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		<title>Four Destructive Myths Most Companies Still Live By</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 11:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This myth is based on the assumption that human beings are capable of doing two cognitive tasks at the same time. We're not. Instead, we learn to move rapidly between tasks. When we're doing one, we're actually not even aware of the other.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Myth #1: Multitasking is critical in a world of infinite demand.</h4>
<p>This myth is based on the assumption that human beings are capable of doing two cognitive tasks at the same time. We&#8217;re not. Instead, we learn to move rapidly between tasks. When we&#8217;re doing one, we&#8217;re actually not even aware of the other.</p>
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<p>If you&#8217;re on a conference call, for example, and you turn your attention to an incoming email, you&#8217;re missing what&#8217;s happening on the call as long as you&#8217;re checking your email. Equally important, you&#8217;re incurring something called &#8220;switching time.&#8221; That&#8217;s the time it takes to shift from one cognitive activity to another.</p>
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<p>On average, according to researcher David Meyer, switching time increases the amount of time it takes to finish the primary task you were working on by an average of 25 percent. In short, juggling activities is incredibly inefficient.</p>
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<p>Difficult as it is to focus in the face of the endless distractions we all now face, it&#8217;s far and away the most effective way to get work done. The worst thing you can do as a boss is to insist that your people constantly check their email.</p>
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<h4>Myth #2: A little bit of anxiety helps us perform better.</h4>
<p>Think for a moment about how you feel when you&#8217;re performing at your best. What adjectives come to mind? Almost invariably they&#8217;re positive ones. Anxiety may be a source of energy, and even motivation, but it comes with significant costs.</p>
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<p>The more anxious we feel, the less clearly and imaginatively we think, and the more reactive and impulsive we become. That&#8217;s not good for you, and it also has huge implications if you&#8217;re in a supervisory role.</p>
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<p>As a boss, your energy has a disproportionate impact on those you lead, by virtue of your authority. Put bluntly, any time your behavior increases someone&#8217;s anxiety — or prompts any negative emotions, for that matter — they&#8217;re less likely to perform effectively.</p>
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<p>The more positive your energy is, the more positive their energy is likely to be, and the better the likely outcome.</p>
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<h4>Myth #3: Creativity is genetically inherited, and it&#8217;s impossible to teach.</h4>
<p>In a global economy characterized by unprecedented competitiveness and constant change, nearly every CEO hungers for ways to drive more innovation. </p>
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<p>Unfortunately, most CEOs don&#8217;t think of themselves as creative, and they share with the rest of us a deeply ingrained belief that creativity is mostly inborn and magical.</p>
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<p>Ironically, researchers have developed a surprising degree of consensus about the stages of creativity and how to approach them. Our educational system and most company cultures favor reward the rational, analytic, deductive left hemisphere thinking. We pay scant attention to intentionally cultivating the more visual, intuitive, big picture capacities of the right hemisphere.</p>
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<p>As it turns out, the creative process moves back and forth between left and right hemisphere dominance. Creativity is actually about using the whole brain more flexibly. This process unfolds in a far more systematic — and teachable — way than we ordinarily imagine. People can quickly learn to access the hemisphere of the brain that serves them best at each stage of the creative process — and to generate truly original ideas.</p>
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<h4>Myth #4: The best way to get more work done is to work longer hours.</h4>
<p>No single myth is more destructive to employers and employees than this one. The reason is that we&#8217;re not designed to operate like computers — at high speeds, continuously, for long periods of time.</p>
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<p>Instead, human beings are designed to pulse intermittently between spending and renewing energy. Great performers — and enlightened leaders — recognize that it&#8217;s not the number of hours people work that determines the value they create, but rather the energy they bring to whatever hours they work.</p>
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<p>Rather than systematically burning down our reservoir of energy as the day wears on, as most of us do, intermittent renewal makes it possible to keep our energy steady all day long. Strategically alternating periods of intense focus with intermittent renewal, at least every 90 minutes, makes it possible to get more done, in less time, more sustainably.</p>
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<p>Want to test the assumption? Choose the most challenging task on your agenda before you go to sleep each night over the next week. Set aside 60 to 90 minutes at the start of the following day to focus on the activity you&#8217;ve chosen.</p>
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<p>Choose a designated start and stop time, and do your best to allow no interruptions. (It helps to turn off your email.) Succeed and it will almost surely be your most productive period of the day. When you&#8217;re done, reward yourself by taking a true renewal break.</p>
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<p>Reprinted from HBR.org.</p>
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		<title>Communication with Power: Putting Leadership in Parade</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 11:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many of the defining characteristics needed for effective leadership -- like having a vision, integrity, commitment and resilience – are innate.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Many of the defining characteristics needed for effective leadership &#8212; like having a vision, integrity, commitment and resilience-are innate. </h3>
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<p>Happily, another quality, as essential for success as the others, can be learned. It is the ability to mobilize a fire-in-the-belly effort among employees to help the leader realize ambitious goals. This quality can be acquired by observing the behaviors of leaders who deploy these skills, by being coached or incrementally with &#8220;stretch” efforts by the leader to generate the needed employee commitment.</p>
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<p>The power of the leader’s position alone cannot command enthusiasm and dedication from today&#8217;s workforce. Instead, employees must be convinced that the leader’s objectives are achievable, understand that meeting the goals will provide a personal payoff and be inspired to make their own full force contribution. </p>
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<p>To generate the needed support from everyone in the organization, the leader has to put his leadership on parade: He must be visible, crystal clear about his message and take every opportunity to demonstrate, live and in person, his passion for his goals. Unless he shows how deeply he cares, few others will care and his plan may be seen as another flavor of the month.</p>
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<p>Some leaders believe it is sufficient to communicate their goals to the workforce through the organization&#8217;s internal media: employee publications, intranet, videoconferencing, etc. &#8212; the more sophisticated the technology the better. Many have become enamored with blogging because it makes possible instant communications with large numbers of employees, assuming they make the effort to log on.</p>
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<p>All this is useful because it allows for repetition of the leader&#8217;s message, which is essential for making an impact. But using media is not a substitute for interacting with employees face to face. Media cannot convey the intensity of feeling the leader has for his plan nearly as well as human contact does. The very fact that the leader is there, that he has left the comfort of the office to communicate with employees, gives the message importance.</p>
<h4>Make It Loud, Clear and Consistent</h4>
<p>The leader must make his case loudly, clearly and consistently. He should seize every opportunity to speak from the heart in personal engagements with the employees. Doing this lets the leader express his message with absolute clarity and address any concerns the employees may have about it. There is an additional payoff: The workforce&#8217;s views about other company issues will come through unfiltered. (Reporting of bad news at these meetings should be encouraged because it can be dealt with on the spot and not spiral out of control.)</p>
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<p>Personal interactions with the workforce can take many different forms. The leader can make presentations before large groups in auditoriums. There can be smaller, more informal departmental or function-focused meetings, where participants will feel freer to ask questions or present problems. When the leader appears at these meetings without the usual retinue of direct reports it signals that he is approachable and welcomes interaction.</p>
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<p>The leader also can meet with a cross-section of employees in skip-level meetings, conduct spontaneous walkabouts to fill in the time between planned events, have lunch in the organization&#8217;s cafeteria, and drop in on the back office, the factory floor or a remote office where employees may never have seen the leader and will be particularly impressed. When a leader presents employee awards at presentation ceremonies the awards become particularly special. Praise from an employee&#8217;s direct supervisor is a strong motivator; from the organization’s leader it is even stronger. Effective leaders are generous with their praise whenever it is deserved.</p>
<h4>Presenting with Power</h4>
<p>Putting leadership on parade does not come naturally to some leaders, particularly those who have led primarily by issuing directives. But presenting with power is a skill easily learned. Once learned, it becomes a habit and each presentation becomes increasingly effective. In any meeting, large or small, the effective leader captures the listeners&#8217; attention immediately, holds it for the duration of the presentation, and creates the kind of energy that generates action.</p>
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<p>The leader should organize the message so it is clear and compelling. He appeals to both the heart and head. He tells stories that involve the audience &#8211;and reveal his humanity, which is essential for establishing trust. The stories paint word pictures, with characters, settings and action. The leader makes deliberate use of wording, voice, posture, movement and timing. And his most powerful communications tools are his eyes.</p>
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<p>Steady, warm eye contact conveys credibility. Failure to make eye contact can signal unease, defensiveness or perhaps lack of candor. When talking with one person, the leader looks at the other&#8217;s eyes, then moves away to avoid causing discomfort. With a large group, he makes everyone feel included by making eye contact with one person in the audience for as long as it takes to express a thought, and then moves his eyes to someone else in a different part of the room.</p>
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<p>When a leader is able to zero in with eye contact toward one audience member, surrounding audience members benefit too; studies have shown that all the audience members in the area around the person being addressed feel they’re being spoken to directly. Using the eyes this way also alleviates whatever anxiety the presenter may be feeling because speaking one-to-one to an individual comes naturally. In contrast, nervous speakers scan the audience, never finding one focal point, which increases their anxiety because the brain has too much information to process.</p>
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<p>Using the eyes appropriately is the single most important factor for communicating effectively, it has been shown in an academic study conducted by faculty at the University of Akron&#8217;s School of Communication. The study evaluated the relative importance of 10 different presentation skills factors in presentations made by participants in Communispond&#8217;s presentations training course.</p>
<h4>Get Out from Behind the Lectern</h4>
<p>Leaders who are effective presenters do not use a lectern, a barrier that separates the leader from the audience. They have no need for lecterns because they do not read from a written text. They understand that presentations that are read are considered old news and, as such, detract from the spontaneity that creates energy in the audience. Doing without visuals can be a particularly effective when the presentation is intended to inspire the audience rather than convey information.</p>
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<p>Effective leaders showcase their passion by putting their whole body into the presentation. They support every statement with an appropriate gesture and make large body movements to underscore important points. They further accentuate these points with dramatic pauses or by raising or lowering their voice. Their choice of language demonstrates they are real because they avoid euphemisms, jargon and office-speak.</p>
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<p>Though the presentation may appear spontaneous, it has been carefully rehearsed. Extraneous content has been put aside. Questions that may be asked have been identified and succinct, persuasive answers have been prepared. As noted earlier, though an initial presentation like this may require serious rehearsing, the process becomes easier as the leader seeks out opportunities to continue presenting. A seasoned speaker who gets a deep sense of pleasure from presenting can become encouraged to present his views about significant issues on the national stage. This further helps cement leadership positioning.</p>
<h4>Knowing Oneself and the Organization</h4>
<p>The “leadership on parade” process must begin with honest assessments by the leader of how the workforce perceives him and how he in turn views the employees. Mistaken impressions can hinder communication and, with that, the leader’s effectiveness.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>A leader may misunderstand the workforce&#8217;s values, particularly if he is new. He may have come from a company whose employees value making lots of money but his new culture emphasizes a concept like &#8220;do no evil.&#8221; Judgments from trusted direct reports will be needed because even a small change that runs counter to the culture can have large repercussions.</p>
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<p>The workforce may not have a good understanding of the leader either. The leader may have served for many years but has not been very visible. Unknowingly, the leader may be sending out contrary signals. Is the leader shirt-sleeved or double-breasted? Occupying a walnut-paneled corner office or at the center of the floor? Each is making a values statement. With these and other choices, leaders must project their true selves.</p>
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<p>This is not a call for the leader to improve his &#8220;image.” Image is artifice. For honest, leadership now effective communication there must be authenticity.</p>
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<h4>About the Author</h4>
<p>Kevin Daley is the founder of Communispond Inc. and heads its executive coaching unit. The company provides executive coaching and employee training in presentations, selling and communications.</p>
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		<title>Scott Belsky [Audio]</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 10:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Scott is the founder and CEO of Behance, a company that develops products and services for creative industries. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Scott is the founder and CEO of Behance, a company that develops products and services for creative industries.  Scott Belsky believes that the greatest breakthroughs across all industries are a result of creative people and teams that are especially productive. As such, Scott has committed his professional life to help organize creative individuals, teams, and networks.</p>
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<p> &#8211;  <a href="http://scottbelsky.com/">Scott Belsky [Official Website]</a><br />
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		<title>Why Peter Drucker Distrusted Facts</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 10:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Facts appear to de-politicize decisions, imposing objectivity and facilitating difficult choices. Who but an imbecile could be against reaching for data?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Management consulting is an industry built on facts. A &#8220;fact-based decision&#8221; (a phrase that returns 1.8 million Google results) requires legions of analysts to gather and crunch data, and it so happens that consulting firms supply precisely such people. Facts appear to de-politicize decisions, imposing objectivity and facilitating difficult choices. Who but an imbecile could be against reaching for data?</h3>
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<p>Peter Drucker, arguably the greatest management scholar of the past century, was certainly no imbecile, yet one of his most important insights gets ignored in the rush for facts. As he wrote in 1973&#8242;s Management: Tasks, Responsibilities, Practices:</p>
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<p><em>&#8220;Most books on decision-making tell the reader: First find the facts. But executives who make effective decisions know that one does not start with facts. One starts with opinions&#8230;The understanding that underlies the right decision grows out of the clash and conflict of divergent opinions and out of serious consideration of competing alternatives. To get the facts first is impossible. There are no facts unless one has a criterion of relevance.&#8221;</em></p>
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<p>Drucker provides several theses supporting this broad assertion:</p>
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<p>If we do not make opinions clear, we will simply find confirmatory facts. <em>&#8220;No one has ever failed to find the facts they are looking for.&#8221;</em></p>
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<p>An opinion provides an untested hypothesis. Once we have clarified the hypothesis, we can test it rather than argue it. <em>&#8220;The effective person&#8230;insists that people who voice an opinion also take responsibility for defining what factual findings can be expected and should be looked for.&#8221;</em></p>
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<p>Decisions are judgments, not a choice between right and wrong. Oftentimes they are <em>&#8220;a choice between two courses of action neither of which is probably more right than the other.&#8221;</em> So we must understand the alternatives fully.</p>
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<p>Big decisions may require new criteria. <em>&#8220;Whenever one analyzes the way a truly great, a truly right, decision has been reached, one finds that a great deal of work and thought went into finding the appropriate measurement. The effective decision-maker assumes that the traditional measurement is not the right measurement&#8230;The traditional measurement reflects yesterday&#8217;s decision. That there is a need for a new one normally indicates that the measure is no longer relevant.&#8221;</em></p>
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<p>Ironically, opinions break executives free of pre-conceptions and poor imagination. Disagreement is a safeguard against being a prisoner of the organization and seeing an issue just as underlings want. Drucker quotes the famed General Motors boss Alfred P. Sloan, who after hearing executives unanimously support a decision reportedly said, &#8220;I propose we postpone further discussion of this matter until our next meeting to give us time to develop disagreement and perhaps gain some understanding of what the decision is all about.&#8221;</p>
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<p>Consider how Drucker&#8217;s view contrasts with the typical corporate process. Decision makers may have a general sense of stakeholders&#8217; opinions, but in their eagerness to act and to avoid controversy they do not probe to understand these perspectives fully. Rather, they quickly make a decision and then marshal facts to support it. Indeed, one top consulting firm has boasted for decades of an approach that develops an early hypothesis and refines it over the course of an engagement — rather than testing many competing hypotheses in the search for the one that best represents the truth.</p>
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<p>A company channeling Drucker would tackle matters quite differently. It would surface opinions very clearly, possibly through anonymous questionnaires or structured interviews of key staff by a neutral party. The company would also push executives to state the measure of a good decision, pushing them to think about criteria for future success rather than historical metrics. It would insist that opinions be linked to fact-based tests that would validate or disprove the view. Then it would frame a decision as a true choice between well-elaborated and mutually exclusive alternatives. Rather than focus the process on getting the right answer, it would anchor on asking the right questions.</p>
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<p>Clearly, this approach is more valuable in some situations than others. If a decision is an operational one much like judgments the company has made effectively many times before, and there is little change in the external environment, then there is no reason to tinker with a successful process. However if the company is encountering rapid industry change, poorly understood competitors, or new types of customers, Drucker&#8217;s view becomes invaluable. The right questions provide a clear compass heading, even if the right answers seem devilishly complex.</p>
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<p>In a time of major shifts in our economy, when disruptive forces seem to lurk around every corner, Drucker&#8217;s insight of nearly 40 years ago is more pertinent than ever. By all means, find the facts and create agreement. But first know the opinions and seek dissent.</p>
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<h4>About the Author</h4>
<p>Steve Wunker is Managing Director of New Markets Advisors and the author of Capturing New Markets: How Smart Companies Create Opportunities Others Don&#8217;ts.</p>
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		<title>The Secret to Dealing With Difficult People: It’s About You</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 10:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you have someone at work who consistently triggers you? Doesn't listen? Takes credit for work you've done? Wastes your time with trivial issues? Acts like a know-it-all? Can only talk about himself? Constantly criticizes?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Do you have someone at work who consistently triggers you? Doesn&#8217;t listen? Takes credit for work you&#8217;ve done? Wastes your time with trivial issues? Acts like a know-it-all? Can only talk about himself? Constantly criticizes?</h3>
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<p>Our core emotional need is to feel valued and valuable. When we don&#8217;t, it&#8217;s deeply unsettling, a challenge to our sense of equilibrium, security, and well-being. At the most primal level, it can feel like a threat to our very survival.</p>
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<p>This is especially true when the person you&#8217;re struggling with is your boss. The problem is that being in charge of other people rarely brings out the best in us.</p>
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<p><em>&#8220;Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely,&#8221; Lord Acton said way back in 1887. &#8220;There is no worse heresy than the office that sanctifies the holder of it.&#8221;</em></p>
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<p>The easy default when we feel devalued is to the role of victim, and it&#8217;s a seductive pull. Blaming others for how we&#8217;re feeling is a form of self-protection. Whatever is going wrong isn&#8217;t our fault. By off loading responsibility, we feel better in the short-term.</p>
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<p>The problem with being a victim is that you cede the power to influence your circumstances. The painful truth when it comes to the people who trigger you is this: You&#8217;re not going to change them. The only person you have the possibility of changing is yourself.</p>
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<p>Each of us has a default lens through which we see the world. We call it reality, but in fact it&#8217;s a selective filter. We have the power, to view the world through other lenses. There are three worth trying on when you find yourself defaulting to negative emotions.</p>
<h4>The Lens of Realistic Optimism.</h4>
<p>Using this lens requires asking yourself two simple questions when you feel you&#8217;re being treated badly or unfairly. The first one is &#8220;What are the facts in this situation?&#8221; The second is, &#8220;What&#8217;s the story I&#8217;m telling myself about those facts?&#8221;</p>
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<p>Making this distinction allows you to stand outside your experience, rather than simply reacting to it. It also opens the possibility that whatever story you&#8217;re currently telling yourself isn&#8217;t necessarily the only way to look at your situation.</p>
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<p>Realistic optimism, a term coined by the psychologist Sandra Schneider, means telling yourself the most hopeful and empowering story about a given circumstance without subverting the facts. It&#8217;s about moving beyond your default reaction to feeling under attack, and exploring whether there is an alternative way of viewing the situation that would ultimately serve you better. Another way of discovering an alternative is to ask yourself &#8220;How would I act here at my best?&#8221;</p>
<h4>The Reverse Lens. </h4>
<p>This lens requires viewing the world through the lens of the person who triggered you. It doesn&#8217;t mean sacrificing your own point of view but rather widening your perspective.</p>
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<p>It&#8217;s nearly certain that the person you perceive as difficult views the situation differently than you do. With the reverse lens, you ask yourself, &#8220;What is this person feeling, and in what ways does that make sense?&#8221; Or put more starkly: &#8220;Where&#8217;s my responsibility in all this?&#8221;</p>
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<p>Counterintuitively, one of the most powerful ways to reclaim your value, when it feels threatened, is to find a way to appreciate the perspective of the person you feel devalued by. It&#8217;s called empathy.</p>
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<p>Just as you do, others tend to behave better when they feel seen and valued — especially since insecurity is what usually prompts them to act badly in the first place.</p>
<h4>The Long Lens.</h4>
<p>Sometimes your worst fears about another person turn out to be true. He is someone who bullies you unreasonably and seeing it from his perspective doesn&#8217;t help. She does invariably take credit for your work.</p>
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<p>When your current circumstances are incontrovertibly bad, The long lens provides a way of looking beyond the present to imagine a better future. Begin with this question: &#8220;Regardless of how I feel about what&#8217;s happening right now, how can I grow and learn from this experience?&#8221;</p>
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<p>How many times has something that felt terrible to you in the moment turned out to be trivial several months later, or actually led you to an important opportunity or a positive new direction?</p>
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<p>My last boss fired me. It felt awful at the time, but it also pushed me way out of my comfort zone, which is where it turned out I needed to go.</p>
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<p>Looking back, the story I tell myself is that for all his deficiencies, I learned a lot from that boss, and it all serves me well today. I can understand, from his point of view, why he found me difficult as an employee, without feeling devalued. Most important, getting fired prompted me to make a decision — founding the company I now run — that has brought me more happiness than any other work I&#8217;ve ever done.</p>
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<p>Reprinted from HBR.org.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Every business wants workers who passionately love their work. And for good reason: workers who are inspired are more productive, and passion can provide the energy necessary to fuel engagement, amidst obstacles and setbacks. But while passion seems clearly desirable, recent psychological research suggests that not all forms are adaptive. In fact, some forms can be downright detrimental.</h3>
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<p>According to Robert J. Vallerand&#8217;s Dualistic Model of Passion, passion has two main flavors: harmonious and obsessive. Those with harmonious passion engage in their work because it brings them intrinsic joy. They have a sense of control of their work, and their work is in harmony with their other activities in life. At the same time, they know when to disengage, and are better at turning off the work switch when they wish to enjoy other activities or when further engagement becomes too risky. As a result, their work doesn&#8217;t conflict with the other areas of their lives.</p>
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<p>When they are at the opera, for instance, or spending time with their children, they aren&#8217;t constantly thinking of work, and they don&#8217;t report feeling guilty that they aren&#8217;t working. Questionnaire items measuring harmonious passion include: <em>&#8220;This activity reflects the qualities I like about myself&#8221;, &#8220;This activity is in harmony with the other activities in my life,&#8221; and &#8220;For me it is a passion that I still manage to control.&#8221;</em></p>
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<p>Obsessive passion is a different story. Like those with harmonious passion, those with obsessive passion perceive their work as representing a passion for them, and view their work as highly valued. A major difference is that they have an uncontrollable urge to engage in their work. As a result, they report feeling more conflict between their passion and the other activities in their life. Questionnaire items measuring obsessive passion include:<em> &#8220;The urge is so strong. I can&#8217;t help myself from doing this activity,&#8221; &#8220;I am emotionally dependent on this activity,&#8221; and &#8220;My mood depends on me being able to do this activity.&#8221;</em></p>
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<p>Both forms of passion are associated with very different outcomes. Harmonious passion is associated with higher levels of physical health, psychological well-being, self-reported self-esteem, positive emotions, creativity, concentration, flow, work satisfaction, and increased congruence with other areas of one&#8217;s life. These effects spill over into other areas. Because people with harmonious passion can actively disengage from work and experience other parts of their lives, they report general positive affect over time.</p>
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<p>In contrast, those with obsessive passion display higher levels of negative affect over time and display more maladaptive behaviors. They report higher levels of negative affect during and after activity engagement; they can hardly ever stop thinking about their work, and they get quite frustrated when they are prevented from working. They also persist when it&#8217;s risky to do so (just like a pathological gambler). A reason for this is that their work forms a very large part of their self-concept. To protect their selves, they display more self-protective behaviors, such as aggression, especially when their identity is threatened. Those with obsessive passion also have a more negative image of themselves, being quicker to pair the word &#8220;unpleasant&#8221; with &#8220;self&#8221; than those showing lower levels of obsessive passion. This suggests that their persistence doesn&#8217;t come from a place of intrinsic joy, but an unstable ego.</p>
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<p>These differences have implications for work burnout. A recent study investigated burnout (measured by emotional exhaustion) in two samples of nurses over a six-month period, across two different countries. Obsessive passion increased the chances of burnout while harmonious passion helped protect against burnout. The researchers identified some key factors explaining this relationship. Obsessive passion was associated with higher conflict with other life tasks and was unrelated to work satisfaction, while harmonious passion was associated with lower conflict, and higher work satisfaction. Importantly, these effects held even after controlling for the number of hours worked. People with harmonious passion come to work refreshed and ready to tackle new problems, whereas those with obsessive passion are at much higher risk of experiencing burnout.</p>
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<p>But isn&#8217;t persistence a good thing? Many great works appear to have come about due to an obsessive focus on work to the exclusion of all else. The research suggests this may be a myth. It&#8217;s important to distinguish between flexible and rigid forms of persistence. Those with obsessive passion rigidly persist even when it&#8217;s no longer sensible to do so. Those with harmonious passion are much more flexible, and are ultimately more successful. This may explain why so many child prodigies fizzle out later in life — regardless of their talent. By being obsessively attached their domain, they are increasing their chances of burning out.</p>
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<p>In sum, the type of passion one has matters. Not just for work, but for many other areas of life. What kind of you passion do you have? Do you gain intrinsic satisfaction from your work, or do you feel as though you are constantly working to prove things to others? Do you feel a compulsive need to work or are you easily able to disengage and enjoy other interests in life? Managers: what kind of passion are you getting out of your workers? Don&#8217;t be fooled by hard workers. Some may be on the verge on burnout.</p>
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<h4>About the Author</h4>
<p>Scott Barry Kaufman is a cognitive scientist and personality psychologist. He&#8217;s an an Adjunct Assistant Professor of Psychology at New York University.</p>
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<p>Follow him on twitter @sbkaufman.</p>
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