Strut like the world's your stage

Castle of Dreams

2011-12-24T11:10:00.000-08:00

I've realized that we are our own worst enemies. We give ourselves hopes, that we are not supposed to give. Every night we go to sleep thinking about good things, our future and dreams. Every night we torture ourselves with expectations. Of course optimism is a great and we should never lose it, but we should never lie to ourselves either.

The other day, a very very handsome guy kept his eyes glued on me as I walked down the street. And YAY, I jumped to a false conclusion with happiness. Who knows how many lies have we told to ourselves, our hearts.. or is it just me? A big fat liar! Is this just a bad habbit or is there something wrong? I personally, don’t know how to stop thinking about things that may not even happen, I can’t stop making plans for future, even though I already know what the reality is like. Or maybe I don’t know it yet.

What I exactly know is, that a smile and a glance doesn’t mean anything and we shouldn’t tell ourselves that – you know what sweetheart, he’s definitely into you.

I may need to be prepared for disappointment in life, who knows. So I need to destroy that castle of dreams first.

Keep yourself motivated! (Advice for myself)

2011-12-17T08:58:00.000-08:00

If you go through my blog and I doubt that, you will see that I haven't written anything since the beginning of October.
Pfff
Thats a very long time..
-So why?
I lost the motivation.Of course I checked the status of my blog everyday and it had visitors, but not the amount I wished for.I didnt get feedback or comments and I gave up.
-What did it lead to?
It led to emptiness and it dropped my confidence,that I could finally do something, to the end.
-So why can't I finish at least one thing?
(well , there's no way to finish writing a blog and I'm not making excuses) and here we go.I'm stuck.I can't think of an answer to this question. It's like starting eating Nutella with pleasure, but after two spoons you realize - It will make you fat. I mean that , since my blog was not successful enough, I considered it as a loss of my time. However, as Nutella, it made me really happy and pleased. The aim of this blog was to help people and teach them useful tips and tricks, but I realized - I'm not an expert. I may have valuable experience, but turns out, noone needs it.I may sound miserable, but I'm not. In fact, I have decided to continue writing my blog. I just changed the subject. No actually, I didn't limit myself with certain subjects. FEEL FREE - I told myself.
-What's next?
You may still find important and useful things round here, but I've decided to be selfish. Sorry. This is my blog and I want to use it according to my mood and life. I hope you will find it interesting.

P.S. I will happily accept every kind of comment, no matter what. Thanks.

Getting ready for the date

2011-10-08T02:10:00.000-07:00

Dates are the best opportunity for gaining experience. This is why, I may sometimes agree to go out with a guy and not being into him.

After confirming your date, make sure to find out where are you going. This is crucial for choosing the outfit. If you are going to a fancy restaurant, dress up. But if he is taking you to the beach or a cafe, don't look like a queen.

Choosing an outfit is not as hard, as having the right make-up on. If it's a first date, make sure that you keep your face natural and not overdone. Guys don't like too much make-up and girls who look like plastic dolls.

Always wear perfume, so that he can smell you at the table. Use something soft and romantic.

Never go to a date just in time. Make him wait 10-15 minutes. It's extremely awkward,when a girl comes earlier than the guy.

Always have your purse with you. You should have all the needed stuff in there, in case of an emergency. Don't leave it at the table, if you leave to use the ladies room.

Don't make it a big deal. It may not work out and this shouldn't make you nervous. A date with a special person is really important, but if you aren't in a relationship. it should be a casual thing for you.

Think always positively , look happy and relaxed. Because if you want to have the second date with the same person, confidence is crucial.

Good luck

xxx

Crimes - a report by fashion police

2011-10-03T05:22:00.000-07:00

Year after year fashion changes. Different trends say good-bye and hello to us. What was a DO or a MUST-HAVE this season, may appear to be a total fashion crime and a DON'T.

That's why its hard to keep up the fashion. You always need to keep one eye open even when sleeping. Of course style is what you have-individualism - and it may not be in fashion, but be careful not to turn out to be a fashion criminal instead of a style rookie.

First. Leggings are not pants! It doesn't matter weather you are a 90-60-90 or enjoy eating pies at night.

Fashion is for every body. So if it suits you and your pretty ,long legs , don't use that as an excuse.

2. The 'too-eccentric' trend is dead, people! Oversized flannels, Dr. Martens, fluffy skirts or just a retro hippie style is so last year (or even century).

3. Dress over jeans- too comfy? aaaaw. It's like being lost. You can't find your place (style) and try everything at once?

4. Being too exposed is not sexy. Don't forget your pants- don't wear just a 'long' blouse, thinking it may look as a short dress.

5. Too much Anna Wintour look alike- fur ! fur ! fur! (I don't have anything against her . I love Anna) I mean fur coat, fur hat, fur boots, fur scarf..... You need to be selective. When you choose fur to protect yourself from the cold weather, make sure to wear something light to have the need of protection.

6. No no-shape clothes. Even if its by Marc Jacobs , Karl Lagerfield or another god of fashion industry. If it has lost the shape, then it no longer deserves to be in your closet. Not even talking about wearing it.

7. Remember that every special occasion, would it be a prom, a ball or a formal party is not your wedding! Do wear gowns but DO NOT wear a big white gown.

I have always disliked that teen style, which is exposing guys boxers, because their pants are too down. Recently, I was walking in the street and saw girls, about 15-17. All their pants were down and I could see their checked panties. Looks like what went out of guys' fashion wants to take place in girls' fashion. But please don't let it happen. Here's number 8:

8. Pull your pants up. No one wants to see your underwear.

9. Don't think that same prints match. Mix different patterns, it's allowed now.

10. And the most important.... Always know your size! Don't get scared if it changes. Always wear your size no matter what size you are.

Don't stress out, if you do any of these. When you have a lot of experience in fashion, your eye will notice everything, that may be wrong, itself.

xxx

How to walk in high heels

2011-10-01T02:09:00.000-07:00

“I don't know who invented high heels, but all women owe him a lot”

Marilyn Monroe

No one is born with high heels (unfortunately) and everyone needs to get used to them at first. But there still are girls, who have been wearing high heels and still walking like a man.

The first thing you need to know- don't jump on 6 inches, if these are your first magic shoes. Start with a 2/2.5 inches, or even better with wedges or platform shoes.

When walking, step with the heel first and then your toes, this will make you look experienced and make your walking style more natural.

Don't make very big steps, because it will make your legs bend and your walk will look ridiculous.

It's not easy and need practice, but you will get used to it very soon and your feet will no longer hurt. But everything is worth for it. For magic Loubi's or Manolo's.

Additional: How to walk as a model

Imagine a straight line in front of you, the only line where you can walk. Don't look down, your chin should always be parallel to the ground.

Imagine that you have hands held about 5 cms away from your hips and you need to touch them with your hips as you walk.

P.S. I recently read a book, which was very very helpful and inspiring. It's a girls guide to everything and I strongly recommend it.

Affordable Fashion

2011-09-30T11:22:00.000-07:00

Being fashionable, and wearing trendy clothes doesn't mean spending all you money on just one piece.

According to this year's fall season's trendsetters, Fall 2011 color palette is this -
(But don't forget that black and white never go out of fashion)

Apart from the colors, our beloved fashion industry has some specific items for us too. Such as shearling and military jackets, roomy patched and paneled coats, skintight jeans, voluminous sleeves, tuxedo trousers , tweedy cardigan, all-in-one jumpsuit, Monáe’s suspendered pants, chiffon poet’s blouses, caped jackets, original-print hats and more.

This season offered us a variety of pieces for any taste.

After having a glance at RTW designers from Runway shows, think about your own closet.

Here are some pieces I chose for you, which will give your style a breath of fresh air and make you look super trendy.

1. A Shearling Jacket with a military edge by GUESS ($148.00)
GUESS Ava Shearling Jacket

2. Tweed Trench Coat by Miss Sixty ($95.64)

Miss Sixty Womens Missy Tweed Trench Coat

3. Jumpsuit by BCBGeneration ($57.45 )
Bcbgeneration women's Cinched Waist Jumper

5. Puff Sleeve Dress by BCBGeneration ($118.00)

BCBGeneration Women's Puff Sleeve Dress

6. Cuffed Sleeve shirty by BCBGeneration ($98.00)
BCBGeneration Women's Coverup Shirt with Dolman Cuffed Sleeve

7. Cedar dress by BCBGeneration ($54.31 )
BCBGeneration Women's Surplus Dress

8. Clutch by BCBGeneration ($39.20)
Bcbgeneration Lidia Clutch

9. Metal Beaded Tank by Calvin Klein ($53.96)
Calvin Klein Womens Metal Beaded Tank

10. Flyaway Cardigan by Calvin Klein ($69.00)
Calvin Klein Women's Burnout Flyaway Cardigan

How to get rid of a guy

2011-09-29T11:53:00.000-07:00

From the previous post, you got some useful flirting tips. I hope you will get the guy you are craving for. But that guy may sometimes turn out to be Mr.Wrong and it may be harder for you to get rid of him.

Here are 10 tips that will help you to start looking for Mr.Right over again:

1. This is a psychological fact, that guys don't like when girls look at their foreheads. They may not even realize it, but if you stare at their forehead during a conversation, they will go mad.

2. Continue to hold the opinion "men are babies."

3. Never cook anything for him. Don't even make a sandwich.

4. Call him repeatedly. They hate it.

5. Take yourself seriously - not him. Start as many conversation with "WE NEED TO TALK" as possible

6. Plan his day for him and if he doesn't follow 'his' day plan, call him irresponsible and immature.

7. Text him just 'hi.' The power of full stop is important.

8. Don't text back instantly, but if he does it too, leave 15 missed calls on his phone.

9. Wear his favorite shirt without permission.

10. Never be pleased.

If you want to end a relationship without any drama, then this list is for you.

But if you are lucky enough, that your relationships can end easily just in time you want to, then use this as a NOT-TO-DO list for you next relationship.

If you want to find out more try this book and the movie.I recommend both of them.
xxx

How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days: The Universal Don'ts of Dating
How to Lose A Guy In 10 Days

How to get a guy - Flirting rules you need to know and more...

2011-09-29T03:55:00.000-07:00

Getting a guy you like is not that difficult. You just need to think beforehand if its worth 'fighting' for him.

First you need to work on yourself from the ground up. You need to like and respect yourself first, if you want others to love you.

"Be yourself" - thats probably the worst advice someone can give you. I mean thats obvious. If you are not a real actor, you will eventually get caught when playing and trying to be someone else.

The book shouldn't be judged by it's cover, they say. But the cover is what we see at first. So accentuate your best physical features and work on a style, you think he will like.

Its nice to get caught looking. Make sure he sees you checking him out, but when your eyes meet, don't look right away - Say Cheese. One of the most powerful weapons we have to melt a guy, is our smile.

Talk to him as a friend, but act as more than a friend. Your body language is very important. While having a conversation you can touch his hand, but the most important thing is eye contact. Don't look away from him even for a sec if he is speaking to you.

If you aren't sure whether he likes you back, or not, make it easy for him to ask you out.I'm not telling you to be easy. You just should make him feel comfortable around you.

If you are sure that he is totally into you, make it a little bit more difficult to get you. It's more fun trust me . But remember guys have less patience than us.

A lot of girls try to be a guy’s friend first, and that’s a great idea – theoretically. The thing is, you have to be careful when you do this. Great relationships form when you’re friends first, but you don’t want to get trapped in the friend zone. He has to see you as a girl, too, not just one of the guys.

Nice conversations don't last long. So remember always to leave at a high point.If you feel like running out of things to say - say goodbye. Leave him wanting more of you.

Psycho is not attractive. Don’t magically appear before him everytime he’s alone. You’ll seem like a stalker and noone likes a stalker. Don't call him many times. 15 missed calls can't make a score.

Listen more - speak less. And rarely talk about yourself. Keep some of the mystery – let him find out about you at his own pace!

But all of above - be confident and have patience.

Good luck

xxx

To find out more check out the book, I recently read.

Make Every Man Want You: How to Be So Irresistible You'll Barely Keep from Dating Yourself!

Movies sometimes do match reality

2011-09-27T10:58:00.000-07:00

So, the other night I was thinking - there are a lot of people, who wish their lives were just as they see people's lives in movies. But I think, that our lives are pretty much like those wished ones. (forget the sci fi movies, Im talking about REAL movies)

Have you ever seen a movie without problems or bad sides that affect the characters?

Have you ever seen a person, who did not need to work extremely hard to get to that point?

You will agree, that there are many situations in our lives, that remind us some movies we love.

Some of us were even lucky enough to have moments in lives no movies could compare.

One of my favorite movies is Sex and the City,but I think that tv series were more influential than the movies.

For today, I picked very interesting quotes from the tv show.They are often in my head,because there are a lot of moments in everyones lives that those quotes remind themselves to us:

“Maybe our mistakes are what make our fate.” - Carrie

“Think about it. If you are single, after graduation there isn’t one occasion where people celebrate you … Hallmark doesn’t make a “congratulations, you didn’t marry the wrong guy” card. And where’s the flatware for going on vacation alone?" - Carrie

“Who cares what you are just enjoy it!” - Samantha

“I can’t color enough, I would color all day every day If I had my way, I would use every crayon in my box.” - Samantha

“Can you make a mistake and miss your fate?” - Carrie

“After a while, you just want to be with the one that makes you laugh.” - Mr. Big

Miranda: “Maybe it’s time I stopped being so angry.”-
Carrie: “Yeah, but what would you do with all your free time?”

“Don’t play hard to get with a man who’s hard to get.” -Samantha

“Are we getting wiser, or just older?” – Carrie

“Do we need distance to get close?” – Carrie

“Balls are to men what purses are to women.” – Carrie

“That’s the thing about needs. Sometimes when you get them met,

you don’t need them anymore.” - Carrie

“I like my money where I can see it, hanging in my closet.” - Carrie

“Could you please not use the F-word in Vera Wang?" - Charlotte

“Some labels are best left in the closet.” - Carrie

“We had a deal ages ago.Men, babies, don't matter. We're soul mates" - Samantha

As you can see, most of my favorite quotes are by Carrie Bradshaw.
Carrie Bradshaw - sounds magic ha?

Thats maybe because I'm more a Carrie-type girl. So thats why - when I move to New York, I'll buy Vogue instead of dinner.I just think it will feed me more.

xxx

How to have a healthy breakfast

2011-09-26T04:06:00.000-07:00

Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. I know that most of us aren't hungry in the mornings and prefer grabbing a cup of coffee at Starbucks. But you should know that if you don't have breakfast, you won't let your metabolism start running.

People, who are trying to lose weight, are happy to skip breakfast in order to avoid extra calories and what can be better than not being hungry when you are on a diet, right?

But they don't think that when you skip breakfast, you become so hungry for lunch that you may over-eat.

I've got some great news for you- you can eat as much as you want in the mornings and it just won't count. and I mean it!

Even if you are on a diet. I always watch my weight, but never the amount of food I have on breakfast.

The result is, that I am never too hungry during the day, so my meals are small.

Just try avoiding cholesterol, even in the mornings and boost your metabolism with starting your breakfast with fresh fruits. Anything else - you decide. Enjoy the food you like.

The only rule to remember:

'Breakfast like a Queen, lunch like a Princess, dine like a pauper '

Make sure to watch Runway Shows

2011-09-24T11:00:00.000-07:00

Everyone needs inspiration. Fashion shows can be the most wonderful inspiration in your lives. But don't forget your Anna Wintour sunglasses..That means judge! This will make your style and knowledge of fashion improve with every season.
Here are top ten inspiring moments of Spring 2012 RTW, so far
Enjoy <3 and get inspired

1. Burberry

To say the truth, Christopher Bailey is on top of my favorite designers list. This year, he took million steps 'Prorsum'
We have seen colors in different Burberry shows,but they were either too dark, or too pale and cold. This season was all about the warmth. This collection really brought warmth in my heart.

2. Mrs. Diane von Furstenberg

This lady has always been the one, because her collections made me feel happier. Even if the season's usual colors were dark, she never said no to colorful items! This year her ladies have masculine edge, but they are still sexy. My favorite item in this look is the amazing bag! Its definitely a must-have.

3. Carolina Herrera

Every time I see her shows, I am more and more sure, that less is more. The oversized coat, little heels and a very chick soft scarf - and you are ready to say your word in this world.

4. Fendi

Karl Lagerfield's women are always powerful and extremely trendy.
You should have noticed that feathers and peacock's print is the latest trend of the 2012.

5. 3.1 Phillip Lim

The show without rules. Feel free and confident! Phillip Lim never loses individualism and surprises us with his amazing shapes and structures.

6. Marc Jacobs

Marc takes us to decadence.At first sight you think you are in a vintage world. I love the combination of colors that take me away from reality. It's pure fantasy. This is where you can see the power of fashion.
the attention to details and cleverly putting these gorgeous items together - touche.

7. Moschino

At first sight , this made me think of Frida Kahlo. The Moschino world is always fun and crazy. This time it has a strict edge to it.
I always like the accessories and this time, I'm in love with them.

8. Proenza Schouler

These boys show in every collection that they are young. And this doesn't mean they lack experience. It's how wide their imagination is.
The sunglasses and the bag rocked this look!

9. Jason Wu

The floral print on skirts gets always ten stars.
The collection had happy news for me - blue on black is finally back.
The look teaches us how to point at the statement with light pieces.
So if you want them to point at your new floral skirt add a shiny top to it.

10. Zac Posen

Now this is real Summer!
When you can feel sexy, confident and seduce everyone with your hot look.
Zac Posen's dresses are always desirable and this one is just another proof of his talent.

If the shoe fits...

2011-09-24T01:52:00.000-07:00

'It is totally impossible to be well dressed in cheap shoes,' according to Sir Hardy Amies
I say - The higher, the more expensive, the better.

But maybe it's just me who is a fanatic of high heels. Shoes always make a statement in my outfit, that's why I spend most of my money on them. But I don't really want to say that there is no way to look good without those $3,295 Sexy Strass 100 Swarovski crystal peep-toe pumps by Mr. Louboutin (who I adore).

Let's come back to earth and leave net-a-porter.com

Remember that a good shoe picks you. You need to buy the ones, that catch your sight just as you enter the store. Don't follow fashion - follow yourself. The shoe says what the soul wants to, so choose exactly how you wanna feel-according to your mood.

The main thing to remember is - don't think, that clothes are more important and if you have lots of them, you will look more stylish. Just think, you can have two little black dresses and twelve pairs of shoes. The shoes will do the job and you will be ready for twelve different occasions.

There are people, who actually can't walk in high heels (We will discuss it later) and always wear flats. Choosing flats is easier, but flats don't speak. The two little black dresses rule doesn't work here. What was so easy with high heels, is so hard with the flats. You need to find the perfect outfit to make the flats talk, but perfect outfit says more, so no one will listen to your shoes.

I don't really like speaking generally. I don't have anything against flats and I do wear them too. I'm just showing you your options.

The shoe can sometimes not fit. 75 % of women own shoes that don;t fit properly. If the shoe fits perfectly, it's too expensive. You just need to deal with that unless you decide to wear trainers everywhere (which is the highest crime in fashion world)

They may hurt you, but remember they still are your friends and they will never let you down-just like Cinderella had a happy end.

Make up in a few minutes

2011-09-23T11:42:00.000-07:00

Make up is one of the most crucial stages in preparation. If something goes wrong, you can ruin your whole look.

So first of all you need to find the products that match your appearance-mostly your skin tone and eye color.

Don't buy too many things. I used to have many kinds of foundation, mascaras and eye pencils, but at the end of the day I found myself using always the same ones. So choose your favorite and better buy one expensive(= good quality) item instead of filling your make up bag with unwanted rubbish.

Learn a route, so you don't have to think and lose time. This is what I do:

I wash my face with cold water and moisturize it. Do the eyes and only after that apply the foundation. Remember that using low-quality foundation will damage your skin and the only thing that will be able to help - will be Photoshop..

As for mascara , be careful with choosing the color of it. If you haven't got dark eyelashes, avoid using kohl black mascara. That's why there is a color palette.

If you have dark eyes, then the choice of eye shadow is bigger. You can use any color that matches your skin tone or the outfit you are wearing. As for blue,green or grey eyes- try using more dark shadows to make your eyes the foundation of your face.

Finally, it's time for your lips. If your eyes catch the attention , don't stop them with lips. Red lips need softer eyes, while smokey eyes need more nude lips.

But who know, Mr. Armani said, that smokey eyes with red lips - time when fashion was fashion.

As for now, we are living in a different time.

And the final tip - always have you mini make up bag in your purse. You never know what happens.

xxx

Finding your style

2011-09-23T11:02:00.001-07:00

Gore Vidal said:

'Style is knowing who you are, what you want to say, and not giving a damn.'

We say:

-Hell yeah (If only thats your style)

Imagine a sporty girl - with wide shoulders, walking like a man, having huge BMI - in Loubis and Oscar de La Renta's wonderful gown (to die for)

Not really, right?

No matter what you're wearing , you will look lost and pass unnoticed if you don't find yourself at first.

Finding yourself means knowing who you are, what you want and where do you wanna go.

If you haven't found yourself yet, there's a really big challenge in front of you.

And for those who have, you may start looking for the style that matches your personality perfectly.

Style is not only what you wear, or which designer you prefer.

The person who has not got style = has no face, let's say so.

So are you sure , what you see in a mirror, is exactly your face?

First of all, try to describe yourself as one word. Trust me it will make your search for style easier.

Are you sexy,cute,confident,shy,lovely,trendy...? Are you a socialite, a shopaholic, a workaholic?

This is your chance. Now you get to choose who you are. It's your time to create yourself.

Let me look up word 'late' in my dictionary.

NO MATCHES FOUND!

Remember it's never too late to become a new person, completely different and desired.

I'm not gonna tell you what to do (who gave me the right for it) you are the only person who has to rule your world. So get ready to renew your life just as your closet. No matter what others say, no matter which style you choose - classy, chic, sporty, feminine, elegant, sexy... You will be able to find hep from me no matter what.

Take a deep breath and step one forward!

xxx

Ladies, are you ready?

2011-09-23T10:30:00.000-07:00

Hello my sweet ladies!

Get ready your make-up bags,closets and your stamina, because I'm on my way to be your life-guide.

Let's make 23 September the anniversary of our blog. When I say 'our', I mean it.

We are going to build this entire blog together. Share the ideas, experiences and problems.

But above of all- we are going to help each other!

So are you ready?

Strut like the world is yours!

xxx