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Dating Tip: Become Successful With Women by Modeling

Braddock — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 06:48:15 +0000

Modeling

The most common way we learn our dating habits is through modeling the behavior of others. It starts with modeling our parents when we are children, then through watching our friends, movies, etc…

When you hear someone say, “That guy is a natural” what they really mean is he had some great modeling as a child. When you think back to your childhood who did you accidentally model? Was your dad a smooth confident guy? Were you raised by a single mom who was overly religious and guarded? Were you raised by parents who had a healthy loving and caring relationship? Were you raised by parents who fought all the time and were basically roommates?

These models have a profound effect on you and will continue to play out in your own life if you are not aware of them and you don’t change them. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree with most people. If your dad was a wimp who got pushed around by your mom, you’ll likely find yourself in similar relationships. If your dad was overbearing and dominated women in an unhealthy way, you’ll likely find yourself dominating women in relationships.

We tend to be identical to one or a combination of our parents belief systems in regards to love and relationships. We must be careful about the lessons we internalize and hold as fact.

Modeling Family
Just because someone we love and look up to did something a certain way, doesn’t make it the best/right way. Sadly we learn these behaviors at such a young age, they are now autopilot responses. We do them automatically and have a blind spot to how they might be holding us back. These blind spots could rear their head in multiple arenas depending on who you modeled.

If your dad married the wrong woman or was cheated on he probably taught you to be impatient and bitter toward women in general. If your dad was a weak guy who was just happy to have ‘a’ wife, then you were probably taught to put women on a pedestal and accept any and all behavior to please her. If your dad was a distant father who cheated on your mom but was loving and charismatic to the rest of the family, you probably learned that deep meaningful relationships with women are unrealistic and you learned to stay distant and guarded. Maybe your dad cheated on your mom and you saw how hurt your mom was, so you went the polar opposite. You have vowed to never hurt a woman and you’ve taken it so far that you feel guilty if you even tease a woman or shoot her straight.

Maybe you had a father who you look up to as if he is a superhero and he is amazing in most areas of life, but has a terrible relationship with your mother, but despite this you follow his relationship/dating advice dogmatically because you can’t stand the idea of letting him down. You’ll follow his advice even at the risk of marrying the wrong women and having an unsatisfying relationship for years just so you don’t disappoint him. Then when you have a son, you do the same thing to him, because that’s what you modeled and you don’t even know you are doing it to him.

Modeling Friends
I think picking a healthy peer group is one of the most important decisions of your life. We’ve all heard the saying, “You are the sum total of the 5 people you spend the most time with.” I couldn’t agree more. Just because a friend is a good friend, a good person, great at business, or even great at attracting women, doesn’t mean you should model how he handles relationships. Some of the most charismatic friends I’ve ever had who could attract the hottest women and sleep with any girl they wanted, were absolutely terrible at keeping an amazing woman or having a healthy relationship.

Some of those great tactics that cause deep levels of attraction can be taken to far and cause a toxic relationship where it’s nothing but fights and jealousy. The relationship becomes a constant power struggle where the primary tools of expressing love are jealousy, withdrawal, and unhealthy boundary function. It’s not about connected and dating their equal, it’s about dominating a woman and making sure she knows who has the power. Well, if you are modeling this, you can expect to end up in the same relationship prison.

We often assume success in one area of life must mean success in all areas of life. I have mentors who are great at attracting beautiful women, but this in no way makes them qualified to be a mentor in relationship management unless I have seen them in a loving healthy relationship. Be careful about modeling the behaviors, thought patterns, and actions of someone you consider successful.

Even worse is modeling the unhealthy friend who is jaded by women. These are the guys who are charismatic with guys and speak from such a place of authority it can be easy to get sucked into their reality and believe what they say and think. Often times these guys are extremely smart and interesting, but because they are either bad with women or were hurt by a woman they spew their negative beliefs onto anyone who is willing to listen. I was one of these guys for a while. I remember after one of my girlfriends dumped me there was about a year and a half where I hated women. I saw them all as trying to use men, manipulative, fake, not loyal, and just genuinely despised them. I’d spew my hate about women to all my friends and look for any shred of evidence I could find to validate my dark world view. I’d joke negative about women, jump on any opportunity to help my friends find reasons to dump their girlfriends and was on a search and destroy mission to find, sleep with, and crush every women in the tri state area.

Because I’m a charismatic guy and I was still good enough to sleep with women despite being jaded, my friends couldn’t help but model my behavior, but what a horribly unhealthy model for my friends to follow. I still feel guilty about the things I accidentally taught the guys around me and damage I probably caused in their lives and relationships.

Model specific behaviors, overall character, and overall proactive thought patterns. Don’t necessarily model their life.

Modeling Gurus
One of the biggest mistakes you can make is modeling the wrong dating coach. I did it….we all do this. Be very careful about this or you could find yourself running around a club wearing a top hat and 12 inch platform shoes. This industry is full of weird guys who hate women, have deep issues, are not as good with women as they say they are, over hype how good they are with women, and write tons of blog posts and articles that are half truths at best.

Be careful about accepting any dating advice as fact and be leery of modeling the thoughts and opinions just because a guy says he’s a dating coach. Take the time to read numerous posts from that particular dating coach and try to read between the lines and figure out where he’s coming from. Does it sound like it’s coming from a good place….a healthy place? Is it coming from a confident guy who is sharing what works or is he constantly trying to prove himself to an unknown audience? Does it sound like a guy trying to get validation from men by bragging? Is he writing to impress or teach? Does what he say sound WAY to good to be true? It probably is.

Another big problem I have with the community is many of the guys who teach this are not qualified to teach and those that are often write about and teach things that happen 1 out 100 times instead of teaching about what happens 99 out of 100 times. A lot of guys give no context for the things they teach or the things they tell you to say. Things like “negging” have caused huge problems for guys all over the world. There are guys all over the world going up to girls and saying rude comments like, “You have shit in your teeth.” The idea of negging is fine if it is explained properly, but it’s not, so good guys end up getting blown out by girls and coming across really creepy.

Guys will over hype things like bathroom pulls and other things that sound exciting on paper. They don’t tell you that they do those rarely and the girl usually is average looking at best. They make it sound like they are going out and pulling super models in the bathroom every night. If you read this and try to model it, you will find yourself frustrated and might even feel bad about yourself wondering why you can’t get the same result.

Worse than anything, if you are modeling the mind sets of some of these guys, you are modeling a really unhealthy guy and modeling 1/2 truths that aren’t even real. Some of the guys I’ve met through this don’t need to be giving advice to anyone and could use a bump in the dosage of their psych meds. Make sure the guy you are modeling is healthy or you will ultimately pay the price.

Who should you model?
Modeling the right dating coach or natural can be extremely helpful. Going to a bootcamp and watching guys who are amazing with women is priceless. Hearing the mindsets and beliefs of guys who are fantastic with woman can really set a good course for your dating life especially if you don’t have anyone who is good to model.

Make sure whoever you model is getting the results you want. If you meet a guy who is great with women, but all the girls he dates are damaged unhealthy women, you will be setting yourself up to attract the same kind of women. Model someone who is getting the results you want.

If you want a relationship, don’t model the guy who bangs 4 girls per week but hasn’t had a real relationship in his life. If you want 1,000 one night stands, don’t model the guy who is constantly in a long term relationship. That doesn’t mean you can’t steal a page out of each guys playbook, but who you’ll want to put your main focus of modeling people who are getting the exact result you want.

Model behaviors and thoughts…Don’t try to be that person..

Be careful when you model people that you don’t try to become that person. A lot of guys who were trying to model Mystery became weird carbon copies of him. I had a friend in college who tried really hard to do what I was doing and it got strange at times. He would use the exact jokes I would normally say and had pretty much copied the way I dressed, talked, joked, etc… It was not flattering to me. It annoyed me, it came off weird to our friends, and it creeped out the girls that knew him before he started doing that.

Also, don’t tell people you are modeling them. It creates a weird dynamic if you go out with a guy and you can tell he’s trying to be you. It’s ok to tell people you want them to mentor you, but you have to keep your identity and be your own person. Never try to become the person you are modeling.

Also, just because a guy is a good model to learn from, doesn’t mean he’s a good guy to continuously go out with. I’ve had friends who were drastically better than me in the past, but they were so good that I felt like the little tree that was surrounded by trees so big, I couldn’t get any light to grow. They got so much attention, that I would almost feel worse about myself when I would try to keep up. That’s ok. Spend some time going out with these guys and spend some time going out with guys more on your level so you can grow as well. When you go out with these guys, use it as an opportunity to learn, not as a competition.

What if you are forced to be around bad models?
You’re not FORCED to be around anyone. You choose who you spend your time with and can choose to go through the pain of clipping bad friends and finding new healthy social circles. I’ve done it 3 or 4 times in my life. It was hard, but it was well worth it in the long run. But, I do have family members who I love, but are not the best models in certain areas who I do spend time with. What I’ve done with these people is never give them a platform to taint my thoughts or accidentally corrupt me with the bad models they demonstrate. For example if they have a terribly unhealthy relationship, I NEVER discuss my relationships with them and will only discuss theirs if they are asking for advice. This means changing the subject, stop asking bad models for advice, stop letting them give you advice, and avoiding certain topics with them.

You have to guard your inner game like it’s Fort Knox. Don’t let unhealthy people pave the way for your thoughts. Surrounding yourself with healthy people will help you think and behave more healthy.

Summary
•   I personally feel one of the keys to success with attracting women and having a healthy dating life is being able to model certain attributes from different people who are successful in specific areas.
•   Model the behavior and thoughts, not the man in most areas. There are those few anomalies who have the entire package. Mr. M and I call these kind of people, guys who are going Supernova. They are blowing up and extremely successful, happy, and healthy and all the most important areas of life. I only know about 5 people like this and they are amazing people.
•   Healthy models are key but at minimum, we must have the awareness to recognize a bad model so we don’t blindly follow the same path. Surrounding yourself with good models will allow you to pick up the positive attributes of who they are through osmosis. You can’t help but be affected by the people you spend the most time with.

Action Step:
1. Develop a sense of awareness: Take inventory of how your parents beliefs about dating, love, sex, and attraction were transferred to you. Write down how your beliefs might be identical or opposite to either of them.

2. Reflect: Write down how this modeling has effected your dating life. Also write down how modeling certain friends beliefs have effected your dating life.

3. Hit Reset: Become aware that this way of moving through the world isn’t necessarily you, but simply what you’ve learned. You now have a choice to be different and pick new models that are proactive to the goals and dating life you want. Now find models that align with what you are looking for in the form of natural friends, dating coaches, DVDs, audios, or books.

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Austin Texas Bootamp….

Braddock — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 10:12:45 +0000

This sums up Texas. Love doing Austin Bootcamps so much. Besides Stockholm…I would say Austin Texas has the hottest girls on the planet. The students killed it tonight…..

-B

Phone and Text Game Book

Braddock — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 03:19:28 +0000

The phone and text game is coming out in 2 days….

Wow. I’m so glad this book is coming out. I’m really proud of this book. I feel like this book is pretty ground breaking and goes well beyond phone and text game. I spent over a year writing this book and breaking down the concepts. This book will help you on so many levels. The people who have read this book looked at me like I was crazy because I put in so much stuff that has very little to do with phone and text game. I did this because I wanted it to be all encompassing. I hate when I buy a book and it leaves massive knowledge gaps.

I feel like most of the products on the market, with a few exceptions, are simply written with the goal of making money in mind. They are not written to truly teach. This book, as well as all of my seminars, are always born out of my love for teaching.

Here is a link to the new phone and text game book

Phone and Text Game Book Launch

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Phone and Text Game Conference Call

Braddock — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 08:38:02 +0000

Hey guys,

Tomorrow at 6pm (Pacific Time), Savoy and I are doing a conference call on Phone and Text Game. This is the last one we will do so I suggest you sign up. You can sign up here.

Phone and text game is one of the most important phases of the game. I realized this the hard way. I went out and mastered every facet of approaching women and building attraction, yet I would lose countless amazing women by making drastic mistakes with phone and text game. Sometimes I would over text or call to much. Sometimes I would try to be overly funny when I should have just chilled out and invited her over.

Phone and text game can be one of the most frustrating pieces of talking to women. You quickly realize that building attraction or even making out with a woman does not mean she will see you again. I can’t tell you how many times I went out and got 5 or more numbers in a night just to have none of them call or text me back. So frustrating.

If you are meeting more than 70% of the women you date through cold approach, then you are likely frustrated as hell by how many women you lose through phone and text. Meeting women through your social circle comes with its own set of problems, but cold approach can make you feel like you are going crazy. You have to change your mindset. While some of the mistakes are definitely yours, cold approach creates a level of flakiness that will make you feel terrible inside. You think you have a connection, just to have a women consistently go cold when you text or call.

Just like learning to build attraction is a skill set that takes time, phone and text game is a skill that takes time. The book I just wrote won’t fix you over night, but it will give you a framework to build a strong skill set from. The book is full of do’s and dont’s and examples. It will take time for you to develop a style that fits you, but the book will show you what you are doing wrong.

When you read the book, don’t read it hoping for magic lines that get the girl to come over. It’s not that kind of book. Read it hoping to make sense of the mistakes you are currently making. Look at it for places you could make changes.

Tomorrow we will answer more of your questions. I know Savoy only reserved a certain amount of spots so make sure you at least go over and reserve a spot so you can listen in.

I look forward to talking to you guys tomorrow,

Group one on one at the Playboy Mansion

Braddock — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 06:44:39 +0000

One of the most fun workshops of 2009 was helping Savoy at the fist Playboy Mansion. Seeing the Playboy Mansion is cool in its self, but from a workshop perspective it’s easily the most fun. I’ve been to a million clubs all over the world and I’ve never seen that many hot girls in one location.

Starlight is doing a group 1 on 1 at the Playboy Mansion. If you have been thinking about doing a one on one, this is probably about as good of an opportunity as you are going to come across. Another good thing about this group one on one, is that it will likely turn into an army of instructors helping you out, because everyone is dying to go to the Playboy Mansion. That’s rare for a one on one.

Don’t miss this!

-B

Love Systems Inner Game Seminar

Braddock — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 04:00:11 +0000

Inner Game

Guys,

I posted the reviews below because I want the seminar to speak for itself. The inner game seminar is the most important work of my 20’s. In concert with the developments Mr. M and I made in Social Circle Mastery, this seminar will definitely be one of the proudest achievements of my life. This seminar is full of tools that every man should know and if I ever have a son, this is exactly what I will teach him when I feel he is ready and mature enough. I will teach him what it means to be a man that naturally attracts women, stand with true unwavering confidence, and what it means to truly have self esteem.

This seminar WILL NOT “fix you.” Please do not come to my seminar hoping I will “fix you.” If you come to this seminar, come with an open mind and a willingness to make long term changes in your life. What long-term changes you will reap from this seminar are 100% up to you. I’ve done my homework, went through the trials and tribulations, and broken down, not all, but some of the most crucial inner game elements as they apply to life and dating. I have synthesized them into a seminar that can be used as a road map of work YOU can do to shorten your learning curve.

This seminar, as any seminar I teach, should be seen as a tool of mentorship. A mentor can NEVER erase the learning curve, and I in no way hope to do so. However, a mentor can and should reduce that learning curve and give you a compass pointing true North. From there it’s all about creating good habits, following the path laid before you, seeking out reference experiences, and seeking out new and greater mentors. As you can see from the guys below, when you do apply it, your daily and dating life will change dramatically.

The inner game seminar is all about showing you your blind spots. Some of which you have always been aware of, but had no idea/did not give yourself permission/did not have the leverage to change. The inner game seminar will give you awareness to certain things you may not have known were possible. I love the simple, but very deep quote, “You don’t know what you don’t know.” That quote is so very true and the exact reason we all need mentorship in different areas of our lives.

If you have always looked at life or filtered your thoughts from the same perspective, then you are missing out greatly. Having someone show you different blind spots and different perspectives can be one of the most freeing experiences of your life. I know it was and continues to be for me. For years I felt stuck in a self imposed prison I had no idea how to escape. If I would have had the mentors or the books to open the lock and show me how to walk out I would have done it. However, I had tunnel vision and saw the world as only ‘black or white.’ As a result, I couldn’t get out of my own way and become the man I was meant to be.

That’s sad, because I wasted years of my life full of anger, pain, narrow minded world views, and misguided goals. Remember, a belief is only real to the person who believes it. The fact that you choose your beliefs does not make them fact. Were your beliefs born out of your own experience? Parents conditioning? Negative experience that have caused you pain? Positive reinforcement from your peer group?

Checking where the root of your beliefs are born is the first step to mastering your Inner Game. Getting rid of beliefs that don’t serve you or even hold you back and replacing those beliefs with ones that facilitate long term over short term gain is the second step. Changing your beliefs can be a tough pill to swallow, especially if they are long held. Even worse, is when we refuse to change a belief because we are so married to it we hold it as fact, deny evidence proving the contrary, and even get a secondary gain from maintaining it even when it is holding us back. That’s a tough situation that can take months or years to unwire.

I love the quote,

“We see the world, not as it is, but as we are–or, as we are conditioned to see it.” -Stephen R. Covey

Of all the quotes I have saved in a journal over the years, this one seems to hold the most truth. As your inner game improves, you instantly start to see the world in a different light, dating in a different light, and women in general in a different light. In the last few years I find it much harder to hold a grudge, accept bad behavior, feel prolonged jealousy, maintain negative thoughts, and assume most people are bad or out to get me.

The inverse is also true. When I was at my lowest point I had a hard time not screwing things up, I constantly accepted bad behavior, was painfully jealous, held decade long grudges, pushed away good friends and mentors, constantly looped negative thoughts, violently defended my belief system, and flat out looked for conflict.

Hopefully you can see how these two distinctly different world views can play out in your dating life and important relationships. You can only fake being a happy centered guy with his shit together for so long. At some point your true self will be exposed and as Mr. M says, “If there is smoke, at some point people better be able to see the fire.”

Is it time to stop faking the smoke and truly build a fire?

Inner Game (A Kick In The Ass)

Question: How does the inner game seminar change your game?

“I have read a few reviews of the inner game seminar done by Braddock and it makes me want to save up and take it later in the year hopefully. But the reviews I have read don’t really say what has changed in their game long after the seminar. Could anyone who has taken tell how it changed their game in the months after? And also if they took a bootcamp?”

Answer: The below are responses by previous Inner Game seminar Attendants

Tigerguy,

Hey man. I took Braddock and Mr. M’s Inner Game seminar last February in NYC. The seminar is packed with useful information, and depending on where you are in your development, you will get different things out of it. However, it is also the type of seminar such that, if you take good notes, you will get things out of your notes months down the line that you didn’t even pick up on when you first attended. I also took Social Circle Mastery (highly recommended) and can say the same for that seminar.

To give you the biggest concrete example of how the seminars affected my life: over the summer, I started out in a program with 100 people my age, and we all came from different universities. It was a 2 month training program that was work-related. Applying what I learned in the inner game seminar really helped me to move along the “boyhood to manhood” continuum. I dislike using “PUA” language but since we are all familiar with it, this was a DHV in itself, which allowed me to use more effectively what I learned in the SCM seminar. Results: I knew everyone in my program by the end, people looked to me for fun (organizing social events, suggesting ideas for what to do after-hours), and (probably most important to you) I was hooking up with the hottest girl in the program for the last month of it. While I considered myself to be a social person and able to hold my own in most social interactions, I learned a lot from both seminars. And during the 2 month program, I knew what I was doing, consciously. In fact, I honestly believe that had I not taken either of these seminars, the 2 month program would have gone differently for me. I like this example because in the program everyone started out with a clean slate, ie, no one knew each other so everyone started out at level 0. So I think it is sort of like saying “holding all else constant, these seminars really do work.”

A word of advice though, the stuff you learn is really powerful and effective, but don’t put the cart before the horse. Understand that it is not a “magic bullet” or shortcut, and it requires that you have goals and a life outside of pickup. In fact, one of the things that I enjoyed most about the February Inner Game seminar was that they really stressed the fact that this whole process is about developing into your best self, ie, having goals, not seeking validation from others, being assertive (among other ideas). They call the point when you reach your best self “going supernova,” and they really gave us the tools to do that in Inner Game. SCM was like another layer to add when you have your inner game at a reasonable level. If you’ve read Stephen Covey’s the 7 habits, Inner Game is sort of like the “Private Victory” and SCM is sort of like the “Public Victory.”

Hope that helps you to make your decision.”

Mark W,

“I was also at the seminar with Braddock and MrM in New York last Feb. At the time, I had not taken a bootcamp but have since then.

When you go, make sure you take as much notes as possible. I did and have been able to refer back to them constantly. The material in the inner game seminar is unlike anything you have come across before. It draws from elements of self help, dating science and neuroscience. But the biggest and best element is the personal experience which MrM and Braddock inject to the seminar. This makes it so much more realistic and applicable. A book would not be able to communicate this in the same way.

In terms of what I got out of it at the time, was an understanding of how people fundamentally interact, how guys/girls brains work, various alpha male traits and how to assert boundaries. These were all great to learn and use in social situations but it also came into play at work and with my family.

My life has changed a lot since then. Having had time to try everything out, I can honestly say it was the most worthwhile seminar/product in this whole genre. I still refer back to my notes from here more than any other set of notes I have. The boundary function topic alone is worth the price of the seminar. To have that explained in such a way was like a chain reaction of epiphanies!

It really is hard to explain just how good this seminar is. I’ve never heard anyone say a bad word about it and you get a full refund if you don’t like it – so nothing to loose really.

Hope this helps.”

Whim,

“I took the seminar at the Superconference in Vegas this year.

Echoing what Tiger & Mark have said, it is an incredible seminar. When most people in the Community think of “inner game” they think of woo-woo new-agey exercises and “learning to appreciate” and all that jazz.

Inner Game as taught by Braddock & Mr M is *completely* different. It’s about practical, very conscious tools and structures that you can apply continuously throughout your life.

It’s basically teaching you the transition between being a boy and being a man. It’s all the stuff that your dad would have taught you if you grew up in an agrarian or feudal society. Beyond that, it teaches you character traits that Braddock and Mr M have modelled from people who are at the top of their game in life – if you’ve ever what it is that separates that top 1% of the population (in terms of women, money, success) from the rest, the seminar fills in that gap.

- Whim

The next Inner Game Seminars will be:

Los Angeles = January 28

New York City = March 18

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TSB Magazine’s Top 10 Dating Coaches of The Year

Braddock — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 03:17:24 +0000

Bobby Rio at TSB Magazine just posted a “Top 10 Dating Coaches of 2009″ list.

Check it out: “TSB’s Top 10 Dating Coaches of 2009″

If you voted for me thanks! If you DID NOT vote for me, hide your dog. I warned you I’d put him/her to sleep if you miss placed your vote… ;)

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Tiger Woods Sets The Record Straight

Braddock — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 20:50:14 +0000

I am Tiger Woods from TWoods

Flirting With Women: Push/Pull Gone Wrong

Braddock — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 05:15:02 +0000

I think you’ve been reading to much of David Deangelo’s old “cocky funny” stuff. I love that ebook, but he never really explains the other side of how this works and he never so much as flirts with how to balance it out. Almost everything you read in that book is about how to “push.”

To be good at flirting with women you must master both sides of the coin. Learning how to properly pull is at least as important as knowing how to push properly. You don’t always need to push, especially in situations like the above. Often times it is more than fine, if not necessary, to vibe with them first with several pulls or neutral comments in a row. By doing this, you are actually setting the table for multiple teases “pushes” later.

Remember, when people do not know you well, they have to take everything at face value. If you push far to hard early in the interaction, she is not going to assume, “I’ll bet he’s just a playful guy and he really is interested in getting to know me.” No, she will just take the nature of your interaction as, “Wow, I wanted to get to know this guy, he is really abrasive, I was trying to be nice, and he is saying rude shit without even trying to pull me back into the conversation to let me know he was joking or trying to make me feel like he wants to be apart of this conversation. What a dick.“

I know this can be confusing, because you hear some of your natural buddies or read some of these field reports where dating coaches are saying some really crazy stuff to women. What you aren’t noticing or they aren’t doing a very good job of conveying, is that they build up to that. Now, they may build up to it in under 30 seconds or it may take weeks before they are flirting with the woman like that, but they are in fact building up to that by pulling and vibing at intermittent variables to keep the woman from feeling prolonged negative emotions.

To facilitate this, especially in the scenario above where she approached you first, you may want to build her up with 3 or 4 light compliments or light rapport questions/statements, followed by a light tease as she feels more comfortable with you. Once you get her laughing or playing along with your teases, this is the green light you’ve been waiting for. Now you slowly amp up the teasing, while still mixing in some rapport and vibing, until you can bust on her pretty hard and she is cool with that. Now simply wash rinse repeat. Just because she is cool with you busting on her harder, does that mean you need always escalate to that next level right away? NO!! To flirt with women properly you need to work up and down the gradient. Once she is cool with you busting on her hard, take a mental not of that, but work back down the ladder teasing her on lighter things, vibe and build more rapport, then bust on her hard again.

Follow this rule especially in situations where she took the risk of approaching you. She must have thought you were attractive and that took some balls on her part to flirt with you, then you essentially told her to stick it up her ass . I know you were just playing, but it’s obvious that she didn’t.

I would like you to re read the above interaction that you had with her and this time I would like you to pretend a beautiful 10 is saying what you said and I want you to pretend you are the girl who reached out trying to flirt with this hot stranger. Now, can you see how bad that would feel? I would think she was bombing me if a girl talked to me like that. I would want to think she was teasing, but it would be hard for me not to feel like she was tooling my ass.

Just remember to build up to your teasing and even when you get them playing along, you need to cycle it between teasing, vibing, and rapport building. This is ESPECIALLY true if the woman put her guard down and came onto you. In this case reward her with at least some light rapport before amping up the hard core teasing. Early in an interaction keep the teasing general and as you get to know each other/she is receptive/she is comfortable, start getting more specific.

Don’t sweat this. Anyone who is good at flirting with women has made this exact mistake tons of times. I personally have made this exact mistake hundreds of times and still occasionally mess things up with women by pushing to hard. Oh well, this is how you learn. If you want to make an omelet, you’re going to have to crack some eggs.

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Braddock — Sat, 26 Dec 2009 07:06:51 +0000

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Dating Coach Carbeau: How to Flirt With Women

Braddock — Sat, 26 Dec 2009 03:26:07 +0000

(Above Picture is of The Don. His annual Christmas Card…It’s weird, I know, but at least he’s festive)

Carbeau’s Detailed Field Report

This is a post from one of our newest instructors “Carbeau.” He is an ex student of mine and an amazing guy in general and he he definitely knows how to flirt with women. I have learned as much about life and how to carry yourself from him as he has learned from me about game. He has traveled the world, lived in multiple countries, speaks several languages, and is a graduate from one of the most prestigious universities in the world. I pushed hard to get this guy on board, not that it took much lobbying once Savoy and the team met him, and I’m really glad to have him on board. If his schedule permits I plan on having him help me on several bootcamps in the near future.

Welcome to the Team Carbeau!

If you are a new guy and you need to go read a recent post by Carbeau. This field report includes multiple elements of the emotional progression model and walk you step by step through the entire process. Because so much of the dating literature is written by guys trying to make themselves look cool, you often read field reports that are over exaggerated and far from how ‘MOST’ situations go down. My favorite dating coach TD says, “The truth is cold approach is sloppy. Really sloppy.” I couldn’t agree more. While you will have some situations where you meet a woman, everything falls into place, and you didn’t have to account for many variables, these situations are the exception, not the rule. Only in social circle game will you be able to consistently make things happen with a limited amount of road blocks. Even in social circle settings you will find that dating the hottest women will be full of highs, lows, and tons of pain in the ass logistical nightmares you will have to account for.

People assume that dating coaches go out and everything always falls in place. That’s just not the case. They might be more aware of how to deal with these situations, but that does not change the fact that they still happen. This post is a great example of how game often goes. “You’ve got em….no you don’t…..Now you’ve got em!!!!….no you don’t…..She’s off the map…..Now she’s back!!!” This is the nature of dating in general. It just goes to show you, as Carbeau addresses, the importance of chasing multiple leads at once and building a life style that you are passionate about outside of women. Without that, Carbeau would not have been able to make this happen because knowing how to flirt with women isn’t always enough.

Being as I’m constantly PREACHING and BEGGING guys to focus on building a lifestyle that naturally creates gravity that draws men and women into your life, I especially appreciate this post. I love how he pulls her into events that are already occurring in his life. He already has a rich social circle, he already has fun activities and groups he’s apart of. When the time is right he pulls her into these events and shows her sides of him without him having to pretend or make up some fake story about how cool he is. As she gets to know him more and more, the cool layers of his life slowly get pulled back one piece at a time, painting a really cool picture of who he is.

This is also a great example of why I urge guys to work cold approach and social circle mastery in concert. Of course it’s important that you know how to flirt with women, but you want to use cold approach to meet new girls and use your existing social circle to help you leverage it. This post is a great example of blending the two worlds. Social circle allows you to use passive attraction to slowly build attraction that you would other wise have to force.

Here is the link to dating coach Carbeau’s field report: Carbeau’s Field Report

Merry Christmas readers,

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Braddock — Fri, 25 Dec 2009 07:49:12 +0000

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Bonsai On How To Pickup A Stripper

Braddock — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 17:52:43 +0000

Bonsai has written a new post on his blog on how to pickup a stripper. This is an awesome post because he is giving away a free downloadable pdf on stripper game. This pdf is awesome. The pdf is a mind map of how stripper game works and the natural flow and progressions you need to go through to maximize your chances of landing a stripper. I highly suggest you print this off for quick reference and simply for helping you conceptualize the map of what it takes to properly pickup strippers.

If you have spent any time talking to dancers you quickly realize it’s a whole different ballgame than approaching women in any other situation. Not only is it the ultimate hired gun, who is truly focused on trying to make money, you are also dealing with a completely unique psychological archetype. While there are different kinds of strippers, in general they all share a similar head space and similar belief systems. If you are not aware of how their mind works and you attempt to treat them like a normal girl in a club you will find yourself frustrated again and again. However, once you get the basic structure that we cover in the Strippers and Hired Guns seminar, you realize that they are almost easier than girls in a bar or club. They are approaching you, already in a sexual state, and often bored as hell. You have a platform to talk her ear off and if you know what to say, you are good to go.

Love Systems dating coach Bonsai has been working hard to map out the process of picking up strippers and how to best overcome the obstacles associated with meeting these women. If you are a member of the lounge you can login and hear some infield audio of Bonsai picking up strippers.

Phone and Text Game Book Launch

Braddock — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 04:10:14 +0000

We have finally finished the phone and text game book and it will be released in 28 days! To be exact it will be released at 8:59am PST on Thursday, January 21, 2010. We have decided that the first 1,000 people to buy the book will be given 3 Bonus eBooks, over four hours of audio discussion, and more!

If you would like to make sure you are first on the list to be informed of updates and to be reminded when the countdown clock gets close to zero, sign up for the Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game priority list now!

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News you can use tonight?

Let me give you something awesome you can start doing tonight to help you reduce flaky numbers and cut your workload in half. Remember, the goal of phone and text game is simply to get her comfortable enough to meet you again. There are a million things you “can” do with the phone, but they are simply bonus points. Getting her on a date or getting her to come to your house is the only goal that really matters.

One of the biggest mistakes guy make is that they treat the phone number like it’s a hostage and they are a Navy Seal trying to extract it. They come in, talk to the woman just long enough to peak her interest, ask her for the phone number and move on right after typing it in their phone. This is a sure fire way to guarantee you have a flaky number at best. She probably won’t even answer calls or return your texts.

I won’t get into why this causes flakes right now, the book covers this in great detail, I just want to give you a way around it.

Tonight after you take a woman’s phone number put your phone back in your pocket and stay there and keep talking to her. Wait a minute or two, then take your phone out as if you are checking the time or you just received a text message. The woman won’t question it, just keep talking. Then send her a text message, don’t tell her of course, put your phone back in your pocket and keep talking.

What do you send her?

This will depend on how far along you are with that particular woman. The more physical we have been with one another, the more edgy I would be. If it was flirty, but it wasn’t that on yet I would keep it slightly teasing and flirtatious.

Example: (Light flirting) (The woman was wearing a blue dress and at some point in the conversation she told me she was from San Diego)

Braddock: “This cute girl from San Diego in a sexy blue dress won’t stop flirting with me. What should I do? :) -Braddock”

She’s going to check her phone expecting it to be from someone else. When she notices that it’s you, she will almost always smile and text you back. Now, you two are having a normal conversation verbally, but flirting with each other and role playing through text all while you are standing within 2 feet of each other.

By the time you guys leave the venue you will have a text chain of 5 maybe even 10 texts already rolling. The next day when you go to text her it’s not just some mystery number, it’s a continuation of the text message chain from the night before. She is 100 times more likely to respond to you then some guy who took her number, walked off right after, and then text her out the blue from a number she doesn’t recognize.

This is such a powerful tool. Try it out tonight.

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How to Flirt With Women: The Art of Push/Pull:

Braddock — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 09:30:23 +0000

In my years of being a Dating Coach it’s become apparent that the most important and easiest way to flirt with women is to use what is called Push/Pull.

Basic Definition: “Saying something nice and dove tailing it with something mean or saying something mean and dove tailing it with something nice.”

On a more advanced level flirting using push/pull is the art of using both your physical touch/facial expressions and your words in unison. This could mean that you tease her about something or playfully call her out on something, yet while doing so you are smiling, you pull her in and hug her just before she gets mad to show her you are kidding. The guys I know who are the best with women when it comes to flirting, building attraction in the first encounter, building attraction in social circle settings, or maintaining a fun relationship are masters of push/pull.

To truly master push/pull you must learn to calibrate to the woman. Each woman has her own default push/pull blueprint. Some girls blueprint is that they respond best when the ratio is 5 pushes to every 1 pull. With these type of women, they will quickly get bored with a guy who tries to compliment “pull” to often. Even with these women, the pull must appear at some point or she will give up and lose interest assuming you are just a jerk.

Other girls default blueprint is just the opposite. If you want to properly flirt with these women, you will be best off giving light compliments “pulling” maybe 5 times for every one tease “push.”

However, even though each woman has her own default blueprint for when she first meets new guys, this blueprint can quickly change relative to your value. That same woman who would have felt massive attraction to a 5 pushes to 1 pull ratio, will not be receptive to a low value guy attempting such a ratio. However, the woman who responds better to 5 pulls and 1 push and would normally get upset if the average guy teased her to much, will have no problem being teased hard by a guy who she considers extremely high value in her social circle or a celebrity.

Basic Example of Push/Pull:

The Push: (In Orange)

The Pull: (In Green)

I meet a girl, we are flirting, but 10 minutes in I find out she is from Texas. Since I’m originally from Oklahoma. There is a natural reason for immediate push/pull.

Braddock: “Damn, your from Texas. (Faking disappointment with face and body language) This sucks, you’re really cute and I was just starting to like you, but now I have to break up with you. I’m going to need my CD’s back and my letter jacket. Now that I know you are from Texas, I don’t feel so bad about cheating on you. But, you were amazing in bed. This makes me sad.” (Pretend to walk away, then come back smiling. She drops her jaw and playfully punches me in the arm. I pull her in, hug her and kiss her on the cheek).

Breakdown of The Above:

The Push? (In Orange) Any point in the above where I’m saying something mean, pretend to break up with her, pretend to be disapointed, or fake walking away.

Go out and practice pushing as hard as you can without pissing girls off. The sweet spot is when she is almost mad, but you can tell she likes that you have the balls to push her buttons, yet the social savvy to release the tension by intermittently complimenting or physically being warm “pulling.” Go out for a week and mess this up. I give you permission to piss some girls off. This is the only way you will know what the boundary is with this stuff. The more she likes you and the more attracted she is, the harder you can push. This is how you build deep layers of attraction with women. The farther you can successfully take things with the teasing “pushing” the better it will feel for her when you do release the tension by being warm verbally or physically, “pulling.”

The Pull? (In Green) Any point in the above where I compliment her, smile, or physically escalate. When you are trying to flirt with women, don’t kill the sexual tension by over pulling.

Most guys will say, “Just kidding” when the girl wasn’t even mad. Save comments like “just kidding” for when you truly piss her off and even then, use it sparingly. Also, don’t kill sexual tension by playfully pushing, but laughing at your own joke to early in an attempt to break the tension, hoping she will ‘be ok with it.’ Have some balls and be ok with creating some tension. This tension is what makes the compliments “the pull” actually feel really good. No tension + pulling = no attraction and no secondary gain of the pull feeling good. Pulling with no attraction, is simply validating her, not causing a connection.

Go out and practice complimenting. Range them and see what happens. Notice the difference when you give light compliments after several teases. Notice that it doesn’t kill the tension, but actually allows you to push it farther. Then try over complimenting to early and being way to nice and notice how it kills the sexual tension and makes it even harder to push the next time.

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How To Get The Most Out Of A Love Systems Bootcamp

Braddock — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 11:13:08 +0000

1. Attitude:

As a dating coach there are two types of attitudes that I see on my bootcamps:

a). The guy that shows up with the attitude of, “Give me the tools so I can go home and fix myself.” I would say that 70% of the guys I see show up with this attitude. The guys I love to help and the guys that get the most out of bootcamp are the one’s that show up with an excited enthusiasm about the weekend.

These guys energize the group at night and make it a lot of fun to teach. These guys make tons of growth over the weekend and the absorb so much more because of their willingness to give me a clean slate an try ANYTHING I ask them to. These guys get their monies worth and set themselves up for long term success after the bootcamp. These guys are the one’s that will stay with it and fight through the highs and lows because they have the right mindset.

b). The guy who shows up with the attitude of, “Fix me. I paid for this so YOU would fix me. If I don’t change this weekend, it’s because you didn’t fix me, not because of me.“ These guys are a FUCKING NIGHTMARE! These guys either won’t try what you ask them to, make pussy ass excuses for why it wouldn’t work for them, and/or they spend 80% of the weekend trying to punch holes in what is going on and 20% of their time actually trying it. They don’t get much out of the weekend because they have massive blind spots and won’t get out of their own way and surrender to the process.

No matter what you say they have an excuse for why that doesn’t really apply to them. They refuse to take 100% accountability for their actions and as a result they have created an invisible prison they refuse to walk out of. These guys frustrate me the most because you can see that with just a slight shift in mindset and a little less ego, the bootcamp could completely shatter their world view and change their dating life. They will try one or two approaches and if it doesn’t go PERFECT, they use that as evidence to reinforce their negative perspective.

(Be guy A)

2. Read Magic Bullets At Least Once:

Reading Magic Bullets before attending a bootcamp will help your mind not feel so overwhelmed. We go much deeper and specific in bootcamp and if every concept is completely new it can feel a little overwhelming. Many guys liken bootcamp seminar portion to trying to drink from a fire hydrant. You will have some very deep concepts thrown at you and it’s nice if you are least familiar with them on a basic level. A lot of guys take a bootcamp without reading Magic Bullets, so it’s not the end of the world if you haven’t, you’ll just find your hand hurting from taking so many notes. (You’ll probably feel like this anyway)

3. Take It Easy On The Pickup Literature:

A lot of guys come to our love systems bootcamps having read every ebook and having watched every dvd ever made. While I do suggest you read Magic Bullets and the Classic Writings section of the attraction forums, I suggest you limit it to not much more than that leading up to your bootcamp. The information overload creates massive gaps in your learning and causes your brain to lockup with you are actually talking to women. In the last few years of being a dating coach I’ve noticed that the guys who need a bootcamp more than anyone and who simultaneously struggle the most are the guys who have overloaded their mind with way to much info without enough action.

These guys will show up in seminar and say stuff like, “Well, are you sure that’s how you should do that? Style says that you should X in that situation. David Deangelo says that you should Y.” or “Don’t you need a neg calibrator if you are going to give a statement of interest.” O MY GOD!!!! No wonder you are locking up in set. Your mind is full of way to much trash. You will learn more in the first hour of the infield portion of your bootcamp than you will learn by reading 600 ebooks of theory. I would argue that most ebooks are worthless UNTIL you have enough approaches under your belt to truly know what the author is really talking about.

Get the basics down of Magic Bullets, understand the general idea and flow of The Emotional Progression Model, understand what the Triad Model is trying to do, memorize an opener or two, and have a few transitions in your pocket….that’s it. From there, trust in what I’m saying and go out and get reference experiences that night to help you really internalize how and why each concept works. Don’t be a nerd who argues about which pickup guru has the best theory without even trying it. That is a pussy thing to do. This is about getting better at communicating with women and you only get better at that by doing it.

The students who struggle the most, besides the “fix me” guys, are the ones that spend half the seminar trying to impress you on all the pickup literature they’ve read. I honestly could care less if you’ve read every ebook and watched every DVD ever made. I just want to you get better with women. If Ross Jeffries DVD on how to anchor her to a sugar packet works so well, then why are you sitting in my seminar room?

Reciting information from different products during the seminar only knocks me out of rhythm of what I’m trying to teach and annoys the other students who paid a lot of money to learn from Love Systems. Again, if that stuff was so great and so helpful then you wouldn’t be sitting in my seminar.

Throw all that stuff out for 3 days. I’m not saying it’s not valid or that everything love systems teaches is the be all end all. I am saying that dabbling all over that map leads you to confusion and stress. Picking a system and really applying it through trial and error is the only way to reach mastery. Did you really pay $3,000 dollars to argue with me about if Style or Swinggcat has a different take on a situation than what I teach?!?!?

4. Completely Surrender For 3 Days:

Love Systems did not become the biggest and best dating science company on planet earth on accident. It was born out of results. We take this job very serious and are extremely professional. We have helped countless men from ALL walks of life, all over the world. You can not begin to imagine the wide range of guys I’ve seen on bootcamp. I’ve had male models, handicapped guys, ex professional athletes, a 61 year old men, tons of 50 something year old men, 18 year olds, Fortune 500 executives, countless doctors, lawyers, construction workers, self proclaimed computer nerds, stereotypical cool kids, frat guys, and even 1 lesbian. I can assure you that your situation, no matter where your coming from, I’ve seen it before and helped a guy just like you get better with women.

That being said, do yourself a favor and show up with the mindset, “I’m going to do anything this guy say no matter how outside of my comfort zone it is. I will not question it or filter it through what I would normally do. If what I normally did worked, I wouldn’t be here so I’ll give this guy a shot. Hell, it’s only 3 days, why not? If I do what I’ve always done, I’ll get what I’ve always gotten.”

Give me a clean slate. As my good friend and fellow love systems dating coach Mr. M says, “Let me own who you are and how you think for 3 days and I’ll change your life.”

5. Know What You Are Looking For:

Are you looking to find your dream girl? Are you looking to pull more ass than a hamstring? Are you looking to date more women and become more social? Are you looking for nothing but one night stands? Are you looking for a potential wife?

Most guys are looking for a combo of several or all of these and that’s why the love systems bootcamp is set up like it is. We teach you in a manner that will allow you to facilitate any of those options. I’ll show you how to get to certain way points that will allow you to steer the interaction to whatever desired outcome you are looking for.

That being said, the guys who get the most out of bootcamp are the guys who know what they are looking for. If you are looking to sleep with 1,000 girls you will want to present yourself drastically different from a guy who is looking for dates and potential girlfriends. If you are looking for a girlfriend it is detrimental to run the same style of game as a guy who is screening for one night stands.

Knowing what you are looking for will drastically help me and the other instructors cultivate a style that is specific to you.

6. Do Some Inner Game Work Before You Show Up:

Taking my Inner Game seminar or at minimum reading some of the books I’ve recommended will help you drastically. I wish more guys would spend their time reading inner game material and less time reading pickup related material. It would help them profoundly. The cleaner you feel on the inside, the better women will respond to you and the faster you will bounce back emotionally when you do inevitably get rejected.

My seminar does take a stab at inner game concepts on day one and I will destroy your approach anxiety, but inner game is such a deep topic it’s an insult to pretend to do it justice in a small section of a seminar. Bootcamp in and of itself can have a profound effect on your inner game because you will walk away from there with a swagger and confidence that you may have never felt, however the more of your basic issues you have mopped up before showing up to boocamp, the more you will get out of the experience.

7. Make it easy on your instructor team:

One of the quickest ways to throw your instructor team into a bad head space and to guarantee that they do weird or below average demos is to put them on the spot about it. I only bring guys on my workshops who are willing to do demos, but that being said it’s weird if you grab the instructor and say, “I want to see you get her.” This usually ends badly, because it puts the instructor in a weird head space. ALL THE INSTRUCTORS ON MY BOOTCAMPS DO DEMOS! That being said, if you want to see some amazing stuff happen, let the guys warm up and hit their stride organically. The instructors are just normal guys like you. They need to warm up and get relaxed and build some momentum. On all of my bootcamps I make my students go warm up the first 30 minutes or so and I also ask my junior instructors to do the same.

I’ve seen a lot of amazing dating coaches wash out because the students made them uncomfortable by putting them under the microscope to hard. If you really want to learn and see something amazing, just leave them alone about the demos and let them happen as the night progresses.

You can also make it easier on yourself and the instructor team by being extremely proactive. Savoy makes us keep a 3:1 student to instructor ration. After years of doing these, this is right at the perfect amount. On some of my bootcamps I am lucky enough to have a 2:1 ratio just to make sure we have plenty of eyes on students. That being said, the club scene is very disassociative and hectic. Be proactive and always make sure an instructor is watching you. We are there for you and want to make sure you have a life changing weekend. Don’t hide in the corner or go off in some weird upstairs room away from everyone and then wonder why nobody was watching you. Go have fun and get in the zone, but if you look up and feel like it’s been a while since you’ve seen an instructor, go find one and ask him to come watch you. I promise you, he’ll be glad you told him. If you feel like the instructors are doing to many demos, feel free to pull them away from the girl and ask them to come help you. They will be more than glad to come help you right then.

8. No game talk in the club:

The worst thing you can do in a club is stand in the corner talking theory. You just spent 5 hours talking theory in seminar. The night portion of the Love Systems bootcamp is all about action. Even when you get blown out, don’t run back to the instructor right then waiting for a 20 minute explanation of what you did wrong. Keep moving. Keep approaching, having fun, and starting conversations. Unless you are doing something glaringly wrong, the instructor team won’t have much feedback on a set that lasted 30 seconds. They will have advice as they watch you over the course of the night.

On my bootcamps I tell the junior instructors that they can talk to you about your last set for no more than 2 minutes and then, no more game talk. I take notes about each student in my phone and the instructor team discusses each student before class the next day. We will give on the fly corrections and quick tips right there on the spot, but we will not stand in the corner and discuss the pros and cons of neg theory or if we think Style is better than Tyler Durden in field. ACTION ACTION ACTION BABY!!! Do a bunch of approaches and get a bunch of reference experiences so you will have some REAL questions for class the next day, not theory questions that amount to nothing.

That’s all the time we have today folks. Remember, kids in the dark make accidents, accidents in the dark make kids.