<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378</id><updated>2024-09-13T04:27:52.050-04:00</updated><category term="Luis Miguel"/><category term="Sabor a Mi"/><category term="ballroom dance"/><title type='text'>Niambi Brown Davis</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>39</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-7737195658248391171</id><published>2011-10-04T07:21:00.022-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-04T10:29:55.923-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Second Chance at Love Blog Tour</title><content type='html'>I&#39;m very happy to host Victoria Wells on her second day of the Second Chance at Love Tour. Join me to welcome her and to learn even more about Victoria!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;GETTING TO KNOW VICTORIA WELLS&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEho3lnfnhAfQ09efS9t5UHm_ORz-CtILsT2XCEmugayLOpYg2ujt5gW731Hk04kvUE0uSW0gj6_EgFaUf7Mg9P2jek0Cx3TUW0CKEcVoOUaalq6e0d4qVS9aXUs4KTmLwpfxwRD9lxpUJSS/s1600/Victoria+Wells.JPG&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 158px; height: 200px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEho3lnfnhAfQ09efS9t5UHm_ORz-CtILsT2XCEmugayLOpYg2ujt5gW731Hk04kvUE0uSW0gj6_EgFaUf7Mg9P2jek0Cx3TUW0CKEcVoOUaalq6e0d4qVS9aXUs4KTmLwpfxwRD9lxpUJSS/s200/Victoria+Wells.JPG&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5659643564103262562&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What is your favorite book to date?&lt;br /&gt;I actually have two favorite books. Sister Got Game by Leslie Esdaile and Someone To Love Me by Francis Ray.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Who is your favorite author and why?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is such an unfair question because I have so many favorites. If I had to pick one I would say the late great L.A. Banks. She was such a dynamic and gifted author. Whether it was her romance novels, political series, paranormal series or her latest young adult novel, I enjoyed them all. I had the pleasure of meeting Ms. Banks in person twice and she was just a sweetheart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why do you write?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I enjoy the freedom it gives me to escape into another world. Being able to write for hours is very therapeutic. When I’ve had a stressful day, there’s nothing like iving into the lives of my characters to ease the stress away.&lt;br /&gt;Receiving emails, FB messages and guest book messages from readers also encourages me to write. Knowing that others find what I write entertaining and having them express wanting more stories is a great motivator. &lt;br /&gt;In a nutshell, I write for both myself and those who enjoy my stories. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ABOUT THE BOOK&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisnxpwd-JDNkU7oBLSYHMrPexpsJEkzZ1qOl-1oC7JMz25lwOOMgiGPmcytdX7HXmPLM3s4gxiIsd6AhlqnArGHjHcuHWGg9NJ7X1QTo57FxoIM5w7PuRgPlJSmgNeLQJX1UvaxkBxUBzW/s1600/Second+Chance+at+Love.JPG&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 133px; height: 200px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisnxpwd-JDNkU7oBLSYHMrPexpsJEkzZ1qOl-1oC7JMz25lwOOMgiGPmcytdX7HXmPLM3s4gxiIsd6AhlqnArGHjHcuHWGg9NJ7X1QTo57FxoIM5w7PuRgPlJSmgNeLQJX1UvaxkBxUBzW/s200/Second+Chance+at+Love.JPG&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5659643752110596994&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a young widowed mother, love is the last thing on Karen Johnston’s mind. Her busy life revolves around caring for her two young children, which becomes even more challenging when her children begin to show signs of needing a father in their lives. Just as things start to go haywire in the Johnston household, in walks ruggedly handsome Dominic Peretti, Jr. The attraction between the two is undeniable. Karen spends restless nights dreaming of his touch. As he begins to crowd every space of her life, will she give in to her sensual desires? Or will she sacrifice her desires for the sake of her children?&lt;br /&gt;Dominic ‘Dom’ Peretti, Jr. isn’t looking for a serious relationship when he accepts the task of surrogate father to Karen’s children. But he can’t get the ever so lovely and sexy woman out of his mind. His intention is to have nothing more than a hot, steamy fling to satisfy his appetite. However, as he gets a taste of life with the Johnstons, he has a decision to make. Will he give love a chance? Or will he walk away, leaving Karen and her children in harm’s way?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Be sure and follow the tour each day to learn more about Victoria.  Leave a comment each day to be entered to win a $25 Barnes &amp; Noble gift card courtesy of Victoria!</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/7737195658248391171/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/7737195658248391171' title='13 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/7737195658248391171'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/7737195658248391171'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2011/10/second-chance-at-love-blog-tour.html' title='Second Chance at Love Blog Tour'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEho3lnfnhAfQ09efS9t5UHm_ORz-CtILsT2XCEmugayLOpYg2ujt5gW731Hk04kvUE0uSW0gj6_EgFaUf7Mg9P2jek0Cx3TUW0CKEcVoOUaalq6e0d4qVS9aXUs4KTmLwpfxwRD9lxpUJSS/s72-c/Victoria+Wells.JPG" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>13</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-934170189045961147</id><published>2011-10-03T22:03:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-03T22:15:10.027-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Lavender Balm (And Ale)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEho_mZxW0nCpaGIADZRZ92blPc1L0BzsxKUl1lMCd0uQvGuKD082MwVkGV9lWyOPDTCCGrSJYcuQEEjwW8x10eMv9_LYbDvmN1YgteyQqXQMK396Ftf6fMswCqto3dSS2RKab6WZB9FN9f6/s1600/Honey-Bs_Body.png&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 164px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEho_mZxW0nCpaGIADZRZ92blPc1L0BzsxKUl1lMCd0uQvGuKD082MwVkGV9lWyOPDTCCGrSJYcuQEEjwW8x10eMv9_LYbDvmN1YgteyQqXQMK396Ftf6fMswCqto3dSS2RKab6WZB9FN9f6/s200/Honey-Bs_Body.png&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5659454341466340418&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yesterday I helped Lily create a creamy butter balm for her best customer. And when she added her signature ingredient, the lovely and fragrant lavender essential oil, I learned something new. Essential oils are distilled from the leaves, flowers, bark, or roots – truly the essence of the plant. Fragrance oils are artificially created synthetics. “Not that they don’t smell good,” she told me. “But watch out for that woman with the New-Age, breathy voice immersed in a bathtub surrounded by candles – if she tells you the watermelon fragrance is an essential oil, she’s lying!” And what better way to toast a bit of new information than with a bottle of Longshot Honey B’s Lavender Ale</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/934170189045961147/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/934170189045961147' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/934170189045961147'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/934170189045961147'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2011/10/lavender-balm-and-ale.html' title='Lavender Balm (And Ale)'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEho_mZxW0nCpaGIADZRZ92blPc1L0BzsxKUl1lMCd0uQvGuKD082MwVkGV9lWyOPDTCCGrSJYcuQEEjwW8x10eMv9_LYbDvmN1YgteyQqXQMK396Ftf6fMswCqto3dSS2RKab6WZB9FN9f6/s72-c/Honey-Bs_Body.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-5590566876628424244</id><published>2011-10-03T21:57:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-04T07:49:18.344-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-tYGwRNesFzb05lZGA1cJEqlEa3ymuDg4jkaIMh1bsdTyXlVzFZBog-7YkynedFJO3QAT4hddDKk25mlZouVLB8614rNMps_qr362GXmeleq_Ag5btYhZ1q-LNy0bxGhtX_E6xzLYccsu/s1600/iStock_000015279886XSmall+%25282%2529.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 132px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-tYGwRNesFzb05lZGA1cJEqlEa3ymuDg4jkaIMh1bsdTyXlVzFZBog-7YkynedFJO3QAT4hddDKk25mlZouVLB8614rNMps_qr362GXmeleq_Ag5btYhZ1q-LNy0bxGhtX_E6xzLYccsu/s200/iStock_000015279886XSmall+%25282%2529.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5659451488600754578&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yesterday I helped Lily create a creamy butter balm for her best customer. And when she added her signature ingredient, the lovely and fragrant lavender essential oil, I learned something new. Essential oils are distilled from the leaves, flowers, bark, or roots – truly the essence of the plant. Fragrance oils are artificially created synthetics. “Not that they don’t smell good,” she told me. “But watch out for that woman with the New-Age, breathy voice immersed in a bathtub surrounded by candles – if she tells you the watermelon fragrance is an essential oil, she’s lying!” And what better way to toast a bit of new information than with a bottle of Longshot Honey B’s Lavender Ale!</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/5590566876628424244/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/5590566876628424244' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/5590566876628424244'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/5590566876628424244'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2011/10/yesterday-i-helped-lily-create-creamy.html' title=''/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-tYGwRNesFzb05lZGA1cJEqlEa3ymuDg4jkaIMh1bsdTyXlVzFZBog-7YkynedFJO3QAT4hddDKk25mlZouVLB8614rNMps_qr362GXmeleq_Ag5btYhZ1q-LNy0bxGhtX_E6xzLYccsu/s72-c/iStock_000015279886XSmall+%25282%2529.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-5979927963335254129</id><published>2011-09-08T20:29:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-03T21:38:02.326-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Welcome to Sanctuary: What&#39;s In a Name?</title><content type='html'>Welcome to Sanctuary!  &lt;br /&gt;My novella is the lust-turned-love story of free spirit lavender-grower Lily Lomax and the very delectable NYT best-selling author Tony Marchand. When they finally find their way back to each other, Tony tells his publisher that his next book will be written by him and Lily. But I need your help - I&#39;ve written myself into a corner and I&#39;m stumped. What title should they give their book? My wonderful publisher Arrow Publications came up with the solution. Let my readers pick a name - one that celebrates both Tony and Lily&#39;s passionate and unpredictable relationship and the subject matter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, what should Tony and Lily call their book? It should be a title that celebrates their relationship and be appropriate for the genre. Those are the only hints; you&#39;ll just have to pikc up a copy from Arrow Publications, and available from &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.myromancestory.com/eBooks/library_story_view.php?storyID=190&amp;format=previews&quot;&gt;MyRomanceStory.com&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.allromanceebooks.com/product-sanctuary-530264-144.html&quot;&gt;All Romance eBooks&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://itunes.apple.com/us/app/sanctuary-by-niambi-brown/id380369705?mt=8&quot;&gt;the Apple App Store &lt;/a&gt;and &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/dp/B004S7ESQI&quot;&gt;Amazon&#39;s Kindle Store&lt;/a&gt;. It will also be available soon in print from Amazon.com. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All entries will be judged on...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;— Creativity&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;— Aptness of title &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;— Faithfulness to the original story and characters&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;HOW TO ENTER: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To enter, send your title suggestions in the body of an email to SanctuaryTitleContest@gmail.com. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your entry must also include&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;— Name&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;— Address&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;— Phone number&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;— Email address&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;— A link to your personal Facebook page (if you have one)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;CONTEST PERIOD:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The contest begins August 22, 2011 and all entries must be receive no later than midnight November 30, 2011 with winners to be announced on December 30, 2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;THE PRIZES&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;1st Place &lt;br /&gt; Sanctuary Gift Basket of a Lily&#39;s Lavender Loofah Soap, Sanctuary Soap and Lavender &amp; Pink Grapefruit Body Oil from Sand and Silk*.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Total Value: $40  &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;2nd Place &lt;br /&gt;Sand and Silk Gift Basket of Tropical Smoothie, Island Breeze Sandals Soap and Sand and Silk Coconut Body Oil from Sand and Silk*. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Total Value: $35 &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;3rd Place  A signed copy of Niambi Brown Davis&#39; Sanctuary, a MyRomanceStory tote bag and a gift certificate from Sand and Silk*.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Total Value: $25 &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*Some products are not yet available on the site - you&#39;ll be the first!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good luck, spread the word and enjoy Sanctuary! &quot;Like&quot; Sanctuary on my Facebook page for more give-aways, tips and recipes for your body and your tastebuds. (Lavender cookies and body scrub, anyone?)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/5979927963335254129/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/5979927963335254129' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/5979927963335254129'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/5979927963335254129'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2011/09/welcome-to-sanctuary-whats-in-name.html' title='Welcome to Sanctuary: What&#39;s In a Name?'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-928939687429339011</id><published>2011-01-21T18:41:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2011-01-23T11:26:41.820-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A Video Review(And The Happy Dance)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8GvqHSe3uzrLiT19PEy0wyeP1Aq0-UyqwvFSN1A4HrpwIpMl76RsZSAK2fX0IqfE9gdque0IY-K8n-jNyhJamw0zJ6pXbZ4HQaESpH2hsj8w6TIm7DfiqbtqDns9hT29tHfRgNnR85ZrX/s1600/SaborAMi_small923+%25282%2529.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 129px; height: 200px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8GvqHSe3uzrLiT19PEy0wyeP1Aq0-UyqwvFSN1A4HrpwIpMl76RsZSAK2fX0IqfE9gdque0IY-K8n-jNyhJamw0zJ6pXbZ4HQaESpH2hsj8w6TIm7DfiqbtqDns9hT29tHfRgNnR85ZrX/s200/SaborAMi_small923+%25282%2529.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5564789706353697074&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When Sabor a Mi was first released, I had the bright idea to time it with a promotional video. It wouldn’t be a trailer. Instead, I planned to talk directly to readers, revealing just enough of the story to make them rush online and load it onto their Kindle or PC. However, my timing was off and it never happened. Among the many reasons was my hair. I couldn’t show up on camera “undone.” As much as I love my twists, I need a professional to keep them from looking like a clone of Coolio.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Still, the reviews and emails were great.  More than once, I did the Happy Author Dance. And then I saw Tasha Martin’s video review of Sabor a Mi. I bow to her; she talked about my story as if it was something good to eat! Tasha did just what I intended to do, but so much better. Perhaps I should leave the videos to the experts (lol). &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here’s an email from Edwina Putney, who has a way with words herself. Needless to say, I was totally thrilled!&lt;br /&gt;“Sabor a Mi is so good that I couldn&#39;t put it down. The settings are so exact in your descriptions that my mind pictured every detail.  And let me tell you, I had to keep drinking iced water!  But I was also heart-broken and then relieved and overjoyed at the plot development. Loved the mystery/suspense wrinkle.  Didn&#39;t really see that coming. Young love or mature love--it&#39;s all about forgiveness, letting your guard down, and being open to love&#39;s possibilities.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Click &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/Sabor-Mi-Taste-Me-ebook/dp/B0043ex2AO/ref=sr_1_?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1295653875&amp;sr=1-1&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; for more reviews.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Download a copy - I hope you’ll cross your fingers for Melody and Ray, two ballroom dancers whose contentious first meeting leads to love and heartbreak.  And that you’ll cheer for Joel and Ivy. They’re Melody’s parents and a couple whose love story rivals that of their daughter.  When you read about Norman, (a little man who wants desperately to be a big shot), you’ll laugh and then want to kick his Napoleonic butt. I know you’ll like Andrew – a trust fund, good guy golden boy with a taste for women of color.  You might even like Melody’s conservative, Tea Party brother Jay&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;iframe width=&quot;425&quot; height=&quot;344&quot; src=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/embed/LHvnbu6VyOY?fs=1&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; allowFullScreen=&quot;&quot;&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/928939687429339011/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/928939687429339011' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/928939687429339011'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/928939687429339011'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2011/01/sabor-mi-by-niambi-brown-davis.html' title='A Video Review(And The Happy Dance)'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8GvqHSe3uzrLiT19PEy0wyeP1Aq0-UyqwvFSN1A4HrpwIpMl76RsZSAK2fX0IqfE9gdque0IY-K8n-jNyhJamw0zJ6pXbZ4HQaESpH2hsj8w6TIm7DfiqbtqDns9hT29tHfRgNnR85ZrX/s72-c/SaborAMi_small923+%25282%2529.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-4469107031591663569</id><published>2010-10-21T15:04:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2010-10-21T15:46:45.836-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A Little Taste (The Sabor a Mi Slideshow)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcclWscVBYfXQzqf1S65fVINjBf3nc4hivHjwllCrFwM65cOIDi3j979CAiD0P-5T2RckfgLbjLOChfZJE2gfCuRGyJvBxZF8tV3qoCIKN26BnIq3tnDQ29fuXI1DBvZRJYQwzcvPUuwvD/s1600/SaborAMi2lg923.png&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 206px; height: 320px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcclWscVBYfXQzqf1S65fVINjBf3nc4hivHjwllCrFwM65cOIDi3j979CAiD0P-5T2RckfgLbjLOChfZJE2gfCuRGyJvBxZF8tV3qoCIKN26BnIq3tnDQ29fuXI1DBvZRJYQwzcvPUuwvD/s320/SaborAMi2lg923.png&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5530577848206729826&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;love&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; taking pictures. This time, instead of a trailer, I decided to do a slide show, using my own photos to tell a portion of the story of Melody Walker and Raimundo (Ray) Santos.  Many thanks to Shelia Goss for making my idea come to life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I had a lot of fun putting it together,  giving readers a visual to match,  and tagging  the photos with  direct quotes from the storyline.  Those of you who live in DC might have seen that uptown street sign or the little market on Columbia Road. And some of the shots will resonate with anyone who’s ever been a tourist in this beautiful city.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So here it is. With few exceptions the pictures are all mine. I must confess that I did take liberties with Ray’s Miami home.  Actually, I took that picture last September on Virgin Gorda in the British Virgin Islands.  When I was writing the story, the lush green landscape and the white garden gate were exactly the way I pictured the grounds of Ray’s romantic hideaway.&lt;br /&gt;(When you click on the video, it will start at the beginning, I promise) Enjoy!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width=&quot;480&quot; height=&quot;385&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;movie&quot; value=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/v/6rVQGAMLPaA?fs=1&amp;amp;hl=en_US&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowFullScreen&quot; value=&quot;true&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowscriptaccess&quot; value=&quot;always&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/v/6rVQGAMLPaA?fs=1&amp;amp;hl=en_US&quot; type=&quot;application/x-shockwave-flash&quot; allowscriptaccess=&quot;always&quot; allowfullscreen=&quot;true&quot; width=&quot;480&quot; height=&quot;385&quot;&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/4469107031591663569/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/4469107031591663569' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/4469107031591663569'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/4469107031591663569'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2010/10/little-taste-sabor-mi-slideshow.html' title='A Little Taste (The Sabor a Mi Slideshow)'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcclWscVBYfXQzqf1S65fVINjBf3nc4hivHjwllCrFwM65cOIDi3j979CAiD0P-5T2RckfgLbjLOChfZJE2gfCuRGyJvBxZF8tV3qoCIKN26BnIq3tnDQ29fuXI1DBvZRJYQwzcvPUuwvD/s72-c/SaborAMi2lg923.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-2165646449210381730</id><published>2010-09-24T14:12:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-09-24T14:40:55.274-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="ballroom dance"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Luis Miguel"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Sabor a Mi"/><title type='text'>Sabor a Mi?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhU9icEz8RHgdNF7ByW72UnqKCS6etjhadQFxY7Hj9lKOvD65G5eJH6d7tHc6CMvDSOwTqJwoKFUJ7g4FjnZAOIumkAjjTbNkdFHXQrCgMADUyF_HIqRAfX90Jmj_P4cjHyJqraG9eAiXlU/s1600/Del+Mar+Pool.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 137px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhU9icEz8RHgdNF7ByW72UnqKCS6etjhadQFxY7Hj9lKOvD65G5eJH6d7tHc6CMvDSOwTqJwoKFUJ7g4FjnZAOIumkAjjTbNkdFHXQrCgMADUyF_HIqRAfX90Jmj_P4cjHyJqraG9eAiXlU/s200/Del+Mar+Pool.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5520544999631354482&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;More than once, I’ve been asked about the title of my novella. “Why did you name it Sabor a Mi? Where does it come from? And what does it mean?” In reverse order, it means “a taste of me” and I blame it all on Gloria Estefan and Jose Feliciano.  Years ago, I found their live duet on WinMx, a free, but virus-laden music download site. It was wonderful, but how could it be anything less with those two singing their hearts out? I heard it again, this time at a Mexican resort (yes, that same resort visited by Melody and her friend in Sabor a M). And yes, with the exception of her heartbreaking revelation, a lot of what happened in Mexico was true - even the appearance of that “sexy senior” - but ask me later. I&#39;ve posted a picture of the resort, bu somewhere there are more photos to prove it (lol).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The last time I found the song was on iTunes. I’d been given a Nano and was busy downloading every kind of music I loved. Again, as in my novella, the version by Mexican singer &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.luismigueloficial.com&quot;&gt;Luis Miguel&lt;/a&gt;  was at the top of the list. There are no other words to describe him – he has the voice of an angel.  I have since downloaded ten of his songs, and like Melody, although I’m lost in translation I can sing each of them phonetically. It’s no surprise that many of them are on my “most played” list, especially &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.armandomanzanero.com.mx&quot;&gt;Armando Manzanero’s&lt;/a&gt; Medley (I’ve got Feliciano’s version as well). Since then I’ve taken group and private salsa lessons. But I need to learn the Viennese Waltz and have a ballroom party just so I can dance to both of these romantic and beautiful songs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And what does any of this have to do with mambo, salsa and the story of Raimundo and Melody? Well, you&#39;ll just have to read &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.innervisionbooks.com/ebookpages/saborami.html&quot;&gt;Sabor a Mi&lt;/a&gt; to find out!</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/2165646449210381730/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/2165646449210381730' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/2165646449210381730'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/2165646449210381730'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2010/09/sabor-mi.html' title='Sabor a Mi?'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhU9icEz8RHgdNF7ByW72UnqKCS6etjhadQFxY7Hj9lKOvD65G5eJH6d7tHc6CMvDSOwTqJwoKFUJ7g4FjnZAOIumkAjjTbNkdFHXQrCgMADUyF_HIqRAfX90Jmj_P4cjHyJqraG9eAiXlU/s72-c/Del+Mar+Pool.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-5002521568685201175</id><published>2009-04-21T10:02:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-21T10:56:14.181-04:00</updated><title type='text'>T.G.I.T. (It&#39;s Not What You Think)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCxzhJengnCO_tbUBpAwpnRuKlpeCtlVpublieIEjMqWqslsTpL9HA4MbOIr6ffwUPkiUke7dEZd-5v4fQ7Vc9oIcOJa4KmHzUUryoh-bqZfofC8m9J0vQ1C6QzooksYrx3qIsKT6FCRfC/s1600-h/Pinkster.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 181px; height: 320px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCxzhJengnCO_tbUBpAwpnRuKlpeCtlVpublieIEjMqWqslsTpL9HA4MbOIr6ffwUPkiUke7dEZd-5v4fQ7Vc9oIcOJa4KmHzUUryoh-bqZfofC8m9J0vQ1C6QzooksYrx3qIsKT6FCRfC/s320/Pinkster.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5327145159667124914&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know what you’re thinking: it’s been raining for days and Niambi must be sun-deprived. Why else would she give thanks for Tuesday? But my TGIT has nothing to do with days of the week, and everything to do with what I became for 35 hours between Feb. 7 and March 30th, 2009.&lt;br /&gt; I became a Tour Guide in Training. I took the class for three reasons: (1) I love the District of Columbia.  (2) I am passionate about history, with our history being my first love. (3) Last May I was privileged to take a walking tour of Savannah led by Vaughnette Goode-Walker.  After her riveting immersion in the history of that beautiful city, I wanted to be just like Sister V.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What it Isn’t/What it Is &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On February 7 I quickly learned what a successful tour guide is not. My mere recitation of facts and figures didn’t quite cut it. “Put down the script and talk from your heart,” one classmate advised. By the next session I learned what separates the wheat from the chaff in the guiding world.  It’s storytelling, plain and simple. Enhance the facts with stories and personal reflections, and a captive audience is guaranteed. &lt;br /&gt;In Lincoln Park at the statue of Mary McLeod Bethune, I talked about my mother, then a student at Virginia State, who met Mrs. Bethune when she visited the campus. Across the park from the great lady is Lincoln in bronze, depicted as freeing a slave. A fellow classmate told this story: Instead of a fictional image plucked from the imagination of the sculptor, the model for the slave was Alexander Archer, the last slave captured under the Fugitive Slave Act.  The idea for the statue of Lincoln came not from the Federal Government, but from Charlotte Scott, a freed slave whose donation of $5.00 was the beginning of the funding, all from freed slaves. At its dedication, Frederick Douglass was pressed into an impromptu speech. He did not mince words in his description of Lincoln.  “He was preeminently the white man’s President entirely devoted to the welfare of white men. He was ready and willing at any time during the first years of his administration to deny, postpone, and sacrifice the rights of humanity in the colored people to promote the welfare of the white people of this country.” The speech became kinder and gentler, or in the jargon of today “fair and balanced”, but Douglass was definitely not there to sing Kumbayah. &lt;br /&gt;At the Capitol, I shared the story of the enslaved Phillip Reid’s role in the placement of the Statue of Freedom on the Capitol Dome.  In spite of a temperamental Italian sculptor, Reid took care of business, a inspiring case of brain over brawn. At the small jewel that is the Anacostia Community Museum, it was like sorting through my mother’s collection of memorabilia and historical documents.  The life-sized Pinkster King (see picture) greets visitors at the entrance to Jubilee, an exhibit on African-American celebrations. Among the collection, in all its glory, stands the beautiful red costume of a New Orleans Mardi Gras Indian.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Be Prepared!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We learned to be prepared. Wearing an armload of silver at the Capitol Visitor’s Center is a tortuous no-no, especially when one of those bangles is a tightly-clasped lover’s knot. (Ask me how I know). No guide wants a lost tourist starring in their own unauthorized version of “Night at the Museum.” Or stranded over in Anacostia at the Frederick Douglass home. &lt;br /&gt;When it comes to research, for me there is no such thing as too much information. In the Capitol’s Statuary Hall, someone will want to know why there is no walkway over the head of Hawaii’s King Kamehameha. Or why the statue of Sacajewa is facing west.  Kids love the stomach-shaped hairball and other “fluid preserved gross anatomical and pathological specimens” at Walter Reed’s National Museum of Health and Medicine, but many grown-ups gag. I went nowhere near the gore. Side note:  “Trauma Bay II: Balad, Iraq” is a life-sized look into the work of combat medics, many of it in pictures and their own words and voices.  Take plenty of tissues. &lt;br /&gt;On March 30, at what used to be Abingdon Plantation and is now part of Reagan National Airport, we received our certificates, and a DVD of ourselves at work. We took one last class picture and shared a celebratory drink. &lt;br /&gt;When I got back home, my spam mail was full. “Virginity test cancelled,” one shouted in all caps.  What good news! I would have had to put it on the back burner anyway. (lol) I’ve got the DC Tour Guide test coming up. And when I pass, I hope to see you on the streets. I’ve got some stories to tell. Until then, here’s a preview: click on the slideshow below and enjoy!</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/5002521568685201175/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/5002521568685201175' title='16 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/5002521568685201175'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/5002521568685201175'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2009/04/tgit-its-not-what-you-think_21.html' title='T.G.I.T. (It&#39;s Not What You Think)'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCxzhJengnCO_tbUBpAwpnRuKlpeCtlVpublieIEjMqWqslsTpL9HA4MbOIr6ffwUPkiUke7dEZd-5v4fQ7Vc9oIcOJa4KmHzUUryoh-bqZfofC8m9J0vQ1C6QzooksYrx3qIsKT6FCRfC/s72-c/Pinkster.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>16</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-7048187032218992131</id><published>2009-04-21T10:01:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-21T10:01:41.417-04:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;img style=&quot;visibility:hidden;width:0px;height:0px;&quot; border=0 width=0 height=0 src=&quot;http://counters.gigya.com/wildfire/IMP/CXNID=2000002.11NXC/bHQ9MTI*MDMyMjQ*NzU5MyZwdD*xMjQwMzIyNDg5MjgxJnA9Mzg2MzYxJmQ9Jm49YmxvZ2dlciZnPTEmdD*mb2Y9MA==.gif&quot; /&gt;&lt;embed width=&quot;448&quot; height=&quot;361&quot; type=&quot;application/x-shockwave-flash&quot; wmode=&quot;transparent&quot; src=&quot;http://i277.photobucket.com/remix/player.swf?videoURL=http%3A%2F%2Fvid277.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fkk80%2Fsandandsilk%2FTour%2520Guide%2520in%2520Training%2F87fd6d75.pbr&amp;hostname=stream277.photobucket.com&quot;&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/7048187032218992131/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/7048187032218992131' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/7048187032218992131'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/7048187032218992131'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2009/04/blog-post_2339.html' title=''/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-3210349577520668319</id><published>2008-10-24T10:11:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-24T11:58:37.921-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Big Women (It&#39;s NOT What You Think:))</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhD6WFvYBhzmqeEoyVSNLfhZHjn4kdGnYgoovq7NrYq-mgjG-HYjSVFO9q3tg9xPz16dI1IpMvsm3WQeW83vmGS7AQiSmPXo0fdUiK73-Rk8BDYTQO-5vREcuviz_yuFxREAiAAo3Pt3Bou/s1600-h/bitter+end+blossom.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 165px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhD6WFvYBhzmqeEoyVSNLfhZHjn4kdGnYgoovq7NrYq-mgjG-HYjSVFO9q3tg9xPz16dI1IpMvsm3WQeW83vmGS7AQiSmPXo0fdUiK73-Rk8BDYTQO-5vREcuviz_yuFxREAiAAo3Pt3Bou/s200/bitter+end+blossom.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5260747482403683922&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most women have a couple of good male friends who treat their female friends like one of the guys. No topic is forbidden territory. They have no cover for their mouths; in matters of sex, love and romance (with romance often the least of these) anything that comes up, comes out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; This past summer I hung out with a group of friends, both male and female.  We hadn’t seen each other for a while. As always, rum and “ole talk” (trash talk) flowed like the River Niger. So did laughter, due in part to one man’s confession. It takes a real man to make fun of himself and his relentless, hilarious (and often unsuccessful) pursuit of women under 30. He’s the polar opposite of a gray-haired Don Juan I remember from some years back. With his cap cocked to the back, draped in gold chains and baggy jeans, he beat the bushes for young women like a big game guide on safari. “The only thing an old woman could do for him was show him where a young woman went.” Unlike our friend, nothing about this man made me laugh. Instead I felt sorry for the old desperado. Still, neither of these men wanted a big woman.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; In case you’re thinking Big and Beautiful, or Fabulous and Thick, not this time. Today I’m defining her Caribbean style. To our brothers and sisters in the tropics, a big woman is a woman of a certain age; a grown woman; a seasoned sister.A few weeks after our gathering I had an “interesting” conversation with a younger man. It may have been the memory of past pleasure, but his whole demeanor changed when he described the lure of the big woman.  He didn’t stutter, stumble or half-step; his appreciation for the seasoned sister was sharp, smooth and sweet like soursop ice cream.  I declined the hands-on demonstration (lol), but I listened well as he spoke of the big woman’s sense of confidence, accomplishment and sensuality. According to him, she has nothing to prove to anyone – she’s been there, done that, and on this go-around, can do it even better. To the surprise of some, and the joy to others, it’s not all about looks or sex.   Apparently, he’s not alone.  A friend jokingly referred to herself as senior citizen to a younger man looking to check her out. I’m taking bets that right now he’s signed up for early admission to AARP. It gives new meaning to the phrase “big girl panties” – on or off (lol).  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  So the next time a man of a certain age wants to put the Big Woman out to pasture, let him know who’s got the upper hand.  Refer him to From Dusk to Dawn, page 6, paragraph 3, lines 4-6!</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/3210349577520668319/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/3210349577520668319' title='20 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/3210349577520668319'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/3210349577520668319'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/10/big-women-its-not-what-you-think.html' title='Big Women (It&#39;s NOT What You Think:))'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhD6WFvYBhzmqeEoyVSNLfhZHjn4kdGnYgoovq7NrYq-mgjG-HYjSVFO9q3tg9xPz16dI1IpMvsm3WQeW83vmGS7AQiSmPXo0fdUiK73-Rk8BDYTQO-5vREcuviz_yuFxREAiAAo3Pt3Bou/s72-c/bitter+end+blossom.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>20</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-5098287310887244594</id><published>2008-10-03T11:43:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-03T11:58:41.267-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The Butt Bra (Just Not Pretty Enough)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIjVndBxChAJda6bFYcAK950fxz2hgGBTTSwfZgiXC68z04rAsm62W_b-WA8ScoDIywQ_idnieIFb8HUUiE0q8KBPYZd2hGr4C6Oap8ezx-oWzUQsmVEnCd27sVp8H-DmepBZrZdW_eJKK/s1600-h/j0433239.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIjVndBxChAJda6bFYcAK950fxz2hgGBTTSwfZgiXC68z04rAsm62W_b-WA8ScoDIywQ_idnieIFb8HUUiE0q8KBPYZd2hGr4C6Oap8ezx-oWzUQsmVEnCd27sVp8H-DmepBZrZdW_eJKK/s320/j0433239.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5252954049300265106&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First, a disclaimer. I color my hair. When it’s too dark, I look like Bela Lugosi. That’s why I have no problem with improving the hand that nature dealt us (to a point). And neither do television talk show hosts – in the past two months I’ve seen a whole posse of plastic surgeons and their greatest creations cheesing from the front row. They talk about collagen, botox, restylane and some stuff made out of pig skin. There’s a lift, a tuck, a sucking out and a plumping up for every part of a not-quite-good enough body.  Eager audiences applaud for women who were renewed by surgery or non-surgically “refreshed.” They squirm at big-screen shots of oozing injections. They’re shocked and sympathetic to guests with scary stories (and the scars to prove them) of surgery that made them wish they’d kept those thin lips or that A cup. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most of the shows were mildly interesting. But when talk turned to the perky booty, one particular show became fall-down funny. So listen up: if you want a high round butt, but don’t want it cut and stuffed into a Brazilian Butt Lift, there’s a Butt Bra in your future. When I finished laughing, I had to search the net for a picture. It looked like the unholy marriage of a chastity belt and a horse bridle. What sadist created this contraption? And what woman is so desperate for a book shelf booty that she’d walk the streets bound up in an instrument of torture?   I was a little ticked; there was nothing comparable for men. But before I could work up a good head of steam, I found a figure in boxer briefs, sporting “The Package Booster.”  I laughed so hard I expected a knock on the door and a charge of disturbing the peace.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So here’s a question:  What happens at the moment of truth when the clothes come off and the woman’s apple bottom butt drops to the back of her knees? Or when that long limousine (as promised by the Package Booster) turns into a &quot;tiny little Volkswagen with two flat tires&quot;? In sue-happy America I can just see these people in front of Judge Joe Brown claiming false advertising, misrepresentation of goods, bait and switch, or whatever it’s called in legalese. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The real question is “what price beauty?” And when does this craziness start?   Here’s one answer: it begins when a 7 year old girl is replaced by a lip-synching stand-in because she’s “just not pretty enough.”  In the words of my mother, it’s a sure sign we’re going to hell in a hand basket.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Juvederm, anyone?</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/5098287310887244594/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/5098287310887244594' title='11 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/5098287310887244594'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/5098287310887244594'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/10/butt-bra-just-not-pretty-enough.html' title='The Butt Bra (Just Not Pretty Enough)'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIjVndBxChAJda6bFYcAK950fxz2hgGBTTSwfZgiXC68z04rAsm62W_b-WA8ScoDIywQ_idnieIFb8HUUiE0q8KBPYZd2hGr4C6Oap8ezx-oWzUQsmVEnCd27sVp8H-DmepBZrZdW_eJKK/s72-c/j0433239.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>11</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-6749543164282495728</id><published>2008-07-01T11:55:00.019-04:00</published><updated>2008-07-01T14:09:03.490-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A Review, a Rapturous Interview and the Winner&#39;s Circle</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0anlNxRG1nU04k9boUaR1C5o4HAfffxvJ1_HmzStqXlst8TeDkqXaFYPyqfdrSKdXMqhv2FsUQaWA0L4jj1LUXVqmEC8t6kBgTBjnNZDFXcXb6tJ4WYHco48-g9PiaV077-ZkxMnAToQY/s1600-h/Junkanoo+band.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0anlNxRG1nU04k9boUaR1C5o4HAfffxvJ1_HmzStqXlst8TeDkqXaFYPyqfdrSKdXMqhv2FsUQaWA0L4jj1LUXVqmEC8t6kBgTBjnNZDFXcXb6tJ4WYHco48-g9PiaV077-ZkxMnAToQY/s320/Junkanoo+band.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5218082835478533762&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Check the picture – see why I didn’t get this post out until today? That&#39;s not me &quot;playing &#39;mas&quot; but it was DC Carnival weekend, so what can I say… (lol)  But just before I left, I received a review from Terri Williams of Sisters Sippin’ Tea Literary Group, Tulsa Chapter.  What a send-off – I love how it begins:  “Just let me say right now, do not sleep on From Dusk To Dawn, Niambi Brown Davis&#39;s first romance novel. The cover had me fooled – it&#39;s a bit vanilla, but the pages between the front and back cover are filled with straight HOT CHOCOLATE! It took me two days to finish only because I wanted to savor the flavor.”  Click here to read the rest of Terri’s review and to learn more about  the Sisters Sippin&#39; Tea Literary Group: &lt;a href=&quot;http://&quot;&gt;http://www.apooobooks.com/2008/06/28/tulsa-sisters-sippin-tea-literary-group-niambi-brown-davis/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On Sunday, the threatened storm held off and the power held up, allowing me to be a blog talk radio guest of Lisa the Rapturous Reader. It was icing on the cake of an already wonderful weekend. You would think that instead of being separated by miles of cyberspace, we were sitting face to face, chatting like good girlfriends over tall glasses of sweet tea on a lazy Sunday afternoon. We touched on so many subjects – from the characters we liked the least, the ones hardest for me to write, all the way to the ingredients in Ayo’s luxurious and indulgent bath time treat. It was great – click on this link to listen for yourself.&lt;a href=&quot;http://&quot;&gt;http://www.blogtalkradio.com/therapturousreader&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And now for the winners and a word from Yasmin Coleman, online publicist extraordinaire and conductor of the Against All Odds Virtual Book Tour:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Thank you to everyone who participated in the Against All Odds Virtual Book Party and who helped kick off the first leg of the tour during the month of April.  As many of you are aware, if you stopped by Niambi’s blog and left a comment during the month of April, you were entered into a drawing to win PRIZES including the coveted Ayo’s Beach Bag. You may not know it, but Ayo creates her own line of bath and body products. For après-beach pampering, enjoy Ayo’s Maracas Bay Coconut Cloud, Orange Blossom Balm and Pink Sands Soap. Ayo’s Beach Bag includes these products as well as a coral and green striped towel, an AUTOGRAPHED copy of From Dusk to Dawn, the matching bookmark, two lovely champagne flutes and a set of “Sun and Sand” tea lights. For the winner’s listening pleasure, the bag also includes the Dusk to Dawn remix, a soulful musical journey through the story of Ayo and Bilal.&lt;br /&gt;Without further ado and a DRUMROLL PLEASE, the winner of Ayo’s Beach Bag as well as the other wonderful prizes are&lt;/em&gt;: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;GRAND PRIZE WINNER of the coveted AYO&#39;S BEACH BAG!!!&lt;/strong&gt;):  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;DONIELLE R&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;First Place Winner ($25 Amazon Gift Certificate):  &lt;br /&gt;Rosa H.&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Second Place Winners (AUTOGRAPHED copies of From Dusk to Dawn):&lt;br /&gt;Darnetta F.&lt;br /&gt;Jennifer C.&lt;br /&gt;Gayla Clarke&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Third Place Winners (Against All Odds CD):&lt;/strong&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;Darnetta F.&lt;br /&gt;Dera W.&lt;br /&gt;Priscilla J.&lt;br /&gt;JC Martin&lt;br /&gt;Chooleta&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#39;m happy to add my own congratulations, and to thank you all for being a part of the Against All Odds Virtual Book Tour!</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/6749543164282495728/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/6749543164282495728' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/6749543164282495728'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/6749543164282495728'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/07/review-rapturous-interview-and-winners.html' title='A Review, a Rapturous Interview and the Winner&#39;s Circle'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0anlNxRG1nU04k9boUaR1C5o4HAfffxvJ1_HmzStqXlst8TeDkqXaFYPyqfdrSKdXMqhv2FsUQaWA0L4jj1LUXVqmEC8t6kBgTBjnNZDFXcXb6tJ4WYHco48-g9PiaV077-ZkxMnAToQY/s72-c/Junkanoo+band.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-7663209683830452534</id><published>2008-06-24T09:02:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-24T09:20:04.680-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Book Talk on the Bayou - My Visit with Lynn Emery</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiG5oa9z7_NDoh8YvJXe-rT62TloFvqQAXY2PvAm7PtLswtUr45m5X0ef8pH_Zg2_ooyxfRYZloTXouNZk3cWojkjHDm-aWlSve_o7LEqfLJ2lN2INbsobToDgrRnWQBn7tIoZvpMgs0cbi/s1600-h/lynn_index.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiG5oa9z7_NDoh8YvJXe-rT62TloFvqQAXY2PvAm7PtLswtUr45m5X0ef8pH_Zg2_ooyxfRYZloTXouNZk3cWojkjHDm-aWlSve_o7LEqfLJ2lN2INbsobToDgrRnWQBn7tIoZvpMgs0cbi/s200/lynn_index.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5215435332030358466&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From the first page, I was hooked on Lynn Emery’s ALL I WANT IS FOREVER, the story of Talia Marchand and Derrick Guillory. But that Monette! She is one of the most unforgettable characters in any story I’ve ever read. When I knew that Monette would have a story (and a love of her own) I couldn’t wait to read it. And with the title SOULFUL STRUT how could I not introduce myself and my own Soleful Strut Butter Balm (www.solefulstrut.com)  to Lynn at Romance Slam Jam in Shreveport? Since then she’s been a great supporter of me and my business, for which I’m truly grateful. Today, Lynn has invited me to make a cyber-stop in Louisiana. Check out our interview – she’s asked some great questions! Visit us here:  &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lynnemery.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;http://lynnemery.blogspot.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here’s more about Lynn:&lt;br /&gt;Mix knowledge of Louisiana politics and forensic social work, with the dedication to write fiction while working each day in an acute psychiatric unit for women, and you get a snapshot of talented author Lynn Emery. Lynn has been a contributing consultant to the magazine Today’s Black Woman for three articles about contemporary relationships between black men and women. &lt;br /&gt;Lynn sold her first novel in 1995 to Kensington publishing for their groundbreaking Arabesque line. NIGHT MAGIC went on to be recognized for Excellence in Romance Fiction for 1995 by Romantic Times Magazine. Her third novel, AFTER ALL, became a movie produced by BET and aired on December 3, 1999. Holly Robinson Peete was the female lead as Michelle Toussaint, an investigative television reporter. In 2004 Lynn won three coveted Emma Awards. She was chosen Author of the Year and her novel KISS LONELY GOODBYE won Best Novel and Favorite Hero.A native of Baton Rouge, Louisiana, Lynn writes after work and on weekends. Flagging energy does not present a problem. “I began to write when I was eleven years old and I won’t ever stop. That tough little kid inside me who dreamed of holding her own book won’t hear of it. Let me tell you she cracks the whip!” &lt;br /&gt;Lynn&#39;s latest novel is SOULFUL STRUT is from HarperCollins. She has also completed a inspirational non-fiction book called BE ENCOURAGED: WORDS OF SUNLIGHT FOR THE SOUL.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/7663209683830452534/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/7663209683830452534' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/7663209683830452534'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/7663209683830452534'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/06/book-talk-on-bayou-my-visit-with-lynn.html' title='Book Talk on the Bayou - My Visit with Lynn Emery'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiG5oa9z7_NDoh8YvJXe-rT62TloFvqQAXY2PvAm7PtLswtUr45m5X0ef8pH_Zg2_ooyxfRYZloTXouNZk3cWojkjHDm-aWlSve_o7LEqfLJ2lN2INbsobToDgrRnWQBn7tIoZvpMgs0cbi/s72-c/lynn_index.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-4916719255967692216</id><published>2008-06-13T08:59:00.013-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-13T09:39:33.945-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Girl, What IS Your Problem (The Lost Chapter and a Give-Away)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-tWfUBfYfsfzLPGYi6U6c-jUYe4XSdvYi9ajwXjHe9SszFLsOaofHogiYZa0PqcDIoM_g2ImTFFJlmpVumLB9R8eYg8LX1b6FXkmIxnq6luTSZHckXJ2C0WxIJbd03tjta247A5nvVKrr/s1600-h/hibiscus.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-tWfUBfYfsfzLPGYi6U6c-jUYe4XSdvYi9ajwXjHe9SszFLsOaofHogiYZa0PqcDIoM_g2ImTFFJlmpVumLB9R8eYg8LX1b6FXkmIxnq6luTSZHckXJ2C0WxIJbd03tjta247A5nvVKrr/s200/hibiscus.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5211360192893510322&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“I wanted to shake her!” “She’s just too daggone stubborn!” Ayo Montgomery brought out strong reaction in some readers and reviewers. (So I had to show my girl some love by posting a picture of her favorite flower) :) I  imagined them talking back to the book: “Girl,  just what is your problem?” There’s always a reason; it may not be good enough, but a reason, nevertheless. So what could have happened in a woman’s life to make her say “I can’t go through that again.”  And is the reason good enough? Is she letting the past dictate her future?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So read on to make your own decision. Let me know if you understand. And please share your thoughts on what I call the “lost chapter,”  a prologue I was advised to cut. It’s a no-no for the beginning of a romance.  Still, this chapter  has moved everyone who read it. Actually, the story of Ayo’s young life is an almost completed manuscript.  I just haven’t figured out what to do with it.&lt;br /&gt;And to make Friday the 13th some reader’s  lucky day, I’m offering a prize to the first person who can email me at &lt;strong&gt;niambi@niambibrowndavis.com &lt;/strong&gt;with the name of Ayo’s DC condominium. The gift is a duplicate of the Romance Slam Jam Mini-Swag Bag. It includes a jar of Orange Blossom Balm, Coconut Cloud, a &lt;em&gt;Dusk to Dawn&lt;/em&gt; CD, a bookmark and  recipe card.  Good luck - I can’t wait to hear from you!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Night fell like a velvet, star-strewn curtain in Trinidad. In the hills of Maraval, it was especially beautiful; they seemed closer to earth here than anywhere else in the world. The night breeze cooled the plantation-styled home, blowing from the front gallery straight through to the kitchen. In the living room  Maurice Montgomery stretched out on the hardwood floor cradling nine-month old Kedar and watching the country’s evening news. The baby laid in a chubby sprawl on his father’s chest.  With his fluffy baby Afro and deep dimples carved into his honey-butter face, Kedar was Maurice in miniature. He loved this time of night – home with his wife and child. His love for them was like a white hot comet that never burned out.   &lt;br /&gt;     “Ayo!’ Maurice called out. “Come look. This is the story I filmed today!” He choked back a burst of laughter at the antics of The Earth Mother’s back to nature group. Today they had come down from the hills into Port of Spain wearing nothing but grain bags over their dry, dusty bodies.   “See, they dressed decent for town, because up in the hills they go naked.”  When the ultra-smooth reporter began to recite their names – Cucumber, Sweet Potato and Cassava – chosen because of the vegetables they grew in ground fertilized by their own waste, no less - she choked back a burst of laughter of her own.  Maurice guffawed, and Kedar joined in.  Instead of  all-gums, his wide grin now exposed two new baby teeth. Maurice stretched his arms, holding his son high over his head. “Yuh laughin’ too,  baby boy?”&lt;br /&gt;     As quickly as it had come, Maurice’s laughter died. A grainy, live shot of a small scowling man replaced The Earth Mother’s ragged band.  Each sentence of his scowling, rambling rant was punctuated with a jab of his knobby forefinger.&lt;br /&gt;“Dat man is trouble, oui!” The sight of Martin Gary pulled a rapid-fire stream of patois curses from Maurice’s mouth. Gary, a petty tyrant, held a choking grip on the small island country of Meridia.  Dissention meant a cell in the capital’s medieval prison, most times on murky, made-up charges. Gary practiced a cynical kind of obeah – he was in fact a confirmed Catholic,  but he knew his people and held believers hostage to the ways of their ancestors.  Even so, he couldn’t control everybody -  there was open rebellion with anarchy rolling across the country like a towering, violent tidal wave. Meridia was in chaos; so much so that US troops were rumored to be on their way to protect its citizens and embassy.&lt;br /&gt;     Later, the sounds of Maraval’s night creatures soothed the family to sleep. The next morning, Ayo leaned up on one elbow and gazed at her husband.  She loved her “old man,” as she called him when she teased him about the 10 year difference in their ages. He was 6 feet of sleek, honey-colored muscle with the face of a fallen angel. But Ayo didn’t care what he looked like, because Maurice Montgomery was a gift. He loved her the way a man is supposed to love a woman. If she could have created a mate out of a dream, he still couldn’t come close to the real life man beside her.  &lt;br /&gt;     She sighed with contentment, putting Martin Perry and his goons out of her mind until a phone call interrupted their morning coffee and planted the seed of fear into Ayo’s mind. She watched Maurice’s expression change from surprise to determination and then resolve. He stood quickly, leaving his coffee to grown a thin, cool film. &lt;br /&gt;     When Ayo approached with Kedar, the freshly bathed baby gurgled with glee at the sight of his father. Maurice lifted the child from her arms and held him against his chest, stroking Kedar’s hair and nibbling the curve of his son’s tiny ear.&lt;br /&gt;“Baby, I need to talk to you. Something has just come up.” Holding Kedar in the crook of one arm, he reached out with the other to draw her close. “You know how I feel about this Perry mess, don’t you?”&lt;br /&gt;     “Yes…” Ayo’s stomach lurched.  Both hands balled into fists; the nails dug into her palms. &lt;br /&gt;     “The station wants a report straight out of Meridia. They asked me to go.”&lt;br /&gt;Ayo’s voice rose sharply. “But Maurice, that place is a battle zone! Perry is crazy and so are his people. They want to keep power and they don’t care who or what they destroy to have it.”&lt;br /&gt;     Kedar’s mouth trembled with the beginnings of a whimper. “It’s okay, baby boy.” Maurice lowered his head and crooned in Kedar’s ear. He grasped one tiny hand and rubbed his thumb over the soft surface. Kedar let out a shudder and settled back into the warm strength of his father’s arms.&lt;br /&gt;     “But that’s the point,” he countered. “No one outside the country really knows what’s going on. Perry has the place in grip! I’ve worked there before that criminal took power. I made a lot of contacts, from government officials to the country folks struggling to get by. I can get more than the party line because the people I know trust me. And they want the truth to be told. I have to go.”&lt;br /&gt;     And so it was done.  Maurice gave her the courtesy of a discussion, but Ayo knew the decision had been made before that phone call ended. Three days later, the station manager sent a car for Maurice and two print journalists, one from each of the country’s major newspapers.  &lt;br /&gt;     In Trinidad  her extended family had become Roy and Gemma Charles and Neville James, who were also  Maurice’s best friends. Roy and Gemma owned the Scarlet Ibis Restaurant. Neville operated an art gallery out of a magnificent colonial mansion near the Queens Park Savannah. “Come stay with us,” Gemma urged. “We can play in the Ibis kitchen and I’ll show you some more Trini dishes to keep your man fat and happy – well, at least happy,” she chortled.&lt;br /&gt;“I’ve got my baby and my books,” Ayo laughed. “The time will fly and he’ll be home before we know it. You know how much I love being up here.”  Bright bursts of flowers bloomed among the lush green plants carpeting their hillside. Broad banana leaves provided just enough shade against the brunt of the mid-day tropical heat.  The evenings were fragrant and cool. “It’s just how I imagine the Garden of Eden would be.”  Waving her friends  off, she settled herself to wait for Maurice’s homecoming – and what a homecoming she planned for the man she loved!&lt;br /&gt;That Sunday afternoon, after Kedar’s bath, Ayo dusted his warm, wriggling body with powder. She’d just leaned over to kiss his forehead when the phone rang. She grabbed it up, certain it was Maurice. “I’m on my way to the airport, “ he  shouted over the static, wavering connection. “When we get to Trinidad, the station will have a car waiting to bring me home. See you soon, baby. I love you.” The connection failed, but Ayo plopped on the side of the bed and wept with relief. He was safe; he’d be home in a few hours.&lt;br /&gt;By air, Meridia was an hour away.  On-time flights were rare, even before the country’s upheaval. When four hours passed since his phone call, Ayo didn’t worry. Besides, there was always a traffic jam coming from Trinidad’s Piarco Airport.  She and Kedar dozed in the cushioned rocking chair Maurice  bought for his wife and son when Kedar was born. The memory of that day made her laugh out loud.  Her strong man looked like a little boy at Christmas, dragging that chair out of the back of his too-small car.&lt;br /&gt;The sound of a car winding up the hill jolted Ayo out of her barely-there sleep.  “At last!”&lt;br /&gt;She rushed out onto her porch and into the warm tropical night, cradling Kedar against her chest.  She frowned; instead of four men there were three. Two of them were Maurice’s traveling companions. Roy had no reason to be there. Sunday was his only day off from the restaurant and with few exceptions, he spent it at home with Gemma,&lt;br /&gt;She latched onto a shred of hope. Maybe this was another of the tricks Maurice loved to play on her. But one look at their stricken faces told her different. She began to tremble and in an eerily calm whisper, directed her questions to the man she knew best.&lt;br /&gt;“Roy, what’s going on? Why are you here?”&lt;br /&gt;Roy reached forward to place both hands on her shoulders. He struggled with words that came out in a ragged whisper. “Because I’m the only one who should bring you the news. His calm broke into heaving sobs, “Oh God, Ayo – Maurice was shot and killed!”&lt;br /&gt;Ayo mouth fell open but there was no sound at first. Then her scream spiraled up and out into the night. She stumbled back. Kedar slipped from her grasp and clutched the front of her blouse, desperately scrambling to hold on.  Terrified by the sound and his near-fall, Kedar wailed, burying his tear-streaked face into his mother’s chest. Ayo’s brain was frozen in disbelief but instinct pushed her to wrap her arms around her terrified child.&lt;br /&gt;“NO”! She shrieked again. “I talked to him earlier. He was on his way to the airport!” her mind could not hold on. This was some horrible dream. Ayo squeezed her eyes shut, hoping that if she didn’t see them, the men standing on her gallery would be players in a nightmare from which she’d soon awake. &lt;br /&gt;Ricky Maraj, one of the newspapermen, stepped forward. Dust settled on the jet black hair that brushed his collar. His dirty, torn shirt showed signs that something had gone wrong in what should have been an uneventful ride to Meridia’s airport. His jaw worked; he swiped one hand across his face and swallowed.&lt;br /&gt;“Mrs. Montgomery, please hear me out. Maurice’s contacts got us into places that would have been difficult for anyone else, but thanks to him we got our story. One of the men we interviewed asked for a ride. We dropped him off near a rum shop and  just as Maurice stood up to let him out, shots were fired in our direction. We all ducked, but Maurice was still outside.’ His voice broke. “And the shots hit him.”&lt;br /&gt;Ayo swayed but Roy grabbed her before she and Kedar fell.  “It was an area that was usually safe, but a dispute between the political factions spilled over into that neighborhood. We just got caught.”  Maraj was utterly miserable; he looked like he would soon be sick.&lt;br /&gt;“Where is my husband?” Ayo whispered, holding back the wail that would surely frighten her trembling son.&lt;br /&gt;“Ayo, there’s more. As soon as these men got word to their papers and the TV station, the manager found Neville. You know he has connections. He took over. Went straight to one of his big time friends and chartered a plane. He said that anybody who stood in his way in that godforsaken Meridia would have a lifetime of hell to pay. He’s on his way to bring Maurice home. The plane lands at 3:00 tomorrow.”&lt;br /&gt;Ayo’s head jerked up.  “Now you hold on a minute!” A jolt of anger pierced through the fog of her shock. “Nobody asked me!  I’m his wife. I’m supposed to bring him home!”&lt;br /&gt;“Listen Ayo. No one wants to take away your rights. Black or not, you’d be spotted as a foreigner and when you opened your mouth, as an American. The US Embassy has rounded up all its personnel and they’re holed up in the embassy. They’ve evacuated  their citizens from the medical school campus on the other side of the island. You see how serious it is?”&lt;br /&gt;Ayo didn’t reply, but she knew he was right. His reasoning cooled her fury.&lt;br /&gt;“You would be left with no protection. Although you hold a US passport, you’re not on the list of US citizens living on the island. Even if you got to the embassy, you’d be stranded. And if not, you’d be arrested. Then who would see about Maurice? And who would care for Kedar?”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;This is not real.&lt;/em&gt;  &lt;em&gt;None of it; not this conversation, these people in my house – none of it.&lt;/em&gt;  He was almost home. But being what he called a “true Caribbean man,” he had to find out the truth for his people. And being the good guy he had always been, he wouldn’t leave his source without a ride.  Maurice’s good deed had gotten him killed. Weak from the weight of shock, Ayo clutched Kedar and dropped down on the couch. The two men who witnessed Maurice’s death each bent to take her hand and offer condolences that to all of them could never be enough.&lt;br /&gt;Before she lost her courage, Ayo made the call to Canada that she dreaded. When Maurice’s sister dropped the phone and screamed out for her husband Trevor, Ayo had to repeat the dreadful words to her horrified brother-in-law.&lt;br /&gt;“Lord, please help me,” she mouthed, over and over into the sleepless night. The next morning, she felt slapped awake, jerked from sleep and made to stand on legs too weak to hold the weight of her anguish. The sense of loss was a cold gray undertow, pulling her deeper and deeper into grief. Earlier Maurice’s Aunt Elvie had come up from Belmont to keep Kedar. The feisty matriarch was the Montgomery family’s backbone, but today she appeared shrunken and frail. Her voice trembled.  “T’ank God my sister already gone; it woulda  kill she to lose any of she chirren.”&lt;br /&gt;As it was in the rainy season, a few minutes of hard rain gave way to a burst of sun that baked away any evidence of a downpour. Justine Lewis had flown all night from DC through almost every island in the Eastern Caribbean to be with her best friend. Roy and Gemma waited with the two women. They all stood at a door off the runway, clutching huge umbrellas. Trinis called them “house and land”  but today Ayo found no amusement in her adopted countrymen’s knack for nicknaming anybody and anything.&lt;br /&gt;Just as the brilliant tropical sun broke through, the plane bearing Maurice’s body turned in a semi-circle and began its descent.  Ayo took deep gulping breaths to swallow her sobs. “Lord help me,” she mouthed the plea softly. “Hold me up.” &lt;br /&gt;The door of the small plane opened. The cargo bay opened and Maurice’s smooth, polished coffin was placed inside the hearse’s double door. At the same time, an attendant lowered the steps for Neville to disembark. His grim, sorrowful expression broke through her stoic resolve. &lt;br /&gt;“No, she murmured softly, “no.” She pressed a fist against her mouth to hold back the sobs. But instead of standing with them, Ayo broke from her friends and ran to the hearse. “I’ve got to go with him.” No one stopped her when she pulled open the front door to the hearse and slid  in beside the driver.  “I can’t let him take this ride alone.”&lt;br /&gt;Later, alone in front of his open coffin, Ayo spoke softly to her husband. She caught the tears that ran freely down her face. “Remember how we danced to that calypso, “Wet Me Down?”  Her sob was bittersweet. He would appreciate the joke, but he was gone and they couldn’t laugh together. “I love you so much, Maurice. You gave me everything – true love, a life full of joy, and most of all, our beautiful Kedar. This isn’t goodbye, my love. It’s just farewell until we meet again. And we will. You and I will be a part of each other for eternity.”&lt;br /&gt;In the days after his memorial service, dusk was especially difficult. She remembered their second date. They stood together, watching the sun set over DC’s Tidal Basin. “Dusk and dawn are my favorite times of day,” she told him. “They remind me of the never-ending wheel of life.”  But these days, dusk represented nothing but the beginning of dark. &lt;br /&gt;“I can’t see past each day that begins and ends without Maurice,” she confided to Gemma, who urged her to move closer to their home in St.Ann’s. “You need to be with people who care for you and for Maurice. You know that’s what he would have wanted.” Ayo’s quiet, barely controlled despair frightened her friend. &lt;br /&gt;But she couldn’t; she needed to be in the space they shared, with his clothes, his cameras and books, their bed; everything just as it had been on the day before he left for Meridia. At night she would pray to sleep  at least until dawn.  Through her grief, Kedar was her only solace. “What am I going to do here,” she asked herself one early morning, watching the coral and blue dawn blend into a new day. As much as she loved her new home and country, she knew she couldn’t stay there without Maurice. It would take just one more lonely rainy day to send her spinning over the edge. And then who would care for Kedar?&lt;br /&gt;Three weeks later, after tearful farewells, Ayo and Kedar touched down at National Airport. Justine took a slow drive through the city – up 18th Street, onto Columbia Road and then onto Harvard Street, into the circular driveway of Harvard Hall, her art deco condominium. &lt;br /&gt;“You’re home again. See how much Maurice loved you?  How many men give their wives a deed to their own condo as a wedding gift?”&lt;br /&gt;“I know,” Ayo sighed, struggling with the rush of emotions. “I was living here when I met him. He said ‘we can’t let go of the place we fell in love, now can we.’ And because of his love, I can come right back where I started.”&lt;br /&gt;When she stepped inside, Ayo was overwhelmed by a sweet, almost physical sense of homecoming. Everything was in its place, exactly as it had been two years ago with the exception of one silver-framed photo that traveled on the plane with her. She set it on the small table next to her bed. It was of Maurice, his dimpled smile bright and beautiful forever.&lt;br /&gt;She walked through the rooms and onto the sun porch, holding Kedar against her heart. This is where she would heal, raise her child and celebrate the memory of her husband. She was home, again.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/4916719255967692216/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/4916719255967692216' title='20 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/4916719255967692216'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/4916719255967692216'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/06/girl-what-is-your-problem-lost-chapter.html' title='Girl, What &lt;em&gt;IS&lt;/em&gt; Your Problem (The Lost Chapter and a Give-Away)'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-tWfUBfYfsfzLPGYi6U6c-jUYe4XSdvYi9ajwXjHe9SszFLsOaofHogiYZa0PqcDIoM_g2ImTFFJlmpVumLB9R8eYg8LX1b6FXkmIxnq6luTSZHckXJ2C0WxIJbd03tjta247A5nvVKrr/s72-c/hibiscus.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>20</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-3811380658560758706</id><published>2008-06-11T12:39:00.021-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-11T13:25:17.289-04:00</updated><title type='text'>If You Don&#39;t Mind, It Don&#39;t Matter (Or Does It)?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgl0rQWD8D3Zb-bA9QC1dnRFUABeCXbw-90sKjwVZKBBm8xAP6iA6GIyC_LXdNKVRkiUQVJ1ju0KR50muB5YFY7YcQsgz1qDmEUI945fTG9UH4wPNmWGIpyoObg35c8CAMu-IotMSMu23fa/s1600-h/Shon_Bacon.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgl0rQWD8D3Zb-bA9QC1dnRFUABeCXbw-90sKjwVZKBBm8xAP6iA6GIyC_LXdNKVRkiUQVJ1ju0KR50muB5YFY7YcQsgz1qDmEUI945fTG9UH4wPNmWGIpyoObg35c8CAMu-IotMSMu23fa/s320/Shon_Bacon.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5210667019930599474&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Earlier today I watched Whoopi, Barbara, Joy, Sherri, and Elizabeth (Lawd, help this woman!) dissect the older man/younger woman dynamic. They trashed Rush Limbaugh’s Neanderthal statement that no one wants to see a woman age in public. (As opposed to aging in private behind baggy boxers, oh he of the little blue pill)? But what else should we expect of Rush?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shonell Bacon, today’s guest blogger, examines the issue in reverse. How does the older woman/younger man dynamic affect a relationship – all aspects of a relationship? If you’re in a similar situation or know someone who is dealing with a May/December dilemma, read this post! Truthfully, for women and relationships of any age, her advice is not to be missed. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While you’re reading take special note of this quote: “One woman I know who is going through this EXACT same issue – among others – is Ayo Montgomery, the strong-willed main character of Niambi Davis’ debut novel…” Shonell is uniquely qualified to speak of Ayo’s hopes and fears. Everyone knows Bilal, the love of Ayo’s “prime of life”, but Shonell is one of the few people who knew Maurice, the great love of Ayo’s youth. Read what she has to say Click here to read more &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.chicklitgurrl.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;http://www.chicklitgurrl.blogspot.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shonell really is everywoman, a woman dedicated to the craft of writing. Many years ago, I remember her as more than generous with her talent, her time and advice. It’s still true today. Here’s more about Shonell and why you should subscribe to her blog: Educator-everywoman Shon Bacon created the blog ChickLitGurrl as a way to express her angst as she tried to break BACK into the publishing industry as a solo author, but she quickly realized that she cared more about words and writing and talking about writing with other writers than she did waxing pathetically about her rejection woes. Thus, ChickLitGurrl: high on LATTES &amp; WRITING was born. You can find her here: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.chicklitgurrl.wordpress.com&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.chicklitgurrl.wordpress.com&quot;&gt;www.chicklitgurrl.wordpress.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/3811380658560758706/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/3811380658560758706' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/3811380658560758706'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/3811380658560758706'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/06/if-you-dont-mind-it-dont-matter-or-does.html' title='If You Don&#39;t Mind, It Don&#39;t Matter (Or Does It)?'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgl0rQWD8D3Zb-bA9QC1dnRFUABeCXbw-90sKjwVZKBBm8xAP6iA6GIyC_LXdNKVRkiUQVJ1ju0KR50muB5YFY7YcQsgz1qDmEUI945fTG9UH4wPNmWGIpyoObg35c8CAMu-IotMSMu23fa/s72-c/Shon_Bacon.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-7256160170669847899</id><published>2008-06-10T12:47:00.014-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-10T13:45:27.150-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Hot Fun in the Summertime - Voice Your Choice</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgb3CYN85vnFwC3MvaxD2Cqpxg4hzPa63I2qFvSmIZP2DFNVnSHmJHtIhyiUlc5-O18eTjn_DsNeZjXq1eLK1i5vUhmE10jAMDf1eXPtTUweMRkXvJZW5dIqoCHJDnb0ItHd7-efrqaFjfv/s1600-h/BE+pool.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgb3CYN85vnFwC3MvaxD2Cqpxg4hzPa63I2qFvSmIZP2DFNVnSHmJHtIhyiUlc5-O18eTjn_DsNeZjXq1eLK1i5vUhmE10jAMDf1eXPtTUweMRkXvJZW5dIqoCHJDnb0ItHd7-efrqaFjfv/s320/BE+pool.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5210299176514954850&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Maybe the Weather Channel’s meteorologist for the Eastern Shore is suffering from heat stroke, because there is no way he or she could report a temperature of 75. As my father would say, it’s hotter than a burnt boot! But just like Ayo Montgomery, I love the summer. True, the sun shines in the winter as well, and there might be a case made for the sunlight on snow, but not for me. There is nothing like the bright, hot summer sun. And like Ayo, I’m an early riser. Many times daylight will find me on the mini-porch on the side of my house with a cup of coffee and a book. Today, however, my very special reading material was a review of From Dusk to Dawn by Monique (Deltareviewer) Bruner. What a way to begin the morning! She begins by speaking of vacation plans...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&quot;When was the last time you took a vacation? As you make preparations, you are in total control – where to stay, what to see, everything is timed to the second. Until you fasten your seatbelt and realize that your ride will be a bumpy one. Well, that is exactly what Ayo Montgomery is going through. Ayo has finally recovered from her husband’s untimely death, her son leaving for college and the fact that her body product business is flourishing. She didn’t miss the male companionship until she laid eyes on Bilal Abdul-Salaam. Her nicely laid plans took an upswing making her life far more complicated and unpredictable. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bilal is a peculiar businessman searching for the women of his dreams. As he takes a last minute appointment to help a friend, he finds his soul mate. Their initial meeting was a plane wreck waiting to happen. But their second chance encounter could be their first class ticket to love. That is if they can overcome societal (age, religious background, and culture) and other familial differences – they just might fly off into the sunset.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ms. Davis flaunts her magnificent writing skills by offering a well crafted story, impressive attention to detail along with a dash of ethnic history. There is so much more than romance offered – you have suspense, explanation of the Muslim faith, details in family conflict, and sensuality. The secondary characters are extraordinarily written and add to the content of the storyline. The conflict made this story realistic and will embed these characters into your heart. Romance readers pick up From Dusk to Dawn because this is definitely worth the trip to the book store.&quot;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Be sure to check out more of Monique&#39;s reviews at &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.myspace.com/realpageturners&quot;&gt;www.myspacecom/realpageturners&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Speaking of vacation, if the temperature is below 65, count me out. To put it bluntly, I’m not spending money to be cold. No skiing, snowboarding, winter wonderland for me. Give me the beach or the deck of a sailboat cruising around St. John, Cane Garden Bay, Tobago or Isla Mujeres. Or by the pool shown in my picture (December 2006 and I was in heaven)!So here’s a couple of questions: if someone showed up at your door with a suitcase full of pretty clothes and an open ticket to anywhere, what would be your vacation destination of choice? Has your dream vacation ever turned into a living hell?</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/7256160170669847899/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/7256160170669847899' title='13 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/7256160170669847899'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/7256160170669847899'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/06/hot-fun-in-summertime-voice-your-choice.html' title='Hot Fun in the Summertime - Voice Your Choice'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgb3CYN85vnFwC3MvaxD2Cqpxg4hzPa63I2qFvSmIZP2DFNVnSHmJHtIhyiUlc5-O18eTjn_DsNeZjXq1eLK1i5vUhmE10jAMDf1eXPtTUweMRkXvJZW5dIqoCHJDnb0ItHd7-efrqaFjfv/s72-c/BE+pool.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>13</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-710964220725174109</id><published>2008-06-06T15:28:00.007-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-06T15:51:48.246-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh, Those Reviews!</title><content type='html'>Before I was a published author, I read a lot about reviews and how they should be taken. I agreed (and still do) that they shouldn’t be taken personally, unless they are in fact personal. But the minute I joined the ranks of published authors, I’ll admit that the sharp elbow of emotion nudged some of that “understanding” out of the way. I held my breath for weeks; I believe the same is true for many authors, whether they’ve published one or one hundred books. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today I received a wonderful review from Tavares Carney of The Culture Clique Book Club. She writes “I particularly enjoyed Bilal’s persistence and reliance on his faith in winning Ayo over, and although Ayo is strong-willed, her vulnerability made her character more true to life. Bilal was able to love Ayo the way she needed to be loved.” That’s just what I hoped readers would take away from the story. Here is  Tavares’ complete review.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In From Dusk to Dawn, author, Niambi Davis, takes us on a tumultuous love journey between main characters, Ayo Montgomery and Bilal Abdul-Salaam. Ayo, budding entrepreneur and single mother to a college-age son, Kedar, believes she is too old and set in her ways to be in a relationship at this point in her life; therefore, she definitely is not looking for love. With her primary focus on her skincare product business and seeing to her son’s needs, Ayo is all but blindsided when Bilal enters her world. Bilal, an eccentric gentleman, becomes smitten with Ayo the first day he walks into her home. From their initial encounter, Ayo and Bilal fight the feelings they have for each other. Later, they let their guards down and the two seemingly become one. Throughout their relationship, Ayo and Bilal face familial challenges and health complications that threaten their bond.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What I like about this atypical romance story is the fact that everything isn’t peaches and cream between Ayo and Bilal. I particularly enjoyed Bilal’s persistence and reliance on his faith in winning Ayo over, and although Ayo is strong-willed, her vulnerability made her character more true to life. Bilal was able to love Ayo the way she needed to be loved. What I most liked about From Dusk to Dawn, is the fact that the main characters did not succumb to societal views regarding the age difference in their relationship. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I would definitely read another book by Ms. Davis.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/710964220725174109/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/710964220725174109' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/710964220725174109'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/710964220725174109'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/06/oh-those-reviews.html' title='Oh, Those Reviews!'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-1808874148811187712</id><published>2008-06-03T15:19:00.007-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-03T15:43:20.192-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Against All Odds - Southern Comfort</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZI47iofGR16Ndnp8fh2HOlAB9qc9x80-e61_uLA_LjMATBhWeEdyXf2UZEqAHxbOZBFlZozlRKyoCvVVBm-mW_lYeVAJh-jCM-u9Y9At5bLUeg8NqwF6Dcv3spKMD0ooPZ9j2D07j-NJN/s1600-h/Tybee+Beach.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZI47iofGR16Ndnp8fh2HOlAB9qc9x80-e61_uLA_LjMATBhWeEdyXf2UZEqAHxbOZBFlZozlRKyoCvVVBm-mW_lYeVAJh-jCM-u9Y9At5bLUeg8NqwF6Dcv3spKMD0ooPZ9j2D07j-NJN/s320/Tybee+Beach.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5207737863157798418&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I can’t say it enough – there is something that draws me to the South.  Part of it is history, and the other part the land – places like Sapelo, St. Simons, and beautiful Tybee Island, shown in this picture, and which Pearl Cleage fans will certainly remember. Two weeks ago I caught a severe case of Savannah-itis. On that same trip, on the spur of the moment, one member of our group decided to drive from Savannah to South Carolina.  Unfortunately I had to be home early the next day; it was the only thing that kept me from the state on my must-see  list.&lt;br /&gt;Today, I get my wish – well, in a way.  The Against All Odds Virtual Tour makes a stop at the home of  the Carolina Diva. I know her as an exceptional writer, a fabulous mother and a woman generous with her advice and assistance.  She read an excerpt of Dusk to Dawn long before it became a 250 page book.  And now that it has, read what she has to say about Ayo and Bilal and who “ain’t tryin to hear no mess.” I love it!  I know you will, too. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.southerndva.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;http://www.southerndva.blogspot.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And speaking of the South, for the entire month of June I’ll partake of some wonderful Southern hospitality as featured author with the SistahFriend bookclub.  Founded in November 2004 by Tasha Martin, the sisterhood began with four members in Columbia, SC. This Book Club is a live and online reading and networking group for women that focuses on reading and discussing books by African-Americans and promoting unity through women empowerment and fellowship. Once a month, members bond as sisters and discuss literary works in settings designed according to a theme, place, or character in a selected read.  I’m honored to accept their invitation – these women celebrate sisterhood and the written word in the best possible way. Please stop by and visit at &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sistahfriend.com&quot;&gt;http://www.sistahfriend.com/&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/1808874148811187712/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/1808874148811187712' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/1808874148811187712'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/1808874148811187712'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/06/against-all-odds-southern-stop.html' title='Against All Odds - Southern Comfort'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZI47iofGR16Ndnp8fh2HOlAB9qc9x80-e61_uLA_LjMATBhWeEdyXf2UZEqAHxbOZBFlZozlRKyoCvVVBm-mW_lYeVAJh-jCM-u9Y9At5bLUeg8NqwF6Dcv3spKMD0ooPZ9j2D07j-NJN/s72-c/Tybee+Beach.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-8848239854223039450</id><published>2008-05-26T10:09:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-26T10:13:55.031-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Road Trip!</title><content type='html'>This week, from May 25-31, I’m pleased to be featured as guest blogger for The Savvy Sista. It’s a call and response - I’ll tackle themes addressed in From Dusk to Dawn, ask a couple of questions and invite readers to weigh in.  We’ve already gotten off to a great start with visits from loyal travelers on the Against All Odds Tour. Make sure you stop by and leave your own comments.&lt;br /&gt;www.savvysisters.blogspot.com&lt;br /&gt;I’d also like to thank Minnie Miller, the Marvelously Mature Author and Essayist, for inviting me to visit.  Click here to read the interview&lt;br /&gt;http://millerscribs.com/_wsn/page4.html&lt;br /&gt;Minnie is the author of The Seduction of Mr. Bradley,  available at  www.millerscribs.com and Forever, My Love, posted here in Amazon Shorts&lt;br /&gt;www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/B001268D0U/&lt;br /&gt;Be sure to check her out!</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/8848239854223039450/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/8848239854223039450' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/8848239854223039450'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/8848239854223039450'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/05/road-trip.html' title='Road Trip!'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-7309225932765466747</id><published>2008-05-23T10:55:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-23T11:37:15.849-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Evelyn Palfrey - Talk About Against All Odds!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1Gflds7BOVWwwbxMKg1Peuoj0ruMo9ZHfmGRDDN26P6zJ3i10yugGpQqZaIlnZLxfME6v5LPQM5T08rcIHeWjHHYgaobh56AtBIVah53rF5z-zSLqHsQsof8C9qrXuWTuuAI2ODpwm1xV/s1600-h/evelyn.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1Gflds7BOVWwwbxMKg1Peuoj0ruMo9ZHfmGRDDN26P6zJ3i10yugGpQqZaIlnZLxfME6v5LPQM5T08rcIHeWjHHYgaobh56AtBIVah53rF5z-zSLqHsQsof8C9qrXuWTuuAI2ODpwm1xV/s200/evelyn.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5203589135457447330&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today&#39;s guest blogger is Evelyn Palfrey. By way of introduction, I have one thing to say: she brings new meaning to &quot;Against All Odds.&quot;  If you&#39;re drinking anything, put it down now before you spray the screen! Here goes...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After reading Niambi Brown Davis&#39; From Dusk to Dawn, I was excited about the possibility of being courted by a younger man.  Unlike Ayo, I’m headed toward 60, so  ‘younger man’ for me would be in his mid-40’s. It was almost like I conjured him up. After several flirtatious encounters, he asked me out for dinner. Now all of that surprised me, but shouldn’t have. It was consistent with what my friends who in are those kinds of relationships reported--that the younger man initiated the contact and pursued the relationship.&lt;br /&gt; So after spending way more time than usual selecting an outfit that would be both stunning and comfortable (read elastic), off I go to dinner. Okay so I had a little trouble getting in the low-slung BMW two-seater, and congratulated myself for having returned the 5-inch heels back to their dark corner of the closet in favor of more sensible ones. As we whizzed along the freeway, small talk revealed that he had bought the car right after the separation from Wife No 2. He owed it to himself, after all. I understand owing oneself, having spent 30 years on a job and raising several children.&lt;br /&gt; At dinner, I learned the following salient facts: younger wives can be a real pain in the butt because they are expensive to maintain and they want children; judges are in cahoots with women to hold the Black man down; child support is unfair because there is no reduction for expenses such as BMW car payments; and credit card limits are easily reached because of all of the above. As I signed the credit card slip (as a loan of course), I was thinking, I need to re-read  From Dusk to Dawn. I must have skipped a chapter.&lt;br /&gt; Back at my front door, I’m wondering what is the proper protocol when the date has paid (even on a loan) for the meal she was invited to.  But I don’t want him to think I’m acting chicken-shit over the loan, so I reluctantly accept his invitation into my living room and my bar. Okay, so the real deal is that I found it more palatable than the prospect of my nosy neighbor seeing me act a fool on my front porch. Through half a bottle of my  best  whiskey, he regales me with tales of the evil almost-ex wife, interspersed with comments about how nice and big my place is--with emphasis on big. Suddenly, his mood turns amorous, and in a tipsy way that I’m sure he thinks is sexy, he suggests that I go slip into something comfortable.  I agree to do that, as I remember a line from Dangerous Dilemmas--“Honey, I’m way too old to have bad sex.”&lt;br /&gt; Before Brothaman figured out what time it was, he was back on my porch, and I was in something comfortable, curled up in my bed with Bilal. The next time I decide to go against all odds, I’ll try a 30-something Hindu Jew.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;EVELYN PALFREY is a native Texan, a graduate of Southern Methodist University and the University of Texas Law School. Besides working in the criminal justice system, she is an avid motorhomer and gardener, and is active with the Writers League of Texas, the Austin Romance Writers of America, the Travis County Bar Association and the Links Inc.&lt;br /&gt;&quot;I write stories that have middle-age heroes and heroines because I believe that romance is just as beautiful with a little grey at the temples.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.evelynpalfrey.com</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/7309225932765466747/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/7309225932765466747' title='19 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/7309225932765466747'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/7309225932765466747'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/05/todays-guest-blogger-is-evelyn-palfrey.html' title='Evelyn Palfrey - Talk About Against All Odds!'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1Gflds7BOVWwwbxMKg1Peuoj0ruMo9ZHfmGRDDN26P6zJ3i10yugGpQqZaIlnZLxfME6v5LPQM5T08rcIHeWjHHYgaobh56AtBIVah53rF5z-zSLqHsQsof8C9qrXuWTuuAI2ODpwm1xV/s72-c/evelyn.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>19</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-5127597766601123936</id><published>2008-05-22T15:10:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-22T15:23:03.564-04:00</updated><title type='text'>On the Road Again - Gratitude and Dee Savoy</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkeEG7n_x2EVZgHHWukyqGkOEvopAYX-cJnxeGMiPSNG5p3O_TJFWQ2Bsn-QjIOS5XUN5Bwcmrf0OsCa9Gm_qQGSBBFh6oPy4uDThlEx-zb-VvV10VijGxaxKzzH6pLeUnQhP2-2nQMORB/s1600-h/deirdre_savoy_photo.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkeEG7n_x2EVZgHHWukyqGkOEvopAYX-cJnxeGMiPSNG5p3O_TJFWQ2Bsn-QjIOS5XUN5Bwcmrf0OsCa9Gm_qQGSBBFh6oPy4uDThlEx-zb-VvV10VijGxaxKzzH6pLeUnQhP2-2nQMORB/s320/deirdre_savoy_photo.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5203282668066041234&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today’s Against All Odds Tour stop is a visit with best-selling romantic suspense author Deirdre Savoy. When she offered me an opportunity as guest blogger, the first word that came to mind was gratitude. A few years ago, Dee was an instructor in the writing course that led to From Dusk to Dawn. &quot;I like your writing style, but you&#39;re giving too much away,&quot; she told me. Since then, she&#39;s been a mentor and a friend. And I still have those notes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In my novel From Dusk to Dawn, Ayo Montgomery has some issues, but there’s a lot for which she is grateful. Twenty years after the sudden, tragic death of her husband, Ayo has not only survived, but thrived. Her beloved only child is a marine biology student in Florida. A hobby has turned into a successful business and she owns a home that she loves. My own road to publication was paved with the blessings of those to whom I refer as “literary angels.” What better place to speak of gratitude? Read on - I’m in the visitor’s chair at &lt;br /&gt;http://deirdresavoysays.blogspot.com/&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here’s more about Dee: Native New Yorker Deirdre Savoy’s writing career began on the shores of Martha’s Vineyard where she first started writing romance as a teenager. The island was the setting for her first novel, Spellbound, published by BET in 1999. Since then she has published more than a dozen books and two novellas, all of which have garnered critical acclaim and honors. Deirdre has won two prestigious Emma awards. Her work has been featured in a variety of publications, including Black Issues Book Review, Romantic Times, Affaire de Coeur and Blackboard Bestsellers List. Visit Dee at www.dsavoy.com.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/5127597766601123936/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/5127597766601123936' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/5127597766601123936'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/5127597766601123936'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/05/on-road-again-gratitude-and-dee-savoy.html' title='On the Road Again - Gratitude and Dee Savoy'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkeEG7n_x2EVZgHHWukyqGkOEvopAYX-cJnxeGMiPSNG5p3O_TJFWQ2Bsn-QjIOS5XUN5Bwcmrf0OsCa9Gm_qQGSBBFh6oPy4uDThlEx-zb-VvV10VijGxaxKzzH6pLeUnQhP2-2nQMORB/s72-c/deirdre_savoy_photo.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-6498607848574875494</id><published>2008-05-13T09:10:00.007-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-13T13:50:28.340-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Day Six: On the Air with TheGrits.com</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFUS1Zk5fTywFBg0aQxw8HDa_0tFsMJq3D406gW8HcJcA4DKOUcKvHqb5WLw4bWL5R_qZN7g1yeGt0yM_8awqQDmLXhVB2-lUesw0bX1Jqjg6r6RXlBOBdz0zULx1ykzmSgCsfYC_w1PDD/s1600-h/mp_radio.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFUS1Zk5fTywFBg0aQxw8HDa_0tFsMJq3D406gW8HcJcA4DKOUcKvHqb5WLw4bWL5R_qZN7g1yeGt0yM_8awqQDmLXhVB2-lUesw0bX1Jqjg6r6RXlBOBdz0zULx1ykzmSgCsfYC_w1PDD/s320/mp_radio.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5199921237581945890&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today&#39;s stop is On the Air with TheGrits.com. Instead of an interview conducted over hundreds of miles of telephone wire, my chat with host Marlive Harris was more like good conversation across the table in a cozy café. We delved into a lively discussion of the challenges facing Ayo and Bilal in From Dusk to Dawn. We talked about the expectations and challenges of a new writer, and the evolving state of black romance novels. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Click on the link below for the entire interview. And don&#39;t forget to drop me a line and share your own thoughts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.thegrits.com/radio/?p=65&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here&#39;s more about today&#39;s host. TheGrits.com is an online reading and book promotion community for readers and writers of all ages. Their reading communities for adults and children collectively consist of author interviews, book reviews, reading guides, book club listings, and interactive elements such as author podcasts, email discussion lists, online book chats and virtual book parties. Their web publicity service designs online book campaigns tailored to fit an author’s special interests, talents, books, and readership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you, Marlive!&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/6498607848574875494/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/6498607848574875494' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/6498607848574875494'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/6498607848574875494'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/05/day-six-on-air-with-thegritscom.html' title='Day Six: On the Air with TheGrits.com'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFUS1Zk5fTywFBg0aQxw8HDa_0tFsMJq3D406gW8HcJcA4DKOUcKvHqb5WLw4bWL5R_qZN7g1yeGt0yM_8awqQDmLXhVB2-lUesw0bX1Jqjg6r6RXlBOBdz0zULx1ykzmSgCsfYC_w1PDD/s72-c/mp_radio.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-1919188286450978270</id><published>2008-05-12T11:23:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-12T11:54:06.372-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Day Five - I Love Music (And So Does Shelia)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjA7bGIzR2M9dlXWNZ5eQ5pr9mfhLTcB5rqQaMVw0ZKtO8PCrDfn9dKah3sW-QEc4nACO2piTp4rgguOGHKXjo8s5r0G2OW3fGINFszDwOrfaSWASTxLx-iz_qAbylHiXsnP44l6Qbp2-bK/s1600-h/Shelia&#39;s+book.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjA7bGIzR2M9dlXWNZ5eQ5pr9mfhLTcB5rqQaMVw0ZKtO8PCrDfn9dKah3sW-QEc4nACO2piTp4rgguOGHKXjo8s5r0G2OW3fGINFszDwOrfaSWASTxLx-iz_qAbylHiXsnP44l6Qbp2-bK/s320/Shelia&#39;s+book.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5199513189919022098&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today&#39;s stop on the Against All Odds Tour is hosted by author Shelia Goss. I&#39;ve enjoyed reading her blog posts, especially  &quot;Divas in Music - Where Are They Now?&quot; The first time I heard Jennifer Holiday sing, it was an almost religious experience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shelia is a woman of many talents. Although she has a Bachelor of Science in Engineering, her passion for writing has always been there. She decided to pursue her life-long dream after being down-sized from a Fortune 500 company. I&#39;d say for certain that Shelia is living the dream. She&#39;s the author of the Essence and Black Expressions bestseller My Invisible Husband, Roses are Thorns, Violets are True, Paige&#39;s Web and Double Platinum. His Invisible Wife will be Shelia&#39;s fifth novel.Look for it in stores in 2009. For more information on Shelia, visit her at &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://sheliagoss.com/&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And join us at http://sheliagoss.com/blog/ Tell us what&#39;s on &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;your&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; playlist!</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/1919188286450978270/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/1919188286450978270' title='11 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/1919188286450978270'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/1919188286450978270'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/05/day-five-i-love-music-and-so-does.html' title='Day Five - I Love Music (And So Does Shelia)'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjA7bGIzR2M9dlXWNZ5eQ5pr9mfhLTcB5rqQaMVw0ZKtO8PCrDfn9dKah3sW-QEc4nACO2piTp4rgguOGHKXjo8s5r0G2OW3fGINFszDwOrfaSWASTxLx-iz_qAbylHiXsnP44l6Qbp2-bK/s72-c/Shelia&#39;s+book.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>11</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-3414190967854610778</id><published>2008-05-12T07:11:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-12T07:21:06.732-04:00</updated><title type='text'>OMG - Look What I Found!</title><content type='html'>My father loved to fish. When I was old enough to go out into the Eastern Bay with him, I learned to troll – I’d bait my line, let it drag through the water and wait for a bite.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On Friday I trolled the Google search engine, and to my delight, hooked a 4 ½ star review from Lora McDonald of The Romance Reader’s Connection. I immediately fired off an email to my friend and publicist -  &quot;OMG - look what I found!&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love her description of Ayo and Bilal’s first impressions of each other.  And Ms. McDonald says she loves my style of writing - what a wonderful surprise and a great way to begin a weekend! Here’s her review of From Dusk to Dawn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“There are no hard fast rules for love, so when Ayo Montgomery found herself falling for a younger man she couldn’t believe it. Ayo is a woman that has it together, running her own company from her home, doting on her son who’s away in college, and dealing with the issues of a maturing woman. Although she is a strong African American woman, her body aches with monthly pains that tear her insides apart. There are many days that the pain that racks through her body keeps her married to the bed. But a chance meeting with Bilal Abdul-Salaam at her front door helps her forget her pain if only for a moment. Despite the sparks that bounce between them it appears that they may not be suited for each other. She regards him as a Muslim stuck on himself and he sees her as a woman with a lot of mouth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After his confrontation with Ayo, Bilal knew she was the one for him. A surprise meeting occurs that allows him to set a new tone for their relationship. Soon Ayo and Bilal become lovers despite the disapproval of his father and her twenty year old son. As time passes Ayo begins to suffer more and more with female problems. Encouraging her to seek professional help, Bilal stays by her side as she struggles to run her business while continually suffering from her pain. Finally Ayo receives news concerning her condition that destroys her hopes and dreams for a happy marriage to the first man that she has loved in twenty years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love Ms. Davis’s style of writing. She has taken real life situations and delivered them in a manner that anyone can relate to. Often personal issues that women face are not discussed and explored but glossed over. The pain that racked Ayo’s body affects a lot of women today, but to have a man as strong and intelligent as Bilal to assist a sister would be a dream come true for many. Ayo and Bilal didn’t have any easy start or ending to the relationship, and just like real life, people and judgments got in the way. Ms. Davis really gives you an idea of what happens in real life. You’ll enjoy this book.” &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Reviewed by Lora McDonald, Rating 4 1/2&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like Ms. McDonald, I hope you&#39;ll enjoy this book:)</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/3414190967854610778/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/3414190967854610778' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/3414190967854610778'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/3414190967854610778'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/05/omg-look-what-i-found.html' title='OMG - Look What I Found!'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3192483241356680378.post-2492886196041412095</id><published>2008-05-09T07:02:00.009-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-09T08:01:49.212-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Day Four: Mama&#39;s Got Some Business-Get Some of Your Own!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAyHiFUkZEnogiBDc9xXlsCH020Rsz4WUOimGNToA_iEHcUbG501q2RmFKG9NvjRune6Hh8dnBe_8An-gENmngOQNA5wFFWE4EUtrehHFRCQl-ONJeIdAabGO9lGfcmKyTXZTvoUxcy3e0/s1600-h/EbonyFarashuu.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAyHiFUkZEnogiBDc9xXlsCH020Rsz4WUOimGNToA_iEHcUbG501q2RmFKG9NvjRune6Hh8dnBe_8An-gENmngOQNA5wFFWE4EUtrehHFRCQl-ONJeIdAabGO9lGfcmKyTXZTvoUxcy3e0/s320/EbonyFarashuu.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5198341048216812018&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&quot;Oh my God! You just walked in on your mother locked in an intimate embrace with a man who is young enough to be her son!  Well, maybe not quite that young, but he’s young enough to be your big brother from another mother and it’s just damned inappropriate! She should be ashamed of herself! What could she possibly be thinking?&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#39;ll bet that caught your attention, didn&#39;t it?  For more on Day Four&#39;s theme, you just cannot miss author Ebony Farashuu&#39;s blog. Today she tackles the issue of a grown son who refuses to realize that his mother is also a woman. For more of this witty and heartfelt take on mama&#39;s business, visit Ebony at &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://ebonyfarashuu.blogspot.com/&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here&#39;s more about Ebony:&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ebony Farashuu, author of SLOW BURN, is a native of Tulsa , Oklahoma. She began reading at an early age. Her love of the written word soon progressed to writing stories and poems. As a teen, a typical crush on an R&amp;B singer and the friendship of a fellow writer inspired her to write all of her thoughts and dreams down on paper. What started out as a joke between friends soon transformed into, literally, thousands of pages about the life that she dreamed of living one day. She eventually grew out of her superstar musings and grew into the art and creativity of writing down whatever her mind could imagine. In 2002, she self-published &quot;Butterfly Kisses: Poetry For the Many Faces of Love&quot;.. This book won Honorable mention in the SCBC Self Published Author Awards for Poetry Book of the Year!   In 2007, her novel, SLOW BURN was released by Kobalt Books. SLOW BURN continues to receive rave reviews and has landed on the reading lists of book clubs around the country! &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Ebony Farashuu is co-host of The Corner Book Store, an hour long radio segment on local radio station Hot 1340.  She is an active member of Sister&#39;s Sippin Tea Literary Group, and she is a contributing writer for TheGrits.com Reading and Book Promotion Community.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Ebony Farashuu was recently named Best NEW Multi-Cultural Fiction Author as well as Best Multi-Cultural Fiction Author of 2008 by SORMAG MAGAZINE&#39;s Readers Choice Awards!  Her Novel, SLOW BURN, was also cited as the Reader&#39;s Choice for  Best Multi-Cultural Fiction Novel.  &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;SLOW BURN is available at all major bookstores and online!</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/feeds/2492886196041412095/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/3192483241356680378/2492886196041412095' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/2492886196041412095'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3192483241356680378/posts/default/2492886196041412095'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://niambibrowndavis.blogspot.com/2008/05/day-four-mamas-got-some-business-get.html' title='Day Four: Mama&#39;s Got Some Business-Get Some of Your Own!'/><author><name>Niambi Brown Davis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02313143002605421627</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAyHiFUkZEnogiBDc9xXlsCH020Rsz4WUOimGNToA_iEHcUbG501q2RmFKG9NvjRune6Hh8dnBe_8An-gENmngOQNA5wFFWE4EUtrehHFRCQl-ONJeIdAabGO9lGfcmKyTXZTvoUxcy3e0/s72-c/EbonyFarashuu.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry></feed>