Bits & Blobs

How I Met Your Father

2016-03-29T22:55:00.001+05:30

I know I know its almost 5 years looooong time I took to update this blogosphere. Hope all z well.
This time am going to write something worth-sharing.

So 2010 is the turning point of my life. I know its neither left-turn nor right-turn. Its full I-turn (never a U-turn) as I am the one completely responsible for my life.

My family planned for bride-seeing formality at my hometown without letting me know. I was least bother about. Meanwhile, I do not want to hurt or hit my parents emotionally. So I said 'yes' for the osi-baji-tea-formality. I like to be perfect. I like to be punctual. Did you hear me what I said. yes. He was late by an hour simply blaming the flight. Anyhow I was not interested, thinking he will not like me not even 5%. You know what I did there. Dressed in simple kurtha, no-make-up, oilly-hair, dusky, round-spectacles (can I call soda-botty? I let others as well to call me that way)..I was damm sure he will not say yes.

Oh My God. He said yes. But why?? He told his mother will like me too. She will be coming tomorow to see the girl. I was like What? is he nuts? But why? within 20 minutes Turn-around-time how did he know about me? am about to cry..rushed inside! thought he must be nerd or love failure..

...To be continued

until then Annie

Abi in competition

2013-06-07T21:31:00.001+05:30

I dont know something is eating out my blog post. I am really excited about my son participation in fancy dress tmrw. :)

Mother's Love/Love for channel programmes

2013-06-03T20:58:00.001+05:30

My hubby and my MIL used to fight for 1 thing "Idiot-box' (I mean it!) which now actually became a part of day-to-day activity. My Hubby wants to watch cricket (anything even if its named CRICKET) and my MIL wants to watch the soaps. Its so funny to watch them argue and fight for the TV channels. Finally, MIL wins and my hubby sacrifice as if he is gonna miss something great and allows her to watch the soaps which starts at 7.00 pm till 10.00pm. A Retro.. 2 years back.. My mom and I used to fight for the tv remote. I wanted to watch the music channels (anything that is musical, no language barred). My amma wants to watch the tv soaps. Finally I win, amma saying ok ok neeyae paaru! Now, I am not allowing my son to watch TV..let me wait and watch..

Motherhood

2012-05-06T22:33:00.001+05:30

I am enjoying 'mother' role a lot. i feel great when y son smile at me. till 7 months i had nausea. i remember am admitted in hospital thrice for diahrrea. pn my birthday. every pain has.the value. everything suffering are gone after seeing my baby for the first tome

2010-12-11T18:55:00.001+05:30

Worst day today...I talked BIG..really BIG...asked a question which I shouldn't have had asked...

Hell dhaan enakku...

God will never forgive me..

am a bad girl..really a bad daughter...

Inception

2010-12-11T14:20:00.003+05:30

Thanks to spike for passing the dvd of this movie again...

Ain't an exception watching this movie with mouth opened..

No wonder This movie could make anyone wondering about the dreams...and make them use google search

Was wondering about the maker..how amazing an thought could be..how amazing an imagination could be!

Act

2010-12-11T14:01:00.003+05:30

For the first time in life, I really felt why am here on earth as a girl
For the second time in life, I really felt why am born
For the third time in life, I really felt why am so much coward

I knew answers for the questions, yet acting on the stage with support and balance...
Moving so carefully..trying not to slip at any cause...

Why?

2010-11-30T22:24:00.003+05:30

Why am I not happy these days??
I want to live for myself
Why am I not happy these days??
I want to make others happy
Why am I not happy these days??
I want to be an independent woman
Why am I not happy these days??
I missed the precious thing
I lost the precious thing
But its the heavenly feel
Why am I not happy these days??
I wish I run away to a solitude island
I wish I run away to the beautiful himalayas

Special Day!

2010-11-23T18:51:00.003+05:30

Today undoubtedly a very special, memorable day to me. My Prince came to Chennai to see me. Romantic Day as well:)

My choice of place was damm funny...Prince liked my comical (a.k.a) comedy (a.k.a) funny sense..Super happy day to me..

Home: Am a poor lier..But Amma/bro could guess it...

Office: Am a trained lier...the true lier....

What's spl:
Happy birthday to Me!
May all my dreams come true..

A riddle

2010-11-14T20:47:00.003+05:30

A stranger came to the park at eve,
In quest of ‘the meaning’ to his life
Beautiful girl crossed him on the same pathway
He felt as if sun wakes up with the torch of love
With Radiant crowns of smiles, curtains the blue sky,
Scattering the love-dew on every other flower that shuts their eyes
Flowers opening their eyes with a smile of feeling fresh air, love of light
Rhyme of heart beats; mixed colors of butterflies fluttering
Minutes later realized to hear ‘Chalo chalo..Its closing time now’
Next eve, arrived early to watch the same butterfly
She smiled at him, He spoke by eyes more than his lips
Reflection of bright light on his face, admiring her luminous eyes
Eyes scintillating soul won; a mind in peace and a heart of innocent love blossomed
Three years passed, still three eloquent words un-uttered,
A riddle of true-love; A riddle of understanding; A riddle of song of life
Though the riddle penned by them is solved by them
But the riddle is still a riddle to them

E-chat

2010-11-14T13:08:00.000+05:30

I have seen from my friends that there is always some differences in maintaining friendship when a girl gets married.

Call your friend and the dialogue would be

like..
a week after marriage,'Hey am busy now will call u later..'

a month after marriage,'Hey am busy now will call u later..'

a year after marriage,'Hey am busy now will call u later..'

(she would say, 'call you later' but won't have called you anytime)

and no wonder if its continue...

But when a guy get married, call your friend

dialogue would be

like...
a week after marriage,'Hey solda machaan....'

a month after marriage,'Hey machaan..'

a year after marriage,'Hi machaan..enna da callaey panna mattra'

though the dialogue might vary and their friendship continues..

I knew after marriage girls get more responsibilities..But it does not means that she should avoid/ignore/whatever your friends..

she can also say,'Hey I will call you at ; or Can you call me at '

I couldn't control my anger when my shans did the same...

As a girl today I was so emotional and called Bar(the first person to whom I share everything),

and said..
'Will you be in touch with me even after marriage'
'Will you be my friend for ever'
'love you so much.. am missing u'

and I knew she would say..

and thanks she replied me the same :),
'loosa nee..what happened to u..dont cry'

Tx Bar..XOXO

These days I call all my friends very often and before I hung up..I remember to say 'Keep in touch after marriage also'

Conjunctivitis

2010-11-08T23:10:00.002+05:30

I am suffering from pyogenic bacterial infections for the fourth day. Couldn't bear the irritation.

Wearing a cooler glass in the workplace was damm funny. No wonder if anyone missed kalachifying.

Memories

2010-11-06T22:09:00.004+05:30

I stood in front of the mirror. Questioned myself

1. Do I see myself in terms of heart and mind?

2. How coward I am?

3. What I wanted to do and What I am doing?

I asked the very same questions before joining my college. I accepted what it came to my way. My first blog post details the reason.

These questions make me to think in both upper and lower extremities.

I am still trying to see things not so close. As they say, ‘See the burden at a distance but not so near, as it will appear huge like a mountain’.

And yeah.. here comes…

M.E.M.O.R.I.E.S….It’s the worst, nasty thing in the world.

1. Childhood Friends

2. School Friends

3. College Friends

4. Office Friends

5. Neighbors

6. PARENTS

It’s hard to believe that all those so-called memories become bittersweet when you know you can relive them again only in your mind and never for real again. I am mourning my memories.

Keep the alarm at 7.00 am (loud ringing mode) and freeze it off before ringing for the 5^th time the next morning and sleep again. Looking at the mobile minutes later at 7.45 or 7.50 am and getting ready for the 8.30 am office bus…

Chatting about tamil movies with bus friends and driver anna…

Kalachifying the team mates…laughing out loud when someone is targeted….giving a sheepish smile when am targeted.

Office friends begging like anything for lunch. Making a bet for break-canteen-chat early, losing every time and give them a big treat.

Entertaining friends….polambals about team to friends and discussing the polambals..

Waking up not so early until 11 am over the weekends..Amma begging me to take some bath..Sitting in the most awkward position in the couch and putting my feet on the arm of the chair...Calling childhood friends, school friends and college friends…kalachifying each other…putting some mokkais..

Planna podu..meet panalam..friends making surprise visits..Get togethers, Treats, Shopping..shopping with dad, brother the absolute fun..

Going late to home…

And so Many hundreds and thousands things….

Weep weep weep..Cough cough..Oh what happened to Me..No no..I am not dying..I am only getting married…For a man; it is just bringing a girl to home. For a woman, it is so much more. New life, new rules and regulations, new customs, new people, new place, new home, new responsibilities… L L

I am mourning my memories…

How to train your dragon

2010-11-05T03:50:00.003+05:30

I would say this is one of best animated movie. Thanks to spike for passing me this movie.

It gave an bad impression about dragons in the first few scenes. As the frame moves, it clearly tells us 'First impression is not always true'.

This movie brings a lovely thought 'how kind we should be to animals even to dragons'.

Very nice movie to watch..I enjoyed watching it. :)

Priceless moments

2010-11-04T23:36:00.003+05:30

I am so happy to see my nephew to the new world on Nov 2, 7.31 AM.

I got a call from AP, 'Hey am holding my son and will call you later'

I could feel my bro is crying and was so emotional to see his offspring :) like every other dads. I am proud of my bro..

I am so happy for my bro and vadhina..

Myself, bro and deiva-machan wished for a girl baby and lost in the bet to my family members.

I am proud of my bro..to inspire his son like every other dads. I wish him good luck

My current mood

2010-10-24T22:16:00.002+05:30

When the sky was starless in the void of the night
He spoke into the darkness and created the light
Judgment and wrath he poured out on Sodom
Mercy and grace He gave us at the cross
I hope that we have not too quickly forgotten that....

Yepdi irundha Naan

2010-10-22T23:56:00.001+05:30

ipdi ayeten!

What 2 Name it

2010-10-21T21:30:00.000+05:30

Women Friends chatting in office.

Woman 1: I had a fine evening, how was yours?
Woman 2: it was a disaster. My husband came home, ate his dinner in three minutes and fell asleep in two minutes. How was yours?
Woman 1: Oh it was amazing! My husband came home and took me out to a romantic dinner. After dinner we walked for an hour. When we came home he lit the candles around the house and afterwards talked for an hour. It was like a fairytale!

At the same time, their husbands are talking at work.

Husband 1: How was your evening?
Husband 2: Great. I came home, dinner was on the table, I ate and fell asleep. It was great! What about you?
Husband 1: It was horrible. I came home, there's no dinner because they cut the electricity because I hadn't paid the bill; so I had to take my wife out to dinner which was so expensive that I didn't have money left for a cab. We had to walk home which took an hour; and when we got home remember there was no electricity so I had to light candles all over the house! After all, I was so aggravated that I couldn't fall asleep and my wife was jabbering away for another hour!

So weit die Füße tragen

2010-10-16T19:46:00.002+05:30

So weit die Füße tragen (2001) is about German World War II prisoner of war. Clemens board for the war to Russia, leaving his pregnant wife and his lilttle daughter in Germany. During the war period he was sentenced to imprisonment. This film is very very emotional and narrates how Clemens escapes and reunite with his family. People who like emotional movies must watch for sure.

I liked it very much. Cried literally. :)

Reso...

2010-10-09T18:49:00.016+05:30

Once upon a time Reso was wondering at life this way "?", (turning the confusion in 360 degree both clockwise and anti-clockwise direction)

Dear-ones and sweet troubles changed her life to this,

Reso who was like this,

now got a better-life in the name of better-half,

for her, to fight like this,

for her, to argue like this,

for her, to be more possessive like this,

for her, to yell at him who comment on her cooking like this,

for her, to scream like this,

for her, to put huge icy-snow mountains and ask him to do like this,

and much much more...Reso is getting married on Feb,2011 :)

2010-09-05T10:47:00.000+05:30

Krishna Jayanthi

2010-09-01T20:40:00.002+05:30

We (myself, amma and mel vettu aunty) tortured Tejas to make him smile, to pose for a shoot. At the end we also made him cry :)

New Entry to my garden

2010-09-01T11:51:00.001+05:30

Can't women have their space?

2010-08-30T20:09:00.003+05:30

Yesterday I was reading the same topic in Open Page column - The Hindu, Today I had seen some incident that really irritated me which put me here to rant about the same.

It was raining. It was around 7.00pm. I had to go medical shop to get some medicines of urgent need. I reached medical shop in few minutes.

There were some hunch of people scolding a guy.

Medical shop annachi raised his voice with aggressiveness, 'Evlo thimuru unnakku. Thanni pottuta enna veynalum pannuviyo. paavam da andha ponnu'

Quickly I took a glance, saw a girl who is next to me standing front of the shop. She was crying (costume is salwar; nothing bad with her costume; a typical tamizh ponnu).

The-culprit, 'sorry theriyama pannitten'

Annachi, 'sorry sonna. yen andha ponnu mela kaipotta'

She was crying. People in the street came to the scene and surrounded.

I thought, 'She should have slapped'. May be when things happens suddenly we might not have had time to react; atleast she.

The-Culprit looked decent appearance-wise.

Why this is happening...Can't women have their space???

Waiting 4 the surprise!

2010-08-26T10:18:00.001+05:30