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Comment on Porn Addiction by George Bhuoy

George Bhuoy — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 10:36:23 +0000

Indeed those are such strong points and statements. Just right to the spot. Splendidly discussed and empowered pieces of advice. Calling someone for a distraction can also be a very effective approach towards overcoming such addiction. Well your determination is undoubtedly moving. Don’t get up, you’ll get through it.

Comment on A father’s liturgy of the hours by USDA Prime

USDA Prime — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:31:14 +0000

What a great idea. That way you can integrate prayer throughout your work day and intercede for others.

Comment on Porn Addiction by Derek Perlow

Derek Perlow — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:24:24 +0000

Alcoholism, or alcohol addiction, is a progressive disease. You grow more dependent on alcohol by imbibing it. It gradually modifies a chemical balance in the mind. Gamma-amino butyric acid is a naturally-occurring brain chemical which commands inhibitions. Anyone who’s ever been drunk has experienced the outcome of the lessening in levels of GABA because of alcohol, which goes away as you become sober once more. Continued consumption of alcohol could permanently decrease the levels of this substance, leading to more alcohol use, leading to possible alcoholism.

Comment on Introducing “Father to Father” by Nod

Nod — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 11:53:05 +0000

“Father to Father” – I like it. Thanks for taking this on. Don’t forget the Pope has a YouTube channel!

Comment on Introducing “Father to Father” by Defend Us In Battle

Defend Us In Battle — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 18:14:18 +0000

What a great focus! Look forward to reading your posts!

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Comment on Taking daughter to church by myself by John Kasaian

John Kasaian — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 23:34:09 +0000

Ben there, done that Sir!
In fact my parish still remembers me as the usher who was shadowed by his little daughter during collection (she didn’t want to be left alone in the pews.)
After many prayers my bride eventually joined us on Sundays.

Keep the Faith and stay strong.

Comment on Taking daughter to church by myself by Jason Gennaro

Jason Gennaro — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 17:56:24 +0000

Lots of good advice above.

I would also do two things:

1. Ask God to let you love your wife the way He loves her. Make this your prayer. Your love will move her heart.

2. Pray with her. Ask her to join you in morning or night prayer. Nothing big or liturgically fancy. But shared prayer connects you in a way few other things can.

I will definitely pray for you.

Comment on Who do you love more: your wife or your kids? by Jason Gennaro

Jason Gennaro — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 17:30:43 +0000

Great responses! I really like Tim’s quote from the wise nun. I plan to use that in future conversations. I think Tony’s observation may prove prescient for many.

Comment on Things A Man Should Be Able To Do by Jason Gennaro

Jason Gennaro — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 17:23:23 +0000

I always think these lists are too long to be helpful.

I do, however, like the opening two “things”: forgive your parents and ask them to forgive you. Very important. And best to be done as soon as possible.

I would simplify and suggest that, in addition to the first two, a man should be able to

1. supply the essentials (food and shelter) for his wife and kids, in whatever manner is appropriate. This could include hunting, fishing, and building something to live in. It could also include working at a mid-size computer company for a decent wage.

2. learn whatever is necessary to supply said essentials. Easy as pie in the age of the Internet and Google.

3. sacrifice – for his God, his wife, and his kids.

BTW: I disagree with #9 – innocently flirt with a woman twice his age. Truth be told, there is no innocent flirting. It’s either lying or worse, thinly veiled truth.