For eight years, I would bump into her every so often— sometimes at The Feast, other times in a seminar. 

We would greet each other and then she would tell me the same thing every time. She would say, “Brother Bo, magre-resign na talaga ako!” (Brother Bo, I will really resign this time!)

Deep inside me, I thought, You’ve been saying that for years and you haven’t done it.

Then one day, I sat down with her and had more time to talk. I said, “I noticed something. It’s funny how you keep saying you’ll resign but you never do. Why?”

She finally brought up the real reason. The benefits of the job are good: her company gives her a car, she has a nice salary, and she can travel.

My dear friend, this is what I call attachments.

This is also applicable to relationships. Sometimes, we maintain relationships with people who are bad for us because they stress us, emotionally drain us, or belittle us.

Some people maintain toxic relationships because there are attached benefits that they cannot let go of. 

Here are five things that you must do to get rid of the toxic attachments in your life.

1. Admit that it’s bad for you

I’m the preacher who likes to say that we should focus on the positive and the good things happening in our lives. But if there is a toxic attachment in your life, you do the opposite: focus on the negative.

Let’s say you’re in a toxic relationship. You magnify how stressful and ugly it is. You focus on how you are stuck and not growing. 

You magnify the many times this person deceived you and stole from you or that person who destroyed your reputation and lied to you.

Think five years down the road. If you do not let go of your toxic job or relationship, what will happen to you? Imagine how bad your future self will be.

2. Admit why you are attached

Why are you fettered to this damaging habit, relationship, or situation?

If you are attached because there are benefits, identify them. For instance, it’s good you have a boyfriend because you can go around saying that you have one—regardless that he’s toxic or a liar. But you need to understand that, yes, there is a benefit, but it comes at a very high cost.

3. Focus on caring for yourself

When you value yourself, you’ll realize, “Wait a minute, I need to let go of this attachment to love myself.”

4. Seek help

You cannot do this on your own. You have to be accountable to other people and say, “Please help me to let go of this.” Tell them and ask them for prayer.

You may also go to a counselor if you think you need one. The Light of Jesus Pastoral Care Center can help you. Contact them at 0923 132 3071 or visit www.lojpcc.com. You may also find them on Facebook (Light of Jesus Pastoral Care).

5. Pray for the grace to let go

At the end of the day, your self-worth is not based on your job or position at work. It doesn’t lie on whether you have a boyfriend or not. Your attachment to that unhealthy person or thing is rooted in your insecurity. 

But know that God should be the basis of your self-worth. His love for you should be the

source of your healthy self-esteem.

So, pray for the grace to let go of what damages you.

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On the first day, she kept blowing up that she hammered thirty-seven nails on the white fence. But as the weeks went by, the number decreased as her outbursts lessened. The day came she could already control her temper. She was so happy.

Her parents said, “Congratulations, dear daughter. This is now what you need to do next: go out there and pull out all the nails that you hammered on the fence.” The three of them went out. The girl began to pull out the nails one by one. Then her mother asked, “Daughter, look at that fence. What do you see?”

“The nail marks have left holes,” the daughter replied.

The mother then imparted her lesson, “Your words sting. They leave a scar in the hearts of people.”

Friend, that’s the problem with our temper. We say painful words at the height of our emotions and they leave scars. Even if we’re sorry later on, they’ve already wounded the other person.

So, it’s much better not to speak painful words at all. Let me share with you the three steps you need to take to overcome your temper.

1. Identify Your Triggers

You know when you’ll blow up. You know when your emotions are getting out of control. Maybe you’re triggered when you’re frustrated or when you come home tired and stressed. Whatever it is, do this: Identify what triggers you to lose your temper so you can be prepared. If you see a monster coming, run away.

That monster is the uncontrolled temper that can hurt the people you love. It steals away your happiness, your relationships,and even destroys the people you care for the most.

2. Change States

When you feel your anger rising up, count one to ten before saying something. When your blood pressure rises and you’re about to blow up, change your state. You have more control than you think you have. What do you do to change your state? You can sing. You can take a walk. You can walk out of the room. You can pray and cry out to the Lord. You can dance.

I’m not kidding! That’s the way to change your state. You’ll realize that you were just in that emotional state that if you didn’t stop, you would be heading down a landslide of emotions.

3. Uproot the Roots

Uproot the deeper roots of your temper and rage. The reason you’re easily angry with other people is because—more often than not—you’re also angry with yourself. These are deeper roots that you can bring before the Lord and say, “God, come and heal the deep wounds of my heart.”

I also recommend that you go to counseling.

Speak with people who are wiser and stronger and who can constantly pray for you until you get healed.

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These are people of different ages—some are fourteen, others are twenty-five, thirty-two, or even forty-four years old. They don’t know what their core gift is because of fear.

The reason why you still don’t know your core gift is because you are afraid of failure.

But if you’re not afraid of failure, and you have tried and failed, and you didn’t stop but just kept on striving despite rejection, ridicule, and criticism—then you get better and better at doing something.

My dear friend, if you still don’t know what your core gift is, go out into the world and give your imperfect gift. You will be laughed at, ridiculed, and rejected, but do it again and again until one day, you’re going to be so good at it that the world will applaud you.

Believe me, every great success started as a phenomenal failure.

Here are the four questions you need to ask yourself if you want to discover your core gift.

The first is a simple but powerful question: what are you good at?

In Filipino, saan ka magaling?

God made you for a special reason, for a special mission. He wants you to bless the world in a particular way, so He gave you a gift for that mission.

I’m a communicator. I speak and I write.

Go back to your childhood because you will see hints of your core gift starting in a small way.

I was already a communicator back then but in a different way. When I was a child, I liked to draw.

Now, I still draw, but I use the canvas of my imagination. I tell stories not through illustrations but through words, adverbs, and adjectives.

This is one hundred percent accurate to uncover what your core gift is. So, look at your childhood and find hints of your core gift.

Here’s the second question: ask yourself, “What do I like to do?”

What is the thing that makes you happy when you do it? What is your passion?

What is the thing that excites you when you do it?

For some, it’s entrepreneurship. For others, it’s accounting. I’ve met people whose gift is accounting and they’re so alive when they do it, even when it’s difficult. For some of you, your core gift is music. For others, it’s fixing or creating things with your hands. Or it’s organizing. Or listening to and encouraging people.

So, what’s the thing that makes you come alive every time you do it?

This is only eighty percent accurate in discovering what your core gift is.

Why? Because you can idolize a great singer, so you like to sing—but singing doesn’t like you. You’re alive when you sing, but others want to die when they hear you.

Sometimes, you like doing something, but that doesn’t mean it’s your core gift. If you know you’re not good at it, you can just make it a hobby. It still has a role in your life.

Here’s the third question: ask yourself, “How have I blessed others the most in my life?”

That’s a clue! Success is about service. If you want to be successful, serve more.

Love more.

Here’s the fourth question: “How has God blessed me the most?”

Because as you serve, give, and love, it will come back to you, and you will experience more blessings. You will have a trail of blessings that can serve as a clue to your core gift.

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My dear friend, do not compare yourself with other people and say, “Oh, I wish I were like her” or “I wish I had his personality.”
Your personality is unique because God has a purpose for that personality. He wants you to be a great blessing to the world, and He’s going to use your personality.

Let’s talk about the four personality types and find out who you are. I’ll use an animal to describe each of the four personalities.

The first one is the sanguine, which is like dolphins.

When I walk in the morning, I greet my neighbors good morning and they greet me back. But I have one neighbor who is a real sanguine. When I greet her, she enthusiastically says, “Good morning, Brother Bo! God bless you today!” I love greeting her because it’s like she’s in a Broadway play.

Sanguines are highly optimistic and charismatic. Their strengths are being fun-loving, talkative, emotional, and demonstrative. They are usually the life of the party. They inspire people, love to volunteer, and easily forgive.

But every personality has a flip side.

So the weaknesses of a sanguine are a lack of discipline and being forgetful. They are good starters but bad finishers. They forget names, schedules, keys, phones, and wallets. They can be disorganized and late for their appointments.

The second type is the choleric. Cholerics are the sharks because they are ambitious and result-oriented.

They have massive resources to become a leader. This person is usually the one who takes charge of a situation. Most great military leaders, presidents, CEOs, and managers are choleric. They are self-motivated, goal-oriented, and heroic. They are strong-willed, decisive, and thrive in opposition so they often correct the wrongs.

But when you flip it, their weaknesses are their temper and arrogance. They can be abrasive, argumentative, and stubborn. Sometimes, they can be cold and heartless. That’s why they often suffer from ulcers, hypertension, and heart problems.

The third one is the melancholic. That’s the oyster.

Compared to the sanguine and the choleric, the melancholic is introverted, but they have a beautiful pearl inside like an oyster. Melancholics are creative and loyal. Artists, sculptors, painters, writers, musicians, and even inventors and scientists are most likely melancholic. They are deep thinkers, good planners, artistic, consistent, and sensitive to other people. They find creative solutions and have high standards.

But their flip side is they’re pessimistic, skeptical, and suspicious. They are perfectionists and prone to criticize themselves. They criticize other people, too, because of their high standards. They’re inflexible, too cautious, and tend to hold grudges. They also lack courage because of shame and their fears.

The fourth type is the phlegmatic.

That’s the turtle and that’s me. Surprising, right?

Phlegmatics are calm and relaxed, someone with a big heart and would rather avoid conflicts. Personally, I’d love everybody to be OK with each other, so I’m the perfect mediator. The turtle is somebody who is self-content, low-key, cool, patient, and finds the easy path.
But flip it, and the person is shy, unresponsive, indecisive, unemotional, passive, and easily gets abused and manipulated by other people. They may also lack ambition and are sluggish or lazy.

Why am I talking about these personality types? Because I want you to know that God created you in a particular way.
You might wonder, how could I be a phlegmatic when many people think I’m a choleric leader?

God created me with a phlegmatic personality, but He’s been using me for the past forty years as a leader.
Because of that, I’m able to listen more and work with all sorts of people. God uses my personality.

So, who are you in these four personalities?

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She said, “Oh, this is me. I’m always like this. I show my feelings. What you see is what you get. I’m always emotionally honest.”

Being emotionally honest is good, but at the right time, to the right people, and in specific places. It’s OK to be vulnerable to the people you trust and who love you. But not twenty-four hours a day. That’s not being emotionally honest. In fact, that’s unloving, rude, and disrespectful.

Authenticity is powerful. When you are authentic, you are like a magnet. People will be attracted to you because you’re real and sincere, and you give them permission to also be broken and wounded. Authenticity is moral honesty.

Let me share my story.

When I was in my twenties, I stood in front of the whole prayer group and told everybody I was addicted to porn, which was rooted in being molested as a child. People were shocked at my sharing. I was their leader, for crying out loud. I told them, “Hey, guys, if you lose respect for me, you can go and transfer to another prayer group. Because this is your leader—broken.”

I was being honest. I added, “I want you to know I’m in the healing process, so please pray for me.”

And their response was beautiful. The love and outpouring of mercy and forgiveness I received from my friends were amazing.

But I also received negative reactions. I wrote about my story in a book, and a leader of another prayer group told me, “Bo, you shouldn’t have told us anymore about your dark secret. We will lose our respect for you.”

But he was wrong.

Being authentic, sharing my vulnerability or brokenness, and asking for help was the best thing I ever did. Not only did I heal. Other people got healed as well.

In psychology, they call this The Johari Window. It has four useful quadrants:

1. Quadrant number one is stuff about you that you and other people know.
It’s open knowledge.

For example, I’m a preacher. I know that. You know that. I’m a writer. I know that. You know that. I’m good-looking. I know that. You kind of know it right now. I’m just kidding.

2. Quadrant two is secrets—stuff about me that only I know but other people don’t know.

If you have something like that, I pray that you confess it to a small group of trusted friends. Just one, two, or three people.

In the Catholic faith, we have priests who minister the sacrament of reconciliation. You can go to confession and tell another human being. I love saying this: Sin, in the dark, multiplies. But if you expose it to the light, it shrinks and shrivels up.

I know of an apologist who was popular, brilliant, a defender of the faith, and a great Bible teacher. But he was hiding something:

He abused women. You don’t want that. I don’t want that. I could have been that person if I hadn’t exposed my addiction and confessed my sin.

3. Quadrant three is stuff about you that you do not know but other people know.

They’re called blind spots. The solution is to go to your trusted friends and ask them, “What are my blind spots? What do you see about me that I don’t? What are my weaknesses, brokenness, and woundedness that I’m unaware of?”

I’ll give you an example. Early on in our marriage, my wife straightaway told me, “Bo, your weakness is you don’t confront people. Somebody needs to be confronted, but you don’t do it.”

I kind of knew this already, so maybe it’s not a blind spot. But there are times when I just deny I have this weakness. So, I needed my wife to tell me that.

4. Quadrant four is stuff about you that you and other people don’t know.

It’s a mystery. And the solution is to go to God because He knows you.

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Because after forty years in ministry, I noticed that most people suffer from F.O.P.O.—Fear of People’s Opinion.

We crave and long for people to like us. Subconsciously, we dress the way we dress so people will like us. We do the things we do so people will like us. We buy the things we buy and own the things we own so people will like us.

It’s miserable. At the end of the day, you’ll get tired. You’ll get tired of trying to make people like you. If your self-esteem, identity, and self-worth are based on the idea that people should like you, you’re on shaky ground.

You have to like yourself. Liking yourself is a thousand, million, or even zillion times more important than other people liking you.

Let me tell you a story.

Once upon a time, I met this TV personality. During her heyday, she had a daily TV show. She was the darling of media. She was so popular. But I met her after her fame. She told me, “I was on everybody’s lips before.

Every day, they mentioned my name because of my top-rating TV show. But then it was all gone. When I walked into a mall, the grandmother and other older people knew me. But the children ask who I am.”

Ouch! Her fans have disappeared.

Some people ask me, “Brother Bo, how does it feel to have thousands of followers? Thousands of people listen to you.

Doesn’t it get to your head?” And I tell them, “All of my fans will soon disappear like a morning mist.” I don’t look for fans. I look for friends. Because friends stay, but fans come and go.

The key is to decide to love and like yourself.

Why? Because God loves you and likes you. You have to learn to value yourself the way God values you. This is what supports your self-worth, self-identity, and self-esteem.

God’s love for you is an unshakable foundation.

Take the hint. If God loves you and likes you, you should learn to love and like yourself as well.

There are two things you need to run after in life, instead of running after people so they will like you.

Number one: Seek God’s pleasure. Instead of seeking to please other people, it’s more important to please God.

Number two: Seek the respect of your inner circle—your spouse, children, and close friends. Be bothered if the people who like you are outside of your circle, like your customers, acquaintances, and other friends. Be bothered if your inner circle does not like you because they are the people who know you and your family.

Seek their respect.

How? Live by your values.

Follow God.

Follow your conscience.

Last week, a woman who looked like she was carrying the whole world (and the moon, sun, and stars) on her shoulders, asked me,

“Oh, Bo, please help. My husband is the laziest man I know. Remember Juan Tamad who lies down under the tree waiting for the fruit to fall into his mouth? Well, my husband is worse. The tree is still a seed on the ground and he’s already lying there, waiting for the tree to
grow. How can I help him change?”

I hear these kinds of pleas everywhere I go.

Do you care for others deeply that you want to help them change their life? Here’s the most powerful tool you can use to help others change. And it doesn’t depend on how brilliant or gifted you are.

You’ll be surprised what this powerful tool is:

It’s none other than good old- fashioned discipleship.

Perhaps your reaction is, “Shucks, man, isn’t that what priests and missionaries do? I’m no preacher or teacher or leader. When my prayer group leader asked me to lead the prayers before meals, I fainted.”

Let me clarify. Whatever you’re thinking now about discipleship, that’s wrong. Here’s my simple definition: Discipleship is a one-to-one relationship of love.

Look at Jesus. He preached to crowds. But many times, He would withdraw from the crowd, so that He could spend intimate time with those 12 guys.

To enter their world, to listen to them, to laugh with them, to eat with them, to live life with them.

I believe this is God’s strategy to change the world, including your family.

God will change the world using your one-to-one relationships of love.

Preacher or Discipler?

The Bible recounts a story where Peter gave a speech to a crowd of 3,000.

And that day, 3,000 persons, right there and then, became Jesus’ followers.

Man, that was one great speech.

Now let’s pretend I am as fantastic as a preacher, and I can produce such fantastic results. If I preach to 3,000 people every single day, 365 days ayear—with no vacation breaks for birthday, Valentine’s, Christmas—and convertall those 3,000 into Jesus followers . . .

Question: How long will it take to convert the entire world?

If the population of Planet Earth is seven billion, and let’s suppose that the population of the world will no longer grow (which is not true), to win the world for Jesus, it will still take me (drumroll . . .) 6,392 years.

Yoda of Star Wars is 874 years old—and see how he looks. I am now
nearing 60.

Can you imagine how I’d look if I ‘d live 6,392 years more? I wouldn’t want to look at my face.

But what if I were a discipler?

Imagine if I can disciple just one person to Jesus once a year. Just one person that I could lead closer to God. And for the rest of the year, I just journey with that one person and help him in his personal growth.

And then next year, that person will disciple another person the following year. And so on.

If every person just disciples one person every year, we will be able to produce seven billion disciples in (drumroll . . .) 34 years.

It’s shocking, I know. If you don’t believe me, get your calculator and do the math yourself.

My point: Preachers won’t win the world for God. So who will?

Answer: Disciplers.

In the same way, preachers won’t win families for God.

But disciplers will.

Be one.

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This can be a shock to some of you.

I’ve met people who say, “Earning too much money means I’ll not be pleasing to God anymore.”

I don’t agree.

I believe that if you handle money the way God wants you to handle money, then it’ll draw you closer to Him. There’s a big difference between saying, “I want to get rich for myself!” and “I want to earn more so I can supply my needs and alsothe needs of the Kingdom!”

The gulf between these two is astronomical.

One will give you inner peace. The other, endless misery. The latter will give you wings for your flight to heaven.

The former? A special necklace with a 10-ton boulder as a pendant.

Personally, I made my choice a long time ago.

I want the wings!

I want to earn money and love God with every cent I have.

Because of these beliefs, for many years now, I give a lot of my income away and have enormous joy doing so.

Friends, you have a choice.

You can let money make you evil and corrupt and selfish and miserable.

Or you can let money bring you closer to God and make you happy forever.

Work Your Soul, Then Your Wallet

When money stops you from entering heaven, I recommend a drastic move: Give it up! It’s better to enter heaven without money than have all the money in the world and end up in hell.

Remember: If your spiritual life can’t handle the financial blessing, don’t receive it. Because your spiritual life is the basis for your financial life.

Why?

I believe a healthy spiritual life will make you faithful, loyal, humble, loving, honest, and responsible— stuff you need for earning and managing your money.

For years, a friend of mine was struggling financially. She couldn’t keep a stable job. I remember she even had to borrow money from me to attend our prayer meetings.

One day, her father was killed in an accident at work—and his company was partly at fault. Because the company was afraid of being sued, they offered my friend’s family millions in an out-of-court settlement.

My friend was now awash in a sea of money! From someone who had no transportation money to attend a prayer meeting, she now drove a brand-new car.

Ironically, she stopped attending the prayer meeting because she said she was too busy starting her own business.

After two years, the business flopped, the car was sold, and all the money was gone.

My friend went back to begging for transportation money so she could attend our prayer meetings again.

A sad story.

My friend’s spiritual life simply wasn’t ready for the money.

Work your soul, then your wallet.

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God designed our bodies for love.

Think of a fish. Pull it out of water and it dies. Because its body was made for water. In the same way, our bodies were made to swim in love. Pull us out of love and we die. Our bodies get sick, become weak, and perish.

Whenever we move toward separation, conflict, isolation, and loneliness, we get sick.

Stress is really separation.

Worry is separation.

Fear is separation.

Sadness is separation.

We’re afraid because we feel alone.

We’re sad because we feel no one is there for us.

Anger and unforgiveness are also separation.

Here’s my belief: Any movement toward separation makes us sick. But any movement toward connection makes you whole. When you forgive, when you love, and when you trust, you walk toward your healing.

Take a look at this small town called Roseto.

The Effect of Our Neighbor’s Love

Roseto has become very famous because Malcolm Gladwell wrote about it in his bestselling book Outliers.

For many years, this small town in Pennsylvania was a “medical anomaly.”

Doctors and researchers couldn’t understand why Roseto’s residents were incredibly healthy.

For example, virtually no one in Roseto had heart disease!

And the death rate for those aged fifty to sixty years old was half that of the entire USA. So many theories came up to explain this medical anomaly. They said perhaps it was the air they breathed. Or the water they drank. Or the food they ate.

But after much research, all these theories didn’t hold water.

Why? Because right beside it was another town named Nazareth. And the people of Roseto and Nazareth ate the same food, drank the same water, and breathed the same air.

But Nazareth, just a few miles away, had a lot of people with heart disease.

And the death rate of old people followed the national average.

What was so special about Roseto?

After many years of study, doctors finally found the answer. Many years ago, the people of a tiny village in Italy, also called Roseto,
migrated to America.

They pitched their tents in a place in Pennsylvania and called their town Roseto too. And these migrants brought with them their close-knit relationships. For years, they were insulated from the “individualist” lifestyle of America.

Let me give you a glaring fact: Unlike many Americans, in Roseto, three generations lived under one roof!

Grandpa, grandma, all the children and their spouses, and all the grandchildren still lived in one house, eating together every day.

Imagine the noise.

Imagine the fights. Imagine the chaos. But imagine, too, the love!

Here’s a second unique thing about this town. After dinner, you’d see neighbors gathering on their wooden porches and talking over a hot cup of coffee.

You’d see neighbors greeting each other on the street and chitchatting. No one is rushing. Everyone knows everybody.

And that, my friend, was the only reason for the medical anomaly in Roseto:

Something called love.

Create This Medical Anomaly in Your Family

I believe God wants you to build a Roseto in your family.

He wants you to be one hundred percent healthy.
He wants your family to be one hundred percent healthy too.

How do you receive this grace?

Increase the love in your heart.
Increase the love in your family.

Spend more time together.

Go home after work and play with your kids.

Date your spouse.

Eat together often.

Laugh with your friends.

Better yet, serve together.

You’ll bless your loved ones with spectacular health. Because only love heals.

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Does this make you feel stuck and unsure how to move forward?

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My job is killing me. I’m so stressed. I’m getting sick. I have hair loss. I cannot sleep well at night. I want to resign, Brother Bo!”

For eight years, I would bump into her every so often—sometimes at The Feast, other times in a seminar. We would greet each other and then she would tell me the same thing every time. She would say, “Brother Bo, I will really resign this
time!” Deep inside me, I thought, You’ve been saying that for years and you haven’t done it.

Then one day, I sat down with her and had more time to talk. I said, “I noticed something. It’s funny how you keep saying you’ll resign but you never do. Why?”

She finally brought up the real reason. The benefits of the job are good: her company gives her a car, she has a nice salary, and she can travel.

My dear friend, this is what I call attachments.

This is also applicable to relationships. Sometimes, we maintain relationships with people who are bad for us because they stress us, emotionally drain us, or belittle us.

Some people maintain toxic relationships because there are attached benefits that they cannot let go of.

Here are five things that you must do to get rid of the toxic attachments in your life.

1. Admit that it’s bad for you.

I’m the preacher who likes to say we should focus on the positive and the good things happening in our lives. But if there is a toxic attachment in your life, you do the opposite: focus on the negative.

Let’s say you’re in a toxic relationship. You magnify how stressful and ugly it is. You focus on how you are stuck and not growing. You magnify the many times this person deceived you and stole from you, or that person who destroyed your reputation and lied to you.

Think five years down the road. If you do not let go of your toxic job or relationship, what will happen to you? Imagine how bad your future self will be.

2. Admit why you are attached.

Why are you fettered to this damaging habit, relationship, or situation? If you are attached because there are benefits, identify them.

For instance, it’s good you have a boyfriend because you can go around saying that you have one—even if he’s toxic or a liar. But you need to understand that, yes, there is a benefit, but it comes at a very high cost.

3. Focus on caring for yourself.

When you value yourself, you’ll realize, “Wait a minute, I need to let go of this attachment to love myself.”

4. Seek help.

You cannot do this on your own. You have to be accountable to other people and say, “Please help me to let go of this.” Tell them and ask them for prayer.

You may also go to a counselor. The Light of Jesus Pastoral Care Center can help you. Contact them at 0923 132 3071 or visit www.lojpcc.com. You may also find them on Facebook (Light of Jesus Pastoral Care).

5. Pray for the grace to let go.

At the end of the day, your self-worth is not based on your job or position at work. It doesn’t lie on whether you have a boyfriend or not. Your attachment to that unhealthy person or thing is rooted in your insecurity.
But know that God should be the basis of your self-worth. His love for you should be the source of your healthy self-esteem.

So, pray for the grace to let go of what damages you.

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