Jarvis Reality

Life is Full of New Beginning

2012-10-06T15:22:00.000+08:00

Sometimes I feel like giving up.

But there's something inside that says

All you need is love, and God is love. God should be the first one you talk to in crisis and in success, he knows you better than even you do. Pray and talk to him, silence your heart and let him speak to you. He will always have your back and no matter what will be there for you.

Its hard to be happy when people around you; all they do is to make the worst out of you, to criticize you, to see and become the judge on what you've done in the past.

I made a lot of mistakes in my past, includes dropping out of my college, bad vices, and etc.

In present situation When you know within your self that you've changed, and God only knows

you will say to yourself " I Wish I never done that/those mistakes "

We sometimes have to accept the fact that some people does not know how to forgive and to forget, there will always be conditions for 2nd chances/Last chances

But the fact that they give you this chances, they already have forgiven you, but does not mean they forget what you've done.

What we've done can change on how people treat us, they may not believe in you anymore or it might take time for them to treat you right again,

We cannot deny the fact that those people makes us sad, sometimes angry, but try to put yourself in their shoes. and you will understand.

Try to explain your self, try to open up, share what you have in mind, and be honest,

But if you know to yourself that what your doing is not enough for them,

then let it go and let God.

If these people will only judge you, condemn you, shamed you, or tried to take away your dignity,

just pray for them, just let it go.

Sometimes in order to accomplish our better Goals for our Future and for Good we will need the help of some people within the circle of our life,

you may have failed those people many times,

and the only choice you have is to ask them again,

for one last time to make it right.

lets admit it those people are hard to argue with cause your scared of saying something wrong and all you can do is agree with their conditions in order to start your foundations.

But I tell to myself, "Who am I to Judge them"

If you really want to reach your dreams then turn into God, Don't rely on people who condemn you or Criticize you,

Remember as for the past blogs I qouted

"No mistakes you've ever made is too much for the mercy of God"

You can do what ever you want when you are Filled with Hope,

have a dream, I know I'm not yet in the position to tell you this But i know

that if you keep your faith in God and only God,

You will reach your dreams,

Some people may say that "You Should stay where you are is for your own good"

But if you have this Dream, the Burning Faith in God, the hope, The Mercy and God's Favor

You will see yourself that you can do more,

you can do better,

So I Say Get Out There! and Say to yourself

I'm not Gonna stay on the same ground where I know i'm not gonna grow

I'm gonna go out there and face them with God and WE will make it right!

"Life is Full of New Beginning"

Images: Courtesy of Google

Imperfect person loved by Perfect God.

2012-09-17T23:51:00.000+08:00

Let's talk about the gifts that God has given in each and everyone of us,

"We are all special in every way"

You might have heard this phrase many times but these words mean a lot,

I believe that we are all equipped with God's favor, we might not know it, we might not notice it

but beyond that imperfection we are all special in every way.

You may say

"I don't have the talent"

"I'm not attractive"

"I don't have the skills"

But i'm sure that there is something in you that no one else can have.

And that is made by God Specially for you!

And no one can take it away.

That's God Favor

All you need to do is to Become a Believer and not a Doubter,

Believe that there is something in you that is so special,

~~Stop Limiting yourself~~

Many people limit themselves to what they think they can do, well I say to the fact that God made you, You are already special.

You are already equipped with God's favor and you should know that you have all the things that you need to live in this world and to fulfill God's Will.

It doesn't matter when people says to you that, you can't do it.

as long as you believe that you are made by God and you have all the talent's, the skills, and the faith that life requires you will stand out among those people

Albert Einstein said:

I'am thankful to those who said NO to me

Its because of them i did it myself.

Notice that instead of saying a negative feed back to those who said NO to him; He, instead thank them for his success

Let me also tell you that Having Faith in God includes Trusting in God's Timing

So get up every morning

and

Don't think

that someone else is more blessed than you are.

Its just that, we are blessed in different ways.

And if ever that your going to doubt something, doubt your limits.

Start believing and ~~stop doubting~~

You might be frustrated because of the present situation or you are depress right now because of your problems but you have not yet seen the best, the best is yet to come because you believe in yourself that you have God's favor within you, you can overcome any obstacles

Believe that you have God's favor in you, His blessings

and when you do that someday you will ask yourself, how did i get to where I'am this is not just my own ability, How did I overcome my problems, How could I'd be happy, so blessed after all I've been through.

Isang araw tatanungin mo nalang sasarili mo yang mga tanong na yan kung maniniwala ka lang,

Hindi ka man matalino, hindi ka man sikat pero nasayo yung favor ni God yun yung advantage mo,

Deepdown alam mo na kailangan mo malaman na merong bagay na nasasayo na hindi maiipapaliwanag hindi kayang sukatin, hindi kayang hawakan,

hindi malaman, maaring merong gusto yung mga tao sayo pero hindi nila alam kung ano ito, pero ang alam nila ay meron ka nito.

Pag naisip mo na meron kang God's favor araw-araw, gigising ka na walang takot sa mga pangarap mo o walang pag-a-alinlangan.

Pero minsan meron pa din humahatak pababa saatin,

pero isipin mo?

ano yung reason?

kasi alam nila na meroong something special sayo.

and they want to be in your place.

Think about it?

I'll end this Blog leaving you

a handy chart below whenever I feel something, or whenever something comes into my mind that my heart doesn't agree all I do is to read this and remind myself that within this Journey I'am with God.

Faith in our Words

2012-09-16T18:07:00.000+08:00

Let's talk about Faith in our words

"With our words we can either bless our future, or curse our future"-Joel Osteen

Sometimes try to listen to yourself, and you will hear yourself saying "I can't do this anymore", " I will never have my break", or "I will never go one step higher"

Notice those words are very negative, your telling negative things to yourself,

and when you do that those words will take root .

Kung gusto mo makita yung sarili mo 5yrs from now try to listen to what you are saying.

Words are very powerful, it can either break or build your future, I know people who thinks its all over, they'll never gonna make it, they will stay on the same ground, they will never get well,

well I say that's because your telling that to your self!

You are building a negative foundation about yourself!

Lets say when your gonna build a Building 50 stories high you can't put up a wood for its foundation

cause you know as long as you start putting the cement on top of the wooden foundation it will be weakened as well as throwing negative words to yourself your putting up an incoming disaster in your life

Its not about what you are right now, its what you can become in the future,

Right now you may be in debt, you feel your unattractive, or your in a Big problem, but think how big God is,

~~well i say quit throwing negative words into yourself~~

Let me hear you say

-I know I can do this

-I know I look good

-I know I will have a better future

When you say those words you enable the positive things to come to you.

Get out of the bed and say

This is my day!

Itigil mo na ang pagsasabi kung ano ka, and start talking about the way you will become.

That's what i used to do until now I look at myself in the mirror and say

I'm talented

I'm creative

I'm Healthy

People like to be around me.

Meron akong classmate noong Highschool palang ako, marami syang pimple, mataba, maliit.

laging syang my naririnig na kapintasan.

lagi nyang sinasabi sa sarili nya, "Hindi na ko papayat", "hindi na ko kikinis", "Alam ko pangit ako"

Yung mga negative words na yan; yan yung nagiging cause kung ano sya at kung anong magiging sya,

nakikita nya yung sarili nya sa negative angle,

pero isang araw nakita ko sya sa library nagbabasa ng Bible, siguro my nabasa sya doon that made him change, whenever my classmate throw negative words on her; she said " I know I'm not that good looking But i Believe that there's still a good thing about me I know I will lose weight, I know I'm gonna be healthy

and she did that over and over isang araw nakita ko sya during college days,

Hindi ko sya halos makilala she really changed payat na sya, maputi, makinis, maganda!

You see? the reason is she believed in her words!

whenever your saying positive things about yourself your planting a seed as well

and day after day, it will grow, hindi man overnight, pero ma g-grow ito, all we have to do is to believe in ourselves that we are what we say.

Minsan naisip ko din na kung ipag papatuloy natin ang pag sasabi ng negative sa sarili natin, na sinasabihan din natin ng negative si God,

because we are God's creation,

so Quit saying your washed up,

and start declaring:

My greatest victories are still in the future!

and start expecting something good,

it doesn't matter if you've made mistakes

as long as your willing to turn it all around it will be done.

We all have our Goals and our dreams.

Whenever someone said to me "DJ nakakatamad walang pagbabago araw-araw ganito"

I simply reply, Have a dream, mag set up ka ng goal, yun lang naman eh, don't give up on anything. as long as my pangarap ka sa araw araw na pag-gising mo my nakatatak sa isip mo na my patutunguan ka, isipin mo lang kung anong gusto mong maging at maniwala ka, it doesn't matter if your too old, or too young"

Just believe Quit saying negative things about your self and start saying positive things about what you will become.

Day after day

2012-09-15T23:43:00.000+08:00

Don’t think of

saying any ~~UNKIND WORD~~, think of the

people who can’t speak.

Don’t ~~complain~~ about the FOOD

you eat, some have nothing.

Don’t complain about LIFE, many

die young.

When you’re TIRED of your job,

think of the jobless, the disabled

& those who wish they had

yours.

When SAD THOUGHTS seem to

put you down, paint a SMILE on

your face and thank GOD you’re

alive and you’re still around. LIFE’s

a gift. LIVE IT WELL.

When I wake up every morning the fist thing that comes into my mind is to thank God for what happened yesterday and to thank God that i know something good will happen today.

That's how I see the future, that the good things that we deserve is on their way to us.

don't let any of your problem ruin your day.

Wag tayong makulong kung merong masamang nangyari kahapon isipin natin na marami pang pwedeng mangyari sa kinabukasan.

A dark past will not disqualify you from having a bright future.

When you wake up in the morning all you need to do or to think is to believe.

say to yourself that

"This is my day"

Ang sarap kayang maging masaya, Oo meron tayong mga problema pero if we just let God makikita natin sa sarili mismo natin kung ano ang difference.

Minsan nararamdaman natin or sinasabi natin sa sarili natin na

"Nagdadasal naman ako ha, naniniwala pero bat wala parin?"

if you can see the picture above I believe in that; that all answers; all our questions and doubts

Minsan kasi gusto natin na pag nagdasal tayo andiyan agad.

Oo naniniwala tayo, nagdadasal, pero once nagdasal tayo sana maintindahan din natin na meron din right timing si God para sa mga kagustuhan natin.

Minsan hindi na din tayo nagiging masaya dahil masyado nating iniisip yung mangyayari sa future.

Masyado tayong nag co- concentrate kung minsan na s-stress pa tayo.

"Naisip ko din kasi hahayaan ko bang hindi ko ma enjoy yung araw na to dahil lang sa pagiisip kung anong mangyayari bukas?"

Marami tayong pwedeng gawin ngayon na pwdeng maging product ng kinabukasan natin.

all we need to do is to trust in him that this is gonna be a good day,

For me the most powerful words are:

"God I Believe"

God I believe this is gonna be a great day
God I believe I will have my break
God I believe I will lend not barrow
God I believe I will have my dream house
God I believe I'm gonna have a better job
God I believe in you.

Now try to ask yourself:

"What do I believe in?"

Right path

2012-09-14T17:54:00.003+08:00

Lets talk about Journey with God

Most of us pray to God to change people in our lives,

We pray like " God, Please change my wife/husband/brother/sister/etc make them come to you help them to choose the right path"

What if God made these People to be the way they are so he can Change you?

Think about it.

Minsan kasi ipinag dadasal nanatin yung pagbabago ng ibang tao, bago pa sa sarili natin.

pano nalang kung ginawa sila, ginamait silang intrumento ni God para ikaw ang magbago?

What I'm trying to say is, have you tried to look at yourself in the mirror? have you seen how frustrated you are for someone else, have you seen yourself not being happy because of worrying for someone else?

Let me tell you this, Bakit hindi mo ipaubaya kay God lahat?

Simply by saying "God if you change that person I will be happy, But if you didn't change that person I will still be happy"

It's like praying : "God, I know you can change me"

Merong tamang oras para sa lahat si God, maaring hindi ngayon, oh maaring bukas na.

I heard a story : Merong mag asawa, pinipilit ng babae ang lalaki na sumama sakanya upang magsimba,

pero ayaw ng lalaki, araw-araw, -gabi-gabi nag dadasal ang babae sabi nya " God baguhin nyo na po ang asawa ko, turuan nyo po siyang magsimba" naging frustrated na yung babae. pinoproblema nya at na s-stress na sya sa asawa nya.

Isang araw nagdecide yung babae na "God ipapaubaya ko na po sa inyo yung asawa ko, kung babaguhin nyo sya magiging masaya ako, pero kung hindi, magiging masaya pa rin ako.

simula noon,

naging masaya ang babae tuwing pumupunta sya sa simbahan, walang problema at "stressed free"

lagi syang nakangiti, isang umaga "Sunday morning"

kinausap sya ng asawa nya sabi ng lalaki : "Mahal, Magsimba tayo mamaya"

halos himatayin ang babae sa narinig nya mula sa asawa nya

simula noon every Sunday sabay silang nagsisimba.

I'm sure nakita natin yung Extra-ordinary na ginawa ni God, everything has its right place and right time thats how God do it.

All we need is to believe and to let God,

do you know the saying :

Let go and Let God

Sometimes we just think that we are on the edge, and there is no turning back, YES I say there is no turning back, but we can still continue our journey and If we just believe God is just waiting on the sidewalk as we go forward maybe He is just few steps away. but if we fall, He will send someone to help us out,

He is our Father,

no matter how many mistakes you have done,

he is always there to help, maybe not him personally but he will send someone out to help us.

For example you are a Mother/Father, you heard your Son screaming for help, whose gonna fall down from a tree,

you are at the window you can see him, whats the first thing that comes to your mind? your not gonna say: " Let me first Check if he's been a good boy","Let me first see his report card"

But the first thing that comes to your mind is to rush out and save him!

That's how God works, Because we are his Children

Our Faith in God

2012-09-13T13:39:00.001+08:00

Lets talk about Faith,

My faith in God will not always be the same everytime i talk to him it gets better and better.
Minsan kasi makasarili "tayo" kung alam natin na kaya natin yung isang bagay hindi na tayo humihingi ng tulong kahit kanino.

September 9, 2012

This is the date when i surrender my self to God.

Marami na tayong naging kasalanan, maraming hindi naniniwala sa kakayahan natin, madaming hahatak saatin paibaba, pero sino sila para sabihin at mag judge satin. Alam ni God kung ano tayo at ang kaya natin anak nya tayo,

"All we need is to believe"

No mistake you've made is too much for the mercy of God

Isa si Joel Osteen sa naging instrumento ni God para sa aking pagbabago. naging tulay naman ang Mommy ko na si Lucy, para makilala si Joel Although hindi ko kilala personally si Joel Osteen, Marami akong natutunan mula sa kanya. ang mga Sermons nya sa Youtube.

I created this Blog not to show you what a Person I Become, but What a Person you can become in just believing in God and opening our hearts so God can enter

"Tao lang tayo" minsan nagkakaroon tayo ng Doubts, ng mga katanungan na "Kung mahal ako ni God bakit hinayaan nyang mangyari to?" hindi natin maiiwasan na magtanong, masyado tayong busy sa pag reregret sa mga nangyari na, na s-stock tayo sa mga masasamang pangyayari sa nakaraan natin. bat hindi natin isipin kung ano pa ang Meron kay God, nangyayari ang lahat according to God plan and time. we just have to wait, maaring bukas na o sa makalawa. maaraing malapit na yung Break na ibibigay satin ni God. so its never too late to hold on, isipin nalang natin na "Malapit ko ng makuha yung Premyo ko kay God ngayon pa ba ko susuko?"

Everyday we have a lots of challenges, in some parts of the world someone is Fighting for his/her life to live.

Think about your problem?

lets say you don't have money, you need a partner or etc.

give it all to God, let God handle everything. all you need to do is thank him in advance and just believe that the blessings is on their way.

Just let God Consume you from the inside out.

Its been 1yr since i joined Victory Christian Fellowship, I learned a lot every Sunday

. During my First days at VCF Greenhills: Hearing the sermon of the pastor and seeing people clap and sing from their hearts. i told to myself "Wow These people are surely happy and they are Surely praying"

because you can see people cry while they are singing, that amazed me. i tried to concentrate to what the pastor was saying. and I understand it all.

at my 2nd or 3rd week of Sunday That will be the day that i will never forget.

at the first time i sang some songs that I know and Open my arms up wide, my tears fell down, i felt like someone is hugging me that moment i knew God was there, i knew that he will always be there whenever i needed him all i need is to call him and believe. I felt his love and mercy.

"It also says in the Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your hearts, do not depend in your own understannding, Seek his will in all you do, and he will direct you paths"

Minsan kasi kala natin kaya na natin lahat, pag sinabi natin na "Hindi natin kailangan ng tulong"

Hindi nya talaga tayo tutulungan. all we have to do is to admit our weaknesses and stand up, we need to have uncommon faith.

As for what i have learn uncommon faith is what we need to have. let me give you an example.

Common faith: "God please help me with my problems"

Uncommon faith: "God Thank you for I know you will help me with my problems"

I'm sure you can see the difference we just need to open our hearts, don't tell yourself you don't deserve it because you made a lot of mistakes in your past. remember No mistake you've made is too much for the mercy of God.

But i'm not saying its okay to make mistakes everytime.

What I'm telling is its okay to made mistakes as long as you will not do it again and you will open your heart to God.

Here is a prayer I learned from Joel Osteen

Would you pray with me :

Lord Jesus,
I Repent of my sins,
Come in to my heart i'll make you my Lord and Savior

Introduction to JarvisReality

2012-09-10T23:12:00.001+08:00

Jarvis Huang Also known as David Jordan Huang Saron

Lets talk about my self:
A manila kiddo, 20yrs of age,
I just turned 20 last June 14,

I grew up in a Province, so technically i spent half of my my life residing at Zambales, yes thats our Province.

i went there around 1997 and we have a simple life, we go fishing, no cellphone, no iPad, no etc.

i finished my Grade School and Highschool at St. Augustine's School. also known as SAS

it is located at Iba Zambales. and its just a walking distance from our house.

lets jump into College.

I took my College Degree at Centro Escolar University at Mendiola Manila,

Bachelor of Science in Tourism and Hospitality Management.

lets Jump to my Blessings!

well lets talk about when i was just applying for a job.

i really wanted a good job and a good salary as well so i choose to enter the BPO industry,

at first i was so scared that i might be rejected but then I said to myself that it is normal to be rejected.

so i went into this company. bringing only a pen, resume, brown envelope and a little courage.

Yes its my first time to apply for a job, and yes i was rejected, but then after that i took all the advice that the interviewer had given to me and practice myself to death! LOL!

its like i promised to myself from that day so on, I'll never Speak tagalog again!

I applied 5 companies but then i got rejected 5times!

and then i went into this recruiting company if im not mistaken its World Wide Empowerment.
and luckily i was picked to be interviewed at Startek thats my first Job.

Well all of that is just a some part of my Happy Life. :)