If you’re looking for somewhere sweet to spend the national holiday of love, take a look at the five suggestions below. I’ve got something for everyone from train rides to backcountry huts and even kissing rocks.

Colorado’s Romantic Outdoor Spots

But not everyone wants chocolates, roses and a candlelit dinner. For us outdoorsy types, a thoughtfully planned mountain excursion or a sweet-yet-simple picnic is just as romantic. Thankfully, this state has a litany of amorous hot spots and I’m here to share my favorite of Colorado’s romantic outdoor spots . What would you add to the list?

Durango-Silverton Narrow Gauge Railroad Train

All Photos By Will Rochfort

Maybe I’m cliche, but I find the idea of an old fashioned, steam-powered train incredibly romantic!

The Silverton Railroad is iconic for backpackers who are looking to visit Chicago Basin in hopes of summiting the classic trio of 14ers: Sunlight, Eolus and Windom. Rather than spend a full day packing into the basin, hikers tend to opt for the classic train that travels along the Animas River before dropping passengers at the Needleton stop. From here, it’s only ~6 miles to Chicago Basin.

Hiking aside, I can’t imagine a more classic backdrop for Valentine’s Day! The views from the train are stunning and the special “Romance on the Rails” package includes chocolate covered strawberries, brunch, live music and optional champagne toasts. Yes please!

Strawberry Park Hot Springs

Imagine snow gently falling around you as you soak in a 104-degree mineral hot spring in the middle of the forest. Sounds idyllic, right?!

Strawberry Park Hot Springs in Steamboat Springs are my absolute favorite natural springs in Colorado. Located away from town off a sometimes-brutal dirt road, Strawberry Park features more than just a hot soak. Camping, rustic cabins and a classic train caboose or covered wagon are available for lodging, and massages are an option upon request. Snag the caboose for an evening, book a couples’ massage and soak in the hot water until midnight. Sounds like Valentine’s paradise to me!

Side note: clothing is optional after dark which can either spice things up or completely deter you, depending on your preference!

Ski Loveland

With a name like Loveland, how could this resort NOT be a perennial favorite on February 14?

Loveland Ski Area is one of the smaller mountains in Colorado, but it’s also known as a local favorite. With steep skiing and tough terrain, Loveland is not for the faint of heart, unless it’s your sweetheart that is making you feel weak in the knees!

If you’re feeling extra lovey-dovey and want to add a little sass to your Valentine extravaganza, take a look at Loveland’s special “Marry Me and Ski Free” deal. Celebrating its 24th year, couples can marry or renew their vows at the Ptarmigan Roost Cabin at the top of  Chair #2. It’s a mass ceremony, so definitely not the most private affair, but the views are literally breathtaking: Ptarmigan Roost Cabin is located at 12,050 feet.

Side note: participants are required to be able to ski down the mountain under their own esteem. Don’t get hitched at Ptarmigan and expect to ride the lift down because ski patrol is NOT going to be happy with you!

Backcountry Hut Trip

Lower Montgomery Yurt in the Never Summer Yurt System

I’d be remiss if I didn’t include one of my all-time favorite Colorado activities: a backcountry hut trip!

Colorado is famous for its backcountry hut system. We have the 10th Mountain Division Huts, the San Juan Hut System and the Never Summer Yurt system, just to name a few! And honestly, I can’t imagine anything more romantic than a hut trip. You can spend your days skiing or snowshoeing through the snowy forest only to arrive at a cozy cabin, complete with wine, cuddling and a roaring fire.

My personal preference? Check out Ken’s Cabin, one of the backcountry huts in the Summit Huts. It only sleeps three people, so you and your sweetheart can book the entire cabin for privacy.

Hike to the Kissing Couple in Monument Canyon

Guys, we’re talking about a rock formation that resembles a kissing couple. Could it be any more romantic?!

Located in the Colorado National Monument outside of Grand Junction on the Western Slope, hikers will enjoy the Monument Trail. Depending on which legs you tackle, you’re looking at anywhere from 7-12 miles in total distance. If you’re hoping to check out Kissing Couple, a pair of spiraling rock pinnacles that kinda lean towards each other, you’ll be looking at just over 5 miles roundtrip. Don’t forget to pack a picnic!

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The Issue With Female Empowerment

As a long-time member of many female-focused and mama-centric outdoor organizations,  I’ve seen the message of these communities change from “getting women together outdoors” to “empowering women through the outdoors.” They are now focused on providing the right tools for women to get outside and to have more confidence . The goal: to enable us to contribute to a better society have nothing against what they are trying to accomplish; truly, I don’t. Honestly, it’s a noble endeavor and one that I think we need in this world. My real issue is with the word empower that I see way too often. I dislike how it can limit our ability to see the real power that already resides in outdoor women. Most of us may not be ultrarunners or have climbed Mount Everest, but we have serious strengths and those need to be recognized.

So hear me out.

Of course I want to see women empowered. “To empower” means to make someone stronger and more confident, especially in controlling her life and claiming her rights (believe me, I looked up the definition!) But even as I read the definition back to myself, I view the intention of the word as targeting someone other than myself.  I’m reminded of a quote from Mary Oliver that says:

…And you must not give anyone else the responsibility for your life.

And that’s just it. You are responsible for your own life. There are obviously external factors (and I’m not trying to undermine those) but ultimately, your life is what you make of it. Limiting yourself to what an organization thinks they can give you is a complete mistake. I say this from experience. I used to be an ambassador for one of these women’s outdoor communities and as I think back on leading hikes, there was an underlying tone that the women who accompanied me needed help and encouragement. That couldn’t be further from the truth.

Once, I led a hike on an easy trail with 18 other women of all different shapes, sizes, and colors. But, we had one thing in common: getting outside on a cold March morning to summit a mountain. On the way up, I chatted with several women, each having her own reason for coming out that day. Personally, I was four months postpartum and trying to get back into the swing of hiking. As we trekked along, I realized I had a lot to learn from the women walking beside me. They didn’t need to be educated or empowered; they simply needed their strengths and accomplishments recognized.

They just needed someone to listen. They needed to feel heard.

By using the word empowerment, we automatically limit the notion of existing power. Women (especially the ones I’ve met in the outdoors) are amazing. We push babies out of a 10 centimeter hole and come close to death during childbirth; we gracefully deal with sexist shit every day (or in my case, not so gracefully); we’re professionals in high-heeled shoes during the week but dazzle in trail boots as weekend warriors; we overcome all obstacles without skipping a beat (because if we do, it’s a sign of weakness according to society); we do things twice as well to be considered equal to our male counterpart; and we constantly feel we can do better.

But one thing we don’t do nearly enough is embrace each other’s stories, heartbreaks, triumphs, accomplishments, failures, and everyday struggles.

Find your voice, find your power. Use it to blaze a trail and you might discover others will follow your path. Women are a force of nature and a force for good. Just imagine if all us women realized the power we already have; the possibilities are limitless.

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Sounds good, except it’s not.

Last year at Summer 2018 Outdoor Retailer, friend and founder of the African American Nature & Parks Experience Teresa Baker walked the aisles of the tradeshow floor, asking for signatures to sign her newly-created Outdoor Industry CEO Diversity Pledge. The pledge had one main goal: to create, promote, and enforce policies in the workplace that expand upon diversity, equity, and inclusion for employees.

Sound similar? I sure hope so, because what Camber Outdoors announced today looks like a straight-up copy of what Teresa and her colleagues began nearly one year ago.

In an industry consistently struggling with whitewashing and the male ego, it’s beyond frustrating that a larger corporation bullied a smaller, grassroots organization and eliminated them from the conversation. Teresa began a movement last year yet Camber failed to acknowledge, include, or even invite her and her team to the table. Instead, this Diversity Pledge has become yet another example of inauthenticity.

And what’s worse is that this appears to be an intentional exclusion rather than an accidental oversight. I briefly chatted with Teresa this morning to express my appreciation for her efforts, and she told me that she reached out to Deanne Buck, the executive director of Camber Outdoors, and asked that they work together. According to Teresa, Buck told her no.

Look, I’m certainly not an expert on this situation so I won’t pretend that I am (and I haven’t personally spoken to anyone at Camber). But, I’m a human. And from where I sit in the cheap seats after spending two days at Outdoor Retailer, this exclusion looks like a sucker punch. Camber has the power and the influence but they used it for a false good rather than opting to include Teresa and her team in the discussion. At best, that feels illogical. At worst, unconscionable.

A friend on Facebook shared this Huffington Post article entitled “The Difference Between Allyship and Co-Opting Movements.” If you have (another) second, I suggest you read it. Within the text, the author summarizes the problem with this situation in a nutshell:

When allying with a specific cause or movement, it can be easy to attempt to co-opt the movement and forget the people who have been on the ground doing the manual work to social change before it became trending or with its own hashtag. Co-opting movements is incredibly problematic because it forgets the work that has been going on far before the movement gained popularity, and becomes accredited to a false perception of a savior-like ally swooping in to save the day.

Personally, I’ve been trying to work on better allyship as the outdoor industry grows, evolves, and learns. I’m a female in a male-dominated industry, and that certainly comes with some hardships. But I am also acutely aware that I come from a place of privilege as an upper class white person who has never seen a “real” hardship in my life. In realizing this, I also understand that we can do better. We need to do better and we need to cease lip service and focus on actual behavior.

I often look at our daughter and wonder what type of world she will grow up in. I wonder whether we are creating the best environment to mold her into a good human and I can only hope that we are making the right decisions along the way. As humans, we have an obligation to better ourselves and each other. And, as the article points out, allies need to acknowledge a wrong when it occurs in an effort to learn and grow towards future progress.

Teresa, I see you and I appreciate you. You and your efforts haven’t gone unnoticed by me.

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Family Fun at the Snow Mountain Ranch Yurts

Will and I have spent some time at Snow Mountain Ranch in the past, pre-Liliana. During our first visit, we enjoyed fat biking in the snow and dog sledding with the world’s most adorable puppies. But this time, we were invited back in the summer to experience the Snow Mountain Ranch yurts. Yurt life in the mountains with a sub-one-year-old? Sign me up!

Alas, I’ll cut to the chase: I didn’t get to go. Deadlines loomed so I chained myself to my desk all weekend while Will and Liliana enjoyed everything that SMR’s yurts had to offer. I drooled over the stories though, and lived vicariously through the eleventy billions text photos I received from my husband. Because you guys, Snow Mountain Ranch is seriously one of the best family-friendly places I’ve ever visited!

First, let’s talk about the yurts. The ranch features 24 different yurts split between two different villages, and each structure has electricity, WiFI, a minifridge, and a microwave inside {which explains why Will could text me so easily!} Is it glamping? Absolutely. But I will tell you that minifridge came in handy for Will who was stashing my pumped breast milk to feed the baby all weekend! #BabyLife If you’re the sort who likes to shower and not pee outside, the nearby bathhouses have flush toilets, showers with hot water, and hair dryers {although truth be told, I can’t speak to that because my husband barely washes his hair when he has to go to work, let alone when he is glamping for a weekend.}

Is this the softer life? Sure is. But, I mean, you have to walk a couple hundred yards from your car to your yurt so it’s kinda like a toddler-led hike, right?

Did I Mention All The Amazing Activities?

In all seriousness, I’ve come to appreciate places like Snow Mountain Ranch since having a daughter. Since she was so young, Will couldn’t partake in as many of the sanctioned activities as the other families, but he and Liliana walked around all day to watch the big kids play. Archery lessons, summer tubing, roller skating, arts and crafts, and the Spruce Saddle Adventure Zone {complete with zip line, of course} are all options to anyone looking for a weekend in the mountains. And, guess what: most of those activities are already included in your visit.

If you are interested in visiting, hop over to Snow Mountain Ranch’s website. Reservations opened on January 1, 2019!

If You Go:

Cost: $99 per night. Each yurt sleeps 6 people via a Queen bed and two bunkbeds. One tent is allowed on each yurt’s tent pad to sleep an additional two people.

Availability: Yurts are available year-round, but note: there is no heat so winter visits will be chilly. You may check availability here.

Dogs: Allowed with a $25 per night fee.

Activities: As mentioned above, most activities are included. The climbing wall, archery, summer tubing, and zip line require reservations and do cost extra.

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Located in the teeny-tiny town of Port Orford, Oregon, WildSpring is a veritable utopia for those looking for a blend of comfort, beautiful scenery, and eco-friendly accommodations.

PC: Will Rochfort

I knew WildSpring was going to be special when we pulled up to the gate. Rather than the typical lobby or check-in area, there was merely a simple open-air covered kiosk with five wicker boxes. Each box corresponded to one of the five cabins on the property. Inside the wicker box was a welcome packet with your information, check-out info, map to your cabin, and intercom instructions {to notify the owners that you had arrived safely.} Next to the wicker baskets was a wheelbarrow: no bellman for WildSpring! Instead, we wheeled our luggage to our cabin.

Our cabin itself was absolutely charming. It was a quaint little place nestled in the thick greenery that is coastal Oregon, but the character didn’t end when you opened the front door. The cabin was divided into three rooms: a front living area, a bedroom, and a bathroom. Each cabin is decorated differently with antique and vintage finds from various shops, overstuffed furniture, and unique lamps and pillows. Y’all I immediately fell in love with this place!

Can you imagine a more picturesque place to spend a romantic getaway with your significant other?!

In addition to the five cabins, WildSpring has a beautiful guest hall located on the bluffs overlooking the ocean of the five-acre resort. The guest hall was maybe a two-minute walk from our cabin and we walked by unique-yet-mythical decorations like the sculpture garden, walking labyrinth, and lounging hammock.

The guest hall itself was awesome. Not only did it flaunt floor-to-ceiling windows to look at the ocean, but it also had a working kitchen. Breakfast is included in your stay; it was vegetarian when we were there, but I’m not sure if that is the norm. It did include fresh fruit, steel-cut oats, fresh-baked pastries, granola, breads and jams. {The WildSpring folks also took note of special request the night before– they made me some hardboiled eggs!} We enjoyed our breakfast by the windows, watching the ocean crash beyond the bluffs. If you visit in the summer, be on the look out for wonderful whale watching!

The kitchen is open for any guest who wishes to cook their own meals rather than go out to eat. Will and I took full advantage of this while we were there; we actually threw together soup one evening just because we were too lazy to go out!

The guest hall kitchen

All of the amenities are gorgeous, but the eco-friendly nature of the place truly impressed me. To begin, WildSpring only needed to remove two of the old trees to build the entire resort– that’s it. They rearranged everything else in the construction to work around the existing 2nd-growth trees. They also used local, sustainable materials whenever possible. All of the vegetation is native and the decorations and furniture all came from consignment and thrift shops in Hollywood, so it was all reused for the sake of WildSpring.

Heading on a trip soon? Check out these Packing Trips for Adventure Travel to help you prepare!

The resort also strives to keep their operations as eco-friendly as possible. All the cleaning products are non-toxic and scent-free, and all the appliances and light bulbs are low-watt and energy efficient. The neighborhood does little to recycle, so WildSpring stores everything and takes it wherever is needed. They recycle and compost everything possible, and donate any unused food to a local person who then takes it to those who need it. Basically, they have reduced their footprint as much as possible and offset the rest to achieve a zero carbon footprint. That’s seriously impressive!

{I could go on and on about their eco-friendly efforts, but if you’re interested in reading more, check out their website.}

The sculpture garden

The next time you’re in the PNW and looking for a relaxing and romantic vacation, definitely consider WildSpring. I mean, the photos speak for themselves!

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When I was 18, I spent the summer after high school working for my parent’s landscaping company. As a recent graduate, I was absolutely over my job as a cashier at Target but knew I needed to work all summer to save some money before college began in the fall. Mom and dad offered me a job as a gardener working underneath one of their very experienced horticultural supervisors. I had never previously considered working with their company or in the green industry in general, but I figured it was worth a shot. After all, I got to work outside!

I spent the summer working my butt off. I was attached to Christine, my supervisor, and in turn, she taught me everything. I started with the basics like weeding {because naturally, she didn’t trust me to do anything else!} and eventually learned more and more about the plants themselves. Our family business specializes in color theory for annual and perennial installations {annual: flowers that live one summer, perennials: flowers that return every year} for upscale residential clients, so I was surrounded by hundreds upon hundreds of new-to-me flowers. I learned how to encourage growth and repeat blooms; I learned about proper pruning and feeding techniques; I learned names {both Latin and common since my mom is practically a walking botany dictionary}. And as the summer went on, I began to realize that maybe this would be more than “just a summer job for me.”

I went away to college in the fall but by the time the next summer rolled around, I was dying to be back outside for work. After spending a school year crammed indoors at a desk, the concept of sunshine and Vitamin D on a daily basis sounded perfect. I returned to work with my family company.

This pattern continued throughout college as I slowly rose through the ranks, eventually becoming a crew supervisor. Now, in addition to the basic plant knowledge, I learned how to manage a crew of people as well as a dozen client properties. I learned a lot about interpersonal communication, both from my clients and my team members. And, as an added bonus, I was making a lot more money than my friends who picked up various summer jobs to fill in the gaps. Looking back, it was a healthy education for a 21-year-old kiddo.

After graduation, I struggled. I landed a PR job along with a part-time editing job for a local magazine, both careers tied into the journalism degree that I recently earned. But, I wasn’t ready to settle down. Instead, I quit both jobs, sold my belongings, and took off on my bike. If you don’t know that story, you can read a bit about it here. I spent four years bouncing around various parts of the world before returning to Denver in 2008 with my sights set on graduate school. Once again, I knew I needed a job while I attended class at night, so I returned to my family company.

Older and wise with a lot more experience {and great timing since their business was booming}, my parents trained me as the assistant manager to the company. I already knew and remembered most of their clients, so integrating me into the process was easy. But this time, instead of going out into the field with the crews, I spent my days working on the back end of the business. Bit by bit as my parents grew to trust me and my decision-making skills, I took on more responsibility with the business they had built. I created schedules; I handled client complaints; I spent hours upon hours designing annual installations for the busiest month of the year; I managed staff; I handled payroll; I helped my dad with taxes. While some of the menial tasks may not sound glamorous, I loved it. My parents founded their business in 1994 and I am so proud of them for identifying an industry they love, creating careers for themselves, and then supporting the livelihoods of at least a dozen other people. Almost 25 years later, and they made it work. And I really enjoyed supporting that and becoming a part of the family business.

I stayed with the company for another 10 years–a decade!–as the manager, eventually deciding  on a career change at the start of the 2018 season. With the arrival of Liliana, I wanted to be at home more and knew that buying and owning a business would be stressful with our baby girl. I made the choice that was best for our family. But, by the time it was all said and done, I spent close to 15 years with the family business so I feel confident in saying that I am well-versed in the green industry and have enough experience to be chatting with y’all today.

Because here is the thing: the outdoor industry and the landscaping industry are so very closely tied together yet I think so many people don’t realize it! If you are someone who is considering a career in the outdoors but is looking for options, I’d strongly urge you to take a look at the field of landscaping. Why? Here are a few reasons:

Pleasant Work Environment

If you are someone who really abhors the thought of a cubicle or desk or fluorescent lighting, landscaping could be a great fit. Not only do you get to work outside in all weather, but you spend your days creating beautiful outdoor spaces. Sometimes, the change is small and gradual as you maintain a small flower bed. Other times, depending on your specialty, the change can be quite dramatic when you tear up a slope, create some terraces, and install a garden. It’s so rewarding to see this change and know that you personally created such a lovely space.

Sustainability

I’m not sure many in the industry actually realize this, but careers in landscaping are vital to local sustainability. Installing and maintaining plants and creating green spaces is critical to the mental healthy of locals and communities, and you get to be a part of that.

Growth Potential

As you can see by my relatively long-winded story above, there is a lot of growth potential in this industry if you are the right person for the job. So frequently, individuals come into these careers with little to no experience, but as they learn the proper skillsets, the sky becomes the limit in terms of where they can take their livelihood. Having been in business for so long, my parents and I can list at least a dozen former staff members who came on board with zero landscaping knowledge, but now own and operate their own company. If you are interested and a hard worker, you can create a beautiful world for yourself.

Solid Income

One of the biggest misconceptions about the landscaping industry is that you will never make more than minimum wage. And while there are certain less-than-desirable companies out there that stick to that pay schedule, that certainly isn’t the norm. Depending on your career track, experience, education, and the size of the company you work for, you can easily make a good living for you and your family.

Job Stability

In 2018 alone, the landscaping industry needs to hire upwards of 300,000 positions. Y’all, that is an insane amount of work and in my personal opinion, I think the industry could use a surge of fresh blood coming from the millennial generation. My parents’ generation was heavily involved in the green careers but my generation waned a bit, so it’s time for millennials to offer a bit of their unique style to this outdoor career. Truly, with that many available careers, the potential is limitless.

For those of you that only stop by my site occasionally or haven’t been longtime readers, I imagine this entire career story comes as a bit of a surprise. But, after spending almost half of my life in the landscaping industry, it is a topic that is very near and dear to my heart. If any of this interests or excites you, please feel free to reach out. I’m happy to answer any questions if this is something you want to delve into a bit more! Or, if you are interested, you can check out the Landscape Industry Career site.

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You know what? It’s been a hot minute since I’ve registered for a legitimate race and it’s about time I remedied that!

Who wants to join in the fun at the Getaway 5K/10K in Boulder?! 

Back in the spring, the crew behind the race shot me an email and amidst the conversation, asked my input regarding race location. At the time, I wasn’t sure if we would end up partnering together, but I thought it was a classy move. They had three or four locations they were considering and I appreciated that they were asking potential participants and locals their thoughts on which environments would be best suited for the run. And, as luck would have it, they opted for my first choice: the Boulder Reservoir!

Initially, I partnered up with Getaway to help them spread the word because I love helping out new races. After all, I can’t run with this whole torn knee thing, yanno? But, the more I thought about it, I realized that was silly. I can walk just fine, right? And a Saturday morning by the Boulder Reservoir in September is arguably one of the more beautiful ways to spend my last Saturday pre-surgery, so why not do it at the race?

One day I will be running at races again. Today is not the day.

And, so it went. Will, Liliana, and I will all be walking the 5K course on September 8. You should come out and join us! Why?! Well, I have a couple reasons:

Premium Race Swag

Seriously guys, I don’t say that lightly! If you sign up for the 10K, you will receive a 1/4 zip pullover long-sleeved tech shirt that is totally legit. Evidence:

I’m hoping you noticed how carefully I placed this shirt so it appeared to wave at you. You’re welcome.

Truthfully, I’m not someone that really cares about race swag and tend to donate the shirts. But I was given one of these shirts to check out and I honestly will wear it, largely thanks to its sweat-wicking abilities. It’s pretty awesome. And if you register for the 5K, you get a similar shirt, just with short sleeves. Still pretty awesome!

Race Medals

This bling is snazzy! They designed them for each specific race so you will receive one particular to your distance. I know a lot of people that buy wall mounts and hang their medals; is that you? If so, I suspect you’re going to like the look of this jewelry hanging up with the rest!

Discount Code

Let’s be real: a driving reason behind race registrations is budget, amiright?! That stuff adds up! Thankfully, the team at Getaway provided me with a discount code that registrants can use for the 5K or 10K. It takes off $12 from the registration cost which means the 10K costs $38 and the 5K costs $28. Not too shabby!

For the discount, use the code in the graphic below:

Added bonus: if you are an AARP member, you receive 50% off automatically!

We Can Hang Out

I realize that is the least cool reason on the list, but come on! Have you seen a cuter face? Likely not. We’ll be there in full, adorable-baby mode!

What are you waiting for? Get registered and then let me know you’ll be there. We can hang out!

Excited to run but now sure how to train? Check out Amanda’s Tips for Your First 5K!

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In all seriousness, there is a huge misconception that outdoor fun ceases the second a baby pops out. And while there are a million excuses to help you back out of your planned trip once you have an infant, there really isn’t any legitimate reason to do so. Sure, it takes more work and determination, but outdoor fun shouldn’t cease once that bundle of joy arrives.

Considering finding some wilderness with your babe? Here are some tips to get you started:

Plan for Heavy {Or Phone a Friend}

It sounds obvious, but plan on a {much} heavier pack than you are used to carrying. Backpacking gear weighs a lot to begin with, but once you add in the baby gear, the pounds increase seemingly exponentially. Your tent goes from a two-man to a three-man. You need to pack a third sleeping pad. A whole set of clothes? Add ’em in. Oh, and don’t forget her food because Baby Girl will be pissed if you make her go hungry {and the entire wilderness area will hear about it}.

And did I mention diapers? Yeah, definitely don’t forget those.

When it was all said and done, our packs weighed significantly more than usual. For our single overnight in Sedona, Will carried roughly 40-50 pounds, while I carried 35 pounds {Liliana + the backpack}. But, when we started considering our multi-night trip in Ansel Adams Wilderness, we began questioning whether we could do it. After all, I was hiking on a busted knee with strict doc orders to not carry a lot of weight {oops.} Time to phone a friend!

If possible, gather your favorite outdoor friends and ask for help. It may seem daunting to ask friends to carry extra weight, but our experience was nothing but favorable. You’ll be surprised at how happy your friends are to help! We ended up with a group of 6 { 3 friends + our family} and each of our friends carried an additional 5-10 pounds for us. Could we have done it ourselves? Sure, but this was way easier.

Start ‘Em Young

You’ve heard it before, but starting your kiddo earlier on is going to make the entire process that much easier. Liliana turned 10 months last week so she isn’t exactly ancient, but we already notice that her outdoor experience has made things much simpler. Her first flight was at 8 weeks {and she’s racked up 20 more since then}; her first hike was at 10 weeks; her first backcountry hut trip at 5 months; and her first night in a tent was just shy of 7 months.

Our campsite at Thousand Island Lake

PC: Moxie82 Inc.

In showing her all of those new places and allowing her to adjust to new sleep situations, she has become the world’s easiest baby to take backpacking. She already knows how to go with the flow so what is one more day in a backpack or evening in a tent? Additionally, she views the outdoors as a comfortable place full of sensory experiences that make her happy rather than uncomfortable. Honestly, we reached one point where we were trying to find our campsite and we were doing a lot of back and forth hiking, so I sat down on a rock with her while Will and the others searched the lake. It wasn’t long–maybe 10 minutes?–but I watched Liliana sit in the dirt while playing with two rocks with nary a complaint. She was content, comfortable, and at peace.

That said, don’t discount you and your kiddo if you didn’t start early! If that’s the case, swallow your fear and do it anyway. You may have some bumps and bruises, but that’s life, right? Besides, once you get your kiddo out there, she will have that memory which will make subsequent trips so much easier. And if she cries? That’s the beauty of being in the middle of nowhere– you won’t disturb anyone!

Start Small

To be fair, we’re not the best at practicing what we preach in this regard. Liliana’s first night in a tent was the first night of our three-month road trip!

However, we did start small with backpacking in that we tried a single overnight trip in Sedona to work out the kinks. It was a short trail–maybe 3 miles to our campsite–and it was relatively easy when compared to many trails we’ll see in the future. Plus, it was in Sedona where the weather is warm and easy and we didn’t need to worry about altitude or snow storms. We knew if things really blew up, Will could load her into the backpack, run down the trail, and be at the car within 30 minutes.

Starting small is helpful for two reasons. First of all, it gives you peace of mind. For me, I was a tad nervous heading into the wilderness the first night because I had a string of, “What if…?” running through my head. What if she got sick? What if she didn’t sleep? What if she got cold? In knowing that she was not that far from civilization, I was able to swallow my concern and focus on the fun.

Secondly, it allowed me to work out the kinks for myself. I had no idea what carrying a baby would feel like, and I wasn’t sure how I would fare. After all, Will carried her for all of our day hikes to save my knee. But again, in starting small, I knew I could gut check any discomfort long enough to get where we needed to go.

Roll with the Punches

I feel like this is Lesson #1 for parenting in general, but it certainly applies while backpacking!

All babies are different. Some sleep well and some don’t. Some walk out of the womb while others take well over a year. My point is this: you never know how your kiddos is going to react to backpacking, so it’s best to be prepared for anything.

Our first night in Sedona turned into a late one. We got to our campsite near dusk and I envisioned Liliana losing her mind with exhaustion since we had pushed it so far past her usual bedtime. But instead, we experienced the opposite: Girlfriend WAS LIT! The excitement of the day combined with the new surroundings wired her to a level that we’d never seen before or since. She giggled uncontrollably in the tent, rolling 360s on the sleeping pads while simultaneously chewing on the valves and marveling at the crinkling of the sleeping bag material. Our car camping tent was much bigger so she was overjoyed to realize she would be sharing a sleeping pad and sleeping bag with her papa.

These life discoveries went on for hours. It wasn’t until 10pm {for a kiddo that was falling asleep around 8pm at that point} that she literally fell over and passed out, almost as if she was narcoleptic. It was seriously the funniest thing we’d ever seen, but it was also a good lesson for us as parents. The two of us were gassed and so ready for bed, but that wasn’t an option until she decided to bless us with sleep.

For awhile, I stressed about how she would feel in the morning. I already knew the sunrise would wake her up early so when combined with a late bedtime, I dreaded the potential cranky baby we’d encounter at dawn. But then I realized that our little family was making beautiful memories. It didn’t matter if she wasn’t sleeping when I wanted her to; she could sleep on the hike out {which she totally did!} I readjusted my mindset and enjoyed the baby circus happening in the tent. After all, we would never get back our first night of family backpacking.

Forget Type A; Plan on Type Z

Thankfully, this is an easy one for me since I’m about as Type Z as one individual can be, but I realize that may not be easy for everyone.

When you hit the trail with your babe, blow any preconceived notions away. Maybe you used to hike 10 mile days, no problem? Or you have a set camp routine that you’ve followed since your teenage years?

Probably not anymore!

In our experience, backpacking with a baby doesn’t follow much of a routine. For example, Liliana tends to nap in her hiking backpack which means she may sleep well into the afternoon. There goes bedtime. She pinwheels in her sleep which is less-than-comfortable when she is mashed between two adults in the tent. There goes a restful night of sleep. She loves the backpack but after three days straight, she needed multiple breaks to stretch her own legs. There goes high-mileage days. Perhaps you like coffee in the morning? Baby girl wants a bottle first, so mama needs to wait. 

My point is this: drop your expectations. The only reason any of those above points are problems is because of the expectation that went along with them. Once I learned to view every scenario as an unknown circumstance, it became a lot easier.

Savor the Moment

Backpacking with Liliana has honestly been of of the most cherished memories Will and I have from her first 10 months on this earth. Watching her learn to navigate tent life while educating herself on the natural world has been a spectacular experience. There is something special about nestling up in the tent together, hearing her little giggles echo throughout the mountains, that makes my heart explode.

Is it tough sometimes? Of course. But I wouldn’t trade those memories and experiences for anything.

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Life on the road isn’t always as glamorous as it sounds, especially when you’re traveling with an infant. I never once sat in the front seat of our F-150; my passenger seat became the defacto storage space for valuable gear like our cameras and laptops, as well as the omnipresent diaper bag. But, it’s a tradeoff we were willing to accept: I kept the peace and provided backseat entertainment for our ever-curious daughter and she allowed us to tackle 9 hours of driving in a single day with nary a complaint.

I often wonder how Liliana will view this period of her life. Of course, she won’t remember a thing and we frequently laugh about how we’ll show her photos of all the places she’s been since she won’t have any of her own memories. I envision her taking a box of photos into Show-and-Tell one day: “When I was a baby, my parents made me live in a tent and all I have to show for it is this collection of pictures….”

But regardless of whether she remembers it or not, I’m positive our trip formed who she will grew into as an adult.

Baby girl grew up on the roads of the American West. She spent her first night in a tent in Utah’s Capitol Reef National Park. She endured her first-ever backpacking trip outside of Sedona, Arizona, an experience that will forever live on in the minds of her parents {She was SO LIT once she get inside our tiny two-man backpacking tent that we ended up playing with toggles and sleeping pad valves until 10pm when she abruptly fell over and passed out from sheer exhaustion at the day’s excitement.} She figured out how to sit upright while playing in the living room of our Maui AirBnB. She crawled in San Diego. She got her first head cold in the Channel Islands National Park {and witnessed her mama get outsmarted by some cunning foxes}. She thrived during her first multi-night backpacking trip in Ansel Adams Wilderness, battling mosquitoes through her giggles and backpack snoozes.

I could go and on, but I won’t. At least, not here and not just yet. Suffice to say, I have a treasure trove of memories that will be forever entwined with various nooks and crannies of the western USA. Those memories are special; they’re enduring; and hot damn if they don’t bring literal tears to my eyes.

But now, we’re home. Back in Colorado, back in Denver, and back to real life. Will is back at the office and I’m back in my home office, feverishly working on my book with a deadline looming in a mere 30 days. It’s amazing how easily we’ve slipped back into our “normal” lives: washing machines, dog walks, post-dawn 24Hour Fitness workouts, and everything else that comes with life in the ‘burbs. And at times, I feel so nostalgic for life on the road: for living in a tent; for not having any real responsibilities; for waking up surrounded by nylon walls and baby giggles; for living in the dirt with blue skies and chirping birds overhead; for pointing our car in any single direction on any single day and finding a new adventure; for exploring new trails on the daily; for spending every waking hour with my two greatest loves on this planet.

But I’m also psyched to be home, in our home, with Tally and our newly-landscaped backyard that I personally designed. Sure, we’re back at work with projects and deadlines and pitches and responsibilities. But you know, that’s okay. I’m okay with it, which I figure is a good indicator of how content I am with my space in this world. Life is good.

‘Til the next adventure.

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So I procrastinated {as one does, right?!} and procrastinated until I realized Liliana could arrive any day if she was an early bird. It was important for me to have the change handled before her birth so there wouldn’t be any issue with her birth certificate, so I hustled to get everything done in time. I wrapped up the major documentation at the DMV {the longest appointment of the group…}, and learned two things in the process:

1. Did you know you aren’t allowed to smile in your photos anymore? So weird.
2. Not everyone adds that little heart to their driver’s license, indicating her wish to be a donor.

Once I got over the shock of my angry-looking driver’s license photo, I spoke with the woman at the desk about the subject of donors. Personally, I’ve been a donor ever since I received my first driver’s license at the age of 16. It’s always been important to know that I could help someone else with any viable eyes, organs or tissue, should the worst case scenario occur.

Interestingly enough, now that I’m older and have a child of my own, I feel even more passionately on the subject. As a parent, I would move heaven and earth if it would save my daughter. The way I see it, the more people that opt in as donors, the more people can help each other. The more people out there helping each other, the better chance one of us has should we need the assistance.

{Not to mention, there is a chance I will be receiving a donated ACL tendon when I have my surgery in August!}

This is why I am a staunch advocate of organ donation and thus, the Donor Alliance Denver 2018 Donor Dash 5k! While I won’t be around to participate {nor do I have the knee to do so…this year}, I’m hoping to encourage some of my readers to get out there and participate in the run to support organ donation.

In it’s 19th year, the Donor Dash 5k takes place on Sunday, July 15 in one of Denver’s favorite green spaces: Wash Park. You can run or walk; it doesn’t matter how fast you go as long as you are out there celebrating the lives of organ and tissue recipients and honoring those who are still waiting for their transplants. Last year’s race saw just under 6000 participants so hopefully we can add to that total this year?!

Added bonus: the first 15 participants using code JUSTACOLORADOGAL will receive a free entry! And, if you don’t make the cutoff, you can still get $15 off the regular entry price. For adults, the standard fee is $35 {$15 for children and seniors}, so depending on your age bracket, the $15 discount gives you a hefty discount *or* a completely free registration!

Individual registration closes on July 13 but you can still take care of it on-site the day of the event {if you’re a procrastinator, like me!}

So, who is going to register to run for her life?!

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