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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>2009-11-07 - <a href="http://bmindful.com/users/12387">dinkledorfer</a> Says:</h1>
<p>Yes, I found it and it&#8217;s hilarious to watch it again. Also found another good one! It&#8217;s from How to succeed in Business without really trying. Keep in mind, he is singing to himself in the mirror when he does it. Ha!</p>

<p>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZbAjOJwyAwc</p>

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<title>Aisha Commented On jancydat's Profile</title>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>2009-11-07 - <a href="http://bmindful.com/users/12954">Aisha</a> Says:</h1>
<p>Jan honey sorry about my English.. maybe you don’t really work for free, but this doesn’t change the fact that you ROCK and I like youuuu.. I’ve always wanted to have some sort of a degree in philanthropy but I’m not ready yet.. One day I will!</p>

<p>I bet you do PLENTY of things for free anyway ;-)</p>

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<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 13:05:35 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>Aisha Commented On aftab's Profile</title>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>2009-11-07 - <a href="http://bmindful.com/users/12954">Aisha</a> Says:</h1>
<p>Hi from the Arabian Gulf :-P</p>

<p>aftaab nice to see you around! I see you everywhere here! You&#8217;re sooo popular WOW!!</p>

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<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:57:13 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>jancydat Commented On Aisha's Profile</title>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>2009-11-07 - <a href="http://bmindful.com/users/7269">jancydat</a> Says:</h1>
<p>Thanks for adding me as a friend.  I fear there is a misunderstanding though - I do not work for free.  Our store is nonprofit, but I get paid for my time. We are going through a lot of changes just as other businesses do in response to economic changes, but we&#8217;re hanging in there.  Sometimes it seems that adults with disabilities become invisible.  Like people love puppies, but not all dogs.  I see positive changes ahead.:)  Anyway, your affirmations and posts sound like you&#8217;re very honest and loving.  Glad to meet you! Jan</p>

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<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:08:56 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>aftab Commented On godscreation's Profile</title>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>2009-11-07 - <a href="http://bmindful.com/users/7519">aftab</a> Says:</h1>
<p>Hi Mary, I just read about your sister-in-law. I am very sorry. Hope you are fine and keeping up the good spirit as always. Lots of love, Afi</p>

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<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 09:19:08 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>aftab Commented On Aisha's Profile</title>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>2009-11-07 - <a href="http://bmindful.com/users/7519">aftab</a> Says:</h1>
<p>Needless to say that it is the Persian gulf ;-)
Hi Aisha, I enjoy reading your notes, you are such a sweet beautiful woman. Very nice meeting you.</p>

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<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 08:47:31 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>aftab Commented On dinkledorfer's Profile</title>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>2009-11-07 - <a href="http://bmindful.com/users/7519">aftab</a> Says:</h1>
<p>Hi, VERY nice meeting you. You are funny, you made me laugh this morning :-)
And I know what you mean with the good olive oil. A bit of salt on it&#8230;yummi</p>

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<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 03:59:32 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>themadcookieman Commented On anoushka's Profile</title>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>2009-11-07 - <a href="http://bmindful.com/users/7357">themadcookieman</a> Says:</h1>
<p>I like your new picture!</p>

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<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 00:49:16 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>laurie- worksout-daily&w/everything she's got~   ~ Commented On dinkledorfer's Profile</title>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>2009-11-06 - <a href="http://bmindful.com/users/816">laurie- worksout-daily&w/everything she's got~   ~</a> Says:</h1>
<p>In response to <a href="http://bmindful.com/users/12387#4709">dinkledorfer&#8217;s comment</a>: 
Loved your quote from your teacher about putting  everything you’ve got into everything you do……….. from kissing your wife to making a million..and guaranteeing the adventure awaits you on both counts! That&#8217;s great(:</p>

<p>Have you checked the Laverne and Shirley song out??</p>

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<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 23:19:43 -0500</pubDate>
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<title>dinkledorfer Commented On dinkledorfer's Profile</title>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>2009-11-06 - <a href="http://bmindful.com/users/12387">dinkledorfer</a> Says:</h1>
<p>In response to <a href="http://bmindful.com/users/12387#4699">Aisha&#8217;s comment</a>: 
Have to think on that one???? On a regular basis, she tells me lots of things. I&#8217;m handsome ( I&#8217;ll take her opinion other than my own) I make her feel loved, supported and cherished, which makes me want to do it even better&#8230;..that I&#8217;m a good husband&#8230;&#8230;. when I&#8217;m doubting my own ability to reach my goals, she is there reinforcing to me that she knows I can do and I will do it. It&#8217;s like so many little things. To hear praise, makes me want to do even more of what is praised. She tells me things about myself, mostly good ones (Ha!) that I eihter don&#8217;t see or don&#8217;t believe I have. Even when I&#8217;m just venting&#8230;..she is there, listening, not getting involved in the mess, but telling me sweetly, I love you! It took 3 tries but I have got me a winner now!</p>

<p>I remember one time, calling her because I simply had to unload or explode. I was quite mad and it was coming out but all of a sudden she began to laugh. It became funny to her and she could not contain it. I had to stop there and complain&#8230;.excuse me&#8230;&#8230;I&#8217;m trying to be pissed off and you are messing me up. The more she laughed, the less I could hold onto the anger.</p>

<p>I try to do the same things for her.Best I can tell you is look for the good in your partner and make it a serious point to make sure they know you see it, that you appreciate them that they are loved, wanted, and cherished. The more you do that for him, the more motivated he will become to do it for you. As one of my teachers used to say&#8230;&#8230;&#8221;Put everything you&#8217;ve got into everything you do&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.. from kissing your wife to making a million! I guarantee you&#8230;..adventure awaits you on both counts!</p>

<p>As to updating the profile, I have not figured it out yet.</p>

<p>Kids are a funny thing. I once heard someone describe it in a way that really summed it up. He said &#8220;It was both the most wonderful thing that has ever happened to me and the most horrible thing rolled into one! A laugh can take you to heights you never knew and a tear can take you into a deep sadness. My kids hace made me really understand that it was never what they could have or get that made it good for them. It was the time we spent together making memories. The things passed away but the memories live on. Give them your time! It is the greatest gift you can give.</p>

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