Elizabeth Cady Stanton (1815-1902)

Staton was one of the leading ladies in the early woman’s movement and the primary author of the Declaration of Rights and Sentiments, a document that was based off the Declaration of Independence and is credited with starting the first organized woman’s rights movements in the United States. The document was presented at the Seneca Falls Convention in 1848 and created a foundation for achieving the civil, social, political and religious rights of women. Stanton’s stance was much wider than just women’s suffrage and included the need for many social and economic rights.

Lucretia Mott (1793-1880)

Mott is one of the first American feminist and, along with Elizabeth Cady Stanton, organized the first Women’s Rights Convention at Seneca Falls. She also assisted with writing the Declaration of Rights and Sentiments. After the Civil War ended, Mott was elected as the first president of the American Equal Rights Association.

Lucy Stone (1818-1893)

Stone became one of the first American women to receive a college degree when she graduated from Oberlin College in 1847 and is most recognized for her help in organizing the first National Women’s Rights Convention and creating the Woman’s National Loyal League and the American Woman Suffrage Association. Thanks to her influence and motivating speeches, Susan B. Anthony joined the women’s suffrage movement. Stone also made waves in the water by becoming the first woman to keep her own name after marriage.

Susan B. Anthony (1820-1906)

Thanks to her pivotal role in the women’s rights movement and women’s suffrage movement, Anthony became the first woman to be depicted on a United States coin. After meeting with Elizabeth Cady Stanton, the two formed an amazing friendship and partnership. With Cady being married with children, Anthony took on the role of organizer and traveler, delivering 75 to 100 speeches per year for 45 years.

She helped found both the American Equal Rights Association and the National Woman Suffrage Association. In 1872, Anthony cast a test vote in the presidential election, claiming that the Constitution already allowed women to vote. She was found guilty and was told to pay a fine, yet she refused. Later in life, she collaborated with many great feminists of the time to write The History of Woman Suffrage.

Alice Paul (1885-1977)

Along with her esteemed friend Lucy Burns, the two became known as the Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Susan B. Anthony of the next generation of suffragists. After withdrawing from the National American Woman Suffrage Association, she helped form the Congressional Union for Woman Suffrage, which eventually became National Woman’s Party in 1917. Paul is most strongly known for her militant ways and her hunger strikes, depicted in the now-famous film, Iron Jawed Angels.

Lucy Burns (1879-1966)

While Alice Paul was compared to the active Susan B. Anthony, Lucy Burns became the Elizabeth Cady Stanton of the next generation, always the more diplomatic one. Nevertheless, after arrested for picketing the White House, Burns, Paul and many others were arrested and sent to jail. During their time in jail, they participated in numerous hunger strikes.

Of all the suffragists, Lucy Burns spent the most time in jail and is said to have had five people to hold her down. Thanks to her, Paul and countless others, women received the right to vote on August 18, 1920, when the Nineteenth Amendment was ratified.

These women are just a few of the women that gave women of the United States our freedom and independence. However, countless other women dedicated their lives for the liberties we have today.

While celebrating Independence Day, after taking time to thank our Founding Fathers, the men and women who were and are in the military, take a moment to thank the women who gave you the opportunity to stand up, make a change and vote. Be proud to be a female citizen of the United States of America.

Cassandra Zink graduated from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill with a degree in Journalism and Mass Communication. She is in love with all things media, has an addiction with iced green tea with mint, loves going to the beach and hopes to travel the world one day.

Not all of us are privileged enough to go to the larger celebrations that are held across the country each year. We’re forced to make do with block parties and local fireworks displays, though some may argue that these are the best sorts of celebrations, as you are close to your dearest family and friends, the people that matter the most to you.

However, if you should find yourself near one of these cities on July 4th, the spectacles they have to offer are well worth the visit, for they guarantee a day that you will never forget.

New York City

New York City has always been the leader when it comes to holiday celebrations, and Macy’s is usually at the forefront. The large department store chain perhaps outdoes itself with its fireworks display on the 4th of July.

The fireworks are shot off from barges in the Hudson as the New York Pops performs. As the sparkling lights crescendo over the Statue of Liberty, you are sure to feel the most convincing sense of patriotism you have ever experienced. There are also several concerts and contests throughout Central Park and the rest of the city for all ages and tastes that are sure to keep you busy and entertained all day.

Philadelphia

While New York is known for its celebrations, Philadelphia is famous for being the birthplace of America. What better place to celebrate Independence Day than in the city that boasts such monumentally important sites as the Liberty Bell, Independence Hall, and Betsey Ross’s house?

The Sunoco Welcome America! Festival, which runs from the end of June to July 5th, prides itself on being the largest independence celebration in the nation. There are contests, dances, free concerts (this year’s features Sheryl Crow) and a marvelous parade to mark the most important day in our nation’s history.

Their fireworks display is one that you must see during your lifetime, as it is over the top, extravagant, and an appropriate celebration of the men that changed this country.

Washington D.C.

If you’re looking for a July 4th full of history, there may be no place more natural to celebrate in than Washington D.C. The nation’s capital boasts a giant Independence Day parade along Constitution Avenue, complete with over 3000 performers, dancers, floats and other memorabilia marking the 13 original colonies.

The Smithsonian Festival of American Folklife runs parallel to the celebrations and provides historical fun for people of all ages.  The National Symphony Orchestra also performs, concluding with a bang as fireworks erupt over the Washington Monument. The National Archives also offers various dramatic readings of some of the nation’s most important documents, which is sure to get your patriotic juices going!

Houston

You may be looking for a celebration that has a bit more southern flair, in which case you should head down to Houston, where the Freedom Over Texas celebration will be in full swing at Eleanor Tinsley Park.

The crowd will proudly inform you that it is Houston who has the largest land-based fireworks display in the country (New York City’s is water-based). This year’s fireworks display will be accompanied by a concert from country star Clay Walker, and there will also be memorabilia celebrating NASA’s accomplishments. And in the south, you’re more than guaranteed to get plenty of toe-tappin’ country music and tasty barbeque with your celebrations and fireworks.

Pasadena (Los Angeles), Calif.

Waiting right outside of Los Angeles is the quaint city of Pasadena, in which the famed Rose Bowl sits. Each July, the Rose Bowl sheds it’s football gear and hosts Americafest, an all-out celebration of America’s Independence as only Californians know how to do it.

There will be plenty of fun, games and activities, as well as music by various performers, including Drum Corps International. There will also be a presentation of the armed forces, including a military fly over. The fireworks show is said to be the best in Southern California and one of the best in the country, as the fireworks are intricately tied to specific choreography. If there’s one thing that Californians know how to do, it’s how to put on a extravagant show. This is surely a celebration not to be missed.

If you desire a big bash full of blazing fireworks, hot food, cool drinks, and tons of fantastic music, then these cities may be just what you’re looking for. Don’t worry if you can’t make it to these sites or any of the other big cities though. There’s always a chance for a road trip or vacation to one of these spots next summer!

Wherever you are, no matter how large or small your celebration is, whether you only have sparklers or a full set of fireworks, make sure to have as much fun as possible. Gather your friends and neighbors for a pot-luck party, watch the nearby fireworks display or the ones on TV, and celebrate your country, a country that is truly a place of opportunity, in which people are considered equal and are allowed to live their lives the way they see fit. The chance to have this kind of ultimate summer party won’t come again for another 364 days!

Kate Oncken is a graduate student at the University of Southern California in the Professional Writing department. She hopes to one day write a novel, own an estate in England, and travel the world.

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What with all this celebration you may need a guide to help you find the appropriate music and movies to set the mood for your holiday. Here are a few of my picks for essential July 4th tunes and flicks.

Patriotic Tracks

“America (F*** Yeah)”- Team America

This song may be completely inappropriate and crude but it definitely declares your American pride. It is completely ignorant and politically incorrect but it is all in good fun and who really takes a bunch of puppets seriously?

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“Independence Day”- Martina McBride

So this one may be pretty obvious, but it is a great song. Not only does it tie in the actual holiday, but McBride sends a powerful message about domestic abuse. The music video is one of the most influential of its time and it is the most empowering 4th of July song on my list.

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“Star Spangled Banner”- Jimi Hendrix

Not only is this the best version of “The Star Spangled Banner” you will ever hear, the performance by Hendrix in the final set of Woodstock is one of the most iconic moments in music history.

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“Born in the U.S.A.”- Bruce Springsteen

Springsteen had to appear somewhere on this list as he is “The Boss.” This song exemplifies the working American man and just gives you a warm, fuzzy feeling when you hear it.

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“Living In America”- James Brown

You might remember this one from Rocky IV when Brown sang the song before Apollo Creed enters the ring. Not only is this song a great dance tune but it’s also a great road trip song so if you are traveling this July 4 include this on the iPod.

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Red, White and Blue Films

Rocky

It doesn’t get much more American than Rocky. The lovable Philly boy Rocky Balboa boxed his way into America’s hearts in 1976. The final fight against Apollo Creed takes place on the 4th of July and when Rocky takes the crown, Americans everywhere rejoiced.

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Independence Day

You know this classic had to show up on the list for obvious reasons. It’s the only movie with the holiday in the title, but it is also a tribute to the summer blockbuster movie which usually accompanies 4^th of July weekend. Although the world is basically coming to an end, we all enjoyed the sarcastic banter of Will Smith and Jeff Goldblum as they saved the world from some pretty pissed off aliens.

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A League of Their Own

The first ladies taking the baseball field is a pretty historic moment and although this movie doesn’t take place on Independence Day it is still a great film to watch to remember what freedom means. Not to mention it’s funny. You also have iconic women like Madonna and Rosie O’Donnell bringing the characters to life and Penny Marshall as director.

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All the President’s Men

As a journalist I couldn’t leave this one off the list. This film honors the work of Carl Bernstein and Bob Woodward. These are the two men who uncovered the Watergate scandal and created a new level of journalism for all of us to follow. What’s more patriotic than making sure our government is doing its job for its citizens?

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Public Enemies

This is the summer blockbuster coming to your theater this year. The film stars Johnny Depp as John Dillinger, a bank robber in the 1930s. The film isn’t necessarily about July 4^th but it does tell the story of some historical moments in the United States so that makes it a legit choice for our list. If you can’t find any other plans for your 4^th of July festivities take a trip back in time at the movies before the fire works.

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Lindsay Craven is a 2008 graduate of Appalachian State University, is addicted to watching movies, and hopes to live and write in New York City one day.

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We can commit to a certain brand or logo. While I was playing basketball in high school, I only wore Converse sneakers. It is a brand that pales in comparison to Nike, and it represents an old school trend I failed to bring back. But I loved being different and, at times, standing out for my shoes instead of my skills. I once wore yellow and purple sneaks with my school’s green uniform for an entire season. I looked like a Leprechaun wearing oversized clown shoes.

Com-mit-ment. We can even spell the treacherous word as it morphs from committing to commit to committed. The m’s and t’s seem to appear and disappear like fireflies on a warm summer night.

But commitment to a person. Commitment to a woman. This is when the word becomes difficult for males. All of a sudden, we forget what the word’s definition was in the first place. 

Commitment to a woman is different than to a team or specific brand. Committing to Converse or the New York Mets involves a one-way street. Sure, I can commit myself to the Mets. But will it really matter if I don’t watch two or three games in a row? Will their general manager call me and ask why I haven’t been wearing my Met shoelaces around town? Will Converse call and ask why I chose to wear sandals to the beach instead of their basketball shoes?

Commitment to another person is indeed the ultimate form of the word. In my opinion, a full commitment to a woman means living together, eating dinners together and planning a future together. That is why many men are so terrified, especially when they’re young. 

I’m 22 and really can’t see myself committing to anybody at this point in my life. I’m worried about myself, my career and having a good time while I’m in my early adulthood. 

If I were in a relationship right now, I would need space. I feel that some independence is key at any age and in any relationship, but especially when couples are very young. Men still enjoy going out to the local bar to watch the big game with friends. College reunions with old buddies at the casino or at a campground for the weekend are essential to fulfilling that much needed man time away from home. 

If your boyfriend wants to venture on these solo excursions, you shouldn’t stop him. Trust that he will behave himself. You are both still young and can enjoy things that are important to only you.

It is fine to have this distance at the outset of a relationship. The couple should still be trying to find out who they are as individuals and pursuing interests in separate areas. A full commitment that involves living together and planning a future as one unit shouldn’t happen until after both people have found their own, personal niches. 

On the other hand, I know many college friends who are moving in together with their girlfriends. I commend their decisions and the ability to find love at such an early age. I just believe myself to be far too young for this type of commitment. I feel like I have more things to experience and many more interesting people to meet.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that full commitment to a woman occurs at different times for different men. Some are ready very early on, but many may wait years until they settle down.

But if you’re in your 20s and you and your boyfriend of two or three years are still not living together, and he seems fidgety and nervous when you mention the word commitment or future: Be careful. 

These words are probably on his mind as well, but if he hears them too often, he may be scared off. When he has his own path set, he will be happy to let you know that he is ready.

But if he takes too long and jogs around town wearing 1999 Mike Piazza Met jerseys and purple and yellow Converse sneakers, he may never grow up. Sadly, you may have to move on.

Matthew Monagan is a recent graduate from Fordham University. He majored in communications and media studies and minored in psychology. He also wrote for Fordham’s official newspaper and an online publication called The Rose Hill magazine. Soon he will be fleeing to the Far East to teach English in South Korea. Don’t worry - he doesn’t plan on crossing the DMZ line to do any investigative reporting.

Unemployment is a huge one to look out for though as it can disrupt the very thing you do most with your other half - spending time with them. Without a job, time becomes a big deal. You either have too much of it or you have way too much of it and your partner needs a little less of you in their life. With a job, life is scheduled neatly and planned accordingly. Without one, it can throw many things into the air and a relationship can consequently suffer.

Many of you might be saying, “That wouldn’t happen to us, we love spending time with each other.”

Well, ladies, there are other ways to obliterate a relationship cursed with unemployment. Some are more obvious than others, but let’s try to avoid the following regardless.

Don’t Find Him a Job

If an opportunity pops up, maybe consider telling him, but the keyword is consider.  The other one is maybe. Many times, the guy will think it’s pity and a little patronizing. You could be implying that he’s not capable of finding a job himself. It’s great to be helpful, but know when not to be also.

Don’t Hug Him

It’s fine. People are jobless all the time, especially now that it’s trendy. This isn’t the end of the world so you don’t have to hold them extra at night or tell them “You’re gonna get through this.” Because, girls, they will get through it, but if you keep doing that, they’re going to get through it without you.

Don’t Call Daddy

Nepotism is great, but most men do not want to say “I got this job because I date the boss’s daughter.” This is sorta a spin-off from the first one, but it needed special attention.

Don’t Tweet About It

It’s his news and if he wants to share it, that’s up to him. Don’t assume he wants to keep it a secret either, that could bug him as well. Let him take the lead and support where it goes.

Don’t Offer Charity

Here’s a tricky one. If he normally pays for dinner, that doesn’t have to change. His balance isn’t at zero all of sudden and, if it is, there’s always Mastercard. Depending on what you two normally do with the money thang, assume it to stay the same. If you pay, keep paying. If you share, keep sharing.  If he pays, take advantage cause you could be in the same situation a few months down the line.

Zachary Robert is a graduate of Pace University. He studied Writing and Fine Art and currently resides, writes, and skips in New York.

Photo by Taryn Multack. Multack is a recent graduate from Syracuse University looking to pursue a career in art, design and photo. She can’t live without her vintage shoes, chocolate soup, and Friends DVD’s.

Try their first single off the band’s self-titled album: “Ain’t No Rest For The Wicked.” This crazy, rock-n-roll story song is heavy, fun, and not a little jaded. It’s a great beat for getting through the day.

Another track that’s getting much press is the rhythm laden “In One Ear,” where the band talks about getting told to get out of the music business– something that they pay no mind. This song is funky with all kinds of attitude, much like the band’s overall flavor.

Also try “Back Stabbin’ Betty,” a song about a woman who trashes every man she meets, perhaps something of which we’re all guilty after that nasty break-up….

Overall Cage the Elephant is just plain good music; save it for the times when jamming in the car and going out are top on the list. Sharp guitar, funny and frank lyrics, and catchy beats makes this band one to watch.

Victoria Meade is a senior English major at Appalachian State University. She loves Old Hollywood and spends too much money on clothes. She hopes to grow up to be Princess Jasmine from Aladdin.

Photo courtesy of Cage the Elephant’s MySpace page.

Yet, it didn’t feel right. I hadn’t paid for any of those things. They weren’t mine. They were things I was borrowing, things lent to me by a man who could afford them: my dad.

We know we have our whole life to work, yet we still need and want to. We long for the day we can call something our own, the day we can wake up in a place we’re paying for.

Despite rust, cabinet stains and chipped tile, we’re paying for it and we’re making it- on own our. Though we can’t even afford a YMCA membership, pinch pennies at the grocery store and hesitantly join friends for a pricy Friday night movie, we’re taking care of ourselves.

Isn’t that what every college student wants after walking across that big stage and receiving that simple piece of paper that claims we’re somehow “qualified” for the real world?

Especially in this day and age, many of us face a difficult reality after four wonderful years of independence, a state I like to call joblessness. We might have done all the right things- kept the grades, got involved, paid our dues- but it seems we have nothing to show for it but some measly pictures in an oversized drape and funny-looking hat. We’re smart, well-rounded, and socially engaging, yet it seems no one is willing to give us a shot. 

For those of us who are lucky enough to have helpful parents or ones that can at least still afford us after 22 or so years, we return to the family life. I’m one of them. Still, I took a nine hour haul home, forced to plant myself in a little Ohio town very unlike what I had grown accustomed to.

And despite my utter lack of excitement, there’s hope beyond the horizon for me and for anyone in a career slump.

I’ve learned there’s some key measures we must take, crucial for living comfortably with your parental figures or relatives temporarily. The situation calls for a complete lifestyle makeover, one that probably won’t live up to your post-college expectations. Little things, seemingly trivial to the family, will get on your nerves.

How about the way you never seem to be “in” on the plans and everyone proceeds with their schedule without including you? Or the way one meal, the one you’ve been assigned to clean up, can trash a whole kitchen? Or the way your older sibling or siblings seems to have it all worked out: the husband, the house, the pet, the well-paid position? Do any of these sound at all familiar? Practice patience, now. Your time will come.

Here are some tips on how to alleviate the stress:

Remember You

Take time for yourself, even without your friends. The key is to remain independent. Don’t lock yourself in your room like a hermit, but set aside time to conduct your job search, read a book, take a nap, do something out on the town or go to the gym.

You’ve just spent four years of your life living without your family, maybe even hours and hours away, and now you see them everyday. Regardless of your tendency towards extroversion or introversion, you’ve grown accustomed to much more time alone. And when you finally obtain true “independence,” you might not have the luxury of familiar faces.

Pitch In

Another element of home life, though it might be difficult, is to gracefully help out when needed or asked. Some college students might return home to a highly separated household where everyone’s on their own time schedule, but some of us must integrate into everyday family life.

That means doing dishes, cleaning house, helping the parents cart the siblings around or being home for dinner. C’mon, people. Free food?

You’d have to be crazy not to work your schedule around that type of offer. If you parents are generous enough to let you live at home, you should be generous long enough to show some gratitude.

Keep Busy

I’ve realized, after many trips home, that when you sleep in till 10 a.m., sit around and watch television and mindlessly search the Internet for job openings whenever you “get around to it” during that day, the mind is never productive.

Stay active. The quicker you motivate yourself, the quicker you’ll obtain your goal. Maybe give yourself a few days to regroup, but don’t dilly-dally for weeks on end staring at the wall.

Get into a regular schedule, a daily rhythm that will guide you through each weekday while you’re jobless, just as if you were taking classes again.

Make a list of a few things you need to complete on a daily basis, and decide on the order and time at which you’ll do them. Go to bed at a reasonable hour, preparing for that impending eight to five. You’ll find your attention span improving, and frustration levels will be lower with yourself and with your family.

Another helpful distraction, a form of “jobless therapy,” you might say, is getting involved in your community or town if you haven’t already. Develop your passions and feel productive in the process.  You might even discover a different calling; the wait will be over.

Save Up

And sadly, money doesn’t grow on trees these days. The meager “loot” you might have acquired from graduation quickly dwindles, so consider part-time work to earn some back or keep yourself occupied. Believe me, the idea of going back to retail after college was no walk in the park in my mind, but consider some type of experience that may bolster your degree in the meantime while the job market’s still in the toilet.

Use the part-time to your advantage; think outside the box, and don’t be afraid to ask employers questions or offer your skills even if the hiring sign isn’t up in the window. You never know who might be willing to take you in as an intern, even in these hard times.

It’s persistence and a sincere interest that’ll put you in that next job. And that’s not easy for an unemployed person like me to say, either. So as I listen to my own advice…

Give yourself a purpose- a reason to wake up in the morning and start your day with an open heart and mind, a reason to put on that light makeup, rock your wardrobe and look your very best. If you haven’t already, don’t wait another day. Time is of the essence, and everyone has a calling in life. Even if you haven’t found it- it’s out there somewhere, waiting patiently for you.

Kristin Larmore, a recent journalism graduate of Appalachian State University, loves playing old classics on the piano, is an avid rollercoaster fan and wants to learn how to make a mean pastry.

Photo by Sara Rosenblum. Sara will enter her junior year at Columbia College in Chicago in the fall where she is studying art and photography. She has been passionate about photography since a young age and won a Gold Key for her photography portfolio in high school. In her spare time Sara enjoys playing soccer, exploring new places, and cooking. Sara can be reached at sarajill@gmail.com.

The Acid-Wash Tee

This trend is huge for summer because of its distressed and comfortable look and feel.  Celebrities like Ashley Olsen and Kate Bosworth love the look, but acid-washed tees from companies like American Apparel cost a little more than the average college girl has to spend on a simple shirt.

You will need:

A colored t-shirt, a small tub, table salt, sandpaper

How to do it:

1. Fill a basin or tub with 8 cups of water and 2 cups of salt
2. Soak the tee in the mixture for three days
3. Squeeze all of the water out of the shirt and rub with sandpaper where desired
4. Dry in the sun
5. Wash and wear!

Bleached Denim

This trend is really popular among fashion bloggers at the moment, as well as stores like Diesel and Urban Outfitters. The result is completely customizable because you decide where the white will appear.

You will need:

A pair of denim cutoffs or jeans, a spray bottle, bleach.

How to do it:

1. Lay your denim in a tub or somewhere bleach-safe
2. Mix three parts water and one part bleach in the spray bottle
3. Spray the denim wherever you’d like the stains to appear
4. Watch the color for no more than ten minutes, deciding when it is to your liking
5. Wash the denim immediately by itself or other bleached projects
6. Remember that it will wash lighter than it appears, so take it out of the tub when the stains are just a shade darker than you’d like

Ruffled Heels

The Christian Louboutin petal sandal is way out of budget for most girls, but if you’ve already got some out-dated strappy heels, you won’t need much to mimic the designer’s creation.

You will need:

Old strappy heels, sheer black fabric, 6-8″ black ribbon, black sewing thread, a needle, sticky Velcro, scissors, a ruler

How to do it:

1. Cut small leaf shaped pieces out of the black fabric. (You’ll neat a bunch!)
2. Measure out the black ribbon and cut it, leaving some extra inches for folding
3. Stitch a bunch on leaves up and down the ribbon to your liking
4. Measure out and press Velcro onto the back of the ribbon. Add a few stitches just to make sure it all stays in place
5. Place a tiny bit of the opposing side of the Velcro to the shoes, stick the petal ribbon on and strut your stuff!

The Updated Blazer

This one is super easy to do, but drastically changes the look of a plain old blazer.  If you don’t have one already, try buying a little boy’s style blazer from a thrift shop or cheap store like Walmart in navy or black.

You will need:

A blazer, large vintage brass buttons or unique brass buttons from a fabric store, a needle, thread that matches your blazer, scissors

How to do it:

1. Carefully cut off all the buttons that exist on the blazer
2. Hold the new brass button over the old stitch.  Loop the thread threw the button hole a few times, stitching it close to the new blazer
3. Cut off all extra thread and make sure the buttons are tight and secure
4. To really update the blazer, add some metal studs to the pocket or to a few inches on the bottom hem. Studding is one of model Erin Wasson’s favorite looks!

Knowing fashion trends doesn’t necessarily mean breaking open the piggy-bank. As long as you try and imitate them at their highest form, your personal creations will hit a beautifully wearable mark. 

Johnie Emma Gall is a senior majoring in journalism at Penn State University, Main Campus. When she isn’t writing for Foam Magazine, Tonic News or Chickspeak, she’s hunting around on eBay for Alexander Wang jackets and vintage bags. Photo also by Johnie Gall.

As ladies ourselves, we have firsthand knowledge to the obsessions of the female world. While some of our picks aren’t new, they are products, brands, books or groups that have gained our seal of approval through careful (and sassy) research.

Each month, the ChickSpeak team picks our top obsessions for the month. If you have any obsessions, we want to know, so speak up chicks! E-mail us at chickspeak.editor@gmail.com. 

Fabulous Reads

Handle with Care by Jodi Picoult
“I am completely obsessed with every book Picoult has written. Including this book, there are twists at the turn of every page; it leaves you hooked, wanting to know more about her characters.” - Paula Spiletycz, ChickSpeak Travel & Women’s Safety Writer

When You Are Engulfed In Flamesby David Sedaris
“Sedaris has a way of taking the most mundane experience and turning it into a side-splittingly funny moment. This collection of essays is a hilarious and quick read for the summer months.”- Lindsay Craven, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

Beautiful Bodies by Laura Shaine Cunningham

“With such ease, Cunningham leads you through the lives of a group of friends on one blistery cold winter’s night in New York City. Each woman is going through a different experience in her life, but somehow, they all end up together. Cunningham’s use of language and beautiful, captivating writing makes the book easy to read -on the beach, at the gym or right before bedtime. Don’t miss it!” -Lindsay A. Tigar, ChickSpeak Editor-at-Large

500 Cupcakes Cookbook

“It’s a fantastic resource for cupcake and muffin recipes. The best part is variations on the basic recipes to create endless possibilities. Everyone loves what I’d made.” -Tracy Yen, ChickSpeak Monthly Writer

Empowering Music, Movies & Workouts

innerpartysystem 

“I can’t get enough of innerpartysystem, a techno-rock band that’s breaking onto the scene.  All of their songs are so unique and
amazingly catchy….once you put the album on you won’t be listening to anything else for a long time.  Plus, their music video of Don’t Stop has been circulating on MTV lately!” -Johnie Gall, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

The Nova Echo

“I’m totally obsessed with this band right now. They are a local band to Asheville, N.C., but have successfully broken out of the grunge and blue grass mode and into a new electronica feel. They are growing in their popularity nationwide and will be playing at their second Twilight convention this September!  -Lauren Jaimson, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

It’s Blitz, The Yeah, Yeah, Yeahs 

“The Yeah, Yeah, Yeahs’ third album is set to permanent repeat on my iPod. Singer Karen O’s unique voice, combined with the group’s new wave rock vibe, provides my getting ready, road-trip, and working-out anthems.” -Kathryn Smith, ChickSpeak Food & Fetes and Tech Trends Writer 

Corey Smith

“Out of all the other country singers I like, I listen to Corey Smith the most because he’s original. His music is lighthearted, funny and young adults can relate to a lot of the lyrics.” -Kristin Larmore, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

Phoenix
“Originating from France, this alternative rock band is gaining more and more popularity. Check out their latest CD, Wolfgang Amadeus Phoenix, that was released in May. My favorite track that I can easily listen to on repeat is ‘Lasso.’” -Kelly Seeger, ChickSpeak Greek Life Writer

EA Sports Active game for Nintendo Wii

“With a tiny learning curve, this game kicks your butt in a good way. Between cardio, upper, lower and sports activities, there is plenty to choose from to keep excited and ‘feel the burn’ with a supportive cheerleader/trainer.” -Tracy Yen, ChickSpeak Monthly Writer

Easy, Breezy and Beautiful Makeup & Body Products

Urban Decay Pocket Rocket Gloss in Sheer True Red 

“This punchy, yet sheer, red gloss leaves the perfect hint of shiny color on your lips - perfect for those not quite brave enough to pull off bold colors. The spicy and fun packaging doesn’t hurt either!” -Kathryn Smith, ChickSpeak Food & Fetes and Tech Trends Writer

Guerlain KissKiss Extreme in Mauve Rose 

“At one of my internships, I was constantly surrounded by beauty products and out of all the ones I fell in love with, this lipstick stole my heart forever. It goes on easy, looks flawless, and while it is $30, it will last you a good three months. It’s worth the money to feel this kissable!” -Lindsay Tigar, ChickSpeak Editor-at-Large

Skintimate Moisturizing Cream Shave 

“I’m so in love with Skintimate’s new Moisturizing Cream Shave in the extra gentle formula that I have five bottles hid beneath my sink. My legs have never felt this smooth and I swear they already feel lotioned once I step out of the tub and dry off…add in that intoxicating scent of ‘soothing petals’ and I am officially addicted.” -Jessy Garrett, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

Benefit’s High Beam 

“You know that gorgeous glow you get after a good romp with your boy? Want that look continuously without having to depend on a man?  Well, with BeneFit’s igh Beam, you can have that dazzling radiance all day long, making a ruddy or dry complexion glimmer perfectly and giving you a flirtatious edge.” -Jessy Garrett, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

L’Oreal’s Wear Infinite Eye Shadow Quads 

 ”When it comes to applying eye make-up, I am a miserable failure, but thanks to L’Oreal’s Wear Infinite Eye Shadow Quads, I always have a professional make-up artist in my corner. The quads tell you which shade goes where on your eye to make a beautiful and artistic impact; a product that is both easy to use and makes me look stunning? Sign me up!” -Jessy Garrett, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

MAC Lustreglass in Instant Gold 

“This is my go-to lip gloss for every occasion! I love the ‘Instant Gold’ shade because leaves my lips with a beautiful, yet subtle shine, and it doesn’t leave a heavy layer of gloss on them.” -Cassandra Zink, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer and Social Media Manager 

Prescriptives Flawless Face Primer 

“I love this primer because it goes on lightly and makes my skin look so smooth and even. It also helps my makeup stay on for hours with very little retouching” - Cassandra Zink, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer and Social Media Manager

mark I-Mark Custom Pick Eye Shadow

“This shadow glides on effortlessly and gives color and depth to your eyelids in one amazingly simple swoop.  Available in luxurious hues like Glitterati, Ocean Drive and Luvstruck and priced to sell at $4.50 each, there is no disputing how much these little palettes of color really are worth.” -Charissa Arsaoui, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

MAC False Eyelashes #7 

“They are cheap, re-usable (so somewhat earth friendly), easy to apply, and very natural looking!” -Kim Kuykendall, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

i.d. bareMinerals Starter Kit

“Switching from my old concealer/powder combination to Bare Escentuals has seriously saved my skin. Within just two weeks of using the products, I’ve noticed clearer, healthier looking skin! And even better, I don’t have to touch up throughout the day! The makeup is so light, yet stays put, so that my skin looks flawless from dawn till dusk.” -Kate Ocknen, ChickSpeak Beauty & Style and Travel Writer

Sephora’s Color Play Palette

“Great deal for $22 on tons of choices for eyes, lips, blush and a bronzer. It’s a perfect palette of colors for a night out or serious meeting. Grab it if you can, this kit sells out quickly.” -Tracy Yen, ChickSpeak Monthly Writer

MAC Cosmetic Powder Blush in Mocha

“I rarely go anywhere without wearing this blush. A few strokes on each cheek and its subtle rosiness awakens me- even on my dreariest days.”- Amaris Castillo, ChickSpeak Greek Life Writer

Burt’s Bees Lemon Butter Cuticle Cream

“I’ve used Burt’s Bees Lemon Butter Cuticle Cream for years now, and I’m convinced there is no better cream to heal those nasty, dry cuticles.” -Fatima Meadows, ChickSpeak Mind & Body and Be Inspired Writer

Noodle & Boo’s Glowology Line Lovely Body Lotion for Sensitive Skin

“Noodle & Boo is famous for their baby care products, however, their Glowology line is made for women who want soft, touchable skin…just like a baby! This lotion smells great, doesn’t break you out and leaves you feeling incredibly feminie.” -Lindsay Tigar, ChickSpeak Editor-at-Large

Skintimate Moisturizing Cream Shave 

“I’m so in love with Skintimate’s new Moisturizing Cream Shave in the extra gentle formula that I have five bottles hid beneath my sink. My legs have never felt this smooth and I swear they already feel lotioned once I step out of the tub and dry off…add in that intoxicating scent of ‘soothing petals’ and I am officially addicted.” -Jessy Garrett, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

Clinique Dramatically Different Moisturizing Lotion

This one is a definite keeper. This face moisturizer is the only one I’ll probably ever use. Morning, noon, and night it goes on silky and smooth after you wash your face, not too heavy and not too light. It leaves you with a luxurious feeling and lasts for over a year!” -Victoria Meade, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

Garnier Daily Exfoliating Gel Cleanser

“I learned about this product from my aesthetician who swears by the Garneir line of face care products. It’s especially great for the summer because it gives you a nice, cool feeling after you exfoliate.” -Lindsay Craven, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

Coppertone® Gradual Tan Continuous Spray

“I love being tan but hate the sun damaging effects. So I use Coppertone Gradual Tan Continuous Spray . It sprays on evenly, and gradually builds into a natural looking tan.” -Fatima Meadows, ChickSpeak Mind & Body and Be Inspired Writer 

Flowing & Fun Locks

Sun In

“It can be expensive trying to get natural looking highlights, but with Sun In it doesn’t have to be. All you have to do is spray it on your hair, comb it through, then go out in the sun!” -Fatima Meadows, ChickSpeak Mind & Body and Be Inspired Writer

Sunsilk’s Captivating Curls Collection

For us curly chicks, finding the perfect hair product is always a challenge. I could probably pay for college in the amount of products I’ve bought hoping this one would de-friz without making my hair greasy or dry or actually not curly at all. I am completely in love with Sunsilk’s Captivating Curls collection, available at any drug store for a completely reasonable price. For once, a product celebrates and works for curly hair! Though I use the whole line, my favorite is the mouse, which perks up flat hair in less than thirty seconds.” -Allison Casey, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer 

Clothes & Accessories that Pop

Old Navy’s Women’s New Flip-Flops

“Not only have they updated their look, but these flip-flops are nothing short of comfortable. They’re my most dependable (and cheapest) pair of flip-flops.” - Paula Spiletycz, ChickSpeak Travel & Women’s Safety Writer
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Truly Madly Deeply Duet Bird Tank at Urban Outfitters 

“This cute graphic tank is the perfect summer staple. Pair it with gladiator sandals, shorts or leggings, or just wear alone as a beach cover up to achieve that rocker vibe.” -Kathryn Smith, ChickSpeak Food & Fetes and Tech Trends Writer 

L.L. Bean Monogrammed Tote Bag
“I’ve been travelling nonstop this summer and my faithful monogrammed tote bag has been my GO-TO item this season.  It comes in a variety of colors, sizes, and you can go monogram-crazy!  If you don’t already have one (or three) get thee to an L.L. Bean pronto!” -Donna Choi, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

Food for the Soul

Quaker Peanut Butter Drizzle Mini Delights

“These delicious little snacks only pack 90 calories apiece. It’s a great between-meal snack that won’t ruin your lunch or dinner but is still kind to your waistline.” -Lindsay Craven ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

Emerald Cocoa Roast Almonds- Dark Chocolate flavor   

“With all the hype about the health benefits of almonds, you can’t go wrong with these. Plus, they have a light sprinkling of cocoa instead of that heavy chocolate, so a handful never seems enough. I’m addicted!” -Kristin Larmore, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer

Twinings of London Green Tea with Mint 

“This is the perfect drink for a summer afternoon when you serve it iced. Not only is it absolutely delicious, but according to the Journal of Nutrition, the catechins in green tea boost your energy and decrease body fat.” - Cassandra Zink, ChickSpeak Contributing Writer and Social Media Manager 

Flax Seed
“Flax seed is the latest incorporation to nearly all of my meals. This is an easy, tasty way to add Omega 3 fatty acids into your diet. Simply sprinkle a few tablespoons into your cereal, salad, or smoothie and voila!” -Kelly Seeger, ChickSpeak Greek Life Writer

What I noticed most about shopping for my dorm room five years ago was that many stores such as JCPenny’s, Macy’s and even Target loved to flash bright colored accessories.

We think to ourselves “Oh my God we need that!” when in all actuality most of these things they display you will never need nor use! I can’t tell you all of the pointless stuff I bought that I barely put to work. Oh if I could turn back time.

To pin point, all you truly need to worry about buying is bedding. Aside from that, the television and DVD can be divided between you and your roommate and your creativity can be used in all other areas.

So are you reading this going “Only bedding? I want my dorm to be super cute!”?

Would you believe it if I told you with just an ounce of creativity you can find things laying around your house or even cheaply used on Craigslist to get that room you so desire?

I noticed that before I went to college I bought many unnecessary desk accessories. Did I really need that light up Corona bottle cap from Spencer’s that cost $29.99? Or those glow-in-the-dark martini glasses that hung alongside my computer? Here are some tips to get that dream dorm room priced next to nothing or rather cheaply:

Be Creative

As I walked into my suite, I noticed how bare and cement the walls were. Not only did I feel like I was in a prison, but I started to freak out knowing that in order to shape the place up, I’d have to spend.

But my mind stepped in and so did the numerous magazines that lay around my room.  Each and every night my suitemates and I would cut out really cool pictures and stories from our Vogue, Rolling Stone and Cosmopolitan magazines.

By the end of the week we had dressed our suite room from floor to ceiling in magazine cut outs. People would walk by our room and compliment how awesome it looked from the outside. As for my room, I realized that with some tape and construction paper, I could make trendy picture frames. With all of the collages I made, I was able to dress up my room with just the purchase of a few items from Staples. This website is similar to what my friends and I did; they used postcards.

College Store / Board

Yes when it comes to clothes, our universities love to run out our wallets. BUT if you look closely, college stores have clearance racks just like the mall. From cheap posters to throw blankets, the college campus store can have a lot of great finds. You just have to be patient in order to find the most necessary of items. Looking for a cheap fridge or lamp? Keep an eye out on the college board.

So many people tend to want to get rid of their items upon moving out or simply selling for a few extra bucks. And even if you can’t find that specific item, put up a notice explaining what you need. You’d be surprised to know how many people will see it and consider getting in touch with you. You could even check out the campus recycling facility if yours has one. A few universities accept and redistribute almost anything used that students and faculty are trying to rid of. That old curtain could be your newest addition.

Craigslist and FreeCycle

Just like the college board, Craigslist and FreeCycle virtually have everything you’re looking for. With millions of users, you could find everything from bedding to microwaves to that weird multicolor rug you’ve been trying to find. Not only do they have the essentials, but even the weird accessories for decent prices. You could stumble upon something unexpected just by visiting these two eccentric sites.

Of course shops like Wal-Mart and Target are great places to find cheap bedding and the essentials. I’ll still stand by my Target as my favorite place to shop for living essentials. Sure they tend to display unnecessary items, but if you’re able to separate the needs from the wants, Target is the place to go to get exactly what you need.

Either way, chicks, we all know how smart you are and with the right mindset that dream dorm is only a few steps away-with minimal spending.

Chantal Waldholz is a 2008 journalism and English graduate from New York University who hopes to one day write for a major entertainment magazine or network.  She has a weakness for pricey shoes and secretly adores her guilty pleasures-gossip and reality shows.

Photo by Rachel Noel. Rachel can be reached a noelra@appstate.edu.