Child-Centered Divorce

How to Rebuild Your Self Esteem After Divorce

Rosalind Sedacca — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 01:55:00 +0000

Divorce can be devastating on many levels. In addition to the financial and stress toll on both partners, it can easily wreak havoc on one’s self-esteem. Even those who initiate the divorce process can experience tremendous emotional turmoil resulting in guilt, anxiety and insecurity. Those who were not expecting or in any way desiring the [...]

Public Divorce: Jon & Kate – Stop Before It’s Too Late!

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 15:46:49 +0000

So much is being written about the Jon and Kate divorce, it may be overkill by now. But the lessons learned from airing dirty laundry in public, especially when that laundry is related to a divorce between two parents, can’t be overstated! The media is not the place for two caring parents to discuss any aspect [...]

A Smart Parenting Plan Your Best Asset when Parenting After Divorce

Rosalind Sedacca — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 13:30:12 +0000

By Rosalind Sedacca, CCT Parenting plans are becoming more and more recognized as the way for both parents to coordinate their parenting, their lives and their relationship with their children after divorce. In its simplest form a parenting plan puts in writing the agreed upon schedule both parents have created regarding most all parenting arrangements. It outlines [...]

How to Boost Parent/Child Communication After Your Divorce

Rosalind Sedacca — Mon, 21 Sep 2009 00:35:44 +0000

It’s no secret that one of the biggest challenges a parent faces after divorce is staying in good communication with your children. Obviously all parents struggle with communication issues as their children grow, but children who have had their lives dramatically altered by separation or divorce need even more attention – and diligent observation by [...]

Marriage, Divorce and the Economy: No Excuse for Irresponsible Parenting

Rosalind Sedacca — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 20:26:55 +0000

Is our down-turned economy having an effect on divorce in the United States and other nations around the world? While it’s too early for statistical evidence, reports from marriage counselors and divorce attorneys around the globe are in agreement. They’re finding many couples who were ready to call it quits are postponing the divorce decision [...]

Make Smart Choices for Co-Parenting Success After Divorce

Rosalind Sedacca — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 16:20:17 +0000

Co-parenting success is all about making smart choices and avoiding putting one another on the defensive. Here are some wise suggestions for parenting successfully after divorce.

Five Ways to Keep Connected with Your Kids after Divorce

Rosalind Sedacca — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 15:45:00 +0000

After a divorce, it's so important for you to strengthen your bond with your children during this time of transition – whether you are living with them or apart. Here's how ...

Consistent Co-parenting Makes Life Easier for Children after Divorce

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 22:41:04 +0000

Parenting after divorce takes patience, cooperation and collaboration. It’s not uncommon for one parent to notice behavior differences in their children when they return from a stay with their other parent. This can be extremely frustrating or irritating, especially if your values and parenting style doesn’t match that of your former spouse. What can you do [...]

Divorcing Parents: Don’t Bring Your Battles to Court

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 12:50:41 +0000

You’re getting divorced and you’re angry, resentful, hurt, vindictive or any combination of other painful emotions. You want to lash out, to get back at your spouse or boost your own sense of esteem. Hiring the most aggressive litigious divorce lawyer you can find seems like your smartest choice. Your ex is in for a [...]

National Child-Centered Divorce Month Provided Resources to Families in Need

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 21:34:27 +0000

It was a valuable month of insights and education for the parents who participated in the activities presented during National Child-Centered Divorce Month in July. Parents were invited to receive a host of useful free gifts from divorce experts throughout North America. The gifts included complimentary coaching sessions, ebooks on topics related to divorce and families, [...]

Natl Child-Centered Divorce Month features free teleseminars and gifts for parents!

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 21 Jun 2009 19:35:29 +0000

In recogniton of National Child-Centered Divorce Month parents can get access to free telesemianrs and complimentary gifts from divorce experts nation-wide.

Joining forces to bring Natl Child-Centered Divorce Month into national focus!

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 31 May 2009 20:21:31 +0000

The third annual recognition of National Child-Centered Divorce Month will take place throughout July across the United States. Everyone who plays a part in the divorce world – including therapists, attorneys, mediators, financial planners, coaches, educators, clergy and others – are encouraged to participate. Divorced parents are also invited to get their message [...]

The 9 Biggest Mistakes in Post-Divorce Parenting!

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 17 May 2009 17:16:24 +0000

Some parents think once they are divorced and most of the decisions have been made, the worst is behind them. Unfortunately, parenting after divorce is a week by week experience. Your success depends on the decisions you make, your attitude toward your situation and your compassion for your innocent children. You may have heard it [...]

Dads and Step-Dads: Keeping it all in Perspective

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 19 Apr 2009 22:04:56 +0000

Being a divorced Dad can be one of the most frustrating experiences any parent will ever face. For many it seems like a can’t-win situation. You find that you’re constantly trying to prove yourself – to your ex, to the children, and often to a Step-Dad дивани who has moved into the picture. If [...]

A Warning for Divorced Parents with Teens: Keep Dads Actively Parenting

Rosalind Sedacca — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 13:48:09 +0000

>online casino I have several divorced friends and colleagues with teenagers who are displaying disturbing behavior problems. These teens, especially the boys, are acting out in all the ways parents pray they never have to experience: drugs, hanging with the wrong crowd, school problems, disrespectful and inconsiderate behavior — you get the idea. While each of [...]

When Children Parent their Parents — a Divorce Disaster

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 17:38:11 +0000

Divorce is tough enough. When children try to protect their parents from its consequences, the parenting is moving backwards and the results are devastating. Always be careful of what you share with your children regarding your own emotional state during and after your divorce. It can create enormous confusion for your children, along with guilt, [...]

Coping with Co-Parenting Challenges Can be Challenging

Rosalind Sedacca — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 21:10:10 +0000

By Rosalind Sedacca, CCT Frequently, I am asked “What is the key to successful co-parenting after divorce?” While there is no simple answer to that, I believe most professionals will agree the smartest strategy is learning how to remove anger, hostility or vindictiveness from your interactions with your former spouse. We all know that’s not always easy [...]

New Group Coaching Tele-Program Beginning Soon

Rosalind Sedacca — Mon, 29 Dec 2008 20:13:50 +0000

Just two spots remaining for Rosalind Sedacca’s new 2009 Child-Centered Divorce Group Coaching Program Response to my new Child-Centered Divorce Group Coaching Program has been amazing. I’m busily planning the two groups now and have some additional bonuses on tap for each of our participants! However, there are only two spots remaining for Group 1: Getting Off [...]

Author, Rosalind Sedacca, wins 2008 Victorious Woman Award!

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 17:03:54 +0000

Rosalind Sedacca, CCT, was announced the first place inner of the 2008 Victorious Woman Award. The international competition was created by Annmarie Kelly, author of Victorious Woman! Shaping Life’s Challenges into Personal Victories. A panel of judges made the winning selections. Sedacca is recognized as The Voice of Child-Centered Divorce and is the author of [...]

A Plea to Divorced Parents: Be Honest With Yourself!

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 12 Oct 2008 17:29:57 +0000

South African Wellness Counselor, Nadia Thonnard of Inner Minds Counseling, is a strong proponent of child-centered divorce. She brings great sensitivity to this issue because she not only provides counseling services to clients, she has experienced the sting of divorce in her own life. Her advice to others comes from personal experience as well as [...]

Depression and Divorce – Helping Your Children Cope With Both

Rosalind Sedacca — Fri, 12 Sep 2008 19:34:28 +0000

>ландшафтrce has many effects on children. No two children will react in exactly the same way. That’s why parents need to be diligent about watching for signs and indications that your child may be having problems coping with their new reality. Depression is one of the more common reactions we see in children of divorce. Unfortunately, [...]

A Happy Ending After One of Life’s Greatest Challenges!

Rosalind Sedacca — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:21:33 +0000

I’m buzzing with excitement to share with you that I recently returned from my son’s wedding. Every detail was so wonderful and beautiful and I am filled with a knowing that happy endings are indeed possible for children of divorce. My message today is to remind you that the challenges we face as we parent after [...]

Announcing the First Annual Celebrity Co-Parent Award During National Child-Centered Divorce Month

Rosalind Sedacca — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 18:52:18 +0000

Cynthia Tiano, Esq., reformed “killer” divorce attorney turned mediator and creator of the Celebrity Co-Parent Awards, and Rosalind Sedacca, CCT, founder of National Child-Centered Divorce Month in July, have announced the contenders for the first ever Celebrity Co-Parent Awards, which were created to catch celebrity co-parents in the act of doing something right. The criteria for [...]

July is National Child-Centered Divorce Month – bringing attention to children’s emotional needs when parents divorce or separate

Rosalind Sedacca — Wed, 11 Jun 2008 15:45:38 +0000

The second annual recognition of National Child-Centered Divorce Month will take place throughout July across the United States. Professionals who deal with divorce issues — therapists, attorneys, mediators, coaches, educators, clergy and others – will be joining forces to share valuable parenting messages. One of the most significant is: Don’t Make Your Child a Pawn [...]

Successful Divorce Showcase June 8th in Boca Raton, FL

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 11 May 2008 16:47:30 +0000

Divorce is a serious life-altering experience – with consequences that make headlines every day. That’s why the 14th Annual South Florida Singles’ Lifestyle Expo is expanding to include Florida’s first Successful Divorce Showcase.???????? ????? ???????? The Expo will take place on Sunday, June 8th at the Embassy Suites Hotel in Boca Raton, FL. “Separating, divorcing [...]

Depression and Divorce – Helping Your Children Cope With Both

Rosalind Sedacca — Fri, 18 Apr 2008 19:54:17 +0000

Divorce has many effects on children. No two children will react in exactly the same way. That’s why parents need to be diligent about watching for signs and indications that your child may be having problems coping with their new reality. Depression is one of the more common reactions we see in children of divorce. Unfortunately, [...]

Coping with Co-Parenting Challenges Can Be Challenging

Rosalind Sedacca — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 01:24:56 +0000

Frequently, I am asked “What is the key to successful co-parenting after divorce?” While there is no simple answer to that, I believe most professionals will agree the smartest strategy is learning how to remove anger, hostility or vindictiveness from your interactions with your former spouse. We all know that’s not always easy to do. However, [...]

Conflicting Lifestyles Create Conflicts for Divorced Parents

Rosalind Sedacca — Tue, 18 Mar 2008 15:56:07 +0000

I am one of the Expert Contributors to ParentalWisdom.com, a wonderful website where parents can ask questions and more than one professional related to that subject matter will provide an answer. The advantage is that you get three, four or more responses from different experts so you can determine for yourself which answers best suit [...]

U.S.’ largest Divorce Party in So FL March 7 will be great fun!

Rosalind Sedacca — Fri, 22 Feb 2008 01:55:48 +0000

Prizes, surprises, mingling and more for those moving on! Ft. Lauderdale, FL …After suffering through a nasty divorce battle, Christina Rowe was emotionally drained. When the divorce papers were finally signed, Christina felt like celebrating. She had heard about divorce parties, but never got the chance to throw herself one. When she met Rosalind Sedacca, a [...]

The Opportunity of Valentines Day — even for the divorced!

Rosalind Sedacca — Fri, 08 Feb 2008 21:22:36 +0000

The Opportunity of Valentine’s Day With Valentine’s Day a big part of this month, I’m sharing with you commentary written by my friend Lisheyna S. Hurvitz M.A. Ed., a licensed mental health counselor in private practice in Boca Raton, FL. Every February we get reminded that Valentine’s Day is close by which means love [...]

New Year … New Surge of Divorces. How Will Your Children Be Affected?

Rosalind Sedacca — Sat, 19 Jan 2008 23:34:19 +0000

Statistics bear it out. Every January the number of couples filing for divorce rises dramatically. And this year the numbers seem to be even higher. When you think about it, the reason comes as no surprise. Many couples considering splitting decide to wait until after the holidays to break the news to their children. Others [...]

Child Centered Divorce Blog Carnival 1st Edition!

Rosalind Sedacca — Fri, 04 Jan 2008 20:54:22 +0000

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A Divorce Disaster Sure to Alienate Your Children

Rosalind Sedacca — Wed, 02 Jan 2008 01:17:14 +0000

Parental Alienation – when one or both divorcing parents attempts to negatively influence their children about the other parent — is one of the most terrible outcomes of a divorce gone bad. It’s a difficult and complex subject, but the outcome is always the same. Children who are emotionally scarred. When you mix two egos with [...]

Raising Healthy, Well-Adjusted Children — Despite Divorce

Rosalind Sedacca — Fri, 21 Dec 2007 16:27:10 +0000

Amy Sherman, LMHC is one of the contributors to Rosalind Sedacca’s new book, How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce? A Create-a-Storybook Guide to Preparing Your Children — with Love! Here she shares some of her wisdom based on her private practice and years of working with pre-teen and teen populations. Parenting is [...]

Parental Alienation – a Divorce Disaster Sure to Alienate Your Children

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 02 Dec 2007 21:31:58 +0000

Use your divorce to teach your children life lessons

Rosalind Sedacca — Sat, 17 Nov 2007 19:18:14 +0000

Bad things can happen to good people. Divorce is a prime example. Good people get divorced. Responsible people who are loving parents get caught in the decision to end a loveless or deceitful marriage. The consequences of that decision can either be life affirming or destroying, depending upon how each parent approaches this transition. Parents who are blinded [...]

Divorce Without Dishonor motivates child-centered attorney

Rosalind Sedacca — Sat, 03 Nov 2007 18:45:50 +0000

Michael Mastracci is an attorney on a mission — one he shares with the entire child-centered divorce community. He talks about – and is soon to be the author of a new book about – Divorce Without Dishonor. “A difficult and acrimonious divorce and child custody battle led to my interest in collaborative family [...]

Talk “to” – not “at” — your child … through divorce and beyond

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 14 Oct 2007 21:30:11 +0000

October is National Talk to Your Child Month. You wouldn’t think one would need to create such a designation, advising parents to talk to their children. Unfortunately, many parents need just such a reminder — especially in today’s mega-paced culture in which just sitting down to a family dinner together seems to be a major [...]

Magical Thinking: When Children of Divorce Blame Themselves

Rosalind Sedacca — Sun, 16 Sep 2007 22:09:12 +0000

By Paul Wanio, PhD, LMFT For children, there is a fine line between fantasy and reality. Their imaginations are very powerful and they may see unreal monsters that live in closets or under beds which inspire real fears. They will also believe that their thoughts can cause real events to happen “magically.” [...]

Children’s Emotional Needs During Divorce and Beyond

Rosalind Sedacca — Fri, 24 Aug 2007 15:25:12 +0000

When parents are caught up in the drama of divorce it is easy for them to forget the innate emotional and security needs of their innocent children. The following are a list of questions and comments that remind parents about the most fundamental needs of every child in order to experience psychological well-being. They are [...]

Doing Divorce Right – Reese Witherspoon, Ryan and Kids

Rosalind Sedacca — Sat, 18 Aug 2007 15:34:00 +0000

Congratulations to Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Phillippe for taking the high road when so many in Hollywood choose another path. These two are rising above resentment and vindictiveness for the sake of their children – and in the process they’re setting an example that’s worth public mention. Three months after their split this couple was seen [...]

When children of divorce act out, caring parents step up!

Rosalind Sedacca — Fri, 03 Aug 2007 16:16:40 +0000

Divorce, like life, is rarely neat and packaged. This is especially true for divorcing parents. The reality of divorce comes with unexpected twists, constant frustrations and times of utter helplessness when children act up or pull away. Here are three tips for coping with times when your children are venting, lashing out or expressing their own [...]

Children and Divorce: New book uses a unique Create-a-Storybook™ concept to help parents tell kids about divorce

Rosalind Sedacca — Fri, 03 Aug 2007 16:07:17 +0000

Rosalind Sedacca’s new ebook, How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce?, is a “create-a-storybook” guide that helps parents prepare their children for a pending divorce or separation — with compassion and love. The fill-in-the-blanks templates and family album format simplifies one of the toughest conversations any parent will have. Divorce may be tough on [...]

New book uses a unique Create-a-Storybook™ concept to help parents tell kids about divorce

Rosalind Sedacca — Wed, 01 Aug 2007 20:39:32 +0000

When Children of Divorce Act Out – Caring Parents Step Up!

Rosalind Sedacca — Fri, 27 Jul 2007 00:10:07 +0000

Child Custody – Putting Your Children First

Rosalind Sedacca — Thu, 12 Jul 2007 01:15:31 +0000

A recent article I read in a Florida newspaper talks about proposed changes to child custody legislation. An investigative committee is being formed to consider whether “shared parenting may be the best custodial situation for all children of divorcing parents.” While I am a strong advocate of shared parenting – it worked very successfully for [...]

July is Child-Centered Divorce Month

Rosalind Sedacca — Thu, 12 Jul 2007 00:44:25 +0000

July has been designated National Child-Centered Divorce Month. This is a time for parents, therapists, attorneys, educators, clergy and other professionals to focus on the importance of putting children’s needs first and foremost when divorce or separation is pending. Most of the negative consequences of divorce result from one or both parents making choices that are [...]

Divorce Alert: Tuning In To Your Child’s Feelings

Rosalind Sedacca — Thu, 05 Jul 2007 18:38:48 +0000

July is Child-Centered Divorce Month Join us in celebrating Child-Centered Divorce Month this July. This is a time for parents, therapists, attorneys, educators, clergy and other professionals to focus on the importance of putting children's needs first and foremost when divorce or separation is pending. Most of the negative consequences of divorce result from one or both parents making choices that are not in the best interest of their children. Frequently, parents are so caught up in their own emotional drama -- in anger, resentment, frustration and sometimes outright hatred of their former spouse -- that they make decisions based on ...

Child-Centered Divorce Secrets

Rosalind Sedacca — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

5 Must-Tell Messages to Prepare the Kids for Your Divorce One of the most difficult conversations any parent will ever have is telling their children about their pending divorce. I know first-hand because many years ago I went through the experience. I fought and faced the overwhelming emotions. The deep gut-wrenching fear. The continuous anxiety. The [...]