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Human Trafficking in Houston

2011-11-12T16:11:00.024-06:00

photo source: the marketing analysts

When you think of Houston, Texas, you think of big oil companies, cowboys, football and steak houses right? Would you be surprised to know that Houston is becoming known as home to a fast growing slave trade, with more sexually oriented businesses per square mile than Las Vegas? [1]
Of all human trafficking victims certified in the United States, 25% of them were in Texas, the majority of whom were in Houston. Of all human trafficking victims certified in the United States, 25% of them were in Texas, the majority of which were in Houston. [2]

Steven Goff, project director for Houston Rescue and Restore Coalition, says "A lot of people think that trafficking just occurs in seedy places, you know in dark alleys or something like that. And while it does, it also occurs in plain sight. There are places that people in Houston pass by on a daily basis where there is human trafficking — modern-day slaves — inside those places that are housed there for two to three weeks at a time and then rotated somewhere else.”

How are these SOBs (sexually oriented businesses) getting away with ugly crimes against humanity, such as the physical abuse, rape, imprisonment or forced prostitution and exploitation of women and children? By hiding in plain sight and operating in new ways that law enforcement and the public won’t easily suspect.

We may expect businesses such as bars, escort services, and massage parlors to be business fronts for the sale of illegal drugs or sexual services. Just as drug dealing spread from the back alleys to the white collar crowd, human traffickers can be the family man next door who operates a small construction or property management company, lingerie or photography studio. These businesses launder money and market their service to clients while using prostitutes as an incentive to close deals and contracts.

source: usatoday.com

For example, let’s say Xtra Ripoff Company (XRC) rents an office space, puts up a website, prints some business cards and hires an expert “salesman” to hustle the property manager soliciting bids for construction or maintenance work. An office building property manager needs the flooring replaced and asks for an estimate. The “expert salesman” claims that XRC will do a first class job on the floor and takes the manager out to a sports bar or strip club where the proprietor has prostitutes ready to service the client(s). The bid that XRC turns in for the work may be around $24,0000, which is enough to more than cover the special perks provided to the property manager. On paper, the bid may look high but nothing that appears to be illegal or embarrassing for the property manager to explain to his family, the property owner or shareholders. Meanwhile, XRC turns the job over to a “real” flooring company to complete the work and pays them $14,000 for the new flooring. The salesman may put in appearances at the job site to "manage" the job and keep in contact with the client. At the payout XRC pockets $10,000, pays the proprietor handling the prostitutes a kickback of $700 in addition to the costs of drinks bought for the clients and hookers. The hookers, of course will receive a token payment or nothing at all.

Such a business as XRC may refer clients to sexually oriented businesses and in so doing funnel dollars to their motel, lingerie, video or boudoir photography fronts. Prostitution promoters may receive free or discounted lingerie or photographs to recommend their services so that XRC will handle all their "jobs". In this manner, thousands of dollars are laundered between businesses with a built in clientele that keeps the records legitimate looking to local officials.

“Human trafficking is a 32 billion dollar industry.” (Houston Rescue and Restore Coalition website – www.houstonrr.org)

Even if you believe that everyone should mind their own business and let adults do what adults want to do, the problem is that many of the people working as dancers, escorts and hookers are enslaved to work at these occupations. Slaves of the sex industry are unlikely to ask for help from clients because they fear there is no chance of escape from their captors and are resigned to the life of a slave. Sex traffickers condition women and children for the sex trade through various methods such as drug addiction, mental and physical abuse, rape, gang rape, shame, imprisonment, and threat of violence to the victim’s family. Trauma bonding is a form of brain washing which trains the victim to perform for his/her captor in the hope of winning approval, comfort or favor instead of punishment.

logo source: socialtimes.com

“Few activities are as brutal and damaging to people as prostitution. Field research in nine countries concluded that 60 to 75 percent of women in prostitution were raped, 70 to 95 percent were physically assaulted, and 68 percent met the criteria for posttraumatic stress disorder in the same range as treatment-seeking combat veterans and victims of state-organized torture.” (U.S. Department of State, Trafficking in Persons Report, June 3, 2005. http://www.state.gov/g/tip/rls/tiprpt/2005/46606.htm.)

There has been an alarming rise in human trafficking and child prostitution in the world, including the United States and particularly Texas. Law enforcement and research studies indicate that the internet has made it too easy for predators to connect with one another and use the internet as a resource for human trafficking operations. The overload of pornography and online violence toward women and children has desensitized the public to horrific images. We adults like to mind our own business and even give a wink and a nod at the men who suggest there is no harm in using pornography, or the services of a hooker to entertain, promote business relations or satisfy a man’s needs. The evidence clearly indicates that there IS great harm to the victims of these practices.

Not a sunny subject to discuss around the dinner table, but the topic is an important one to discuss if we want change to be effected. What can you do to stop the degradation of your city by human traffickers?

· Become aware of the signs of human trafficking in your surrounding community and report suspicious activities to local authorities or the National Trafficking Resource Hotline: 1-888-3737-888.

· Visit www.PolarisProject.Org for in depth information on how to help stop human trafficking.

Spread the message and raise awareness of the growing slave trade. I’ll say the unpopular thing that many (men in particular) don’t like to hear which is there is a high cost to our society for the use of porn and it comes in the silent acceptance of ugly behavior and treatment of poor men, women and children.

Changing attitudes IS done through one person who shares an idea with others to stop a trend or start a new one.

Please click on the below video links for more info related to this subject:

[1] http://app1.kuhf.org/articles/1285968465-Human-Trafficking-Houstons-Hidden-Problem.html
[2] U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Rescue and Restore Campaign Results, 4/04 - 01/06

More info links and articles you may find interesting:

http://www.thedailybeast.com/newsweek/2011/07/17/the-growing-demand-for-prostitution.html

http://www.houstonrr.org/human-trafficking/what-is-human-trafficking

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/trafficking/

“All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing.” Edmund Burke

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Tax Reform Polls & Tolls

2011-10-26T20:14:00.005-05:00

GOP candidates 2012

Have you noticed lately all the politicians are jumping on the flat tax rate bandwagon in the hopes of winning favor with voters? According to today’s Rasmussen Reports daily Presidential Tracking Poll[1], President Obama’s approval rating is at a new low. 40% of Americans strongly disapprove of the President; this drop comes on the heels of Obama’s Buffet Rule and Jobs Act proposals. Don’t Americans want lower taxes and better education and transportation infrastructure?

Cain/AP Joe Burbank pool file

To answer these questions, we must understand the popularity of the 9-9-9 plan proposed by GOP candidate, Herman Cain, and why his plan has won support with Republican voters. Cain’s plan proposes a flat 9% income and 9% corporate tax rate. According to another Rasmussen poll[2], 56% of GOP voters like Cain’s tax reform plan. No wonder the GOP candidates loaded up the wagon and started rolling out their own flat tax rate and tax reform proposals. Governor Rick Perry unveiled a 20% flat tax rate plan this week, Newt Gingrich wants a lower 15% rate, Michelle Bachman and Ron Paul both want to drop federal income taxes altogether.

Sugarplums are dancing in our heads! No more shock and awe when the government takes a sizeable chunk out of our paychecks? If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. The “catch” is this: there is another 9 in Cain’s plan - a 9% federal sales tax. It would tack on an additional 9 cents for federal sales tax to every dollar spent on consumer purchases. Consumers will pay in the range of 13% to 25% in sales tax, for all taxable goods and services, under Cain’s tax plan.

According to data from the IRS tax returns filed in 2009, 47% of Americans had no income tax liability. That would change and everyone who filed an income tax return would pay the same percentage under a flat tax rate plan. An analysis done by the Tax Policy Center found that while the majority of all filers would see some increase in their taxes, the wealthiest filers would benefit from a sizeable decrease. The analysis also determined that the total tax income would not generate more revenue than our current tax plan.[3]

Congressman Ron Paul

Half of all Americans agree their taxes are too high[4] (and this agreement likely comes from the half who actually has a tax liability). Republican presidential candidate, Ron Paul, would like to completely scrap the IRS and federal income taxes. The Ron Paul 2012 Presidential Campaign Committee website states that “While a Flat Tax or a Fair Tax would each be a better alternative to the income tax system, Congressman Paul believes we would have to guarantee the 16^th Amendment is repealed to avoid having both the income tax and one of these systems as an additional tax.” Ron Paul has been voicing his plan for reform for many years. He claims that funding to the federal government would be sufficient in the form of excise taxes, non-protectionist tariffs, and massive cuts in spending.

No one wants to pay taxes, so why not do away with the IRS and income taxes? Without federal income tax returns, there would be no budget for social programs. The Center on Budget and Policy Priorities states that 61% of all federal income dollars go to Social Security, Defense/Security and Medicare programs[5]. Only 3% of those dollars went to education and 3% to Transportation Infrastructure in 2010.

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Unless Americans are willing to see senior citizens homeless and without basic healthcare, we will be stuck paying federal income taxes. The solution to our current economic mess can only be found if “We, the People”, elect a president and representatives who are capable and willing to reform the tax system and the federal spending budget.

[1] RASMUSSEN Reports, October 26, 2011.

[2] RASMUSSEN Reports, October 11, 2011.

[3]http://www.taxpolicycenter.org/taxtopics/Cain-9-9-9-plan.cfm

[4] Gallup's annual Economy and Personal Finance poll, conducted April 7-11.

[5] Center on Budget and Policy Priorities / www.cbpp.org

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Class Warfare in America?

2011-10-05T21:21:00.016-05:00

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What is class warfare and why should we be worried about it in America?

Class warfare is simply defined as a conflict between social or economic classes. America is supposed to be a land of equality but even in this country, there are three clearly defined classes: the rich, the middle class and the poor. The problem for America in 2011 has been the steady increase in the jobless, homeless rate at a time when there is a gain of wealth for the top 20% of the country’s rich. How do we account for the change and what, if anything, can or should we do about it?

One of the world's most successful investors has a suggestion. Back in November of 2010, Warren Buffet gave an interview to ABC News reporter, Christiane Amanpour , in which he stated that the rich should be paying more taxes and that the Bush-era tax cuts for the wealthy should be left to expire. [1] Then in August of 2011, Buffet drew the ire of many wealthy Americans when he wrote a piece for the New York Times entitled, “Stop Coddling the Rich”.[2]

President Barack Obama and his economic advisors were listening to Mr. Buffet and used his advice to launch a controversial presidential campaign. Recent Bloomberg polls showed that as many as 66% of Americans disapprove of President Obama’s handling of the economy. [3] Can the President go wrong following the advice of a man who was 2008’s richest man in the world and still currently ranked 3^rd on this year’s Forbes list the World’s Richest People?[4]

According to another Bloomberg poll, the answer is a firm maybe. Americans seem to agree on a need to reduce the deficit by cutting spending, but are divided over the idea of raising taxes. This data begs the question, “Why do the poor feel the need to protect the rich from paying the same rate of tax as lower and middle class Americans?”

A Facebook account was used to put the question to a spectrum of online friends with varying political views and economic backgrounds. Here are a few examples of the answers received and replies are in italics:

· Rich people worked hard for their money so they deserve to keep it. Hmmm, don’t poor and middle class workers also deserve to keep their money? Why would poor Americans be outraged that the rich are being taxed, but empty their own wallets to the taxman with little uproar?
· Taxes shouldn’t be raised for any group, including the rich. No one wants to raise taxes but spending cuts alone aren’t going to pay down the country’s deficit.
· If we increase taxes on the profits of rich people or corporations then they won’t invest their money in new businesses and jobs will decrease. Historically, this statement has not proven to be true. In 1993, taxes on the rich were raised and the economy created 22 million jobs. [5]Yet in 2001, taxes on the rich were lowered and the economy created fewer than 7 million jobs. [6]

It seems puzzling that the needy would argue against their self interest. What drives the blue collar workers to defend rich people’s tax breaks? Fear. Fear that our country will become a mediocre socialist union. Fear that if we take money from the rich they won’t have enough to invest in business which will end job growth.

Could it be that these same middle class and poor workers are unaware of the changes in wealth in this country?

The majority of studies show that the rich are indeed getting richer in America, while the poor are getting poorer. In fact, even the annual Forbes 2011 list of the 400 Wealthiest American reports that members of the list saw their net worth ($1.53 trillion combined) rise 12 percent in the past year.

The fear of losing the freedoms and the rights that our great country was built upon is justified and these rights and freedoms must be protected. How do we find a way to build roads, schools and other infrastructure to support citizens and pay for it all without losing the values that America was built? To find the answers and maintain our capitalist economy, the public must be aware of the difference in socialism and capitalism.

So·cial·ism n.

1. Any of various theories or systems of social organization in which the means of producing and distributing goods is owned collectively or by a centralized government that often plans and controls the economy.

2. The stage in Marxist-Leninist theory intermediate between capitalism and communism, in which collective ownership of the economy under the dictatorship of the proletariat has not yet been successfully achieved.

Cap·i·tal·ism n.

An economic system in which the means of production and distribution are privately or corporately owned and development is proportionate to the accumulation and reinvestment of profits gained in a free market.

Based on the above definitions, it would seem that capitalism is failing as corporate owners are often sitting on cash reserves and not reinvesting the profits gained back into the very country that built and nourished it. Socialism is where we are headed if the wealthy members of our country don’t assume responsibility by giving back to America in the form of investing in local jobs, taxes and even charitable programs.

But can we automatically expect the rich to take care of the less fortunate? Not according to one class study, “ Social Class as Culture: The Convergence of Resources and Rank in the Social Realm”. [7] The study found that without resources and education, people from the mid to low classes rely on other people to survive. They learn how to read one another’s facial expressions and act to help each other. When people are needy, they tend to give more and are helpful more often. Whereas the wealthier upper class of people have the resources and education to focus more on "self". The upper class tend to hoard their resources and help others less than they are capable. Dacher Keltner, co-author of the study, says, “Our data say you cannot rely on the wealthy to give back”. The ‘thousand points of light’—this rise of compassion in the wealthy to fix all the problems of society—is improbable, psychologically.”

Warren Buffet said it best: "The rich are always going to say that, you know, 'Just give us more money, and we'll go out and spend more, and then it will all trickle down to the rest of you.' But that has not worked the last 10 years, and I hope the American public is catching on."[8]

According to a September 15-18, 2011 Gallup poll, the majority of Americans are favoring the close of some tax breaks.

The number of Americans who are millionaires is approximately less than 1% of the population, while almost 50% of the members of Congress are millionaires. How are these changes going to take effect? Who will lead the way to tax reform, spending cuts and the creation of jobs on American soil if not those that we elected to represent the voice and vote of the people?

Warren Buffet jump-started the tax reform movement recently, President Obama took up the cause for his upcoming Presidential campaign and now it is time for "the people" to act.
Although the president has introduced the “American Job Act”, he has yet to introduce the proposed “Buffet Rule”. Whether you agree with Obama's plan or not, it is time for spending cuts, tax reform and deficit reduction. Contact your local representatives! Let them know you want a proposal of the "Buffet Rule" implemented. No action. No changes. No improvements. It is time for a grass roots movement, so take the time to get involved instead of just waiting for something good to happen.

Find your local representative through the following link: https://writerep.house.gov/writerep/welcome.shtml

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[1] http://abcnews.go.com/ThisWeek/warren-buffett-read-lips-raise-taxes/story?id=12199889

[2] http://www.nytimes.com/2011/08/15/opinion/stop-coddling-the-super-rich.html

[3] http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2011-09-14/obama-approval-drops-on-skepticism-of-jobs-plan.html

[4] http://www.forbes.com/wealth/billionaires

[5]WALL STREET JOURNAL, August 1, 1996, A1.

[6] Source: IRS SOI Table 3.5.

[7] c.Kraus, M. W., Piff, P. K., & Keltner, D. (2011). Social Class as Culture: The Convergence of Resources and Rank in the Social Realm Current Directions in Psychological Science, 20 (4), 246-250 : 10.1177/0963721411414654

[8] ABC News interview with Christiane Amanpour of Warren Buffet from November, 2010.

Honest Despot: Dream

2011-09-18T17:17:00.005-05:00

Lenny Kravitz: Black and White America
Track: Dream
Roadrunner Records

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"Crazy Making" of Michele Bachmann

2011-08-09T15:38:00.002-05:00

Today I’m taking on a controversial subject. Many people have advised me not to speak or write about politics or religion, but these matters are at the root of too much debate to be completely avoided. For instance, I was reading a short article yesterday about Republican presidential candidate, Michele Bachmann that warranted further investigation.

I must confess that although I’ve heard her name, I never took much interest in the woman until I read the


Michele Bachmann, Newsweek

recent Michele Bachmann story in Newsweek, with the crazy eyed, image of her on its cover. The biased article created a storm of controversy, with reports of Democrats and liberals drawing fire from Republicans and conservative fans of Bachmann. Seems par for political course, right? Only there’s more to this Newsweek story than the standard GOP vs. the DNC.

When I looked at the cover of Newsweek, I saw an unappealing photo of a woman that was taken from an unflattering angle, below eye level, making her appear wide eyed. The magazine article describes Bachmann as the "Queen of Rage", in a demeaning, dismissive tone. There are several online news editorials regarding Bachmann with a similar slant. After reading through volumes of comments following these articles, I realize the “crazy eyed woman” mantra is gaining momentum and is an effective ad campaign.

Now, STOP, before you get it into your head that I’m advocating Michele Bachmann, because I am NOT. Since the controversy began I took it upon myself to learn more about her background and political agenda and can adamantly say that I DO NOT support her as a presidential hopeful. But, I will passionately argue her right to run for political office without casting her in the role of a crazy witch, slut or any other chauvinistic stamp.

The United States, the land of opportunity, freedom and equality, has not allowed women to rise to political power in numbers that should be expected for equal representation of both men and women. Why not? The simplest answer is that old habits die hard. Historically, the physically strong oppressed the physically weaker of our species. As societies have evolved we have come to value traits beyond brute strength and promote equality for all…Yet in America, where the overall population has a few million more women than men, only 16% of the seats in the current congress are held by women.

In fact, the United States ranks below the world’s top 60 countries with the highest percentages of women in government. Women today testify to the fact they don’t receive equal pay for equal work in today’s market and studies show that women still only earn about 77 cents to every dollar men earn for the same job.

The numbers are even lower for minority women. This unfair practice can be expected to continue without fair representation of women in government and in the media.

* Sources: The White House Project , Center for American Women and Politics, SCSU, Eagleton Institute of Politics, Rutgers University and U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics.

So, I’m not saying that we should elect an inappropriate candidate just because she is a woman. I’m saying do not suppress ANY female candidate under the stereotypical labels of witch, slut or crazy lady because it hurts all future political candidates. Where do we draw the line on insults when we open the door to anti feminist slurs? If you don’t agree with Michele Bachmann’s political agenda then point out the flaws in her ideology, but please don’t fall to the backward insults traditionally used to oppress women.

Let me reiterate that I DO NOT support Michele Bachmann as a presidential candidate because I do not believe she can effectively represent the American people. Not because she is a woman, or because she is religious or CRAZY, but because her opinions do not reflect the majority of American people.

Here's a table I put together for quick reference to some of Michelle Bachmann’s political issues:

Michelle Bachmann on the Issues
*For*	*Against*
Reduce the role of Government and reduce business regulations to stimulate growth in the business sector and job formation.	Repeal Obamacare/national health care system. Wants to phase out Medicare and Social Security benefits. Encourage options and choice by patients of physicians, medicines and medical facilities..
No debt ceiling increase to stop the continued growth of national debt.	Against downsizing of the military.
Strengthen relations with allies such as Britain and Israel.	Stop the environmental Protection Agency's cap and trade policy.
Open up restricted areas to drilling for oil and gas reserves in the Outer Continental Shelf, Gulf of Mexico and Alaska in order to lower energy prices.	Bar foreign currency from being used in the USA as a substitution or replacement for American currency.
Evolution and Creationism to be taught side by side in school science classes.	Opposes mandatory public service programs.
Pro Life 100% and anti abortion.	Renounces expensive trips for public officials and entourages to foreign countries on taxpayer's tab.
Promotes CFLs or fluorescent light bulbs over conventional light bulbs.	Opposes minimum wage increases and has supported legislation to delete the minimum wage altogether in order to increase employment.
Supports limiting the amount of personal information the government collects for the U.S. Census Bureau.	Would like to ban gay/lesbian marriage 100%.

*Sources: Honest Despot, Michele Bachmann.com/issues, and Wikipedia – Michele Bachmann.

Whether you agree with Bachmann or not, she clearly isn't crazy. I believe the Democratic congresswoman from Minnesota is a conservative American who would like to bring back this country's glory days. However, I question her willingness to put the choices of the American people above her own personal religious beliefs.

For example, according to an ABC News/Washington Post poll conducted by telephone March 10-13, 2011, among a random national sample of 1,005 adults, over half of Americans now support gay marriage. Bachmann is adamantly against it.

A similar Time poll conducted on June 20-21, 2011 found that over 60% of Americans strongly agree that women should have the right to choose abortion during the early months of pregnancy. Americans also split their opinion on Medicare and Social Security entitlement, with roughly 60% of us wanting to maintain the benefits as is. Bachmann is Pro Life and would like to phase out Medicare and Social Security benefits.

Contrary to what many political commentators are reporting, it is not only Tea Party supporters, Republicans or fans that are outraged by the recent unflattering Newsweek cover & article of Michele Bachmann. It is every fair minded individual who would like to see an end to the demeaning personal attacks on women candidates for their looks - eyes, hair, weight, etc. Let's get back to some objective reporting and debate on each candidates merit, regardless of their race, religion, gender...or eyes.

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The Sentencing of Raquel Nelson

2011-07-26T17:37:00.000-05:00

Raquel Nelson and A.J. Nelson. Photo by WGCL TV.

Good news for Raquel Nelson, the mother facing up to 3 years jail time for a conviction of vehicular homicide after a hit and run driver killed her son. Public outcry, which included over 140,000 signatures on a petition in support of Nelson, character witnesses and international news coverage may have swung odds in her favor.

The Judge Katherine Tanksley acknowledged that her office had received numerous letters and emails requesting leniency. In Cobb County State Court, the judge sentenced Nelson to 40 hours of community service and 12 months probation, but also granted the mother the unusual option to have a new trial for all charges.

“It’s one of the most shocking things I’ve ever been involved with,” the defense attorney, David Savoy, stated. “A judge, on her own motion, granting a new trial.” “I’ve never understood the power of the blogosphere,” Savoy commented, “and now, I’m humbled.” Nelson has opted for a new trial and if acquitted, all charges will be deleted from her record.

Nelson with attorneys after sentencing. Photo by AJC.

There is even speculation that Cobb County may decide not to re-try the case to avoid the expense and negative attention that a new trial would press on the county. Indeed, the prosecutors decision to zealously prosecute Nelson highlighted the local government's failure to provide adequate safe passageways for commuters using public transportation in poor neighborhoods.

Tearful witnesses included a teacher, friends and family members who know the young mother, and each testified that the she was a good University student, as well as a loving and caring mother. Kudos to all who took the time to speak up, take action, sign a petition, or email Cobb County officials! A grave injustice has been averted.

Jaywalking or Vehicular Homicide?

2011-07-25T17:42:00.000-05:00

How many times in your life have you crossed the street outside of a crosswalk? Probably more times than you remember, right? Imagine if you crossed the road with your family and a vehicle ran into and killed one of your family members. Would you expect to be charged for the death of your loved one?

Bus stop and crash scene. Photo by T4America.

That is exactly what happened to single mother, Raquel Nelson, on April 20, 2010. On July 12,2011, she was convicted of vehicular homicide in the 2^nd degree, reckless conduct and failure to use a crosswalk and is currently facing up to 3 years in prison.

As she awaits sentencing, she mourns the loss of her 4 year old son and is making arrangements for the care of her 2 other children in case she is sentenced to prison.

Nelson lives in an apartment building near a busy 4 lane highway in Marietta, Georgia. The nearest crosswalk from the public bus stop is almost 2,000 feet away (3+ blocks) from the bus stop and another 2,000 feet back to the road leading to her apartment community. Sound like poor city planning, to anyone besides me?

30 year old Raquel Nelson and her 3 children (Tyler, 9, A.J., 4, and Lauryn, 3) went out on the day before her birthday to have pizza and shop at a Walmart. They were coming home after dark, over an hour later than they planned because they missed an earlier bus. Juggling her purchases and 3 tired children, Nelson, along with other bus passengers, took the shortest route to cross the highway. As the family was walking across, they were ran down by a hit and run driver. Nelson and her youngest daughter were injured, but 4 year old A.J. Nelson did not survive the accident.

Raquel Nelson at roadside memorial for her son, A.J.
Photo by Phil Skinner, AJC.

Who is to blame for the death of this child? Is it the single mother, not wanting to walk the streets at night with her small children and rushing to get home safely after dark? Is it the city transit planners, or highway traffic engineers who are paid to design safe passageway for pedestrians using public transportation? Or is it the driver, Jerry L. Guy, who has 2 prior hit and run accidents, is partially blind in 1 eye, admitted to using painkillers and alcohol before the incident and later pled guilty to the hit and run? For more info on the driver, click to - http://bcove.me/067kw5ma
Right photo of Jerry L. Guy, courtesy of Cobb County Police.

I would say the mother, the city planners, and the driver are all at fault, but none intended nor wanted this “accident” to occur. The driver served 6 months in jail and was released on 5 year probation, while the victim’s mother is facing a whopping 3 years in prison after being unlawfully convicted. I say unlawfully because the law requires a jury to be made up of one’s peers. The 6 middle class white folks who all admitted they do not use public transportation could hardly be classified as a peer to Nelson - a poor, single, African American mother who doesn’t own a vehicle.

Why did the prosecutor bring charges against Nelson in the first place? Apparently the Atlanta Journal-Constitution ran a story about jaywalking on May 14^th highlighting Raquel’s incident and made note that no charges had been brought against her. 3 days later, the Georgia Solicitor General’s office brought several trumped up charges against her. What is the point of the unfair, overzealous charging of Nelson if only to make an example of her and thereby boost the profile and conviction rate of the prosecutors?

Are you as outraged by this as I am? Raquel is being sentenced Tuesday! Please get involved. We all complain about unfair parking tickets, towing and ridiculous disparities of the legal system. Make a difference now by holding the prosecutors responsible for the unjust prosecution of Raquel Nelson. Contact Solicitor General Barry Morgan at Barry.Morgan@cobbcounty.org or Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=22455848715. Let it be known how you feel about the abuse of power in the case of Raquel Nelson.
Photo of Barry Morgan thru http://cobbsolicitorgeneral.org/.

Sign a petition to request an overturn of conviction in Nelson case: http://www.change.org/petitions/cobb-county-ga-release-grieving-mother-of-hit-and-run-install-a-crosswalk

OR:

http://www.thepetitionsite.com/takeaction/669/545/347/

For the update to this story click on: http://honestdespot.blogspot.com/2011/07/sentencing-of-raquel-nelson.html .

Never worry about numbers. Help one person at a time, and always start with the person nearest you. ~Mother Teresa

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Dating Style

2011-07-11T22:12:00.000-05:00

Top 5 Texting Guidelines

By the Honest Despot

If you are single and dating then chances are you’re already a texting pro, but are you making embarrassing cell phone mistakes without knowing it? Here are my top 5 texting don’ts for the serious dater:

Never, ever text while on a date unless there is an actual health or life emergency going down. It’s comforting to reach for the cell phone during an awkward moment of silence, but you risk sending a signal to your date that you’d rather be doing something or someone more interesting.
Don’t try to be funny or sarcastic in a text unless you’re contacting someone that knows you well. “What the f do you want beeeeach?” may go over harsh, instead of as comedy genius.
Texting late night is a no-no if you aren’t sure the person you’re trying to reach is spending time with someone else or sleeping. Many people are so plugged into their cell phones that they keep them close to the bedside. Getting a late night text from someone you barely know can be annoying when you’re trying to sleep and almost always will be interpreted as a shout out for a late night booty call. “Aww, it’s Stephanie texting me at 11:30pm, hmmmm, she wants me!”
Don’t send half naked or nude pix of yourself to someone you want to date. Sexy photos should be saved for those who have earned a place of trust in your life. Unless you’re a porn star trying to land a new gig, sexts spell out low self esteem and signal that you are so desperate for attention you will hand over the goodies with little or no effort on the receiver’s part. Leave something to the imagination; send a nice face photo or pic of you hanging out with friends, but hold back the sexy stuff for someone who deserves you.
Text bombing is for losers. Sending someone text messages faster than he or she can respond makes the sender seem over anxious and is not cool. If you don’t get an immediate reply text, then wait a few hours or a day before sending a follow-up. It’s possible the person you’re trying to reach is away from the cell, has the power or ringer off or just doesn’t want to communicate for a while. Once you’ve sent a follow-up text and still haven’t received a reply then one phone call is acceptable. Rather than look like a fiend, be patient, wait for a reply or move on! Don’t waste time chasing someone who isn’t that into you when your perfect match is still out there somewhere waiting to bump into you.

*Remember these are dating guidelines and don’t apply to business opportunities or sales contacts, cases in which fiending is the norm.

Dating isn’t rocket science, so keep it simple and have fun, but remember that bad cell phone behavior at the start of a relationship sets the tone for what’s to come later.

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