Nature N People

Attitude

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 21 May 2011 19:23:00 +0000

Making arguments, learning new things, do not listening other people, complaining, short-temperedness, jealousy, shyness, being emotional, thinking positive, hardworking are some of the examples of attitude and nature but there are lot of other things which we are pointing as an attitude; good or bad.

Even if, we are sorting the things as good and bad attitude; there is no such rule to say this is a right attitude as it is changes from person to person.

If you have ever thought about your repetitive problems, you will find it is because of your attitude and nature.

But you know the real difference between the attitude and nature?

It is very simple, any repetitive or default thinking is an attitude and any repetitive or default action is a nature.

I.e. Short-temperedness, jealousy, shyness, being emotional, rudeness, helping other, friendliness are some of the examples of nature. Whereas thinking positive, learning new things, afraid of doing new things are some of the examples of attitude.

In short attitude is a principle, it is a key which makes your personality, and it decides whether you will on the good way or bad, it is everything……

In most of the cases your nature overcomes your attitude and so your success. So, to be successful always think first then act and do not let your nature to act first, before thinking.

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True Parenting

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 29 Jan 2011 11:22:00 +0000

“As you sow, so shall you reap" Though it is true there are lot of other practices everyone should do before becoming parent.

Every parent wants their child to have a bright future and so, lot of us spending more time to secure child's future by means of education, lifestyle, money, etc.

Everyone dreams about child's future, it’s lifestyle and what he/she will become. We think, if parent going to shape their child's future, it's lifestyle, it's education then why don't they shape themselves accordingly to the above conditions.

We think everyone, those becoming parent should know about their culture, education, lifestyle, relations, and society. As all above things are going to affect the growth and status of their child. Just think, if one don't have good relation in society they have bad social manners and lifestyle and still they want their child to have better future, is this possible it will happen?

Definitely no! To make it happen they have to maintain good culture, relation, manners which could enable their child to grow in good environment.

One more thing every parent should know is the basic of religion, culture, language, etiquette, etc. because all these things implies on child by birth. When child is growing he/she ask a lot of questions about religion, culture, language, etc. so, parent should prepare themselves to provide them ethically best answer.

We think parenting should not be to prove only fertility. It's a dream, it's a planning of future which giving both of them a responsibility and a relation for which they have prepared themselves in all above aspects. So everyone should respect their parent and their child.

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Resolution

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 31 Dec 2010 17:50:00 +0000

Most of the people like to start new activities on some special occasions for ease in remembering.

One of the most special occasions is a new year. Many of us have already started recapping whole year that what they have gained and loosed, good and bad memories of year, things they supposed to do and what they did and lot of other things like this.

So, in this post we will talk about resolution, people's view and what we think.

Generally, resolution comes in a picture only when we find some things yet to be accomplished or those are we required to accomplish.

Resolutions are generally made to build personality, for growth, to achieve some goal or just as a habit. So, resolution is a promise to oneself to accomplish particular task.

In process of resolution, everyone is taking recap of whole passing year then arriving at result, if succeeded, makes new resolution which is in priority. If not succeeded, either it carry forwarded or it is given up.

Now, it is a time to share, what we think about resolution. We think, people make any resolution only to strengthen their personality, to achieve some goal or a commitment towards society or an environment or a relation, etc. to enjoy benefits from it. Then why don't we make any resolution at a moment when we feels responsible or when we finding any incapability in ourselves.

So, everyone with this attitude will get a special occasion at every moment he/she feel responsible to make resolution. And it is depending upon a time it takes and number of simultaneous task.

As New Year is one of the best time to make new resolution, why don't we have this attitude of making resolution at a moment one feels responsible. So, think positive, find your weaknesses, feel responsible, make a resolution and see the difference.

Wish you all the best.

Happy New Year.

My perfect life partner

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 18 Dec 2010 20:08:00 +0000

Life partner is very important person in everyone’s life. This is a person who should be caring, understanding, dedicating, intelligent, and most responsible and where we feel ourselves secure. We need a person who can become our strength, our inspiration and our mentor. Expectations about life partner always changes with person to person.

So, this blog is for everyone who is married or not yet married.

Generally, people wants so many things to be reflect in their life partners, especially those they like and those they have. Some people are getting a perfect match but number of people those don’t get a right one are compromising many things with their life partner even though they had spent lot of time in understanding their life partner.

So it is everyone's responsibility to understand what they are expecting, usefulness of their each expectation and most important limitations of their life partner.

The most common complaints in this relationships are not giving time, dishonest, not frank, demands, thinking and lot many.

We think, people, those are complaining about time are most fanny who wants all thing should be done at the same time without compromising a single one. Generally, to get all other things which are required for the happiness, needs sufficient time and it is possible only when if someone utilizing allotted time seriously. So it is up to that person how to manage time and life partner.

If we think about dishonesty, several reasons may come out. One of the reasons of dishonesty might be shortcoming of expectations of partner or one is habitual of something which leads to make it dishonest. In this particular case, things can be managed by moulding oneself with respect to other’s interest and by trying to change the habit of other person, if possible.

Another problem in relationship is lack of openness. Openness in relationship is very important because lot of other problems can be solved only with open talk. Other things like demands, thinking and sexual satisfaction are completely related with openness in relationship. If one's thinking matches with other, openness will come automatically and then demands can be managed.

It is everyone’s responsibility to understand importance of togetherness and to transform relation into successful relation.

Wish you all the best…

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Live life without fear

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 11 Dec 2010 10:11:00 +0000

In our life span, instead of enjoying life, we spent most of the time under fear. If we start counting from our childhood up to the death, we are afraid of so many things. It may be in study, career, other activities, phobias, finding guilty, in selecting something, in doing something, mishaps, accidents, diseases, relations, environmental and social issues and lot many.

If we go in detail of all these we can conclude, we fear only when we are losing something. It might be trust, relation, money, material, reputation and lives.

So fear is the insecure feeling of losing something and a death.

Though every living thing has to die, so thinking on death is waste of time.

The second one is losing something and most of the people are afraid of this. We can secure this feeling by:

selfless behaviour,

supporting truth and

being a good human being following standard ethics.

So if you want to get out of the fear, you must know the fear, above simple steps to be followed.

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Thoughts on expectations

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Thu, 02 Dec 2010 14:53:00 +0000

Expecting something from the close one is the innocent feeling. Everyone who is struggling in their life either for education, career, relation, etc are expecting so many things from their close one or others.

Now suppose, you are a person expecting something from your close one or others, should be prepared for the result which may be positive or negative depends upon what you are expecting and from whom you are expecting.

Now if the response is positive then it is simple to go ahead and achieve your goal but if the response is negative then it should be handled seriously and carefully. In this situation, understand what you are expecting, from whom you are expecting and most important what it mean to you.

In this particular situation you have to understand their problems, limitations and why they can't accomplish your expectation. So take a time and acquire all those things you are expecting from others, which they regret.

Most of the time, we are accepting people knowing their bad things because we are more liking their good things. But when we are finding some limitations in others, in case of expectation, can't we accept them? and overlook their limitations rather cursing them that they not found helpful?

So the point was, if you really want to do something and not getting what you are expecting from other, it doesn't mean you to divert from your goal and to change the perspective about the people.

Ultimately the goal is yours so shape yourself in such a way that you can achieve your goal by expecting less from others.

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What do you mean success is?

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 30 Nov 2010 17:46:00 +0000

Just think about the people those are struggling for earning money, those are earning money but struggling in relations, those are good in relations but struggling for money and one more those are struggling with themself due to health or some other problem. All are trying to get the respective thing, they don’t have and if they could get that, they might be successful.

Now talk about the measure of success. It might be money, power or fame. I think, we can relate all of these because to be successful by the means of power, money or fame it need to have another one.

So, money, power and fame are just mediums but not always success.

Then what mean success is? I think success is the result of efforts in particular thing to benefit the individual or the group or the society, i.e. a successful individual or successful industrialist or socialist.

After going through all above points we can conclude happiness is the only measure of success.

So, success should come with the happiness, without happiness there is no success.

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I am feeling lonely today !!!

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 20 Nov 2010 11:40:00 +0000

"Yes, I often feel lonely, but why?" This type of sentences are always repeated in our personal conversation with our friends, colleagues, and relatives, repeatedly.

But no one thinks about loneliness. i.e. where it comes from and how to overcome it.

I think loneliness is the feeling, which comes from the situation where we are incomplete to the surrounding.

For example you are away from your family, staying with new peoples & in second example your best friend is not with you in a tour. In both the cases you are feeling lonely, but it is not because someones absence but it is because someones shortcoming in the surrounding which is requirement of surrounding.

But you know, from where it starts? It generally start when you are exposing yourself to the surrounding where you are incomplete or you are not satisfying the criteria of that surrounding.

Still knowing these facts, how you can suppress loneliness?

Yes you can! you can suppress loneliness by not involving yourself in particular surrounding or by preparing yourself for that surrounding or by choosing surrounding which accommodate your nature.

Definitely you will be away from loneliness.

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How to enjoy the things we don’t like to do.

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 14 Nov 2010 12:30:00 +0000

Many times we need to do very irrelevant things which we are not really enjoying. But because of some reason, forcefully or intentionally we are doing those things.

Then, why don’t we start enjoying, instead of cursing and forcing our self to do those things?

Ask yourself,

What you like to do most?

Then,

Why don't you like that particular thing?

And lastly, why you are involved in that particular thing?

Now you will come to know that you are doing the things because of your some purpose.

Lets go in details of your purpose.

Just before that, ask yourself, how you will handle your purpose.

Can you avoid it completely? If Yes, then simply avoid it but if No, then you have to stick with your purpose but still you can enjoy the things by introducing other things which you like most. Handle the things in such a way that enjoyable things must be bigger compared to dislike thing.

Can you divert it? If Yes, then simply divert it but if No, then you have to stick with your purpose but still you can enjoy the things by the way as mentioned above.

If you can reduce the effect, then simply reduce it but if No, then also you can enjoy the things by the way as mentioned above.

But if you want to keep yourself away from this type of situation, identify the possible things you will do and prepare yourself for identified things then you will definitely enjoy the things as those were predicted and for what you have prepared yourself.

Next blog might be related with your thinking.

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Hobby, Personality and making money

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 13 Nov 2010 14:29:00 +0000

There are number of ways to make money and for that it is not really important to have some specialization degree or any capital. For supporting your idea there are various ways you get guidance and can arrange capital.

Then how one can make good money of oneself?

One thing is that your hobby and personality can play vital role in making money. Lets integrate and differentiate both of them from each other. Hobbies, the things we like to do most, enjoy and the things we are living. Another is personality, it is a way you are presenting yourself, your style and may be adjective to us from someone else.

So what is the easiest way to make money?

It is very simple, make your hobby as your profession and choose your profession to accomodate your personality. That make you resist less in that environment. Now get expertise in your hobby as well as profession and then find number of other ways which are related to your profession and hobby where you can explore yourself.

You may face lot of problems during this journey but you must have patience as there are number of solutions to overcome your personal, cultural, regional, financial problems, etc. But that will be in the next post......

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