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Life is too short: 10 ways to live your life right now.

2012-07-19T04:09:00.000-07:00

Imagine you are on your way to hang out with some friends downtown and you get a flat tire. You pull over on the side of the busy highway and go to check it out. Then suddenly, a yellow Jeep that is not paying attention is trucking full speed ahead. You, unaware of the immense danger are checking your friends flat and trying to see how you can help fix it when suddenly, its dark.

Recently this very scenario happened to one of my dearest friends.He was unconscious in the hospital for about a 2 weeks and I am still receiving updates about him. This news was texted to me over iPhone Whatsapp Messenger all the way from Florida to me here in Sweden. It was devastating to hear. I cried for about two days straight, and had about 3 sleepless nights. All the while my boyfriend was incredibly supportive. Holding me close when I was whimpering in bed and even when he could barely keep his eyes open, if he heard me get upset in the night he would reach over and squeeze my hand tight. But all this emotion made me realize one thing. Life is so short. And what we all must realize, is that unlike our furry feline friends....we only have one life!

I have thought long and hard about what it is to truly live...and here are my top 10 tips to start living your life with purpose.

1. Don't argue over petty things. Forgive people, and do what is right. And please, just put away your pride. Having pride is useless, and will only hurt you in the end.

2. Be healthy. You only get one body. And if you plan on living a long life, remember that when you are young and impulsive (ie. tanning beds, plastic surgery, tattoos, piercings.)

3. Dress and look your best everyday. Why not be your best self? Not next year, right friggen now.

4. Get rid of negative people in your life. Anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself is NOT a friend. Drop them. Or if your in a bad relationship, get out. I experienced a year being in a mentally abusive relationship...trust me from experience, life goes on, and gets much much better. You have to give up to go up! I live by the quote, Go where you are celebrated, not tolerated."

5. Make a bucket list. And do it.

6. Save your money for something good. stop doing those impulse buys ladies, and get something you really value like a trip, or a good quality winter coat, or even a great gift to your mom or best friend. For everyday motivation to not buy that random top on sale, or that $5 Starbucks coffee, I read these budget blogs to keep me centered and focused. I think women have more an issue with this than men, but guys...you could learn how to cut your monthly spending by $400 or why it feels oh-so good to not spend your money!

7. Laugh. My mother asked my boyfriend, "Out of all the beautiful Scandinavian girls you meet there, why did you pick my daughter?" I mortified, but curious to hear his answer. He replied, "She makes me laugh everyday." At first I was feeling like he just put me in the "not cute-but good personality" category...but then my mother said something profound. She smiled and replied, "Laughter is the very best thing to have with your partner. Physical beauty fades, but laughter and happiness is the beauty of life."

8. Help someone. With no hidden agenda of your own.

9. Learn something new. My friend that is in the hospital had fractured his skull and was in a coma which could have easily lead to brain damage, but he is recovering more and more everyday and slowly returning to his sharp-minded, witty self. I am so amazed with his mental progress. I truly believe this is because he is always learning new things and exercising his brain. He loves puzzles, music, painting, and he studies health medicine. I'd like to share with you why learning new things is so vital for your brain health. And I call dibs on the first game of Scrabble with you when you recover Kenny.

10. Remind yourself everyday how short life is. Watch the news, go to church, or even wear something like Buddhist worry beads. This little guy is a daily reminder that we might not have tomorrow, so live in the moment, take time for people, and absolutely do not worry. They come in all different colors for men and women, and it is a reminder to stay focused on what truly matters in life.

Hope you learned something, I know I do everyday.

Love,

Devin Rene

PS - Please keep my friend Kenny in your prayers.

Bringin sexy back.

2012-06-13T11:25:00.000-07:00

Why not bring out your ultra sexy side this summer and do things to make you stand out...in a good way!

Me after just 15 minutes with velcro rollers!

A simple and easy way to get your look from flat and drab to voluminous and sexy is velcro hair rollers! I just bought my first set and let me tell you, it was worth every kronor! [Swedish money ;)]

Here is a good tutorial on how to get this look.

Another perk with this look is you feel super Glam when you're getting ready and doing
your makeup. Makes me feel like a Victoria's Secret Angel!

Another great way to feel great this summer is EXERCISE! I know, it sounds simple. But, it is so easy to put off those crunches or say you will go running another day...

but I have a secret weapon for you..

You need someone to hold you accountable! Or "accountabilibuddy" as I like to call it. Finding someones to work out with, and to push you is a fail-proof way to make sure you get the sexy body you want.

Or if you really just can't find anyone available, the next best thing is post it to your Facebook status or "check-in" at the gym before you actually arrive. That will hold you to your guns! Because...you wouldn't want to be a liar...right? ;)

I have become obsessed with Instagram and I just started following coldwarkidds. They basically post pictures of skinny chicks with great flats stomachs. Just browse through this album every time your walking into the gym and that will be immediate motivation, trust me.

Coldwarkidds on Instagram!

Feel too lazy to do your hair or hit the gym?

Then heres my last suggestion: Make healthy food choices this summer. Switch these simple items, and I know you will feel more energetic, healthier, and just sexier!

milk non fat milk

soda water

bread lettuce

candy fruit

chips carrots or broccoli

beef chicken or fish

Enjoy everyone...and get your sexy back already!

How to get that "Summer" feel this season.

2012-05-23T06:33:00.003-07:00

Here in Sweden it is basically the winter season for 7 months out of the year. So when the thermometer rises, and the sun comes out, you know you have to truly take advantage of this fabulous season.

I have come up with my favorite things to do to really get me 'in the mood' of summer. In two weeks I will be putting all these tips to the ultimate test when my boyfriend and I throw our "Summer Bash Party!"

1. Summer jams. I have found this one of kind site/iphone app that has already-made playlists. It is called 8 tracks. The cool thing about it is that you don't have to spend all afternoon searching artists, albums or even genres...you can search your mood! Such as study, party, cleaning, chill, summer, workout, etc. I love the playlist names too, make me giggle. One of my favorites atm is called "Sweat like a pig, look like a fox" helping me train for my half marathon. ;)

2. Dress the part. Here in Sweden, fashion is no joke. As soon as the sun shines for one day, everyone busts out their shorts, sandals, and "beachy" accessories. And if you want to catch this seasons feel, I suggest you do the same. Things that are super trendy right now are shorts, ombre (hair and clothes), wedge shoes, chunky jewelery, maxi dresses, and of course COLOR.

3. Sexy beach hair. Long or short, thin or thick, every girl has tricks to turn her girl next door look into a beach bombshell. One of my fav things to do is watch youtube tutorials. It's also really fun to laugh at the really outrageous girls on there, but mostly, its fun to be bold and try new hairstyles this season. Here are some seriously helpful tutorials:

beachy waves (skip to 1:17 if you can't be bothered with intro)

big voluminous hair (using Velcro rollers)
&& don't worry if you have short hair, you can always get clip-in extensions for the summer look. this is me with mine, I absolutely love them for going out. And my bf thinks I look super sexy with long hair <3

4. Stay in the shade. Owning and sporting a pair of "Sunnies" that is in Aussie language, is a must this summer. I think there are two mandatory summer shades. Aviators, or ray-Ban style. Or you can have some fun and wear heart-shaped.

5. A bronze tan. Now, I don't know why chicks think skin cancer is sexy, but I have gained a whole new respect for a healthy lifestyle here in Sweden. With that being said, a bronze tan CAN be achieved without slowly killing yourself in the tanning beds ladies. I recommend self tanning lotion and bronzer. there are plenty of brands out there, but if your looking for a suggestion I like Dove Summer Glow.

6. Get yourself a cold drink. So I don't know about the rest of you, but I am obsessed with Pinterest. The reason I mention this is because I have gotten the most inspirational and fun recipes from this site. On cocktail I might be trying at my Bash is Nectarine Vodka Chillers, yum! Check out Pinterest, you won't regret it.

Girls night out. Swedish style.

2012-03-26T05:25:00.001-07:00

Swedish girls say "Klackarna i taket," a Swedish phrase which translates to "heels hit the roof." This means that you're going to paint the town red and have a great time. And that is precisely what we did. ;)

2012 Defined.

2012-03-23T05:34:00.002-07:00

2012 is the year of Expression. From its information overload on Facebook, Twitter, Blogger, etc., to its extremely bright and colorful clothing trends, this year is all about expressing yourself to the 100th degree!

Which brings me to my next question, when did it become such a crime to let someone know how you feel?

For Guys

Embrace your sensitive side and realize that there is more to life than your pride and reputation. I guarantee you will make some major breakthroughs. It might be with a specific lady friend, that you just can't seem to see you outside the "friend zone?" Perhaps it is a family member that you're always too afraid to open up to? Or maybe even your partner that you are with right now? Let them in more. Trust that the passion and love will grow stronger.

Don't know how to start? Open up your bubble to things that will allow you to learn how to express yourself. Maybe watch a show like Sex and the City. Don't laugh, I will tell you why! Because this show is about relationships, and communicating. If anything, you might learn a few more things about what women want. Don't worry if your embarrassed. Your "sensitive side" will remain a secret between us girls. ;)

For Girls

I feel like the "modern day woman" has gone from what was once soft delicate woman and has mutated into this battling knight-tress covered in armor to protect her heart and feelings from ever being hurt, or quite possibly, from even being seen. Honestly, its sad. One of the qualities that make women most beautiful is their emotions. Ladies, I say put down your iron gate, and allow others to see your sensitive interior again. What have you got to lose? The way I see it, you could live covered in armor that is constantly dragging you down and hiding you, or you can choose to express yourselves fully this year.

For All

Don't be afraid to let people into your lives. And not to be morbid, but you could actually die tomorrow. So before you second guess yourself or get scared, go and tell those who matter to you that you love them. Express yourself.

the beauty of a simplified life.

2012-02-16T05:47:00.001-08:00

'"Why does everything have to be so...unsettled?"

The other day I saw on the cover of an IKEA catalog this quote:

"Live smart, not big."

What does this mean to you?

Here in Sweden, people live extremely practical, clean, and efficient lives. As a born and raised American girl, I know that sometimes it isn't so simple in our 'All-American' lifestyles.

I have integrated my life into the Swedish culture, and with that, I have created order in my world. It is extremely liberating and now I finally feel at peace and not at war with my surroundings.

Here's how to simplify your world

Get in Sync. Hopefully, if you've realized this is 2012, then you have your own laptop, smartphone, iPod, and maybe flat screen television. And if you do have these gadgets, you need to stop fumbling around with them, or switching from one to the other, and create a "smart home." All of these machines are designed to work together and sync up. So take a weekend to watch the 'How To' videos on YouTube and start living in an efficient household. If you simply cannot comprehend this advanced technology, then I suggest calling your best "Techy" friend and ask them to help you out.

Everything has a place. create storage containers and shelves to organize your closet, desk space, and overall home. A bigger effort would be to conceal these extra organizers with curtains or drawers. Most importantly, get something to put all your important documents in! I know most of us are still students and don't have 'grown up' lives yet, but you need to start being responsible for your information. Such as W-2 slips, pay stubs, car insurance, and God forbid parking/traffic citations. When my younger sister just started college, I bought her a filing folder. She still uses it today. I personally use the pink one you see here. What? Who says you can't have fun being responsible? ;)

Filter and refine. Before I moved here to Sweden I had SO many clothes and just "stuff" in my room. I took my spare time and went through my entire closet, dressers, and edited my things. I made a "trash" pile, "giveaway" pile, and "keep" pile. Before I knew it I had 6 garbage bags full of things to donate. After that, I had a clean, and tidy space that I was proud to call home.

Be sentimental, but not a hoarder. I know when I was in college there were so many amazing memories I made. And to hold on to those memories, I thought I had to hold onto the 'things' that came from them. Like an old flyer, a silly hat, or a huge obnoxious stuffed animal. But then I had an epiphany, you can keep these memories and be organized! It's what I like to call being "Systematically Sentimental." Instead of keeping those dust collectors, take a photo of them, or scan them into your computer so you can always come across it, without having to physically trip over it.

5 things your man will love.

2012-02-11T07:26:00.000-08:00

As a loving girlfriend, I am learning that my Swedish man loves when I do these 5 things in no particular order. So for all you dating gals, this post is for you.

"Man time." As long as you're not with a "needy" guy, you probably have a self-sufficient man that works hard daily. Now what us females need to understand, even if your man is madly in love with you, he still needs his "Man Time." This could make up a variety of different activities. Maybe reading up on the latest technology gadgets, or fixing those shelves that have been wobbly, or just watching the latest episode of two and a half men, your man just needs his outlet, his moment to recharge his "man batteries," if you will. So just give the cuddle time a rest, and get out of the house or go in the other room for a while to give him space. This will be healthy for both him and you. After all, a gal needs her independent woman time too. ;)

Acts of service. When studying for my degree in Communications. I read the novel Five Love Languages. These are: words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. Every person usually speaks 2 or 3 love languages. We can all assume that physical is most likely one of a mans dialects, but what some girls don't know is that a guy really values acts of service. So instead of writing another love note to your man, try showing him you love him by washing the dishes, taking out the trash, or helping him with yard work. And if there is nothing you can see that needs done, just ask, "Can I help you with anything babe?" and watch him smile with appreciation.

Max burgers, the delicious Swedish version of McDonald's!

A good meal. I know its cliche, and extremely traditional for the woman to cook. And here in Sweden it is all about gender equality, which means my boyfriend and I typically cook together, unless of course we treat ourselves to a Max meal. But every once in a while, I like to surprise my boyfriend with a hot meal right when he gets home from work. One of my specialties is Quesadilla night. But the best part is he never expects it, which makes me want to surprise him again and again. I believe a partner should give everything they have, and not expect anything in return. That way, you both get spoiled naturally. :)

Thrifty-ness. Hopefully you are with a somewhat responsible man, where he is smart with his money. One way to really impress your man, and also keep him happy, is being a smart and thrifty lady. Although not all of us girls are shopoholics, I believe we all like to treat ourselves to a new blouse or boots every once in a while. The key is ladies, to shop around and find the very best deal. Do not be that girl that starts to look like a border-line "sugar baby" and asking for the latest designer this and top-of-line that, All this does is add unnecessary pressure to the relationship, and stresses your man out. Instead, get excited about saving money! Which means do your research before you pull out the credit card. Also, why not strive for the ideal, which is a professional coupon queen! This step is challenging for me at the moment, as all the coupons are in Swedish, but I am learning. So ladies, shop away! When you are financially smart, your man will gain a whole new level of respect and admiration for his thrifty lil' girl.

Spoil dates. Why should it just be the girl that always gets spoiled? Sometimes I like to switch it up a bit and do a boyfriend pamper session. Because my boyfriend likes being well-groomed, I do spa treatments for him full with a mani/pedi foot massage date. Or we watch a movie of his choice and I'll sneak off to come back with yummy coke floats. Because my man treats me like a princess, it's nice to show him that he can relax and be a treated like royalty too.

And we all know Valentines Day or Alla hjärtans dag is coming up, so go ahead and make your Valentine fall in love with you all over again.

Change of pace? Change your place.

2012-02-06T07:02:00.000-08:00

I have been here in Sweden for about a month now, and because I now live in a super small town, my life was starting to feel a little...stale. Then I got an invitation from my girlfriend that lives in another city to come and visit her. I thought to myself, why not go and visit my girlfriends for the weekend and switch up the scenery a bit? So I did. It was the best time.

The girls and I on our way to the city center for some shopping and a warm fika.

Although the comfort of your home or "usual" places like Starbucks or that same restaurant is natural for you, you may be feeling how I felt which is slightly un-amused and looking for something "more." I say, just GO for it.

Try to Avoid excuses. If you are thinking, "Well, I didn't get any personal invites to a new town..." Take the initiative! and contact an old friend, see if you can't make plans to visit. And if you can't go to them, for financial or other reasons, see if you can host them visiting you. It is a refreshing experience when you get to show someone around your town, makes you appreciate and feel proud about where you are from.

Typical Swedish sandwiches and pastries at "Viskan," voted best cafe in Boras.
Where we had our Fika.

I had a great weekend in Borås, Sweden. I took a train and bus to get there, and the journey was just as amusing as the destination.

But the best part is I was so happy to come home. After a long weekend of catching up with friends, shopping, dining, dancing, and travelling, I was completely content with coming home and laying on my couch, having some pizza and watching the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, a Swedish original film.

No Guts. No Glory.

2012-01-20T04:24:00.000-08:00

No Guts.

Waiting for my bus into the city. Very scenic ride actually.

So, many people have wondered, what is it like to live in a city where you have absolutely no idea what people are saying? I'll sum it up for you, its Hard. But, the key is to make it fun, and entertaining. I am sure many of you are trying new things that may have you feeling, well, uncomfortable. But that is what life is all about! For those of you who feel "comfortable" with your lives, tell me, what is the most exciting thing you've done lately? Probably taking you a while to think about that...that is because you aren't living your life to the fullest!

No Glory.
Try and do something different today, and see how you feel. I bet you won't regret stepping out of your comfort zone. Chances are, you will gain something positive from it. Like a new friend, piece of mind, or a new self confidence knowing that you were brave enough to try that new "thing."

Fun and Entertaining.

"Robert's Mocca" at my new favorite cafe Robert's Coffee.

Now, back to what I was saying earlier, about the whole making it fun and entertaining thing. I live in Sweden, where everyone is speaking Swedish, and they have no idea that I haven't got a clue about the words that are coming out of their mouths. Instead of my natural reaction, which is to sit quietly and avoid eye contact so they wont speak to me, I like to catch em' off-guard. Surprise them and say "Hello!" I love seeing the expression on their faces when I randomly throw some English into the mix. So next time, you are thinking about sitting quietly, try and surprise others, but most of all surprise yourself! I guarantee your life will get more interesting by the minute.

Remember.
We only have one life to live. Take chances. Make people smile. Both will make life much more meaningful.

red white and blue to yellow and blue.

2012-01-13T02:28:00.001-08:00

My boyfriend just stayed with me for 3 weeks in America. He has never been to the US before, which made it that much more entertaining to watch what he found "intriguing." The differences between America and Sweden are not too extreme, but they certainly do exist. I had fun showing him how we "roll" in the south. ;)

new chapter.

2011-12-10T19:00:00.000-08:00

So I am officially free from all ties. Friday was my very last final of my Undergraduate career, and day zero on my two-weeks notice countdown at work."Jag är klar" which is Swedish for "I am finished"! But only for now.For the record, this is only a closed chapter in my book of life. And I am so excited to turn to a crisp new page. I am currently applying to schools in Sweden to pursue my Masters Degree. I am the kind of person to always have a new goal or "plan of action" if you will. And what I've found is that these goals always push me to work harder, live healthier, and constantly remain hopeful and positive about my future. Some say they are "afraid of change," but I wonder, have they have ever felt the rush of turning the page? Try to embrace the unknown, and I promise you, your book will never go unwritten. -Devin Rene

Hostel-horror film FACT or FICTION?

2011-08-11T18:12:00.001-07:00

Is this real life?
So, before I left America to venture in Europe, this film, along with the 2008 Liam Neeson film Taken, was all I had running through my mind. Needless to say, I was petrified. Luckily folks, this is not real life. I stayed in 2 hostels total, and they both were pleasant experiences.

Both were chosen at Hostelworld.com I cannot stress this site enough, because it is truly a credible source, with over 100 customer reviews per hostel! You should choose one with free wi-fi, and free breakfast, because let me tell you, thats the best way to start your day of exploring a European city!

Free breakfast, yum! In London, I had oatmeal, eggs and toast, and of course, British breakfast tea. In Paris, I was served a fresh croissant and baguette with nutella and butter, yogurt, oj, and cafe. It was delicious.

In front of the White ferry Hostel in London

As far as the sleeping arrangement, most of the rooms are 12-bunk camp-like setups. But it is cool because pretty much all the people in our room are college age and excited travelers just like us. the sheets were clean, and comfy. Just be sure to bring a sleeping mask and earplugs/ipod for focused sleeping time because it will be a revolving door of lights turning on and roommates coming in and out.

Is it creepy at all? Well, you have to be the type of person that is comfortable in new environments, and somewhat friendly because you will have absolutely NO privacy. But still, there is that element of 'holy crap, I'm sharing a room with complete strangers.' which is, yes, uncomfortable. You need to be sure to keep all your belongings in a locker or put a lock on your backpack. Also, just talk friendly to your neighbors right from the start, so you aren't feeling awkward.

Total Paris hostel I shared with my bf on our trip to Paris.

All in all, don't trust strangers, or give out your personal information and you will be just fine. Just do your research, pick a hostel location that is city central (or at least near a metro) and be comfortable with the journey.

How does it feel to be back in the USA?

2011-08-11T16:31:00.000-07:00

So, I made it back in one piece. Traveling is a love/hate relationship, but at the end of the day I know anyone would say they wouldn't trade the experience for anything. Since I've been back, I keep getting the same million dollar question: How does it feel to be back in the USA? Well, I have a few words to describe my feelings.

Secure: I am back in my hometown of Lake Mary, FL. and I actually know where I am going at all times of travel, and also see people I grew up with pretty much around every corner.
Focused: Now that I have got a taste of travel, I see how much my money is actually worth. So now that I am back, I am more focused than ever to work hard, and make lots of money so I can continue to see the world.
Healthy: Europe had an amazing influence on my lifestyle. Pre-Europe Devin was eating out 4 times a week at fast food joints. (my fav was chicken Mcnuggets 10 pc. w/small fry and coke.) Post-Europe Devin, now, believe it or not has a new passion for healthy food and cooking! My biggest influence was Spain. I went to publix recently and bought some green olives, whole wheat rotini pasta, and made mediteranean pasta salad for my weekly lunches at work!

I baked homemade white pizza! With olive oil, garlic, oregano, mozzarella, and Ricotta cheese.

Loved: Absence makes the heart grow fonder is only true to those who truly love one another. I think while I was gone for half a year, I realized who my true friends are, the ones that will always stick by my side no matter what stage of my life. Mostly happy to be back to have family time. I took it for granted, but I try to use my free time and weekends to hang out with my awesome mom, dad, and sisters.

Madrid, Spain

2011-07-19T20:56:00.000-07:00

Spain became sort of a love-hate relationship for me....
This was my VERY FIRST time traveling alone. And because of the language barrier and the fact that I had only a small concept of where I was going, it was absolutely terrifying up until I arrived at my friends place in Madrid.

EVERYTHING STOLEN.
I was done studying in Sweden, and now needed to buy a flight home, and the cheapest one was actually a flight from Madrid to Miami, so without much thought, I booked it. Little did I know that bringing all 6-months worth of my luggage to Spain would be the dumbest decision I could have made.
I had to take a flight to Barcelona, Spain, then a 7-hour bus ride to Madrid, Spain, where a mutual friend of mine was letting me crash at her flat for 3 days. Sounds easy enough, right? Wrong. I had a suitcase on wheels that weighed about 180 lbs, a 40 lbs duffel bag that I lugged around on my shoulder, my computer case that had all my electronics in it, and my boho style shoulder bag with my passport, cash, and credit cards (which I kept in front of me on my person at ALL times). Needless to say, I was completely sore for about 2 days. So when I was in the Puerta Del Sol, waiting for my bus departure to Madrid, I wanted to contact my friend Vicky from a payphone to tell her when to expect me and meet me when I arrive. So I turned to tourist information desk, which the employee did NOT speak English! I was completely amazed at how useless he was. And as I was trying my best to translate, Perdon senor, donde esta el telefono....? I had my hand reached out behind me holding onto the handle of my luggage. Once I finally was pointed into a direction and wheeled my luggage to the nearest payphone, I then panicked. my ENTIRE laptop case was gone. These Spaniards are seriously ninjas. I did not even feel anything, and within seconds my laptop, blackberry, flipcam, and webcam were all taken from me. So instead of reporting anything because my bus was leaving within the next 20 minutes by this time, and also there was not a single security guard on duty, I just sat on the bus and cried until I fell asleep on the 7 hour bus ride to Madrid.

FRIENDLY TRAVEL TIP: Do not travel with a bag you physically cannot lift and carry, invest in a carry on with wheels so you dont break your back finding your destination, and most importantly, always keep ALL your belongings not only on you, but in FRONT of you, so your eyes are on it the entire time.

Dinner with my host Vicky, who took us to a local tapas joint where we enjoyed a generous amount of Chirizo (spanish sausage) and Sangrias.

Schools out for summer!

2011-06-23T08:24:00.000-07:00

I have officially passed my courses of French language, Internet and Web Design, TV production, and Multimedia production at Jonkoping University! Each course truly brought something new and exciting to my current education.

Halmstad, Sweden

2011-06-23T04:30:00.000-07:00

This is the town I have been staying in for the summer, and this Swedish town is known for its summer vibes and easy-beach living.

Swedish Midsommar

2011-06-23T03:49:00.000-07:00

I am about to experience an annual holiday celebration in Sweden, Midsommar! It is tradition to wear wild flowers in your hair, dance, and drink with family and friends. Oh yes, and eat loads of pickled herring. I am making this a challenge to try every kind of herring I encounter. This will NOT be easy. We'll see what happens...

SO Midsommar was amazing!

What is Midsommar? I found out that it is the longest day of sunlight of the year it was still light outside at midnight so we got there at 1 and drank wine, Swedish schnaaps (40 percent) and ate swedish herring then we went and danced around the midsommar field.

I spent the entire day with my boyfriend and his family. Including his adorable Swedish cousins! As if talking to children isn't hard enough when you are an unfamiliar face, I had to face the challenge of a language barrier as well. At one point during the day, Alma, a two year old girl came up to me and spoke in Swedish, and all I could say was Hej! and asked her if she knew any English. The whole family witnessed this and got a good laugh at the two most confused girls in the room trying to communicate...

The Swedish Food

I decided that the dishes alone deserved its very own passage in my midsommar post! Everything so fresh with bold flavors and unique presentation. Starting from the right of the table, we had a Crisp bread in Swedish means knäckebröd. This is a flat and dry Nordic type of bread or cracker, containing mostly rye flour. It is popular in armies and schools because of its light weight and simple, transport-friendly shape. Also, it is very cheap and if stored in dry conditions it will keep fresh and edible for a very long time. Next we have Gravad lax, (French in origin) is a dill-cured salmon which should preferably be served with a mustard sauce.

Paris, France

2011-06-01T11:56:00.000-07:00

I am absolutely in love with this city. With the aroma of fresh bakeries, the breathtaking monuments, the fast-paced hustle of city life, and the extreme influence of local street artists, this place will keep you on your toes for your entire stay.

Friendly Tip: Bring a jacket to the Eiffel Tower. Whether if it is a hot and sunny that day, or you are on the second or top floor, it is super windy and cold!

I stayed in a Hostel called "Absolute Paris." Which I found on hostelworld.com. I recommend this hostel to all of my friends and family. It was totally affordable not to mention chic, clean, wireless + free computers to use in the lobby downstairs, and my favorite part was the breakfast. Mmm, every morning I got to wake up to a fresh croissant and baguette with Nutella, tea, cereal, and yogurt! Can't get better start to your day than with a fresh and filling breakfast. Yum.

8 Cheap things to do in Paris:

1. Find a local grocery store, buy a baguette, some spreadable cheese, grapes, a bottle of wine, and some plastic champagne glasses, find a park, and enjoy the scenery with your authentic French picnic.

2. When your feet start to get weary from walking all over the city, buy an hour bus pass, take a seat by the window, and enjoy your free tour around the city.

3. Buy more wine, and pick up a few more treats from the market. Like Ferrero Rochier bon-bons and freshly made crepes from a corner bakery stand. Wait till sundown, then go to Sacre Coure. This was a dream-like experience. The view of the church behind and the view of the entire city of Paris in front was so totally unreal, that moment was unforgettable. The best part is that it was not a tourist infested area. This was in fact a typical Tuesday summer night for many of the locals in France.

4. Visit the Sienne River Bridge and explore the locks of love. Maybe even add your own... ;)

5. Locate the Arc De Triumph, find a park bench, and watch the madness of this 6 to 8 lane round- about disaster. Maybe with a glass of champagne if you want to snazz it up a bit.

6. Visit the Eiffel Tower! Rates are low and there is so many people and places to see. Rates start at €4,10 - €13,40. which is about $19.50 tops. The view from above is remarkable, and the people watching is just as entertaining.

We saw this kid going down the elevator from the top floor.

7. Visit the Notre Dame. One of the most famous churches and bell towers in the world admission is absolutely free! Not to mention, stunningly beautiful. If you want to make the trip that much more interesting, I suggest you read the novel of Hunchback of Notre Dame. (Or watch the film if you want to save time.)

8. Take a stroll in Pigalle. Named to literally mean "pig-alley" this street is full of exotic shops and burlesque shows such as the famous Moulin Rouge. It is most fun to go at night time, but be sure to have a group of friends to travel safely with.

Anders and I wandering the street of Pigalle

IA Love!

2011-05-04T16:44:00.000-07:00

I am a member of the IA Board, also known as the International Association. I would like to dedicate this blog to introduce my newest, and very dear friends.

Yulia (Ukraine)

Bidita (Swedish) and Anders (Swedish)

Jasmin (German)

In the IA we each have a position that makes us responsible for a portion of an event. I am Vilhemsro representative, which means I am the liaison between the school events and the students living in my accommodation (60 people). I must hang up posters for upcoming events, tell people about them (know details and be able to answer questions), and also I sell the event tickets at Vilhemsro instead of school for the students' convenience.

Michael (Australian) and Elin (Swedish)

Cissi (Swedish) and Roberto (Mexican)

Spring BBQ in Sweden

2011-05-04T16:27:00.000-07:00

The sun is finally shining, and here in Sweden absolutely NO ONE wastes a beautiful day like this. So we grabbed some moose meat, charcoal, cider, and an Aussie football and had a great Sunday afternoon. :)

Amsterdam, Holland

2011-05-04T15:45:00.000-07:00

Such a great time. Great friends, fun, and food!

Tallinn, Estonia - Student Cruise

2011-05-04T15:30:00.000-07:00

So if you ever wanted to travel some place completely random and awesome, I highly recommend Estonia. This place is full of charm and culture. Also, If you want to add even more adventure, take an international exchange student cruise trip there. This trip was unforgettable!

We made t-shirts before we came to represent where we are from. USA <3

International Association family!

Vapiano's is delicious, and I highly suggest you find one nearest you!

Dreams DO come true!

2011-03-13T15:31:00.000-07:00

So there is a shopping mall here in Jonkoping, called A6 and this is now officially my favorite store. Enjoy.

London Trip - Day 1

2011-03-13T06:58:00.000-07:00

White Ferry House, walking distance from Victoria Station!

Once Jimena, Victor, and I finally surpassed the London Airport, we stepped foot into the new British climate, and took the first bus to our Hostel. This was my first time staying in a hostel, and from all those horror films like taken and hostel 1 and 2, I was quite nervous at the thought. But don't let these films scare you away from an amazing experience folks, this hostel, to my pleasant surprise, was quite nice. It was called the White Ferry House. We paid about 325 SEK for two nights (that is about 50 dollars) We also used the website: http://www.hostelworld.com/ which shows you the ratings and competitive prices of hostels worldwide. GREAT resource if you dont want to end up sleeping in a sketchy spot.
The roads are pretty narrow with lots of round-abouts, which really freaked me every time a car would pass us from the opposite going at least 45 mph...
We arrived at our hostel around 10am, then the clerk told us that check-in time was not until 2pm that afternoon. So we wasted no time, threw our bags in the dark hostel basement or "storage room" as they called it, and were off on the town. To cure our jetlag and growing hunger, we stopped at a very familiar place to eat: Subway. Victor, Jime, and I bought the equivalent of the "5 dollar footlong" in America, and also a coffee that was included with the meal. (which now officially proves that every place in Europe serves coffee.) This all ended up costing around $8.00. I have come to realize that the price is always slightly higher than in america, but the standard and quality of any food product is much, much higher in Europe.
Included in the Hostel price, was a complimentary tour around London. so while we were out we decide that will be our first plan. We met in Green Park with the tour guide and about 50 other tourists for the free walking tour. It was quite surprising to see how many Spanish speakers there were in London as well. Here I was, excited to finally be back in an English speaking country, and of course, I am surrounded by fluent Spanish speakers! They even had a second tour guide just to translate to Spanish.So, I guess its time for me to brush up on my Spanish...

Meeting place in Green Park for the group tour.

In the tour I saw: Buckingham Palace, Big Ben, St. James Cathedral, British Parliament, etc. After the tour, our guide announced there would be a pub crawl that night and she would be selling tickets at restaurant in town if we were interested. This ticket included: admission to 5 bars, 4 drinks, and a wrist band for drink specials. We took it. Once we bought our tickets for the night we were pretty hungry. So of course, I had to do it...I ordered the fish and chips! And it did NOT disappoint.

Fish and chips, with tarter sauce and "mushy peas."

After dinner, we rushed home to the hostel, took a shower, and met back in the city to start our night at a club called "The Verve." We had a blast, especially when they would change bars for the pub crawl. All the British guides would yell "PUB CRAWL!" and that meant on to the next club. Pretty funny haha.

Victor and I enjoying our first cocktail. :)

Once the night was coming to the end and winding down, we stopped at McDonald's for fourth meal. I got a nice "happy meal" and if you ever want to know what was in this happy meal, you will have to ask me to tell you the story in person...epic. We finally ended the night in our lovely hostel beds and got a very necessary, nights sleep.

How I met Sara

2011-02-28T15:50:00.000-08:00

One of the ways Jonkoping University integrates the exchange students with the local Swedes is through the contact person program. And of course, being an advocate of student organizations, I signed up for the contact person program. I quickly received an email from my new Swedish friend,Sara Hernsäter. This new found cyber relationship was exactly what I needed to relieve my anxiety and fear of the unknown. We exchanged emails quite frequently, she gave me all the info about local gyms and what type of things I should pack...she pretty much rocked with helping me prepare for my long journey ahead. Sara has been so sweet and patient.

She picked Jime and I up with her second contact student (Chris from Poland) and took us to IKEA to go shopping for our bedding, and also Willy's the local grocery store.

Here are some highlights from that day: