloset.com

Vanessa Mooney black lace choker
dailylook.com

BKE cross bangle
buckle.com

Spring Street twist jewelry
nordstromrack.com

Quote wall art
mytwodesigners.com

Dog sign
dotandbo.com

Home wall decor
abchome.com

Metal wall plaque
$24 - sweetpeaandwillow.com

Crepaldi Marbled Paper - Aqua & Pearl Fantasy (1/2 sheet)
papermojo.com

2014 Fall Fashion Color Trends

2014-10-07T14:21:00.001-05:00

It's Fairhope Fashion Week, Oct 9 - 16

Join me at M&F Casuals, Thurs, Oct 9 from 3-8 pm

for Ladies Night Out!

We have them all!

New Content Updates

2014-06-25T13:49:00.000-05:00

I hope you are enjoying some of my new content updates coming from Polyvore! It gives me an opportunity to share some beautiful products from other companies in addition to Analece! I'd love your comments and feedback! Thanks, Anita

I Love Bracelets

2014-06-24T14:42:00.001-05:00

I Love Bracelets by analecedesign featuring a red bracelet

Chain bracelet
ahalife.com

Bead bracelet
calypsostbarth.com

Red bracelet
$325 - dollydagger.co.uk

Hipanema bead bracelet
luisaviaroma.com