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		<title>4 Realities for New Leaders</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2012 17:37:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Daryl Crouch</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Israel wanted a king.  We read in 1 Samuel 8 where they demanded one, and God gave them Saul.  If you’re thinking of taking on a new role or position, here are four realities that may help: Your role may be new but God’s activity is not. New leaders come into a work of God [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="first-child "><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-1076" href="http://www.crosstied.org/4-realities-for-new-leaders/4-realities-for-a-new-leader-photo/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1076" title="4 Realities for a New Leader Photo" src="http://www.crosstied.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/4-Realities-for-a-New-Leader-Photo-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></strong><span title="I" class="cap"><span>I</span></span>srael wanted a king.  We read in 1 Samuel 8 where they demanded one, and God gave them Saul.  If you’re thinking of taking on a new role or position, here are four realities that may help:</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be new but God’s activity is not.</strong></p>
<p>New leaders come into a work of God that is already in progress.</p>
<p>As much as the people wanted a political ruler, God knew the presence of a king would shift their dependence away from God and onto that king.  That’s exactly what happened.  While Saul was timid at first, he got used to the power and the reverence his position granted to him.</p>
<p>Position can be intoxicating for new leaders, and humility can be quickly replaced by pride. But spiritual leaders demonstrate and encourage others toward a desperate dependence on God and a zealous passion to join His activity.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be exciting but the needs are big.</strong></p>
<p>Samuel’s kids were a mess, which left a leadership vacuum in Israel.  The people didn’t think right about God and therefore did not do right in God’s sight.  And all that created problems.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you enter a ministry or organization that has problems.  And those problems have created disappointment and maybe even despair among the people.   So they need leadership, but they really need your servant leadership.  They need you to listen, to seek to understand, and then to lead them with courage and good judgment.</p>
<p>Saul was appointed to help, but ultimately he created more problems than he inherited.  That’s always the result when leaders forget they are appointed to solve problems and serve people.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be spiritual but you will fight carnality.</strong></p>
<p>Israel had big trouble because the people were big trouble.  The problems they experienced were not created in thin air.  They were the result of bad decisions and carnal patterns of behavior.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you have been called to lead other sinners…people who may be caught in sin or who have been influenced by the sin of others.  Your role is a spiritual one.  This is Kingdom work.  Darkness hates the light, which means leadership is always spiritual leadership.</p>
<p>The church leader Paul wrote, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers, against powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places” (Ephesians 4:12).</p>
<p>King Saul thought his job was political or perhaps military in nature.  He had some success there, but the forces of darkness defeated him and jeopardized an entire people.</p>
<p>New leaders who operate in the flesh or according to natural resources will miss God’s activity, experience personal defeat, and lead the people into failure.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be celebrated but not everyone will be happy.</strong></p>
<p>When Saul was inaugurated as king, many celebrated.  But “certain worthless men” silently despised him (1 Samuel 10:27).  Many people will applaud you as the new leader, but opposition will exist, even in silence.</p>
<p>Saul grew to love the accolades of men, but his grandson Solomon later wrote, “The fear of man is a snare, but he who trusts in the Lord will be exalted” (Proverbs 29:25).</p>
<p>Leaders learn to deeply love people they serve, but the goal is not to produce happy people but to build a holy people.  And that requires a tenacious trust in a Holy God.</p>
<p><span style="color: #993300;"><strong>Add your advice to new leaders by clicking on the &#8220;Comment&#8221; button below.</strong></span>
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		<title>9 Words for Your Wife from Solomon</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 14:29:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Daryl Crouch</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Solomon had a real way with words that inspire husbands to express love and honor to their wives.  But sometimes Solomon’s words need a little modern day translation.  I hope this helps you celebrate Valentine’s Day: Solomon: To me, my darling, you are like my mare among the chariots of Pharaoh—Song 1:10. Translation: I think you’re [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="first-child "><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-1076" href="http://www.crosstied.org/4-realities-for-new-leaders/4-realities-for-a-new-leader-photo/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1076" title="4 Realities for a New Leader Photo" src="http://www.crosstied.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/4-Realities-for-a-New-Leader-Photo-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></strong><span title="I" class="cap"><span>I</span></span>srael wanted a king.  We read in 1 Samuel 8 where they demanded one, and God gave them Saul.  If you’re thinking of taking on a new role or position, here are four realities that may help:</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be new but God’s activity is not.</strong></p>
<p>New leaders come into a work of God that is already in progress.</p>
<p>As much as the people wanted a political ruler, God knew the presence of a king would shift their dependence away from God and onto that king.  That’s exactly what happened.  While Saul was timid at first, he got used to the power and the reverence his position granted to him.</p>
<p>Position can be intoxicating for new leaders, and humility can be quickly replaced by pride. But spiritual leaders demonstrate and encourage others toward a desperate dependence on God and a zealous passion to join His activity.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be exciting but the needs are big.</strong></p>
<p>Samuel’s kids were a mess, which left a leadership vacuum in Israel.  The people didn’t think right about God and therefore did not do right in God’s sight.  And all that created problems.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you enter a ministry or organization that has problems.  And those problems have created disappointment and maybe even despair among the people.   So they need leadership, but they really need your servant leadership.  They need you to listen, to seek to understand, and then to lead them with courage and good judgment.</p>
<p>Saul was appointed to help, but ultimately he created more problems than he inherited.  That’s always the result when leaders forget they are appointed to solve problems and serve people.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be spiritual but you will fight carnality.</strong></p>
<p>Israel had big trouble because the people were big trouble.  The problems they experienced were not created in thin air.  They were the result of bad decisions and carnal patterns of behavior.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you have been called to lead other sinners…people who may be caught in sin or who have been influenced by the sin of others.  Your role is a spiritual one.  This is Kingdom work.  Darkness hates the light, which means leadership is always spiritual leadership.</p>
<p>The church leader Paul wrote, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers, against powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places” (Ephesians 4:12).</p>
<p>King Saul thought his job was political or perhaps military in nature.  He had some success there, but the forces of darkness defeated him and jeopardized an entire people.</p>
<p>New leaders who operate in the flesh or according to natural resources will miss God’s activity, experience personal defeat, and lead the people into failure.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be celebrated but not everyone will be happy.</strong></p>
<p>When Saul was inaugurated as king, many celebrated.  But “certain worthless men” silently despised him (1 Samuel 10:27).  Many people will applaud you as the new leader, but opposition will exist, even in silence.</p>
<p>Saul grew to love the accolades of men, but his grandson Solomon later wrote, “The fear of man is a snare, but he who trusts in the Lord will be exalted” (Proverbs 29:25).</p>
<p>Leaders learn to deeply love people they serve, but the goal is not to produce happy people but to build a holy people.  And that requires a tenacious trust in a Holy God.</p>
<p><span style="color: #993300;"><strong>Add your advice to new leaders by clicking on the &#8220;Comment&#8221; button below.</strong></span>
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		<title>4 Things Every Friend Should Know</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2012 17:56:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Daryl Crouch</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There’s a big difference between being friendly and being a friend.  John wrote, “Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another”—1 John 4:11. Steve Wingfield wrote, “Our love for God fuels our love for others.  Our passion for God is authenticated in our everyday friendships.” Learning from Barnabas, Paul, John [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="first-child "><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-1076" href="http://www.crosstied.org/4-realities-for-new-leaders/4-realities-for-a-new-leader-photo/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1076" title="4 Realities for a New Leader Photo" src="http://www.crosstied.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/4-Realities-for-a-New-Leader-Photo-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></strong><span title="I" class="cap"><span>I</span></span>srael wanted a king.  We read in 1 Samuel 8 where they demanded one, and God gave them Saul.  If you’re thinking of taking on a new role or position, here are four realities that may help:</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be new but God’s activity is not.</strong></p>
<p>New leaders come into a work of God that is already in progress.</p>
<p>As much as the people wanted a political ruler, God knew the presence of a king would shift their dependence away from God and onto that king.  That’s exactly what happened.  While Saul was timid at first, he got used to the power and the reverence his position granted to him.</p>
<p>Position can be intoxicating for new leaders, and humility can be quickly replaced by pride. But spiritual leaders demonstrate and encourage others toward a desperate dependence on God and a zealous passion to join His activity.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be exciting but the needs are big.</strong></p>
<p>Samuel’s kids were a mess, which left a leadership vacuum in Israel.  The people didn’t think right about God and therefore did not do right in God’s sight.  And all that created problems.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you enter a ministry or organization that has problems.  And those problems have created disappointment and maybe even despair among the people.   So they need leadership, but they really need your servant leadership.  They need you to listen, to seek to understand, and then to lead them with courage and good judgment.</p>
<p>Saul was appointed to help, but ultimately he created more problems than he inherited.  That’s always the result when leaders forget they are appointed to solve problems and serve people.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be spiritual but you will fight carnality.</strong></p>
<p>Israel had big trouble because the people were big trouble.  The problems they experienced were not created in thin air.  They were the result of bad decisions and carnal patterns of behavior.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you have been called to lead other sinners…people who may be caught in sin or who have been influenced by the sin of others.  Your role is a spiritual one.  This is Kingdom work.  Darkness hates the light, which means leadership is always spiritual leadership.</p>
<p>The church leader Paul wrote, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers, against powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places” (Ephesians 4:12).</p>
<p>King Saul thought his job was political or perhaps military in nature.  He had some success there, but the forces of darkness defeated him and jeopardized an entire people.</p>
<p>New leaders who operate in the flesh or according to natural resources will miss God’s activity, experience personal defeat, and lead the people into failure.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be celebrated but not everyone will be happy.</strong></p>
<p>When Saul was inaugurated as king, many celebrated.  But “certain worthless men” silently despised him (1 Samuel 10:27).  Many people will applaud you as the new leader, but opposition will exist, even in silence.</p>
<p>Saul grew to love the accolades of men, but his grandson Solomon later wrote, “The fear of man is a snare, but he who trusts in the Lord will be exalted” (Proverbs 29:25).</p>
<p>Leaders learn to deeply love people they serve, but the goal is not to produce happy people but to build a holy people.  And that requires a tenacious trust in a Holy God.</p>
<p><span style="color: #993300;"><strong>Add your advice to new leaders by clicking on the &#8220;Comment&#8221; button below.</strong></span>
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		<dc:creator>Daryl Crouch</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our heroes are ordinary people who exercised extraordinary faith.  But when it’s our turn to trust God for something beyond ourselves, we often balk.  Here are 4 very logical reasons (excuses) not to trust God: I can&#8217;t. This was Moses’ first excuse when God called him to lead Israel from Egyptian bondage.  He asked, “Who [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="first-child "><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-1076" href="http://www.crosstied.org/4-realities-for-new-leaders/4-realities-for-a-new-leader-photo/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1076" title="4 Realities for a New Leader Photo" src="http://www.crosstied.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/4-Realities-for-a-New-Leader-Photo-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></strong><span title="I" class="cap"><span>I</span></span>srael wanted a king.  We read in 1 Samuel 8 where they demanded one, and God gave them Saul.  If you’re thinking of taking on a new role or position, here are four realities that may help:</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be new but God’s activity is not.</strong></p>
<p>New leaders come into a work of God that is already in progress.</p>
<p>As much as the people wanted a political ruler, God knew the presence of a king would shift their dependence away from God and onto that king.  That’s exactly what happened.  While Saul was timid at first, he got used to the power and the reverence his position granted to him.</p>
<p>Position can be intoxicating for new leaders, and humility can be quickly replaced by pride. But spiritual leaders demonstrate and encourage others toward a desperate dependence on God and a zealous passion to join His activity.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be exciting but the needs are big.</strong></p>
<p>Samuel’s kids were a mess, which left a leadership vacuum in Israel.  The people didn’t think right about God and therefore did not do right in God’s sight.  And all that created problems.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you enter a ministry or organization that has problems.  And those problems have created disappointment and maybe even despair among the people.   So they need leadership, but they really need your servant leadership.  They need you to listen, to seek to understand, and then to lead them with courage and good judgment.</p>
<p>Saul was appointed to help, but ultimately he created more problems than he inherited.  That’s always the result when leaders forget they are appointed to solve problems and serve people.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be spiritual but you will fight carnality.</strong></p>
<p>Israel had big trouble because the people were big trouble.  The problems they experienced were not created in thin air.  They were the result of bad decisions and carnal patterns of behavior.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you have been called to lead other sinners…people who may be caught in sin or who have been influenced by the sin of others.  Your role is a spiritual one.  This is Kingdom work.  Darkness hates the light, which means leadership is always spiritual leadership.</p>
<p>The church leader Paul wrote, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers, against powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places” (Ephesians 4:12).</p>
<p>King Saul thought his job was political or perhaps military in nature.  He had some success there, but the forces of darkness defeated him and jeopardized an entire people.</p>
<p>New leaders who operate in the flesh or according to natural resources will miss God’s activity, experience personal defeat, and lead the people into failure.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be celebrated but not everyone will be happy.</strong></p>
<p>When Saul was inaugurated as king, many celebrated.  But “certain worthless men” silently despised him (1 Samuel 10:27).  Many people will applaud you as the new leader, but opposition will exist, even in silence.</p>
<p>Saul grew to love the accolades of men, but his grandson Solomon later wrote, “The fear of man is a snare, but he who trusts in the Lord will be exalted” (Proverbs 29:25).</p>
<p>Leaders learn to deeply love people they serve, but the goal is not to produce happy people but to build a holy people.  And that requires a tenacious trust in a Holy God.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2011 15:28:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Daryl Crouch</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Leadership can be an incubator for corruption.  Positions of power test the most trusted, proven leader. But we know that corruption is never a big deal, at least not at first.  Instead, it begins in the small, unseen places.  More specifically, it begins with a distorted view of ourselves.  Often a leader looks for his [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="first-child "><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-1076" href="http://www.crosstied.org/4-realities-for-new-leaders/4-realities-for-a-new-leader-photo/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1076" title="4 Realities for a New Leader Photo" src="http://www.crosstied.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/4-Realities-for-a-New-Leader-Photo-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></strong><span title="I" class="cap"><span>I</span></span>srael wanted a king.  We read in 1 Samuel 8 where they demanded one, and God gave them Saul.  If you’re thinking of taking on a new role or position, here are four realities that may help:</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be new but God’s activity is not.</strong></p>
<p>New leaders come into a work of God that is already in progress.</p>
<p>As much as the people wanted a political ruler, God knew the presence of a king would shift their dependence away from God and onto that king.  That’s exactly what happened.  While Saul was timid at first, he got used to the power and the reverence his position granted to him.</p>
<p>Position can be intoxicating for new leaders, and humility can be quickly replaced by pride. But spiritual leaders demonstrate and encourage others toward a desperate dependence on God and a zealous passion to join His activity.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be exciting but the needs are big.</strong></p>
<p>Samuel’s kids were a mess, which left a leadership vacuum in Israel.  The people didn’t think right about God and therefore did not do right in God’s sight.  And all that created problems.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you enter a ministry or organization that has problems.  And those problems have created disappointment and maybe even despair among the people.   So they need leadership, but they really need your servant leadership.  They need you to listen, to seek to understand, and then to lead them with courage and good judgment.</p>
<p>Saul was appointed to help, but ultimately he created more problems than he inherited.  That’s always the result when leaders forget they are appointed to solve problems and serve people.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be spiritual but you will fight carnality.</strong></p>
<p>Israel had big trouble because the people were big trouble.  The problems they experienced were not created in thin air.  They were the result of bad decisions and carnal patterns of behavior.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you have been called to lead other sinners…people who may be caught in sin or who have been influenced by the sin of others.  Your role is a spiritual one.  This is Kingdom work.  Darkness hates the light, which means leadership is always spiritual leadership.</p>
<p>The church leader Paul wrote, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers, against powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places” (Ephesians 4:12).</p>
<p>King Saul thought his job was political or perhaps military in nature.  He had some success there, but the forces of darkness defeated him and jeopardized an entire people.</p>
<p>New leaders who operate in the flesh or according to natural resources will miss God’s activity, experience personal defeat, and lead the people into failure.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be celebrated but not everyone will be happy.</strong></p>
<p>When Saul was inaugurated as king, many celebrated.  But “certain worthless men” silently despised him (1 Samuel 10:27).  Many people will applaud you as the new leader, but opposition will exist, even in silence.</p>
<p>Saul grew to love the accolades of men, but his grandson Solomon later wrote, “The fear of man is a snare, but he who trusts in the Lord will be exalted” (Proverbs 29:25).</p>
<p>Leaders learn to deeply love people they serve, but the goal is not to produce happy people but to build a holy people.  And that requires a tenacious trust in a Holy God.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Daryl Crouch</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When it comes to sermons, how long is too long?  Some would say that depends on the skill of the preacher, or the appetite of the congregation.  Others would say it depends on the strength of the content.  Still others would say that no sermon in our day should last over ______ minutes.  You fill [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="first-child "><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-1076" href="http://www.crosstied.org/4-realities-for-new-leaders/4-realities-for-a-new-leader-photo/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1076" title="4 Realities for a New Leader Photo" src="http://www.crosstied.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/4-Realities-for-a-New-Leader-Photo-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></strong><span title="I" class="cap"><span>I</span></span>srael wanted a king.  We read in 1 Samuel 8 where they demanded one, and God gave them Saul.  If you’re thinking of taking on a new role or position, here are four realities that may help:</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be new but God’s activity is not.</strong></p>
<p>New leaders come into a work of God that is already in progress.</p>
<p>As much as the people wanted a political ruler, God knew the presence of a king would shift their dependence away from God and onto that king.  That’s exactly what happened.  While Saul was timid at first, he got used to the power and the reverence his position granted to him.</p>
<p>Position can be intoxicating for new leaders, and humility can be quickly replaced by pride. But spiritual leaders demonstrate and encourage others toward a desperate dependence on God and a zealous passion to join His activity.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be exciting but the needs are big.</strong></p>
<p>Samuel’s kids were a mess, which left a leadership vacuum in Israel.  The people didn’t think right about God and therefore did not do right in God’s sight.  And all that created problems.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you enter a ministry or organization that has problems.  And those problems have created disappointment and maybe even despair among the people.   So they need leadership, but they really need your servant leadership.  They need you to listen, to seek to understand, and then to lead them with courage and good judgment.</p>
<p>Saul was appointed to help, but ultimately he created more problems than he inherited.  That’s always the result when leaders forget they are appointed to solve problems and serve people.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be spiritual but you will fight carnality.</strong></p>
<p>Israel had big trouble because the people were big trouble.  The problems they experienced were not created in thin air.  They were the result of bad decisions and carnal patterns of behavior.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you have been called to lead other sinners…people who may be caught in sin or who have been influenced by the sin of others.  Your role is a spiritual one.  This is Kingdom work.  Darkness hates the light, which means leadership is always spiritual leadership.</p>
<p>The church leader Paul wrote, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers, against powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places” (Ephesians 4:12).</p>
<p>King Saul thought his job was political or perhaps military in nature.  He had some success there, but the forces of darkness defeated him and jeopardized an entire people.</p>
<p>New leaders who operate in the flesh or according to natural resources will miss God’s activity, experience personal defeat, and lead the people into failure.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be celebrated but not everyone will be happy.</strong></p>
<p>When Saul was inaugurated as king, many celebrated.  But “certain worthless men” silently despised him (1 Samuel 10:27).  Many people will applaud you as the new leader, but opposition will exist, even in silence.</p>
<p>Saul grew to love the accolades of men, but his grandson Solomon later wrote, “The fear of man is a snare, but he who trusts in the Lord will be exalted” (Proverbs 29:25).</p>
<p>Leaders learn to deeply love people they serve, but the goal is not to produce happy people but to build a holy people.  And that requires a tenacious trust in a Holy God.</p>
<p><span style="color: #993300;"><strong>Add your advice to new leaders by clicking on the &#8220;Comment&#8221; button below.</strong></span>
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		<dc:creator>Daryl Crouch</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Narcissism.  Vanity.  Conceit.  Arrogance.  Pride.  Those are familiar attitudes for most of us.  But before God does anything significant through us, He leads us through a process to kill the notion that our glory is any priority to Him at all. No Average Joe Series It had been over 20 years since Joseph had seen [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="first-child "><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-1076" href="http://www.crosstied.org/4-realities-for-new-leaders/4-realities-for-a-new-leader-photo/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1076" title="4 Realities for a New Leader Photo" src="http://www.crosstied.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/4-Realities-for-a-New-Leader-Photo-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></strong><span title="I" class="cap"><span>I</span></span>srael wanted a king.  We read in 1 Samuel 8 where they demanded one, and God gave them Saul.  If you’re thinking of taking on a new role or position, here are four realities that may help:</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be new but God’s activity is not.</strong></p>
<p>New leaders come into a work of God that is already in progress.</p>
<p>As much as the people wanted a political ruler, God knew the presence of a king would shift their dependence away from God and onto that king.  That’s exactly what happened.  While Saul was timid at first, he got used to the power and the reverence his position granted to him.</p>
<p>Position can be intoxicating for new leaders, and humility can be quickly replaced by pride. But spiritual leaders demonstrate and encourage others toward a desperate dependence on God and a zealous passion to join His activity.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be exciting but the needs are big.</strong></p>
<p>Samuel’s kids were a mess, which left a leadership vacuum in Israel.  The people didn’t think right about God and therefore did not do right in God’s sight.  And all that created problems.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you enter a ministry or organization that has problems.  And those problems have created disappointment and maybe even despair among the people.   So they need leadership, but they really need your servant leadership.  They need you to listen, to seek to understand, and then to lead them with courage and good judgment.</p>
<p>Saul was appointed to help, but ultimately he created more problems than he inherited.  That’s always the result when leaders forget they are appointed to solve problems and serve people.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be spiritual but you will fight carnality.</strong></p>
<p>Israel had big trouble because the people were big trouble.  The problems they experienced were not created in thin air.  They were the result of bad decisions and carnal patterns of behavior.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you have been called to lead other sinners…people who may be caught in sin or who have been influenced by the sin of others.  Your role is a spiritual one.  This is Kingdom work.  Darkness hates the light, which means leadership is always spiritual leadership.</p>
<p>The church leader Paul wrote, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers, against powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places” (Ephesians 4:12).</p>
<p>King Saul thought his job was political or perhaps military in nature.  He had some success there, but the forces of darkness defeated him and jeopardized an entire people.</p>
<p>New leaders who operate in the flesh or according to natural resources will miss God’s activity, experience personal defeat, and lead the people into failure.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be celebrated but not everyone will be happy.</strong></p>
<p>When Saul was inaugurated as king, many celebrated.  But “certain worthless men” silently despised him (1 Samuel 10:27).  Many people will applaud you as the new leader, but opposition will exist, even in silence.</p>
<p>Saul grew to love the accolades of men, but his grandson Solomon later wrote, “The fear of man is a snare, but he who trusts in the Lord will be exalted” (Proverbs 29:25).</p>
<p>Leaders learn to deeply love people they serve, but the goal is not to produce happy people but to build a holy people.  And that requires a tenacious trust in a Holy God.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Daryl Crouch</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I write this, I’m sitting on an empty exit row on one of Deltas 319s at 30,000 feet above the planet flying home from an overseas mission project.  I’ve made journeys like this one at least annually since 1997; and everytime I go, God does a new work in me that far exceeds any [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="first-child "><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-1076" href="http://www.crosstied.org/4-realities-for-new-leaders/4-realities-for-a-new-leader-photo/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1076" title="4 Realities for a New Leader Photo" src="http://www.crosstied.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/4-Realities-for-a-New-Leader-Photo-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></strong><span title="I" class="cap"><span>I</span></span>srael wanted a king.  We read in 1 Samuel 8 where they demanded one, and God gave them Saul.  If you’re thinking of taking on a new role or position, here are four realities that may help:</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be new but God’s activity is not.</strong></p>
<p>New leaders come into a work of God that is already in progress.</p>
<p>As much as the people wanted a political ruler, God knew the presence of a king would shift their dependence away from God and onto that king.  That’s exactly what happened.  While Saul was timid at first, he got used to the power and the reverence his position granted to him.</p>
<p>Position can be intoxicating for new leaders, and humility can be quickly replaced by pride. But spiritual leaders demonstrate and encourage others toward a desperate dependence on God and a zealous passion to join His activity.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be exciting but the needs are big.</strong></p>
<p>Samuel’s kids were a mess, which left a leadership vacuum in Israel.  The people didn’t think right about God and therefore did not do right in God’s sight.  And all that created problems.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you enter a ministry or organization that has problems.  And those problems have created disappointment and maybe even despair among the people.   So they need leadership, but they really need your servant leadership.  They need you to listen, to seek to understand, and then to lead them with courage and good judgment.</p>
<p>Saul was appointed to help, but ultimately he created more problems than he inherited.  That’s always the result when leaders forget they are appointed to solve problems and serve people.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be spiritual but you will fight carnality.</strong></p>
<p>Israel had big trouble because the people were big trouble.  The problems they experienced were not created in thin air.  They were the result of bad decisions and carnal patterns of behavior.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you have been called to lead other sinners…people who may be caught in sin or who have been influenced by the sin of others.  Your role is a spiritual one.  This is Kingdom work.  Darkness hates the light, which means leadership is always spiritual leadership.</p>
<p>The church leader Paul wrote, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers, against powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places” (Ephesians 4:12).</p>
<p>King Saul thought his job was political or perhaps military in nature.  He had some success there, but the forces of darkness defeated him and jeopardized an entire people.</p>
<p>New leaders who operate in the flesh or according to natural resources will miss God’s activity, experience personal defeat, and lead the people into failure.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be celebrated but not everyone will be happy.</strong></p>
<p>When Saul was inaugurated as king, many celebrated.  But “certain worthless men” silently despised him (1 Samuel 10:27).  Many people will applaud you as the new leader, but opposition will exist, even in silence.</p>
<p>Saul grew to love the accolades of men, but his grandson Solomon later wrote, “The fear of man is a snare, but he who trusts in the Lord will be exalted” (Proverbs 29:25).</p>
<p>Leaders learn to deeply love people they serve, but the goal is not to produce happy people but to build a holy people.  And that requires a tenacious trust in a Holy God.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Daryl Crouch</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="first-child "><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-1076" href="http://www.crosstied.org/4-realities-for-new-leaders/4-realities-for-a-new-leader-photo/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1076" title="4 Realities for a New Leader Photo" src="http://www.crosstied.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/4-Realities-for-a-New-Leader-Photo-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></strong><span title="I" class="cap"><span>I</span></span>srael wanted a king.  We read in 1 Samuel 8 where they demanded one, and God gave them Saul.  If you’re thinking of taking on a new role or position, here are four realities that may help:</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be new but God’s activity is not.</strong></p>
<p>New leaders come into a work of God that is already in progress.</p>
<p>As much as the people wanted a political ruler, God knew the presence of a king would shift their dependence away from God and onto that king.  That’s exactly what happened.  While Saul was timid at first, he got used to the power and the reverence his position granted to him.</p>
<p>Position can be intoxicating for new leaders, and humility can be quickly replaced by pride. But spiritual leaders demonstrate and encourage others toward a desperate dependence on God and a zealous passion to join His activity.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be exciting but the needs are big.</strong></p>
<p>Samuel’s kids were a mess, which left a leadership vacuum in Israel.  The people didn’t think right about God and therefore did not do right in God’s sight.  And all that created problems.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you enter a ministry or organization that has problems.  And those problems have created disappointment and maybe even despair among the people.   So they need leadership, but they really need your servant leadership.  They need you to listen, to seek to understand, and then to lead them with courage and good judgment.</p>
<p>Saul was appointed to help, but ultimately he created more problems than he inherited.  That’s always the result when leaders forget they are appointed to solve problems and serve people.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be spiritual but you will fight carnality.</strong></p>
<p>Israel had big trouble because the people were big trouble.  The problems they experienced were not created in thin air.  They were the result of bad decisions and carnal patterns of behavior.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you have been called to lead other sinners…people who may be caught in sin or who have been influenced by the sin of others.  Your role is a spiritual one.  This is Kingdom work.  Darkness hates the light, which means leadership is always spiritual leadership.</p>
<p>The church leader Paul wrote, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers, against powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places” (Ephesians 4:12).</p>
<p>King Saul thought his job was political or perhaps military in nature.  He had some success there, but the forces of darkness defeated him and jeopardized an entire people.</p>
<p>New leaders who operate in the flesh or according to natural resources will miss God’s activity, experience personal defeat, and lead the people into failure.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be celebrated but not everyone will be happy.</strong></p>
<p>When Saul was inaugurated as king, many celebrated.  But “certain worthless men” silently despised him (1 Samuel 10:27).  Many people will applaud you as the new leader, but opposition will exist, even in silence.</p>
<p>Saul grew to love the accolades of men, but his grandson Solomon later wrote, “The fear of man is a snare, but he who trusts in the Lord will be exalted” (Proverbs 29:25).</p>
<p>Leaders learn to deeply love people they serve, but the goal is not to produce happy people but to build a holy people.  And that requires a tenacious trust in a Holy God.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="first-child "><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-1076" href="http://www.crosstied.org/4-realities-for-new-leaders/4-realities-for-a-new-leader-photo/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1076" title="4 Realities for a New Leader Photo" src="http://www.crosstied.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/4-Realities-for-a-New-Leader-Photo-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></strong><span title="I" class="cap"><span>I</span></span>srael wanted a king.  We read in 1 Samuel 8 where they demanded one, and God gave them Saul.  If you’re thinking of taking on a new role or position, here are four realities that may help:</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be new but God’s activity is not.</strong></p>
<p>New leaders come into a work of God that is already in progress.</p>
<p>As much as the people wanted a political ruler, God knew the presence of a king would shift their dependence away from God and onto that king.  That’s exactly what happened.  While Saul was timid at first, he got used to the power and the reverence his position granted to him.</p>
<p>Position can be intoxicating for new leaders, and humility can be quickly replaced by pride. But spiritual leaders demonstrate and encourage others toward a desperate dependence on God and a zealous passion to join His activity.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be exciting but the needs are big.</strong></p>
<p>Samuel’s kids were a mess, which left a leadership vacuum in Israel.  The people didn’t think right about God and therefore did not do right in God’s sight.  And all that created problems.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you enter a ministry or organization that has problems.  And those problems have created disappointment and maybe even despair among the people.   So they need leadership, but they really need your servant leadership.  They need you to listen, to seek to understand, and then to lead them with courage and good judgment.</p>
<p>Saul was appointed to help, but ultimately he created more problems than he inherited.  That’s always the result when leaders forget they are appointed to solve problems and serve people.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be spiritual but you will fight carnality.</strong></p>
<p>Israel had big trouble because the people were big trouble.  The problems they experienced were not created in thin air.  They were the result of bad decisions and carnal patterns of behavior.</p>
<p>As a new leader, you have been called to lead other sinners…people who may be caught in sin or who have been influenced by the sin of others.  Your role is a spiritual one.  This is Kingdom work.  Darkness hates the light, which means leadership is always spiritual leadership.</p>
<p>The church leader Paul wrote, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers, against powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places” (Ephesians 4:12).</p>
<p>King Saul thought his job was political or perhaps military in nature.  He had some success there, but the forces of darkness defeated him and jeopardized an entire people.</p>
<p>New leaders who operate in the flesh or according to natural resources will miss God’s activity, experience personal defeat, and lead the people into failure.</p>
<p><strong>Your role may be celebrated but not everyone will be happy.</strong></p>
<p>When Saul was inaugurated as king, many celebrated.  But “certain worthless men” silently despised him (1 Samuel 10:27).  Many people will applaud you as the new leader, but opposition will exist, even in silence.</p>
<p>Saul grew to love the accolades of men, but his grandson Solomon later wrote, “The fear of man is a snare, but he who trusts in the Lord will be exalted” (Proverbs 29:25).</p>
<p>Leaders learn to deeply love people they serve, but the goal is not to produce happy people but to build a holy people.  And that requires a tenacious trust in a Holy God.</p>
<p><span style="color: #993300;"><strong>Add your advice to new leaders by clicking on the &#8220;Comment&#8221; button below.</strong></span>
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