<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/" xmlns:blogger="http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0" version="2.0"><channel><atom:id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748</atom:id><lastBuildDate>Fri, 01 Nov 2024 11:34:03 +0000</lastBuildDate><category>That unspoken lil something</category><category>mutter</category><category>Uncategorized</category><category>Happy Moments</category><category>Doings</category><category>Musings</category><category>emo</category><category>Grrr Series</category><category>Music</category><category>Thank you</category><category>So called politics</category><category>Home n Family</category><category>Movies/Series</category><category>Prague</category><category>Quotes</category><category>Games</category><category>Cesky Krumlov</category><category>Eating place</category><category>Education</category><category>Little letters</category><category>Things I Never Knew</category><title>Me</title><description>Of me, of you, of others</description><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/</link><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>563</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-6007045430907540089</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2015 14:15:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2015-05-07T15:15:06.809+01:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">nepal.

cashmere.

alchemist.

a kind gesture.

your text.

henderson waves.

blister.

cheekiness.

water fountain. 

fullerton.

superhero.

giggles. 

closure.&amp;nbsp; 

it has been a wonderful 3 days. everything seems to have changed. and yet it doesnt feel like it. its been 3 years. you are still doing your old tricks like a lil boy. and i still cant do nothing about it other than rolling my </atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2015/05/nepal.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-434913403090659068</guid><pubDate>Mon, 08 Jul 2013 15:30:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-07-12T15:19:47.105+01:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">its been such a long while since i last write. or rather, feel my emotion. 

there&#39;s so much happiness this morning. from the impromptu escapade. the texts. and the remnants of last night call with you. i love how such short conversation always seems drifting across things, never quite getting anywhere, and yet never failed to leave me feeling contented followed with a good night sleep; strangely</atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2013/07/its-been-such-long-while-since-i-last.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-935552472578901879</guid><pubDate>Sun, 06 May 2012 15:39:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-06T16:39:25.525+01:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">看到了明道&amp;nbsp;
也想起了你
你们笑起来还真的有像耶
想起了我们一起看钟无颜后的那一段对话
我笑了

好想再看你笑的样子
和那深深的酒窝






</atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2012/05/blog-post.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-5674465744852695020</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 14:07:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-04T15:07:24.149+01:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">That unspoken lil something</category><title></title><atom:summary type="text">how funny is this that the busier i get, the more i think of you.

how are you.&amp;nbsp; 

怎么办
怎么办
怎么办

还是很想你

一次又一次的在想
可以打给你了吗
你会想要和我说话了吗
不想要让你有负担
又不想要一直压抑对你的想念

我该怎么办啦 

</atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2012/05/how-funny-is-this-that-busier-i-get.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-7550821153108869782</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 12:35:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-04-30T13:35:59.772+01:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">That unspoken lil something</category><title>想念</title><atom:summary type="text">有好多好多话想和你说
好想好想给你打电话

不知道你心里觉得比较轻松了吗

原来想念也有很多种
平时的想念就只是想 
今天的想念里却有揪揪的感觉
有点想掉眼泪但又不知道是为了什么

真的很想你
想你的声音
想你笑的样子
想你爱玩的时候
想你有时傻傻的

你想我了吗



</atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2012/04/blog-post_30.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-113783807073212098</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2012 16:16:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-04-26T17:16:15.837+01:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">how do you look at the person you love and tell yourself it&#39;s time to walk away.

impact of moments.

the vow.

inspired.

bubbles.

light show.

sound of the night.

you.&amp;nbsp; 

</atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2012/04/how-do-you-look-at-person-you-love-and.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-7416539294722447970</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2012 09:12:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-04-25T10:41:11.788+01:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Musings</category><title></title><atom:summary type="text">我还是相信其实啊 真的可以试着享受什么事也不用做的片刻放下武士精神  接受生活上的不确定情感并不应该被视为一个会让你停滞不前或软弱的东西可以感受感觉情感放开心胸接纳未知全心全意诚实诚恳可以让你有更多的真实刹那更能自由自在的生活</atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2012/04/blog-post_25.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-1474368939934656348</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Apr 2012 14:41:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-04T15:11:22.879+01:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">wasnt at all expecting that you are still the very first person i thought of sharing the satisfying discussion i had with the people today. almost gonna call you and then the hesitation kicks in - how i wish i could just do it and ignore the whispers that were asking me to give you a lil bit more time and space.

i wonder if this is gonna be the way it is from now on - to submit to the mind </atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2012/04/wasnt-at-all-expecting-that-you-are.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-2412776119092942686</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Apr 2012 05:02:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-04-20T06:32:50.823+01:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Thank you</category><title></title><atom:summary type="text">last evening, i was given a simple thank you with a smile from the person selling me the dumplings. maybe it wasnt just a thank you and a smile, its a full hearted sincere personal thank you that warms my heart.  i was pleasantly surprise by such gesture, in the hustle bustle of life where everybody seems to be so distant, reserved and self-centered, i was given a glimpse of pure expression of </atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2012/04/last-evening-i-was-given-simple-thank.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-5430940500096605495</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2012 09:15:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-04-19T10:34:19.050+01:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">That unspoken lil something</category><title>喜欢</title><atom:summary type="text">好喜欢和爸聊天的感觉喜欢每天都可以从生活中发现小小的乐趣和值得学习的人生哲理也好喜欢一家人在一起吃饭看电视的感觉就算没有说话也觉得很开心喜欢自己一个人在家时不再觉得无聊喜欢想你的时候　就只是想你</atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2012/04/blog-post_19.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-1181345687672328987</guid><pubDate>Wed, 18 Apr 2012 14:11:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-04-24T14:54:10.621+01:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Musings</category><title>想给你的信</title><atom:summary type="text">看到了一篇文章
里面提到了一些与思想和情感有关的东西
想要和你说说 就写下来了

有时候我在想啊
说谓的负担和愧疚
到底是什么呢
我一直都认为只要是诚实真诚的面对自己和他人
为什么还需要觉得愧疚呢
如果是因为过去的原因
又或者是觉得可能没能达到对未来的一些期许
那更没必要了
就因为了避免负担痛苦而放弃拥有当下
真的就是解决之道吗

我相信你有我还不能了解的原因
其实我还真的挺好奇的
eric 那天也和我分享了他本身的一些故事和观点
让我突然觉得会不会是男人在某些事情上想的都是一样的
怎么都在想如果我不可以给你我觉得你想要的 那就什么都不要开始
怎么会有那么多的如果呢
怎么想的那么远去了呢

不管怎样
我真心希望有一天你能不再觉得对我有所亏欠
也希望它不会遮盖住你真实的感觉

想你的心一直都在
好开心自己可以感受和接受心里面所有的emotion
以前还会觉得有点应付不来那么丰富的情感
现在</atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2012/04/blog-post_18.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-3775357674357795558</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 08:19:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-04-19T09:01:53.425+01:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">That unspoken lil something</category><title></title><atom:summary type="text">dear you,its been three days since we last communicated. i have been well.last several months have been rough for you and me. i have had my hurtful moments, i  have been happy, i have trapped myself in time, living almost  exclusively through memory and anticipation, i have been dissappointed, and i have been hopeful. but i have to say, regardless of the ups and downs, if there is anything i have</atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2012/04/dear-you-its-been-three-days-since-we.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-569476592255179757</guid><pubDate>Sun, 15 Apr 2012 14:09:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-04-15T16:11:44.537+01:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">That unspoken lil something</category><title></title><atom:summary type="text">定慧无意间在家里的小茶杯上看到了这两个字 并排在一起心里起了一阵悸动 我想起了你 也想起了我们我了解你的选择 我了解这个时候的你需要有自己一个人的空间去处理心里上的负担我知道你这么做是为了我好 我也知道你是下定了决心我说过我会支持你的决定我说过我会好好的过但是 我好想你 我真的好想你原来真正爱一个人是可以放手的是可以很单纯的只是喜欢他 希望他好不期望一定要在一起原来真正爱一个人不会因为分开而觉得难过不会因为不能够联系而伤心只会很庆幸的觉得这样也好只要他可以开心自由就够了我会好好的照顾自己 不让你为我担心我会好好的享受当下然后在有机会的时候和你分享我会好好的珍惜对你的感情好好的把它放在心里 直道我们再相遇</atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2012/04/blog-post.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-1375208608624472409</guid><pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 13:30:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-02-11T14:21:29.019+00:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">That unspoken lil something</category><title></title><atom:summary type="text">after all, nothing seems to have changed. is it true that time and distance have made us too complacent with our current state, or is it true that our affection has slowly eluded us, or have i been pushing  a lil too hard wanting to remain true to myself and keeping the harmony in place.so often i want to surge forward and adapt to the curveballs that the  environment throws at me, and i want to </atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2012/02/after-all-nothing-seems-to-have-changed.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-7153207467690528183</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 04:10:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-02-11T14:26:38.864+00:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">That unspoken lil something</category><title></title><atom:summary type="text">something that strike a chord with me:&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt; 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and she remembers exactly how it had made her smile as she was reading through the lines.love conquers all, and that distance means nothing other than a challenge - she had always believed in that. how could she have forgotten all this and the faith she once had in herself, him and them. </atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2011/10/ldr.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-592523285324581285</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 01:20:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-15T18:29:07.170+01:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">That unspoken lil something</category><title></title><atom:summary type="text">its one of those nights again. she has been trying to shovel off that disquite feelings within her, but it just keeps coming back to haunt her. what is wrong here. could it be the song? what was the conversation about? where was the affection? where was the cool? where did this estrangement come from?there was a lot of talking in her head. there was a lot of pinging and ponging back and forth. </atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2011/10/as-we-speak-i-start-to-wonder-i-am.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-2175359464146620938</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2011 23:34:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-07T02:17:38.439+01:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">what has changed?</atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2011/10/what-has-changed.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-4288894960602161791</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2011 16:13:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-09-29T17:20:34.904+01:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">That unspoken lil something</category><title>So I Guess</title><atom:summary type="text">all it takes is just a phone call.period.how silly can i still be?</atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2011/09/so-i-guess.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-8622381021608389287</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Sep 2011 00:34:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-09-26T03:40:02.908+01:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">That unspoken lil something</category><title>The Unexpected</title><atom:summary type="text">3.30pm. i was sent the warmth of these bubbles. your unexpected hello from the other side of the world brought me back to that space of bubbles. a space without hesitation or second thoughts. a space with simple bliss and care. a space with genuinity and sincerity.do you know how surprised i was when i saw that strangely familiar number flashing on my screen. i was nervous for a swift second </atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2011/09/unexpected.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-6848088355661072121</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2011 05:13:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-07-07T00:31:51.196+01:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Uncategorized</category><title>So...</title><atom:summary type="text">this is how it feels like to watch the fireworks alone...</atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2011/07/so.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200570171446630748.post-9179171039560364975</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 Jun 2011 13:12:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-06-22T05:32:30.054+01:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">That unspoken lil something</category><title></title><atom:summary type="text">feelings a real funny thing.i dont even know where to begin with all that i felt since yesterday till this morning in a span of 24hours.there were so much going on in my head, scenes after scenes, fragments  after fragments, questions after questions, but i couldnt really tell  what they were exactly. i just know i was mentally occupied and taken over with  my heart sinking into this massive </atom:summary><link>http://youmeothers.blogspot.com/2011/06/feelings-real-funny-thing.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jean)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item></channel></rss>