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Kindness

2009-07-14T13:04:00.000-07:00

We need to have right concept as how to react to kindness given to us. Let's learn the student guide together to have better understanding.
1. Kindness
You must repay the kindness of others and let go of your resentments.
2. Let go all grudges
Spend less time holding grudges and more time paying back the kindness. 3. Treat maids kindly
When you are directing maids and servants, you should be respectable and dignified. you must treat them kindly and generously.
4. Sound reasoning
If you use your influence to make them submissive, their hearts will never be with you.
If you can convince them with sound reasoning, they will then have nothing more to say.

Encouraging each other

2009-07-08T19:49:00.000-07:00

In schools, family, working places, some are learning things fast and some are slow learners. Giving help for those who are weak is the very good deed. Let's learn something from the student guide. For those of you who have known and practised it always, you can treat it as the refresher course.
When encouraging each other to do good, the virtues of both are built up.
If you do not tell others of their faults, you will both be wrong.
Whether you take or give, you need to know the difference between the two. It is better to give more and take less.
What you ask others to do, first ask yourself if you will do it,
If it is not something you will do, ask not others to do it.

Change for the better

2009-07-04T07:44:00.000-07:00

Although human beings are not perfect but all can change for the better because we can think.
How if a person who has shortcoming/ secret, what should we do?
According to ancient student guide Di Zi Qui, it said as follow:
1. Shortcoming
If a person has a shortcoming, do not expose it.
2. Secret
If a person has a secret, do not tell others.
My view:
My friends, I think we can advise our friends privately so as not to embarrass them.
How to react to those who have done something good/ bad?
The student guide said as follows:
3. Goodness
Praising the goodness of others of others is a good deed in itself.
When people approve of and praise you, you should feel encouraged and try even harder.
4. Wrongdoing
Spreading rumors about the wrongdoing of others, is a wrongdoing in itself.
5. Misfortune
When the harm done has reached the extreme, misfortunes will surely follow.
My view:
We should encourage people when they are down. All can change for the better. For me, I feel happier than ever after I have written these learning stuffs to learn myself and sharing. I believe it should be inner peace.
Thanks for reading, do you have anything to say?
See you on my next post- encouragement, have the nice day.

Positive results

2009-07-03T18:33:00.000-07:00

My friends always like to share some motivation words to me. Sometimes, they had problems and asked me. I would do my best to give them advice.
Likewise, if I have some unsolved problems, I also ask them for tips and always have the best solutions.
Yesterday, my friend sent me an email, I found that the email message was meaningful. It is ready good to share it with all of you.
The message just one sentence as follows:
" What you do anything is what you do everything ".
My view:
Through my life experiences, I realise that doing bad deeds will lead to more bad deeds, there is the negative forces propel us to do more negative things and the outcome are negative results.
On the other hand, doing good deeds will lead to more good deeds, there is the positive forces propel us to do more positive things and the outcome are positive results.
So, there is only one choice.
Have the positive life and do not miss it.
This is my little thought for today.

Love all equally

2009-06-29T18:22:00.000-07:00

From the report, I learn that one primary school had used the ancient student guide to cultivate students. Instilling good values to young one is the good move, so as students are disciplined and be able to handle all the challenges in the future.
Let's study the ancient student guide Chapter 5 Love all equally
1. Equality
Human beings, regardless of nationality, race, or religion, everyone should be loved equally. We are all sheltered by the same sky and live on the same planet Earth.
2. Respect
A person of high ideals and morals is highly respected. What people value is not based on outside appearance.
A person's outstanding ability will naturally honor him with a good reputation.
Admiration from others does not come from boasting or praising oneself.
3. Capable person
If you are a very capable person, use your abilities for the benefit of others.
Other people's competence should not be slandered.
4. Rich/ Poor
Do not flatter the rich, or despine the poor.
5. Friends
Do not ignore old friends, and take delight in new ones.
Do you have anything to share?

Appreciation

2009-06-28T17:03:00.000-07:00

Let's study the student guide.
1. Criticism
If criticism make us angry and only compliments make us happy, then sincere and understanding, virtuous people will shy away.
We should appreciate it if criticism come.
2. Mistake
If our mistake is not done on purpose, it is only an error.
If it is done on purpose, it is evil.
If we correct our mistake and do not repeat it, we no longer have the mistake.
If we try to cover it up, we will be doubly wrong.
My view:
We are human, bound to make mistake but we should amend it once we realise that it was mistake.
Can you appreciate criticism happily?
Do you correct your mistake quickly or simply ignore it?

Racial harmony day

2009-06-24T18:44:00.000-07:00

Yesterday I saw the notice near the lift. The notice: Racial harmony celebration.
The event will be held on next month.
This is the very good gathering. It can promote racial harmony, better understanding.
Through this type of interaction, we will create the peaceful environment.
I love peace, hope all races help each others.

life is precious

2009-06-22T18:57:00.000-07:00

On March 2, the 21-year-old university student David knifed his final year project supervisor Associate professor Mr. Chan in his back and jumped down from level four in the university. David was dead and Mr. Chan was injured.
Why this young and highly educated man wanted to end his life so hurriedly?
The inquiry is still on.
The text document titled " Last words " was found on David's laptop. The investigator could not ascertain the identity of the author.
Could the text document was written by David? Nobody knows the answer at this moment.
I find it the notes were extremely negative.
Let's take the look on some of the notes on his laptop.
" Life in university is much more difficult and complicated than imagined."
"...It seems that my mental is not strong enough to continue,"
" Yes, I am committing suicide, and I have my own reasons. First of all, I just have had it with my miserable life...Right now, I just don't have any more will to live."
" Do you know how it feels to watch your own family shouting at each other almost every day when you still a child? Maybe my unstable emotion is formed because of that."
" I never shed tears anymore to pitiful situation or event..."
" What have I done in my life? Basically nothing but repetition."
Note:Some web page history found on the laptop.
" How to get away with murder"
" Common methods of suicide"
This tragedy and the notes set us thinking.
Is it family problems lead to the incident?
No proper guidance starts from young age?

Heavenly people

2009-06-16T18:31:00.000-07:00

There are so many people doing good deeds at any part in this world everyday. How to react to these good deeds?
Everyday we can see so many people doing bad deeds at any corner in this world. How to react to these bad deeds?
If we follow wrong path, then we will bring misfortune to others and also ourselves.
Let's study the student guide--good deeds and wrongdoings.
Good deeds
When we see others do good deeds, think about following their example. Even though our own achievements are still far behind those of others. we are getting closer.
Wrongdoings
When we see others do wrong, immediately reflect upon ourselves.
If we have made the same mistake, correct it.
If not, be extra cautious not to make the same mistake.
When our morals, conduct, knowledge, and skills are not as good as others, we should encourage ourselves to be better.
If our clothes we wear and the food we eat and drink are not as good as others, do not be ashamed.
My view
We should make the commitment doing more good deeds. If everybody like to do good deeds, then we are heavenly people in this earth.
Let's smile and sing the song " Don't worry, be happy. "
See you on next series.

Trustworthy

2009-06-12T19:09:00.000-07:00

Student guide series---be trustworthy.
Young boys and girls need to know so that they can live better. For adults, this student guide can act as the reminder. For me, I am still learning, please do not laugh at me. Hopefully I can give lectures on " How to live happily? " in the future. This will be my next goal.
For today, let's study the student guide--be trustworthy.
When one speak, honesty is important.
Deceitful words and lies are not allowed.
Rather than talking too much, it is better to speak less.
Speak the truth, do not twist the facts.
Cunning words, foul language, and bad habits must be avoided at all costs.
What you have not seen with your own eyes, do not readily tell to others.
What you do not know for sure, do not easily pass on to others.
When asked to do something that is inappropriate or bad, do not promise lightly.
If you do, you will be wrong either way.
When speaking, make the words clear and to the point.
Do not talk too fast or mumble.
Some like to talk about the good points of others, while some like to talk about the faults of others.
If it is none of your business, do not get involved.
My view:
Let's do our best to be trustworthy person with healthy mindset. We learn how to respect others by using proper words.
See you on next series.
If you have something to say, you are welcome to drop your comment.

Read your posts 3

2009-06-11T20:06:00.000-07:00

Today, I am going to visit No. 5 site,this is the interesting site http://bluedreamer27.blogspot.com/
The author Mr. Bluedreamer is a young man full of energies. He has put a lot of efforts and makes blogging enjoyable. He writes many blog posts about music, movie, actor, actress , places of interest , top five series and many more, I have just read one of the posts and made the short comment.please visit this wonderful site and read it slowly to have maximum
http://bluedreamer27.blogspot.com/2009/06/exposure-to-asbestos-can-be-fatal.html

Ask permission

2009-06-10T07:15:00.000-07:00

Let's study the student guide-learn to be a human, starts from the basic.
Avoid doing things in a hurry, it will lead to many mistakes.
Do not be afraid of difficult tasks, but do not become careless when a job is too easy.
Before borrowing things from others, you must ask for permission.
If you do not ask, it is stealing.
When borrowing things from others, return them promptly.
Later on, when you have an urgent need, you will not have a problem borrowing from them again.
I can tell you some people just forget to return.....
My mood now: peaceful.

Durian

2009-06-08T07:11:00.000-07:00

Yesterday my brother bought durians for us. I enjoyed eating it because of good tastes.
Do you love to eat durian ? may be yes, may be not.

Susan Boyle

2009-06-05T07:54:00.000-07:00

Britain got talent's competition was just over. Miss Susan Boyle was second place, this was the great achievement indeed.
Why so many like to watch her singing on YouTube over and over again because She is the great singer.
While She went to the stage first time, reactions from the Judges and audiences looked suspicious.
The judge Mr. Simon asked Susan Boyle: " How old are you?. Susan Boyle replied:" 47 years old." Simon's expression looked like She would fail.
After Susan sang for few seconds, We could hear clapping sound and surprised look from the Judges and audiences. Wow, Susan' beautiful voices proved them wrong.
The scene set us thinking?
Susan Boyle, you are great.
No.4 site I have just visited, one of the posts about Susan Boyle worth reading.
http://rcanfield.blogspot.com/2009/04/susan-boyle-and-human-moral-imagination.html
Please visit it and have the nice day.

Read your posts 2

2009-05-30T21:00:00.000-07:00

I have just visited the third site,
http://lifeasiknowit22.blogspot.com/ , the posts talking about life experiences, the will power to live despite hardship or torment.
The young blogger Mr. Irtiza104 is a person with positive attitude towards life. He likes blogging very much, he lives in Bangladesh. He is a writer, sketch artist, photographer and a student.
"Life as i know it". is the blog site contains posts about his life or his surrounding. He likes to improve the world, the inner self through this blog site. I enjoy reading his posts about self improvement, poverty, peace promotion, health and environment. We will be more positive towards life.
I have made short comment on one of the posts..
http://lifeasiknowit22.blogspot.com/2009/05/cyclone-aila-bangladesh-takes-another.html
Please visit this site, have the nice day. I am going to visit other site now.

Read your posts

2009-05-29T11:17:00.000-07:00

There are so many blog site in the Internet world. There are so many interesting posts written by blogger with different background, I would like to visit them from today.
I will continue to write posts and visiting more blog site.
The first site I have just visited
http://auntieegarden.blogspot.com/ is the site full of beautiful flowers, it like the garden. After viewing all these beautiful flowers, I feel ready peaceful. Nature brings us joy indeed. I made a short comment on one of the posts
http://auntieegarden.blogspot.com/2009/05/honeysuckle-ah-smell.html
Please visit this site, have the good day.
The second site about health and fitness worth reading is
http://ready2getfit.blogspot.com/ , I have learnt something that we need to stay healthy in order to fulfill many dreams in our short lives.
I have just made a short comment on one of the posts
http://ready2getfit.blogspot.com/2009/05/splenda-or-soy-protein.html
Please visit this site, have the nice day.

Cleanliness

2009-05-18T20:51:00.000-07:00

Let's learn something from student guide.
Wear properly
" It is more important that your clothes are clean, rather than how extravagant they are.
When with an elder or people of importance, wear what is suitable for your station.
At home, wear clothes according to your family traditions and customs."
What we can learn?
Yes, We wear proper attire in working places, home, public places. We need not spend too much money on that. Cleanliness is most important.
That's all for today-cleanliness and proper dress.
The next topic-eating, drinking and walking.
Too simple? We ought to start from the basic, to learn to be a human.

Wish you all the best

2009-05-09T06:38:00.000-07:00

Dear readers, I felt very tired these few days. This is the sign telling me that I need to have more rest.
Because of not feeling well, I have to pause all on line activities for sometimes.
Life is so fragile and now I have to take the good rest. Health is ready important. I have to stay healthy so that I can fullfill many.
Wish all of you happy blogging. please take good care, all readers especially your health.
Wish all of you always happy in life.
I ready miss all of you, hope can see all of you soon.
Best wishes from coolingstar9

Do it properly

2009-05-07T01:05:00.000-07:00

Let's study the student guide to be better person. Let's start at home, do our part to create better relationship.Chapter 2: Be cautious in your daily life
Part 1
Get up in the morning before your parents; at night, go to bed only parents have gone to sleep.
When you realize that time is passing you by and cannot be turned back, and that you are getting older year by year, you will especially treasure the present moment.
When you get up in the morning, wash your face and brush your teeth.
After using the toilet, always wash your hands.
You must wear your hat straight, and make sure the books of your clothes are tied.
Make sure socks and shoes are worn neatly and correctly.
Place your hat and clothes away in their proper places.
Do not carelessly throw your clothes around, for that will get them dirty.
My view:
We learn to do properly and cautious about own attitudes, like cleanliness, proper dressing. The good habits will surely benefit us and others.

Moral education

2009-05-06T05:22:00.000-07:00

Recently, I read the local news that two young person [ a lady-scholarship holder and a man ] were charged for walking nude in the district called Holland village. Both were fined for improper behaviour.
Luckily, this was the rare case here. I am wondering what are their motive? They said that they wanted to feel the thrill.
Both of them are highly educated but they have zero moral concept.
Proper moral education should be emphasized especially in this century.
What do you think?

Gracious society

2009-05-06T01:50:00.001-07:00

In order to have more gracious society, everybody should play the part. Through participation, our society will move towards the path of goodness.
Today, while waiting bus at the bus stop, I see the poster in the notice board quite interesting. It is my pleasure to share it out.
This is the good reminder because human tend to forget goodness.
Graciousness is showing your consideration for others by not eating and drinking inside the bus.
Allowing others to board by moving to the rear of the bus.
Keeping the environment clean by not littering inside the bus.
Caring for others by giving up your seats to those who need it more, giving a helping hand to someone in need.
Showing appreciation by saying thank you to someone who brighten your day.
My note:
Wow, you see, we can do so many good deeds within the bus.
If you want true happiness, then we should do it sincerely in the bus. Surely you will brighten someone the whole day.

Respect to elders

2009-05-02T03:03:00.000-07:00

Let's study the student guide to be better person. Let's start at home, do our part to create better relationship.
Chapter 2: Standards for a younger brother when away from home.
Part 2
In front of an elder, do not show off.
If you meet an elder you know on the streets, promptly greet him. If he does not speak to you, step back and respectfully stand aside.
If you are riding in a car, horse, carriage, you should stop, get out and ask if you can give him a ride.
If you meet an elder passing by, you should stand aside and wait respectfully; do not leave until you can no longer see him.
When an elder is standing, do not sit. After an elder sits down, sit only when you are told to do so.
Before an elder, speak softly. But if your voice is too low and hard to hear, it is not appropriate.
When meeting an elder, walk briskly towards him, when leaving, do not exit in haste.
When answering a question, look at the person who is asking you the question.
Serve your uncles as if you are serving your parents;
Treat your cousins as if they are your siblings.
My view:
From young, we need to respect elders. It help us to get along well with others in the society. Knowing all these will benefit us the whole life.

Stable mind

2009-04-28T01:56:00.000-07:00

Anger is very bad for our bodies. The angry person looks ugly because his face turns pale, green or other colors. If he always angry, then he likely has many sickness. The expression [ pale, green ] shows that this person has something wrong in one or more organs.
When we are angry, our blood pressure increased and we have unstable mind at that moment. This type of angry feeling can last for long hours and affect the livelihood.
Do you know what make a person angry?
Do you know anger can lead to more trauma in life?
It is very important to control the emotion better.
Let's move towards the more quality life.
What is your thinking?
Since many readers want to have meaningful life and become better person. We should gradually let go all bad habits. We must be realistic and do not expect that we can become the very good person overnight.
As we all know that when we want to do good deeds, always have something crop up.These are the tests to let us khow how well we manage.
Face it and do our best, we should stand up again and again despite setback.
First, you must have full confidence on the belief and do things that you supposed to do.Let's go all the things needed to be let go.
What is your thinking?
See you soon.
Life is great, do good deeds, do our part and just give it out and do not expect anythings in return.

Humble

2009-04-25T02:22:00.002-07:00

The more we share, the more we learn. We need to correct our mistakes daily so that we can have more quality life.
Today, I like to talk about humble. I believe this is the important ingredient in our lives.
We should not do these, for examples:
A person who has strong, beautiful and healthy body who looks down those who are weak, ugly.
A person who is young but never show respect , look down old people.
A person who was born in rich family, boasting about his wealth, properties.
A person who had received higher education and boasting about his knowledge.
All these mistakes should be corrected because " humble " is the key to your happiness.
Let's gradually correct our own mistakes.
Please enjoy your day, bye bye.
See you soon.

Sincere love

2009-04-23T19:38:00.000-07:00

On my last post: harmony, Faisal Admar said that he didn't have much problem with his siblings. they respect each other and love each other so much since they were kids.
Glad to know that Faisal Admar don't have much problem with his siblings since kids.
Faisal ask : 1.Do you think marriage is for making kids and hope that they will take care of you when you are old? do you really believe in that?
My thinking:
Traditionally, marriage is for making kids and kids need to take care. However this type of concept has been changed and now we have to prepare ourselves for the old age.
2. Faisal has made some survey and ask: Do you know that most of the kids nowadays live far away from their parent? end up parent still alone.
My thinking:
Yes, the trend is that kids live far away.I hope kids can stay near parents or stay together.