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		<title>Inspiring leadership what does it mean?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 01:29:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Janine</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Inspiring leadership what does it mean?
So often we read about transformational leadership and the words that go around it.
One of the most bandied about word is inspirational.
This word translates into a whole lot of different things depending on the listener.
I was recently talking to a very successful leader who is leading a transformation process and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Inspiring leadership what does it mean?</p>
<p>So often we read about transformational leadership and the words that go around it.<br />
One of the most bandied about word is inspirational.<br />
This word translates into a whole lot of different things depending on the listener.</p>
<p>I was recently talking to a very successful leader who is leading a transformation process and was to talk to his leadership team. When I suggested the team would like him to be inspiring he said “I can’t stand that word”.</p>
<p>On asking for more information I found he thought that being inspiring meant he needed to ‘act’ and have a show almost with balloons. He is a very effective quietly spoken leader and it was not how he wanted to be portrayed.</p>
<p>For me the word inspiring and giving an inspiring presentation to your team means being you. Speaking from the heart as well as the head is essential. It means giving real life examples –the stories the team can believe in.</p>
<p>We humans connect with stories it goes back to our cave dwelling days. There is something magic in the ability to tell a story that resonates with truth and connects the listener to the message.<br />
That to me that is inspirational…not ‘putting on a show’</p>
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		<title>Simple way to improve your slides for work presentations</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 23:13:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lee</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Presentation skills]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The challenge is to find a different way of using slides if you are not artistic, zany or blessed with the ability to create pithy messages. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is now clear that traditional bullet point slides really don&#8217;t work.  If something is complicated we can&#8217;t read the slides and  listen at the same time.  Generally your audience will give up doing both.<img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-305" title="CB100343" src="http://www.communicationskills.co.nz/wp-content/uploads/j0402538-150x150.jpg" alt="CB100343" width="150" height="150" /></p>
<p>The challenge is to find a different way of using slides if you are not artistic, zany or blessed with the ability to create pithy messages. Just this week I was working with a very busy client who had to rapidly develop a presentation on a very complex topic, including slides. All he could do was to simplify and thin out his slides.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.eureka-tp.com/Tips%20For%20Trainers.aspx">David Gibson&#8217;s Trainer Tips</a> useful fortnightly tips from <a href="http://www.eureka-tp.com/">www.Eureka.com</a> recently provided a simple practical answer to this challenge.  I have reprinted it here:</p>
<h2 style="margin: 0px 0px 10px; padding: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-size: 15px; color: #240ceb; line-height: 1.2em; font-family: Verdana;"><em>It&#8217;s  Official &#8211; Bullet Points Hinder Learning</em></h2>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.3em; padding: 3px 0px 0px; font-size: 13px; vertical-align: top; color: #000000; line-height: 1.5em; font-family: Verdana;"><em>I  guess most trainers knew that &#8211; but until now it was just an instinctive feeling  we had that we couldnt&#8217;t actually quantify. Well, Dr Chris Atherton, a cognitive  psychologist carried out research using different formats of PowerPoint  presentations &#8211; bullet points and &#8217;sparse&#8217; slides and found that the sparse  slides returned double the recall of bullet points. Why? Because here learners  are using 2 pathways in the brain, the auditory part of the brain which also  handles the written word and a second part of the brain, the visual cortex which  handles pictures. So rather than overloading the auditory cortex while &#8216;boring&#8217;  the visual cortex, you stimulate both. It also means that once the slide has  been &#8216;processed&#8217; by the brain, learners can concentrate on the spoken word.</em></p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.3em; padding: 3px 0px 0px; font-size: 13px; vertical-align: top; color: #000000; line-height: 1.5em; font-family: Verdana;"><em>So  this tip builds upon that research and suggests ways to help maximise the recall  potential of your learners when you have to use PowerPoint for some of your  training.</em></p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.3em; padding: 3px 0px 0px; font-size: 13px; vertical-align: top; color: #000000; line-height: 1.5em; font-family: Verdana;"><em><strong style="font-weight: bold; font-style: normal;">Bullet Points vs Sparse  Slides</strong><br />
Here is an example of a traditional type of slide that uses  bullet points and a graph.</em></p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.3em; padding: 3px 0px 0px; font-size: 13px; vertical-align: top; color: #000000; line-height: 1.5em; font-family: Verdana;"><em>Chris&#8217;s  research would suggest to maximise the learning using PowerPoint for this slide,  you should use more slides with a reduced amount of text per slide rather than a  single slide showing multiple bullet points. For example you might use several  slides of just sparse text , or the same sparse slides including images  .</em></p>
<p>How to maximise the learning when  using PowerPoint</p>
<ul style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">
<li style="margin: 0px 0px 0.7em 30px; padding: 0px; font-weight: normal; font-size: 13px; color: #000000; font-family: Verdana; list-style-type: square;"><em>Design  your slides without using bullet points.</em></li>
<li style="margin: 0px 0px 0.7em 30px; padding: 0px; font-weight: normal; font-size: 13px; color: #000000; font-family: Verdana; list-style-type: square;"><em>Break  slides down to a single idea per slide and ideally use about 4 words.</em></li>
<li style="margin: 0px 0px 0.7em 30px; padding: 0px; font-weight: normal; font-size: 13px; color: #000000; font-family: Verdana; list-style-type: square;"><em>Use  an image only if the image &#8216;adds&#8217; something to the content. Remove it if it&#8217;s  there just to make the slide look &#8216;nice&#8217; as this act as a distraction to your  learners.</em></li>
<li style="margin: 0px 0px 0.7em 30px; padding: 0px; font-weight: normal; font-size: 13px; color: #000000; font-family: Verdana; list-style-type: square;"><em>Only  put key information onto you slides, ie what you want your learners to focus  upon.</em></li>
<li style="margin: 0px 0px 0.7em 30px; padding: 0px; font-weight: normal; font-size: 13px; color: #000000; font-family: Verdana; list-style-type: square;"><em>Make  your learners work eg put a graph onto your slide but omit the axis number and  have learners try to &#8216;guess&#8217; the axis and the numbers, or in our example, we  could include the text &#8220;Increases retention by up to &#8230;&#8221; and we could ask  learners to have a guess at the number . In other words, remember to involve  your learners in the learning.</em></li>
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<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.3em; padding: 3px 0px 0px; font-size: 13px; vertical-align: top; color: #000000; line-height: 1.5em; font-family: Verdana;"><em>To  view a presentation using this method <a style="color: #597bb7; text-decoration: underline;" title="http://go.madmimi.com/redirects/524708e3af47272549e3c9408d78cf5b?pa=546287764" href="http://go.madmimi.com/redirects/524708e3af47272549e3c9408d78cf5b?pa=546287764" target="_blank">click here</a>. Note, this is a presentation and I wouldn&#8217;t  suggest you train using this style.</em></p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.3em; padding: 3px 0px 0px; font-size: 13px; vertical-align: top; color: #000000; line-height: 1.5em; font-family: Verdana;"><em>The  actual research was presented at the recent Technical Communication UK  Conference in 2009 by Dr Chris Atherton. <a style="color: #597bb7; text-decoration: underline;" title="http://go.madmimi.com/redirects/66c233bf65cf50d228b2bd7c4418312b?pa=546287764" href="http://go.madmimi.com/redirects/66c233bf65cf50d228b2bd7c4418312b?pa=546287764" target="_blank">Click here</a> for further information on Dr Chris  Atherton.</em></p>
<h2 style="margin: 0px 0px 10px; padding: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-size: 15px; color: #240ceb; line-height: 1.2em; font-family: Verdana;"><em>Call  To Action</em></h2>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.3em; padding: 3px 0px 0px; font-size: 13px; vertical-align: top; color: #000000; line-height: 1.5em; font-family: Verdana;"><em>Design  your slides for maximum retention. Do this by avoiding bullet points and  &#8216;cluttered&#8217; slides. Instead use multiple slides which include around 4-6 words  and maybe an image to enhance the content.</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.eureka-tp.com/"></a></p>
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		<title>How to project maturity when you look young for your role</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 22:36:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lee</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just yesterday a course participant talked about the problem of looking too young for her work role.   She has to represent her organisation at large conferences and  often finds that older people ignore her.
Interesting question. We could look at the problem as a problem to be solved or as an opportunity to be used.
There are [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just yesterday a course participant talked about the problem of looking too young for her work role.   She has to represent her organisation at large conferences and  often finds that older people ignore her.</p>
<p>Interesting question. We could look at the problem as a problem to be solved or as an opportunity to be used.<img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-289" title="j0433082" src="http://www.communicationskills.co.nz/wp-content/uploads/j0433082-150x150.jpg" alt="j0433082" width="150" height="150" /></p>
<p>There are some practical actions to take at that would help solve the problem:</p>
<ol>
<li>Tie your hair back, if it is long.  Make sure that your fringe is cut clear of your eyebrows. I guess all that applies to guys too.</li>
<li>If you wear glasses, do wear them.</li>
<li>Wear dark and reasonably conservative clothing &#8211; it creates an air of authority and people can see you more easily.  Dress for the job you want, rather than your current role.</li>
<li>Work on your voice so you eliminate that Kiwi questioning tone when you are making a statement</li>
<li>Watch your words so you get rid of self-reducing fillers such as <em>&#8217;sort of&#8217; a little bit&#8217;, &#8216;I think&#8217;</em> and of course<em> &#8216;um&#8217; </em>and<em> &#8216;ah&#8217;</em>. If you get good at this, have a go at getting rid of all forms of the verb &#8216;to be&#8217;.  This will cut out the passive voice and help you sound crisper and more confident &#8211; sorry &#8211; I should write: <em>&#8216;This cuts out the passive voice.&#8217; </em>
<p><div id="attachment_282" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 160px"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-282" title="42-16223431" src="http://www.communicationskills.co.nz/wp-content/uploads/j04317351-150x150.jpg" alt="Now you're impressive!" width="150" height="150" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Now you&#39;re impressive!</p></div></li>
</ol>
<p>You could take the other option and view &#8216;looking too young&#8217; as an opportunity to be used:   Arm yourself with curiosity and work on learning from these older people. How did they get started in their career?  What have they learnt? What are they noticing in current trends?  What advice could they give you on the challenges you are facing?  Who knows, you could acquire a very helpful mentor.</p>
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		<title>What do we mean by influence?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 21:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lee</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[During a recent stint in the library, I noticed that many books with the subject category of &#8216;influence&#8217; were really more about persuasion.
Thereare important differences  between &#8216;influence&#8217; and &#8216;persuasion&#8217;:
Persuasion is a more direct, short-term  activity and requires a larger emotional component.  Influence is more indirect, longer term and depends more on logic.  Persuasion mainly involves [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>During a recent stint in the library, I noticed that many books with the subject category of &#8216;influence&#8217; were really more about persuasion.</p>
<p>Thereare important differences  between &#8216;influence&#8217; and &#8216;persuasion&#8217;:<img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-282" title="42-16223431" src="http://www.communicationskills.co.nz/wp-content/uploads/j04317351-150x150.jpg" alt="42-16223431" width="150" height="150" /></p>
<p>Persuasion is a more direct, short-term  activity and requires a larger emotional component.  Influence is more indirect, longer term and depends more on logic.  Persuasion mainly involves one way communication, whereas influence is often multi-directional.</p>
<p>There is an interesting post and discussion on this  at <a href="http://nicoledefalco.wordpress.com/2009/10/29/influence-vs-persuasion-a-critical-distinction-for-leaders/">Saying What You Mean</a>, and a thought-provoking acronym from <a href="http://influence-people-brian.blogspot.com/">Brian Ahearn</a> that covers both persuasion and influence:  He says that influence is about</p>
<p>P. E.O.P.L.E.:</p>
<p><strong>P</strong>owerful</p>
<p><strong>E</strong>veryday</p>
<p><strong>O</strong>pportunities to</p>
<p><strong>P</strong>ersuade, that are</p>
<p><strong>L</strong>asting and</p>
<p><strong>E</strong>thical</p>
<p>Many of us put a great deal of time and effort thinking about persuasion and not nearly enough into influence.  If you are not very articulate, you will  probably find it easier to focus on influencing rather than persuasion.  At least it is a more gradual process that you can plan and execute.</p>
<p>So look for those everyday opportunities and use them to build your influence.</p>
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		<title>Presentation skills in ordinary life</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 02:41:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lee</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A lot of work conversations seem casual but are important.  They will often start something like: &#8216; How&#8217;s the project going?&#8217;
How do you usually answer? &#8211; &#8216;Oh, fine thanks&#8217;?  This response could waste a good  opportunity. With a bit of planning, you could use the question to raise your profile with the questioner, or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of work conversations seem casual but are important.  They will often start something like: &#8216; How&#8217;s the project going?&#8217;</p>
<p>How do you usually answer? &#8211; &#8216;Oh, fine thanks&#8217;?  This response could waste a good  opportunity. With a bit of planning, you could use the question to raise your profile with the questioner, or gain their useful insight into a problem.</p>
<p>Claudyne Wilder&#8217;s latest newsletter in <a href="http://archive.constantcontact.com/fs022/1011205012576/archive/1102698860031.html">Wilder Presentations</a> covers using the elevator speech to handle these situations.<img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-259" title="CB050469" src="http://www.communicationskills.co.nz/wp-content/uploads/j0407106-200x300.jpg" alt="CB050469" width="168" height="250" /></p>
<p>In the low-key New Zealand environment, if the elevator speech seems a bit forced, think about planning a soundbite. The system is similar.</p>
<p>For your important projects, you could adapt Claudyne&#8217;s suggestion to:</p>
<p><strong>1. Progress: </strong><em>We have surveyed the range of best software solutions</em></p>
<p><strong>2. Results</strong>: <em>It looks like the most applicable one was developed in South Korea<br />
</em></p>
<p><strong>3. </strong><strong>Interesting fact:</strong> <em>It costs way less than any of the competing systems and looks really good, but for some reason it hasn&#8217;t been taken up in any<strong> </strong>other New Zealand organisations before.</em><strong><br />
</strong></p>
<p><strong>4. Next step</strong>: <em>We&#8217;re being careful to check that out further</em></p>
<p><strong>5. Question for the listener</strong>: <em>Have you any past experience of this type of gap in adoption of a good software solution?<br />
</em></p>
<p>I am always surprised how challenging it is to work out an elevator speech.  If you need some help, there is a very practical open thread on developing an elevator speech at: <a href=":http://freelancefolder.com/open-thread-whats-your-elevator-speech/">Freelance Folder</a></p>
<p>In case you&#8217;re wondering, the guy in the picture is racing from your brilliant elevator speech to organise you a promotion.</p>
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		<title>So much rapid change! How on earth do we support our leaders/managers?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 20:34:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Penny</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[At Communicate, we are often asked –
“What are some useful tools and tips available to our managers and our organisation to respond to this?” 
The answer –
Develop your managers to be good coaches. Why? &#8211; Good coaching supports change.
Coaching has been rising in popularity – due to the recognised link of its support in accelerating [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At Communicate, we are often asked –</p>
<p><em>“What are some useful tools and tips available to our managers and our organisation to respond to this?” </em></p>
<p>The answer –</p>
<p><strong>Develop your managers to be good coaches. Why? &#8211; Good coaching supports change.</strong></p>
<p>Coaching has been rising in popularity – due to the recognised link of its support in accelerating the learning process. We no longer have time to learn on the job (as we did when I started working). We now need to get up to speed quickly, with the required skills and behaviours that will be critical to our success. Good coaching provides on the job feedback to help individuals raise their awareness to their strengths and what they need to do differently to be more effective.</p>
<p>Today, businesses and educational institutions are valuing the relationship between coaching and leader effectiveness – seeing a strong link between coaching skills and employee retention and engagement.</p>
<p>Coaching is a broad range of behaviours – from being a good listener to being able to challenge assumptions and mindsets.</p>
<p>Being a good coach is therefore a learned set of skills. If you want you’re organisation to keep on top of their game – teach your managers to be good coaches. Good coaching will support your investment in training and ensure your people maximise their potential quickly!</p>
<p>A useful book resource, regardless of your experience and understanding of coaching is – Coaching for Performance, Third Edition, by John Whitmore.</p>
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		<title>How to improve your presentation skills?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8230; or any other skill?
Answer?  Deliberate practice.
Take driving as an example.  Recent research shows that most drivers believe they are better drivers than the average!  Well of course!  We have so much experience.
Yes.  We do,  but how much driving &#8216;practice&#8217; do we put in?  If we were going to deliberately practise, we would:

Raise our  awareness [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8230; or any other skill?</p>
<p>Answer?  Deliberate practice.</p>
<p>Take driving as an example.  Recent research shows that most drivers believe they are better drivers than the average!  Well of course!  We have so much experience.</p>
<p>Yes.  We do,  but how much driving &#8216;practice&#8217; do we put in?  If we were going to deliberately practise, we would:</p>
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<li>Raise our  awareness of HOW we are driving &#8211;  maybe focusing our attention on one particular aspect of the skill until we perfected it, then move on to another.</li>
<li>We would also really listen to and possibly even act on driving advice!!</li>
</ul>
<p>Hmm&#8230;! How many of us could do that?  I certainly remember putting a stop to my four year old son&#8217;s habit of giving  me driving advice from his car seat!</p>
<ul>
<li>We would do even better if we sought regular feedback on our driving from a good instructor and then put the advice into action?  Think of the lives that might be saved!</li>
</ul>
<p>An interesting article in <a href="http://money.cnn.com/magazines/fortune/fortune_archive/2006/10/30/8391794/index.htm">Fortune Magazine </a>shows that across a huge range of fields, the top people are the ones who devote the most time to deliberate practice.  The rule of thumb holds that experts need ten years of very intensive practice to be extremely successful in their chosen field.</p>
<p>On a recent long flight back from the UK to New Zealand, I watched a fascinating series of BBC programmes on <a href="http://www.channel4.com/programmes/the-worlds-greatest-musical-prodigies/episode-guide/series-1/episode-2">child musical prodigies</a>.  The programme speculated on which ones would make it to greatness as adults.  Once you are up there in prodigy- land, the long-run greats are the ones who have maintained intensive practice for at least ten years. Mozart was practising three hours a day by the time he was three years old.  By six, he had clocked up 3,500 hours practice &#8211; apparently over three times more than anyone else his age!</p>
<p>I am not sure how they know that, but back to us normal mortals and our presentation skills:  Whilst we may have plenty of presentation &#8216;experience&#8217;, how many of us use deliberate practice?  Do we take the time to reflect on a particularly demanding piece of presenting, seek feedback on our effectiveness and then work on the suggested changes?</p>
<p>So to become a good presenter:</p>
<ol>
<li>Work out what aspect you need to focus on.  Each time you present, concentrate on getting that aspect right.  Keep going until the required behaviour becomes a habit, then get to work on the next bit.</li>
<li>Get feedback from a reliable observer and act on the feedback.</li>
<li>Watch what other presenters do and see if you can learn from them &#8211; good or bad.  But then make sure you practise what you have learnt.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.toastmasters.org/">International Toastmasters</a> is a great way to get practice and to obtain supportive, constructive feedback.</li>
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<p>Now while you are about it, about that right hand turn you just made&#8230;.!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Earlier this year I was working on presentation skills with a group of scientists. When I asked what they would like an audience to go away thinking about them after their presentation, one woman had an instant answer: 'Oh, yes.  I want them to think I am 10 years younger than I am!']]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Recently someone asked me for a quick practical tip  to help a junior manager enhance her personal presence. The simplest one that came to mind was that when you are in a meeting, be conscious of what you want people to go away thinking about you.</p>
<p>Once you know your image purpose, you will handle situations more carefully. Do you want people in a meeting to think you listened sincerely?  Do you want them to think you are a fair and focused meeting leader? Whatever the image awareness you decide on, you will behave in a way accords with it.</p>
<p>Earlier this year I was working on presentation skills with a group of scientists. When I asked what they would like an audience to go away thinking about them after their presentation, one woman had an instant answer: &#8216;Oh, yes.  I want them to think I am 10 years younger than I am!&#8217;</p>
<p>I rest my case though.  If she thinks about that goal as she plans and delivers her presentation, it will take years off her age.</p>
<p>For some extra suggestions, here&#8217;s  a practical article from the <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/education/2003/feb/01/students.schools">Guardian</a></p>
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