Health life

五句话足以改变一生

2010-11-08T04:19:00.000-08:00

第一句话是：优秀是一种习惯。

这句话是古希腊哲学家亚里士多德说的。如果说优秀是一种习惯，那么懒惰也是一种习惯。人出生的时候，除了脾气会因为天性而有所不同，其他的东西基本都是后天形成的，是家庭影响和教育的结果。所以，我们的一言一行都是日积月累养成的习惯。我们有的人形成了很好的习惯，有的人形成了很坏的习惯。所以我们从现在起就要把优秀变成一种习惯，使我们的优秀行为习以为常，变成我们的第二天性。让我们习惯性地去创造性思考，习惯性地去认真做事情，习惯性地对别人友好，习惯性地欣赏大自然。

注解：要会“装”，要持续的、不间断的“装”，装久了就成了真的了，就成了习惯了，比如准时到会，每次都按时到会，你装装看，你装30年看看，装的时间长了就形成了习惯。：)

第二句话是：生命是一种过程。

事情的结果尽管重要，但是做事情的过程更加重要，因为结果好了我们会更加快乐，但过程使我们的生命充实。人的生命最后的结果一定是死亡，我们不能因此说我们的生命没有意义。世界上很少有永恒。大学生谈恋爱，每天都在信誓旦旦地说我会爱你一辈子，这实际上是不真实的。统计数据表明，大学生谈恋爱的100对里有90对最后会分手，最后结婚了的还有一半会离婚。你说爱情能永恒吗？所以最真实的说法是：“我今天，此时此刻正在真心地爱着你。”明天也许你会失恋，失恋后我们会体验到失恋的痛苦。这种体验也是丰富你生命的一个过程。

注解：生命本身其实是没有任何意义的，只是你自己赋予你的生命一种你希望实现的意义，因此享受生命的过程就是一种意义所在。

第三句话是：两点之间最短的距离并不一定是直线。

在人与人的关系以及做事情的过程中，我们很难直截了当就把事情做好。我们有时需要等待，有时需要合作，有时需要技巧。我们做事情会碰到很多困难和障碍，有时候我们并不一定要硬挺、硬冲，我们可以选择有困难绕过去，有障碍绕过去，也许这样做事情更加顺利。大家想一想，我们和别人说话还得想想哪句话更好听呢。尤其在中国这个比较复杂的社会中，大家要学会想办法谅解别人，要让人觉得你这个人很成熟，很不错，你才能把事情做成。

注解：如果你在考数学试题，一定要答两点之间直线段最短，如果你在走路，从A到B，明明可以直接过去，但所有人都不走，你最好别走，因为有陷阱。在中国办事情，直线性思维在很多地方要碰壁，这是中国特色的中国处事智慧。

第四句话是：只有知道如何停止的人才知道如何加快速度。

我在滑雪的时候，最大的体会就是停不下来。我刚开始学滑雪时没有请教练，看着别人滑雪，觉得很容易，不就是从山顶滑到山下吗？于是我穿上滑雪板，哧溜一下就滑下去了，结果我从山顶滑到山下，实际上是滚到山下，摔了很多个跟斗。我发现根本就不知道怎么停止、怎么保持平衡。最后我反复练习怎么在雪地上、斜坡上停下来。练了一个星期，我终于学会了在任何坡上停止、滑行、再停止。这个时候我就发现自己会滑雪了，就敢从山顶高速地往山坡下冲。因为我知道只要我想停，一转身就能停下来。只要你能停下来，你就不会撞上树、撞上石头、撞上人，你就不会被撞死。因此，只有知道如何停止的人，才知道如何高速前进。

注解：用汽车来比喻，宝马可以上200公里，奇瑞却只能上120公里，为什么？发动机估计不相上下，差距在刹车系统，上了200公里刹不了车，呵呵，我的天！

第五句话是：放弃是一种智慧，缺陷是一种恩惠。

当你拥有六个苹果的时候，千万不要把它们都吃掉，因为你把六个苹果全都吃掉，你也只吃到了六个苹果，只吃到了一种味道，那就是苹果的味道。如果你把六个苹果中的五个拿出来给别人吃，尽管表面上你丢了五个苹果，但实际上你却得到了其他五个人的友情和好感。以后你还能得到更多，当别人有了别的水果的时候，也一定会和你分享，你会从这个人手里得到一个橘子，那个人手里得到一个梨，最后你可能就得到了六种不同的水果，六种不同的味道，六种不同的颜色，六个人的友谊。人一定要学会用你拥有的东西去换取对你来说更加重要和丰富的东西。所以说，放弃是一种智慧。

Secret of Jobstreet Career Hunting Revealed

2010-11-07T07:24:00.000-08:00

1. Use keywords smartly

Keywords are the key elements an employer will look at when skimming through your resume. These keywords are the G-spots of your resume which gives rise to the tingling sensation to the employer every time they come across them. A well matched keyword gives rise to a broad smile and this sense of satisfaction to the hiring manager.

Additionally, you must remember that JobStreet.com incorporate keywords as part of their ranking algorithms, so to improve your chance of being short listed, craft a keyword rich resume. This, by no means does not translate into stuffing all words imaginable, but it should be done smartly, carefully and thoughtfully to ensure all the keywords are relevant to what you’re doing now.

Depending on your fields or career specialization, consider integrating the following keywords in your resume:

Accounting & finance – corporate finance, annual budget, tax advisory, compliance, policies and procedures, internal audit, risk management, credit assessment, corporate governance, financial statement etc.

IT – helpdesk support, system development life cycle (SDLC), incident management, MCSE, system analysis, Java, optimization, Oracle, CCNA, system architecture, Service Level Agreements (SLAs).

Human resource – manpower planning, payroll, employee relations, compensation & benefits, industrial relations, Balanced Score Card, performance appraisal, Employment Act 1955.

2. Be an early bird

Every time I posted a job vacancy in JobStreet.com, the next 3 to 4 days will be some busy days for me as I would be returning back and forth to the job advert to start screening candidates. I thought I am the only one with this habit but upon checking with other employer friends, they also do the same. As new weeks passing by, the old job adverts start to get less attention, especially when new recruitment needs arrive.

You see, today, when an employer advertises a job, they want to see candidates, and they want to see them fast. The days where a recruitment exercise taking ages have long gone by. So, to keep up with the fast changing world, you will need to act fast. If you’re seriously looking out for opportunity, heed this no-nonsense approach and start spending some good deal of time to find the most recent jobs relevant to you.

While applying for jobs which have been advertised for months would not do you any harm, chances are, suitable candidates have been found, even though the ads appear to be ‘open’ in terms of status.

3. Attach a properly crafted resume

The web-based resume you have in your JobStreet.com account comes with a standard formatting; hence the job to differentiating yourself from other candidates becomes a lot tougher. However, by now you have probably realized that with JobStreet.com, you can showcase your own resume (e.g. the Word or PDF resume) through the resume attachment feature.

Think of a moment where an employer is comparing two or more candidates with similar skills and capabilities. Since all the three resumes look the same, what would be the next most sensible move? Yes, opening up the attached, personal resume. Then the differences tell, and the one with the better resume win.

4. Consider Priority Application

The JobStreet.com Priority Application is a paid (ranging between RM25 to RM100, depending on your level), optional feature that allows your resume to be ranked higher than other applications who do not subscribe to the feature.

I used to think that this Priority Application feature to be some sort of cheat, but after looking at many of these candidates, it is rather clear that these people are quite the serious bunch. They are a group of people who do not mind spending a little bit extra to push their luck and be on the top half.

5. Do periodical ‘housekeeping’

Once in a while, your JobStreet.com user account will need to undergo the ‘housekeeping’ process to ensure all details are at their best relevancy and accuracy. No particular periodical cycle can be said optimal for this update but 3 to 6 months would be a sensible time frame. Be sure to maintain the latest contact information and details, and update your employment and education accordingly in your resume.

Apart from the details and information, clean up the old applications especially those which have not been processed for months and those with status left idle by the employers for ages. It’s time to move on and perhaps the moment has come to add new job applications.

6. Don’t simply click apply, do your matching first

Some people have this habit to apply all sort of jobs just to convince themselves that they are ‘doing enough to find a job’. By doing this, they have the perfect excuse to blame other parties for not providing adequate job opportunities when they fail to land a job. More often than not, they end up applying for jobs which are totally irrelevant to their qualification, background and interest.

This is utterly useless. The employer will have a hard time comprehending the reason of your move, and not to mention the time wasted by both you and the employer. Study each and every job application, evaluate the roles and responsibilities accordingly, spot the differences and only apply when they appear to be within your means.

7. Join the Facebook fan

To stay afloat and continue growing, JobStreet.com has been on the social media bandwagon and keeping tab with the latest developments and creating interactive forums with the job seekers. In my opinion, their blog needs some content makeover and the twitter deserves more frequent updating, but it is the Facebook fan page that continues to grow.

Apart from getting acquainted with the latest happenings and updates, you can raise questions and issues which will be looked after (and hopefully with response) from real people behind the page. Who knows this can be a platform for you to network with other people who can eventually land you a great career opportunity?

High Tech Software Collection

2010-11-06T20:59:00.000-07:00

2010Best Web Browser software[2010最佳浏览器软件]
Google Chrome, Mozilla firefox and Opera

1.Google Chrome

Developer: Google Corporation
Latest version: 7.0.517.44
Price: Free
Operating system: Windows XP/Vista/7

Features: Simple & Slim design, customizable themes, Fast & light weight, fast loading at start
start up, elegant user interface.

User experiences: "Very fast browser when surfing internet ", "Easy to use", "the most innovative web browser",

Download link: http://www.google.com/chrome/

2。 Mozilla Firefox
Developer : Mozilla Corporation
Latest Version : Mozilla Firefox 3.6.12
Price : Free
Operating systems: Windows 7, Windows 2003, Windows 2000, Windows Vista, Windows XP

Features: Ultra fast, tabbed interface , pop-up blocker/built-in multiple search tools, built-in
RSS reader & simplified privacy controls, complete range of add-ons available

User Experiences: "Faster than IE"
Download link: http://www.mozilla.com/en-US/products/download.html

3. Opera
Developer : Opera Software
Latest Version : Opera 10.63
Price : Free
Operating systems: Windows 7, Windows 2000, Windows Vista, Windows XP

Features: Tweak-able internet speed with Opera turbo, synchronizing bookmarks, your personal bar, Speed Dial, attractive & beautiful appearance with Opera skins.

User Experiences: "The fastest browser I've ever used", " Beautiful browser".

Download link: http://www.opera.com/browser/next/